WEBVTT - Vivica Fox talks 50 Cent and the internet has OPINIONS!

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<v Speaker 1>George. I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>everything and everybody. You don't know if you don't lie

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<v Speaker 1>about that, right, Lauren, Hey, y'all, what's up? It to

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren de Rosa And this is the latest with Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>de Rosa. This is your daily dig on all things

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<v Speaker 1>pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the conversations that

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<v Speaker 1>shake the room. Baby. Now today we are going to

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<v Speaker 1>get into a conversation that I'm always down to have

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<v Speaker 1>conversations about stereotypes. And I am always down to have

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<v Speaker 1>conversations about stereotypes when it comes to male and female

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, and it's not even like a feminist

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<v Speaker 1>movement thing, because I don't consider myself a feminist. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things with feminist movement ways that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree with. However, I always like opportunities to call

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<v Speaker 1>out bullshit. So Vivica Fox was at a woman's expo

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<v Speaker 1>in New Jersey and she was asked what would she

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<v Speaker 1>said to her seventeen year old like, what is some

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<v Speaker 1>advice for people that are young trying to get into this?

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<v Speaker 1>And here is what she had to say, don't yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Just so you know, it took me years to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to laugh about.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, right, right, I had to learn to laugh not

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<v Speaker 2>to cry, but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, of course it's Vibica Fox. She's mentioning fifty cent

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<v Speaker 1>don't date rappers, don't date fifty cent all the workings

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<v Speaker 1>and all the things that they are to get the

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<v Speaker 1>people going, And that is exactly what happened. Because, oh baby,

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<v Speaker 1>the people have been online arguing for the past week.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the argument. It's Vibica Fox, just this person who

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<v Speaker 1>you know, had this relationship with fifty cent both stars

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, that just can't let it go because

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<v Speaker 1>fifty cent is fifty cent and who he is and

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<v Speaker 1>all of the things. Right, But let us not forget

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<v Speaker 1>miss Vivica A. Fox, the girl Vivica A like. Let

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<v Speaker 1>us not forget who Vivica Fox was at the time

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<v Speaker 1>when she was dating fifty cent and who she still

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<v Speaker 1>is today. Right. So there's that conversation that people are having,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's the conversation of, well, what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>her saying that she would have not have wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>have dated a rapper or honestly, when you dig deeper

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<v Speaker 1>into the conversation, just make it her dating life a

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<v Speaker 1>part of her career. I want to get into this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation now. Some time ago, about a few years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>back in twenty twenty three, I sat down with Vivica Fox.

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<v Speaker 1>We were having a conversation about her NAACP Image Award

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<v Speaker 1>nomination at the time for the Tunisia Welch Story, which

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<v Speaker 1>is another version of a BMF story. You guys know,

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<v Speaker 1>fifty Cent was doing the BMF series which was recently

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<v Speaker 1>announced that you know, this would be their last season.

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<v Speaker 1>It's canceled, it's not coming back. But yes, so Tanisia

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<v Speaker 1>watch story. Vivica A. Fox you know, was in the

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<v Speaker 1>producer director's chair of that and they were nominated for

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<v Speaker 1>Image Award. So we're talking, and what I realized in

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<v Speaker 1>preparing for the conversation to sit down that I had

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<v Speaker 1>with Vivica A. Fox was that I don't think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people, especially if you're of a certain age

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<v Speaker 1>and younger, really understand the way Vivca Fox was the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean everywhere you looked, every big name projects of Hollywood,

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<v Speaker 1>big studio films, everywhere you look, she was the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And not only talent wise and what she was booking,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just mean beauty and you know, essence of

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<v Speaker 1>like black woman in Hollywood and just the sex appeal

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<v Speaker 1>and the power and all of the things. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of that oozed into the roles that

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<v Speaker 1>she decided to take. But I also learned in this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with Vivica Fox that this very thing that people

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<v Speaker 1>love to go back and forth with her about whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's her right to talk about how her dating history

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<v Speaker 1>affected in or did not her career, is rightfully hers

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about and how it has actually affected. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like people want to see the back and forth because

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's entertaining. People want to criticize the back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth, but I don't think people ever take the

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<v Speaker 1>time to stop and think about, well, what she really

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<v Speaker 1>affected by that relationship? Is that why this has become

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<v Speaker 1>a permanent part in her story. Vivica Fox tells me

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<v Speaker 1>in the sit down interview that we did that if

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<v Speaker 1>she could take back a lot of things or just conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be the fact that people only knew her

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<v Speaker 1>for the girlfriend or the sexy roles. That's take Listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this interview I did some time ago with Vivocal Fox.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a time where everyone was more concerned about

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<v Speaker 2>my love life and things on the blogs than my talent.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned that that was my mistake. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>learned to keep things a little bit more privately. That

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<v Speaker 2>was because I opened myself up. So what I had

