1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Daisy in the DMV. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Daisy said, I had a great first date with a 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: man that I met online. We went Christmas shopping and 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: then we sat and talked for hours. On our second date, 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: he let me pick the restaurant and I chose my 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: favorite hibachi grill. When we got the bill, he said 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: I had to pay it since I ordered a lot 8 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: of food without asking him what his budget was. I 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: paid the bill and he took me home. He expected 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: to come inside, but I was too turned off. Since 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: then we talked about what went wrong, and he apologized 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: and paid me back. He asked me to go on 13 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: a third date to a restaurant where you can eat 14 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: and play games. I would never choose to go there 15 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: for dinner. Should I lower my standards, keep an open 16 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: mind and go on a third date, or should I cancel? 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: That's your question. Well, let's hold on one second, young lady. 18 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 2: Let's hold on. You have learned a valuable lesson here. 19 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: You can train man how to treat you. Once you 20 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: felt bad about it, he went, oh, my bad, because 21 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 2: what he was doing was practicing prior behavior. So now 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 2: he said, hold on, man, let me pay this sister 23 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: back because the mistake he made was you picked the place. Well, 24 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: you picked the place, and then he said that'll be 25 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: our second day. Then when the bill came it was 26 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: too much food. He made you pay. Well, you were 27 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: turned off by it, as you should be, and you 28 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 2: expressed it. So what he did was, okay, let me 29 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: correct my mistake. I paid you for it. So the 30 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: third date, y'all went to a place where you eat 31 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: and play games. You know, that's Dave and Busters. He 32 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: ain't nowhere else. I don't know no where else you 33 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: can as an adult unless you ad Chucky Cheese. And 34 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: I really don't think he took your heads down the 35 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: Chucky Cheese. See I've been to Chucky Cheese with the 36 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: kids before, and I'm gonna tell you right now is suicidal. 37 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: But if he took you to Dave and Buster, which 38 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: is a place you'd never go, is not saying you 39 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: lower your standards. Maybe he's just being a little bit 40 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 2: more versatile, and maybe he's got some financial things that 41 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: you need to find out about. But quit looking for 42 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: a man that's financially ready, because some men need to 43 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 2: be built and you could be in the process of 44 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: finding that guy. So I don't think it's lowering your standards. 45 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 2: If you don't want to go to the place to 46 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 2: eat and play games, you can say that, but you know, 47 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 2: I would give it a chance. 48 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: What does she order at that Hibachi grill? 49 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: Though? What did she get? She probably that was probably 50 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: Bennie Hana, You know, can get a little high. You 51 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: keep on with that lofta. You keep adding that lofta 52 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 2: to that. They got everything on that. You know. Once 53 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 2: he's spinning that egg around and light the union old 54 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: fire felt what up? Yeah? You know, and you do 55 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: that again. Oh you know. Then they bring you know, 56 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: and then they bring that tray out with the other 57 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 2: meat on it and all this here, you know, that's 58 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 2: all it was. That's a favorite Hibachi grill with Benny Hanter, 59 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 2: and he just got out of hand. She ordered a 60 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 2: lot of food. You know, you sitting there with some 61 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 2: other people you don't even know around the man. I 62 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: can't stand now. I can't stand out if I can't 63 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: get the table to myself with who I'm with? Wayne? 64 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 2: Wayne fin to do this here all right? 65 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: See we have time for another one. This is from 66 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 1: Tracy and Jacksonville. Tracy says, my boyfriend and I just 67 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: had sex for the first time. Before things got started, 68 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: I did some pregame activities, but I was surprised when 69 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: he said he doesn't do that and would never do that. 70 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: But it's fine if that's what I like to do. 71 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: We've been debating on whether or not he should have 72 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: told me that before we got started. 73 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: What do you think, Wow, well, he ain't know what 74 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 2: you was gonna do. See you surprised. Ladies, listen to me. 75 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: If you know that you are heavily involved in tricky 76 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: activity saving, don't let it be the first time. Can't 77 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 2: return to the bed and pull out the big pink 78 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: suitcase on the first date. Just got to have regular sex. 79 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: Can't be here lighting fires, and you can't be in 80 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: here cutting stuff on. You can't be in here kater 81 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: all the time. You can't be in here starting stuff 82 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 2: up because everybody ain't ready for that. Now that little 83 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,239 Speaker 2: feather you got, everybody don't want that feather with Everybody 84 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 2: don't want that. Okay, so you got to know, right, 85 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 2: you know, you have broke out the rabbit and the 86 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: bullet and all this hell, don't everybody ain't got. 87 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: Time for that. This is a public service announcement. 88 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: Thank you you got one, and he got the big 89 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: purple one and it's just whoa wave. 90 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: By you come here, you're done coming after we got 91 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: more of this ignorant show. You're listening to The Steve 92 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.