Speaker 1: Let's take some calls from the request line calling number one. Hey, man,
Speaker 1: what's up this donaque bon sain? What's up? Dominating shop? Bob?
Speaker 1: All right, I got that coming right up for you. Now,
Speaker 1: shut out.
Speaker 2: The radio station and gave you what you wanted.
Speaker 1: W boom on me man, what's going up? What's you doing?
Speaker 3: Hello? Everybody? So you got that. I didn't watch my
Speaker 3: thirst the large across the water, but now I'm here.
Speaker 3: It's me on the track.
Speaker 2: What's up? It's Erica. We are a parental advisory. Good
Speaker 2: mom's bad choices back. We're back at you on this
Speaker 2: uh beautiful Wednesday, Wednesday evening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we.
Speaker 4: Just recently kind of recovered from Coachella. Yeah, twenty eighteen.
Speaker 4: We survived.
Speaker 3: We're home. How do you feel? How'd you feel about it?
Speaker 2: This was actually my most low key Coachella because I was,
Speaker 2: I say this in the quotation marks air quotation marks
Speaker 2: chaperoning my brother, which I say because he's eighteen and
Speaker 2: he doesn't really need to be chaperone, but like, he's
Speaker 2: never done a festival, so I needed to guide him
Speaker 2: through the experience, get him in there. So I was
Speaker 2: pretty sobersh soberish, more sober than I would normally be
Speaker 2: at a music festival.
Speaker 3: But it was cool.
Speaker 2: Minus millions of millions and millions of people, right, But
Speaker 2: I mean I wish I was staying so far away.
Speaker 2: I wish I was staying closer. That like was a
Speaker 2: paid in the ass, but overall, like the music was good,
Speaker 2: says it was awesome. Did you go see Georgia Smith.
Speaker 3: I was with you, bitch, I was sitting right next
Speaker 3: to you.
Speaker 2: She said, oh yeah, we were talking about how fucking
Speaker 2: fine she is.
Speaker 3: Yes, Georgia Smith is finest.
Speaker 5: Hell.
Speaker 2: I was at this moment and I looked over at
Speaker 2: you and I was like, she is fine.
Speaker 3: I was like, she can definitely get it. Yeah, No,
Speaker 3: I don't have any right now, I know, go play Okay.
Speaker 2: Go watch Papa.
Speaker 3: Okay, put that plate back. There's no more shirt. That's
Speaker 3: all of them, so you don't you're not hungry.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we're gonna take a break real quick
Speaker 2: because it's looking like one of those episodes, which is
Speaker 2: every episode of course, of course, queenance yeah, bag, it's
Speaker 2: just when I was leaving Beyonce, it was like a
Speaker 2: stampede of people.
Speaker 3: This was trying to say.
Speaker 4: It was my first Coachella, and I'm really happy, I
Speaker 4: guess to go before my big three to zero. But
Speaker 4: also I think maybe possibly I went a little too
Speaker 4: late because the bitch was Dihydre. I was just so tired,
Speaker 4: and then we were at Disneyland or the day was
Speaker 4: Surtursday and the Coachella on Friday, and like between those
Speaker 4: two plus traffic, it was like intense.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just realized that I'm I realized
Speaker 2: that I'm not about that life anymore. I'm bougie and
Speaker 2: I need that VIP artist past. And there's like a
Speaker 2: lot of young kids. It's laying I need to be away.
Speaker 2: I need to go and be pampered away and like
Speaker 2: I need be like carted around and go Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Me too. It was too hot for all the bullshit.
Speaker 3: It was too hot for all the people.
Speaker 4: I mean, like on top of being drunk or trying
Speaker 4: to be drunk, trying to be like festival ish, which
Speaker 4: means not sober, and it.
Speaker 3: Was just difficult. It was super hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I want to. I would go again,
Speaker 2: but it just can't be that way. No again.
Speaker 3: But I will say the food was awesome.
Speaker 4: It was basically like a food festival for me because
Speaker 4: I really liked to eat a lot.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, I'm just like
Speaker 3: smoking Helloween and I was like a poosa. I paid
Speaker 3: ten dollars for for boosa. I had chicken and waffles.
Speaker 3: I had jerk chicken. I had curry chicken. I had
Speaker 3: uh watermelon juice. I had fresh lemonade sanditch.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Like I was not fucking around. At one point, I
Speaker 3: was like the fuck out of.
Speaker 2: Here on food, on food. Literally no, the food was
Speaker 2: really good because back in the day, Coachella food used
Speaker 2: to suck. Oh really Yeah, it was like just generic
Speaker 2: pizza like bullshit. Now they have like all the hottest,
Speaker 2: little trendiest spots in LA and downtown. I didn't see
Speaker 2: they had a shake ch Sage Vegan, which is like
Speaker 2: an Echo park.
Speaker 4: They have a juice Vegan places. I was like, it's
Speaker 4: several Oh this is how you know? This is what
Speaker 4: I thought I was. I'm like, this is how you know?
Speaker 4: This ship is so commercial and so fucking bougie. They
Speaker 4: have like coffee shops. I coffee shops I Coachella like espresso.
Speaker 2: Type of festival.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I made my vegan, my vegan restaurant, my
Speaker 3: juice places.
Speaker 2: I take my almond milk lat Yeah, and I'm sure
Speaker 2: they had on the they did.
Speaker 4: So it was trying. It was organized, but yeah, but
Speaker 4: just too way too old.
Speaker 2: They just they need to like stop having two weekends.
Speaker 2: It needs to be one weekend and like less tickets
Speaker 2: or two weekends and less tickets.
Speaker 3: It don't mean they make less money in it.
Speaker 2: Oh well, like it's unsafe now. I got I got
Speaker 2: stuck in trying to get X, trying to exit Coachella
Speaker 2: for an hour in a sea of people, and we
Speaker 2: took three steps every five minutes, and I was on
Speaker 2: the verge of a freak out. I was like, this
Speaker 2: is how people will die. You freak out and you
Speaker 2: attack people.
Speaker 4: When Kari He went off stage, I literally felt like
Speaker 4: Simba in the stampede.
Speaker 6: I was scared for my life. Was like, oh no,
Speaker 6: I'm not going to pass the fuck out. But yeah,
Speaker 6: but it was great. It was good to get away.
Speaker 6: I met other moms there, which I thought was cool.
Speaker 4: And there was a point where it wasn't a sea
Speaker 4: of people and I was grooving and I felt good.
Speaker 4: It was daytime but not two day ten rows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I didn't get there early yet there late.
Speaker 2: It was cool. It was cool.
Speaker 4: Sorry anyway, So this week we asked our faithful audience. First,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna talk about Meek mil and millenniums oh oh,
Speaker 4: of course, we have to talk about what the fuck's
Speaker 4: so important?
