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Speaker 1: If you miss lip Service last week, here's what you miss. Now.

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Speaker 1: We've all seen Bobby Lights on love and Hip hop Miami.

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Speaker 1: I'm a very open person. I'm not gonna put a

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Speaker 1: the label as far as now like my position bottom,

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Speaker 1: Dougs like, yeah, all right, we have a very special

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Speaker 1: girls Club edition of a lip Service. You know, it's

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Speaker 1: always the ladies, but today it's like double the amount

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Speaker 1: of fun. L I'm g g McGuire, I'm Gloria and

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Speaker 1: we got the ladies here the girls Club. What's up?

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Speaker 1: My name is Michael Means Chanelle ak Snel, Young Money's Princess. Hey,

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Speaker 1: it's your favorite young girl was and it's you, Princess Grandma. Alright,

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Speaker 1: So we're excited that y'all came through. So tell us

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Speaker 1: about girls Club. So girls Club is it's like a

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Speaker 1: um I like when you said I'm a mindset, but

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Speaker 1: it's um girls just coming together to support each other.

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Speaker 1: Whether you're in dance, whether you sing, whether you wrap,

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Speaker 1: whether you're radio host, you know, whatever you do, we

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Speaker 1: kind of come together and support each other. So we

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Speaker 1: started off with us in the music business. Um, we've

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Speaker 1: all seen major success and we've all done it alone

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Speaker 1: kind of like even me, my sister or sisters. When

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Speaker 1: So it's just like, yeah, we did that when we're

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Speaker 1: individual things, but let's just a collective Yeah, a collective project.

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Speaker 1: Everybody got to know how to sing, no, okay, just

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Speaker 1: checking something the foundation of singing. But we support whatever,

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Speaker 1: like you know, we got to support Angela. You got you.

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Speaker 1: We've been doing your thing. We've been cool for a

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Speaker 1: long time. So if you were in the city, were

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Speaker 1: coming to your ship, right, and then if you're in Atlanta,

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Speaker 1: you'll come to our ship. Yeah, She's not always hits

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Speaker 1: where you at grandma. But so it's just it's that

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Speaker 1: we have a comedian, her name is Teresa's top notch

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Speaker 1: a show. We go make sure that she feels our energy.

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Speaker 1: And you know, we have a couple of other girls

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Speaker 1: small but big group. It's nice because people always act

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Speaker 1: biggest thing to make sure people know that we really

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Speaker 1: support each other. You know, it's not for the money,

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Speaker 1: it's not for fame, like we've done all of that before,

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Speaker 1: but now it's about seeing her succeed, seeing her succeed,

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Speaker 1: little girl, those mindsets of oh, you know, they don't

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Speaker 1: they see right now, right Because I'm and I'm sure

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Speaker 1: that because you guys have been in situations where you're

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Speaker 1: if you're intelligent enough to not you know, let small

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Speaker 1: issues that you can resolve dissipate your situation. That's all

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Speaker 1: that anybody? Everything got come through you. Yeah, my sister

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Speaker 1: was like, listen, they got elephant here, I got it,

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00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: Mr Marcus. Okay. I thought it was like he had

424
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: some kind of shiny Oh no, it was just every

425
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: time he had his tins on. Yes, he had on

426
00:26:55,160 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: tams in the cloth trunk and in the m so

427
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: he was literally walking around with his dick count and

428
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: some tims and and he going to answer that the

429
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: conversation with you we Tipey's mama. Yeah, we went to

430
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: after party. Do you remember that? I'm talking about Jamie Fox?

431
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: And we were like, you don't remember that, y'all? No,

432
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: because y'all ever dance battle. And I was then one

433
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: walking around because I wouldn't dancing, And so I walked

434
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: to the back and they were battling and doing it

435
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: on the pool table. When I came back, I was like,

436
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: but when you say there was a lot of people's strippers, strippers,

437
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: but as they get and then I saw like some

438
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: action happening, and I was like, Jae box Bies our

439
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: legendary because people always talk about how we had them parties.

440
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: Yeah we was to that was walking on the stage.

441
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 1: Jennie Holmes is looking like, yeah, man, you want a

442
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: party with me? Like looking like do you see how

443
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: did he crash him out of picture? Did you see that?

444
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: And they blurred out French. Monday blurred fresh my tanner

445
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 1: at the picture. What French? He cried about the picture?

446
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: Did he did? He blurred out French. It was like

447
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: Kenja and he was like three did he want even

448
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 1: in the picture? Did he wasn't in the picture? And

449
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: the shout out he said that wasn't brotherly love? Right

450
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: there he was and everything and cake all right? Now,

451
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: the next question, if you were into S and M,

452
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: would you be the dominant or would you be the submissive?

453
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: I had to switch it up. Yeah, I'm gonna quari

454
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: so I with what do you prefer? Though, SIBMISSI later

455
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: get it done to you. Yeah, I probably want to

456
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: be the sibmissive because you were feel weird, like beating

457
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: a guy or something. Yeah, right, you got a whole

458
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: tattoo just all the way come up. I can't do Yeah,

459
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: I don't like the paint thing either. I'm not gonna

460
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: have to I'm gonna have the whip or the like

461
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: lights of candle act. I was going to say that, Yeah,

462
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: probably back and forth with two because it depends how

463
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: dominant you are, because that should be real sexy. But

464
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: then sometimes it's like I don't want to do it right.

465
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to be in control. You've done it.

466
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: I'll be having ideas. I have an idea you've done

467
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: it before. No, but there's something I have never really

468
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: been like with there nothing, but there's certain little games

469
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: that you might want to play, you know what I mean.

470
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: And I'll be having ideas and like imagination. You know,

471
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: we're performers, were actresses, so I'll be like, this is

472
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. She's my little sisters and actually,

473
00:29:52,160 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: what's the safe word? Stop? Kind of like with the

474
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: idea of like having a dick or strap on for

475
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: one situation, like to be able to no girl, to

476
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: be able to like be the man I think ever

477
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: want to put a strap on. I don't want my

478
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: man to ever want just anything. But I don't know

479
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: you wo a girl's like a dominique. I always wanted

480
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: to know the sensation that men feel when they put

481
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: their penis. Will never know because I want to do

482
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: because they do anything for it, So that it's got

483
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: to be crazy, because how can a guy describe it?

484
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm sure you think they want the way it

485
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: feels like today and say that it's wet and they

486
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: can experience, Yes they can. What if your boyfriend was

487
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: like I wish I never have felt like to have

488
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: a vagina, and I feel like I wonder what it

489
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: felt like to get my dick sucked, Like yeah, I

490
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: don't want to know that, that's what I want to know.

491
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: But guys, I think guys felt like that, like because

492
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: they know how we felt once they eat out pussy whatever.

493
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: But like a dick suck just has to be amazing,

494
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: And you is somebody's face like that, that's just it

495
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: seems very primal, like animalistic face, Like you know, I

496
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: have a problem. So what we're kind of talking about

497
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: this earlier today? I think maybe I was dreaming. But

498
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: you know how these men always say that all women

499
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: are lesbians? Are I think all men are gaye rody

500
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: and my theory is too many women that are damned

501
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: with the get down that it's not balancing out for

502
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: all these men to be against it. There's too many

503
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: men in our business for one. For two, these men

504
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: going to jail are so quick to be okay with

505
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: that ship. It's gay, say they hardly feel like all

506
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: men have the same attraction to each other like they

507
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: say women brothers love on each other. They won't play

508
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: niggas car no his house note and leave his baby

509
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: mama broke, and go over and play video games all

510
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: night and be funking with their niggas all the time,

511
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: and will bow yass out the way trying to get

512
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: into the club so they can be with the next

513
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: happy to get up. Gets so sick, worse than Atlanta

514
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: and everybody, everybody in l A and Atlanta with everybody

515
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: specially everybody be happy. And the guys will literally push

516
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: the girls out the way, stand next to g and

517
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: have a nigga and I always girls bottle bottle and

518
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: look at a woman like just discuss. Yeah, like that

519
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: bitch has banging as titties, a small ass, she beautiful

520
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: and you're just so happy you whispering this naked your

521
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: all night that what the fund do they be talking

522
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: about for so long? I'll be about that ship like

523
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: niggers got to talk about in the club when it's

524
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: mad bit each other and yeah, I've been talking for

525
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: an hour, you know what. I Sometimes guys they're doing

526
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: all kind of lean and popping pills and then working

527
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: with each other and then acting like it never happened.

528
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: So they'd be talking about sucking each other and they

529
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, they tag and then they said and

530
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: then they act like they don't remember ship last night.

531
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: Last night was amazing, especially with your tongue. These two

532
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: kids I grew up with right when we were young,

533
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: like maybe like fourteen years old, one of them told

534
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: me that other do suck this dick on the roof.

535
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 1: What he was like, but we were young, we were

536
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: you know, we were young, and so I guess he

537
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, he was on the roof and he

538
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: just was like, yo, let me try something. And he

539
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: was like what and he said he started sucking his

540
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: dick and he was like, yo, chill, but I don't

541
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 1: feel like he said, don't right back and got come.

542
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: He said, I gonna hold you a real nigger with it,

543
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: but like and then I ground him and threw him off.

544
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: I locked up. Now that's why I don't even know

545
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: why he told me that story. He was coming out.

546
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: He wanted he was about the clock. He wanted you

547
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: to He wanted you to be my reaction. Yeah, so

548
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: I have a question, And I mean this may be

549
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, irrelevant, but oh, you dating

550
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: a dude? You know how like a lot of dudes

551
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 1: are okay when there's a girl and she's into girls

552
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: or she's had experience with girls, And what if your

553
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: dude says, you know, I had an experience with a man,

554
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: but that was just one time. But yeah, does does

555
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: this bother us? He botherished me. It wasn't one time.

556
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: It was just the first time. Because I can't compete

557
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: with penis, Okay, yes you can. I don't want to

558
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 1: have more confidence in yourself. I don't. I can't give

559
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: you that. You can't suck a penis could buy. No,

560
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 1: it's not the same. If I don't want a plastic penis.

561
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure he don't want no plastic penis either. I'm

562
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: sure he wants the body connected to it, the same

563
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: way I feel I need a body connected. They had

564
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: some really great fake penises. Now though it feels real,

565
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: like is he never gonna have sex with another man again?

566
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: That's the question. I think that's what the problem is.

567
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 1: But no, but listen, there's a lot of women that

568
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: experimented and then settle down with a man never did

569
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: anything we've talked. Why can't men experiment we talked about

570
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: to get down when they're getting good? Ain't let me

571
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: tell you something. The way to my daddy told me,

572
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: a man supposed to be is a man. You don't

573
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: nobody putting nothing in your as You ain't sucking like

574
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: if you put it in someone else. You guys, this

575
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: is why I give us a past because females, we

576
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: came out sucking on my mom with titty. You let

577
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: we've been less. We're nurturers. We're like, that's what we are.

578
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: A break? Is that what it's called a brisk where

579
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 1: they when you're a baby, they cut, they circumcise you,

580
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: and then the rabbi like section off what by your thinking,

581
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: Mika'll look at your dick sucked by another man? Especially,

582
00:36:54,800 --> 00:37:00,720
Speaker 1: that's what the Jewish culture today. Yeah, yeah, nerve present

583
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: day or you're talking about a little alright, Well, look

584
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: This brings me to a good question somebody emailed in

585
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: and I definitely want to see what y'all think. Okay,

586
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 1: so this woman said she needs some non biased advice.

587
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for a little over three years.

588
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 1: When my partner was a child, he was sexually abused

589
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: by his older stepbrother. Two years ago, I found out

590
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: he was contacting people off back page, and when I

591
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: confronted him, he broke down and tell me why he

592
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: does the things he does, and it came down to

593
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: him having been sexually abused as a child. His family

594
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: does not know. They know something happened, but cannot put

595
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: their finger on it. When this happened, I had him

596
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: seek therapy, and I was saying a therapist myself. I

597
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: remember my therapist telling me he may be a sex

598
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: addict or a porn addict, but I didn't think that

599
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: was him, so I never even told him what she

600
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: told me. I kind of brushed it off. Two years later,

601
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: he proposes, and from my point of view, everything has

602
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: been great. He's a great father. I know he loves

603
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: us legit. Everything is amazing. But then this weekend I

604
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: came across his snapchat and it was literally filled with porn.

605
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: He follows girls. He specifically you snapchat for porn. He

606
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: would say money for personal videos or pictures. This time

607
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: I just couldn't take it, and therefore I kicked him

608
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: out and told him he was sick. He is an

609
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: addiction and a problem. It's clear his day. It's like

610
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: a double life. Maybe I dropped the ball by not

611
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: really taking this as serious the first time around, but

612
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: I trusted he would really get help and not to

613
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: see a therapist a few times and call it a day.

614
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: Am I wrong for turning my back on him? No? No,

615
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 1: But so it would be better if she if he

616
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: was just watching porn, if this ship, yeah, he's it's

617
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: just like being involved with an alcoholic or any type

618
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: of addiction or a person who's say, but if it's

619
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: just healthy, if it's just pussy, and it's not weird,

620
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: ship and children and ship, which I thought she was

621
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 1: gonna say that she found out that he was gay.

622
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: I thought the back pages was for men. Yeah, but

623
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: the real thing is that he was abused as a child,

624
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: and you know it's not a child and now he's

625
00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: sex and addicted to porn, so he paid feel like

626
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: that that's just like videos. I was somebody like that.

627
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 1: How he does need help? One that's a gate and

628
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: if anything, I feel like watching for free. You don't

629
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: need help because I help. And that's what he used

630
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 1: to be free hide he wanted started free. He was

631
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: watching it free. Now he wanted a personalize. So now fan,

632
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: now you want to proceed. But right on that stage one, yeah,

633
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: you don't get to the gate to You told me

634
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 1: that you're just smoking. One you ain't drinking. And he

635
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: told me that he got got out of control when

636
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: he started looking at what's best trending, he said. He

637
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: told me how gradual it got. First it was just

638
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: just thin. It was that he was like, now I

639
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: will stay up on my computer. Damn that Now seven

640
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: am I feel like it? And if it's something that

641
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 1: happened when he was little and it was never addressed,

642
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 1: he could one be confused sexually and not know how

643
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: to handle it. He could in his mind like me

644
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: and now and to try to suppress that. He just

645
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: pressed that in women, to try to cancel out those

646
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: true feelings because he probably got hard when he was

647
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 1: touched something He probably came when he was touching. It's

648
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 1: still your body's going to react. So you know, I

649
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 1: just feel like you can't just if they married, I don't.

650
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do know that he did

651
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: at least go and try to get help. And then

652
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: the therapist did say he might have an addiction. She

653
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: didn't address that. She never even told him, and so

654
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: it's kind of like you didn't nip it in the bud.

655
00:40:55,520 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 1: And there were all these signs. Yes, so unaddicted into sex.

656
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: Where does the line draw It's just a female who

657
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 1: was molested or something. She ends up being a strip

658
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: or a prostitute. And at the same kind of cord like,

659
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: he's not a stripper of a prostitute. He's looking at porn,

660
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: which everybody here watching, anybody paying for it here though, okay,

661
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: but women too. One time from Insurrections, man, I kept

662
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: on stage two bro. They let me have him because

663
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 1: I kept because I was like, give me a membership

664
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: for Insurrections for two weeks. Oh, I don't know. I

665
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: think how she got kids with him, She had kids

666
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: with him. He as if as long I feel like,

667
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: as long as his porn choices aren't something that she

668
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: like bality like very like she might need to step

669
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: her sexual activity up. Ain't about her. I felt like

670
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: her because every fantasy that has been trading into his

671
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: I just saw a couple of pictures and it's like,

672
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,439
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, well he was sending money to people

673
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: on Snapchat. And she said, that's what the problem is.

674
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: It's children sending random bitch's money. For me. That's a problem.

675
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: You're taking money out my kids. She probably she probably

676
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: feels like that. I can't satisfy you that you have

677
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: to go and do this. That's just not helping. But

678
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: what's interesting she said that their relationship has been amazing.

679
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: He's a great dad and everything, but he can still

680
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: be a great dad. Just now my husband he just

681
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: needs help. And she said everything is amazing between us

682
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: until she said, witch, why are you prying? If everything

683
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: was amazing, yo, asks wouldn't be looking at his browser.

684
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: She needs to just do They need to go back

685
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: to theory got married. They're married, and he's saying everything

686
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: is amazing. She said, they're in a relationship. He's her

687
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: partner and they've been together for three years and they

688
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: have a kid. But he proposed to keep proposing the

689
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: three years engaged three years now, long, that's the kid,

690
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 1: that's the problem. And then look, if he really has

691
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: a problem, you don't want something really bad to happen

692
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: to him and for her to get worse because you

693
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: would feel bad. Now, I'm not saying you gotta be

694
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: with him, but maybe you want to at least help him.

695
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: How actual therapy? Yeah, talking what it is like. Imagine

696
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: being a kid again abused by your stepfrother So he

697
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: was getting out. Why did he stopped? I don't know

698
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: why he stopped, but you know, she said she didn't

699
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 1: take it seriously, like when the when the therapist was saying, well,

700
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 1: this is his problem. She didn't take when you see

701
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: it on Instagram like you shouldn't. No, she should have

702
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: took it serious one of where she didn't. So now

703
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: she's like, am I wrong if I leave him? Right?

704
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: So take him out? I think it's think about everything.

705
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: You just heard us, lady say me what I said.

706
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: It's us you know. I think there's a bunch of

707
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: different ways you can look at it. We don't know

708
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: the detailed details. But happy if you're not happy, that's

709
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's why you're not prying though, I'm

710
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: saying when I'm happy, I don't go looking for a problem.

711
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, but let's just say you find one, Like

712
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: everything is great, so you think because that happens, you

713
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: think everything's great. Find out problems, sex problems, money problems.

714
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: So I guess she she just probably needs to see

715
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: if he can go one more round with the therapy

716
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: and really get to the root of the problem, because

717
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: you know, it may not really be that much of

718
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: an an addiction, but if it's too much for her,

719
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: then that's where the problem is. And it's like I

720
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: can't be with somebody who's like this, like giving my ultimatum,

721
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: like if you keep doing that together or you know what,

722
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: maybe you could not be together but still help him,

723
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: and then if he works through his issues, work on

724
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: your relationships. Work on yourself first. When you know you

725
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: have an issue and the person knows you have some

726
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: addictions and demons and things that you're dealing with from childhood,

727
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: work on yourself and then let's work on a relationship,

728
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: because it's hard to be in a relationship when you

729
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: have issues. Yeah, that shoe, But at the same time,

730
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 1: it's like he really did not cheat on her though,

731
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: So if she if he if she loves him, then

732
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: maybe she should figure it out. But where did you

733
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,439
Speaker 1: feel crazy if your man was sending money to random bitch?

734
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 1: How who used to get on the question and would

735
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: be on and his dumbass will never erase the history?

736
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: What was he looking at? H Okay? All right, well

737
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: you know, okay, we would have just had sex the

738
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: night before. So every morning you're still getting up like

739
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 1: kind of on the highway, what are you getting up?

740
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: And he feels like you don't want to? You know,

741
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: I had I had a friend who's whose husband was

742
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 1: has a sex addiction, and she was finding you know,

743
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: histories and the cookies, and you know, he's up late

744
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: at night on you know, on on the internet, having

745
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: in group chats and everything, and then he's like he's

746
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: like waking her up out of her sleep trying to

747
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: get her have sex and then like doing like when

748
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 1: she didn't want to, he would like jack off and

749
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: then like slap the ship on her, like, oh my god,

750
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: it's a it's a slipper reslope and will it will

751
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: get worse and worse and worse if she doesn't feel

752
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: like she can satisfy him. He doesn't feel like he's

753
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: satisfying her like it became really really like toxic persons.

754
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. He was still having sex

755
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: with you every night, but he was still looking at

756
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: porn in the morning. I don't know if that would

757
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: buy them, because we still have a healthy sex life,

758
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: but it's still something that I'm not fulfilling because I

759
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes a lot of people are sextually too,

760
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: Like sometimes guys like to have sex more than we do,

761
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: and sometimes we like to have sex more than they do. Right,

762
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's hard to kind of sick. I know

763
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: that now. I mean, what does that mean. I don't know.

764
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: I know that now being older, But back then he's

765
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: always had a high sex drive. So so maybe instead

766
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: of hide ns and that day, it's just like, are

767
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: you talking about one day? Seven eight? Na? He must

768
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: not do no drugs? Back nuts? Do we have a job?

769
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: How do people have sex? Nina? Smoke and he was

770
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,399
Speaker 1: always getting fun So I wasn't even smoking back then?

771
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 1: What a way that relationship like that was not? I

772
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: was drinking don't hurt me a card belvidere with one

773
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: for the one and punch are used to go down better,

774
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: smoke weeds when I was buying weed, like you don't

775
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: just meet a week Hawaiian punch my fam quote the

776
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: waitress cannot date the cook. All right, now, I gotta

777
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 1: ask you this next questions. Have you ever aggressively pursued

778
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: a man? Yes? Yeah? What's aggressive? Yeah? Like that same

779
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: ex I was talking about. We was younger and I

780
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: used to always see him in the club. Was like,

781
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 1: oh he likes yeah, I won't you come here and

782
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: he'll be like, hold on, oh ship, he told me,

783
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: who do you know? Who I am here? Hold on?

784
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 1: That was cute. It tells you on even more and

785
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 1: he made me wait three weeks. He made you wait

786
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: and you liked it though. Oh wow, see you guys

787
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: make us wait. He hit me with the shut up

788
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: or you ain't get no more and you're like, okay,

789
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shut up. What about you, Mika? What's aggressive

790
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: to you? Well? I was just like showing up where

791
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: he acts. That's stocking. I would just be like the

792
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 1: first one to initiate conversation. Yes, you do do something

793
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: like that. I don't like confrontation like that. I'm not like,

794
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say, like right, and

795
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm like Dams said that anyway, but like just texting

796
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: and not going to text back, but then still texting

797
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: ship like that or calling. I hope he wasn't saying

798
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: question marks. I hate when I don't answer somebody and

799
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: they send like a bunch of question marks. I hit

800
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: him with a whole picture. Wait on you to respect

801
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 1: that's now. That's because as a woman, you you're supposed

802
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: to be back. You want to be like you want

803
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 1: him to be going out for you. But so what?

804
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: But women are like these days and we will say

805
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 1: what we want, we get what we want. Why can't

806
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: we do that with men too? That ship makes me

807
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: feel weird. It makes me feel like, it makes me

808
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:19,439
Speaker 1: feel I'm being as you gotta understand what a man

809
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: is like, that's not that kind of you. Gotta do

810
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: what it takes to get that man to give you

811
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: the attention that you want, because they're not built like that.

812
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: They don't want something that they already got without trying

813
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: to get it. Like I just feel like they're kind

814
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: of built like, give me something to fucking work towards it,

815
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: Like they dont wanted to be too easy. Yeah, I

816
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: wanted to with me. Would you propose you a man,

817
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, so you still oh yeah, your boss,

818
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: I don't call it. I didn't text and call too

819
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 1: much sometimes one time and like oh yeahs like don't

820
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: don't try to, don't catch me and now you got

821
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: my attention and now you're not gonna answer, And then

822
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 1: that's what I'm an ego thing, and then they hit

823
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 1: you with that, Oh I was locked up. I couldn't respond.

824
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: I was locked up, and you over here going in

825
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: not even knowing I was locked up. Shout out to me,

826
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: lying girl, just so you know he lying was not

827
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: locked up. What I felt like I was, I need

828
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: some paperwork. He will be gonna need that. All you

829
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: gonna do is type his name in the oh yeah,

830
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: because you know how you be mad and you'd be

831
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: texting he don't put you back, and then you're like,

832
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: I feel what did some happen? Because when you started

833
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: thinking like, I don't think that an accident. If I

834
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,240
Speaker 1: don't get a text back. My initial responses that nigga

835
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: like I don't feel like something happened always is good.

836
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: Every didn't you be bad? And if you don't text

837
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: me bad? See, I'd be thinking like that. But then

838
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm not gonna say that because there's

839
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: something bad happened. I don't want to feel like I

840
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: was a bit yeah, like that with people I have

841
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: already fucked with, you know what I mean? Like, it's

842
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: not like something straight, it's like just you two minutes ago?

843
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: Where you at? Right that I see you suck somebody dick?

844
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: You have the authority you do like you? Where's my dick? Alright?

845
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: Here's another asked you question? Alright, this guy I've been

846
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: conversing with has asked to fly me. I have to

847
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: see him next month, and I'm trying to decide if

848
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: I should go. I mean, he says he'll cover the flight,

849
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: he would pay for a hotel for me to stay,

850
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: and he also offered to let me stay in his

851
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: nice ass house. He should I go on my show?

852
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: Should I stay in the hotel? I've never done this before,

853
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: but I recently had a birthday and decided that I

854
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: would live a little this year. Tell me what you

855
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: think in a hotel. You got a round trip flight, right,

856
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 1: spend the money for the bags, and make sure that

857
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: just in case he's going to the side to cancel

858
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 1: your share or some motion it you got, you got yourself, yep,

859
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 1: and change your room after you check in. Right. I

860
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: used to run that, dude. I used to being in Miami.

861
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: I used to run the scheme. I used to be like, well,

862
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: I'll just book the flight sent me like I'm a

863
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 1: guy's last but it's like six hundred dollars. I'll be

864
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 1: right on looking around to be on the rewards point.

865
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,720
Speaker 1: They put you in first class if it's an empty

866
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: first plas. Yeah, like we had that girl come on

867
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 1: Prime let Out. We used to that show and travel

868
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: please twenty one. I'm a student, Please extra next stairs.

869
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,879
Speaker 1: I don't even have that man spaghetti And you gotta

870
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: pay to put the bag up carry on like that

871
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: before you gotta pay for water. Okay. So the advice,

872
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: and that's not bad advice is staying in the hotel. Right,

873
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 1: make sure you have your own money when you go.

874
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: Justications that work out, and make sure that your flight

875
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 1: is round trip, round trip. It would be nice to

876
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: know somebody there too. Don't go to Milwaukee and no ship.

877
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: You and I didn't know where you're going. Yes, I

878
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 1: gave your girlfriend all his information. So if somebody know

879
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: where you are at, if you don't come back right,

880
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: and you know what, it's not bad. He that's see

881
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: if he'll bring one of your friends to how much

882
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: money I got because my mom is said she don't

883
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: turn to nobody right the boyfriend, all right, so that's

884
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 1: not bad. So she could go. Just make sure you

885
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: And I'm not against not letting him book the flight,

886
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: but telling him how much it is and then saying,

887
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: you know, send it to me and our bucket. Yeah,

888
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: he can't cancel your ship if he decides exactly, it

889
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: has no authory. And don't let him hit you with

890
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 1: the algae. The money when you get here, money and guaranteed,

891
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 1: and let that motherfucking down. Look, I got paid routing

892
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: numbers Fargo can cash at me your eyes. Man, what

893
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: if you put you on like a connecting flight, my

894
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: cousin will No, let's add to the country. If you

895
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 1: put you on a connecting flight from New York to Atlanta,

896
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: yeah you go, my husband, And if you gotta go

897
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:53,399
Speaker 1: through my baby Chicago that I'd be like, no, I'm

898
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: not getting on this all right now. Let me ask

899
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: you all this question. If your man said your outfit

900
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: is to be being thing, would you change your clothes. No, no, huh.

901
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: If he's coming with me now, if I'm going with

902
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: my girls, yeah, okay, so if he's there, Like well,

903
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: I was on vacation one time and we were going

904
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: to the beach and I had on a baby suit

905
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: and a cover up and he actually change. But you're

906
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: going it wasn't ample cover it wasn't a thing litter,

907
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 1: but the cover up was he through? But it's a

908
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: basis to vote from one island to the other island. Yes,

909
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 1: he was right? Did you change changed? I would feel

910
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: uncomfortable if we were. Also when the group setting with

911
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:49,320
Speaker 1: a bunch of other couples, like, I don't want the

912
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 1: other girls to be mad like who this bitch with her?

913
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: As you probably want the other that too, because that

914
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 1: makes them have to either if a nigga says something,

915
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: I gotta you know. But if you're question, don't you

916
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 1: think guys like when other guys look at you, Yes,

917
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: and I know that thing, but that's what they down

918
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: so that they know that you'here that too. That's some

919
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: alpha men that be like you know, they don't like

920
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: to because you put them in a position to have

921
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: to defend you. That's what I'm on the fence with

922
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: the whole you've been women have it mean? We actually

923
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: had the two writers really when they wrote that, I

924
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 1: was I'm sorry she now keep going? So what I

925
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: was saying, Oh no, I think that sometimes they're like

926
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: if you you got to know the Nike that you

927
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 1: with like because if you're too bad and he's always

928
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: it's tiring for them to always have to because you

929
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 1: you might not even make That's how I told you

930
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: you better be confident to keep me. You understand. You

931
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: gotta understand both ways because man is trying to be

932
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: They're trying to be your protector. And if they if

933
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: they're with you and somebody either grabs you or whistles

934
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: that you and does something like that, that puts them

935
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: in a position to now have to But you have

936
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: to know how to how to conduct yourself like I know.

937
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: I know for myself, I'm never gonna do anything that's

938
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: gonna put myself in a guys do ship. You can't

939
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: help with you, you can't. But I know, but I

940
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: know anything that I'm doing is not going to ask

941
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: for that type of attention. Now I might get a

942
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: whole bunch of attention, but I'm not gonna do extra ship,

943
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So nigga telling me to

944
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: change and me like, you know me, I wouldn't change it.

945
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: But I also know I already to put myself in

946
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: a position to where I feel like whatever I put on,

947
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 1: I don't need to change that ship because I'm not

948
00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: gonna disrespect myself. I'm not gonna be out right. But

949
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: I just I understand where some men come from with that,

950
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: because okay, this is a situation. I was thinking somebody

951
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: big nigger and we were in the movie theater and

952
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: his it was some of his homeboys in the front

953
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: of us, and they were so rude throughout the whole

954
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: because we actually went in the movie before the movie

955
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: that we were going to see started, because we were

956
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: just there and this dude was just being rude. He

957
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: was throwing popcorn at the trying to hit the TVs,

958
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: just rude, and I was like, yo, chill out, and

959
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 1: my my dude, that was He was like, I don't

960
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: say not nothing. I got piste off. I said, fucking

961
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: checking me for check? That make it? So I got

962
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: up And so later he said it wasn't that I

963
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: was mad trying to check you if he would have

964
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: turned around and said something to you. Now I gotta

965
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: whoop his ass because you said something. And now even

966
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna have an issue with my crew

967
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:04,959
Speaker 1: or money is. But that's different from what you would

968
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: have put on your own body, like you addressing another me,

969
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: and it's something different than what you hear. And I

970
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: feel like his boy should respect him enough that they

971
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:16,439
Speaker 1: wouldn't talk crazy to you, right right, Well, he didn't

972
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: say that, but he was just like if he didn't,

973
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: because because you know, he ain't said nothing because he

974
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: know I'm right here, but you keep pressing that he's

975
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: gonna try. That's happened to me before. There. She's been there,

976
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 1: and I've said something to somebody's friends, like checking and

977
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: the dude, and he tried to come at me crazy,

978
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: and then the dude that I was dealing with had

979
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: to in turn check him. But then it caused the

980
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 1: big problem because now this dude don't really like me.

981
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: Now he fell away because I had his man balk

982
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 1: on him. But he's kind of mad at me too,

983
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: because like, you shouldn't have said nothing. We all drunk,

984
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: whatever the case was. But like I looked at it

985
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: like I'm still a female, Like I'll talk ship whatever, whatever,

986
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: but he gotta be respectful because I'm a female. He

987
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: damn there, guy in my faith, like bitch. But but

988
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I've learned to respect the alpha male

989
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: because I'm a I'm an alpha female and I know

990
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: a lot of bit yass niggas out so when I

991
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: meet them, I we bumped heads at first because I'm

992
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: just like, but I'm learning to respect the place that

993
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: they have in in man. Yeah, my yeah, because that

994
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: that taught me a lot. That situation taught me a

995
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: lot because I was like, I don't like, no, don't

996
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 1: talk to me like that. I feel like he could

997
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,439
Speaker 1: have said, you know, my I'm having a just don't

998
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: say no. I was like, okay, not don't say nothing

999
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: else to that, Nike, because now you felt checked. Oh

1000
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: now you're gonna check me for checking him. I'm checking

1001
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: this punk ass mom, you're supposed to be checking. Okay,

1002
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: Let's bring up another scenario. Let's say that your boyfriend,

1003
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: right or your man and his best friend. You know,

1004
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: you hang out with him and his girlfriend, but then

1005
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: y'all go out one time and he got another chick.

1006
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: But you're cool with the other with his girl. I

1007
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 1: ain't know, snick, what does that make shade the girl?

1008
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 1: But what did that make you feel? Like? Yeah, man

1009
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 1: be out with him with other bitches to probably me

1010
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: and my man will have that conversation. But I'm not

1011
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 1: gonna talk to you. How you can peep it out?

1012
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: You just throw like little shade like, oh, Tony, who

1013
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 1: is this? Oh she's so cute? What's her name? Baby?

1014
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: You just keep switching him and you get on him,

1015
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: then he's gonna be like you ain't gonna goddamn beam

1016
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: doing the same ship. He can't do that. He do

1017
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: that ship, he might get shot. But see what to

1018
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 1: do that? Because y'all be going on that you hang

1019
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: out with the other girlfriend without the dudes around. The

1020
01:02:55,960 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 1: girlfriend is my friend and I can't make them And no,

1021
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 1: but if she was a friend, but but no, she

1022
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: she gotta she gotta be a sneak for you to

1023
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: the birds though quiet No, but that's his You know,

1024
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: y'all hung out, went on vacations together. That could be

1025
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: your fe houses, like been together for years and now

1026
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: you've seen this and now you feel weird, because I

1027
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: would feel weird if I'm yeah, I would like friends

1028
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: do you'll talk about that's how y'all hang out without

1029
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: the dudes. Yeah, right there, like what you're doing now

1030
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: that people. And I stopped working with that bitch because

1031
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: I knew. I was like so like he brawng the

1032
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: bitch around his baby mom. But she had always hung

1033
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: out with me and her boyfriend and my nigger. You

1034
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, double date all that ship. And

1035
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 1: then I found out that like she had came around

1036
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: the baby mom and side, I'm like, fuck that bitch.

1037
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: We got beef now because you was acting like you

1038
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: was my friend and you never said nothing. So even

1039
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 1: though we weren't friends before the situation, you was fake

1040
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: my friend. But then but according to what you said,

1041
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: you gotta mind your business when you're well ship. I'm

1042
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 1: talking about if that's not my friend like that, like

1043
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 1: if we just hang out and we go to dinner,

1044
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 1: that's his friend girlfriend. I'm on mama business. But you'll

1045
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: became friends, but only through your men. If we was

1046
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,439
Speaker 1: on the phone, like you said, she kind of my house,

1047
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: we go shopping, that's a different kind of situation. But

1048
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 1: if we just out and we just happened to all

1049
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: go out you mind. It gets tricky because now your

1050
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: man is mad at you for breaking up. They're happy home,

1051
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: right because then now he got to bring as you

1052
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: talk to your dude about it, like yeah, but what's

1053
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: he gonna do. He's not gonna say nothing. So now

1054
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: I gotta be around and act fake around somebody who

1055
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 1: I really became friends with. It let it be known,

1056
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: be like, look, I don't know how I'm gonna keep

1057
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: my composure around Keisha. The jump off shouldn't be at

1058
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: dinner with wifey. Does don't matter, like that, can't be

1059
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: a friend. No more money that nig with some bullshit,

1060
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 1: I'll go out on the guy. So y'all would tell

1061
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: her not I would. In the conversation with my guy,

1062
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: I would. I would let him know that I'm not

1063
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: comfortable with that and if and if that's not changing,

1064
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: if you like, yeah, like, don't don't bring that to me, like,

1065
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: don't get me involved, because then you're putting me in

1066
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: a in a weird predicament to be buddy buddy with

1067
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: this ship. And I'm not gonna be buddy buddy. I'm

1068
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: gonna keep record you. But then now how I look

1069
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 1: smiler than my home girlface. You keep that away from me.

1070
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm not never gotdamn table with Keiana. But they'd be like,

1071
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: you're one of the guys, Na, But the niggas will

1072
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 1: be like you one of the guys. GIU mad cool,

1073
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 1: like you can't snitch you. Then you'll be like, now,

1074
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: I think I'm trying to see that now you got

1075
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: a problem with their homeboy regardless, because you're like, I

1076
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: don't just know. Yeah, I don't trust y'all, but at

1077
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: they you because he's like the right right for saying

1078
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 1: speak and I respected. All right, here's the last ask

1079
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: you question. My wife is getting a lot of weight

1080
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: over the last couple of years, and when I brought

1081
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: it up in the past, suggesting and inviting her to

1082
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: work out, the discussions have not gone well. She used

1083
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 1: to try to work out and eat right, but it

1084
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: seems like she lost that focus and doesn't work out

1085
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: anymore east whatever she wants. I need your advice on

1086
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: how I can reintroduce the subject and address my concern

1087
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:24,439
Speaker 1: without starting another argument. Partner workout, he said it wasn't

1088
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: working out. He tried, and he said she's just not

1089
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 1: responsive to that. He better take her to Miami to

1090
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: dr Miami to be like, baby, I got you a present,

1091
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: shall fright take it? I don't think something wrong. You

1092
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: should you hard. That's the thing about being in relationships,

1093
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: and you grow, you change, like no one's the same

1094
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 1: all the time. You know, you could have been a

1095
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, a nine to five worker and then

1096
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 1: turn into a you know what I'm saying, like stay

1097
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: at home mom or whatever, or or now you want

1098
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: to be an industry nigga. All of a sudden, it's like,

1099
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't want you to be an industry nigger. I

1100
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: like you as a nine to five nigga. Now we

1101
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: got problems because this is not what I like. So

1102
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,439
Speaker 1: I understand him, like because she was a skinny bitch

1103
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:24,439
Speaker 1: and now shot out to be you know, heavy, Maybe

1104
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 1: he that's not what he likes. Maybe he just should

1105
01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 1: tell her it's not because listen, he was out the

1106
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 1: way too for men. Do we like when our men

1107
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: get all out of shade? No, So he doesn't love you,

1108
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: keep it tightening it. But it's so it's hard to

1109
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: like he doesn't love her for her. That's not too though.

1110
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: It's hard because when you fell in love with somebody

1111
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: and they was and then they change. You gotta do

1112
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 1: stuff together that's fun, like you know what I mean,

1113
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: like like hey, come on, let's go hiking. Make it fun. Yeah,

1114
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 1: maybe it's not done. Maybe it's not He's been saying,

1115
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: should on some type of non traditional workout. Let's women

1116
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 1: to keep this. I think it would be sexy. Baby.

1117
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: If I'm poll aerobics class and if I'm invested in

1118
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: a relationship, it's like like I feel like people have

1119
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: to just do their parts, like communication, you know, spending

1120
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: time together, like staying fine, Like come on, now you

1121
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 1: say that because women give birth, what the reason is

1122
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: for that? But when you just just sitting there, she

1123
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 1: just understanding, especially after having kids when but she didn't

1124
01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: she could she could have gotten comfortable, you know how

1125
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: you go through that phase with just being comfortable, Like

1126
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: he loved me as a They're go on like a

1127
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: romantic dinner and then have a saucy class dinner and

1128
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: the prior do or do or go to a class

1129
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 1: or like I'm a cut I'm gonna cut tonight, make

1130
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: some broccoli and some fucking fake chicken. Yeah he has to.

1131
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: He'd be like maybe if he he has cooked every night,

1132
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 1: because if he's asking her to make him staking potatoes

1133
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: every damn night, what she's she's gonna eat? You gotta

1134
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: be like, we gotta get healthier, we're doing master cleans

1135
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: and we're gon be She has to take responsibility for

1136
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,719
Speaker 1: what her actions. But it's so funny because I've watched

1137
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: relationships like that. You'll just see like the husband like

1138
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 1: this maddest shape, and he'd just be trying to like

1139
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 1: show come on, baby, and when when the dude chicking out,

1140
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 1: want more patience, when the woman is out of share,

1141
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: get back together, like right now. But when the woman

1142
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: loses that weight, baby, that's what she break up with it.

1143
01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:00,040
Speaker 1: It's like, right, but that's not a lot you what

1144
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: you want to lose weight? So now what you could

1145
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 1: go bike riding together. You could go like y'all said,

1146
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: the dancing classes, you know what. I Sometimes when gain

1147
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: weight like that and kind of give up, it might

1148
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 1: be something mental to They could be going through something

1149
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: that it might be a more of an issue. Up. Okay,

1150
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: let's talk what are you dealing with? Because sometimes it's

1151
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: not necessarily like when you just gave up and like

1152
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: I used to work out and I used to it good,

1153
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 1: and I just stopped all that it might be something

1154
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 1: else going on. She probably found her fat naked as

1155
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: she loved better than him with that kind of do

1156
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 1: like that together person. I mean, that's something she'd rather

1157
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 1: eat biscuits and ship in bed and this. They want

1158
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 1: to go jogging always so me and my friends we

1159
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: always said that we want to give rich as fun

1160
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: and just get fat as. There's no reason to be

1161
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: rich and fat because you could have somebody travel with

1162
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: you that makes you do right, Okay, not even at

1163
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,720
Speaker 1: the end, gang, get you bey and moved to Miami.

1164
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. Yeah, all the very quisy

1165
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:20,240
Speaker 1: Jones got hips. I hate. I can't stand man. That's

1166
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: why y'all do you hate man? Amen? Don't have no man?

1167
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: Do you have no big hips? And question? That is poison?

1168
01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 1: The sexiest part of the man's body other than his deck,

1169
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 1: other than come on this part of his arms, his form?

1170
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 1: Really yep? Okay, let's go on first. Okay, I like,

1171
01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:51,040
Speaker 1: can I explain wife like, when a man holds you,

1172
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:56,480
Speaker 1: that that's that's that like dominance, that's that protection, that security,

1173
01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 1: that masculinity would be in their hands in their arms

1174
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 1: on us like that. Okay, that's cute. I like a

1175
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: good torso, but like specifically it's the back and then

1176
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 1: the trying steps, so you like everything. Basically, she's a

1177
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 1: sad leg. She showed us killing. He got good shoulders,

1178
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: killing the whole tour, just the man, the whole man.

1179
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: I throw the whole man in the in the box.

1180
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 1: Anybody down with some ankle socks. You got that last season, okay,

1181
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 1: Jesus jack Um. I like I like legs. I like

1182
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: some thick thighs and some bow legs like that bow.

1183
01:12:56,280 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: You know what, Nick could be bowlegg His legs just

1184
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 1: gotta naturally get out the way for that big so

1185
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: you can't have a little chicken bow like it. That's

1186
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:06,719
Speaker 1: false advertising. Bow Legs is the body's way of making

1187
01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 1: sure that the pain has got enough space. Man testament again,

1188
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 1: Please what they hold me to press record sold me?

1189
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:27,600
Speaker 1: I look at okay, because it can't be dick. We

1190
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 1: said the lips to me, the lips, and you know

1191
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 1: everything that's going on around here, I have to eat

1192
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: the lips, plessy eating. I love a good mouth. You

1193
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:45,000
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying with that mouth? Do yes? When

1194
01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 1: say that that's a beautiful mouth. Nice and well, I

1195
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 1: guess I like arms. I like you guys have a

1196
01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 1: litle muscles, so you could rub on their muscles and

1197
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 1: stuff holding that I like myself. Well, I've got one

1198
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: person said less because a lot of guys get leg

1199
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: workouts in the gym. Chicken little right. Well, listen, I

1200
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 1: guess we got it. And we've been talking for like

1201
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: over an hour now, But I had a good time

1202
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 1: with that. Girls clubbing is big, like an album. What's happening? Yes, well,

1203
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 1: we don't have the official name yet, but we have

1204
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,599
Speaker 1: a couple of singles. We have um a song called

1205
01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:35,600
Speaker 1: Couldn't get it Up? Damn we have to play that

1206
01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 1: might be but we have a song with a hook

1207
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 1: already done for y'all, and they make you big biggest hat,

1208
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,400
Speaker 1: the big bagest hat, and the big biggest hat and

1209
01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 1: the big biggest half, biggest had the biggest hat and

1210
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:58,840
Speaker 1: the biggest half. Oh yeah, y'all next day and y'all

1211
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 1: y'all a fish. So yeah, y'all want to keep the

1212
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:04,559
Speaker 1: studio over for three more hours and we can all

1213
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:07,960
Speaker 1: head him wrap and say, but yeah, we got a

1214
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:11,760
Speaker 1: compilation album that we've been working on and it's almost done.

1215
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: We're about to shoot some videos for two of the

1216
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: singles in like two weeks. We're gonna go on tour

1217
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: and just hit a different but shows. And we also

1218
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 1: do volunteer work for like the Boys and Girls Club

1219
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 1: of America and different things. And we really are mentors

1220
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: as well. We like to reach out to the community

1221
01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 1: and girls. I think I got you listen. I just

1222
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:45,560
Speaker 1: want to make sure we reiterate the lip service. We

1223
01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:47,720
Speaker 1: do have a live show with the Highline Ballroom that's

1224
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:51,880
Speaker 1: happening on February thirteenth, the day before Value. Yes. Can

1225
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 1: we go? Yes, please come through. It's gonna be fine.

1226
01:15:54,600 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 1: We got can we perform? Yeah, we've sea at Highlight barrooms.

1227
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: And then we also have Little Mo and her husband,

1228
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: and we got a couple other surprise guests. Now we

1229
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 1: got some it's gonna be alright. Lift Service. Thank you

1230
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: all so much. Thank thank you, y'all all together Vagina

1231
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 1: Powers