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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? It's lip service at Manelay. I'm Luria.

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Speaker 1: Michael Arsenal. Yes, So we have two special guest today.

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Speaker 1: Jess like vacationing, traveling, running around. So Michael Arsenal is

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Speaker 1: here and we know him from I Can't Date Jesus. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And you have a new book coming out that you

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Speaker 1: announced recently. Yes, it's called I Don't Want to Die

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Speaker 1: For I need to write that book first. Um, I

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Speaker 1: Can't Date Jesus is still available, still very affordable, and

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Speaker 1: some things are still happening with that, but very entertaining. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it might be very entertaining if all comes through. But yes,

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Speaker 1: and I have to come. Thank you for having me

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Speaker 1: because I have to make up for you thinking having

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Speaker 1: people like I don't suck dick. Okay, you can barely

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Speaker 1: get it out. Got a lot of flat. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: enjoy a second day. Really, he sex dick with the

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Speaker 1: rest in bitch face. Hold on clarity. I don't like

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Speaker 1: the person enough. I think dicks are ugly. But if

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Speaker 1: I really really like you, I will suck your dick

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Speaker 1: and probably enjoy it. I don't like that ugly. I

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Speaker 1: haven't suck the dick since before teams come on, now,

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Speaker 1: I haven't liked nobody like that said. I didn't say

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Speaker 1: I didn't eat a can you eat acid? I was

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Speaker 1: stuck in a dick. I like that, like asked more

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Speaker 1: than a dick you can have for me than like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I got to do this. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to do one. I got to do the other like

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Speaker 1: I can't. I definitely would before two weeks the last

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Speaker 1: a little like a little honey on the dick because

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Speaker 1: I think of a riot carry because that's what they

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Speaker 1: on the dick. Yes, I've done that, but it's not

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Speaker 1: since two thousand like must do on the beat just

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Speaker 1: for you. I will suck a dick in two thousand nineteen,

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Speaker 1: somebody's holiday is gonna be gag you your dick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's where it's not fair. That's what I was. I

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Speaker 1: was shamed for being selfish. Yeah yeah, because they're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: my turney, You're like I like you knew what you

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Speaker 1: knew what it was when you came over. It's nothing

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Speaker 1: worse than when like I'm sure for a guy to

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Speaker 1: get his dick suck and the person look like they

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Speaker 1: don't want to do it exactly like I actually realized.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm helping my cars. Maybe I'm making

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Speaker 1: it worse. Yeah, dates, dick, I'm like, why we hear

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Speaker 1: no cord on the cup? Right? Why it's just that

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Speaker 1: you're thinking up But yeah, there's nothing about like I't attracting.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. How you could just go

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Speaker 1: straight for the butt. But now, I've always been a

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Speaker 1: picky eater. No, most dicks are ugly. That's all I

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Speaker 1: got to do account song about this, But this is

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Speaker 1: mad inspiration I'm getting now, Like it's better than can

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Speaker 1: we just say it used to be scared to not

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Speaker 1: with the lips shues. That just sounds better when I

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Speaker 1: rapid and actually do it. All right, Well, we don't

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Speaker 1: want you to be scared. No, I'm not scared. This

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Speaker 1: is ugly. If the right that comes along, I'll put

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Speaker 1: it in my mouth. I feel you, and I know

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Speaker 1: what I know what to do when it's there. You

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Speaker 1: don't know how to do it. No no no no

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Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no. It

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Speaker 1: might not be many, but if I had to yell

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Speaker 1: with you, I know how to suck dick, because don't good.

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Speaker 1: I'm not bad at you if I'm gonna do something

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Speaker 1: up and I'm like Michael Arsenal tried to suck my dack.

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Speaker 1: I look down, he looked mad. Views The only time

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Speaker 1: I stuck did badly was the first time, and I

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Speaker 1: didn't realize how big my teeth work. But once I realized,

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Speaker 1: I asking to teach me and he wasn't a good teacher. Um,

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Speaker 1: And then we did it again and he was happy.

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Speaker 1: Someone we know actually told us that trap told us

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Speaker 1: that men can suck dick better than women. I've never

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Speaker 1: got your dick by a woman. No, never in life.

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Speaker 1: I never. No, I've never had really, So you never

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Speaker 1: touched a woman at all? Uh you tried? No? Actually,

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Speaker 1: well you know I write about being afraid of sex

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Speaker 1: in jail, so that's part of it. But um, women

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Speaker 1: have tried to fuck. Um. One actually in high school

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Speaker 1: wanted to funk. It just didn't happen. So that one

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Speaker 1: time I really just hard and no, it wasn't that

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Speaker 1: like I just didn't get tour saying jay Z broke up.

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Speaker 1: Would you have sex with Beyonce? Not Beyonce because she's

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Speaker 1: my lord and gyrator. I would suck I could get

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Speaker 1: my dick up. It's just I don't want to funk

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Speaker 1: women because I'm gay, so like women have even recently,

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Speaker 1: no recent it is like two years ago someone tried

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Speaker 1: to funk was like a girl, I'm gay, but they

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Speaker 1: know this, don't that thinking they could change? Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not gonna It's not as bad as like dumb men

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Speaker 1: with like lesbians. But some women have been like, you

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Speaker 1: just need the right one older, just like changing. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't think every hole as a whole. Some people disagree.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had a gaping butt? Because I just

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Speaker 1: learned about Oh my god, what is gaping? But huge?

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Speaker 1: Oh god? Oh um. So I'm not getting into that

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Speaker 1: because then I'll be accused of bottom shaming. I don't

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Speaker 1: know anything about that. That's not particularly attractive. And y'all,

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Speaker 1: who's got a tighten up? You don't want to know

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Speaker 1: who's about? Yeah, I don't. I don't like it in me.

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Speaker 1: If in a relationship maybe, but I don't know much.

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Speaker 1: And so for like the bottom again, bottom shaming is

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Speaker 1: a real thing, so don't put that on me. But

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Speaker 1: like I tried bottom it didn't it wasn't it. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't it in the way it thoughted wasn't it wasn't

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Speaker 1: it like it happened in It's just not it. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't it. It wasn't good. I feel, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: that's so crazy. Get to you a little. Yes, my

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Speaker 1: life is not that interesting. So so do you think

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Speaker 1: that dicks are ugly? Um, it depends. I've seen a

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Speaker 1: lot of ugly dicks. Thank you for the support, but

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Speaker 1: some some acutes. You know, you sounds terrible when it

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Speaker 1: comes to a dick. It's sad. It's like because they

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Speaker 1: look kind of weird. But no, I can't get with

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Speaker 1: the light skinned dicks, and now with it, I like

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Speaker 1: the ducks. Give me a different color. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: like it. Dog dog, Yeah, like a dark Now I

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Speaker 1: want the dog. She's gonna for sure, because we never

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Speaker 1: year what we want, so it's the opposite of what

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Speaker 1: you think you want. No, I'm not about that lace

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Speaker 1: skin shirt. I'm about that dark skin. I dated a

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Speaker 1: light skinned guy that had a brown dick. Happens, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's sure. I don't know why, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: how that happens. But like your dick could be darker

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Speaker 1: than your body. He was bleaching the rest of his

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Speaker 1: body and darker than my face, but it's not like

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Speaker 1: significantly darker, like everything blends. I want to get to

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Speaker 1: the sun because we like scrub harder or like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, like you could, I don't know. Yeah, jerk off,

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Speaker 1: it turned the same. What about Asian man? Now and

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Speaker 1: a bit are both Asian and black? Have you ever

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Speaker 1: dated Asian man? No, it's I think it's because I'm

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Speaker 1: so mixed up, Like you know, my whole family's mixed up.

