1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, this letter requires a disclaimer 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: because it's some adult material in here, so if you 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: have young kids listening, you may not want them to 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: hear this part. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. All right, we 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, and 9 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: you never know it could be yours, so please write 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: us you never know. Buckle up and hold on type 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: We got it four you here it is Strawberry Letter. 12 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject He's about to mess around and 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: find out. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty four year 14 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: old married woman and I work with a lot of 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: fine men. I've tried to stay out of the office 16 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: mess because everyone is sleeping around, and I'm an administrator 17 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: at the hospital, so i could lose my job. But 18 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: there's a young cutie pie that in my face every 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 1: day asking to play. He used to walk up on 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: me and put sweet kisses on my neck, grab my 21 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: hands when he talked to me. And he even left 22 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: sweet notes on my computer. These are things my husband 23 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: has never done. My husband and I have a very 24 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: good sex life, but this young man, this young un 25 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: made me feel hot and tingly inside. I talked to 26 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: my thirty two year old sister about the guy, and 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: she told me he has a reputation for being blessed 28 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: below and very talented in the bedroom. He and my 29 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: sister went to school together, and she warned me to 30 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: stay away from him, and I tried to, but he 31 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: came into my office the other day and pressed it 32 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: all up on me while hugging me tightly. I couldn't 33 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: help but gasp, and then I asked him to let 34 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: me see it. He had no problem showing it to me. 35 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: So there we were all alone in my office. I 36 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: did what needed to be done, and let's just say 37 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: I had to reapply my lipstick when I was done. 38 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: I would not let him go all the way because 39 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: that would have been too much for me to handle 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: at work. It's been three days since the occurrence and 41 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: he has not been by my office and I have 42 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 1: only seen him once. Surely, this young and doesn't think 43 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: he played me. He's about to mess around and find 44 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: out who's running things around here. I can either start 45 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: to cut his hours like everyone else's, or I can 46 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: include him and all of the layoffs that are coming up. 47 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: Why did he change all of a sudden? Is he 48 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: mad that I didn't go all the way? Or was 49 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: this all that he wanted? Okay, this right here is 50 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: just wrong. Okay, I don't like this. I mean, you're 51 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: going to punish him for something you did. Yes, he 52 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: was wrong to pursue you like that, a married woman 53 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: and his superior on the job and all of that. 54 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: But you, ma'am, ma'am, you encouraged this young man, and 55 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: with today's climate, you really really should know better. You're 56 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: an administrator, you should know the rules. You should have 57 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: shut him down a long time ago, because who lets 58 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: their coworker I mean just blatantly kiss them on the 59 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: neck at work and hold their hands. And you know 60 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 1: your sister warned you about this guy, but you didn't listen, 61 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 1: And now you want to mess with his job for 62 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: something you willingly participate it in. Now this was consensual 63 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 1: and you know this. Now you're mad and want to 64 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: flex about who's boss and all that, because he hasn't 65 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: come around for three days. I just don't have more 66 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: to say than that you, my dear, are just wrong 67 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: on so many levels with this. Steve. Yeah, well this 68 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: is interesting. Oh ladies, I have them disturbing news for you, 69 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna try to save it for the second 70 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: half of this letter. But I'm just going to be 71 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: honest with you. I'm gonna just tell you what I 72 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: think is having it here, and I don't think it's 73 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: the way that you're looking at this thing to correct way. 74 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: Now you know you, You say you forty for a man, 75 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: and you work with a lot of fine men, and 76 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: everybody's sleeping around. But there's one young cute powers in 77 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: your office that asking every day, asking you to play. 78 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: He used to walk up on me and put sweet 79 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: kisses on my neck where y'all work you Wow wow? 80 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: And this counseled me me to culture. Can you walk 81 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:42,799 Speaker 1: up on a woman at work and pay sweet kisses 82 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: on a neck? Wow? Wow? Let me tell you where 83 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: it ain't It ain't understand you all the Morning show. 84 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: We can't do that at all. It ain't done a 85 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: family few. You might be ready for love, but you 86 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: ain't ready for love, not right now. Where is this going? 87 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: On grab my hands when he talked to me and 88 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: even left sweet notes on your computer. And these are 89 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: things my husband never done. Then here comes to lie. 90 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: My husband and I have a very good sex life. Okay, 91 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: so what you out here? So that's a lie. But 92 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: I got news for you. We're gonna use that. Me 93 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: and my husband let me where is it that I 94 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: just lost? Have a very good sex life? But this 95 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: younger made me feel hot and tinger? Now I talked 96 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: to my thirty two yr old sister about the guy. 97 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: She told me he got a reputation of being blessed 98 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: below and very talented in the bedroom. He and your 99 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 1: sister went to school together. Well, I got news for you. 100 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: Ain't the only place him and your sister being. Oh, 101 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: that ain't the only place him and your sister being. 102 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: She know too much talking about Did anybody tell you 103 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: he's got a reputation for being blessed below, very talented 104 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: in the bedroom. And then she warned me to stay 105 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: away from him. Now how she got all that damn information? 106 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: Jeff caught day went to school? They ain't just went 107 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: to school, They went to the hotel. Your sister didn't 108 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: been with him being here go here go to park 109 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: and get stupid. I tried to, but he came in 110 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: Marvels the other day and he pressed it all up 111 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: on me while hugging me kindly. I couldn't help for gas. 112 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: And right after that, and I'm gonna tell you what happened. 