1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Welcome into Real America's Voice News. This is Sunday the 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Road Forward. Thanks for joining us. We were just on 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: the heels of Memorial Day weekend and what a powerful 4 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend. It really was reminding us that freedom 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: isn't free. And now we're in the full swing of summer. 6 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: In the midst of this, some shocking attacks on Christians 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: and Seattle by left wing radicals Antifa, throwing water balloon 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: some say, filled with urine bottles and sticks at them, 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: surrounding a pregnant mother holding a baby that had to 10 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: be rescued by police. The result, twenty three people were arrested. 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: Seattle's mayor sided with the violent radicals and said that 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: the Christian event was led by extremists and radicals can't 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: make this stuff up. Controversy surrounding former President Joe Biden 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: is mental incapacity. It's continuing just on real how the 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 1: left hit and lied to the American people and then 16 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: did all they could to justify their actions simply on 17 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: the basis of controlling the influence and outcome of President 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: Donald Trump. And for the first time in nineteen years, 19 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,279 Speaker 1: there's some good news. The polling firm Rasmussen Reports finds 20 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: that a majority of Americans believe our country is headed 21 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: in the right direction. And today is June first, Father's Day, 22 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 1: just a couple of weeks away. Better buy that tie 23 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,839 Speaker 1: for Dad. But did you also know that it's Men's 24 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: Health Awareness Month. Our conversations today are going to be 25 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: about offering encouragement to men and women in their personal journey. 26 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: Also a word of hope and encouragement. 27 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 1: For you, your heart and those you love. I'm doctor 28 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: Tim Clinton, president of the American Association of Christian Counselors. 29 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: I'll be your host, our special guest joining us this week. 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: He's the lead pastor of New Life Church International, Plant City, Florida. 31 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: Bishop Kelvin Colbert's is back. She's a leading authority on 32 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: parenting teens and children's health. Pediatrician, mother and best selling author, 33 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: Doctor Meg Meeker is back and he is the founder 34 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: of the National Center for Fathering Fathers dot Com. Doctor 35 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: Ken canfillers with us. She is a national speaker, author, 36 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: professional counselor, founder of the Abba Pride. Doctor Michelle Watson 37 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: canfield us back. Thank you for joining me. 38 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 3: Come to him, Come us Christ Wrong, love me Sworthy. 39 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: Sweat well, another wild week in America and around the world. 40 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: Phil Robertson was a strong voice for clarity and the 41 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: world of chaos and confusion passed away. He stood strong 42 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: for Christ and never blinked on issues like religious liberty, 43 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: life and more. He knew his final destination and shared 44 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 1: Jesus with boldness, inspiring millions to do the same thing. 45 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,519 Speaker 1: Married to Ms Kay for nearly sixty years, he stood 46 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: strong for family values and encouraged love of family and 47 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: of the great outdoors. We had a privilege of hosting 48 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: him along with son Willie, Chase, Allen, Uncle Cy and 49 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 1: all of them at our Ignitement's Impact weekends through the years. 50 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely wild. Thank you Phil for standing strong. Our thoughts 51 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: and prayers are with the Robertson family, and in spite 52 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: of our best efforts, the Democrats and left wing media 53 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: are trying to talk down the economy American consumers, They're 54 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: not buying it. Consumer confidence jumped twelve points in May, 55 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: the largest monthly gaining years, and the economy it's booming 56 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: and for the first time in nineteen years again. The 57 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: polling firm Rashmusen Reports finds that a majority of Americans 58 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: believe our country. It's headed in the right direction. That's 59 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: a big change from the Biden Harrish years, when Americans 60 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: overwhelming felt like we were on the wrong track. President Trump, 61 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: Vice President Vance, Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth. They gave 62 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: us a breath of fresh air. This past week, all 63 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: spoke at the Arlington National Cemetery, honoring our fallen heroes 64 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: and our gold Star our families. President Trump delivered the 65 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: commencement address at West Point. Vice President Vance spoke to 66 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: the twenty twenty five graduating class at the Naval Academy. 67 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: Defense Secretary Hegsith and built a powerful new recruiting ad. 68 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: By the way, recruiting's up in the military right now, 69 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: very exciting. In every case they I think they all 70 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: sounded the same theme. The purpose of the military is 71 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: to defend the United States and if necessary, go to 72 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: war to. 73 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 2: Fight for victory. 74 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: In the midst of all this, we're also making our 75 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 1: way toward Father's Day. And it's significant, you know why, 76 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: because men are waking up. They're tired of being dismissed 77 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: and branded as toxic, toxic masculinity whatever they're using out there, 78 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: and they're turning to faith and they're standing up for 79 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: such time as this. I love the prophetic voice of 80 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: Malachi in the Bible, chapter four, verse six, and he 81 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, 82 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: and the hearts of the children to their fathers. God 83 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: let it be so, Hey, get ready as we jump 84 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: head first into our discuss us today here on Sunday of. 85 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 2: The road forward. 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We're hearing all over the country 125 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: that America is back. I want to say faith is back. 126 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: People are saying faith is back. Research is now showing 127 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: to Bishop, what's interesting is young men in particular coming 128 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: to Christ in drove seriously, they're really there's an uptick 129 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: right there. Bishop, are you seeing that you think men 130 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: are starting to take a stand. 131 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 5: I would have to totally agree with you. 132 00:07:55,960 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 6: Faith is back because the deceptive lenses anders are being 133 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 6: taken off and people are coming to the reality of 134 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 6: what the truth is. And as a result of that, 135 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 6: young men and men as a whole are taking their 136 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 6: rightful place and standing for truth in this hour. 137 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: What's interesting, Bishop, the Democratic Party saw this week where 138 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: they're spending about twenty million dollars to try to understand men, 139 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: learn how to talk to them. What's interesting too, is 140 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: a couple of their party gay men said, Wow, we 141 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: need to protect gay marriage, birth control, divorce porn that'll 142 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: attract men. Point Bishop, they are what in the what 143 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: are they thinking? 