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Speaker 2: The radio station and gave you what you wanted.

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Speaker 1: W boom on me man, what's going up? What's you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hello? Everybody? So you got that. I didn't watch my

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Speaker 3: thirst the large across the water, but now I'm here.

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Speaker 3: It's me on the track.

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Speaker 2: What's up? It's Erica. We are a parental advisory. Good

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Speaker 2: mom's bad choices back. We're back at you on this

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Speaker 2: uh beautiful Wednesday, Wednesday evening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we.

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Speaker 4: Just recently kind of recovered from Coachella. Yeah, twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 4: We survived.

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Speaker 3: We're home. How do you feel? How'd you feel about it?

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Speaker 2: This was actually my most low key Coachella because I was,

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Speaker 2: I say this in the quotation marks air quotation marks

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Speaker 2: chaperoning my brother, which I say because he's eighteen and

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Speaker 3: But it was cool.

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Speaker 2: Minus millions of millions and millions of people, right, But

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Speaker 2: says it was awesome. Did you go see Georgia Smith.

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Speaker 3: I was with you, bitch, I was sitting right next

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Speaker 2: She said, oh yeah, we were talking about how fucking

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Speaker 3: Yes, Georgia Smith is finest.

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Speaker 5: Hell.

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Speaker 2: I was at this moment and I looked over at

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Speaker 3: I was like, she can definitely get it. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 3: I don't have any right now, I know, go play Okay.

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Speaker 2: Go watch Papa.

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Speaker 3: Okay, put that plate back. There's no more shirt. That's

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Speaker 3: all of them, so you don't you're not hungry.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, we're gonna take a break real quick

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Speaker 2: because it's looking like one of those episodes, which is

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Speaker 2: every episode of course, of course, queenance yeah, bag, it's

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Speaker 2: just when I was leaving Beyonce, it was like a

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Speaker 3: This was trying to say.

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Speaker 4: It was my first Coachella, and I'm really happy, I

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Speaker 4: late because the bitch was Dihydre. I was just so tired,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I just realized that I'm I realized

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Speaker 2: I need that VIP artist past. And there's like a

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Speaker 3: Me too. It was too hot for all the bullshit.

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Speaker 3: It was too hot for all the people.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like on top of being drunk or trying

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Speaker 2: but it just can't be that way. No again.

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Speaker 3: But I will say the food was awesome.

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Speaker 4: It was basically like a food festival for me because

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Speaker 2: Here on food, on food. Literally no, the food was

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Speaker 4: They have a juice Vegan places. I was like, it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I made my vegan, my vegan restaurant, my

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Speaker 2: They just they need to like stop having two weekends.

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Speaker 3: It don't mean they make less money in it.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, like it's unsafe now. I got I got

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Speaker 4: When Kari He went off stage, I literally felt like

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to pass the fuck out. But yeah,

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Speaker 6: I met other moms there, which I thought was cool.

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Speaker 4: It was daytime but not two day ten rows.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I didn't get there early yet there late.

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Speaker 4: Sorry anyway, So this week we asked our faithful audience. First,

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna talk about Meek mil and millenniums oh oh,

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Speaker 4: of course, we have to talk about what the fuck's

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Speaker 2: just in case you didn't know, Meek Mill has been

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Speaker 2: he is a rapper from Philly used to dating Mickey Minaj,

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Speaker 4: For some reason, suddenly everybody took a political fucking stance

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Speaker 4: for Meeking Mill was like.

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Speaker 2: Free mcmill everywhere, every like rapper beyond, everybody was freeing

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Speaker 3: I had no idea. Well, I'll be the first to day.

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Speaker 3: I don't really give a fuck.

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Speaker 4: There's lots of men innocent and otherwise, especially men of color,

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Speaker 4: for shit, that's completely fucking doesn't equate to the sentence.

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Speaker 4: We've had a long history of it. And who gives

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Speaker 4: a fuck about Meek Mills getting out early because he

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Speaker 4: fucking violates probation as far as I'm concerned, And he.

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Speaker 2: Used every pulled every string.

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Speaker 4: But like my own thing is, what the fuck has

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Speaker 3: Because well, he.

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Speaker 2: Does give back. He does, He's known for giving back.

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Speaker 4: He is.

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Speaker 4: Well, because this is what I'm gonna say, Like I'm

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Speaker 3: Like I've been around him personally.

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Speaker 4: I have a friend a friend that he's the datum,

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Speaker 4: and I just think he's kind of like dumb and

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Speaker 4: like violence preparation, nigga.

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Speaker 2: Why are you violating or prevation?

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Speaker 3: I know I'm like much cooler niggas in jail. That

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Speaker 2: Like then the owner of like the fucking I don't

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Speaker 2: little I know about sports, guys. One of those teams

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Speaker 2: They're at a basketball game right now.

