WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Timers Club 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.240 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.440 Date podcast and today, honestly like it's incredible to be 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:10.720 part of anyone's love journey period, right, so they invite 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:13.400 us in. But today we've got a guy who has 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:15.520 never been on a date before. 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:17.560 Ever so wholesome. 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:20.480 Yes, yes, he's twenty five years old. 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:24.680 It's his very first date and he called us for help. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:26.880 I don't know if he should have, but we'll be 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.680 talking him probably the next five years and see how 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:30.920 dating goes from Yes, yeah. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.800 So you got you got that brand new episode about 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:34.200 to start. 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:37.519 But first comments, Yeah, pop Tarta too, he said the 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:38.080 other day. 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:40.720 This is one of the best episodes I've heard. I 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:43.120 listen to you guys every time I'm driving somewhere, and 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.240 this had me dying. I genuinely hope you guys never 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:47.120 stopped making these. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.120 I can see myself being seventy and still listening to 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:50.960 this podcast. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:52.159 I hope. 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:55.160 It will be one hundred and twenty. 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:57.319 Yeah, it's like so telling me. 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:07.160 That's not a yeah. Did he holograph into your mind? 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:11.360 Okay, listen, we got a brand new episode started right now. 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:13.520 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:15.039 Second date updates. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.640 You know, personally, I like the second date updates where 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:21.120 people haven't really been dating for a while and they 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:22.400 need to jump back. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:22.839 On the horse. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:26.280 Hey, you know, slide back into the hot to no time. 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.280 Whatever the saying is, you. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:31.480 Know, your key back in the bowl? 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.520 Yeah, exactly. 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:35.559 And I'm assuming that's the case for our listener Sam, 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:39.240 because he said in his email dating is foreign to him? 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:42.520 Does that mean he just likes foreign chicks? 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:43.440 I don't blame him. 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:44.160 Hard for me to. 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:52.080 Read between the lines here, So let's find out Sam. Yeah, guys, 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:54.920 I'm talking to Sam. He's in the foreigner Sam. Can't 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:56.160 you understand what I'm saying. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.560 I don't speak that language. 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.000 French people don't speak that language either. 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:02.880 I see. 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:04.640 So what do you mean when you say dating is 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.520 foreign to you? How long has it been since you 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:07.200 went on a date? 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:09.800 Uh? Forever? 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:10.800 Oh? 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:11.120 Wait? 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:11.799 No? 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.040 Wait, honestly, like, have you ever been on a date? 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:15.799 That's not not being sarcastic? 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.639 No, I mean forever. This is the first date I've 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:20.320 ever been on. 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:25.160 Oh okay, you're telling you it's awesome. You're saying you've 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:27.440 never been on an actual date with a woman before. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:28.560 In your entire life. 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:33.120 No, I've always wanted to, but at twenty five I 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:36.240 finally got my first taste and then it vanished again. 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.079 So don't no good for you? 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.079 I mean it makes sense like you're twenty five, Like the. 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:44.519 COVID era like really screwed your guys's social lives up, 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.240 you know, like postponed everything. 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:47.920 So here we are, Yeah, so who are we going 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:49.160 to be calling here? What's her name? 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.120 Her name is Witty, Witty Witty. 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.000 Yeah, okay cool. 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:55.919 How'd you meet her? 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.520 So? I'm a graduate assistant at a chemistry lab for 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:04.080 a local university and we had a situation working with 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:06.200 this company. They have people come in a few times 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.560 a week to use their lab facilities, and she's one 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.320 of those people. So I got to know her a little. 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.680 This way, you're actually you. 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:17.799 Learning about each other, right, I have to know how 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:19.600 long did it take you to work up the nerve 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:20.359 to ask her out? 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:26.400 I couldn't really pick up that she was interested the 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:30.320 first few times, you know, and then she hinted at 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:33.480 wanting to get together, and then I asked her out. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:38.040 Okay, that's good that she kind of stepped up. How 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:39.480 did you do it? What was your approach. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.280 I mean, I just basically I wrote on a piece 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:47.360 of lab paper and I wrote, what would you say 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.240 to a cute guy in a lab coat if you 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:50.480 want to take you out to dinner? 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:55.080 And she said, yes, all right, this is all going 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:56.920 off to a good start, especially for your first date. 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:57.880 So where did you guys go? 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:02.840 So it was weird because it was actually the same 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.920 day she was working at the lab, so we kind 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:09.120 of clocked out at the same time, and she asked, like, 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.680 where are you taking me to? And I realized I 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:13.080 kind of forgot about that part. 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:15.520 Oh you didn't think. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.360 Oh, because it was happening right then. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.640 In the day. Yeah. So we went to this drink 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:25.080 place nearby. They had an outdoor patio, but nobody else 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:26.880 was on the patio because it was cold. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.000 Oh, so you guys sat on the patio and the cold. 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:32.880 Well, I didn't want to complain, and I asked to 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:37.680 serve if the restaurant had some blankets, and yeah, and 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.839 they did, and I ended up with two big blankets 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:41.800 around me while we got to know each other. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:44.600 Oh, just just for you were the blankets. You didn't 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:45.800 give any blankets to Witty. 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:47.800 Yeah, Usually if they bring out two. It's one for 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:50.279 you and one for two for yourself. 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.080 Well, after I had them, I realized, though, I should 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.400 probably offer her one, and I did, and she said 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:57.080 she was fine. 0:04:57.560 --> 0:05:02.040 Yeah, Daud, you're already snuggled up with the I mean, 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:04.240 I know it's your first date, but that's like all right. 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:07.440 At some point I was like, I was just nervous, 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.200 and I went thinking. 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.839 Straight, that's an interesting look to be outdoors on a 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.680 patio wearing two blankets on a first date. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:18.080 I know it sounds ridiculous, but I think I made 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:21.000 it look cool because I had one like a cape. 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:24.120 Like a superhero Joe. 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:26.400 Superheroes. 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.400 All right, what did you guys connect about? 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.680 We did like questions like put your stuck on a 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.560 deserted island and you could only bring three things, what 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.240 would you bring? Yeah? 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.039 I always hook up right after that question. 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.600 I don't want to know what you say you bring this. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:44.240 It depends on me. 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:48.000 Yeah, it really depends on how you answer. What was 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:48.560 your answer? 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:51.320 Well? I told her first toilet paper, because that's a 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:52.599 very underrated commodity. 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:54.440 Okay, that's true. Okay. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:58.440 She was like, well, what about food? And I was like, well, sure, 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:01.560 you couldn't eat anything, but what are you gonna wipe with? 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:05.320 So you really stuck on that toilet paper answer? 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:07.960 Okay, were you guys laughing about it or did it 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:10.640 feel like it kind of evolved into bathroom talk? 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.560 No, it wasn't the whole conversation. It was just she 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:18.600 kind of was giving me a hard time about it, 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:22.560 like cracking jokes. So it was fine. But the day 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:26.240 only lasted an hour, and I mean, it's my first 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:28.800 date ever, so I don't know if that's normal. 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:32.559 Or not sitting outside in the cold for an hour 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:33.560 means she liked you? 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:37.160 Yeah, especially doesn't this after work too? Yes, that's a. 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.880 Long day after the drinks were all done. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:40.840 How did it end? 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.640 Well, I don't know when you're supposed to kiss, so 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:45.440 I just kind of sat in my car and waited 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:51.200 for her to make a move, but she didn't. You Well, 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.080 one of my friends he said that he did that 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:54.760 and he got flapped in the face. So I didn't 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:55.600 want to offend her. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:59.360 You're being extra cautious. Okay, So what's happened since then? 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:01.839 I saw her in the lab last week, but she 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:04.080 didn't talk to me, so I don't know. 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.640 Do you know, is she very experienced with dating because 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.320 maybe she didn't talk to you because she was nervous. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:13.240 She said she had a couple of boyfriends before. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.480 Okay, that's helpful for you. 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.520 Wait, did she know that it was your first date? 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:19.240 Did that come up? 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.720 I did not slat out say it was my first date, 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:27.200 but I alluded to the fact that I don't date often. 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:31.200 Okay, Okay, by often you mean forever. And I appreciate 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:31.840 what she did there. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.160 So so you and I both know that, Yes, we 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.720 know because we speak French together. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:37.320 The language of love. 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:39.720 Yes, and we're going to get her to hop on 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:43.560 board the love train. Jeff we'll say it and get 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.360 you another date with your second date update. 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:46.400 Right after this, hold on. 0:07:46.400 --> 0:07:50.200 Man Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date update. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:54.760 Two chemistry students walk into a lab. One says, hey, 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:57.280 you want to go on a date. The other says, 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:06.160 only if it's a stable relationship hip because elements are 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:10.000 aren't stable and some are electron ratios. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.240 Aren't laughing, not because they don't get it. 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:16.200 Yeah, oh man, the ap M students at Sam's College 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.040 would be going crazy. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:18.440 For that joke. 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:20.560 They would write a way better joke than that. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.040 I'll tell you. Sam's been going crazy over a woman 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:27.520 named Witty who works part time at his lab after 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:31.400 he took her out on his very first date ever. 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:32.920 I bet he's not going to be able to talk 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:34.560 to us because he heard your joke and he can't 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:35.200 stop laughing. 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:36.200 He's still laughing. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:36.439 Right. 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.600 Here's given more time to recover. 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:40.920 But if you missed it, there were drinks, there were 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:45.560 blankets involved, but there only on Sam. But there has 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:48.240 been a total lack of communication since then, so he 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:49.160 needs our help. 