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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 1: We are, yes, indeed we are, and we are live.

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Speaker 2: Well we are not alive, but we're live in the studio.

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Speaker 1: You mean in real life.

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Speaker 2: We're all in the same room for the first time

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Speaker 2: in almost three years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild.

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Speaker 3: This is great. This takes me back. I picture you

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Speaker 3: sitting there with Jason George from Grayson Anatomy in that

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Speaker 3: same chair.

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Speaker 2: I don't love it well to be a little bit closer.

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Speaker 1: So this is very far, like I cannot touch you.

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Speaker 1: That's great for who not you?

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Speaker 2: Not you?

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Speaker 1: You know you like it when we're next to each other.

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Speaker 2: It's wonderful to be back with the crew all in here.

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Speaker 1: And be back in general. Because I've been gone.

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Speaker 2: For a minute.

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Speaker 1: That has been globe trotting, I would say I have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been globe trotting. I went to Hawaii for

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Speaker 2: my birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was great.

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Speaker 2: We went to Kawai and it was just like beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I think I may have broken my toe on a hike,

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Speaker 2: which that happened day one, so like we landed, had

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Speaker 2: like a nice night at our Airbnb and then the

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Speaker 2: next day we went on like a waterfall hike and

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Speaker 2: I slept on like a rock and I think I

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Speaker 2: broke my toe, which toe number four.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and toes are hard to like really figure out

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Speaker 1: if you did something too.

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Speaker 2: And even if there because Hayley was like, you should

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Speaker 2: get it next rain and I'm like, why they don't

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Speaker 2: do they don't press it.

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Speaker 1: They'll be like it's broken. They'll probably be like, don't

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Speaker 1: walk the rest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like, well, I'm going to New York

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Speaker 2: with my mother, so there's no time for resting.

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Speaker 1: And we had a lovely time.

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Speaker 2: It was great. Definitely missed you.

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Speaker 1: Missed you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you'll ever be able to go

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Speaker 2: on a birthday trip again, because you that's your anniversary.

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Speaker 1: But why don't we do it on your actual birthday?

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Speaker 1: Isn't that we do the Halloween party? Well, we don't

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Speaker 1: have to do a Halloween party. We can do your

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Speaker 1: birthday weekend. Well that's up to you. Yeah, yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I can rearrange the whole Halloween

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Speaker 2: birth Halloween party thing for your anniversary specifically, but maybe.

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Speaker 1: I will, and maybe my anniversary will change.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so, don't get married on that weekend please, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, November doesn't feel like my month anyway.

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Speaker 2: What does feel like your mom?

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Speaker 1: More like May?

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 1: A spring, spring time, springtime, spring fleeing.

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Speaker 2: Do we feel like that's on the horizon or anything?

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Speaker 2: You're just hypothetically yeah, just hypothetic, hypothetically speaking. Okay, great,

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Speaker 2: So so like, is that what happens like once you

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Speaker 2: because would you no longer celebrate.

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Speaker 1: Your dating anniversary? Probably not. I feel like you once

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Speaker 1: you get married, you celebrate your marriage.

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Speaker 3: I tried to sync them up. I asked my wife

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Speaker 3: a year out from our fifth anniversary. The plan was,

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Speaker 3: I asked her on our fourth anniversary, we get married

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Speaker 3: on our fifth anniversary, but we just have one anniversary.

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Speaker 3: I even made sure our fifth anniversary was a Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: It didn't work out because she had to start school

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Speaker 3: exotic animals. We ended up getting married about a month earlier.

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Speaker 3: So now the dataversary is just completely forgotten except by me,

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Speaker 3: and I always say to her on that day. I

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Speaker 3: what did I forget? And then she remembers the dataversary.

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Speaker 1: See, I kind of wanted to synk them up too,

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Speaker 1: because I like that it's that that's just like our date,

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Speaker 1: But I just don't see myself getting married in November.

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Speaker 1: November is so beautiful, though. Oh it's like it's cold.

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Speaker 1: I can't go. My shoulders cannot be exposed in this weather.

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Speaker 3: It's seven.

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Speaker 2: It's summer year round.

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Speaker 1: This is not summer. I was outside last night with

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Speaker 1: So that's great food for thought.

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna be thinking about that because I was

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Speaker 2: thinking on the Hawaii trip. I was like, I'm never

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Speaker 2: gonna get to have Tanya. If we do this weekend,

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Speaker 2: If we do the Halloween party every year and then

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Speaker 2: we do my birthday trip and it happens to be

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Speaker 2: that next weekend, you.

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Speaker 1: Don't have to do a birthday trip every year. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's fun. You could have a birthday party.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah right, you're right. Yeah yeah, Well

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Speaker 2: we'll get We'll get there next year. Yeah yeah. And

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Speaker 2: then I went to New York with my mom and

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Speaker 1: Just went through Hawaii that past. Yeah, well Hawaii broke

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Speaker 2: Goodbye broke my toe. We went to the beach. It

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Speaker 2: was just beautiful. Like I love Kawai because it's so

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Speaker 1: Something about serene.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something about like the rain. It rains almost

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Speaker 1: It to muse that too when it rains in La Like,

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Speaker 2: It reminds me of clean by Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like the roads. There's no more oil on the road.

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Speaker 1: It's like clean roads, and the sky looks crisp.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so I just there's something about Hawaii in general,

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Speaker 2: but specifically Kwi that like really invigorates me.

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Speaker 1: Did you do a lot of thoughts about this new

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Speaker 1: year of life? No, no thinking.

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Speaker 2: I tried not to think about it, tried to just

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Speaker 1: Any stay nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'll do that at New Year's only, you know,

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Speaker 2: talk about our man of you know whatever, vision boards

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Speaker 2: but it was really fun to just go and my sister,

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Speaker 2: freshman year of high school. We have known each other

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Speaker 2: for twenty years, which really that really struck a chord

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oof, it's really good enough this

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Speaker 2: swallow And this certainly was a.

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Speaker 1: Large pill to swallow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was really fun to be with her.

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Speaker 2: And then obviously Haley and Marla came, and Marla is

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Speaker 2: Hailey's best friend, makeup artist who's also become one of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it was really funny. I feel very significant

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Speaker 1: that you were on you were on your birthday trip

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Speaker 1: and Ali Grant was at my dog's birthday party. Oh well,

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Speaker 1: so I was like, this is a moment, this is

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Speaker 2: It was really you know, I didn't think that I

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Speaker 2: all right, have fun, but my not like that birthday party.

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Speaker 2: I I need like the details for the next party

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Speaker 2: I planned. And I literally was thinking, I wonder Phoebe

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Speaker 1: It was like. The funniest thing is like I was

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Speaker 1: So I was like constantly just like picking up poop

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Speaker 1: weren't always on sunny, so she could have been pooping.

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Speaker 1: But I was like on poop patrol.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was a dare I say, the

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Speaker 2: party of the Honestly, we were every detail that you

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Speaker 2: kept posting. I was like, she well, I was just

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Speaker 2: laughing because we had done a fitting for a photo shoot,

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Speaker 2: which we'll talk about in a little bit, and we

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Speaker 2: were talking about I had there was a sweater that

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Speaker 2: this style was pulled. It was like a really expensive sweater,

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Speaker 2: but it was like beautiful, and I was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: just gonna do it, like I'm gonna going to New York.

