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Speaker 1: I scour the internet. We all scour the internet every

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Speaker 1: not ashamed of that. But this, the tooth press thing

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Speaker 1: brings me to This has been on my list now

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Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks. Here's one. Got home from

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Speaker 1: work today and told my boyfriend I was going to

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Speaker 1: take a quick shower. As soon as I put shampoo

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Speaker 1: in my hair, he comes in and he's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry, you have to leave right now. I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: I respond, dude, no, I don't think my acting's a

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Speaker 1: very good here, I responded, dude, no, oh, I close

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Speaker 1: the shower curtain and continue, and if you need to

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Speaker 1: go pee, then just pee. I won't look out. And

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Speaker 1: then he says, no, you got to get out. I

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Speaker 1: really got to go, And she's like, are you asking

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Speaker 1: got shamtpoon my hair the background. We've been together for

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Speaker 1: two plus years. We're very comfy with each other, but

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Speaker 1: definitely not at the point where you can go number

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Speaker 1: two in front of me while I'm in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: He has IBS, so when he has to go, he

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Speaker 1: has to go. We live in a place with a

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Speaker 1: I guess they have a woodstove, so they don't even

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Speaker 1: top of all of them. But this dude is very

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Speaker 1: He said he's okay with the idea, and I guess

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Speaker 1: the idea of going number two while she's in the

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Speaker 1: shower right next to that showering that. I'm sorry, guys,

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Speaker 1: that is a level of comfort that I will never reach. Now.

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Speaker 1: I will never reach And I mean, I feel like,

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Speaker 1: if you have IBS and I don't know, I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: if you do, because I know it's very inconvenient and

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable and everything else. But I feel like I would

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Speaker 1: you need anything, like you need to go in there

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Speaker 1: or whatever, because once I'm in there, then you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to go find a bush or something because you're

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Speaker 1: not coming in correct, So we all do kN kaylin

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Speaker 1: oh this I was eight five three five. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I'd like to take a little poll about.

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Speaker 2: Her next one one yes, Klee, seriously, So I don't

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Speaker 2: do I don't do number two stuff like I'm not

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Speaker 2: into like sharing that experience, especially with a partner. However,

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Speaker 2: this situation just happened to me with a best friend.

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Speaker 2: I was in the shower and my best friend bargin

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Speaker 2: you know who you are, I will not say your name,

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Speaker 3: At her get out.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I can't help it. So I was just

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Speaker 1: in this situation with someone. Oh yeah, I was sorry.

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Speaker 1: You guys know, I'm a weird about certainty. I'm worried

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Speaker 1: about a lot of things. I am, and I haven't

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Speaker 1: so I understand their challenges. And people say that I

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Speaker 1: it's different. No, I don't think it would be on that. Nuhh.

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Speaker 1: I think that I could live with someone for years

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Speaker 1: That was this woman's level of comfort that she would

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Speaker 1: And people either are listening right now, going you're out

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Speaker 1: doesn't have to it doesn't have to be this way.

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Speaker 1: You live with You live with a guy, I do.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to kick it out and take your credit card,

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Speaker 1: but you live with him, surely I do? I mean?

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Speaker 1: And how do you? I mean, do you do? You do?

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Speaker 1: You both equally try and conceal your functions.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like you're in the bathroom, like you're going

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Speaker 1: I can hear it, and I'm like.

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Speaker 5: Well, he blows up toilets like left and right in

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Speaker 1: Basement and that's where he keeps this creepy ass life

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Speaker 1: and you would never I would just be like, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: That is the honest thing.

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Speaker 2: It is, starts in one and goes to every bathroom

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he'll be like, oh, my stomach, and then because

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Speaker 5: but I try to conceal everything. I'm also psycho about it.

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Speaker 5: Although last night I did like fart my sleep and

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Speaker 5: Oh no, it never happened. It never happened. I want

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Speaker 5: a fiber no. And like my sister, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know about Colin. My sister is very open

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Speaker 1: She's a therapist. I feel like she has no issue

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Speaker 1: talking about all of it, and he doesn't really, but

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Speaker 1: or her justification is, he's seen me, you know, in

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Speaker 1: deal with it. He's seen everything. Does that mean he

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Speaker 2: Like I'm in the camp of like, why is it

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Speaker 2: necessary for me to smell your duty?

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Speaker 1: I think it's a power thing. I think it's a

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: I think it's no, I know. I think it's just

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Speaker 2: You're not better than us because we can smell your duty,

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Speaker 2: you can smell each other's duty.

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Speaker 1: Or it's like a level of intimacy or comfort. But

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Speaker 1: it's I don't it doesn't have to be to your point.

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Speaker 1: Hey Sam, how you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm good, how are you? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Hi Sam, good morning. This happened to your mom.

