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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second

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Speaker 1: Date podcast and today, honestly like it's incredible to be

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Speaker 1: part of anyone's love journey period, right, so they invite

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Speaker 1: us in. But today we've got a guy who has

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Speaker 1: never been on a date before.

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Speaker 2: Ever so wholesome.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, he's twenty five years old.

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Speaker 2: It's his very first date and he called us for help.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he should have, but we'll be

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Speaker 1: talking him probably the next five years and see how

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Speaker 1: dating goes from Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So you got you got that brand new episode about

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Speaker 2: to start.

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Speaker 1: But first comments, Yeah, pop Tarta too, he said the

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Speaker 1: other day.

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Speaker 2: This is one of the best episodes I've heard. I

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Speaker 2: listen to you guys every time I'm driving somewhere, and

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Speaker 2: this had me dying. I genuinely hope you guys never

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Speaker 2: stopped making these.

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Speaker 3: I can see myself being seventy and still listening to

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Speaker 3: this podcast.

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Speaker 4: I hope.

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Speaker 2: It will be one hundred and twenty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like so telling me.

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Speaker 2: That's not a yeah. Did he holograph into your mind?

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Speaker 1: Okay, listen, we got a brand new episode started right now.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Second date updates.

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Speaker 5: You know, personally, I like the second date updates where

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Speaker 5: people haven't really been dating for a while and they

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Speaker 5: need to jump back.

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Speaker 6: On the horse.

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Speaker 5: Hey, you know, slide back into the hot to no time.

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Speaker 6: Whatever the saying is, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, your key back in the bowl?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: And I'm assuming that's the case for our listener Sam,

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Speaker 5: because he said in his email dating is foreign to him?

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Speaker 5: Does that mean he just likes foreign chicks?

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Speaker 2: I don't blame him.

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Speaker 6: Hard for me to.

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Speaker 5: Read between the lines here, So let's find out Sam. Yeah, guys,

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Speaker 5: I'm talking to Sam. He's in the foreigner Sam. Can't

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Speaker 5: you understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I don't speak that language.

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Speaker 2: French people don't speak that language either.

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Speaker 6: I see.

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Speaker 5: So what do you mean when you say dating is

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Speaker 5: foreign to you? How long has it been since you

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Speaker 4: Uh? Forever?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait, honestly, like, have you ever been on a date?

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Speaker 2: That's not not being sarcastic?

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Speaker 4: No, I mean forever. This is the first date I've

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, you're telling you it's awesome. You're saying you've

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Speaker 5: In your entire life.

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Speaker 4: No, I've always wanted to, but at twenty five I

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Speaker 6: So don't no good for you?

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Speaker 2: I mean it makes sense like you're twenty five, Like the.

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Speaker 1: COVID era like really screwed your guys's social lives up,

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Speaker 5: So here we are, Yeah, so who are we going

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Speaker 4: Her name is Witty, Witty Witty.

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Speaker 2: How'd you meet her?

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Speaker 4: So? I'm a graduate assistant at a chemistry lab for

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Speaker 5: This way, you're actually you.

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Speaker 1: Learning about each other, right, I have to know how

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Speaker 1: long did it take you to work up the nerve

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Speaker 4: I couldn't really pick up that she was interested the

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's good that she kind of stepped up. How

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just basically I wrote on a piece

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Speaker 5: And she said, yes, all right, this is all going

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Speaker 6: So where did you guys go?

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Speaker 4: So it was weird because it was actually the same

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Speaker 6: Oh you didn't think.

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Speaker 4: In the day. Yeah. So we went to this drink

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you guys sat on the patio and the cold.

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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't want to complain, and I asked to

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Speaker 5: Oh, just just for you were the blankets. You didn't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Usually if they bring out two. It's one for

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Speaker 4: Well, after I had them, I realized, though, I should

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Speaker 4: At some point I was like, I was just nervous,

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Speaker 5: Straight, that's an interesting look to be outdoors on a

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Speaker 4: I know it sounds ridiculous, but I think I made

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Speaker 2: Like a superhero Joe.

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Speaker 6: Superheroes.

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Speaker 2: All right, what did you guys connect about?

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Speaker 4: We did like questions like put your stuck on a

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Speaker 6: I always hook up right after that question.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know what you say you bring this.

