1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: This is and Gavin and I heard radio podcasts. Welcome 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: to the show, everybody, My name is Brooks, like and 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: this is how men think. A podcast where we discuss 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: a wide range of topics with educated and enlightened gentlemen like. 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: So we have Dmitri, we have Rick, we have Ryan. 6 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: Good sirs, how you doing today? Doing well? Fantastic? Thank 7 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: you for asking means a lot. You're also, I know 8 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: that Ryan's feeling really good because he has a story 9 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: that he wants to tell. So we've a lot of 10 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: our discussions, even off Mike, are about like doctor questions 11 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: and health and uh, physicality, just health matters in general. 12 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: And then Ryan has an epic story that he wants 13 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: to tell, and so he's sitting here happy as a claim. 14 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: He's really gloating because he knows. And Amy even said 15 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: it's an epic story. Don't see it that. I'm no one. 16 00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: I never said it was an epic story. When you 17 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: build it up like that, it puts a lot of 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: pressure on me, and now you have to deliver us. 19 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: That's the standard of this show. Figure out how to 20 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: make an epic, Yes, figure out how to make this 21 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: story epic, because that's the standard that we're setting on 22 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: this show. But then also I want to say, we 23 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: have doctor Todd on this show, coming in after this 24 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: to answer a bunch of our medical questions. How it's 25 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: called from a doctor because we don't go to doctor, 26 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: We don't go to doctors. We get doctors to come 27 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,279 Speaker 1: in studio. Well, that's exactly right, and that that's a 28 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: good segue into what I am experiencing today, which is 29 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: the reason that I don't go to a doctor. Now, 30 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: the two of you or the three of you with Rick, 31 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: you guys don't go to a doctor because you're lazy, 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: You're ignorance, is bliss, or it's just an inconvenience, or 33 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: you just don't know why I don't go to a doctor. 34 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: You tell me why because I'm lazy? Go ahead, sorry, Yeah, 35 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: And so so for me, it's it's not as much 36 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: about that, but rather I don't go to a doctor 37 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: because the last time I did, I was told by 38 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: the physician and by the head of the health system 39 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: that I am no longer welcome back to this physician's office. Whatever. Again, 40 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I believe it. I I'm 41 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: I'm really curious to hear what you did here and 42 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: how you think it's appropriate. Yeah, I'm not surprised. I'm 43 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: curious though, So I'll tell you I had a really 44 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: bad sore throat, really hurt to swallow, and I went 45 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: into how old are you at this point? Sorry? This 46 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: is this reason? Now, this was I was like three 47 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: years ago. So went into my physician and saw her 48 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: explain the elements. She did a strap culture came back negative. 49 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: Wasn't strep throat. I thought it was a bacterial trying 50 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: to figure out a bacterial viral whatever. So she gave 51 00:02:54,560 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: me a prescription to help with the sore throat. So 52 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: I go home. There was it was a five day prescription. 53 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: I take the pills and it gets better, but then 54 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 1: at the end of the fifth day, it's just it's 55 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: lingering again and it's almost getting worse. So it's clearly 56 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: not working. So I call the doctor's office and I said, hey, 57 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: you know, i'd love for the doctor to call me back. 58 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: I've been on uh this medication, it's not really working. 59 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: I'd love to just figure out a course of action 60 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: moving forward. They say, okay, great, we'll have her call 61 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: you back. So don't hear back from hers. So then 62 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: I send her an email and I say, hey, doctor, 63 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: yesterday was my last day on the z pack. Yet 64 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: in the past couple of days, I've developed a head 65 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: and sinus cold that's really knocked me out. I was 66 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: relieved that my throat was getting progressively better, and then 67 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, today it's back to being really 68 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: sore and it hurts the swallow. I'm not sure what 69 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: the best course of action is here. Is it to 70 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: get another z pac prescription? And they said, dear Mr Ryan, 71 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: we cannot cure high maintenance. Thank you. No, I'll tell 72 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: you what they did. I sent that email. The entire 73 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: day goes by, I don't get a reply back from 74 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: from my doctor. I've already put a call in the 75 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: previous day. So now it's two days a phone call 76 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: and an email, no response. The following day, it's getting worse. 77 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: I can barely swallow at this point, and I need 78 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: I actually need help. So I call the doctor's office 79 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: for a second time and I say, Hi, I called 80 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: two days ago. You said the doctor was gonna call 81 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: me back. I've not gotten a return call. I've sent 82 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: a follow up email. I've not gotten a response to 83 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 1: the email. I'm now calling a second time. I need 84 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: I need her to call me back. I need to 85 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: know do I need to come in again that she 86 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: need to refill the zpac prescription. What what do I 87 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: need to do? They said, we're so sorry. We'll absolutely 88 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: give the doctor the message. She'll call you back as 89 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: soon as she's out with the current patient she's in with. 90 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: So that was at ten in the morning. That that 91 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: day goes by, no call, no call, no email. That's unacceptable. 92 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: This because this is a medical issue, and whether they 93 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: think it's something or not, you are cons serious. You're 94 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 1: obviously concerned about it, and I think it's their job 95 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: to to not stress you out even more so, here's 96 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: what happens next seven days later. Are you still having 97 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: trouble at this point? At seven days later, I it all. 98 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: It cleared itself up, and I just I went about 99 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: my life. It all nature ran its course. They worked 100 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: itself out. That's why they just let you go, because 101 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: they're like this, listen to this, listen to it. It's true. 102 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: Still unprofessional. But seven days later I get an email 103 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:48,799 Speaker 1: back from the doctor. She says, seven days later, Ryan, 104 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: I apologize, I just realized I didn't respond. It's always 105 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: good to call the office, though. If you're not feeling better, 106 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: I assume and hope you're doing better now. If not, 107 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: I should see you again. Okay, okay, So I am 108 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 1: Are you mad at the doctor? I am furious at 109 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: the doctor or as the doctor who is saying a 110 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: I didn't respond, but in the future, you should call 111 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: the office, not email me. I called twice. Yeah, but 112 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: you didn't talk to her. You talked to somebody else, 113 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: so right, so it's not his or her. That is 114 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: not my problem. I did call, like I've done everything 115 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: on my behalf. But can you be mad at the 116 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: doctor when it wasn't the document at anything to do 117 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: with it. You're mad at the doctor because they're the 118 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: head of the office. Is that? What I'm is that 119 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: you're mad at the reception for not passing on the message. 120 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: She is passively aggressively telling me I should have called. 121 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: I called twice, an emailed and got no response from 122 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: three different outreaches. That is absurd. So we think it's 123 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: best if you didn't come back to the podcast. So 124 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you. Let me tell you what I did. 125 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: I was so angry and annoyed in this moment that immediately, immediately, 126 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: within a minute of getting that email from her, I 127 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: sent left a bad review on Yelp. I sent a 128 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: response to her. I changed the subject to auto response. 129 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: This subject was strep throat, and I changed it to 130 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: auto response colon strep throat. And then I immediately responded, 131 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: strepthroat and your colon. That's what I was thinking. What 132 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: you said, Sorry, this is a big life issue for apologize. 133 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: I immediately respond with the auto response and I say, 134 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: this email is no longer active. Ryan passed away last 135 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: week due to complications from strep throat. Memorial services are 136 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: being planned and the family asks you send donations to 137 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: the Strep throat Awareness Fund in lieu of flowers. That okay, 138 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: that is have you ever in your life been called petty? 139 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: So let me tell you. Let me tell you the 140 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: the chain of offense. You gotta get your balls checked due. 141 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: Thank you. So after this, that day, I get a 142 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: call from a woman you did listen to this. I 143 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: get a call on my cell. It was actually the 144 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: following day and the woman says, hi, uh Ryan, my 145 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: name is Mary so and So. I am the head 146 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: of x University Health System. I'm the head president of 147 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: the health system, and I said, nice to meet you. 148 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: She said, we have a major issue, sir. I said, yeah, 149 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: I think we do. But what's your issue? And she said, well, uh, 150 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention and the general counsel 151 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: of our health administration that an email was sent on 152 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: your behalf to your doctor. And I've said, so now 153 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: you're checking your emails. Thank you, And she says, well, 154 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: I said that's correct. And she said, well, we let 155 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: me tell you what happened after your doctor received that email. 