1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 2: Hey guys, it's the Almost Famous podcast, and today we're 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 2: recapping something that I really wish that we didn't have 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: to the women tell All. 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 3: This is the stupidest thing I've ever watched? 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: Was it not? The It was the worst. And you 8 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 2: guys know we hate tell All's one. I hate recapping 9 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 2: to tell All because recapping and recap is kind of difficult. 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: This one's particularly difficult because it was like a housewife 11 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: tell All. It was just a screen match. I couldn't 12 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: make out anything. I know that Ben was just telling 13 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: me that he feels like an alien and on this 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 2: planet sometimes because he doesn't understand social media and blah 15 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 2: blah blah. And I felt like an alien or I 16 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: felt like an old person watching this because I couldn't 17 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: really follow what they were saying at all. Like the 18 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: first twenty minutes, I said to Jared, can you explain? 19 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: Can you interpret what just happened? And then he was like, 20 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: Marie is a dick And I was like wait what. 21 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 2: I was like, well, okay, but can you explain yourself? 22 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: He's like, she literally wouldn't let anybody else talk and 23 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: it was just like a screaming match, and I was like, Okay, well, 24 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: everybody else is obsessed with Maria, so I'm not sure 25 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: if you're right about this. I'm remaining neutral. 26 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 3: Well, I uh, we will get into the details of 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 3: how we feel about each conversation, because that is what 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 3: we're here for. I really hated watching this episode, and 29 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 3: the reasons are a few things. One, it's so unhealthy. 30 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 3: There's nothing healthy about this. There is no I know 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 3: people will probably point and say yes, but they made 32 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 3: up in the end. 33 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: No, they didn't. 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 3: That was very confusing to me and felt very produced. 35 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 2: Ben That was girls just wanting to be like, let's 36 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: get the applause from the audience. We'll apologize. There's no 37 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: way we're actually gonna be friends after this. There's no 38 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: way we're even gonna like smile at each other backstage. 39 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: That was to appease people and to like make them, like, 40 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 2: everybody look decent. In the end, I will, you know, 41 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: give credit to my friend Sidney, who I do think 42 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: made a good move when she just said, like, you 43 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 2: know what, I was annoying. We we didn't see eye 44 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 2: to eye, and I wish I did things differently it 45 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: was a good response. I'm really glad that she said 46 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: what she said. But overall, like with the hugging and 47 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: stuff like Maria coming and hugging and the Leah the 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: Leah thing, the Layath thing was weird because they're screaming 49 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: at each other, and this is where I think you're 50 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: saying that you're confused screaming at each other. Then they 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 2: go to break, then Leah is crying, and then before 52 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: you know it, Maria's coming over and hugging her and 53 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: they're like, I love you. And it's like very weird, 54 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 2: and it's like you're a great woman, like Leah says, 55 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 2: like you're a wonderful woman. And I'm like, oh, what 56 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 2: happened here? 57 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 3: Here's my kind of like overall quote for the evening 58 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 3: of a bunch of wrongs don't make a right, and 59 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 3: it felt like it was wrong, wrong, wrong, yell, yell, 60 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 3: yell at each other. Okay, I'm not saying anybody was 61 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: better than anybody else here. I do think we got 62 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: some insight into some of the things that were said 63 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 3: during the season about Maria. We did now get kind 64 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 3: of a group consensus that said, no, she didn't actually 65 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 3: say those things. Like I said those things. 66 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: Well, that's yeah, Lauren was like I was the one 67 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: that said shut the fuck up. 68 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, So like there was a consensus there. So it's like, Okay, 69 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: why were you hating on Maria so bad? What it 70 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 3: ended up being was you just didn't like her, and 71 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: that's not a good reason to be so mean to somebody. 72 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 3: But everybody was just yelling at each other. You had 73 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: a couple people in the back row that were there 74 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: for two episodes that were wanting to get their insights in, 75 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 3: so you could barely hear what anybody else was saying. 76 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: They were making sure their voice was heard, which is 77 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 3: always a thing that happens this episode, and then and 78 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 3: then they're good, and it's like, what happened in between here? 79 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 3: Because you just made somebody cry, You just made Maria 80 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: walk through a season of being called a bully. Sidney, 81 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 3: your whole experience on this show was awful Like that, 82 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: there was no way you're happy you went on this 83 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 3: show at any point in time, because it really was 84 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 3: just from the moment it started to the moment you left, 85 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 3: it was a wreck. It was hard, it was grueling, 86 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 3: and then you left the show, and it's even been worse, 87 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 3: you know, so like what happened in between to then 88 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you guys are good again. Because 89 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: for me, I barely saw an apology from anybody. I 90 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: saw a lot of people still trying to get their 91 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 3: jabs in, still trying to say, yeah, but you know, 92 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: you did say this or