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Speaker 1: I just like, I don't know. I like a black man,

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Speaker 1: just dark and just dark. What about a white guy?

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Speaker 1: So you never dated a white guyl? I never dated

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Speaker 1: a white guy either. I dated Puerto Rican before. How

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Speaker 1: was that because they're crazy? I'm I'm crazy, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. Like I date Spanish. I dated

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Speaker 1: had to move on me, and I was like, I

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Speaker 1: gotta get out of here, you black niggers on sticks

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Speaker 1: and black niggers. But the Spanish guy loved to eat pussy,

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Speaker 1: like that's all they do, say and ship like they

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Speaker 1: just come home, eat pussy, go to sleep, eat pussy,

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Speaker 1: wake up. They are good with them. Yeah, when they

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Speaker 1: got away. That's so crazy, he said here reminiscen, like,

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Speaker 1: how do you feel about being seen with somebody early on?

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Speaker 1: You know, being like a public person? Right, And let's

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Speaker 1: just say it's it's a situation where do you have

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Speaker 1: a boyfriend? Oh, how long have you been together? Almost

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Speaker 1: four years? Now, Okay, that's a long time. So let's

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Speaker 1: just say the first time you all went out because

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Speaker 1: you've been wrapping, you know, and he knew who you were.

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Speaker 1: Do you know who you were before then? I knew

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Speaker 1: whom since back in the days of sixteen, So you

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Speaker 1: don't even count. Yeah, this question because I can put

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Speaker 1: on like I'm singing into it. So let's just say

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Speaker 1: that you're about to go on a first date with somebody, right,

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Speaker 1: do you think about being seen? And like where you're

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Speaker 1: gonna go? Does that matter? Like I don't want to

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Speaker 1: go to a place like this. I'm not really well,

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Speaker 1: I'm not there yet, but I'm realizing people pay more

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Speaker 1: attention to me than I thought. Partically, I'm like, my

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Speaker 1: dating pool isn't that big because I date like black

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Speaker 1: men or like Latin X men. But the thost parts

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Speaker 1: so like even doing the breakfast club interview, I was

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Speaker 1: And we're trying to use like the apps. Like that

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Speaker 1: don't really want like your book meant so much to me,

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Speaker 1: or I saw you in some interview like that's really weird.

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Speaker 1: Like then they're trying to have like a heart to

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Speaker 1: Doesn't work, they try to. I've had people's screen grab

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Speaker 1: conversations I've had and like kind of try to blast me.

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Speaker 1: Already that happened a little. I'm learning as I go

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Speaker 1: that yeah you cautiously yeah, because I just didn't it

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Speaker 1: or even like dudes, I have this approached them like

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Speaker 1: me any more, And like my friends been like no stupid,

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Speaker 1: Like like I'm thinking, I'm so I swear, swear, I'm regular.

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Speaker 1: I don't do nothing in my life. I'm just mad regular. No,

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Speaker 1: but the same thing I like to be low. I'm

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Speaker 1: out about all of that. Like if I go out

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go somewhere Mallow. I'm not gonna go to

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Speaker 1: Philips and ship like that. I'm gonna go to Kennedy's

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Speaker 1: I'm just mad low key. I don't like all that,

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Speaker 1: you know, in the beginning nine no no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: And then it's funny like I used to get like

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Speaker 1: I'll be thinking I'll be low key. So a lot

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Speaker 1: you know, back in the day when I was like

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Speaker 1: single and shot like that. No, I'm not with it,

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Speaker 1: just be too much. A screenshots videos saying I'm just

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Speaker 1: like so over, you know, and a lot of the

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Speaker 1: people I like, it's so funny because I would not

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Speaker 1: tell people who I was in the beginning, like you know,

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Speaker 1: like if I would meet them, you know, Jennifer my

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Speaker 1: first name, Yeah, I said Jennifer and then ask you

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Speaker 1: what do you do? What do you say? Nothing? Bit

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Speaker 1: just don't do a lot. I'm just cute. That's my occupation.

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Speaker 1: And they're like, I'm sorry about man. That's funny because

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Speaker 1: I think, like if I meet a guy, right, we

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Speaker 1: that Guys like, I'm like, it's so different, you don't

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Speaker 1: think that. I feel like in l A, that's the

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Speaker 1: first question people, I was like, so what do you do?

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Speaker 1: They don't even have your name. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: worth at the same time, like you know, you're fake

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00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: starting to care about yourself more. You're not working with

423
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: these regular not regular like that, but you know, you know,

424
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,439
Speaker 1: the average niggers. I'll do some function, then put up

425
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: with and be I Then you'd be mad at the

426
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: chick he cheated with if you want to, but you

427
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: don't do nothing to him, like, you know, praise him

428
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: like a king and ship, but beat the next bitch

429
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: as like pashionably late. Look at you looking all good?

430
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: She's like, I just got out a flight, just amazing. Well, Karen,

431
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: this is Michael Arsenal. I can't date Jesus and he

432
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: has a new book coming out. I don't want to

433
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: die poor. I don't want to die poor. None of

434
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: us want to like you know, Malibu, Mitch, have you

435
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 1: guys first time? Yes? Okay, you got the night shot

436
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: out from Nicki Minaj, so yes, I'm living my best

437
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: life and I got a shot off from Foxy so

438
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 1: she called me baby fox on that hype Easy. Do

439
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 1: you be feeling like sometimes that it is hard for

440
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: women to co sign other women. Yeah, especially for black women,

441
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: Like you know, when we start co signing each other,

442
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, it's not genuine, it's not this, it's

443
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: not that, you know, or like if we support another female,

444
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: especially female rapper or anything like that, we sucking, like

445
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: you know, That's all I've been seeing lately. Like you know,

446
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: when I showed Nikki Love, I showed Foxy Love, I

447
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: show Cardy Love, all of the it's like, oh, you're sucking, dick,

448
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, I'm embracing, Like we never have

449
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: this much female rappers coming. It's like back and when

450
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: I started rapping, I started rapping with Rough Riders seven

451
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: years ago, so it was like, no females butt Nikki,

452
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: you know. So and then all the girls that I

453
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 1: did reach out to back in the day, they were

454
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: like mat Boogie. They didn't want to reach out because

455
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: they were fighting for that dec the second spot too,

456
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: you know. So now all these girls they interact with you,

457
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: they will reach out like you know, so I'm just

458
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 1: loving it. You know that's good. I love it too.

459
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: I love seeing like everything that's been happening for women

460
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: because it is true. There's a lot of women right

461
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 1: now that's popping. And then we stop on the radio

462
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: like it's not like before I said, oh my god,

463
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: was this black as bitch? Like in different Now they're

464
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 1: like getting good like it used to be. As soon

465
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: as you hear the voice, you like like, what caring.

466
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're here because we got some questions. Social

467
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: media expert also, so what do you do when you're

468
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: dating somebody in their Instagram is whacking? They'be having corny

469
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: ask captions. Oh yeah, I've been there. Um, it's hard.

470
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's technically their personality, it is their page.

