1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,599 Speaker 1: I got switched at birth, and my parents' real kid 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: is hotter than me, and I don't water in my life. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 2: Am I the a whole? What do you think? 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 3: It doesn't sound good? I think we need more good. 5 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I will give you those details and also 6 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: give you some details on Mick, our guest of the show. 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: He recently became a friend of the show by clapping 8 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: cheeks to the podcast. So if you ever want to 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 1: be a friend of the show, make sure you do 10 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: that first. 11 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: You need a clap cheeks all the time. 12 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: You need a clap cheeks. Okay, let's get into this story. Mick. 13 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: I know that I'm probably the soul, but I feel 14 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: so upset and confused. I just needed a little outside opinion. 15 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: Last year, a child service worker contacted my parents asked 16 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: if they would be willing to receive a child fifteen 17 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: female who was recently orphaned and had biological ties to them. 18 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 3: Wait, I'm sorry, fifteen years you said fifteen years old, recently. 19 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: Orphaned, recently orphaned, and biologically mad. 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 3: That's just that's just. 21 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: Also confusing, because if you're like the parent, you're like, 22 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: I have a biological kid that I didn't know fifteen fifteen. 23 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: But at the same time, that's kind of it. Like 24 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 3: imagine if you could, like you could have your own kid, 25 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 3: but your kid was fifteen, and then you don't really 26 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 3: have to deal with like. 27 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: Any of the hormones. Yeah, actually you're hormones. 28 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you are. You don't have to change. 29 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: Any diapers, that's true. No diapers. 30 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 3: Yeah, it depends what you'd rather deal with. 31 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: This gets a little before it gets better. I think 32 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: it gets worse. So, after her parents died in a 33 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: car crash, Sofia could not locate any relatives to take 34 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: her in, So she bought a DNA test to try 35 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: to find out some distant relatives so she wouldn't have 36 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: to go into foster care, which is what connected her 37 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: to my adoptive family, her biological family. What was even 38 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: weirder was that she Sofia was a genetic match to 39 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: both of my parents, because I would have thought that maybe, 40 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: like one of the parents cheated and had like an 41 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: illegitimate child, But. 42 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: This is what's legitimately their child, legitimately. 43 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 3: Their child, full blown legitimate. 44 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: Full blow legit. 45 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: So okay, After some investigation, it turns out that she 46 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: was their real daughter. The hospital messed up and accidentally 47 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: switched me with her. I'm not actually their daughter. 48 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: I'm I'm going to the hospital and it's hands are 49 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: being thrown. 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 2: Dude, I'm suing this sh for that hospital. I'm kidding. 51 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 3: Ye yeah, yeah, you can't be switching babies. What nurses 52 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: in there? Just like, like, how are they even organizing them? 53 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 3: Don't they have a bracelet or like a marker, like 54 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 3: they got a sharpie? 55 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: These these cats, dude, I think after every baby you 56 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: should like sign a signature, you know, like this baby 57 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: is mine and just make sure like you have a 58 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: very unique signature that only you'll know. Yeah, well, now 59 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: we get baby tags. I'm putting an air tag in there, 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, exactly, you gotta to the forehead your baby. 61 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 3: I'd rather my baby look like a cyclops than end 62 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: up in the wrong family, honestly. 63 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. 64 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: So bad, Okay, but we're not done. We're not done. 65 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: So obviously, once my parents found out Sofia was their daughter, 66 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: they took her in and it's been around a year 67 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: since she moved in and everyone has been so happy 68 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: since she came. I know that I'm a terrible person 69 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 1: for being so self pitying when Sophia is going through 70 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: so much more. But ever since the truth came out, 71 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: I've been feeling really terrible. 72 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 3: I mean, your feelings are valid, like we can't invalidate 73 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 3: op here, but also like she's got to show some 74 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 3: love for you know, and this is now her sister, right. 75 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Also, but yeah, it's it's her sister now, not biologically 76 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: her sister is like not related to any. 77 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 2: Because she's adopted. 78 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 3: Op's adopted. 79 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: Well, I guess, no, no switched Opie was switched at birth. 80 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: Right, But how do they look at it now as 81 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: her being. 82 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: I guess it's yeah, I guess she's just adopted. But 83 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: like her family's out there somewhere or right, No, I 84 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: guess her family just died because they got switched at 85 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: birth right, So, but. 86 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: That could have not been her actual family, Like it 87 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 3: could have been another baby if that's if we're saying. 