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All thanks to Live Nation. 10 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: I did something I never thought I would do yesterday. 11 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: Truly in my life. I bought a Barbie dream House. 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: I feel like I contributed to a pivotal moment in 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: my niece's lives. I feel like, I mean, there are 15 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: certain things in life that happen. The Barbie dream House 16 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 2: for some, and I know not everybody. I know it's 17 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: an aspirational thing. And it's only the uncle with no 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: kids and no real financial obligations. 19 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 1: It's able to do something like that. 20 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: You know, if I had kids or a four oh 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 2: one K then guaranteedee human, then I wouldn't be able 22 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: to do this. But I and I was able to 23 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: buy the Barbie Dreamhouse. Now I was told yesterday that 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: they wanted one by my sister, because that's another thing 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: now she's decided is that if it's expensive, then she'll 26 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: just recommend that I buy it, right, And I can't well, 27 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: you know this, Kiki, and I can't wait until the 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: girls fully understand that, because I do think at some 29 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: point my sister, who I love dearly, I think she'll 30 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: I think she'll use it. I think she'll just tell 31 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: them like, oh, you wanted you want you know, these 32 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: dance lessons, or you want this thing, then I want. 33 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: You to ask Baba. 34 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 2: Like I think at some point they're just gonna have 35 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 2: phones and they're gonna have my number and then they're 36 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: just gonna call me and then I'm gonna have to 37 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: tell them no. But right now we know there's a 38 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: they have. My nieces have people where they have middle 39 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: people who are you know, handlers, who are facilitating all. 40 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: I guess they're called parents. 41 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: But so I got a text it was the girls 42 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 2: would like a Barbie dream. 43 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: House for Christmas. 44 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: However, if you don't want to spend two hundred dollars, 45 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: you can get that. And then it was like in 46 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: lesser anenunciate like you know, I don't know, like it 47 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: was like a lesser thing. You can get them in 48 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: the Barbie town home. 49 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: Barbie. Yeah, So I didn't. I didn't know this. 50 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: I didn't know that they have a more affordable option 51 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: now with the Barbie dream house. It's the Barbie town home. 52 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 2: It's one hundred dollars less. Stop it. Yeah, it's it's 53 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: a town home instead of a mansions. 54 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 3: Every right to move about her dream home. 55 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: It's a Barbie tiny house. It's what it is. And 56 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: it's like, I don't yeah right, and I'm not. It's 57 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: too early for those girls to understand how life really works. 58 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: That you hope for a mansion but you wind up 59 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: in a town home like that's not you know, or 60 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 2: or not or less, And so I decided to spring 61 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 2: for it, especially after watching Polly's little video of her 62 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 2: singing Happy Birthday to me. I probably watched that thirty 63 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: times yesterday when Amanda says, because you know, Amanda is 64 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: a therapist, my sister, so every thing is consent. So 65 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: she would have asked the four year old, and it 66 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 2: was even alluded to in the video if it's on 67 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: our social Friendshire radio. She spoke with Polly ahead of 68 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: time to make sure, she was okay to make a 69 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 2: video for my birthday. So then when in the video, 70 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 2: you can hear her say, now we're gonna do the 71 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: thing that we talked about before because you already agreed 72 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: to it. But my favorite part of the whole video 73 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 2: is she says, Okay, now you're gonna sing Bubba happy 74 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: birthday because they called me Bubba because my sister called 75 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 2: me Bubba. And then she goes, I'm gonna sing happy birthday. 76 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: She she then states what she's gonna do because even 77 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 2: though we established it like, we're gonna state it again 78 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: because we are we are intentional, you know about what 79 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: we do. But because of that video that I sprung 80 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: for the Barbie Dream Home House or whatever it's called, 81 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 2: I don't really know what I bought and I'll never 82 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: see it. At least I won't see it until after 83 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: Christmas because they do Christmas in Texas. So the nice 84 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: thing is I just sent this gigantic box of their house. 85 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: I think I would assume it's a gigantic box. It 86 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 2: looks like a gigantic structure. And because and then my 87 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 2: sister has to deal with that, she has to wrap it, 88 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: and then they'll have to put it together. Colin will 89 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 2: have to put it together, and then I guess I 90 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 2: just get the glory. So it's really it's it's it's 91 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: on theme, it's on brand for what this uncle gig 92 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 2: is and I just love it. You know, it's here, 93 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: Here's here's a here's a Barbie dream house. Buba got 94 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: it for you. 95 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: You. 96 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: They have to put it together, they have to manage 97 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: like how the girls get to play with it and 98 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: the whole thing, and I just I get to be 99 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: the hero. 100 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: It's a great job, it is. I hope I hope that. 101 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: They don't put the photo on the box because I 102 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 4: have seen kids know what they're getting so many different 103 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 4: times because stupid companies will put like a picture of 104 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 4: a big bike on the side of a box and 105 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 4: then it arrives and they're. 106 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: Like, oh my gosh, oh yeah no, I'm hoping that. 107 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 2: I don't know where they're going to hide this thing. 108 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 2: But I think in the attic they don't listen. So 109 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: they listen to another morning show in Dallas. 