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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex p any sug girl Dray in

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Speaker 2: the cold and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where Mine speaks sober thoughts. What's up girl? You look cute?

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Speaker 1: Switched up the hair? You don't switch up the little?

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Speaker 3: I know?

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Speaker 4: Today?

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Speaker 5: Are you bitch? You know?

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Speaker 1: What's given?

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Speaker 5: Brand new?

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Speaker 1: The second?

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Speaker 2: And we have a guest today. Let me say I'm

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Speaker 2: very excited too. You know, I feel like we're gonna

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Speaker 2: get our learn on today.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get that we dressed conservatives.

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Speaker 5: We try try.

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Speaker 2: Like Ryan said that when I walked in said I

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Speaker 2: like this. I say, you know me business party at

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Speaker 2: the bottom. Okay, so tell us who you are, what

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Speaker 2: you do, and just give us a.

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Speaker 5: Rundown Wall Street trapper.

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Speaker 6: So I just focused on educating our culture on how

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Speaker 6: to build well and how to plant the season generational wealth.

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Speaker 6: So a lot of times we get caught up in

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Speaker 6: being programmed on that we're not able to build well,

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Speaker 6: So we limit ourselves and then if it's not that

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Speaker 6: for me, it was then just being a dope boy

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Speaker 6: So it was like I can't I'm too slow to

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Speaker 6: So it was like all right, so the hustlers was

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Speaker 6: who got all the attention. So I was like, all right,

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Speaker 6: this is what I gravitated to. Some my moms get

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Speaker 6: shot when I was young, but it was a way

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Speaker 6: of she showed me like, Yo, this is the world

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Speaker 6: and you got to learn it. You get it from

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Speaker 6: a first hand point of view. Nobody gonna take this

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Speaker 6: is it. This is what you gotta go up against.

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Speaker 6: So I learned that cultivating myself in the streets, learned

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Speaker 6: a temp murder on robbery. Dead ten years in prison.

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Speaker 6: But that's why I got introduced to financial literacy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, in prison?

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Speaker 5: In prison? Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 6: So it was a situation where I was in a

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Speaker 6: So what game you playing? But it was just he

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Speaker 6: murder on robbery, probably looking at ninety nine years he

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Speaker 6: and Bezzel two point eight million. He just did eighteen months.

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Speaker 6: He paid off eight hundred thousand and kept two million.

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Speaker 5: Damn right, So.

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Speaker 2: He must don't sound too yeah, I do that again,

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Speaker 6: So that that kind of like shook my mind, like

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Speaker 6: like you know, make a couple of million, but you

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Speaker 6: So just in prison, I just like got on reading

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Speaker 6: It's like, Yo, there's a bunch of white people. They

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Speaker 6: So I just spent the rest of my ten years

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Speaker 5: And when I came home, it.

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Speaker 6: Wasn't so much that I knew, like that's what I'm

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Speaker 1: Ten years a lot of happening to It was like

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Speaker 5: Like you got out.

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Speaker 1: You was probably still sending letters, writing people. We got text.

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Speaker 5: Man, I'm like, damn for real, damn.

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Speaker 6: So so I still got back in the streets, started hustling.

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Speaker 6: Just that's what I knew. That's what I was comfortable

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Speaker 6: And I'm gonna just take street dudes and show them

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Speaker 5: I'm not I ain't saying.

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Speaker 6: That, but at the time, that's all I knew, Like,

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Speaker 6: if I can teach, if I can show us how

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Speaker 6: so that's just what the wall streets can from. That's

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Speaker 6: because who touched with money than y'all? You did?

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Speaker 5: I just helped them, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to say this because me and

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Speaker 2: Drea definitely have different views when it comes to things

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Speaker 2: like that, because I'm the type of person I believe

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Speaker 2: always felt like it's a little different for you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like everybody can make it and do it.

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Speaker 1: I just don't because there's so many odds against you.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like, again, I don't feel like everybody

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Speaker 5: But I also.

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Speaker 2: Feel like it's not because of the fact that everybody

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Speaker 2: and people don't believe in themselves. Right, A lot of

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Speaker 2: the same people who be like, oh, this isn't fair,

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Speaker 1: They don't even try. They just use that as a crutch.

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Speaker 2: They use their circumstances as a crush Like, No, everybody

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Speaker 2: Everybody isn't born with a silk respond in their mouth

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Speaker 2: and with certain opportunities to other people. However, though, if

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Speaker 2: you really want something bad enough, you could do whatever

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Speaker 2: especially with even I say this all the time. Well,

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Speaker 2: how we started this show. People be like, oh, this

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Speaker 1: We started. Nobody was listening for a long.

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Speaker 2: As time, but we're still recorded. We showed up every

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Speaker 2: week we recorded. We were consistent. Most people lack discipline, inconsistency.

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Speaker 6: I agree with that too. So I'm that person. I'm

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Speaker 5: Four hours don't mean all right street, I'm that person.

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Speaker 6: So I really feel like I say this thing, like

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Speaker 6: every day you get up and if you're not where

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Speaker 6: easy for us to blame sick situations circumstances. Well, I

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Speaker 6: could easily say when I did teen is in prison,

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Speaker 6: that give me a right to say, all right, well,

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Speaker 6: screw my life. I'm just gonna continue doing that. I

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Speaker 6: know what I feel like if once we start taking

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Speaker 6: I don't got the money I want, it's my.

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Speaker 2: I took it from this way, because that's what's we're

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Speaker 2: about this a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: When the show was wind down Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: It's a nine to five a hustle because for me,

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Speaker 2: I was in the cycle of a nine to five

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Speaker 1: Like I moved out here with nothing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, clue to the friends, I wouldn't be here like

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Speaker 1: I was in Houston doing nothing.

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Speaker 2: But for me to get out of that cycle of

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Speaker 2: have to like invest a lot of money in this

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Speaker 2: So I really didn't have any money to invest. I

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Speaker 6: So I think a nine to five should be the

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Speaker 6: catalyst or should I say the foundation to wherever you're

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Speaker 6: trying to go at right, So your job is your

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Speaker 6: attention to it like that. So for me, I look,

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Speaker 6: I build this triangle and I call it the triangle offense.

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Speaker 6: So you take the income, you invest the income, you

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Speaker 6: turn the income into wealth. Right, So income turns into capital.

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Speaker 6: Capital is just money you use to invest that money

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Speaker 6: comes turns into wealth. So what happens is we get

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Speaker 6: into this mindset. So everybody's trained by the in program,

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Speaker 6: by the same system. So America teaches you what to think,

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Speaker 6: not how to think right. Right, So America teaches you

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Speaker 6: that at a certain age you retire. America teaches you

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Speaker 6: that if you work forty hours, that's a work week.

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Speaker 6: America teaches you that on the weekends you take off

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Speaker 6: after so long, you take one vacation.

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Speaker 5: Right. So America programs everybody.

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Speaker 6: To think the same way, and so that limits your

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Speaker 6: ability because if you think, well, if you think that

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Speaker 6: the forty years is the end of the road, then

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Speaker 6: you're like, all right, well done, my life already over with.

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Speaker 6: I know it's gonna happen at sixty five, right, So

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Speaker 6: you got to snatch that away. And so I think

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Speaker 6: what people should do is everybody should go all in

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Speaker 6: on one thing in their life. That's what I did.

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Speaker 6: That's what you're all doing, right, You're going in on

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 6: So I think people should use the job as a

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Speaker 6: But also look at the nine to five as what

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Speaker 2: so with Babbel, you can choose from fourteen different languages,

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Speaker 2: what I mean. In addition to lessons, you can access podcasts, games, videos,

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Speaker 1: How you say amen in French?

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Speaker 5: We don't know.

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Speaker 1: But see that's why you need to download Babel. So

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Speaker 1: I think on the last.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you mean, how do you feel? What

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Speaker 2: Hustle is something that it's like you're getting it out

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like with a nine to five, that's easy.

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Speaker 1: And then even now that we're making way way more money.

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Speaker 2: So now that we're making way more money, even still

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Speaker 1: Mean, it's no limit to how much money we can make.

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Speaker 2: So to me, that's a hustle. Just like when I

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Speaker 1: I was hustling. So you felt like me sitting down

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Speaker 6: No, No, I see what she's saying though, because with

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Speaker 1: Yes, it depends on how you want.

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Speaker 5: This leads the hustle, you ain't get no money.

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess I just looked at it different because

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Speaker 1: It was a hustle for me.

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Speaker 2: And also the extra money I did have when we

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Speaker 1: So that was a hustle for me because I could

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Speaker 5: So it was about little hustle.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I get that, but I guess I just be

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Speaker 2: Those are the people they end up becoming successful, right,

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Speaker 6: Like that's true. That's so America is built on it.

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Speaker 6: And I always say that because I always look at

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Speaker 6: And so if you look when you look at America

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 6: So America is not structured for the nine to five

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 6: The only way you succeed as a nine to five

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Speaker 5: So I kind of agree on that. When do you

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I used to have to be there and

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Speaker 1: You tired.

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Speaker 2: But this is why I said I was a hustler,

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Speaker 2: because guess what I was doing that And on top

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Speaker 1: But that's what you saying me because I was really

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying most people don't like a lot of

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Speaker 2: not gonna put it in the word. I mean, I

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Speaker 6: So here's the thing, though, the nine of five isn't

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Speaker 6: So in the beginning, poor minds was the hustle, right right,

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Speaker 6: because you were taking the money to put into poor minds.

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Speaker 6: So you can use pull minds to walk away, right

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Speaker 6: right and turn the.

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Speaker 5: Hustle into the empire.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: I agree with that, you know what I'm.

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Speaker 2: Saying, But I just like to feel like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I do agree. If you're working just

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Speaker 2: you know, I changed my opinion, So don't pull up

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Speaker 2: that old episode. But like the lis you said, you say,

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Speaker 2: maybe a little defensive, but I guess I see it

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Speaker 2: I feel you out of my motivation, even when you

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Speaker 2: I don't know how the episode is gonna go.

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Speaker 1: Every week. I'm not even gonna lost to you. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling yall some tea right now.

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Speaker 2: Every week, I'm like, man, I hope this is a

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Speaker 2: good episode because people don't realize the work behind it.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of times people aren't forgiving,

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Speaker 1: Be like, oh, I'm not watching this shit no more.

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Speaker 1: It's boring.

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Speaker 2: And if we being honest, I mean, just as a person,

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Speaker 1: There's been times when we had to come.

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Speaker 2: Record and we ain't really feel like recording because we

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Speaker 2: had other life shit going on, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: But we still had to come in and we had

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Speaker 6: So we can't believe that's why mustle come in that

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Speaker 6: So every day you're not gonna feel like doing it right.

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Speaker 6: But for me, I look back, I'm always grateful because

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Speaker 5: So I was like, Yo, we was homeless. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So because there's levels of homelessness, what you like under

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Speaker 2: a brown homeless?

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Speaker 1: Would you like staying with your friend home? It's like

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 5: I slept in a band of call, I slept in

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Speaker 5: Wow? Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

443
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,520
Speaker 2: I slept in a little car before. Now, wait, where

444
00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 2: are you from in New Orleans? One of my boyfriends

445
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:21,680
Speaker 2: is from New Orleans?

446
00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 1: He was from West Bank? What what? What's what's about

447
00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:27,240
Speaker 1: West Bank?

448
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:27,359
Speaker 2: Ni?

449
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 1: He's from the West Bank.

450
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:29,800
Speaker 5: So it depends on what.

451
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,159
Speaker 1: Now we getting to the good? The good and with

452
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:36,080
Speaker 1: that nigga I want to be.

453
00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:39,119
Speaker 6: So it just depends on where he's from in the

454
00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 6: West Bank. So I'm from the East Bank.

455
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:42,439
Speaker 5: If you say it like that.

456
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 6: So it's always people from the walls always look at

457
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:46,960
Speaker 6: certain parts of the West Bank like, yo, you're really

458
00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:47,920
Speaker 6: not from New Orleans.

459
00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 5: It's kind of like that you know he's from like

460
00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 5: Katie like from.

461
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,440
Speaker 6: It depends on like where he's from on the west,

462
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 6: like he's from like LGS and like you get.

463
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:06,400
Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you this.

464
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 2: So when you got out of jail and you you

465
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 2: said you went back on the streets. So had you

466
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 2: immediately made that decision to be like, Okay, I'm gonna

467
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 2: go legit Because I'm not trying to be funny. I

468
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,439
Speaker 2: don't know nothing about the streets. I grew up in

469
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:23,880
Speaker 2: the suburbs, giving, very white. So what I every time

470
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 2: I watched like the thing, I got to drug dealing

471
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 2: this power.

472
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: So every time I watched you know, right, you too

473
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:50,399
Speaker 1: get off? So your because we vibing. I'm like, right, okay,

474
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 1: So I'll say this.

475
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 2: I always looked at like, I don't want to say

476
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 2: kind of funny, but I always like wonder why why

477
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 2: do people like sell drugs or doing whatever they do

478
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: and not just take the money and invest in something

479
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 2: like get out the game.

480
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 5: So that's a great question. So here's what happens.

481
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:10,880
Speaker 6: Like so a lot of times dudes in it hustling

482
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 6: looks more attractive.

483
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 5: Than what it really is. Okay, I see right, So

484
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,439
Speaker 5: you see you see dudes in the street, and you

485
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 5: see dudes with a.

486
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 6: Lot of money, but a lot of that money don't

487
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 6: be like that'd be like re up money. That'd be

488
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 6: money you've been sitting on, right, That don't really mean

489
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 6: you cashing out like that, right, So what happens is

490
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 6: that's all you know a lot of times like that's

491
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 6: all you know. So just think about I've been hustling

492
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 6: my whole life, and let's look at it from that's

493
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 6: a that's a taste of freedom, right in a way,

494
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 6: like you get up, you do what you want. You know,

495
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 6: you got to get out here and get it right.

496
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 6: But you want me to leave this to go work

497
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 6: a job.

498
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 5: That ain't it right.

499
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 6: There ain't no freedom there, right, And so yeah, I

500
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,640
Speaker 6: do I might want to run a business, but here

501
00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:59,879
Speaker 6: here's how most people are looking.

502
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 5: I don't really know how to do that either, right.

503
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 6: And so when we see even if you look at

504
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 6: the why you saw a string of bell switch from

505
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,679
Speaker 6: a from a hustler, he tried to switch to like

506
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,920
Speaker 6: construction and all that, not knowing how to play that game,

507
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 6: and then he wound up trying to want to kill

508
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 6: like you want me to kill a government official.

509
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 5: We're not about to do that. I told you, don't

510
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 5: go mess with the people.

511
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying in the street, you know

512
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. So it's always hall the transition. It's

513
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 6: not easy as you as people think it is. And

514
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 6: I have to saying that the hunter is always going

515
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 6: to look like the trophy, if the lion always looked

516
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 6: like the most dangerous person, if the hunter always.

517
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 5: Tell the story, you know what I'm saying.

518
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 6: So as long as people from the outside don't know

519
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 6: how the streets operate, they're gonna always look like tra.

520
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 5: Mannic tripping doing that.

521
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 6: But when you come from a lack of information, a

522
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 6: lack of exposure, and a lack of access, it's all

523
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 6: you got, which is why people get their kids. You

524
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 6: got to play sports. White kid might don't even want

525
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 6: to be play sports, but they feel like the only

526
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 6: way out, right, Everyone everybody want to be a rapper.

527
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 6: Why this is the only way out. It's the only

528
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 6: way to see some money, right, And so for me

529
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 6: that's what it was. It was like, Man, even though

530
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 6: I know how to do this investing stuff, but How'm

531
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 6: gonna get money to do it?

532
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 2: I mean, because in the streets to you make money fast?

533
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 5: She said, she touched a little.

534
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: I feel like she was in the kitchen whipping now

535
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: in the kitchen, but I was in the house. So

536
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: what did you do to make that transition? Look, I'm sorry,

537
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm asking you all these questions. I'm just curious, like,

538
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: how did you make that transition? Because I don't even

539
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: want to know it from like the dope boy, you

540
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 2: know point of view. I want to know, like how

541
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 2: you took your money, like the basis, because I'm very

542
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 2: basic when it comes to stuff. Because I always said this,

543
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a lot of people out there

544
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 2: they'll say, oh, this is how you make money, and

545
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 2: they're very broad.

546
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: No, I want to know how you took a and

547
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: got to be And.

548
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 2: Especially with you coming straight out of prison and you

549
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 2: say you had to kind of get back into hustling.

550
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: How did you make the decision that it's like, Okay,

551
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm making the fast money again, you know what I mean.

552
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: So you could have ended up in the same cycle

553
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: with you back you ended up back going.

554
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 6: I came home in two thousand and seven, so two

555
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 6: thousand and nine and twenty ten, I caught two more charges.

556
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

557
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 6: So I was back like, you know, getting it. So,

558
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 6: I mean I wasn't no big meat or nothing like that.

559
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like I gonna never try you.

560
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

561
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,160
Speaker 6: You were bigging some booze. But you know we had

562
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 6: new orders all lot and like, so you know, you

563
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 6: just be moreneuring. And then so I caught the first charge,

564
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 6: and then I was like, damn, all right, but here's

565
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 6: how the cycle goes. You catch one charge, you gotta

566
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 6: get a lawyer. You gotta buond out. I'm not about

567
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 6: to go get a job now. A lawyer costs it's

568
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 6: fifteen twenty thousand dollars. This bond is another ten thousand dollars.

569
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 6: That's all my trap money. I gotta go back now,

570
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 6: I gotta go on the street nowing Then I caught

571
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 6: another chou where they kicked my.

572
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,719
Speaker 5: Doing trying to make the lawyer money, going to get

573
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 5: more money.

574
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 6: So they got ten pounds a week, ten thousand dollars,

575
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 6: a thousand X pills, two pistols, and I'm like shit,

576
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 6: like when I'm gonna do that, right, So I had

577
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 6: enough money to pay my lawyer, which is not like

578
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 6: a big brother to me, and so I once I

579
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 6: did that, I was like, all right, we can't really

580
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 6: go back. So then I was like, all right, well

581
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 6: we're gonna do now. I mighta start robbing. So I

582
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 6: started jagging dough boys. That was That was the next boy, Yeah,

583
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 6: that was.

584
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 5: The next level. Like because I don't want to be

585
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 5: on the block no more.

586
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 6: Right, So now I'm like, all right, well if I

587
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 6: do this, then all he can do is handle it

588
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 6: in the street. You're not gonna call a police, right

589
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 6: right right, So we start doing that, me and my

590
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 6: home is and then almost got I got in a

591
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 6: situation where I almost got killed.

592
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: I say, were you scared?

593
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 5: Now? That come with the game. So in the streets,

594
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 5: you understand too, No, I get it.

595
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: I would call the police Ford be like hell out.

596
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 6: So one thing about the streets is you understand two dynamics.

597
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 6: One you'll you go to jail, and depth is a possibility.

598
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 6: And if you can live with that, then you are

599
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 6: you're good with it. But this comes with the lack

600
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 6: of information because we think that's the only thing we

601
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 6: got the leverage. Right, you know what I'm saying, I

602
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 6: don't got the tools to do this. That and that

603
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 6: I don't want to go work a job. So it's like,

604
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 6: all right, this is all I got the leverage. Cool,

605
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 6: you always have an exit strategy, but you don't really

606
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 6: know when you're gonna get there or not.

607
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 5: Right. So I almost got killed.

608
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 6: And I was I remember just being on that that

609
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 6: liquor my home and we left out with some bread

610
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 6: and I was like, here, bro, I'm good. Like what

611
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 6: you mean, like, man, you know that, come with the game. Bro.

612
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 6: I'm like, man, I don't be too. I and got

613
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 6: found out guilty on one of my charges. Another one

614
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 6: I got overturned. So I was like, bro, like I

615
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 6: keep beating beat these two charges I did ten years

616
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 6: this happened. I don't want to fall into the same thing,

617
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 6: like I ain't to die, you know what I'm saying.

618
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 6: So I started working as an iron worker. So I

619
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 6: was making like twenty five dollars an hour. That was

620
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 6: real cool. I built a Falcon stadium too, matter of fact, right, yeah,

621
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 6: so I did that. So I was making like twenty

622
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 6: five hundred dollars a week. That's equivalent to hustle money. Yeah,

623
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, Like some hustles after they

624
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 6: re up and stuff. If you can cash out on

625
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 6: twenty five hundred dollars a week, you're.