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Speaker 2: I work to New York, which I didn't even end

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Speaker 2: up taking it anyways. Tony was like, I can't believe

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Speaker 2: he'd spend that much on a sweater, and I was thinking,

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Speaker 2: after seeing that birthday party, I was like, we spend

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Speaker 2: our money differently.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I would never spend that money on that sweater,

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Speaker 1: like literally ever, but I would spend it on my

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Speaker 1: dog's birthday, no, no problem, Like no questions asked.

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Speaker 2: So is this going to be an annual thing or

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Speaker 2: is this just like a one year old birthday party?

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Speaker 1: Annual? Oh? Wow? Every year just going to get bigger

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Speaker 1: and bigger. I mean I have a bigger and bigger

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Speaker 1: I mean we definitely could probably done more dogs. And

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Speaker 1: I think it needs to be earlier in the day

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Speaker 1: because it was chilly. Okay, yeah, but you know, I

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Speaker 1: learned a lot from that experience and I will take

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Speaker 1: that into her next one. And Robbie's just like loves it.

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Speaker 1: He's totally do you see the matching sweaters?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, him wearing the matching sweater doesn't actually equal

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Speaker 1: Oh, you know, just like wearing it like he does that.

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Speaker 1: I asked him before I ordered them, and he was

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Speaker 1: just like absolutely, and he's like, yeah, sunny sweater. I

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Speaker 1: love that for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, but you did get me a sweater.

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Speaker 1: Phoebe actually went to the party with.

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Speaker 2: Heidi, who is babysitting her, and I just thought it

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Speaker 2: was so funny because every photo I saw Heidi was

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Speaker 2: holding Phoebe like like in like representing me.

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Speaker 1: I got so many dms of people being like I

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Speaker 1: love that Becca's not there, but Phoebe wouldn't miss it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like exactly, it's like when your mom is

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Speaker 2: you know, like when your mom would have like I

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Speaker 2: remember being invited to THINGU and if my other siblings

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Speaker 2: had things, it would be like I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be able to get you there, but like

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Speaker 2: my friend's mom would take me. It was like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like she was still going to the party whether I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was there.

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Speaker 2: So it was sending appreciative like did she understand.

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Speaker 1: So happy that Phoebe was there? Would not have been

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Speaker 2: Oh, I just met in general, like did she Do

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Speaker 2: you think she knew that it was for her?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I'm not happy for.

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Speaker 2: You to acknowledge that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was a good time. You were missed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm like, if I'm trying to be

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Speaker 2: Do you feel better? Like, have you noticed the difference yet?

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00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:35,800
Speaker 4: No?

442
00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,119
Speaker 2: Oh? How long has it hit?

443
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,520
Speaker 1: Like a month? Oh?

444
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 3: And what would have you had a buttered pop tart

445
00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 3: right now? What would happen to you?

446
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,840
Speaker 1: I have no idea. Oh wow, probably I have no idea.

447
00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 1: I mean you can have like hot flare ups, and

448
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 1: the flare ups make you just like really really fatigued

449
00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,399
Speaker 1: and like crash and like all that kind of stuff.

450
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 1: So we'll see. I haven't had a flare up, so

451
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. But I'm committed to like six months

452
00:19:55,920 --> 00:20:00,159
Speaker 1: of this and then if things don't pan out the

453
00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 1: way I hope, then I can maybe take medication or something.

454
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, all right, well stay tuned for the

455
00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 2: next six months.

456
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. I posted about like I can't use Brita filters

457
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,639
Speaker 1: anymore because they like apparently are really bad. They like

458
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 1: do not filter your water at all, and people were

459
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 1: shook to the core. I've never received more DMS in

460
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,920
Speaker 1: my life about anything than the Brita filter.

461
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

462
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 2: I could see where that would like trigger trigger somethingle

463
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 2: I've been using.

464
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,440
Speaker 1: A Brita filter for my whole life.

465
00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 3: Well, And I would also like to stand up for

466
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 3: tap water if I could, please, just for a moment.

467
00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with it. It's delicious, it's fine. Everything's

468
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,919
Speaker 3: fine with tap water. We have this image that's been

469
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 3: put in our heads by the bottled water industry that

470
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 3: tap water is disgusting. It's not. It's fine.

471
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,199
Speaker 1: No, there's a lot of chemicals in it, that.

472
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 3: Hashimotos argument, But generally speaking, it's really just fine.

473
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 2: I grew up drinking water all the hose.

474
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Speaker 6: I did that too. I did that too healthy as

475
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 6: a horse. I can withstand buttered pop tarts. You got

476
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,640
Speaker 6: to build your immune system, is the thing maybe tap.

477
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 1: Water is at tap water is how our.

478
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 2: Immune systems get stronger and we are being told that

479
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 2: we have to only drink this certain very expensive type

480
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 2: of water. Listen, I don't make the rules here.

481
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 1: No, Now you have an autoimmune disorder?

482
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that that's suspicious. Why are we having Why

483
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 2: are we getting these disorders?

484
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:31,239
Speaker 1: Like?

485
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 2: Why are we having to not be specific about what

486
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,680
Speaker 2: kind of water we drink? Because what's going into our food?

487
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 2: Why can't you go to Europe and eat bread and

488
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 2: cheese and not be affected by it? And then here

489
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 2: it's like people have to avoid it.

490
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 1: I have no idea.

491
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

492
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 1: It's going the wrong girl, But.

493
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for avoiding it because we live

494
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 2: in a society that is not easy for people to

495
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 2: be healthy and is also it costs money to.

496
00:21:56,280 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 1: Ye, Like, what is it fifteen ninety nine and this

497
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: new one that I bought was like eighty dollars. Is

498
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 1: it a new Bretta filter? No, it's a new filtration.

499
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: It's like it's the same vibe, like it's a picture

500
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: and it has like a thing. But I guess the

501
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: filter is like much stronger. Yeah, all right, stay tuned, folks.

502
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 2: We're gonna take a journey and then I want to

503
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: come back. Have you watched from scratch.

504
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: No, did you finish Love Is Blind? No? But I've

505
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: been saying a lot about it.

506
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: But we can discuss it because I watched enough of

507
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 2: it that I think I can hold a conversation about it.

508
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 2: But first we're going to.

509
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 1: Take a break. We'll be right back.

510
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: All right, We're back. So I didn't watch Love Is Blind.

511
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm not finished yet. Oh, but I'm.

512
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 2: Just been seeing stuff about the reunion. What are your

513
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 2: thoughts on it?

514
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the season.

515
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 2: Who do you like? Who has lasting power?

516
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: No? Oh, well, no, so I don't. I don't know

517
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: their names. So well, I don't know their name. So well,

518
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: there's one couple I really don't know. I know Raven

519
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: and sk and that's about it.

520
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're going to make it.