156 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: She was cataton. She broke down into tears, almost had 157 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: a mental breakdown, canceled all of her appointments for all 158 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: of her patients for the next two days, and what 159 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 1: and genuinely believed that she failed as a physician and 160 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: lost one of her patients due to her negligence. And 161 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: that is all because of you sending the email that 162 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: you sent, which you probably thought was funny, but I'm 163 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: here to tell you it is absolutely not funny. How 164 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: did that feel to hear that? I said, well, I 165 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: I feel awful that She said, she is so upset 166 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: by thinking that her negligence could have cost one of 167 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: her patients their lives and let let this be a 168 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: lesson to you. It was seven days after she decided 169 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: to email me and say, in the future I should 170 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: call Well, did you check your call outs? Yes, sir, 171 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 1: we actually did, and we do see that there are 172 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: records of your calls and our receptionist uh informed. But 173 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: the doctor and she forgot to call you back one 174 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: of the times, and the second time she admittedly did 175 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: not relay the message. Okay, and then she said she 176 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: proceeded to lecture me, and I said, let me stop 177 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: you there. Mary. The issue I had onto the podcast 178 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: because I said, I have here is this The doctor 179 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: is an intelligent person, I said, did you read the email? 180 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: You're an intelligent person too. Did you read the email? 181 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: Do you think that upon passing away within hours, the 182 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: first thing that my closest loved ones and my wife 183 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: and everybody decided to do was, oh, my god, we're 184 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: grieving Ryan's death, but we should get onto his Gmail 185 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: and put an auto response on there to make sure 186 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: anyone that emails donates to the Strep Throat Awareness Fund, which, 187 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: by the way, Mary, I don't believe that exists. It 188 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: sounds like the most ridiculous fun point but knowing you, 189 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: knowing you, it's possible that you have fifteen of these 190 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: emails already cooked up for anything in case you do 191 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 1: pass away. Wait, the staff isn't a real thing. The 192 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: Strep Throat Awareness Fund, I said, And my family is 193 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: asking to donate to the fund in lieu of flowers. 194 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: And by the way, that I died from complications to 195 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: the strep. I don't have a metal to medical degree. 196 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 1: That's all all to you, guys, But like, pretty sure 197 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: you can't die from strep throat. And let's not miss 198 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: the obvious here. Anyone that knows you knows that you 199 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: would insist that you get flowers rather than donation. And 200 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: my love language, Mary is gifts, okay, and so is 201 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: my death language. What what is it called? Um? He's 202 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: probably got his own uh what's it called? Uh? In 203 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: the paper. You probably have you written your own obituary 204 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: in case you do pass that you're just like you 205 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: have it in your will or your trust or something 206 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: that he's got. It's a glam shot. This is my 207 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: good side. It's been touched up. I'm wearing the Gavin 208 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: to grow merchandise. Yes, so this this really so basically, 209 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: when you talk to this Mary, You're basically like, you're welcome. Yes, 210 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: I said, you you did them of good service in 211 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 1: your mind to be a lesson to you. And and obviously, 212 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: in the way i'm telling it now it comes off 213 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: as being condescending. But I said, and there's a very 214 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: good chance I could have died. And and he's just like, 215 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: I am the right here. How about this, she canceled 216 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: two days of appointments. Those are people that were actually sick, 217 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 1: that could have had something serious happen to them. And 218 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: did you apologize for that? Do you say I'm sorry 219 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: or just go You're welcome? No, I said, the doctor 220 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: is a very intelligent person. She went to an undergrad 221 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: and medical school. I find it hard to believe that 222 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: she did not implement a single shred of common sense 223 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: into this equation to deduce that well, even if I 224 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: have a question as to whether this is a legit email, 225 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: why do I call him and see if that's because 226 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: you're dead? Yeah? And by the way, and and to that, 227 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: like Mary called me, why is she calling a dead guy? 228 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: If you really thought I was dead, why are you calling? 229 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: Because Mary saw right through your ruse. By the way, 230 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: in your defense, in Ryan's defense, they say that strep 231 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: throat is a child's disease, and you certainly acted like 232 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: a child. So hold on, I'd like to know what 233 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: our listeners think of this, because it's I think it's 234 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:30,199 Speaker 1: pretty apparent that I don't think Dmitri and I would 235 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: go that route. In fact, I don't even know how 236 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 1: to change that thing on my email whatever you're talking about, 237 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: so I couldn't even I've never thought about faking my 238 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: own death just to stick it to somebody. Well, at 239 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 1: the end of this all, it concluded with me demanding 240 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: an apology, Mary being unwilling to give me more, ultimately saying, well, uh, 241 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: you know, we've talked internally and had numerous board meetings 242 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: and decided collectively, uh, that you are no longer welcome 243 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: back in this health system and at this doctor's office. 244 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: So and how about this, This called is the chain 245 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: of events. You have not been in the doctrine three years. 246 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: This whole thing is having a ripple effect, which means 247 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 1: you will probably die sooner than you need to because 248 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: you refuse to go back to another doctor or or 249 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: your band from every doctor everywhere. We have a musical 250 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: malpractice suit on our hands, don't we Oh, I don't 251 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: think we do. Are you blacklisted amongst doctor's offices? Uh? No, 252 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: I actually I feel like this isn't the first time. 253 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: Let me tell you how I've remedied it. I got 254 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: this app called one Medical, which allows me to whenever 255 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm feeling an ailment of any sort, I can hit 256 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: the app face time with a physician from around the 257 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: country within two minutes, tell them what's going on. I 258 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: have a sort throughout this is blah blah blah. And 259 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: they say, great, your your pharmacy CVS on this on sepulvida. 260 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: I'll call in a z pac right now. Within seven minutes, 261 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: I have a prescription called in and I don't have 262 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: to leave the house and deal with someone who's gonna 263 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: just so. They just described you what presc you. Yeah, 264 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: I imagine you have to use some code name and 265 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: not you're only name on this app. I wear one 266 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: of those glasses things within, fake nose and mustache. Okay, 267 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: and now listen to me, and I mean this is 268 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: from all of us, is from Brooks, Gavin Rick and myself. 269 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: We have a doctor coming today. Dr Todd, you better 270 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: be on your damn best behavior when he comes in here, 271 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: we don't need you. We will throw you out. I 272 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: I worry that there's like a America's Most Wanted type 273 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: like flyer that's gone out in the physician community with 274 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: my face on it, that like he's gonna walk in 275 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: here and immediately just know that I'm that guy and 276 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: walk immediately. I'm afraid my doctor is going to find 277 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: out that I'm on a podcast with you and stop 278 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: serving me. I'm afraid that you pulled this whole stunt 279 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: to possibly get some flowers back from break. And I'm 280 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: super excited because none of us we've talked about this. 281 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: None of us like going to the doctor. Um, I 282 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: haven't been to the doctor. I literally haven't been to 283 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: the doctor since I was released from the Kings. But 284 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: we have a doctor in studio with us because none 285 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: of us want to go, so we brought one here. 286 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: We have call house call for Dr Todd. Welcome, Welcome 287 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: to me. How men thinking? When I first see you Todd, 288 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: I think, dang, that guy should be a football player 289 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: because I wish I had your size. But um, he 290 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: is a doctor, and we're gonna ask you a ton 291 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: of questions. You're gonna give us um some overview on 292 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: some things we're dealing with. But for our people listening, 293 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: can you please give them a little bit of your 294 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: history in the medical profession. Sure, thank you for having 295 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: me um. Yes, I am quite large for a for 296 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: a doctor. In fact, when I was in medical school, 297 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm sort of the orthopedic mold, so they would always 298 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: shuffle me off to the orthopedic surgeons to go do 299 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: whatever they did, which is fixing bones and joints typically 300 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: and athletes. But I never really had an interest in that. 301 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: I was much more interested in the human part of 302 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: medicine and the cognitive part of medicine, which is what 303 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: I ended up doing, which is family medicine. So I 304 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: trained inside at a family medicine and really that is 305 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: a Swiss Army knife of medicine. We take care of 306 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: about of the problems that come into the office, about 307 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 1: ten percent of the things we have no idea about, 308 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: and that's what we refer to specialists for specialists, on 309 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: the other hand, each deal with their own little world 310 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: of medicine and have no idea what the other is doing. 311 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: So we work in between all of those different fields, 312 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: and that that's what I've done for the last twenty 313 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: years of my career, and uh so this is perfect. 