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Speaker 1: George. I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about

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Speaker 1: about that, right, Lauren, Hey, y'all, what's up? It to

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Speaker 1: Lauren de Rosa And this is the latest with Lauren

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Speaker 1: de Rosa. This is your daily dig on all things

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Speaker 1: pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the conversations that

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Speaker 1: shake the room. Baby. Now today we are going to

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Speaker 1: get into a conversation that I'm always down to have

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Speaker 1: conversations about stereotypes. And I am always down to have

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Speaker 1: conversations about stereotypes when it comes to male and female

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Speaker 1: because I mean, and it's not even like a feminist

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Speaker 1: movement thing, because I don't consider myself a feminist. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot of things with feminist movement ways that I

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Speaker 1: don't agree with. However, I always like opportunities to call

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Speaker 1: out bullshit. So Vivica Fox was at a woman's expo

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Speaker 1: in New Jersey and she was asked what would she

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Speaker 1: said to her seventeen year old like, what is some

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Speaker 1: And here is what she had to say, don't yes,

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Speaker 1: Just so you know, it took me years to be

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Speaker 1: able to laugh about.

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Speaker 2: Them, right, right, I had to learn to laugh not

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Speaker 2: to cry, but I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Now, of course it's Vibica Fox. She's mentioning fifty cent

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Speaker 1: don't date rappers, don't date fifty cent all the workings

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Speaker 1: and all the things that they are to get the

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Speaker 1: people going, And that is exactly what happened. Because, oh baby,

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Speaker 1: the people have been online arguing for the past week.

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Speaker 1: Here's the argument. It's Vibica Fox, just this person who

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Speaker 1: you know, had this relationship with fifty cent both stars

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Speaker 1: at the time, that just can't let it go because

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Speaker 1: fifty cent is fifty cent and who he is and

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Speaker 1: all of the things. Right, But let us not forget

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Speaker 1: miss Vivica A. Fox, the girl Vivica A like. Let

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Speaker 1: us not forget who Vivica Fox was at the time

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Speaker 1: when she was dating fifty cent and who she still

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Speaker 1: is today. Right. So there's that conversation that people are having,

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Speaker 1: and then there's the conversation of, well, what's wrong with

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Speaker 1: her saying that she would have not have wanted to

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Speaker 1: have dated a rapper or honestly, when you dig deeper

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Speaker 1: into the conversation, just make it her dating life a

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Speaker 1: part of her career. I want to get into this

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Speaker 1: conversation now. Some time ago, about a few years ago,

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Speaker 1: back in twenty twenty three, I sat down with Vivica Fox.

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Speaker 1: We were having a conversation about her NAACP Image Award

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Speaker 1: nomination at the time for the Tunisia Welch Story, which

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Speaker 1: is another version of a BMF story. You guys know,

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Speaker 1: fifty Cent was doing the BMF series which was recently

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Speaker 1: announced that you know, this would be their last season.

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Speaker 1: It's canceled, it's not coming back. But yes, so Tanisia

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Speaker 1: watch story. Vivica A. Fox you know, was in the

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Speaker 1: Image Award. So we're talking, and what I realized in

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Speaker 1: preparing for the conversation to sit down that I had

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Speaker 1: with Vivica A. Fox was that I don't think a

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Speaker 1: lot of people, especially if you're of a certain age

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Speaker 1: I mean everywhere you looked, every big name projects of Hollywood,

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Speaker 1: And not only talent wise and what she was booking,

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Speaker 1: but I just mean beauty and you know, essence of

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Speaker 1: I guess it's entertaining. People want to criticize the back

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Speaker 1: to this interview I did some time ago with Vivocal Fox.

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Speaker 2: There was a time where everyone was more concerned about

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Speaker 2: my love life and things on the blogs than my talent.

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Speaker 2: I learned that that was my mistake. You know, I

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Speaker 1: And I think, you know, in looking at this, and

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Speaker 1: I did try and reach out and have a new,

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Speaker 1: But I think and you know, having the conversation I

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Speaker 1: and you know, she said some things that weren't too

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Speaker 1: flattering of Vivica Fox, and the world quickly reminded Cuban

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Speaker 1: Link and everybody else that thought that, you know, those

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Speaker 1: comments were cute. You cannot play with Hollywood royalty, black television,

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Speaker 1: what we don't want in relationships, how relationships have affected us,

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Speaker 1: And I know a lot of women that do this,

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Speaker 1: especially industry wise, or if they you know, their influencers

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that every woman in every decision that

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Speaker 1: But if you're a man and you're seen out and

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Speaker 1: all of that sticks way harder than it does any

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Speaker 1: it overshadows your work. It overshadows you know, your own career,

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Speaker 1: our relationship didn't work. We call these conversations healing, and

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Speaker 1: you know, he's tapping in with himself and he's maturing it.

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Speaker 1: But when a woman does it, Oh, laurd, here's she

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Speaker 1: go again talking about that relationship. She can't get over

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Speaker 1: that man, huh. And I'm here for the back and forth.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's entertaining because you know, the minute fifty

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Speaker 1: centers mentioned you know he is coming and we had similar,

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Speaker 1: fifty Cent posted a photo of himself with the red

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Speaker 1: You know, I love me some you girl, But damn,

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Speaker 1: it's been twenty two years. Viveca. Question for the audience,

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Speaker 1: Can we date? Can we learn? Can we grow? Can

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