521
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I don't think they're going to

522
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: make it. She's the Plates, the Plates. Yeah, but there

523
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: is one couple that I think could make it. Were

524
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: they the first couple that? Yes, I think they have

525
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: lasting power? Out of all of them?

526
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: Why, what about them makes you feel like they just.

527
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: Seem genuinely compatible? You don't think so? From different worlds?

528
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 2: Well, I just remember when they first saw each other.

529
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I did not look like, oh really

530
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: that's how I felt.

531
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 2: Oh no, but maybe she maybe she's grown to all

532
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: the rest of them.

533
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like are having issues aside from them.

534
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 4: So I too would have issues if I got paired

535
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 4: up with someone and then was like, oh, now we're

536
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:03,400
Speaker 4: moving in together and I don't even know your last name.

537
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: I know, but one of the girls, it was funny.

538
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: They were having dinner and she was like saying how

539
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: she has to like compromise on a lot in the

540
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: relationship because he like leaves the towels on the floor

541
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 1: and leaves his dirty laundry in the scene or not

542
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: the sink for like whatever, all these things. And I'm like,

543
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: to me, those are just like superficial things that you

544
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: can like work on and like, you know what I mean,

545
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 1: that's not like the root of issues, right, But.

546
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 3: It's only going to get worse. I mean they've known

547
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 3: each other, what three days?

548
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: No, I think a week It okay, it's only going to.

549
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 3: Get worse from there. If TV's already doing that a

550
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 3: weekend when he's on his best behavior, you're in that

551
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 3: really exciting honeymoon kind of period. I think she's got

552
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 3: I think that's a red flag.

553
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: Listen, he's already a red flag.

554
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: I am so in love with Haley. But do I

555
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 2: have to tell her every time she pours something out

556
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 2: in the sink that she needs to rinse out the sink. Yes,

557
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 2: it doesn't annoy me every time.

558
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: Yes. My favorite is Robbie like takes his like I'll

559
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: pick a his sweatpants off the floor and like the

560
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 1: socks are still in them. Like I'm like, how is

561
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: this even? Like do you just disrobe with like your

562
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: just take everything off all at once? I'm like, how

563
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: does this even happen? Like I take off my socks,

564
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 1: put them in the hamper, pants, put it in the hamper, underwear,

565
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: put it in the hamper, and it's just like he

566
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: like jumps out of his clothes. It's so funny.

567
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 3: It's funny.

568
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: Now, No, still annoying?

569
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, good. Yeah.

570
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 2: I mean there's things where I'm just like, you know,

571
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 2: the Helen and I used to have this argument about

572
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 2: She would say that I was so messy, which I don't.

573
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: I consider myself messy, but like you're messy, I know,

574
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 2: but like I'm very you know away, and I just

575
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: get a lot of stuff. So it's like I constantly

576
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: am needing to like go through and purge and organize,

577
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 2: and but she won't take accountability that she too is messy.

578
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 2: And so I'll have my house clean, I'll take the

579
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: time to like clean put everything up, and she'll come

580
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: home and it'll be like all her stuff in the

581
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: front corner and like multiple pairs of shoes, and I'm like,

582
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: which ones are you wearing?

583
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 1: Because I don't need all of them out here. Like

584
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 1: it's so funny because I think I am I'm like

585
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: very clean, Like my apartment looks like a museum, Like

586
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: it looks like nobody lives in it, because I am

587
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: like that big of a need for you. But even

588
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: when I, even when I was living in it, it

589
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: looked like nobody lived in it. You have to agree,

590
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: Like it's like my all my blankets are rolled up,

591
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 1: all my pillows are fluffed, like my my stuff is clean,

592
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,959
Speaker 1: and I have had to unclench a lot and like

593
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: learn to compromise in many ways. And I think he's

594
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: also doing the same thing, you know what I mean,

595
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: Like he is putting like the same shoes are all

596
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 1: over the place. He's like starting to kind of but

597
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: it is interesting. I feel like it's been a very

598
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: good uh unclencher for me because I think I was

599
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: very tightly wound for a long time, and I think

600
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 1: it was it was good. I needed to kind of

601
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: like relax also because throwing kids in the mix, like

602
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 1: things are just not it's not museum, no, no.

603
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 2: And like the the whole thing about being a kid

604
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 2: is like letting them be messy, right, you know yeah,

605
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 2: because like they're gonna have to clean up eventually, so

606
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: let this time be where they get to be. Obviously

607
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: have rules and boundaries, but like they can be messy.

608
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 5: My favorite thing is Robbie Leaves, like the cabinet drawers,

609
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 5: Like every cabinet drawer is like open, Like I'm like,

610
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 5: isn't that hard to like just close this one and

611
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 5: push that one in? Like it's there's four or five

612
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 5: open partially open at all times. And He's like, you know,

613
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 5: just you never know if you're gonna need to like

614
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 5: go back in there, and I'm like he always tries

615
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 5: to justify it, and I'm.

616
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 2: Like, no, just close them and then open it.

617
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: Cabinets made it very easy to taste safe yet two

618
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: point five seconds.

619
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: I also I'm like, I would rather her leave whatever,

620
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: like the cheat. Whatever she eats in the bowl, just

621
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 2: like in the sink, not pour it out. I'd rather

622
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 2: just be sitting there. She's gonna put it in the sink,

623
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: Just leave it in the bowl and I'll I'll cleanly

624
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: pour it down the disposal.

625
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: You know, it is saying all the random like little

626
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: tiny things.

627
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, imagine meeting someone you don't even know

628
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 2: if you like them yet.

629
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: What they're all love, Tanya, I know what they are.

630
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: They've all said I love you.

631
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 3: They've all that does not you said they've known each

632
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 3: other a week, then you're not in love after a week,

633
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 3: says who says the world, that's you're not in love.

634
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 2: I will say I I was definitely in something with Haley,

635
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 2: but I was with her. They fell in love through

636
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: a wall and then they saw each other and they're like,

637
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: hold on.

638
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: Hold on, I don't know about this. I don't know guys.

639
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well, well we don't have to get into that.

640
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 2: So one couple has lasting power.

641
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: That's it. That's my prediction as of date.

642
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch it because I heard the reunion's crazy

643
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: and that's a reason.

644
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: Why I were watching too, just to get to the reunion.

645
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 2: Well, I started watching the series from scratch and my

646
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: sister had told me it's devastating, so I knew it

647
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 2: was gonna be sad going into it.

648
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: See, I can't do that to myself.

649
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: I cried so hard last night that like my eyes.

650
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: I told Haley, I can't watch the next episode because

651
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: my my head hurts from crying so hard.

652
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna stary. And it's a true.

653
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: Story, not for me, and I won't give anything away,

654
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 2: but I will say it's very sad and the fact

655
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, there's something about like the story about

656
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 2: someone falling in love with someone and it being such

657
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 2: a like soul connection, and.

658
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: Then someone dies tragedy, and you're just.

659
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: Like, it's not fair, and it's like, obviously the story

660
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 2: is sad in itself, but then knowing it's someone's experience

661
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: and what they went through, it's devastating. I would say,

662
00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 2: if you're gonna watch it, just just no, and I'm

663
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: going to make you feel good. But it's also beautiful.