314 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: You know a little bit or a lot about everything, 315 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: because we know a little little bit about nothing. So 316 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: we really need you to tell us a little something 317 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 1: about everything. Correct. I am the educated version of what 318 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: quote they quote say. I like it. So we're all 319 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,680 Speaker 1: going here. We've got four guys here, We're going through 320 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: four checkups right now. Here's my first question to you, 321 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: because I don't even know this my whole life. I've 322 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 1: been on sports teams, we had doctors and physicians and 323 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: everybody in our locker room. I've been out of the 324 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: NHL now for a year and a half and I 325 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 1: haven't seen one doctor. How many times or when should 326 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: I go to the doctor? How many times a year? 327 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: What doctor do I go do? I don't even have 328 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: a doctor since I've been done with the king, So 329 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: can you please advise me on how many times a 330 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: year I should be coming to see you? Sure? Um, well, 331 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: that that is a very good question. And I think 332 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 1: that there's a lot of different people who have stakes 333 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 1: in that answer. One of them are the primary care 334 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: provider organizations like the American Medical Association that wants people 335 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 1: to come into the office. They think that's the best 336 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: place to anticipate problems. For four primary care deal with 337 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: current issues, and they would say come in once a year, 338 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: once a year, Okay, Um. The truth is, when we 339 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: look at the evidence and long term studies, we're not 340 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: pent sure is a medical community that that really changes outcomes. 341 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: We do think that there are certain screening procedures done, 342 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: it's different outcome at different intervals that might change outcomes. 343 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 1: For instance, colon cancer screening, we recommend that for everybody 344 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: starting at I'm forty five and a half, it used 345 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: to be it used to be right, well, it used 346 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,159 Speaker 1: to be fifty. It used to be fifty that they 347 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: got changed to forty five. So that's a perfect example. 348 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: Or prostate cancer screening. Lots of guys don't like to 349 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 1: go to the doctor. No, no, yeah, so lots of 350 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: people are prostate cancer screening. So there's a lot of 351 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: debate about these things. But but the reason my point 352 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: is maybe coming in once a year would be a 353 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: reasonable cadence in a person let's say over thirty five 354 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: years of age and let's say under fifty um, to 355 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: come in once a year to talk about these guidelines. 356 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: To talk about what's out there, maybe say hey, there's 357 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: something new in my family history. So I think once 358 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: a year would be reasonable. And what the question if 359 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: it's once a year is that even if you feel 360 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 1: perfectly fine, you're healthy, there are no ailments because to 361 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: speak to what you were saying at the beginning, is 362 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: that not I've heard that the insurance industry is in 363 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: the state that it's in because people come in too 364 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: often and that's driving up you know, it just becomes 365 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: a huge night amber where people are coming in when 366 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: when it's unnecessary. So that's a great question, and there's 367 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: really two different answers to that. One of them is 368 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: a population based answer, which is if we're talking talking 369 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: about the US population, first, are we talking about you? 370 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: What do you want? If do you want you know, 371 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: the best possible outcomes for yourself, Do you want a 372 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: lot of supervision or you know, when we say, look, 373 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: we're going to prevent five cases out of a hundred thousand, 374 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: you know, do you want to be one of those 375 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 1: cases it's not prevented because you weren't there. It's sort 376 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 1: of what your approaches and do you play the statistics 377 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 1: and how do you think about things, what is your 378 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 1: level of anxiety? But I used usually tell people that 379 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: most people don't see a doctor very often between seventeen 380 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: and thirty five. The last visit is when their mom 381 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 1: takes them in before they go to college, and the 382 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: first business right after they get engaged. That's you know so, 383 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: and then so there is a big bald spot in 384 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 1: there where doctor page and start releasing. People don't come 385 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: in to see the doctor. Once they come in, it's 386 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: sort of a slow ramp up, and then usually around 387 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: forty five or fifty, the wheels start to fall off 388 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: the wagon. They don't feel good, they're on a hike somewhere, 389 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: they start to feel terrible, and they come in and say, 390 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: what's wrong with me? Well, Ryan's anxiety level is off 391 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: the chart, so he should go in like every two months. 392 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 1: I don't ever see a doctor, but we should label 393 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: the anxious guy and the group. We almost need to 394 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: take a break just so you can have like five 395 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: minutes with arrested to do something on him. Right. Question 396 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: about the prostate exams, where is that? Are we talking 397 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,719 Speaker 1: about the finger? Is that what you're referring to? When 398 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: Amy asked if we've ever had it, well, that that's 399 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 1: a good question. That's my question is that the is 400 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 1: that really the only way to check? So it's really 401 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 1: it's really not a great The truth is his digital 402 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: rectal exams are not a great screening test for prostate cancer. 403 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I've examined who knows how many thousands of 404 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: prostates and I've very rarely detected a primary prostate cancer 405 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: through that exam. Now, there are other things you might 406 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: find on that exam, like an enlarge prostates that's causing 407 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: problems with urination. You might hypothetically notice blood and erectum 408 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: that is, you know, maybe from colon cancer or something 409 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: related to that. But you know, there's a lot of 410 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: debate about prostate cancer screening, and without getting into the 411 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 1: specifics of that, ultimately what we talk about is when 412 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: when patients come in, we make a decision about prostate 413 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: cancer screening based on lots of things including age, personal preference, 414 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: family history, risk factors, etcetera. And so not everyone needs 415 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 1: to come in and have a digital rectal exam, because 416 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: I can tell you I have had that exam and 417 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 1: the finger, yeah, I have had it, and um, I 418 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 1: gotta tell you it's it's it's not it's uncomfortable. But 419 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 1: funny story was, you know, I've actually had it a 420 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 1: couple of times. Um, all the doctor's appointments. Dmitri gets 421 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: it weekly. Sorry and my right. But so I went 422 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: and I had it done. And then I hadn't gone 423 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 1: back to the doctor in like two and a half years, 424 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, so I knew I had 425 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 1: to do it, have it done again. And while I 426 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: was there, the doctor walks in and I just you know, 427 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: I look at him, you know, in the face. He 428 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: walks in, and all of a sudden, I'm thinking to myself, oh, 429 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: look at he's getting a little bit of weight. And 430 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, hands were bigger too, His fingers were bigger. 431 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: I was like, and I got all nervous and so 432 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: at that point, so I've never cared about the size 433 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: of a doctor until I had to start getting that exam. 434 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: So I was wondering if we could do like it. 435 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,959 Speaker 1: There should be like a tinder for doctors where they 436 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: just show their hands and you can swipe left or 437 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: right and then you can figure out which one's gonnarea 438 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 1: to do that without getting the finger. Well, yeah, so 439 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: there are blood tests that you can screen pretty well 440 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: for prostate cancer. But again they cause quite a bit 441 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: more anxiety, we think, than prevention of disease. So we're 442 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: we try to be careful when we order those tests, 443 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: who were ordering them in how often there's a lot 444 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: of nuance to it. But again, this isn't a perfect 445 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 1: reason why everybody is afraid to go to the doctor 446 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: in their forties because they think some guy with big 447 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: hands like me is gonna put it up their butt 448 00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: and they're gonna be super uncomfortable and they're gonna forget 449 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,959 Speaker 1: everything else had happened in there, and then everything else 450 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: they wanted to ask because they were so worried about 451 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: this exam lacked out for three days. That's right, Well, 452 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: then that that is my biggest fear, and that's why 453 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to go get that test. And a 454 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: half year, half year behind, I would say that it 455 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: would be totally reasonable to go into a doctor's office 456 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: and say, I do not have a family history of 457 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: procesct cancer, I have no urinary symptoms. I would prefer 458 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: not to have this exam. Let's talk about it. So 459 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 1: here's my question. Then, So I'm thirty six years old, 460 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm a very active I believe healthy mail, but I'm 461 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm also not arrogant enough to think that there might 462 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: not be something going on in me that I don't know. 463 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: So if I come in to visit you or come 464 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: into a doctor's office, I don't feel like just talking 465 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: about I feel phenomenal. I feel fantastic, better than I 466 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: ever have in my life. But I think that is 467 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: setting me up for a massive failure. Like what kind 468 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: of tests? UM? What as a thirty six year old male, 469 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: what what might I be susceptible for? What is on 470 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 1: radar that we want to test for? What does a 471 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: doctor's office appointment look like for me? Because I don't 472 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: want to say I feel great and then you go, okay, 473 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: we'll see anything. Are you trying to get like the 474 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: full body check up? I don't even know, Like I 475 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: don't know, I've never had Like I always have this 476 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: imagination of having it like a scan that you just 477 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 1: go in and it does everything. I think that I 478 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: don't think that's a real What movie were you watching 479 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,959 Speaker 1: last day? UM? We had to do full medicals at 480 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 1: the start of every hockey season, so at training camp, 481 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: the first day of training camp was full medical evaluation 482 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: UM and you weren't allowed to participate the next day 483 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 1: in the actual on ice activities unless you passed your 484 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: medical So that was my yearly check up, and then 485 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: we had access to amazing physicians doctors all year long, 486 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 1: where if something was wrong, they would have caught it 487 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 1: on me. Now I don't have that team around me, 488 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: those people around me, and I haven't been to the 489 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 1: doctor for a year and a half. So my fear 490 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: as though I might feel physically exceptional and healthy, there 491 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: might be something persisting that I'm not aware of. Exceptional. 