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Speaker 1: What at the slip service. I'm Angela, Ye.

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Speaker 2: I'm g Maguire Geordie your I'm Angela White.

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Speaker 1: You can call me this episode, so get confused and

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Speaker 1: Angela and Angela today, I'm you, but we haven't engaged

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Speaker 1: couple on the cow to be loved to see? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: I always done anyway, But now congratulations. How did you

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Speaker 1: know what ring to pick?

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Speaker 3: To be honest, her personality like speaks volumes to me,

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Speaker 3: so I felt like whatever ring that I got was

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Speaker 3: going to be something that people would be like, like vibrant,

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Speaker 3: something that's vibrant also too if you look at it

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Speaker 3: on the side, I know how she'd be having her

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Speaker 3: nails and I'd be wanting to compliment certain things. So

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Speaker 3: doubt pay attention to detail when it comes in.

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Speaker 4: Do sometimes yes?

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Speaker 1: And it feels good too, like on your finger.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it feels like it's supposed to be there because

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Speaker 2: it doesn't even it feels like it's a part of me.

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Speaker 2: You know how Sometimes we might wear something and it's

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Speaker 2: like you feel like I can feel this on me,

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Speaker 2: Like I can't feel this on me right, so I

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Speaker 2: know it's for me.

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Speaker 1: And when you proposed were like you did this in

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Speaker 1: front of people. This is at Howard University. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: talk to me about that day where you're nervous, like,

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Speaker 1: what was going on behind the scenes, how'd.

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Speaker 3: You plan it? I was super nervous. So I planned

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Speaker 3: it with my friend Troy Gunn's my business partner. He's

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Speaker 3: somebody who I been He's been around in my career

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Speaker 3: just from the jump since like twenty twelve, and I

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Speaker 3: always talked to him for certain advice and certain things.

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Speaker 3: And when me and Angela got together, he was one

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Speaker 3: of the people that I told and he always just

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Speaker 3: gave me advice and guidance on how to move, how

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Speaker 3: to understand, how to understand a woman, him being older

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Speaker 3: than me, just giving me examples. So me and him

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Speaker 3: were planning to go out there to perform because we

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Speaker 3: were performing for Howard Homecoming. I got invited to perform

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Speaker 3: out there and we were on a zoom call and

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Speaker 3: one of the guys who was putting on the show

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Speaker 3: was like, yo, you know it would be dope. You know,

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Speaker 3: I know you and your fiance a wife at the

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Speaker 3: because some people already thought that we were married, right,

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Speaker 3: So he said it would be dope if you you

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Speaker 3: know did something with her on the stage, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, you know, it would be dope bringing her

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Speaker 3: out in her city with her family, my family, her

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Speaker 3: mom being there. She had just released a single that

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Speaker 3: we worked on together called Fabulous or her Able to Perform.

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Speaker 1: Should be Kamala's song. Yeah, right, go ahead. Sorry.

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Speaker 3: I just felt like it was just the time and

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Speaker 3: place I really wanted. I wanted to prepare myself to

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Speaker 3: enter the next chapter I've been. I really wanted to

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Speaker 3: do it a while ago, and I just wanted to

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Speaker 3: make sure that I was stable as a man before

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Speaker 3: I made that decision, just because I know the responsibilities

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Speaker 3: that I was right with myself. I was right with God,

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I was like, this is it. Like I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna sing to her because she loves my

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Speaker 3: how how I look at her, Like I love showing

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Speaker 3: her off, I love putting her on a pedestal, and

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Speaker 3: I love bringing her up and like it's like it's

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Speaker 3: hard for me to go places and not bring her

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Speaker 3: was the time. So yeah, she's a real one and

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Speaker 3: it's kind of hard as a man right now. It's

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Speaker 3: sometimes it seems like it's a little bit tough to

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Speaker 3: like when you find a real one by yourself, and

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Speaker 3: you know, people might be as cliche, but like up

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Speaker 3: and down, she's been there, you know what I mean

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Speaker 3: for certain things. I'm a Capricorn, so them so you

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Speaker 3: already know you don't speak so whatever goes on in

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Speaker 3: our life, we usually just keep that stuff inside and

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Speaker 3: we don't never let nobody know what we're going through.

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Speaker 3: And she was one of the only people who I

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Speaker 1: What's mostly like things that you were going through life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really life, I would say life, financial

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Speaker 3: things career wise, like trying to understand balance the music

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Speaker 3: industry shifting, so you know, trying to understand how to

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Speaker 3: It's like how to have it keep your integrity, but

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Speaker 3: also I love the fact that she's a family woman,

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Speaker 3: and I think that that meant a lot to me

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Speaker 3: the most because I'm I'm very tight with my families

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Speaker 3: and stuff is just like, oh, no, this is She's

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Speaker 3: felt like that. I felt like that was I felt

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Speaker 5: So Angela, of course, we know you were surprised, right,

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Speaker 5: But were you like anticipating the proposals at this point?

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Speaker 4: Were you like, I know, he gonna propose its coming

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Speaker 4: any day now.

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Speaker 2: I kind of had a feeling, but not really. I

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Speaker 2: didn't know like exactly when, like how no, but it

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Speaker 2: was perfect though. It was good because it was in

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Speaker 2: d C. So Mom was already there, right, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean? And then afterwards everybody was like, well

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Speaker 2: I knew, I knew. I'm like, how did everybody else?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's supposed to be like that. You're supposed

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Speaker 1: to be surprised because you got to like also, did

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Speaker 1: you tell her family because you got to ask for

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Speaker 1: permission or Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely spoke to her mom spoke to like

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Speaker 3: she was.

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Speaker 1: Very happy about it too.

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Speaker 2: Ye, tough crowd, but she likes you, my mom. She

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Speaker 2: even before this happened, she's like, y'all need her to

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Speaker 2: get married?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do that.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it was definitely like the time in Guy's

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Speaker 3: time and it was perfect. It just seemed like everything

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Speaker 3: that they just went smooth.

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Speaker 1: And what happened after that, congratulations, it's all the blur.

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Speaker 2: We did a family gather and I'm like, wait, what

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Speaker 2: do we do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We ate food. Do you know when you're going to

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Speaker 1: right now? We're going to figure that out. We have

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Speaker 1: a date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we said we picked the date already. Yeah, definitely

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Speaker 6: Yeah, now we picked the date, but we're like, if

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Speaker 1: We have a day. You think it's going to be

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Speaker 1: for me?

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Speaker 2: I want a smaller wedding. I don't want like a

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Speaker 2: lot of people there, like a lot of different energies.

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Speaker 2: I just want like the right people. That's supposed to

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Speaker 2: like everybody people. Yeah, like if I don't have if

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Speaker 2: I can't pick up the phone and call you, then no,

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Speaker 2: you're not invited.

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Speaker 1: I what do you want? You want to You're okay

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm cool with that. I think it's still gona

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Speaker 3: end up being big because our families.

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Speaker 1: To call, so there's a lot of people you can pick.

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Speaker 3: Up the You have to see how she acts when

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Speaker 3: she gets around her family, Like she just like all

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Speaker 3: the stress, whatever she's going through, she just pulls back

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Speaker 3: and she's just Angela and it's just like you get

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Speaker 3: So I know that wherever however we do the wedding,

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Speaker 3: definitely there.