I heard it this way, 93 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: but I'm sorry, and it's like, no, that's not how 94 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 3: an apology works. That's not how a genuine like reconciliation 95 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 3: of relationship works. You don't just make somebody cry. You 96 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: don't make somebody suffer through a whole season of being 97 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 3: called a bully. You don't walk through this show and 98 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 3: the experience that you did and then all of a sudden, 99 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 3: because somebody starts crying, everybody's good again. That I don't 100 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: that's a very unhealthy way to at all resolve issues, 101 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: and it felt like that's what happened here. 102 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 2: For me. For me, the apologies at this point are 103 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: really again for the audience, because like, you're just not 104 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: going to be friends with the people that you really 105 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: make enemies with that like that in the house to 106 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: that extent, well, we did, okay, so let's start or 107 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 2: you really have a fresh start, and that's called paradise, 108 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 2: and like for some reason we can kind of put 109 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 2: the past away. 110 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 3: It's always a beautiful moment when the past goes awakes. 111 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: At all it tip, I mean ninety percent of time 112 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 3: it does. Because there was a quote this episode that said, 113 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 3: I never really got to know you. On this season 114 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 3: they're talking about Maria, and I think that's very true. 115 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 3: They never took the time to really get to know her. 116 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: They just didn't like her because, as Medina said, it 117 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 3: was some of the ways that the cadence of how 118 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: things were said or when it was said or how 119 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 3: it was said, and so it threw people off right away. 120 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 3: Let's start at the beginning, because I do have some 121 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: feelings about what Jared said about Maria. Won't let anybody 122 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 3: talk about Sydney's apology about Lea, about Medina. Also Jess, 123 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: who is such a big storyline this season for so long, 124 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 3: and I felt like we got a little insight into 125 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 3: where she's at. Overall, though we say it every year, 126 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 3: I feel more strongly about it this season because it 127 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 3: was such a good season. It did have its bumps, 128 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 3: it did have its controversies, it did have some character 129 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: slamming throughout. However, overall it was a great sea. It's 130 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 3: been a great season of the Bachelor, and a lot 131 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: of healthy things have came from it. I think this 132 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 3: women tell all, this whole idea is unhealthy. I think 133 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: it's unnecessary. It's a filler episode by all means. I 134 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 3: do not enjoy it. I don't enjoy watching it. 135 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: I was very happy that it was basically half tell all, 136 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: half regular episode though, because we got the note conclusion 137 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: and then we got Rachel's dumping and then their moment, 138 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: so we really didn't have to go through is like 139 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: suffer through much And it was really the yelling match 140 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: for only about twenty minutes because then we started doing 141 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: hot seats, and hot seats are easier to watch because 142 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: it's not the whole crew yelling at each other. 143 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, let's start at the beginning. We do have 144 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: the ladies there. There isn't any massive stars from this 145 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: season who do not show up, which typically we do 146 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: get kudos to. Really all of the women who are 147 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 3: involved in any type of controversy actually coming to the 148 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: tell all. You don't really have to, it's not like 149 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 3: forced upon. You can say no, but it's a big 150 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: deal that they did. We do have, obviously, the big 151 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 3: storyline we just talked about, so let's dive in here 152 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 3: to really the biggest part of the whole thing, which 153 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 3: is the Maria Lea Sydney Jess drama. Medina kind of 154 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 3: gets mixed into it a little bit. Ashley, I feel 155 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 3: like the fans got what they wanted because they do 156 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 3: love Maria. I understand why she is relatable in a 157 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: lot of ways. I mean, I think you could pick 158 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 3: at this and say, yeah, she didn't really let anybody talk. 159 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: I mean she even admitted when somebody said, hey, you 160 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: just always interrupted me, and she interrupted the person. She's like, see, 161 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 3: I'm doing it again. But her reasoning was I can't 162 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 3: let you say things that are not true. Following that 163 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 3: statement by Maria, there are women in the back row 164 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 3: that say, yes, Maria did not say the things that 165 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 3: you said. She said I said those things, or a 166 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: Duena said, I never witnessed any of the things that 167 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 3: you're saying Maria said about you. Madina stands up for Maria. 168 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 3: So is it right for Maria to interrupt? I don't know. Uh, 169 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 3: I don't think it's wrong because if these women and 170 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: are still trying to get their like words out and say, no, 171 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: this is what was upsetting me about you. This is 172 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 3: what you're saying. She's like, I didn't say that thing. Stuff. 173 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 3: Stop saying I said that stuff. I do think that's fair, 174 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: because as soon as those words are out there, I 175 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 3: do think they live in people's minds. And Maria is 176 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: just trying to say, I did not say the things 177 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 3: you said. I did not say the things that you 178 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 3: are saying I said about you. So yes, did feel 179 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: like Maria did exactly what they were saying. She does. Yes, 180 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 3: it did. However, I don't think it was wrong. I 181 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 3: don't think it was necessary. It might have been annoying 182 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 3: for the girls. I just don't think it was wrong. 