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Speaker 4: I mean I hope, you know, I don't want to

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Speaker 3: But you know, prior to that, I didn't see much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Millennia, Millennia, Yeah, Millennia. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you all saw that video of the hand grab,

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Speaker 2: the second pan grab of Millennia Trump and Donald Trump,

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Speaker 2: but I thought that was fucking amazing. If you haven't

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Speaker 2: seen it, going to Lumpy Scott or the Shade Room

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Speaker 3: Look of a bitch she who wishes she could run

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Speaker 3: Wait twice if you want to be free.

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Speaker 2: To Millenia, she wants to be a single parent. Okay,

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Speaker 3: She's like, I'm in the club.

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Speaker 2: She's like I'm in Oh my god. Yeah, So you

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Speaker 2: want to take it away with our don't. Okay, you

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, this week we did way too much shit,

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Speaker 4: so we were like, oh, we're gonna talk about let's

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Speaker 4: ask them, Let's ask our faithful followers. And we've gotten

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Speaker 4: a lot of good topics. So we're gonna try and

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Speaker 4: touch on like two or three today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were gonna choose one, but they were just

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Speaker 2: Did I say that right? Rainy? Ranny, I'm Mexican, so

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna use my Mexican Thank.

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Speaker 4: You for them so happy to help bilingual cash I

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Speaker 4: mean the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh that's not nice. Okay, tell him, don't do that, please.

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Speaker 3: You need to be nice, Luna. Okay, Oh okay, you guys,

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Speaker 3: chill all right, close the window.

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Speaker 2: I can't I can't.

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Speaker 1: Round.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Bye, No hitting okay, Luna, okay, okay, and you guys

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Speaker 2: just played nice okay, but okay, I'll put it on

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Speaker 2: a one second go. I mean going there. I suck.

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Speaker 2: I'm stuck walking through that door like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your close the door, close that door, Luna, Well

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Speaker 2: Totally.

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Speaker 3: It just sounded cool, he's gonna hate. But no, No,

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Speaker 2: Every time there's a reference of it, like a name

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Speaker 3: I love Jody secretly.

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Speaker 2: You gotta have a gotta have a life to Jody.

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Speaker 7: Check out our hashtags, by the way, Instagram, you need

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Speaker 3: Still very fun. But yeah, don't be a hater ass mom.

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Speaker 4: You know, if another it other woman is taking care

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Speaker 3: That's be aware of the host single mom. They will

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Speaker 2: They gotta be able. You gotta be able to decipher.

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Speaker 3: You gotta decipher. You gotta see who's cool.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, it is hard. I feel like

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Speaker 2: What's her name? Tell me her name. We're gonna be friends.

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Speaker 3: Hi, it's me America.

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Speaker 3: You're oh you're her friend? Oh yeah, yes, I do

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Speaker 3: have a child. Sure, I will take your number, sure

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Speaker 5: Okay, you got it, show me the I'll call you right,

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Speaker 3: You went through like ship.

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Speaker 1: I'm just good.

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Speaker 4: That's so thirsty, and luckily we did because now look

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Speaker 2: I saw it. I saw it. I saw the vision. No,

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like you're coming off all this every time?

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Speaker 2: Because I know how to please myself. Yes, I mean

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Speaker 3: Yes, second, when you're making it happen with yourself.

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Speaker 3: And about the massagers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, brief hold sorry, guys, I swear one

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that was the night we were the strip club.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I clatoral is going to make me

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Speaker 2: same time, because some men will neglect it. They just

441
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: want to pump, or they do both.

442
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 3: Can you people double the fun use.

443
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: The finger insert, use the finger.

444
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 3: Insert, not do both. How often would you say.

445
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 2: You masturbate three or four times a week?

446
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: Really?

447
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? Is that a lot?

448
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 4: I don't you know what, it's weird. Like I'm a

449
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 4: very sexual person. I feel like I give sex a lot,

450
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 4: and not even intentionally, but like, no, I don't masturbate

451
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 4: three or four times a week unless I'm like like alone,

452
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 4: drunk or something like that.

453
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 3: But that's probably something I probably need to do more.

454
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,160
Speaker 2: Because I just like I didn't for a long time.

455
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: I was. I used to master it a lot, like

456
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 2: when I was younger, and then when I got my relationship,

457
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 2: I like did it less, and then after I got pregnant.

458
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 2: I barely did it. I didn't even have the urge

459
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 2: to do it. I have no urge, and I was

460
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 2: just like I don't feel like doing it. I would

461
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 2: even be like, Okay, tonight, I'm gonna go home, I'm

462
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 2: gonna masturbate. I don't forget. Like that's how unimportant it became.

463
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: But then like once I became single and like I wasn't.

464
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 3: You know, oh yeah, there's this thing I like to

465
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 3: do a lot.

466
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like it was like a re

467
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 2: like I was like I remembered, oh I know how

468
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 2: to please myself really well. Oh yeah, yeah. I think

469
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 2: like once you can like once you sometimes it's just

470
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: like the best kind of sex. First of all, it's

471
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 2: the safest sex, and it's like when it's done, you

472
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 2: don't have to deal with anyone, deal with anyone. But

473
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: although like that, that's that I mean that to say

474
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 2: that I don't like.