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Speaker 1: You have a big family too, Yeah okay, yeah, who

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Speaker 2: Who liked to first?

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Speaker 1: Because it starts with somebody tell the truth?

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Speaker 2: Who liked to?

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Speaker 3: I think it was mutual. I know that when she came.

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Speaker 2: So I pursued Derek.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you like first.

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Speaker 3: She did but it was crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it just happened.

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Speaker 1: I say my part parts, and then we're here, because

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Speaker 1: then were we got some questions for y'all, questions to

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Speaker 1: ask your partner before marriage. But first we're going to

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and a hmm and the shorts of it.

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Speaker 2: I asked Derek to go out with me.

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Speaker 3: No, you've missed the party.

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Speaker 2: So I let him go because I don't know how

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I was, I was chilling. I get a

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Speaker 3: I don't look at your numbers. I don't look at

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Speaker 3: Let's set up a time, Let's set up a session

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Speaker 3: So we gave it a day. That day, I had

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Speaker 3: sure it's clean. I had the assistance to make sure that.

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Speaker 3: in a Rose Royce. Okay, mind you Yeah. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 3: And it's funny because she don't even really drive the

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Speaker 3: and then we had a regular conversation just talking about life.

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Speaker 3: She was telling me about her sobriety and everything that

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Speaker 3: she was going through, talking to me about her businesses,

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Speaker 3: brought up Hearts Pure, and then we started just talking

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Speaker 3: about music because that's how I usually like to work.

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Speaker 3: I like to get to know the person that I'm

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Speaker 3: working with because music is still energy, you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. So you want to make sure that you

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Speaker 3: get the right vibes because the power of the tongue is.

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Speaker 1: A real thing. Your impression of her when she's.

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Speaker 3: About her business. Okay, That's why I was making sure

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Speaker 3: all my friends was on point, and I was making sure, like, yo,

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Speaker 1: It was clet.

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Speaker 1: I was like, make you a playlist what you want

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Speaker 3: She Got? She Got? She Got by Jayden.

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Speaker 1: It's all she wants to move.

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Speaker 1: Okay, scroll through there. Look at this she the Coldplay

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Right, and music is your love language, honestly, because from

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Speaker 2: I had invited Derek. I was like, Hey, do you

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Speaker 2: I was like, day, I was trying to You were

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Speaker 4: Good time.

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Speaker 1: Was like a little exits. Was it weird for you?

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Speaker 1: Day, every day, every day, driving back and forth.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I really wanted to build up that that

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Speaker 4: Right, I love you first, maybe me, I thank you.

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Speaker 3: I think it might have been you might have been.

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Speaker 2: What's happening?

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Speaker 4: She said, I love you?

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Speaker 2: And did you say I think it was me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to be honest, it's probably been one of the

440
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 3: most might have been the most easy but difficult moments

441
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 3: of my career when it comes to making music. Because

442
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 3: for other people it's their life, but for me, I

443
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 3: have to be very intentional on what I say in

444
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 3: my music because it represents who I am as a man,

445
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: who I am as a person. So my music is very,

446
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:33,439
Speaker 3: very vulnerable, but it's very leaning towards relationship. And I

447
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: don't know, I don't want to say this, but I

448
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 3: mean it seems like it where music is right now,

449
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 3: it's like there's missing a vulnerability, oh for sure. And

450
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 3: it's like, if you're gonna do it, you have to

451
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 3: actually showcase that you're actually living like that in the

452
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 3: music for people to understand it and for it to resonate.

453
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 3: Being said, you know what I'm saying, so like a

454
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 3: lot of my music right now, and it's just like,

455
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 3: man it we were just literally talking about this in

456
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 3: the car. I'm like, is this the climate to put

457
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 3: it out? And I think it is, like she really

458
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 3: motivates me, and I think I'm just I'm just stuck

459
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 3: in my ways because I've done so many big songs

460
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 3: for big artists. I think I put so much pressure

461
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 3: on myself as.

462
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: You Savage Remix.

463
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 3: I mean, that's cute, appreciate it. So it's like, but

464
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 3: but she gives me confidence though, and she She's like,

465
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 3: she asked me to put music out, so as long

466
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 3: as I like it, she likes it, my close friends

467
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 3: likes it, my family likes it. That's all, you know

468
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So that's what we were really talking

469
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 3: about is getting ready.

470
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: Then did music together too, which is amazing. And this song,

471
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: I mean, like I was telling you before, I'm fabulous,

472
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: that's amazing that my story right now, that song is amazing. Yeah,

473
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: And I know, even from when you first started doing music,

474
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: people have always talked about how talented you are. I

475
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 1: remember it's super early on.

476
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 5: They were like we were in Houston, you remember we

477
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 5: were in Houston or listening to music.

478
00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 1: Yes, that was maybe like six.

479
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: Years go crazy and you had some fire songs yet

480
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: because I was even debasing on like this stuff.

481
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 4: Type of yeah that we was loving.

482
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, holding onto a lot.

483
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: You got them all, by the way, you do? Are

484
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: you writing a special song for the wedding or like

485
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: what's going to happen? Because I feel like, oh my god,

486
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: did you even think about that?

487
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 3: No?

488
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about that.

489
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, Angela, just get your idea. You need like a

490
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 5: whole little wedding EP.

491
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: I feel like he's looking like.

492
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: No, it's crazy. That's a song that I wrote a

493
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 3: while ago for Justin Bieber and it's called I Do.

494
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 3: He never used it, and it's my mom's favorite song

495
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 3: and she brings it up literally all the time, and

496
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, mom, not mom, but actually, like wedding

497
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 3: song by that might be something on revisit And.

498
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: You know, Angela, he played it for me. I don't

499
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: know the words robate him though, Okay, but now I

500
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 2: have to revisit it.

501
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: Something, especially when it happened. I could feel it now.

502
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: You guys also decided to join love and hip hop

503
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 1: and when y'all made that announcement, people were like, oh

504
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: my god, why would you do.

505
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 3: From her?

506
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 5: The first question being back in Miami for you? Say

507
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 5: how I was being back in Miami for you?

508
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 1: It's cool.

509
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I just do my work, come home, eat, repeat,

510
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:34,239
Speaker 2: that's it. Yes, it's smooth. It's not like how it

511
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 2: was back in the day.

512
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 4: Of course, not the person.

513
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 2: If it was back I think if it was still

514
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 2: like those times, it's just still not the same. Like

515
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 2: it's like you had to have been there, ye, and.

516
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: If it wasn't just missed out.

517
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 2: It's not like now, like even when I go there

518
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 2: and I go to different places, I'm like, this is what.

519
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: Nothing, it's not it's just like we just got older.

520
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, did we get older? Is it just?

521
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

522
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:06,400
Speaker 4: Both we're mature, aren't the same?

523
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: That's happening in those days? Are we're talking what ten, twelve,

524
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: fourteen years ago? We used to be in Miami? Yeas

525
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: mess fight club?

526
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 5: Remember the first day we met I for somebody and

527
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 5: listen the birthday I lived talking y'all in Miami.