471
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: Depending on the exact content they're posting, it's like, bro,

472
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: can you tune it down some or it's you don't

473
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: even acknowledge them on social media. But there are people

474
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: it's just they're funny on there. They just say stupid

475
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: things and you just gotta let it be. But just

476
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: for me, I'll just be like, yo, tone it down.

477
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: Everybody to print them. But they'd be posting and you're like,

478
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: that's not even who you are. Why are you trying

479
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: to be this person on social media? But that's really

480
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: sometimes with social media is for people though, they get

481
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: to be somebody else besides themselves and every day. I mean,

482
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: that's what we got trolls and everything else for. So

483
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: I'm not even surprised. And we're gonna clown you, like

484
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: guys can put a whack corn he's something up and

485
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: that we're not gonna screenshot it and send it out test.

486
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: Hear me and Karen used to do that and it

487
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: was one guy. I'm sorry, I'm gonna tell this story.

488
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: Dude with like in the background of a picture, in

489
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 1: the background, in the background, back right post the picture

490
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 1: and he's like me and say it with me and

491
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: Drake and like he's like, keep clearing the table. But

492
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: that's right me and that ship look at this. I

493
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: hate that. And when they brow everybody. I hate a

494
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: nigger that brows everybody. Don't bro that, you know, me

495
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: and my big bro And it's like, no, you just

496
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 1: call him coming out the basket. They don't do it.

497
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: Don't do it. People doing that family ship. You know.

498
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: I always say, people be like, that's my cousin desk

499
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: this and they're not really related and everyone. There's some

500
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: people that I could be like, that's like my brother.

501
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: But I'm one brother, I'm not gonna be saying And

502
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: I hate when people say that and the's somebody they fucked.

503
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: A lot of think that, bro. I'm like, you're sucking him.

504
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: That's not because they're like fill in the closet and

505
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: they don't want nobody to know, so they're saying bro,

506
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: not necessarily, but I think maybe because they don't want

507
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: people to know. But it's like, our circles aren't that big.

508
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: We know y'all, and these pictures are not like platonic y'all. Fus,

509
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 1: it's not bro. Just just don't post this ship if

510
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: you got you that now, do you think? Sometimes? And

511
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: I love when Karen comes on the service that people

512
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 1: have this impression of you that you can't even talk

513
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: about sex, like you're not a sexual person, even because

514
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: you're so. I mean, I do get that it's because

515
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 1: of the content and how they see me. So it's

516
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: just but at the end of the damn with scorpio baby,

517
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: well man, then okay, I was gonna say the man

518
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: cheating man, I think the biggest cheaters. Sorry to all

519
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 1: the scorpio. It depends independent it depends your scorpioting everything. Yeah,

520
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: definitely know every scorpio, every scorpio, man, I know, it's

521
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,120
Speaker 1: like it's crazy. They're very good and sexual, but they're

522
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: very like that's never been happy to be in aries?

523
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Why is that? I don't know about your I ain't

524
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: never hearing nobody say airy sexist body, and I don't know. No,

525
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: you don't suck. So this is how news. Well I don't.

526
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I will admit that I am growing out

527
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: of shower and anybody see my I've not gotten complaints.

528
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: So I'm found with that split and splash and grow whatever.

529
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: But don't do aries like that. What I just told

530
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: them select them So it might just be a couple

531
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: of years ago by. But if I play in my mouth,

532
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a good time. I had to avenge

533
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: myself from the last one. You know, Okay, you to

534
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: act like he liked to dig garen? Do you like

535
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: to stop? Um? I mean when you're going through the process.

536
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: It's not like I just want to naturally do it.

537
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: I want us to pleasure each other time. It's part

538
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: of sex. Yeah, it's part of sex. That that wasn't

539
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: That wasn't a blowing endorsement. I'm speaking for an understanding.

540
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: I don't really like the job part of it. See,

541
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I like doing it if it's

542
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: somebody like that, Like I want to see them feel

543
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: good and I know I could do it good. You no,

544
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: like I gotta make them. I like it, But I

545
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: hate when guys try to like hold back and make

546
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: you say they did for mad long. Yes, I want.

547
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: I gotta up when I'm done. I'm sucking done and

548
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm tired. I'm just stop way no, like you gotta

549
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: finish you're feeling like that, but but just when my

550
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: jaw starts still, Yes, I have as to be like

551
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: holding hold I don't want to come yet you'd be like, yes,

552
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: don't hold up, just harder. Therefore he's gonna come. All right, now,

553
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: can you date somebody who has different eating habits than

554
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: you do? So imagine right, we're trying to be healthier.

555
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: Imagine Laura, you're a vegetarian slash vegan sometimes vegan sometimes

556
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: but you know, but imagine like and Karen, we know

557
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: how you are because your text as if we're eating

558
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: badly and be like, yeah, couldn't say somebody that says

559
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: that you that likes to eat like mad meat and

560
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah, I mean that's their that's their

561
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: preference in their choice. But I can only guide you

562
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: and steer you and be like, yo, maybe you should

563
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: switch it up to this or whatnot, But that's going

564
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: to your body, You're not mine. I feel like it

565
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: depends on the situation. Like I went out on a

566
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: date and then the it takes me to somewhere that

567
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: has no vegetables or what am I supposed to be?

568
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: The kind of place was this child restaurant that I

569
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: had like arty choking and like a salad that I

570
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: couldn't eat or something, But like I just felt like

571
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to eat exactly what the exactly, but

572
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: at least be like open to be conscious. That used

573
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: to eat when I was way younger and I went

574
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: to he ate pork and that ship bothered the ship

575
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 1: out of me because then am I pork? Now? Basically

576
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: on a sucking day? Did you just call it spill?

577
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: You ain't getting nobody slid you like you think you

578
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: kiss somebody and you like, am I getting pork in

579
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: my system? Yes? The nation, dude, I think so. I

580
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: think that, like I think that the person should have

581
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: similar eating habits as you and you ain't got to

582
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: be a vegan and the vegetarian all that. But if

583
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: you shoving down pork and beef and but I think

584
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: as long as the person you're dating is conscious, say

585
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: like and you don't, you don't necessarily like pork. They

586
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: shouldn't be eating pork around you or just just in

587
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: the environment that you're in, especially if they're gonna be

588
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: kissing you or laying up with you. Just ate some pork. Yeah,

589
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: if it makes you uncomfortable, because yeah, I don't want

590
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: that at all, Rap the ReBs and then come in.

591
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm definitely out of the South. Mike was like, I

592
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: eat all that ship. No, actually, for a while, I

593
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: did not eat beef and pork for like more than

594
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: a decade. I didn't. Yeah, we heard you don't eat beef. Um,

595
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 1: I just want to say, there's one person who might

596
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: listen to this. I've already told him, and he's not available.

597
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: I would suck his day dick every day for the

598
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: rest of my life. He's not available. So this is again,

599
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: it's a standing offer. Um. I didn't eat a lot

600
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: of that for a while, So I actually respect that,

601
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: Like I get that, Um, I would just say, having

602
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: gone out with some vegans in the work, it's easier

603
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: to go out with vegan in New York and I

604
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: can find something. If I go back home to the South,

605
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: it's a problem. I'm like, where we're gonna eat? Um,

606
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do here? It's like their options, So

607
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't really mind. Like that's great vegan, I get it.

