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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell Brandon.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you good.

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Speaker 2: I'm good. Thanks so much for having me.

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Speaker 1: You know, what's our pleasure. So tell us about Sarah,

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Speaker 1: how you guys met, about any dates that you've been on.

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Speaker 1: Kind of fill us in on everything and where things

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Speaker 1: are now.

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Speaker 3: So we we you know, we met on one of

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Speaker 3: the apps and at our hinges and kind of bantered

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Speaker 3: back and forth for a while. Things seemed to be

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Speaker 3: going pretty well. You know, I've had a few instances

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Speaker 3: where where you don't weed out the crazy quick enough.

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Speaker 2: But she seemed really really great, and so you know,

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Speaker 2: I asked out for drinks, and you know, one thing

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Speaker 2: led to another. The night was going really well, and

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Speaker 2: she comes back to my place and she stayed over. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so yeah, yeah, you know, it was it was it was.

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Speaker 2: It was a good date. Uh a good night, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Uh we did yeah, we we we uh we ran

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Speaker 1: it back, did we?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean, you know, sometimes you have.

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Speaker 1: To sometimes it's your duty. It certainly is, uh Brennan.

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Speaker 2: So this is like a good cup of coffee in

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Speaker 2: the morning, anyway, you get it. Yeah, you know, I

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Speaker 2: thought it was all like a real good sign obviously,

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Speaker 2: and uh and then but you know, after after I

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Speaker 2: made a breakfast, she left and then just like ghosted me.

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Speaker 2: Just has never responded again. And I'm kind of wondering why.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna call her now.

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Speaker 2: Is she even okay, you know, ends up in the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully she's not a hospital that would be something. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call her right now and figure this out. Good luck,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Hello, Hi is this Sarah.

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Speaker 4: This is Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Sarah, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: from the Fred Show and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. The whole

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Speaker 1: crew is here and I need your permission to continue

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Speaker 1: with the calls. That okay if we chat for a.

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Speaker 4: Second, Yeah, okay, Fred, Yeah, Oh my god, wait Fred

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Speaker 4: from the Fred's Show.

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Speaker 1: Like, yes, Fred from the Fred Show. It's me. It's here,

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Speaker 1: and Living Color is happening to you right now. And

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Speaker 1: what's happening to you if you've listened before, he is

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, and that's what's happening. So do

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Speaker 1: you know why we would be calling? Do you know

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Speaker 1: which guy wants to know where you win.

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Speaker 4: First of all, I love your show. Second, no, I

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Speaker 4: have no clue.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is.

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Speaker 4: Crazy, Like I this is crazy. I've never been on

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Speaker 4: the radio before.

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Speaker 1: Well, welcome, welcome, and let's see if you love us

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Speaker 1: after this. Maybe we should just hang up there on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Brennan, I guess you went

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Speaker 1: out with him. You met him on Hinge and.

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Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, he just had.

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Speaker 1: A really successful date and says he hasn't heard from

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Speaker 1: you since then, So what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, that is so funny and random. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so I'll just say I'll go with it. Okay, So

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Speaker 4: I met Brennan on Hinge and you know, we went

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Speaker 4: back to his place and it was fine. But you know,

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Speaker 4: his nightstand and like there.

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Speaker 5: Was a huge, huge, huge stack of self help books

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Speaker 5: to the point where like there was another stack literally

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Speaker 5: as tall as his night stand next to the night

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Speaker 4: Okay, I was like, damn, is he like researching self

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Speaker 4: help books? Like it literally he looked like as many

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Speaker 4: as I've ever seen it on the Noble So.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's wrong with that guy's trying to improve himself.

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Speaker 1: I mean to think of all the lack of self

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Speaker 1: his life. Is that the kind of person you want?

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, But then I went to the bathroom

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Speaker 4: and there were like more self help and.

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Speaker 1: Well, he needs a lot of help.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not exaggerating. Is then I went to

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Speaker 4: there were like more self help books, but not even

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Speaker 4: Like in my mind, I'm like, you need self help

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Speaker 4: to clean your self help books up, and he needs

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Speaker 1: Help books he needs to bring you joy lady, what's

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Speaker 1: her name? Well, did he have one of those books?

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Speaker 1: Or maybe you could loan him one another book? The

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Speaker 1: guy's a reader, reader, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean I went to get a cup of coffee

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Speaker 4: and guess what was all over the kitchen?