626
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 5: Doing pretty good. You had a pretty good week, right,

627
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 5: So I'm like, this is hustle money, right, This was

628
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 5: we rocking with you know what I'm saying.

629
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: So so you didn't start making that transition until you

630
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 2: got your regular job.

631
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, okay.

632
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 6: So but what I was doing was because I knew

633
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 6: it when I was in prison. I used to be

634
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 6: telling my homies about it, dude, like, yo, we can

635
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 6: take this money. I had started investing, but I wasn't

636
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 6: like serious about it, right. I was like, bro, let's

637
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 6: take this money and put it in here, Like you

638
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 6: like the Gucci, you like the Alulviton, like we like

639
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 6: the what Dickey's all this on the stock market.

640
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 5: Let's put it my money.

641
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 6: Love.

642
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's bad. That's a fact.

643
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 6: Like this every day all day, right man. We can

644
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 6: just buy it on the stock market. Like we all

645
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 6: got iPhones stuff, Let's just buy them the stock market.

646
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 6: So my homies used to be like, man, you tripping.

647
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 6: I'm not doing that.

648
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 5: Man. I'm like, yo, I'm telling you.

649
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 6: But when my door got kicked in, they seized all

650
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 6: my accounts, but they didn't mess with my stocks. And

651
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 6: when I showed my homies that, they were like, oh,

652
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 6: that's what we're doing. And in my mind, I was like, oh,

653
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 6: they don't play us to be that smart, right damn?

654
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 5: And like that was that was the light bulb for me.

655
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 5: And then when they kicked my doing I never forget this.

656
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 6: I'm sitting with the handcuffs and I had the stock

657
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 6: market on and the police they already told me you

658
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 6: got to be a stupid MF to be doing this,

659
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 6: and looking at the stock market like that ship sent

660
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 6: chills down my body because he was.

661
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Speaker 5: Dead ass right. You know what I'm saying. He was

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Speaker 5: dead ass right. And so that you you are, but

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Speaker 5: you you become a victim to your circumstances. And so

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Speaker 5: I was like, all right, cool.

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Speaker 6: So when I started working like twenty fifteen, I start like,

666
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Speaker 6: all right, how much you go all in on it?

667
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Speaker 6: So I started really using my job and investing like

668
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Speaker 6: seventy percent of my money living We'll see, seventy percent of.

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Speaker 1: My old checks was like thirty dollars.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, like when I take you times was hard,

671
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Speaker 2: but I get it.

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Speaker 1: But okay, so what was like your first investment.

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Speaker 6: So my first investment was in Ford Ford Okay, because

674
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Speaker 6: just and it was so this is one of the

675
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Speaker 6: things because you.

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Speaker 1: Felt like it was safe, because you knew it probably

677
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Speaker 1: would never plumb me.

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Speaker 5: Well, it wound up being a bad investment all the time. Yep.

679
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Speaker 5: But listen, listen, check it out.

680
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Speaker 6: So you don't have the first investment, don't have to

681
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Speaker 6: be the best investment. It creates the habit. Okay, right,

682
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Speaker 6: we don't have the investment habit. The only way you're gonna, listen,

683
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Speaker 6: the only you're gonna build well is doing one or

684
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Speaker 6: two things and building a business of investing in one. Right,

685
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Speaker 6: that's how you build well. You can't work a nine

686
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Speaker 6: to five and get wealthy. You can't save your money

687
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Speaker 6: in the bank and be wealthy.

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Speaker 2: You're just making a person who own a company richie. Okay,

689
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Speaker 2: So how much money? Look I'm getting into I'm getting

690
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Speaker 2: into your tea. How much money did you put into Ford?

691
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Speaker 6: So again, it was probably about eight thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Are you doing it?

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Speaker 6: You said, I didn't lose money on me, But as

694
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Speaker 6: I got better, I learned I could have made better investments. Okay,

695
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Speaker 6: that's what I mean so and in New Orleans. So

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Speaker 6: like f one fifties and Mustangs, you see them all

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Speaker 6: the time. I'm like, yo, I'm about to just invest

698
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Speaker 6: in for it. That's before I got where I'm at

699
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Speaker 6: now understanding how to break down a business right. So

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Speaker 6: I was just invested in the stuff we knew, like

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Speaker 6: LV and mas by that they owned Dicky.

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Speaker 5: I mean they findy Louis Vaton the don gonna have

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Speaker 5: on some louisiton. So we bought that.

704
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Speaker 6: So we invested in that, like in normally were Dickys

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Speaker 6: as LV in mas they owned Dicky and Timberlance is

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Speaker 6: every day, right, every day. So I started off doing

707
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Speaker 6: that and it was cool. And then as I started

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Speaker 6: learning more, I started understanding, like how to make the

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Speaker 6: right investments right, you know, how to understand what's a

710
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Speaker 6: good company, what's a bad company.

711
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Speaker 5: That come with time, but you got to create the habit.

712
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Speaker 6: Like where you are now is a product of the

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Speaker 6: habits from two three years ago.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm.

741
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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, So some somebody that's probably just

742
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Speaker 2: kind of starting off and wants to start in the moneys,

743
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Speaker 2: where do you think that they should start?

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Speaker 6: So the first thing they should do is like, so

745
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Speaker 6: there's this thing called index funds or you can invest

746
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Speaker 6: in like ETFs, and I can explained both of those.

747
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Speaker 6: So don't look like that I got you, I got you, No,

748
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Speaker 6: I got you, I got I got five.

749
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Speaker 5: Gona make this work, all right.

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Speaker 6: So ETF is like let's say you go to the

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Speaker 6: grocery store and let's say you go on a cereal

752
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Speaker 6: out right, there's all kinds of cereal brands, all kinds

753
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Speaker 6: of different brands, but also on that you may find

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Speaker 6: like popcorn or something. Right, So on a cereal aile,

755
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Speaker 6: you'll see a bunch of different brands.

756
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Speaker 5: That's the ETF. So ETF is a basket of stocks

757
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 5: that are all similar. Okay, right, so you may go

758
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Speaker 5: on up you may get a let's say you get

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Speaker 5: a technology ETF. So in that ETF you might get Apple, Microsoft, Facebook,

760
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Speaker 5: You'll get all the technology in my head, so I'm on.

761
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Speaker 5: So that's a safe bet for.

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Speaker 6: Somebody who just started because instead of you invested in

763
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Speaker 6: one company, you may be invested in fifty companies.

764
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Speaker 5: That's in one basket.

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Speaker 6: So that's a safer bet, right, that's a safe place,

766
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Speaker 6: that's right. That's what a lot I tell. A lot

767
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Speaker 6: of people start off doing that because what happens is

768
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Speaker 6: here's a play. If you invest in the ETF, Now

769
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Speaker 6: you can look at the companies inside of the ETF

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Speaker 6: and say, oh, I want I want to invest in

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Speaker 6: this one too, So now you can get I called

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Speaker 6: it getting the t I play it like you get

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Speaker 6: paid to learn, right, That's how I look at it,

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Speaker 6: Like if I invested in each yeah, my money safe.

775
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Speaker 6: But I also can look at the companies inside of

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Speaker 6: that and learn them and then pick one or two

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Speaker 6: of those and invest in them.

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Speaker 1: Now we're talking. I mean that actually makes a lot

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Speaker 1: of sense.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So that's a good way to start.

781
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 6: And then index funds are agree with a start too,

782
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Speaker 6: because with the of the market is broken down into indexes.

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Speaker 5: So you have the S and P five hundred, you

784
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Speaker 5: have the nash that okay, So that's.

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Speaker 1: When the little stuff we scrolled.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, now let's talk okay.

787
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Speaker 1: Because I never know what I'm.

788
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Speaker 5: Like, I learned in school and they a't gonna teach

789
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Speaker 5: you that.

790
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Speaker 1: Let me go to the real house spots.

791
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Speaker 5: Did you know what I'm saying?

792
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Speaker 1: Okay, So that's the stuff that you scrolling.

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Speaker 6: The index Okay, So that's the indexes and those are

794
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 6: ticket symbols. So a tickle symbol is like a company nickname.

795
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Speaker 6: So you lex, you drift, your ticket symbol may be

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Speaker 6: l e X and you'll tick. The simber may be

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Speaker 6: d r e A.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 6: So if if you're stock doing good today, you're gonna

800
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Speaker 6: see the green arrow going and if it's bad, you're gonna.

801
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Speaker 5: See the red arrow going down.

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Speaker 6: Now, on side of that, I didn't know that you did.

803
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 6: So on side of the LEXI, you'll see two different things.

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00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 6: You'll see a number in a percent, the number is

805
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 6: how much the stock went up. The percent is what

806
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 6: is the percentage that it went up. It'll be like

807
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 6: you went up one dollar, but the one dollar me

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Speaker 6: equal point five percent got you. So now we understand

809
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Speaker 6: what you did today, how you did good or bad?

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, and let me ask you this.

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Speaker 2: So should we be using these apps like the robbin

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Speaker 2: hood yup?

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Speaker 1: You know it's a lot of different.

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Speaker 2: You know what I did. I took a little little

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Speaker 2: money out and did the little robber hood thing and

816
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Speaker 2: I was like, oh hell no, let me pull my

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Speaker 2: money out. I didn't photo, I ain't gonna I it

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Speaker 2: was that I looked like thirty dollars. I was like that,

819
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Speaker 2: see negative six, I said, Oh I'm out.

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Speaker 1: The gang go pull me.

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Speaker 6: So what we got to understand is the market goes

822
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Speaker 6: up and down. Okay, you only lose when you sell.

823
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Speaker 6: So how you was down thirty dollars, I was scared

824
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Speaker 6: you sold. You lost that. But what happens is the

825
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 6: market goes up more than it goes down. So if

826
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Speaker 6: you go down thirty dollars today, it's okay because you

827
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Speaker 6: really didn't lose no money. You only lost equity, which

828
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Speaker 6: is ownership. So when you buy a stock, you actually

829
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Speaker 6: get ownership in that business.

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Speaker 5: That's why.

831
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Speaker 6: So the only way to bill well is through ownership.

832
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Speaker 6: It's the only way you're gonna build well. Right, So

833
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 6: when you buy a stock, you get a little piece

834
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 6: of ownership in every company that you own. The most

835
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Speaker 6: stocks you own in that company, the more ownership you have.

836
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Speaker 5: Right.

837
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Speaker 6: So if you invest in the company is up to

838
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Speaker 6: go down four dollars, You.

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Speaker 5: Didn't lose four. I was out. The equity only decreased,

840
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Speaker 5: but in a week it can be up ten.

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Speaker 1: Because it does. Just let me take your money out.

842
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: You'll never let me see. I'm not patient.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to tell you why.

844
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 6: You got time. Let me tell you why you got time.

845
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 6: This is going to this is gonna help you so much.

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00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 6: So when you put your money in a bank, what

847
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Speaker 6: happens to it?

848
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: And I said this to somebody My money is just.

849
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 5: Say, you're actually losing, really losing.

850
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Speaker 6: I saw this on your page. I did my reason

851
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Speaker 6: you're losing. So here's what happens.

852
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 5: That's why you got to be in a stock market.

853
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Speaker 6: I know.

854
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 5: So I'm trying to think because.

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Speaker 1: You the value of a dollar. You were basically saying,

856
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Speaker 1: like the value.

857
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Speaker 5: Of a dollar.

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00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 6: So what happens is you put your money in a bank,

859
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:41,240
Speaker 6: and the more they print money, the more your money

860
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Speaker 6: lose value. Right, and they doing it every day, and

861
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 6: so that's where inflation comes in there. So the more

862
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 6: they print, this is why ten years ago this bottle

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00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 6: of all the probably cost that that's fifty cent. Now

864
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Speaker 6: it's two dollars. The reason is two dollars is because

865
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Speaker 6: they printed that much more money. So now instead of

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Speaker 6: taking fifty cent, it takes two dollars about as well.

867
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Speaker 6: So the more money they print, the more your money

868
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Speaker 6: loses value. So as long as it's sitting still, I

869
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 6: say this's a dollar that's not moving as a dollar

870
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Speaker 6: that's losing. Right, So the longer it's sitting there the bank.

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Speaker 1: Making money, I need to move my dollars.

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Speaker 6: So that's why we put them in a stock market, right,

873
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Speaker 6: and so now we can do you see America going

874
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Speaker 6: out of business one day?

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00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: Now, well, that's never gonna happen. But I'm not gonna

876
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Speaker 1: lie to you. Every time I go to the grocery

877
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Speaker 1: store should be empty.

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Speaker 6: But but is America is a country.

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00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: It's never going.

880
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 5: So that's what the stock market represents.

881
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Speaker 6: So look at the stock market as the business of America,

882
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 6: and we get the opportunity to invest in the businesses

883
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 6: that we like. And so we can just put our money.

884
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 6: Like what kind of phone you got? How many times

885
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 6: you said how many of them you don't have?

886
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: Well, how many of our bod like what you have?

887
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 5: Since? What year you can get iPhones?

888
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 1: It seems like two eleven.

889
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 6: So what you invested in Apple since two thousand and eleven? Right, yep,

890
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 6: And think about it. So right now, the stock probably

891
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 6: like one hundred and thirty dollars them bdbs, Come on.

892
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 2: Come on, pop, you're not one thing that I wish

893
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: come on something that I wish that I would have

894
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 2: invested in a long time ago, and I didn't take

895
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: the opportunity.

896
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 1: In two thousand and fifteen, two thousand, I remember nifteen

897
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: I think was a big cooin.

898
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: I actually was really really cool with this guy named Brandy,

899
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 2: I remember, and he was like telling me. He was like, yeah,

900
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: he was like, you need to invest your money into bitcoin.

901
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 2: And I think at the time it was like two

902
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: hundred dollars or something like that.

903
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: But I don't know why.

904
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 2: I just used to be so skeptical things like I

905
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: used to be fit because at the time too, it

906
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: was like now you think about it, it's like, what's two

907
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 2: hundred dollars now? But remember that Remember that Ponzi scheme

908
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 2: or pyramids em it was really pot that was really popular. Yeah,

909
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 2: it was a it was around that time when everybody

910
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 2: was like doing that that, right, So when he was

911
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 2: talking to me about the big coin sheit, I just

912
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: was kind of like, I don't know, and I.

913
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: Don't keep it one honey.

914
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 2: At that time, two undred dollars was a lot of

915
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 2: money to investing into some shiit to me, right, So

916
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 2: I just was kind of like, I'm cool on it.

917
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: He was like telling me.

918
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,439
Speaker 2: He was like, no, I'm telling you, like in three

919
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 2: four years, this shit gonna be big. Like if you

920
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 2: invase two hundred dollars you could buy like three four

921
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: years right now. He was like, and I promise you you're

922
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: gonna make your money bag. And I was just like,

923
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 2: I don't know about it. And then literally, I think

924
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen, twenty twenty it went and I just was like,

925
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 2: if he still got damn drown it couldn't got and

926
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: he's still he'd be on Instagram right now, still posting

927
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 2: about it, and he got so much money, you know,

928
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 2: and I'll just be like, that's crazy. And we ran

929
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 2: into him, remember we ran him. I was like, he

930
00:40:52,960 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 2: was like, oh, that's something that I definitely wish that

931
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: I would have invested in my money, and I wish

932
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 2: I would have been more serious about investing. And well,

933
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 2: let me say this also because let me ask you this,

934
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: because like you said, it was like that we should

935
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 2: be here movement. So now I feel like, well, it's

936
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 2: the four X moving now. And that's why a lot

937
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 2: of people aren't taking investing serious because they're.

938
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: Like, my mama don't work no more. Your mama still work.

939
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 5: Can't relate.

940
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: I got four X, you.

941
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:23,399
Speaker 5: Know what I'm saying.

942
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 2: Like everybody's like four X for people will literally slide

943
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 2: in your DNS like, oh my god, you look so beautiful.

944
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: What mak scarity you wear? You'd be like, oh maybeling, Yeah,

945
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: let me tell you about.

946
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 5: Let me tell you all.

947
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

948
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: So it's like a lot of people like when I

949
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: see your four X are investing, I just be like.

950
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 5: Oh, it's a joke. I really do So four X

951
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 5: is a real thing.

952
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 6: Okay, So you are investing and I don't do it,

953
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 6: but I know people that do it and to make

954
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 6: good money from it.

955
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 5: Okay. So you are investing in currencies.

956
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 6: Like the dollar all over the world, right, You're investing

957
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 6: in a different You're trading in different currencies across the world.

958
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 5: It will get a bad name.

959
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 6: Because a lot of scam bots and stuff are using

960
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 6: that to get at people. And so if there is

961
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 6: a nine messing with that, right, and these scamming things.

962
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 5: Are getting real clever they getting at people.

963
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 6: So all one thing I tell people is like do

964
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 6: your research, right, like look at somebody Like for me,

965
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,720
Speaker 6: so I never talk about money. As far as showing money,

966
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 6: My thing is always freedom, right because even if because

967
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 6: your financial dream and goal and aspirations may not be

968
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,280
Speaker 6: somebody else's right, but everybody wants freedom.

969
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 5: You feel me.

970
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 6: So I always push freedom to people, And so I

971
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 6: always tell people, just before you buy anything for me,

972
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,919
Speaker 6: just look at my page, watch it, study it, see

973
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 6: what I'm doing. So if somebody come to you and

974
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 6: be like, hey, let me you trying to do this,

975
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 6: and you go to their page and you know they

976
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 6: got fifteen followers, they got a bunch of posts with

977
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 6: nothing on it, I'm not gonna lie.

978
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 2: The proofs in the pudding Because I went to page

979
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 2: I said, oh okay, I saw.

980
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: I mean, let me let me say this.

981
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: Let me apologize in advance because the girls is about

982
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 2: to be in your DMS like you were giving b

983
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: d D energy on board about DM, so we talk

984
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 2: about they probably be in tie here DM.

985
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something y'all been. Not embarrass me.

986
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: Do not embarrass me if you slided his DM. Do

987
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: not say the poor crew marriage. Just how do you

988
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: feel about cryptocurrencies?

989
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,479
Speaker 2: Because you know, I've read a few things that said

990
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 2: that in the future, it's going to be way more

991
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 2: valuable than actual paper money.

992
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 5: Like I like it.

993
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 6: So you got to think again, the dollar don't have

994
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 6: no so people always getting mad when I say this.

995
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 6: So the dollar doesn't really have any value. It's a

996
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 6: means of exchange, right, And so what I mean is,

997
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 6: so let's set this bottle of water right right now.

998
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 6: Would you give me a thousand dollars for cool? I

999
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 6: like that, would you give me a thousand dollars for it?

1000
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 6: I mean right now, let me know a little.

1001
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: She's a liar. She lies all the time. Everybody knows,

1002
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: everybody knows what they watched.

1003
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, this is what you get, all right. So

1004
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 5: let's change the situation.

1005
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 6: Let's say we're in the desert and all you got

1006
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 6: one thousand dollars and I show up like yo, I'm

1007
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 6: gonna cut.

1008
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 8: The cake, and she is extreme, give me a thousand

1009
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:35,959
Speaker 8: for the water.

1010
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 6: Get it from the dollars, your last thousand thousand water,

1011
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 6: So you're gonna risk going to the cactus.

1012
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 5: Finally, the cat is when I got the water right here.

1013
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like if I got a thousand dollars,

1014
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: I should be able to figure out a way.

1015
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 5: To get you. How you've been in there for a week.

1016
00:44:54,880 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 2: Wow, she is never going to come for so your

1017
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: hype with it on a situation, I'm.

1018
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 5: Not it's cool.

1019
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm always think I'm supposed to.

1020
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 6: So the thing is just simply saying that the dollar

1021
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 6: is only as valuable as what you're willing to exchange

1022
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 6: it for. Okay, Right, And so the more they print money,

1023
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 6: So the big thing is right now is because every

1024
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 6: inflation is up seven percent. So inflation means they printed

1025
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 6: that much money. To what everything has up seven percent?

1026
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 5: In proof? Right, everything is up seven percent.