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Speaker 6: It depends on me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it really depends on how you answer. What was

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Speaker 4: Well? I told her first toilet paper, because that's a

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Speaker 4: She was like, well, what about food? And I was like, well, sure,

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Speaker 4: No, it wasn't the whole conversation. It was just she

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Speaker 4: like cracking jokes. So it was fine. But the day

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Speaker 1: Or not sitting outside in the cold for an hour

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially doesn't this after work too? Yes, that's a.

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Speaker 5: Long day after the drinks were all done.

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Speaker 6: How did it end?

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know when you're supposed to kiss, so

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Speaker 4: I just kind of sat in my car and waited

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Speaker 4: one of my friends he said that he did that

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Speaker 5: You're being extra cautious. Okay, So what's happened since then?

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Speaker 4: I saw her in the lab last week, but she

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Speaker 1: Do you know, is she very experienced with dating because

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Speaker 4: She said she had a couple of boyfriends before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's helpful for you.

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Speaker 5: Wait, did she know that it was your first date?

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Speaker 6: Did that come up?

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Speaker 4: I did not slat out say it was my first date,

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, by often you mean forever. And I appreciate

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Speaker 5: So so you and I both know that, Yes, we

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Speaker 5: know because we speak French together.

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Speaker 2: The language of love.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and we're going to get her to hop on

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Speaker 5: board the love train. Jeff we'll say it and get

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Speaker 5: you another date with your second date update.

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Speaker 6: Right after this, hold on.

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Speaker 3: Man Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date update.

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Speaker 5: Two chemistry students walk into a lab. One says, hey,

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Speaker 2: Aren't laughing, not because they don't get it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh man, the ap M students at Sam's College

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Speaker 6: For that joke.

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Speaker 2: They would write a way better joke than that.

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you. Sam's been going crazy over a woman

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Speaker 5: he took her out on his very first date ever.

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Speaker 1: I bet he's not going to be able to talk

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Speaker 6: He's still laughing.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 6: Here's given more time to recover.

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Speaker 5: But if you missed it, there were drinks, there were

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Speaker 6: Sam.

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Speaker 5: Have you recovered laughing from my joke yet?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I think so.

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Speaker 6: Get one in.

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed that pretty laugh. Hey, this is your very

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Speaker 2: first date, so I don't think that you. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just worried that we're gonna get her on the

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Speaker 6: Ouch, why would she?

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Speaker 5: Why would you jump immediately to she's definitely gonna say

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Speaker 1: I mean dating can be hard, and don't take that

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Speaker 1: personally like, just because you're not a good match with

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Speaker 5: Brook has given up on this before we started, Sam,

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Speaker 5: So she's saying, get ready for a consolation. Anyone's first

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Jose, Jose gets me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I get you. Sam, Do you get it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've prepared myself.

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Speaker 5: And also on the other side, don't be too excited

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Speaker 2: You give me excited. Oh sure, take your wins. Take

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Speaker 4: Okay, So are we gonna call her, just talk about it.

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Speaker 5: We're just gonna think of more scenarios of telling you

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Speaker 2: Jeff I was just trying to be kind, ok.

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Speaker 5: Guy, All right, let's be kind to a listeners and

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Speaker 5: we go, Hello, Hey, is this Witty?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is hey Witty.

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Speaker 5: This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Witty, Good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 3: What's this? Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 6: Well, we're doing something on our show.

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Speaker 5: We call it the second Date Update where we try

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Speaker 3: Oh this seems weird.

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Speaker 2: It is a little weird. I think it'd be weird

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's It's supposed to be like a really fun

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Speaker 5: if they did something wrong. So you went out with

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Speaker 5: a guy named Sam, Yes, I did.

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 2: And say I met at the lab that he works at.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we did go on a date. Okay, and I

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Speaker 5: The end, all right, Well, is there a reason that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was just like a kind of a weird date.

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Speaker 3: It was just a little strange.

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Speaker 7: She seemed really nervous.

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Speaker 5: Because you're a great gal?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a beautiful woman who wouldn't be nervous to

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean their conversation was fine, he asked me, no,

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Speaker 3: Of one like six months ago. And then he was like, well,

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Speaker 7: And I was like, oh, okay.

