WEBVTT - Asshole parents & Orgasms

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<v Speaker 1>Let's take some calls from the request line calling number one. Hey, man,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up this donaque bon sain? What's up? Dominating shop? Bob?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I got that coming right up for you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>shut out.

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<v Speaker 2>The radio station and gave you what you wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>W boom on me man, what's going up? What's you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Hello? Everybody? So you got that. I didn't watch my

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<v Speaker 3>thirst the large across the water, but now I'm here.

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<v Speaker 3>It's me on the track.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? It's Erica. We are a parental advisory. Good

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<v Speaker 2>mom's bad choices back. We're back at you on this

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<v Speaker 2>uh beautiful Wednesday, Wednesday evening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we.

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<v Speaker 4>Just recently kind of recovered from Coachella. Yeah, twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 4>We survived.

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<v Speaker 3>We're home. How do you feel? How'd you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 2>This was actually my most low key Coachella because I was,

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<v Speaker 2>I say this in the quotation marks air quotation marks

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<v Speaker 2>chaperoning my brother, which I say because he's eighteen and

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't really need to be chaperone, but like, he's

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<v Speaker 2>never done a festival, so I needed to guide him

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<v Speaker 2>through the experience, get him in there. So I was

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<v Speaker 2>pretty sobersh soberish, more sober than I would normally be

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<v Speaker 2>at a music festival.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Minus millions of millions and millions of people, right, But

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I wish I was staying so far away.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I was staying closer. That like was a

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<v Speaker 2>paid in the ass, but overall, like the music was good,

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<v Speaker 2>says it was awesome. Did you go see Georgia Smith.

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<v Speaker 3>I was with you, bitch, I was sitting right next

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<v Speaker 3>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, oh yeah, we were talking about how fucking

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<v Speaker 2>fine she is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Georgia Smith is finest.

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<v Speaker 5>Hell.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at this moment and I looked over at

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<v Speaker 2>you and I was like, she is fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, she can definitely get it. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have any right now, I know, go play Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Go watch Papa.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, put that plate back. There's no more shirt. That's

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<v Speaker 3>all of them, so you don't you're not hungry.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, we're gonna take a break real quick

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<v Speaker 2>because it's looking like one of those episodes, which is

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<v Speaker 2>every episode of course, of course, queenance yeah, bag, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just when I was leaving Beyonce, it was like a

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<v Speaker 2>stampede of people.

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<v Speaker 3>This was trying to say.

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<v Speaker 4>It was my first Coachella, and I'm really happy, I

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<v Speaker 4>guess to go before my big three to zero. But

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<v Speaker 4>also I think maybe possibly I went a little too

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<v Speaker 4>late because the bitch was Dihydre. I was just so tired,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we were at Disneyland or the day was

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<v Speaker 4>Surtursday and the Coachella on Friday, and like between those

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<v Speaker 4>two plus traffic, it was like intense.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I just realized that I'm I realized

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm not about that life anymore. I'm bougie and

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<v Speaker 2>I need that VIP artist past. And there's like a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of young kids. It's laying I need to be away.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to go and be pampered away and like

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<v Speaker 2>I need be like carted around and go Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Me too. It was too hot for all the bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>It was too hot for all the people.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like on top of being drunk or trying

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<v Speaker 4>to be drunk, trying to be like festival ish, which

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<v Speaker 4>means not sober, and it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was just difficult. It was super hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I want to. I would go again,

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<v Speaker 2>but it just can't be that way. No again.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say the food was awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>It was basically like a food festival for me because

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<v Speaker 4>I really liked to eat a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, oh my god, I'm just like

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<v Speaker 3>smoking Helloween and I was like a poosa. I paid

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<v Speaker 3>ten dollars for for boosa. I had chicken and waffles.

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<v Speaker 3>I had jerk chicken. I had curry chicken. I had

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<v Speaker 3>uh watermelon juice. I had fresh lemonade sanditch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I was not fucking around. At one point, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like the fuck out of.

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<v Speaker 2>Here on food, on food. Literally no, the food was

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<v Speaker 2>really good because back in the day, Coachella food used

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<v Speaker 2>to suck. Oh really Yeah, it was like just generic

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<v Speaker 2>pizza like bullshit. Now they have like all the hottest,

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<v Speaker 2>little trendiest spots in LA and downtown. I didn't see

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<v Speaker 2>they had a shake ch Sage Vegan, which is like

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<v Speaker 2>an Echo park.

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<v Speaker 4>They have a juice Vegan places. I was like, it's

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<v Speaker 4>several Oh this is how you know? This is what

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I was. I'm like, this is how you know?

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<v Speaker 4>This ship is so commercial and so fucking bougie. They

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<v Speaker 4>have like coffee shops. I coffee shops I Coachella like espresso.

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<v Speaker 2>Type of festival.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I made my vegan, my vegan restaurant, my

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<v Speaker 3>juice places.

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<v Speaker 2>I take my almond milk lat Yeah, and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>they had on the they did.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was trying. It was organized, but yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>just too way too old.

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<v Speaker 2>They just they need to like stop having two weekends.

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<v Speaker 2>It needs to be one weekend and like less tickets

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<v Speaker 2>or two weekends and less tickets.

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<v Speaker 3>It don't mean they make less money in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, like it's unsafe now. I got I got

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<v Speaker 2>stuck in trying to get X, trying to exit Coachella

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<v Speaker 2>for an hour in a sea of people, and we

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<v Speaker 2>took three steps every five minutes, and I was on

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<v Speaker 2>the verge of a freak out. I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>is how people will die. You freak out and you

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<v Speaker 2>attack people.

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<v Speaker 4>When Kari He went off stage, I literally felt like

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<v Speaker 4>Simba in the stampede.

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<v Speaker 6>I was scared for my life. Was like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to pass the fuck out. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>but it was great. It was good to get away.

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<v Speaker 6>I met other moms there, which I thought was cool.

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<v Speaker 4>And there was a point where it wasn't a sea

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<v Speaker 4>of people and I was grooving and I felt good.

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<v Speaker 4>It was daytime but not two day ten rows.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why I didn't get there early yet there late.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cool. It was cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry anyway, So this week we asked our faithful audience. First,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna talk about Meek mil and millenniums oh oh,

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<v Speaker 4>of course, we have to talk about what the fuck's

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<v Speaker 4>so important?

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean, have you had a whole speech about

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<v Speaker 2>him before we pressed record? So what I'm saying is okay. So,

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<v Speaker 2>just in case you didn't know, Meek Mill has been

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<v Speaker 2>released from prison. If you don't know Meek Mill is

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<v Speaker 2>he is a rapper from Philly used to dating Mickey Minaj,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was famous before that, and he was put

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<v Speaker 2>in jail for what violated.

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<v Speaker 4>For some reason, suddenly everybody took a political fucking stance

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<v Speaker 4>for Meeking Mill was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Free mcmill everywhere, every like rapper beyond, everybody was freeing

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<v Speaker 2>hashtag and free mcmill, Like, apparently everyone loves this nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no idea. Well, I'll be the first to day.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 4>There's lots of men innocent and otherwise, especially men of color,

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<v Speaker 4>in jail for lengthy sentences for shit they didn't do,

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<v Speaker 4>for shit, that's completely fucking doesn't equate to the sentence.