183 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 3: I think the only time for me Ashlely, it felt 184 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 3: overdone was with Jess, because I think Jess is really hurt. 185 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 3: That was my point earlier. I think she really was 186 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: nervous to be there. I think she really isn't the 187 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 3: type of person that wanted to walk off screen the 188 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 3: way she walked off the show. I think she was 189 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 3: trying to like tell a story of how she was 190 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 3: feeling and what led her up to that moment. I 191 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: don't exactly think she was trying to make anything worse 192 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 3: for Maria. But Jess was like really hurt. You could tell, 193 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 3: I think in her tone and just how she stood 194 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: up for herself was that she was really wanting to 195 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 3: go there and just kind of be like, I'm sorry, 196 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 3: Like I didn't like you, Maria. You were driving me 197 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 3: crazy every other time Maria interrupted. I thought it was 198 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 3: totally appropriate because it was starting to go off the 199 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 3: rails for a. 200 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 2: Bit, Jared said. Jared wasn't even there for the Jess 201 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 2: moment because the Jess moment is when I was like, Okay, 202 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 2: now the interrupting is becoming obnoxious. He was just talking 203 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: about before, like all the talking over before. But I'm like, okay, 204 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: that's interesting. It's just interesting because like everybody else is 205 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 2: obsessed with Maria. So I don't know, if you're looking 206 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: at it through different lens, I really try to look 207 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 2: at like a little bit more neutrally. 208 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 3: Well, she's a fire character, Ashley, I know. I mean, 209 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 3: she's not going to be everybody's cup of tea. However, 210 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 3: I do think what people love about her, she says 211 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: what she feels, She stands up for herself. She is funny, 212 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 3: she's charismatic. She obviously is a lot more comfortable in 213 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 3: these environments than ninety percent of the other women. 214 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 2: Oh like, and it translates, and that's what makes her 215 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: a lot more likable. I think she's so comfortable. But 216 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: I'd also say that, like I do think she gets 217 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: like a little bit of a blind support from the audience, 218 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 2: like they do not want to hear anybody else's side. 219 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: And I know where I'm coming I know the perspective 220 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 2: that I'm coming from is different. But it's like, you 221 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 2: screw with Maria like you screw with me, Like they 222 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: make it. They feel like she is their best friend. 223 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 2: They have like Maria blinders on and you can see 224 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: either they didn't mention it when Rachel came out and 225 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 2: was talking about the hate that she was getting on 226 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 2: social media, but a lot of the hate that she 227 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 2: was getting from social media last, you know, a week 228 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: or so ago after Hometowns or not ye after Hometowns, 229 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 2: when Maria was limited and she wasn't was like, how 230 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 2: dare you take Maria's spot? 231 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 3: Well, I think Maria has a massive following. I think 232 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 3: people are very invested into her story. I do believe 233 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 3: it probably came because they felt like she was getting 234 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: treated unfairly from the very beginning. I think this tell 235 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 3: all will only solidify their support for Maria because I 236 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 3: think what comes out of this outside of all the 237 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 3: confusion and the craziness and the yelling and people talking 238 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 3: over each other and not really knowing where the conversation's 239 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 3: going half the time, I think the one thing we 240 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 3: can get take from this is that Maria was not 241 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 3: in the wrong. And I say that and I know 242 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 3: that could seem weird outside of her interrupting people, which 243 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 3: you could say was appropriate and maybe not appropriate in 244 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: the jet situation. At least that's my feeling. Outside of that, 245 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: we did hear a couple things come out of it. 246 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 3: One we heard somebody say, no, she didn't say that. 247 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 3: I said that way. 248 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,679 Speaker 2: Can I say this? One thing? Jared was like, Okay, 249 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 2: what's the difference between shut then up and zip it? 250 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: It's just as annoying. 251 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 3: It's not what they said she said. 252 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: Okay. 253 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 3: I think that's the big thing is I think what 254 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 3: was I think maybe if we dive into that was happening, 255 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 3: was there was obviously a scenario going on where multiple 256 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 3: people felt like that person needed to stop talking because 257 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: they were saying things that was ridiculous. Also, you had 258 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: multiple women, A Duena and Medina. It's very hard a 259 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 3: Duena and Medina saying together, Yeah, specifically, we're coming out 260 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 3: and saying you just didn't like Maria because of like 261 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 3: how she is or what she says. But she wasn't 262 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 3: doing the things you said she was doing. She was 263 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 3: not a bully to me and there and it really 264 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 3: carries the most weight coming from Medina for me, because 265 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 3: this whole thing started with a comment and a situation 266 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 3: with Medina. And so if Medina is sitting at the 267 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 3: side of Maria being like, hey, you know what, like 268 