Speaker 2: And I mean, have you had a whole speech about
Speaker 2: him before we pressed record? So what I'm saying is okay. So,
Speaker 2: just in case you didn't know, Meek Mill has been
Speaker 2: released from prison. If you don't know Meek Mill is
Speaker 2: he is a rapper from Philly used to dating Mickey Minaj,
Speaker 2: but he was famous before that, and he was put
Speaker 2: in jail for what violated.
Speaker 4: For some reason, suddenly everybody took a political fucking stance
Speaker 4: for Meeking Mill was like.
Speaker 2: Free mcmill everywhere, every like rapper beyond, everybody was freeing
Speaker 2: hashtag and free mcmill, Like, apparently everyone loves this nigga.
Speaker 3: I had no idea. Well, I'll be the first to day.
Speaker 3: I don't really give a fuck.
Speaker 4: There's lots of men innocent and otherwise, especially men of color,
Speaker 4: in jail for lengthy sentences for shit they didn't do,
Speaker 4: for shit, that's completely fucking doesn't equate to the sentence.
Speaker 4: We've had a long history of it. And who gives
Speaker 4: a fuck about Meek Mills getting out early because he
Speaker 4: fucking violates probation as far as I'm concerned, And he.
Speaker 2: Used every pulled every string.
Speaker 4: But like my own thing is, what the fuck has
Speaker 4: he ever done for the goddamn community that anybody gives
Speaker 4: a shit this much?
Speaker 3: Because well, he.
Speaker 2: Does give back. He does, He's known for giving back.
Speaker 4: He is.
Speaker 2: I think so, yeah, because I feel like I've heard
Speaker 2: about giving back to this community.
Speaker 4: Well, because this is what I'm gonna say, Like I'm
Speaker 4: from Philly, like my parents are from Philly, Like let
Speaker 4: me so we're because I don't know we're And like
Speaker 4: I guess.
Speaker 3: Like I've been around him personally.
Speaker 4: I have a friend a friend that he's the datum,
Speaker 4: and I just think he's kind of like dumb and
Speaker 4: kind of young and stupid and probably he's a better
Speaker 4: pr person and his raps weren't even that good. And
Speaker 4: what's the big fucking deal, Like he went to jail
Speaker 4: like violence preparation, nigga.
Speaker 2: Why are you violating or prevation?
Speaker 3: I know I'm like much cooler niggas in jail. That
Speaker 3: should be freeze. I care about, Like, what are these
Speaker 3: strings that you're pulling?
Speaker 2: Like then the owner of like the fucking I don't
Speaker 2: know a football team, basketball team, Like this is how
Speaker 2: little I know about sports, guys. One of those teams
Speaker 2: literally picked him up personally and they're on the way.
Speaker 2: They're at a basketball game right now.
Speaker 3: Great.
Speaker 4: I mean I hope, you know, I don't want to
Speaker 4: judge anyone, and I hope that he's had growth in
Speaker 4: his life, which we all are entitled too. And you know,
Speaker 4: that's great, and maybe now he can articulate something important
Speaker 4: to say to the people now that he's out.
Speaker 3: But you know, prior to that, I didn't see much
Speaker 3: of it, So who gives a fuck?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Millennia, Millennia, Yeah, Millennia. I don't know
Speaker 2: if you all saw that video of the hand grab,
Speaker 2: the second pan grab of Millennia Trump and Donald Trump,
Speaker 2: but I thought that was fucking amazing. If you haven't
Speaker 2: seen it, going to Lumpy Scott or the Shade Room
Speaker 2: or Baller Alert and check it out, because that's the.
Speaker 3: Look of a bitch she who wishes she could run
Speaker 3: Wait twice if you want to be free.
Speaker 2: To Millenia, she wants to be a single parent. Okay,
Speaker 2: join the club, bitch.
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm in the club.
Speaker 2: She's like I'm in Oh my god. Yeah, So you
Speaker 2: want to take it away with our don't. Okay, you
Speaker 2: don't have their names in front of you.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, this week we did way too much shit,
Speaker 4: so we were like, oh, we're gonna talk about let's
Speaker 4: ask them, Let's ask our faithful followers. And we've gotten
Speaker 4: a lot of good topics. So we're gonna try and
Speaker 4: touch on like two or three today.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were gonna choose one, but they were just
Speaker 2: kind of hard to choose just choose one, so we
Speaker 2: kind of merged two of themish, So shout out to Rainy.
Speaker 2: Did I say that right? Rainy? Ranny, I'm Mexican, so
Speaker 2: I'm gonna use my Mexican Thank.
Speaker 4: You for them so happy to help bilingual cash I
Speaker 4: mean the podcast.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh that's not nice. Okay, tell him, don't do that, please.
Speaker 3: You need to be nice, Luna. Okay, Oh okay, you guys,
Speaker 3: chill all right, close the window.
Speaker 2: I can't I can't.
Speaker 1: Round.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fine.
Speaker 2: Bye, No hitting okay, Luna, okay, okay, and you guys
Speaker 2: just played nice okay, but okay, I'll put it on
Speaker 2: a one second go. I mean going there. I suck.
Speaker 2: I'm stuck walking through that door like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, your close the door, close that door, Luna, Well
Speaker 3: it was that darkcase.
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry about that, guys. Oh Rainy is struck. Oh yes,
Speaker 2: Rainy shout out to Rainy. She had. Her topic was no.
Speaker 4: I thought we were starting with the other one.
Speaker 3: Codesias no Ray Rainy Okay sorry.
Speaker 2: Rainey's was basically talking about dealing with moms in like
Speaker 2: with school, and like how difficult it is to form
Speaker 2: bonds with other moms as a single parent, and like
Speaker 2: the intimidation that like and the pressure that they feel
Speaker 2: or like not pressure, the judgment that they feel from
Speaker 2: other parents, from other moms that maybe aren't single.
Speaker 4: And also the hating that the single moms get because
Speaker 4: they're like single, and particularly in Rainy's case, like high.
Speaker 2: Yeah rain is Rainy girl. Hey, yeah my all down
Speaker 2: your page girl, she's fit.
Speaker 4: And healthy and you know, and all the other moms
Speaker 4: are like, you know, hide your husband's.
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, but it's true, you know, like there.
Speaker 4: You know, there's there's some hating going on in the
Speaker 4: moth community we need to discuss.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but so to get on to just get off topic,
Speaker 2: but kind of keep on topic. Irine's birthday yesterday, Happy birthday.
Speaker 2: I y Iri is three, and I don't know I
Speaker 2: feel about that, And I wish it would just stay
Speaker 2: three for years.
Speaker 3: Your baby's alive.
Speaker 2: I figured I just wanted to stop growing now, like
Speaker 2: I figured it out now, like I realized that, like
Speaker 2: I'm going to I know how to keep her alive
Speaker 2: at this point, you know, figure that part out, which
Speaker 2: was like the biggest thing, you know, just like keeping
Speaker 2: them safe and not like letting them choke on something,
Speaker 2: and figure that part out. So now she just needs
Speaker 2: to stop growing. And so we had a serious talk
Speaker 2: today about it, and she was obviously not for it.