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<v Speaker 4>We've had a long history of it. And who gives

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<v Speaker 4>a fuck about Meek Mills getting out early because he

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<v Speaker 4>fucking violates probation as far as I'm concerned, And he.

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<v Speaker 2>Used every pulled every string.

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<v Speaker 4>But like my own thing is, what the fuck has

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<v Speaker 4>he ever done for the goddamn community that anybody gives

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<v Speaker 4>a shit this much?

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<v Speaker 3>Because well, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Does give back. He does, He's known for giving back.

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<v Speaker 4>He is.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so, yeah, because I feel like I've heard

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<v Speaker 2>about giving back to this community.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, because this is what I'm gonna say, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>from Philly, like my parents are from Philly, Like let

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<v Speaker 4>me so we're because I don't know we're And like

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<v Speaker 4>I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I've been around him personally.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a friend a friend that he's the datum,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just think he's kind of like dumb and

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<v Speaker 4>kind of young and stupid and probably he's a better

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<v Speaker 4>pr person and his raps weren't even that good. And

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<v Speaker 4>what's the big fucking deal, Like he went to jail

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<v Speaker 4>like violence preparation, nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you violating or prevation?

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm like much cooler niggas in jail. That

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<v Speaker 3>should be freeze. I care about, Like, what are these

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<v Speaker 3>strings that you're pulling?

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<v Speaker 2>Like then the owner of like the fucking I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know a football team, basketball team, Like this is how

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<v Speaker 2>little I know about sports, guys. One of those teams

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<v Speaker 2>literally picked him up personally and they're on the way.

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<v Speaker 2>They're at a basketball game right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Great.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I hope, you know, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>judge anyone, and I hope that he's had growth in

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<v Speaker 4>his life, which we all are entitled too. And you know,

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<v Speaker 4>that's great, and maybe now he can articulate something important

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<v Speaker 4>to say to the people now that he's out.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, prior to that, I didn't see much

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<v Speaker 3>of it, So who gives a fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I agree, Millennia, Millennia, Yeah, Millennia. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you all saw that video of the hand grab,

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<v Speaker 2>the second pan grab of Millennia Trump and Donald Trump,

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<v Speaker 2>but I thought that was fucking amazing. If you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>seen it, going to Lumpy Scott or the Shade Room

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<v Speaker 2>or Baller Alert and check it out, because that's the.

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<v Speaker 3>Look of a bitch she who wishes she could run

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<v Speaker 3>Wait twice if you want to be free.

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<v Speaker 2>To Millenia, she wants to be a single parent. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>join the club, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, I'm in the club.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like I'm in Oh my god. Yeah, So you

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<v Speaker 2>want to take it away with our don't. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have their names in front of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, this week we did way too much shit,

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<v Speaker 4>so we were like, oh, we're gonna talk about let's

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<v Speaker 4>ask them, Let's ask our faithful followers. And we've gotten

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of good topics. So we're gonna try and

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<v Speaker 4>touch on like two or three today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we were gonna choose one, but they were just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hard to choose just choose one, so we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of merged two of themish, So shout out to Rainy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I say that right? Rainy? Ranny, I'm Mexican, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna use my Mexican Thank.

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<v Speaker 4>You for them so happy to help bilingual cash I

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<v Speaker 4>mean the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Oh that's not nice. Okay, tell him, don't do that, please.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to be nice, Luna. Okay, Oh okay, you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>chill all right, close the window.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Round.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, No hitting okay, Luna, okay, okay, and you guys

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<v Speaker 2>just played nice okay, but okay, I'll put it on

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<v Speaker 2>a one second go. I mean going there. I suck.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm stuck walking through that door like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, your close the door, close that door, Luna, Well

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<v Speaker 3>it was that darkcase.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry about that, guys. Oh Rainy is struck. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 2>Rainy shout out to Rainy. She had. Her topic was no.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought we were starting with the other one.

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<v Speaker 3>Codesias no Ray Rainy Okay sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Rainey's was basically talking about dealing with moms in like

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<v Speaker 2>with school, and like how difficult it is to form

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<v Speaker 2>bonds with other moms as a single parent, and like

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<v Speaker 2>the intimidation that like and the pressure that they feel

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<v Speaker 2>or like not pressure, the judgment that they feel from

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<v Speaker 2>other parents, from other moms that maybe aren't single.

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<v Speaker 4>And also the hating that the single moms get because

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<v Speaker 4>they're like single, and particularly in Rainy's case, like high.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah rain is Rainy girl. Hey, yeah my all down

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<v Speaker 2>your page girl, she's fit.

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<v Speaker 4>And healthy and you know, and all the other moms

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<v Speaker 4>are like, you know, hide your husband's.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just kidding, but it's true, you know, like there.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, there's there's some hating going on in the

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<v Speaker 4>moth community we need to discuss.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but so to get on to just get off topic,

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<v Speaker 2>but kind of keep on topic. Irine's birthday yesterday, Happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>I y Iri is three, and I don't know I

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<v Speaker 2>feel about that, And I wish it would just stay

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<v Speaker 2>three for years.

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<v Speaker 3>Your baby's alive.

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<v Speaker 2>I figured I just wanted to stop growing now, like

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<v Speaker 2>I figured it out now, like I realized that, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to I know how to keep her alive

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, you know, figure that part out, which

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<v Speaker 2>was like the biggest thing, you know, just like keeping

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<v Speaker 2>them safe and not like letting them choke on something,

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<v Speaker 2>and figure that part out. So now she just needs

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<v Speaker 2>to stop growing. And so we had a serious talk

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<v Speaker 2>today about it, and she was obviously not for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she agree?

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, no, I need to keep growing so

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<v Speaker 2>I can be big and I can get dressed and

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<v Speaker 2>do my hair. That's exactly what she said. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, very important.

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<v Speaker 3>She does what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's starting school too, She's in school in June.

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<v Speaker 2>So like this topic, I don't really know that. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not like I don't really know much about like dealing

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<v Speaker 2>with moms or parents, other kids parents, Yet I have,

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<v Speaker 2>like I've had little tastes of it where I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I like that. But when you're

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<v Speaker 2>in school and dealing with what if, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when you're in school with like parents for like three years,

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<v Speaker 2>you really get to know them, You're going to like

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<v Speaker 2>parent functions, you know, like I don't know, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>think we did a post the other day like like

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<v Speaker 2>don't raise asshole children. What was the quote?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, Oh, yeah, basically, don't raise asshole children.

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<v Speaker 2>They ass whole children turn into like asshole adults.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I don't know how and asshole parents

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<v Speaker 4>raise asshole children sometimes sometimes you know, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Just afraid I'm gonna be like her to a parent,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm have to be like I don't know, because

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to my child, I'm so detective, like

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<v Speaker 2>I can't imagine like me have Well, I just don't.

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<v Speaker 2>It just makes me angry to even think about like

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<v Speaker 2>a parent like coming in like kid the wrong way

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<v Speaker 2>or like one of their little kids just being a

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<v Speaker 2>little fucker and the parent not doing anything about it. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>have you experienced it?

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<v Speaker 3>No, because none is not in school yet. But I

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<v Speaker 3>know I'm gonna have to. I mean, I feel like.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, you know, I've been getting hat down

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<v Speaker 4>my whole life.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally.