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 3: what she said really wasn't bad at all, Like it 269 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: was fine, and given the context, then I'm like, where 270 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 3: did this whole thing come from? It obviously was just 271 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 3: that you didn't like this person, you felt threatened by 272 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 3: this person. And so in conclusion, here the one thing 273 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 3: we can get from the tell all is that Maria 274 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 3: was treated unfairly for a majority majority of the season 275 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 3: by three women Leah Sidney Jess because of some angst 276 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: that they had against her. Now, if you want to 277 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 3: dive into the semantics of you know how that played 278 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 3: out in the tell all or how that played out 279 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 3: in the season we can I don't think it's it's 280 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 3: really helpful, and I think it's going to lead us 281 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: at the same conclusion. 282 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: It does lead to the same conclusion, which is you 283 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: and I kind of established weeks ago they have totally 284 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: different ways of like communicating, and those girls did not 285 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 2: like her style. 286 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 3: Yes, And so the fans see this whole thing playing 287 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: out and they're like, hey, Maria wasn't the wrong here. 288 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: I'm on Maria's side. And then they watch tell and 289 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 3: they're like, I'm still on Maria's side because they're now 290 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 3: they're readily admitting, along with a quorum of people saying 291 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 3: Maria didn't say these things, and so she was treated unfairly. 292 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 3: This was a hard road for her, and so they're 293 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 3: going to come out in more support following the tell 294 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: off for her, which is fine, which is great, my hope, 295 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 3: my hope. If anything with the apology that came out 296 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 3: of nowhere really for all of them, I don't even 297 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 3: know how they even happened, because there was no leading 298 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: up to it. It was just like, hey, you're crying. 299 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 3: I don't want you to cry. I don't want you 300 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: to be hurt. Let's solve this here. My hope is 301 00:15:55,920 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 3: that now fans can move on from this whole situationuation 302 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 3: and stop adding on the hate, stop adding on the criticism, 303 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 3: stop adding on the comments, and just say, hey, they 304 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 3: figured it out. We can figure it out too. 305 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: M I'll just say this one more thing. I don't 306 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: think that I think that Lauren, Alyssa, Lauren, Alison, and 307 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: Adulina were always kind of team Maria always backing her, 308 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 2: Medina somewhere in the middle, and then the three of them. 309 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: I think that the teams kind of stayed placed in 310 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: this situation. And that's all I gotta say about that. 311 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 3: It did feel like outside of everything else, Leah was 312 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: the kind of more than Sidney really uh, you know, 313 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 3: Sydney had uh. 314 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 2: I don't think she really wanted to stay back. 315 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't do a lot to help herself or 316 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 3: hurt herself. She just kind of stayed quiet. We've commented 317 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 3: on Jess. I think Jess was trying to resolve. I 318 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 3: don't know necessarily how she was going to get there 319 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: because it kept coming out. But I do think Chess 320 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 3: was like really hurt and just like really like sad 321 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 3: of how she handled the situation. It did feel like Leah, 322 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 3: out of everybody else, took the most criticism from the 323 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 3: group and was kind of the target of You caused 324 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 3: a lot of the things that ended up being dramatic 325 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 3: during the season. You caused these things, and I don't 326 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 3: know if Leah expected it. I don't know if she, 327 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 3: but there were some things said to Leah that were 328 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 3: very pointed, like you say you were a woman's woman, 329 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 3: you didn't act like it, and then you said these 330 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 3: things about somebody else and Leah said I did not, 331 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 3: and then four women said no, you did, and she goes, okay, 332 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 3: I did stop gaslighting me, and they're like, don't say 333 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 3: we're gaslighting. You were saying the truth here. And it 334 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 3: did feel like for a while for me, I am glad, 335 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 3: I am glad there was some healing or I'm just 336 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 3: glad the thing stopped, because it did feel like a 337 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 3: while we were going to run off the rails and 338 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 3: really kind of like throw a bunch of daggers in 339 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: Lea and just leave it there. And that felt That's 340 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 3: why it was so hard for me to watch, because 341 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 3: like this isn't This isn't what this is meant for. 342 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 3: This is a show about love and relationships. You didn't 343 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 3: find love or relationships, but we damn sure should not 344 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 3: crush you in the process, And it felt like it 345 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,160 Speaker 3: was going to be a crushing not delay did anything 346 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 3: to help herself there. I don't think she was like 347 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 3: explaining herself well or getting out of the situation well 348 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 3: by any means. But it just kept getting worse and 349 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 3: worse and worse until the commercial break, and then I 350 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 3: think the producers like, that's enough, We're done. 351 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 2: One other thing to mention about Leyah, interesting how the 352 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: girls seemed to really get angry at her for the 353 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: whole burning of the date card that she was going 354 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 2: to be able to like steal somebody's date card. They 355 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:58,239 Speaker 2: really came out her for that, And I don't know, 356 