1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,519 Speaker 1: All he said to me is it's from Europe. Can't 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: keep it on the shelf, And I'm like, I'm in 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: calm down with Erin and Carissa. Is a production of iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: When was the last time that we recorded? I don't know, 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: but are you okay? Oh my god, no, I'm not. 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: I wish you could see this setup that I've got 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: going on right now because I forgot my computer, I 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: forgot my headphones. We haven't recorded a podcast in what 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: feels like a month, so I obviously don't know what 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm doing. So you are a patient friend. I know. 11 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 1: I was just catching up on everything in how many 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: I saw in prety days. We'll be back thirteen days 13 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: for the NFL season, which means my hair is on fire. 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 1: Yours looks great. This is my new move now everything 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: I think I'm an unpregnant Haley Beaver. I just you're 16 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: my hairberry and it's so bad. But welcome to the pregame. Guys. 17 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: You know what this means. We have a lot to 18 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: talk about in the big show, But do you want 19 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: to get to the pregame questions first? Before we get 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: this announcement with the little foot and then all I 21 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: could look at which I know we're celebrating the arrival 22 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: of the baby. Is I act like I know them. 23 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: I don't. It's her nails. I was like, should I 24 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: do that with my nails? The French tip. I think 25 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: the gossip was that Justin picked out the Polish. I mean, 26 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: oh my god. You know it really is a group effort, 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: all right. My husband loves a Pinterest, but he doesn't 28 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: love a Polish. I thought save that for the big show. 29 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: The emails and I get because I'm on Jarrett's Pinterest 30 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: page because obviously I asked to be a part of it, 31 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: are amazing. I know. I feel so invasive, like I 32 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: know every step of what you guys are doing. Okay, 33 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: we'll discuss that later. Welcome everyone, free game. We're back 34 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: sort of and more frazzlin than ever. Go for it, sister, okay, 35 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: melodied ten twelve. Will you not go into a store 36 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: if you see someone you know walking in question mark? 37 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: It depends on who it is. You got to be 38 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: on it, so that's it. I know it's going to 39 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: be the same for both of us. That means about 40 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time, if we know them, we 41 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: won't walk in. There's a ten percent chance that we 42 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: walk in because there's ten percent of the people that 43 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: we know that we like smellulator. I for sure have 44 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: done the whole like go the other way. You know, 45 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: you got to be in the mood, you know, like 46 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: are we doing the small talk, we're catching up. I 47 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: haven't seen you in forever. What are you doing here? No? 48 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: And it also depends on how like much time you 49 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: have where It's like I wanted to get in, I 50 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: wanted to get out. I don't have time. I left 51 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: my car double parked in a frickin area that I shouldn't. No, no, no, no, 52 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: so yes. I got to be honest. I was going 53 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: through something last week, and you were doing fifty thousand 54 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: things in like home good stores, not home goods, but 55 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: home good stores, grabbing coffee, table books, grabbing i don't know, appliances, television, 56 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: you even were setting them up. And here I was 57 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 1: like crying about shit that was happening in my life, 58 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, yeah, I'll just wrap them up. 59 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: I know it's okay, Erin, it's gonna be fine. You're 60 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: amazing with that. Well, because the truth of that is, 61 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: I'd rather be talking to you than doing what I 62 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: was doing. So Melanie, will you go No, we're not 63 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: going in to the store. If we know anybody anonymous 64 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: quitting my job in a week? How honest should I 65 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: be in the exit interview regarding my Miranda Priestley in 66 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: quotes boss who is disregarding our team and others? It's 67 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: a good question, how honest should you be? Grading Hi? 68 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: It was an eronism. What did I say disregarding did 69 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: so much? Yeah? That was an Aaron Andrews. I think 70 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: God that I'm out of it. I can't wait for 71 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: the teleprompter in eleven days or be on television that'll 72 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: be good, stay tuned, can't wait for the season degrading? Wow, 73 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: read a book, CHRISA. I don't know what the question 74 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: was now putting how honest should I be in an 75 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: exit interview? I always believe that you should not burn 76 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: bridges that you need to walk back over. So if 77 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: this is an industry that you plan on staying in, 78 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: if there is enough people in your respective profession, even 79 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: if you're exiting, that you respect or that you know 80 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: you'll cross paths with again, I would not be too 81 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: honest about stuff unless you want to just burn it 82 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: down system then have at it. But very rarely do 83 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: I encourage that because I think in a world that 84 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: ends up being six degrees sometimes three degrees of separation, 85 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: careful what you end up doing, because it may burn 86 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: you in the butt later, bite you and the ass 87 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: later you. This is pretty timely for me. My bosses 88 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: aren't Miranda Priestley, but I've had to have some real 89 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: honest discussions with them lately, and I found a couple 90 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: of things. Vent to the people in your life, get 91 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: a ton of advice. Yeah, Like I mean I to 92 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: say two things, walking in and not being what is 93 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: the word not demonstrative? That's not the right word. That's 94 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, degrading. So nowell unarming Is that a word? 95 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: Did I just make that? Disarming? Good? I can't wait 96 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: to be on television maybe also disarming. I liked that. 97 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: That was some advice I got. Also, my boss had 98 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: an idea last week. We took a walk around the block, 99 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: which I liked that better than sitting in his office 100 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: yep and chatter wronging with him. So yeah, I don't 101 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: think it's good to just burn it down because you 102 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: never know who's going to be your boss again, or 103 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: where you're going to run or who they're going to 104 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: tell it that you may or may not unloaded on them. 105 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: I just don't think it's a smart move, not a 106 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: good move, not a good move. And this is not 107 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 1: the question. But to add to what you're talking about, 108 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: and we obviously talked about it at length, it's just 109 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: I wait for this phrase at the end of the day. 110 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: There keep wait for the end of the day. I 111 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 1: feel like it's the end of the day. Where's my wine? 112 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: What time is it? Jesus Rois? Maybe I can read then. 113 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: I think you should just treat people, even if they're 114 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 1: your boss's superiors whatever, they're human, and the more honest 115 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: you are without being burn it down, I think it 116 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: proves to be beneficial. So being honest doesn't always mean 117 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: being so cuckoo, you know what I mean? Does that 118 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: make sense? Probably not, It makes a ton of sense. 119 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: I think another thing, and I believe that this was 120 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: advice from you. If you just show in the end 121 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: how much you love the gig and you love where 122 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: you are, that's I think the most important message. Now. 123 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: If you don't love where you are and you hate 124 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: the gi yeah, that's important exactly. We could go on 125 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: and on about this because or maybe we should in 126 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,919 Speaker 1: the larger conversation, because I want to keep at it 127 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: in our hollies. Kimmy and nineteen oh, this is you Stster, 128 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: go for it. Yep, Kimmy and nineteen seventy nine. My 129 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: son is leaving for college soon. Any advice for coping 130 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: with transitions? This is hard. I was actually just talking 131 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: to my friend about this, who dropped his daughter off 132 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: at Michigan his son at Florida State. I remember when 133 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: my dad dropped me off at school. It was a 134 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: big family hug in the middle of my dorm room. 135 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: We were bawling our brains out. My parents only had 136 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,239 Speaker 1: to drive two hours back to Tampa from the University 137 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: of Florida, but that felt so long now. When Kendra 138 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: was sent to school and we dropped her off, my 139 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: dad was so upset because that was his baby. And 140 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: I don't really remember what happened, but something got locked 141 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: in our house, like we couldn't get back in. We 142 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: didn't have the key. I don't know what in the 143 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: hell happened. Obviously we didn't have an automatic garage either, 144 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: but or the garage door wasn't working. My dad had 145 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: to break away. That's how dramatic it was. Yeah, so 146 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: there was a lot going on for the Andrews that day. 147 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: I would just say this, there's a couple of people 148 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: that I had known or just that time maybe, or 149 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,559 Speaker 1: people going back to school, and as we get older, 150 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: all the kids of the people that we know get older. 151 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: And a couple of conversations I've had where they've been like, oh, 152 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: I had to drop my kid off at college arm 153 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: an empty nester. I'm always like, good for you, you did it, 154 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: because I remember my parents had this thing where it's 155 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: our job to raise you and when you turn eighteen, 156 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: like you're on your own. So if you've gotten them 157 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: to that point, I know obviously you're not, you know, 158 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: not being a parent anymore. But hopefully the job that 159 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: you did prepared them to go out into the world, 160 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: So you should actually be excited for them to go 161 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: off to college because now they get to put to 162 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: use all of the skills that you've taught them. So 163 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: for coping with transition, I would just say, if you 164 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: like your spouse, hopefully you do you get to reconnect 165 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: with them, or if you now have only a couple 166 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: other kids in the house, you get to spend more 167 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: time with them. I think I'm always a big, big 168 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,599 Speaker 1: believer in