110 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: They'll listen to me. 111 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: I think they listen to ability to kid. They don't 112 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 2: listen to me. I can talk yeah, no' Serry's a friend. 113 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: It's fine, but why would they Before that it was 114 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 2: Kid Cratick. I got to hear a Kid Cratick show 115 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: used to do. I'm like, well, you know, I do 116 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: this for a living, right, you know it's agrelable on 117 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 2: the art. 118 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: Great deal, right exactly. You want to Barbiere, you know 119 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: why you get the townhome? Now? 120 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: Forget about it. Forget about it. I'm returning the dream house. 121 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,919 Speaker 2: You get the townhome now. I think the townhome is 122 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: pretty brilliant marketing though, because it's uh. I think the 123 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: dream house was one hundred and eighty bucks and I 124 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: think the townhome is like eighty. So somebody at Mattel 125 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: was like, guys, luck, we're not selling enough of these houses. 126 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: We got to really adapt to the times here, so 127 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: let's downsize and and we'll make it up. But I 128 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 2: know we've talked about it before, but what other other 129 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 2: pivotal toys if you had the money. And I get 130 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 2: that a lot of people didn't have the money for 131 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: this stuff, but you know, there was always the kid 132 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: on the block that had the money somehow, and even 133 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 2: though you were all in the same neighborhood, like somehow, 134 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: you know, Jimmy's parents. I don't know if they were 135 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 2: all buying everything on credit or what. I have no idea, 136 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: but like somehow there was that one kid that had 137 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 2: the trampoline. There was the one kid that had the 138 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: Barbie Jeep or the or whatever the male equivalent was, 139 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: like a little little battery operated corvette or I don't 140 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 2: remember what what what the eighties version was for a 141 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: young Fred. 142 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: But what else? 143 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: What else can you guys think of? Like the toys 144 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 2: that like the pivotal toy. The bicycle was one. 145 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, the Razor scooters. When those first came out, 146 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 5: everybody wanted that first. 147 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 2: Roller blades were a thing in the nineties. I think 148 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 2: they tried to make them come back. I'm not sure 149 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: if they had. Oh yeah, that was a pivotal toy 150 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: for you, Kalin tick Melmo, do. 151 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: You not remember how hard they were to get? 152 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but I mean that I feel like the 153 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: bicycle changed the game like that, Like now I can 154 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: get on my bike and I can ride into the 155 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: sunset and never come back. 156 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: You know, it was the ultimate freedom. 157 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 2: Tickle me Elmo didn't didn't really provide me with the 158 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: same enjoyment. 159 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 6: Well, damn yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, uh, 160 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:09,359 Speaker 6: my furbies did everything, and I all so bad. I 161 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 6: wanted my bar I wanted the Barbie car I wanted. Obviously, 162 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 6: my parents always bought me. 163 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: The I mean the Barbie Gee was a male equivalent 164 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: of everything. But I was like, wait, like, I don't 165 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: want the tractor. I want about the pink jew Wagon 166 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: might not tell me nothing in my Barbie ge. I'm sure. 167 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: For some kids' phones, I would guess, like video game systems, 168 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: I would guess computers, yeah, are like real game changers, 169 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: like you remember, I would imagine you remember when you 170 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 2: got your first phone, when you got your first you know, 171 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: computer or whatever. But yeah, so I'm excited for this now. 172 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: I just know it's going to get more expensive from here, 173 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: which is where I was really going with this because 174 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: Kiki I saw and I alluded to it a couple 175 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 2: of times yesterday. But if you follow her on social 176 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: media that you took your nephews to dinner, was it 177 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: red lobsters that where you were? 178 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, their choice. Mm hmmm, I'm sure, I'm sure. 179 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: And I noticed were there three of them? Yes? Yes? 180 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: And I noticed there were like lobster tails on the table. 181 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: I think I saw like crab legs. Oh my god, Yes, 182 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: there were flays. There was a seafood. I didn't know 183 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: they had a seafood tower at Lobster that they did. 184 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: I mean, but I was just amazing that we're probably 185 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: three hundred bucks worth of the food on the table 186 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: for these kids, which what are you with? 187 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: Thirteen? And then the other ones are under ten, aren't they? 188 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 5: Yes, And the problem is starting to be that now 189 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 5: they're like they're tight, so they hang out, they talk 190 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 5: all day on their phone. So before I would take 191 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 5: the littles out and then I would take the older 192 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 5: ones out, and I would do it separately, you know, 193 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 5: one check, we'll go to the littles, the other one 194 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 5: go to the Now they're starting to communicate with each other, 195 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 5: so they're like, well, aren't you gonna pick up you know, 196 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 5: com ARII, And I'm like, well, Jackson, no, I was 197 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 5: just trying to take you, you know, like it's like 198 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 5: now you have to take them as a group because 199 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 5: they ride for each other, so you can't even like 200 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 5: just sneak out and take one. You gotta take Oh yeah, 201 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 5: it's getting crazy. 