608
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: But anywhere else I'll be like, well, we can just

609
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: do other things for dates, but we'll figure out the

610
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: food ship. Like even like Philips and stuff like that.

611
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: They've got a little vegan options on the menu here now.

612
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: So it's just like be conscious, like, don't just think

613
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: of yourself, you know, when you're going on dates and

614
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: stuff like that, Like, well I want to stay like

615
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: all right, so what are you gonna with us? Actually,

616
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: the very first date I ever went on period, like

617
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: with a guy he took me to a vegetarian restaurant,

618
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: was the first time I ever did it. But it's

619
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: not it's not always about you. It's just having a

620
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: good time so you can you can find something to you. Yeah.

621
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: Now you talk about the circle being small, we all

622
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: got small circles, right, Okay, hopefully so what about dating

623
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: people that like running the same circle I know each other?

624
00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: What do we think about that? Um, because I'm just

625
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: as a gay guy, Like, the dating pool isn't that

626
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: big if you're telling like other because it's not that

627
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: many of us, even if it seems like it's a

628
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: bunch of gay mens stamping around in Harlem, Brooklyn, but

629
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: we all kind of know each other. We're not that

630
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: far removed. So eventually you'll find one is connected to

631
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: the other. I try not to think about that too much. Well,

632
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: one I don't want. I mentioned I don't attract as

633
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: many Dominicans remporter. We can typically are more receptive to

634
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: me up here and then then what I'm used to

635
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: dat and so I've adapted, so that's usually not as

636
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 1: big thing. But I mean, when I am dating somebody

637
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: that's like, we'll know a lot of the same people.

638
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: It's you can't control it anyway. All I think, I'll

639
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: just can you just shut the funk up and not

640
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 1: be telling people our business. But that's one of the things,

641
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: like you just have to deal with the world as

642
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: it is, not how you wanted to be. So the

643
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: pool is smaller, So I'm aware of that. So I

644
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: just kind of act accordingly. One of my home girls

645
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: is dating this guy and she's friends with his ex,

646
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 1: and he called the X tell her just so you know,

647
00:34:55,200 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: and she was like, okay, she's cool. What would you

648
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: have done in that situation, Like would you call the

649
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: girl that we used to be your friend, well, that

650
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: you're friendly with, to be like just so you know,

651
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: I've done that? Like it's just even like dating somebody,

652
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: like I know you went out with him, but I

653
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: might go out whenever. Usually it's fun. It's that's different though,

654
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: That's that's kind of like assid permission. We're not necessarily

655
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: it's kind of like we're all gonna go out. But

656
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: if you felt that way about it, like I'm sorry

657
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: you dating him before, but now, well it wasn't how

658
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: a good demand, but it was just like just letting

659
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: you know we met because I already knew, like you

660
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: didn't like him that much, but just to be clear

661
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: to making like I'm not going behind your back because

662
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: some people will fell away if you went out with

663
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: somebody to say we're out with and you didn't tell him.

664
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,399
Speaker 1: I think that ain't that many of us. So it's

665
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: like I get it. So just to let you know,

666
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 1: and if anybody feels that bad. No one's ever been like, no,

667
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: you can't go. They're not going to tell you that

668
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: they're going to tell, but I try to the stand

669
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: up things. Yeah, they like this motherfucker gonna go on

670
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: a date with the same that's bad. But what do

671
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: you think Karen and Mali has a boyfriend. But as

672
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: far as dating in the same circle, like, do you

673
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: have to tell the other person you think it's um,

674
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: it's hard not to do it. It kind of it

675
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: kind of depends. I mean just the people that like

676
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: data now, I don't know you said the people you're

677
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: dating now, yeah, Dave, you could date you find the

678
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: one like it's caring in a relationship. Oh no, being

679
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: selective right now. But um no, I mean they I

680
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: think they kind of know of each other. But I'm

681
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: not going on my way to be like, hey, I'm

682
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: talking to this but just an f y. I am

683
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: not telling on myself. What if they ask you? If

684
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: they asked me, yes, then if you ask me, I'm

685
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: not offering off the advice because I know you are.

686
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: I know you are too, So it's just don't create

687
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, until I'm a priority to you. I'm

688
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: not gonna put myself off and be like, Okay, I'm

689
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: only talking to you right now. We're not exclusive. So

690
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: so when you're you're about to get in a relationship,

691
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: that's when you're like okay, just so you know, yeah,

692
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: and we can have the conversation so they know like hey,

693
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm talking to this person or whatever. But if it

694
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 1: comes up to a point of like, oh where were you?

695
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: I was out with a friend? Which friend, then I'll

696
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: divulge into the information. But I'm not just gonna get

697
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 1: on the phone and be like oh yeah, I wonder

698
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: how it's so and so and blah blah blah. Nope.

699
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: So what if it's like like a friend, because that's

700
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: what you were saying, like a friend dated them before, right,

701
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: So would you say to them like would you wait

702
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: and tell you all about to be serious? To be

703
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: like listen, I've been talking to some and so I

704
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: think it's about to get serious. You need to know

705
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: or like how would you like because I think I

706
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: don't think I would just be like if you are

707
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: going out on a date, I'd be like, hey, let

708
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: me tell you about dating. I haven't had that experience,

709
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,479
Speaker 1: but I've had it happened to me when the person

710
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: called me, like, oh, just the heads up, and I

711
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: was like, okay, cool, I really didn't care. Yeah, but

712
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: you appreciated her telling you that I did. I was like,

713
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: you feel like, it's that really my friend going out

714
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: with my ex? No, because it was just like it

715
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: wasn't one of the ones where it was just like

716
00:37:55,440 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 1: super serious, I don't in a relationship if we want

717
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: out a couple of times and it was like she

718
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: only told me because she met him through me, because

719
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: we were out, and I was just like, oh, in

720
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: my head, I was like, you're a fast little bit, right,

721
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: you feel kind of funny girl? No, I just said

722
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: in my head real quick, like I just and then

723
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh right, it's cool. I chip like

724
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: when y'all got the top next, like how did this happen?

725
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: But you see stuff like that bothers me. I can't

726
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 1: be with like like, I don't know, it might be

727
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: a mature or whatever, but if you're my friend, you

728
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: can't talk to. None of the people that I've ever

729
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: talked to, I just don't like that, you know, especially

730
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: if I like the people that I was serious serious

731
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: about I don't like that serious. What if it was old,

732
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: like real old like? It just it would depend on

733
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: the situation. I think you know that you tell your

734
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: home girl complaining about your man or the guy you

735
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: went out, because I would never do something like that.

736
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: You know, I would never talk to one of my

737
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: friends exits. I don't care how. I don't care if

738
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: you talked in preschool, like you know that's okay, come on,

739
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: I just know I just don't do that. You know

740
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't talk to one of my friends exens. I

741
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about none of the niggas I

742
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: used to suck with itself apart like too that I

743
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't want none of my friends. I don't but like

744
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: that want Oh you want that white guy's nig good

745
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: luck the bag bench, come with it. See. It can

746
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: get confusing, though, because I've had this one friend who

747
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: literally said she's dated, Like if you were like, oh,

748
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 1: so and so it's cute. Oh yeah, yeah I dated,

749
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: I used to him. Yeah you're like, girl, like, you

750
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: can't claim everybody like she was literally anybody said it

751
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: was cute, or if you liked the picture, if you

752
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: left me, yeah, like oh yeah, you're like, yeah, you

753
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: had to talk. Yeah, like he wants to buy me out.