113 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: Why are you right? We'll have part two of seems 114 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: response coming up to today's Strawberry letter subject He's about 115 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: to mess around and find out. We'll have all that 116 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Right after this. 117 00:06:54,839 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen. The Awberry letter requires a disclaimer. 118 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: If you have young children in the car or at 119 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: home with you, you might not want them to hear this. 120 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 121 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: is He's about to mess around and find out. Forty 122 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: four year old married woman working with a lot of 123 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: fine men. This one cutie pipe in coming around to 124 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: her office, pressing up on me, and he always asking 125 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: her can they play? He used to walk up on 126 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: me and put sweet kisses on my Neckwe he only 127 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: one thing. Can't do that to your damn job? And 128 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: you the supervisor, right grab my hands when we talk 129 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: to me. Heaven left sweet notes on my computer. My 130 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: husband and I have a very good sex life. I 131 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: want you to remember that because I'm a question that 132 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: in a minute. My husband and I have a very 133 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: good sex life. But young and made me feel hot 134 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: and team talk to my thirty three year old sister. 135 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: She told me the guy had a reputation of being 136 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: blessed below. They're talent in the bedroom. He and my 137 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: sister went to school together, and she wanted me to 138 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: stay away from him. She got a lot of information 139 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: for somebody just went to school with somebody. You know why, 140 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: because they went to they went somewhere else, moved in school, 141 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: they went all the way, they went to the hotel, 142 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: they went to the back of the truck. But it 143 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: hadn't popped off because she know all of it and 144 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: told you to stay away from him. Then here she come. 145 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: I tried, well, damnit, you didn't try hard enough. But 146 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: he came into my office the other day and he 147 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: pressed it all up on me while hugging me tighten. 148 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: I couldn't help, but dad, and then I asked him 149 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: to let me see it. He had no problems showing 150 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: it to him. So there we were all alone in 151 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: my office. I did what needed to be done, and 152 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: let's just say I had to reapply my lips stick. 153 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: When I was done, I would not let him go 154 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: all the way because that would have been too much 155 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: for me to handle at worst. Oh well, that's mighty wife, 156 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: the huck near Higgo. It's been three days since the 157 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: occurrence and he has not been by my office and 158 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: I've only seen him once. Surely this young and don't 159 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: think he played? Okay, well what you want to call? Yeah, 160 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: surely this young and don't think he played. He about 161 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: to mess around and find out who running things around here? 162 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: Oh women, women, Oh now you want to be supervitius. 163 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: You aren't supervised when you was on your knee. That 164 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: ain't a very supervisory position right there. He wasn't supervised 165 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: when you was reapplying your lipstick. You wasn't supervisor when 166 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: you was gasping. Na, you wants to be the supervisor. 167 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: He about to find out who running things round him. 168 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: I can either start cutting his eyes like everybody else's, 169 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: or I can include him and all the layoffs that 170 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: are coming up. Why did he change all of a suddon? 171 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: I'm about to answer that question. Is he mad that 172 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: I didn't go all the way or was that all 173 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: he wanted? Girl, you're so stupid you don't see this. 174 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: You're supposed to be the supervisor. Okay, let me tell 175 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: you something about yourself, miss supervisul Since you thank you 176 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 1: all that, you just found out you ain't now Leader's 177 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: young boy a long because you you asked him let 178 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: me see it. You initiated this. All he was doing 179 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: was putting forth to effort. You asked him in your 180 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: office at work to let you see it. He didn't 181 00:10:55,679 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: have no problem showing too. And then you say I 182 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 1: did for needed to be done. That's what she said. 183 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: That's what you say in your office in a very 184 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: unsupervisory position. Now you're all down in the float putting 185 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: your damn lipstick back home. Now you mad because young 186 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: boy ain't been by there in three days. You know, 187 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: I think I think you you. I think he'd been 188 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: back to answer you because earlier in the letter you 189 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: said me and my husband have a good sex life. Well, 190 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: I think you lying, because see I think you gotta 191 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: messed up definition what's good. You might think you better 192 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: than you really are. You and your husband might not 193 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,959 Speaker 1: be having all that good of a sex life. You 194 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: do want to think it's a good sex life, but 195 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: you're skipping off somewhere else. You do want had to 196 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 1: put your lipstick back home. You thought you did a 197 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: good job, young boy probably had better. You see what 198 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 1: I'm getting that now you all down in the float. 199 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 1: You ain't as good at it as you thought you was. 200 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: So now the young boy sitting off here going, well, 201 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 1: that wasn't worth it, all that hugging and damn no, 202 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: sidn't wasted job. Now he down that here and he 203 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: doing a tomato drink commercial here on that singing, I 204 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: could have had a V eight. You thought you to 205 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 1: blew his mind, didn't you. I knew you was gonna 206 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: sing the song for everything. Did not blow your mind 207 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: this time? Didn't not I want to leave your baby, 208 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: but you didn't. You didn't blow his mind? And nothing else. 209 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: So now that we got that out the way, oh hello, 210 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 1: write that down? Yeah, comments on today's Strawberry letters you 211 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: would happen when he want to rip on Instagram and 212 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 1: Facebook and check out the Strawberry letters. While I got 213 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: right over, I'll be right coming up in forty six minutes. 214 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: A rip right after this you're listening to The Dave 215 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.