144 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 5: They don't get it. I don't know what they'll think. 145 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 6: It's no thinking at all, because the last election cycle 146 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 6: proved to them that men were not going to be 147 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 6: deceived and find themselves aligning with an immoral agenda that 148 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,599 Speaker 6: would have young men who think their girls going to 149 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 6: the restrooms with our daughters are even this whole ideal 150 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 6: of this sexual confusion identity. Men are rising up saying 151 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 6: that we've got to protect the image of the mail 152 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 6: and most so be the leaders to protect our families. 153 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: Bishop, we just came through Memorial Day weekend. It was 154 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: quite a weekend, people remembering those who paid the ultimate sacrifice. 155 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 1: We realize that freedom isn't free, but Bishop, military strength, 156 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 1: what I saw was just amazing. People are so encouraged 157 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: and peace through strength that's what it's all about. 158 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 6: Bishop, Right, I'm so glad to see the respect for 159 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 6: our military and how this administration doubles downs on making 160 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 6: sure that our military troops are supported and honored. And 161 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 6: Memorial Day was all about honoring those falling ones who 162 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 6: pay the ultimate price for our liberties and freedom. And 163 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 6: I'm just glad to see our military personnel stronger than 164 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 6: ever before. 165 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: Bishop in the middle of all of it, to this 166 00:09:53,880 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: Biden cognitive decline scandal continues on. I'm telling you, it's unbelievable. 167 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: As I was watching some of the news, we started 168 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: thinking about, hey, you know what, he wasn't running the country. 169 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: We all believe that, but it's all coming out true now. 170 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: White House staffers, who knows somebody was out there pulling 171 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: the levers whatever, but Bishop and justifying it on the 172 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: basis of quote, what they were willing to do. 173 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 2: They were willing to walk out. 174 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: Of integrity and character and do anything to control the 175 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: White House. 176 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 6: Unbelievable, right, It's unbelievable, And it's elder abuse that you 177 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 6: would take a man of his age and take advantage 178 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 6: of him to prop him up for power. 179 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 5: And it's just said, my prayers go out for him. 180 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 6: But what we know now is what we've always known, 181 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 6: that Joe Biden was declining in his health and it 182 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,119 Speaker 6: was a mere cover up so that they can continue 183 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 6: to control the policies and lift these immoral and crazy 184 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 6: ideologies that they have passed over for the last four years. 185 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 6: But thank God that God has positioned us with a 186 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 6: new leader. The blinders of coming off. The deception is 187 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 6: over and the truth is coming out. 188 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: No wonder they were so desperate to hold the line, 189 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: if you will, weaponizing the DOJ, the Department of Justice, 190 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: coming after conservatives and calling him domestic terrorists, putting people 191 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: in prison, going after the former president of the United States. 192 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: And more. 193 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: It all really makes sense now, how desperate and how chaotic. 194 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 2: It was and is. 195 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: Bishop, It's just like, how could that happen in our country, 196 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: third world country up right in America. 197 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: Bishop, It's just sad. 198 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 6: Yes said in America that we would be going through 199 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 6: such deception. But I'm glad that God is still on 200 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 6: the throne and he has the final say about who 201 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 6: sits in power and how things get revealed. And I'm 202 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 6: glad that these things are coming to the forefront. That 203 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 6: you can't blame anybody because when the truth comes out, 204 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 6: the truth comes out, and then we know why things 205 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 6: are moving in the vein and direction that they are now. 206 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,599 Speaker 6: So I'm just glad that now we're coming to know 207 00:11:58,720 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 6: the truth. And Americans know them. 208 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: It's good to see things changing, Bishop, But all eyes 209 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: turned to Seattle this week where some Christians were up there, 210 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: and next thing you know, there were these attacks going on. Antifa, 211 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: all them up there just going nuts, I mean, throwing 212 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: balloons full of water, some say urine on the crowd, 213 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: throwing bottles and sticks at people. They had a pregnant 214 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: one with a baby like circled up, the police had 215 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: to rush in to get her out, etc. 216 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 2: Bishop. 217 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: The mayor in hot water because he blaming the Christians, 218 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: saying they're the extremists up there. 219 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 7: What in the world, people, if we don't understand why 220 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 7: we need religious freedoms and why we need a Faith office, 221 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 7: and while we need an administration that is standing for faith. 222 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 6: These are evident situations where the faith and those who 223 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 6: stand forward are being persecuted and we are under attacked. 224 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 6: And I'm telling we're living in an hour now that 225 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 6: because we stand for righteousness and righteous indignation and morals, 226 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,599 Speaker 6: we are being attacked on every level, and that what 227 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 6: happened in Seattle is evident of that truth. 228 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: Bishop, You and I have celebrated the move of the 229 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: President to establish the Faith Office, move it into the 230 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: West wing and more because religious liberty is critical, and Bishop, 231 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: we're proud of the President for putting together this anti 232 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: Christian bias task force. When you look at Seattle, the 233 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: Faith Office came out with a statement saying they condemned 234 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: the violent disruption of Seattle's may Day us a worship event, 235 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: and we affirm the fundamental rights of free speech and 236 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 1: religious liberty for all Americans is protected by federal law. 237 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: It's just unbelievable that you can have a mayor go 238 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: in this kind of crazy direction. I see where they're 239 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: now under investigation. Rightfully, so, Bishop, because they're coming against 240 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 1: people of faith. Come on, that's what this country was 241 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: founded on. 242 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, this country was founded on faith values. 243 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 6: And whether you're on the right or lift, if you 244 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 6: of the faith community, you need to stand with the faith. 