Speaker 1: West app is Angela. Ye, I'm Stephanie Santiago and is
Speaker 1: back and it's a lip service. Today. We had BJ
Speaker 1: to Chicago kid with us what's up Hey, and our
Speaker 1: guy Chris Green told us in your schedule, he said
Speaker 1: that at this point in time, you're gonna be talking
Speaker 1: about sex and drugs and all those things. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what a great tapic. We don't really talk about drugs, No,
Speaker 1: we talked about the weed every once in a while.
Speaker 1: We say no to drugs on lip service, right, and
Speaker 1: this is like sex enough to find everything that they
Speaker 1: uncle his own. So he's say, my nieces the other um,
Speaker 1: the youngest one is five, what she is not old
Speaker 1: enough to know about? I'm breaking it down. The youngest
Speaker 1: one is five, key Ki is like eleven, Destiny is fourteen,
Speaker 1: and Taylor is nineteen. Taylor Taylor Man my daughter about
Speaker 1: to be nineteen, so I know all about Taylor days.
Speaker 1: They really so only Chailer is allowed to listen. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't even want her listeners. But he was saying that.
Speaker 1: He was saying that they are at the age where
Speaker 1: they could search without yeah, without anybody being around. Long
Speaker 1: as you know how to read you can. All right,
Speaker 1: we gotta get some basic information about you down before
Speaker 1: we get into some of these topics. Was good, okay,
Speaker 1: b J to Chicago. Kare Are you married? Are you
Speaker 1: in a relationship? Okay? No girlfriend? No girlfriend? You're sucking singing?
Speaker 1: Everybody got something. When's the last time you had a girlfriend? Uh? Man,
Speaker 1: it's been a few years ago, a couple of years.
Speaker 1: You haven't been in love for that long in that
Speaker 1: time after her. Yeah, I wouldn't say love, no, no,
Speaker 1: but you've had some serious situations. Maybe you know you
Speaker 1: trying to dating interest, but I don't. I don't really
Speaker 1: even date like we gotta. I'm not even have a
Speaker 1: guy even had game like I don't. If we don't
Speaker 1: have no common interests, we can't have a conversation. Basic.
Speaker 1: You don't even enter my phone, and I hope I
Speaker 1: shouldn't enter yours if you don't know what I mean,
Speaker 1: even if we just so you don't just have one
Speaker 1: night stands or anything like that, you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: now you're saying what I'm doing, what I do, But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I do have needs for shure no,
Speaker 1: But you're saying you're not even going to fu somebody
Speaker 1: unless y'all have some comments. I said, I'm not even
Speaker 1: gonna put the name in my phone. Okay, I'm happy
Speaker 1: he recording this tock. Now it's interesting. Now let me
Speaker 1: ask you this. How do you feel about women and makeup?
Speaker 1: We were having a conversation before you came in while
Speaker 1: we were getting our makeup done, and we were talking
Speaker 1: about whether or not guys like when women wear makeup.
Speaker 1: Some guys say, all like women who are natural blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. I'm not mad at makeup, but I love
Speaker 1: to see the natural you. You know what I'm saying. Um,
Speaker 1: I got a song called Perfect that's that speaks on
Speaker 1: that totally. Um and the body. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It speaks on all of that. I feel like, Um,
Speaker 1: there's many different um shades, faces, shapes, sizes that you know,
Speaker 1: man love. I mean, you're speaking of myself. I can't
Speaker 1: you know? But yeah, So, do you have like a
Speaker 1: particular shape, size, whatever that you love? What's your preference? No? No, no, Actually,
Speaker 1: can I tell y'all secret? Some guys, some guys, some guys,
Speaker 1: some guys. Probably pretty feet before like and like she
Speaker 1: probably have pretty feet or she had pretty attitude or
Speaker 1: this is like guys don't guys have a weir weird thinking.
Speaker 1: That's just forgot. I always say that guys will find
Speaker 1: anything good to find a reason to somebody. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's kind of saying the same thing, but but because
Speaker 1: I'm a guy in a different way, I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: to explain it a little bit better than you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. When she's probably not because they'd be
Speaker 1: like she ugly, Well, yeah, but she had a fat
Speaker 1: ask though, but yeah, you've seen her feet. I like
Speaker 1: pretty feet, though I ain't glad that's a that's a
Speaker 1: that's the thing I do like definitely flip flops on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like feet. I don't like to
Speaker 1: talk about feet. I don't feed her kid. I have
Speaker 1: big feet, you know, don't matter. I have to deal
Speaker 1: with that. Like God gave me big feet, so I
Speaker 1: just have to deal with do you have pretty feet?
Speaker 1: Pretty feet? I played basketball for the first ninety years
Speaker 1: of my life. I don't think I would. You know,
Speaker 1: you feet messed up? They're not messed up. My toe
Speaker 1: structure is good, but I wouldn't can sit on myself.
Speaker 1: You get what I mean by my toe strucks. Ain't
Speaker 1: like you know, he messed up. But I played basketball
Speaker 1: every so you're not getting in the pool with socks
Speaker 1: on or nothing like that. No, I don't like it.
Speaker 1: Ain't that jacked up. But you know, if I'm getting
Speaker 1: the pool, I think that's retarded. You get pedicures. I
Speaker 1: was just about that. I take care of my feet,
Speaker 1: but as I can, because I know they you know me,
Speaker 1: because I can't relate. I did balet for most of
Speaker 1: my life and then I was a stripper, so I
Speaker 1: ain't got the best feed either. So what if a
Speaker 1: girl wants to have sex with her socks on, she's
Speaker 1: hired in her feet, that's fine. That's fine with Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. He said, hate on some girl
Speaker 1: because she had pretty feet before, But I did. I
Speaker 1: you guys, baby had them toad. Okay, what's somewhere, Stephanie.
Speaker 1: What's important to you when it comes to a guy.
Speaker 1: What's important to meet attraction wise? Attraction wise, I like
Speaker 1: a guy to always have a nice mouth. That's when
Speaker 1: I'm attracted when I first meet a guy, being with them,
Speaker 1: when I'm in love. I like the mouth because I
Speaker 1: like to kiss. What so I like to have. I like,
Speaker 1: I like guys to have a really nice mouth, like
Speaker 1: good teeth, nice lips, you know, a good skill to
Speaker 1: you know, like the skill of kissing. I like for
Speaker 1: guys to have. It's very important to me because a
Speaker 1: lot of guys can't kiss. A lot of got to
Speaker 1: have a nice mouth. He used it all the time.
Speaker 1: He does have him a nice mother. I'm sitting. I
Speaker 1: don't know what else you do? What about check? You
Speaker 1: to a guy? Authority? Okay, a boss. I like a boss,
Speaker 1: like a man who takes charge. I like a man
Speaker 1: who is in a position of power and not just
Speaker 1: saying job wise, but just in life. Like I'm like
Speaker 1: a man who like that know where he got going himself.
Speaker 1: I don't like a slow chance bum mass niggod that
Speaker 1: ain't about but nobody like no bumps nobody, but not
Speaker 1: bum meaning like financially, but like an alpha man. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I like to I definitely like I need
Speaker 1: a god to for people to be scared of him,
Speaker 1: scared my man. I want people to be scared of
Speaker 1: my man for sure, for sure. Very important to me. Well,
Speaker 1: we know you like thugs, Yeah, exactly know what I
Speaker 1: like she's gonna grow out of that one day, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Former tugs? When did you get
Speaker 1: I like former thugs? I used to be at the
Speaker 1: I used to and when did you grow out of that?
Speaker 1: Not too long ago, just recently. Hey man, it's it's
Speaker 1: it's thugs out there. They got some shing legitimate now,
Speaker 1: you know, so they graduate. We call those corporate thugs.
Speaker 1: That's what. That's what. That's what you're from, Chicago, as
Speaker 1: you ever that. I would never consider myself a thug,
Speaker 1: but I definitely I'm a for sure, you're a bus
Speaker 1: people people scared of you. It ain't about people being
Speaker 1: scared of me. I'm not into you know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying making short calls fit like, look where I'm from.
Speaker 1: I don't gotta it is what it is, and I
Speaker 1: go where I go. You know what I'm saying. Chicago place, Ye, Chicago.
Speaker 1: Those projects they've had to build a wall around them
Speaker 1: and they're gone now. They took them down. Now that's
Speaker 1: what cannyman. Yeah, yeah, everybody away. Wait, wasn't that where
Speaker 1: they wasn't that where they feel to open in the
Speaker 1: good times too? Wasn't that? Yes, supposedly yet that's not
Speaker 1: where canny Man was from. Supposedly. Yeah, but they like
Speaker 1: build a brick wall around those projects because innocent bystanders
Speaker 1: who don't live there, who weren't living there, those builders
Speaker 1: like one way in, one way out. After certain times,
Speaker 1: like you know, like back in the eighties, like the
Speaker 1: mayor that was the mayor. Then she tried to moving
Speaker 1: in to tell people like that it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 1: She got out of there within two or three days.
Speaker 1: Did you ever look in the mirror when you was
Speaker 1: going up and be like, canny Man, turn the damn
Speaker 1: lights on? Now? Do you ever listened to your own
Speaker 1: music during sex? No? No, impossible, No, that's a turn off.
Speaker 1: Why off? Even if a woman asked me to sing,
Speaker 1: like if we had a date, like if it's just
Speaker 1: you and I, if we had a day you asked
Speaker 1: me to sing, it kind of turn me off. Why
Speaker 1: would that turn you off? Because I'm not working right now,
Speaker 1: but if you want to, you know, that was her job.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't want to get a little aside if she offered,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't ask her to go to work right now.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't ask her to do that. Like sometimes work
Speaker 1: would be so much. I come to you for my relief,
Speaker 1: So why would I make you a part of this now?
Speaker 1: Soon or later we're gonna start having issues because I'm
Speaker 1: want this and you're gonna be like, I'm tired, but
Speaker 1: you that's fair because I remember back in the day
Speaker 1: when I was a stripper. I couldn't deal with a
Speaker 1: guy who would want me to be like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: super You'd be like those some money at me. Then Hello, Honestly,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. If I want to dance, I would go
Speaker 1: to the club. But I want to ask my woman
Speaker 1: to dance for me. I mean, I am into lingerate,
Speaker 1: like I love women that you know, that type of thing,
Speaker 1: But you don't, you know, I mean, yeah, we talked
Speaker 1: about lingerie previously. A lot of guys said they're not
Speaker 1: reallead that into it. For some reason, I'm r sing
Speaker 1: every time I've worn lingerie for a guy, it's on
Speaker 1: as soon as he sees it for a couple of seconds.
Speaker 1: But that's because you gotta you know, like you got enjoyed.
Speaker 1: Find ways to enjoy it if you can't think of it.
Speaker 1: Now take your time, don't rush it, y'all. Head chill, relax,
Speaker 1: that roll up whatever it takes for you to relax,
Speaker 1: because that's really that's what enjoyment is. If you don't relax,
Speaker 1: it's terrible for both of y'all and you ain't coming back. Now,
Speaker 1: do you ever val Have you ever voluntarily saying for
Speaker 1: a woman like she adn't asked you too? But I have?
Speaker 1: I have. I have saying happy birthday to somebody that
Speaker 1: thought I would never do it, just to be like
Speaker 1: you know it was it was dope and it wasn't
Speaker 1: even her birthday. That I'm not really into like playing
Speaker 1: my music to set the moment. I would rather play
Speaker 1: somebody else music and I can really enjoy it, and
Speaker 1: you get the most authentic me. I'm too busy. Listen
Speaker 1: to me. I should have turned that kick drunk. That sucks. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: My brain immediately goes to work because I'm such a workaholic.
Speaker 1: When I leave work, let's leave work like my pop
Speaker 1: will be like yo, man hasn't like my pop? Man,
Speaker 1: Just let's post them yak up or something. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about something else because I can't talk about work right now.