202 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 7: Oh. 203 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 2: I have noticed that Paul's doing that for Mathe and 204 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: I mean, she's big sister. But it will be like, 205 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 2: I'll bring Polly something because mave is is what is 206 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 2: she two and a half. So it's not that she 207 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: doesn't know. If we've already had this debate on this 208 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: show whether the kids at that age even know if 209 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 2: you gave them the gift versus someone else. Polly absolutely 210 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: knows if it came from me and that I gave 211 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: it to her, and whatever May I I don't know yet, 212 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: like for example, the Barbie house is coming, and Amanda 213 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: is like, it'll be good for both of them, like 214 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 2: you don't need to get two of them or something 215 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: like it'll be fine. But Polly will say, I'll bring 216 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 2: Polly a present when I come to see her. I'll 217 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 2: usually get on Amazon and I'll ship it to the 218 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: house and then i'll give it to you know it's 219 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 2: there already, and then I give it to her as 220 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 2: a surprise, and and then the first thing she'll say 221 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 2: now is what did you get from May? 222 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: Which is very nice of you, but I'm like, you know, 223 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: what minds your business? 224 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 5: Okay, Like give my toy back? Because why you are rat? 225 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: Why you are rat. 226 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 2: Polly like, what are you doing like in this economy? 227 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: Like look, why are you snitching? Like, don't go tell her? 228 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: She's like, what about my sister? You know, does not 229 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 1: know what's going on? Like I makes the prices for 230 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: Gigi and she doesn't know. I bring her like a 231 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: bunch of head I don't know. Yeah, they're happy, like 232 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: they don't know. 233 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'm she remember a couple of years ago, we 234 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: had the debate when Polly was much younger. I'm like, 235 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 2: why am I buying a bunch of toys for this 236 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 2: kid because she's two years old? Like, she doesn't know 237 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 2: they came from me, and she's gonna get a bunch 238 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 2: of toys. I mean, so fine. And then you guys 239 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: were like, no, you have to buy her toys, and 240 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 2: I did. But the fact is the satisfaction. I mean, yes, 241 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: of course she was happy to get something new, but 242 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 2: she I mean there was no like way for her 243 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: to have taken inventory of of how much she had 244 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 2: or where it came from. So the joy really is 245 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: is in you watching you know, you get like you 246 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 2: get whatever. However many minutes it takes for them to 247 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 2: open the toy and then throw it to the side, 248 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 2: like it's really about me at that point, like and 249 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: so is this Barbie house. To be honest with you, 250 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 2: I can totally see why parents do stuff like this 251 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: where it's like, you know, why. 252 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: Does why does he have that? 253 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 2: It's like because I there's no Polly is not getting 254 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: the town hall, which she can have. We're not I'm 255 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: not on these streets. People aren't going to be talking 256 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 2: about me like that. You know, they're not going to 257 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 2: be like I heard Fred was only a townhouse guy. 258 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: I heard he wouldn't do the. 259 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 2: Four He wouldn't do the four payments for the for 260 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 2: the whole thing, you know, So no, I did the 261 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 2: four payments for the whole thing because I I can't 262 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: have my nieces because but that's about me, right, It's 263 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 2: not even about them absolutely. 264 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 5: I mean, I you know I would have sitt in both. 265 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 5: But you know I want, I want about the marve 266 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 5: Kolo sack. 267 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: But you know what do. 268 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 2: They need a town home and and mansion for? If 269 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: you got the mansion, you don't need the town home 270 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 2: is vacation home home? 271 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 8: Yeah? 272 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: Oh lord, that says. 273 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 5: And then when when Polly doesn't want to share with me? 274 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 5: If she did say, go play with the townhouse. You know, 275 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 5: the big house is fine, so go ahead and put 276 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 5: that in the car Uncle free. 277 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 8: Thank you. 278 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 2: I'm curious though, quickly before we get to the headlines 279 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 2: the biggest stories of the day eight five, five, five, nine, 280 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 2: one three five, there was a point to all of it. 281 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 2: Well one, it was to brag that I sprung for 282 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 2: the for the I was really proud of myself because 283 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, I can get out of this for last 284 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 2: I really can, and they would be they'd be very 285 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 2: happy with it. But no, I went for the bigger item. 286 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 2: But in light of the lobster tails at Red Lobster 287 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: for the for the eight year old, what is the 288 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: super expensive thing that your kid has asked for? And 289 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 2: You're like, where did you come up with that? Because 290 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 2: that's another thing we've learned from Kiki's nephews. Yep is 291 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: like I know in this generation now and it's smart 292 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 2: and I wish we could have done this, but but 293 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 2: you know, making like in fact, I talked to a 294 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: friend of mine about this last night. Her niece sent 295 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: her like a I guess there's a shared document that 296 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: this teenager made and has all of the gifts different 297 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 2: price ranges. It's all organized by price range, and then 298 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: there's like some aspirational gifts in there too, like it's 299 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 2: I don't know what a seventeen year old wants now, 300 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 2: but it's you know, some clothes upp here and at 301 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 2: this price point with a link. So all you got 302 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 2: to do is click on the link and then hit 303 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 2: by and then like the addresses in there, and just. 304 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, my sister she has links. It's 305 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: all right there, like we need to do more of this, 306 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: help each other out. 307 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, so I guess this girl it's like, you know, 308 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 2: here's some clothes, I want, some gift cards, and then 309 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 2: all the way to the bottom, it's like. 310 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: Bm W and Gucci. Right, It's it's all the way 311 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: down here. 312 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: It's like, you know, just in case you're feeling really generous, 313 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: you know, a fifteen hundred. 