245 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 6: And if you see that people are coming against our 246 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 6: faith and our beliefs and our rights to uphold them. 247 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 6: We as a people of faith, they need to ban 248 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 6: together in harmony against this and stand up for the 249 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 6: freedoms that are rightfully ours that establish this country. 250 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 1: Bishop, in the midst of all of us, some good 251 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: news this week, the Rasmussen Reports come out and saying 252 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: that we're going in a good direction. The majority of 253 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: the Americans, by the way of believing that, for the 254 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: first time in a long time, America is. 255 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 2: Back on track. 256 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: That's good news, hey, and Bishop, the economy is booming. 257 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 2: It's great to see this. Where do you attribute to 258 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 2: all of that? 259 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I know we got the president in there, 260 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: But is it just people's confidence going up and they're 261 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: just lighting it up out there or. 262 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 5: What I think? 263 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 6: The past was so much uncertainty and so much deception 264 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 6: and so much confusion that people didn't know what to believe. 265 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 6: But now that we have what I would call the 266 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 6: dawning of a new day, and we have transparency in 267 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 6: leadership across the board, people are now seeing things move 268 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 6: in a better direction. And when they see things moving 269 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 6: in a better direction, they feel feel more secure. They 270 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 6: feel more secure about the decisions that they make about investments, 271 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 6: where they live, how they vacate, vacation and everything else. 272 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 6: And I think that the country is going in a 273 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 6: good direction. And I'm praying that God continues to prosper 274 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 6: us and bless America. 275 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 2: The common sense is coming back. Bishop. 276 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: You mentioned bathrooms earlier. We all get the bathroom issue. 277 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: But you're looking at borders, budgets and bathrooms you start thinking, Okay, 278 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: it's making sense again. 279 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: Thank God, how about it? Common sense has got to 280 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: come back. Bishop. 281 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you, how can how can you get 282 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: so dark where you cascade off the cliff? I mean 283 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: absolutely complete disregard for just logic, for family, for faith, 284 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: for values and more? 285 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 2: How does that happen? 286 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 5: As a faith leader? 287 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 6: I have to go back to what I rely on, 288 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 6: and that's the Word of God. We are just living 289 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 6: in what we would call a depraved time and the 290 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 6: lasting evil days, and we know that in those days 291 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 6: there would be a great falling away that even the 292 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 6: very elect people who ope are going against what is 293 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 6: right and standing for what is evil. And that's why 294 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 6: it takes people who are allowing the light of Jesus 295 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 6: Christ to shine through their light, to allow that light 296 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 6: to shine through our platforms, shine through our podcast as 297 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 6: we continue to propagate and stand for the truth and 298 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 6: lead people back to the light and the hope and 299 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 6: the truth which is found in Jesus Christ. 300 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: And Bishop always great to have you, Bishop Kelvin Colbert, 301 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: snank you for joining me. 302 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 2: Thank you coming up next. 303 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: Pediatrician, mother and best selling author, doctor Meg Meeker is back. 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Yet one of your 346 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 1: most favorite subjects is fathers, and you love how strong 347 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 1: fathers can produce strong daughters and strong sons. Take us there, 348 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: what's the interest? Why'd that become a part of your 349 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: kind of DNA. 350 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 8: Well, you know, I many years ago, probably twenty years ago, 351 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 8: I noticed this increase in the blasting of fathers, the 352 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 8: marginalization of fathers in our culture, movies, music, everything. They 353 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 8: were just bashing dads, and dads became the butt of 354 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 8: jokes and this bothered me. But what I saw behind 355 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 8: closed doors with my patients is the girls and boys, 356 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 8: but mostly girls who were having difficulty in life. The 357 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 8: ones who had a good relationship with their dad were 358 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 8: the ones who did really well. And I thought, hold 359 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 8: on a minute, there's this huge disconnect. You know, we're 360 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 8: bashing our culture and yet fathers are the answer. And 361 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 8: of course I said, well somebody needs to say something 362 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 8: about this, and God taps you on the shoulder and say, okay, go. 363 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 8: And so I really wrote about that, and really as 364 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 8: a I wrote it from the perspective of a daughter 365 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 8: and a pediatrician. But what I wanted to do in 366 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 8: the book was show dads who they are through their 367 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 8: daughter's eyes. And I felt that if I could accomplish 368 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 8: that that dads would see themselves in a whole new 369 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 8: way and feel so good about their lives. 370 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: It's interesting when you look at the research, Meg, you 371 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: know that when the dad's heart has turned toward his daughter, 372 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: she's a lot more strong in how she views herself, 373 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,959 Speaker 1: how she whether or not she feels like she can 374 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: be loved. We also know that she's. 375 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 2: More confident in her identity, her female identity. 376 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 1: She tends to be more intelligent, less susceptible to peer pressure, 377 00:20:59,119 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: has better. 378 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: Mental health, health, and more. 379 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: But Meg, an interesting stat I found in your research 380 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:10,479 Speaker 1: was that dads don't realize his relationship with his daughter 381 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: determines whether or not she's really going to become sexually active. 382 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 2: Talk to us about that. I thought that was unbelievable. 383 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 8: Isn't it amazing across all parameters, having a dad involved 384 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,919 Speaker 8: in a daughter's life improves everything. But we do know, 385 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 8: you know, when the studies aren't about dads who are 386 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 8: great dads living at home with their daughters. They're just 387 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 8: dads who are living at home. And I think sometimes 388 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 8: fathers feel like they need a PhD In psychology to 389 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 8: be a good dad, but that's not true at all. 390 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 8: We know that fathers who are present in the home. 391 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 8: Their girls are far less likely to become sexually active 392 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 8: during the teen years, less likely to get involved in 393 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 8: drugs and alcohol, rates of depression, or lower rates of suicidality, 394 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 8: or lower rates of going on and finishing high school, 395 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 8: going on to college and graduate school, or a lot higher. 