1027
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 6: The normal rate is two point five right, so everything

1028
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 6: usually goes up about two point five percent.

1029
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 5: Well, they've printed that much money.

1030
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 6: So forty percent of the money that is in existence

1031
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 6: right now was printed within the last two years.

1032
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 5: Goddamn.

1033
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this.

1034
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 5: I don't ignorant. Let me answer that. I believe in crypto, okay.

1035
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 2: And and I really started looking at crypto a little

1036
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 2: different because it's gonna sound so childish, But I was

1037
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: watching Queen of the South I was like being watching it,

1038
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: and that's literally how she builds her drug empire. The

1039
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 2: South Front was from and I thought that was so

1040
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 2: interesting because I feel like that's why she became successful,

1041
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 2: because she took an approach that most.

1042
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 5: People don't do.

1043
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 2: And that's also why she didn't get caught for really

1044
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 2: long time, because she was moving a little different, you

1045
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

1046
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 6: And I thought that was very Yeah, I believe in

1047
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 6: cryptocurrency and FinTechs with fintech is financial techno.

1048
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know.

1049
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 5: About.

1050
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 6: Fintech is financial technology. Let me tell you how you

1051
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 6: know about it. You just asked me about Robin Hood, right,

1052
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 6: that's spin tech.

1053
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: Okay, that's the words I'm about to go on my

1054
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: next day to be like, do you know.

1055
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 6: About That's the fact we're gonna get them.

1056
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 5: So you know what PayPal is, you know what Square is?

1057
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all fintechts financial technology.

1058
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 5: That's the fact. I like it. You just did. I

1059
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 5: like what you did that. I like that you did that.

1060
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 5: So that's spent tech.

1061
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 6: And so what happens is the way that we're using

1062
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 6: money now is changing, right right, think about So they

1063
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 6: have this thing now called afterpay, which is kind of

1064
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 6: like that.

1065
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 5: Member like that. I like that. That's spinech. I'm a member,

1066
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 5: A member.

1067
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: I love.

1068
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 5: That spent tech.

1069
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 6: Okay, so the way we're using money is changing, and

1070
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 6: so for me, I believe in cryptocurrency because I feel

1071
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 6: like it is the wave, but it's the future. But

1072
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 6: so many people's wealth is attached to the US dollars

1073
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 6: right before they just unleash that.

1074
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 5: They gotta find a way to attach to that.

1075
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 6: They're not gonna lose their wealth just because y'all feel

1076
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 6: like y'all want decentralized clack cash and even off the

1077
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 6: wealth got No, we've been wealthy for generations. The generations.

1078
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 5: We got to find a way to attach our money

1079
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 5: to that before we just let it go. Right. So

1080
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 5: I believe in crypto.

1081
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 6: I think it's thinking about five to ten years, it's

1082
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 6: gonna be amaze.

1083
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: We should invest in crypto right now.

1084
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 6: Every week I put like two thousand dollars every week

1085
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 6: a week.

1086
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: We can't put two thousand dollars every week?

1087
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, no, what you can you got

1088
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:15,760
Speaker 5: more than two dollars?

1089
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: It ain't nothing.

1090
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 5: About that's good. So here's the biggest post now that

1091
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 5: you say we do well every week?

1092
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: Now, before we got to move on to the next topic.

1093
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: We got to move on to that topic. They're printing

1094
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: more money though, because niggas is getting more money.

1095
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 6: Right, true, but no, they're printing more money. So here's

1096
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 6: why they're printing more money. They're printing more money because

1097
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 6: they don't so when the pandemic first happened. So once

1098
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 6: you print so much money, you have to stop printing money, right,

1099
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 6: so the dollar can stay abilize, right, And I don't

1100
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 6: sound complicated.

1101
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 5: So complicated. Yeah, So just think about a balloon. You

1102
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 5: glow a balloon? Could you not do that while we're talking?

1103
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: Sorry?

1104
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 5: Now, so you think about a balloon blowing. At some point,

1105
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 5: you gotta stop because the.

1106
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 6: Balloon don't do what's gonna So they print so much money,

1107
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 6: they gotta stop already. They gotta let the economy correct itself,

1108
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 6: which means it gotta fall. That's where recessions come from.

1109
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 6: That's where corrections come from.

1110
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 5: That happens. To stabilize money, you need drink or so.

1111
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 5: I believe in they printing money.

1112
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 6: Also, it's easier for people to get money because of technology,

1113
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:40,479
Speaker 6: right right. I feel like technology is the equalizer, which

1114
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 6: is why we have so many black successful people right now,

1115
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 6: which is why I'm looking at two black successful women

1116
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 6: it's because of technology, so they gotta print money. But

1117
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 6: also there's going to be a time where and we're

1118
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 6: going through it right now where they're saying, Okay, we

1119
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 6: got to stop printing money because we've printed so much

1120
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Speaker 6: money the price of everything has gotten too high.

1121
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1161
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 2: because we were trying to so okay, wait before we

1162
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: move on to next hoppy, I'm just saying, like, the

1163
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 2: reason we're so interesting because we talk about BDB so much,

1164
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 2: but we the bdbs.

1165
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Speaker 1: Now, y'all, no, we got to know what we're doing

1166
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 1: this money give out niggas with money.

1167
00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: We make money, so yeah, we'll be trying to figure

1168
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 2: out what should we do with the money that we

1169
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 2: make it. We had a conversation with somebody. I was like,

1170
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 2: I'm sitting all the money. It was with somebody else,

1171
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 2: but not to.

1172
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: Be talking to other people that we're having a moment.

1173
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: We were, but I did say that to you, all right,

1174
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 2: go ahead, soh yeah, we do want to get into

1175
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 2: the next topic, which is, you know, we want to

1176
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: talk about the importance of financial literacy, especially with being

1177
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: a black person, because I said, well, I was going

1178
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: to get today.

1179
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 5: I'm excited.

1180
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 2: Sorry, So yeah, especially with being a black person, because

1181
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, that's not something that we

1182
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,439
Speaker 2: were taught growing up. I feel like, well, white people

1183
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 2: they been taught that ship since the beginning of the time,

1184
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: we do not know about financial literacy, and especially when

1185
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 2: it comes to our children. So we also want to

1186
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: talk wanted to talk about why should you have custodio

1187
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:49,720
Speaker 2: or accounts fail kids.

1188
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's one of the things. So for me,

1189
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 5: So we have toxic relationships.

1190
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: With money, absolutely, I agree.

1191
00:52:58,640 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 5: We have toxic.

1192
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 6: Relationships with money, and we spend more money than every

1193
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 6: other culture ethny because we have trauma when it comes

1194
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 6: to money.

1195
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 5: Right, So all of that has created financial habits. Right,

1196
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:14,240
Speaker 5: All of that happened.

1197
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: And so was about to say certified. I did because.

1198
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 5: If I want you travel, So what happens is we

1199
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 5: have to we have to get information.

1200
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 6: But the reason why people don't give us the information

1201
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 6: is because I say this, and this is the easiest

1202
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 6: way to do it.

1203
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 5: There's a financial predator and there's a financial pray. Right.

1204
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 6: The lion will never teach the zebra, the giraffe, the

1205
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 6: gazelle how to get away, right, because if the lion

1206
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 6: taught them how to get away with us, the.

1207
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 5: Lion eat right, lion eat nothing, You're gonna eat another lion, right.

1208
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 6: And the reason why the lion can't teach them how

1209
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 6: to get away is because then they will tell everybody

1210
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 6: how to get away. So if I if I know

1211
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:05,919
Speaker 6: that lower class and black Hispanic people spend the most money,

1212
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 6: why would I teach them how to become financial?

1213
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: Literally, because they the ones who making me rich.

1214
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 5: They the ones who are making me rich.

1215
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 1: I just had this conversation with.

1216
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 2: One of my homegirls with another one of my homegirls

1217
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: the other day about like we were just talking about

1218
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 2: how like we're both making way more money now than

1219
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:20,959
Speaker 2: we were.

1220
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 1: But she was like, it be so hard.

1221
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 2: She's like, I want to buy a house, but it's

1222
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 2: so hard to save the money because the more money

1223
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 2: I made, the more.

1224
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: So that's the truth, because I'd be like, like, if

1225
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: I want to invest in the.

1226
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 2: Stop I go to Chandel, I'm gonna go to hell.

1227
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 2: But that's why we got you, because we need to

1228
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 2: be released from him, And that's the trauma. Because the

1229
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,919
Speaker 2: trauma says that we're supposed.

1230
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 1: To put that ship on.

1231
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 5: I gotta put that ship on.

1232
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm serious.

1233
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 5: And because because you've had less than for so long, certainly.

1234
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 2: Is a kid exactly what I got in the house saying,

1235
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 2: But that's why I'm gonna like this is because it's

1236
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 2: even for what people say about us, They're like, oh,

1237
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 2: Drew and Leg's not really getting it because look at

1238
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 2: what these girls.

1239
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: But honestly, but we have talked about this.

1240
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,399
Speaker 2: We're sitting on our money because got way more money though,

1241
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 2: but not even about that. We are sitting on our

1242
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 2: money because we are in like limbo, like we want

1243
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 2: to advance, but we also.

1244
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 5: Want to put that ship on.

1245
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: So we're just not doing nothing.

1246
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 5: So you got to find a balance. So here's the balance.

1247
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 1: So it's just sitting there.

1248
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,879
Speaker 5: Sitting up and so and you and you're becoming poor

1249
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,439
Speaker 5: about a dick. Oh no, I've been there before.

1250
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: So basically what you have to put that ship on

1251
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: so you can.

1252
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 6: So this is how I look at it. So I

1253
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 6: tell people all the time, So I do my ship,

1254
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So I do my ship

1255
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 6: hearting up. But I'm conservative, Like I'll be like, all right,

1256
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,439
Speaker 6: let me after I made a certain amount of money,

1257
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 6: let me treat myself. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

1258
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 6: Because ask yourself, like what do you see for poor minds?

1259
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 6: What do you see for lex what do you see

1260
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:10,439
Speaker 6: for dream?

1261
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 5: Right?

1262
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 6: Like what do you when you have kids? Like what

1263
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 6: do you see them doing? Or you're gonna here's the

1264
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 6: bad habit. Now I'm about to teach them to put

1265
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 6: that ship on. You know what I'm saying, so you

1266
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 6: can get money. Put that ship on right, right? And

1267
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 6: so now we now passing down the toxic traits of

1268
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 6: money and we raised materialistic kids.

1269
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 5: This is why. But Noor or not, which was the

1270
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 5: man who created Louis and thomawat Hennessy. He was just

1271
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 5: his name.

1272
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: I recognized it.

1273
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 5: That's why I like this. He was the richest man.

1274
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:48,839
Speaker 1: Backing again, the dawn likes to put that, and that's today.

1275
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: You didn't know his name.

1276
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 6: Most people don't, but did. I used to call him

1277
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 6: a little b when we were Yeah. So he's a

1278
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 6: man who owned Louis and Thomaware Hennessy image right. He

1279
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 6: was the richest man in the world last year.

1280
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 4: Yes he was.

1281
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 2: Because I'm not going to lie to you every time,

1282
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 2: and I'm not being funny. Every time I would go

1283
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 2: to the mall and I would go to Louis.

1284
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 5: It was a line a line. But here's the thing.

1285
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 6: He on Louis Veriton, he on FINDI your All of

1286
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 6: that falls under that brand. Bealenciaga. All of that falls

1287
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 6: under that brand.

1288
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 5: All of it. What's that clicko? All of that falls

1289
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 5: under his brand. Right, So he was the richest man

1290
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 5: in the world last year.

1291
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 6: So, but again, financial literacy is important because we got

1292
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 6: to learn how to adapt new relationships with money. We

1293
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 6: got to start understanding that not only is money important,

1294
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 6: but leverage. I say, money is not a goal, it's

1295
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 6: a tool. I don't care about I'm not saying it

1296
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 6: in a bad way. I don't care about how.

1297
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 5: Much money I have.

1298
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 6: I want to know that I can use this money

1299
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 6: to take me to the next level. Right, That's what

1300
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 6: the money for the money is for. To give me

1301
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 6: access to rooms so I can meet people that can

1302
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 6: take me to another level.

1303
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 5: Right, that's the money for right.

1304
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 6: And so it's important for us to understand financial literacy

1305
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 6: because we got to understand that we can make more

1306
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 6: money from thinking than working, right. Right, And so once

1307
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 6: we understand that concept, instead of not being scared of investing,

1308
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 6: understanding that investment is what.

1309
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 5: Takes me there.

1310
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: Exactly is a custodial account, right, So.

1311
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 5: Let's get into that.

1312
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 6: So I created this thing called family SOPs, and what

1313
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 6: that is is standard operating procedures for every family that

1314
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 6: you should have in place, because wealthy people have them

1315
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 6: in place, right, and they played the game by a

1316
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 6: difference of a rule. So a custodial account is an

1317
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 6: account that you control for your kids up until they're eighteen,

1318
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 6: but you're investing for them, okay, because usually.

1319
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: When we open accounts for our kids is like a lightning.

1320
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1321
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so many people, and I think that's so crazy.

1322
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm very thankful I didn't. I wasn't in

1323
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 2: a situation like that, but there's so many black people

1324
00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 2: that I run into they be like, Yeah, my critic

1325
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 2: is because my mom used to put it in my

1326
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 2: name when I was a kid. And I just think

1327
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 2: that's so like and it's so crazy crazy why why?

1328
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 2: But I guess, like you said, black feet relationship and

1329
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 2: with money.

1330
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:15,439
Speaker 5: We mostly in survival moved.

1331
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yes, like if my shit fucked up, and.

1332
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 5: I'm about to do that.

1333
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: Junior graduating with a three credit.

1334
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 6: School, so the custodio counts allowed me. So my daughter

1335
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 6: right now, she's six, so she has six figures and

1336
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 6: invested already.

1337
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 5: The goal for me too, goddamn.

1338
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 6: So the goal for me is to make her a

1339
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 6: millionaire by time she's like fifteen. But and that don't

1340
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 6: mean me working. It means, okay, when I get money,

1341
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 6: every time I get boom, let me put some money

1342
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 6: off her in this custudio account, so America can make

1343
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 6: her wealthy. Right, I'm just using the money to put

1344
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 6: in the machine. Right, I'm gonna put the money in

1345
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 6: the machine, in the machine on print the money for right.

1346
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: So a custodian account basically makes money.

1347
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, So what it is.

1348
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 6: It's a regular account, like a regular brokerage account that

1349
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 6: you would have, but you open one for your child, right,

1350
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 6: and now you can invest for your child up until

1351
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 6: she's eighteen or twenty one, depending on what statue. So

1352
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 6: most people are used the five twenty nine. So a

1353
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 6: file twenty nine is an account where you can start

1354
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 6: a college account for your kids. Right, and I don't

1355
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 6: like those because it's limited to education.

1356
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 5: Right.

1357
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 6: With the custodio account, she can do whatever she won't

1358
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 6: do with it. But that also allows me to teach her.

1359
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 6: This is a learning lesson. Now I get to teach

1360
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 6: her about investing as we go. So I just bought

1361
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 6: her ten shares of Google no birthday. I was like,

1362
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 6: what you want to get for your birthday? She was like,

1363
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,479
Speaker 6: she did not, She said Google, she bought one hundred

1364
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 6: shares of robe. She wanted a hundred of roadblocks. It's

1365
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 6: on my page. Say about like what you want for

1366
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 6: your birthday? She'd like to get some stars.

1367
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: Dad.

1368
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 5: I said, what you want she said little blocks? Like

1369
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 5: how much you want? She said sixteen? I said okay.

1370
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,440
Speaker 6: She said no, no, no, I want one hundred. I said,

1371
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 6: right with you, one hundred asked for you know what

1372
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 6: I'm saying. So we got So those are the family

1373
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 6: s ops, what we put in place for. We teach

1374
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 6: our kids about investing. We teach them about those things.

1375
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 6: So she may learn the ABC's in school, but when

1376
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 6: she come home, her abc s is what is a

1377
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 6: asset with his B bank with his C credit.

1378
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 5: That let me ask you something, what is the So

1379
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 5: we ain't got there yet.

1380
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 6: We're still working on. I got to be creative, bro,

1381
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 6: I got to be creative. But that's what I teach her.

1382
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 5: Right, So now what happens is she's not scared of

1383
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 5: money when she gets older.

1384
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: She's not scared of losing it if because you know,

1385
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: it's gonna come back.

1386
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 5: And that's the habit, the reason that's not scared of losing.

1387
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 5: You need to be not scared of it. You gotta

1388
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 5: you gotta take emotion something.

1389
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 2: I'm so scared of being broke because I've come so far.

1390
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 2: It's like, it'd be feeling good to look at my

1391
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 2: bank accou. It'd be feeling good.

1392
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, so funny to me now, Okay, so I've seen.

1393
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 2: A mean one Instagram the other day it was like,

1394
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 2: I don't even be wanting to look at my bakercou

1395
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 2: after a crazy weekend because I know.

1396
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: I got like two dollars. But now, and it's funny

1397
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: to me because I remember them times where it's like

1398
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: you'll just be all having a good time and you

1399
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: be like, are you want to look? I don't even

1400
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: want to look at the dammage, you know what I mean.

1401
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: But now it's like I literally can do.

1402
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 2: And it feels good to get deposits every month, you

1403
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 2: know what I mean, multiple deposits every month and making

1404
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 2: a certain amount of money. But I just remember a

1405
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 2: time when I didn't have it, so I never want

1406
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 2: to be in that place again. And so I think sometimes,

1407
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 2: like you said, that's why a lot of people just

1408
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 2: let their money. See it, Like even when I talk

1409
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 2: to my mom, my mom is she's in her sixties

1410
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,439
Speaker 2: right now. Even when I talk to my mom, she's

1411
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 2: just like, you need to save your money, You need

1412
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 2: to save your money. But it's like, actually, no, I

1413
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 2: don't need to save my money. I need to be

1414
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 2: investating into something to make me more money.

1415
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 1: Facts, you know what I mean.

1416
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 2: But older black people, our grandparents, our parents, they don't

1417
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 2: have that your money for a rainy.

1418
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 6: Day, that's what they always remember. Who you got to

1419
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 6: remember who gave us the blueprint. The people who gave

1420
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 6: us the blueprint is the people who designed the program.

1421
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 6: The people who designed the program don't never want us.

1422
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: To be We weren't even supposed to be educated on

1423
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: this life.

1424
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 5: Remember at one point it was it wasn't cool for

1425
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 5: us to learn how to read.

1426
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 2: So I have a question, do you feel like, I

1427
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 2: don't know, like, girl, come on say it, goddamn. Do

1428
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 2: you feel like us as black people becoming wealthy? Do

1429
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 2: you think it starts with us supporting each other? Because

1430
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 2: you were just talking about the Bernard guy that you

1431
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 2: know owns Louis and Mindy and all of these things,

1432
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 2: and us as like people minority all minorities, you know,

1433
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 2: Latinos included.

1434
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: We love to buy these things, love to put that

1435
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 1: shit on.

1436
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 2: But when it comes to a black person who is creating,

1437
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 2: trying to create a luxury brand, or trying to do

1438
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 2: these things, we be like, I buying this shit, I

1439
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: don't want to buy it. We continue to give our

1440
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 2: money to these other races and these other people who

1441
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 2: have created these successful brands, but then we don't support

1442
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 2: our own. Do you think that that is a problem

1443
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 2: and that's something that we should work on too. Because

1444
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'll be seeing Hillar girls with

1445
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 2: certain bags. I don't want to say the name. I'm

1446
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 2: not feel like that's gonna sound bad, I know, but

1447
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 2: I don't be wanting to buy one, right But there's

1448
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 2: also people, I mean, that's cute, but I just.

1449
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 1: Be feeling like I don't. I mean, it's Louie, And

1450
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: I think maybe that's the problem.

1451
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 6: So I feel like, when you look at those luxury brands,

1452
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 6: you understand the tradition of the brand, right right you

1453
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 6: You've been acclimated to it for so long, and I

1454
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 6: don't think you. I don't think you should shot. I'm

1455
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 6: not the person to tell you don't buy it, right,

1456
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 6: I'm the person to say, if I can buy a

1457
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 6: seventy thousand dollars Rolex, I can also buy a watch

1458
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 6: from my homie who got seventy.