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 2: I guess I kind of understand. I think I think 357 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 2: they just wanted to pile on her, and that was 358 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 2: the first topic that came up, and she was but 359 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: like I they were like, you were crying and la 360 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 2: la lah, But the crying was for you, that wasn't 361 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,479 Speaker 2: for us. You were making it seem like you were 362 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 2: doing us a favor. And I'm like, I think you 363 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 2: guys are being dramatic. Now, yeah, well I get it, 364 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 2: I get it, but also dramatic, you know what I mean? Like, 365 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,440 Speaker 2: I see where you're coming from. 366 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 3: It plays out completely differently if Leah the whole season 367 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 3: is like a supportive, encouraging human to others. I think 368 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 3: what they're saying is like, you did this and said 369 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 3: you did it for the women, and then you were 370 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 3: mean to so many during the season. Those two things 371 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 3: don't run in parallel, and so I think it plays 372 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 3: out completely different if she's seen differently by the women 373 00:19:48,200 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 3: throughout the season and conclud of this whole experience. It 374 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 3: just felt like a lot of yelling. It didn't feel 375 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 3: like it did much more than maybe prove that Maria 376 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 3: wasn't the BOLLI that the narrative started to try to 377 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 3: play out, and that shows why the confusion was there 378 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,959 Speaker 3: for Maria and the other women. But these are real 379 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 3: humans trying to figure out a really weird environment, and 380 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 3: so I just don't think it's ever healthy to come 381 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 3: out of the tell all and show more hate to 382 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 3: any of them, because, hey, outside if it was real 383 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 3: or not, I'm gonna assume it is. Because we saw 384 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,719 Speaker 3: it on television and it was their actions to do it. 385 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 3: If they can forgive each other, we can too. We 386 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 3: can move on. They can move on. No more hate 387 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 3: out there. It really sucks with these people when that happens, 388 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 3: and it really puts you in a hard place. 389 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So then there was Lexi's hot seat. Jen's hot seat. 390 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 2: Basically Lexi's you know, was just her thanking people being 391 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 2: understanding for her stage five endometriosis and you know, like 392 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: it's just all good. And then with Jen's it was 393 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 2: also all good. I like Jen's. Jen's really likable character. 394 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 2: If there was a season where there wasn't a lot 395 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: of other likable characters, I could see her being in 396 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 2: contention for the Bachelorette. She and Joey definitely like felt 397 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: like they had something, and she's just kind of adorable 398 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 2: and easy to watch. 399 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 3: She was a whole season. She was funny, she was 400 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 3: witted or quick witted. You know, I agree if many 401 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 3: other seasons, she would be the one that were like, 402 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,919 Speaker 3: we absolutely can see her doing it. But the season 403 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 3: had was stacked full of incredible people and it's what 404 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 3: made it so fun. The hot These two hot seats 405 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 3: made sense of why they were up there. I mean, 406 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 3: you know, Maria had a hot seat, Jen and Lexi 407 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 3: had a hot seat. Those three makes sense to me. 408 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 3: It just there wasn't much that came out of it. 409 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's not nothing that anything to talk about for 410 00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: you and I. 411 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 3: But but what did come out of it was the 412 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 3: next scene, which was this note card thing that we 413 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 3: see from Joey and I want to comment on this here. 414 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 3: I agree with you of what you said at the beginning. 415 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 3: I could handle tell Alls if it was half a 416 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 3: tell alle and half an episode, because at this point 417 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 3: in time, we kind of move into a more live, 418 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 3: interactive experience with the Bachelor and his contestants as the 419 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 3: show's going on on a screen that they're watching. I 420 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 3: think that was that's intriguing to me. I don't mean 421 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 3: when we started this podcast today and I said I 422 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 3: hated watching it. I just don't like seeing people yell 423 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 3: at each other for twenty five minutes. It's not fun 424 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 3: for me, and I don't know if it's really fun 425 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 3: for anybody. I don't know anybody out there that's like, 426 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 3: this is the coolest thing ever. Is all these women 427 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 3: talking over each other. 428 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 2: I can't people love it? Ben, I can't say that 429 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 2: some people don't love it, because I know that they do, 430 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 2: and I can see by the social media feedback that 431 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: they had fun with it. Okay, I think that for 432 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: you and I, I do you not like I like 433 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 2: I throw myself. Yeah, yeah, I don't like it. I 434 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,919 Speaker 2: think if you've been part of it, you're like, no, 435 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,959 Speaker 2: thank you. But if you're watching it and the drama 436 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: really doesn't mean much to you, it's just something that 437 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 2: you watch on TV, I think it could be fun. 438 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 3: Oh okay, well we do see this no card situation. 439 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 3: Uh what a weird scenario, Like from all sides, this 440 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 3: note card comes in. It's what we have a cliffhanger 441 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 3: on the last episode. We get to read the note card. 442 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 3: It says we need to talk again. That's never a 443 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 3: good sign. 444 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 2: Except for I told you last week. I go, what 445 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: if they what if she writes this and it's really nothing. 