492 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: You know, you couldn't say that exceptional. You know what 493 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: Dr Todd? He works out a couple of times a 494 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 1: week for thirty minutes because I'm not arrogant. Thirty seconds later, 495 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: I feel physically exceptional, he was, So what am I 496 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: looking for when I come in there? So I think 497 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: you would. You are a fit person, you are a 498 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: healthy person. You've had a lot of access to great 499 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 1: healthcare over the years, good food. Um, you probably didn't 500 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 1: have a lot of horrible childhood illnesses because of vaccinations, 501 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: probably where you grow up. I'm just assuming lots of things, 502 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: but just based on how you look right now, I 503 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: would say it's not urgent to go running into a 504 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 1: doctor and say, you know, help me, help me, help me. However, 505 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: it would be reasonable to go through things like family history, 506 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,680 Speaker 1: you know, talk about whether you have a history of 507 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 1: corner disease. Are there bad habits that you're involved with 508 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 1: that you want to learn how to think differently about? Um, 509 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: it might be worth at your age thirty five, looking 510 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: at cholesterol, blood sugar for most people, not yourself, but 511 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: looking at body habituts. Are they overweight, are they underweight? 512 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: What are the issues around that? So you know, not 513 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: necessarily speaking to you, but speaking to the whole world. 514 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 1: And again this is a little bit different than the 515 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: way that I practice in a very small practice. Is 516 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: that it's an opportunity to have conversations about things that 517 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: you may not even be thinking about. The unknowns, the 518 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 1: unknown unknowns, you know, the things that aren't even in 519 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 1: your sensorium yet. Um. And is it an urgent No? 520 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: Is it something that could be done once a year 521 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: for sure? And that's typically what would happen for someone 522 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 1: your age. And and you know, it might just be 523 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 1: nagging stuff like um, you know, maybe you had a 524 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: lot of concussions during hockey and you're concerned about what 525 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: that means for you, and how do you think about that? 526 00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: What does it mean for your family? Does it mean 527 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 1: for your few? Sure those would be reasonable conversation. Okay, okay, 528 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: So we have a question here. I'll be the sacrificial 529 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: lamb that reads it. It says Brooks. Question read it. Um. 530 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: This is a question that I've had actually conversations with 531 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: people before on But how many times a day is 532 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: it healthy to be going to the bathroom? And by 533 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: the bathroom, I don't mean a pee, I mean some people. 534 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 1: I have friends I played with guys that took a crap. 535 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: Let's just say it took a crap once a day 536 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: and I couldn't believe it. Um, and myself, I'm a 537 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 1: lot more than that. Upwards of five to six times 538 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 1: a day a day. He's gone three times since we 539 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: started the podcast. So so I've had burying. I've had 540 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people say that that's abnormal. Is that abnormal? 541 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: I eat a lot of vegetables though, a lot of 542 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: full sessions a day. Like you're not talking like, oh no, no, 543 00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: how to's go a little bit full? Wow, jeezy, I'm 544 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: lucky to get one. Why are you really okay, I 545 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: can go like not. I can skip a day and 546 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: then definitely go the next day. But I'm basically once 547 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: a day my juicer spits out lest than you. How's 548 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: that possible? Maybe that's a reason too, because I I 549 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: juice like, I make my own um organic cold press 550 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: uses at home and so that you drink that and 551 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: that's going through you. But what would I eat? A 552 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: lot of vegetables? Zucchini sticks don't count? Why are Rick 553 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: and I so different in that? So I would say 554 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: that there's there's everybody's a little bit different, and everybody's 555 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: GI tracks are are different. But the primary issue, I 556 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: would say would be nutritional, meaning the type of food 557 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: that you're eating. And then the second is everybody has 558 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: what's called the gastro colic reflex, meaning when food gets 559 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: into your stomach that your your stomach is gastro and 560 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 1: colic is colon and there's a reflex that reflex not 561 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: reflex reflex that when food hits your stomach, it relaxes 562 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 1: your cold and you move your bowels and you go 563 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: to the bathroom really to clear out room for that 564 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 1: food that's coming down. It sounds like you have a 565 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 1: more pronounced gastrocolic reflex than someone like yourself. But you know, 566 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 1: I would say once a day is normal. Five times 567 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: a day would probably be on the high end of normal. 568 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: If you said to me, look, I'm having cramps, an 569 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: abdominal pain, and bloody diarrhea and I it's a nightmare 570 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: for me, that's a whole other issue. But if you're like, look, 571 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: I feel great. I have five four bound movements a day. 572 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm not losing weight, there's no blood in my stool. 573 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: Everything seems this is just the way I've always been. 574 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: That's normal for you. If you say, look, I feel fine, 575 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: and I have one bowel movement a day and that 576 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: takes care of business. Sometimes I skip it in the 577 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 1: next day a little bit more, that's also fine. Um. 578 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 1: But there are certain medical conditions that we would think 579 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: of it with really abnormal patterns of bound movements, but 580 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: those are typically painful diarrhea, of blood, etcetera, often associated 581 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: with weight loss, weight maybe weight gain. So I have 582 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 1: none of that. You just have six really healthy bowel 583 00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: movements a day. You poop six times a day, you 584 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 1: work out six times a day. Rick Coop's not once 585 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 1: in a day it doesn't work out. You know, he 586 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 1: considers the bathroom working out. Yeah, exactly, So we can 587 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: we have another question. I want to welcome to the 588 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: show for his first ever appearance on the show, we 589 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: have Brett with us today. Welcome. So Brett is my friend. 590 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: His baby brother is Wells Adams from the Bachelor, and 591 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: he's the bartender on The Bachelor and Brett and I. 592 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: This sounds intimate, but we have vacation together and that 593 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: is how I learned about Brett's very fascinating issue. So 594 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: I asked him if he would open up about it 595 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: because I think he's not alone, and I also think 596 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: we can, dare I say, cure him? Okay, Brett, welcome 597 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: to the show. Brother. Well, thank you, just really quickly. 598 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: I just want to get off. In regards to going 599 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: to the doctor once a year, what type of doctor 600 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: is that? If I'm saying, okay, I haven't been in 601 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: five years, who am I looking to go see? I 602 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 1: would say that would be a primary what would be 603 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 1: referred to as a primary care doctor usually in turtle 604 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: medicine or family practice. Okay, um, thank you. I needed 605 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: to know today that was that was that was the problem? Yes, Well, 606 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: I Ran always says that this is a trust tree, this, 607 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 1: this is a safe place. Let me just check before Brooks. 608 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: Do you have to go and drop a doucey? You're 609 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: good for a little far. I'll go around four o'clock. 610 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 1: We're way pass. That's because what my issue is, um, 611 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: and a lot of it is in my head. But 612 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: I have to always be somewhere where I know there's 613 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: a bathroom around. I constantly, if I'm on a plane, 614 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: if I'm in a car, if I'm in a house, 615 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 1: of wherever I am, I have to know that I 616 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: can get to a bathroom. And it's a head game 617 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: because I can go to the bathroom and and I'm 618 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: talking going number one. Um, I can go to the 619 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 1: bathroom like I did five minutes ago, and I'm already 620 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: thinking how long am I going to be here? And 621 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: if I have to go, what's my exit strategy. I 622 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: also do that with going number two as well, but 623 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: not as much. It is is mostly the I've got 624 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: to go pee and and and how can I get there? 