664
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 2: It does make you feel good, Like there are parts

665
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: of it where you're like, wow, this is so beautiful

666
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 2: and it's like it's based around like yummy food and

667
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: like travel, and there's something about that that's really beautiful.

668
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: But it's so sad.

669
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 3: A lot of buzz on that show, and I was

670
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: considering it, but that puts me off.

671
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: I must say, well, okay, it's no sadder than what

672
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: we've gone through for nineteen seasons on Gray's Anatomy.

673
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I just watched, and it's amazing.

674
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: I cannot shut up about it. Is Black Panther Waconda Forever. Ohoh,

675
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: it was so good. I thought I was going to

676
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: be bored because it's two hours and forty minutes and

677
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: that's very long me and I was glued to the screen.

678
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: I was so obsessed with it, and like, I can't

679
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: shut up about it.

680
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: Did you cry?

681
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: I didn't cry. I cried at the end. I cried

682
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: at the end, but just like a little cry, like

683
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: a little like tear, not like sobbed. Okay, but it

684
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: was so good, Like it's so good type praise.

685
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 3: Because you're not the target audience for Black Panther Wakanda Forever.

686
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she also liked.

687
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: Sonic the Hedgehog.

688
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 3: Good point.

689
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: I forget good. Yeah, I keep you on your toes

690
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: with the with what I'm watching. Yeah, this is more

691
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: of like we were going to a movie with the boys.

692
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: So I did not pick this movie, but I was like, whatever,

693
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: it's fun, cute, I'll have a glass of wine before

694
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: And I really really loved it, like really really loved

695
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: it rave review. Yeah, like I would see it again. Wow.

696
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: On that Rihanna song too.

697
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I did the Rihanna songs that is it's

698
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: like ends the movie and now I'm like obsessed with

699
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: the Rihanna song, like obsessed with it.

700
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 2: You don't like it before?

701
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: No?

702
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 2: Why it was like slow? Oh yeah, I think people

703
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 2: thought she was gonna come out with the really fast song.

704
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

705
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: Bangers can be slow.

706
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: Though, Like, which, where's a slow banger? Give me a

707
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: slow banger? All too well? Banger, banger, it's a banger.

708
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: It's not a bank ten minute version.

709
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 3: I think we have different definitions.

710
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think banger is not bang. You're not banging.

711
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: Oh you have to be. A banger is like a bop,

712
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: like a Megan Trainer made you look. Oh that's a

713
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: good one. That's a banger.

714
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: Okay, But here's the top definition. An Urban Dictionary of

715
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 3: banger A super awesome song, the kind you listen to

716
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 3: for three hours on repeat.

717
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 2: A banger all too well.

718
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 3: To well as a banger by that definition, but it's

719
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 3: not a banger. They have to be upbeat. Does it

720
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 3: have to be a club banger?

721
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: A banger, Tanya, A banger has to be upbeat?

722
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, A banger needs to be like a club banger. Yeah,

723
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: like they're not banging all too well.

724
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 3: He needs to be banged.

725
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, a part of the body.

726
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 2: My head bangs when it gets to that, like one

727
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: spot so casually cruel in the name of being all but.

728
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: It's not really a bang. That's like a sway like.

729
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:50,959
Speaker 6: Oh no, I'm banging really, not like I'm so casually cruel.

730
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: It's all too well. Slap related question, okay it Slapscott.

731
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: Also what slaps could have? Would have? Should have? Yeah?

732
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: I told you about that.

733
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,959
Speaker 2: Of should have, and I know everyone did. Everyone was like,

734
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 2: where is this on your top? It was like I

735
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 2: would say, the one of the lower songs.

736
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: It's like my number three right now. Wow, I just.

737
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: The bridge of that song. Really it hits that slaps.

738
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a banger.

739
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 2: That's okay. I remember this part of the correct would have,

740
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: could have.

741
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 3: Should have?

742
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, yeah, yeah that song and that's about

743
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: allegedly about John Mayer, allegedly but not Jake Jollenhall. What

744
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: are your top two still seduled? Is still number one?

745
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: And Karma's number two?

746
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: Oh? Is that a new number two? No?

747
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: I was always up there, and then three is to

748
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: what it should and then oh my god, and then

749
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: sweet nothing interesting.

750
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 2: That might be my last one.

751
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: I know, it's so good. It's cute.

752
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not like, I don't know. Yeah, I don't know,

753
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 2: though it could come out of its.

754
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Still your number one. It's up there.

755
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, But they've stayed pretty consistent, like Midnight Rain, I

756
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 2: love you know what I love is a Mastermind when

757
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 2: she says I I couldn't lose, checkmate, I couldn't lose.

758
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do like master That one's growing up anymore too.

759
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: All right, great, all right, we'll do another check in

760
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: in a couple of.

761
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: Weeks on that. It's consistently changing, honestly, I know.

762
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 2: But that's what's so great about the album is that.

763
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: Bigger than the whole Sky too is pretty up there

764
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: for me, so sad, I know.

765
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 2: Especially if the Oh my gosh, don't listen to that

766
00:34:55,840 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 2: after you watch from scratch. Wow, I could cry just

767
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 2: thinking about it. We are going to take a break

768
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 2: and we'll be back with emails. All right, Well, we

769
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 2: just discussed that we have not all caught up on

770
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,720
Speaker 2: grades except for Mark, thank you. But I did see

771
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 2: what was the all the news about Ellen Pompeo.

772
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,959
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we know where her last episode is gonna

773
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: be or something.

774
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 2: So she's just gone.

775
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: She's gonna be.

776
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: She was just gonna be like scattered in and out

777
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 2: of the season.

778
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what I should say, because it

779
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 3: would spoil things for you.

780
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 2: Does she leave with what's his name? Back to wherever

781
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:48,479
Speaker 2: they came from?

782
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,959
Speaker 3: Well, she's not gone gone, right, Is she gone gone?

783
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:51,760
Speaker 1: That's what they're saying.

784
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 3: Well, i'm watching the show, you're not.

785
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, These are their articles written on the interweb.

786
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 3: All right, Well, she's moving to Boston to continue Alzheimer's search.

787
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 3: But I know that meant she was out of the show.

788
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 3: I assumed that I was initiating her light her role

789
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 3: for the next of the rest of the season. I

790
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 3: assume we'll check in and see how things.

791
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 2: Are going but I thought there was this thing that

792
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 2: said that she was only going to be in nine

793
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: episodes this season or something. Okay, yeah, and she's been

794
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 2: in what four or five? How many have there been?

795
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: Four?

796
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 3: Not sure? Five?

797
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: So that feels like we have limited She's really going

798
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 1: to be sprinkled.

799
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 3: In staying behind us.

800
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: Now that's god speedman.

801
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Scottie speeds.

802
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 1: So what was that whole set up for?

803
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 3: Well, we'll see, I don't know.

804
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: We'll see how this relationship. You guys are.

805
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 3: Reading an article on Good Housekeeping dot com and then

806
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,399
Speaker 3: you're just like taking that as gospel. Watch the show

807
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 3: and see how it plays out.

808
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: I'm just saying they've been teasing this.