Speaker 1: I'm here to chill, relax. You know that's understandable, but
Speaker 1: as an R and b singer right. You know, women
Speaker 1: of course, are a huge audience for you. Do you
Speaker 1: ever play like if you're dating somebody, like, hey, I
Speaker 1: want you to hear this song? Do you do that? No?
Speaker 1: But if it's it's like we cool. When I know
Speaker 1: you and you asked to hear some I might play
Speaker 1: your song or two, but that's about it. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to be performing anything. No, I'm saying you might
Speaker 1: be like, Yo, I just did this song last night,
Speaker 1: I want you to hear it. No, I have role
Speaker 1: songs about females that I sent it to him. Though,
Speaker 1: are you doing girmantic if you heard the song? You
Speaker 1: think you write better when you are going through some
Speaker 1: bullshit or you write better when you love both. Um,
Speaker 1: And it's too as the creativity, it's about where you
Speaker 1: allow yourself to be. Um. I'm able to put myself
Speaker 1: for any type of shoes. Like sometimes I write songs
Speaker 1: starting at the first line of the first verse, not
Speaker 1: having a hook yet, and that's like you actually get
Speaker 1: there when you get there type of writing, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's many different ways that I create.
Speaker 1: But um, I wrote I've written the last song I've
Speaker 1: written about like what I was going through was the
Speaker 1: end of the last relationship. I was saying, it's the
Speaker 1: song car Hard Crush Cry. Is it gonna make us cry? No,
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna make you cry. But you're black, Okay,
Speaker 1: I tell the truth. Excuse me. I'll tell the truth
Speaker 1: in the record, because I just come from that kind
Speaker 1: of R and B where you felt, at least you
Speaker 1: felt like the nigger wasn't line. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's like, at least even if it is, feel like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's that's That's what I'm into. But before we
Speaker 1: came up here, we were also talking about honesty, like
Speaker 1: why can't guys just be honest about certain situations? Sometimes
Speaker 1: all be honest? That's true, yeah, because I'd be lying
Speaker 1: everybody's lies at times. When I say we all lie, though,
Speaker 1: that puts me in it too, like we oh yeah,
Speaker 1: we all in this room have lied about something completely
Speaker 1: honest with my boyfriend. I think sometimes right there, I
Speaker 1: just I think honestly, But I think sometimes I'm overly honest,
Speaker 1: like sometimes I might need a lot of stuft from
Speaker 1: the blow a little bit because I'm like brutally honest
Speaker 1: and people take that the wrong way, like they take
Speaker 1: it as like I'm being a bit or like you know,
Speaker 1: but sometimes a lie is to not hurt somebody's feelings.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's very true. That's very true. Sometimes sometimes
Speaker 1: you just gotta like, you gotta understand either it's gonna
Speaker 1: blow up later or this could really be over. So
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta wear your options with your lives. Nobody.
Speaker 1: But we was saying earlier, and I agree with her.
Speaker 1: I say this to all the time. Are rather you
Speaker 1: be honest with me and let me make my choice? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. When it comes to let's
Speaker 1: just say you dealing, you meet this guy and come
Speaker 1: to find out he's still in a relationship or maybe
Speaker 1: trying to work his way out of the relationship, and
Speaker 1: you have fallen from him and you have feelings from him.
Speaker 1: And then you found out six months into you guys
Speaker 1: this relationship, that he has this other thing going on
Speaker 1: on Facebook with a matching outfit with his wife and
Speaker 1: then they got matching Cheeto flames out six flags. So
Speaker 1: it's just like at that point then you're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: had you been honest about your situation, then you would
Speaker 1: have allowed me to make the decision if I wanted
Speaker 1: to get involved or not, but just allowing me to
Speaker 1: fall for you and throwing me into this situation that
Speaker 1: I had an exit being, because then what if you
Speaker 1: get caught up into baby mama drama and now your
Speaker 1: baby mama calling me but I don't know what's going on, said,
Speaker 1: I can't I feel But had you been able, had
Speaker 1: you been honest with me, then we could have wrote
Speaker 1: this thing out if it was that type of situation.
Speaker 1: But guys don't they don't realize that some girls is
Speaker 1: down a round, some girls not. But you just gotta
Speaker 1: your options. So how would you feel if a guy
Speaker 1: was like when you just met him, like, well, not
Speaker 1: only when you just met him, like he want to
Speaker 1: be come more right, and he's like, I still flirt,
Speaker 1: but that ain't don't don't you know that ain't nothing
Speaker 1: against you. I'm not having it exactly that at the
Speaker 1: end of the day. At the at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, ain't no guy gonna tell you that the
Speaker 1: beginning knowing that you know what I'm saying, something could
Speaker 1: happened later to the point where he do more than flirts.
Speaker 1: So he shut his mouth I mean, it's not when
Speaker 1: you first meet somebody and you're not completely honest, and
Speaker 1: then you can't double back and be like, well, I
Speaker 1: know I said this when we first met, but we
Speaker 1: didn't know each other like that, so I was lying.
Speaker 1: But the truth of the man, sometimes you just tell
Speaker 1: a line. You gotta keep on going with it because
Speaker 1: you had no idea on lying. You have to keep on.
Speaker 1: I'm an old school guy. I just think you' all
Speaker 1: the college players. I will never think a woman told
Speaker 1: me that, what's you talking about? The women of the
Speaker 1: woman told me? That woman told me A married woman
Speaker 1: told me that Mary when you were sleeping with I
Speaker 1: don't kidding. That's one thing I've never done. Married woman now,
Speaker 1: it's usually separated. I don't got no game. Honestly, listen,
Speaker 1: listen if she still if she's separated, I think she's
Speaker 1: just still married to me. I mean, I grew up
Speaker 1: my mom and dad in the house, so I just
Speaker 1: look at a different way. Separated, you still married until
Speaker 1: so what if they don't live in the same house anymore?
Speaker 1: That may that may that may make me forget. Like
Speaker 1: if we check on the couch and heat at a
Speaker 1: whole another location yeah, you know where you live at, though,
Speaker 1: what do you mean who exactly? So in Chicago, you
Speaker 1: might have to keep somebody in the count, the corner
Speaker 1: something just to make sure I'm good, why I'm up
Speaker 1: and there, because if you know your address right, he
Speaker 1: might just come on. Think it's still crazy out here
Speaker 1: some of them. Now let me ask you this, um,
Speaker 1: would you eat pussy for a girl the first time
Speaker 1: you'll have sex or is that something that you don't
Speaker 1: do right away if I've known her? Actually I've done
Speaker 1: that before, but I've known the girl for four years
Speaker 1: before we ever even had sex. I never touched that.
Speaker 1: I thought she was gorgeous, honestly, but I I didn't
Speaker 1: want to seem like I was trying to be a friend,
Speaker 1: act like I'm waiting in line like I was. She
Speaker 1: was really my friend for four years, but maybe a
Speaker 1: little bit more than that. I was like, yeah, why
Speaker 1: are we playing? Man? Why are we playing? And she
Speaker 1: was like, what are you talking about? She played dumb
Speaker 1: for however long she could, and it end up happening.
Speaker 1: But yep, that that time, I did it for the
Speaker 1: first but that was the only time. It's not something regular.
Speaker 1: That's the time I'm telling y'all, so it might be
Speaker 1: regular yall, it's not on the regular. It's not nice.
Speaker 1: I'm an R and B artist. I can't. I would
Speaker 1: not have myself out there like that. Then somebody see
Speaker 1: us and now they're trying to write up on me
Speaker 1: on media take out that the truth is what it is.
Speaker 1: When I'm telling you that was the last time that
Speaker 1: that happened. It's the honest truth. This is gonna it's
Speaker 1: you know, it's gonna service purpose to to be proven. Reckon.
Speaker 1: I feel like RNBA artists do that anyway, Like we
Speaker 1: all look at R n batists like, oh, y'all gotta
Speaker 1: be Do you consider yourself romantic in my own way?
Speaker 1: Because honestly, what somebody else may think is romantic as
Speaker 1: I might think it's terrible. Like that's why I don't
Speaker 1: feel like I could walk up to him and then
Speaker 1: have game. You know what I'm saying, Like if we
Speaker 1: can't literally, like if he tripped, we both laugh something whatever,
Speaker 1: we end up talking about something else and our conversation continue.
Speaker 1: Then you get what I'm saying. I like, yeah, I've
Speaker 1: grown with it, and that you have no game if
Speaker 1: that's how you want to look at it or say
Speaker 1: it maybe I can learn Maybe I can learn it
Speaker 1: that way, but that's honestly, but just think about it,
Speaker 1: like she could get so awkward and so many weird moments, man,
Speaker 1: and I hate acro moments for people like that. So
Speaker 1: if you got some kind of sense of just being
Speaker 1: a little bit, you could be gorgeous. But if you
Speaker 1: I'm cool, I don't want to be somewhere and you
Speaker 1: like b J, I've never had moments. For me, I've
Speaker 1: never had the moments and I plan and never ever
Speaker 1: have them. So if you really can't just be civilized,
Speaker 1: we ain't be a dose. Even if we agree to disagree,
Speaker 1: I really can't funk with you. So you're not one
Speaker 1: of those guys who like to argue with women and stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't like to argue, but I've been in arguments.
Speaker 1: But some guy that turns the mind, I'm like, no, see,
Speaker 1: now that's if we if we face to face, it
Speaker 1: might it might do some things for real, but in
Speaker 1: the sense you know it over the phone. Now, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try to end it quick because honestly, people i'm
Speaker 1: around like looking like that kind of guy, like who what?
Speaker 1: Then I look like arguing who you feel my girl,
Speaker 1: man tripper, that's definitely I'm just saying, I don't feel
Speaker 1: like you know you're single, you shouldn't be arguing with nobody.
Speaker 1: I mean, even if I'm in a relationship, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna really like if but you can't me on everything.
Speaker 1: You know that That's exactly what I'm saying. But if
Speaker 1: you ain't got to even have an argument, yeah, because
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lieous relationships. You know, we do. We've
Speaker 1: had very a whole lot of pettiars argument that maybe
Speaker 1: I mean it, but it's not only me accept I
Speaker 1: think that's what should help you pick and choose your
Speaker 1: batter if not you, but just absolutely I was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: you don't know what that ain't even that bad? Yea
Speaker 1: even that bad because it's it's something. It's just like you.
Speaker 1: It may be a problem to you, but you could
Speaker 1: just be a picky motherfucker. Yeah, And how you know
Speaker 1: she ain't saying it about you because of the ship
Speaker 1: you're doing. So it's like, you know, I've lived with
Speaker 1: you know, a woman before, so it's like I just
Speaker 1: understand the dudes, and it dunts to some degree, you know,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like I'm sure I've had a
Speaker 1: lot of petty arguments that were mind fault. But you know,
Speaker 1: it's two ways, and it's sometimes you can't let everything,
Speaker 1: you can't let things go. You gotta, like you said,
Speaker 1: you gotta choose what you're going to accept. And if
Speaker 1: you don't say, if you don't put your foot down,
Speaker 1: if something's bothering you right away, it's gonna happen again
Speaker 1: and again and again and again. So that's for me
Speaker 1: where arguments come from. I have been in the bud quick.
Speaker 1: I'm quick. I'm really quick. If you don't say nothing
Speaker 1: when you finally say something for the first time times,
Speaker 1: he's only been thinking to yourself. And that's im. I
Speaker 1: ain't even know you ain't like I get mad, but
Speaker 1: I won't say nothing about it. But by the time
Speaker 1: that you know I'm mad, I've been mad for months
Speaker 1: and I never like to check the text. And you
Speaker 1: think you reply, but you don't. You end it and
Speaker 1: you just yeah, you never reply. No. But I'm quick.
Speaker 1: When as soon as I see something I don't that
Speaker 1: bothers me, I say it right away. I'm quick. I'm quick.
Speaker 1: I said, you look like you are quick. I'm very spicy,
Speaker 1: and I've been around, I've been around arguments to make
Speaker 1: it awkward for everybody. You'd be like, dude, well he
Speaker 1: it's him. He'sational, he's confrontational, and when he wants you
Speaker 1: to be like that, then I have to fight back.