528
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I met you in Miami too.

529
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

530
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: The first time I married it was in the club

531
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: and she got into a fight. Yeah, but you know

532
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: she wont to.

533
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: Talk about it.

534
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: Dang.

535
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 2: I was just telling Derek. I was like, man, I've

536
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: known my my friends since I was like twenty years old,

537
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 2: nineteen to twenty. Time fly and do.

538
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 1: You feel like everybody's happy to see where you are

539
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: in life right now? That's that's an amazing thing.

540
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

541
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 2: Like everybody I've seen, like in the past, just even

542
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 2: from me first coming out, all the way up to now,

543
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: they're like, dang, but it's always that look like finally

544
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 2: you stop and listen, you know what I mean type.

545
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 4: You always had it in you.

546
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what it was.

547
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is.

548
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: You always. So what was behind the plan or the

549
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: decision to join love and hip hop? Tell me how

550
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: that even happened, Like who's approached you guys? You know,

551
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: what are the things? Because I know you said you

552
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 1: want to show like a positive relationship. I feel it already,

553
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: But talk to me about what happened behind the scenes

554
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 1: and how you guys were approached.

555
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 2: For me, I think it is what it is, love

556
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 2: and hip hop, Like this is the love and hippy

557
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 2: brings the hop, you know. So as far as like

558
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 2: the music and the love behind that. I feel like

559
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: maybe over the years, like it kind of just got messy.

560
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 2: But you got to think too, like drama cells like

561
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 2: and I get it, like I've been I've been there,

562
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 2: done that. But like now if you could bring like

563
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: that positive light, that's even more of a plus because

564
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 2: it's like nobody want to keep living in drama or

565
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 2: living in fear or just all these different things. Like

566
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 2: it's like eventually you have to come from out of

567
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: it because everybody wants that fairy tale, that that happy

568
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 2: ending exactly.

569
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: And I think you've learned a lot just from being

570
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: having your own shows and knowing like how to maneuver

571
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: and through things and you know, make it happen. Sometimes

572
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: it's hard for people. What about you, Derek, this is

573
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 1: a new territory for you.

574
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. So my my good friend Amber Revenan, Yeah, that's

575
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 3: my dog. I met her working with Dream Dog years

576
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 3: ago and she always was just like, yo, you need

577
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 3: to do TV. You need to showcase what you do

578
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 3: in the studio and like real time, And I kept

579
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 3: telling her, not, it's not really my thing, Like I

580
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 3: really want to focus on, you know, moving in a

581
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 3: certain light because you know, it's a narrative. So she

582
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 3: was doing college here great time.

583
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: The time. I was so proud of my friend.

584
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: It was good.

585
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 5: And even to see you on there with her to

586
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 5: come and support her, I shed a little tear.

587
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 4: I did, Wow, thank you because you could tell that

588
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 4: she needed.

589
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 5: You in that moment when you showed up to be

590
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 5: with her, and like you could tell that she was

591
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 5: kind of it was when she was going through doubting

592
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 5: herself and you know, really wanting to work hard at

593
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 5: completing the program, and for you to show up and

594
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 5: be there for her and you know, me knowing her,

595
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 5: I could tell that that's what she needed in that moment.

596
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 5: And this was my first time ever seeing you and

597
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 5: like in y'all as the unit as a couple, and

598
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 5: I just was like, you know, yeah.

599
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: You seem very nice. Yeah yeah, very genuine, very genuine.

600
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: You can show that the love is like real, even

601
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: from that moment. I like College Hell as a show,

602
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: Like I like the way that that show is structured

603
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: as far as like you know, and it probably does

604
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: encourage some people to be like you know.

605
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: What I needed.

606
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: I'll be watching it like I need to go back

607
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: to school, I need to participate in sell of these competitions.

608
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, we talking want to go back to school.

609
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: She called me about all the stuff that she was completing,

610
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, man, is great.

611
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: Let me take it seriously this time seriously. She took

612
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: it very seriously. And I think as an entrepreneur and

613
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: as a person who's been through a lot like that

614
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: is something perfect for you because you know life experiences

615
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: and things that you've done and things that you created

616
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: and the businesses that you have. Now applying that to

617
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: school and help them take it to another level.

618
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: It was very positive.

619
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: All right, I needed it. We do have these questions

620
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: to ask your partner before marriage. Okay, are you all

621
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: ready for this? Because this is a this is what

622
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: they say. Getting married is a big deal. You need

623
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: to make sure you're on the same page. So here's

624
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: some things that you need to discuss before you get married,

625
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: and we're going to ask them right here. Okay, how

626
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: do you handle disagreements because it's always going to be disagreements.

627
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: I think we just talked about like about it.

628
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 3: We're just we're just talking through.

629
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: We don't really I'm like, I think because when we

630
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 2: do communicate, like we communicate it as a full circle,

631
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: not like a half half way type of thing. Like

632
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 2: if I say something or if Derek say something, we

633
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: kind of say everything, so it's not no questionable thing.

634
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: So you put it all on the table and then

635
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: you're able to get clarity. Yeah.

636
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, we don't ye think about it.

637
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: Okay, why do you want to get married?

638
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 3: Because why why get married?

639
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 2: Because God's going to see that and give us favor

640
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 2: and love us more and show grace and we'll get

641
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 2: to head. It's just like all these different things and

642
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 2: I want to show have I want to have unity,

643
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: I want to have a family with you, and I

644
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 2: want to do things the right way.

645
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 3: I want to get married because I feel like I

646
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 3: come from a two parent household, and watching how my

647
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 3: mom and dad interact and just seeing how me and

648
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 3: my sister were raised, I was just like, man, I

649
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 3: want to kind of follow the footsteps. But I also

650
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: believe in building, and I think the best way that

651
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 3: we could build together outside of just building our own empire,

652
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: is just building and showcasing to the world like what

653
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: real love is and like real genuineness is, and showcasing

654
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 3: like black love. People say black love, but like, you know,

655
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 3: like to really showcase it.

656
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: I feel not for real, oh my goodness, elaborate.

657
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: Now. I just feel like marriage has always just been

658
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 3: something that people sometimes say, and then it became like

659
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: a It seemed like people took it as a joke

660
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 3: at one point, Like when I was younger, it's like, oh, yeah,

661
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 3: and getting me very married. They had games where they

662
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: would say, oh, your marriage, da da da da. And

663
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 3: then it's like when I hit mid twenties, it's like, oh,

664
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 3: I'm not getting married doing this, And I'm just like,

665
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: I don't know if I feel it, but if I

666
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 3: want to move right, move in faith and just really

667
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 3: like do it the right way, I want to make

668
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 3: sure that we like packaged as a unit and we're

669
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 3: married together. So I think that that's and you deserve

670
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: to be married.

671
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 4: To any single friends.

672
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 7: It's so hard of here, so hard here.

673
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 3: I was.

674
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 7: I wanted to ask both of y'all, like, as somebody

675
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 7: who's in my thirties, kind of what you were saying about.

676
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 7: People love the drama, and people love the non committal

677
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 7: casual relationships. They don't want that vulnerability, not in the music,

678
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 7: not in the entertainment, how do you date in that space?

