1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: I never told you, protection I heard you, and welcome 3 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: to another edition of a Happy Hour. As always, if 4 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: you choose to drink or whatever you're choosing to do, 5 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: please do so responsibly. 6 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: Samantha, are you doing things responsibly? 7 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 3: I'm drinking coffee, so a peek behind the curtains. It's 8 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: not quite noon yet, so I can have coffee right now, 9 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: so responsibly, yes, because after about two cannot have the 10 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 3: coffee anymore. The caffeine's so yeah, I'm being responsible. 11 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, now you've exposed me. I drinking rose. That 12 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: press is kind of a morning wine. 13 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: And also we have established that for the next four 14 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: years is port rules, so just be cautious but understand. 15 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: But we understand. 16 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's a good a couple of things. That 17 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: is a good segue into what I want to talk about, 18 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: but which is this is a happy hour, happy happy 19 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:17,839 Speaker 1: I was determined to make. 20 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: It a happy hour. I love it. 21 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: But my mom, I've said before, she buys me for 22 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: like my birthday or any gift giving instance, wine from 23 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: uh North Georgia because there's wineries up there, so this 24 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: is one I have not tried. It's a rose when 25 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: she's constantly asking me like was it good? 26 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 2: Constantly? Is not? 27 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: She asked me frequently ish yes, like did you like it? 28 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: And I haven't tried it yet, so it's my first 29 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: time trying it and I do like it, so I 30 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: can report back to her good. But multitasking, Yeah, I've 31 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: been thinking about multitasking lately because. 32 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: Again somewhat related. 33 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: So the election, as you might imagine, kind of took 34 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: us out for and we were anticipating it. 35 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Like we planned like all all. 36 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: That stuff that came out that week before our reaction episode. 37 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:19,119 Speaker 1: We knew there was a chance we might be too 38 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: depressed to record, so we planned it. 39 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 2: But it means that. 40 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: And plus the holidays coming, like, it's just it's a lot, 41 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: and we don't while we were not going to turn 42 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: away from things we all need, the like happier things 43 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: or the breathers moments like that. And I know, for 44 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: me after I got too choked up to really talk 45 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: about what happened right after the election for me, but 46 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: I was so overstimulated that I couldn't multitask. Like I'm 47 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: pretty good at it, but I couldn't. I couldn't do it. 48 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: I was like, either you're focusing on this or this, 49 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: but you are not going to try to do both. 50 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 2: And so. 51 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: It's it's I've gotten a little bit better, but I 52 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: still am like watching. 53 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: Like meditation, like rain videos, which is great. 54 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 3: That's how I sleep. 55 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: Sounds Yeah, that's pretty much what I've been doing. I'm 56 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: giving myself a little space before I get back into 57 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: the news, like I'm still getting news, but. 58 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: Like I was previously. 59 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: But that being said, it can be difficult when you're 60 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: on a show like ours or you know, just existing 61 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: and care about people in general that could be impacted 62 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: by this election, to do things that are seem frivolous, 63 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: that seem fun. But I think it's really important. And 64 00:03:52,760 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: we've talked before about burnout and activism and how how 65 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: having that space is important to prevent that. That being said, 66 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: it's life day this weekend. 67 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: I'll find your joys. 68 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 1: You gotta find your joy somewhere. It is okay to 69 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: do it. 70 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: I know. 71 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 1: We talked I think last time Trump was elected. We 72 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 1: talked about how it can feel strange if you have 73 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: a month like something you did, like oh I came 74 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: out with a book, and it can feel strange promoting it, 75 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: but you did come out with a like it's a 76 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: it's a big deal, so it's it's it's okay. It 77 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: feels weird, it does, but yeah, it is Life Day. 78 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: I am struggling to deal with the fact that it's 79 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: Life Day because it doesn't feel we were talking about 80 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: this before. It doesn't feel like November, like made November 81 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: to me. Life Day is November seventeenth. 82 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: And if you've somehow missed Life Days. 83 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: Star Wars Holiday it's based on the nineteen seventy nine 84 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: Star Wars Holiday special. Uh, and it's the holiday special 85 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: is notorious because it is weird. 