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Speaker 3: So my mom, So my dad passed away a couple

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Speaker 3: of years ago, and oh thank you. And one of

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Speaker 3: the things that she did for herself has been traveling,

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Speaker 3: and she's done a really good job of that. But

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Speaker 3: of thing, and it's a lot of single people and

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Speaker 3: this specific trip, she didn't know anyone except for the

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Speaker 1: And this wasn't even like you or a sibling or

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Speaker 3: It was a complete stranger that she was assigned to

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Speaker 3: She was terrified, mortified. And the thing is the worst

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Speaker 3: part is that like, because they're in a group, like

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Speaker 3: they basically rented out this whole like kind of like

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Speaker 3: essentially like you just go to your room and you

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Speaker 3: just stay there. But she could have gone to anyone

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Speaker 3: else's room because they were all open and they were

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Speaker 3: all hanging out by the pool, and she chose to go.

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Speaker 1: To my mom's bath there and she was asserting dominance

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Speaker 1: like that. So I have a sounse just like she

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Speaker 1: had no, But I don't know, I don't think it

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Speaker 1: would come out like, I honestly think I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I'd be able to perform in the next situation,

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Speaker 1: I'd be so like paranoid and concerned about it. Sam,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a good day.

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Speaker 3: Thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Hey, Martha, Hey, good morning, Martha, good morning. So

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Speaker 1: do you believe that, I mean, in your relationship? Could

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Speaker 1: you could you pull this off?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 1: Could you use the restroom in front of the other person,

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Speaker 1: especially if it were the you know, the big time

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Speaker 4: No, No, my wife and I have been together for

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Speaker 4: fourteen years.

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Speaker 3: And I just cannot bring myself to do it.

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Speaker 4: It's like something in my body.

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Speaker 1: I just can't. I just there's just some things that

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Speaker 1: you need to yourself.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, no problem, you know, but I.

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Speaker 3: Just get and it's been so long, and she she'll.

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Speaker 4: Be like, really, we've been together for this long and

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Speaker 4: you can't know.

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Speaker 3: You gotta get out with I don't.

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Speaker 1: Think I'm doing the tinkle either. But thank you Martha.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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Speaker 4: Sure, thank you. My day started every morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for making us a part of your day. Martha.

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Speaker 1: We can't do it without you. You're part of the thirteen,

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Speaker 1: and we only got thirteen. Have a good day to

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Speaker 1: some places we got far left far less. Well, we

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Speaker 1: got far left too, so we got we have far

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Speaker 1: left in some places too. Yeah. Yeah, Like in Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: we got Charlotte from Charlotte. That's it. Wet one, we

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Speaker 1: got one Charlotte from Charlott's number one. Jessica High.

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Speaker 4: Hey, let's go on.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jessica, you're you're sad for me? Yeah? Yeah, why Okay?

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Speaker 4: So my thinking is that like eventually, like I've been

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Speaker 4: my guy for fifteen years, we have a thirteen year

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Speaker 4: old daughter, Like, eventually everyone's body is gross. Like that's

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Speaker 4: the way I see it. If I can't go through

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Speaker 4: some of those hard things with my partner, especially as

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Speaker 4: you get older, I mean like things are going to happen.

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Speaker 4: If you can't experience that, like with your closest person,

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Speaker 4: that's sad to me.

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Speaker 1: Isn't there enough.

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Speaker 2: Hard things that you go through as a couple just

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Speaker 2: being humans in the world?

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Speaker 1: Like why do we have to add the duty?

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Speaker 4: What if you get what if you get cancer? What

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Speaker 4: if your terminal.

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 4: I have have anxiety, so it would I would hate

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Speaker 4: to have to go through that and not have like

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Speaker 4: built up a tolerance to it.

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Speaker 1: But can we not agree, Jessica, there's a difference between

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Speaker 1: caring for someone who has no other option, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: who needs your help, and making the choice to blow

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Speaker 1: up the bathroom while you're taking a relaxing shower, Like

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Speaker 1: those are two very different things.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but if someone's gotta go, you gotta go

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Speaker 4: to a port a potty somewhere or dig a hole

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Speaker 4: in the backyard.

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Speaker 1: Do what you gotta do. Say the dog did it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Thank you, Jessica, have a good day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And people keep it in their texting, like what about childbirth. Look,

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Speaker 1: that's another one where I just don't think that's the same.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's it's not it. First of all,

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Speaker 1: the baby coming out is not elective. You may have

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Speaker 1: elected to make it, but it's coming out as that elective.

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful moment. I'm sure spiritual moment for people,

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Speaker 1: and they're not going to miss it. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know that anybody really revels in that experience. You are

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Speaker 1: the other person. I don't think anyone's like, yes, I

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Speaker 1: cannot wait.

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Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, maybe some to see the baby coming out.

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Speaker 1: They thought I could. I could see that, but I

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Speaker 1: can't see the duty one. Yeah, there's no justifying you guys.

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Speaker 2: And yes, I've cared for people who were sick and

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Speaker 2: I've dealt with fairly functions and I'm I'm totally cool

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Speaker 2: with that, Like that's different, that's not what I've.

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Speaker 5: But if my man walks in and I'm showering and

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Speaker 5: he just drops that deuce, now the whole back things like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: the lawyers on the phone, we are out of here.

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