754
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, Sis, you got it. That's all you

755
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 1: all when you haven't like, say you meet a girl

756
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: right and like she fucked with somebody that you're actually

757
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: talking to, would you like not a friend her? Like?

758
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: Would you not be her friend? Because this happened to me.

759
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: I had a friend of mine who um it was

760
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: a guy that I used to date, but the girl

761
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: was currently dating him, and my friend was like, oh,

762
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: come hang out with us. I was like, no, bitch,

763
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: like I'm not trying to be friendly with her. And

764
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 1: then I look grind me like you know what I mean.

765
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: I feel like it's weird and touching in those situations.

766
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: So even though I don't know her, you're dating somebody,

767
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: I think that's a big deal. That wasn't that had

768
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. I don't care, But maybe

769
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: she might you know that's her. Yeah, they're like, well

770
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: does she know the situation. I'm not gonna put it

771
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: out there either, so that's another thing. So do you

772
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 1: hide it like oh well, or do I tell my

773
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: business to a strange You're like, I didn't talk, I

774
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: don't even know her, That's what I'm saying. So I

775
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: wanted that way somewhere. If I wanted to go, I

776
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't not go somewhere because she's going to be there

777
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: than I'm not going. I don't, I don't know, I

778
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: don't make no sense for me to be there, and

779
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm hanging out with her like what we got a

780
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: common old dicky No thanks. Now, do you feel like

781
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: you guys are getting better with age? Yes? Yes, because

782
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: you know people are always like, oh you yeah, oh

783
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: this is that, like people have things to say about age,

784
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: and people are nervous about getting older. But don't you

785
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: feel like as every year goes back, you're getting better.

786
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 1: Definitely feel like I'm getting better with age, just just

787
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: how I'm processing things, taking my time with it, not

788
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: getting so um emotional and irrational two things, but it's

789
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: just understanding, just just overall just developing myself spiritually, mentally, physically.

790
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, definitely better with age. I'm also I know,

791
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm a late bloomer, so I'm kind of more content.

792
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,760
Speaker 1: I think sometimes with like at least a lot of gaming,

793
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: you don't really get to at least of a certain age,

794
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 1: like I'm thirty four. You don't really get to start

795
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: like your whole life until you come out, so you're

796
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: learning things later than a lot of people go through.

797
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: So you know, I admitately is like I'm still a mess,

798
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 1: but I'm a much clean up mess. And I was

799
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: like the year bore ly before that, And I'll be

800
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: turning thirty five next year, which I'm walking into it

801
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: with a lot of things happening for me and stuff.

802
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: Is like, I'm really I'm good with where I'm going

803
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: and even late is better than ever. So that's usually

804
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: how I look at it. And I would much rather

805
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: have dealt with me now than even a couple of

806
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: years ago. So I'm fine with getting older. Um I

807
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: need a trainer brain. The talk about you because you've

808
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,479
Speaker 1: been doing this music thing for years. As you're getting

809
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: older now you've got to deal with it. Atlantic you capping?

810
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: So what do you think about that? No? I think, yeah,

811
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting my emotions together. You know. I just recently

812
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: realized that I'm super emotional. Like when I'm mad about something,

813
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: I'll be extra mad about it, like you know, or

814
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: when some bullshit happens to me. I need to chill more.

815
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,240
Speaker 1: You know, and I need to go like the business

816
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: or out of it rather than like the emotional Bronx

817
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 1: joint that's on the corner, you know. So I think

818
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm getting better with it a lot. I think a

819
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: little bit it's coming to out there. You know. Maybe

820
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: in like two years then I'm gonna be like all

821
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: who started. But right now now I'm a little crazy.

822
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: Right now crazy. I want to know what crazy means,

823
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: Like when somebody tells me something, not that I don't

824
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: want to hear, but when I know somebody is wrong

825
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: and somebody's telling me the idea of me, I hate that.

826
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: Don't tell me your idea of me. Just asked me

827
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: what who I am and what you think I you know,

828
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: how this these labels and just everything overall, everybody has

829
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: their own opinion of you, I think, you know, and

830
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: instead of asking, they'll direct you in other different directions.

831
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: And that doesn't sell well right with me. Through rough Riders.

832
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: When I was signing with Island of Jim, it just

833
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: never stuck right well me. So I just you know,

834
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: I spas a little bit about it. I feel good now,

835
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: yeah good, Now, I'm right. I want to see I'm

836
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: at you think, I'm what do you think as you've

837
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 1: been getting older? I think definitely lee way better. I

838
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, my whole life like people used

839
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: to be like, you need to focus on yourself, not

840
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 1: like what the fun I am focusing on myself. I

841
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: do everything like for myself. But then I think when

842
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: I got a little older, I realized would have meant

843
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: and like, now that I'm actually focusing on myself, everything

844
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: has changes how I am getting better And then um,

845
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: I mean, of course your pussy get better as you

846
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: get all that, because you like, practice makes perfect, so

847
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 1: like practice the more you like, So like I could

848
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: probably suck the best of my life because you think

849
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: that you got more sexual as you got older, or

850
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: less sexual more sexual? For me, I think that I

851
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,439
Speaker 1: probably was easy to have sex with when I was younger.

852
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: My whole whole fame, I don't know, but like now

853
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: it's like impossible. But back then, yah, it used to

854
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: be like I might have it. Yeah, Before I just

855
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 1: felt like I needed instruction. Man, it was like, who

856
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: are you supposed to like, yo, how are you supposed

857
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: to move and do this? And I think that's same

858
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 1: thing I was back in the day. I was just like,

859
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: all right, I'm winging this ship. Let's shine this shut out, like,

860
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: oh okay, this is how you do it, you know,

861
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: Like I think about that person I had an orgasm.

862
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what was happening, really like, I

863
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: didn't know what the it was. You didn't give yourself

864
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,760
Speaker 1: your first orgasm? No, for real? You need to nobody

865
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 1: for real, y'all never played with yourself before you have sex? No,

866
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: we just talked about instruction. Mars me like I was

867
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: already humping things before tampon right, I didn't use dampings

868
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: until I was no. I masturbated teaballs, touching myself gave

869
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: me the curse. Yeah, that music is. I made myself

870
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: come before I was ever like not a virgin anymore. Over?

871
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: You young young? Like so you were just masturbating. How

872
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: did you know how to do humping? Just like I

873
00:45:55,480 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: just feel like I wasn't thinking about them and stuff,

874
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: and I didn't have my barbie dolls have sex barbies

875
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: and I was he was the parties. I didn't have

876
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: my first kiss until I was like fourteen years old,

877
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: and then I had sex right after that like a

878
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: few months. Is that crazy? Like I didn't have no

879
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: tongue kiss I just packed. The first time I guy

880
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: tried to tonu kiss me, I would never forget this ship.

881
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: I was in sixth grade. I didn't know what it was,

882
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: and so we would like do pet kisses, and then

883
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 1: he like tried to tongue kiss me and I said,

884
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, you think my mouth? That's so discussed.

885
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 1: And I went to the water fountain and like put

886
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 1: the water on my mouth like that. That was weird

887
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: back in the day, Like what wasn't nobody just kicked

888
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: in and Mino was out, but you didn't know about

889
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: I didn't want to get it was like, you know

890
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: what I'm but I wasn't doing none of that. She

891
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,439
Speaker 1: was like, spin out my mouth, how are you doing?

