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Speaker 3: Maybe I am completely unfamiliar with my nuclear bombs. I'm

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Speaker 1: So this comes from different Cicada six seven six zero.

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Speaker 1: this story takes place when I, nineteen female, was in college.

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Speaker 2: You could.

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Speaker 3: You could totally do that because everyone knows how.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. Nuclear weapots are easy and fun to create.

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Speaker 2: To him with your family activity with kids.

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Speaker 1: Well, summer came and I returned to my family home

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Speaker 2: I know you're lying to me, except ex.

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Speaker 1: He was cheating on me. The dumb bastard cut his

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Speaker 2: We were there, fish fish eat those fish. We saw it.

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Speaker 2: I saw it, he said.

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Speaker 1: I see you, but I seen, I've been seen weed

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Speaker 2: What is the wait weedy wead we che Is I came?

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Speaker 2: I saw, I conquered.

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Speaker 1: He was screwing Alice of all people. I mean like

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Speaker 1: Weedy weady ochie, but oh yeah, we feel bad for you. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: Well, once the fall semester rolled around, we were all

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Speaker 1: I was always very trusting because I feel like a

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Speaker 1: However, Max always seemed to be secretive with his phone,

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Speaker 1: But I see you in the con if you know

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Speaker 1: There were discord notifications from a user I didn't recognize,

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Speaker 2: Why are we still with him?

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Speaker 1: When I read the notification, this person was talking shit

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Speaker 1: didn't know his PASCO. That's what's worse is not only

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Speaker 1: one hundred Oh he you deserve better. Come on now,

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Speaker 1: I feel like it should be said that we had

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Speaker 1: I will still playing RuneScape. I played it in like

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Speaker 1: Was losing my emerald armor in the forest because I

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Speaker 3: Feel for your bro, Yeah, that's that's that's basically a

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Speaker 2: It is I wor hard for that emerald armor you

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Speaker 2: were If only you had a partner who was grinding

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Speaker 3: It was funny because when they say grinding, I was like,

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Speaker 3: what kind of grind?

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Speaker 2: Grinding? Escape? Just really close to each other the lobby.

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Speaker 3: What's what's the thing that old maidens wear? Like undo

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Speaker 3: your bust, my maiden.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking chastity about one of those.

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Speaker 1: So that night I wondered if he would be dumb

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Speaker 1: when we shared our accounts his password.

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Speaker 2: So ah, so.

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Speaker 1: She's like she's doing some some sleuthing okay, because it's

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Speaker 1: like maybe, just maybe the password for his RuneScape account

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Speaker 1: people do, y'all better you get to have better password protection.

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Speaker 1: You really got to do. Don't don't get don't let

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Speaker 1: your mainframe get hacked. Like this honestly sounds like the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the ad. But like there is there's not

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Speaker 1: just like where the where the the the computer condom

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Speaker 1: that you need to by just using different.

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Speaker 2: Passwords protection protection. Baby.

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Speaker 1: So I first tried with his email, since I started

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Speaker 2: And sure enough, he.

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Speaker 1: Was dumb enough and I was able to access both

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Speaker 2: Oh he we love you. Don't be a hacker.

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Speaker 3: That that's it's it's it's too much. It's too much

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Speaker 3: because from what I'm gathering breaking down this red flag moment,

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Speaker 1: You already had evidence. I think like, oh, he probably

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Speaker 1: wanted to be sure. Sure, yeah, but I think based

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Speaker 2: Don't stoop to his level.

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Speaker 3: Maybe take a picture of it with your phone, just

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Speaker 3: so you have so he can't be like delete them

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Speaker 3: or like whatever. But I really would not stoop. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: don't stoop to his level. Yeah, we love you. You're

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Speaker 3: part of the Okapan, You're a tea bag. Some might say, Okay,

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Speaker 3: No one wants you to say that. Fifty people wanted

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Speaker 3: to be called tea bag. No, I think in a biscuit.

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Speaker 3: Your a biscuit. And you know this was my idea,

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Speaker 3: So I'm being really objective here. I felt like it

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Speaker 1: Majority seemed to, Uh, you're an okay to shoot it,

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Speaker 1: and we love you, but don't hack.

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Speaker 2: Man, don't do it.