396 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 8: Here's a really interesting statistic tim girls whose fathers live 397 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 8: at home with them start their periods later in life. 398 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 1: Meg, I guess I want to ask you, what have 399 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: you found makes for a great dad? No doubt there's 400 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 1: some formula stuff in there, but you quote uncover it 401 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 1: and put it right down on the lower shelf for 402 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: all of us. 403 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 2: What are the two or three key factors? You got 404 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 2: to do this, dad, You've got to do this. 405 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 8: You have to do it. You have to give your 406 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 8: daughter attention. Parents dads will. 407 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 5: Say, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I do. 408 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 8: Do you really know a lot of times they walk 409 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 8: in the house and they're on their phone, they're looking 410 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 8: at a screen. Whatever. Look your daughter in the eyes, 411 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 8: sit down with her, ask her how her day was, 412 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 8: five ten minutes a day. Spend one on one time 413 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 8: with her once a week or once every other week. 414 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 8: If you can take her to lunch, take her to breakfast, 415 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 8: you know, surprise her. So the attention is incredibly important 416 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 8: because it communicates to a daughter that I am valuable, 417 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 8: I am lovable because my dad's taking time to pay 418 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 8: attention to me. The other thing is affection. Fathers often 419 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 8: forget to show their daughter's affection, and many times, as 420 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 8: a daughter gets older, fathers become very uncomfortable. I said, well, 421 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 8: then find a different way to show affection, because research 422 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 8: shows the best way to boost the girl self esteem 423 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:31,719 Speaker 8: is by having her father show her physical affection. So 424 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 8: attention and affection. If you just get those two, write 425 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 8: and work on them from your daughter's standpoint, you're an 426 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 8: incredible dad. 427 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 2: Meg. 428 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,959 Speaker 1: I know that you speak all over the country. You 429 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:48,120 Speaker 1: work with a lot of professional athletes and more as 430 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: do I, And when I'm working with them, usually when 431 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: we come up to the dad issue, I'm saying, we're 432 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: going through Meg Maker's work. But Meg, you've put together 433 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: some programs to help dads kind of marshal their way through. 434 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: You want to be prescriptive, you want to, hey, here's 435 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 1: the plan. Talk to us about how you created them 436 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: and the value you've seen in them. 437 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 8: Sure, you know what I found is that fathers are 438 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 8: so hungry for help, and there's a lot of fatherhood 439 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 8: programs out there that help young boys and fathers help, 440 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 8: but there isn't any help for good dads, great dads 441 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 8: who just want better relationships with their kids. So what 442 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,959 Speaker 8: I did is created short videos for fathers. Watch this 443 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 8: five minutes a day. Here's what you can do, here's 444 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 8: how you grow closer to your daughter. Here's what you 445 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 8: can say, and here's what you shouldn't say. And actually 446 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 8: I've been working with the NFL, but now I'm going 447 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 8: into working with executives in companies because HR is trying 448 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 8: to do a lot of health and wellness and what 449 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 8: we've found is if a father has better relationship with 450 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 8: his kids, company profits go up, retentionment employees go up. 451 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,880 Speaker 8: So I really take dads into a deep but simple 452 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 8: dive on into how they can grow closer to their daughter, 453 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 8: meet their daughter's needs. And it's so simple, tim That's 454 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 8: the cool part. Parents make everything so complicated, but daughters, 455 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 8: all they really want is their dad's presence. So that's 456 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 8: what I'm really sort of venturing into because there's nobody 457 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 8: else out there doing it. Moms get a lot of 458 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 8: help but fathers in general don't get much help. 459 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,880 Speaker 1: So usually here too, I get pushed back in two areas. 460 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: Meg One is what if I've blown it and I 461 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: don't know that I can recover. The other one is 462 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: is it too late? My kids are grown, they're gone, 463 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 1: et cetera. Is there still anything that I can do 464 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: to maybe connect with my kids? 465 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 8: Absolutely? I hear that all the time, and particularly from 466 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 8: men in their fifties or sixties. It's too late. My 467 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 8: daughter hates me, she's a strange. And I tell Dad's this. 468 00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 8: Every woman takes one man to a grave, and it's dad. 469 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 8: And that means whether she's forty or thirty, or twenty 470 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 8: or fifty, she always wants healing with her dad. And 471 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 8: so it's never too late. The most forgiving person you'll 472 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 8: ever meet in your life, dad is your daughter. If 473 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 8: you're strange, yeah, you need to work really, really hard 474 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 8: at it, but you need to know that deep in 475 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 8: her heart she wants a better relationship. Now, she's going 476 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 8: to give you a lot of pushback, and she's going 477 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 8: to snarl, and it's going to be hard. Never ever 478 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 8: too late for a dad to reconnect with his daughter 479 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 8: or his son. 480 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,959 Speaker 1: Megan if people want to learn more about you, your books, 481 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: your videos, your video series for fathers and more, where 482 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: can they go? 483 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 8: Go to meet yourparenting dot com. I also have a 484 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 8: We've just started a parenting group where people can write 485 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 8: in and ask questions. It is so fun. So just 486 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 8: go to meet your parenting dot com and look around. 487 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 8: And I have all sorts of sources. I have all 488 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 8: sorts of resources for parents. 489 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: Doctor Meg Meeker would have liked to have you. Thank you, 490 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: Thank you for joining me coming up next. Founder of 491 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: the National Center for Fathering Fathers dot Com, Doctor Kencanfield 492 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: us with us. 493 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 9: For more encouragement and to stay connected, follow doctor Tim 494 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 9: Clinton on Facebook, Instagram, and X. We love being a 495 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 9: part of your life. 496 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: Johnny's now is doctor Ken Canfield. Ken is the founder 497 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 1: of the National Center for Fathering and has been involved 498 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: in countless organizations geared toward fatherhood. He's written several books, 499 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: including The Seven Secrets of Effective Fathers, The Heart of 500 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 1: a Father, and most recently, The Heart of Grandparenting. He's 501 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: appeared on numerous programs such as Today's Show, World News, 502 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 1: Tonight's seven hundred Club. Dot Canfield, welcome back, Thank you 503 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:50,880 Speaker 1: for joining us. 504 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 5: You're welcome. 