475
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 4: I like it, like the like the warm because of

476
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 4: the body of the touch, like the it's like but

477
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 4: then yeah, the headache could be.

478
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 2: It's it's spontaneousness of it all, like you don't know

479
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: what that person's.

480
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 3: Going to do next.

481
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: It makes it more exciting. Well, usually you don't know.

482
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 2: That's when it's good sex, when you don't know what's

483
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 2: going to happen next. I don't have that predictable as sex. Right.

484
00:24:55,840 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 4: It's like again I feel like for women, for me, anyway,

485
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 4: you can tell me if you relate, if do you

486
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 4: kind to think of like a scenario in your head

487
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 4: like or you could just like.

488
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 7: Do it.

489
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 4: Or is it just like can think of scenario like

490
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 4: a like a whole mental establish a whole mental picture

491
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 4: and then and then the get off is.

492
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: Real like alone yeah or oh yeah yeah yeah alone

493
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 2: or so basically not using corn, using your mind.

494
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 3: Right or both or whatever.

495
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 4: But yeah, I feel like like men they could just

496
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 4: literally pump up other pants go be done, like for

497
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 4: women have to Like because I had a friend, a chick,

498
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 4: and she master baby on her lunch break in the

499
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 4: public bathroom.

500
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 2: She's a sex addicte.

501
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 3: I was like, what she's like every day almost?

502
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 4: I was like, first of all, I could never be

503
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 4: comfortable enough in the public restroom to like.

504
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: I have a friend like that too, a guy.

505
00:25:58,359 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 3: Yeah that's different.

506
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, to get so comfortable I could just like get

507
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 4: off never I couldn't. I wouldn't even think of it.

508
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 4: I like, maybe I need to be more in touch

509
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 4: with myself. But also I'm not thirty. Yea, I'll be

510
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 4: thirty a gent.

511
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 2: Goby, don't you dare? No, I know, but I know

512
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna be thirty one this year. But I'm weeping

513
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 2: a little. Thirty is a good age. Well.

514
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 4: I heard that the sex from women, the sex gets

515
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 4: like tremendously better.

516
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: I think, so I think my sex has gotten tremendously better.

517
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 2: But maybe that's just because I'm single and I'm like

518
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: feeling more exciting. You know, it's just like new, everything's

519
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 2: new and like shiny.

520
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

521
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: But also, you do have bad sex when you're single

522
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: because you're just trying to figure it out right, you know.

523
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 3: So maybe I feel like masturbation is good. It makes

524
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 3: you get to know yourself more. And then when you

525
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 3: do have a partner that you want.

526
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 2: To I feel like metter selfish though, Like a lot

527
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 2: of the men that I've encountered are.

528
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 4: Just like selfish lovers, which is so disappointing, Like do

529
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 4: you like pussy or not make it work?

530
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: I mean, it's if they don't even realize they're being selfish.

531
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Speaker 1: It's just.

532
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like talking about sex is

533
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: so strange for some people, like asking like what your needs.

534
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,479
Speaker 3: Are or like it's so foreign.

535
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like why are you asking?

536
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 4: You? Right?

537
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 3: Everything you're doing is good, And I'm.

538
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 2: Like, because I want to know how to please you.

539
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: Don't you want to know to please me? The fuck right?

540
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 3: I have some pointers, So don't you.

541
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 2: Want to have like the best sex ever? I know

542
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: I do? The fuck is wrong with you?

543
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: You're right? Right? But people are also okay, this brings

544
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 3: me to my other topic.

545
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 4: People are also really shy and people are like, okay.

546
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 3: This is my whole thing.

547
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 4: I feel like when it comes to fantasies and when

548
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 4: it comes to sex, like the like the it's boundless,

549
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 4: Like there's so many different fantasies. People get off so

550
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 4: many different ways for so many different reasons.

551
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 3: But you need to surprise.

552
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 4: People get off on weird ass shit and then they're

553
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 4: like scared to tell you tell you, like you.

554
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: Know, like oh yeah, I want a little finger in

555
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 3: my ass or did you lick my ass? Whatever? Like

556
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 3: pull my hair, choke me.

557
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 4: Like, people are into some weird fucking shit, So that

558
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 4: brings me to my last question, what is your go

559
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 4: to peorn category when you are and indulging in self?

560
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 2: That was a good intro into that. So early on

561
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: in my porn life, I always liked girl and girl

562
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: because I feel, yeah, that was like my first type

563
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: of porn I ever liked. I think it felt familiar,

564
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: not because I like was like even bisexual at the time.

565
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,719
Speaker 2: It just I don't know what it was. It just

566
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: seemed less. I don't know, it just didn't. I don't

567
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: know why.

568
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: It just was.

569
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: I don't know because I think because it was foreign

570
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 2: to me at the time. It turned me on because

571
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 2: it was something I hadn't really experienced. That was what

572
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 2: I wanted to experience. And then and then slowly I

573
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: graduated into public sex like get like party sex. I

574
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: really liked party See party Were they fucked at a party?