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Speaker 1: Porn? Oh, self help books.

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Speaker 4: More self help books are you in? Like one, how

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Speaker 4: many books does he need? And two like how nuts

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Speaker 4: is he? You know? Like how much self help do

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Speaker 1: Let's ask the guy because Brennan's here. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention that always leave that part. But Brennan is here. Brennan,

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Speaker 1: I mean, from the sound of it, we got a

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Speaker 1: lot of self help books. That's what I'm getting from this.

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Maybe you need a radio help nicely?

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you have childhood trauma? You want to

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Speaker 2: And what's going on doesn't have childhood trauma? Right?

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Speaker 1: It's good point. Can I borrow some of those books?

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Speaker 1: Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? What what's the deal with all the books?

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Speaker 1: She's frightened by all the books?

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Speaker 2: You know, if I'm being honest, which a lot of

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Speaker 2: this is teaching me to be I you know, I'm

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Speaker 2: just trying to better myself. I'm trying to. I'm trying to,

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Speaker 2: you know, every day, work on work on something new.

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Speaker 2: And it's essentially you know that this is a different

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Speaker 2: But I've been working through it, and uh, and a

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Speaker 1: And let me ask you. Let me I'm sorry to

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Speaker 1: interrupt you, Brian, let me ask you that questions for Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Was he real preachy on the date?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Was he was he sitting there trying to tell you

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Speaker 4: Honestly? Like I thought he was just kind of like

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Speaker 1: Like, well, maybe there's a better version of him. I

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Speaker 1: don't know that I have a problem with this. It's

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Speaker 1: one thing if you go over to the guy's house,

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Speaker 1: he's got all these books and he's just telling you

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Speaker 1: how to live your life because he thinks he's better

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Speaker 1: than you because he's, you know, so well read on this.

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Speaker 1: But the guy's trying to make his life better. Wouldn't

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Speaker 1: you rather be with somebody who's like making an effort

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, But the thing is like, if you've

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Speaker 4: wrote all these self help books and you're still atout

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Speaker 4: level no friend to friend, Brennan. But like, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you've read like all these books

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Speaker 1: Millionaire, none of them stuck and not one of the

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Speaker 1: books helped. Well, I mean it sounds like, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: he does. He likes to read self help. I mean

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Speaker 1: what you know, it could be comic books, it could

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Speaker 1: be a lot of other things. He could be worse.

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Speaker 1: That's to the point. That's true.

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Speaker 2: Podcasts too, you know, don't forget about there's a lot

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Speaker 2: of great podcasts up there.

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Speaker 4: Wait, helf help podcasts on top.

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Speaker 1: Of the books.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you know, if you're driving or you know,

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Speaker 2: it's you can't read what.

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Speaker 1: Someone hurts you. Look, it's a lot my guys are

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Speaker 1: just a better himself. Okay, every day he wants to grow.

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Speaker 1: What did you want to say, Brennan, I'm sorry I

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Speaker 1: interrupted you go ahead, No.

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Speaker 2: No, it's fine. I just you know, I'm obviously working

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Speaker 6: But I you know, I'm not trying to force anything

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Speaker 6: on her. I was just really I had a great time,

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Speaker 6: if you don't want someone who's working towards the path

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Speaker 6: of enlightenment, then that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Enlightenment. Okay, Look, hey, Enlightenment, you do you, you keep

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Speaker 1: working on you. You know, whatever you want to do.

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Speaker 1: It's not for Sarah. It doesn't sound like. I don't

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Speaker 1: mean to put words in your mouth, but I assume

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Speaker 1: you're not interested in another date one Fred.

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Speaker 4: You are right to Fred.

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Speaker 1: I love your show, and hey, Sarah, I'll take you

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Speaker 1: to Joel O's team you want to go to day,

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Speaker 1: We'll go check out what's what's the other guy's name? O?

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Speaker 1: My god, Anthony, what's the guy's name? Then you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, Greg, Greg, Anthony. All my friends out there,

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Speaker 1: really positive guys talking about Anthony Robbins Breddit has Everything's.

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Speaker 2: George.

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Speaker 1: I call him money but that's just me. All right, Guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry talking to work out. Thank you for your time,

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Speaker 1: best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 2: I thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Love it.