Speaker 1: G be going off too. Yeah, some men like aggressive
Speaker 1: women too. Though I'm spicy, I don't let nothing go
Speaker 1: over my head. I like a little mixture though, So
Speaker 1: a lot of times I'll start an argument and find
Speaker 1: myself apologizing because I was too fast. You know, Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta don't be like arguments, be like where you
Speaker 1: at right now, I'm coming there right now. You just
Speaker 1: was cursing. But that's when you love each other, you know,
Speaker 1: when you because I'm not arguing with somebody I'm not
Speaker 1: in love with. As soon as you do something that
Speaker 1: I don't like, I will tell you, tell you something.
Speaker 1: If we don't have a good resolution, you're out of
Speaker 1: my life. Sometimes my mode just changed. When there's some
Speaker 1: showing like you, I get quiets. You could tell like
Speaker 1: you know someone you talked about you here, sut. I
Speaker 1: try not to even blast you off because man, even
Speaker 1: being in the industry that were in like we can
Speaker 1: always take work home and the frustrations and all that,
Speaker 1: and you'd be like, I don't actually chicken a fish.
Speaker 1: You don't know it could be wicked. It could be wicked.
Speaker 1: So I try to make sure even what I say,
Speaker 1: I try to work my words correctly, because once you
Speaker 1: say it, i'll give how much you apologized. Sometimes it's
Speaker 1: stamped in time. That's why I always try to not
Speaker 1: say things that I might regret later. That's why when
Speaker 1: I get mad sometimes i'd be like, please don't talk
Speaker 1: to me until I calmed down a little bit. Let
Speaker 1: me tell y'all and everybody else in the world, it
Speaker 1: is nothing wrong with taking five minutes. It's always somebody
Speaker 1: want to talk about it right now. But that's the
Speaker 1: person that I make. Y'all be calling police an hour
Speaker 1: from the get that person five minutes, or you be
Speaker 1: the person to say they take five minutes if you
Speaker 1: really give a funk about talking about it. If not,
Speaker 1: both of y'all bounce. But I'm gonna tell you when
Speaker 1: I learned to take five minutes, it's better at least definitely.
Speaker 1: You still may disagree, but you ain't saying it with
Speaker 1: the anger, just trying to say it without the emotion,
Speaker 1: because it's like going when you're hungry, everything everything. Let
Speaker 1: me wait till I'm not hungry and go to the
Speaker 1: supermarket and make some more rational, smarter decisions. Five minutes
Speaker 1: could change everything. If you wait five minutes before you
Speaker 1: send that crazy text Stephanie, something like your favorite, you
Speaker 1: might change because you don't never want to send no
Speaker 1: text out. Oh my god. What's the worst thing you
Speaker 1: can say to a guy that you know it's gonna
Speaker 1: make him mad? The I think when you call a
Speaker 1: guy a bum, still your b bro. Just the word bitch,
Speaker 1: anything attached before that's that's accessory. But the word bum Guys,
Speaker 1: don't you know what hate? If you tell him they
Speaker 1: gotta they dig his wet. It's not just the worst
Speaker 1: you hear how you say, you little like how you
Speaker 1: but that you tell a guy he can't suck you
Speaker 1: right while you're mad, he's gonna be thinking that he
Speaker 1: ain't sucking right rest of your relationship. You know, I
Speaker 1: never came right, And that's what killing to and pretend
Speaker 1: every time you had that man in the bathroom. Boy,
Speaker 1: if you tell them you fu somebody else I'll forget it,
Speaker 1: and you tell me a little every next every next argument,
Speaker 1: every next argument, you said, you up your boy a
Speaker 1: little bit. It got bigger. Baby. I was flying bag.
Speaker 1: If you have to watch, I had people watch me
Speaker 1: on social media just like just say say Twitter for instance,
Speaker 1: like a pretty girl could say something to me and
Speaker 1: I say something back, and a girl likes to mess
Speaker 1: with a favorite like like it, like like why why
Speaker 1: is this your favorite? You pettied in the moment, Patty?
Speaker 1: Did you see that favorite? Huh? Because you can see Twitter,
Speaker 1: but it tells you who favorite favorite. But guys like,
Speaker 1: but listen, guys like when you stuck to my social
Speaker 1: like if you're dating them for real, and you'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah they have You're not not not me, not me.
Speaker 1: I'm not really into it because of what I do.
Speaker 1: It's like what I'm not supposed to talk to women?
Speaker 1: Are I supposed to say him? Girls? That's what That's
Speaker 1: what was in my mind. I was selling out. No,
Speaker 1: But that was like when I when I take a
Speaker 1: picture and maybe the guy gets too close to me
Speaker 1: or like maybe face will be touching creep with too
Speaker 1: many people, and I'm like pure, I do that's my job.
Speaker 1: Like that, he asked me to take a picture. What
Speaker 1: you want me to do? That's creepy to me though,
Speaker 1: if I take a picture, like if we take a
Speaker 1: picture after this, I'm not gonna. I don't do the
Speaker 1: extra since that just makes me feel like a creep,
Speaker 1: Like I'm perceived as a creep and that makes me
Speaker 1: I feel dirty and don't do that. Real men don't
Speaker 1: do Yeah, yeah, that's no. But I went through a
Speaker 1: time space where every time I'll be in the club
Speaker 1: and like I'll get someone you know, and they want
Speaker 1: to take a picture with me. I'm I had a
Speaker 1: time that I was always like, reway your mind that
Speaker 1: they already your boyfriend from the Instagram and that you
Speaker 1: forgot this. Social media gives them so much more time
Speaker 1: with you in their mind than it whatever. Like same
Speaker 1: thing with artists, like they'll they'll love you until you
Speaker 1: fucking up, or they'll love you today, meet you on
Speaker 1: a bad day, or whatever the case may be. It's
Speaker 1: like the Internet makes people have so much more of
Speaker 1: an idea in the minded. What it really isn't reality.
Speaker 1: You meet like yeah and this nigga gonna come up
Speaker 1: to you, do all that yeah, yeah, like the creeps
Speaker 1: stop being internet creeps and that turned you to a
Speaker 1: real life creep at the club that night. Stop it, Fellers,
Speaker 1: It's not it's I mean, I just wish people would
Speaker 1: realize that just because you follow someone on social media
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you really really know them. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean. You don't know what problems people are
Speaker 1: having in real life. You don't know how things are
Speaker 1: really going sometime that you can't win. Situation like I'm
Speaker 1: coming at the gym. You want to take a picture.
Speaker 1: I look tell horible, And if I take a picture
Speaker 1: with you and you posted I looked up, I'd be
Speaker 1: like no because I look terrible and I just got
Speaker 1: at the gym. I'm sorry. I would love to I
Speaker 1: just I just feel hooky. I want I want to
Speaker 1: take a shower. What's he's a yucky You can't. I
Speaker 1: can't please everybody, straight up, straight up, So honestly, knowing
Speaker 1: that has some degree my care ceases, Like it's who
Speaker 1: gives a book? Right? Who gotta give a fuck? Now?
Speaker 1: If you met a girl and you SUP with her
Speaker 1: on the first night, could that potentially turn into a
Speaker 1: relationship or will you have some type of judgment against
Speaker 1: her always. It depends on if we had that weird
Speaker 1: ass connection that's so strong, did it'd be like m
Speaker 1: or it could be so clingy to the point where
Speaker 1: you're like, all right, it's hard left heart right. I
Speaker 1: agree with that. I don't thing I don't like. I know.
Speaker 1: I know a particular couple. They had sex the first
Speaker 1: night and they still together. They're still together, like going
Speaker 1: nine years. That's that's what made them have sex the
Speaker 1: first night. That but that's what they say, like when
Speaker 1: they met each other and they ever since they were unsuperable.
Speaker 1: Do you believe in soul mates? You heard that get
Speaker 1: that was deep? I really do. I don't know how
Speaker 1: many of you get in life. Some people say you
Speaker 1: get to some people say you get one. How many don't?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Have you had one? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think you would know if you had your soul
Speaker 1: mate though, me too. I just I'm trying to learn
Speaker 1: on had a lot better. Okay. I think you didn't lie.
Speaker 1: Some people do. I ain't in a relationships, so I
Speaker 1: can't lie. I got my lot license, right, Yeah, got
Speaker 1: a should make a lot of license. You graduated. Now,
Speaker 1: we talked about things that we say to guys that
Speaker 1: make them mad. You know you got a little dick
Speaker 1: you back in bed? Yeah, your way. So what can
Speaker 1: a man say to a woman that would make us mad? Forever?
Speaker 1: They will always bring back up number one, your pussy
Speaker 1: stings or it was he's drys got to be the worst.
Speaker 1: I would kill open loose pussy glad. I haven't gotten
Speaker 1: any of the right Thank you right now, your home
Speaker 1: girl lamp affect y'all? How not as bad? But not
Speaker 1: depend on whom? No, no, no, not as bad as
Speaker 1: a guy saying, not as bad as a girl saying
Speaker 1: to a guy. The guys candish it, but they can't
Speaker 1: take it about your mom. No, you know, how about
Speaker 1: your mom? That's wicky, that's next level. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's about it though. Yeah for women, Yeah, because women
Speaker 1: are so good at don't ship off and then you
Speaker 1: walk into the door. I can't believe me. You say anything,
Speaker 1: but you ain't gonna do it in my face. You
Speaker 1: don't let me know what I got you if you
Speaker 1: tell it. She ain't got no edges. That's that's you,
Speaker 1: just you just straight bagging on that. I don't think
Speaker 1: anybody likes to be called a bum. No, one's don't
Speaker 1: like it. I don't got that either, thank god, I
Speaker 1: haven't gotten. Now do you use lube? Has anybody here
Speaker 1: ever used lube? I like using lube. I've used it
Speaker 1: for anal, Yeah, for anal especially, but it's it's fun
Speaker 1: when you're like trying me. Trying anal is always a fail.
Speaker 1: So the lube is there and it's nice. My friend
Speaker 1: told me to use lube before and not used it,
Speaker 1: and the guy was like, what's going on and that
Speaker 1: it's too good. Now it's that offensive to you if
Speaker 1: a girl has to be allowed some lube, like you
Speaker 1: don't make a pussy wet. No, it's not necessarily like
Speaker 1: you'll make a pussy. It's time have sex. It's times
Speaker 1: where you can have sex for so long. Yeah, coming,
Speaker 1: but only two people would know you. Now, it's not me,
Speaker 1: it's her come. I think God would get sticky. I
Speaker 1: mean some guys come so fast with you know they
Speaker 1: would never get to that stage. You know once you
Speaker 1: say once you think you saved the Princess and King
Speaker 1: Cooper snappers. But that's why when you take your time,
Speaker 1: when you take I believe, but this is me for real,
Speaker 1: for I believe like if you make love to my first,
Speaker 1: the simplest things could be more of a turn on
Speaker 1: that's probably never been received by her like that. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's just really, don't let me
Speaker 1: seduce your mind too. So she don't want to be
Speaker 1: so sometimes she won't do Yeah, So you gotta understand
Speaker 1: because I've never had I've never used lube, but I
Speaker 1: always want to do. Guys get offended, Like if you
Speaker 1: think I'm loube, I think gods were really big decks.
Speaker 1: Should use lube to start, Maybe not a whole bunch,
Speaker 1: but you should because you're going a little further And
Speaker 1: you know what, if you have some dick, no problem
Speaker 1: to spit on it you have if it's not that ever,
Speaker 1: it's not necessary and not a lot of spect just
Speaker 1: a little yeah good. But guys with big dixes, I
Speaker 1: think because you're going on further end, you know, you
Speaker 1: gotta take care of what you say it do youse toys? Ever, No,
Speaker 1: would I would rather woman use I like to sit
Speaker 1: back and enjoy the show a little. I'd like to
Speaker 1: tease myself to the point where I can't no more.