892
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't dry humping. That should but I didn't come

893
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: from it for real game. Damn. You must have really

894
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: had some reference. I don't know if I ever came

895
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,800
Speaker 1: from dry humping. Yeah I did. It's kind of designed

896
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: for me to do that. You remember your first orgasm, Karen,

897
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, um, she remembers. It's just want

898
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: to say, trying how to say it in trying to

899
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: without like like oh, she talking about me. Yeah, well

900
00:47:54,360 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: we want to hear. Yeah, She's like, now we definitely

901
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 1: still um we're Instagram friends. UM. Nice, you know it's

902
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: we've known each other for a very long time. Um,

903
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: it's probably like the third person I've ever slept with.

904
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: Um yeah, did you know what it was when it happened?

905
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: I kind of want to say it, but like I

906
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: really can't. You holding that, Mike, because for me to

907
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: tell the whole overall, the whole, overall experience I got,

908
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: it's like it needs the backstory and it's just it's

909
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: about it. He was just fine. It's just everything was

910
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: just everything was just fine. It just it felt like

911
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: just one of those those BT movies or just like

912
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: something from lifetime. It should just Chisel Chest just he's

913
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: just fine and still is just fine as fuck. And

914
00:48:55,719 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say that because he's still get it now. Yes, friends,

915
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: did you know? Did you know? What? Was? Like explained

916
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: to me? Like when you had an orgasm? Did you

917
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: know what was going to you know? But that's why

918
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: I was like, it goes into having instructions and I

919
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: felt bad because he had to explained a lot to me,

920
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, which at the time I'm like, oh,

921
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: he must be a hope. But he was a little

922
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: bit more seasoned obviously. Um, he was like your teacher. Yeah,

923
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 1: he was basically schooling me to a lot of things,

924
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: and I did. I had a lot of first with him.

925
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: First you know, no, you know economy put it in

926
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:38,720
Speaker 1: your mouth? Okay, uh huh? Oral on each other pretty

927
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: much and just like different positions and stuff like that.

928
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: Did he make you come from oral or is it

929
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: through sex? Sex? Okay? Really cameras, I'll definitely show you

930
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: put you Okay, I can see it. That was an

931
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: attraction thing because for women, I think Jasmin is more

932
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: mental than it is for you. Michael, Sorry, no I

933
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: didn't you know y'all could come. Yeah, be fine when

934
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: you think about when you think about that dude, just

935
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: like dark skin, just take the top off. You got

936
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: the sixth pack happening? Just who should you see in movies?

937
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: And it's like in your real life in your bedroom,

938
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: you're like, damn, my pool this not to say it

939
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: like that, but just super fine, but has that ever happened?

940
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: And then like you get to the bedroom and he

941
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: has like a little dick or something or a disappointing.

942
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: Dick doesn't have to be Yeah, yeah, I've had that one.

943
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:42,479
Speaker 1: He really was like he really was going hard, thinking

944
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,839
Speaker 1: he was doing something, and you were like, I can't

945
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: feel it, it's not my Look okay, can we can

946
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:55,280
Speaker 1: we give you this process? But I feel like women

947
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 1: all right the best man because we really you still

948
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 1: went through with it, right, you still want the performance

949
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: like a global like the Academy Award or something. Quitter

950
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: that Dick goes off a certain bitches. Yeah, we gotta

951
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: just finish it out. We have not fair. There's a job.

952
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: We gotta tax somebody next time. Well what about your

953
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: first orgasm? Like, I don't know how to say orgasm, Um,

954
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: I just really enjoy nothing. I don't know. I think

955
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: that's the not the orgasm the same. No, I don't think.

956
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:38,959
Speaker 1: Well if you time, I like from getting like funk

957
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 1: that did not happen. It's it's not been that good

958
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: from that. I just the first time was like bottom

959
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 1: in the not consent kind of so not great. Um,

960
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: when I actually enjoy sex a different way, completely coherent

961
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: and in a more preferred position, it was a much

962
00:51:56,200 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: better time. What's your favorite position? Um? With which one Um,

963
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: this is lazy. It's nice to be roaded. Um yeah

964
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: that way to be road. Someone ride and that means

965
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: your bottom No, no, no, no, yeah, Um, I'm just

966
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: picturing it all side. No, I don't know. It's like

967
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: when we ride, we all sitting here trying to picture like,

968
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: oh okay, okay, we're not like looking at me like

969
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: the other way. That's my favorite. But I do enjoy

970
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: it as a It's like an extra Sometimes it's nice

971
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: and then I have to like look and make that connects.

972
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,439
Speaker 1: You just want to actually enjoy the act. So yeah,

973
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: but you like the look, you don't like the look? No,

974
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: not all the time. Sometime just like turn around and

975
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: just you're still not okay with sex. I feel like, yeah,

976
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to look at anybody. No, I'm still no,

977
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm still I like sex. It's the intimacy part. Yes,

978
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: that's what we'll work out through therapy. Yeah, because when

979
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: I didn't actually answer your piggyback question, like my parents

980
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 1: are not the best example of marriage. So I'm working

981
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: through the thing where I realized that sometimes I would

982
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: think that actually entering like a relationship probably could be

983
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: more harmful to you sometimes especially if you have like

984
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: certain dreams and something you want to accomplish. I think

985
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: it's my parents as two people who did not want

986
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 1: to get married and being a family, and they didn't

987
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 1: separate large because my mom didn't want to be on welfare.

988
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: And so I find like in these very yes and

989
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 1: this very difficult situation where like I feel like sometimes

990
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: like you might be with somebody, might even care about them,

991
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: but the circumstances kind of just broke that up. And

992
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: so and every time that I've gotten close to somebody

993
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 1: on that level, it hasn't it as it hasn't worked

994
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: out with like the sex parter like this or something

995
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: that happened. So yes, I like the intimacy part. I'm

996
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: still working through trying to actually just find that connection

997
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: and enjoy it. But I can at least enjoy the

998
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:57,720
Speaker 1: act now during sex, even I'm not a big crier.

999
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: Um No, my ideal for years look like my adeal

1000
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: sex like sex is like I'm actually in love with

1001
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: the person that I'm with and we're like it'll be

1002
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: that way. Like I'm low key kind of like a yes.

1003
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: So that hasn't really happened for me in the gender

1004
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: neutral way. How are you going to ever get that?

1005
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: So we're what I mean was like I haven't gotten that,

1006
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: so I can. I can at least enjoy the nuts,

1007
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: like the physical thing, because that was me overcoming my

1008
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: pair of intimacy about like don of aids and all

1009
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Now I'm just kind of get

1010
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: like I actually can make a connection with somebody and

1011
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: enjoy it the way that I were like more ideal

1012
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: with like a partner, and I meanwhile, I can enjoy

1013
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: like the act itself. So that's why I'm like, you

1014
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: can turn around and do that because I don't really

1015
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: like to like that I did once, Um, but no,

1016
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: it's just it's more like a passionate thing. Me. That's

1017
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 1: just just that sweat and it just yes, one of

1018
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: a passionated know but what made you cry? Like what

1019
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: was that like emotion that brong? Like how because of

1020
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: the person that I was with that I was mentioned earlier,

1021
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,280
Speaker 1: it was just like, oh my gosh, this is happening

1022
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: because we had these feelings for each other, but it

1023
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: was just like unspoken. So finally this was our first

1024
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 1: time together. It was like real magical, just some TV

1025
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: and it's like it was like some TV shows like

1026
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: Whispering in My Ear. It just felt so like it

1027
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: just it felt so unreal. So I was like, well,

1028
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: I didn't it work out with him? Right? He's not

1029
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: like French Charming because he was a home he took

1030
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuffs in the ear. But but

1031
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 1: he made you feel special when he was with you.