809
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: Are we aren't we?

810
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: Are we going to live? Is it going to be

811
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 2: a thing for like a year? Two seasons? Now?

812
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 3: Maybe that's maybe it's going to pay off handsomely.

813
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 2: I just missed the days where it was dear mayor forever.

814
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: Right, like, let's commit to each other and let's go

815
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 1: full speed ahead.

816
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: Even when Derek and Meredith weren't together, they still felt

817
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 2: like they were together, and you were just like longing

818
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: for moments of them in the elevator together.

819
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

820
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 3: Anyways, all right, February twenty third is supposedly her last

821
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 3: show as a full time cast member. That she's gone

822
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 3: right right, right, right, right right, but that's when she

823
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 3: cuts back. Great, I'm all for it. I like the

824
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 3: new crew.

825
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: February is going to be here before you know. Let

826
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: me just tell you, Okay, yeah, it's the end of

827
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 1: the year, like we're done. Twenty twenty two is no.

828
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 4: Oh.

829
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 2: I wanted to get y'all's opinions on this because I

830
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: have mixed feelings about like, for instance, I still have

831
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 2: my pumpkins on my front porch because it's still like

832
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 2: harvest time, right we have Thanksgiving, and like.

833
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can still have but not those like orangee

834
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: like halloweeny ones, but you can have like those weird

835
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: small ones.

836
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 2: Small ones are on my front porch and that's just

837
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 2: because I literally have been gone since Halloween. But I

838
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I'm going to keep them up through Thanksgiving.

839
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 2: And now I'm getting like even the packages i'm getting

840
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 2: are all Christmas, and I feel so rushed, and I'm like,

841
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I'm behind. But we haven't even hit Thanksgiving.

842
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I love Christmas is my favorite time.

843
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: Of the year. I love it, but I.

844
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 2: Also there's something about that being that like special time,

845
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: and I feel like it feels rushed right now, like

846
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: we're and we're skipping through Thanksgiving.

847
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: Do you feel that anyone?

848
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 3: I like that me too.

849
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: I'm like skipping through things, not skipping it. But it's

850
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: like you don't, Decker. I mean I don't. I've never

851
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: been like a Thanksgiving decoratur So to me, it's just

852
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: like making a winter wonderland or just making a winter wonderland.

853
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 2: But it's fall though it's not winter yet, says who. Well,

854
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: like California.

855
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: Once the the time changes and it's like dark at

856
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: three pm, like it's wintertime, I'm a little the parka

857
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 1: and throw up your Christmas trap.

858
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 2: I'm all like, do what Like if you want to

859
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: leave your Christmas lights up till January, that's what I do.

860
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 2: Then you go for it if that brings you joy.

861
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 2: But I guess growing up, it was always like we

862
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:04,320
Speaker 2: didn't even put out Christmas decorations or anything until Thanksgiving

863
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 2: day or like the day after.

864
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, times are changed now, I know, I guess.

865
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: I'm like you know, when you have something stuck in

866
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 2: your head and you're just like, wait, this feels so soon.

867
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. I feel like Easton's with me

868
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 2: on this.

869
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:18,919
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we have Thanksgiving decorations at our house.

870
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 3: We have a nice little scarecrow.

871
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, scarecrow's cute. Actually, I like this time. I

872
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: want to go as long as possible, uh, because I

873
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: don't know, you just get.

874
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 3: So many more seasons that way.

875
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: That's how I feel.

876
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 2: It's like we have this time of like fall and

877
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 2: harvest and gratitude, and then it moves into joy and

878
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: Christmas and the holidays.

879
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: But the thing is, once Thanksgiving happens, it's like Christmas

880
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: is basically done. Like the year. No, the year is

881
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: like gone. I don't think you guys understand, Like.

882
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,959
Speaker 2: It goes so fast, but everything has gone fast.

883
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: Summer went fast, so like why not enjoy it for longer?

884
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. But I personally, I'm feeling

885
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: like rushed, and I'm like it's okay that I'm still

886
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 2: hot pumpkins, Like it's okay.

887
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do you there's a lot more promotion of

888
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: Christmas more. I think I want to get a real wreath, well,

889
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: like a living wreath, because I have fake ones like

890
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: I have like one like holiday one and one non

891
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: holiday one. But I think I want a real, like

892
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: smelling one.

893
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 2: Oh, do you to get a real tree?

894
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: I usually do a real tree. Okay, yeah, same, I

895
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: love a real tree. But that the thing is that

896
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: real trees don't come up till they don't sell them

897
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: to after Thanksgiving. Are you sure about that? No?

898
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 3: No, I'm pretty sure that's right.

899
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty sure that. Yeah, so that limits my

900
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: make tree time. And I was thinking about doing it

901
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: this weekend.

902
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: So well, you could get the real wreath maybe.

903
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, and then just do a fake tree

904
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: so we'll live that long.

905
00:40:59,719 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 2: Yeah.

906
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:01,280
Speaker 1: I think I probably lived through January.

907
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: That's the other thing. Is like keeping a tree, if

908
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: I were to decorate now, keeping a tree alive for

909
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 2: almost two months is like, that's hard work. I can

910
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: barely keep a plant. I can't keep plants alive, so.

911
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: I just put water in it.

912
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 2: That's a little bit about me what I've been feeling personally.

913
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: Wait, there was something that I was gonna say when

914
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: you brought up the Christmas stuff, and I totally forgot.

915
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: Do you remember when Brad thought I was beca Tobin.

916
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 3: That was hilarious.

917
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: It was so funny, like it really caught me off guard.

918
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: And I know Beca Tobin well and he said Bradley Tobin.

919
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: I was like, what, Yeah.

920
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 2: The video was so funny because if you heard it,

921
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 2: it was funny. But then seeing the video of the

922
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 2: confidence in his face when he said it was like

923
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: he never had a doubt that he was.

924
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: Saying the wrong one. Yeah, And then I was like,

925
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, yeah, Brad's gonna be canceled from the Scrubbers.

926
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 2: No, no, because we love Beca Tobin, so it was

927
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 2: it was fair game then.

928
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. But I will say that it did.

929
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 2: Seem like there's demand for Brad and we used to

930
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 2: have him on like regularly on the Man all I know,

931
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,760
Speaker 2: we got to have that frequent guess. So I'm glad

932
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 2: to know he's still into being.

933
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: Part of the podcast. Yeah, he loves the Scrubbers. He's

934
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: booked and busy. He's kind of a lot going on,

935
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

936
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: I just was like, you know, maybe he's moved on

937
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 2: to bigger and better, but I'm glad to see he

938
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: still makes time. Yes, still takes time when we need him.

939
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: The scrubbers really have a place in his heart. You

940
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: know that can never be replaced by anything.

941
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: No, it really can't, No, by nothing.

942
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: Nothing.

943
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: Shall we get into email.