575
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: Like everybody Sometimes it's like a college party, or it's

576
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: like at a bar. There was there's this one specifically

577
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 2: it was so good for a while, like it really

578
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: worked every time. It was this girl on the bar

579
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 2: getting fucked and I was just like this is and

580
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: she like a belly chain on. I'll never forget. Oh

581
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 2: my god, I'm having the saved way in the book

582
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: market down some dark folder. But recently what I've been more.

583
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 2: Oh then I really liked, like I really liked like

584
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 2: white girl, black eye sex, like interracial sex.

585
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 9: Why.

586
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: I think it's the color. I'm a visual person. The

587
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 2: contrasting it is nice for you did something, but currently

588
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 2: sometimes I dabble in all all those. I'm really into

589
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: bondage sex lately and with the girls side up, yeah,

590
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: or both, mostly with the girls up, which is kind

591
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 2: of fucked up. Hurt me, I know, But which is

592
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 2: I like that kind of sex too.

593
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 3: Me too.

594
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 4: But that's what I had to come to terms with

595
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: myself that sexual fantasies are literally just sexual fantasies.

596
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 3: And there's some things that.

597
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 4: I can watch porn and like be like fascinated by

598
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 4: or turned on by, but like in reality, I don't

599
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 4: know if I could like.

600
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 2: Perform like too much, okay, like you couldn't take one

601
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 2: in the buck.

602
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So I had to kind.

603
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 4: Of terms like there's certain things you can look at

604
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 4: it and porn, but doesn't necessarily mean like you have

605
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 4: to or want to fulfill those things.

606
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 2: Well that's yeah, a fantasy sometimes just needs to stay

607
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 2: that a fantasy.

608
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, because like I don't masturbate often. For me to

609
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 4: be as sexual as I am, i'd much rather like

610
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 4: somebody else, But they probably have a part of the problem.

611
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 4: I need to have suck with myself and figure it out.

612
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 4: And then porn. I don't masterly that much, don't look

613
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 4: at porn that much. But then when I do, like

614
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 4: get drunk and feeling myself and alone, I look at porn.

615
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 3: I think.

616
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think at the beginning I probably had a

617
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 4: lot of girl and girl fantasies.

618
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 3: But probably that was when porn wasn't as mainstream. The

619
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 3: Internet was just coming out.

620
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 2: So bitch, what the Internet was just coming out? No,

621
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 2: you were just discovering porn. Dot com.

622
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, well, I'm not a podcast I'm not a porn person.

623
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 10: And so then oh my gosh, dot com my friend

624
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 10: who I could kill this bitch to this day, showed

625
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 10: me I fucking gay.

626
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 4: Porn like guy on guy porn, and I was like,

627
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 4: oh my god, it's so nasty.

628
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: What is this?

629
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 4: And then I liked it and I and then I

630
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: asked her really, like, I still I'm watching that porn.

631
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 3: Why didn't you ever show me? She's like you're still

632
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 3: watching that. Oh my god, she's different for now. I'm like,

633
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 3: fuck you.

634
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 2: I've like stumbled upon that porn before, but it doesn't

635
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: do anything for me.

636
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 3: Or okay, this is I don't even where should say

637
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 3: this on the podcast, but fuck it whatever because people

638
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: take this so wrong. So I've never ever had the fantasy,

639
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 3: like I've had.

640
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 4: Three esomes, like two girls and a guy obviously, but

641
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 4: I've never and two girls because gets heard about that

642
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 4: episode one. But I've never ever had the fantasy of

643
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 4: like two guys, because it's like immediately seems rapey. It

644
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 4: seems horrish and rapy, you know, like you're a whore,

645
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 4: and it's very creepy, like if someone gets too aggressive,

646
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 4: then it's okay, wait, hold.

647
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: On, stop right there. But then I saw Savages what

648
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: Savages the movie?

649
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 4: Oh no?

650
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: What?

651
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 4: Oh I'm sorry with Blake Lively the two fucking hot

652
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 4: boyfriends that were best friends.

653
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: Oh, I remember that.

654
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 2: I remember that. I never saw that I was watching it,

655
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: so she was like having sex with both of them.

656
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: They were best friends, but it was like it was

657
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 3: my ideal.

658
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: It was like a polygamy.

659
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 3: No, no, it was just they just all loved each other,

660
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: like the guys are best friends. Yeah, I mean they

661
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 3: were just.

662
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 4: In a relationship, the three of them, and they understood

663
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 4: it and it was not anything disrespectful or unloving.

664
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 3: It was wholesome.

665
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 4: And I can't relate to the wholesome life loving each

666
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 4: other thing and sharing and what's yours is mine. But

667
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 4: like it wasn't rapey at all anyway. Yeah, I do

668
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 4: sometimes watch porn with the two guys when girl.

669
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 9: But mostly I just think I just like really nasty shit, nasty, raunchy,

670
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 9: nasty porn because it was like nasty shit.