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<v Speaker 3>It just sounded cool, he's gonna hate. But no, No,

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't had experienced yet. I'm scared though. But what

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<v Speaker 3>I will say one mom to another.

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<v Speaker 4>If you are hating on the fellow single mom in

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<v Speaker 4>the classroom and you're scared for the dad to take

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<v Speaker 4>little baby Jody to school because you're afraid the hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Single mom is going to be there, you need to

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<v Speaker 3>get your shit together.

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<v Speaker 2>You need. I'm just more laughing at the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>you love the name Jody.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why I chose that name for little Jody, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time there's a reference of it, like a name

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<v Speaker 2>needs to be added, it's always Jody.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Jody secretly.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta have a gotta have a life to Jody.

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<v Speaker 3>That's always a baby's name, Jody.

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<v Speaker 7>Check out our hashtags, by the way, Instagram, you need

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<v Speaker 7>to expand the amount of hashtags we can have because

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<v Speaker 7>we've been coming in with some fire ass hashtags and

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<v Speaker 7>you've been you know, not letting us lip and I

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<v Speaker 7>don't appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, our hashtag game is pretty legit. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>it's working, but I still hashtag is ship out of

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<v Speaker 2>every photo.

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<v Speaker 3>Still very fun. But yeah, don't be a hater ass mom.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if another it other woman is taking care

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<v Speaker 4>of herself and looking good, you know, don't hate congratulate.

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<v Speaker 3>It takes some notes. You need to hold it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it. But some of these single ass

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<v Speaker 2>moms are hosts, so.

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<v Speaker 3>That's be aware of the host single mom. They will

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<v Speaker 3>take your man, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>They gotta be able. You gotta be able to decipher.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta decipher. You gotta see who's cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Or not, and you gotta You still gotta keep her

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<v Speaker 4>game up, regardless if they're in for it, if they're

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<v Speaker 4>in to help you or they're to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep your shit together tight and right. Nobody wants to.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, it is hard. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it is hard to make friends as like make friends

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<v Speaker 2>with other single parents. I've experienced that myself because I

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<v Speaker 2>literally am like the only friend. Like now my friends

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<v Speaker 2>are having kids, but I was the first one out

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<v Speaker 2>of all my friends to have a kid and so

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<v Speaker 2>I had like, no mama friends, you had.

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<v Speaker 3>No problem accordering me exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's exactly what I did. Yeah, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's the girl who had the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>What's her name? Tell me her name. We're gonna be friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, it's me America.

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<v Speaker 2>I did do that, didn't Yeah? We do.

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<v Speaker 3>I do know you from Instagram and some mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 3>You're oh you're her friend? Oh yeah, yes, I do

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<v Speaker 3>have a child. Sure, I will take your number, sure

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<v Speaker 3>number eight one.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you got it, show me the I'll call you right,

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<v Speaker 5>call me right now. No, no, no, I'm standing here like

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<v Speaker 5>we make sure.

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<v Speaker 3>You went through like ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so thirsty, and luckily we did because now look

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<v Speaker 4>at good mom's bad choices.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw it. I saw it. I saw the vision. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I saw the vision. Sorry, I take the spar off

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<v Speaker 2>because it's uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Do your thing. So what is our second topic suggestion?

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<v Speaker 2>Because oh yeah, so our second topic suggestion was from

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<v Speaker 2>Kadija Samarah what's up codesion? And it was orgasms you

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<v Speaker 2>and far between? So yeah, orgasms few and far between.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel like you're coming off all this every time?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I know how to please myself. Yes, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, okay, a with every like with the guys,

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<v Speaker 2>are you coming?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you orgasming all the time? Like every time?

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<v Speaker 2>I know how to make it happen for myself if

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's not gonna if he's not gonna make

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<v Speaker 2>it happen. But that doesn't mean that obviously doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not I make the best of the situation, is

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm gonna say. Do you feel like Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So, no, you don't feel like you're gonna fear part between,

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<v Speaker 4>because you can make it happen for yourself with or

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<v Speaker 4>without someone there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, second, when you're making it happen with yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>A are they toys involved, props or m B.

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<v Speaker 2>It's they're porn all Yes to all of the above. Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 4>What are the toys and or props that you prefer

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<v Speaker 4>your go tos?

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<v Speaker 2>My go to? So I used to have a vibe

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<v Speaker 2>like an actual vibrator. I've had like a few, but

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<v Speaker 2>they seem to break offten like the battery. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>battery stup's working and yeah, get her together vibrators. So

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<v Speaker 2>I recently, so when I was this is so fucked up.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I was pregnant, my BD got me the

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<v Speaker 2>a massager like to like massage my back, and I

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<v Speaker 2>had all these different like like clip on ends, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's like different like ones. There's like one

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<v Speaker 2>that looks like a finger. There's one that like has

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<v Speaker 2>like many fingers like massage your bag.

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<v Speaker 3>And about the massagers.

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<v Speaker 2>Never have I used one, but I was desperate because

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<v Speaker 2>my vibrator broke, and I was like, what the fuck

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<v Speaker 2>am I supposed to do? Like I mean, I always

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<v Speaker 2>like use my finger that I really needed that, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I was like, oh my god, I have that

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<v Speaker 2>fucking vibrator. Oh my god, there's these pieces and it's

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<v Speaker 2>changed my life. It's changed my life.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I I I need, I need no, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm coming right now, I'm coming.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm coming. Oh my god. As I'm talking about, you know, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>my don't worry, Luna didn't hear me talk about my.

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<v Speaker 4>Need for my special specials with the different ends.

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<v Speaker 3>A very special massage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hold on, brief hold sorry, guys, I swear one

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<v Speaker 2>day we'll do an episode where we don't have kids

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<v Speaker 2>there present, because Wednesday. Sometimes when you're talking about vibrators.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't really want your three year old running and

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<v Speaker 2>asking for Peppa Pig sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, one time, my felling writer.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, Mom, what's this That's happened to me too, that's

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<v Speaker 2>my toy. Or like when you came to my house

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<v Speaker 2>and we were about to record an episode and I

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<v Speaker 2>opened up my computer and there was Born.

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<v Speaker 3>As I go, so, how you're feeling last night after

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<v Speaker 3>we went else?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that was.

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<v Speaker 3>The next day. I came over, she's opening your Compared

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<v Speaker 3>to podcast and there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, that was the night we were the strip club.

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<v Speaker 2>I was fucking horny. I was like, I have nobody

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<v Speaker 2>here except me, myself and my vibrator and my massager

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<v Speaker 2>and my laptop. My massager, my laptop.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a that's a memoir me myself, my vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>And my laptop and my Vibrany.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so back to what we're talking about. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 4>you prefer the massage er noticeab Well, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I do like the vibrators, regular vibrators, but my massage

0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:15.360
<v Speaker 2>or can just go really strong, very very strong.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the most vibrant is too strong, like

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<v Speaker 3>it's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the point.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I think for most women, though, I was

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<v Speaker 4>gonna say, like prefer like for a masturbation point of view,

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<v Speaker 4>like a clatoral stimulation versus like a vaginal stimulation.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think I clatoral is going to make me

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<v Speaker 2>come really fast quickly, But the like having a penis

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<v Speaker 2>and vasisation together is like ideal. You know, I'm finding

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<v Speaker 2>of someone who knows how to do both at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time, because some men will neglect it. They just

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<v Speaker 2>want to pump, or they do both.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you people double the fun use.