1459
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 5: His name is Chris Johnson.

1460
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: Oh I heard about him before.

1461
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 6: I can buy one of his watches too, period because

1462
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 6: he got Chris go crazy.

1463
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 5: So you know, like I feel like there can be

1464
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 5: a balance in doing that.

1465
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,240
Speaker 6: Like you know, like you said, you don't really want

1466
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 6: to buy one, but if you can go drop five ten,

1467
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 6: if her bag one thousand dollars, man.

1468
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 5: Boom, it is with it. You ain't got away every day,

1469
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 5: but you.

1470
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 2: Know what, guess what's out supporting But not only that,

1471
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:50,240
Speaker 2: but guess we're tyst mikers you enjoy and got that ship.

1472
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 1: All it's about you people, It's about your influence.

1473
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 6: So we do have to use our influence for the

1474
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 6: greater good because you got to think about it. No brand,

1475
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 6: and just to be honest with you, no brand can

1476
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 6: do nothing.

1477
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 5: Without us, period and that's the fact. No brand. So

1478
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 5: this is what they do.

1479
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 6: Even when you think about people saying when people with

1480
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 6: findy like when our West stuff I wear, it's discreet,

1481
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 6: but a lot of times when we wear certain things,

1482
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 6: it's the logo all over.

1483
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 5: Come. So what happens is.

1484
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 6: They use us as they use us as the billboard, right,

1485
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 6: exactly right. So if you you go see it, you

1486
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 6: see the LV all over like damn, I want that.

1487
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 6: We see the entertainers.

1488
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 5: They got it on.

1489
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 6: They're using our most influential people as the billboards, and

1490
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 6: subconsciously they set the tone for what.

1491
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 5: We won't do. Exactly.

1492
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 6: So if our if our people started and I'm not

1493
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 6: telling nobody what to do, but if you started wearing

1494
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 6: those black brands, you know what we're gonna do.

1495
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 5: I agree with that, you know what I'm saying. So

1496
01:06:58,320 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 5: we are the culture, we represent them.

1497
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: And that's why I wanted to discuss that because I

1498
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: do feel like I'm not gonna lie.

1499
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 2: I be feeling bad about that because it's like I

1500
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 2: literally will go spend my money at Louis. I will

1501
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 2: go spend like you know, I just bought a Givunchi

1502
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 2: bag recently, and it's I just bought, and I bought

1503
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 2: and I bought some shark boots, you know what I mean.

1504
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 2: It's like I'll spend all of this money at Givanchi,

1505
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 2: but then when it comes to a black bring, I'll

1506
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 2: be like, so I do it, and I'm just being hony, you.

1507
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 5: Know what I mean.

1508
01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to be transparent, which all I know

1509
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 2: that's probably gonna sound bad, but it's like, yeah, sometimes

1510
01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 2: I need to like I should buy this because I'm

1511
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 2: supporting a black person.

1512
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 1: But it's like I'm not putting that ship. I don't

1513
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: think about them because.

1514
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 2: It's like I need to put you in a position

1515
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 2: to where now when our bodies I am putting this

1516
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 2: ship off on a level with you, right, But I

1517
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 2: think that we also need to, like he was saying,

1518
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 2: like we need to look at things in the longer run,

1519
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 2: and that's what comes with our money as well. Like

1520
01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 2: just because we put X amount of money in a

1521
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 2: stock now, we may not see the return right now,

1522
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 2: but we'll see that later on. So if you put

1523
01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 2: that black designer on, you may not see a return out,

1524
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 2: but guess what ten years later from now, Because you

1525
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 2: put that ship on and you influence people, you making

1526
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 2: X amount of money because they decided, you know what,

1527
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 2: let me make her my brand ambassador.

1528
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:16,640
Speaker 5: You know what, I'm saying, so we do have to

1529
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 5: start looking at nothing in this world moves without us,

1530
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

1531
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 2: All Right, So now we're gonna get into the bow

1532
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:28,480
Speaker 2: wow baby.

1533
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 5: And rut.

1534
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 2: We're talking about financial literacy, so I want so for

1535
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 2: the bed today, we're gonna talk about We're still gonna

1536
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:45,639
Speaker 2: keep with the top of that finances. So we're gonna

1537
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:49,719
Speaker 2: talk about should your finances affect your dating slash sex life?

1538
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 2: Because I feel like a lot of times people will

1539
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 2: say things like, if you broke, there's no reason you

1540
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,600
Speaker 2: should be horny. If you're broke, there's no reason that

1541
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 2: you should be out on dates like THEYMN. Poor people

1542
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,439
Speaker 2: can't what because why are you fucking Why are you

1543
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 2: enjoying life when you don't have no money?

1544
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: It's enjoyable about being poor. I love y'all, but one

1545
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 1: money to be saying.

1546
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 5: My sweet babies, my sweet.

1547
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 3: I love.

1548
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 2: Nothing is wrong with I'm not gonna say, okay, how

1549
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: do I say it? Nothing is wrong with being poor

1550
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:30,959
Speaker 2: is okay? But I'm saying it because.

1551
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 5: I'm so.

1552
01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 2: I'm trying to say nothing is wrong with it, Like

1553
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 2: I'm not looking down on you, but you should want

1554
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 2: to get you some money. And if you don't have

1555
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 2: no money, why it is fucking the first thing that's

1556
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 2: on your mind. I will never understand it. When I

1557
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:49,719
Speaker 2: didn't have no money, I didn't want to fuck nobody

1558
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:51,480
Speaker 2: unless he was gonna give me some money.

1559
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: Unless he was gonna with that.

1560
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:56,719
Speaker 5: No, I don't.

1561
01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 1: I don't because I'm being honest. That's the that I'm making.

1562
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 2: I wasn't fucking nobody because I was literally trying to

1563
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 2: figure out, Okay, what I'm about to do.

1564
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm about to get these money.

1565
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:08,800
Speaker 2: And if a nigga is texting me and he want

1566
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 2: to link up and he want to hang out, Okay,

1567
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:11,680
Speaker 2: are you about to give me some money so that

1568
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 2: I can pay this and pay that and get out

1569
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 2: of this situation. If you're not, we don't have nothing

1570
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 2: to discuss. And I'm damn sure not trying to go

1571
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 2: fuck on you when I'm literally trying to figure out

1572
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 2: about to pay my back.

1573
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 1: And that's what you and I think that's what you're

1574
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: trying to say when you're stressed.

1575
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, No, that's what I'm saying when you're honestly,

1576
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 2: Whenever you're stressed and you're worried about things I have

1577
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 2: my mind on, Like, yay, I like stress, Yeah, like

1578
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 2: I can't release myself or have fun.

1579
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 5: No, so I think it should. I think so.

1580
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,640
Speaker 6: I had this conversation with a friend of mine and

1581
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 6: I said that, so, as a successful man, it's hard

1582
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 6: for me to like, my mind don't really be ond

1583
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:56,839
Speaker 6: like Chase and Pussy.

1584
01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 5: My mind, don't be on that ship my mind so

1585
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 5: you see, Yeah, So like, how do I how do

1586
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:07,479
Speaker 5: I build the empire? Like my mind beyond? Like, yo,

1587
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 5: how do I build this empire? Like this thing? I

1588
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 5: see it running?

1589
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:14,400
Speaker 6: But at the same time, I'm not gonna I'm not

1590
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 6: gonna date somebody that's not on this ship. And I'm

1591
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 6: so I'm such a helper because I help people every day.

1592
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 6: If I see you grind, I'm like, yo, what I

1593
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 6: could do to help your business? What can I do

1594
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 6: to help you? So you can? Because I want everybody

1595
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 6: to make a million dollars. I want everybody to see

1596
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 6: how that shit feel. Right, you know what I'm saying.

1597
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 6: That shit gonna change your life, right right, It's gonna

1598
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 6: change your perspective because once you make a million, you're

1599
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 6: gonna be like, yo, I can make ten.

1600
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, because it's gonna take the

1601
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 5: same energy. I feel like we have the same brain.

1602
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 2: I tell like this all the time because what was

1603
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 2: we talking about one time on the phone? You was like, Oh,

1604
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 2: I think once I get to a certain amount of money,

1605
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel like I'm good. And I'll be like,

1606
01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna feel like I'm good because I feel

1607
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 2: like if I can, I feel like, once I make

1608
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 2: a million, then I'm gonna feel like I can make ten.

1609
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 2: Then once I make ten, I'm gonna feel like I

1610
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 2: can make fifty. Then I'm gonna feel like I can

1611
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 2: make a honey. Then I'm gonna fel like I can

1612
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 2: make five honey.

1613
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 1: Like it's just never gonna be enough.

1614
01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 6: For me, because you start to realize that it becomes

1615
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:19,400
Speaker 6: a game at that point. Yeah, it's switching from it's

1616
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:23,400
Speaker 6: switching from survival mode right right, like once you can

1617
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 6: My biggest thing about teaching people financial this and investment

1618
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 6: is getting you out of survival mode.

1619
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: And honestly, that's where I still. I still feel like

1620
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 1: I'm in surviving you are.

1621
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 2: I definitely am like I'm not out of surviving yet

1622
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 2: because I'm so used to this way of.

1623
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 1: Life and I'm not to the other side. You're not

1624
01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: really a risk taker, I feel, but I don't.

1625
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 2: I don't really know how to tell somebody who's not

1626
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:52,800
Speaker 2: like naturally a recycler how to be a recycler because

1627
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 2: it comes with knowing like structure, like teaching me exactly,

1628
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 2: because even though you're not at structure, you should be like,

1629
01:12:59,240 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 2: let's just do it.

1630
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, what's the end goal? You be like,

1631
01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, let's do it right, But that's what

1632
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:05,799
Speaker 1: I'm saying, yeah, And I don't.

1633
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:11,560
Speaker 6: Like right, and like that with me, I'm like, I

1634
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 6: need to know any structure, structure and everybody different and

1635
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,679
Speaker 6: in their way. So I call that having investor's identity,

1636
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 6: like you got to identify who you are as an investor,

1637
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:25,679
Speaker 6: Like I'm the risk taker.

1638
01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 1: So you're gonna be like, hey, let's make it work.

1639
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:30,640
Speaker 1: Make it work, and I'll tell all the time. If

1640
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,760
Speaker 1: I lose it, I know I'm gonna get it bad

1641
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 1: that way.

1642
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 2: Like I feel like I'm not gonna just give my

1643
01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 2: money to anything. But if I like, if you, if

1644
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 2: I want to invest in something, somebody gives me a

1645
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:43,479
Speaker 2: plan A, B, C, D E F. And I'm like, Okay,

1646
01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:45,560
Speaker 2: I trust in it, and I give my money and

1647
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 2: we end up losing it, I'll be like, you know what,

1648
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 2: I can take that because I know I'm gonna make

1649
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 2: it back.

1650
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:52,720
Speaker 5: But I'm not investing on somebody like, man, I got it.

1651
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 5: I'm passionate, let's do it. Gonna get me. That's what

1652
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,200
Speaker 5: I am.

1653
01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 6: The person like if I see the vision, I'm gone right,

1654
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 6: I'm a but I'm a big picture thinker, like I see,

1655
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 6: I don't think.

1656
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 5: I always think big picture. And so for me just

1657
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 5: to talk about that is.

1658
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 6: I feel like you should have I think if you

1659
01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 6: aren't financially where you want to be at, that should

1660
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 6: be what you're working on. But I still think you

1661
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 6: should be able to get you well because just well,

1662
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:32,720
Speaker 6: I feel like why should I give well? So let's

1663
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 6: think about this. So here's a prime example. Checked this out.

1664
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 6: I was watching the Super Bowl. The dude Cooper Cup

1665
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 6: he's the he's the m v P. Look what his

1666
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 6: girl did. She's the reason how he got to the NFL.

1667
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 6: Why she shed, She paid for him to go to school,

1668
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 6: she was paying for TV. She took on another job

1669
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:57,640
Speaker 6: while he was going through school, but he went to

1670
01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 6: the NFL, got a be contract. Now he just won

1671
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 6: the Super Bowl, but he was broke. He was broke,

1672
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 6: and now I look at it all right, let's go

1673
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 6: left front. So I don't know how it is, probably

1674
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 6: like thirdy is.

1675
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:16,640
Speaker 1: But not only that, that story is a one in

1676
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: a million. Like a lot of times, men want us

1677
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 1: to struggle and.

1678
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 6: That become Now we're looking at Now we're looking at

1679
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:24,000
Speaker 6: the type. So now you got to look at the

1680
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 6: type of man you're dealing with. Are you dealing with

1681
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 6: a dude who keep having excuse that, excuse that, excuse

1682
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 6: that excuse me. So I'm a I'm a highlight. My

1683
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 6: daughter's mim right here right, I'm highlight her. So I

1684
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 6: was fighting my charge and I was going through the

1685
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:44,679
Speaker 6: motions or whatever, and then you know, I started working

1686
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 6: and stuff. And so then I said, look, I said,

1687
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 6: I'm about to quit this job. I said, I'm about

1688
01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 6: to go all in on this show. I said, I

1689
01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 6: used to be giving her like two thousand dollars a week.

1690
01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 6: So I said that, I said, check this out. I said,

1691
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 6: I'm not.

1692
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:04,559
Speaker 5: Gonna be able to do that, but I am gonna

1693
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 5: be able to pay for school. Yeah, just hold me.

1694
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 6: Down until this shiit pop off. She's like, all right, cool,

1695
01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 6: you ain't never let me down one time.

1696
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 5: Go get it. I believe in you. Now She'll got

1697
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 5: me for nothing. You feel what I'm saying.

1698
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 1: I know that, And it's but that was because you're

1699
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:21,759
Speaker 1: a track record.

1700
01:16:23,479 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 5: That's what I was going to say.

1701
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:27,520
Speaker 2: Because if you're a track record, because she knows you're reliable,

1702
01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 2: she knows that you're dependable.

1703
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: I feel like it'd be so many nig becaus. They'd

1704
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:32,320
Speaker 1: be like, hold me down.

1705
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 2: Why everybody y'all making boogole records? Well, not only that,

1706
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 2: we're in our thirties. Now, we are in our thirties.

1707
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 2: Now we are in our thirties. Why don't have to

1708
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,560
Speaker 2: hold another man down in his thirties, Like, it's not

1709
01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 2: like we're twenty five twenty four are going through Yeah,

1710
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it's all so different when you're younger.

1711
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,640
Speaker 2: Like if I was eighteen or nineteen and I was

1712
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 2: with my high school boyfriend and he's like, oh, yeah,

1713
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be a rapper.

1714
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm trying to go to the NFL or whatever. Okay,

1715
01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 1: at the point in time.

1716
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 2: I believe that that might be a possibility for you

1717
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,000
Speaker 2: because of our age, and you have a chance.

1718
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 1: You probably could make it if.

1719
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 2: You're good at football, or if you're good at basketball,

1720
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 2: or if you are really a good rapper.

1721
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:14,880
Speaker 1: But at thirty and now.

1722
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 2: Hobby day, niggas w be older than me. So I'm thirty,

1723
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 2: the dude is hobby dating, be forty if you still rapping?

1724
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 6: Bro screen, Now we're looking at That's why I said,

1725
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:33,600
Speaker 6: let's look at him. So I'm just saying, so what

1726
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 6: is what is?

1727
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 5: What is? What is he giving you? What is he

1728
01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 5: showing you about him?

1729
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:39,840
Speaker 6: We have to be able to understand the person that

1730
01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 6: we're dealing with, right, Like if I see like you're

1731
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 6: trying to do what m hmm how many times? Like

1732
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 6: what what does his track record look like? So it

1733
01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 6: was easier, and that's right. It was easier for my

1734
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 6: daughter mom. I mante one thousand dollars a week. It

1735
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 6: was easy for my daughter's mom.

1736
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was easy.

1737
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 6: It was easier for my daughter's mama to believe in

1738
01:17:57,280 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 6: me because I had a track record showing up, right,

1739
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 6: And you know what I'm saying, So if he's broke,

1740
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 6: what is he is he broke because he keep investing

1741
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 6: in himself and it's not trying out right becuse he

1742
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:10,679
Speaker 6: broke lazy.

1743
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:13,519
Speaker 1: I don't know what broken is. They do be trying

1744
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 1: to rap though everybody trying to be like, why are

1745
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 1: you trying to rap? Still? You're all if it hasn't

1746
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,840
Speaker 1: worked by now, that is a difference.

1747
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 2: When jay Z was forty, he was already a millionaire.

1748
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 2: If you're forty, you're still trying to be a rapper,

1749
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:35,560
Speaker 2: you gotta let you gotta go. But the thing is,

1750
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:38,320
Speaker 2: you could still be successful. I'm not trying to talk

1751
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:40,599
Speaker 2: down because I don't want to sound like I'm being

1752
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:44,479
Speaker 2: like an ageist, because at the end of the day,

1753
01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:47,080
Speaker 2: at forty, you could still be successful even if you're

1754
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 2: not successful right now.

1755
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,639
Speaker 1: But wrap especially if you're making money.

1756
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 4: But that's.

1757
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: There's things to do outside of wrapping and being as like.

1758
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 6: That's why I'm asking. So if he's if he's broke

1759
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:02,800
Speaker 6: in the moment, why is he broke? Is he broke

1760
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:05,800
Speaker 6: because he keep investing in hisself and you know the

1761
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 6: business ain't going right. I ain't mad at you for

1762
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 6: doing that because you keep going all in on you

1763
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 6: and that was one of the things. That's why my

1764
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 6: daughter because she saw when I stopped hustling, I was selling.

1765
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:17,840
Speaker 6: I was going to the auction, getting cast from the auction.

1766
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 6: I'm selling them, you know what I'm saying. Making that work,

1767
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So I was always trying

1768
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 6: to put it together. Feel mean, So why is he broke?

1769
01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 5: Is he broke? Is he lazy?

1770
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 6: Like he just ain't got no get up and go

1771
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 6: by himself? So I think all of that is why

1772
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:34,360
Speaker 6: you get don't get some pussy?

1773
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 5: Okay? That makes you know what I'm saying, like, what what?

1774
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 5: Why are you broke?

1775
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 1: So basically you're kind of going back to the first

1776
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: topic we talked about.

1777
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 5: So if you a hustler, there you go.

1778
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: If you're somebody that's really out here getting like you know,

1779
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 1: I might not be ritchie. It might want to be.

1780
01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 5: I give me a piece, I go into the world

1781
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,559
Speaker 5: and do my thing, you know, because once the piece

1782
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:04,679
Speaker 5: is it's good.

1783
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 1: Okay.

1784
01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 2: And I never thought I would say this, but from that,

1785
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,760
Speaker 2: from that standpoint, I can agree with you because one

1786
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:13,599
Speaker 2: thing I can't.

1787
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:18,600
Speaker 1: Go, one thing I can't one thing, one thing I

1788
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,920
Speaker 1: can't fuck. It's a lazy nigga, I.

1789
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,439
Speaker 5: Ain't never heard. I never never done this before.

1790
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: I've never seen you out the way, but hear me

1791
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:32,000
Speaker 1: out also not saying I would do that now. Oh okay, no,

1792
01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 1: right now, you got it.

1793
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:35,640
Speaker 5: Pushing you gotta be.

1794
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I can understand where he's

1795
01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:41,960
Speaker 2: coming from, especially when it comes to like maybe a

1796
01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:42,719
Speaker 2: younger girl.

1797
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I mean? Who you in a relationship?

1798
01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 1: You in your.

1799
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:48,719
Speaker 2: Twenties, you twenty one, twenty two weeks with a nigga

1800
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:51,719
Speaker 2: who really out here like trying to get in. He trying.

1801
01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:56,200
Speaker 1: He just ain't made it. Yeah, but he consistent, like

1802
01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 1: y'all likes, ain't never turned off.

1803
01:20:58,680 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 8: Right.

1804
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:01,680
Speaker 1: He makes sure to rent paid every month. You know

1805
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: what I mean.

1806
01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:03,040
Speaker 5: He doing what he got to do.

1807
01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 2: He hustling, But nah, he ain't rich. He probably can't

1808
01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:07,600
Speaker 2: buy you chaniels. He probably can't buy you.

1809
01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 5: Not yet. You know what I mean.