1032
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Really what about threesome? Have you ever

1033
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: had a threesome? I'm not there yet. I didn't share

1034
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: it yet. Now, yeah, I'm not had a three you like, no,

1035
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: not know the one. I have not had a three.

1036
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: So like what if like you would never like once

1037
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: say you're married. I can't say never say never. I

1038
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: don't know what the future, um, what's to come in

1039
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: the future. But just I haven't had it yet, just

1040
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: like I'm not. I gotta be in a full situation

1041
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: where I have fully comfortable and we're there. I haven't

1042
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: gotten to a relationship aspect where it's just like we've

1043
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: ever discussed that. Like, so, have you ever had a

1044
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 1: situation where you've been with the same person for a while? Right,

1045
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: And y'all want to spice things up a little bit,

1046
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,439
Speaker 1: what's one thing or a couple of things that y'all

1047
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: would do to kind of spice it up a little bit,

1048
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: like with some point is we could give some people, Um,

1049
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: I'm probably threesomes because I feel like a lot of

1050
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: people go to threesomes as like that thing to do,

1051
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 1: you know, you know in l A, we got this,

1052
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: we got the stores, define, we have things for you,

1053
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 1: definitely have things for the bedroom. And my birthday shout

1054
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:03,320
Speaker 1: out to my friend CC. She gave me the most

1055
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to say ridiculous with sexual toys and everything.

1056
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh, yeah, this is a holster,

1057
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: this is a dick lock. This is you know what

1058
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: that it's to lock his like to lock his dick from.

1059
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: It's just a whole it's a whole thing you put

1060
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: the lock. We gotta get you know, is okay, It's

1061
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: basically it's why do you lock a dick? It's basically

1062
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: this harness thing that you put over you put you're

1063
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: supposed to put over the dick, like you can keep

1064
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: on it, you can keep the key to chastity belt.

1065
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry particular Bay noting, but that's more for like

1066
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: women back in the day they used to do. But

1067
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: it's it's for it's for him, Like she just gave

1068
00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: me the most random things. She's like, she's you need

1069
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: to get into packages are still closed, but we're gonna

1070
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into them. I'm cleaning in my house

1071
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: Saturday that I found all times. Should I've never used,

1072
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: like I have this Diry dices. Anybody ever used the

1073
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: dice where you're we all got dice. That was like

1074
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: one of the first things I bought, like just yeah,

1075
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: I got I got the dice. And then back in

1076
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 1: the day, like my first kid, I'm on Marion sent

1077
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 1: out a kid and then Candy sends out kids get stuff.

1078
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: So I should be waiting for them to update me.

1079
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: Just set me up in the hood. Just set me

1080
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 1: up in the bill. Keep it right there. Explain the

1081
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 1: dice to the confused game man, what are the dis

1082
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: like two dice? It's like and you roll, it'd be

1083
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: like licks on one of them to be like lick

1084
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: touched whatever deal and then then a body part. Oh yeah,

1085
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 1: so you like shake them up group. I hope you

1086
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: get embarrassed to try to bring up something you want

1087
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: to try with somebody you're with, Like I want to

1088
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: try this, but I don't know how to bring it up. Yeah,

1089
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: and I don't know how to bring it up. Bring

1090
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: it up, someone to do it with? What do you

1091
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: want to do? Uh? No, I'm actually the sex part

1092
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: stuff is like it's well, I want to achieve like

1093
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: the R and B version of what I think. I'm

1094
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: not really a good home I'm just nasty that I

1095
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 1: actually I'm really into Okay, what makes you what's nasty? Uh?

1096
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: If I'm gonna I like to do with like honey,

1097
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: I like treats the sex. I don't know what sex

1098
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 1: shop somebody brought me to, but it was something as

1099
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: you wrapped around it around. No, it was like a

1100
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 1: dick roll up kind of like that. Yeah, that was

1101
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 1: a good time you roll up. It reminded me of

1102
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: my youth. Um, that was fun. But yeah, I guess

1103
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 1: it has been four years. I told you I'm gonna

1104
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 1: suck a dick for you in two thousand. You're looking

1105
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: for a trainer, right, I'm gonna tell you right now,

1106
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: sucking dick with honey. But time and anytime that you

1107
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: initiated something that you wanted to try in the bedroom

1108
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 1: that was like a little different, a little freaky. I'll

1109
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: introduce it like when you're in the process of like

1110
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: heated sex and then it's just like, oh do this,

1111
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: do this, like this, or I feel like I'm giving

1112
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 1: too much. Um, you know, I like places, if that

1113
01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: makes sense. Sometimes a bedroom was crazy, but like the balcony,

1114
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: and like I like a nice view, you know, not

1115
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: necessarily an audience, but yeah, I want my environment to

1116
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: be the audience. So like nice patio, just a nice view.

1117
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: What if you notice somebody watching you but from far,

1118
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 1: like they don't have no camera, no nothing, and they're

1119
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: just watching, like on the balcony. Depends on keep going.

1120
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm put on the before many I'm living. I'm living

1121
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: my best. What about you Malibu being in a relationship,

1122
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 1: you know the same thing that she said, It was

1123
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: different places, Like I didn't give my head in a

1124
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: cab before, Like so before he was crossing that special experience.

1125
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: You don't have the cab driver watching okay, you know,

1126
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: you know the cab that had that big clastic thing

1127
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: over face. So we were good. But no, we was

1128
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: in traffic. Actually when we had when I just hopped

1129
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: on them and had sex, it was in traffic. Just

1130
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: the we have the turtle top things. That's different still

1131
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: we got we still got the rock and just see

1132
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: possible because the cat feel like they you can't hide

1133
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 1: in a cab. But that's still kinky. Yeah, like you know,

1134
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: they barely know English half the time. That time a

1135
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 1: little bit. We had cameras in there now too, Yes,

1136
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: the watch it later. I would be so nervous. I

1137
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 1: don't know that I could do that. That's the whole

1138
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: chinky part of what about in the elevator? That he

1139
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,520
Speaker 1: always felt like it's too short? What quickie is that?

1140
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: Like I don't even want it. I mean once you

1141
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 1: start kissing or just like start touching some stuff, now

1142
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: that'until Yeah, that's how you like the ANTICTI patient to

1143
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: getting into the room or whatever. But doing that offices

1144
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: and stuff like office buildings, and I'm like, I haven't

1145
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: done nothing. I'm not big enough. That's not I mean,

1146
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: the elevator is not long enough ride me personally, but

1147
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: some people you can start between floors and stuff like that,

1148
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 1: and then you end up stuck in the elevator for

1149
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: the rest of the day. And that little quickie with

1150
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: it just seems like a mission in itself. So what

1151
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 1: about in about public bathroom? Yeah, ely I would be

1152
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: down after the club. He's at your nigga, you're not drunk,

1153
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: you get popping in the bathroom? Yeah, I never. I

1154
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: never got that far in to the bathroom. One of

1155
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 1: my home girls had sex in the bathmatical get her

1156
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 1: because you say, excuse me, mid pomp. No, she was

1157
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: drunk as hell, and so she had texted me. Happened.