88 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: That there's babies, yeah, yeah, but it could be all 89 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: all budgets off a rounds. 90 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 3: But if that's the case and that's her family, now 91 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: she finds out that she's not her parents aren't her 92 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: real parents, and that her real parents are dead, and 93 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 3: then the it's like it's all good for for Sophia. 94 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: And then I mean her parents are dead still, but 95 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: at least like there's good news on the other side. 96 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 3: We'll not her. 97 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah that was where never her real parents to begin with, 98 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: so who cares? 99 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 3: Yeah? Fuck, that's still heavy though, it's you know, it's 100 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 3: it's it's an all around No one has won. There's 101 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 3: no winning yet. 102 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: So I never really fit in with my family and 103 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: have always been very self conscious about it. When I 104 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: was little, people used to call me the ugly duckling, 105 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: which is a pretty good description if I'm being honest, 106 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: except I never grew up into a Swan. 107 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 3: That is so sad. 108 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: My parents and my older siblings have always excelled at school. 109 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: They're naturally gifted athletes and really popular. I'm tasty, pimply, 110 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: and have a lot of social anxiety. I have a 111 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: hard time fitting in at school, and I used to 112 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 1: get bullied, which caused everyone a lot of problems. 113 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: You know what it sounds like, all this is not good, 114 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 3: But this is the recipe for a millionaire. 115 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: I know, I know is channel that energy into a 116 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: billion dollar company. 117 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: This is how you create just absolute. 118 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 2: Legends, super soldiers. 119 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 3: Forged in fired just yeah, so you know that sucks, 120 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 3: but I'm I think good things are going to come 121 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: out of op here. 122 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 2: So there's more. 123 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 1: And now they're Sophia, who has the same clear skin 124 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: and shiny black hair and poises them. And even though 125 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: she just joined the school last year, all the teachers 126 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: and students love her. We're in the same classes, and 127 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: I can't help comparing myself with her. She's so obviously 128 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 1: a better fit in the family. Even my cousins commented 129 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: on it, which what the cousins that's so bested up? 130 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 3: Bro, No, your cousins are I mean, like some some 131 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 3: loving cousin banter is okay, but you don't You don't 132 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 3: tell this new biologically, it's just. 133 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: Running through the ringer. A month ago, I got a 134 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: small award, not the big three, for some digital art, 135 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: but because we hadn't gotten booster shots yet, my parents 136 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: said we wouldn't go to the exhibit. Now Sophia just 137 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: won a student Leader award and my parents are throwing 138 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: a party for her. I get it's not the same situation, 139 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: and that her award is much bigger than mine, and 140 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: everyone got their shots now, but I just started feeling 141 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 1: so terrible when I saw how proud and happy my 142 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: parents looked with an arm around her, that I couldn't 143 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: take it and had to leave. Sophia saw I was 144 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: going across the room and ask kind of loud where 145 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: I was going, and then everyone turned to stare at me, 146 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: and I just ran away, crying. Well, it's not Sophia's 147 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: fault that I'm insecure, but I hate this. I hate 148 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm not the real daughter that I don't fit in 149 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: and I'll never be able to meet my biological parents 150 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: who I could have fit in with. And there is 151 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:56,239 Speaker 1: an update, But Mick, what do you think Ohpe should 152 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: do about this situation? 153 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: Dude? 154 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: I think Op and Sophia could be great friends. Yeah, 155 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,160 Speaker 3: I really think I think it could work out. I 156 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 3: really think it could, because you know, it really sucks 157 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 3: on both ends. It's like, maybe you have Sophia, who's beautiful, 158 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: clear skin, everyone likes her in school, but like having 159 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: the two humans that raised you for fifteen nights, just 160 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 3: like I feel like that trauma like may not get 161 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 3: right away, but eventually, like it's gonna be really hard 162 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 3: for both of them. And I think if they, you know, 163 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 3: hold it together now and become friends will be a 164 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 3: little bit easier. 165 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: But really, in some ways, you guys have a lot 166 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: in common, so maybe that's something that could could bring 167 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: you together. 168 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 2: But there is an update. Okay, so this is twenty 169 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 2: one days later. 