446 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 2: I'm I and she says I miss you, and like, 447 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 2: I really hope it's me. Like I told you that 448 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: this was a possibility. 449 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 3: You did it was. 450 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: This is such a moment of play. We're going to 451 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 2: call it. It was a moment of play. Yeah, because she 452 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 2: was missing him. This is my theory. She was miss 453 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: She probably wanted to write him a letter, slip a 454 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 2: really nice romantic something under his door. And then a 455 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 2: producer is like, why don't you just like write him 456 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: a note that says like, let's talk, knowing it would 457 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 2: freak Joey the hell out, And it was exactly It 458 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 2: played out perfectly for them. 459 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 3: It felt so weird. Yeah, to me, it did the 460 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 3: whole thing, even her sitting down weird. 461 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's oh my god, I'm so sorry. I felt. 462 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 2: I feel so bad that you interpreted it like that, Kelsey. 463 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 2: You had knew totally. 464 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 3: You had to have known, and if you did it, like, hey, 465 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 3: it's time to step up a little bit here because 466 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 3: the show is only going to get harder these next 467 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 3: two weeks, and they're going to try every way possible 468 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 3: to get intside Joey's head because he's now the only 469 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 3: one they can really get inside the head of, like 470 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 3: in a healthy way, because he's the only one that's 471 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 3: not gonna leave, and so like protect him a little bit, 472 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 3: like be one step ahead of the producers here. And 473 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 3: and she obviously was not in this situation. It was 474 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 3: very weird it did throw him off, I don't I 475 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 3: never was worried about her going home because I don't 476 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,199 Speaker 3: think it threw him off enough for that. But I 477 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 3: do think he had his heart was racing, his mind 478 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 3: was wandering. 479 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 2: His relief when he found out it was nothing. Yeah, 480 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 2: like I've never seen relief like that on the show before. 481 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 3: Well, I think it definitely points to who he wants 482 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 3: to be with in the end. 483 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, oh yeah, I mean I. 484 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 3: Think it's pretty clear at this point. If it's not Kelsey. 485 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 3: I think it's shocking. 486 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 2: And I think that's why they're messing with us for 487 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 2: to next week's episode. They're making it seem like he's 488 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: gonna get his heart broken significant, like he's going to 489 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 2: be ruined to the point that he can't even watch 490 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 2: the preview for the next season. Sitting up there in 491 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 2: front of an audience, He's going to be so ruined, 492 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: And they make it obvious, like that's like, it's too 493 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,719 Speaker 2: obvious for the audience right now that he's picking Kelsey 494 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: that they have to throw us off in some lie. 495 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 3: Question for you, Ashley, as a fan, does it really 496 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 3: matter if it's obvious for you? 497 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: No? I like, whatever, I don't care at this point. 498 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 2: I just want to have like that whimsical feeling in 499 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 2: my chest when they get engaged. 500 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care if I know who he's gonna 501 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 3: be with. I mean, that's the whole point of the 502 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 3: show for them to find love. If he found love, 503 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 3: you know, weeks ago. It's cool to see this thing 504 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 3: play out the way it does. I get to see 505 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 3: their love story play on television. That's what we watch 506 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,919 Speaker 3: the show for. I think. So I don't care. I 507 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 3: don't need them to play with me. I don't need 508 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 3: it to be a question in my mind. Some seasons, 509 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,679 Speaker 3: I do believe it's naturally a very like confusing time 510 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 3: for the lead, and they don't know who they're gonna 511 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 3: choose necessarily at the end, even at you know, hometown 512 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: week and Fantasy suitet week. For this season, it's like, cool, 513 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 3: we know he knows that's his journey. The one person 514 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 3: he does not obviously continue on with is Rachel. We 515 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 3: do have Rachel, you know, in studio, she's sitting down 516 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 3: with Jesse watching her breakup live. It was obviously emotional, 517 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 3: it was real, it was not it felt like the 518 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 3: whole time, this whole show was in support of Joey. 519 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously he's been great to these women and 520 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 3: they've been great to him. I don't know, though, if 521 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 3: I would say she was shocked. I think she was 522 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 3: obviously in love with Joey. I think she knew that 523 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 3: Joey would they could douce, you know, great things together. 524 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, even watching the episode and seeing kind 525 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 3: of her words, I don't know if she was ever 526 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 3: shocked that it was her to go home. 527 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think she was either, And I know 528 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 2: that we all weren't. I basically, in my head had 529 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 2: already eliminated her last week or before, which I feel 530 00:27:54,080 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 2: bad saying, but we all kind of knew. What was 531 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 2: really sad about this tell all moment was just how 532 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: she got through the reception that she got after Hometowns 533 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: and after she got eliminated and all the awful comments. 