Speaker 3: Did she agree?
Speaker 2: She was like, no, I need to keep growing so
Speaker 2: I can be big and I can get dressed and
Speaker 2: do my hair. That's exactly what she said. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, very important.
Speaker 3: She does what she's talking about.
Speaker 2: But she's starting school too, She's in school in June.
Speaker 2: So like this topic, I don't really know that. I'm
Speaker 2: not like I don't really know much about like dealing
Speaker 2: with moms or parents, other kids parents, Yet I have,
Speaker 2: like I've had little tastes of it where I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I like that. But when you're
Speaker 2: in school and dealing with what if, Like you know,
Speaker 2: when you're in school with like parents for like three years,
Speaker 2: you really get to know them, You're going to like
Speaker 2: parent functions, you know, like I don't know, Like I
Speaker 2: think we did a post the other day like like
Speaker 2: don't raise asshole children. What was the quote?
Speaker 4: Like, Oh, yeah, basically, don't raise asshole children.
Speaker 2: They ass whole children turn into like asshole adults.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know how and asshole parents
Speaker 4: raise asshole children sometimes sometimes you know, I'm.
Speaker 2: Just afraid I'm gonna be like her to a parent,
Speaker 2: like I'm have to be like I don't know, because
Speaker 2: when it comes to my child, I'm so detective, like
Speaker 2: I can't imagine like me have Well, I just don't.
Speaker 2: It just makes me angry to even think about like
Speaker 2: a parent like coming in like kid the wrong way
Speaker 2: or like one of their little kids just being a
Speaker 2: little fucker and the parent not doing anything about it. Well,
Speaker 2: have you experienced it?
Speaker 3: No, because none is not in school yet. But I
Speaker 3: know I'm gonna have to. I mean, I feel like.
Speaker 4: I don't know, you know, I've been getting hat down
Speaker 4: my whole life.
Speaker 2: Totally.
Speaker 3: It just sounded cool, he's gonna hate. But no, No,
Speaker 3: I haven't had experienced yet. I'm scared though. But what
Speaker 3: I will say one mom to another.
Speaker 4: If you are hating on the fellow single mom in
Speaker 4: the classroom and you're scared for the dad to take
Speaker 4: little baby Jody to school because you're afraid the hot.
Speaker 3: Single mom is going to be there, you need to
Speaker 3: get your shit together.
Speaker 2: You need. I'm just more laughing at the fact that
Speaker 2: you love the name Jody.
Speaker 3: I don't know why I chose that name for little Jody, but.
Speaker 2: Every time there's a reference of it, like a name
Speaker 2: needs to be added, it's always Jody.
Speaker 3: I love Jody secretly.
Speaker 2: You gotta have a gotta have a life to Jody.
Speaker 3: That's always a baby's name, Jody.
Speaker 7: Check out our hashtags, by the way, Instagram, you need
Speaker 7: to expand the amount of hashtags we can have because
Speaker 7: we've been coming in with some fire ass hashtags and
Speaker 7: you've been you know, not letting us lip and I
Speaker 7: don't appreciate it.
Speaker 2: I agree, our hashtag game is pretty legit. I don't
Speaker 2: it's working, but I still hashtag is ship out of
Speaker 2: every photo.
Speaker 3: Still very fun. But yeah, don't be a hater ass mom.
Speaker 4: You know, if another it other woman is taking care
Speaker 4: of herself and looking good, you know, don't hate congratulate.
Speaker 3: It takes some notes. You need to hold it down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it. But some of these single ass
Speaker 2: moms are hosts, so.
Speaker 3: That's be aware of the host single mom. They will
Speaker 3: take your man, bitch.
Speaker 2: They gotta be able. You gotta be able to decipher.
Speaker 3: You gotta decipher. You gotta see who's cool.
Speaker 4: Or not, and you gotta You still gotta keep her
Speaker 4: game up, regardless if they're in for it, if they're
Speaker 4: in to help you or they're to hurt you.
Speaker 3: Keep your shit together tight and right. Nobody wants to.
Speaker 2: But you know what, it is hard. I feel like
Speaker 2: it is hard to make friends as like make friends
Speaker 2: with other single parents. I've experienced that myself because I
Speaker 2: literally am like the only friend. Like now my friends
Speaker 2: are having kids, but I was the first one out
Speaker 2: of all my friends to have a kid and so
Speaker 2: I had like, no mama friends, you had.
Speaker 3: No problem accordering me exactly.
Speaker 2: That's that's exactly what I did. Yeah, I was like,
Speaker 2: I was like, that's the girl who had the baby.
Speaker 2: What's her name? Tell me her name. We're gonna be friends.
Speaker 3: Hi, it's me America.
Speaker 2: I did do that, didn't Yeah? We do.
Speaker 3: I do know you from Instagram and some mutual friends.
Speaker 3: You're oh you're her friend? Oh yeah, yes, I do
Speaker 3: have a child. Sure, I will take your number, sure
Speaker 3: number eight one.
Speaker 5: Okay, you got it, show me the I'll call you right,
Speaker 5: call me right now. No, no, no, I'm standing here like
Speaker 5: we make sure.
Speaker 3: You went through like ship.
Speaker 1: I'm just good.
Speaker 4: That's so thirsty, and luckily we did because now look
Speaker 4: at good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 2: I saw it. I saw it. I saw the vision. No,
Speaker 2: I saw the vision. Sorry, I take the spar off
Speaker 2: because it's uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: Do your thing. So what is our second topic suggestion?
Speaker 2: Because oh yeah, so our second topic suggestion was from
Speaker 2: Kadija Samarah what's up codesion? And it was orgasms you
Speaker 2: and far between? So yeah, orgasms few and far between.
Speaker 3: Do you feel like you're coming off all this every time?
Speaker 2: Because I know how to please myself. Yes, I mean
Speaker 2: I'm saying, okay, a with every like with the guys,
Speaker 2: are you coming?
Speaker 3: Are you orgasming all the time? Like every time?
Speaker 2: I know how to make it happen for myself if
Speaker 2: I know it's not gonna if he's not gonna make
Speaker 2: it happen. But that doesn't mean that obviously doesn't mean
Speaker 2: I'm not I make the best of the situation, is
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna say. Do you feel like Okay?
Speaker 4: So, no, you don't feel like you're gonna fear part between,
Speaker 4: because you can make it happen for yourself with or
Speaker 4: without someone there.
Speaker 3: Yes, second, when you're making it happen with yourself.
Speaker 4: A are they toys involved, props or m B.
Speaker 2: It's they're porn all Yes to all of the above. Okay, So.
Speaker 4: What are the toys and or props that you prefer
Speaker 4: your go tos?