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Speaker 1: Don't hack really really, don't just stoop to his level. Now,

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Speaker 1: I went to the DMS of the user I saw,

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Speaker 1: and sure enough, they were talking about me. Max spread

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Speaker 1: false information about me to this individual, talking about how

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Speaker 2: Then why is he still dating you? Some stuff?

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Speaker 1: The math is not mathing here. I feel like he's

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Speaker 1: just playing both sides. He's playing both sides, saying what

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Speaker 3: He has to have a reason why he's like cheating and.

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Speaker 1: And he's vilifying you. So Alice feels okay cheating with

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Speaker 3: And it's like, listen, this isn't like a forty year

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Speaker 3: old man with a few children that like, I'm trying

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Speaker 2: At you're like twenty years old.

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Speaker 1: Just break up, dude, Just leave the relationship some go

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Speaker 1: honess and leave and leave. Do it, please, God, Opie,

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Speaker 1: break up with this here. I'm sure that it's coming,

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Speaker 1: but man, this guy please sucks. Please How I was

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Speaker 1: saying stuff like how I must not even be pretty

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Speaker 1: this time we had only done it a few times.

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Speaker 2: This guy.

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Speaker 1: As I scrolled up, I saw that they have also

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Speaker 3: And they've only been in a relationship for three months

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Speaker 1: And they were essentially friends with benefits and had been

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Speaker 2: You called it.

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Speaker 1: It was when I saw her nudes that I saw

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Speaker 1: ok OPI that sucks. But again, yeah, you're you're scrolling

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Speaker 1: You know, I know, it's like, this is like a

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Speaker 1: because that's that's never a good look.

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Speaker 2: You got to pull out, like he won't. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: He's pulling out, or at least if he's not wearing something.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's, y'all.

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Speaker 3: He's putting something in, so he needs to pull it

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Speaker 1: The eternity. We gotta we gotta put on the chopping block.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe this. She was so nice to me.

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Speaker 1: My world was shaken by all of this, and I

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Speaker 1: I wasn't in love with him, but it's still kind

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Speaker 1: of world shattering to be cheated on when you had

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Speaker 1: what you thought was a solid relationship. I just kind

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Speaker 1: of felt numb and didn't know what to do. Break

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Speaker 2: That is? That is definitely what you do. That's it.

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Speaker 1: I decided to confide in my best friend slash roommate housemate,

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Speaker 1: to break up with him.

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Speaker 2: And get revenge. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I was about to say yes, but now I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 1: break up with him. I don't know about the revenge part.

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Speaker 2: Just leave it. Just leave it and move on with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, invest in yourself as a dish best not served

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Speaker 2: Yes, there we go.

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Speaker 1: I thought revenge was a bit extreme, thank you, ope,

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Speaker 1: I agreed I needed to break up with him.

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Speaker 2: Good. Here we are.

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Speaker 1: I sat on it, thinking what to say to him

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Speaker 1: and decided it would be best to be straightforward.

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Speaker 2: But not tell him the real reason. Why What do

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Speaker 2: you think about that? John? I think I would say

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Speaker 3: One to be straightforward, but then but then but then

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Speaker 3: By being straight and forward with the information, I feel

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Speaker 3: we're breaking up, not like we're taking a break or

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, we're breaking up, but not giving him

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I you know, I while I think

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Speaker 3: he did. I don't necessarily know that OP needs to

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00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 3: if she takes that energy, and it's like OP.

445
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 1: Needs because like actually not even thinking about it, Like

446
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,919
Speaker 1: if she just say, hey, I'm breaking up with you

447
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 1: and he's like why, it's like I don't, I don't.

448
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I need to give you an answer. Yeah.

449
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 3: I think that's okay. Yeah, given that he was the

450
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 3: one that did all the effort. If it was something

451
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 3: like oh I've moved on or something, you should you

452
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 3: should have totally explain that to your partner.

453
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 2: But like in this.

454
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,479
Speaker 3: Scenario where he he committed one hundred percent well, I mean,

455
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 3: she did hack into his stuff.

456
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 2: But he basically he did the f ups that.

457
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 3: Deserves the breakup, and if she's like, you know what,

458
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 3: I don't want to go into it.