944
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 3: This is from Anonymous. A little backstory. She says, my

945
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 3: husband and I have been having problems since the end

946
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 3: of September. I thought those problems were because he's been

947
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 3: through so much trauma with his own parents. His mom

948
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: just got remarried for these seventh time. His dad just

949
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 3: got divorced for the fourth time. I'd like to have

950
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: a side conversation about that in a few minutes, but

951
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 3: that's not why I'm emailing. I found out today from

952
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 3: phone records that he received and called my my new

953
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 3: sister in law multiple times a day since the end

954
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 3: of September. When he's on the way to work, he

955
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 3: calls her. When he's leaving work, he calls her. She

956
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 3: comes over to our house numerous times to see my son. Supposedly,

957
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 3: he says it once a week, it's every day, and

958
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: they've been hiding it because there's no record of the

959
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 3: calls on his phone. Mind you, I've been working my

960
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 3: ass off to fix our marriage. It got us into

961
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,439
Speaker 3: counseling two weeks ago. I'm doing my best to talk

962
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 3: with him, but he keeps saying, I've got nothing to say.

963
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 3: He does a therapist. I don't like talking to people.

964
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 3: Keep in mind, we're living with my parents, my brother

965
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 3: and her live across the street, So my questions are,

966
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 3: what the heck do I do? He says, all that's

967
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 3: happening is she is complaining about my family and my brother,

968
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 3: which I don't love. But I haven't sat down with

969
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 3: him yet because I honestly don't want to hear more

970
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 3: about it or know the full truth. How would you

971
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 3: go about sitting down with him? How would I handle

972
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 3: all of this with my brother moving forward? Would you

973
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 3: think it got to an emotional connection? I mean, how

974
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 3: can you not?

975
00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: Like?

976
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: This is like red fly?

977
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 2: Yes, all over the place, because I mean, where do

978
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 2: where does one Because.

979
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: If they're both just bitching about their fa and delete it? Like,

980
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: why would bad? In general?

981
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: It's bad, that's bad, But like and then if it wasn't,

982
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 2: if it was only that, like complaining about the family

983
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: or whatever, why would you hide it? Why would you

984
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 2: delete it off the phone?

985
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't know.

986
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 3: Clearly has something to hide. Clearly he knows he's in

987
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 3: the wrong. Here, and clearly a line has been crossed.

988
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's a physical line, but a line

989
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 3: has been crossed.

990
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: It's bad. What does she do? Does she?

991
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like he's even it seems like he's

992
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 2: very much like not down to have a conversation.

993
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 3: I hate that he's going to therapy and just shutting

994
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 3: his mouth and sitting there with his arms crossed. I

995
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,280
Speaker 3: mean that's awful. Yeah, you're not going to get anywhere

996
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 3: that way. I'm surprised he's even agreed to go.

997
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 2: Well, he probably thinks that he's like, well, I'm going

998
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 2: to therapy.

999
00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know right, the this is bad.

1000
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: Does she talk to the brother first and say like, hey,

1001
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 2: have you noticed.

1002
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 3: The brother should definitely be involved in this because she's

1003
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 3: not His wife isn't treating him well either. Whatever they're

1004
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 3: doing together, even if it's just conversation, lines are being crossed,

1005
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 3: So you go to the brother first.

1006
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm.

1007
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: I would try and try, and I would try and

1008
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: like bug the phone somehow hear what they're saying.

1009
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 3: I do that? How do you do that?

1010
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. Twenty two.

1011
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if that would be my first step.

1012
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 1: Well, clearly she's tried other steps, like she's tried talking

1013
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: to him, she's tried asking him, Like, clearly now she

1014
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: needs answers.

1015
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying, like I think going to the

1016
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: brother and being like, hey, I've tried to talk to

1017
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 2: my husband about this, but he won't talk. I'm wondering

1018
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: if if you've noticed anything going on with.

1019
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: And then he's just say no, I haven't. I don't know.

1020
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it could be a dead end street.

1021
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's dumb. I mean, guys are dumb in general.

1022
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 3: I said that many times in this show, And so

1023
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 3: I think it's good to have the the boundaries conversation.

1024
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 3: You got to sit down with you your husband and

1025
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,919
Speaker 3: make some boundaries. You talking to her about us is unacceptable.

1026
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 3: Her talking to you about her marriage is unacceptable. You

1027
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 3: deleting phone calls and hiding things from me is unacceptable.

1028
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 3: And maybe you can get a place of a restart,

1029
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 3: but you got to be clear, and you got to

1030
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,399
Speaker 3: sit down with him and you got to find out

1031
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: what's going on.

1032
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 2: I how much effort does one person put into relationship

1033
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 2: for how long she said she's working like she's looking.

1034
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: Too, but I guess it's November two months.

1035
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 2: But to go to therapy, like to be putting in

1036
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 2: that work and it just be one sided is annoying,

1037
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:45,479
Speaker 2: not fair? No, And like if he won't even open

1038
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,479
Speaker 2: up in a therapy session, he's gonna shut her down

1039
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 2: in two seconds. So I think you just do what

1040
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 2: Mark said, like you have the conversation. And if he's

1041
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 2: not respectful to you and like gets defensive or mad,

1042
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: then I think that very telling that he will he will.

1043
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 3: You control who I talk to?

1044
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 2: Now?

1045
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 3: Oh, I can't talk to people have to win everybody.

1046
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 3: I talked to a bout you first.

1047
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: Does she talk?

1048
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 2: Does she have a conversation with the sister in law?

1049
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 1: No?

1050
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 2: No, No?

1051
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 3: Maybe I think maybe a woman like, hey, what's going

1052
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 3: on here?

1053
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: Like it makes me feel uncomfortable?

1054
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 2: And you come to our home and I see that

1055
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: y'all are talking all the time and he's deleting it,

1056
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 2: like what's going on? I think I think she'd get

1057
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 2: further with the other the sister in law than she

1058
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: would with her husband.

1059
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe you talk to your brother and then all

1060
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 3: four of you have to get together.

1061
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 2: Maybe you have an intervention.

1062
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: Better than one offs.

1063
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 2: There's no way everyone's just gonna be sitting quiet. If

1064
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 2: you bring everyone into a room together, someone's gonna break.

1065
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1066
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 2: I'm really sorry you're in this situation because beyond like,

1067
00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 2: obviously he has trauma with his parents, which seven marriages

1068
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 2: and four divorces is I that's a lot to imagine

1069
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 2: as a child. But that doesn't mean that he gets

1070
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: to treat you bad.

1071
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 3: All right, it's a side note. You meet somebody, you're hinging,

1072
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 3: You meet somebody, you find out that mom has been

1073
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 3: married seven times, dad's been divorced four times.

1074
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 2: Is that a red flag for the son or daughter

1075
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: of that person.

1076
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're dating, You've meet somebody new highness to meet,

1077
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 3: you having dinner, a couple of drinks, you go out

1078
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 3: a couple of times, and you find out that mom

1079
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 3: and dad have eleven marriages between them.

1080
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: I think it's easy to say, yes, it's a red flag.

1081
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: But like if you put your person, like let's say

1082
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: you put the person you're with your wife, your wife,

1083
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: like you put your people in the situation, Like if

1084
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: I met Robbie and he said, my mom dad's been

1085
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: married seven times and whatever, Yeah, I still had that

1086
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: interconnection with him, I don't think it would be a

1087
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:52,760
Speaker 1: red flag.