86 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 2: It's pretty bad. I love it. 87 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: It has gone mainstream now that Disney has bought Star Wars, 88 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: even though they have yet to actually like release the 89 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: whole thing. It's like you kind of have to nowhere 90 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: to go to get it, or. 91 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 2: Don't if you don't want to or don't or don't 92 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: don't scare No, that's fair. But now they made me 93 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 2: watch it, y'all, they maybe watch you didn't want you 94 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 2: didn't even get to the b R third part. I didn't. 95 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: That's the good part. 96 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 3: Well, And then I came back to them watching it 97 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 3: the third time in a row. 98 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: Anyway, keep going, well, you know, and I I didn't 99 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: watch it for a long time because you can't you 100 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: can find it. I'm making it so how more difficult 101 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 1: than it is. But there's there's no like legal way. 102 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: To get it. 103 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: Now. 104 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: I'm incriminating myself a tomorrow. It's on YouTube legally, I 105 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: would say. But I hadn't seen it until I think 106 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: I really during the pandemic. 107 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, let's do it. 108 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: And I'm so glad I did, and I'd like saved 109 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: the text message chain I had with a friend who 110 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: had seen it before and she was like, Oh, you gotta. 111 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: Tell me your thoughts. 112 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: I love this and I love that I saved it 113 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: because it was so I was like, you could never 114 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: have prepared me for this, never in a million years. 115 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 1: The first nine minutes, no English, no one says anything. 116 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 3: It's yeah, it's it is. It is a sight of 117 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 3: behold spectacle. 118 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: So I did have another Star Wars episode I was 119 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: going to do for this, but it actually like got 120 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: really long, and it's I would say, more complaining, and 121 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't even know how much people want to hear 122 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: me complain. So I was like, no, let me think 123 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: about this, because I really want to do something happier. 124 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: And I feel like one of the reasons I mean, 125 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: I started doing my tradition of Sunday Sunday Sunday with 126 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: the original trilogy is because and the reason when it 127 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: came out it was so popular, Like one of the 128 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: main reasons they always say is optimism. 129 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 2: It was optimism. 130 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: We are in our Revenge of the Fifth era, so 131 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to read the room and I do want 132 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: to come back and talk about this thing that is 133 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: like driving me bonkers right now where. 134 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: I feel like we were agreed the Empire and Sith were. 135 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: Bad and now people aren't, and I'm like, what are 136 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: we doing? 137 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: It has but yeah, that's that's. 138 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: I will save that episode for a later day, not 139 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: for today. Something else I wanted to talk about is 140 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: that I think it is important to have distractions or entertainment. 141 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: I know, like on the other show we do Savor, 142 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: which is by the way, political because food is political, 143 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: but it's it's like not overtly so usually some episodes, 144 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: but and it's clear where we stand, but it can 145 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: feel weird, like when I'm writing corn puns, which I 146 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: was doing last night, and by the way they rejected 147 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: my very well, I guess they should have. 148 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 4: Well. 149 00:08:55,320 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: Down to shuck is too to a risque anyway, it 150 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: can feel very like what am I doing? 151 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 2: But then people would write in and they. 152 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: Were like, I really need something like this right now, 153 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: or I really needed something like this right now. So 154 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: it is that balance of still fighting all of that stuff, 155 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: but also having that space for you know what. This 156 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: weekend is Life Day, and I'm going to put on 157 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: my Life Day robe. I got my Life Day globe, 158 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: I got my Chewbacca who is also got a globe. 159 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: All of these are amazing gifts friends have given me. 160 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: I'm going to make a dish from my Life Day 161 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: book exciting. 162 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: It is exciting. 163 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna make like there's a very like mushroom. 164 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: I think it's like a Shepherd's pier type thing. But 165 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: that's what I'm thinking I'm gonna make. H But then 166 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: I was thinking about I don't generally like to complain. 