459
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 2: I'm moving on with my life.

460
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 1: And honestly, if that is what makes feel, it makes

461
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: you feel better than you deserve to protect yourself after

462
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: he it helps you yourself exactly. So the following week,

463
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: I asked Max to meet up at our favorite coffee shop,

464
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 1: and I broke up with him right there boom. As expected,

465
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: he didn't take it well. He kept asked me why,

466
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 1: and I panicked and said it was because I felt

467
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: nothing when we were intimate. Damn, damn, wrong move. Because

468
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 1: he started calling me a what.

469
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 2: In a bitch? This guy sucks.

470
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: I took it all and stayed as stoic as I

471
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 1: could because I was fighting hard not to cry.

472
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: Oh pee oh pee oh that is painful.

473
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: That is painful, that's sad, sad. He was getting loud

474
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: and other customers started staring, and eventually we were kicked

475
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 1: out because he was making such a commotion that night,

476
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: he was messaging me insults and got some of his

477
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: friends to also harass me too, so I just ended

478
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: up blocking everyone and doing my best to avoid them.

479
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: After letting my dorm security know that that was up.

480
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: After a month, they seemed to lose interest, and I

481
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 1: stopped worrying and helps out. The college had a large

482
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: student body and we were in different majors and grades.

483
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 1: He was also one year older. It wasn't until February

484
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: of my junior year when I saw Alice again. I

485
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom after one of my classes and

486
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: heard crying. I didn't recognize who it was, and so

487
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: I went to comfort her. However, she immediately recognized me.

488
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 3: Oh.

489
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,439
Speaker 1: She went to move away and say sorry, but I

490
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: told her it's okay and asked if she needed a hug.

491
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 1: She said yes, so I wrapped my arms around her

492
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: and let her cry into my shoulder. Whoa, OPI, that

493
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: is a cash money move. That is a great move.

494
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: And at this point Opie did eventually recognize her.

495
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 2: Out. Yeah, they both recognize each other. That's so crazy.

496
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: What are the odds?

497
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: It was a while before she calmed down, and once

498
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: she did, she pulled away and apologized again. Well, I

499
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: mean it wasn't until February, like like like much later, yea,

500
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 1: that they saw each other. Yeah, so it's like it

501
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: took a while for I think them to run into

502
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 1: each other.

503
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's still crazy to me that they like,

504
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 3: honestly like almost crazier that they ran into to each

505
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 3: other now. Like earlier, yeah, they were like more commingled

506
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 3: and their their destinies or whatever. Now it's like, Okay,

507
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 3: they probably haven't talked or thought about each other.

508
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that way had the same classes. I think

509
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: they're in the same totally possible, probably like a medium

510
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 1: sized school. But it is, it is, It is crazy.

511
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 1: I reassured her, and I led her to a quiet

512
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 1: area in the building. She told me that she was

513
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 1: now dating Max, but he had cheated on her. Opie says,

514
00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: probably what both of us are thinking. Not surprised, yepipulated

515
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: her to stay with him, and she felt trapped, which

516
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: did not surprise me. I felt bad for her since

517
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: I had an experience with being in a toxic relationship

518
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: in high school and gave her my advice. I was confused,

519
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: but she seemed so genuine that I didn't doubt her.

520
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: I blocked her on Discord and sent her a friend

521
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: request so we could brainstorm what to do next. She

522
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,959
Speaker 1: seemed very shaken up, and I decided to take her

523
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: back to my dorm. Apartment and she ended up crashing

524
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: on my couch.

525
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 3: Oh I think I have another I see you, I

526
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 3: feel like I see Oh goodness.