1810
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 2: I probably sharing a car. It's giving Jody, But like

1811
01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:18,479
Speaker 2: you're talking about the younger, but.

1812
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 1: Remember not Jody, what's selling the trunk that ship in him?

1813
01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: It's in you, not on you. It's in you.

1814
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 2: Not at this age, do you feel like women our

1815
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 2: age getting advice from a BDB. You know you certain

1816
01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 2: t b now a little party, donna get a BDB

1817
01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 2: university and b B. So do you feel like women

1818
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:48,880
Speaker 2: our age are like? Should we still be like holding

1819
01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:52,000
Speaker 2: men down and giving men a chance and you know,

1820
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,680
Speaker 2: falling in love with their potential and not what it is?

1821
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:55,679
Speaker 1: That's a good question.

1822
01:21:56,000 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, I ain't like yeah, like all right, so I

1823
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:04,640
Speaker 6: feel like, so, let's so, now I'm looking at the

1824
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 6: wealth ladder. So most people who I've studied have became

1825
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:12,440
Speaker 6: wealthy after forty.

1826
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:18,600
Speaker 5: Right after forty, So again, where are you?

1827
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 6: So?

1828
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:22,040
Speaker 5: Now I'm gonna look at y'all again to successful black women?

1829
01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:26,360
Speaker 1: So I know how to compliment.

1830
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 6: I think with what y'all have going on, I don't.

1831
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:33,479
Speaker 6: I think if you find a man, if you can

1832
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 6: be like, okay, so, so where are you going?

1833
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 5: It's good. It's good to identify where he's at and

1834
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 5: where he gone.

1835
01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 6: Like, I feel like y'all smart enough to know if

1836
01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 6: somebody just blowing smoke, right, y'all don't been through something

1837
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 6: like so if y'all dating, you don't really know his

1838
01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 6: financial status yet?

1839
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 5: All right? Cool?

1840
01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 6: Like all right, so look, we done went on a

1841
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:54,760
Speaker 6: couple of days, like what you're doing with yourself where

1842
01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 6: you're going, because now you need to see if it's

1843
01:22:56,760 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 6: gonna compliment where you're going.

1844
01:22:58,320 --> 01:22:58,439
Speaker 2: Right?

1845
01:22:58,840 --> 01:23:00,880
Speaker 5: This was me and my girl this I'm building this,

1846
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 5: poor mind, This is what we're doing. What you got

1847
01:23:04,080 --> 01:23:08,559
Speaker 5: going on? Right? And if if that makes sense to you? Cool?

1848
01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:10,720
Speaker 6: Because what if he's building a business or what if

1849
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 6: he's what if he's if he's working a nine or five?

1850
01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:15,240
Speaker 5: But what if he on a corporate ladder? Right?

1851
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,600
Speaker 6: Because entrepreneurship ain't for everybody, right, So what if he

1852
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 6: is on a corporated and he said, Yo, I may

1853
01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 6: be doing this, but I got hell of investments, I

1854
01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 6: got real estate, property, I got this.

1855
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:26,280
Speaker 5: So I think it depends on that.

1856
01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 6: Man and what he's doing, and does it compliment you

1857
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 6: as a woman and where you're going, Because let me.

1858
01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 1: Tell you something. I love to tell me.

1859
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 5: He says, I got money.

1860
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna deal with you.

1861
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 6: Take me.

1862
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,160
Speaker 1: You know, my nerds are doing some shit.

1863
01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 2: They't not doing what I want them to do or

1864
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:52,320
Speaker 2: what I feel like I deservety, So tell me what

1865
01:23:52,400 --> 01:23:56,320
Speaker 2: you deserve. I just feel like I want somebody that's thoughtful.

1866
01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 2: I feel like men are not thoughtful anymore, and I

1867
01:24:01,240 --> 01:24:03,040
Speaker 2: feel like they need trying to. They be so busy

1868
01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 2: trying to play a game like of Oh, I'm just like, oh,

1869
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 2: I look at this person. Because let's be real, mean

1870
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:13,559
Speaker 2: or visual creatures. You look at a woman initially when

1871
01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 2: you're trying to funk with her, you're not looking at

1872
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 2: her like oh, I.

1873
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 1: Think I remember harmon, they're not looking at her more.

1874
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:26,960
Speaker 1: I wonder, I wonder what are her thoughts about?

1875
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 2: Right?

1876
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 5: I just had that.

1877
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:31,479
Speaker 3: I wonder, you know what I mean, Nigga is not

1878
01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:41,080
Speaker 3: looking right right, so and I get it because as yeah,

1879
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 3: I know, not the.

1880
01:24:53,560 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 1: Wall streets still on the street, you know. So it's

1881
01:24:57,960 --> 01:24:59,560
Speaker 1: like so it's like, I get it.

1882
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:02,679
Speaker 2: I he said, when you look at me initially as

1883
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 2: a man, that's what you're gonna look at. You're gonna

1884
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, she pretty like she got a fat ass.

1885
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: She got a little way saying girls face is beautiful,

1886
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,400
Speaker 1: is so small and my ass is so fast.

1887
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:20,479
Speaker 2: So when men look at me and they're like, I

1888
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:22,599
Speaker 2: don't think she has a thought, but my wife's still

1889
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:23,120
Speaker 2: as small.

1890
01:25:24,160 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 1: So but at the end of the day, I just

1891
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:31,519
Speaker 1: really like thoughtful guys, like I like men that go

1892
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:32,200
Speaker 1: out of their.

1893
01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:35,599
Speaker 2: Way to do small things, like even if I mentioned

1894
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 2: something and then you end up I mean, she something small,

1895
01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:40,680
Speaker 2: like something that happened to me recently. I had a

1896
01:25:40,720 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 2: guy buy me a juicer, and I mentioned that I

1897
01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 2: wanted to start juicing, and so he ended up buying

1898
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 2: me a juicer.

1899
01:25:47,960 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 1: And I thought that that was thoughtful.

1900
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:52,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't always have to be a chanelle with the

1901
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 2: or bag whatever you want it too, but it don't

1902
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:58,320
Speaker 2: always gotta be that. I just like people that are thoughtful,

1903
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 2: and I think most men are not thoughtful. They don't

1904
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 2: pay attention, they don't pay attention to details, they don't care.

1905
01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 2: I think everybody is out, like social media has made

1906
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 2: it to where it's like when it comes today, everybody

1907
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 2: is just out for themselves.

1908
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:17,439
Speaker 6: It is so one of the things that I just

1909
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,840
Speaker 6: had this conversation last night. I talked to a friend

1910
01:26:20,880 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 6: of mine all the time named April Mason.

1911
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 5: She cold blooded. So men and her be talking, It's

1912
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:29,600
Speaker 5: given me, Hey, April, yeah, Aprimason cold blooded. And so

1913
01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 5: one of the things with men is emotional intelligence.

1914
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:36,400
Speaker 1: Let's talk about that.

1915
01:26:36,640 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 5: So we have to we have to develop that because

1916
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 5: we haven't been taught that.

1917
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:44,559
Speaker 6: So as men, what we often see is don't cry, right,

1918
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:47,000
Speaker 6: don't show a girl that you feel this kind of

1919
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:50,040
Speaker 6: way about her. And the man who fucked the most

1920
01:26:50,200 --> 01:26:53,439
Speaker 6: women is the champion, right, right, So that keeps us

1921
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:55,680
Speaker 6: from being emotional. Even if you love a girl like

1922
01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:57,840
Speaker 6: you feel some kind of way that don't look right

1923
01:26:57,880 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 6: in front of your homies because the.

1924
01:26:59,160 --> 01:27:03,439
Speaker 5: First love here, you know what I'm saying.

1925
01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:06,040
Speaker 6: So now you're like, damn, I don't feel like that

1926
01:27:06,160 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 6: in front of my peers, right, So we have to

1927
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:12,519
Speaker 6: we have that's along with financial literacy. Men, black men

1928
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 6: have to we have to learn how to be emotional

1929
01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:16,320
Speaker 6: intelligent and deal with that trauma.

1930
01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:20,160
Speaker 5: Right. So what happened to me was I had a daughter, so.

1931
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 6: That immediately like cut that ship because I got to

1932
01:27:23,360 --> 01:27:25,120
Speaker 6: show up emotionally for her every day.

1933
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:26,160
Speaker 3: Right.

1934
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 5: So for men, yes, the first thing we see, I

1935
01:27:29,720 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 5: don't care.

1936
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:31,640
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to see how smart you is in

1937
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:36,799
Speaker 6: the beginning because physically I'm attracted. The physical attraction becomes

1938
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:39,600
Speaker 6: that that's what got me here. Now let's work on

1939
01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:43,800
Speaker 6: the other stuff. Like that's cool. But also women, like

1940
01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 6: she said they got money.

1941
01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 2: Feeling, I feel like in my past, I used to

1942
01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:53,680
Speaker 2: deal with me and because I had to, you know

1943
01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:56,760
Speaker 2: what I mean, Just honey, I used to deal with

1944
01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 2: niggascause I had to.

1945
01:27:58,479 --> 01:28:01,000
Speaker 1: Now I don't have to do with nobody that I

1946
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,880
Speaker 1: don't want to deal with. I wake up today and

1947
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:04,719
Speaker 1: you getting on my motherfucking nerves.

1948
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:05,320
Speaker 5: I'm gonna block you.

1949
01:28:06,080 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna respond.

1950
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:09,599
Speaker 5: You know, that's how you get peace.

1951
01:28:10,040 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 1: But I also kind of feel like it plays into

1952
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:15,960
Speaker 1: the stigma of this is what me and you have.

1953
01:28:16,040 --> 01:28:18,760
Speaker 2: These conversations all the time too. As you start to

1954
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:21,920
Speaker 2: become a successful black woman, you.

1955
01:28:21,920 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 5: Feel like you don't need a man.

1956
01:28:23,080 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 1: You feel like you don't need a man any fine,

1957
01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:27,479
Speaker 1: any make. But it also makes it harder to find

1958
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:27,800
Speaker 1: a man.

1959
01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:29,679
Speaker 5: Toxic, I don't.

1960
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:31,840
Speaker 1: Think, but I don't. We're not trying to make it toxic,

1961
01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:32,639
Speaker 1: but it's the fact.

1962
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:33,719
Speaker 5: Here's what happened.

1963
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,799
Speaker 6: So the one thing I don't like about our culture

1964
01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 6: right now is the independent black woman.

1965
01:28:40,680 --> 01:28:41,400
Speaker 5: You don't like that.

1966
01:28:41,680 --> 01:28:44,719
Speaker 6: I hate it, Okay, I'm gonna tell you why, because

1967
01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:47,360
Speaker 6: it now puts a woman in a position where she

1968
01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 6: feels like she doesn't need a man. I'm not saying

1969
01:28:51,160 --> 01:28:55,240
Speaker 6: that you supposed to depend on a man. But you

1970
01:28:55,439 --> 01:29:01,960
Speaker 6: need a man because men represent supposed to represent protection, security.

1971
01:29:02,360 --> 01:29:06,000
Speaker 6: That's what we're supposed to represent, the first two things, right,

1972
01:29:06,400 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 6: and then behind that becomes provider nurture.

1973
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 2: So with all those things you said, though, a lot

1974
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:16,360
Speaker 2: of black women were turning to be independent because we are.

1975
01:29:19,439 --> 01:29:20,080
Speaker 1: The sold you.

1976
01:29:20,160 --> 01:29:22,400
Speaker 2: I feel like men they don't want to fuck with

1977
01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 2: you because they be like, oh, she cued, ah, she

1978
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:25,400
Speaker 2: attracted whatever.

1979
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:27,519
Speaker 1: And even when you really start fucking with them.

1980
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:31,519
Speaker 2: It's kind of almost like I've dated guys, especially when

1981
01:29:31,560 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 2: it comes to like talking about my accolades, talking about

1982
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:37,240
Speaker 2: the things that I've accomplished, it's almost kind of like they.

1983
01:29:37,240 --> 01:29:40,760
Speaker 6: Be you got to step up the type of men

1984
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:45,160
Speaker 6: that you attract. You can't attract the men. I mean,

1985
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 6: men gonna be attracted to your regard, but.

1986
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:49,520
Speaker 1: If it's people that are successful already.

1987
01:29:49,240 --> 01:29:52,240
Speaker 6: Too, so now you later. So now that's where you later.

1988
01:29:52,520 --> 01:29:56,280
Speaker 6: Like I love feminine women. I love that ship like

1989
01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:58,280
Speaker 6: because I don't want you to be my nigga.

1990
01:29:59,120 --> 01:29:59,880
Speaker 5: I got niggas for that.

1991
01:30:00,479 --> 01:30:02,800
Speaker 2: But let me say, because we actually had this conversation before,

1992
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:05,040
Speaker 2: a lot of times women aren't feminine around men because

1993
01:30:05,040 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 2: we don't feel safe.

1994
01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:09,280
Speaker 5: Not protected. We're not protecting what's up.

1995
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:11,439
Speaker 1: That's me all that.

1996
01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm doing like this because yeah,

1997
01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:16,400
Speaker 2: if shit go left, I'm anna beat your ass.

1998
01:30:16,960 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 6: Know that.

1999
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:20,799
Speaker 2: So that's why we kind of give off that masculine

2000
01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:23,280
Speaker 2: energy sometime, and I don't feel like I give off

2001
01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:25,120
Speaker 2: that energy because that's just I'm a.

2002
01:30:26,640 --> 01:30:28,200
Speaker 1: You're no, you're way more feminine.

2003
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:30,720
Speaker 2: But in my situation that I've been in, I've been

2004
01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 2: in where I went out with a guy that I

2005
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 2: thought I liked and ship went down and I didn't

2006
01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 2: feel safe.

2007
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:39,040
Speaker 1: But I know that, So that's created this sterior and

2008
01:30:39,120 --> 01:30:39,679
Speaker 1: this waffer.

2009
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 5: I don't.

2010
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:41,599
Speaker 1: I don't play that with nobody.

2011
01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 2: And like I said, in order for you to see

2012
01:30:43,280 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 2: that feminine side of les, I have to feel safe,

2013
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:47,000
Speaker 2: I have to trust you.

2014
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 1: When that takes time that I have a very soft side.

2015
01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:52,400
Speaker 2: We always talk first with the man that I really like,

2016
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:56,599
Speaker 2: I'm the most feminine person on this earth, like, because

2017
01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:58,479
Speaker 2: we had a strologer come the other week and she

2018
01:30:58,640 --> 01:31:01,679
Speaker 2: was saying, like, you are real when it gets down

2019
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:01,920
Speaker 2: to it.

2020
01:31:02,040 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 5: But I'm not like that off the gate because it

2021
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 5: shouldn't be. I don't and we got to learn that.

2022
01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:11,680
Speaker 6: And so as again, so men our like it has

2023
01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:16,679
Speaker 6: been intentional on the destruction of our culture, making making

2024
01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 6: a black woman feel so independent, but also making her

2025
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:25,120
Speaker 6: not feel protected, because that ain't new. Over generations, black

2026
01:31:25,200 --> 01:31:28,960
Speaker 6: women have seen where their husband has watched them get raped,

2027
01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:31,479
Speaker 6: watched them get right. And so as a woman, you

2028
01:31:31,520 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 6: can't feel protected in that exactly know what I'm saying.

2029
01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:36,080
Speaker 6: And as a man, you're like, damn, I can't. I'm

2030
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 6: ready to die and you just do that. So it

2031
01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 6: has been intentional on creating this division, making black men

2032
01:31:42,080 --> 01:31:46,640
Speaker 6: not emotionally intelligent and making black women feel so super independent.

2033
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:49,640
Speaker 6: So I think that has to as men again, I

2034
01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:53,360
Speaker 6: always look at them for us because if we become

2035
01:31:53,439 --> 01:31:57,680
Speaker 6: emotionally intelligent, if we become strong, then you have no

2036
01:31:57,880 --> 01:32:01,519
Speaker 6: other option but to be so miss it, right, I

2037
01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:03,439
Speaker 6: agree with that. It's angry with it. Like if you

2038
01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 6: if you're around a man, you're like, damn, I feel

2039
01:32:05,560 --> 01:32:07,960
Speaker 6: comfortable around him. I don't get what's going I know

2040
01:32:08,040 --> 01:32:09,880
Speaker 6: he got us. Then you ain't got no choice but

2041
01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:13,160
Speaker 6: to be like what is It's femininity at its best.

2042
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,680
Speaker 6: So we as black men, got to learn how to

2043
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:19,200
Speaker 6: represent that so we can take that away from you

2044
01:32:19,800 --> 01:32:24,600
Speaker 6: while still while still acknowledging your independence, while still acknowledging

2045
01:32:24,680 --> 01:32:25,720
Speaker 6: your success.

2046
01:32:25,640 --> 01:32:28,760
Speaker 5: But saying nah, like I got us right, and then

2047
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:30,880
Speaker 5: once you in that premise, you okay.

2048
01:32:31,240 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 2: And that's why I said, I'm honestly not dealing with

2049
01:32:33,479 --> 01:32:36,320
Speaker 2: a man that's not emotionally intelligent.

2050
01:32:36,439 --> 01:32:38,360
Speaker 1: Yeah anymore, I feel.

2051
01:32:38,200 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 2: Like, honestly, that's something that me and you talk about

2052
01:32:40,200 --> 01:32:42,000
Speaker 2: all the time, like that's what we crave, like we

2053
01:32:42,160 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 2: want to be we want because we want to be

2054
01:32:45,479 --> 01:32:48,479
Speaker 2: able to be submissive to a guy.

2055
01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:49,080
Speaker 5: That we're dating.

2056
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:51,479
Speaker 1: But it just be like, Okay, the more and more

2057
01:32:51,520 --> 01:32:53,439
Speaker 1: I make, like the more and more I talk to you,

2058
01:32:53,560 --> 01:32:55,760
Speaker 1: the more and more I be around you, ain't like

2059
01:32:55,760 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 1: why would I be submissive to you?

2060
01:32:57,360 --> 01:32:59,000
Speaker 2: And not only that, I just feel like, you know,

2061
01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:05,040
Speaker 2: communication is so big to me, So it's like, yeah,

2062
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:06,599
Speaker 2: so it's just like a lot of times away even

2063
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 2: men communicate. You can see that in the beginning, like

2064
01:33:09,479 --> 01:33:12,400
Speaker 2: certain things going on and instead of us talking about it,

2065
01:33:12,840 --> 01:33:16,120
Speaker 2: you know, when you get online and a woman reposts

2066
01:33:16,520 --> 01:33:19,679
Speaker 2: justin the boy, that's because she doesn't feel comfortable talking

2067
01:33:19,720 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 2: to you, you on her story instead of texting you

2068
01:33:24,400 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 2: and one thing about me as we on sub any

2069
01:33:27,520 --> 01:33:29,760
Speaker 2: good you know. And I've actually gotten away from that

2070
01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:33,720
Speaker 2: of recently, like my last situation, I just left. I

2071
01:33:33,920 --> 01:33:36,080
Speaker 2: was able to walk away because one I didn't need

2072
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,479
Speaker 2: that manymore. But two, I'm not about to sub you.

2073
01:33:38,880 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 2: I'm not about to do all that because you know what,

2074
01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:42,560
Speaker 2: you weren't meeting me there with our communication.

2075
01:33:42,920 --> 01:33:44,599
Speaker 1: So instead of me trying to make you feel.

2076
01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:46,439
Speaker 2: Some type of way about things that, I'm gonna just

2077
01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:47,880
Speaker 2: walk away and I'm gonna be okay with that. And

2078
01:33:47,920 --> 01:33:50,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna know myself as a woman and I'm not

2079
01:33:50,080 --> 01:33:52,320
Speaker 2: gonna put my value into you and how you make

2080
01:33:52,400 --> 01:33:52,800
Speaker 2: me feel.

2081
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:55,160
Speaker 1: You got to know yourself for that period.

2082
01:33:55,280 --> 01:33:57,360
Speaker 2: Remember when my ex so he's about I know, every

2083
01:33:57,400 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 2: time you be posting certain she up on Instagram, you

2084
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:00,280
Speaker 2: be talking by.

2085
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 5: Me, I'm dead. That's why I don't do it no more.

2086
01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:03,439
Speaker 1: Okay, So we gotta move on.