679
00:33:55,160 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 7: And where are the good guys at? Truly, truly, she's

680
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 7: the very truth.

681
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: I can't tell you. I came upon.

682
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 2: Mind, man, you gotta go on the DMS.

683
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 3: What did you say?

684
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 4: I don't know what to say, though, Well, I think

685
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 4: I think that it was.

686
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 2: It was one of those things too, because even with

687
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 2: the music, right, I was like, I'm not doing this

688
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 2: music stuff.

689
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 3: No more.

690
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 2: Right, I'm like, I'm done with this. I'm not messing

691
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: with it. Scram I'm sorry, I'm gonna keep going on now.

692
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: But I was really done with it. Then I started

693
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 2: doing my acting and by me doing something else, it

694
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 2: brought me back to music. But it brought me back

695
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 2: to Derek also too. So it's like kind of like

696
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:41,479
Speaker 2: stepping out and doing things what you're mostly passionate about.

697
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: It should bring you into something like some type of

698
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: good relationship somehow, some.

699
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: Way, you know, like brings positivity.

700
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 2: Okay, there we go, Yeah to wrap that up.

701
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, all.

702
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: Right, Now here's the next one. What are you guys

703
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: gonna do with your last names?

704
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 4: Are you going to hyphenate?

705
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 5: No, that's You're gonna go from Angela White to Angela gray. Yes,

706
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 5: I love that.

707
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: When we were doing.

708
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 2: You were talking about that people in the comments, it

709
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:16,720
Speaker 2: was like, hey, miss Malono, I'm like young crazy. It's

710
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 2: great that it is still a color though, right to right?

711
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: What's the odds different color? It's all right? Now, how

712
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: much alone time do you need? You guys were together

713
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: for three months straight. You know you're together now you're

714
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 1: going to be filming together, but sometimes you do need

715
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: some alone time. So when it comes to that, how

716
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: much alone time do you feel like you need? Or

717
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 1: you're always going to be up under each other?

718
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 3: I know. So the thing with her is and that's why,

719
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 3: like I said, being a friend first matters. You're able

720
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 3: to see patterns. So for me, I know that when

721
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 3: she's in hustle mode, it's time for me to be

722
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 3: in hustle mode. I know when she gets king and

723
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 3: dream that's her time to be a mother. You know

724
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like I let her have that time

725
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: because that's what she deserves and her kids love her,

726
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So every time the day's

727
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 3: come like all right, let me do my thing, but

728
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 3: we always come back and we know like, Okay, this

729
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 3: is what it's gonna be. But I think we respect

730
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 3: each other's time, Like when I have to work, like

731
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 3: I let her know. She lets me know when she's working.

732
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 3: Like we really communicate, like I can't. I don't even

733
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: like even if we went through our text right now

734
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 3: and scrolled up to our first one, they probably take

735
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 3: a while because we communicate. We just let each other know,

736
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 3: like what's going on here, I got a meeting or

737
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 3: meeting with this person. She lets me know I'm going

738
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: to be going to the salon. And plus too, it's like,

739
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 3: you know, she's she's a business woman, so I feel

740
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 3: like for her to really lock in, you can't be

741
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 3: underneath her, okay, Like I would feel like a terrible

742
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: man while she's working, because at the end of the day,

743
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 3: she's doing her things. She got her salon, she has

744
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 3: the clothing store that she just open, she's a mother,

745
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 3: she's doing music, she's doing acting. It's just so much

746
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 3: that she got her hands in. So for me, it's

747
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 3: like it motivates me to just be like, Okay, let

748
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: me go ahead and make sure that I got a

749
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 3: schedule set and shout out to my manager Troy because

750
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 3: he sure I'll call him, like lookization you know him,

751
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 3: I'll be like, Yo, we got to make sure that

752
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 3: we on point with this, I said, because she's doing this,

753
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 3: I want to make sure why she's doing that. We

754
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 3: got this going on, so we all, you know, we celebrate,

755
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 3: we come together. We could really have a good time.

756
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 2: Great time.

757
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: Balance is key. What are your non negotiables? For example,

758
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: if you have a long standing tradition of going on

759
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: holiday with your friends once a year, did your partner

760
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,240
Speaker 1: know how much that means to you? If they always

761
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: have Sunday lunch with their mom, are you fine working

762
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: around that?

763
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 3: Like?

764
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 1: What are some non negotiables?

765
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: I don't really have any?

766
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: You like, Nope, we're good.

767
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 3: She has won. She just didn't say. I think that's

768
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 3: the only one that we She just loves.

769
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: Oh she's not leaving l A.

770
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: She said it here.

771
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I just I love it for work,

772
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 3: and I love the fact that I have.

773
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 2: To say that my kids are there.

774
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not forget I love it my kids there. Okay,

775
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: Well that is not negotiable. That would be That's why.

776
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 3: That's why I'll never bring even when I talk to

777
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 3: like my friends like you in l A, I'll be

778
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 3: like I mean, I really like Texas and I and

779
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 3: I've been doing research on Dallas. I mean, I've been

780
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 3: doing research on Dallas. They're building the Universal Studios and Frisco.

781
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 3: So I was like, h M, might be dope to

782
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,360
Speaker 3: kind of get a property out there that's around, like

783
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 3: a resort type of thing where we could regalize it

784
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 3: for a business, you know what I mean at the

785
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,919
Speaker 3: same time of like just creation. And then Florida. I love.

786
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 3: I went to school in Orlando. Still have a house there,

787
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 3: so you know that's somewhere. It's like cool and you

788
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 3: get both for us. But I guess just keep.

789
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 2: You.

790
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 3: I want to go be ready.

791
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 1: I want to be So do you have no negotiables

792
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 1: since you gave us hers? I'm like, is that a

793
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: fair one? It's a fair one. Let me think you

794
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:39,479
Speaker 1: think he has any angela? Okay, that's fine? Maybe yeah, yeah,

795
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: You're like, no, I'm pretty easy going.

796
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 3: Yeahricorn, there's got to be something like I never met

797
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 3: nobody say anything bad about the Capcorn maybe January ones.

798
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: You have some nerves? Okay? What is your love language?

799
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: That's always a good question, right, you know people talk

800
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: about the different love languages and For some people it's gifts,

801
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: for some people it's affirmation. But for you guys, what

802
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: would you say is your love language?

803
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 4: Besides the music?

804
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: And Angela likes to.

805
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 2: Eat and we always just about to say, I was

806
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 2: about to see my love language?

807
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 1: You like to action and words. Those are the four

808
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: love languages.

809
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: I think for me it's action.

810
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think for me it's words.

811
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: Affirmation for sure, yeah, okay.

812
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 3: Makes especially we don't get it. So it's like when

813
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 3: you you say a lot, yeah like that stuff.

814
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: Even from the beginning, he said, you said, she asked

815
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: about your.

816
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, like that stuff means something. That's crazy

817
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 3: because I never knew that. I never knew what those

818
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 3: people always bring them up, but I never knew what

819
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 3: they were touch gifts, what all of them again?

820
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: Words of information, action, gift, action, and words and.

821
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:57,720
Speaker 2: Where it's sure action like you help me up, help something.