Speaker 2: My go to? So I used to have a vibe
Speaker 2: like an actual vibrator. I've had like a few, but
Speaker 2: they seem to break offten like the battery. Yeah, the
Speaker 2: battery stup's working and yeah, get her together vibrators. So
Speaker 2: I recently, so when I was this is so fucked up.
Speaker 2: So when I was pregnant, my BD got me the
Speaker 2: a massager like to like massage my back, and I
Speaker 2: had all these different like like clip on ends, like
Speaker 2: you know, it's like different like ones. There's like one
Speaker 2: that looks like a finger. There's one that like has
Speaker 2: like many fingers like massage your bag.
Speaker 3: And about the massagers.
Speaker 2: Never have I used one, but I was desperate because
Speaker 2: my vibrator broke, and I was like, what the fuck
Speaker 2: am I supposed to do? Like I mean, I always
Speaker 2: like use my finger that I really needed that, and
Speaker 2: so I was like, oh my god, I have that
Speaker 2: fucking vibrator. Oh my god, there's these pieces and it's
Speaker 2: changed my life. It's changed my life.
Speaker 8: Well, I I I need, I need no, okay, okay,
Speaker 8: I'm coming right now, I'm coming.
Speaker 2: I'm coming. Oh my god. As I'm talking about, you know, guys,
Speaker 2: my don't worry, Luna didn't hear me talk about my.
Speaker 4: Need for my special specials with the different ends.
Speaker 3: A very special massage.
Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, brief hold sorry, guys, I swear one
Speaker 2: day we'll do an episode where we don't have kids
Speaker 2: there present, because Wednesday. Sometimes when you're talking about vibrators.
Speaker 2: You don't really want your three year old running and
Speaker 2: asking for Peppa Pig sometimes.
Speaker 3: You know, one time, my felling writer.
Speaker 2: Like, Mom, what's this That's happened to me too, that's
Speaker 2: my toy. Or like when you came to my house
Speaker 2: and we were about to record an episode and I
Speaker 2: opened up my computer and there was Born.
Speaker 3: As I go, so, how you're feeling last night after
Speaker 3: we went else?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was.
Speaker 3: The next day. I came over, she's opening your Compared
Speaker 3: to podcast and there.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that was the night we were the strip club.
Speaker 2: I was fucking horny. I was like, I have nobody
Speaker 2: here except me, myself and my vibrator and my massager
Speaker 2: and my laptop. My massager, my laptop.
Speaker 3: That's a that's a memoir me myself, my vibe.
Speaker 2: And my laptop and my Vibrany.
Speaker 4: Okay, so back to what we're talking about. Okay, so
Speaker 4: you prefer the massage er noticeab Well, I mean.
Speaker 2: I do like the vibrators, regular vibrators, but my massage
Speaker 2: or can just go really strong, very very strong.
Speaker 3: I feel like the most vibrant is too strong, like
Speaker 3: it's too much.
Speaker 2: That's the point.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I think for most women, though, I was
Speaker 4: gonna say, like prefer like for a masturbation point of view,
Speaker 4: like a clatoral stimulation versus like a vaginal stimulation.
Speaker 2: Well, I think I clatoral is going to make me
Speaker 2: come really fast quickly, But the like having a penis
Speaker 2: and vasisation together is like ideal. You know, I'm finding
Speaker 2: of someone who knows how to do both at the
Speaker 2: same time, because some men will neglect it. They just
Speaker 2: want to pump, or they do both.
Speaker 3: Can you people double the fun use.
Speaker 2: The finger insert, use the finger.
Speaker 3: Insert, not do both. How often would you say.
Speaker 2: You masturbate three or four times a week?
Speaker 3: Really?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Is that a lot?
Speaker 4: I don't you know what, it's weird. Like I'm a
Speaker 4: very sexual person. I feel like I give sex a lot,
Speaker 4: and not even intentionally, but like, no, I don't masturbate
Speaker 4: three or four times a week unless I'm like like alone,
Speaker 4: drunk or something like that.
Speaker 3: But that's probably something I probably need to do more.
Speaker 2: Because I just like I didn't for a long time.
Speaker 2: I was. I used to master it a lot, like
Speaker 2: when I was younger, and then when I got my relationship,
Speaker 2: I like did it less, and then after I got pregnant.
Speaker 2: I barely did it. I didn't even have the urge
Speaker 2: to do it. I have no urge, and I was
Speaker 2: just like I don't feel like doing it. I would
Speaker 2: even be like, Okay, tonight, I'm gonna go home, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna masturbate. I don't forget. Like that's how unimportant it became.
Speaker 2: But then like once I became single and like I wasn't.
Speaker 3: You know, oh yeah, there's this thing I like to
Speaker 3: do a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like it was like a re
Speaker 2: like I was like I remembered, oh I know how
Speaker 2: to please myself really well. Oh yeah, yeah. I think
Speaker 2: like once you can like once you sometimes it's just
Speaker 2: like the best kind of sex. First of all, it's
Speaker 2: the safest sex, and it's like when it's done, you
Speaker 2: don't have to deal with anyone, deal with anyone. But
Speaker 2: although like that, that's that I mean that to say
Speaker 2: that I don't like.
Speaker 4: I like it, like the like the warm because of
Speaker 4: the body of the touch, like the it's like but
Speaker 4: then yeah, the headache could be.
Speaker 2: It's it's spontaneousness of it all, like you don't know
Speaker 2: what that person's.
Speaker 3: Going to do next.
Speaker 2: It makes it more exciting. Well, usually you don't know.
Speaker 2: That's when it's good sex, when you don't know what's
Speaker 2: going to happen next. I don't have that predictable as sex. Right.
Speaker 4: It's like again I feel like for women, for me, anyway,
Speaker 4: you can tell me if you relate, if do you
Speaker 4: kind to think of like a scenario in your head
Speaker 4: like or you could just like.
Speaker 7: Do it.
Speaker 4: Or is it just like can think of scenario like
Speaker 4: a like a whole mental establish a whole mental picture
Speaker 4: and then and then the get off is.
Speaker 2: Real like alone yeah or oh yeah yeah yeah alone
Speaker 2: or so basically not using corn, using your mind.
Speaker 3: Right or both or whatever.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I feel like like men they could just
Speaker 4: literally pump up other pants go be done, like for
Speaker 4: women have to Like because I had a friend, a chick,
Speaker 4: and she master baby on her lunch break in the
Speaker 4: public bathroom.
Speaker 2: She's a sex addicte.
Speaker 3: I was like, what she's like every day almost?
Speaker 4: I was like, first of all, I could never be
Speaker 4: comfortable enough in the public restroom to like.
Speaker 2: I have a friend like that too, a guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's different.
Speaker 4: Yeah, to get so comfortable I could just like get
Speaker 4: off never I couldn't. I wouldn't even think of it.