1088
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 2: Well, I just think that he I think that they

1089
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 2: would be different people if they had that experience.

1090
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: But we don't know that. I don't know anybody.

1091
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 2: I would just think I would clock in my head like,

1092
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: this could be.

1093
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: We could have some attachment issu attachment issues here, rightfully so,

1094
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: but you know what, attachment issues are not the worst

1095
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: thing in a relationship, coming from an anxious attachment expression,

1096
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: coming from an ancient, ancient anxious attachment herself. Yeah, it's

1097
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: not the worst thing in the world. You can work

1098
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: through it. Yeah, but that is Yeah, I think I would.

1099
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 2: I think I would note it in my ya.

1100
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 3: I think so. I mean, none of us make it

1101
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 3: out of childhood unscathed, but I feel like that person

1102
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 3: we learn. We learn from what we see from our

1103
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 3: parents always. So I think, yeah, you'd have to file

1104
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 3: that away, that this could be an issue down the line.

1105
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 2: What if you were hinging and you met someone and

1106
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 2: they had been divorced four times, but you had an

1107
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 2: instant connection with it.

1108
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 1: That's different because then that's them red flag. Yeah, I

1109
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 1: think so.

1110
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so too. But hey, this guy's mom

1111
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 3: found love for the seventh time. I hope you.

1112
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 2: Know not everyone can find it more than.

1113
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: I've never been in love seven times, So get on you.

1114
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 3: Husband number seven didn't see the other six of the

1115
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 3: red flag.

1116
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 2: No, well that makes sense to me, like a man

1117
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 2: not seeing the red flag and that he's like, Wow,

1118
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 2: she's a hot commodity.

1119
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 1: Ye left six guys for me. Yeah, we were meant

1120
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: to be a big wang. That was fun. That we're

1121
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: all going in that direction. Clearly not we.

1122
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 2: Rarely all go in that direction. I will say, you're

1123
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 2: typically the leader of that direction.

1124
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: Proud of which we love. A pioneer. Pioneer, say a leader, trailblazer.

1125
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: Trail blazer, Yeah, go where the path has not been discovered,

1126
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: but where the path, where the trail is rogue.

1127
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: That's what they say. That's what they say, always saying

1128
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 2: that it's poetic. Yeah, I think, Waltman, I think, Okay,

1129
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: what's the next few months? So specifically, Tanya, this is from.

1130
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 3: Winter, which, by the way, Winter is here, Dear Winter.

1131
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 3: I hope you like your name the song anyway. Yeah,

1132
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 3: I hope this person likes their name. I need your advice, specifically, Tanya.

1133
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 3: I started talking to someone about a month ago, and

1134
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 3: he still hasn't asked me on a date, even though

1135
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 3: we talked daily. He was previously married with two boys,

1136
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 3: and he's the best dad. We're both in our early thirties.

1137
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 3: We met at church a few months ago. Our conversation

1138
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 3: began organically. I've heard from his family, who I know

1139
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 3: from church, that he's planning and asking me out. Well.

1140
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 3: I know that because of his previous relationships and his kids,

1141
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 3: he's being super cautious. But I really like him. He's

1142
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 3: so different from the other guys i've dated. Usually I'm

1143
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,280
Speaker 3: not scared to shoot my shot, but I've been intentionally

1144
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 3: letting him take the lead. How long do I wait, though?

1145
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 3: Should I shoot my shot? I know dating with kids

1146
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 3: is different, but I'm trying to figure out how different.

1147
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 3: I don't know the rules.

1148
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 1: The thing is, there are no rules, and I think

1149
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: what I the mistake I made when I first when

1150
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: we first started dating, was like, Okay, it's been this long,

1151
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: like we should be doing this by now, or like

1152
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 1: you should be doing that, And I think that's like

1153
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: those rules are out the window. It's really just like

1154
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: what feels good to you and your partner in this

1155
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: case you don't have a partner yet. But I think

1156
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: like I've had to kind of lead the way a

1157
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,399
Speaker 1: little bit, especially in the early days, Like I had

1158
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: to kind of basically say, like when we were dating

1159
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 1: and I want to be exclusive, I was like, I'm

1160
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,359
Speaker 1: ready to be exclusive. If you're not, that's fine, I'm

1161
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: going to date other people then. And then you know,

1162
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: he came around. But I think you kind of have

1163
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 1: to take the lead and take charge and kind of

1164
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 1: say what you want because it's just that's where he

1165
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: is in life, you know what I mean. It doesn't

1166
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: mean it's for lack of wanting you. I think there's

1167
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 1: just like a lot of stuff there, and I think

1168
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: maybe he's like scared to take that step, and I

1169
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: think you just do it for him. That's my personal opinion.

1170
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 2: I agree, though, I think I think taking the shot

1171
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 2: because he probably is hesitant and scared and if he

1172
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 2: isn't ready or it's not the right time, be like

1173
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 2: I totally respect that, but I'm.

1174
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 1: Gonna, you know, move on and do my own thing.

1175
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: And I can't like, you know, that's kind of what

1176
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 2: you did where you were like, I'm totally get it.

1177
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,919
Speaker 2: If you're not ready for this, but I'm I'm moving on, and.

1178
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like every step in the beginning, I'd say,

1179
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 1: like the first six months of our relationship was like

1180
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,959
Speaker 1: he was always a little bit not behind me because

1181
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: we were always on the same page and feelings, but

1182
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,080
Speaker 1: he was not He couldn't express them as quickly as

1183
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: I did. Does that make sense? So it was always

1184
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: like I said I love you first, but I know

1185
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: he felt it and I knew he wasn't ready to

1186
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: say it, so I just kind of like said it,

1187
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: and I was like take your time, you know, because

1188
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 1: there's stuff there that like we don't understand, when we

1189
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: may never understand. There's all these things that come with that.

1190
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: But I think that if you guys have obviously you

1191
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 1: have a nice bond, and like that's what really matters,

1192
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 1: and that's what's going to shine through, and that's like

1193
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: what kept you know, Robbie along with me. He's like

1194
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: you were just so amazing and I knew we had

1195
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: something so special, So I just kind of I kept

1196
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: at it, you know what I mean, then like kept

1197
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: going through those things I needed to go through, and like,

1198
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: you know, like it's just you kind of have to

1199
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: know you're always going to be a little bit of

1200
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 1: a step ahead in terms of expressing things.

1201
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 2: I think yeah, And I would say if you're not,

1202
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: if you're not feeling impatient about it, like, if you're

1203
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 2: willing to wait for him to get to the same place,

1204
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: then express yourself and if he's not ready, maybe he'll

1205
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 2: get there. And if you're if you're not, like, oh,

1206
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 2: I need to go on and move move on to

1207
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 2: date people like I think if he's on his own

1208
00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 2: time schedule because of what he's gone through, that's okay too.

1209
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 2: I think it's okay to wait for him if you

1210
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 2: have the patients and want to.

1211
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,439
Speaker 1: But if you don't want to wait, just ask him out.

1212
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, how should Hey, I got an extra ticket for

1213
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 3: the you know, imagine Dragons show. Maybe we can go together.