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<v Speaker 2>The finger insert, use the finger.

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<v Speaker 3>Insert, not do both. How often would you say.

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<v Speaker 2>You masturbate three or four times a week?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Is that a lot?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't you know what, it's weird. Like I'm a

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<v Speaker 4>very sexual person. I feel like I give sex a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>and not even intentionally, but like, no, I don't masturbate

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<v Speaker 4>three or four times a week unless I'm like like alone,

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<v Speaker 4>drunk or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's probably something I probably need to do more.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I just like I didn't for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>I was. I used to master it a lot, like

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<v Speaker 2>when I was younger, and then when I got my relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>I like did it less, and then after I got pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>I barely did it. I didn't even have the urge

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<v Speaker 2>to do it. I have no urge, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>just like I don't feel like doing it. I would

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<v Speaker 2>even be like, Okay, tonight, I'm gonna go home, I'm

0:23:58.359 --> 0:24:01.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna masturbate. I don't forget. Like that's how unimportant it became.

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<v Speaker 2>But then like once I became single and like I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, oh yeah, there's this thing I like to

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<v Speaker 3>do a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I was like it was like a re

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<v Speaker 2>like I was like I remembered, oh I know how

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<v Speaker 2>to please myself really well. Oh yeah, yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 2>like once you can like once you sometimes it's just

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<v Speaker 2>like the best kind of sex. First of all, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the safest sex, and it's like when it's done, you

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.879
<v Speaker 2>don't have to deal with anyone, deal with anyone. But

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<v Speaker 2>although like that, that's that I mean that to say

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<v Speaker 2>that I don't like.

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<v Speaker 4>I like it, like the like the warm because of

0:24:37.760 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 4>the body of the touch, like the it's like but

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<v Speaker 4>then yeah, the headache could be.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's spontaneousness of it all, like you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what that person's.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to do next.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes it more exciting. Well, usually you don't know.

0:24:50.840 --> 0:24:52.800
<v Speaker 2>That's when it's good sex, when you don't know what's

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<v Speaker 2>going to happen next. I don't have that predictable as sex. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like again I feel like for women, for me, anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>you can tell me if you relate, if do you

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<v Speaker 4>kind to think of like a scenario in your head

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<v Speaker 4>like or you could just like.

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<v Speaker 7>Do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Or is it just like can think of scenario like

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<v Speaker 4>a like a whole mental establish a whole mental picture

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<v Speaker 4>and then and then the get off is.

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<v Speaker 2>Real like alone yeah or oh yeah yeah yeah alone

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<v Speaker 2>or so basically not using corn, using your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Right or both or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I feel like like men they could just

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<v Speaker 4>literally pump up other pants go be done, like for

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:43.320
<v Speaker 4>women have to Like because I had a friend, a chick,

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<v Speaker 4>and she master baby on her lunch break in the

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<v Speaker 4>public bathroom.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a sex addicte.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what she's like every day almost?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, first of all, I could never be

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:55.680
<v Speaker 4>comfortable enough in the public restroom to like.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a friend like that too, a guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's different.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, to get so comfortable I could just like get

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<v Speaker 4>off never I couldn't. I wouldn't even think of it.

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 4>I like, maybe I need to be more in touch

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<v Speaker 4>with myself. But also I'm not thirty. Yea, I'll be

0:26:08.640 --> 0:26:09.440
<v Speaker 4>thirty a gent.

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<v Speaker 2>Goby, don't you dare? No, I know, but I know

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be thirty one this year. But I'm weeping

0:26:17.080 --> 0:26:19.639
<v Speaker 2>a little. Thirty is a good age. Well.

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<v Speaker 4>I heard that the sex from women, the sex gets

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<v Speaker 4>like tremendously better.

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 2>I think, so I think my sex has gotten tremendously better.

0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:27.679
<v Speaker 2>But maybe that's just because I'm single and I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>feeling more exciting. You know, it's just like new, everything's

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<v Speaker 2>new and like shiny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, you do have bad sex when you're single

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:39.040
<v Speaker 2>because you're just trying to figure it out right, you know.

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 3>So maybe I feel like masturbation is good. It makes

0:26:42.040 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 3>you get to know yourself more. And then when you

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<v Speaker 3>do have a partner that you want.

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<v Speaker 2>To I feel like metter selfish though, Like a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of the men that I've encountered are.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like selfish lovers, which is so disappointing, Like do

0:26:52.040 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 4>you like pussy or not make it work?

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's if they don't even realize they're being selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I feel like talking about sex is

0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:05.920
<v Speaker 2>so strange for some people, like asking like what your needs.

0:27:05.640 --> 0:27:07.479
<v Speaker 3>Are or like it's so foreign.

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're like why are you asking?

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 4>You? Right?

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 3>Everything you're doing is good, And I'm.

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:12.439
<v Speaker 2>Like, because I want to know how to please you.

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 2>Don't you want to know to please me? The fuck right?

0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 3>I have some pointers, So don't you.

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 2>Want to have like the best sex ever? I know

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I do? The fuck is wrong with you?

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 3>You're right? Right? But people are also okay, this brings

0:27:23.840 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 3>me to my other topic.

0:27:24.880 --> 0:27:28.360
<v Speaker 4>People are also really shy and people are like, okay.

0:27:28.040 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 3>This is my whole thing.

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:30.800
<v Speaker 4>I feel like when it comes to fantasies and when

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:34.920
<v Speaker 4>it comes to sex, like the like the it's boundless,

0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:37.080
<v Speaker 4>Like there's so many different fantasies. People get off so

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 4>many different ways for so many different reasons.

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:40.119
<v Speaker 3>But you need to surprise.

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:42.280
<v Speaker 4>People get off on weird ass shit and then they're

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:45.240
<v Speaker 4>like scared to tell you tell you, like you.

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:46.440
<v Speaker 3>Know, like oh yeah, I want a little finger in

0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 3>my ass or did you lick my ass? Whatever? Like

0:27:49.040 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 3>pull my hair, choke me.

0:27:50.240 --> 0:27:54.119
<v Speaker 4>Like, people are into some weird fucking shit, So that

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:56.640
<v Speaker 4>brings me to my last question, what is your go

0:27:56.720 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 4>to peorn category when you are and indulging in self?

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<v Speaker 2>That was a good intro into that. So early on

0:28:05.680 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 2>in my porn life, I always liked girl and girl

0:28:08.200 --> 0:28:10.040
<v Speaker 2>because I feel, yeah, that was like my first type

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.920
<v Speaker 2>of porn I ever liked. I think it felt familiar,

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 2>not because I like was like even bisexual at the time.

0:28:16.040 --> 0:28:17.719
<v Speaker 2>It just I don't know what it was. It just

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:20.880
<v Speaker 2>seemed less. I don't know, it just didn't. I don't

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 2>know why.

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 1>It just was.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know because I think because it was foreign

0:28:23.880 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 2>to me at the time. It turned me on because

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:28.159
<v Speaker 2>it was something I hadn't really experienced. That was what

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:35.919
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to experience. And then and then slowly I

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:40.600
<v Speaker 2>graduated into public sex like get like party sex. I

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 2>really liked party See party Were they fucked at a party?