different chapters in your life, so this is 169 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: a new chapter where you even also can maybe put 170 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 1: more focus on yourself. So be proud of the job 171 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: you've done it as a parent. They're off to school, 172 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: off to college, and applaud them because you know what. 173 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: Also to I don't mean my parents crying when I leave, 174 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: which but my parents didn't. They were like, see yah, 175 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: she's gone. Because it's like then I feel guilty if 176 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: like my parents are so sad, Like I want my 177 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: parents to be like, go get them kids, So save 178 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: the tears. Oh see, we balled our brains out. Okay, 179 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: I drove. I drove my parents took me down in 180 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: a U hall. They dropped me off in California, and 181 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 1: then they said good luck to you kid. No, they 182 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: were not crying. I love this. Next question, Yeah, read 183 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: it anonymous? What do you do when read it? Would 184 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: you do good luck? Is this a test? What do 185 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: you do when your children's dad gets married and she 186 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: wears my son's jersey's name a jersey name. So I 187 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: have a story about this different. And then wait, she 188 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: wrote you I love it, So this is different. My 189 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 1: sister got was cheated on. Maybe she doesn't want me 190 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: to say it. She doesn't care. My sister doesn't care. 191 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: We're long past it. She has been remarried and has 192 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: the most amazing husband. What up, Chris, we love you. 193 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 1: Her first marriage she got cheated on, and the person 194 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: that cheated on my old brother in law cheated on 195 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: with They ended up getting married, and my sister and 196 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: them all still worked together, which is so freaking nuts, 197 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: because there's no chance in hell I could have went 198 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: to the same office with my ex husband and his 199 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 1: new bride. But there's like that whole thing where you 200 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: share kids in the name and all that stuff. I 201 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: would not be as classy as my sister was with 202 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 1: that whole thing. I would definitely need to be restrained. 203 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: I would not want to see that. Yeah, I mean, 204 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: we have no idea if Anonymous was cheated on, this 205 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: was an affair, but the dad got married, yeah, and 206 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: the new woman is wearing the son's name on her jersey, 207 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't know if i'd handle it well either. 208 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 1: But if you saw a mac's name, it got a 209 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: bit you never will if you and Jerik Gott divorce, 210 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: if somebody was wearing Max's name on their like you know, 211 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: whatever soccer thing or something, you would fricking lose your shit. 212 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: Oh for sure. I just love how she ended it 213 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: with you. I have the utmost respect for people that 214 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: can harmoniously conscious uncoupling and like make it all work, 215 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: because I am tom petty with that kind of stuff. 216 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: Like I've never even had to like share a dog 217 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: in a breakup or I'm just like bear mine, Like 218 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: there's the idea of having to share children and obviously, 219 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: you know there's the mature side of that where you're 220 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: doing it for the kids because they see it all 221 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: and that kind of stuff. Like, good for you if 222 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: you can be amicable with that, because that is easier 223 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 1: said than done. Thank God I didn't have children in 224 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: my uh divorce situations. Yeah, we may not be the 225 00:11:52,800 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 1: person for this question. Jewels, Jewels, I EQ sorry, micro 226 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: needling or lasers. I haven't done micro needling before, but 227 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: I'd love to try it. Here's my issue right now. 228 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: From the girl we just got her next shot up 229 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: with doctor Daniel Poor. He did a number on me. Wow, 230 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: I got my face Brozen yesterday ready to go for 231 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: this season. We're back, baby, I don't want to see anything. 232 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: You would get off an international flight and go straight 233 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: to a boat. Holy shit, your shit had done in 234 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: your like twelve hours hard. But anyways, he shot my 235 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: neck up with because you know how we are about 236 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: our next with this botox, but it also kind of 237 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: has a filler, but it's not filler, but it's also hydrating, 238 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: so on camera it'll look plumper. I mean, can you imagine, 239 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: like what was the what was the movie with Gwyneth Paltrow, Like, well, 240 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: that would be what my neck looks like on TV. 241 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, but this is what I was saying 242 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: to some Oh. I was saying this to Kylie, Daniella 243 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: and Julian on a text chain as I was driving 244 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: home from doctor Daniel Poor's office. I said to them, 245 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: they go, what is this thing you put in your neck? 246 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: All he said to me is it's from Europe. Can't 247 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: keep it on the shelf. And I'm like, I'm in yeah, sorry, Julie, 248 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: We'll get to your question in a second. We're making 249 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: this about us. I went to doctor Daniel Board's office. 