2087
01:34:04,160 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 2: We're gonna move on into that about all.

2088
01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:14,040
Speaker 5: You know about that because he knows what he knows

2089
01:34:14,080 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 5: about that. That's the Wallesa.

2090
01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:21,400
Speaker 1: Let me say I am from Orange, Texas. Y'all know

2091
01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:22,560
Speaker 1: I say that all the time I was on the

2092
01:34:22,600 --> 01:34:23,360
Speaker 1: border of Louisiana.

2093
01:34:23,479 --> 01:34:24,360
Speaker 5: All my family from.

2094
01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:29,559
Speaker 2: Louisiana is like, yeah, it's like the country. It's literally

2095
01:34:30,720 --> 01:34:34,120
Speaker 2: that in Louisiana I never heard is literally like the

2096
01:34:34,200 --> 01:34:36,519
Speaker 2: way where my house was building orange, Like we could

2097
01:34:36,520 --> 01:34:39,040
Speaker 2: literally walk over a bridge and we're in lois and

2098
01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:40,040
Speaker 2: we're in Louisiana.

2099
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,479
Speaker 5: Really the first place I was it was in de

2100
01:34:42,560 --> 01:34:46,120
Speaker 5: Quincy right around. Yeah. I used to have to go

2101
01:34:46,200 --> 01:34:49,160
Speaker 5: in the neighborhoods and clean up and stuff, so I indeed.

2102
01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:55,600
Speaker 2: Community services. Yeah, so that's how you knows because that

2103
01:34:55,880 --> 01:34:58,360
Speaker 2: comes from that area. So the bomp of the week

2104
01:34:58,479 --> 01:35:01,680
Speaker 2: for my song is by Xavier Omar. Now, if y'all

2105
01:35:01,680 --> 01:35:03,599
Speaker 2: don't remember, I made a bought by him a long

2106
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:05,800
Speaker 2: time ago called say It. He is an R and

2107
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:08,040
Speaker 2: B singer and I just love his voice. He has

2108
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:11,599
Speaker 2: a super good tone. And a listener I can't remember

2109
01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:13,640
Speaker 2: her name, she actually sent this to me because she

2110
01:35:13,760 --> 01:35:15,720
Speaker 2: knows I love him. So he has a song called

2111
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:18,400
Speaker 2: Feelings for You, and it kind of gets into that

2112
01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:22,519
Speaker 2: emotional intelligence. It's just like a man recognizing his feelings

2113
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:25,799
Speaker 2: for a woman and not denying it and saying, hey.

2114
01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:27,760
Speaker 1: This is how I feel. You're fucking with it.

2115
01:35:27,920 --> 01:35:29,680
Speaker 2: Or not like that, and that's the kind of man

2116
01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:31,720
Speaker 2: I want. So that's why I was like, I'm manifesting

2117
01:35:31,840 --> 01:35:35,400
Speaker 2: that I've done that before, really expressed yourself.

2118
01:35:35,240 --> 01:35:35,720
Speaker 5: What we're doing.

2119
01:35:35,960 --> 01:35:38,680
Speaker 1: Yes, sometimes you have to be like, see where are

2120
01:35:38,680 --> 01:35:42,880
Speaker 1: you niggas? But you cancer? What are you niggas?

2121
01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:43,880
Speaker 5: Sam?

2122
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,960
Speaker 2: He was a cancer and we do what we know

2123
01:35:47,040 --> 01:35:49,960
Speaker 2: about cancer. Mean, y'all are in touch with y'all. Like

2124
01:35:50,120 --> 01:35:53,639
Speaker 2: I fel like water signs in general, y'all are in touch.

2125
01:35:53,439 --> 01:35:58,600
Speaker 1: With y'all emotions, our signs, our signs with emotions.

2126
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 2: That's why I'm so emotional. Members She said that. The

2127
01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:05,680
Speaker 2: lady said that that's why I'm so emotional, and I'm

2128
01:36:05,760 --> 01:36:08,840
Speaker 2: so big on communication my own. Yeah, so you're like

2129
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 2: I did a crystal hell and like not really, we're

2130
01:36:14,320 --> 01:36:15,080
Speaker 2: really into it.

2131
01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 9: Like.

2132
01:36:17,800 --> 01:36:19,000
Speaker 1: I'll be saved in my house.

2133
01:36:20,880 --> 01:36:21,639
Speaker 5: It was real, dope.

2134
01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:24,360
Speaker 6: She uh like I was laying on his bed and

2135
01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:27,760
Speaker 6: she put the crystals on and she made me hold

2136
01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:30,920
Speaker 6: some crystals in my hand when she saved me, and

2137
01:36:31,040 --> 01:36:32,800
Speaker 6: she told me what the one at the top is

2138
01:36:32,840 --> 01:36:33,800
Speaker 6: called your clown.

2139
01:36:34,120 --> 01:36:38,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, she did chakra stuff. She was telling me. She

2140
01:36:38,640 --> 01:36:40,599
Speaker 5: was like she had to do extra work up there

2141
01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:41,439
Speaker 5: because it was blocked.

2142
01:36:42,040 --> 01:36:44,400
Speaker 1: She was like, because that's all I worked, that's all

2143
01:36:44,439 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 1: I'm cryptos, just.

2144
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:49,640
Speaker 6: A lot of trauma, like when I've been through. But

2145
01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:51,599
Speaker 6: when I left that, when I left the stones out

2146
01:36:51,600 --> 01:36:53,200
Speaker 6: of my hand, She's like, they are really hot.

2147
01:36:54,200 --> 01:36:56,040
Speaker 5: She was like, you good. She was like, I want

2148
01:36:56,040 --> 01:36:57,400
Speaker 5: you to come back once a month. So that was

2149
01:36:57,479 --> 01:36:58,120
Speaker 5: really dope for me.

2150
01:36:58,200 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 1: That my first you feel better.

2151
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:01,920
Speaker 6: I felt like I was in a floor. I was like, damn,

2152
01:37:02,160 --> 01:37:04,519
Speaker 6: She's like, you had off a lot of energy. So

2153
01:37:04,840 --> 01:37:05,960
Speaker 6: I did feel better.

2154
01:37:06,240 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 2: But that's I feel like everybody should do that, like

2155
01:37:08,080 --> 01:37:12,240
Speaker 2: connect with their like their inside. Because I actually just

2156
01:37:12,360 --> 01:37:16,040
Speaker 2: had a reading with shout out to every week because

2157
01:37:16,040 --> 01:37:17,639
Speaker 2: I do my readings with her and she just lets

2158
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:19,559
Speaker 2: me know like what I need to release, what I'm

2159
01:37:19,600 --> 01:37:20,080
Speaker 2: going through.

2160
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:21,719
Speaker 1: So that's very important.

2161
01:37:21,720 --> 01:37:23,559
Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm trying to get I've already been

2162
01:37:23,600 --> 01:37:26,280
Speaker 2: in touch with my emotions, but I just am trying

2163
01:37:26,360 --> 01:37:30,240
Speaker 2: to learn myself better so I can control my emotions better,

2164
01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:32,280
Speaker 2: because I think that's what a lot of people don't do.

2165
01:37:32,400 --> 01:37:36,160
Speaker 2: We don't control our emotions very well. We don't we'll

2166
01:37:36,240 --> 01:37:39,519
Speaker 2: definitely do we act out too much. Okay, go ahead,

2167
01:37:39,520 --> 01:37:40,280
Speaker 2: and tell you about Girl.

2168
01:37:41,520 --> 01:37:41,920
Speaker 5: I'm dead.

2169
01:37:42,800 --> 01:37:45,680
Speaker 1: So we're doing y'all know.

2170
01:37:45,920 --> 01:37:48,640
Speaker 2: I was talking about Kadak Black on one of the

2171
01:37:48,760 --> 01:37:51,760
Speaker 2: recent episodes I Love Blake that niggad be coming out

2172
01:37:51,800 --> 01:37:54,759
Speaker 2: with OBS. So he got a new song called grinding

2173
01:37:54,840 --> 01:37:58,519
Speaker 2: all Season, and I fuck with it because that's.

2174
01:37:58,439 --> 01:38:02,559
Speaker 1: The mood, grinding off until I find my man. It's

2175
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:07,439
Speaker 1: giving mood. It's giving me. It's giving me period, get it.

2176
01:38:07,600 --> 01:38:08,040
Speaker 1: It's given.

2177
01:38:08,080 --> 01:38:09,519
Speaker 2: And I hate to say this because I feel like

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Speaker 2: everybody said this every year. Twenty twenty two is my years?

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Speaker 5: Is okay?

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Speaker 1: So what you've been jamming this week?

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Speaker 5: Let me think? What have I been listening to? So

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Speaker 5: I'm not a music person like talking about it? Well,

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Speaker 5: what you was listening to? You?

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Speaker 6: Because I seen what you pulled up in Girl, I say, damn,

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Speaker 6: we can't even listen now. I listen to music, don't

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Speaker 6: get me wrong, but I like to like shift my mood.

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01:38:37,479 --> 01:38:39,519
Speaker 6: So I listened to a lot of podcasts, all those books.

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Speaker 5: But my daughter, he didn't listen to.

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Speaker 1: What's gonna talk about this?

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Speaker 5: Smart?

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Speaker 1: He said?

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Speaker 2: He said, But what are you going to talk about?

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01:38:49,640 --> 01:38:57,080
Speaker 2: Because trap reads books? I said, Ryan, just because we don't.

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Speaker 1: Talk about books on pore minds do not mean that

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Speaker 1: we don't read. I read fifty ships of grass.

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Speaker 5: I listened to y'all for three hours. This crazy.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you all this. I do like Snow Okay,

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Speaker 5: snow leg Girl. I love her, Oh yeah, smooth. She

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Speaker 5: reminds me of Yes, She's definitely kind of like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I would listen to her a lot.

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Speaker 6: Like when I want ship so you're like an r

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Speaker 6: B guy. Okay, cool, so I'll listen to like Snow

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Speaker 6: and Iry Lennox.

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Speaker 5: I like her, we love I thought she was gonna

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Speaker 5: be like.

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Speaker 6: That not.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is the pour your Heart out segment. If you

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Speaker 1: So I'll go ahead and read question one.

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Speaker 2: It says, Hey, ladies, I'm new to the poor crew,

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Speaker 2: but I've been been watching all the episodes on YouTube

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01:41:52,479 --> 01:41:54,000
Speaker 2: while at work and I'm such a fan.

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01:41:54,160 --> 01:41:54,280
Speaker 5: Now.

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01:41:54,720 --> 01:41:56,559
Speaker 2: When I was twenty three, I used to work as

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01:41:56,600 --> 01:41:59,639
Speaker 2: a banker in downtown Atlanta. I had a regular client

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01:41:59,680 --> 01:42:02,880
Speaker 2: who was very rich, Nigerian and ready to spoil me.

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01:42:03,320 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 2: He would offer to send me money, fly me out

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01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:09,120
Speaker 2: the country, take me shopping, et cetera. Being his banker,

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01:42:09,280 --> 01:42:11,680
Speaker 2: I obviously knew how much money he had, so I

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01:42:11,800 --> 01:42:15,280
Speaker 2: knew he wasn't bullshitting. The only issue was that he

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01:42:15,439 --> 01:42:19,400
Speaker 2: was physically unattracted attractive to me. He was funky, too,

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01:42:20,040 --> 01:42:22,680
Speaker 2: but I'm pretty sure it was just his cologne. I

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01:42:22,800 --> 01:42:24,559
Speaker 2: had to lie and tell him that I couldn't get

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Speaker 2: with him because I didn't want to risk the integrity

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Speaker 2: of my job.

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Speaker 1: Are you always attracted to your means? Side note?

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Speaker 2: After I quit the bank, I decided to try and

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Speaker 2: give him a shot, but he's already engaged to someone

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01:42:35,960 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 2: else and got me blocked on what's up?

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Speaker 5: Okay, talk about.

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01:42:43,880 --> 01:42:46,680
Speaker 1: Funky? What she said it was because she didn't like

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01:42:46,760 --> 01:42:47,400
Speaker 1: his cologne.

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Speaker 2: Either way, that's funky. I don't even care if it's

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01:42:52,360 --> 01:42:54,240
Speaker 2: your cologne. It don't matter if you don't smell it.

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01:42:54,400 --> 01:42:57,200
Speaker 2: Like if your smell is not appeasing to me, I

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01:42:57,320 --> 01:43:01,360
Speaker 2: cannot focus. And I like the smell of their cologne.

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01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:03,880
Speaker 2: So what I just suggested new cologne to him.

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Speaker 1: Actually you say he didn't wear it?

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01:43:05,880 --> 01:43:06,760
Speaker 5: No, no, no, not him.

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Speaker 1: And I bought him some colone. I bought him some

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Speaker 1: good colone to you mis called me missed the put

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Speaker 1: it on. Because that's the thing is, I'm with you,

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01:43:15,000 --> 01:43:17,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure, like you know, and I got

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01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:20,320
Speaker 1: him a colone because it's like, as a man, why

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Speaker 1: aren't you wearing cologne?

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Speaker 5: And that's meant you gotta find a cologne that match

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Speaker 5: with Pharaoh.

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Speaker 2: Exactly because everything don't smell the same. And I think

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Speaker 2: that's what people don't understand about fragrancies. Everything does not

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01:43:31,040 --> 01:43:34,519
Speaker 2: smell the same on everybody. It's certain fragrances that people

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01:43:34,520 --> 01:43:37,040
Speaker 2: would be like, oh, yeah, this shit smells so good,

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Speaker 2: and then I'll go and smell it, or I'll put

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Speaker 2: it on myself. I mean, it's men stuff that I've

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Speaker 2: actually bought when I spent my money on it and

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Speaker 2: I put it on, and I was just like, literally,

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like you're a perfume girl. You bout

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Speaker 2: so many I'm literally I've worn the same perfume for

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Speaker 2: literally like three us. You know it, because for you,

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Speaker 2: that's the most compliment I get. You smell so good.

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Speaker 2: People always remember how I smell. I know that, but

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Speaker 2: that's the most compliment I get. Yeah, I feel like

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01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:05,439
Speaker 2: if somebody doesn't smell right, and it's not because they're stinky,

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Speaker 2: but if you don't like their colonne, I feel like

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Speaker 2: that's something that y'all can talk. As far as like

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Speaker 2: not being attracted to people, I think I've said this

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Speaker 2: on the show numerous times. I cannot fuck with somebody

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01:44:17,240 --> 01:44:20,000
Speaker 2: that I'm not fit, like, I can't consistently fuck I

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Speaker 2: agree with that, or fuck with somebody who I'm not

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Speaker 2: physically attracting to, Like anybody I've every day I thought

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Speaker 2: that you were attractive, or I thought something about.

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Speaker 1: You was attracted. If you don't like the given, you

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01:44:33,080 --> 01:44:36,040
Speaker 1: don't like this men right because you didn't name one.

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01:44:36,360 --> 01:44:38,280
Speaker 1: You didn't name one thing that you liked about him

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Speaker 1: besides you.

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Speaker 2: And I will say this, Sometimes I meet somebody and

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Speaker 2: I'm not physically attracting them, but then I end up

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Speaker 2: talking to them and they become either more attractive to

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Speaker 2: me or less attracted to me. So this man has

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Speaker 2: been coming into your bank, and obviously he hasn't said

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Speaker 2: anything or done anything to make you more attracted to him,

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Speaker 2: and he's engaged.

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Speaker 1: Now girl, let it go? Yeah?

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01:44:56,600 --> 01:44:58,200
Speaker 5: Letting he block you? Let it go?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Queens.

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Speaker 2: Question two, Okay, is it possible for us? Is it

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01:45:04,040 --> 01:45:06,479
Speaker 2: possible a female could cut you off because your sex

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01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:13,320
Speaker 2: is too good? It's like they don't want because you

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01:45:13,400 --> 01:45:14,840
Speaker 2: know what you're about to get all much to bear

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01:45:14,920 --> 01:45:18,800
Speaker 2: for the second time. Go ahead, girl. It's like they

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01:45:18,880 --> 01:45:22,000
Speaker 2: don't want to allow themselves to get too attached to something.

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01:45:22,600 --> 01:45:24,880
Speaker 1: Or could it be personal? Or could it be I

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01:45:24,920 --> 01:45:28,439
Speaker 1: can't even finish the day, don't cluck? Could be other

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01:45:28,600 --> 01:45:30,920
Speaker 1: personal reasons, but I need to spill on.

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01:45:31,040 --> 01:45:33,639
Speaker 5: Why this occurs. That is so not true.

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01:45:34,120 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 1: There's not women having good sex out here for me

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01:45:37,320 --> 01:45:41,760
Speaker 1: to cut you off. It's too good. Maybe, but maybe

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01:45:41,840 --> 01:45:46,000
Speaker 1: she got a unicorn let me never had an amazing sexy.

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01:45:45,920 --> 01:45:48,639
Speaker 6: Like let me cut him a one time. I'm gonna

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01:45:48,640 --> 01:45:51,040
Speaker 6: just keep it a hundred. So we had like this

2345
01:45:51,360 --> 01:45:56,160
Speaker 6: do pass chemistry. Sex was good, and then she literally

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01:45:56,320 --> 01:45:59,200
Speaker 6: told me in the bed, I'm not fucking you no more.

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01:45:59,760 --> 01:46:01,000
Speaker 1: After y'all had six I.

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Speaker 6: Said you're talking about was She was like, nah, because

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01:46:04,479 --> 01:46:05,880
Speaker 6: I know you're not ready to wife me and I

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01:46:05,960 --> 01:46:07,519
Speaker 6: can't let you keep doing me that and you ain't

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Speaker 6: ready to wife me.

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01:46:08,320 --> 01:46:10,759
Speaker 2: Okay, well that's different. Then that makes because she wanted

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01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:12,680
Speaker 2: more than what you were willing to give. But it's

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01:46:12,720 --> 01:46:14,439
Speaker 2: not because the sex was too good. It was just

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01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:17,000
Speaker 2: like you how you made her feel in the bedroom

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01:46:17,120 --> 01:46:18,800
Speaker 2: and outside of the bedroom, because it's a.

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Speaker 1: Combination of the boat.

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01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:23,040
Speaker 2: I had a man that can dig me down to heaven,

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01:46:23,479 --> 01:46:25,200
Speaker 2: but when we outside of the bedroom, I'm like.

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01:46:25,439 --> 01:46:26,599
Speaker 1: Stop talking to me a puppet.

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01:46:30,439 --> 01:46:30,840
Speaker 5: I get that.

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01:46:31,080 --> 01:46:34,040
Speaker 1: So it's like just because you know it's who.

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01:46:34,240 --> 01:46:36,960
Speaker 5: Is a combination no names, no names.

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01:46:39,080 --> 01:46:41,680
Speaker 2: The one I just cut off him too, because I

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01:46:42,479 --> 01:46:45,920
Speaker 2: that is that is dead and done, dead and gone

2366
01:46:46,520 --> 01:46:51,120
Speaker 2: then gone. So I will say, if that happened to you,

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01:46:51,400 --> 01:46:54,080
Speaker 2: it's probably because she maybe want more from you that

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01:46:54,200 --> 01:46:55,679
Speaker 2: you can't get at the moment.

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01:46:55,680 --> 01:46:56,920
Speaker 1: But I don't want to give men.

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01:46:56,840 --> 01:46:58,519
Speaker 2: Too much credit because a lot of y'all don't have

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01:46:58,680 --> 01:47:01,880
Speaker 2: both y'all, it's a lie.

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01:47:02,040 --> 01:47:05,559
Speaker 1: It's very rare that you meet a man. How often

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01:47:05,640 --> 01:47:08,519
Speaker 1: do you meet a man that's so amazing in real life?

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01:47:08,600 --> 01:47:11,280
Speaker 1: And colleague, you're like, I can't do this.

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01:47:13,240 --> 01:47:15,519
Speaker 5: I get that. I get that. I'm not saying that

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01:47:16,200 --> 01:47:23,559
Speaker 5: that makes sense. That makes sense because I wasn't ready

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01:47:23,640 --> 01:47:24,080
Speaker 5: to do that.

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01:47:24,120 --> 01:47:26,880
Speaker 1: Because I and you have to know, honestly, that's all

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01:47:26,880 --> 01:47:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm learning as a woman now.