Speaker 1: Blue boss, I'm saying never blue balls. You gotta know
Speaker 1: when to tap in. You gotta know when. You gotta
Speaker 1: know when to give up and go in, don't it
Speaker 1: What did you something about? Let it build up? Like
Speaker 1: I don't like to touch you. I don't understand what's
Speaker 1: going on? What do you let me tell you? She
Speaker 1: could come to that. I don't want to don't hug
Speaker 1: me hello, because by the time I touch you, I
Speaker 1: want to touch you like times a million. It's something.
Speaker 1: It's some ways you could teach sticipation. Yeah, some ways
Speaker 1: you can teach yourself in the easiest ways. You just
Speaker 1: don't think because you used to play the music fucking
Speaker 1: before the movie over whatever case, motherucker's do. It's so
Speaker 1: many other ways of doing it. So, you know, Netix,
Speaker 1: all you could do like love Jones and he'd be
Speaker 1: on the phone. You just come in and just do
Speaker 1: his pents while you're on the phone with Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that's nice. I think guys like that too. Are
Speaker 1: you more of a pleaser? You know? They say in
Speaker 1: relationships is with somebody who's a giver, more of a
Speaker 1: giver and somebody who's more of a receiver. I think
Speaker 1: giving makes you a good receiver because This is how
Speaker 1: I put it. Like, if you if you enjoy what
Speaker 1: you're doing with who you with, it's gonna already put
Speaker 1: you over the top because you're into it. You're not
Speaker 1: just doing it, you're actually into it. I probably I
Speaker 1: probably if if I would have probably kept going for
Speaker 1: another in minutes, I've probably been like, ah yo, if
Speaker 1: I get in this pussy now, I'm not gonna last.
Speaker 1: Because I was so into what we had. I was
Speaker 1: that close, like I could have almost came from police
Speaker 1: and Hut, once you start coming, can you stop it? Like,
Speaker 1: once you feel like you're right there about to come,
Speaker 1: you stop yourself. Tailla snatch out, gotta take two steps,
Speaker 1: take steps. But if you don't, If you don't, it's over. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do that walk, talk to yourself, do whatever you do.
Speaker 1: Whatever you do, Like if that man tells you, don't
Speaker 1: move it, take you what you think about to stop?
Speaker 1: You have to take your five. Take your five. It's
Speaker 1: all mental for show, but like what's in your head.
Speaker 1: Some people think about baseball it's a compliment to the women.
Speaker 1: Though it's a compliment to the woman at all times,
Speaker 1: no matter you know, but yeah, no matter what you
Speaker 1: could think of, I just pull out and just gotta
Speaker 1: take about it, you know. So so ladies when he
Speaker 1: comes fast all the time, take it as a compliment
Speaker 1: that all the time, or tell them to relax, tell
Speaker 1: them you know, hey, we got time, baby, we ain't
Speaker 1: got nowhere to go. Baby, I don't want to tell
Speaker 1: you he was whacking fast. Okay, what y'all think about?
Speaker 1: What y'all think? We ask your question? What y'all think about?
Speaker 1: Like quickies is like always let me I love a
Speaker 1: quick because I get really early for work. I'm always talking.
Speaker 1: If it's so good to him to become a long ee,
Speaker 1: You're like, I gotta go to work now. Just give
Speaker 1: me five more minutes because I'd be like, listen, you
Speaker 1: have been right, take care of that. I got leave.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be late. You like quickie. A lot of
Speaker 1: women not in surprise quickies, Like in the bathroom and
Speaker 1: the restaurant. What about like if you want a hotel
Speaker 1: in the windows open? Yeah for that, I mean like
Speaker 1: people could see you on the balcony. Had some hotel,
Speaker 1: but in some air max in the bathrop in a
Speaker 1: maxim Why you ask the bathroom, Well, can't you with
Speaker 1: the slippers that I'll tell you I got you know
Speaker 1: my fate you put up. I just sucked your bit
Speaker 1: in some all white air in the bathroom. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: into that. I'll leave the windows open. But now, but
Speaker 1: what does someone take the picture? Now? You want media
Speaker 1: take out air max air bax in the bathroom, but
Speaker 1: having sex on the balcony, you got you try it?
Speaker 1: Do you think you could be in a monogamous relationship? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do, I really do. Do you want when I'm ready? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I really believe I can do it?
Speaker 1: And I wanted that want to? Wasn't when I'm ready?
Speaker 1: I want to? Was it this period? But you know
Speaker 1: in the right time? Yeah, I'm building some right now? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you do a lot of three sims and stuff?
Speaker 1: A lot? Or have you what is a lot? Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a three that he's had a lot,
Speaker 1: that means he's had I have not had a lot.
Speaker 1: You've had enough? Let's it. Have you ever had more
Speaker 1: than at three? Like a four and five? And I
Speaker 1: mean not more than so? But so what about when
Speaker 1: you're in a serious relationship? Do you want your girl
Speaker 1: to be open to that? I would honestly be personally,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to introduce that I would rather than
Speaker 1: days be done. If she into it, then I would,
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't want to introduce that. I agree with that.
Speaker 1: I just I would just I would rather keep a
Speaker 1: lot of ship that shouldn't be in my marriage out
Speaker 1: like that's something you get. If she wants to, then
Speaker 1: I'll have to, you know what I mean. She she
Speaker 1: got to be the one to and she'd be and
Speaker 1: she didn't want to pick her two I'm not, no,
Speaker 1: but that's that's and I agree. And when you're when
Speaker 1: you want to be serious with somebody, that's something you
Speaker 1: got to leave in your past if that's something you
Speaker 1: did then or just danger it's over exactly, that's what
Speaker 1: that's Hey, I bet it is, and I bet it's
Speaker 1: just and what's crazy? It is like if it was
Speaker 1: somebody like I was just kicking it with, Yeah, I would,
Speaker 1: I would love to, which we're talking about. But serious,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm showing your difference. That's what I'm showing
Speaker 1: You're difference. Serious. Is I'm serious? No? No, more, goddamn
Speaker 1: it or never. That's just where I'm at now. Has
Speaker 1: a girl ever tried to do something and you thought
Speaker 1: it was too freaky, like put her finger off. No,
Speaker 1: but a girl mentioned and I was like, we had
Speaker 1: never even mention that you gotta just do it. You dirty,
Speaker 1: You never never be earlier. It's not no, you have
Speaker 1: the way you said that. I never put my finger anybody,
Speaker 1: but you said you're supposed to just do it. So
Speaker 1: that's what you said. If I ever did it, I'm
Speaker 1: just do it. I ain't never gonna ask him. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I think that's how you're supposed to.
Speaker 1: So you've been but he's supposed to be like and
Speaker 1: go up. Is that what you're supposed to do? We
Speaker 1: could try and if you don't like it, you say no,
Speaker 1: he could try. Listen, man, there is even in sex,
Speaker 1: even in love, there's still a thing of respect of
Speaker 1: the body and boundaries. Oh my god, it's like, listen,
Speaker 1: if you haven't sex with a girl, right, if you're
Speaker 1: having sex, you're not gonna be like, hey, could you
Speaker 1: do me a favor and stuck my balls. You're gonna
Speaker 1: just put your balls in her mouth. Yeah, because that's
Speaker 1: your balls, that ain't your ass with You don't gotta
Speaker 1: ask sometimes you gotta just and and sometimes you give
Speaker 1: a guy an opportunity to say no. I think sometimes
Speaker 1: you kind of just have to go for it. If
Speaker 1: you don't want it like that, I'm not into that.
Speaker 1: But if he does, because it's weird to ask a
Speaker 1: guy like, hey, would you love for me to stick
Speaker 1: two fingers in your ass? He's never gonna say yesterday,
Speaker 1: never come. But if you just do it, he'll like it. No, sir,
Speaker 1: it might slide right in. Somebody gonna put somebody plug
Speaker 1: you like a quirk. She's gonna be sick too. Okay,
Speaker 1: says a girl. Ever tried something and you've been like no,
Speaker 1: I think they would know not to even go to that.
Speaker 1: But I mean not just that you would. You would
Speaker 1: piss me off to the way will you will see
Speaker 1: another side of me? Some guys just just like a
Speaker 1: serious no, no, you don't do that. I think too.
Speaker 1: I think too. And even there having a conversation about sex,
Speaker 1: you know how you never even have sex with the
Speaker 1: persons y'all talk about everything. Sometimes they make you want
Speaker 1: to fuck them more. So you're gonna you're gonna understand
Speaker 1: my dudes, and don't I'm really I'm real grown with it,
Speaker 1: Like I said, we could have a conversation. I can't.
Speaker 1: I gotta you gotta know what type of guy because
Speaker 1: if I gotta leave and you're mad and what, you
Speaker 1: gotta know exactly what type of they got you? Right?
Speaker 1: Straight up, my friends make the best lovers. You can't
Speaker 1: really be somebody's lover. You know already. You know already
Speaker 1: that'd be the worst you ever a friend. It could
Speaker 1: make or break you know. I've had sex, like, I've
Speaker 1: had relationship with people and they've been friends with them after.
Speaker 1: But I've been with somebody that I was like best
Speaker 1: friends with and it was a really good situation. You
Speaker 1: haven't had sex with somebody you know you shouldn't been
Speaker 1: having sex with you, and it made it like fifty
Speaker 1: times yuh m hmm. Every time I have sex with
Speaker 1: someone I know I shouldn't have sex with, it's fucking awesome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you ain't being honest, I don't know. It's yes,
Speaker 1: come on and to the it's bomb maybe passionate. It's
Speaker 1: like you gotta be into it because you shouldn't be
Speaker 1: doing so if you're gonna get caught just like this.
Speaker 1: I don't know about it, but look, it's like it's
Speaker 1: almost like this, you in school, and you could get
Speaker 1: into a fight if somebody hit you, both of y'all
Speaker 1: still going to the mother pressible office. You might will
Speaker 1: whoop his motherfuckers. If you're gonna fight, you know, if
Speaker 1: we're gonna go, we're gonna go. Yes, that's what it's about. So,
Speaker 1: but you're not supposed to have sex with like I
Speaker 1: don't know, like anything, you know, like your friend's boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Sometimes that stuff just happen boyfriend. Ever, sometimes that stuff
Speaker 1: just happened a coworker. But I'm talking about the way
Speaker 1: you even find the person. It'd be so weird, so weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you're thinking about something specific. So
Speaker 1: why don't you that you weren't supposed to have sex
Speaker 1: with everybody? No man kissing everybody. I'm not saying specifically
Speaker 1: a person, but like a example of like who should
Speaker 1: you not be having sex with? Probably somebody who you
Speaker 1: can work with, said the work. It could be it
Speaker 1: could be a co worker, it could be a family acquaintance. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: very much. So, I mean I don't see something that
Speaker 1: just just gotta be on the low, Like we don't
Speaker 1: really want people to find out about that that that
Speaker 1: that could be enough to make you feel like I
Speaker 1: think you people you know somebody you're not supposed to
Speaker 1: have sex with something you know connect at any time.
Speaker 1: Sex is the best sex sex with something you know.
Speaker 1: Like for me, and when I'm thinking of it, somebody
Speaker 1: I know I can't have anything else with besides sex
Speaker 1: that doesn't take me anywhere except when except when the
Speaker 1: sex is really good. That's the only thing that's the
Speaker 1: only time it's like this is I don't know I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to do this, but it's just amazing, so I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do it. You think the best sex is always
Speaker 1: with somebody that you have really deep feelings for, or
Speaker 1: just the physical thing. Sometimes it could just be the passion. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean somebody could be so passionate, like I like
Speaker 1: to suck the bottom up. Sometimes I'm saying that could
Speaker 1: be the that could be the number one I was
Speaker 1: thinking of something else. I saw all of that. I'm
Speaker 1: just telling you. Could you be with a guy who
Speaker 1: doesn't like kissing, Stephanie, No, I can't. I can't have
Speaker 1: sex with somebody who doesn't kiss the guys who has
Speaker 1: who have sex with him and not kissing them at all. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all know, y'all know why right? Because they hope no,
Speaker 1: because they don't want to get connection. They don't think
Speaker 1: y'all got that passionate connection. You just want to fuck
Speaker 1: right exactly, will kiss you for what. That's how he feels.