314 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: Dollars back is down here this year. 315 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 2: Smart And I guess the mom of this teenager was like, 316 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 2: what are you doing putting a you know, fifteen hundred 317 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 2: dollars handbag on this list? And it was like, well, 318 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: you know, aunt so and so might be feeling a 319 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 2: little generous, and so I, you know, I got to 320 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: put something in. 321 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: There for all price ranges. 322 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 2: But I'm just curious if what you know what it 323 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: was for you guys like that that your your sister 324 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 2: or your nieces or nephews or whatever. 325 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: It's like, where where did you? You want? 326 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 2: What you want flying lessons? You're eight years old? Like 327 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 2: what are you talking? You want to you want a 328 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 2: private jet? Like what do you mean designer? 329 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 5: Like why are you asking for designer at your young 330 00:13:58,200 --> 00:13:58,839 Speaker 5: tender age? 331 00:13:59,040 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 2: Oh? 332 00:13:59,240 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 8: Wow? 333 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: You know like they want. 334 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 5: Gucci, they want shoes, they want to marry chi exactly. 335 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not even warning. 336 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 5: I have on fashion nobu. Right, how do you expect 337 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 5: me to pay for this? But that's the stuff that 338 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 5: they ask for. 339 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's gonna be. But that's gonna be where I 340 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: come in. 341 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: Is Pauli's gonna say or may it's going to say, 342 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 2: I want this thing that's expensive, and then my sister's 343 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 2: just gonna punt it off on me. So I said, 344 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 2: but it's cheaper than college. So fine, you know, here 345 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 2: you go, here's here, you're whatever you want because I 346 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: don't have to pay for college. Now let me see 347 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: her friend I have you've seen the fifty plus parking garage 348 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 2: from Matchbox for boys. God, that's brilliant because I would 349 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: imagine it doesn't come with fifty cars. So you know, 350 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: if you buy the fifty car which I guess this 351 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: is the equivalent of the Barbie dream House, but if 352 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 2: you buy the fifty car garage from Matchbox, then you 353 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 2: could probably have to buy fifty cars because you can't 354 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 2: have the thing like empty, you know what I mean. Like, 355 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 2: so Matchbox is smart because it you know, I would 356 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 2: imagine over time you got to keep buying the kid 357 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 2: cars to fill the thing up because nobody wants like 358 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 2: two cars in their fifty car garage, right, that's pretty smart. 359 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: Power wheels were it in the nineties, big wheels? 360 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 361 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 2: That those were like that was like the big wheel 362 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: in the front and the little one in the back, 363 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 2: like kind of like a first bike, right, Is that 364 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 2: what that is? 365 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 8: Oh? 366 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: I remember those, the big wheels. Yeah. I haven't had 367 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: one of those in a few years. 368 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 4: So I don't that's one big wheel and two little 369 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 4: ones in the back. 370 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a little tricycle. 371 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 2: All about keeping up with the Jones is Yeah, No, 372 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 2: that's I agree. I think a lot of this stuff 373 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: is about the parents and not the kids, and then 374 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 2: the kids benefit from it because you know, it's like 375 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 2: when I was growing up and my mom bought me 376 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: a Nintendo and it came with a game that had 377 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 2: three games on it. It was like, fine, here, play 378 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 2: with this. And then the neighbor kid that she didn't 379 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 2: like I came home. I'm like, well, you know whatever 380 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: his name is, Trey or whatever his name was, he 381 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 2: has ten games. And my mom looks at me, Trey 382 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: ten games, Yeah, he has ten, ten of them. Yeah, 383 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: get in the car and we went to Toys r US 384 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: and we bought nine more games because there was no 385 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: way the Tray and his parents that were drunks. There 386 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: was no way that they that you know then, that 387 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: were very rude and that there's sprinklers sprayed our house 388 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: or whatever. There was no way that Tray was gonna 389 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 2: have more games than us. There was just no way. 390 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: So I think maybe that's I'm teaching people now that 391 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: I'm teaching children this morning who are listening. Exploit your parents' 392 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 2: desire to not be the parents that don't give you 393 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 2: the thing. Absolutely, let me see here my daughter's text. 394 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: My daughter's grown, but when she was a teenager. She 395 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 2: found in a box my Christmas list from I was 396 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 2: a kid. It had things on it like a Rubik's cube, 397 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 2: a necklace, a clock, radio, and some other little things. 398 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 2: She said, what is this? That's all you wanted? And now, 399 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: of course the list is super elaborate. It's right. I 400 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 2: mean think about that, like, you know Legos or whatever. 401 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 2: But now Legos are two hundred bucks. Uh, and you 402 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: can't just have like the a bucket of Legos like 403 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 2: we got. I gotta have the Lego Eiffel Tower. It's 404 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: three hundred and ninety nine dollars a lighting kit that 405 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: goes with it. My fifteen year old son won't give 406 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 2: me a Christmas list for what he wants. He plays 407 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 2: video games in hockey. It's super he's super smart. But 408 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: he doesn't want all kinds of stuff. I guess that's 409 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 2: that's good, But I mean, yeah, you probably want some 410 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 2: ideas of something. I asked for an easy bake oven 411 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: when I was a kid. I thought that was too 412 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: extravagant in terms of price. And now they're back, by 413 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 2: the way, I think. I think they're doing better than 414 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 2: a light bulb. Now is a heating element. 