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01:47:28,560 --> 01:47:30,640
Speaker 2: I told myself that, like, even when I go on

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01:47:30,720 --> 01:47:32,600
Speaker 2: a first date with a man, I'm telling him what

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01:47:32,840 --> 01:47:35,479
Speaker 2: my intentions are and what I'm looking for. So I'm

2383
01:47:35,520 --> 01:47:37,640
Speaker 2: not in the bed with a man and being like, oh,

2384
01:47:37,720 --> 01:47:39,000
Speaker 2: I can't do this because I know this is not

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01:47:39,080 --> 01:47:41,679
Speaker 2: what you want. So before we even get to the bedroom,

2386
01:47:41,760 --> 01:47:43,120
Speaker 2: we already have this conversation.

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01:47:43,520 --> 01:47:46,439
Speaker 5: So I'm not in that situation. You know what I'm saying.

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01:47:47,120 --> 01:47:50,360
Speaker 2: So for you, sir, I feel like, let your intentions

2389
01:47:50,400 --> 01:47:53,320
Speaker 2: be known ahead of time. So women, all these women

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01:47:53,360 --> 01:47:55,479
Speaker 2: aren't cutting you off. Why are you telling him, sir,

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01:47:55,760 --> 01:47:56,679
Speaker 2: because that's what he's.

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01:47:56,600 --> 01:47:59,160
Speaker 5: Oh it could be. Oh she didn't. He didn't say

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01:47:59,200 --> 01:48:01,000
Speaker 5: if it was a man or woman. Well, if it's

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01:48:01,000 --> 01:48:03,400
Speaker 5: a woman, because you know how you like a woman's took.

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01:48:05,240 --> 01:48:07,800
Speaker 2: I can believe that for a woman before a man though,

2396
01:48:08,320 --> 01:48:12,320
Speaker 2: Like a woman just going around giving women orgasms, that's believable.

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01:48:12,640 --> 01:48:14,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she just know how to please a woman.

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01:48:15,120 --> 01:48:16,560
Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know, you know?

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01:48:17,000 --> 01:48:20,800
Speaker 5: All right? Like that? Why put like that?

2400
01:48:24,040 --> 01:48:26,920
Speaker 1: Look you surprised they're not? Okay?

2401
01:48:27,640 --> 01:48:27,920
Speaker 5: Question?

2402
01:48:28,479 --> 01:48:29,320
Speaker 1: They know my past?

2403
01:48:29,439 --> 01:48:32,360
Speaker 2: Like, what's up, Lexandre? I'm probably part of the one

2404
01:48:32,439 --> 01:48:34,559
Speaker 2: percent of straight men that taps into the show.

2405
01:48:34,720 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 1: Honestly, you think it's Wayne.

2406
01:48:36,320 --> 01:48:38,320
Speaker 2: No, we don't get mad at him because it was

2407
01:48:38,520 --> 01:48:40,400
Speaker 2: one percent at one time. But honestly, we have a

2408
01:48:40,439 --> 01:48:41,600
Speaker 2: lot of males that tune in.

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01:48:41,760 --> 01:48:46,000
Speaker 5: No, put you off some games for three hours.

2410
01:48:49,479 --> 01:48:51,599
Speaker 1: You can't watch something for three hours if it ain't.

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01:48:53,280 --> 01:48:58,840
Speaker 5: She was like what I'm like, Yeah, yeah, I know

2412
01:48:59,040 --> 01:48:59,479
Speaker 5: that's right.

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01:48:59,560 --> 01:48:59,880
Speaker 2: Baby.

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01:49:01,280 --> 01:49:05,240
Speaker 5: I find I got it, I feel it, I feel yeah, I.

2415
01:49:05,400 --> 01:49:09,120
Speaker 2: Find y'all hilarious and y'all and think y'all keep it real,

2416
01:49:09,240 --> 01:49:11,920
Speaker 2: so I find myself tuning in often. What is your

2417
01:49:12,000 --> 01:49:14,439
Speaker 2: opinion on a boring relationship? I've been with my girl

2418
01:49:14,520 --> 01:49:17,400
Speaker 2: for about sixty years. We have two beautiful children, but

2419
01:49:17,479 --> 01:49:20,479
Speaker 2: the relationship and sex is super dry. I'm twenty five

2420
01:49:20,600 --> 01:49:22,880
Speaker 2: years young into my career and do very well for

2421
01:49:23,000 --> 01:49:25,639
Speaker 2: myself and family. A lot of the reason I haven't

2422
01:49:25,720 --> 01:49:28,120
Speaker 2: left is because I think kids should have both parents

2423
01:49:28,520 --> 01:49:30,920
Speaker 2: if possible. But at the same time, I see my

2424
01:49:31,040 --> 01:49:33,639
Speaker 2: single friends around me having a blast in their twenties,

2425
01:49:33,880 --> 01:49:37,240
Speaker 2: and I'm over here begging for some head. Just for context.

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01:49:37,360 --> 01:49:40,479
Speaker 2: Her excuse is usually being tired. Yet I do pretty

2427
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:43,439
Speaker 2: much everything, including the work. I don't want to throw

2428
01:49:43,479 --> 01:49:46,120
Speaker 2: the relationship away because of a dry spot, but I

2429
01:49:46,240 --> 01:49:49,200
Speaker 2: also don't want to cheat and make things ten times worse.

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01:49:49,600 --> 01:49:52,400
Speaker 5: What y'all think I should do? Before you answer that, no,

2431
01:49:52,520 --> 01:49:52,840
Speaker 5: you can go.

2432
01:49:53,080 --> 01:49:58,880
Speaker 6: I said this so men have to be emotionally intelligent, right,

2433
01:50:00,240 --> 01:50:06,120
Speaker 6: we are physical creatures. Women like stop giving me bond

2434
01:50:06,200 --> 01:50:09,559
Speaker 6: it every day. I don't even worry about it giving

2435
01:50:09,640 --> 01:50:11,280
Speaker 6: me bond it every day.

2436
01:50:12,880 --> 01:50:14,000
Speaker 1: That the bon it bothers you.

2437
01:50:14,280 --> 01:50:16,679
Speaker 5: Nah, I'm cool. With it something. But I'm a physical man,

2438
01:50:16,880 --> 01:50:17,840
Speaker 5: right so when it's time to.

2439
01:50:20,080 --> 01:50:22,120
Speaker 6: Even sometimes like when I come home, he said, he

2440
01:50:22,160 --> 01:50:23,679
Speaker 6: out here getting it when I come home, I don't

2441
01:50:23,680 --> 01:50:25,320
Speaker 6: want to see bond it. I won't come home and

2442
01:50:25,360 --> 01:50:28,280
Speaker 6: see yes, that ass fat. That's why I'm here. You

2443
01:50:28,360 --> 01:50:30,800
Speaker 6: feel me like, yup make up on it. Don't got

2444
01:50:30,880 --> 01:50:33,519
Speaker 6: to be every day, but make me your I feel

2445
01:50:33,600 --> 01:50:35,680
Speaker 6: like a woman's job is not to not make me

2446
01:50:35,800 --> 01:50:38,280
Speaker 6: look at another woman, but her job is to make

2447
01:50:38,320 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 6: me never want to worry about going with them other

2448
01:50:40,240 --> 01:50:42,080
Speaker 6: women because I got everything I need right here.

2449
01:50:42,400 --> 01:50:46,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Right so I think, are you bored? Okay, you

2450
01:50:46,280 --> 01:50:47,160
Speaker 1: want to be to a red hair?

2451
01:50:47,280 --> 01:50:49,080
Speaker 5: Let me go get a weed that.

2452
01:50:49,200 --> 01:50:52,080
Speaker 2: But he's not turning her own either. It's a two waistress.

2453
01:50:52,600 --> 01:50:54,479
Speaker 2: It's a communication coming there.

2454
01:50:54,520 --> 01:50:58,120
Speaker 5: That is a communication. Your excuse can't be I'm tired

2455
01:50:58,479 --> 01:50:59,120
Speaker 5: right now.

2456
01:50:59,240 --> 01:51:01,120
Speaker 1: I will say, like when I have a man that

2457
01:51:01,200 --> 01:51:03,559
Speaker 1: I'm super into, you don't even have to ask.

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01:51:04,120 --> 01:51:04,880
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

2459
01:51:05,760 --> 01:51:07,040
Speaker 1: No, But he walking through.

2460
01:51:09,960 --> 01:51:14,640
Speaker 5: All the time a conversation because I literally these are conversations.

2461
01:51:14,120 --> 01:51:16,519
Speaker 2: I'll be having with It's the truth, honestly, Like when

2462
01:51:16,560 --> 01:51:19,400
Speaker 2: you walk like if I really like a man, I'm

2463
01:51:19,439 --> 01:51:20,920
Speaker 2: not about to have about like I want him to

2464
01:51:20,960 --> 01:51:22,559
Speaker 2: walk the door and send me and be like God damn,

2465
01:51:22,600 --> 01:51:24,920
Speaker 2: because as a woman, what do we love the most?

2466
01:51:25,200 --> 01:51:28,840
Speaker 2: We know that we love on Instagram, but we get

2467
01:51:28,920 --> 01:51:33,760
Speaker 2: complimented by thousands of men. But it don't matter that

2468
01:51:33,880 --> 01:51:37,320
Speaker 2: I want to So guess what. Yeah, I turned this

2469
01:51:37,360 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 2: ship off for Instagram, but imagine what I look like

2470
01:51:39,200 --> 01:51:42,320
Speaker 2: in real life. I turned on Instagram, But imagine what

2471
01:51:42,400 --> 01:51:44,240
Speaker 2: I look like to my nigga behind closed doors? Y'all

2472
01:51:44,240 --> 01:51:46,879
Speaker 2: think this was something So I get that you're supposed

2473
01:51:46,920 --> 01:51:49,880
Speaker 2: to be that. I'm gonna be that for my man,

2474
01:51:50,600 --> 01:51:54,360
Speaker 2: So that does that makes sense. But like I said,

2475
01:51:54,920 --> 01:51:57,640
Speaker 2: maybe it's something that he's doing that's missing for her

2476
01:51:57,840 --> 01:52:00,439
Speaker 2: as well. Communication because if you're at home, you just

2477
01:52:00,479 --> 01:52:01,960
Speaker 2: your nigga walk in and you got a bonding on.

2478
01:52:03,160 --> 01:52:03,840
Speaker 5: You don't save him.

2479
01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:06,080
Speaker 1: Got a bed for he got a bed for his

2480
01:52:06,240 --> 01:52:09,200
Speaker 1: which is WHI all right?

2481
01:52:09,320 --> 01:52:14,320
Speaker 5: Pipe pipe, just a little bit dress.

2482
01:52:14,400 --> 01:52:19,360
Speaker 6: I was like you they.

2483
01:52:21,200 --> 01:52:21,599
Speaker 5: She did.

2484
01:52:21,960 --> 01:52:24,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna bring that up every time and

2485
01:52:24,479 --> 01:52:25,400
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck me.

2486
01:52:25,600 --> 01:52:28,120
Speaker 2: That's an Ecco ladies one. It's on the same level

2487
01:52:28,160 --> 01:52:29,320
Speaker 2: ass my bachelor's degree.

2488
01:52:29,520 --> 01:52:30,680
Speaker 1: Honestly, think about it.

2489
01:52:30,880 --> 01:52:34,240
Speaker 2: You need a gran see a degree, an oscar, a

2490
01:52:34,360 --> 01:52:37,960
Speaker 2: dick sucking contest. It's all us the same level, all

2491
01:52:38,040 --> 01:52:41,120
Speaker 2: the time, all right, So question for go ahead, dream,

2492
01:52:41,880 --> 01:52:43,840
Speaker 2: what is what you should do. What he should do

2493
01:52:43,920 --> 01:52:47,240
Speaker 2: is talk to his woman. We needn't say, you know, honestly,

2494
01:52:47,240 --> 01:52:48,920
Speaker 2: he should have a conversation with her so they can

2495
01:52:49,000 --> 01:52:50,360
Speaker 2: honestly get on the same page.

2496
01:52:50,400 --> 01:52:52,200
Speaker 1: Like you said, it comes to emotional intelligence.

2497
01:52:52,360 --> 01:52:55,360
Speaker 2: When the physical isn't working, it's because there's something else

2498
01:52:55,479 --> 01:52:58,200
Speaker 2: going on, something is missing. So before you try to

2499
01:52:58,240 --> 01:53:00,120
Speaker 2: go out there and cheat, you need to have a

2500
01:53:00,160 --> 01:53:02,920
Speaker 2: conversation with her. And honestly, y'all are young. The things

2501
01:53:02,960 --> 01:53:06,920
Speaker 2: I was into sexually at eighteen, nineteen twenty are not

2502
01:53:07,000 --> 01:53:09,400
Speaker 2: the things I'm into now. So honestly, you're twenty five,

2503
01:53:09,439 --> 01:53:12,320
Speaker 2: you're probably going through that transition where different things are

2504
01:53:12,360 --> 01:53:14,560
Speaker 2: turning you on. And can I say this, Oh, I know,

2505
01:53:14,840 --> 01:53:17,280
Speaker 2: I sometimes I really try away from saying things on

2506
01:53:17,360 --> 01:53:19,599
Speaker 2: the show, But you know, when I had that conversation

2507
01:53:19,720 --> 01:53:22,280
Speaker 2: with Shade, she told me, like, I really need to

2508
01:53:22,320 --> 01:53:24,160
Speaker 2: start saying a lot of the things that I think

2509
01:53:24,280 --> 01:53:26,840
Speaker 2: more and not being so skeptical about saying it, even

2510
01:53:26,880 --> 01:53:29,200
Speaker 2: if people don't agree with it. I think that a

2511
01:53:29,240 --> 01:53:31,599
Speaker 2: lot of people need to shy away from like, oh,

2512
01:53:31,680 --> 01:53:34,920
Speaker 2: I have kids with this person, so I have to

2513
01:53:35,040 --> 01:53:35,599
Speaker 2: make it worse.

2514
01:53:35,920 --> 01:53:37,800
Speaker 5: I agree happy it is.

2515
01:53:38,760 --> 01:53:41,519
Speaker 2: And I don't really like to speak on children because

2516
01:53:41,520 --> 01:53:43,680
Speaker 2: I don't have any eggs, So I don't really like

2517
01:53:43,760 --> 01:53:46,240
Speaker 2: to speak on those type of situations because I don't

2518
01:53:46,240 --> 01:53:48,400
Speaker 2: know what it's like to be in at But I

2519
01:53:48,600 --> 01:53:51,519
Speaker 2: just feel like people really need to stop wanting to

2520
01:53:51,720 --> 01:53:54,280
Speaker 2: work things out with a person because of a kid,

2521
01:53:54,360 --> 01:53:56,760
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, being happy is

2522
01:53:57,400 --> 01:54:01,960
Speaker 2: in my opinion, being happy is what ray great children, right,

2523
01:54:02,880 --> 01:54:09,439
Speaker 2: both parents being happy, that's what creates great adults, great children.

2524
01:54:10,160 --> 01:54:13,040
Speaker 2: If you're not happy in the situation, why are you

2525
01:54:13,120 --> 01:54:15,640
Speaker 2: gonna stay in it for your children, because y'all are

2526
01:54:15,680 --> 01:54:17,880
Speaker 2: not even you're you're thinking, oh, giving them a two

2527
01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:21,560
Speaker 2: parent household, y'all making it work, right, giving them a

2528
01:54:21,600 --> 01:54:22,519
Speaker 2: two parent household.

2529
01:54:22,560 --> 01:54:25,640
Speaker 1: That's what children deserve, that's what they need. Okay, I mean,

2530
01:54:25,720 --> 01:54:28,680
Speaker 1: I guess, but them to stick it out when they're not.

2531
01:54:30,080 --> 01:54:32,120
Speaker 2: It's like, if you're not happy, you're not happy, and

2532
01:54:32,160 --> 01:54:35,200
Speaker 2: it's being single or maybe dating, and then you end

2533
01:54:35,280 --> 01:54:37,040
Speaker 2: up finding someone else, and you end up being in

2534
01:54:37,120 --> 01:54:38,880
Speaker 2: a relationship with someone else, and they have to go

2535
01:54:39,040 --> 01:54:41,800
Speaker 2: back and forth between two households. But if you're happy

2536
01:54:42,600 --> 01:54:46,080
Speaker 2: and your your ex is happy too, y'all both are

2537
01:54:46,120 --> 01:54:47,560
Speaker 2: in happy situations, then.

2538
01:54:47,920 --> 01:54:50,280
Speaker 1: Your child is gonna be happy. Agreed.

2539
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:51,400
Speaker 5: I just don't.

2540
01:54:51,440 --> 01:54:53,920
Speaker 1: I don't feel like staying together when shit is rough

2541
01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:59,720
Speaker 1: is a good idea. I agree, so yeah, but I

2542
01:54:59,800 --> 01:55:00,800
Speaker 1: know gonna get a lot of bad.

2543
01:55:02,040 --> 01:55:03,280
Speaker 5: I agree with that, dude.

2544
01:55:03,400 --> 01:55:06,400
Speaker 6: In certain situations, sometimes you're just going through a rough patch.

2545
01:55:07,120 --> 01:55:11,200
Speaker 6: But sometimes it's just it's okay to grow apart, and

2546
01:55:11,280 --> 01:55:12,000
Speaker 6: it don't have to be.

2547
01:55:12,080 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 2: Beef Like, just like we grow apart from friends, you

2548
01:55:14,520 --> 01:55:17,200
Speaker 2: can grow apart from your lovers. And I only said

2549
01:55:17,280 --> 01:55:20,200
Speaker 2: that because a lot of the time, I've realized whenever

2550
01:55:20,280 --> 01:55:22,960
Speaker 2: we get these you know, questions that y'all stand in,

2551
01:55:23,360 --> 01:55:25,840
Speaker 2: so many of y'all say all this, and this is

2552
01:55:25,880 --> 01:55:27,120
Speaker 2: what's going on in the relationship.

2553
01:55:27,160 --> 01:55:29,560
Speaker 1: But we have kids, it's just.

2554
01:55:29,640 --> 01:55:34,560
Speaker 2: Kind of like, okay, but you don't sound happy, and

2555
01:55:34,680 --> 01:55:36,880
Speaker 2: that's what's more important, you know.

2556
01:55:37,040 --> 01:55:39,200
Speaker 1: Than anything. If you being happy, you can't be a

2557
01:55:39,240 --> 01:55:41,360
Speaker 1: good parent. You can't be a good parent.

2558
01:55:41,520 --> 01:55:45,720
Speaker 5: You know, kids different when you're happy, right period?

2559
01:55:45,920 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, question for hey y'all. I'm an up

2560
01:55:50,440 --> 01:55:53,400
Speaker 2: and coming makeup artist. I just started a few months ago.

2561
01:55:53,480 --> 01:55:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting better, but I'm still not to baseiate and

2562
01:55:55,920 --> 01:55:58,240
Speaker 2: I have a lot to learn. I take makeup very

2563
01:55:58,280 --> 01:56:00,880
Speaker 2: seriously and all of my friends know is most of

2564
01:56:00,960 --> 01:56:02,920
Speaker 2: my friends support me, But I don't know how to

2565
01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:05,560
Speaker 2: feel about my one about one of my friends who

2566
01:56:05,640 --> 01:56:08,680
Speaker 2: was actually closer to being my best friend. She rarely

2567
01:56:08,760 --> 01:56:11,920
Speaker 2: reposts my content on Instagram. I never asked, but I

2568
01:56:12,000 --> 01:56:13,920
Speaker 2: feel like, as a friend, you should just do it

2569
01:56:14,040 --> 01:56:17,240
Speaker 2: without asking. She does try to encourage me by saying

2570
01:56:17,320 --> 01:56:20,880
Speaker 2: my situation of growing clientele and growing as a makeup

2571
01:56:21,000 --> 01:56:24,320
Speaker 2: artist will get better, though she recently just became a

2572
01:56:24,400 --> 01:56:27,320
Speaker 2: brand ambassador for another makeup artist in our city, who

2573
01:56:27,400 --> 01:56:28,640
Speaker 2: she's been mentioning.