Speaker 1: That's what I meant by saying it ain't even mean
Speaker 1: a home. He just don't feel like that got This
Speaker 1: could be a fourth time having sex in her whole life.
Speaker 1: She could be a virgin. Yeah, but he don't feel
Speaker 1: like they got y. Yeah, he don't feel that level
Speaker 1: with her. He like, I want to nut and I
Speaker 1: want to leave. Would you want to be with a
Speaker 1: virgin if you had the opportunity? I wouldn't. But I
Speaker 1: don't think I could do it because I I'm a
Speaker 1: little more experienced. I'm like in the college. And she
Speaker 1: was like what what if? She said, I'm twenty eight.
Speaker 1: I wanted to wait till I got married, but I
Speaker 1: really want to have sex with you. Could you please
Speaker 1: take my virginity? Oh my god? That she was decent looking,
Speaker 1: nice feet speak. I take it around apart. I drive
Speaker 1: around apart because somebody would I will suck ahead up
Speaker 1: though I wouldn't like it would be some other ship
Speaker 1: we wouldn't like. It wouldn't be the most natural way.
Speaker 1: I would have to do something crazy I would have
Speaker 1: I would have to set the standard just because I'm
Speaker 1: I'm that kind of nigga. Any any the only way
Speaker 1: we can't work again if we before, if you're married.
Speaker 1: In my mind, oh so once you talked about you
Speaker 1: should always be able to I don't say that, but
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm not an asshole when I'm
Speaker 1: with you, and and I'm a gentleman like even if
Speaker 1: we fucking, I'm still a gentleman like. I'm not an
Speaker 1: asshole with you, to the point where you'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm never sucked again, so you kind of you could
Speaker 1: be like, he don't want to be my man. So
Speaker 1: you meet a guy, but that dick was still bombed though,
Speaker 1: so you don't mind being a side guy, Like if
Speaker 1: I sucked you before, but now you got a man.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It depends on what well I am
Speaker 1: in my music career. I might just have enough time
Speaker 1: to be the side guy. What if she was really
Speaker 1: good and bad though, you wouldn't mind, you know, even
Speaker 1: if she was I don't know. I might be. I
Speaker 1: might be I might be trying to see it a
Speaker 1: little more often. I can't. Do you remember losing your virginity?
Speaker 1: What was that like? Crazy? How old were you? Oh? Man,
Speaker 1: here you go, you to say that you were really young.
Speaker 1: I have a feeling you're gonna say you were really young. Alright,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just ask you what age you think. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you the truth. You think, oh ship, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was gonna sae and then, oh my god, that
Speaker 1: is young. Was it with your cousin or something? Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, you don't do that. You don't do that.
Speaker 1: I don't know she was gonna say that, but I said,
Speaker 1: I never beend with any of my cousins. I've heard
Speaker 1: some stories Church. That's the freakiest girls you meet. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say that. But if she was from church,
Speaker 1: how was she? She was older than me, so she
Speaker 1: wasn't a virgen. She knew what she was doing. But
Speaker 1: of course I act like I do every Nike laugh, guy,
Speaker 1: gonna take your person? How did you know what to
Speaker 1: do at eleven? Like? I mean, come on, god, if
Speaker 1: nobody know, guys know what to do before they they
Speaker 1: can't wait to show they know what to do? What
Speaker 1: did they think they know what to do? Every every
Speaker 1: guy's like that, like, yeah, because I always want to
Speaker 1: how did you learn how to have sex? How do
Speaker 1: you even know? Like this when I love my viriginity
Speaker 1: practice when I lost my virginity, we lost our virginity together,
Speaker 1: and we were really young too, we were like twelve
Speaker 1: and thirteen, and we didn't know what we was doing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was doing. I'm sure she
Speaker 1: could tell that I was lying by the time I
Speaker 1: was in it? Were you quick? It's Michael Jordan ball
Speaker 1: Head a minute, but you know, And was that the
Speaker 1: only time y'all did it? Nah? Perfect? I had a
Speaker 1: chance to come back, you know and try to get
Speaker 1: my act together. Okay, Yeah, you know what sometimes if
Speaker 1: guys are wacking, but they always went the next chance. Nigga,
Speaker 1: especially especially if it's worth it, Like a nigga could
Speaker 1: be in love with anything, he could want his second
Speaker 1: chances to regain his confidence back. His commidence could be
Speaker 1: left in your pussy, girl, I'll tell you, like that
Speaker 1: was I gotta because look, if you're whacked right with
Speaker 1: a chick and she's like all right, and you could
Speaker 1: tell she's not satisfied. Do you feel like you have
Speaker 1: to explain? Now? I see how my toy with juice. Honestly, thoways,
Speaker 1: I just want to try to keep her as so
Speaker 1: I can get my next round. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Whatever you could do to keep you here, Like, what
Speaker 1: if she's like that, my er be here in ten minutes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's why. That's why I said from the gate,
Speaker 1: take your time, take your time, take your time. I
Speaker 1: think that should be your tip for the fellas. Take
Speaker 1: that five minutes and you might get a lot of license.
Speaker 1: You only get one impression. What can the women do
Speaker 1: to make a great first impression on you in the bedroom?
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's a few things, but I've never
Speaker 1: gonna asked the question. I think what turns me on
Speaker 1: is what I see, what I it's not about some time,
Speaker 1: ain't about what she do knowing that I like her.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's what you do without even know what I'm watching.
Speaker 1: That That's what really do it for me, what I'm saying, Um,
Speaker 1: but in the bed room, I just love a woman
Speaker 1: that's really like a womanly woman. Just be sexy, just
Speaker 1: be you, just be just beat. Don't just be e
Speaker 1: period and don't tell me no. Don't tell me no
Speaker 1: and mean it for real, for real, like I could
Speaker 1: tell when you're saying no, no, but don't tell me no.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like like um, like some women don't
Speaker 1: like shortain positions. But that's probably because something gain't really
Speaker 1: rocked it right, true, so let test it out. Let
Speaker 1: me so let me not test it out, but just
Speaker 1: let me ease my way to show you that it
Speaker 1: ain't that bad and try with me and then you know.
Speaker 1: But that's what I mean by no. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I've learned from other people, from you know,
Speaker 1: other people's stories and newis headlines. You don't do things
Speaker 1: like that, you know now, being that your name is
Speaker 1: b J the Chicago kid. Would you there come during
Speaker 1: sex or during a blowjob, depending on how much time
Speaker 1: I got mm hmm. Because sometimes if a girl, say
Speaker 1: a girl is giving you a head and you know
Speaker 1: you're about to bust, are you like stop waiting if
Speaker 1: she if she spit on it because she got the motion,
Speaker 1: I might be gone. Is that a better like orgasm
Speaker 1: than sex? No? Because sometimes the head not, because sometimes
Speaker 1: it is a different feeling but if the nigg is
Speaker 1: sitting there, imagine what imagine? Or he said, that's the thing,
Speaker 1: what do he think about? It's all in your mind.
Speaker 1: She she's remember what I'm saying somebody, But it is
Speaker 1: all in the mind. So it's really about what you're
Speaker 1: thinking about. Sometimes, honestly, what most of the time me
Speaker 1: the head be is so good. I'm like funk that
Speaker 1: I won't in I think I say that. I think
Speaker 1: I say the same words, I won't you give a
Speaker 1: warning before you come give me that pussy? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: want her to warn me too, because there's certain things
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do when she's coming. So I'm gon enhance
Speaker 1: that much as I possibly can. Why I'm looking at
Speaker 1: the wall man talking to y'all because it's going back,
Speaker 1: he's going back. It's just trick like that. I'm into sex.
Speaker 1: I like that guys should give a warning before they
Speaker 1: come down. I think every woman should too. I think
Speaker 1: they do sometimes warning. Sometimes you you could be hitting
Speaker 1: from the back and you just okay, yeah, I see
Speaker 1: you just came. Understand you see the evidence. She could
Speaker 1: say women women is good for that. Sometimes we can't
Speaker 1: say it. Sometimes we just can't. It's just put your
Speaker 1: head up and see what your face talking about. The
Speaker 1: face doesn't lie. And I mean I know when he's
Speaker 1: coming when it starts. Every about to say, every every thrive,
Speaker 1: he's gonna jump, He's gonna jump. But yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: he better stop. Come out and take that. Girls, guys,
Speaker 1: um every time a girl comes, it thrives too. So
Speaker 1: if she's I'm coming and there's no trust me, I understand.
Speaker 1: I look, I watched I look at everything. Yeah, everything
Speaker 1: has a girl squared it on you. You love it
Speaker 1: the way you said I could tell yeah, real man
Speaker 1: love it. I think it's I think you love that.
Speaker 1: I think it's a gift. I think it's a gift.
Speaker 1: I think some women. I've talked to some women about it.
Speaker 1: In section that I'm gonna read, I'm gonna try to say, hey,
Speaker 1: please do please please yourself. I said that before on
Speaker 1: this show, that I was going to try to teach
Speaker 1: myself to square. I haven't gotten there yet. I think
Speaker 1: it's amazing. The vibrator. I'm telling you it will make
Speaker 1: you score. I need to buy new toys. You order
Speaker 1: this one if you can't find them in the store,
Speaker 1: I guarantee you is gonna make you square. I guarrantee it.
Speaker 1: I feel like we should get a discount on toys
Speaker 1: or something, you know what I mean called candy burs.
Speaker 1: We should have partroom if you get some bedroom candy
Speaker 1: from Candy Barry. I can't believe y'all got me talking
Speaker 1: like this. Taylor, you better turn this damn Thank God
Speaker 1: for what happened. Best lip service. Now we were talking
Speaker 1: about this earlier. How do you feel about women asking
Speaker 1: you for money? Like if you're dating somebody y'all, don't
Speaker 1: went out a few times and she's like, I need
Speaker 1: to get my hair done, you know, I mean nail.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not really like that kind of guy
Speaker 1: that you were not going just see, didn't want to
Speaker 1: do what I do? Now, what did I say? A
Speaker 1: real niggas do what they do naturally. It's not about
Speaker 1: you asking. So if he did it, he probably did before.
Speaker 1: You haven't had to ask, you know. But what if
Speaker 1: she's like, listen, I'm in a kind of a tight situation.
Speaker 1: You know, you know that story ain't new. Like every
Speaker 1: every real nig a real woman, she want to look good.
Speaker 1: That's why you're working with in the first place. From
Speaker 1: the jump. So why wouldn't you try to think that
Speaker 1: needs to be continued? Why you would have I feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, if you're gonna do something to get but
Speaker 1: you gotta keep it, keep it up to keep me
Speaker 1: all right. So you don't say you don't mind giving
Speaker 1: her some money to get a hair done, I mean
Speaker 1: you don't mind taking care of your girl. Man, Listen, man,
Speaker 1: you gotta take care of a woman, expect especially if
Speaker 1: she could take care of herself. But what I was
Speaker 1: seeing in the room, he said, especially if she can
Speaker 1: take care of That's what I'm saying. A man that's
Speaker 1: not going to want to do something for you that
Speaker 1: you can't provide for yourself. You can't be a reboke
Speaker 1: wearing bitch asking for Lubertin's if you can't buy but
Speaker 1: not a lot on Jordan's. But that's not what I'm home.
Speaker 1: We're talking about a different type of stuff. You got
Speaker 1: a roll legs on with the Rebouds. Were talking about
Speaker 1: whole different situation. But what I'm saying is you can't
Speaker 1: be on a on a regular level to provide for
Speaker 1: yourself on a regular level, and then the man a
Speaker 1: guy to provide for you on the higher level, like
Speaker 1: you gotta trying to match. Like, honestly, I wouldn't mind
Speaker 1: help you if like you just literally um, it's some
Speaker 1: woman that got so much driving, you see so much
Speaker 1: and life could literally just be throwing her fucked up
Speaker 1: car right now. It's like it's it's it's the reality
Speaker 1: of its some some women you know, she ain't. She
Speaker 1: ain't gave me when you could tell, honestly my family
Speaker 1: that that was. You know, guys say, oh, the girl
Speaker 1: who doesn't for anything gets everything. No, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1: That's what I said downstairs, right, that's got to say.