534 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,400 Speaker 2: And I again, like, I do think that a lot 535 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 2: of the awful comments were coming from just people really 536 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,199 Speaker 2: wanting Maria to be in her spot, because why else 537 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 2: would people be like saying mean things to her? Because 538 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 2: remember how she also kind of like told Maria off, Well, 539 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 2: she did not actually she'd tell her off. She said 540 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 2: why would you do that at the Rose ceremony. 541 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 3: I think the fans of Maria are the people that 542 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 3: were giving her criticism. If I was to speak to 543 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 3: Rachel Wromana, it would not be Hey, Rachel, it was 544 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 3: because of you personally. It's because you were playing into 545 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 3: a narrative that they were hoping was done so the 546 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 3: Maria getting unnecessary and unwarranted hate from these other women 547 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 3: with something that the fans of the show this season 548 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 3: were very sensitive too, because they felt like Maria was 549 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 3: getting unwarranted and you know, hate from at least three women, 550 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 3: and so when Rachel said this, I think they were saying, 551 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 3: one more is playing into this, and this is unnecessary. 552 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 3: You know. I think if we maybe hindsight a little 553 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 3: bit here, what Rachel said to Maria came in a 554 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 3: place of high stress, and it also almost to me. 555 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 3: I think you could say was like a very friendly question. 556 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 3: Like Ashley, if you and I were standing up at 557 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 3: a Rose ceremony and you did that, I would feel 558 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 3: totally fine being like Ashley, what are you doing? Stop? Like, 559 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 3: because we're close enough for me to be like, hey, 560 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 3: check yourself, fashly like, ye, don't do this crazy stuff. One, 561 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 3: it's annoying to me. Two I'm standing up here an 562 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 3: hour longer than I wanted to. And three, I'm like, 563 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 3: already so nervous that I'm going home tonight and you're 564 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 3: just delaying it. So stop doing whatever it is you're doing. 565 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 3: I could say that to you because we were close 566 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 3: enough for me to say it. I wonder, and we 567 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 3: never really saw their relationship, you know, in detail throughout 568 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 3: the season. I wonder if maybe it came from a 569 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 3: place of comfort for Rachel to be like, hey, Maria, 570 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 3: I like, like, we're friends, stop doing this. 571 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think they were there. I 572 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 2: don't think it was a comfort thing. 573 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 3: You think she was just more upset. Well, that's why 574 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 3: I think she got the criticism she did, is because 575 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 3: Maria fans are very sensitive to Maria being criticized and 576 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 3: hated on anymore, and so Rachel kind of took that bull. 577 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 3: But I don't think it's a hit on Rachel. I 578 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 3: don't think people are like, I don't like Rachel. 579 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, there's plenty of comments. There's 580 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,239 Speaker 2: so many comments. I remember, like girls telling me how 581 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 2: much hate there she was getting. But also I but 582 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,239 Speaker 2: you know, there was I don't want to disregard all 583 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 2: the comments that she said were racism based. So that's 584 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 2: absolutely tragic and. 585 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 3: Discuss I guess I haven't seen any of those, but 586 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 3: that's like, it's just weird. I mean, my explanation here 587 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 3: is all out of like I'm confused on how that 588 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 3: could come out towards Rachel because of this one situation. 589 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 3: It doesn't make any sense to me, Like she's been 590 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 3: amazing to me. 591 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, she just did nothing wrong the entire season. Well, 592 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: I'll stand on he's always likable. Well, you know what 593 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 2: I mean, she's always likable. 594 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 3: She's always likable. I'll stand on that. I'll say she 595 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: was likable. Any criticism she's getting is he is so 596 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 3: confusing to me. I can understand a little bit of 597 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 3: you know, the three women that really made Maria's road hard. 598 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 3: I can see where maybe they get the jabs and 599 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 3: all that, and people would be upset with them. The 600 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 3: Rachel things like so far gone from me. I don't 601 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 3: get it. And now I hope after I tell all 602 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 3: of them can move on without the criticism and people 603 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 3: can start the love on them, like if you don't 604 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 3: like them, don't follow them. It's pretty easy. I also 605 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 3: blame the robots. I think there's a lot of really 606 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 3: mean robots out there that are just like made to 607 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 3: make people feel worse about themselves. That's what I tell myself. 608 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure the robots aren't that creative, but they're 609 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 2: dang they're staying in. 610 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 3: Don't ruin it. Don't ruin that for me. 611 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's go into predictions. Well, I guess there's 612 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 2: no predication. Okay, yes, predictions. This is how will wrap 613 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 2: up this episode. What do you think is happening at 614 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 2: the altar now that we're down to this actual moment? 615 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing. I think Daisy. I believe that Daisy knows 616 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 3: who it is in the end based on her context clues. 