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<v Speaker 2>to do was accept responsibility for that. I'm a huge,

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<v Speaker 2>a huge accountability person. I take accountability for all my

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<v Speaker 2>actions when something happens in my career, in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the first one to look in the mirror and go, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>how long, why did that happen? And what part did

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<v Speaker 2>I play? So I had to go and reinvent myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to go to the theater and start playing

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<v Speaker 2>roles where my character got broken down in there. I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't miss fabulous one ill dressed up. My husband cheated

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<v Speaker 2>on me. I did a play Cheaper to Keeper with

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<v Speaker 2>Brian McKnight, and I went and I did theater for

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<v Speaker 2>two years. And when I say theater, we were on

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<v Speaker 2>the road doing plays. I was reintroducing my brand and

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<v Speaker 2>myself as an actress to my audience.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think, you know, in looking at this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I did try and reach out and have a new,

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<v Speaker 1>refreshed conversation around this with Vivica Fox to no avail.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think and you know, having the conversation I

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<v Speaker 1>had with her and seeing the way that people reacted,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to her, even in her mentioning this conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>I do remember there was a time where Vivica Fox,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and fifty were going back and for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that thing they were doing amongst their shows, and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>sens girlfriend at the time, Cuban Link had got involved,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, she said some things that weren't too

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<v Speaker 1>flattering of Vivica Fox, and the world quickly reminded Cuban

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<v Speaker 1>Link and everybody else that thought that, you know, those

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<v Speaker 1>comments were cute. You cannot play with Hollywood royalty, black television,

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<v Speaker 1>black movie, black it girl ryalty, which is what Vivica

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<v Speaker 1>Fox is. So when I see people have conversations about

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that she's expressing herself and what this relationship

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<v Speaker 1>meant to her, didn't mean did to her, I'm like, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>that is her business to be able to do. So

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<v Speaker 1>you got people out here, and this is the thing

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<v Speaker 1>too that bothers me, Like I feel like when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to women, when we have conversations about relationships in

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<v Speaker 1>our you know, what we demand in relationships, not even

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<v Speaker 1>what we demand, but like just what we want in relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>what we don't want in relationships, how relationships have affected us,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on the person and depending on how we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, we're drags, Like we are not allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>be these like women needs these people, these beings that

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<v Speaker 1>are just out here figuring things out dating, learning what

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<v Speaker 1>we like, what we don't like. Like think about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that, like right now, as take any woman in Hollywood,

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<v Speaker 1>any single woman in Hollywood right now. Let's take Tracy

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<v Speaker 1>Ellis Ross for example. Tracy Alice Ross has talked a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about you know, being single, you know, not having kids,

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<v Speaker 1>in enjoying her life at this point without all of

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<v Speaker 1>the things in dating. Right She's also talked about deciding

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<v Speaker 1>to keep her business to herself when it comes to dating.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know a lot of women that do this,

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<v Speaker 1>especially industry wise, or if they you know, their influencers

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<v Speaker 1>they have a little buzz or whatever the case, they

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<v Speaker 1>may be right because as a woman, you don't get

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<v Speaker 1>the ability to data man experience that, learn from it,

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<v Speaker 1>dislike it, talk about it, use it in any type

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<v Speaker 1>of creative Taylor Swift is dragged every time she writes

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<v Speaker 1>about an ex summer Walker gets dragged every time she

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<v Speaker 1>talks or writes about an X And you know, and granted,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that every woman in every decision that

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<v Speaker 1>they're making with the men that they're dating or great decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not the argument here. What I'm saying is

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<v Speaker 1>is who are we to tell these women that they

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<v Speaker 1>can't make them decisions and can't do that. If Tracy

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<v Speaker 1>allis dress today were to go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>in public and be seen with somebody, even if the

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<v Speaker 1>date is just her actually getting to know somebody, she

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<v Speaker 1>is now marked by that person that she was seen with,

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<v Speaker 1>and literally it could have just been like a coffee date.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're a man and you're seen out and

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<v Speaker 1>you're you know, dating a person or whatever, multiple different people,

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<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't stick the same. And I think people

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand that period. I think if you're a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who is not in a certain space, which is crazy

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<v Speaker 1>to me because I feel like you don't got to

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<v Speaker 1>be famous to understand that. As a woman, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>your account is your count, what is what is thrown

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<v Speaker 1>on your name and your reputation when it comes to dating.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to men, when it comes to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that sticks way harder than it does any

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<v Speaker 1>man in any similar situation. But especially with women in

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<v Speaker 1>the spotlight, I think we give them such a hard

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<v Speaker 1>time about these decisions that they're making and their reactions

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<v Speaker 1>to the decisions and how they handle them when it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it could have really been in a situation that

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<v Speaker 1>like really stop, you know, things in her trap as

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<v Speaker 1>she said, she had to go back and rebuild her

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<v Speaker 1>career after taking on certain roles and being the sexy

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<v Speaker 1>girl and the girlfriend and you know, being spotted with

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<v Speaker 1>all of the guys. And that's just the thing. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are y'all mad at Vivika Fox for expressing something she

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<v Speaker 1>might have learned maybe she had to learn. Yo, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want the big name celebrity rapper. You don't because

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<v Speaker 1>it overshadows your work. It overshadows you know, your own career,

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<v Speaker 1>It overshadows all of the hard work you put into things.