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:50.080 Sam. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:51.920 Have you recovered laughing from my joke yet? 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.400 Yeah? I think so. 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:57.400 Get one in. 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:01.319 I enjoyed that pretty laugh. Hey, this is your very 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:03.760 first date, so I don't think that you. I don't know. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.280 I'm just worried that we're gonna get her on the 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.000 phone and she's gonna say something hurtful. 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.080 Ouch, why would she? 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.000 Why would you jump immediately to she's definitely gonna say 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.439 something that's gonna hurt Yeah. 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.280 I mean dating can be hard, and don't take that 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:19.600 personally like, just because you're not a good match with 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.600 this person doesn't mean you won't be with the next. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.480 Brook has given up on this before we started, Sam, 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:27.440 So she's saying, get ready for a consolation. Anyone's first 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:30.080 time for anything. It only goes up from there. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:31.880 Thank you, Jose, Jose gets me. 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:33.760 Yeah, I get you. Sam, Do you get it? 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:35.920 Yeah, I've prepared myself. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:37.920 And also on the other side, don't be too excited 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:39.800 if she says it's the best date that she's ever 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:40.160 been on. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:44.960 You give me excited. Oh sure, take your wins. Take 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:45.480 your wins. 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:49.160 Okay, So are we gonna call her, just talk about it. 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.040 We're just gonna think of more scenarios of telling you 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.360 how you should feel when you hear other things. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:55.920 We're just gonna go over what if a bunch. 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:57.840 Jeff I was just trying to be kind, ok. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.520 Guy, All right, let's be kind to a listeners and 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:02.240 dial her number and see if she picks up. Here 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:12.920 we go, Hello, Hey, is this Witty? 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:15.679 Yes, it is hey Witty. 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.120 This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:18.640 in the Morning. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:23.320 Welcome to the show, Witty, Good morning, Good morning. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:28.200 What's this? Why are you calling me? 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:30.240 Well, we're doing something on our show. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.920 We call it the second Date Update where we try 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.120 to help out listeners who've gone out with someone recently 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.040 and they're not getting a call back for another date. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:39.800 We try to reach out and figure out if there's 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:40.600 a reason why. 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:46.800 Oh this seems weird. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:48.480 It is a little weird. I think it'd be weird 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.840 to get a phone call like this. That's understandable. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:57.400 Yeah, it's It's supposed to be like a really fun 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:00.600 segment because we're trying to help educate people, specially our listeners, 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.560 if they did something wrong. So you went out with 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:08.119 a guy named Sam, Yes, I did. 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:09.920 You? 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.240 And say I met at the lab that he works at. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:17.360 Yeah, we did go on a date. Okay, and I 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.800 think that's it. That's the end of. 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:25.079 The end, all right, Well, is there a reason that 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.880 you haven't been talking to Sam a lot since the 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:30.600 date happened? Because he said, you've run by each other 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:33.840 in the lab, but you aren't really speaking to one another. 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.720 Yeah, it was just like a kind of a weird date. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.800 It was just a little strange. 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:43.600 She seemed really nervous. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:46.800 Oh yeah, okay, what part was. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:48.280 Because you're a great gal? 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:50.880 Yeah, you're a beautiful woman who wouldn't be nervous to 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:51.199 go out. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:53.240 Sure, what part was strange to you? 0:11:54.240 --> 0:12:00.079 Well, I mean their conversation was fine, he asked me, no, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:03.200 had I been in a relationship and I was like, yeah, 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.800 We've been in two long term ones in the last 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.800 five years, okay, and I just got out. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:13.960 Of one like six months ago. And then he was like, well, 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:17.280 I went to Amsterdam last year by myself. 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.040 And I was like, oh, okay. 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:21.360 Cool, traveling the world. 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:24.080 Yeah, I mean, just trying to share stuff about himself, 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:25.360 right sure. 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:27.439 And then he was like, I've been to a lot 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:32.720 of places like that, like I have experience. Like he 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:35.240 kind of like leaned in and was like, I have. 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.800 Experience experience what experience traveling? 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:42.640 I don't know, like in like these places. I was like, 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:45.319 are you like some pervert that just goes. 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:49.319 To like different red light districts and am you know, wait. 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.079 Did he bring up red light districts to you or 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.800 are you just assuming that he. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:56.000 Didn't mention red light districts. But this is like right. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.000 After I mentioned I had two boyfriends, so we were 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:00.800 talking about relationships, we weren't talking about travel. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:04.959 So you read that as Sam is bragging about traveling 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:07.840 all over the world, going to different red light districts 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:10.080 and has tons of experience. 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:12.440 Yeah, that's how you read it. 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.839 But let's find out if that's really true. 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:16.160 Is that a question I'm going to ask you. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.920 Well, Witty deserves to know the answer, because that's exactly 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.480 what's holding her back from talking to again. And I 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:24.240 need to tell you. Sam's on the other line of 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.000 this phone call listening right now. 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:31.800 Oh no, yeah. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.520 He did not pay for this call, just so you know, 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:33.599 it was free. 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:36.360 Sam. 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:37.960 Hey, how is it going? 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:38.520 Oh? 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:44.440 Oh wow, I said, I had then to answer, and yeah, 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:46.840 I told you that way. That was between you and I. 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:51.080 Are you confirming or denying the red light district thing? 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.600 Oh? I went through? Yeah, I went. I went to 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:58.080 those places. I was there. That's like part of the experience. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:58.880 No, it's not. 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:04.440 Did you partake in it as a different story? 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:04.640 Wait? 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:08.040 No, did you use that as your experience of relationships 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:08.480 as well? 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:09.360 On the first date? 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:12.240 Well, I said that because you said you had so 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:15.600 many boyfriends, and I wanted to say something to show 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:17.400 that I have experienced as well. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:21.920 Oh why, I don't know if we need the details. 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:26.120 No, yike, I just. 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:33.720 I'm totally weirded out by you comparing like relationships with 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:35.880 meeting up with sex workers. 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:38.000 Like it's just very odd. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:42.920 I'm weirded out by you, to be honest, trying to 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:43.720 figure out why. 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:48.800 But maybe Okay, I mean I have to confess you're 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:50.080 my first day ever. 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.120 Okay, what is that? 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:55.960 Wasn't your emergency safeguard? 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.040 That's the one thing that you probably didn't know. 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:01.760 Witty, What do you mean? How is that possible? How 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:02.400 old are you? 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.680 I've never been on a date before? 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.080 Why not a date? 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:13.280 I didn't want distractions for a long time of my studies, 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:17.680 and then now that I'm older, I feel more inclined 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:18.440 to do that. 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:24.000 I just can't believe that you've gone this far without 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:28.600 ever going on a single dated. 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:30.400 That's another red flag. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.600 Yeah, I'm just it's red lights and red flags. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:39.280 But I meant to Amsterdam before, like I said, so 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:40.520 I do have experience. 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:42.720 No, no, no, don't go down. 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:45.560 I know you haven't been on like any actual dates before, 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:48.320 but a lot of the times people don't want to 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:52.440 discuss their experience until, like at least date number two. 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.720 It's not something to talk about, it something to show later. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:59.280 Let the work. 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:03.920 Yes, I can totally do that. 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:06.200 I don't know if the opportunity is still going to 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:08.800 be there after that conversation. He has experienced. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:10.720 He can totally do that. I like the confidence. 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:13.040 Yeah, I think it would be better if you were 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.280 just honest with people and said, hey, this is my 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:16.960 first date. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.200 I'm really nervous. 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.760 I don't know, but do not talk about your experience, 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:24.640 like yeah. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:26.640 God, American women are just so tight. 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:28.680 Oh my god. 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:33.480 That's more of a cut and dry transaction. But you know, 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:35.520 this is the part of the call Witty where we 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:38.160 would normally ask to send you out on another date 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:40.360 with Sam and we would pay for it. 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:42.440 But after all the talk about. 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.800 The red light district stuff, I feel like that. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:46.520 Even that is going too far. 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:48.520 Now you're not obligated to do anything. 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:51.120 No, true, it doesn't doesn't feel right. 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.080 Do you do you have any interest in seeing Sam 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:54.280 again outside of the lab? 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:59.680 No? Absolutely not. In fact, like you shouldn't ask out 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:00.840 any one in the lab. 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:05.160 Oh wait wait wait have you told people? 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.200 Yeah, I'm well now I am. 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:12.560 Now that's fine with me. I'm you know, I'm actually 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:13.399 kind of proud of it. 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.359 I have been like, yeah, I can't dot any more 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:18.520 people at work anymore. 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:21.760 Ran out of people. 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:25.800 Okay, answer, that's a good. 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:26.800 Oh wait, do we want to know? 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.440 I kind of think you're crossing the line by asking 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:31.960 me my sexual history. 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:37.919 Yeah, have you been too not inappropriate? 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:44.320 Inappropriate brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:48.480 You know, maybe Sam wasn't quite ready for his first date, 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:50.760 but he was definitely. 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:51.920 Ready for his second, if you know what I mean. 0:17:54.080 --> 0:17:56.560 He doesn't know how to kiss, can't pick a restaurant, 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.040 but boy, can he navigate the streets of that red light. 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:01.639 Yeah, so you're a second date type of guy. 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.080 I bet he could lead a guided tour for the 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:05.639 English speakers in Amsterdam. 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:09.240 It doesn't mean that he's gonna okay, I won't get 0:18:09.240 --> 0:18:09.960 into it, but. 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:15.159 This one and that one doesn't special. 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:17.800