822
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 2: I love that, and Derek thing about it like I

823
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: don't even have to say it, like he just automatically

824
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: knows it and just does it, or it's like already done,

825
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: like I landed and I was so hungry and he

826
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 2: had playing for you think a whole fish for me?

827
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: Oh damn, isn't that so refreshing.

828
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:21,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

829
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just more other other things than that. If

830
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 2: it's something that I have going on and I don't

831
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 2: feel like doing I don't feel like doing it, He'll

832
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 2: do it to kickstart me so that the rest of

833
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 2: my day like flows and I'm like, all right, okay,

834
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm good, i'ma let's go.

835
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: That's what your partenter is supposed to do, like make

836
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: your life easier both ways. All right, what is your

837
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: dream holiday? If you were your vacation, what's your dream trip?

838
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 3: I would say something on Christmas because December four, I

839
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: never get to celebrate my birthday.

840
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 2: Baby, your Christmas.

841
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 3: All my friends out of town people are celebrating Christmas.

842
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: It's expending time of the year too, so you're giving

843
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: gifts on your day. Yeah.

844
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: So maybe that because she threw me a surprise birthday.

845
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 3: Nobody did that for me before she threw me a

846
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 3: surprise last.

847
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, what's even crazier than that? Like we kept

848
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 2: going having things blessed that was by coastal so we

849
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 2: would go to Delaware. I had something and I was

850
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: able to meet his mom and I stayed stayed over

851
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 2: at the house and she cooked for us, and I

852
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 2: was so excited she cooked for us, and we just

853
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 2: really talked and we had a really good time. And

854
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: then we went to Atlanta. We hung out, and we

855
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 2: went back to.

856
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 3: We went to.

857
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 4: Virginia.

858
00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, Virginia to visit his grandma on her birthday. So

859
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 2: it was like I kept being around the family, kept

860
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: being around the family, and then if your family came.

861
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: Out, I think your mom had her birthday there.

862
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: Then my mom had her birthday and they drove up

863
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, this is great.

864
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was perfect, the families together.

865
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you got to I think that's I think

866
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 3: that's crucial in today's relationships too.

867
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, what does your family think of Angela when they

868
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: first met her.

869
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 3: They love her. The thing that they I think that

870
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 3: they were just honed on to the most was like,

871
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 3: just make sure that you guys love each other. I

872
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 3: think that was their whole thing, because they've seen me

873
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 3: go through ups and downs of just like not even relationship,

874
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 3: just friends and people who will get you excited, get

875
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 3: you raummed up, and get you happy, and then something

876
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 3: happens and then everything's just like defeated. You know what

877
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: I'm saying. So I think the way that I was

878
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,760
Speaker 3: talking so and speaking so highly about her, my family

879
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 3: was more like, okay, because it sounds too good to

880
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 3: be true, so let me see what's really going on.

881
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 3: And when they met, they was just like, oh no,

882
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 3: she's she's.

883
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 1: Great, great.

884
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 3: My sister loves her, I love my dad, my grandmoms,

885
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 3: like both my grandmom they call it was on FaceTime

886
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 3: with her, my one grandma, me and me calls her angel.

887
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah like she just yeah, you just you and you

888
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna lie. You brought my family together too,

889
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 3: because I've been working so so hard and sometimes it's

890
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 3: hard for me to travel and do stuff. But it's

891
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 3: like I be calling my mom for advice, you know

892
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I'll be calling my dad for advice.

893
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 3: I'll be calling them for certain things. Me and my sister,

894
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 3: she's doing her thing. So like I wanted to make

895
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 3: sure that they had a good relationship because that matters.

896
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because my brother boy, I'd be like, no, that's

897
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: not it, but I'll be real, yeah, okay, thank you, La.

898
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 3: It's definitely important for sure.

899
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: Yes, I I'm so happy for you.

900
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 5: You deserve all of you deserve all of the happiness.

901
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 5: You deserve all of the blessings you really do. You

902
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 5: worked hard for it and you earned it, and you definitely.

903
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 4: You got me right about.

904
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: Everybody here got what I mean, because we come from.

905
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 5: The churches, from the stuff from the churches before a long,

906
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 5: long time ago, and it is that we both left

907
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 5: and moved forward and excelled in and got so.

908
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: Many positive, great things happening. Yeah, yeah, you know, all

909
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: the character building. Yeah, it's what we like to call it.

910
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: It's just like your first like in love, real relationship

911
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: that you're brought to the family.

912
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, for sure. It was probably one other person.

913
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 3: It was like maybe eight years now, like high school. Okay,

914
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 3: after that, it was just kind of like, I don't know,

915
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 3: because when you bring somebody around family, it's like they

916
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 3: end up becoming like and you can get that question,

917
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 3: oh so what happened there? So I was like, if

918
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna like really go all the way in, I

919
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 3: gotta go all the way in. I'm not about to

920
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 3: be off and on. I'm not gonna be out here

921
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 3: picking and choosing, like if I'm all in, i gotta

922
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 3: be all in. So I knew. I was like when

923
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 3: she did Duffy's hope. I was like, all right, mom,

924
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 3: I said you all ready, And I think my dad

925
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 3: was all nervous himself. He was nervous because he was

926
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: just like wow, like all right, and then my mom.

927
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 3: Everybody was just happy, like I think. I think that

928
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 3: that's the biggest thing out of all of this, is

929
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 3: that we're.

930
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: All happy, right, and they're happy to see you happy. Yes,

931
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: that's the main thing that if you stressed out, I

932
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: don't know.

933
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 4: If that's I don't know if that's it.

934
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.

935
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 1: Now there's another question to ask before marriage. How will

936
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 1: you handle differing sex drives, Because that's the real thing.

937
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: If one person feels like it, the other person doesn't.

938
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: If one person wants it every day but the other

939
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: person is like twice a week is good, how do

940
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 1: you guys handle that because that can happen. It feels

941
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: like y'all that I can't relate, right, Yeah. Yeah, everybody's quiet.

942
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 2: Everybody, everybody's we're going to wait to our marriage day. No,

943
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 2: I'm skiddy.

944
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: Oh. I was like, wait a minute, let me find

945
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: out today. And he's like, we getting married tomorrow or

946
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 1: tonight if it's open. Yeah, it's a real question though,

947
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: you know, because that does happen.

948
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 3: I think I'm just communications. I think it's just saying

949
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 3: certain things.

950
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 2: I think it's communication. And yeah, keeping it sexy, right right?

951
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: He wake you up out of his eve and be

952
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: like hey, or her in sleep? Yeah, no, she won't

953
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: wake up. That's how I am.

954
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: I'm rock.

955
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 8: Hey, So do what you're going to do for yourself?

956
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, now, what about here's another one? Okay,

957
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: how will you split your finances? Is that a discussion?

958
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: Finances are very important to discuss when it comes to

959
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: any type of marriage, because that is, you know, they said,

960
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: it's likely you probably already split a lot of bills together.

961
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: Make sure you're happy with this arrangement. And they said

962
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: the fairest way to do things is usually based on

963
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: what you earn. But have you guys discussed like how

964
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: are we going to split these things? Who's paying? What?

965
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: Did you ask each other each other's credit score?