Speaker 1: But the clothes mouth don't get fair. And sometimes you
Speaker 1: came around. You just got to be me. I can't
Speaker 1: ask you don't even know you need it. I can't
Speaker 1: ask for anything. And if you don't know the female
Speaker 1: like that, she sometimes she comes she get what she did.
Speaker 1: I'm the type of girl I get what I want
Speaker 1: and then I'm at the store calling my man like, babe,
Speaker 1: I'm picking us up. You want me to get this
Speaker 1: for you? You know like that, Ok, Yeah, that's the
Speaker 1: type of said. But I can't ask. It's hard for
Speaker 1: me to ask for things because I don't like, I
Speaker 1: don't like the jet I don't like I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: so I'll just go get amazine. You asked a guy
Speaker 1: for something and he's like, you know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't like later maybe I don't like it and
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Just when I want something, I
Speaker 1: go get it. And I said, because clearly if I'm
Speaker 1: asking you, I really need it, or I'm asking you
Speaker 1: for a reason because I really didn't need it, didn't
Speaker 1: want it. I wouldn't ask it. Take everything, and you
Speaker 1: to ask somebody for anything, right, and I can't for yourself.
Speaker 1: If you can ask somebody so fast, you can always.
Speaker 1: I used to hate to ask my daddy things, my
Speaker 1: momma ask even I don't want to forget it. I
Speaker 1: don't need it, And that's time about life, Like I
Speaker 1: don't like asking. I never had to ask anybody for anything.
Speaker 1: To be honest, I've always been able to do it exactly.
Speaker 1: Some things I can't do myself. So I'll be like, yo,
Speaker 1: I mean not expertise, man, Yo, I need you to mean.
Speaker 1: I mean financially and you know, materialistically. I've had guys
Speaker 1: do amazing things for me, and I'm very grateful for
Speaker 1: those things. But I will say I did not ask
Speaker 1: for anything. I'm not I never asked nahoes. But do
Speaker 1: you think that I never accept something from a guy
Speaker 1: that you don't like? Does that? What does that mean?
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I don't. I don't even think I put
Speaker 1: myself in that position sex. I think for my guy, like,
Speaker 1: what if somebody just send you what about you? I've
Speaker 1: I feel like I think, yeah, I think first of all,
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to accept anything from anybody. I
Speaker 1: have to really like you for me to be like,
Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with you doing something for me and not
Speaker 1: have ten times if you give me something and I
Speaker 1: don't like it and I accept, I accepted, You're still
Speaker 1: not getting nowhere with me. You just throw your cup
Speaker 1: on the floor. You could have some more. But like,
Speaker 1: what's the best president girl ever got you? Uh? Damn uh?
Speaker 1: I spoiled myself number one. I don't have any kids,
Speaker 1: singlep myself. But what's the best president girl ever? Got you?
Speaker 1: Probably something that I thought was fresh, And I probably
Speaker 1: said that around her because she knew I liked it.
Speaker 1: Thought yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. For guys and entertainment, they
Speaker 1: got everything. I mean, you know, some things like we
Speaker 1: don't even know yet some women know. Like I used
Speaker 1: to tell I want an artie type girl, but I
Speaker 1: want to go there. I could go to art galleries
Speaker 1: with all kind of ship. You can't doing the hood.
Speaker 1: The's like, nigga, everybody got problems. Nigga, you're around and
Speaker 1: catch her and she have all type of mental issues. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so like you just chilling and don't even rush that
Speaker 1: kind of thing. You just take your time and rock me.
Speaker 1: But I'm not really into you know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: the whole stick on that. But I'm sure somebody's got
Speaker 1: something you thought was really thoughtful, Like oh wow, I
Speaker 1: mean for my birthday, she said, Yo, honestly, I don't
Speaker 1: even got no money, but she gave me a CD right,
Speaker 1: and the CD had everybody who I haven't talked to
Speaker 1: the ages and he left like voicemails. I was that
Speaker 1: was when you were young. She was dope. So that
Speaker 1: was dope. That was dope. That was Now that's a nice,
Speaker 1: stoughtful president. That is a thoughtful president. That made I
Speaker 1: just bought a nigga a pair of easies, those black easies,
Speaker 1: and you just made my gift like so whack somebody.
Speaker 1: It doesn't even matter. Oh so he didn't get them yet. No, No,
Speaker 1: he's not gonna. I know somebody to know a couple
Speaker 1: of guys that might take market. Let me know, now,
Speaker 1: the brand in the box I love. I love women
Speaker 1: with that that have nice shoes and they're always about feet.
Speaker 1: Shoes is a big shoes, a very sexy and it
Speaker 1: gives a person a little bit more about your personality
Speaker 1: to right. I mean that what if you were did
Speaker 1: in a girl and she couldn't really you know, she
Speaker 1: came up and she had on some fake ship and
Speaker 1: you could tell what continue really And I'm not like that,
Speaker 1: and I'm not telling her you don't got it. Con
Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell her no. And honestly, it
Speaker 1: would knockles. I think, I think you know, every all
Speaker 1: the ladies and the guys listening to lip service with knockles.
Speaker 1: You could get something nice that's not a designer like
Speaker 1: the lady. You can get a beautiful excuse me, you
Speaker 1: could get a beautiful leather handbag that's not a designer,
Speaker 1: but it's a good leather bag and it looks really nice.
Speaker 1: You know. I always got to be about the Louis
Speaker 1: and the Gucci. Yeah, you know you're looking crazy running
Speaker 1: around with from the clothes from asked the close to
Speaker 1: it you can did Navy. You gotta have luminum foil
Speaker 1: skulls on your shirt, man, like exactly, you could get
Speaker 1: you could get nice clothes from from Clean and it's
Speaker 1: put on and it's your birth time. Come on, let's not.
Speaker 1: Let's not. I'm just let me explain something to you.
Speaker 1: Let's not act like we wasn't hood when we was
Speaker 1: kids and you didn't know how to figure it out.
Speaker 1: And some people still figure it out. It too because
Speaker 1: of this generation to give you other stores and better
Speaker 1: selection options. Man, you can figure it out man, right
Speaker 1: exactly how generation you can wear a nice pair of
Speaker 1: shell to to be just a fly to me? To me,
Speaker 1: you could be clean. It's about being clean, not fresh.
Speaker 1: Clean is fresh. From when I was a kid, there
Speaker 1: wasn't a lot of in between, like like you were
Speaker 1: good wearing the gap, but then it was like rainbow.
Speaker 1: It's like no in between. It's like either the gap
Speaker 1: and that was like expensive for us. That like eighty
Speaker 1: dollar jeans was expensive, you know, and you gotta put
Speaker 1: that ship together right, and you gotta put it together
Speaker 1: and then from there's the designer stuff. Yeah exactly. Now
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, if a guy gave you
Speaker 1: some jewelry, would you get it appraised? Yes, good question,
Speaker 1: get it appraised? Because my first the first time I
Speaker 1: got engaged, then he gave me a fake ring and
Speaker 1: I was mad at him and I went upon it
Speaker 1: and he was like, boo, I can give you like
Speaker 1: a hundred dollars for that gold. I was like, oh, really, damn.
Speaker 1: So what if you were mad at him and you
Speaker 1: went to get it a praise and found out it
Speaker 1: was faked? Then I don't know. I don't know what
Speaker 1: if he had because like I would have expected to
Speaker 1: the day we get married. Crazy about I would play games,
Speaker 1: I would play all kind No, but what's crazy about it? No?
Speaker 1: But what's crazy about it is that we he would
Speaker 1: everywhere we would go, he would brag how he spent
Speaker 1: on this ringing everywhere we went and he would brack.
Speaker 1: So I got mad at him. I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get this money for this ring, and
Speaker 1: he's gonna be super mad. I went out to take
Speaker 1: it out and the guy looked at me. He was like, no,
Speaker 1: he actually probably was really happy he gave your as
Speaker 1: a fake ring. No exactly that point it was like
Speaker 1: listen no. But for me it was like, you know,
Speaker 1: you're such a liar, you lie by. I would have
Speaker 1: accepted the ring like seen, I was seven, Seen my
Speaker 1: favorite Why everybody missed that part of Oh my god,
Speaker 1: everybody missed that? Nes that that's the best when that
Speaker 1: that's my favorite part. But it was funny because it
Speaker 1: was funny because when I when I confronted him about it,
Speaker 1: he was like, what bring it the ring? I gotta
Speaker 1: take it back to the store. I got to take
Speaker 1: it back. Sure, and I was seventeen. I would have
Speaker 1: accepted that it was a fake ring. I would have
Speaker 1: been cool, you know, like it's fine, gave me a ring,
Speaker 1: it's you don't you want to marry me? I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: So you're saying yes to getting something in praise. If
Speaker 1: you're Gonta gave you some jewelry like a ring, yeah,
Speaker 1: would you be thing if you gave a female at present,
Speaker 1: like say you got her a chain or watching something
Speaker 1: and she went and got the praise, Yeah, I would,
Speaker 1: m I would you would only because if I am
Speaker 1: proved to you a type of quality nigga. That would
Speaker 1: be that I would be offended because of that because
Speaker 1: I do ship right. I don't like Yeah, if if
Speaker 1: my past ain't showed you that I'm a g give me,
Speaker 1: give me, just give me the ring back. That's a deal.
Speaker 1: Like if I get it's not a deal breaker, but
Speaker 1: it's serious to me, like like I would. I've never
Speaker 1: thought about that like that till now. Like that is
Speaker 1: serious only because I know when I do it, you
Speaker 1: could tell that I do ship right. Yeah, I agree
Speaker 1: with details, separate the reel from the rest, and I
Speaker 1: always make sure the details is right, and I make
Speaker 1: sure you look at my details to understand how details
Speaker 1: I am. So if I give you this ring, you
Speaker 1: don't know what, don't tell me you did it. Just
Speaker 1: don't tell me. No. But I feel like that's another thing.
Speaker 1: That's why got the ring. You broke bum nigga faces
Speaker 1: ring fake to go with your little dick glass. I
Speaker 1: don't take fair. Rings are coming fast fast. Nigga can't
Speaker 1: stay in the pussy long and even fuck me, always
Speaker 1: gotta take five minutes, always five minute. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: y'all got me weak him? No, but I agree, but
Speaker 1: I agree like the time, who the gift is coming from?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like if I give the Easies,
Speaker 1: the nigga should know they're real. I'm trying to try
Speaker 1: to go to Adidas that see if they're really you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I would I would see any
Speaker 1: gift that I want to give you. What about somebody
Speaker 1: gives you a president you don't really like it? Can you?
Speaker 1: Would you exchange it? Or would you tell her you
Speaker 1: don't like it? That's a good question. I would keep it.
Speaker 1: I would try to find somewhere to get if I
Speaker 1: could really could use it, and I really care about
Speaker 1: their feelings, I wouldn't. I wouldn't funk with their feelings
Speaker 1: because some people will never buy you that never again
Speaker 1: got them like back be better in the morning. What
Speaker 1: if it was awful and she was like, how come
Speaker 1: you don't never wear that? Like the ants with Martin
Speaker 1: the episode was terrible, But I would try. I'll trying
Speaker 1: to try to use it. I really would I just
Speaker 1: let it sit there like I ain't throw it away?
Speaker 1: Still here here. What if you got to a piece
Speaker 1: of art, say for your house, that you hated it
Speaker 1: was ugly, you didn't want to hang it up with
Speaker 1: the most dopeish artists ugly so I could. But you
Speaker 1: didn't like it. I'll figure it out if I cared
Speaker 1: about it. If I cared about it, I figured out.