671
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: It's like getting choked and god and fondage even like.

672
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 4: Stepdad's stepbrother naughty shit, you know, like anything bad.

673
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: I mean, do you think porn ruined sex? Do I

674
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: think I can ruin sex for like do you think

675
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 2: porn can ruin sex for like couples or like I

676
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: think if one person's fucking obsessed with it, Yeah, because

677
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: then you have unrealistic you have a unrealistic idea of

678
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: what sex is like every time, like every time it's

679
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 2: not a porn I mean a.

680
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 4: Porn store every time, Like I'll can give you an experience,

681
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 4: it's a Jamila experience. It's real, but not that it's

682
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 4: like comparison, but like, so, for instance, I dated the

683
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 4: guy even if you tried to get like you know

684
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 4: you have someone gonna watch porn with your partner, I

685
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 4: felt like he was just scrolling through the videos too long,

686
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 4: like nigga, you need to focus, Like what do you mean.

687
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: Like he was like fast forwarding them or like just

688
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 2: like like just going or trying to find the perfect.

689
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 3: One, finding the perfect one.

690
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: It's like I'm tired now, Like I don't want to

691
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 2: fuck anymore. It's over. I'm right here. I know, I'm

692
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: right here. You see this, this is real. This is

693
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 2: not the porn on the screen.

694
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:12,479
Speaker 3: This is the real porn.

695
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 2: No, That's why I feel like sometimes sex porn can

696
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 2: ruin sex, and then guys can have un unrealistic expectations

697
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 2: or like feel like I don't know, it's just I

698
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: remember my I had an ex that was really into

699
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: watching porn and having sex, and to go to the

700
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 2: point where like I don't can we just have sex?

701
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: Wait?

702
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 3: I will say, have you experienced this?

703
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 9: I have got Sometimes if i'm fucking I'll come up

704
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 9: with like nasty porn concepts in my mind and like

705
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 9: fantasize about that while I'm fucking someone, and maybe in

706
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 9: that way porn has corrupted in my mind.

707
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: No, that's like a beneficial way at least I feel

708
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 2: like that's the good thing about porn.

709
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm fantasizing with you, even though you may not.

710
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 2: Well, have you ever like role played or like I

711
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 2: done any Like.

712
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm really turned on by that, and I think

713
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 4: it's it makes me a question if I'm like, something's

714
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 4: wrong with.

715
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 3: Me why because I like to like role play, like

716
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 3: weird shit like the categories. So I'm like, that's might

717
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 3: come up to to somebody. Well, No, it's being taken

718
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 3: advantage of, Like I don't know, Like, well.

719
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 2: I think that's like in sex, you're kind of like

720
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: not who you are in your everyday life. Like I'm

721
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: not being going around like choke me.

722
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, like nodding and taking advantage.

723
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, like like choke me forced me a little.

724
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 3: But also it's like there's just something.

725
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: Wrong with you.

726
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I think it's I mean,

727
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 2: I like a balance of both, Like I don't always

728
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: want to be like joke, but I do like someone

729
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 2: who's open to it. Yeah, And you have to be

730
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: a good after and have to commit damn. Well, okay,

731
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 2: that's the hardest part.

732
00:35:58,760 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 4: But no.

733
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 10: For instance, I've had like maintained sexual relationships because.

734
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 3: The guy I could like dirty talk really good, like

735
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: really good. I mean, obviously the sex is good, but

736
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 3: I'm like that nasty little dirty fucking what do you

737
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 3: get to come out of your mouth next?

738
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 2: See? But sometimes I'm like shut the fuck up. Like

739
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, just stop talking.

740
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 3: If it's bad. If it's bad.

741
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 4: I've had like funny dirty and I'm like, oh no, stop, no,

742
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 4: no more, and then it's.

743
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 3: Kind of funny. But I like get back focused. Yeah

744
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 3: I can.

745
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: It could go back and go south, Yeah, I can

746
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 2: go go their way. I mean I like to role play.

747
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 2: I haven't done it in a while, but I used

748
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: to do it all the time, and I oh yeah

749
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 2: and actress. Yeah, like being in like a cop or

750
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 2: like a real estate agent, showing you around your room,

751
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 2: show you around your room. You're something I need to

752
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 2: like revisit and explore. Maybe I'll do that this weekend.

753
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's I.

754
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 4: Think that's the fun part about like maybe like having

755
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,760
Speaker 4: sex with a new partner is like testing the waters.

756
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 3: Well, I guess it goes both ways, because it could

757
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 3: be it could be easy because it's someone who really

758
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: really are familiar with.

759
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 2: So it's like you can say whatever.

760
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna think you're like you've been molested, Harry.

761
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 2: Harry pee?

762
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 3: Okay, peep, she's pee in the party?

763
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, no, yeah, I mean I guess yeah,

764
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 2: if you do like freaky shit in the bedroom, sometimes

765
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 2: people are like, wait, what has this person been through?

766
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 4: You know?