415 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: It's an air friar. I'm convinced. 416 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 2: Oh god, now people are sending me the other Barbie things. 417 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 2: That Barbie camper. There's a Barbie camp campus. My mom 418 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 2: had that. 419 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: It's still in the garage. 420 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 5: See she needs this man, and probably they need that. Yes, 421 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 5: can you stop it right now? They need they got 422 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 5: a mansion. Okay, they're not getting it. Get a camper, 423 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 5: Davis the man. 424 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: Whatever? 425 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: This is the press Show Day is taking over Las 426 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 2: Vegas this January for his seven night presidency Adobe Live 427 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 2: at Park MGM. And we've got a trip for two 428 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,360 Speaker 2: to the January twenty fifth show to night Hotel State 429 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: at Park MGM January twenty fourth through the twenty sixth 430 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 2: and round trip airfare. Text direction to three seven three 431 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 2: three seven now for a chance to win. A confirmation 432 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 2: text will be said. 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I have a 438 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 2: little gist in front of me, and what's going on? 439 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 2: I want you to tell everyone the story, but I 440 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, I people are gonna like my opinion 441 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 2: on this, but but what's going on with you? 442 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: And this is your boyfriend who you reconnected. 443 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 3: With, right, Yeah, we took up, we took the break 444 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 3: a few years ago, but we ended up reconciling and 445 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 3: getting pregnant with our son and we've been together ever since. 446 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, by the way, I mean, that's exciting to 447 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 2: have a kid and whatever. No, I don't want to 448 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 2: interrupt you, but that's the good news. Congratulations to you. 449 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you. 450 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 451 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, But recently, my boyfriend came to me and shared 452 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 3: that he wants to get a paternity test, which totally 453 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 3: shook me to my core because he said that he 454 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 3: and his family have concerns over the fact that our 455 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 3: baby looks nothing like him, because my boyfriend has he 456 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 3: has like dark eyes, dark hair, dark complexion, and he's 457 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 3: feeling insecure about having a paler, you know, blonde, blue 458 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: eyed son, and that he feels like people always scare 459 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 3: and that friends and family are like talking about it. 460 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 3: But it's never been a question in my mind. 461 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, that's got to feel good that 462 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,239 Speaker 2: my family and I've been talking about this about how 463 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 2: a kid looks nothing like me, and how the mother 464 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 2: might be a little little hohoche. I mean, you know 465 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 2: what I mean, like, that's that feels great that you know, 466 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 2: that conversation that has taken place. 467 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 3: Oh, it was horrible. It was horrible. I felt terrible 468 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 3: when he brought it up. It's never been a question 469 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 3: in my mind, obviously, and you know he's never said 470 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 3: anything like this before. When but when he brought it up, 471 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 3: you know, he pointed out that we were on a 472 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 3: break back then before I got pregnant, and now he's 473 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 3: wondering if maybe the baby is someone else's. 474 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 7: It's I know the baby is his. 475 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 3: I'm obviously confident in that. But you know, the baby 476 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 3: looks like me. You know, sometimes kids look more like 477 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 3: one parent than the other. 478 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 2: How long was it a break before you guys, like 479 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 2: when you guys were apart before you got pregnant? 480 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: Was it months? Was it years? I mean, I don't know, 481 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: it was just a couple of months. 482 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 2: Did you get with anybody else during that time? I mean, again, 483 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 2: I'm not suggesting that you did anything wrong here, because, 484 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: by the way, if you were on a break and 485 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 2: you did get with someone else and you got pregnant 486 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 2: like that you can do that. You weren't together. It 487 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: wasn't like you cheated. I'm just curious if that's even 488 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 2: a remote possibility. 489 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a fair question. But honestly, no, like absolutely not. 490 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 3: I was using that break to you know, focus on 491 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 3: myself and like making sure I was, you know, doing 492 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 3: what I wanted to be doing. And so no, there 493 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,959 Speaker 3: was no one else in the picture. That's what's crazy. 494 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 2: Well, I want to know what every one of the 495 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 2: room thinks, of course, but you guys at home as well. 496 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: Eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three to 497 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 2: five ben context the same number. What I might be 498 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 2: an unpopular opinion. I don't think you necessarily, I don't 499 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 2: think you owe him anything except you're well. I feel 500 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 2: like in Steerago the theme is pretty similar, and it 501 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 2: has to do with trust, and it's people who are 502 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 2: to get Usually it has something to do with people 503 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 2: who were together who don't believe one another for whatever reason. 504 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 2: And then I wonder, like, well, why are you together 505 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: if you don't believe what the other person's saying. But 506 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 2: I think you could very easily put this to rest. 507 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 2: You don't owe him this, But I mean there's a 508 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 2: scientific proven way to determine that it is in fact his, 509 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 2: that there was no overlap, that there was no indiscretion, 510 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: and then you never discuss this again, and if it 511 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 2: ever comes up, it's like, dude, we already did this. 512 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,440 Speaker 2: I say, just go get the paternity test proved to him, 513 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 2: because you know for a fact that it's his. Prove 514 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: to him that it's his. This is over, and it's 515 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 2: never discussed again. Now, if you want to go get 516 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 2: into the fact that he doesn't trust you, that's another thing. 