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 2>Like everybody Sometimes it's like a college party, or it's

0:28:48.800 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 2>like at a bar. There was there's this one specifically

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 2>it was so good for a while, like it really

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 2>worked every time. It was this girl on the bar

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.720
<v Speaker 2>getting fucked and I was just like this is and

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 2>she like a belly chain on. I'll never forget. Oh

0:29:01.800 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 2>my god, I'm having the saved way in the book

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 2>market down some dark folder. But recently what I've been more.

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh then I really liked, like I really liked like

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 2>white girl, black eye sex, like interracial sex.

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:16.640
<v Speaker 9>Why.

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I think it's the color. I'm a visual person. The

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 2>contrasting it is nice for you did something, but currently

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I dabble in all all those. I'm really into

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 2>bondage sex lately and with the girls side up, yeah,

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 2>or both, mostly with the girls up, which is kind

0:29:38.800 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 2>of fucked up. Hurt me, I know, But which is

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I like that kind of sex too.

0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 3>Me too.

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 4>But that's what I had to come to terms with

0:29:49.280 --> 0:29:54.520
<v Speaker 4>myself that sexual fantasies are literally just sexual fantasies.

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 3>And there's some things that.

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:59.080
<v Speaker 4>I can watch porn and like be like fascinated by

0:29:59.160 --> 0:30:01.720
<v Speaker 4>or turned on by, but like in reality, I don't

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:03.040
<v Speaker 4>know if I could like.

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 2>Perform like too much, okay, like you couldn't take one

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 2>in the buck.

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:13.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, So I had to kind.

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:15.320
<v Speaker 4>Of terms like there's certain things you can look at

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:17.640
<v Speaker 4>it and porn, but doesn't necessarily mean like you have

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 4>to or want to fulfill those things.

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Well that's yeah, a fantasy sometimes just needs to stay

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:22.120
<v Speaker 2>that a fantasy.

0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:25.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because like I don't masturbate often. For me to

0:30:25.240 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 4>be as sexual as I am, i'd much rather like

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.680
<v Speaker 4>somebody else, But they probably have a part of the problem.

0:30:30.720 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 4>I need to have suck with myself and figure it out.

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 4>And then porn. I don't masterly that much, don't look

0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 4>at porn that much. But then when I do, like

0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 4>get drunk and feeling myself and alone, I look at porn.

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:41.640
<v Speaker 3>I think.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think at the beginning I probably had a

0:30:43.400 --> 0:30:44.960
<v Speaker 4>lot of girl and girl fantasies.

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 3>But probably that was when porn wasn't as mainstream. The

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Internet was just coming out.

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 2>So bitch, what the Internet was just coming out? No,

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:57.080
<v Speaker 2>you were just discovering porn. Dot com.

0:30:57.160 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 10>Yeah, well, I'm not a podcast I'm not a porn person.

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:05.160
<v Speaker 10>And so then oh my gosh, dot com my friend

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 10>who I could kill this bitch to this day, showed

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 10>me I fucking gay.

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:11.480
<v Speaker 4>Porn like guy on guy porn, and I was like,

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 4>oh my god, it's so nasty.

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:14.360
<v Speaker 3>What is this?

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 4>And then I liked it and I and then I

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 4>asked her really, like, I still I'm watching that porn.

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 3>Why didn't you ever show me? She's like you're still

0:31:23.480 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 3>watching that. Oh my god, she's different for now. I'm like,

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 3>fuck you.

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 2>I've like stumbled upon that porn before, but it doesn't

0:31:30.640 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 2>do anything for me.

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:33.680
<v Speaker 3>Or okay, this is I don't even where should say

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 3>this on the podcast, but fuck it whatever because people

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:41.080
<v Speaker 3>take this so wrong. So I've never ever had the fantasy,

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 3>like I've had.

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 4>Three esomes, like two girls and a guy obviously, but

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 4>I've never and two girls because gets heard about that

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 4>episode one. But I've never ever had the fantasy of

0:31:51.520 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 4>like two guys, because it's like immediately seems rapey. It

0:31:55.560 --> 0:31:58.120
<v Speaker 4>seems horrish and rapy, you know, like you're a whore,

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 4>and it's very creepy, like if someone gets too aggressive,

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 4>then it's okay, wait, hold.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 3>On, stop right there. But then I saw Savages what

0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 3>Savages the movie?

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 4>Oh no?

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm sorry with Blake Lively the two fucking hot

0:32:13.960 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 4>boyfriends that were best friends.

0:32:15.560 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I remember that.

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 2>I remember that. I never saw that I was watching it,

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 2>so she was like having sex with both of them.

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 3>They were best friends, but it was like it was

0:32:23.320 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 3>my ideal.

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:25.240
<v Speaker 2>It was like a polygamy.

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:27.560
<v Speaker 3>No, no, it was just they just all loved each other,

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 3>like the guys are best friends. Yeah, I mean they

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 3>were just.

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:32.960
<v Speaker 4>In a relationship, the three of them, and they understood

0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 4>it and it was not anything disrespectful or unloving.

0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 3>It was wholesome.

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:39.960
<v Speaker 4>And I can't relate to the wholesome life loving each

0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:42.960
<v Speaker 4>other thing and sharing and what's yours is mine. But

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 4>like it wasn't rapey at all anyway. Yeah, I do

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:48.720
<v Speaker 4>sometimes watch porn with the two guys when girl.

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 9>But mostly I just think I just like really nasty shit, nasty, raunchy,

0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:57.240
<v Speaker 9>nasty porn because it was like nasty shit.

0:32:57.280 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 3>It's like getting choked and god and fondage even like.

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 4>Stepdad's stepbrother naughty shit, you know, like anything bad.

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:11.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean, do you think porn ruined sex? Do I

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 2>think I can ruin sex for like do you think

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 2>porn can ruin sex for like couples or like I

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 2>think if one person's fucking obsessed with it, Yeah, because

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>then you have unrealistic you have a unrealistic idea of

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 2>what sex is like every time, like every time it's

0:33:26.280 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 2>not a porn I mean a.

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 4>Porn store every time, Like I'll can give you an experience,

0:33:30.080 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 4>it's a Jamila experience. It's real, but not that it's

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 4>like comparison, but like, so, for instance, I dated the

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 4>guy even if you tried to get like you know

0:33:42.680 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 4>you have someone gonna watch porn with your partner, I

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:48.360
<v Speaker 4>felt like he was just scrolling through the videos too long,

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:52.160
<v Speaker 4>like nigga, you need to focus, Like what do you mean.

0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Like he was like fast forwarding them or like just

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:57.440
<v Speaker 2>like like just going or trying to find the perfect.

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:58.400
<v Speaker 3>One, finding the perfect one.

0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 2>It's like I'm tired now, Like I don't want to

0:34:00.520 --> 0:34:05.040
<v Speaker 2>fuck anymore. It's over. I'm right here. I know, I'm

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 2>right here. You see this, this is real. This is

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:11.400
<v Speaker 2>not the porn on the screen.

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:12.479
<v Speaker 3>This is the real porn.

0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:14.839
<v Speaker 2>No, That's why I feel like sometimes sex porn can

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:18.080
<v Speaker 2>ruin sex, and then guys can have un unrealistic expectations

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 2>or like feel like I don't know, it's just I

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 2>remember my I had an ex that was really into

0:34:23.160 --> 0:34:25.239
<v Speaker 2>watching porn and having sex, and to go to the

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 2>point where like I don't can we just have sex?