625 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: And make sure there is a pathway for me to 626 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: get there? Okay, so is your question what's wrong with me? 627 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 1: Is this normal? Or I have a question. Did you 628 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: pee your pants as a kid one time and we're 629 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 1: ostracized by it or something and it could scarred you. 630 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 1: I don't think I peed my pants. I'm sure growing up, 631 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: I probably peed in my bed, you know, you know, 632 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: going through that potty training or something. But I don't 633 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 1: think I've ever had there's no like magnificent moment that 634 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: you're like, no, I don't. I've been drunk a couple 635 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,959 Speaker 1: of times, and you know, yeah, I mean, I mean, 636 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: just to make you feel comfortable. I mean, I that 637 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: goes through my mind as well too. And I don't 638 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: know how old you are, but I'm forty five and 639 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: a half, but I think not maybe as much as 640 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: you do about that. But like I'm flying back tonight, 641 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: so like I'm thinking, Okay, well I have to go 642 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: before I get back in the car. And then when 643 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: I get to the airport, i gotta go. Okay, I'm 644 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: gonna go check in, I'm gonna get my ticket, and 645 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: then I'm gonna go to the bathroom, and then I'm 646 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 1: gonna go through security and I'll probably have to go 647 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 1: to the bathroom after that. I do the same thing. 648 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,320 Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm like the same thing that it 649 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: don't worry you lose control of it. I know, I 650 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: treat myself like a five year old though. I'm like, Okay, 651 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: I should go before I leave the house, and then 652 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: when I get somewhere, like I should probably go now 653 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: just in case I can't go later. Same here, and 654 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 1: like to me, not to take away from that, but 655 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,719 Speaker 1: like I feel, I want to be on the plane 656 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: and I want to be comfortable, and I'm thinking to myself, well, 657 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm want to fall asleep on the way home on 658 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 1: the airplane, so but I want to I don't want 659 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: to have to go to the bathroom because they don't 660 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,919 Speaker 1: have to get up, go to the back of the plane, 661 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: go to the war or if you're on the plane 662 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 1: and it gets delayed and you haven't gone, then you're 663 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 1: stuck because you're on the tarmac and you can't get up, 664 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: And then I start to freak out. Yeah, this is 665 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: this is you know what's really interesting about this? This 666 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: is the most anyone has ever sounded like Ryan. It 667 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 1: doesn't rick sound like trying right now? Way do you 668 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 1: hear this? Sometimes when I pee, I turn around and 669 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,319 Speaker 1: I wash my hands and something about the water hit 670 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 1: in my hands. I got a pee again, so don't 671 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: I turn around a p and I wash my hands again. 672 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: So I'm doing like double sets. It's like you used 673 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: to work out twice. Dr Todds just laughing over yeah, 674 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:22,880 Speaker 1: like Dr todd Yeah, this is uh, this is the 675 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 1: greatest hits of of male urinary complaints. Let me ask you, 676 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: do you guys because I think that it's crazy. I'm 677 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: kind of with Peroks on this. Do you get up 678 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 1: multiple times in the middle of the night to go pee? Yes? 679 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,720 Speaker 1: You do. I'll get up at at least once, sometimes twice. 680 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 1: Have you guys ever? Once you guys ever like looked 681 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 1: into diapers just in case? Okay, hold on a sem 682 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: wondering Mr six deuces a day. Let's let's have roa 683 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: stones and back from some what can what can we 684 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 1: really do about Regret's question? Like? Right, so this so 685 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 1: this is a what would be a primary care question 686 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,320 Speaker 1: at least to get started. I don't think you necessarily 687 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,879 Speaker 1: need a subspecialist yet, which would be a urologist, someone 688 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: who works in the general urinary track kidneys, bladder, penis, etcetera. 689 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: But this, you know, most of the time when people 690 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,800 Speaker 1: come to me with this complaint. There's two components to it. 691 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 1: Some people have a little bit more irritability in their bladder, 692 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,320 Speaker 1: and their bladder fills up and they they're sensitive to 693 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,240 Speaker 1: it and they feel this urge to pee, and everybody's 694 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: bladder tone is a little bit different. There are other 695 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,359 Speaker 1: people who have a lot of bladder irritants in their 696 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 1: diet and not casting any stones here, but those are 697 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:49,920 Speaker 1: things like tobacco, alcohol, caffeine is the biggest defender, spicy food, 698 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: or even just high volume hydration. I mean a lot 699 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: of people like Brooks who are working out a lot 700 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,320 Speaker 1: are probably pounding water. And there are other people who are, like, 701 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: you know, drinking bulletproof coffee and then pounding water, and 702 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 1: then they're having wine and they're having spicy you know, 703 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: soup or whatever it is for lunch. So there's just 704 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: a lot of liquid volume, add a lot of bladder irritants. 705 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 1: So that would be the first place that I would look. 706 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: The second place, and again this is not something that 707 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 1: we see until later on, would be prosthetic hypertrophy. That's 708 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 1: when you see the commercials about the guys who are 709 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: the football game and everybody's running into the bathroom and 710 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 1: they're looking up at the scoreboard trying to figure out 711 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: how much time is left. And there are the prostates 712 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: basically smooth muffle, muscle gland that surrounds the neck of 713 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: the bladder and men and as that enlarge as it 714 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,800 Speaker 1: can be caused that type of irritability in your urgency 715 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: and frequency that that you're it sounds a little bit 716 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 1: like you're having. But I I typically start with what's 717 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,240 Speaker 1: going into your body, in particular the type of liquids 718 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: and hydration. He's saying, it's not a going problem, it's 719 00:37:55,560 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: a growing problem. Um, it's only commercial problem. It's a 720 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: growing problem. Correct. I think his might not be a 721 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,320 Speaker 1: growing problem, might be a going problem, but it also 722 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: could be a total head game. Well, you know there 723 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 1: are I might be speaking a little out of school. 724 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,399 Speaker 1: So some of my eurologic colleagues would take, uh, take 725 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,880 Speaker 1: exception with this, Yes, exactly exactly. They love that when 726 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 1: you said that, don't be piste off at me. Um. 727 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 1: But I think that there is a um a psychologic 728 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 1: component to it as well, because it's a behavior. So 729 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 1: we feel this irritability and it's like it's sort of 730 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 1: like holding your breath when you talk to people who 731 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 1: get really into prolonged breath holding is an exercise. They 732 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: get to a point where thirty seconds feels really long, 733 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: and then they go past that and they're like, wait, 734 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,200 Speaker 1: I'm still here, nothing has happened, and then they can 735 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,320 Speaker 1: kind of condition themselves to go longer. I have a 736 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 1: question for you, Bread, is this is this show up? 737 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 1: Does this show up anywhere else in your life? Like 738 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 1: you're terrified of being laid or your tear, Like, is 739 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: there anywhere else where some sort of fear like this 740 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 1: shows up that maybe it's not actually a health problem, 741 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,320 Speaker 1: it's just, like you said, possibly a mental problem. I 742 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 1: would say no to that. I mean, I'm pretty o 743 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: c D. I am always early, I'm I'm very I'm 744 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: punctual person. But it's I don't think that has anything 745 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,839 Speaker 1: to do with any correlation. No, it's just I think 746 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,759 Speaker 1: it's a head game. I mean, yes, I'm I'm older. 747 00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna be forty eight, so I am on 748 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 1: the older spectrum. Um, and something that probably is going 749 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: to the process is gonna start to change or has 750 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,800 Speaker 1: already changed, and I'm already in that um. Maybe need medication. 751 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: But I also think a lot of it is head 752 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: game because I'm sitting here right now and as I'm talking, 753 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,359 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking about going to the bathroom because I'm 754 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,839 Speaker 1: in conversation. But the moment I'm not doing this, then 755 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: my mind immediately goes, okay, is there a bathroom by? 756 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: And how am I going to get out of this 757 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,880 Speaker 1: situation if I need to go to bathroom? Will you 758 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 1: mark the bathrooms as soon as you enter a new room, 759 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 1: like will you be like okay, I'm not gonna here, yeah, 760 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:12,080 Speaker 1: not marked like a dog? Well you if you entered 761 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 1: like a new like this house, right, so you enter 762 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 1: this house, so you are you gonna cut a like 763 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: a hot lap and be like okay, one to bathroom. 764 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 1: I've found out immediately when I got in here where 765 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: the bathroom was, and that Will you go to a 766 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,800 Speaker 1: restaurant that will be the same situation or well, I 767 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: know that if I'm in a restaurant, I know that 768 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: there's a bathroom in there, so I know that I 769 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 1: can get to it. So that's not it's not necessarily 770 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 1: the pathway because from getting from point eight point B 771 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 1: is not the issue. It's just in my mind thinking 772 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: I've got to have if like we were talking about 773 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 1: earlier the airplane. If if we're on a tarmac and 774 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: you're not allowed to get up, then I started panic 775 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: because how long am I going to be stuck on 776 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:50,720 Speaker 1: this tarmac if I have to go to the bathroom. 