1158
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: She had texted me and it was somebody she was dating.

1159
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 1: She had texted me and was like, Yo, I'm too

1160
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 1: junk to John, can you come get me. I was

1161
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: at home in bed with my dude at the time.

1162
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta go get my friend. She's drunk,

1163
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 1: right because I don't know what was going on. So

1164
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 1: I get to the restaurant and I'm like, I'm looking

1165
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 1: for my friend. There was no one else in there.

1166
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 1: It was like about to close. She was like, yeah,

1167
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: she's in the bathroom. It's not cool. You need to

1168
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: go get her. And I was like, oh, ship, now

1169
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm knocking on the door. She came out and she

1170
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 1: was like, hey, not cool the way I swear to guy.

1171
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: She was like, it's not cool. Okay, you need to

1172
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 1: get her. And I was like, all right, I mean,

1173
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 1: I think that's cool. What are some other places that

1174
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: we could try besides the car, the bathroom, a cab.

1175
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, that's pretty much a lot of places.

1176
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: I asked sex a woman or a park on the

1177
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 1: slide you know how the slide kid came and was

1178
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: like it was like it was like no, like they

1179
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:15,479
Speaker 1: just slit in the custan. What's that? Oh my god,

1180
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: I feel bad. I read the park. I definitely had

1181
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: sex in the park when I was younger. To the

1182
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 1: pool obviously, but that ship is whack ex because you

1183
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: don't want mutter in your vagina yea, and then it doesn't.

1184
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 1: You don't. It's there, and you don't really like if

1185
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 1: you feel something, but you don't really feel nothing like

1186
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: I'm like a before the ocean though, definitely getting on

1187
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: salt water and that's over here. That's an affection. That's

1188
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: the same, bachel. I see you. I was gonna say,

1189
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: I can't swim. I thought I have done things in

1190
01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 1: the public in the restaroom, but public bathrooms are discussed

1191
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: and especially like to natives, but in New York it's like,

1192
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,919
Speaker 1: but you have to touch anything, Yeah, just smell. Every

1193
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,959
Speaker 1: time I go into a public bathroom, particularly in the city,

1194
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 1: I lose a little bit of faith in humanity. It

1195
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: depends on the public bathroom you're going to. Like in

1196
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: a certain restaurants, obviously you're the nicest place I'm like

1197
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: to like. But in a real nice restaurant, you got

1198
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: your whole own ship. Yeah, kind of just like you're good.

1199
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: But like if it's it depends if you at forty forty,

1200
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: you gotta be careful. You got that's a that's a

1201
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: unisex bathroom there, so they'd be sucking up a notion.

1202
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: Sorry what you have, but you have a lot of

1203
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: privacy in those bathrooms. You do have privacy in the bathroom,

1204
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 1: but everybody's weal getting in and out of them. I

1205
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: would be too scared to get caught for some ship

1206
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 1: like that. I just depend like how many people around?

1207
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 1: How late is it? Is it a place I wouldn't

1208
01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: want to do it as a place I go to

1209
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 1: a lot, even it's gonna be like some place I

1210
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: don't really be at like that, you know, Yeah, they're

1211
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 1: gonna be like Angela wasn't here. Fucking you guys feel

1212
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: like there's somebody that you dated before they got away,

1213
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 1: Like if I could go back in time. He would

1214
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: have been good. I shouldn't have sucked up. No, you

1215
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: g that mad quick. There's only one person I was like,

1216
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: we didn't get today, but the one I said, I

1217
01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: would say, because everyone else know, I'm realizing this is parking.

1218
01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 1: Know that, like everything was supposed to happen for a reason.

1219
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: You learn something from that, or you don't learn anything.

1220
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 1: You just move on. Does a significant other know that

1221
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: you would do that? I don't have one, So I said,

1222
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: he don't have one? Um, I thought you said he

1223
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: was in a relationship. I said it was unavailable. Unavailable? Yeah,

1224
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:48,479
Speaker 1: not available to me? Yeah? What does that? That would

1225
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 1: give it away? But he's not available to me? Uh yeah,

1226
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 1: I think that would be a problem. I have somebody,

1227
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: but then you cross that ridgim you get to it.

1228
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: Um as him? Now, No, that'll be all right. I'm single, Karen.

1229
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:08,919
Speaker 1: Is anybody who got away from you that you feel

1230
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: like you wish you could go back in time? No? No, No,

1231
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 1: they're probably thinking that. But for me on this side, No,

1232
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: did you ever sunk up a relationship and feel like

1233
01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: this was my fault? Yeah? I definitely did. My my

1234
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 1: first relationship, I definitely funked up. But then he combatd

1235
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,720
Speaker 1: but sucking up too, so he let my funk up

1236
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 1: be the reason, like, oh you was working up, so

1237
01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: now I got to do it too. But um I

1238
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: look at him now, I'm like, I'm good. Dodge the bullets. Yeah,

1239
01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm like that was a good thing on mine. I

1240
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 1: do be looking at something of my ex is like,

1241
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 1: thank god, yeah that was that. I'm like, yeah, really

1242
01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: texted you know that? She laughs like, bitch, clown the cloudship.

1243
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 1: And I'll put and she's like clown. Bit like it.

1244
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: She'll tell me all dollar like nah, don't talk to him,

1245
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 1: and then we end up talking to the motherfucker anywhere.

1246
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 1: We'll go look at this clim We end up we

1247
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 1: knew what the funk we were doing. You're always in

1248
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 1: retrospect when you look back at how you was going

1249
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 1: crazy over somebody, and then you look back at the

1250
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 1: when you're in the middle of it, you're like, oh

1251
01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 1: my god, I'm gonna die now. You won't even pick

1252
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 1: up the phone for that, were like, I'm good. I

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Speaker 1: new Year Knew Me? What are some things for nineteen

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Speaker 1: what about you can what are some things in the

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Speaker 1: new year that you feel like New Year knew Me? Sexual?

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Speaker 1: Just just experienced this period. Um, just experience this period

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Speaker 1: lot of things. I was just doing a lot of

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Speaker 1: I don't feel they say every woman can square. I

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Speaker 1: The butt thing is hard for me. I have to

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Speaker 1: I have a bonus. If it helps, I would I

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Speaker 1: and walk away up public. But listen, I want to

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Speaker 1: thank you all for coming through, you know, thank you

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Speaker 1: New Year. We got a lot of things that we

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Speaker 1: need to work on. I think what's important is sometimes

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Speaker 1: people feel like talking about sex is like so taboo,

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Speaker 1: but I think it's important for us to do it

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Speaker 1: like in this type of positive environment. But we can

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Speaker 1: have fun sex. It's fun, you know, So I don't

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Speaker 1: want people to feel like, oh, you're loosening me up. Yes, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad I could be there for you. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think somebody said to me one time, like, it's

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Speaker 1: hard for me to like, say, to defend certain things

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Speaker 1: you know, or to men or to anybody. It's really

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Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. You should be able to express

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Speaker 1: that with no problem. So with that being said, second,

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