517 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 2: But I mean, I guess it's possible that you could 518 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 2: have been impregnated by someone else because you weren't together, 519 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 2: So why not just go do. 520 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: It and then we're done preach. Okay, so more people, 521 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 1: I guess, brother, I'm right there with you. 522 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 2: I thought that was gonna be an unpopular opinion because 523 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 2: I'm I suppose you're giving in to his insecurity, which 524 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 2: you don't have to do. But I guess this is again, 525 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 2: you know the answer, So just go do it and 526 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 2: this is over. 527 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: We're done with that. 528 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 4: And then you guys think she should stay with him 529 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 4: after that, Like I would take the test and leave 530 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 4: if anything, or I'm not taking the test unless I'm 531 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 4: legally required to. 532 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: If I know that's that's my kid. 533 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 4: And you guys are talking about this in that way. 534 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:34,719 Speaker 1: Wow. 535 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 2: I guess for me though, Kaylin, it's like they weren't 536 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 2: together and so it's not necessity. It's an insecurity and 537 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 2: and she she told him that it is, and she 538 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 2: told him she wasn't with anyone else. And if this 539 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 2: relationship is going to go on for years and years 540 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: and years, then at some point you're going to have 541 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 2: to believe the things had come out of her mouth. 542 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: But they were not together. 543 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: Now this is it would be very different from me 544 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 2: if they're if they were married or in a relationship 545 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 2: of partnership and they didn't break up and then all 546 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 2: of a sudden, they've been together the whole time, all 547 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 2: of a sudden he comes out and goes, you know what, 548 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 2: I think, maybe you cheated on me. That would be 549 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 2: one thing, But it's not unfeasible or infeasible, whatever the 550 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 2: word is. It's not impossible that during the time they 551 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 2: were together that she had a one off hookup. So 552 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 2: I guess this is just an easy thing to put 553 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: to rest. 554 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, but she's saying she didn't, and I believe her, 555 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 4: and I think she should leave him. And I think 556 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 4: if you take that test, fine, that's up to you, 557 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 4: but I think. 558 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 1: Go, that's my opeki, where are you coming from. 559 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 5: I would absolutely take the test just to shut everybody up, 560 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 5: and then it's up to you. It's your prerogative if 561 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 5: you want to stay or go. But at the end 562 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 5: of the day, like he wants, if you're not sure 563 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 5: about this being your kid, let me. Let me shut 564 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 5: you up and your family and your mama and everybody else. 565 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 5: Let's put it all to rest. Let's put it on 566 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 5: a table. And then once I take the test. Now 567 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 5: you really don't hate me because I'm a throw it 568 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 5: in your face every day. 569 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: But she didn't believe me. But rest of your life, 570 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. 571 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 5: But I do think, like you, he's not sure and 572 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 5: that's so you can't especially. 573 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 1: If the relationship hasn't been consistent. 574 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 5: He's not wrong for having a wan't even know the truth, Like, 575 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 5: that's what tests are here for. 576 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 1: Take the test. 577 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And Caitlyn's point is, well, she told him the 578 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: truth because they're in a trusting relationship. 579 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: I just don't know. 580 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 2: Well, it's you're right, But there are scenarios where I 581 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: would say this is outrageous and and and and she'd 582 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 2: be feeding into his insecurity. And there are other situations 583 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 2: where I say, let's just check the box because and 584 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 2: then we can deal with it after that. But like, 585 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 2: let's check the box, Becca, What does it make you 586 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 2: feel when I say just go do it and then 587 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: this is over? 588 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 9: And yeah, I mean I've definitely thought about all of 589 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 9: these options, and yeah, I feel like, you know, if 590 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 9: I go do the test, like it is going to 591 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 9: be unfortunately kind of spiteful on my behalf, Like. 592 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 3: Y'all are saying like, I don't think I I don't 593 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,479 Speaker 3: think that I'm the kind of person that would be like, okay, 594 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 3: I'll do it. Like I would very. 595 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 8: Much be like there you. 596 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 3: Want to prove period. 597 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't understand that I get that refrigerator. Yeah yeah, 598 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: make it really weird. 599 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 2: And then I might post it on social media and 600 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 2: the tech his whole family. I'll be like, oh, you 601 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 2: guys talking about me behind my back. 602 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 1: Check it out. I'm posting it. 603 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 5: Everybody knows I make them T shirts. 604 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let me take some phone calls on this, Becca. 605 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: I want to see. 606 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 2: People at home have to say a bunch of texts 607 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: about this too. But thank you for sharing. I wish 608 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: you the best. I hope it works out. Maybe let 609 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 2: us know what you decide to do. Thank you, have 610 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 2: a good day. 611 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 1: What the test saying? 612 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm curious, Well, yeah, if we don't hear 613 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: from her, then I think we keep. 614 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: You're curious, what, No. 615 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 10: I'm curious. 616 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: That is maybe the silly question. 617 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 7: But like, let's just say she does end up leaving 618 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 7: the relationship, but she files for child support where there's 619 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 7: still have to be a test done for that, So 620 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 7: the test is coming either. 