777 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,760 Speaker 1: Tell the story how when we went on a walk, 778 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: So Brett and I went on a walk. We went 779 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: from like maybe it's a mile walk from the country 780 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: club to the hotel. Yes, And I stopped the at 781 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,400 Speaker 1: the porta body of a work site that I didn't 782 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: belong in. That's all right, I know, But I but 783 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,759 Speaker 1: that my mind was, Okay, I've got a twenty minute walk. 784 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make it twenty minutes. And I saw 785 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: the the outhouse or whatever you call it, and I 786 00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: stopped there to go the restroom so that my mind 787 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 1: would be at ease that I'd make it all the way. 788 00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: Is it possible Dr Todd that he just maybe has 789 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,800 Speaker 1: a smaller bladder, like do men? Some men have a 790 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 1: bigger bladder and some have a smaller bladder. Well, there 791 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: was a there was a Monty Python skit about that 792 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: from Live at the Hollywood Bowl where they do the 793 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 1: h It was a hundred meter dash for men with 794 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 1: small bladders, and they start the race and they're all 795 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 1: drinking water, and like every five ft someone peels off 796 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: and in first, and he's back, and they kept changing. 797 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,359 Speaker 1: The lead kept changing because people have to run off 798 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: to the bathroom in a hundred meter dash. So you 799 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 1: know there are people who have different size bladders. Um, 800 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: and we can measure that with an ultrasound UM. I 801 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 1: don't suspect the that's the issue here. You are what 802 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: we would refer to in medicine as well preserved. So 803 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: forty eight. You look younger than your stated age, as 804 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: we would say in the business. So I think that 805 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 1: you know, probably at forty eight with these type of issues, 806 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 1: I I it's not necessarily a call for medication, but 807 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: there could be behavioral modification in particular around what you 808 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: drink and how when you drink it and changing sort 809 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 1: of the input. Like you know, people can do pelvic 810 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 1: floor physical therapy, etcetera. To kind of retrain themselves out 811 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: of this. But I think that you're you do have 812 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,760 Speaker 1: some bladder irritability, probably some prosthetic hypertrophee, and it probably 813 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 1: related it to the volume in the in the caffeine 814 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: alcohol spicily whatever it is that you do. I don't 815 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: know whether they do that or not, but I suspect 816 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 1: that that type of stuff would probably be irritating you. 817 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 1: Is it true that you live in a one bedroom, 818 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 1: fourteen and a half path custom build that custom building? 819 00:42:58,400 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 1: So I was gonna ask a question, Brett, have you 820 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,800 Speaker 1: to try to fight it? Like h this morning is 821 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: a class example for myself. Like I got up, I 822 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: was I was at the gym at six o'clock and 823 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 1: I went and worked out. But before I stepped into 824 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 1: the actual gym portion of it, I was like, oh, 825 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,280 Speaker 1: I should probably I should probably go to the bathroom, 826 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: you know, and then I something else. I went and 827 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 1: brush my teeth or something, and then I got it 828 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 1: in the gym and I'm like, oh shoot, Like I 829 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: never went to the bathroom, and so I ended up 830 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 1: working out for an hour. And then as soon as 831 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: I started working out, I didn't even like, didn't even 832 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:30,439 Speaker 1: phase me. I didn't even think about it. I didn't 833 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 1: feel like the pressure to go to the bathroom. But 834 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 1: when I was done, then it. I got back into 835 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 1: the locker room, I was showering and was like, okay, cool, done, 836 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: Now relieve myself. Yeah, I don't. I don't think I 837 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,320 Speaker 1: avoid it. If I can solve the problem immediately, I 838 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 1: solve the problem, hence stopping it up. But that was 839 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 1: my whole thing was like I ended up. I thought 840 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: about it, but then I was either I got distracted 841 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,480 Speaker 1: by something else and then kept going, and then through 842 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 1: that hour of workout or whatever that time was, I 843 00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 1: didn't didn't even bother me, didn't even cross my mind. 844 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even feel it. Yeah, I mean I think 845 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 1: I should. I should. I'm not. I'm not saying get 846 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: in your car and drive home for two hours and 847 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: go and hold it. Get you in the traffic on 848 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:18,320 Speaker 1: the four oh five. That's a bad place there. I 849 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: can pull over if need be. I can pull over 850 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,280 Speaker 1: side road all. I can pull over the gas station. 851 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 1: So I always have that in my mind. If I'm 852 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 1: stuck somewhere, what is my what is my exit? Typically 853 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,879 Speaker 1: the biggest culprits that I see are soda. People drink 854 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 1: a lot of soda, and people who just super hydrate, 855 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,280 Speaker 1: and then people who drink a lot of coffee. Okay, 856 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna move on from this one. Dr Todd, I 857 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:45,840 Speaker 1: have another interesting question for you, Um are cold showers 858 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: better than hot? Doesn't matter because there's I'm always after performance, 859 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 1: like I'm always seeking better performance, and so I study 860 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: and learn and read a bunch of different things. And 861 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 1: there's a lot of discussion now, not only in wellness 862 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,040 Speaker 1: and in health, but in performance that cold showers are 863 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:08,279 Speaker 1: better than hot? Can you weigh in on this? So um, 864 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: I have always wanted to start a journal of anecdotal medicine, 865 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,839 Speaker 1: which is basically not evidence based medicine, things that people 866 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: just say that are true. You know, most of the 867 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 1: things that we say are true, for instance, should I 868 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 1: take cholesterol medication if I high cholesterol? Those are backed 869 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: up by huge studies that are randomized, placebo controlled studies 870 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 1: where there's hundreds of thousands of people and we can 871 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,439 Speaker 1: look at outcomes. We don't have that kind of data 872 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 1: with hot and cold showers. Which one is better, which 873 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 1: one's worse? Do they really improve performance? Do they really 874 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: improve long term outcomes? We don't know. Personally myself, you know, 875 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: I am very similar to you. I've always been an athlete. 876 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 1: I've always been interested in performance, and so I'm constantly 877 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: looking for things that are benign me and they're not 878 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: going to cause any harm that will actually make me 879 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 1: feel better and maybe improve my performance so recently, you know, 880 00:45:58,160 --> 00:45:59,880 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of stuff and maybe we'll get 881 00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:02,279 Speaker 1: to later in this conversation that people are doing to 882 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: improve performance. And you know, there are people who say, look, 883 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: when I take a cold shower, it wakes me up. 884 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: It gets my you know, I feel like my immune 885 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 1: function is better. It just sort of shocks me and 886 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 1: stimulates me, and I feel really good. I don't know 887 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 1: if there's any real evidence to suggest that cold or 888 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 1: hot showers are better, but I do find that you 889 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 1: know people who ice after exercise, who you know, you 890 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: as a hockey player, you probably know that I played football. 891 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,719 Speaker 1: We ced all the time, and it does improve in 892 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 1: my opinion with it does improve recovery, but I don't 893 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 1: truly know if it improves performance. Yeah. I would sometimes 894 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 1: do it too after a hockey game because the intensity 895 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 1: level is so high, um that I didn't want to 896 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,400 Speaker 1: add more heat to it. Your body attempt is so 897 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 1: high that I would take a cold shower to help 898 00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: me calm down and be able to sleep when I 899 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: went home, So I would for anybody listening. I would 900 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,879 Speaker 1: sometimes do it later in the evening to to help 901 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,319 Speaker 1: myself calm down and then I could go to bed. 902 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 1: I just wanted to see which you thought. There's a 903 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 1: lot of people doing that ice therapy where they're getting 904 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 1: an ice tanks and yeah, yeah, we had cryos in 905 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:11,799 Speaker 1: our locker room. You guys ever done a crydo therapy? Oh? Were? 906 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: I think we're going to go as a team. Yeah, 907 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,319 Speaker 1: I have a place we can go do it. Um 908 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 1: it's fast team. Are you guys on you know, like 909 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 1: a podcast team? Yeah, we're thinking you other people, so 910 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: it's a competition ratings. I got a question Dr Todd, 911 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 1: intermittent intermittent fasting. Is that's a big thing now? Is 912 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,279 Speaker 1: that a legitimate thing or is that like what's the deal? 913 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 1: Good question? Um so, so intermittent fasting, there's a there's 914 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 1: a lot of elements to this, and I'm I could 915 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,319 Speaker 1: speak to this for walks. I get asked this question 916 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,560 Speaker 1: a lot, and I'm interested in it myself. UM, I 917 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 1: think that for people who you're you really have to 918 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 1: find out and what works best for you. Um. There 919 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: are not a lot of huge studies out there that 920 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,760 Speaker 1: look at long term data about in intermitten fasting. So again, 921 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: there is. There are small studies. I've read them, and 922 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to speak a little bit to that. So, 923 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 1: the the idea behind intermittent fasting, if you just think 924 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: about it from an evolutionary perspective, is there was very 925 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 1: few times until the last three years where people sat 926 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,879 Speaker 1: down for three high caloric meals a day, right, breakfast, lunch, 927 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 1: and dinner. We like that, it's the way we behave. Um, 928 00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 1: you know, people always went to sleep when it got 929 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,759 Speaker 1: dark and they always woke up when it got light. 