1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: by clicking submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You never know. It 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: could be yours. It could be you never know. Buckle 8 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: here it is Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you, nephew. 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: Subject she slapped my husband. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband 11 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: and I love to hang out after football games. We're 12 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: Clemson fans and my husband played football, so we were 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: all into the games. We met a group of friends 14 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 1: at our favorite bar and two of my single girlfriends came. 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: They're not into football, but they thought some single men 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: might be out. We were sitting back and chilling and 17 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: one of my friends joined us. She went to the 18 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: bar to her own food and drinks, even though we 19 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: had a waiter that checked on us. My husband was 20 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: joky joky with her, but I could see that she 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: had a bad vibe from the time she walked in. 22 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: She was on her phone, texting a whole lot. At 23 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,279 Speaker 1: the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he checked 24 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: his phone a lot. I am watching them the whole 25 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: time because something was not right. If she texted, he 26 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: looked at his phone. Then she got up to go 27 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: sit at the bar, and it was packed by then, 28 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: so I could not really see what was what she 29 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: was doing. My husband went to the bathroom and stopped 30 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: by the bar to talk to her. He showed her 31 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: his phone and she showed him hers. Then she put 32 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I 33 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: walked over to them, and he looked like a deer 34 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: in headlight. He said he wanted to know why she 35 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: was being antisocial and sitting at the bar. So I 36 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: asked him why he cared. She echoed, saying yeah, why 37 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: do you care? He swears it was nothing at all, 38 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: and that I did not see her slap him. Why 39 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: would my friend invite this woman to join us, join 40 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: us if something is up with her and my husband. 41 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: I want to ask about this woman, but I don't 42 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: want to seem pressed. What should I do? You gotta ask, 43 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 1: what do you mean? You don't want to seem pressed? 44 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 1: This is your husband you saw this woman slap him. 45 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: You have every right to ask and find out what's 46 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: going on. I'm just surprised by this because where and 47 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: when could this ever happen. You see a woman slap 48 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: your husband and nothing there certainly seems to be something 49 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: going on. I mean, you know you peep did with 50 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: all the texting back and forth and all of that. 51 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: You know, you know when someone around you gets a 52 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: text from someone else because they're looking. You know, you 53 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: see someone texting, You know how this stuff goes. They 54 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: were very familiar. You know what you saw with your 55 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: own eyes. This woman had a lot of nerve to 56 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: slap him in front of you, and she did it 57 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: in front of everyone. I'm sure she definitely knew what 58 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 1: she was doing and that you were there with him, 59 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: which is why this all happened. Anyway, I say, believe 60 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: what you saw in spite of what your husband said. 61 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: He said you didn't see her slap him, and believe 62 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: everything your intuition is telling you. You said you knew 63 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: something was off, you knew something wasn't right. You know, 64 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: this is just crazy, because no woman is just gonna 65 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: slap someone randomly, you know, if there's not anything going 66 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: on between him. He said something crazy, she was mad 67 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: because you were there. All of that. Your friend is 68 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: wrong for inviting the woman. Your husband is wrong and 69 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: stupid for stopping to talk to her in the first place. 70 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: And the woman doesn't give a darn about your marriage 71 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: or you being there. Your husband is the one you 72 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: should be talking to about this though, he you know, 73 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: maybe even slap him again, you know, since he didn't. 74 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: He said, you didn't see her slap him the first time. 75 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: It's okay for you to be pressed. Speak up for yourself, 76 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Well, Shirley, My answer is going to 77 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: surprise you. And yeah, because I usually try to help 78 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: some guys out. The name of the letter, though, is 79 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: she slapped my husband. I'm gonna do something I hardly 80 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: ever do. I'm gonna start at the bottom. He swears 81 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: it was nothing at all, that I did not see 82 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: her slap him. Why wouldn't my friend invite this woman 83 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: to join us if something was up with her and 84 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: my husband? I just want to ask about this woman, 85 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 1: but I don't want to seem pressed. What should I do? Well, 86 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: I show want to know who the woman is that 87 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: wrote this letter, because you're amazing I've never had one 88 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: of you. This is it's great. You watched the woman 89 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: slap your husband and you don't want to seem pressed. 90 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then he told you you didn't 91 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: really see hush slap him. That was the move right there. 