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Speaker 1: second data date. Body language is very important in the

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Speaker 1: dating world. That's why I'm always really good at body language.

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Speaker 1: When I go out on a date, I always write

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Speaker 1: everything about me that they should know on my body

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Speaker 1: and Sharpie and I show up to the date naked

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Speaker 1: body language. There's no question about who I am or

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Speaker 1: because they get to see everything about me. Yeah. Granted,

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Speaker 1: and that can be a problem. Well, Brett, who's on

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Speaker 1: What's up, Brett, how are you? I'm good. How are

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Speaker 1: you would your body betrayed you, Brett? Yes, I think so. Well,

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Speaker 1: What's her name Jennica? Jennica? And where did you meet Jennica?

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Speaker 1: I met her on a dating app, and I've been

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Speaker 1: what's her name again, Jena Jenica? Okay, we'll give her

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Speaker 1: in my head about the touching part. Yeah, I probably

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Speaker 1: So a dude named Brett emailed in about you. Oh okay,

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