767
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're just free. I could be freer. I

768
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 2: want to be free.

769
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 3: How do you want to be freer?

770
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 2: I just want to be more open to things, like

771
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: I feel like some things I've like shied away from

772
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: or just because they're the unknown, or they like scarier

773
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: more specifically, or maybe not scared, like I just have

774
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: I say that I want to do them, but I

775
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 2: just don't do them, like like I like I want

776
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: to be I want someone to time you up. That's

777
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: been a fantasy of mine for so long and I've

778
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 2: voiced it so many times and no one does it.

779
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: What's wrong with these men like t yourself? That I

780
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 2: never thought like you would need to like convince someone

781
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: to do that.

782
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 3: I know, right, Like I wanted to do freaky things,

783
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 3: don't you want to to? Right? Yeah, I would be

784
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: into getting tied up. I've been tied up.

785
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 2: I think if you're so lucky.

786
00:38:55,880 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 3: Friend envy, Yeah, Fonda just cool.

787
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 2: Do you have like like the Bondage video that I

788
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 2: really like, because there's one specifically that I watch a lot.

789
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 2: She's like really tied up, and he's like she's like

790
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 2: in pain and like choking at some points and like

791
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 2: like drooling and ship like she that's almost like she's

792
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: having seizure, but she's yeah it is.

793
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 3: But he's gonna say, like rape fantasies, she's.

794
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 2: Not getting raped, she's obviously participating. She's participating, but like

795
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 2: it's definitely very dominations situation. Yeah, I mean I'm into.

796
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 2: I'm into I also like women domination, but it's like

797
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: like both, but right now I'm into I'm really I

798
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: like more so like women dominating other women, And then

799
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 2: I guess I like a men dominating women, which is

800
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 2: super like programmed in my brain and society. I mean, no,

801
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: you just like what you like, because sometime that likes

802
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: you don't have society like programs your brain to what

803
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 2: you are open to, like what turns you on sexually?

804
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 2: Like the power dynamic between a man and a woman.

805
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: I like two men dominating a woman. I do.

806
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 4: I think obviously social society, you know, plants many seeds,

807
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 4: so it stems from there absolutely, But on like I

808
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 4: also like, I think, I think it's not necessarily a

809
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 4: man woman energy. I think it's like a it's a

810
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 4: domb and sub energy period. I think like that's the

811
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 4: natural flow of things. Someone's going to be more dominant,

812
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 4: something's gonna be more submissive. That's the balance, that's the

813
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 4: ying to the yang. And sometimes that someone's going to

814
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 4: be me And I want to see how far are you?

815
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 3: Don't let me go? And sometimes I want to be dominated,

816
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 3: you know, so I think.

817
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 2: But visually what you like to watch? You don't you?

818
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 2: Would you say you're more You're more uh watching someone

819
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: like a woman being dominated? Yes? Important?

820
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: Yes?

821
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 3: Probably? Yeah, definitely.

822
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 2: What's your Do you like vibrators or what's up with

823
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 2: that situation?

824
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 3: I feel like vibrators I do.

825
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: Do you use them like insects or do I have

826
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 2: used them insects? Do you think do you find that

827
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,280
Speaker 2: men are intimidated by vibrators?

828
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: Not all men? I've had some guys that are down

829
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 3: before like the toy is some that are not.

830
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 4: Well again, I was a lesbian for like many years,

831
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 4: so there's a lot of strap on sex, and so

832
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 4: what is that really.

833
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: Enjoyable for you?

834
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 4: It was then I didn't mind it because that was

835
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,479
Speaker 4: a lesbian for like consecutively for a couple.

836
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 2: But it doesn't so my because I'm like kind of

837
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: like intrigued by like that idea because I'm just like, Okay,

838
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: so the person who has a strap on, are they

839
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: getting pleasure watching you get pleasure? It's because they're not

840
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 2: actually feeling it.

841
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 4: Now they're getting pleasure watching you get pleasure. I think

842
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 4: I've been, I've heard I've never put on a strap

843
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 4: on it as far to somebody else, I wouldn't be

844
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 4: opposed to that, but it's a domination thing where the

845
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 4: power and also like it does like for a chick,

846
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 4: it does wrap up on your clip.

847
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 3: Like if you're like strapping somebody, I don't know what

848
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 3: the terms, then you're gonna feel it like I'm terrible.

849
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 3: The friction is gonna like you know, the strapon's gonna

850
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 3: rub on your clan or whatever.

851
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 4: And also you can get underneath that strapon and you

852
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 4: can do vaginal you know, with your hand stimulation, So

853
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 4: it's not like you don't get any pleasure from it.

854
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 4: But I've heard it's like a big power trip that

855
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 4: happens once that strapond gets on, which I'm pretty curious about.

856
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 4: But yeah, after I was a lesbian consecutive for like

857
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 4: for like two or three years, and then I started

858
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 4: having sex with guys again, and I.

859
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 3: Was like, yeah, I'm good on that plastic dick. I

860
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 3: like that skin, that warm, fleshy dick.