Speaker 4: I like, maybe I need to be more in touch
Speaker 4: with myself. But also I'm not thirty. Yea, I'll be
Speaker 4: thirty a gent.
Speaker 2: Goby, don't you dare? No, I know, but I know
Speaker 2: it's gonna be thirty one this year. But I'm weeping
Speaker 2: a little. Thirty is a good age. Well.
Speaker 4: I heard that the sex from women, the sex gets
Speaker 4: like tremendously better.
Speaker 2: I think, so I think my sex has gotten tremendously better.
Speaker 2: But maybe that's just because I'm single and I'm like
Speaker 2: feeling more exciting. You know, it's just like new, everything's
Speaker 2: new and like shiny.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But also, you do have bad sex when you're single
Speaker 2: because you're just trying to figure it out right, you know.
Speaker 3: So maybe I feel like masturbation is good. It makes
Speaker 3: you get to know yourself more. And then when you
Speaker 3: do have a partner that you want.
Speaker 2: To I feel like metter selfish though, Like a lot
Speaker 2: of the men that I've encountered are.
Speaker 4: Just like selfish lovers, which is so disappointing, Like do
Speaker 4: you like pussy or not make it work?
Speaker 2: I mean, it's if they don't even realize they're being selfish.
Speaker 1: It's just.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like talking about sex is
Speaker 2: so strange for some people, like asking like what your needs.
Speaker 3: Are or like it's so foreign.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like why are you asking?
Speaker 4: You? Right?
Speaker 3: Everything you're doing is good, And I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, because I want to know how to please you.
Speaker 2: Don't you want to know to please me? The fuck right?
Speaker 3: I have some pointers, So don't you.
Speaker 2: Want to have like the best sex ever? I know
Speaker 2: I do? The fuck is wrong with you?
Speaker 3: You're right? Right? But people are also okay, this brings
Speaker 3: me to my other topic.
Speaker 4: People are also really shy and people are like, okay.
Speaker 3: This is my whole thing.
Speaker 4: I feel like when it comes to fantasies and when
Speaker 4: it comes to sex, like the like the it's boundless,
Speaker 4: Like there's so many different fantasies. People get off so
Speaker 4: many different ways for so many different reasons.
Speaker 3: But you need to surprise.
Speaker 4: People get off on weird ass shit and then they're
Speaker 4: like scared to tell you tell you, like you.
Speaker 3: Know, like oh yeah, I want a little finger in
Speaker 3: my ass or did you lick my ass? Whatever? Like
Speaker 3: pull my hair, choke me.
Speaker 4: Like, people are into some weird fucking shit, So that
Speaker 4: brings me to my last question, what is your go
Speaker 4: to peorn category when you are and indulging in self?
Speaker 2: That was a good intro into that. So early on
Speaker 2: in my porn life, I always liked girl and girl
Speaker 2: because I feel, yeah, that was like my first type
Speaker 2: of porn I ever liked. I think it felt familiar,
Speaker 2: not because I like was like even bisexual at the time.
Speaker 2: It just I don't know what it was. It just
Speaker 2: seemed less. I don't know, it just didn't. I don't
Speaker 2: know why.
Speaker 1: It just was.
Speaker 2: I don't know because I think because it was foreign
Speaker 2: to me at the time. It turned me on because
Speaker 2: it was something I hadn't really experienced. That was what
Speaker 2: I wanted to experience. And then and then slowly I
Speaker 2: graduated into public sex like get like party sex. I
Speaker 2: really liked party See party Were they fucked at a party?
Speaker 2: Like everybody Sometimes it's like a college party, or it's
Speaker 2: like at a bar. There was there's this one specifically
Speaker 2: it was so good for a while, like it really
Speaker 2: worked every time. It was this girl on the bar
Speaker 2: getting fucked and I was just like this is and
Speaker 2: she like a belly chain on. I'll never forget. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, I'm having the saved way in the book
Speaker 2: market down some dark folder. But recently what I've been more.
Speaker 2: Oh then I really liked, like I really liked like
Speaker 2: white girl, black eye sex, like interracial sex.
Speaker 9: Why.
Speaker 2: I think it's the color. I'm a visual person. The
Speaker 2: contrasting it is nice for you did something, but currently
Speaker 2: sometimes I dabble in all all those. I'm really into
Speaker 2: bondage sex lately and with the girls side up, yeah,
Speaker 2: or both, mostly with the girls up, which is kind
Speaker 2: of fucked up. Hurt me, I know, But which is
Speaker 2: I like that kind of sex too.
Speaker 3: Me too.
Speaker 4: But that's what I had to come to terms with
Speaker 4: myself that sexual fantasies are literally just sexual fantasies.
Speaker 3: And there's some things that.
Speaker 4: I can watch porn and like be like fascinated by
Speaker 4: or turned on by, but like in reality, I don't
Speaker 4: know if I could like.
Speaker 2: Perform like too much, okay, like you couldn't take one
Speaker 2: in the buck.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So I had to kind.
Speaker 4: Of terms like there's certain things you can look at
Speaker 4: it and porn, but doesn't necessarily mean like you have
Speaker 4: to or want to fulfill those things.
Speaker 2: Well that's yeah, a fantasy sometimes just needs to stay
Speaker 2: that a fantasy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because like I don't masturbate often. For me to
Speaker 4: be as sexual as I am, i'd much rather like
Speaker 4: somebody else, But they probably have a part of the problem.
Speaker 4: I need to have suck with myself and figure it out.
Speaker 4: And then porn. I don't masterly that much, don't look
Speaker 4: at porn that much. But then when I do, like
Speaker 4: get drunk and feeling myself and alone, I look at porn.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think at the beginning I probably had a
Speaker 4: lot of girl and girl fantasies.
Speaker 3: But probably that was when porn wasn't as mainstream. The
Speaker 3: Internet was just coming out.
Speaker 2: So bitch, what the Internet was just coming out? No,
Speaker 2: you were just discovering porn. Dot com.
Speaker 10: Yeah, well, I'm not a podcast I'm not a porn person.
Speaker 10: And so then oh my gosh, dot com my friend
Speaker 10: who I could kill this bitch to this day, showed
Speaker 10: me I fucking gay.
Speaker 4: Porn like guy on guy porn, and I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, it's so nasty.
Speaker 3: What is this?
Speaker 4: And then I liked it and I and then I
Speaker 4: asked her really, like, I still I'm watching that porn.
Speaker 3: Why didn't you ever show me? She's like you're still
Speaker 3: watching that. Oh my god, she's different for now. I'm like,
Speaker 3: fuck you.
Speaker 2: I've like stumbled upon that porn before, but it doesn't
Speaker 2: do anything for me.
Speaker 3: Or okay, this is I don't even where should say
Speaker 3: this on the podcast, but fuck it whatever because people
Speaker 3: take this so wrong. So I've never ever had the fantasy,
Speaker 3: like I've had.