92 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: And you want to know why your friend invited this 93 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: woman to join us. If something were up with her, 94 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: my husband, your friend may not know anything about it. 95 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: She just invited the woman. But now let's go back 96 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: now and read this letter. Y'all go to the y'all 97 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: Clemson fans, y'all went to the game. So the single 98 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 1: women came. They ain't like football, but they thought some 99 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: single guys would be there. You're chilling, and one of 100 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: your friends joined us. So then she went to the 101 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: ball are to order her own food and drinks, even 102 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: though we had a waited that checked on us. My 103 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: husband was joking, joking with her, but I could see 104 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: that she had a bad vibe from the time she 105 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: walked in. She was on her phone, texting a whole lot. 106 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: At the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he 107 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: checked his phone a lot. I'm watching them the whole 108 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: time because something was not right. Normally I would try 109 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: to help this guy with some lies. Steve Way, he 110 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 1: should hang on. Hang on, We'll have part two of 111 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 112 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subjects she slapped my husband, who goes back. 113 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: All right, we'll get back into it right after this. 114 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: You're listening show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 115 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter and get your spons the titles she 116 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: slapped my husband. They had a bar, they clips some fans. 117 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: Guy used to play. They all go to the bar. 118 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: A couple of girl friends came, but they don't like football, 119 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: but they figured some single guys would be there. Then 120 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: another one of your friends came. According to you, she 121 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: was one of your friends. Came and had a very 122 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: bad vibe, and she went to the bar to order 123 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: her food, but y'all had a waiter that was checking 124 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: on y'all. Ever, she was on her phone texting a lot, 125 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: and at the same time, my husband seemed distracted and 126 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: he checked his phone a lot. So now they texting 127 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: each other. I'm watching them the whole time. Because something 128 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: was not right, she texts, he looked at his phone. 129 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: Oh lord. Then she got up and set at the bar, 130 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: and it was packed, so you couldn't really see what 131 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: was going on on. Your husband went to the bathroom, 132 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: stopped by the bar to talk to her. He showed 133 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: her his phone, she showed him hers. Then she put 134 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I 135 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: walked over to him. He looked like a dead headlight. 136 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: He said. He wanted to know why she was being 137 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: antisocialist sitting at the bar. So I asked him why 138 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: he can Now here's the part of the whole letter. 139 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: She echoed me, saying, yeah, why do you care? Now? 140 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: Right here? Who are you asking my husband any questions? 141 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 1: But when I walked over there, the fact that you 142 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: had slapped him changes our relationship from now on, because 143 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: wait a minute, why did you slap my husband? Now? 144 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: Your husband trying to get out of it. Now, baby, 145 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: she didn't slap me. What you're talking mother? Why slapped 146 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: me him? You should have asked her why did you 147 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 1: slap my husband? Because she answering all the other questions. 148 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: See that old? That old? And yeah, why do you care? Yeah? 149 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: Why do you care? Oh? She answering questions? Well, then 150 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: you should have asked her, why did you slap my husband. Yeah, 151 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: and then when she soon as she gave you her 152 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: her answer, why you ain't slap her ass? Is? Get it? 153 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: I don't understand this at all. See and then you 154 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 1: you something you're a little off. You said, why would 155 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: my friend invite this woman to join us? If something 156 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: is up with her and my husband? Your friend that 157 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: invited her to join and may not know nothing about this? Right? 158 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: Everybody in the dog that didn't nobody know about this? 159 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: I want to ask about this woman, but I don't 160 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 1: want to see him press, So you're gonna let God? 161 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: Who are you? Oh? This is? Do you have a 162 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: sister that was right there? Are you available after this? 163 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: Do you have friends that's available? Because I got partners 164 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: that want to meet this type of woman? I don't know. 165 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: I don't even understand how you let the woman slap 166 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: your husband and you ain't had no words for her? 167 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: He lied, so he did the best slie. Why does 168 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: she slap you? She ain't slapped me and you just 169 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: saw her do it? Crazy? What slap? Why was you 170 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: showing her your phone? I ain't showing her my phone. 171 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: She showed you her phone if you really wanted to 172 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: see it, get crazy man. You could have snatched his phone, 173 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: would have did it, But then I know you ain't 174 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 1: gonna snatch his phone because you don't want Tressy pressed 175 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: an actor. Don't want to be pressed, girl, girl, This 176 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: letter don't make no sense. Lady, I don't know what 177 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: should I do? Well for starters, let me tell you 178 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: what the average woman gonna do. This is far from over. 179 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: M Who is he and what is a he? To you? Who? 180 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: Come on board? Fingers Steve? That was this way song? Goom? 181 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: He always does that? You know a man we passed 182 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: and just try to stand me down? That garment? Who 183 00:11:54,520 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: is he? And what is a he? To you? Who? Now? 184 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: You did? That's a female version to that woman we passed? 185 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: Jays try to stem me down. Doom boom boom, doom doom. 186 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: And when I looked at you, you looked at the ground. 187 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah you did. I don't know who she is, but 188 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: I think that you do that gumment? Who is she 189 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: and what is a she? To you? Who? Ah? Now 190 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: that's that's an old Bill Witherson that I wanted to 191 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: give to you. And that's what you should do. But 192 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: if you don't feel like being pressed, let it go. Okay, 193 00:12:55,240 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: she shouldn't have even used that words girl doom. That's 194 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: not the word, all right. Hit us up on Instagram 195 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. 196 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 197 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: demand now. Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talking. 198 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 1: You want to talk about the astros junior at all, 199 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: we'll get into it right after this. You're listening to 200 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:24,959 Speaker 1: the Stave Harvey Morning Show.