505 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,919 Speaker 10: It's a delight always to be with you. 506 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 5: Tim Ken. 507 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: Billy Graham once said, a good father is one of 508 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet one of the 509 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 1: most valuable assets in society. You go back to your 510 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: early years, Ken, and your research developingfathers dot com and more, 511 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: all the findings, everything that you came across. What do 512 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: you think stunned you the most about dads? 513 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 10: Well, most important, they have been given privileged to him 514 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 10: to do things that their fathers didn't do or weren't 515 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 10: aware of. And I think doctor Graham has a great 516 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 10: insight here. He said, if he did it over again, 517 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 10: he would preach less, study more, and spend more time 518 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 10: with his family. He said, you want to talk about 519 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 10: family life, talk to Ruth, and here is the tension. 520 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 10: We've been called to work by the sweat of our 521 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 10: brow to him. And sometimes that work hallism can displace 522 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 10: the fathering heart God's given each of us who are 523 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 10: privileged to have kids. 524 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: Okay, if you look at the research, fatherlesseners is one 525 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: of the greatest social ills of our day. The majority 526 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: of Americans, even in spite of it, still believe that 527 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: dad really matters what eighty six eighty seven percent say 528 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: a father's influence is critical for children. 529 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 2: Ken. 530 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: When you think of the impact of not having a 531 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: dad and it's ramifications, what really stands out in that 532 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: way to you? 533 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 10: Yesterday, Tim, I was in the prison. Ninety percent of 534 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 10: this one prison I've been working with are fatherless men. 535 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 10: They're working through issues that they should have had the 536 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 10: help of their dad who was disconnected, maybe mental health, 537 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 10: maybe addictions, just maybe issues related to criminal activity, and 538 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 10: they followed in their father's footsteps. But the cry of 539 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 10: these men is why didn't my dad be there? Why 540 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 10: didn't my dad help me? And so you see the 541 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 10: social implications. But you know what I love about aacc 542 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 10: you go deeper. There's emotional fatherlessness, their spiritual fatherlessness. They're 543 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 10: psychological and so Dad's if there's something we can do 544 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 10: and bring to the table, it's our heart and our 545 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 10: attention and not with all the answers, just being there. 546 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 10: That presence will help those children that God's given you 547 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 10: to thrive. 548 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 2: Ken. 549 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: About six years ago I became a papa and that 550 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: was a special day for me. I now have two 551 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: granddaughters and they're the joy of my life. Ken, I 552 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: can't believe watching childhood development all over again. But you 553 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: recently wrote a book, The Heart of Grandparenting. Tell us 554 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: about that journey and what are you learning about grandparents? 555 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 10: Well, first of all, to them, as is always the case, 556 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 10: you may be a research or an expert, but all 557 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 10: of a sudden, God says, I'm going to put this 558 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 10: dude in the crucible. So with sixteen grandchildren, I'm like 559 00:30:56,240 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 10: up to here, overwhelmed with joy and fact fascination to 560 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 10: see this again like you're seeing, and its powerful. We're wiser, 561 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 10: we have more opportunity as grandfathers and grandparents to build 562 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 10: into the lives of our children, and we do that 563 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 10: in step with them. So one of the best things 564 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 10: you can do with your kids and say, hey, I 565 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 10: try to be the best that I could be, but 566 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,239 Speaker 10: you know there are things that I may not have 567 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 10: done well, And then ask your kids, can you think 568 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 10: of anything? And then it gives you an opportunity to 569 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 10: humble yourself. You know you're right, I could have done 570 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 10: more of that and less of this, And then say 571 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 10: to them, I want to be the best granddad, grandfather 572 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 10: or papa I can be. Tell me how I can 573 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 10: partner with you in raising this incredible gift God's given you, 574 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 10: son or daughter. 575 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: And through the years I've learned the significance of multi 576 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: generational influence. That families, by the way, tend to reproduce themselves, 577 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: and so legacies are developed for good and for bad. 578 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: I heard doctor Dobson many times through the years do 579 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: radio broadcasts around a theme of called b there, and 580 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: he talked about giving us or passing along a spiritual 581 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: heritage to our children. Kind of know, this is something 582 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: near and dear to your heart. Talk to us about 583 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: that very thing. What does it mean to share your 584 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 1: faith inside your family? And how can we best do it? 585 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 10: You know, that is the sixty four million dollar or 586 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 10: let's say billion dollar question. You do it cautiously. You 587 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 10: do it by modeling. You do it by being an example. 588 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 10: And if you're a father and a grandfather, you do 589 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 10: it by blessing, by turning your attentions, particularly why they're 590 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 10: in the home, to the details of their life. Check 591 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 10: out that personality, what are their gifts? And then when 592 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 10: you're removed and a grandfather enrolled him, as you know, 593 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 10: you begin to think generationally. I say that women have 594 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 10: a biological clock. We know that dads, you have the 595 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 10: generational clock. That legacy that you have a responsibility in 596 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 10: is profound. And giving attention to that. What do you 597 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 10: want to be remembered for? And if anything you can 598 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 10: do is connecting them to that spiritual heritage another father 599 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 10: is watching out for them in your absence one day 600 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 10: when you're with him and his presence, and that is 601 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,959 Speaker 10: going to be the best baton you can pass on 602 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 10: as they face the world. I mean, look at it. 603 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 10: That is just coming a part of the scenes. 