Speaker 4: Three esomes, like two girls and a guy obviously, but
Speaker 4: I've never and two girls because gets heard about that
Speaker 4: episode one. But I've never ever had the fantasy of
Speaker 4: like two guys, because it's like immediately seems rapey. It
Speaker 4: seems horrish and rapy, you know, like you're a whore,
Speaker 4: and it's very creepy, like if someone gets too aggressive,
Speaker 4: then it's okay, wait, hold.
Speaker 3: On, stop right there. But then I saw Savages what
Speaker 3: Savages the movie?
Speaker 4: Oh no?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 4: Oh I'm sorry with Blake Lively the two fucking hot
Speaker 4: boyfriends that were best friends.
Speaker 3: Oh, I remember that.
Speaker 2: I remember that. I never saw that I was watching it,
Speaker 2: so she was like having sex with both of them.
Speaker 3: They were best friends, but it was like it was
Speaker 3: my ideal.
Speaker 2: It was like a polygamy.
Speaker 3: No, no, it was just they just all loved each other,
Speaker 3: like the guys are best friends. Yeah, I mean they
Speaker 3: were just.
Speaker 4: In a relationship, the three of them, and they understood
Speaker 4: it and it was not anything disrespectful or unloving.
Speaker 3: It was wholesome.
Speaker 4: And I can't relate to the wholesome life loving each
Speaker 4: other thing and sharing and what's yours is mine. But
Speaker 4: like it wasn't rapey at all anyway. Yeah, I do
Speaker 4: sometimes watch porn with the two guys when girl.
Speaker 9: But mostly I just think I just like really nasty shit, nasty, raunchy,
Speaker 9: nasty porn because it was like nasty shit.
Speaker 3: It's like getting choked and god and fondage even like.
Speaker 4: Stepdad's stepbrother naughty shit, you know, like anything bad.
Speaker 2: I mean, do you think porn ruined sex? Do I
Speaker 2: think I can ruin sex for like do you think
Speaker 2: porn can ruin sex for like couples or like I
Speaker 2: think if one person's fucking obsessed with it, Yeah, because
Speaker 2: then you have unrealistic you have a unrealistic idea of
Speaker 2: what sex is like every time, like every time it's
Speaker 2: not a porn I mean a.
Speaker 4: Porn store every time, Like I'll can give you an experience,
Speaker 4: it's a Jamila experience. It's real, but not that it's
Speaker 4: like comparison, but like, so, for instance, I dated the
Speaker 4: guy even if you tried to get like you know
Speaker 4: you have someone gonna watch porn with your partner, I
Speaker 4: felt like he was just scrolling through the videos too long,
Speaker 4: like nigga, you need to focus, Like what do you mean.
Speaker 2: Like he was like fast forwarding them or like just
Speaker 2: like like just going or trying to find the perfect.
Speaker 3: One, finding the perfect one.
Speaker 2: It's like I'm tired now, Like I don't want to
Speaker 2: fuck anymore. It's over. I'm right here. I know, I'm
Speaker 2: right here. You see this, this is real. This is
Speaker 2: not the porn on the screen.
Speaker 3: This is the real porn.
Speaker 2: No, That's why I feel like sometimes sex porn can
Speaker 2: ruin sex, and then guys can have un unrealistic expectations
Speaker 2: or like feel like I don't know, it's just I
Speaker 2: remember my I had an ex that was really into
Speaker 2: watching porn and having sex, and to go to the
Speaker 2: point where like I don't can we just have sex?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 3: I will say, have you experienced this?
Speaker 9: I have got Sometimes if i'm fucking I'll come up
Speaker 9: with like nasty porn concepts in my mind and like
Speaker 9: fantasize about that while I'm fucking someone, and maybe in
Speaker 9: that way porn has corrupted in my mind.
Speaker 2: No, that's like a beneficial way at least I feel
Speaker 2: like that's the good thing about porn.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm fantasizing with you, even though you may not.
Speaker 2: Well, have you ever like role played or like I
Speaker 2: done any Like.
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm really turned on by that, and I think
Speaker 4: it's it makes me a question if I'm like, something's
Speaker 4: wrong with.
Speaker 3: Me why because I like to like role play, like
Speaker 3: weird shit like the categories. So I'm like, that's might
Speaker 3: come up to to somebody. Well, No, it's being taken
Speaker 3: advantage of, Like I don't know, Like, well.
Speaker 2: I think that's like in sex, you're kind of like
Speaker 2: not who you are in your everyday life. Like I'm
Speaker 2: not being going around like choke me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like nodding and taking advantage.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like like choke me forced me a little.
Speaker 3: But also it's like there's just something.
Speaker 1: Wrong with you.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I think it's I mean,
Speaker 2: I like a balance of both, Like I don't always
Speaker 2: want to be like joke, but I do like someone
Speaker 2: who's open to it. Yeah, And you have to be
Speaker 2: a good after and have to commit damn. Well, okay,
Speaker 2: that's the hardest part.
Speaker 4: But no.
Speaker 10: For instance, I've had like maintained sexual relationships because.
Speaker 3: The guy I could like dirty talk really good, like
Speaker 3: really good. I mean, obviously the sex is good, but
Speaker 3: I'm like that nasty little dirty fucking what do you
Speaker 3: get to come out of your mouth next?
Speaker 2: See? But sometimes I'm like shut the fuck up. Like
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, just stop talking.
Speaker 3: If it's bad. If it's bad.
Speaker 4: I've had like funny dirty and I'm like, oh no, stop, no,
Speaker 4: no more, and then it's.
Speaker 3: Kind of funny. But I like get back focused. Yeah
Speaker 3: I can.
Speaker 2: It could go back and go south, Yeah, I can
Speaker 2: go go their way. I mean I like to role play.
Speaker 2: I haven't done it in a while, but I used
Speaker 2: to do it all the time, and I oh yeah
Speaker 2: and actress. Yeah, like being in like a cop or
Speaker 2: like a real estate agent, showing you around your room,
Speaker 2: show you around your room. You're something I need to
Speaker 2: like revisit and explore. Maybe I'll do that this weekend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's I.
Speaker 4: Think that's the fun part about like maybe like having
Speaker 4: sex with a new partner is like testing the waters.
Speaker 3: Well, I guess it goes both ways, because it could
Speaker 3: be it could be easy because it's someone who really
Speaker 3: really are familiar with.
Speaker 2: So it's like you can say whatever.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna think you're like you've been molested, Harry.
Speaker 2: Harry pee?
Speaker 3: Okay, peep, she's pee in the party?
Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, no, yeah, I mean I guess yeah,
Speaker 2: if you do like freaky shit in the bedroom, sometimes
Speaker 2: people are like, wait, what has this person been through?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're just free. I could be freer. I
Speaker 2: want to be free.
Speaker 3: How do you want to be freer?