250 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: This was like a month ago. And I asked them 251 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: for botox or whatever filler in my neck because you 252 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: said to do that, and they said I was not 253 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: allowed to get that, so they did the I don't know, 254 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't a candidate forard or something, so they gave 255 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: me what So, what you're saying is you have a 256 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: better neck than I. They also agreed to give me 257 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: surgery on that said neck if I would have had 258 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: enough time. But they the hydro filler thing or whatever 259 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: is that they also gave me. Did it? Look I 260 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: need more. It's not hydroing enough. I gotta tell you. 261 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know myself. And he's like, all over me. 262 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: I will like the chick for beetlejuice right now with 263 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: the like the slash neck and like the smoke coming 264 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: out of it. It hurts so bad. And he was like, wow, 265 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: you're so good. You're not even flinching. And then it 266 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: turned into a game with myself, like I had a 267 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: tear coming down and I'm like, oh, I'm going to 268 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: get through this. I'm going to get through this. And 269 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: I was like hit and argy. My favorite thing is 270 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: with those when they're like, oh, we'll need to numb 271 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: you and I'm like, oh no, I'm I'm pain tolerance. 272 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: I'm good, and halfway through it, I'm like, yeah, exactly, 273 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: but I don't. Of course, you and I are the same. 274 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: We're competitive and we don't want to say that we 275 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: actually needed the numbing cream. So Julie, to answer your 276 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: question in a very circuitous way, micro needling or lasers. 277 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what micro needling either. Clearly I need 278 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: to figure that out because I'll try everything once. Lasers 279 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: are the best thing ever. I've lasered a lot of things, 280 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: and I swear by it. In fact, sometimes I forget 281 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: that I've lasered everything, and then I'll like, look underneath 282 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: my arms. I'm like, wow, forgot about that, because it'll 283 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: come in. Hair will come in every now and then, 284 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: So laser it up. Girl. Are we at a time? No, 285 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: Bridget bert One, how do you deal with the egos 286 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: of players and coaches? Bridget I'm just gonna say this 287 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: right now, a Bridge Burt look at me making up names? Now, Hey, 288 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: brit Bridge, Burt Bridge. They never are dear the Bridge 289 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: Burt one. I will speak for myself because Aaron's obviously 290 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: have different experiences, but I think she's going to say 291 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: something similar. There have been over the almost twenty years 292 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: we've been doing this, very very very very very very 293 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 1: few I'm talking like five percent that have ego or arrogance. 294 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: That is just they all have ego, but they don't 295 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: us good to us. I don't know. I feel like 296 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: I've just been so lucky that these guys, players, coaches, 297 00:15:55,000 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: colleagues have all been unbelievable. I actually experienced this way 298 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: more in my Hollywood days. I don't know if you 299 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: did with the Dancing with the Stars tenure of yours, 300 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: but I felt like Hollywood, Hollywood definitely had the arrogance 301 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: way more than athletes, because athletes are used to being 302 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: part of a team. So that's where I found the difference. 303 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: And how did I deal with it. I didn't deal 304 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: with it very well, which is why that entertainment gig 305 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: was short lived because I had a hard time with 306 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: that where people acted like they were better than me, 307 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: and I was like, we're cool here, relax, Okay, your movie, Yeah, 308 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 1: your movie sucks, and you're lucky we're even promoting it. 309 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: But you we are so lucky with our relationships that 310 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: we have with these players and coaches. I think you know. 311 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: A great example of that was we were in San 312 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: Francisco together for preseason game, You, myself, Julian, Tom Brady, 313 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: Kevin Burkhart. We had a I had a blast walking 314 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: up on the sidelines with you. You know, George Kittle 315 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: in the middle of the game, he's not playing, comes over, 316 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: gives us a hug. We were in the center of 317 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: the field talking to guys, you know, you know Penner 318 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: about his new baby. Congratulations exactly to Mario Davis, Like 319 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: just so, we're so fortunate, and I think a lot 320 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: of the time, the guys in the league that we 321 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: are so fortunate to cover understand we are there to 322 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: do a job, but we're also there not to make 323 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: them look bad. We respect the hell out of what 324 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: they do, and we're huge fans of theirs. And it's 325 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: just cool, Like it was so fun, like just standing 326 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 1: there both that comes by, we give him a huge hug. 327 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: John Lynch his wife. It's it actually turns out to 328 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: be a big family. So we're grateful for that, very 329 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 1: very grateful. Last, but not least, Anonymous, my bff's brother 330 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: and I like each other. Do I chance ruining the 331 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 1: friendship and go for it? Yeah, this is so because 332 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: the risk award is huge. Imagine it works out and 333 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: you get to be like family with your best friend. 