617 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 3: And she and Joey have this beautiful moment where she's like, 618 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 3: I love you. In any other world we could be together, 619 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 3: and Joey says, I agree, I love you too, or 620 00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 3: I'm falling in love with you. I don't know if 621 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 3: he actually says I love you. I don't know if 622 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 3: he's that dumb to do what I did. I think 623 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 3: he's smarter than me. And then they leave, and I 624 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 3: think it's really sad, and then Kelsey comes up and 625 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 3: it's happily ever after. That's my thought. However, this teaser 626 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 3: makes it feel so different, so now I'm questioning it. 627 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 2: There's a lot of things that they've made in the 628 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 2: teaser where it looks like he's walking away getting into 629 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 2: the car alone. That could be totally there's me going 630 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 2: from the hotel to the altar alone. 631 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 3: You know, there's zero chance in my mind for anybody listening, 632 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 3: there's zero chance in my mind that Joey has walked 633 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 3: away from the show alone. There's no way, no how 634 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 3: would not make sense. And if he did, this would 635 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 3: be like three episodes left because there's gonna be a 636 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 3: lot of things that have to happen in order for 637 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 3: that to occur. There's no way he walks away from 638 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 3: the show alone. I do believe it's going to be 639 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:02,719 Speaker 3: a very emotional final couple episodisodes, final episode, final episode. 640 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, well, I guess we do have a 641 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 3: tell all or it's like. 642 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 2: A three hour episode. 643 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 3: Goodness, gracious, I don't know. 644 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 2: This is I can deal with a three hour for this. 645 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: This is gonna be good. 646 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be good. But that's my theory is 647 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 3: this is being played up to be something it's not. 648 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 3: My also point to this is, no matter what now 649 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 3: happens in the end, unless somehow he does end up alone. 650 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 3: This has happened before. Like, there's no scenario that can 651 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 3: play out here that like would be revolutionary. We've seen 652 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,800 Speaker 3: this stuff before, right, We've seen somebody leave in the 653 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 3: last week. 654 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 2: No, the what would be revolutionary I think would be 655 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 2: if both girls dumbed him. 656 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, That's why I said, unless he ends up alone, which. 657 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 2: Somebody's left alone knows Brad. Brad left alone because he 658 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:56,120 Speaker 2: decided to choose no one, Yeah, which is honestly the 659 00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:00,879 Speaker 2: craziest I've ever heard in my life. He couldn't even 660 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 2: pull a loom poblo and was like, I'd like to 661 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 2: date h so good, But he didn't even want to 662 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 2: date anyone. 663 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 3: Anybody's like, I don't like any of you. I went 664 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 3: to this whole thing and I did it, and this 665 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 3: sucked the whole time because I wasn't any of you. 666 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 3: But that's my point. Unless he does end up alone, 667 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 3: there's nothing that could play out here that would be revolutionary. 668 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't think he's going to end up alone. 669 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 2: I think he's going to end up with Kelsey. I 670 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 2: don't know whether or not it's going to be one 671 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 2: of those things that we have to see him like 672 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 2: do off camera, though, because that's what it's alluding to to, 673 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 2: being like one of those situations where like the last 674 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 2: hour is like how they got how they made things 675 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 2: work in the real world. I don't know if that's 676 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,400 Speaker 2: like my official theory, but like that's if I had 677 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 2: to like put together the pieces from what they're giving us, 678 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,920 Speaker 2: it seems like he's going to walk away from the 679 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 2: altar like going after somebody in real life. 680 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 3: I mean, that's always sweet shows he cares. I don't know, Okay, 681 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 3: final thoughts. Could go without the screaming, could go without 682 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 3: their argument, go without the fighting. I do believe we 683 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 3: got some clarity on some situations that existed this season, 684 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 3: but I also believe that it was a confusing path 685 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 3: to getting there because half the time I couldn't understand 686 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 3: anybody and what they were saying. Next episode, we are 687 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,399 Speaker 3: excited for. We will be here breaking it down. Then 688 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 3: we'll start bringing on some of the guests from this season, 689 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 3: which is super exciting for us because it was a 690 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 3: very popular season. Kudos to Joey because I do think 691 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 3: something that showed up here was when he was in 692 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 3: front of the women. The women are very supportive of him. 693 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 3: They really liked him. They all had very good things 694 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 3: to say about him. That's not easy to do and 695 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,400 Speaker 3: something we have not seen in a long time. 696 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, they really wished him well and they were like, 697 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 2: do you have a cousin? Do you have like a 698 00:36:58,640 --> 00:36:59,760 Speaker 2: secret long lost brother? 699 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really sweet, and I do believe we have 700 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 3: not seen that kind of dynamic amongst the lead since 701 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 3: you Ben, since me, which was so long ago. No, 702 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,359 Speaker 3: I mean I think he he did some things that 703 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 3: were really incredible. He was really attuned. A lot of 704 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 3: the women said he made them feel heard. I think 705 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 3: all those things are great, and so we wish him 706 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 3: the best. We wish these ladies the best. We wish 707 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,399 Speaker 3: that they have a lot of fun with this next 708 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 3: chapter of their experience in the show. And we'll be 709 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,879 Speaker 3: excited for next week. So until next week, I've Been Ben. 710 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 2: I've Been Ashley by guys 711 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 1: Followed the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 712 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts,