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Speaker 1: you one at two point seven. This is kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: So let's get into this. Devin has reached out. If

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Speaker 2: Here, what's that new term? Time you told us about her?

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Speaker 2: And he told me about that new term? Not remember

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Speaker 2: I remember? But something you guys quiet quiet dumping. I'm

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Speaker 2: glad you guys can't remember things too. You know, when

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Speaker 1: Also, because I'm just I'm miss pounded with information. I mean,

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Speaker 1: and everybody's talking about I don't know who told me

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Speaker 1: what it's Sisney, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: I realize that you've been doing that lately. It's Sonya. No,

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Speaker 2: you just say like you say, like what you you got?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 1: We all told me because because I know that one

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Speaker 2: But was it sis Ne or Tanya or Sonya?

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Speaker 2: All right, Devin, Sorry, that was a not meant to

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Speaker 4: Good? How are you?

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Speaker 1: We're doing okay? So I want to get into your

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Speaker 1: second date update to shoot here. Thanks for reaching out.

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Speaker 1: By the way, you met on grinder. Uh, you had

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Speaker 1: the cutest first date ever. You say, what did you

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Speaker 4: All right? So I met this guy and he's super much.

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Speaker 4: He has a beard and glasses and he showed up

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Speaker 4: to our day at the pumpkin pat which was my

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Speaker 2: He showed up in overalls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so all you do at the pumpkin patch for

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Speaker 2: And it's time zoom picture. Okay, what did y'all do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So we went to the Live Oak Kenyon Pumpkin

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Speaker 1: When I go to can't wait to get the pumpkins out,

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Speaker 2: It's like a park.

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Speaker 1: Come on you guys, there comes to Christmas trees. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so why do you why do you think it was great?

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Speaker 4: I mean, everything went fine. Like I said, we had

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Speaker 4: our second date because there's this winery and Ukaypa that

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Speaker 4: And I was blocked.

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Speaker 2: You were blocked by him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was good on the date, like the

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Speaker 1: creative dating though the winery the pumpkin pats. Those are funnest.

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Speaker 2: I'm inspired. Hey, I need to step it up over here.

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Speaker 4: If he got back with his ex or what. But

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Speaker 1: That's actually an interesting Yeah. I mean that would justify

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Speaker 2: All right, what's his name?

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Speaker 4: That's Serge.

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Speaker 1: Deal, Hang on, Devin, Let's see if we can track

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Speaker 1: down Sergio get all the information we need to find

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Thanks, On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Did I read that Jessica Simpson was stopped by a

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Speaker 2: Has it happened to you?

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Speaker 1: So she she was approached by a fan and you'll

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Speaker 4: And why?

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Speaker 2: Is it so funny? And was that our daughter in

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Speaker 1: Wow, yes, it happened to me some I was in

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Speaker 2: Oh, Drew no, nickl Yes, Oh I just went with it.

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Speaker 2: That is so good. Suicide by side, let's see. No,

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Speaker 2: there's nothing, there's nothing to look side by side at all.

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Speaker 2: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Uh, let's get to this second date, up date. So, uh,

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Speaker 1: Devin met Sergio on and we're gonna find out why

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Speaker 1: after this, Really, he says, a cute, amazing first date

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Speaker 1: now Sergio's blocking him. So Devin, we got surgery on

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, sounds good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey Sergio, thanks for holding on my friend. How

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Speaker 3: I'm good?

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Speaker 2: Are you guys super good?

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Speaker 1: We are on the air and we are jumping into it,

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Speaker 1: so forgive us here. But uh, we're calling about a

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Speaker 1: guy you met on Grinder named Devin.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, did you guys go out on a date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we went out on the date.

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Speaker 4: How was that?

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Speaker 2: Tell me about it?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean he totally blew it. I mean I

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Speaker 3: I can't even Did he tell you about the betting zoo?

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Speaker 4: Mmm?

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Speaker 2: Oh he's no, yeah, I don't know. He said there

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Speaker 3: Mhm, Well they had a petting zoo. But that's not

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Speaker 3: the issue. So we had a great day. And the

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Speaker 3: he posted it and tagged me, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Can someone fill me in on what the problem? I mean,

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Speaker 2: is this your first date?

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Speaker 3: Our first date?

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Speaker 2: That a lot, it's a lot. Mm hmmm, it's a

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Speaker 4: What what what?

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Speaker 3: What was the caption? Okay, so so he he posted

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Speaker 2: Not even Stody's eyes are rolling around here, Sergio? And

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Speaker 2: was it the first line?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, was And now he tagged it. He tagged

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Speaker 2: That's a lot out of the gate after a pumpkin patch. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but did you like him? I mean, let's forget about

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Speaker 4: Do you like him?

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Speaker 3: The date was amazing, it was it was a great day.

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Speaker 3: We had a great time. Everything went so well. We

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Speaker 4: You didn't tell us what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot he did? He say, f A

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's what he did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: I mean it is a very cute caption if they

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Speaker 2: But you know what is wrong with that? And if

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Speaker 2: always wanting you know, like the soft launch and like

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Speaker 2: put the arm in the thing. Why not just go

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Speaker 2: for it? Well, because he did and it backfired? So

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Speaker 2: do you not want to go out with him again?

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Speaker 2: Because of that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's it's totally done. Like I can't even

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Speaker 3: great and now it's done.

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Speaker 2: There's no but what if would it have been better?

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Speaker 2: In his story? Without have changed things?

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Speaker 3: Kind I mean maybe? I mean it's our The damage

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Speaker 2: Them like, oh no, this is not just like his

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Speaker 2: grandma and his whole family now asking him about this guy.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's find out how Devin feels about this. He's

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Speaker 1: on the other line listening. Now, Devin, what's your reaction?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, are you serious, Like it's not a

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Speaker 4: big deal, Like it wasn't a hard launch. It was

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Speaker 3: It was a hard launch because you tagged me on

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Speaker 4: That's what they're li I mean, okay, but I didn't

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Speaker 4: say like pumpkin pats with my pumpkin, Like finally, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I don't mean to laugh.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like you guys together. Are you sure

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Speaker 1: there's no spark here that can be recovered?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean you could laugh about this, Listen.

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Speaker 3: I don't care what anyone says. We are not a thing.

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Speaker 3: We're not going to be a thing. Don't ever do

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Speaker 3: this again on a first day. You're a cute guy,

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Speaker 3: You're funny, So remember this lesson good luck to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Sergio, it is claiming his territory a

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Speaker 2: little bit. I mean, maybe is there a lesson here,

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Speaker 2: Devin to be learned.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you're not everyone's type. I guess, like something,

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Speaker 4: they are a big deal to one person that aren't

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Speaker 4: to another.

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Speaker 1: So every song, well, we appreciate your candor both of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Devin, thank you, Sergio, thank you, good luck.

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Speaker 4: I thank I