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Speaker 6: Cool, traveling the world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, just trying to share stuff about himself,

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Speaker 3: And then he was like, I've been to a lot

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Speaker 7: I don't know, like in like these places. I was like,

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Speaker 3: To like different red light districts and am you know, wait.

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Speaker 7: Didn't mention red light districts. But this is like right.

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Speaker 5: So you read that as Sam is bragging about traveling

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's how you read it.

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Speaker 5: But let's find out if that's really true.

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Speaker 2: Is that a question I'm going to ask you.

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Speaker 5: Well, Witty deserves to know the answer, because that's exactly

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Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah.

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Speaker 2: He did not pay for this call, just so you know,

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Speaker 2: it was free.

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Speaker 6: Sam.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how is it going?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, I said, I had then to answer, and yeah,

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Speaker 4: I told you that way. That was between you and I.

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Speaker 5: Are you confirming or denying the red light district thing?

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Speaker 4: Oh? I went through? Yeah, I went. I went to

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Speaker 2: No, it's not.

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Speaker 6: Did you partake in it as a different story?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 1: No, did you use that as your experience of relationships

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Speaker 2: On the first date?

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Speaker 4: Well, I said that because you said you had so

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Speaker 5: Oh why, I don't know if we need the details.

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Speaker 4: No, yike, I just.

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Speaker 3: I'm totally weirded out by you comparing like relationships with

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Speaker 7: Like it's just very odd.

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Speaker 3: I'm weirded out by you, to be honest, trying to

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Speaker 4: But maybe Okay, I mean I have to confess you're

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Speaker 2: Okay, what is that?

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Speaker 6: Wasn't your emergency safeguard?

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Speaker 5: That's the one thing that you probably didn't know.

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Speaker 3: Witty, What do you mean? How is that possible? How

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Speaker 4: I've never been on a date before?

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Speaker 3: Why not a date?

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Speaker 4: I didn't want distractions for a long time of my studies,

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Speaker 3: I just can't believe that you've gone this far without

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Speaker 2: That's another red flag.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just it's red lights and red flags.

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Speaker 4: But I meant to Amsterdam before, like I said, so

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, don't go down.

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Speaker 5: I know you haven't been on like any actual dates before,

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Speaker 2: It's not something to talk about, it something to show later.

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Speaker 2: Let the work.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I can totally do that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if the opportunity is still going to

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Speaker 6: He can totally do that. I like the confidence.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it would be better if you were

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Speaker 1: I'm really nervous.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but do not talk about your experience,

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Speaker 4: God, American women are just so tight.

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Speaker 5: That's more of a cut and dry transaction. But you know,

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Speaker 5: this is the part of the call Witty where we

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Speaker 6: But after all the talk about.

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Speaker 5: The red light district stuff, I feel like that.

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Speaker 6: Even that is going too far.

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Speaker 5: Now you're not obligated to do anything.

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Speaker 1: No, true, it doesn't doesn't feel right.

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Speaker 5: Do you do you have any interest in seeing Sam

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm well now I am.

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Speaker 5: I have been like, yeah, I can't dot any more

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Speaker 6: Ran out of people.

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Speaker 4: I kind of think you're crossing the line by asking

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Speaker 5: Yeah, have you been too not inappropriate?

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Speaker 3: Inappropriate brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: You know, maybe Sam wasn't quite ready for his first date,

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Speaker 6: Ready for his second, if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't know how to kiss, can't pick a restaurant,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're a second date type of guy.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that he's gonna okay, I won't get

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Speaker 5: This one and that one doesn't special.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he knows all the deals. But listen. Definitely not

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Speaker 5: Is just when you've never been on a date ever

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Speaker 2: Is that something you have to learn. Isn't this common sense?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It just feels like.

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Speaker 5: Buddy, Yeah, I mean you would think.

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Speaker 1: But no, okay, now, the whole labs, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: they learned know just how experienced.

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Speaker 5: He really is, so if they have any questions.

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Speaker 2: Nothing like a bunch of scientists making fun of you.

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Speaker 6: It's much better to have radio hosts do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you can always email our show and we'll

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Speaker 5: call that person who's not calling you back, hopefully help

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Speaker 5: you out with your dating. Go find out all of

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Speaker 5: our Second Day podcasts. They're up online wherever you get

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Speaker 5: yours at Brook and Jeffrey