527
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: The next morning I brought Raven into the discussion and

528
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 1: she was not pleased. She actually didn't want to help

529
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: Alice and thought that she deserved what was happening. But

530
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: I convinced her that it wasn't Alice's fault and she

531
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: was probably being manipulated by Max. So I guess Raven

532
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: is Opie's friend, right, Yeah? I almost save some thoughts

533
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: on this for the next right, because Yeah, decided that

534
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 1: the best thing to do was to get her help

535
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: and a different place to stay, as well as make

536
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: it harder for Max to find her, because Max kind

537
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: of sounds like the jealous Stocking, right, especially if he

538
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 1: was harassing op for a month with his friend. We

539
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: managed to get her a new room assignment and we

540
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: went to thrift clothes that Max wouldn't recognize. What the

541
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: mean is Max friend? If Max is hunting it, Max

542
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: needs a restraining order? Yes, oh yes, that is a

543
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: great idea. Honestly, this took us about a month and

544
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: a half between making sure Max wouldn't get suspicious in

545
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: hiding everything. We kept her new clothes at my place

546
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: so Max wouldn't see them if he went through looking

547
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: her stuff. We moved swiftly to get everything to her

548
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: new room and set her up. After all that was done,

549
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: we all brainstormed how to break out with Max. Raven

550
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: suggested a lot of nuclear options, but we decided to

551
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: bring Max into a public park and rip the bandage

552
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: off while Raven was in her car, ready to take

553
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: off if things started going south. Alice asked Max to

554
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: go on a date that weekend, and Max initially said no.

555
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: We're all kind of dumbfounded, but Alice was able to

556
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: convince him to at least go for a walk, and

557
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 1: so it was time to get prepared. So I guess,

558
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 1: like a little backtrack, So I guess, like, I mean,

559
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: why are they going to change clothes?

560
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 3: I mean, like I think what you said is right,

561
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 3: Like they should they should try to get like a

562
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 3: restraining order something.

563
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 2: Tell the school, really that to tell the school because.

564
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 3: And honestly, maybe it's not crossing their minds to do

565
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 3: something like that, you know what I mean, They're just like,

566
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 3: what's the first thing that comes to mind to try

567
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 3: to Schools can be They're just I think they're just

568
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 3: trying to do whatever they can to get Max to

569
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 3: not bother them, you know, or whatever is like coming

570
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 3: to their minds.

571
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: And I guess if you like have a big school like,

572
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: you're way more like I'm just thinking, like, my outfits

573
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: are probably pretty recognizable. And if I'm trying to avoid

574
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: someone until I can like go on a date with them, yeah,

575
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: I guess I would probably do that.

576
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 2: It's just another tool in their tool belt of like

577
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: how can we.

578
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: Prevent this from happening exactly? I mean, like mys were

579
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: very recognizable on campus. I also would wear a name

580
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: tag on a campus at UCLA. Alice stayed at our

581
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: apartment that night before she was going to break up

582
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: with Max. There were multiple times where she was thinking

583
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: about backing out. The poor thing was extremely scared, especially

584
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 1: considering Max new where her family lived. I did my

585
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: best to comfort her and reassure her that it will

586
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: all turn out okay. We were up until four am

587
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: that night, until she passed out on the couch. I

588
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: tucked her in and I went to my own room

589
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: to pretend to sleep since I was anxious myself. Way

590
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: too soon it was go time and we all prepared

591
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 1: for what was about to happen. I was to tail

592
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 1: Alice and Max, and Raven was to hide in our

593
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: car and wait to see if things went south. Also,

594
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: I saw this this like reddit post where it's like

595
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: girls will be like, hey, going on a date if

596
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: he's a serial killer. Here's my last known location. This

597
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: is his picture of what he looks like. I'm just

598
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: sending it to you. And then like the girl who's

599
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: like talking to hers like great, girl, go have fun

600
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: like girls, I feel like, prepare for all the guys

601
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: that they go on dates with to be serial killers.

602
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: Nuclear sitting, which, in fairness, you don't want to be abducted.

603
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

604
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: Alice did a good job pretending like nothing was happening,

605
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: and for a minute I thought she was going to

606
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: chicken out and not break up with him. I was

607
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: relieved when she stopped in front of Raven's car and

608
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: started talking to Max. It wasn't long until Max started

609
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: raising his voice and he raised his hand. I took

610
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: this as my cue and I ran in and grabbed

611
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: his hand to stop him from entting Alice. I told

612
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Alice run and she got into Raven's car and race

613
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: it off. Max got extremely angry, and when he realized

614
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: it was me, only seemed to get more pissed off.