930 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,480 Speaker 1: It wasn't the other way around. But there wasn't a 931 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,919 Speaker 1: lot of times where people sat down for three meals 932 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 1: a day until recently. So the idea I think fundamentally 933 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: behind intermittent fasting is it mirrors more closely what we 934 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:50,479 Speaker 1: evolved to do, more calories in a shorter period of time, 935 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: with lots of walking and exercise between. So I have 936 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 1: a thought on that too, because I've looked into this 937 00:48:56,239 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 1: as well. The reason, well, a lot of pulls see 938 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 1: results immediate, very urgent results from intermittent fasting. Um, they 939 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 1: can lose ten pounds in the first three weeks or something, 940 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 1: and they'll swear by they say this is amazing intermitute 941 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 1: fasting works. But what you're doing is, as he said, 942 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,359 Speaker 1: you're there's a portion of the day where you are 943 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:20,760 Speaker 1: not allowed to eat, where you're not eating, And really, 944 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 1: what you're doing, if you were to just what you're 945 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 1: doing is portion control. Is essentially what you're doing by 946 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 1: restricting this time where you're not eating, it's just restricting 947 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 1: portions really, and so as he said, there aren't studies 948 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,480 Speaker 1: that really prove it. If a person was to take 949 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 1: that restraint and portion control into their standard diet, eating 950 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,959 Speaker 1: three meals a day, the results would probably be the same. 951 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:49,160 Speaker 1: So it's the jury is out on intermittent fasting. It's 952 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,279 Speaker 1: of course, if there's an area of the day, like 953 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 1: if if it's all of a sudden, only sixteen hours 954 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,080 Speaker 1: of the day or eight hours of the day that 955 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 1: you can eat, of course you're gonna lose weight. You 956 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 1: just most likely are because you can't eat that much 957 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,640 Speaker 1: during that little amount of time. Um, But if you 958 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:08,279 Speaker 1: just practice portion control in your regular diet, you would 959 00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:12,399 Speaker 1: probably get the same thing. But I do feel better 960 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,400 Speaker 1: almost when I eat less during the course of the day. 961 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,640 Speaker 1: When I'm highly active, i eat very little. I'll eat 962 00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 1: a big meal in the evening. I'll have a shake 963 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: in the morning, sort of a shake around noon, like 964 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: a little bit of fruit or something. Um. But I 965 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: don't eat a lot during the day, but agree with 966 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: intermittent fasting. I don't know, Dmitri. Instead of getting the 967 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: double double cheeseburger, just get the single cheeseburger, Okay, But 968 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: then I get that four times a day. Yes, you know, 969 00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 1: we cut that into two and then you're fine. I 970 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 1: have a question on that topic. Well we'll move on. 971 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 1: Are there benefits or negative aspects to how we sleep? 972 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 1: Whether you're on your side, your back, your stomach? Um, 973 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 1: what other good question? Um, I don't know if it 974 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 1: really if it really matters where are you sleep, whether 975 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 1: it's on your side, your back, or your stomach. I 976 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 1: think that the amount you sleep and the quality of 977 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: your sleep is the most important thing. And you know 978 00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 1: what I I think what I tell people is the 979 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:21,759 Speaker 1: foundation of health is food, exercise, and sleep. That's it. 980 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 1: And mood is the some of those three things, and 981 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 1: it impacts all of those things. And sleep is super 982 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 1: fundamental to human function. There's there's a lot of good 983 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 1: books out right now about sleep, um, that are written 984 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:40,400 Speaker 1: for general population, not necessarily medical providers, and they go 985 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,320 Speaker 1: through the history of sleep, why we sleep, what's you know, 986 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: things that you know, ambing and this and that that 987 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,359 Speaker 1: people take. But but essentially I really like to see 988 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 1: adults get eight hours of uninterrupted sleep. I don't care 989 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,919 Speaker 1: whether it's on their back, their stomach, or their side, 990 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: and does it matter at what time of day they 991 00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 1: get those eight hours of sleep. Um, well, there's there 992 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 1: is some thought that some people are night owls and 993 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,800 Speaker 1: other people are early risers. So the early risers, and 994 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,399 Speaker 1: you might see it in your own families. You might 995 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 1: have you know, three people in your family who just 996 00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:12,320 Speaker 1: seemed to go to bed at nine or ten o'clock 997 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 1: and they wake up at five or six. And then 998 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: you've got one kid who's up until you know, eleven 999 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,279 Speaker 1: and twelve o'clock at night and sleep so ten in 1000 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,800 Speaker 1: the morning. There is evolutionary components of that too, Like 1001 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:23,880 Speaker 1: the teenagers they needed to stay up late so they 1002 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 1: could go out and make mistakes and score around when 1003 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 1: all the grown ups were asleep. You know, there was 1004 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,760 Speaker 1: there was you know, early risers and in night owls 1005 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,840 Speaker 1: because that could provide the most coverage for us. You 1006 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 1: know from protection from people trying to eat human beings, 1007 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,879 Speaker 1: and so every you you have to find your sleep 1008 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 1: pattern and stick to it. I think all of the 1009 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: travel that people do is really disruptive. All of the 1010 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 1: air travel, time zone travel. We did not evolve to 1011 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 1: do that. That's brand new. So you know, people like 1012 00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 1: going back and forth between all these time zones is 1013 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 1: really difficult on them. Sleeping in different places every night, 1014 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:59,080 Speaker 1: it's really difficult. I have a question on the sleep topic, 1015 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 1: which is my arms constantly fall asleep because of the 1016 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,640 Speaker 1: way I'm laying on them and while I'm sleeping, and 1017 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:11,839 Speaker 1: I have have to stay up. If you're asleep, it's 1018 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: pretty good, Dmitri uh, moving on. So, and I have 1019 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 1: friends that have experienced the same thing. And one of 1020 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,640 Speaker 1: my buddies was telling me that he basically has like 1021 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,800 Speaker 1: fashioned himself a straight jacket of sorts because he's desperately 1022 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 1: trying to avoid having nerve damage. And I don't know 1023 00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,439 Speaker 1: if that's a thing, if you can actually have nerve 1024 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,680 Speaker 1: damage if your arms are consistently on a nightly basis 1025 00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 1: falling asleep. But I every single night, at least three 1026 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,200 Speaker 1: times will wake up and I cannot I have no 1027 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,839 Speaker 1: feeling in my left or right arm, so that, um, 1028 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,080 Speaker 1: is that a new thing that just started up in 1029 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 1: your whole life? No, I think it's the No, it's 1030 00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: within the past few years. And maybe the way that 1031 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping with my one of my arms under part 1032 00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 1: of my head. I guess yeah, I think that that's 1033 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 1: pro reliate, it's positional, and that when we are sleeping, 1034 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:07,360 Speaker 1: our bodies are literally catatonic. They're paralyzed. And so if 1035 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 1: you fall asleep in a position where you have a 1036 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:13,800 Speaker 1: compressed nerve that will ultimately fall you know, fall asleep, 1037 00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 1: you'll get in It's a little it's a transient neuropathy, 1038 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,440 Speaker 1: meaning the nerve is not working great for you know, 1039 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 1: a few minutes until you shake it out and get 1040 00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,279 Speaker 1: some blood flow back to it. But I do not 1041 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,240 Speaker 1: think it would cause permanent damage if it were something. 1042 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,840 Speaker 1: You know, there are people who have spinal stenosis, for instance, 1043 00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 1: in laying in a certain position they start to get 1044 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 1: pain in their legs, or if they get cervical stenosis, 1045 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,359 Speaker 1: they might get pain in their arms. So there's lots 1046 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 1: of different things that could be causing that. But if 1047 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:39,800 Speaker 1: it sounds like if it goes away pretty quickly. You 1048 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,839 Speaker 1: know what I mean, weakness or any other difficulty during 1049 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:45,720 Speaker 1: the day, It's probably not a problem. I I sleep 1050 00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 1: on my back. So we we'd have our team would 1051 00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,680 Speaker 1: have sleep doctors. We had sleep doctors that came in 1052 00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,239 Speaker 1: every year to talk to us. But I sleep on 1053 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 1: my back and tried to as much as possible. We 1054 00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,759 Speaker 1: were sort of advised on this. Why. I don't know why, 1055 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 1: but um, do you sleep on your side? You sleep? 1056 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,080 Speaker 1: What do you guys do? Sleep on my side? And 1057 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 1: I keep a pillow in between my legs because I 1058 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 1: was told that it's actually more comfortable for me. And 1059 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 1: right Ryan actually has a nest. But I have like 1060 00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:19,919 Speaker 1: all pill down pillows just around me, one in my arms, 1061 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 1: one in between my legs, one hovering in case one 1062 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,360 Speaker 1: of those falls on the floor, and then one of 1063 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 1: those masks and cover to go over like a helmet 1064 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:32,160 Speaker 1: to where to protect his hair. To meet you, How 1065 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,160 Speaker 1: do you sleep? I honestly I don't sleep well. Um, 1066 00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 1: but I in terms of position I move. I keep 1067 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,320 Speaker 1: rotating all night long. Really, so I'm I'm on my 1068 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,759 Speaker 1: back and I can a lot of nights I can 1069 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 1: fall asleep. The question here is doesn't matter how we sleep. Um, 1070 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,560 Speaker 1: I can fall asleep on my back and I'll wake 1071 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,879 Speaker 1: up the next morning in the exact same position. Um, 1072 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 1: you probably changed a lot and made your way back 1073 00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 1: to that position. Yeah, that's possible, very possible. But um, 1074 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 1: we've talked about sleep on this show before. I think sleep. 1075 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,080 Speaker 1: For me as an athlete, sleep was and I've said this, 1076 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: the number one thing that I prioritize in my life 1077 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,600 Speaker 1: is sleep. And for people listening, if you want to 1078 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,839 Speaker 1: be if you just want to think overall wellness, Um, 1079 00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,319 Speaker 1: sleep will affect everything. So there's something called you might 1080 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,839 Speaker 1: have heard of this stuck Um. The five factors of health. 