167 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't generally sometimes like if I know we're in agreement, 168 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: I do, But generally I don't want to make If 169 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 1: somebody likes something, I guess I don't want to make 170 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: them feel bad. But the thing is, I've learned from 171 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: other friends that some people like to complain, so I 172 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: don't know that they're seeing it in the same way 173 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: that I'm seeing it, or like interpret interpreting it the 174 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: same way. Like I said, I do have kind of 175 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: a complaining Star Wars episode coming up. But when I 176 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: think about the Holiday special, it is really fun in 177 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: terms of it as a train wreck, and you can 178 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: complain about it, like if it's fun to watch it 179 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: with people and be like, what is this? What is 180 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: going on here? And I do want to say because 181 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: I think last life I talked about the documentary that 182 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: came out about how it got made, Like I think 183 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: you can work on something and do the best job, 184 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: and that doesn't mean, like I don't want to say 185 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: the people who are like working on sound or whatever. 186 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: It sounds to me like essentially, there was just a 187 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: lot of bad communication and misunderstanding what Star Wars was 188 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: and it was just kind of came together in this. 189 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: So I don't want to be like everyone did a 190 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: terrible job on it or anything like that, but it 191 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: is I mean, it's just especially to our modern eyes 192 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: because a lot of people will be like, well TV 193 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: was like that in seven years. 194 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, really, but WHOA. 195 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: But to our modern eyes it feels very strange, is 196 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: one way to put it. And so that can be 197 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:56,719 Speaker 1: fun to share that with someone if they enjoy it. 198 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 1: Like you said, plenty of people do not, and I 199 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: get that too, but I have I have friends who do, 200 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: and I have friends who are like, we don't have 201 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: to actually watch it, right, it'll beyond we don't have 202 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: to actually watch it, Like, yes. 203 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: That's fine. So I get it. 204 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: I do, but it's just like a nice especially because 205 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: after I was trying to do that other Happy Hour 206 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: on Halloween about how much I love Halloween that was 207 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: so so stressed about the election coming up that ID 208 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: ended up not really doing the stuff I normally do 209 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: on Halloween. But I did talk in that episode about 210 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: how I like Halloween because it doesn't have the steaks. 211 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 2: Life Day does not have the steaks. But I will say, 212 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 2: more people have gotten. 213 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: In on it, and I'm starting to be like, oh no, no, no. 214 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 2: We're not making Life Day. You were staying hold on. 215 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 5: Oh you kind of canna keep this? 216 00:12:58,320 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to, but. 217 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: Well, and it's I feel bad because I've also talked 218 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: about how I get in my head sometimes about being 219 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: controlling about media that I like or don't like, and 220 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: sometimes that can lead to me shutting off about it completely. 221 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: And it is like my love language. I love sharing 222 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: things I love with people, and so then I feel 223 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: guilty when I'm like, actually, I really don't want to 224 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: watch that. And I don't think the equivalent is the same, 225 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: because sometimes it's like I can't enjoy Harry Potter anymore. 226 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 2: Like it's not like but it makes me feel a 227 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 2: little weird. 228 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: But there are people who love Star Wars, but I 229 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: feel hate the part of Star Wars. 230 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 2: I love. Star Wars is huge, So I. 231 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: Mean there's a lot of room for you to be 232 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 1: like I like this and not this, And so I 233 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: feel bad that I have kind of gate kept something 234 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: since I'm like, I don't want to listen to you 235 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: talk about how much you hate the thing that I 236 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: love at the Star Wars event. 237 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 2: That's fair. We can do it at a different time, 238 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 2: but not on life. Take come on on life, I'll 239 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: dare you. We can talk about how bad the holid. 240 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 5: Especialists on this day of life. 241 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: Never Yeah, but I do feel guilty about it, Like, 242 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: I don't know the the line between this is this 243 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: is something I want to do for myself. Are you 244 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: being selfish? Or are you no? This is actually just 245 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: something you need to do by yourself. 246 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think about that a lot. But yeah, 247 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 2: I am boundaries. I hope so. 248 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: And I think it's good that I think it's good 249 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: that I question it because I also I don't want to. 250 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just want want to keep it 251 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 2: in mind, like it's a healthy boundary. Is this Are 252 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: you being too much right now? I don't know. Let 253 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: me think about it. 254 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 5: But that's kind of everybody wants to celebrate life day, 255 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 5: but spifically, I mean to be fair. I just don't 256 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 5: realize his life day until you tell me. 257 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, also very fair. I get a lot of messages 258 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 6: on life Day. 259 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: I love it, but that yeah, it's just because also, 260 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: you know, you share friend groups and they're like, is 261 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: Anny doing something for life Day? 262 00:15:51,040 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 2: Oh it's awkward to be like a special note talked 263 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 2: about it? Now me, it's fair. 264 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 3: The only reason I know about it is because of you. 265 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 3: And then I think, now, Holly, like, but you know 266 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 3: I knew you before Holly, so that would make more sense. 