Speaker 1: I gave um. I used to be. I was a
Speaker 1: personal assistant. I gave my boys to painting. I bought
Speaker 1: um like on the street in l A. It was
Speaker 1: like Jimmy Hendrix and he hated it. But off the street, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he hated it. And I swore it was a thoughtful giff.
Speaker 1: I thought he would love it. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It was a long time ago. It was
Speaker 1: a long side of a scarface poster. No, he hated it.
Speaker 1: But no scar face has a painting on the wall
Speaker 1: he has. He put it up. He hated it. He said,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put it there. He said, I'll put it
Speaker 1: there just because it came from you. What's the worst
Speaker 1: gift you guys have a guy? Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: had a few. I dated this guy and he gave
Speaker 1: me like, um, it was my birthday, now, mind you,
Speaker 1: when it was his birthday, I went all out got
Speaker 1: him all this stuff. So then my birthday rolls around
Speaker 1: and he gets me like some handmade purse from somebody
Speaker 1: from his job. Now, I would think that you know
Speaker 1: me well enough. I'm fine with a thoughtful present. I'm
Speaker 1: not carrying a homemade purse. It wasn't cute either, but
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, this woman in my job. I
Speaker 1: was like, you clearly don't know me, but you know,
Speaker 1: I try to be gracious because I think if you
Speaker 1: give somebody a present, it's a thought that counts. But
Speaker 1: I just thought it didn't have a lot of thought
Speaker 1: in it. What about you? I was sitting here trying
Speaker 1: to think. I can't even I don't know what you got.
Speaker 1: You gotta whack preser it some. He was like, now,
Speaker 1: this is some bullshit, and sometimes you try to hold
Speaker 1: on to it and be nice and everything, but you
Speaker 1: just don't want the worst held the worst. If I
Speaker 1: ever got somebody gave me a fake watch, I got
Speaker 1: that too, a fake Cardier watch. How did you know
Speaker 1: years ago? Because it came in plastic rapping, like it
Speaker 1: didn't even come in the red box. It came in
Speaker 1: like the and I was just like, I know, I
Speaker 1: knew it was fakes. As he handed it to me,
Speaker 1: was like that, I don't know. I guess he thought
Speaker 1: I was younger, didn't know because it was I was
Speaker 1: like twenty years and he was like he was like
Speaker 1: one of my strip club regulars. He asked me what
Speaker 1: I wanted for Christmas and I was like, I want
Speaker 1: a nice watch, and he's like, oh, that's nothing, and
Speaker 1: then he gave me and it was like in the
Speaker 1: serene like you know how you get your hair and
Speaker 1: being that rapper, it was like rapper fellas. Every woman
Speaker 1: has given you a clue of something that she likes
Speaker 1: at some point. Just shut the funk up and listen.
Speaker 1: It's the best I can say. The worst GIF I
Speaker 1: ever got was a nice gift, but the way it
Speaker 1: was presented to me it was mean and dick in
Speaker 1: a box. No, that's funny, No, I was. It was
Speaker 1: an air mask scarf. Okay, that's a beautiful present. It's
Speaker 1: a really nice present, but the way it was presented
Speaker 1: to me, it was presented to me in a big box.
Speaker 1: So I thought it was a purse. And that's terrible
Speaker 1: because it was because it's a lot of love in it,
Speaker 1: like it was Fox. No, yeah, it wasn't you know
Speaker 1: the scarves they come in in the flat box. It wasn't.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a square box. It wasn't like that's like
Speaker 1: if somebody gives you a little back and you think
Speaker 1: it's a ring and then you open it and it's
Speaker 1: like an errand no. But I really love the gift.
Speaker 1: I don't want to sound ungrateful. I really did. But
Speaker 1: he did it on purpose, like it was it was
Speaker 1: a joke. He did it on purpose. It was mean.
Speaker 1: He was like, I used to play all kind of
Speaker 1: tricks that. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm gonna laugh
Speaker 1: with you and we're gonna laugh at each other, like
Speaker 1: like I would. Yeahs I would just go buy sneakers
Speaker 1: and she's like, you ain't buy me them? For what?
Speaker 1: I want to buy you something clothing. She go on
Speaker 1: her bathroom, used the bathroom. They sitting there tub just
Speaker 1: some igor ship. Yeah, you say, you broke bum You're
Speaker 1: going to bathroom now. I'm like, no, what, Yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I take your back, You're not broken, come here. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I really liked the gift. It was just
Speaker 1: presented to me in a funny way. So I was
Speaker 1: a little bit heartbroken. You gotta have something more than
Speaker 1: the scarf, and there the worst is if somebody just
Speaker 1: doesn't like I had a boyfriend that it would be
Speaker 1: my birthday. And he always said he grew up the
Speaker 1: Hope Witness and that was his reason. But it would
Speaker 1: be like my birthday. And I'm like, like, oh, no gifts.
Speaker 1: He's like, well, you know, I wend that's like day
Speaker 1: in the Muslim she can't tell you to what to
Speaker 1: celebrate Christmas and birthdays. They don't, But I don't care.
Speaker 1: I dated a Muslim and he brought me something for
Speaker 1: my birthday. M It didn't mean if you wouldn't of
Speaker 1: I would have. I wouldn't have cared because I liked
Speaker 1: him so much. Listen, guys break all the rules if
Speaker 1: they really like you. Yeah, I didn't make any my pussy.
Speaker 1: I liked him so much, so it didn't even matter.
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting it, guess because he's a he's a
Speaker 1: he's strong about his religion, so I wasn't expecting anything.
Speaker 1: He took me to dinner and he brought me a gift.
Speaker 1: Would you change your religion for somebody? No? I can't
Speaker 1: give up Christ for Dick. No. No, I wouldn't change
Speaker 1: my religion for a man. I went. I thought about it, though,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lost about it. Yeah. I thought about it.
Speaker 1: Like I said, I was, I was dating a Muslim.
Speaker 1: You were Muslim, and he made me um, He made
Speaker 1: me interested in the Muslim faith. So I I studied
Speaker 1: it a little bit and I was very intrigued. You
Speaker 1: was intrigued into your found out you had to cover
Speaker 1: up all that face and body, and he was like,
Speaker 1: mus Rooms. There's different animals Ms. Yeah, there are different
Speaker 1: kinds of Muslims. And you know, I just when it
Speaker 1: came down to it at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I can't. My religion has been really good to me
Speaker 1: so far, so I'm not going to just give it
Speaker 1: up now because I'm in love. It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1: What about if a guy tells you that he didn't
Speaker 1: believe in God. My my brother is atheist? Oh is he? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And every I see him and I'm like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: so good to see you. God bless you, and he
Speaker 1: looks at me like really bit. But I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with not believing in God.
Speaker 1: You believe whatever you want to believe. There's people believe
Speaker 1: in to be with somebody, they could you be with
Speaker 1: a woman who doesn't believe in God. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could marry someone or being I
Speaker 1: don't think I could even be in a serious relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm not judging, and I can't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to be with and yeah I would. I'd be
Speaker 1: scared to have sex with somebody to be I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to do that either. I couldn't be with somebody
Speaker 1: who don't believe in God. Yeah, I'm not judging anybody
Speaker 1: that wants to be well, you know, for her her
Speaker 1: brother an atheist. I can understand. Yeah, that's what I said.
Speaker 1: I understand. I just I don't think I could personally
Speaker 1: be with somebody. I don't. I don't think I could
Speaker 1: me and you a couple for life and now it's
Speaker 1: gonna be gonna clash for and I kind of would
Speaker 1: um and And I would like to be with a
Speaker 1: man who you know, does the cross over his food
Speaker 1: and praise over his meals, and praise before he goes
Speaker 1: to sleep, and praise when he wakes up. I would
Speaker 1: like that, but not all guys. That would you be
Speaker 1: with a girl who had a hairy pussy shape that
Speaker 1: that's easy, but she want to if her preference was
Speaker 1: people bush, could you be with the bus? Really? Some
Speaker 1: guys like that, I like, I like, I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at the strip, but just like a little you know,
Speaker 1: I used to think this guy used to be like,
Speaker 1: just let it go. I don't want you to me too.
Speaker 1: I can't get mad. I can't. I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: get into my game. You know what I'm saying, what's
Speaker 1: your game? His mouth and little service? You mouth everything
Speaker 1: everything that, everything that that that'll mess with everything. Do
Speaker 1: you eat but too you adn't grossies? Yeah, yo, you
Speaker 1: actually just actually have to do you eat? But it
Speaker 1: was like it was like down. I think I think
Speaker 1: every guy probably accidentally licks nobody accidentally, and my guy
Speaker 1: that my guy drinks water in the room. It's possible.
Speaker 1: It's possible. I'm saying. I said, I didn't say eat,
Speaker 1: c I said you accidentally lick it, and you said
Speaker 1: accidentally eat. It's two different things. I'm very good with
Speaker 1: these words. I write them, write them, write them. So yeah,
Speaker 1: but you do so you do do it with who
Speaker 1: I was with, But you don't go down and go
Speaker 1: right for that. That doesn't make it unless unless you
Speaker 1: are some drugs and you just on some whole other ship.
Speaker 1: You got to be termed. I can't remember are killing
Speaker 1: on the sex was for a super loan in a
Speaker 1: office chair with a red T shirt on it, and
Speaker 1: I was about that and I was trying to fast
Speaker 1: forward it. It was going on still for a long time,
Speaker 1: even on fast Ford. Oh my god. I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, this is getting boring. No, it was getting bored.
Speaker 1: But it was like, huh, I din't even see that
Speaker 1: part happened. I was like, what else is gonna happen?
Speaker 1: What when you say the freakiest thing you ever did, Um,
Speaker 1: it ain't even the freakiest thing. It's freakiest places, freakiest
Speaker 1: time to do. It is things happen spur at the moment.
Speaker 1: Will you a good guy? You just like to have
Speaker 1: fun and that you enjoy that. You probably do some
Speaker 1: things you've never done before sometimes, you know, do you
Speaker 1: get up in shower after sex? Yeah, it's very important.
Speaker 1: You're supposed shower before sex too, I think personally very staneous.
Speaker 1: You don't think you should if you can, why not?
Speaker 1: If you can, Yeah, you can't. You know, it's not
Speaker 1: it's not like you can always be alright, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go on a shower. It's not like that. But if
Speaker 1: if the time is set in its relaxing, you know,
Speaker 1: you can actually take I would prefer you to take
Speaker 1: a shower because I have definitely I use baby wipes, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I believe in very so that just lets you know
Speaker 1: how much I really believe in. But I think, um,
Speaker 1: I think God should take a shower before after sex soon.
Speaker 1: But girls, the thing is, when you take a shower
Speaker 1: before sex, you're kind of taking away all the juices,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So you like the marination,
Speaker 1: you gotta start everything. I've been marinating all day, not
Speaker 1: just so. Maybe it's just in the right timing. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's just me wording it the right way. But if,
Speaker 1: of course I've taken it, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I think after sex and it's good to just
Speaker 1: lay there, you know, if a second, not even for
Speaker 1: a second, I don't mind. That's that's where you'd be like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like the wash rig, I'm gonna roll over and just
Speaker 1: go to sleep. Go get him a wash cloth, let
Speaker 1: him just you know, you gotta get a warm wash cloth.
Speaker 1: And fellers don't put the soap on for us. Let
Speaker 1: us put on soap. All women can't take our women.
Speaker 1: Every women woman is different. The soap you used might
Speaker 1: not be that. Yeah, with the rag, give it to
Speaker 1: a hot open the door and if he came to fast,
Speaker 1: give him the cold wash cloth and some juice. Could
Speaker 1: that restart, bro juice? We're gonna up up. And then
Speaker 1: now you're the type of person that after you say,
Speaker 1: after you have sex and after you come do you
Speaker 1: have to cover yourself up because you don't want her
Speaker 1: to see it a little now they don't want to
Speaker 1: see a little. I just always just do that anyway.