621 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 5: Way most times for child support. Absolutely, Okay, got it. So, 622 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 5: I mean that's what I learned on Judge mat I 623 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,959 Speaker 5: was going to say, you know, that's record. 624 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's that's a real legal process. Yeah, 625 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: so you're right, then, friend, just knock it out. Now, 626 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: just do it now. 627 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 2: I wouldn't I mean, because she knows, I mean, if 628 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 2: she's absolutely certain, if she wasn't with anyone else, it's 629 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 2: like this isn't, this isn't. This is a no brainer 630 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 2: one argument, you know what I mean, Like you're you 631 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 2: know the answer. 632 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: The easiest test you'll ever take? But would you stay 633 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: or would you go? How could you stay after that? 634 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 1: That's true? 635 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 5: Well, the thing is, I know that we were on 636 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 5: a break, so I would give him the grace of 637 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 5: he doesn't know what I was up to, honestly, and 638 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 5: I don't know what he was Yeah, but. 639 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: People lie every day to my partner, I don't know. 640 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: I don't know this lady. 641 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:34,679 Speaker 7: So I. 642 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 5: Know that if there's a question and it's a child involved, 643 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 5: I wouldn't want my child to grow up with his 644 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 5: other side of the family always having this lingering question 645 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 5: when I could have easily put it to rest if 646 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 5: I knew one hundred percent of the test. 647 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 2: But don't YEA, yeah, yeah, I mean that's I guess 648 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 2: that's what you have to decide next. But if I 649 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,400 Speaker 2: know the answer to the question and it's a debate, 650 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 2: I you know, you know me, I'm the argument, But 651 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 2: do you know. 652 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: What I'm saying? 653 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 2: Like, if I know I'm right, like, then we're going 654 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 2: to prove that, because it's that's when it comes to 655 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 2: my integrity and your family. That's another thing. Why does 656 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 2: the whole family not believe her either? I hate that 657 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: that's messed up Francesca. Hi, Hi, Hey, good morning. So 658 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 2: you just heard it. I'll recap it quickly if you 659 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 2: didn't hear. But this woman was with a man. They 660 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 2: went on a few months break, they got back together, 661 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 2: she got pregnant, they have a kid. He doesn't think 662 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 2: the kid looks like him. His family apparently agrees with him, 663 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 2: and he wants a paternity test, even though she says 664 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 2: it's yours. I didn't get with anyone else, what would 665 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 2: What do you think? 666 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 7: So personally, I would go, I'm a nurse and I 667 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 7: studied genemics, and I think that like kids can come 668 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 7: out looking all kinds of ways, it doesn't always have 669 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 7: to be a mix of both parents. And to be honest, 670 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 7: I don't know that this is the personal opinion, but 671 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 7: I never want to be with anyone who'd even remotely 672 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 7: questioned me like that. That's just more a deep rooted issue. 673 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 7: So I think she would be someone would be lucky 674 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 7: to have her and never question her, and I think 675 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 7: she should. 676 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: Go yeah, yeah, and I did. 677 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 2: I would feel much more strongly against the test if 678 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 2: if they hadn't taken a break, because it's like, dude, Okay, 679 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 2: now you're just insecure you don't trust me like forgets you. Man, 680 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 2: that's that's a terrible one, right, You're you're accusing me 681 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: of of cheating on you. Now, she she was in 682 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 2: her right to sleep with another man if she wanted 683 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 2: to while they were not together. So I think it's 684 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 2: that gray area that makes me think, well, let's just 685 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 2: get this out of the way. But thank you for 686 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 2: calling it, for listening and being part of the thirteen. 687 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 2: Have a good day. 688 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, glad you call. 689 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: I guess I thought that my opinion would be a 690 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 2: little less popular because I'm essentially leaning into his insecurity 691 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 2: and his family, and I don't like the way this 692 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: went down. But it's just it's if she's sure, it's 693 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 2: such an easy thing to do. Hey, Lindsay, Lindsay, good morning. 694 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 5: Hi. 695 00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: Hi, Do you actually went through this this exactly? 696 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 2: This? Yeah? 697 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 10: Pretty much. 698 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 7: So. 699 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 3: I was dating. 700 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 10: The father of my daughter when I was I don't know, 701 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 10: in my twenties. We broke up, got back together after 702 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 10: being at a break, ended up getting pregnant, and then 703 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 10: his father was the instigator of like you guys are 704 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 10: on a brank How. 705 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 11: Do you even know it's yours? Like this little girl's 706 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 11: not allowed in my home. 707 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 1: She's not allowed. 708 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 3: It was awful. 709 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 10: Yeah, So I was like, you know what, if that's 710 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 10: what you want to do, then bring it home and 711 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,479 Speaker 10: go ahead, slab your eighteen month old daughter's mouth and 712 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 10: find it out. 713 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 11: Go ahead and do it so. 714 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 10: It comes home with it. 715 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 11: Can't bring himself to do it because he knew that 716 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 11: it was her or his the whole time. 717 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 1: So we ended up staying. 718 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 10: Together, had a second child, and then ended up getting divorced. 719 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 10: And it was the best decision that I could ever 720 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 10: have done. I let both children be a part of 721 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 10: his family to an extent. 722 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 7: But it's awful. 723 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 10: It's just a constant thing that always comes up, and 724 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 10: it's so unfair. And if that's the kind of like 725 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 10: they don't trust you, that that never. 