966
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 3: You brought it up, You definitely brought it up. That's

967
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 3: definitely a conversation for sure.

968
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 2: I think that's where the building comes in at too,

969
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,439
Speaker 2: Like the building like, let's build it together and see

970
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 2: what happens. Right, you know what I mean, Because I

971
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 2: feel like with any business, something might be up, something

972
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 2: might be low. It's not going to be the same.

973
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: And that's where having a good partner comes in too,

974
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 2: because I could be up to say the first and

975
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 2: the third quarter, and you could be up the second

976
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: and the fourth quarter. You know what I mean. Long

977
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 2: as we can figure out that balance, it should be fine.

978
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 2: And then in between then like not just spending money,

979
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 2: but like investing money so that we could get some

980
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 2: coins instead of just throwing money away, Let's try to

981
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 2: figure out to make some money.

982
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: Yea, Because you guys don't have like a regular day job,

983
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: so it's not like you have this paycheck coming in

984
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: every two weeks. It might be like a huge check.

985
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: And then yet like okay, now I'm waiting for my

986
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: next you know.

987
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 2: Got to figure it out. That's what that hustle coming at.

988
00:49:54,320 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: That's through well you get prenup. Prenup.

989
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 3: Well, you know what, I'm not against it, I'm not

990
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 3: opposed to it, but I mean because she has a

991
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 3: lot of stuff already, you know what I'm saying. She

992
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 3: got her cars, like that's hers, she got her sprinter,

993
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 3: that's hers. She has her house, that's hers. I have

994
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 3: my stuff, that's mine. You know what I'm saying. But

995
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 3: I'm not one of those people like, oh, you need

996
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 3: to do one, but.

997
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: It's a contract, and you guys are business people, Well

998
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 1: we ain't. We ain't period. That's it.

999
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 2: It won't be a prenup.

1000
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because I feel like it's

1001
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 3: one of those things we have.

1002
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 2: We're not getting divorced.

1003
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's it. I love that process because you're done.

1004
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:46,919
Speaker 3: People.

1005
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,879
Speaker 5: People will take marriage and they don't really, like you said,

1006
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 5: they make a joke about it and they don't really

1007
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 5: take it seriously. There's so many marriages and the divorce.

1008
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 5: But having that mindset, ye, for what I was feeling

1009
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 5: that if somebody you to.

1010
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: Get a preeanap, would you not get married or would

1011
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: you be okay with it? I think it depends on

1012
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: the situation.

1013
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 5: Like, for instance, my ex that we no longer speak

1014
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 5: about that relationship that I was in for so long,

1015
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 5: if he would have asked me to get a premiump,

1016
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:14,240
Speaker 5: I would have laughed.

1017
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: In his face. Okay, because what fifteen years later you

1018
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:19,959
Speaker 1: want to like, no, Okay, you know what I'm saying,

1019
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 1: but somebody, Now, if you met somebody now, depending a

1020
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: year and a half from now, he was engaged and

1021
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,240
Speaker 1: he's depending on the situation, I would not be offended

1022
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: because I understand.

1023
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 5: But I do have the mindset of marriages supposed to

1024
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 5: be forever. So why are we even talking about divorce

1025
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 5: while we're even talking about splitting things?

1026
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 4: Exactly? What do you think?

1027
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 5: Jordan?

1028
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 4: Jordan said, and.

1029
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 2: With me there too, like in this relationship, it's not

1030
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 2: a competition. And I've been in relationships to wheres though

1031
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 2: are you? Are you? This is a competition. You're not

1032
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 2: going to win this one. You get what I'm saying.

1033
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 2: It's never been like that because you get it's some

1034
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 2: people men that want to compete with you inno relationships,

1035
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 2: and it's wild. It's like I thought it was supposed

1036
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:08,760
Speaker 2: to be meet you against them. Oh what happened?

1037
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: But you know, it's something like people always go into things.

1038
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 1: Nobody goes into a relationship and it's not going to

1039
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: last or a marriage, And so I will say, and

1040
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 1: not that it won't, but you know, I'm getting a freak.

1041
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know it is what it is.

1042
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: And I think to each his own, like for everybody

1043
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: that you know makes whatever decision, that's not for us

1044
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: to decide or judge. But I know for me, listen,

1045
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 1: I wish somebody would ask me, like, yes, it's done

1046
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 1: doing it.

1047
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 3: What about you?

1048
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 4: I'm too anxious.

1049
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 7: I couldn't even if I think I trust you and

1050
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 7: I love you more than anything, I just feel like.

1051
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 4: I wouldn't need that for.

1052
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: My own sanity, security and safety.

1053
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 7: And I want to need a couple of clauses in

1054
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 7: there just in case you do something crazy, right, because

1055
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 7: I feel like people change.

1056
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 2: You know, I understand the two. If somebody's cheating, obviously

1057
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,240
Speaker 2: you're not gonna come on right, No, you're not getting

1058
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 2: half obvious. These are the obvious, obvious reasons abuse and

1059
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 2: stuff like that. These are obvious reasons why, and it

1060
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 2: shouldn't be none of that stuff.

1061
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 5: I like more like, for instance, like when you're a

1062
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 5: safe driver, you could be the safest driver.

1063
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: You could be, but you can't control other people.

1064
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 5: So it's like I can have the best intentions on

1065
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 5: this marriage, but I can't control what you're gonna do, right,

1066
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 5: So I still want to car insurance.

1067
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, listen among those lines, another question to ask

1068
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: a partner, What constitutes cheating? What do you classify as cheating?

1069
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: Some people might look at porn as betrayal, others might

1070
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: not mind. People might think text message is like, what

1071
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 1: constitutes cheating for you guys? And is that a deal breaker?

1072
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 2: Yes, that's for sure. Texting d M and talking that

1073
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 2: freaky slick stuff on the side when you see somebody like.

1074
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 3: Anything that your question, anything that you have to ask

1075
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 3: yourself if your partner is going to feel a way

1076
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 3: about it.

1077
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 5: Yes, And that's always my answer to anything that anything

1078
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 5: that you can't do in front of your partner or

1079
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 5: with your partner is definitely cheating exactly.

1080
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Let's say you're going to

1081
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: work with somebody in the studio and it's a female

1082
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: artist and she comes on to you. Would you tell

1083
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: Angela that that happened? Or would you just shut it

1084
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 1: down and not say anything.

1085
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 5: No.

1086
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 3: I would tell her, okay what I tell you?

1087
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 1: Yes, tell her yes, my friend face right now, talk

1088
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: about it. Can you continue to work with somebody if

1089
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 1: they do come on to you.

1090
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 3: It's one of those things where I let them know, like,

1091
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 3: this is not what that is. And if we do work,

1092
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 3: it has to be on time or where it's like,

1093
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 3: how can I say? It can't be like, oh, we're

1094
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 3: going out of town. It has to be like along

1095
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 3: the guidelance of like time business. Yeah, exactly, like it's

1096
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 3: studios from that's it. There's no hanging out after. We're

1097
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 3: not going nowhere after Like that's what it's going to be.

1098
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 3: And make sure I get the bounces of the songs.

1099
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: You ain't getting no smell goods in here. We're not

1100
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: cleaning the studio.