615
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: He broke out of my grass and punched me in

616
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: the stomach with his other hand. I was not prepared

617
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: for a fight, and so I ended up taking a

618
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: few more punches before I was able to regain composure

619
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: and ran the f away. Look, it's a valid tactic

620
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: if you're not in my position to win and I'm

621
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: out of shape, which yes, run away, of course.

622
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. The adrenaline was.

623
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: Crazy, and I was able to take twist and turns

624
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: on the street and eventually lost him. Eventually I returned

625
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: my apartment and I informed security that I was being

626
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: chased and gave them a description of Max. Then I

627
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: went up to my apartment and Raven and Alice were

628
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: already there. Alice's shaking and scared as best we could.

629
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: I mean, there are like I didn't know any of

630
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: these stories, but I did, Like in college, I feel

631
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: like there were relationships that I heard about like getting

632
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: abusive like this, and like especially if someone has an

633
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: anger issue or just is immature and doesn't know how

634
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: to control their emotions, like things can get ugly like this.

635
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and like call the security, like has like security.

636
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: Yes, literally CLA has these freaking you know, there's like

637
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: polls where like you can hit it just in case

638
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: someone's getting like chased or something hundred. It doesn't happen often,

639
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: but it does happen.

640
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: Yes, it's good. It's good that it's there for this reason.

641
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: Like you know, this shit is crazy and sounds crazy,

642
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: but it does happen. After all of that, Alice thanked

643
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 1: me profusely for everything that I did for her. I

644
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: told her I'm happy to help out a bad situation,

645
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: and this happened. I don't know or one thing allowed

646
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: to and we ended up doing it. Woo. Yeah, it

647
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: was passionate and it was long and passionate and some

648
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: of the best I've ever had.

649
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: That seems like she's sticking it to Max. Let's go.

650
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: Once everything was said and done, I took care of

651
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: her and she fell asleep. When looking down at her,

652
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: the devious thought crossed my mind and I grabbed my phone,

653
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: doing the best not to disturb her, and took a

654
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: photo of us. We were both still naked, but we

655
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: were under the blankets, so the photo didn't show anything

656
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: more than just shoulders and back and my collar.

657
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 2: Roane.

658
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: I unblocked Max and sent the photo him with the

659
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: message I get it now, and blocked him again.

660
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, don't do that. Don't do that. That was

661
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 2: not a good move.

662
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 3: No, no, no. I think this is a classic situation

663
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:56,239
Speaker 3: of you're in college, you're young, and you're like, I

664
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 3: wanna I wanna.

665
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: Shoot shoot the shots back.

666
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: I can tell oh, you love the drama. I can

667
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: tell it in your storytelling. And don't get us wrong,

668
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: we love the drama a little bit too. But but

669
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: don't don't create more.

670
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, no.

671
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: No, no, no, man, But John, I got a little

672
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: little tidbit for you.

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00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so you still got more story? No, that's it.

674
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: We're wow right.

675
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: So I guess as we wrap this up, right, do

676
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: you think oh he is? I mean, first of all,

677
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: we love you, we love you, But I feel like,

678
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 1: what do you think of that last move?

679
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 2: A whole or not a whole that?

680
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if I can call it

681
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 3: an a whole move because of what happened to her,

682
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 3: but like, definitely, dude, it's a do not it's it's

683
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 3: it's a.

684
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: It's it's a do not do don't do it, do that.

685
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: Do not send nudes to your ex boyfriend as revenge,

686
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: especially without Alice's consent.

687
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

688
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, like it was it was very unclear whether Alice

689
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: is I mean, she was asleep since last we known,

690
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think that was definitely the wrong move.

691
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 3: I definitely think, like sue the guy tell the campus,

692
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 3: like this is like and I've I've like, I mean,

693
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 3: I've told this story on before when one of my

694
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: friend's ex girlfriends, like he was literally stalking him for

695
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: like like a.

696
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: Good month and a half and we have to threaten

697
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: that we would tell the school. This happens. It is crazy,

698
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: but it happened. And so it's like you just have

699
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: to be ready. Yeah, yeah, you use every tool at

700
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: your disposal. He deserves all that's coming, like by telling

701
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: you security and.

702
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: Restriction order, assault.

703
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 3: All of those things, like don't give him the satisfaction

704
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 3: and if you do try to get a restraining order,

705
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: the stuff that would not help you get the restraining order,

706
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, because like if it really

707
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 3: went to court or something like that, then they might.