0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Wait?

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:30.960
<v Speaker 3>I will say, have you experienced this?

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:36.440
<v Speaker 9>I have got Sometimes if i'm fucking I'll come up

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:41.440
<v Speaker 9>with like nasty porn concepts in my mind and like

0:34:41.719 --> 0:34:45.320
<v Speaker 9>fantasize about that while I'm fucking someone, and maybe in

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 9>that way porn has corrupted in my mind.

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 2>No, that's like a beneficial way at least I feel

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:52.399
<v Speaker 2>like that's the good thing about porn.

0:34:54.600 --> 0:34:59.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm fantasizing with you, even though you may not.

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, have you ever like role played or like I

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:03.880
<v Speaker 2>done any Like.

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:06.080
<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm really turned on by that, and I think

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 4>it's it makes me a question if I'm like, something's

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:09.239
<v Speaker 4>wrong with.

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 3>Me why because I like to like role play, like

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:19.440
<v Speaker 3>weird shit like the categories. So I'm like, that's might

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:22.600
<v Speaker 3>come up to to somebody. Well, No, it's being taken

0:35:22.600 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 3>advantage of, Like I don't know, Like, well.

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:28.400
<v Speaker 2>I think that's like in sex, you're kind of like

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 2>not who you are in your everyday life. Like I'm

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:32.080
<v Speaker 2>not being going around like choke me.

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:35.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like nodding and taking advantage.

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:37.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like like choke me forced me a little.

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:39.840
<v Speaker 3>But also it's like there's just something.

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>Wrong with you.

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:42.520
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think so. I think it's I mean,

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 2>I like a balance of both, Like I don't always

0:35:45.560 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 2>want to be like joke, but I do like someone

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 2>who's open to it. Yeah, And you have to be

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 2>a good after and have to commit damn. Well, okay,

0:35:57.160 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 2>that's the hardest part.

0:35:58.760 --> 0:35:59.080
<v Speaker 4>But no.

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 10>For instance, I've had like maintained sexual relationships because.

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.719
<v Speaker 3>The guy I could like dirty talk really good, like

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 3>really good. I mean, obviously the sex is good, but

0:36:12.160 --> 0:36:16.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm like that nasty little dirty fucking what do you

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:17.919
<v Speaker 3>get to come out of your mouth next?

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:21.320
<v Speaker 2>See? But sometimes I'm like shut the fuck up. Like

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.359
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I'm like, just stop talking.

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 3>If it's bad. If it's bad.

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 4>I've had like funny dirty and I'm like, oh no, stop, no,

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:32.720
<v Speaker 4>no more, and then it's.

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:34.640
<v Speaker 3>Kind of funny. But I like get back focused. Yeah

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:34.839
<v Speaker 3>I can.

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:37.640
<v Speaker 2>It could go back and go south, Yeah, I can

0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:39.680
<v Speaker 2>go go their way. I mean I like to role play.

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 2>I haven't done it in a while, but I used

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:45.080
<v Speaker 2>to do it all the time, and I oh yeah

0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 2>and actress. Yeah, like being in like a cop or

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:55.879
<v Speaker 2>like a real estate agent, showing you around your room,

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 2>show you around your room. You're something I need to

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:06.200
<v Speaker 2>like revisit and explore. Maybe I'll do that this weekend.

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that's I.

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 4>Think that's the fun part about like maybe like having

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:13.760
<v Speaker 4>sex with a new partner is like testing the waters.

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:15.879
<v Speaker 3>Well, I guess it goes both ways, because it could

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 3>be it could be easy because it's someone who really

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:18.680
<v Speaker 3>really are familiar with.

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 2>So it's like you can say whatever.

0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna think you're like you've been molested, Harry.

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:24.919
<v Speaker 2>Harry pee?

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:29.280
<v Speaker 3>Okay, peep, she's pee in the party?

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:53.680
<v Speaker 2>Wait, hold on, no, yeah, I mean I guess yeah,

0:37:53.680 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 2>if you do like freaky shit in the bedroom, sometimes

0:37:55.880 --> 0:37:57.799
<v Speaker 2>people are like, wait, what has this person been through?

0:37:58.160 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but we're just free. I could be freer. I

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:03.919
<v Speaker 2>want to be free.

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 3>How do you want to be freer?

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 2>I just want to be more open to things, like

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel like some things I've like shied away from

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 2>or just because they're the unknown, or they like scarier

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 2>more specifically, or maybe not scared, like I just have

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 2>I say that I want to do them, but I

0:38:21.719 --> 0:38:24.719
<v Speaker 2>just don't do them, like like I like I want

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:26.560
<v Speaker 2>to be I want someone to time you up. That's

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:30.239
<v Speaker 2>been a fantasy of mine for so long and I've

0:38:30.440 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 2>voiced it so many times and no one does it.

0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with these men like t yourself? That I

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 2>never thought like you would need to like convince someone

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:43.560
<v Speaker 2>to do that.

0:38:43.640 --> 0:38:45.440
<v Speaker 3>I know, right, Like I wanted to do freaky things,

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 3>don't you want to to? Right? Yeah, I would be

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:49.880
<v Speaker 3>into getting tied up. I've been tied up.

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I think if you're so lucky.

0:38:55.880 --> 0:39:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Friend envy, Yeah, Fonda just cool.

0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:03.160
<v Speaker 2>Do you have like like the Bondage video that I

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 2>really like, because there's one specifically that I watch a lot.

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:08.239
<v Speaker 2>She's like really tied up, and he's like she's like

0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 2>in pain and like choking at some points and like

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:14.799
<v Speaker 2>like drooling and ship like she that's almost like she's

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 2>having seizure, but she's yeah it is.

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:23.240
<v Speaker 3>But he's gonna say, like rape fantasies, she's.

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Not getting raped, she's obviously participating. She's participating, but like

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:33.160
<v Speaker 2>it's definitely very dominations situation. Yeah, I mean I'm into.

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm into I also like women domination, but it's like

0:39:37.120 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 2>like both, but right now I'm into I'm really I

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:43.960
<v Speaker 2>like more so like women dominating other women, And then

0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:45.880
<v Speaker 2>I guess I like a men dominating women, which is

0:39:46.680 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 2>super like programmed in my brain and society. I mean, no,

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:51.440
<v Speaker 2>you just like what you like, because sometime that likes

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 2>you don't have society like programs your brain to what

0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 2>you are open to, like what turns you on sexually?

0:39:57.880 --> 0:39:59.879
<v Speaker 2>Like the power dynamic between a man and a woman.

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I like two men dominating a woman. I do.

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:08.280
<v Speaker 4>I think obviously social society, you know, plants many seeds,

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:11.800
<v Speaker 4>so it stems from there absolutely, But on like I

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 4>also like, I think, I think it's not necessarily a

0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 4>man woman energy. I think it's like a it's a

0:40:21.160 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 4>domb and sub energy period. I think like that's the

0:40:25.400 --> 0:40:28.160
<v Speaker 4>natural flow of things. Someone's going to be more dominant,

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 4>something's gonna be more submissive. That's the balance, that's the

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:32.880
<v Speaker 4>ying to the yang. And sometimes that someone's going to

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:34.800
<v Speaker 4>be me And I want to see how far are you?