1101
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 3: But you want to know what I do respect though,

1102
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 3: that is cool that a lot of the the women

1103
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 3: artists that I do work with, they're so happy for me,

1104
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 3: but they're also happy for her. So usually like I'll

1105
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 3: be in the studio and then they're like, oh my god,

1106
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 3: can you tell angel I'll be like, I'll just facetim

1107
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 3: and then she'll get on FaceTime with an artist and

1108
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: then they're like, oh, I just want to tell you

1109
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 3: how proud I am in you. And then that goes

1110
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 3: to now like hey, by the way, you know she

1111
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 3: opened up a salon. Hey, you know she's doing this

1112
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 3: and she's doing music. So it's like now, it's it

1113
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 3: works that we have these relationships and it's been business

1114
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 3: because now I can asks for favors. There's certain things

1115
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 3: that I could present where it's like, yo, you know,

1116
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 3: like a fugue there wants to do like a like

1117
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 3: an ambassador or for Heart's Pure or something. It's like, look, Angelauet,

1118
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 3: this is going on. I don't know what your situation is.

1119
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 3: I know you might be a new artist, but you

1120
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 3: know this would be dope with to present business adventures

1121
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 3: outside of music.

1122
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: GG got your hair in right now speaking of her,

1123
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: I know I speaking of it's like it's really good.

1124
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm not even just saying that, like it's not.

1125
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 4: Saying it because this is my friend.

1126
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,280
Speaker 5: This is some of the best hair that I've worn ever,

1127
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:34,720
Speaker 5: ever ever. It looks good, it feels good, it works well,

1128
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 5: it's amazing, it's silky, it's it's everything it needs to be.

1129
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 4: And honestly, when you sent me the.

1130
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 1: Box, I was just like, this is like how many

1131
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: bucks later?

1132
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 5: It's like a year later, Yeah, it is, It's like

1133
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 5: a year's so personal things was happening, life was life

1134
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 5: in and the box got lost in translation right without

1135
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:57,240
Speaker 5: you know, being to But the moment that I knew

1136
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 5: that I wanted this specific hairstyle. I was like, I

1137
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 5: know exactly what hair I'm using, and when I tell

1138
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 5: you you sent the frontal, I'm a I'm an leave

1139
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 5: out girl. So I thought like, damn, I'm not gonna

1140
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 5: have enough hair with these street bundles.

1141
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 4: When I tell you, I got these bundles laid and

1142
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 4: it was just enough and it was so perfect.

1143
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 5: I got right off the bat like that, and so

1144
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 5: many compliments, and I'm like really like walking talking billboard

1145
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 5: for my friend and his hair.

1146
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 4: Like I just was at Magic City of All.

1147
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 5: Places last night and one of the girls was like,

1148
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 5: your hair. I had to come off hair and tell

1149
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 5: you how good your hair looks. It looked like it's

1150
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 5: coming out of Scott.

1151
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, it is, it doesn't really.

1152
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you did a good Johnson with picking your

1153
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 5: vendor or whatever your venting process or whatever you did.

1154
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: You did that Ry living all about hair and stuff.

1155
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: Yeah too.

1156
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 3: She makes sure like everything's right even with this, like

1157
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 3: watch the pics together, like she snapped, you know what

1158
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 3: I'm saying, just going through and just picking all her stuff.

1159
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 3: She has her she got her whole side of She

1160
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: conducts all her business and sends out her package. I've

1161
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 3: seen her send out her her team might have sent

1162
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 3: out maybe a thousand orders in like two days. They

1163
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 3: only it wasn't a whole bunch of people. It might

1164
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 3: have been three, three of them, her close friends. You

1165
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:24,439
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. I had dream going in there, but.

1166
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: Is always ready, Dream is ready. I'd be like, she's.

1167
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 4: Gonna be an entrepreneur.

1168
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 1: That's when you learned that though, when you see your

1169
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: mom doing stuff like that and you let you tell.

1170
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 2: I mean, she's like, man, we gotta go to the salon.

1171
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I was just up there.

1172
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:41,439
Speaker 2: It's like, no, we're going.

1173
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: We're going.

1174
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 7: Man.

1175
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 1: I love this for you because, first of all, no

1176
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: matter what you've always been about your business, you've been

1177
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: starting businesses, creating. But then I also feel like when

1178
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: you went through this whole transformation back to Angela White,

1179
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: some people were like doubting it and acting like, oh, well,

1180
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: let's see how this you know this stunt last, But

1181
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: you have proven everyone who has ever doubted you wrong.

1182
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: Just to see where you are, the journey that you've

1183
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: come on, like to see where you are today, sitting here,

1184
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: happy and love well deserving.

1185
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 5: That's just another level of your transfer lot, a level

1186
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 5: of lot, another level unlock, and then.

1187
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna be a wife.

1188
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 3: Girl.

1189
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 2: We're gonna have a blast that day.

1190
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: It's like, is there a friend though?

1191
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, weddings somebody all catch the bouquet.

1192
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, weddings are lit though, Like the wedding. People be

1193
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: looking up at weddings. Let me tell you, I got

1194
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: some cool friends.

1195
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 3: I did.

1196
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 1: Y'all already like me, like, who's going to be in

1197
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: the wedding? Have y'all figured out who's No, I'm afraid that.

1198
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 3: We want to miss people. Yeah, I'm nervous about that part.

1199
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: That's always a right decision. Like in the wedding, people

1200
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 1: be offended.

1201
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 3: That's what.

1202
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 2: We should have two weddings, wedding for our family because

1203
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 2: some of them people we don't don't feel like explaining

1204
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 2: to the family who that is?

1205
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 3: You know, like, wow, like.

1206
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 4: This who is these character?

1207
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: These people?

1208
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 5: That's what you're gonna have to tell me me? Who

1209
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 5: to you know, you don't want to have to explain

1210
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 5: nothing to me me. Y'all go ahead and do the

1211
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 5: private for the family.

1212
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 2: And then it turned out, Yeah, I think so you

1213
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 2: need to do it in the West Coast that's not bad.

1214
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: Are You're from Philly?

1215
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 3: So I was born there. I was raised in Delaware.

1216
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 1: Okay, you had all kind of Philly people up here today.

1217
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,919
Speaker 5: There for the first twenty five years of my life,

1218
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,959
Speaker 5: and then I moved to Atlanta. I have a daughter.

1219
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 5: She was eight when we moved there. She just turned

1220
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 5: twenty eight. So I've been in Atlanta now twenty years.

1221
01:00:58,080 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the.

1222
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 5: Well I left because I can't be here for about

1223
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 5: five and then it's been five years since I've been back.

1224
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: What was Delaware like for you growing up there?

1225
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 3: It was it was quiet, so I was yeah, it

1226
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 3: was it was quiet. I was. I was right outside

1227
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 3: of Chester, so I was in Wilmington. So that's why

1228
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 3: Philly is so tight with me, because it's right.

1229
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 4: My littles just bought a house in Delaware.

1230
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Delaware is like way off

1231
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 3: the mat, and I was literally in Wilmington. Like claim,

1232
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 3: my area, which is probably maybe fifteen minutes.