726 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 11: Goes away and it's always going to be an issue. 727 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Lindsay, I'm sorry you went through that, but I 728 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: appreciate you. Sharon, have a good day. 729 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 11: Yeah you too. 730 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I gotta say though, like, if I this might 731 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 2: this is probably also not popular, But if I were 732 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 2: dating someone, I took a break and I hooked up 733 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 2: with someone else during the break, and I knew that 734 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 2: I wasn't bringing in any kind of like anything from that, 735 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 2: Like there was no there was no repercussion, like I 736 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 2: don't know, I didn't get an. 737 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: Instat ye right exactly like there nothing was. 738 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 2: Oozing or anything. I didn't need any kind of solve 739 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: or ointment or whatever. I'm not suggesting that I would lie, 740 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 2: but I'm not sure that I would be forthright with 741 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 2: that information. Now. 742 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: She told us she didn't do it. 743 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: I believe her, but I also can see a world 744 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 2: where I would not ask questions or want to know 745 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: the answers about what happened, because, let's face it, when 746 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 2: people take breaks, it's usually to to explore something like this, 747 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like it tends to happen. 748 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 2: So I don't again, like this is just an easy 749 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 2: slam dunk. She didn't do it, get the thing and whatever. 750 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 2: But I guess there's a part of me that understands 751 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 2: his concern. Now as far as getting the whole family 752 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: of all behind your back, I hate that. 753 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 754 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 2: Breaks are just synonymous with shenanigans and put that on 755 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 2: I just I just don't know yets dot com. 756 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 1: Are synonymous with shenanigans. 757 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm not saying that I would lie to 758 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,719 Speaker 2: someone because I don't condone lying, but I wouldn't be 759 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 2: in a big hurry to tell you about the stuff 760 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 2: I did when we weren't together, because it doesn't matter 761 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 2: anymore because we're back together, and I think it's only 762 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: going to cause problems moving forward. Ricky, how you doing, 763 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 2: Good morning. 764 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 8: Good morning. How are you guys doing? 765 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 1: Hey, man, stare go, what do you think. 766 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 8: I think she should say? First of all, she said 767 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 8: her boyfriend was darker, they were on a break. I mean, 768 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 8: there's a lot of things the question there, So I 769 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,239 Speaker 8: think she should give him the paternity to firm than 770 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 8: it is andennial. 771 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it could be that simple. Thank you, Ricky, 772 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 2: You have a good day, man, Thank you. Yeah, we all, 773 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 2: we all seem everyone seems to agreed take the test. 774 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 2: But it's a matter of then what do you do? 775 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 2: You know, do you stay with him, do you do 776 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 2: you have some understanding for his concern or do you 777 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 2: say no? 778 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: Forget you man? 779 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 2: Hey, Susie, Hi, Hi, good morning, welcome, Thanks for listening. 780 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 1: Stay go. 781 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 11: She should definitely go. If they're not married and he 782 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 11: already has trust issues, she needs to take the test 783 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 11: prove them wrong. And then get out. 784 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the part I'm unsure about is is do 785 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 2: we do we accept? 786 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 1: Do we just say okay, I get it? 787 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 2: Kind of? I'm gonna give you some grace on this, 788 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 2: just based on the definition of a break or am 789 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 2: I that is that? Is this egregious enough that I 790 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 2: can't forgive you for this? You should take my word 791 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 2: for it. And that's the end of it. That's the 792 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 2: hard part of this, I think. And you're saying, uh, 793 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 2: you're saying he should trust her or she should go, 794 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 2: and that's it. 795 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 11: I think he should trust her if she says that 796 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 11: it's that it's his, something like the fraternity of a 797 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 11: child is definitely not something you want to mess around 798 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,759 Speaker 11: with or lie about. And if she is lying, which 799 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 11: I don't it doesn't seem like she is, then that's 800 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 11: one thing. But if she's positive that it couldn't be 801 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 11: anybody else's but his, then I think she needs to 802 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 11: maybe second guest where she's going to be. 803 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: Especially because the family's involved, Like. 804 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 11: When you're attached to their family too, and not having 805 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 11: the trust of anybody like that's just not a good start. 806 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 1: Everyone thinks you're a little harlot. 807 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: The whole family thinks you are like a man on you. 808 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 2: I can't stand that either, with yeah you're own sorry, 809 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 2: go ahead, Oh I'm sorry. 810 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 11: My oldest son looks identically like me, and my husband 811 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 11: coaches many of his sports teams, and everyone is always 812 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 11: asking him which is his kid, And when they pointed 813 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 11: out it's exactly like this woman, it's he looks like me, 814 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,839 Speaker 11: blue eyes, blonde hair, and my husband has dark eyes 815 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 11: and dark hair. So I was like, oh, hey, of 816 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 11: yours CFP is he acts like my husband. 817 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: Now there you go. Then thank you, Susie, have a 818 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: good day. 819 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 11: Thanks you too. 820 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:30,319 Speaker 1: Yeah. 821 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 2: Anytime it's like and by the way, my e're in 822 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 2: an argument and there's a debate in a relationship and 823 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 2: it's like, well, my family said, it's all great, great, great, 824 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 2: So you went and told him you were inside of 825 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 2: the story and and you've all been talking about it 826 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,800 Speaker 2: without doing anything. That's cool. 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