Speaker 2: I just want to be more open to things, like
Speaker 2: I feel like some things I've like shied away from
Speaker 2: or just because they're the unknown, or they like scarier
Speaker 2: more specifically, or maybe not scared, like I just have
Speaker 2: I say that I want to do them, but I
Speaker 2: just don't do them, like like I like I want
Speaker 2: to be I want someone to time you up. That's
Speaker 2: been a fantasy of mine for so long and I've
Speaker 2: voiced it so many times and no one does it.
Speaker 2: What's wrong with these men like t yourself? That I
Speaker 2: never thought like you would need to like convince someone
Speaker 2: to do that.
Speaker 3: I know, right, Like I wanted to do freaky things,
Speaker 3: don't you want to to? Right? Yeah, I would be
Speaker 3: into getting tied up. I've been tied up.
Speaker 2: I think if you're so lucky.
Speaker 3: Friend envy, Yeah, Fonda just cool.
Speaker 2: Do you have like like the Bondage video that I
Speaker 2: really like, because there's one specifically that I watch a lot.
Speaker 2: She's like really tied up, and he's like she's like
Speaker 2: in pain and like choking at some points and like
Speaker 2: like drooling and ship like she that's almost like she's
Speaker 2: having seizure, but she's yeah it is.
Speaker 3: But he's gonna say, like rape fantasies, she's.
Speaker 2: Not getting raped, she's obviously participating. She's participating, but like
Speaker 2: it's definitely very dominations situation. Yeah, I mean I'm into.
Speaker 2: I'm into I also like women domination, but it's like
Speaker 2: like both, but right now I'm into I'm really I
Speaker 2: like more so like women dominating other women, And then
Speaker 2: I guess I like a men dominating women, which is
Speaker 2: super like programmed in my brain and society. I mean, no,
Speaker 2: you just like what you like, because sometime that likes
Speaker 2: you don't have society like programs your brain to what
Speaker 2: you are open to, like what turns you on sexually?
Speaker 2: Like the power dynamic between a man and a woman.
Speaker 2: I like two men dominating a woman. I do.
Speaker 4: I think obviously social society, you know, plants many seeds,
Speaker 4: so it stems from there absolutely, But on like I
Speaker 4: also like, I think, I think it's not necessarily a
Speaker 4: man woman energy. I think it's like a it's a
Speaker 4: domb and sub energy period. I think like that's the
Speaker 4: natural flow of things. Someone's going to be more dominant,
Speaker 4: something's gonna be more submissive. That's the balance, that's the
Speaker 4: ying to the yang. And sometimes that someone's going to
Speaker 4: be me And I want to see how far are you?
Speaker 3: Don't let me go? And sometimes I want to be dominated,
Speaker 3: you know, so I think.
Speaker 2: But visually what you like to watch? You don't you?
Speaker 2: Would you say you're more You're more uh watching someone
Speaker 2: like a woman being dominated? Yes? Important?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: Probably? Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 2: What's your Do you like vibrators or what's up with
Speaker 2: that situation?
Speaker 3: I feel like vibrators I do.
Speaker 2: Do you use them like insects or do I have
Speaker 2: used them insects? Do you think do you find that
Speaker 2: men are intimidated by vibrators?
Speaker 3: Not all men? I've had some guys that are down
Speaker 3: before like the toy is some that are not.
Speaker 4: Well again, I was a lesbian for like many years,
Speaker 4: so there's a lot of strap on sex, and so
Speaker 4: what is that really.
Speaker 2: Enjoyable for you?
Speaker 4: It was then I didn't mind it because that was
Speaker 4: a lesbian for like consecutively for a couple.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't so my because I'm like kind of
Speaker 2: like intrigued by like that idea because I'm just like, Okay,
Speaker 2: so the person who has a strap on, are they
Speaker 2: getting pleasure watching you get pleasure? It's because they're not
Speaker 2: actually feeling it.
Speaker 4: Now they're getting pleasure watching you get pleasure. I think
Speaker 4: I've been, I've heard I've never put on a strap
Speaker 4: on it as far to somebody else, I wouldn't be
Speaker 4: opposed to that, but it's a domination thing where the
Speaker 4: power and also like it does like for a chick,
Speaker 4: it does wrap up on your clip.
Speaker 3: Like if you're like strapping somebody, I don't know what
Speaker 3: the terms, then you're gonna feel it like I'm terrible.
Speaker 3: The friction is gonna like you know, the strapon's gonna
Speaker 3: rub on your clan or whatever.
Speaker 4: And also you can get underneath that strapon and you
Speaker 4: can do vaginal you know, with your hand stimulation, So
Speaker 4: it's not like you don't get any pleasure from it.
Speaker 4: But I've heard it's like a big power trip that
Speaker 4: happens once that strapond gets on, which I'm pretty curious about.
Speaker 4: But yeah, after I was a lesbian consecutive for like
Speaker 4: for like two or three years, and then I started
Speaker 4: having sex with guys again, and I.
Speaker 3: Was like, yeah, I'm good on that plastic dick. I
Speaker 3: like that skin, that warm, fleshy dick.
Speaker 4: But I mean, I'm you know, I'm versatile. I like
Speaker 4: to eat pussy, so you know, I'm pretty much like
Speaker 4: I like girls. I'm not a fake ass lesbian because
Speaker 4: I could.
Speaker 3: I could go either way.
Speaker 2: Because you've actually dated women, Yeah, I lived with them,
Speaker 2: and like.
Speaker 3: I basically mostly only dude with women.
Speaker 4: I've only had a relationship outside of I'm in with
Speaker 4: my baby Saddy, which makes me much more of a lesbian.
Speaker 2: But so you've only had one relationships, one serious relationship
Speaker 2: with one man ever.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Wow, okay, weird, Yeah lesbian. Yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 3: because I do, like, I mean, I don't know, but yeah.
Speaker 2: That's interesting. So do you have any desire. So when
Speaker 2: being a like single, like do you have a if
Speaker 2: you were going to imagine yourself in a relationship, is
Speaker 2: it with a man or is it with a woman?
Speaker 2: Like when you think about a future relationship or do
Speaker 2: you even think about the future.
Speaker 4: I mean, I think socially that's been programmed. Like you know,
Speaker 4: I can't it's just whatever. No, I mean it's whatever
Speaker 4: to me, But socially I think it was a programmed
Speaker 4: Like even like when I was deep into my lesbian.
Speaker 3: Years, there were times that have like glimpses of my
Speaker 3: future and I was like, no, this is not this
Speaker 3: is not how I saw it, Like people looking at
Speaker 3: you crazy, Like.
Speaker 4: You know, you envision your life having a normal life
Speaker 4: with a man and a woman and kids and a
Speaker 4: ticket fence and shit and marriage.
Speaker 3: You know, that's ideal. So ideally that's what I think of,
Speaker 3: but like realistically, at this point, I.