604 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 2: When I think of spiritual heritage. 605 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 1: Can I think of the statement the only thing you 606 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: can take with you to Heaven are your children when 607 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: you really think about passing on your faith, and so 608 00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: the spiritual heritage piece becomes so central. Ken there's some 609 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 1: research coming out about men waking up. Young men in 610 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: particular are turning to Christ. There seems to be a 611 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: lot of energy. Men are tired of the beatdown they've 612 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: gone through, toxic masculinity talks, trying to feminize men take 613 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 1: away their role of influence. 614 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 2: But no, no, no, no, that's turning a page. 615 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: Interestingly enough, the Democratic Party all of a sudden is 616 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: pouring millions of dollars into quote studying men and how 617 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 1: can they quote win them back? 618 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 2: They turned them away? 619 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,320 Speaker 1: Ken, just some of your thoughts on where you see 620 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 1: men in culture this very moment. And I know your 621 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 1: research is around fothering, but boyll boy, you see the 622 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: fabric in the heart of a man. 623 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 2: What's it all about? 624 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,840 Speaker 10: Well, first of all, men need to be called to something. 625 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 10: They're ready to give their life. You look at any 626 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 10: of the world wars and men were ready to sign 627 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 10: up and line up. We're in a spiritual and a 628 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,439 Speaker 10: moral war right now where ethics are kind of put 629 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 10: at and we are being tested in a way. Are 630 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 10: we going to get in the game? Are we going 631 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 10: to stand strong? And what I like? And I see 632 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 10: this too in this young generation, particularly in my grandsons, 633 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 10: which we have seven, and I see this passion and 634 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 10: commitment just starting to bud. All I would say is 635 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 10: find another battle buddy that you can share your heart with. 636 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 10: Be vulnerable and transparent with the issues of being a man, 637 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 10: and then that battle buddy, make a spiritual bond. Think 638 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 10: of David and Jonathan and how they were committed to 639 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 10: each other, but there was deep emotional and spiritual bonding 640 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 10: going on there, they were committed and when that happens, 641 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 10: it says, if two or more are gathered in my name, 642 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 10: I'll show up. That is the force that we need 643 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 10: to apply in our family and our culture right now 644 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 10: more than any Ken. 645 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 1: If people want to learn more about you and all 646 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,879 Speaker 1: those King Canfield resource, this is where can they. 647 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 10: Go go to Fathers dot com. We have special needs dads, 648 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,760 Speaker 10: we have divorce, we have single dads, we have granddads. 649 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 10: We have dads at preschool or school age teenagers. What 650 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,919 Speaker 10: I do is qum not just the research on right 651 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 10: now flourishing, which you've been apart in spearheading, Tim, but 652 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 10: also just the practical tools and resources. It's there for 653 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 10: you and it's. 654 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: Free Fathers dot com. Doctor Kencanfield, thank you so much 655 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: for joining me. Great Tim coming up next, which is 656 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: a national speaker, author, professional counselor founder of the Abba Project, 657 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: Doctor Michelle Watson Canfield is back. 658 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 9: For more encouragement and to stay connected, follow doctor Tim 659 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 9: Clinton on Facebook, Instagram, and X. We love being a 660 00:36:52,920 --> 00:37:00,760 Speaker 9: part of your life. 661 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,760 Speaker 1: Johnny's now is doctor Michelle Watson Canfield. She's a national speaker, author, 662 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: professional counselor and founder of The Abba Project, a form 663 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 1: for dads whose daughters are in their teens and their twenties. 664 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: Michelle is the host of her well known podcast, The 665 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: Dad Whisperer. Her latest book, Let's Talk Conversation starters for 666 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: dads and daughters. It's out now, Michelle, welcome back. Thank 667 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,239 Speaker 1: you for joining me. 668 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 11: Oh, Tim, always a pleasure and an honor to join you. 669 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 2: Michelle. 670 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:26,360 Speaker 5: Here we are. 671 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: We're in the month of June. I like June, a 672 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 2: little vacation. 673 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: Father's Day is coming up in a couple of weeks, 674 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: a special day, and I'm trying to remind my family 675 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 1: It's Dad's Day. You got everybody, It's Dad's Day, Michelle. Listen, 676 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 1: when you look in culture, you look back a couple 677 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 1: of years, pretty bad rap when it comes to men, masculinity, 678 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 1: getting beat up about toxic masculinity, and dads get a 679 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 1: pretty bad rap. They still do. I don't care what 680 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: people are saying. Buffoon's disengaged, non verbal basically on non emotional, etc. 681 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 1: But it's one of your favorite subjects. Michelle, how did 682 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 1: you get drawn into this? 683 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 3: Oh? 684 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,840 Speaker 11: My goodness, it was not of my choosing. It was 685 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 11: back in December of two thousand and nine, and I 686 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,479 Speaker 11: was reading in Luke one about how Zechariah was told 687 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 11: that is yet to be born son John, who's John 688 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 11: the Baptist we all know, would help turn the hearts, 689 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 11: not the heads, of fathers to their children. And I 690 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 11: just heard God whisper to my spirit to him and say, Michelle, 691 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 11: that's what I want you to do. At the time, 692 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 11: I was single, I'd been a clinician and a licensed 693 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 11: professional counsel for many years. I thought, but I think 694 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 11: you got the wrong person. I don't think I'm going 695 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 11: to help turn the hearts of fathers. But I said, okay, 696 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 11: God gave me an assignment. So the next month I 697 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,799 Speaker 11: invited eleven dads whose daughters were my accounting clients at 698 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 11: the time, to join me once a month to see 699 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 11: if there was a change in them, their daughter and 700 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 11: their relationship. We went a whole year, and the changes 701 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:50,720 Speaker 11: that I saw in those men were so incredible because 702 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 11: I knew that they were changing, which would then have 703 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 11: a ripple effect to benefit their daughters. And for ten 704 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,200 Speaker 11: years I did that in a row, honed it to 705 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 11: a nine month group. So the OP project is really 706 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 11: something that was birthed out of my counseling practice and 707 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,800 Speaker 11: mentoring of young women and teenagers since I was nineteen, 708 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 11: and I've continued to hone that message, Tim that dads 709 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 11: you matter, regardless of what the culture is telling you. 710 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 11: God says you matter. And both you and I, Tim 711 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 11: have a heart and a passion to equip dads to 712 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,760 Speaker 11: dial in with more intention and consistency to their children's hearts, 713 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,320 Speaker 11: and specifically for me, it's their daughters, Michell. 