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<v Speaker 1>Like why is that an issue we only do it

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<v Speaker 1>with women? If a man were to come out and say,

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, Nick Cannon is a perfect example, and Nick

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<v Speaker 1>Cannon not everybody loves his commentary when he talks about

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<v Speaker 1>Mariah Carey, I think every now and then he does

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<v Speaker 1>get that, Oh, here you go again. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, Nick Cannon is allowed to have conversations about

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<v Speaker 1>his experiences in dating Mariah Carey, who was a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>super I mean, and the canon was Nick Cannon, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's Mariah Carey at the time, right. He gets to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that. He gets to talk about how it

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<v Speaker 1>really messed with his ego. He gets to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he had to take a step back

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<v Speaker 1>and really take a look in and say, hey, why

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<v Speaker 1>did that bother me? Why was I so challenged in

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<v Speaker 1>that relationship as a man? Like why did her status

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<v Speaker 1>and the things that she's accomplished, you know make me

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<v Speaker 1>feel lesser than or make me feel like I had

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<v Speaker 1>to poke my chest out in certain situations and in

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship didn't work. We call these conversations healing, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he's tapping in with himself and he's maturing it.

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<v Speaker 1>But when a woman does it, Oh, laurd, here's she

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<v Speaker 1>go again talking about that relationship. She can't get over

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<v Speaker 1>that man, huh. And I'm here for the back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's entertaining because you know, the minute fifty

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<v Speaker 1>centers mentioned you know he is coming and we had similar,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sentiments than like what I saw online. So

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<v Speaker 1>fifty Cent posted a photo of himself with the red

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<v Speaker 1>pill blue pill, and in the photo, the caption says,

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<v Speaker 1>either way, I'm gonna have that ass in a matrix.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I love me some you girl, But damn,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been twenty two years. Viveca. Question for the audience,

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<v Speaker 1>question for the people in the room. Why can't women

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what they've learned in relationships and it not

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<v Speaker 1>be well? Damn Still? Honestly, I feel like anytime a

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<v Speaker 1>woman is talking about anything relationship wise, especially something that

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<v Speaker 1>has turned her off, she doesn't like she has had

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<v Speaker 1>to learn from her she's had to move on. We

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<v Speaker 1>are either difficult, We're bitter, we're stuck on past situations,

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<v Speaker 1>we want too much, our expectations are too high or

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<v Speaker 1>just unrealistic, or we don't know how to like create

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<v Speaker 1>a safe space for a man to be like vulnerable

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<v Speaker 1>in all these things because we don't want to settle

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<v Speaker 1>for certain things. And maybe this is the woman in

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<v Speaker 1>me speaking. Am I being biased? I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from the men as well. How do y'all feel? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like as a man, because I know sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>men get called sassy, but most of the time it's

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<v Speaker 1>the men with the podcast mikes, and let's be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them do be a little sasy, little seasoned,

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<v Speaker 1>little sass owned, but men do y'all feel like you,

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<v Speaker 1>guys are able to have open conversations about what you've learned,

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<v Speaker 1>the relationships, how you've learned it, what you've liked, what

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<v Speaker 1>you did not like, and how is it proceed because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like when I'm watching men do it, both

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<v Speaker 1>in a you know, very open big entertainment industry or

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<v Speaker 1>just even on podcasts or online, women love hearing it

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<v Speaker 1>involved the king. Yes, men love seeing men in spaces

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<v Speaker 1>being able to express themselves because, according to you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>women don't allow you to space to But the minute

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<v Speaker 1>we do it, I'm gonna getchewed up for this video.

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<v Speaker 1>The minute we do with we are bitter. We can't

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<v Speaker 1>move on. Oh they love us, say we don't know

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<v Speaker 1>our worth because we're you know, we don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be here. We're figuring it out there, like don't have

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<v Speaker 1>dated around and I don't mean like you out here,

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<v Speaker 1>just throwing it, throwing that in the circle for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like you are honestly a single woman who

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<v Speaker 1>has decided to be single until you figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you want. So you're dating and experiencing

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<v Speaker 1>different people. Then you fatherless, you a whole. You don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I don't understand, Like what are we supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we date? Can we learn? Can we grow? Can

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<v Speaker 1>we use it to teach the next generation of young

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<v Speaker 1>girls coming up about, Hey, this is what you should

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<v Speaker 1>not do or not y'all let me know