1214
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: No tickets, Like, hey, let's go grab sushi.

1215
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 3: See. I think that's that's a bigger I don't know.

1216
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 3: I feel like there's a more casual way to do

1217
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 3: it that will make him let feel less threatened, to

1218
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 3: make her feel more comfortable.

1219
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: Do you have plans this weekend? What are those plans? Oh? Like, okay,

1220
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: I was gonna go hike whatever about a coffee before church.

1221
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 1: Yeah or maybe yeah, I enjoy a warm treat before service.

1222
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I think that would be a red flag, right.

1223
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:45,439
Speaker 1: Warm, warm coffee, warm treaty. Maybe like cold brew though.

1224
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 2: You know, it's like I think if you just keep

1225
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 2: it casual, like, hey, I would love to see you

1226
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 2: outside of church, would you even before service? Want to

1227
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 2: get a coffee together? It's not threatening.

1228
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,919
Speaker 3: Keep it cash cash.

1229
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: That was so cool. Yeah, I played it so cool

1230
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: the first three months of our relationship. It's like he

1231
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: didn't even know that I wanted him.

1232
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 2: He had no idea, no idea, no, none of it

1233
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 2: was new.

1234
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 1: He was begging for it, you know.

1235
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 2: He was like, Tony, you please give me a hint

1236
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 2: that you're into me.

1237
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: Just a just a teen yeah, yeah, sliver of your

1238
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: time for you. Yeah, we are this. I think he's

1239
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:25,359
Speaker 1: sounds like a good guy.

1240
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 2: He sounds like a good guy.

1241
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: Well that's it. Wow, that'll be it for today. It's

1242
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: time for you to kick up your heels and head

1243
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 1: to dissit them.

1244
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm going to Disney.

1245
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 1: I'm recording my audiobook this week. That is so exciting,

1246
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 1: I know, and I'm going to like a recording I'm

1247
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: so I can't wait to hear about this because I'm

1248
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: always so fascinated because we mean two studio sessions booked

1249
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: four thirty to eleven PM. No, sorry, three two sessions

1250
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: or four thirty to eleven PM. Raquel's taking the later

1251
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: shifts because Mama goes to bed. Oh okay, okay, and

1252
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,240
Speaker 1: then nine thirty am to four pm.

1253
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: But like you have to read it with the cadence

1254
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 2: you want it to be hurt.

1255
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 1: I mean that is I'm interested to hear about that.

1256
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: I know, are you gonna add lib any, like add

1257
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 1: stuff that's not in the book? I think probably a

1258
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: little bit. I'm sure I will. But also, like some

1259
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: of the book is like workbookie, where we like left

1260
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: people to like fill in the blanks, you know, like

1261
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: I may not have blank, but I'm grateful that I

1262
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: have blank, and so I have to fill those in.

1263
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: So I was doing that for the weekend, just like

1264
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: filling in my own I was like, well, this.

1265
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 3: Most bonus content for the audiobook. That's always appealing, right

1266
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:43,439
Speaker 3: right right?

1267
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: Wow, Yeah, that's very exciting.

1268
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 2: I'm excited to hear, like if it's hard, because just

1269
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 2: thinking about how like when we read things or like

1270
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 2: you know, if something has to be read verbatim, and

1271
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 2: how sometimes it can take a minute to get it

1272
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 2: the right cadence or the right.

1273
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: I think I want to do it like Peppy, like

1274
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to be like the chill.

1275
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 2: Oh not like this?

1276
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 1: Do what should it be like this?

1277
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 2: I think you want it to be you like how

1278
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 2: you would have a conversation because I don't think you

1279
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 2: want to like I just my brain just went to

1280
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 2: when you do trying your new walk? You know, walk

1281
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 2: was just you.

1282
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: It was like casual, it was effortless.

1283
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 2: But then your other walk felt very forced.

1284
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 1: That was a good walk. I might bring that back

1285
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: in twenty three.

1286
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:35,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we never saw it in its natural form,

1287
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 2: and I felt very forced.

1288
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you know what, that's a great I'm not

1289
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 1: gonna have a new walk in the new year. I

1290
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: pick my word because I'm really torn between two words.

1291
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: You do have some time? Two are They're very different paths.

1292
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 2: So that's why I'm like, and you not have two words?

1293
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 1: No, because they're very different words. They don't like go

1294
00:58:57,360 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: together like all in you know, it's like two words,

1295
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: but it's like one sentiment. They're very different paths. And

1296
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: I don't know which path I want to take in

1297
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: twenty three, so I'm really just waiting.

1298
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 2: So you're gonna you have to decide between two words,

1299
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 2: A new walk, gluten free lifestyle. Like, there's a lot

1300
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: of commitment you've taken on.

1301
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: It's a lot.

1302
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 2: We also had a photo shoot right before I left

1303
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 2: for Hawaii.

1304
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, when are we going to reveal that?

1305
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, are we even a lot to talk?

1306
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 2: The Hanna said, tease what it is, but I don't

1307
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 2: know what that means.

1308
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: She has a renaissance of sorts.

1309
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously, and I think we agreed on a few

1310
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 2: of the photos we liked together.

1311
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 1: So that was an unexpected moment.

1312
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, the ones I saw were really great.

1313
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you very much.

1314
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: The renaissance of sorts, we'll reveal.

1315
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 5: Scrubbisance, but yeah, a stategical procedure.

1316
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: M from the inside out. Oh a new face.

1317
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 2: Yeah that's good. I like a new face plastic.

1318
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: Not quite yeah, but you know what we were trying

1319
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: to say.

1320
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 2: It's like in whatever season that was when Alex Krareb

1321
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 2: fell in love with the fairy patient.

1322
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,479
Speaker 1: No, does that mean the way to birth?

1323
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 3: No? Yeah, in the in the uterus.

1324
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she was not in utero and neither was he,

1325
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 2: but she was injured and couldn't be recognized, so they

1326
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 2: basically reconstructed her face.

1327
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 3: That was great, good.

1328
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 2: But anyways, that's what we did with scribing him.

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01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't know when that I'll be ready.

1330
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: Actually do we know. I don't think we know. We

1331
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 1: don't know, but I promise when we know, you'll know,

1332
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: you'll know. Yeah.

1333
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 2: And on that note, I have to go see the

1334
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 2: you know, Mickey and the gang and walk a lot

1335
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 2: on my broken toes.

1336
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: And Nicky and the gang. Well, it was a pleasure.

1337
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 2: It was such a pleasure being back in the stewed

1338
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 2: with y'all and a stude in the stew in the stude.

1339
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, let's have it down.

1340
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: So well, I said stewed, but then I it's probably Stu.

1341
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah really stud.

1342
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 3: Kind of like Stude.

1343
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1344
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 3: I think I'm team.

1345
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: Stud Okay, team It's been fun being back in the

1346
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 2: stude with you guys.

1347
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,919
Speaker 1: And uh, we'll see you next stage later.

1348
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we always go.

1349
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: Longer in the studio. This was like an hour and

1350
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: a half, right, all right, Well we were all excited,

1351
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 1: but we'll be back next week, so