1081 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,960 Speaker 1: The five factors of health, there's a discussion around this 1082 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:28,000 Speaker 1: is how you sleep, how you eat, how you move, 1083 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,279 Speaker 1: how you think, and the last one is how you 1084 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,800 Speaker 1: connect with people. Are sort of the five overarching factors 1085 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,200 Speaker 1: of health and wellness. And of the five, whenever I 1086 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,400 Speaker 1: talk to people, I say sleep is the absolute most important. 1087 00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 1: If sleep is in line the next morning, how you 1088 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,239 Speaker 1: think will be clear. You're probably gonna make a better 1089 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,480 Speaker 1: nutritional choice, You're probably going to move, and you're probably 1090 00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 1: going to be more receptive to your wife or kids. 1091 00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:55,279 Speaker 1: If you have adequate sleep. So sleep for me is 1092 00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:57,400 Speaker 1: the thing I prioritize the most. That's what I was 1093 00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,120 Speaker 1: gonna say. Dr TDD you said, what was What were 1094 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:02,640 Speaker 1: the three things that the sum is mood, food, exercise, 1095 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: and sleep. Right, So, ladies, if your guys being a dick, 1096 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:09,320 Speaker 1: don't dump him. Just get him, tell him to eat something, sleep, 1097 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,160 Speaker 1: and tell him the workout and then give him a 1098 00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 1: second chance. Don't just up and leave or a second opinion. Okay, 1099 00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 1: let's let's get on. I do really like those five 1100 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 1: fundamentals and some of the longitudinal studies about what really 1101 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,280 Speaker 1: makes people healthy. I think we can human connection and 1102 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: the quality of the relationships. Yeah, I think. Um. There 1103 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 1: was a longitudinal study I think it was called The 1104 00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,800 Speaker 1: doctor's name was Valiant. He did it for years. He 1105 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,400 Speaker 1: looked at data from Harvard that was collected from ninety 1106 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 1: three until almost two thousands, and he um he summed 1107 00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 1: it up that the most important thing in successful human 1108 00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,520 Speaker 1: behavior was love. Was the connections that we had to 1109 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,680 Speaker 1: our family and to other people, and that's really what 1110 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 1: drove vitality. It sort of goes in line. I also 1111 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 1: heard a study about the the two fears that people 1112 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:03,840 Speaker 1: have and what you're saying speaks to this. The two 1113 00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 1: fears that people have is one being ostracized from the 1114 00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 1: group and two that they might get some physical harm, 1115 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: are really the only two fears that people have, and 1116 00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,160 Speaker 1: so the communal element of it, Um, what you're saying 1117 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 1: is is love and connection is massive too. I think 1118 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 1: overall wellness and health um Rick just touched on it. 1119 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 1: Here's a question for you, Dr Todd. Do doctors get piste? 1120 00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,240 Speaker 1: Like if I come in and say, you give me 1121 00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,120 Speaker 1: an answer, and I say I want a second opinion, 1122 00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: do doctors get piste if we want a second opinion? 1123 00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 1: They shouldn't. Um. You know, I think that you know 1124 00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 1: one of the problems in medicine, and I like to 1125 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,800 Speaker 1: refer to a lot as this. You know, these aren't 1126 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 1: my ideas. That this is Carol Dwex ideas about growth 1127 00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,600 Speaker 1: and fixed mindsets. And I think that a lot of 1128 00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 1: doctors become fixed mindset people because they have to accept 1129 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 1: a paradigm and practice it, and when it gets challenged 1130 00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,919 Speaker 1: it's very unnerving for them. But I think a good 1131 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: doctor who's a lifetime learner is someone with a real 1132 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,800 Speaker 1: growth mindset who can look at these failures or challenges 1133 00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,440 Speaker 1: an opportunity to learn. So I would say, if your 1134 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,840 Speaker 1: doctor does get pissed, it might be a good opportunity 1135 00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 1: for you to look for another doctors. I know, I 1136 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,640 Speaker 1: know doctors hate when you say I googled something, that's 1137 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: for sure. But I once had a doctor snap at 1138 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: me because I guess I self diagnos I went in, 1139 00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,360 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, Dot, my legs have been hurting. 1140 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a m if it's poor circulation. 1141 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 1: Why do you think it's poor circulation? As I know, 1142 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 1: I'm just guessing. He's don't guess, and I'm like, well, 1143 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,800 Speaker 1: that's why I'm here, Like, that's only a function of time, 1144 00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,960 Speaker 1: I think if doctors, I think, really, doctors don't have 1145 00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 1: enough time to In the old days, where doctors saw, 1146 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 1: you know, four or five people a day, and the 1147 00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:46,160 Speaker 1: problems were not quite as bizarre as they seemed to 1148 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: be today, we didn't know as much, so there was 1149 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,960 Speaker 1: simpler solutions. They had more time to talk. But now, 1150 00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:53,920 Speaker 1: you know, when you're seeing people a day and a 1151 00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:55,760 Speaker 1: real smart guy comes in and wants to talk about 1152 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 1: his hypotheses that he got from Google, you just don't 1153 00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 1: have time to do it. You just call me a 1154 00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 1: real smart Was that a sarcastic smart guy? Or like 1155 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:07,680 Speaker 1: really want air quotations when he said he did lift 1156 01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,520 Speaker 1: his giant hands up and do his air quotations. Dr Todd, 1157 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,720 Speaker 1: I appreciate your time. Um, do any of you guys 1158 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:16,959 Speaker 1: have I'm gonna come see you at some point because 1159 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 1: does anybody else have any questions that they want? One 1160 01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 1: quick one? Okay, I'm late. I mean my you know, 1161 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 1: mid forties. Is there one food that I should like 1162 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 1: totally be avoiding, or one food that I that I 1163 01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 1: should be trying to eat more often, or just you 1164 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 1: know overall health like super food or gluten or whatever. 1165 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 1: I would avoid anything Brooks is eating that makes you 1166 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,880 Speaker 1: dump six times a day. But well, I would say, 1167 01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: without going in this is another huge topic, but I 1168 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,320 Speaker 1: would say that, you know, eating whole foods and avoiding 1169 01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 1: process foods would probably be the number one rule, And 1170 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 1: if you can avoid genetically modified foods, that's probably number two. 1171 01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,280 Speaker 1: And the question about gluten and all of these other 1172 01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:02,400 Speaker 1: hypersensitivities and autoimmune things that are coming from nutrition are 1173 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: because our bodies are seeing genetically modified foods that that 1174 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,320 Speaker 1: they just haven't seen in our evolution and it's causing 1175 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 1: inflammatory reactions. So I would say if you can, try 1176 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,080 Speaker 1: not to stay away from process foods and try and 1177 01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 1: be careful with that genetically modified foods when you can. 1178 01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 1: It's hard because everything has genetic modification in it. But 1179 01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 1: to your point about gluten, the glead and protein that's 1180 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 1: in wheat is the classic genetically modified protein that in 1181 01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:36,439 Speaker 1: order to provide nutrition for huge growing human population. Wow, 1182 01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 1: so we can eat spam. I don't know what that is. 1183 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 1: Dr Todd. I want to thank you so much for 1184 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,920 Speaker 1: your expertise, uh and taking the time to come in 1185 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 1: to see us. Awesome, appreciate you. I feel better already. 1186 01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 1: So Dr Todd was awesome. And going back to the 1187 01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,800 Speaker 1: beginning of the show, Ryan, I just want to say, 1188 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 1: what did you think about our friend Dr Todd that 1189 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 1: all doctors are not evil as you had a connotation 1190 01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 1: or perception of before does this? Does this patch that 1191 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,320 Speaker 1: wound a little bit that there are doctors that do 1192 01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 1: care about you, you sensitive soul. Dr Todd changed my 1193 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:26,680 Speaker 1: opinion and the generalization that I had on physicians. That said. 1194 01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,840 Speaker 1: I am going to call him tonight and send him 1195 01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 1: an email tomorrow. No, no, you have no contact with 1196 01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:37,080 Speaker 1: Dr Todd unless this Dr Todd if you're listening. If 1197 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,520 Speaker 1: I do not, you're back from me. I'll tell you 1198 01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,320 Speaker 1: what man you're on the list. No, no, you know, 1199 01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: Danielle Amy, make sure Ryan does not get Dr Todd's info. 1200 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,480 Speaker 1: We'd like to have him back. And no more faking 1201 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,920 Speaker 1: your own death. Yeah, no more, please, no more. Um. 1202 01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 1: But I hope this is able that Dr Todd showed 1203 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 1: you that he does care about you. He loves you 1204 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 1: as his child. He doesn't even remember your name. He 1205 01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,520 Speaker 1: was like I was on this podcast, but Dr Todd 1206 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:07,440 Speaker 1: was fantastic. He was cool. I'd like to have him 1207 01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,040 Speaker 1: back again. And by the way, Brett has been in 1208 01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,920 Speaker 1: the bathroom for the last thirty minutes. We haven't seen him, 1209 01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:15,360 Speaker 1: but he's our number one guest. Well, I want to 1210 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: thank Dr Todd for coming uh and we always appreciate 1211 01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,600 Speaker 1: your guys questions, you have health questions. We'd love to 1212 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:22,680 Speaker 1: have Dr Todd back again. But if you have health questions, 1213 01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:25,080 Speaker 1: we can forward those to him, get him back on 1214 01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: the show. So you can email us men at I 1215 01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 1: heart radio dot com and find us on Instagram. How 1216 01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 1: men think podcasts. Send us your questions there. Thank you 1217 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:36,880 Speaker 1: good sirs, which got to check. Check Gavin's tour schedule. 1218 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 1: Go see a show if he's near you. That is 1219 01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,760 Speaker 1: my favorite part of the podcast. To sign off from Brooks. No, no, no, 1220 01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm not going to sign off today. I'm gonna let 1221 01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:48,520 Speaker 1: you do it. I remember it and remember love one another, 1222 01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:56,760 Speaker 1: protect one another, don't fake. Hey guys, it's Brooks and 1223 01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:58,720 Speaker 1: one last thing before we let you go. 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