Speaker 1: It's almost like it's almost like reality come back you
Speaker 1: like this. It's just that's just a feeling. It's not
Speaker 1: a conscious And after I'm gonna tell you if you
Speaker 1: if you've had if you have a girlfriend, she's seen
Speaker 1: yo dick at the littlest and at the biggest, it's nothing.
Speaker 1: You should be over that ashamed part, like it should
Speaker 1: be no thing. You shouldn't really want her to see
Speaker 1: it a little though. Sometimes get hard listen, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm just about to tell you. She's like, You're like, no,
Speaker 1: it's not so right. Well, so I know, let it grow.
Speaker 1: I got on the thing, he saying to us, meaning
Speaker 1: that setting though, trying to make me backtrack. Alright, well,
Speaker 1: BJ to Chicago Key, we had a good time with you.
Speaker 1: I was like, what's he gonna be? Like? I know already,
Speaker 1: I know he's a little freaky. How you know that
Speaker 1: because r and we've heard your music. Of course we
Speaker 1: heard you on studio. That was pretty freaking out, you know.
Speaker 1: But then I was like, well, I'm not sure. You
Speaker 1: know you said it's all right. That was that one
Speaker 1: on the level of freaky. That was all right, know,
Speaker 1: so you go deeper and some of my friends have
Speaker 1: had sex to that song a lot though, But I
Speaker 1: know also, you know, obviously if you didn't go for
Speaker 1: you to have sex to the turn up music, you
Speaker 1: own super to the max. But then you know, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: he's working Mary. Mary. He was on tour with Jill Scott.
Speaker 1: I loved Jill Scott. Now she was talking, she really
Speaker 1: great about you on the breakfast. She like Auntianna, big sister,
Speaker 1: she both She asks all type of questions, makes she
Speaker 1: owned the gang on your square folks, right, So I
Speaker 1: was like, let me make sure when it comes through.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't know, We didn't know if you
Speaker 1: were in a relationship, but we learned a lot about
Speaker 1: you today. He said, I'm chewing. He's not looking for
Speaker 1: that right now. I'm married to my music, right I
Speaker 1: ain't looking for much. But you know, building what I'm building.
Speaker 1: You ain't supposed to look for love find you true
Speaker 1: and so let us know, just because we didn't even
Speaker 1: ask you nothing about professionally what you have going on.
Speaker 1: I know I heard this on with Chance to Wrapper,
Speaker 1: But when is the album coming out? Just a weekend?
Speaker 1: Put it out there November, Man, November is from the
Speaker 1: album coming out my birthday month of course. But um,
Speaker 1: the video of Chance with the video of church Desroy
Speaker 1: got with a Chance to Wrapping buddies just dropped us.
Speaker 1: They say it's the number one added song Topping Music
Speaker 1: right now. But jeezy this week. So I'm excited a
Speaker 1: lot of little things happening. I'm just taking my time
Speaker 1: putting the best in the music, standing away from you
Speaker 1: know the craziness. Okay, Well, for all the ladies listening,
Speaker 1: he is single. You learned a lot about the things
Speaker 1: that he likes. That you got your birthday and scop.
Speaker 1: First day, I don't no wonder why you're so amazing,
Speaker 1: But the first day you're on the custole, you still
Speaker 1: got a little bit of SCRUPI or freaking you. I'm
Speaker 1: just freak. I think. I think if if freak was assigned,
Speaker 1: that would just be by side freaky just But I
Speaker 1: think sis, we're very sexual people. Yeah we are. Like
Speaker 1: if we're in a hotel and be chilling, were both
Speaker 1: tied somebody over there, I mean, if he over there
Speaker 1: knocking the hear back, I can't listen, Like if I'm hearing,
Speaker 1: even if it's tired, come on, let's go. This sound
Speaker 1: sound I better? We could sound better than let's go. Yo,
Speaker 1: I'm into that. That's motherfucker time, not that time I
Speaker 1: got you. Do you masturbate a lot? Nah? Not a
Speaker 1: lot everything? Every single one of them. NA guys try
Speaker 1: to lie and say they don't mash the be at all. Listen,
Speaker 1: every guy, every guy, And because I don't choose to
Speaker 1: funk with a girl in every city, I'm in, what
Speaker 1: the you're gonna do with yourself? You got to rub
Speaker 1: that thing out some people next to our having sex.
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do to be with somebody's good. She's
Speaker 1: good for putting a derito in the cheetos. I like
Speaker 1: all kay, thank you so much for thank you like
Speaker 1: making me laughing and having a good time. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Any time doesn't have the slum in the couch you
Speaker 1: can have y'all can have you talk about sex. I'm
Speaker 1: still here looking at the wall and seeing projecting my
Speaker 1: mind over what's going on. And you can always masturbate later.
Speaker 1: But this is not I know. How often do you masturbate?
Speaker 1: I really don't masturbate. You don't have to, No, I
Speaker 1: sure don't. Why don't you masturbate a lot? I resturbated
Speaker 1: three times today. I'm gonna be honest. Part of my
Speaker 1: problem is that I'm always tired. If I'm at home
Speaker 1: and I'm in my bed, I'm gonna fall asleep because
Speaker 1: I'm never really home. But I will say that if
Speaker 1: you do masturbate, that's some of the best leap that
Speaker 1: you can have. Masturbation is a good way to wake up, too.
Speaker 1: I can't wake up every time I wake up. I'm
Speaker 1: always running late. Sex in the morning is best. When
Speaker 1: do y'all think the best time sex? Morning sex and
Speaker 1: drunk sex? And makeup sex. Yeah, I'm with that morning secks,
Speaker 1: drunk socks and makeup. I like, I think just when
Speaker 1: the sun is up. Period, it could be early afternoon.
Speaker 1: I'm like sucking when somebody got to be somewhere else,
Speaker 1: like Nick, I know you at work to look you
Speaker 1: know when the best time to have sex is when
Speaker 1: it's raining out. Yeah, that's a good time. That's the
Speaker 1: best time to have sex period, when it's raining out outside, adventurous,
Speaker 1: when it's putting on, not outside, not in the rain,
Speaker 1: but you six outside. Yeah, come back on the question
Speaker 1: questions when I come back, I'm had sex in the marine.
Speaker 1: I tell you what's overrated, sex in the ocean, sext
Speaker 1: the it's overrated. Yeah, I'll take all the juices again.
Speaker 1: I was trying to star taking over the weekend. That's
Speaker 1: not almost drowned. It sucks thing what I'm coming out
Speaker 1: your nose. I was love it. I was trying to
Speaker 1: deep coming at your nose insane. You get the thanks
Speaker 1: to Ward just for the attempt. And I was like, drowned.
Speaker 1: He don't let me die, sucking dick. Listen, he like,
Speaker 1: keep going, you don't let me drown. Hilarious or like
Speaker 1: you're trying to have sex in the one in the
Speaker 1: ocean and start, or even trying to have sex in
Speaker 1: the shower in the bathroom. That doesn't work. The what
Speaker 1: is getting all up in you depending on the shower.
Speaker 1: I like having sex in the ship shower, not the thing,
Speaker 1: you know, one leg Beyonce lie when she said that
Speaker 1: filled the tub up halfway and rattle my surf, she lied,
Speaker 1: she lied. It don't work. I mean, like in the bathtub.
Speaker 1: Where's the craziest place you have sex that you enjoyed?
Speaker 1: Not saltwater sex, but driving on ninety five. Oh that
Speaker 1: sounds dangerous. Yeah, what about you? Not about that risk
Speaker 1: my life? Jess ready to die for some ready to
Speaker 1: die for some dick driving in the car um. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I don't think in places really crazy.
Speaker 1: Maybe like get a cookout in the bathroom. That's pretty gangster.
Speaker 1: That's good enough for for for really a couple of
Speaker 1: years ago in New Years No, no, a couple of
Speaker 1: years ago and New Year's the clock struck, you know,
Speaker 1: New Year's out, and then we went in the bathroom
Speaker 1: and the club. That was interesting. Everybody has probably did
Speaker 1: the same thing too, for me, The best sex I've
Speaker 1: ever had was in my bedroom, right up in my bedroom.
Speaker 1: Not crazy, that's not crazy. The crazes where it was
Speaker 1: the best of the craziest place. I mean in the rain.
Speaker 1: I don't think it gets any crazier than that. There's
Speaker 1: there's there's neighbors and ship. We don't we were clocks
Speaker 1: having But the best sex I've ever had, you know,
Speaker 1: is in my bedroom, in the room, on the bed.
Speaker 1: Because you're a maker, you're a passionate love me not
Speaker 1: even when I'm getting fun. I like it to be
Speaker 1: in my bedroom. The idea of comfortability, right yeah, sometimes, man,
Speaker 1: the feeling you have in that connection and make you
Speaker 1: not give a funk about comfort and the passion. This
Speaker 1: this feeling is the comfort got them been come like
Speaker 1: the greatest place you ever had sex? Ship? Uh, trying
Speaker 1: to pick I never had sex on the plane, but
Speaker 1: I had sex. Let me see, I didn't ask you.
Speaker 1: It's a crazy place. You didn't have sex. So I'm
Speaker 1: trying to feel out. I'm trying to feel out my
Speaker 1: don't trying to feel out my don'ts in the studio.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've had sex a lot in the studio,
Speaker 1: not a lot. But I've had sex in the studio
Speaker 1: for sure. Okay, you know surprisingly I'm a video vixing
Speaker 1: and I have never had sex and recordings through it all.
Speaker 1: But not it wasn't with it wasn't like it wasn't
Speaker 1: it wasn't like on some motion. It was like on
Speaker 1: some ship that like, this ain't our first time having sex.
Speaker 1: We both wanted each other at the time, and that's
Speaker 1: what I went down. Yeah, Like if he was watching,
Speaker 1: I understand why they did that. You wouldn't be like
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, what about in the booth.
Speaker 1: You did in the booth, not with the mic done.
Speaker 1: You should know every that's not for everybody. That would
Speaker 1: be a great bags. We don't want to hear you
Speaker 1: like I need five minutes, five minutes. She that's the
Speaker 1: ship the five minutes. And I tell you after that
Speaker 1: five minutes, I guaranteed you it's going that you're going
Speaker 1: to give me some juice. It's gonna juice, going to
Speaker 1: give me some juice. If a guy tell him it
Speaker 1: needs five minutes, and it's gonna make him come. If
Speaker 1: you tell him he better not come, Oh, that's make
Speaker 1: a guy comes. No, you want to know where to
Speaker 1: make make a guy come looking at his face and
Speaker 1: telling him coming your pussy. Yeah, that works everything the easiest,
Speaker 1: that's the easiest coming. You don't have to take a
Speaker 1: short cause you just be like and looking at his
Speaker 1: and mean the ship out of it, even though you don't.
Speaker 1: And what if after that, she says, and I'm not
Speaker 1: on the pill? No, you like you got that big?
Speaker 1: Now you got like this. I get on the condom
Speaker 1: on the bed and to be like ship broke, condom break,
Speaker 1: I'm stopping sometimes can you always tell in the condom
Speaker 1: vera yeah, girl, good, yes, yes, you're wait waited. Indeed
Speaker 1: you feel instantly, you know, you know, you know they're different.
Speaker 1: You definitely you never had no scare like a woman
Speaker 1: told you she was pregnant or the baby was yours. No,
Speaker 1: I uh, somebody who I was was pregnant, okay, and
Speaker 1: then it just didn't happen. No, she she didn't have
Speaker 1: an abortion. But you know that I wanted the baby
Speaker 1: that I was in a relationship. I was, you know,
Speaker 1: he washy school. But you know it happens still all right,
Speaker 1: so good well b J to Chicago Kid November is
Speaker 1: the album right now, you can hear this song Church
Speaker 1: with chance to wrap her albums in my mind. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you lip Service and Angela. I'm Stephanie
Speaker 1: Santiago and I'm g G McGuire. You know, a good time,
Speaker 1: Chicago kids,