861
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 4: But I mean, I'm you know, I'm versatile. I like

862
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 4: to eat pussy, so you know, I'm pretty much like

863
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 4: I like girls. I'm not a fake ass lesbian because

864
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 4: I could.

865
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 3: I could go either way.

866
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: Because you've actually dated women, Yeah, I lived with them,

867
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 2: and like.

868
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 3: I basically mostly only dude with women.

869
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 4: I've only had a relationship outside of I'm in with

870
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 4: my baby Saddy, which makes me much more of a lesbian.

871
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 2: But so you've only had one relationships, one serious relationship

872
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: with one man ever.

873
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Wow, okay, weird, Yeah lesbian. Yeah, I don't know,

874
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,240
Speaker 3: because I do, like, I mean, I don't know, but yeah.

875
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 2: That's interesting. So do you have any desire. So when

876
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 2: being a like single, like do you have a if

877
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 2: you were going to imagine yourself in a relationship, is

878
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: it with a man or is it with a woman?

879
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 2: Like when you think about a future relationship or do

880
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: you even think about the future.

881
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 4: I mean, I think socially that's been programmed. Like you know,

882
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 4: I can't it's just whatever. No, I mean it's whatever

883
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 4: to me, But socially I think it was a programmed

884
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 4: Like even like when I was deep into my lesbian.

885
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 3: Years, there were times that have like glimpses of my

886
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 3: future and I was like, no, this is not this

887
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 3: is not how I saw it, Like people looking at

888
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 3: you crazy, Like.

889
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 4: You know, you envision your life having a normal life

890
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 4: with a man and a woman and kids and a

891
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,240
Speaker 4: ticket fence and shit and marriage.

892
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 3: You know, that's ideal. So ideally that's what I think of,

893
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 3: but like realistically, at this point, I.

894
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 4: Don't know what way it'll look like. Shit, maybe I'll

895
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 4: have a wife and a husband, maybe I'll have you know.

896
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 3: I don't know my wife. I don't know.

897
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 4: Ultimately, I just want someone who's gonna accept me and

898
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 4: love me and you know, please please me. Yeah, that's

899
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 4: the most important respect, love, appreciation, understanding, and that's big

900
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 4: for me.

901
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't, I can't. I mean, I think I

902
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 2: said this before in another episode. I can't imagine being

903
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: in a relationship with a woman. But I wouldn't be

904
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 2: a I wouldn't. I won't like cross it out of

905
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 2: my list.

906
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,439
Speaker 3: Have you ever been in a relationship with the woman?

907
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 4: No?

908
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 2: But I like women. Yeah, but I just don't know

909
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: if I do like that masculinity, femininity dynamic, you know

910
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: what I mean. Not that a woman can't be masculine. Well, yeah,

911
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: it's just it's just something different when it from a man.

912
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 3: A man, yes, and that energy.

913
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 2: It's just different. Although I've met some women that are

914
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: I've met some women that although I've met some women

915
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 2: that are extremely masculine, like more than like a man.

916
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: You know.

917
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's some women that you know, my mommy.

918
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, just tell her to please don't do that. Okay,

919
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 2: don't yell at her though, just say please don't do that. Okay, Luna,

920
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,919
Speaker 2: don't do that. Okay, cool, close the door, please close

921
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 2: the door. We're almost done.

922
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 3: Close it, close it.

923
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. What were you saying? Oh? Yeah, uh, girls that

924
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: have zoot a lot of masculine energy.

925
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 4: It exists, it happens, And I also belie is that

926
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 4: it depends on the dynamic of two people, because first

927
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 4: of all, I usually date like kind of I like all.

928
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:07,760
Speaker 3: Types of women, all different guys.

929
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: Whatever.

930
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 4: My shit goes a lot of ways, but I liked,

931
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 4: I've generally did like stud women for all the non

932
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 4: lesbian lingal listeners, that's like.

933
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: More masculine ones.

934
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna say something totally correct, but have you

935
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 4: can you agree that with certain even with certain men,

936
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 4: with certain women, there are certain people that bring out certain.

937
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 3: Aspects of my energy.

938
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 4: There are certain people that make me want to be

939
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 4: like a little more aggressive, like make me want to

940
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 4: dominate them.

941
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 3: I don't know why. And there's people who are like

942
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 3: have at scene.

943
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,959
Speaker 4: Shut the fuck up, and I'm like, okay, God, okay,

944
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 4: I'm like a car.

945
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not saying ship. But there's certain people

946
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 3: who give you, you know, like who just feed certain

947
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 3: parts of you.

948
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 4: And you know, there's there's even in a fantasy place,

949
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 4: in a sexual place, there's different parts of you that

950
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 4: want to be fulfilled, and there's.

951
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 3: Masculine energy and there's femine energy. That both men and

952
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: women have and that you want to tap into.

953
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 4: And when you have a partner that's willing to explore

954
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 4: that and understand that and there are no judgments and

955
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 4: boundaries like that's that's when the real orgasms come. And

956
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 4: when it's boundless and you can try shit and do

957
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 4: freaky shit and no one's like, don't put your.