170 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 3: It's on the parents to also create like an even 171 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: this and like establish you know, boundary both of them. 172 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 3: They need to look at both. 173 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: Of their children equally, and I think it seems like 174 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: there's some obvious favoring that's going on right now. Yeah, yeah, 175 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: which is I mean imagine natural too. Yeah, but there's 176 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: an update twenty one days later. Okay, So I was 177 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: swapped at birth. A while back, I posted about how 178 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: miserable I felt because I didn't feel like I belonged 179 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: to the family that raised me. I had been struggling 180 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: with insecurities for years, and it got so much worse 181 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: when we learned I had been switched at birth. That 182 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: my biggest fears came true and really wasn't part of 183 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: the family. I couldn't stand to be around their real daughter, Sofia. 184 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: It didn't feel like we were sisters. It felt like 185 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: I was an impostor and she was a princess. I 186 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: ended up breaking down during a party for her and 187 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: ran away. I posted here because I wanted someone, anyone, 188 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: to tell me that it was going to be okay, 189 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: that I was loved. Someone did so. I found out 190 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: later that Sofia left the party as soon as she 191 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: saw me crying, that she spent hours searching for me 192 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: before finding me in the old treehouse. I was miserable 193 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: and embarrassed. Tried to give some sort of apology, but 194 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: dissolved into more crying and a word vomit of my insecurities. 195 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: She hugged me and let me sob all over her. 196 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: She told me the party didn't matter, that I was 197 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 1: more important to her. 198 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 2: It hurts so. 199 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: Much to hear that because I didn't expect it. Didn't 200 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 1: feel like I could believe it. It felt like too much, 201 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: like it was more than I deserve. For the next week, 202 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: relatives scolded me about overreacting, but it didn't hurt me 203 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: so bad because someone was on my side. We went 204 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: to the art exhibit with my work later because she 205 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: couldn't believe I hadn't gone yet. We got ice cream 206 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: and she gushed about how talented I was. She's at 207 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: the top of the class and the captain of the 208 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: girl's varsity volleyball team. She's a thousand times more talented, 209 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: but she spoke like I was the rebirth of the Renaissance. 210 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 3: Well, okay, first of all, how did if Sophia just 211 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 3: shows up in the school, how did she become all 212 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 3: of these things so quickly? 213 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 2: Because I got she's just a backlast dude. 214 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 3: That is, I mean props to her, honestly, but it 215 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 3: sounds like she really cares and she's making effort, you know, 216 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 3: to show ope that you know that she does matter, 217 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 3: and you know, I think that effort goes a long. 218 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: Way, and it sounds like she like actually cares about 219 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: like the sister relationship, and she's showing that right now, 220 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: So like, oh, you should lean into that. 221 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: But there is still more. There is still more. 222 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: So Sophia took me shopping and showed me the cream 223 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: my mother used to use because she figured out skin 224 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: types would be similar. And guess what, I don't have 225 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: acne anymore, so no way, So it be the same parents. Yeah, 226 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: it had to be the same parents. She told me, 227 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: I'm beautiful that I have my father's eyes and laugh 228 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: and my mother's button nose doesn't so freaking cute bro. 229 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: So okay, So now we know that it was the parents. 230 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, yeah, definitely switched up birth ya wow. After that, 231 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 1: she cried because it hurt to remember them, and I 232 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: cried with her. She defends me at school and at home. 233 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: When a cousin took a crack at my weight, Sofia 234 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: went positively glacial. That's my sister you're talking about, until 235 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: he turned red and apologized. When I'm sad, she rolls 236 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: a blanket around me and calls it a burrito. 237 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 3: Aw. 238 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: It doesn't hurt me now when people compliment Sophia or 239 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: comment how she's my parents real daughter, because she is 240 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: their daughter and she really is amazing. 241 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 2: She deserves compliments. I've stopped feeling bad. 242 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: That my parents can with her much more easily than 243 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 1: they've ever done with me, that they take more interest 244 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: in what she's doing than they've ever done with me, 245 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: because now I have someone who gets me. She tells 246 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: me nice things every day, and I'm starting to believe her. 247 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: We weren't born to the same people or raised by 248 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: the same people, but she's my sister and that makes 249 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: me feel so so lucky. I'm going to be a 250 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: better sister, the best sister. I've never felt so much 251 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: like family before. 252 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 3: Wow, that is a full, full circle, all circle. You know. 253 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 3: Now they need each other more than ever. You know, 254 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: if Opi has questions about her old parents, you know, Sophia, 255 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 3: you know, fifteen years is it? What's automate? 256 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: Like, it's kind of cool because in some ways Opi 257 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: reminds Sophia of her parents, and it's like her connection 258 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: to the parents that raised her for fifteen years, and 259 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: so like I imagine she that's also why she feels 260 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: really connected to Sophia, because she reminds her of her childhood. 