267 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I did. I did. 268 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: Like I said, I don't think I watched it until 269 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: the pandemic. And there have been really fun like how 270 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: did it get made? There are other podcasts on our 271 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: network stuff you should know. Did a how how did 272 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: this Happen? 273 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 2: Episode? 274 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: It's really good, like, well, the description is made, the 275 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 1: description of it was excellent, like it said something like 276 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: no one can ever explain what happened that night in 277 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: nineteen seventy nine. 278 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 2: For voting. I love it, and I did. 279 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: I tried to research, like lightly research some stuff for 280 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: this about why do you what's the difference between a 281 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: train wreck someone enjoys and wreck someone doesn't, Because there's 282 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: also train wrecks I've watched. I'm like, I don't want 283 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: to do this, so I mean, obviously there's personal some 284 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: personal stuff there, but I think there might be like 285 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: a scientific or something some study that's been done about 286 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 1: why do we like watching bad stuff? 287 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: The Room is a prime example. 288 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, did that gets so big that they had to 289 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 3: make an actual movie about the making of the Room. 290 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, you know, there's like real world studies that 291 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 1: have definitely been done about like basically why are you're 292 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: looking at. 293 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 2: A car wreck? But but I think so. 294 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 1: I think there's probably similarities, but I was curious if 295 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: there was one specifically about why do we why are 296 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: we doing this? And I will say also, just to 297 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: finish up, I have been struggling like most of us, 298 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: I would say, but I have done. I have managed 299 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: to do some nerdy stuff. I just beat the Silent 300 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: Hill to remake us. 301 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 2: If you know, that is one of my favorite games. 302 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: If you know, you might also be like, that's probably 303 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: one of the worst games you'd be good be playing 304 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: right now. Fair, But I started it before the election, 305 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: and I gotta finish yep. And I've also been enjoying 306 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: what we do in the Shadows. 307 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 2: I've just been sending out of context quotes from it 308 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 2: to some of my friends. It's been very fun so 309 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 2: finding your finding the joy and distractions where you can. 310 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 2: Thank you so much to all of my friends, including you, 311 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 2: Smantha or checking in on me. And ok, you should 312 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: probably play Mario Party or something. I'm like, yeah, okay, 313 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 2: which I did is probably the sadest gay of Mario 314 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 2: Party that's ever been played. 315 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 3: But I play by yourself. 316 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, But there is a single player mode in THEO. 317 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 3: I'm sure that there was a moment of confusion. I 318 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 3: needed something I did. 319 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm trying. 320 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 3: We did threaten her and hanging out with people at 321 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 3: one point in time, and like you have to choose. 322 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 3: But then she was like, no, I'm physically sick. 323 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 2: ID was like, fine, I will. I've been pretty sick. 324 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 3: I think my ultimatum was you have to respond to 325 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 3: me though in texts. 326 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 327 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 2: I felt bad. It wasn't anything purposeful. I was just like, 328 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 2: I'm sick. 329 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, but I mean not to say too much. 330 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 3: There's protocols at hand. 331 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: I know not some of us. I suspected. 332 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 1: I suspected that, Yes, I am going to I'm going 333 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,360 Speaker 1: to take this life day. 334 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm going to relax in my coffee robe 335 00:19:54,040 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 2: and wonder, wonder at this spectacle of nineteen seventy nine. Perfect. Yeah. 336 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 4: Well, listeners, uh, if you if you celebrate life day 337 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,679 Speaker 4: or you know that, listeners who do, yeah, yeah, let 338 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 4: let me know if you have any traditions or recipes. 339 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: I would love love to know that. Just Star Wars 340 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: recipes in general are just anything you want to highlight 341 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: or shout out that you're doing or anything you found 342 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: comfort in. Yeah, let us know. Happy Life Day, which, 343 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 1: by the way, is very appropriate because life day is 344 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: about the struggle to free yourself from the empire. 345 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 2: So there you go. 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