714 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 1: Based on the work you've done, and then you look 715 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: at all the research out there, which by the way, 716 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: is very significant, things like kids tend to do better 717 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 1: on their cognitive skills, they are more strong in the 718 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 1: female and male identities, less susceptible to peer pressure, better 719 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: mental health. So much as out there, Michelle, as you've 720 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,839 Speaker 1: kind of scanned all that and you've interacted and led 721 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 1: the way here, what really has your attention about the 722 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: significance of dads, I mean, what stands out the most 723 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:57,399 Speaker 1: to you? 724 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 11: Well, back to the whole thing about most of us 725 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 11: have a last name that ties to our father, and 726 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,920 Speaker 11: so the whole idea of identity, right, we have so 727 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 11: much gender identity gender confusion, and I truly believe that 728 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 11: if dads are more connected. A feeling of connection with 729 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 11: your children is what forms their identity. So we can 730 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 11: rise up against so much that's happening in the culture. 731 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 11: But I think it's the wrong stance to him. I 732 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 11: think it's rather than a stance of being against what 733 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 11: is out there. I say, Dad, focus on what you 734 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 11: can before or toward. Turn your heart. That's the command 735 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 11: that God gives. Turn your heart toward your children, which 736 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 11: means softer response is less anger, more listening, more attunement, 737 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 11: more attachment, and focus more on what you can do 738 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 11: rather than what isn't working or what's coming against your kids. 739 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: Shall We hear a lot around the concepts of father 740 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: thirst father hunger in culture, and when you look at fatherlessness, 741 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: it's pretty sobering. You have about forty percent of America's 742 00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,480 Speaker 1: kids will wake up at some point during their life 743 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: in a home where their biological father doesn't live, and 744 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,760 Speaker 1: somewhat twenty seven to thirty million kids. I mean, that's 745 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,839 Speaker 1: a that's a that's a really big deal. So it's 746 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 1: hard to deal with fatherlessness and a culture that is 747 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: so rampant with it. Yet, when you look at and 748 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 1: assess where people are on the impact of a father 749 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 1: what some eighty plus percent will say, he's really significant. 750 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,759 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, probably the greatest social ill of our 751 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,359 Speaker 1: day is the absence of dad. Yet at the same time, 752 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:47,239 Speaker 1: we all agree that his influences input, his being there 753 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:51,439 Speaker 1: matters like crazy. So, Michelle, there's this there's this tension here, 754 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: and how do you how do you get a voice 755 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,279 Speaker 1: in the midst of that? You know that, how do 756 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 1: you speak to it? How do you speak to it 757 00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 1: at church in conversations over a cup of coffee with 758 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 1: someone you know? 759 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 11: Well, I think, like you just said, it is one 760 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 11: to one. And hopefully those listening to your heart and 761 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 11: my heart today are hearing God, the father's heart through 762 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 11: us as we implore dads to be more engaged in 763 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 11: their children's life. Because we can talk about fatherlessness all 764 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,320 Speaker 11: day long out there in the world and the culture. 765 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 11: But Dad, I want to ask you, if you're listening, 766 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 11: how present are you when you are home? Are you 767 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 11: actually absent as a father when it comes to putting 768 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,879 Speaker 11: down your phone so that you can listen, more, so 769 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 11: that you put down the remote, so that you're less 770 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:44,400 Speaker 11: engaged in watching television and more engaged in watching what 771 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,760 Speaker 11: your children are interested in and joining them in activities 772 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 11: that let them know you care, you love. You're dialed 773 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:56,240 Speaker 11: in because again I think this posture of saying, how 774 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 11: do you, as a dad at home invest in your 775 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,760 Speaker 11: kids because you are leaving a forever legacy in their lives, 776 00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,400 Speaker 11: and whether or not they're telling you that you have 777 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:11,400 Speaker 11: value or you know, affirming that they want you in 778 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,959 Speaker 11: their lives, you as the adult, as the father, want 779 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 11: to take the initiative and say, the research shows my 780 00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 11: investment in their lives matters and will have a lasting 781 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:25,800 Speaker 11: impact on there as you mentioned earlier, their cognitive development, 782 00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 11: their confidence, less body dissatisfaction, and healthier weight, yes, more 783 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 11: likely to hold steady employment. On and on it goes 784 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,760 Speaker 11: the benefits of a dialed in dad. 785 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 1: Shall you have a book out called Let's Talk. It's 786 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 1: really a book for dads and daughters. Inside it you 787 00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 1: take men on a journey. 788 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 2: Will say this. 789 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:50,320 Speaker 1: I think when when girls hit puberty, it gets a 790 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: little awkward between dad and daughter. We don't know how 791 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,319 Speaker 1: to hug and touch and you know, make this work. 792 00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 1: And so there's a phase in there that gets a 793 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:03,040 Speaker 1: little clumsy and there's a tendency to move back away 794 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 1: if you will live it as a dad, rushing in 795 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,759 Speaker 1: becomes really important. That's kind of the gift that you 796 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 1: of what you wanted to give to Dad's take us 797 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:11,800 Speaker 1: down that journey. 