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 3>Don't let me go? And sometimes I want to be dominated,

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:38.800
<v Speaker 3>you know, so I think.

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 2>But visually what you like to watch? You don't you?

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 2>Would you say you're more You're more uh watching someone

0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:48.600
<v Speaker 2>like a woman being dominated? Yes? Important?

0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:40:49.320 --> 0:40:50.720
<v Speaker 3>Probably? Yeah, definitely.

0:40:51.520 --> 0:40:53.440
<v Speaker 2>What's your Do you like vibrators or what's up with

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 2>that situation?

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:56.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like vibrators I do.

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:59.440
<v Speaker 2>Do you use them like insects or do I have

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:02.640
<v Speaker 2>used them insects? Do you think do you find that

0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:04.280
<v Speaker 2>men are intimidated by vibrators?

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 3>Not all men? I've had some guys that are down

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 3>before like the toy is some that are not.

0:41:11.200 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 4>Well again, I was a lesbian for like many years,

0:41:14.000 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 4>so there's a lot of strap on sex, and so

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:18.720
<v Speaker 4>what is that really.

0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:19.279
<v Speaker 2>Enjoyable for you?

0:41:20.160 --> 0:41:22.880
<v Speaker 4>It was then I didn't mind it because that was

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.479
<v Speaker 4>a lesbian for like consecutively for a couple.

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't so my because I'm like kind of

0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 2>like intrigued by like that idea because I'm just like, Okay,

0:41:31.640 --> 0:41:35.279
<v Speaker 2>so the person who has a strap on, are they

0:41:35.320 --> 0:41:38.000
<v Speaker 2>getting pleasure watching you get pleasure? It's because they're not

0:41:38.040 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 2>actually feeling it.

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 4>Now they're getting pleasure watching you get pleasure. I think

0:41:42.600 --> 0:41:44.759
<v Speaker 4>I've been, I've heard I've never put on a strap

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:46.840
<v Speaker 4>on it as far to somebody else, I wouldn't be

0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:51.279
<v Speaker 4>opposed to that, but it's a domination thing where the

0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:54.120
<v Speaker 4>power and also like it does like for a chick,

0:41:54.200 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 4>it does wrap up on your clip.

0:41:56.320 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Like if you're like strapping somebody, I don't know what

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:05.360
<v Speaker 3>the terms, then you're gonna feel it like I'm terrible.

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:08.040
<v Speaker 3>The friction is gonna like you know, the strapon's gonna

0:42:08.080 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 3>rub on your clan or whatever.

0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:11.920
<v Speaker 4>And also you can get underneath that strapon and you

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:15.840
<v Speaker 4>can do vaginal you know, with your hand stimulation, So

0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 4>it's not like you don't get any pleasure from it.

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 4>But I've heard it's like a big power trip that

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 4>happens once that strapond gets on, which I'm pretty curious about.

0:42:24.840 --> 0:42:27.480
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, after I was a lesbian consecutive for like

0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:29.720
<v Speaker 4>for like two or three years, and then I started

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:31.360
<v Speaker 4>having sex with guys again, and I.

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:36.400
<v Speaker 3>Was like, yeah, I'm good on that plastic dick. I

0:42:36.600 --> 0:42:39.719
<v Speaker 3>like that skin, that warm, fleshy dick.

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:44.040
<v Speaker 4>But I mean, I'm you know, I'm versatile. I like

0:42:44.160 --> 0:42:47.880
<v Speaker 4>to eat pussy, so you know, I'm pretty much like

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:50.080
<v Speaker 4>I like girls. I'm not a fake ass lesbian because

0:42:50.160 --> 0:42:50.439
<v Speaker 4>I could.

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:51.880
<v Speaker 3>I could go either way.

0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 2>Because you've actually dated women, Yeah, I lived with them,

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:54.840
<v Speaker 2>and like.

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 3>I basically mostly only dude with women.

0:42:57.280 --> 0:43:00.400
<v Speaker 4>I've only had a relationship outside of I'm in with

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:03.800
<v Speaker 4>my baby Saddy, which makes me much more of a lesbian.

0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:07.880
<v Speaker 2>But so you've only had one relationships, one serious relationship

0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 2>with one man ever.

0:43:09.239 --> 0:43:17.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Wow, okay, weird, Yeah lesbian. Yeah, I don't know,

0:43:17.440 --> 0:43:20.240
<v Speaker 3>because I do, like, I mean, I don't know, but yeah.

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:26.960
<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. So do you have any desire. So when

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:30.799
<v Speaker 2>being a like single, like do you have a if

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 2>you were going to imagine yourself in a relationship, is

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:34.640
<v Speaker 2>it with a man or is it with a woman?

0:43:34.719 --> 0:43:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Like when you think about a future relationship or do

0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:37.960
<v Speaker 2>you even think about the future.

0:43:38.239 --> 0:43:41.440
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think socially that's been programmed. Like you know,

0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:44.360
<v Speaker 4>I can't it's just whatever. No, I mean it's whatever

0:43:44.520 --> 0:43:46.360
<v Speaker 4>to me, But socially I think it was a programmed

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 4>Like even like when I was deep into my lesbian.

0:43:48.719 --> 0:43:51.400
<v Speaker 3>Years, there were times that have like glimpses of my

0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:53.719
<v Speaker 3>future and I was like, no, this is not this

0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:56.560
<v Speaker 3>is not how I saw it, Like people looking at

0:43:56.600 --> 0:43:57.440
<v Speaker 3>you crazy, Like.

0:43:59.600 --> 0:44:02.160
<v Speaker 4>You know, you envision your life having a normal life

0:44:02.160 --> 0:44:03.800
<v Speaker 4>with a man and a woman and kids and a

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:05.240
<v Speaker 4>ticket fence and shit and marriage.

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 3>You know, that's ideal. So ideally that's what I think of,

0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 3>but like realistically, at this point, I.

0:44:11.520 --> 0:44:13.600
<v Speaker 4>Don't know what way it'll look like. Shit, maybe I'll

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:16.440
<v Speaker 4>have a wife and a husband, maybe I'll have you know.

0:44:16.480 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know my wife. I don't know.

0:44:18.920 --> 0:44:21.040
<v Speaker 4>Ultimately, I just want someone who's gonna accept me and

0:44:21.120 --> 0:44:25.719
<v Speaker 4>love me and you know, please please me. Yeah, that's

0:44:25.719 --> 0:44:30.560
<v Speaker 4>the most important respect, love, appreciation, understanding, and that's big

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:30.840
<v Speaker 4>for me.

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't, I can't. I mean, I think I

0:44:36.360 --> 0:44:38.680
<v Speaker 2>said this before in another episode. I can't imagine being

0:44:38.680 --> 0:44:40.160
<v Speaker 2>in a relationship with a woman. But I wouldn't be

0:44:40.200 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 2>a I wouldn't. I won't like cross it out of

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 2>my list.

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:44.439
<v Speaker 3>Have you ever been in a relationship with the woman?

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:44:45.760 --> 0:44:48.840
<v Speaker 2>But I like women. Yeah, but I just don't know

0:44:48.880 --> 0:44:54.360
<v Speaker 2>if I do like that masculinity, femininity dynamic, you know

0:44:54.400 --> 0:44:57.120
<v Speaker 2>what I mean. Not that a woman can't be masculine. Well, yeah,

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:00.600
<v Speaker 2>it's just it's just something different when it from a man.