2574
01:56:28,600 --> 01:56:29,680
Speaker 1: She would love to work with.

2575
01:56:30,400 --> 01:56:32,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should feel some type of

2576
01:56:32,680 --> 01:56:35,440
Speaker 2: way about it or not because I just started.

2577
01:56:35,160 --> 01:56:37,040
Speaker 1: A few months back. What do y'all think.

2578
01:56:38,880 --> 01:56:41,080
Speaker 2: I'll go for east in any situation? Because I just

2579
01:56:41,160 --> 01:56:44,800
Speaker 2: feel like, y'all gotta stop feeling like your friends gotta

2580
01:56:44,800 --> 01:56:46,000
Speaker 2: support everything you do.

2581
01:56:46,640 --> 01:56:47,800
Speaker 5: I agree with that, Like.

2582
01:56:47,880 --> 01:56:49,640
Speaker 2: Your friends don't got to support you at the end

2583
01:56:49,680 --> 01:56:52,040
Speaker 2: of the day, when God gives you a vision for something,

2584
01:56:52,120 --> 01:56:54,200
Speaker 2: or if he gives you a talent, he gave about

2585
01:56:54,200 --> 01:56:58,000
Speaker 2: it and he gave it to you. And unfortunately the

2586
01:56:58,160 --> 01:57:02,640
Speaker 2: reality is of things in life period, when it comes

2587
01:57:02,680 --> 01:57:04,440
Speaker 2: to anybody, it don't matter if you show friend and

2588
01:57:04,520 --> 01:57:09,840
Speaker 2: I people support you. When everybody will support you, people

2589
01:57:09,880 --> 01:57:11,720
Speaker 2: think it's a good idea once everybody else think it's

2590
01:57:11,760 --> 01:57:12,240
Speaker 2: a good idea.

2591
01:57:12,560 --> 01:57:14,800
Speaker 1: Like I literally have people around me right.

2592
01:57:14,800 --> 01:57:17,960
Speaker 2: Now that are my friends who did not support poor

2593
01:57:18,040 --> 01:57:21,160
Speaker 2: minds when they first started off. But now anytime I

2594
01:57:21,240 --> 01:57:25,040
Speaker 2: post anything, anytime me and Lex accomplish anything, they're always

2595
01:57:25,280 --> 01:57:25,960
Speaker 2: in the comments.

2596
01:57:26,000 --> 01:57:28,760
Speaker 1: They're always like, oh yeah, congratulations, whatever whatever.

2597
01:57:29,080 --> 01:57:32,920
Speaker 2: But I don't hold that against them because sometimes people

2598
01:57:33,040 --> 01:57:33,880
Speaker 2: don't really see.

2599
01:57:33,920 --> 01:57:36,880
Speaker 1: Your vision until it right.

2600
01:57:37,440 --> 01:57:39,960
Speaker 2: And not only that, you can't hold that against your friends,

2601
01:57:40,000 --> 01:57:42,280
Speaker 2: but it's like to me, it's more so like, okay,

2602
01:57:42,400 --> 01:57:44,000
Speaker 2: now one type become.

2603
01:57:43,800 --> 01:57:47,000
Speaker 1: Successful, are you still being that way? Then it's given hater.

2604
01:57:47,480 --> 01:57:50,320
Speaker 2: But not only that, it's like you you said you

2605
01:57:50,440 --> 01:57:52,600
Speaker 2: just started. Maybe she just genuinely doesn't like how you

2606
01:57:52,680 --> 01:57:55,040
Speaker 2: do makeup. Maybe you're not that good time. When I

2607
01:57:55,160 --> 01:57:57,960
Speaker 2: started the podcast, I knew like some people this genuine

2608
01:57:58,000 --> 01:58:01,160
Speaker 2: they just didn't like And that's okay.

2609
01:58:01,400 --> 01:58:03,920
Speaker 1: Just because my friend doesn't mean you have to like

2610
01:58:04,000 --> 01:58:05,920
Speaker 1: it because it's me, you know what I'm saying.

2611
01:58:05,920 --> 01:58:08,720
Speaker 2: As long as you're not being a hater and you

2612
01:58:08,840 --> 01:58:11,600
Speaker 2: know you're not doing anything to block my blessings, I don't.

2613
01:58:11,880 --> 01:58:14,400
Speaker 2: I don't care because there's enough people that are supporting

2614
01:58:14,480 --> 01:58:16,960
Speaker 2: me and like it. So it's just like it's business,

2615
01:58:17,320 --> 01:58:18,520
Speaker 2: and I think that's what a lot of people need

2616
01:58:18,600 --> 01:58:19,920
Speaker 2: to realize, Like it's business.

2617
01:58:20,320 --> 01:58:24,440
Speaker 1: Friendship and business separated. Yeah, y'all gotta stop taking shit personal.

2618
01:58:24,560 --> 01:58:27,600
Speaker 2: If I took things personal about my friends not supporting

2619
01:58:27,680 --> 01:58:32,160
Speaker 2: me when it comes to the podcast, I wouldn't have

2620
01:58:32,240 --> 01:58:32,800
Speaker 2: no friends.

2621
01:58:33,240 --> 01:58:34,720
Speaker 1: How many people laughed at you and he was like

2622
01:58:34,800 --> 01:58:36,400
Speaker 1: talking about Crypto.

2623
01:58:36,520 --> 01:58:38,680
Speaker 6: Didn't get it, and they didn't get it. They didn't

2624
01:58:38,720 --> 01:58:42,120
Speaker 6: get it. But for me, I just look at it

2625
01:58:42,200 --> 01:58:44,720
Speaker 6: as the seven billion people in the world. I'm not

2626
01:58:44,760 --> 01:58:46,760
Speaker 6: gonna get rich off my friends, right.

2627
01:58:47,080 --> 01:58:52,560
Speaker 2: Facts, the three of y'all ain't not for three a

2628
01:58:52,600 --> 01:58:55,640
Speaker 2: lot of friends like the few of y'all.

2629
01:58:55,800 --> 01:58:58,000
Speaker 1: Y'all can y'all at.

2630
01:58:59,760 --> 01:59:01,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, gotta find your tribe of people.

2631
01:59:02,280 --> 01:59:04,080
Speaker 6: I don't feel no kind of way if some of

2632
01:59:04,160 --> 01:59:06,040
Speaker 6: my homies I'll be posting stuff they don't post that

2633
01:59:06,120 --> 01:59:10,720
Speaker 6: ship on that. When I see something that's smoked they posted,

2634
01:59:10,760 --> 01:59:13,200
Speaker 6: I'm like, yep, he felt that. So you got to

2635
01:59:13,240 --> 01:59:16,040
Speaker 6: give people the freedom to support you how they want.

2636
01:59:15,880 --> 01:59:17,320
Speaker 1: To support I agree.

2637
01:59:17,400 --> 01:59:19,960
Speaker 2: You have to definitely give people the freedom to support

2638
01:59:20,000 --> 01:59:21,720
Speaker 2: you how they want to support you, because.

2639
01:59:21,480 --> 01:59:22,240
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

2640
01:59:22,560 --> 01:59:24,720
Speaker 2: Even when it comes to me with my friendships. It's

2641
01:59:24,760 --> 01:59:27,560
Speaker 2: certain stuff that my friends have tried to do or started,

2642
01:59:27,640 --> 01:59:30,080
Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna lie. I didn't always post it

2643
01:59:31,000 --> 01:59:32,920
Speaker 2: or repost it, you know what I mean. But it's

2644
01:59:32,960 --> 01:59:35,680
Speaker 2: not because but I love you as my friend and

2645
01:59:35,760 --> 01:59:38,160
Speaker 2: it doesn't take away from that. I just feel like

2646
01:59:38,240 --> 01:59:42,400
Speaker 2: it's an innate human feeling to like a lot of

2647
01:59:42,480 --> 01:59:45,600
Speaker 2: the time people just don't believe in shit until everybody

2648
01:59:45,680 --> 01:59:49,960
Speaker 2: else start. But like now we have like a platform now,

2649
01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:51,640
Speaker 2: so I know a lot of times my friends looking

2650
01:59:51,640 --> 01:59:53,840
Speaker 2: at me like, oh, Lex needs to repost this because

2651
01:59:53,840 --> 01:59:54,800
Speaker 2: she has a momoing.

2652
01:59:55,080 --> 01:59:57,080
Speaker 1: But it's like, if y'all should not good yet, I'm

2653
01:59:57,120 --> 01:59:59,720
Speaker 1: not posting it. It's not up to part it.

2654
02:00:00,040 --> 02:00:01,840
Speaker 2: It's not that I don't love you or don't fuck

2655
02:00:01,840 --> 02:00:04,160
Speaker 2: with you, it's just, you know, I'm not supporting that.

2656
02:00:04,200 --> 02:00:06,120
Speaker 2: I had some friends who would never talk about poor minds,

2657
02:00:06,160 --> 02:00:07,640
Speaker 2: but it wasn't up to part. Yet you go to

2658
02:00:07,720 --> 02:00:10,640
Speaker 2: listen to audio, fucked up the camera, crooked this and that.

2659
02:00:11,000 --> 02:00:12,760
Speaker 2: But now they don't mind reposting it because they know,

2660
02:00:12,920 --> 02:00:15,000
Speaker 2: oh shit, such and such put me in this on

2661
02:00:15,080 --> 02:00:17,240
Speaker 2: on this podcast and it's good. Like I would never

2662
02:00:17,320 --> 02:00:19,200
Speaker 2: want somebody say, oh, Lex told me to go to

2663
02:00:19,280 --> 02:00:21,600
Speaker 2: her because she do hair and she fucked my head.

2664
02:00:21,680 --> 02:00:23,600
Speaker 2: I mean, and I've said this before on the show too.

2665
02:00:24,120 --> 02:00:27,640
Speaker 2: As crazy as it may sound with us being podcasters,

2666
02:00:28,200 --> 02:00:33,800
Speaker 2: I don't listen to podcasts ever. Ever, I listen to

2667
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:36,640
Speaker 2: nobody's podcasts. That's just not something I want to do

2668
02:00:36,720 --> 02:00:40,360
Speaker 2: with my free time. So if one of my friends

2669
02:00:40,480 --> 02:00:42,840
Speaker 2: or somebody that's close to me has a podcast, I

2670
02:00:42,960 --> 02:00:44,720
Speaker 2: might not be reposting it all the time.

2671
02:00:45,040 --> 02:00:48,280
Speaker 1: But that's because I don't listen to the shit. And

2672
02:00:48,400 --> 02:00:50,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean I don't believe in what you.

2673
02:00:50,160 --> 02:00:53,520
Speaker 2: Got going on, but don't take it personally. Yeah, don't,

2674
02:00:53,640 --> 02:00:55,840
Speaker 2: just don't take it personally. That's what That's what I

2675
02:00:55,880 --> 02:00:57,760
Speaker 2: think the three of us are trying to say, look y'all,

2676
02:00:57,800 --> 02:01:00,560
Speaker 2: we don't this has been a long We have another

2677
02:01:00,640 --> 02:01:02,280
Speaker 2: two hour episode in a really.

2678
02:01:02,080 --> 02:01:03,560
Speaker 5: Long time episode.

2679
02:01:03,680 --> 02:01:07,040
Speaker 1: It was it was just a talking and a talking song.

2680
02:01:07,160 --> 02:01:12,440
Speaker 2: Now we like we doing out, little friends. So let

2681
02:01:12,520 --> 02:01:14,800
Speaker 2: the people know where they can find you at. Do

2682
02:01:14,920 --> 02:01:17,600
Speaker 2: you offer like one on one classes like everything.

2683
02:01:17,280 --> 02:01:21,000
Speaker 6: That you got going on Instagram, Wall under School, Street

2684
02:01:21,120 --> 02:01:24,280
Speaker 6: underscool Trapper, YouTube, Wall Street Trapper. And we got a

2685
02:01:24,320 --> 02:01:26,600
Speaker 6: whole bunch of classes and courses that we do nothing

2686
02:01:26,680 --> 02:01:29,520
Speaker 6: one on one do that's not the best.

2687
02:01:29,640 --> 02:01:32,800
Speaker 5: He said, thing for my time.

2688
02:01:32,960 --> 02:01:35,720
Speaker 6: Right, Okay, so but we got I got mentorships groups

2689
02:01:36,200 --> 02:01:38,600
Speaker 6: on any level you on and investing.

2690
02:01:38,840 --> 02:01:39,400
Speaker 5: We cover that.

2691
02:01:39,520 --> 02:01:42,400
Speaker 6: I do live classes all the time for free, through

2692
02:01:42,520 --> 02:01:44,760
Speaker 6: lives all the time for free. So just come come

2693
02:01:44,800 --> 02:01:45,960
Speaker 6: in to trap, come trap with me.

2694
02:01:46,240 --> 02:01:47,160
Speaker 5: I know that's right.

2695
02:01:47,360 --> 02:01:50,560
Speaker 1: And like I said, girls, don't be slipping in his

2696
02:01:50,680 --> 02:01:51,760
Speaker 1: DMS on a part of us.

2697
02:01:52,400 --> 02:01:53,000
Speaker 5: Just live.

2698
02:01:53,600 --> 02:01:58,880
Speaker 1: Just keep the way, keep me cute, ladies.

2699
02:01:58,960 --> 02:02:01,040
Speaker 2: Now we're gonna we're gonna take it to Louisiana for

2700
02:02:01,160 --> 02:02:04,160
Speaker 2: you today with the song you ready, Little Dred because

2701
02:02:04,160 --> 02:02:04,839
Speaker 2: I know you're about.

2702
02:02:04,680 --> 02:02:05,040
Speaker 5: To kill it.

2703
02:02:05,880 --> 02:02:08,040
Speaker 2: See this is the thing when we rap on this show,

2704
02:02:08,240 --> 02:02:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't y'all know, I don't listen to rap like that.

2705
02:02:10,880 --> 02:02:13,280
Speaker 2: The last like hip hop song I learned was hip.

2706
02:02:13,240 --> 02:02:20,160
Speaker 5: Hop hibbit I'm Old. The booget to the Bookie to

2707
02:02:21,440 --> 02:02:25,480
Speaker 5: that was I'm old? Now what you here that?

2708
02:02:26,600 --> 02:02:29,560
Speaker 1: That was the last rap song I learned. Job So

2709
02:02:29,640 --> 02:02:32,200
Speaker 1: when it comes to the Drea is definitely the rapper

2710
02:02:32,480 --> 02:02:34,840
Speaker 1: of the girl. You know, I say this all the time.

2711
02:02:35,000 --> 02:02:38,280
Speaker 1: I was very much a trap niggers in my old life.

2712
02:02:39,880 --> 02:02:42,720
Speaker 2: Believe I don't want to be wanting to get too deep,

2713
02:02:42,800 --> 02:02:46,200
Speaker 2: but I do believe that like we might have been reincarnated.

2714
02:02:48,120 --> 02:02:50,280
Speaker 2: I feel like in my in my past life, I

2715
02:02:50,400 --> 02:02:53,120
Speaker 2: was a trap nick But there's no way that I

2716
02:02:53,280 --> 02:02:55,200
Speaker 2: just be feeling this sheet the way I feel it,

2717
02:02:56,280 --> 02:02:57,000
Speaker 2: not live it.

2718
02:02:57,240 --> 02:02:57,400
Speaker 5: You know.

2719
02:02:57,920 --> 02:03:00,520
Speaker 1: Let's get into it, though, So are you gonna started off?

2720
02:03:00,560 --> 02:03:01,960
Speaker 1: You gotta do the all libs? Do you even know

2721
02:03:02,040 --> 02:03:02,440
Speaker 1: how to do it?

2722
02:03:03,440 --> 02:03:06,000
Speaker 5: I got you, he got you. I'm gonna help when

2723
02:03:06,040 --> 02:03:06,520
Speaker 5: I see fit.

2724
02:03:07,320 --> 02:03:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the first first. Let's go, Okay, you

2725
02:03:11,000 --> 02:03:14,720
Speaker 1: gotta do the ad lit legs? Are you gonna do

2726
02:03:14,760 --> 02:03:15,960
Speaker 1: a beat like you normally do?

2727
02:03:23,160 --> 02:03:32,360
Speaker 5: I was like I was on you know the town.

2728
02:03:33,120 --> 02:03:35,440
Speaker 5: You know, I thought that was a real song. I

2729
02:03:35,520 --> 02:03:38,640
Speaker 5: was like, what thing you thought it was? Looking? I

2730
02:03:38,720 --> 02:03:41,600
Speaker 5: went to looking for given doctor dray Peel, I was

2731
02:03:41,680 --> 02:03:42,240
Speaker 5: looking for it.

2732
02:03:43,040 --> 02:03:51,200
Speaker 1: Leg Oh my, let's go. They ready where you gotta start?

2733
02:03:51,200 --> 02:03:52,680
Speaker 1: You gotta start so that I can do the beat,

2734
02:03:52,680 --> 02:03:54,760
Speaker 1: because I don't because every time I want to start rapping.

2735
02:03:55,000 --> 02:03:58,160
Speaker 1: Starting was supposed to do the ad libs. The beginning.

2736
02:03:58,360 --> 02:04:00,640
Speaker 5: I thought you was gonna start up, all right, if.

2737
02:04:06,880 --> 02:04:15,400
Speaker 10: That's right, we helped them, come on, come on, so

2738
02:04:15,600 --> 02:04:18,080
Speaker 10: just start up's gonna start.

2739
02:04:20,000 --> 02:04:23,360
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody fucking with me? Men he men, ski mass

2740
02:04:23,480 --> 02:04:26,800
Speaker 2: spending next week's cash mass. And I don't even need

2741
02:04:26,840 --> 02:04:27,480
Speaker 2: a g pass.

2742
02:04:27,560 --> 02:04:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm passed that. I'm passing them out now.

2743
02:04:29,920 --> 02:04:32,480
Speaker 2: And you can't have you and my chains who can't

2744
02:04:32,520 --> 02:04:34,800
Speaker 2: stand tropical colors, You can't match.

2745
02:04:35,400 --> 02:04:38,320
Speaker 1: Gotta be a you have my girl legs open but

2746
02:04:38,560 --> 02:04:39,160
Speaker 1: smashed up.

2747
02:04:39,440 --> 02:04:42,240
Speaker 2: Don't be surprised when she asks what a cash I

2748
02:04:42,320 --> 02:04:44,520
Speaker 2: see she's wearing them jeans. They showing her butt crazy.

2749
02:04:44,640 --> 02:04:47,040
Speaker 2: My girls don't wear that. Why that's when my sash,

2750
02:04:47,440 --> 02:04:48,480
Speaker 2: I put my map down.

2751
02:04:48,800 --> 02:04:51,520
Speaker 1: That's where you lack it. She need a candle and

2752
02:04:51,640 --> 02:04:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm a wake y, I'm a kidd of the flame.

2753
02:04:54,160 --> 02:04:57,480
Speaker 1: She remembered the name. It's Weizy Baby. January December. The

2754
02:04:57,560 --> 02:04:59,120
Speaker 1: scene Mama, give me their brow.

2755
02:04:59,440 --> 02:05:02,120
Speaker 9: Mama, give me that good because I'm the five You

2756
02:05:02,280 --> 02:05:10,360
Speaker 9: hit a five man man, that's gonna.

2757
02:05:10,120 --> 02:05:10,920
Speaker 4: Put you out.

2758
02:05:15,840 --> 02:05:19,520
Speaker 1: Your getting very much in the world.

2759
02:05:21,680 --> 02:05:24,760
Speaker 2: He said, yeah, Well, let me thank you for coming

2760
02:05:24,880 --> 02:05:27,920
Speaker 2: through because this was a very different episode. But I

2761
02:05:28,320 --> 02:05:31,560
Speaker 2: really really enjoyed it. So make sure you come back

2762
02:05:31,600 --> 02:05:36,320
Speaker 2: and all right, y'all, we'll see y'all next week.

2763
02:05:40,360 --> 02:05:43,680
Speaker 1: I know that's really be rappy and that's crazy.

2764
02:05:44,120 --> 02:05:45,520
Speaker 5: We wait for the Detroit one.

2765
02:05:49,840 --> 02:05:55,000
Speaker 1: Slack I said, episode I was a little Wayne