334 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: Aaron doesn't have a brother, and my brother was married 335 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: is happily married with children, so that was never a 336 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: case for Aaron and I. But like, oh my god, 337 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 1: if you and here's the thing, you, if she's your 338 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: best friend, you can obviously gauge what her reaction will 339 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: be if she like has like a super close protective 340 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: relationship with her brother and she I don't know. I 341 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: feel like you'll you'll definitely know if she would be 342 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: for it or against it. But if you're her best friend, 343 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: why wouldn't she want you to be with her brother too, 344 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: because she would want the best for you. And if 345 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: she has a great really unless unless the brother's bad 346 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: news bears and she's like he's gonna hurt you and 347 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna end up being upset, and like, don't even 348 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: go down that road. But I think that you definitely 349 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: know if your girlfriend, your best friend, would be into 350 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: it or not. So yeah, in the words of Steve Candarry, 351 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: hell yeah, helly, hell yah, hell yeah, see Candary, it's 352 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: me right now. Steve Candary is out in the one 353 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: hundred and fifteen degrees hate with my father, my father, 354 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 1: Mom's your father building an equestrian center. I'm not even 355 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: a horse scalp. Okay, I finally owed my first horse 356 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 1: at the age of forty two and act as if 357 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 1: I need the goddamn you know FIP setup for the 358 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 1: equestrian center because he can hell, I mean, my god, 359 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: I wish. But yeah, they're doing their due diligence out there, 360 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,479 Speaker 1: and I shouldn't say due diligence. I can't even talk. 361 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 1: They're doing me a solid by building this thing. So 362 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: Steve hates me, and the last thing he's going to 363 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: say next time I ask him to do something as 364 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: hell Yeah, hell yeah. But as for this, Anonymous, go 365 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 1: for it and keep us posted. We love an anonymous 366 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: follow up. So we have your studio host your transitions. Yeah, 367 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: well I need to transition from the off season to 368 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: the season with the way that I'm speaking today. Here 369 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: we go anonymous follow up. Okay, you guys. The original 370 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: question last year from August was Aaron go caught close 371 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: friend cheating on her husband? Confront or stay quiet? We 372 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: told her to confront it. So here's the update. Aaron. 373 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: She did not confront her friend about it. I'm still 374 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: friendly with the person, however, we're nowhere near as close 375 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: as we used to be. The guy is still in 376 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 1: the picture, and she only mentions him when her husband 377 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: isn't around, to include a recent weekend when we were 378 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: on a day trip with a couple other law I'm 379 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: confused already, what's going on? Okay, so the guy is 380 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 1: still in the picture. So the guy because she caught 381 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: a close friend cheating on her husband. Okay, so the 382 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: other guy is still in the picture. She only talks 383 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: about that guy when her husband isn't around. She's given 384 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: an example a recent weekend when we were on a 385 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: day trip with another couple of girlfriends. I reached out 386 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: to a therapist and worked through the unresolved stuff I 387 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: had going on that came back up going through this 388 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 1: doing much better now, and I recognize that it's her 389 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: problem to figure out and not and fix or not. 390 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: So basically, she's like, I'm not going to met in 391 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: this person's business, like that's her deal. She's cheating on 392 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 1: her husband. I'm not going to confront it and get 393 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: in the middle of this nasty stuff, which I got 394 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 1: to tell you. You know exactly what I'm about to say. 395 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 1: I can't say it, but god, I wish I could. 396 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 1: I know something right now about someone, and I want 397 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: so bad to call this person who I've never met 398 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: in my entry. I know that, oh you know them. 399 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: I want to call them and be like, hey, by 400 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: the way, your so and so has this and this 401 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 1: and this and this. He's not telling you. But I'm 402 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: not going to do it because it is not my 403 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 1: problem and it is none of my business. And you 404 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: know what, I'm not trying to do bring any drama 405 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: into my little peaceful life. So this person, oh, Aaron Andrews, 406 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: Not only do you know this person? We have talked 407 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: so much about this, although I haven't talked to you 408 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: so long, you might have forgot while you were swimming 409 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 1: in Lake Homo without me. Congratulations to the Purcells. It's wild, 410 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: but knowing information that could totally help someone else, like 411 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: I want to tell her, but it is I don't 412 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: know this person, and I can't call her. I can't 413 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 1: be involved in the drama. Oh my god. All right, 414 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: we will continue this conversation and more on the Big 415 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 1: Show Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production 416 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, 417 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.