0:45:00.600 --> 0:45:03.360
<v Speaker 3>A man, yes, and that energy.

0:45:03.480 --> 0:45:06.319
<v Speaker 2>It's just different. Although I've met some women that are

0:45:07.960 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 2>I've met some women that although I've met some women

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:18.879
<v Speaker 2>that are extremely masculine, like more than like a man.

0:45:19.520 --> 0:45:19.680
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:23.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's some women that you know, my mommy.

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:31.319
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Okay, just tell her to please don't do that. Okay,

0:45:32.960 --> 0:45:37.880
<v Speaker 2>don't yell at her though, just say please don't do that. Okay, Luna,

0:45:37.960 --> 0:45:41.919
<v Speaker 2>don't do that. Okay, cool, close the door, please close

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:43.080
<v Speaker 2>the door. We're almost done.

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:45.239
<v Speaker 3>Close it, close it.

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. What were you saying? Oh? Yeah, uh, girls that

0:45:55.520 --> 0:45:57.279
<v Speaker 2>have zoot a lot of masculine energy.

0:45:58.000 --> 0:46:00.320
<v Speaker 4>It exists, it happens, And I also belie is that

0:46:00.480 --> 0:46:04.439
<v Speaker 4>it depends on the dynamic of two people, because first

0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:06.520
<v Speaker 4>of all, I usually date like kind of I like all.

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:07.760
<v Speaker 3>Types of women, all different guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>My shit goes a lot of ways, but I liked,

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<v Speaker 4>I've generally did like stud women for all the non

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<v Speaker 4>lesbian lingal listeners, that's like.

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<v Speaker 3>More masculine ones.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna say something totally correct, but have you

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<v Speaker 4>can you agree that with certain even with certain men,

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<v Speaker 4>with certain women, there are certain people that bring out certain.

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<v Speaker 3>Aspects of my energy.

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<v Speaker 4>There are certain people that make me want to be

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<v Speaker 4>like a little more aggressive, like make me want to

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<v Speaker 4>dominate them.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why. And there's people who are like

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<v Speaker 3>have at scene.

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<v Speaker 4>Shut the fuck up, and I'm like, okay, God, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like a car.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm not saying ship. But there's certain people

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<v Speaker 3>who give you, you know, like who just feed certain

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<v Speaker 3>parts of you.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, there's there's even in a fantasy place,

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<v Speaker 4>in a sexual place, there's different parts of you that

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<v Speaker 4>want to be fulfilled, and there's.

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<v Speaker 3>Masculine energy and there's femine energy. That both men and

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<v Speaker 3>women have and that you want to tap into.

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<v Speaker 4>And when you have a partner that's willing to explore

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<v Speaker 4>that and understand that and there are no judgments and

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<v Speaker 4>boundaries like that's that's when the real orgasms come. And

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<v Speaker 4>when it's boundless and you can try shit and do

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<v Speaker 4>freaky shit and no one's like, don't put your.

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<v Speaker 2>Finger there, right, you know? Right. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I've had that like a consistent like consistently ever, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I want that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe I think that's what I'm that's what I

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<v Speaker 2>search for and or not search for. But that's the

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like a deal breaker for me now and

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<v Speaker 2>my if, if and when I ever get into another

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<v Speaker 2>relationship like sexually, like bound we need to be boundless

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<v Speaker 2>because I just feel like, if you're going to have

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<v Speaker 2>sex with someone for the rest of your life, even

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<v Speaker 2>if it's not just with that one person, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>the person you're gonna choose to spend your life with, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I need us to be one hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think for women too, because I've found this

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<v Speaker 4>with men. Men want to ask questions stupid question. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>first of I think how many men have you had

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<v Speaker 4>sex with is the stupidest fucking question of all time

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<v Speaker 4>because you're gonna fuck regardless.

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<v Speaker 2>So you don't really want to know.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't really want to know, and it doesn't really

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<v Speaker 3>fucking matter.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you're gonna fuck regardless, and nobody really knows because

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<v Speaker 4>who the fuck wrote a list down like we're in

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<v Speaker 4>the seventh.

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<v Speaker 2>God damme, I started counting at one point in my life, but.

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<v Speaker 11>Whoever I wanted to that's how many but I found

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<v Speaker 11>in my prior in a past relationship, like this guy

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<v Speaker 11>would ask me all these very specific questions.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when I would answer, he would almost hold

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<v Speaker 3>that shit over my head.

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<v Speaker 2>Later, you know, like, oh, so you aren't validating him,

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<v Speaker 2>so he wanted to like write, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 4>It made me feel guilty about it, and you know

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<v Speaker 4>that I'm not saying it fucks me up because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>secure in who I am.

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<v Speaker 3>But as a woman period, you know, and then with someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Who you want to love you or you love, you're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna confuse that that just and then it's going to

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<v Speaker 4>prohibit you from like opening up ever again and being

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<v Speaker 4>vulnerable because it's like, bitch, you're you did what you know,

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<v Speaker 4>but It's just like, what it really boils down to

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<v Speaker 4>is maturity, and I think, unfortunately, no offense, a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of men lack that maturity and unfortunately have been socially

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<v Speaker 4>brainwashed to think like every woman's supposed to be like

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<v Speaker 4>their mother or like the girl next door or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they want they want to marry their mother and

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<v Speaker 2>they want to fuck, right, But.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like what you want both. So let's be real.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't get this dick suck because I was sitting

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<v Speaker 4>at home fucking knitting a swatter.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, the fact this makes perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't come from no way.

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<v Speaker 3>I was born last night, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>But for real, Like so, I think that that's important

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<v Speaker 4>that that free zone, that non judgment free zone. Like

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<v Speaker 4>men don't understand how far they can get when when

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<v Speaker 4>they really understand that we are just humans with human desires.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like them, just like them, right, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we want to we want to talk to like new

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<v Speaker 3>pussy too.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to have orgasms few and far between, but

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<v Speaker 2>mostly closer and between our legs.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, anyway, we gotta we gotta cut this this episode.

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<v Speaker 12>The kids are tripping. I referday right now, right now

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<v Speaker 12>and she's not having it. She's not a happy girl anyway. Well,

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<v Speaker 12>thanks for joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>We probably will maybe revisit this Toddles on the next

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<v Speaker 2>episode since it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was rudely interrupted by Toddlers.

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<v Speaker 2>But thank you for tunning in and shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>our contributors, to DJA and Rainy, thank you for your contradition.

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<v Speaker 2>Check us out and let us show like our Thursday

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<v Speaker 2>Thursday Thursday Instagram. You want to be mom, show it

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<v Speaker 2>to me. You know a good mom? Underscore you wanted?

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<v Speaker 1>Damn you wanted? Did you pussy? Do you want it?

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<v Speaker 1>Anything you can mek shee shat s sh some brain,

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<v Speaker 1>cristal Lando bra shot to Nie shot Shamar Country Sina's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bringing you then I'm bringing down Hey, I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>that all my not broughd them.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I do it because I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I gotta give a shout out to see them

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<v Speaker 1>tin because.

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<v Speaker 2>I drinking and they paying for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Bringing shee shot