958
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 2: Finger there, right, you know? Right. I don't know if

959
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 2: I've had that like a consistent like consistently ever, you

960
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

961
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 1: I want that.

962
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I think that's what I'm that's what I

963
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 2: search for and or not search for. But that's the

964
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 2: kind of like a deal breaker for me now and

965
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: my if, if and when I ever get into another

966
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: relationship like sexually, like bound we need to be boundless

967
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 2: because I just feel like, if you're going to have

968
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 2: sex with someone for the rest of your life, even

969
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 2: if it's not just with that one person, but it's

970
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,959
Speaker 2: the person you're gonna choose to spend your life with, right.

971
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 3: Like I need us to be one hundred.

972
00:47:58,920 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

973
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 4: And I think for women too, because I've found this

974
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 4: with men. Men want to ask questions stupid question. Well,

975
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 4: first of I think how many men have you had

976
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 4: sex with is the stupidest fucking question of all time

977
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 4: because you're gonna fuck regardless.

978
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 2: So you don't really want to know.

979
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:15,839
Speaker 3: You don't really want to know, and it doesn't really

980
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:16,399
Speaker 3: fucking matter.

981
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 4: Now you're gonna fuck regardless, and nobody really knows because

982
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 4: who the fuck wrote a list down like we're in

983
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 4: the seventh.

984
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 2: God damme, I started counting at one point in my life, but.

985
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 11: Whoever I wanted to that's how many but I found

986
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 11: in my prior in a past relationship, like this guy

987
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 11: would ask me all these very specific questions.

988
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 3: And then when I would answer, he would almost hold

989
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: that shit over my head.

990
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 2: Later, you know, like, oh, so you aren't validating him,

991
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: so he wanted to like write, you know, like.

992
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 4: It made me feel guilty about it, and you know

993
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 4: that I'm not saying it fucks me up because I'm

994
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 4: secure in who I am.

995
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 3: But as a woman period, you know, and then with someone.

996
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 4: Who you want to love you or you love, you're

997
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 4: gonna confuse that that just and then it's going to

998
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 4: prohibit you from like opening up ever again and being

999
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 4: vulnerable because it's like, bitch, you're you did what you know,

1000
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 4: but It's just like, what it really boils down to

1001
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 4: is maturity, and I think, unfortunately, no offense, a lot

1002
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 4: of men lack that maturity and unfortunately have been socially

1003
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 4: brainwashed to think like every woman's supposed to be like

1004
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 4: their mother or like the girl next door or something.

1005
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: Well, they want they want to marry their mother and

1006
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 2: they want to fuck, right, But.

1007
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 3: It's like what you want both. So let's be real.

1008
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,919
Speaker 4: I didn't get this dick suck because I was sitting

1009
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,240
Speaker 4: at home fucking knitting a swatter.

1010
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 3: You know, the fact this makes perfect.

1011
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 2: It didn't come from no way.

1012
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 3: I was born last night, you know what I'm saying.

1013
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 4: But for real, Like so, I think that that's important

1014
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 4: that that free zone, that non judgment free zone. Like

1015
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 4: men don't understand how far they can get when when

1016
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 4: they really understand that we are just humans with human desires.

1017
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 3: Just like them, just like them, right, and you know,

1018
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 3: we want to we want to talk to like new

1019
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 3: pussy too.

1020
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 2: We want to have orgasms few and far between, but

1021
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 2: mostly closer and between our legs.

1022
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 12: Yeah, anyway, we gotta we gotta cut this this episode.

1023
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 12: The kids are tripping. I referday right now, right now

1024
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 12: and she's not having it. She's not a happy girl anyway. Well,

1025
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 12: thanks for joining us.

1026
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: We probably will maybe revisit this Toddles on the next

1027
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: episode since it.

1028
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 3: Was rudely interrupted by Toddlers.

1029
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Speaker 2: But thank you for tunning in and shout out to

1030
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Speaker 2: our contributors, to DJA and Rainy, thank you for your contradition.

1031
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Speaker 2: Check us out and let us show like our Thursday

1032
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Speaker 2: Thursday Thursday Instagram. You want to be mom, show it

1033
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Speaker 2: to me. You know a good mom? Underscore you wanted?

1034
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Speaker 1: Damn you wanted? Did you pussy? Do you want it?

1035
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Speaker 1: Anything you can mek shee shat s sh some brain,

1036
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Speaker 1: cristal Lando bra shot to Nie shot Shamar Country Sina's

1037
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Speaker 1: I'm bringing you then I'm bringing down Hey, I appreciate

1038
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Speaker 1: that all my not broughd them.

1039
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Speaker 2: You know I do it because I love you.

1040
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Speaker 1: Now I gotta give a shout out to see them

1041
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Speaker 1: tin because.

1042
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Speaker 2: I drinking and they paying for it.

1043
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Speaker 1: Bringing shee shot