708
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: Be like, well, look what look what you did. Yeah,

709
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: you his receipts of what you said, like that could

710
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: be incriminating.

711
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 3: And then that just just focus back on your own life,

712
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 3: which just keeps you sucked into it.

713
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: But thank you for submitting the story. We have another

714
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: story coming up in a little bit. She did gone,

715
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: I got a little okay story time, let's do it

716
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: for me. So I went to get coffee with my

717
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: aunt Bapa yes, and my sister this morning. And we

718
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: after coffee, went to a bagel place and all right.

719
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: This, I'm curious what you guys think.

720
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: So there was a girl at the bagel place and

721
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: she was she was the person giving the bagels, and

722
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: I thought she was cute and we're kind of having

723
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 1: a little banter back and forth. There was really no

724
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: one in line, and like, oh, like that was a

725
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: nice little little interaction that was fun. And so I

726
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: got like a like she gave me a cup for water,

727
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 1: and I went over waiting for my bagel, and I

728
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: went over to my sister. I'm like, hey, like, do

729
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: you think I could like give her my number? Is

730
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: that like an okay thing to do? And my sister

731
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: said she worked at Starbucks. She's like, I didn't like

732
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: when guys asked for my number, especially if there was

733
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: a line. But like if you gave her your number,

734
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: then it's like she has the ability to huh, call

735
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: you back or whatever. Right, But also I feel that

736
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: the likelihood of them calling or like text you back

737
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 1: is lower. Yeah, but I went over and I'm like, hey,

738
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. I think like, we had good banter.

739
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: My name is Sam. I would love to take you

740
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: out sometime. Here's my number. Yeah, And I wrote it

741
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: on like the paper cup and my number on the

742
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: paper cup and I put it in What do you

743
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 1: think classy move or not classy? Like if a guy

744
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: like at when you were working, wrote his number on

745
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: a cup and gave it to you and said, hey,

746
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: like I thought you were cute, We had a good banter,

747
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: would love to take you out?

748
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: Is that? Is that a good mover? Now?

749
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 3: So, I personally, I'm very curious to read the comments

750
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 3: on this one. I personally think yes, but it's it's

751
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 3: I think it's just one of those situations, which is

752
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 3: why you're asking the question where a tool can be

753
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 3: used for for good or for evil? Right, where it's

754
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 3: like you could be like that where it's like, hey,

755
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 3: we had a great talk, and like, you know, I

756
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 3: know and loves Sam. I know that it was a

757
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 3: great conversation and that it was great.

758
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: And my sister was there witnessing the whole thing, and

759
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: she was like, oh, I think I think there's a

760
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: little bit.

761
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 3: Of cost co signing, right, So like but someone someone

762
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 3: could be like, you know, hey, like you're hot.

763
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: So like here, you know what I mean.

764
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, but I think what Sophia said is very

765
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 3: true that I've never really thought about before. It is

766
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 3: great because you give them the option. Yeah, it's lower,

767
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: but I the chance is lower obviously of them getting back.

768
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

769
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 3: I just like, also, it's just like it's just smooth.

770
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 3: It's like hey, yeah, and.

771
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: I feel like no one meets in person anymore. Yeah,

772
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: Like I think I think there is a twenty percent

773
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,240
Speaker 1: chance of her texting.

774
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 2: Man, there's a twenty percent chance of texting.

775
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 3: But I kind of like the the swath, there's a

776
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 3: suaveness to it. I hope I was swaw you know

777
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 3: what I mean of like like, hey, here's my number,

778
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 3: you can text me anytime you want. It's like it's

779
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 3: like a consent to sexy kind of vibes.

780
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know. I really would love to

781
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 2: know what you guys think.

782
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments, because I think I

783
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: need to work on my RIZ, so I need to

784
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: catch up to Ryan.

785
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: Sam's rizz y'all say I knew his RIZ was high,

786
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 3: but after living with this man in a month of BALI,

787
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 3: it's just it's just, I mean, there is no chart.

788
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 2: The charts are broken the charts. You can't read these

789
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: numbers of RIZ off the charts. I'll trying to keep

790
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: up with Riley