Speaker 4: Don't know what way it'll look like. Shit, maybe I'll
Speaker 4: have a wife and a husband, maybe I'll have you know.
Speaker 3: I don't know my wife. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Ultimately, I just want someone who's gonna accept me and
Speaker 4: love me and you know, please please me. Yeah, that's
Speaker 4: the most important respect, love, appreciation, understanding, and that's big
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't, I can't. I mean, I think I
Speaker 2: said this before in another episode. I can't imagine being
Speaker 2: in a relationship with a woman. But I wouldn't be
Speaker 2: a I wouldn't. I won't like cross it out of
Speaker 2: my list.
Speaker 3: Have you ever been in a relationship with the woman?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: But I like women. Yeah, but I just don't know
Speaker 2: if I do like that masculinity, femininity dynamic, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean. Not that a woman can't be masculine. Well, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's just it's just something different when it from a man.
Speaker 3: A man, yes, and that energy.
Speaker 2: It's just different. Although I've met some women that are
Speaker 2: I've met some women that although I've met some women
Speaker 2: that are extremely masculine, like more than like a man.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's some women that you know, my mommy.
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, just tell her to please don't do that. Okay,
Speaker 2: don't yell at her though, just say please don't do that. Okay, Luna,
Speaker 2: don't do that. Okay, cool, close the door, please close
Speaker 2: the door. We're almost done.
Speaker 3: Close it, close it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. What were you saying? Oh? Yeah, uh, girls that
Speaker 2: have zoot a lot of masculine energy.
Speaker 4: It exists, it happens, And I also belie is that
Speaker 4: it depends on the dynamic of two people, because first
Speaker 4: of all, I usually date like kind of I like all.
Speaker 3: Types of women, all different guys.
Speaker 1: Whatever.
Speaker 4: My shit goes a lot of ways, but I liked,
Speaker 4: I've generally did like stud women for all the non
Speaker 4: lesbian lingal listeners, that's like.
Speaker 3: More masculine ones.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna say something totally correct, but have you
Speaker 4: can you agree that with certain even with certain men,
Speaker 4: with certain women, there are certain people that bring out certain.
Speaker 3: Aspects of my energy.
Speaker 4: There are certain people that make me want to be
Speaker 4: like a little more aggressive, like make me want to
Speaker 4: dominate them.
Speaker 3: I don't know why. And there's people who are like
Speaker 3: have at scene.
Speaker 4: Shut the fuck up, and I'm like, okay, God, okay,
Speaker 4: I'm like a car.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not saying ship. But there's certain people
Speaker 3: who give you, you know, like who just feed certain
Speaker 3: parts of you.
Speaker 4: And you know, there's there's even in a fantasy place,
Speaker 4: in a sexual place, there's different parts of you that
Speaker 4: want to be fulfilled, and there's.
Speaker 3: Masculine energy and there's femine energy. That both men and
Speaker 3: women have and that you want to tap into.
Speaker 4: And when you have a partner that's willing to explore
Speaker 4: that and understand that and there are no judgments and
Speaker 4: boundaries like that's that's when the real orgasms come. And
Speaker 4: when it's boundless and you can try shit and do
Speaker 4: freaky shit and no one's like, don't put your.
Speaker 2: Finger there, right, you know? Right. I don't know if
Speaker 2: I've had that like a consistent like consistently ever, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I want that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I think that's what I'm that's what I
Speaker 2: search for and or not search for. But that's the
Speaker 2: kind of like a deal breaker for me now and
Speaker 2: my if, if and when I ever get into another
Speaker 2: relationship like sexually, like bound we need to be boundless
Speaker 2: because I just feel like, if you're going to have
Speaker 2: sex with someone for the rest of your life, even
Speaker 2: if it's not just with that one person, but it's
Speaker 2: the person you're gonna choose to spend your life with, right.
Speaker 3: Like I need us to be one hundred.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And I think for women too, because I've found this
Speaker 4: with men. Men want to ask questions stupid question. Well,
Speaker 4: first of I think how many men have you had
Speaker 4: sex with is the stupidest fucking question of all time
Speaker 4: because you're gonna fuck regardless.
Speaker 2: So you don't really want to know.
Speaker 3: You don't really want to know, and it doesn't really
Speaker 3: fucking matter.
Speaker 4: Now you're gonna fuck regardless, and nobody really knows because
Speaker 4: who the fuck wrote a list down like we're in
Speaker 4: the seventh.
Speaker 2: God damme, I started counting at one point in my life, but.
Speaker 11: Whoever I wanted to that's how many but I found
Speaker 11: in my prior in a past relationship, like this guy
Speaker 11: would ask me all these very specific questions.
Speaker 3: And then when I would answer, he would almost hold
Speaker 3: that shit over my head.
Speaker 2: Later, you know, like, oh, so you aren't validating him,
Speaker 2: so he wanted to like write, you know, like.
Speaker 4: It made me feel guilty about it, and you know
Speaker 4: that I'm not saying it fucks me up because I'm
Speaker 4: secure in who I am.
Speaker 3: But as a woman period, you know, and then with someone.
Speaker 4: Who you want to love you or you love, you're
Speaker 4: gonna confuse that that just and then it's going to
Speaker 4: prohibit you from like opening up ever again and being
Speaker 4: vulnerable because it's like, bitch, you're you did what you know,
Speaker 4: but It's just like, what it really boils down to
Speaker 4: is maturity, and I think, unfortunately, no offense, a lot
Speaker 4: of men lack that maturity and unfortunately have been socially
Speaker 4: brainwashed to think like every woman's supposed to be like
Speaker 4: their mother or like the girl next door or something.
Speaker 2: Well, they want they want to marry their mother and
Speaker 2: they want to fuck, right, But.
Speaker 3: It's like what you want both. So let's be real.
Speaker 4: I didn't get this dick suck because I was sitting
Speaker 4: at home fucking knitting a swatter.
Speaker 3: You know, the fact this makes perfect.
Speaker 2: It didn't come from no way.
Speaker 3: I was born last night, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: But for real, Like so, I think that that's important
Speaker 4: that that free zone, that non judgment free zone. Like
Speaker 4: men don't understand how far they can get when when
Speaker 4: they really understand that we are just humans with human desires.
Speaker 3: Just like them, just like them, right, and you know,
Speaker 3: we want to we want to talk to like new
Speaker 3: pussy too.
Speaker 2: We want to have orgasms few and far between, but
Speaker 2: mostly closer and between our legs.
Speaker 12: Yeah, anyway, we gotta we gotta cut this this episode.
Speaker 12: The kids are tripping. I referday right now, right now
Speaker 12: and she's not having it. She's not a happy girl anyway. Well,
Speaker 12: thanks for joining us.
Speaker 2: We probably will maybe revisit this Toddles on the next
Speaker 2: episode since it.
Speaker 3: Was rudely interrupted by Toddlers.
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