1233
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 5: Is closer to the Philadelphia Airport than most places in

1234
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 5: Philadelphia's close to the Philadelphia Airport is like really right there.

1235
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 3: Right there, Okay, but there I think the biggest, the

1236
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 3: biggest take that I got from out there was expansion

1237
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 3: because growing up there there really wasn't too much to do,

1238
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 3: so you had to like kind of like entertain yourself.

1239
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 3: So that's where I really got into music and really

1240
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: got into like promotion and understanding certain things and how

1241
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 3: to move, because I think that's the biggest thing that

1242
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 3: all creatives should understand, is like knowing how to move,

1243
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 3: like knowing how to know when it's your moment, knowing

1244
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 3: how to execute when it's your time, knowing how to

1245
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 3: sit back and play your role and execute and attack

1246
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 3: when it's time to attack. And I think that's what

1247
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 3: I learned in Delaware because we didn't have nothing. We

1248
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 3: didn't have nothing, so it was like, Okay, I'm go

1249
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 3: out here and put as much work as I can.

1250
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 3: And then I went to college in Orlando. And then

1251
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 3: when I went to Orlando, I said, Okay, this is

1252
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 3: a bigger market. Let me just enhance what I was

1253
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 3: already doing in Delaware and now utilize having resources. Let

1254
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 3: me utilize the fact that there's clubs, and let me

1255
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 3: utilize the facts that there's colleges, and let me utilize

1256
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 3: the fact that I'm older now. And then when I

1257
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 3: got into the songwriting twenty nineteen and went to LA.

1258
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 3: I used the same process that I did, and that's

1259
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 3: where I'm at now. Is like, I'm so humble and

1260
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 3: grateful to be where I'm at because I really love this,

1261
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 3: Like this is work. It's also like a passion of mine.

1262
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 3: So I don't really look to get invited to parties.

1263
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't really want to be too much in the mix.

1264
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 3: Like when people found out I don't love hi party

1265
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 3: was a lot of people that was like, oh, don't

1266
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,959
Speaker 3: be on there drinks. I'm like, bro, you must not.

1267
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: Know me because I'm not wait for this.

1268
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 3: I'm excited. Yeah, I'm excited.

1269
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: We're excited for you. It seems like you two compliment

1270
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: each other very well, so that's important, and we appreciate

1271
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: y'all for coming up here today and being so open

1272
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: and honestly, I think it's a cute love story.

1273
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 4: It's your whole love story. I'm just happy.

1274
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, they look so genuinely.

1275
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 7: And they're matching.

1276
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: Man, let me tell you.

1277
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 2: Right Earlier, I had no idea that he was were

1278
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 2: living in two different places and I was.

1279
01:03:57,360 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 3: Like, I text her, I said, because I was staying

1280
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 3: at my because I've been back and forth from New

1281
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 3: York and Delaware. Like what you said seventeen days.

1282
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 2: Has been I was like, see you a seventeen years damn.

1283
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 1: So I texted her two nights ago about to go down.

1284
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 3: I tooted it two nights ago, and I was like,

1285
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 3: I got this cool outfit. I can't wait for you

1286
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:22,439
Speaker 3: to see it. Shorted the shoes though, because I don't

1287
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 3: I don't never get Gucci, but I was like, let me.

1288
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 3: I like bigger shoes. I was like, let me grab these.

1289
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 3: But then I didn't want to show her the shirt

1290
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 3: or nothing else. So then we get to the hotel

1291
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 3: and then I pull out the outf and she was like,

1292
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 3: Olive two said, what a line.

1293
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 2: But it happens every time, every.

1294
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 3: Time it is flatter she she snapped, this is a

1295
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 3: beauty dress when she walked, because look, every time she

1296
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 3: puts on an outfit, it motivates me too to make

1297
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 3: sure that I matched.

1298
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: Make sure fly her fly.

1299
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like she'd be having that ship,

1300
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 3: she'd be having that having I'd be trying, but you

1301
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 3: be having that making everything look good. So oh my god,

1302
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 3: you guys, Like when she put it on and she

1303
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 3: was walking and I was just looking at the whole

1304
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 3: with the fingerwaves.

1305
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: Like that's my wife.

1306
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 2: I was like, she's gonna do it, you know it

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01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 2: all nails everything.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys so much for coming through. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. I know you'll need to spend some time

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01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 1: some a loone time together.

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Speaker 4: We appreciate and.

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Speaker 1: We'll be watching love and hip hop. Okay, you better

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Speaker 1: represent for us, yes, you know, because we we we need.

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Speaker 2: Another trip, like we need a triple we do like

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01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 2: a real trip, like a vacation trip, maybe like like

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Speaker 2: the gang, so you can meet some you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm there. Fun that's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I'm serious and.

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Speaker 1: Definition in no.

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Speaker 4: But she's saying, like.

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Speaker 1: You should know Geral the situation. I remember. I remember

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01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 1: the probas she.

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Speaker 3: Wants to go. We can go. It's just our schedules,

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01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,000
Speaker 3: like we'll be ready to do something and then we'll

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Speaker 3: get an email. Hey you got to be damn this.

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Speaker 1: What you do. We book a trip, but make it

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01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: like something that is a work trip so that people

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01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: make some money and get some places to stay, but

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Speaker 1: then stay even longer.

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Speaker 5: You know, that's always used mindset, you know, it is.

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Speaker 4: We gotta figure that out.

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Speaker 1: Where we go us Virgin Islands, play with it islands, okay,

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01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 1: want it for you guys.

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Speaker 2: We're it's like somewhere nice, you know what I mean.

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01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 2: And then it's like just us so we can still

1338
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Speaker 2: get comfortable. Somebody trying to put the glamor on all.

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Speaker 1: Be regular. Yeah, at some point saying something, saying something.

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Speaker 3: One place that you went to that was cool. I

1341
01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: couldn't go because I was working. Where I go You

1342
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 3: went with storming his wife and it was like, y'all

1343
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 3: was it valley or something? What was it?

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01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 1: Where was that?

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01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 3: As far? It was somewhere y'all went.

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01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, we're not doing this.

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01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 3: It was far far you went somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Where was that?

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01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 1: I don't remember. We're going right to us Virgin is and.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Yea, We're gonna figure this out. We're gonna get this,

1352
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You have a good time,

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01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: all right, But thank you guys again so much. This

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01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: was really a pleasure to say with you. I always

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01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: loved seeing you, yes in real life, always happy always, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, finally got you on the couch.

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01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 5: Remember we need that Doom episode COVID were on the.

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01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 4: Couch and you here with your love. Amazing.

1359
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 1: Got Derek out here opening up, letting people see his personality. Yeah,

1360
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,960
Speaker 1: you got me crying now.

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01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 3: This is a beautiful platform like what you guys doing

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01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 3: here and just be able to get people to speak

1363
01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 3: on things that they might like. You're making a safe space.

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01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 3: So I commend you all for doing what you do.

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01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:20,639
Speaker 4: Ye get married.

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01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna get nasty next time. Y'all come back.

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01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 2: Don't get your business.

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01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 1: All right? Service, Thank you showing much Derek Milano. Of course,

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Speaker 1: Angela White, we appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you,