798 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 11: And you're exactly right that I really believe that the 799 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 11: reason God led me to start the ABBA Project for 800 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 11: daughters thirteen to thirty is right in that awkward place 801 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 11: where a lot of dads say, yeah, she's developing, I 802 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,640 Speaker 11: don't want to touch her in the wrong place. And 803 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 11: I'm saying, Dad, you've got to know she doesn't feel 804 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 11: any different about who she is, and she's already awkward 805 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 11: as her body's changing. You don't want to reinforce that. 806 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 11: I'll always remember the day I was getting a pedicure, 807 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 11: sitting alongside a woman talking about Oh I love you know, 808 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 11: helping dads dial into their daughter's heart, and the story 809 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 11: begin to unfold. She said, my dad's no longer living, 810 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 11: probably a gal about thirty years old, and said, I 811 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,319 Speaker 11: don't know what happened, but when I was thirteen ish, 812 00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:00,320 Speaker 11: right in there, my dad just stopped hugging me. Always 813 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 11: thought it was something wrong with me. I'd done something bad, 814 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 11: or something inherent had changed that made me unlikable. This Dad, 815 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 11: I know, would have never known. That's how his backing 816 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,240 Speaker 11: off was interpreted by his daughter. So, Dad, I hope 817 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 11: that that story can touch your heart today to say, 818 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 11: if I've been backing off, it's time for me to 819 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 11: turn that around. It's never too late, Dad, to change 820 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 11: course and to turn back toward your daughter, because she 821 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,840 Speaker 11: needs more safe touch from you now into puberty, perhaps 822 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 11: than even before. And that's how you can safeguard her 823 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 11: hunger as you talked about earlier, or her thirst to 824 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,319 Speaker 11: go in the wrong direction. We all know the song 825 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 11: looking for Love in all the wrong places, and it's 826 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 11: because of a void or often a hunger for more 827 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 11: safe touch. Model that to her. Dad, that's the best 828 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,640 Speaker 11: antidote and safeguard you can have toward her choosing the 829 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 11: dude or the dud. 830 00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 1: Michelle, If people want to learn more about you these 831 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: kind of practical resources, where can they. 832 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:05,200 Speaker 11: Go, Doctor Michelle Watson dot com. Lots of free resources. 833 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 11: A link to the blog that I do every other Friday, 834 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 11: the Dad Daughter Friday Blog. I've got lots of free resources, PDFs, there, 835 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,200 Speaker 11: things that you Dad can put into action. A link 836 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 11: also to my two books and the dad Whisper podcast 837 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,280 Speaker 11: is always where they can find me, so doctor Michelle 838 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 11: Watson dot com. 839 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 2: Michelle, so great to have you. Thank you for joining me. 840 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 11: It's a joy. 841 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 9: Thanks Tim for more encouragement and to stay connected. Follow 842 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 9: doctor Tim Clinton on Facebook, Instagram and X. We love 843 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:35,720 Speaker 9: being a part. 844 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:46,760 Speaker 3: Of your life. 845 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 2: And closing. 846 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,400 Speaker 1: These are unprecedented times, difficult times, but I know this 847 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: God's in control. 848 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,240 Speaker 2: I believe he's at work. 849 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 1: I hope again you'll press in close to him in 850 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 1: his heart and know that he loves you and that 851 00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 1: he wants to be in your life. Our hope, our 852 00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 1: strength comes from the Here's an incredible encouraging verse again 853 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: from the Bible. He will turn the hearts of the children. 854 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:09,800 Speaker 1: This is Malachi for six, the hearts of the fathers 855 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 1: to the children, and the hearts of the children to 856 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: their fathers. Hope you know also that you can look 857 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: to him for wisdom and direction in your everyday life. 858 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 1: Let me say this, I've learned as a professional counselor 859 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:24,440 Speaker 1: that it's normal to have concern, maybe fear, worry when 860 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,960 Speaker 1: life's not the way it's supposed to be. But I've 861 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 1: also learned if you're not careful it can begin to 862 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 1: consume you, control you, and it's easy to lose perspective. 863 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: Some even feel like they've lost hope. They can get 864 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: so dark that some would feel like life would be 865 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,879 Speaker 1: better off without them. Say this every week. You don't 866 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,760 Speaker 1: have to live like that. Simply taking a step, reaching 867 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,400 Speaker 1: out for help or hope, it's the gateway. 868 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 2: To a new day, a new you. 869 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 1: And if you, or so many love is struggling, hope 870 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 1: you'll do that very thing, reach out for help again. 871 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: There are wonderful counsels and pastors who care you can 872 00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 1: help you find the hope, maybe the answers that you're 873 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: looking for. And there are also wonderful resources out there. 874 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 1: I'd love to connect you with some of those. You 875 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:09,439 Speaker 1: can learn more information at our website at AACC dot net. 876 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,080 Speaker 2: That's AACC dot net. 877 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 1: Or if you want to find a Christian mental health 878 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 1: care leader in your area, we have a new website 879 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:22,879 Speaker 1: called Christian Care Connect. That's christiancareconnect dot com. You don't 880 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 1: have a personal relationship with God in Christ, well I 881 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:28,400 Speaker 1: know something you can do that right now by asking 882 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: Him to commend your life, ask him to forgive you 883 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: of your sin and to come into your life as 884 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 1: Lord and Savior, simply praying a prayer like this from 885 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 1: your heart to God's heart. Lord Jesus, I need you. 886 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 1: I know I'm a sinner. I believe you died for 887 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: my sins. I turn from them. I invite you to 888 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,879 Speaker 1: come into my heart and into my life. I want 889 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,280 Speaker 1: to trust and follow you as my Lord and savior. 890 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 2: God. 891 00:48:56,680 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: Thank you for loving me, for giving your son is 892 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 1: life for me. Thank you for the gift of grace 893 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,479 Speaker 1: and forgiveness, and the gift of eternal life. I pray 894 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 1: all this in Jesus's name. 895 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 5: Amen. 896 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: You know what the Bible says Romans ten to nine. 897 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 1: It says that if you confess with your mouth that 898 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 1: Jesus is Lord, and that you believe in your heart 899 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,320 Speaker 1: that God raised him from the dead, the Bible says 900 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 1: you will be saved. I believe if you prayed that 901 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:30,120 Speaker 1: prayer that again you are saved. And the best thing 902 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 1: you can do now is go and serve God for 903 00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,360 Speaker 1: the rest of your life. He'll give you the strength 904 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 1: to do it. I believe that if you're struggling with hopelessness, 905 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: you say it's dark, I can't find, I can't reach. 906 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 1: It's just I've lost my way. I hope you'll pick 907 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 1: up the phone and call the suicide hotline. It's nine 908 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:52,240 Speaker 1: eighty eight, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. It's simply nine 909 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 1: eight eight. And before we go, maybe God has gifted 910 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,920 Speaker 1: you with a heart to help other people. 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