261 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 3: I just hope the parents can maintain this, Like obviously 262 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 3: they have this like new daughter, and I truly believe 263 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 3: there's like you know, biological like pheromone thing where you know, 264 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 3: like when you know a child is yours, there's this 265 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 3: connection that you know can't be explained. You know, they 266 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 3: really have to make everyone, you know, Sophia and op Field. 267 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like the parents are doing a good 268 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 2: job at all. It's facilitating that. 269 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, it sounds like Sophia is the the the 270 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: angel here, you. 271 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: Know, yeah, helping out one percent the angel one. 272 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 3: It sounds like the parents haven't really been doing anything 273 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 3: to like I didn't hear any details about that. But 274 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 3: that's kind of sad too, because if that's your I'm 275 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 3: assuming they're the same age at fifteen, if they're switched 276 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 3: to births, you're gonna go fifteen years. You've raised this child, 277 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 3: now you've learned it's not yours. 278 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 1: But it sounds like they kind have always treated her 279 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: poorly and this is just like now now they have 280 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: a reason to actually continue doing it. Parents are definitely 281 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: the athicles. But you know what you know who are never. 282 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 2: Aficles, Mick. 283 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: Who's that are public subscribers. And we're going to read 284 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: some comments from our public subscribers right now. 285 00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: Read them out. 286 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: So on the episode, I'm kicking them and they're allowed 287 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: baby out. Basically, you know, this couple was tired of 288 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: some baby screams. Bellin Torres four nine oh nine says, 289 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm here for the spanking, and he said spanking coming 290 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: right up. Then Chronic kissing Disease says if I wanted 291 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: an act full's opinion, I would have farted. That is 292 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: what are the SOT quotes from that episode. We love 293 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 1: our We love our public subscribers, especially the ones that comment. 294 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: So if you want us to read your comment publicly subscribe. 295 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments, and. 296 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 2: We just might read it too soon. 297 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: Piece, My spoil brat kid is bullying poor kids at school, 298 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: so I took all his name brand things. 299 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: Now he has only the bear essentials? Am I the a. 300 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 3: Hole there essentials? Are we talking bear bottomed? Are we talking? 301 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 2: No bottom? 302 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: Only only like a belly full of rice every day 303 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: and that's it. No clothes, no sheets, belly full of 304 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: rice and two twigs to make a fire. 305 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 3: That is more than some people had. I certainly didn't 306 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 3: have two twigs sometimes, So. 307 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: Now you count this kid lucky. Also welcome Meg. Meg 308 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: is a friend of the pod, and he told us 309 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 1: that he was clapping cheeks to this pod, and so we. 310 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: Have to invite him on clapping cheeks right now. 311 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: Oh under the table. About I am the mother to 312 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: a teenage boy. The father is hardly in the picture. 313 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: He pays child support and that's about it. He is 314 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: very absent. Otherwise, another relevant thing, I'm pretty well off, 315 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: all right, opie. 316 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: Going flex all right, flex, I. 317 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: Work in tech. My son's father is extremely wealthy and 318 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: the court order for child support is enough to pay 319 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: for the best for my son. He goes to a 320 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: fairly competitive private school, is in a lot of extracurriculars 321 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: that cost a decent bit, et cetera. I found out 322 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: from the school administration just this month that my son 323 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: had been bullying several students for being less wealthy, like, oh, Bath, 324 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: all of you doesn't have a Rolls Royce. He's in 325 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: a prius are you? 326 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 3: Are you drinking regular bottled water, not that sparkling Perrier. 327 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: Pie for me? 328 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe a butler Jeeves will drink smart water, but 329 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: never never to help drink smart water. 330 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 2: Disgusting. 331 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: He was making fun of students for being dropped off 332 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: at school in a budget sedan, for having name brand 333 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: clothes that were not as expensive as other name brands. 334 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: I was appalled by his behavior. 335 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 3: Not the budget Dan, And I'm thinking like and I'm 336 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 3: thinking when I think budgets, and I think Toyota is 337 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 3: honestly a fine jack. 338 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 2: Fine vehicle. 339 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: I mean, so there's no go for miles miles and 340 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: miles miles forever. 341 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 3: It will never let you down. But the Rolls Royce swill. 342 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 2: That it will. That breaks down. 343 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: I had to talk to him about how this is wrong, 344 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: and also about how it's not something that he should 345 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: have any personal pride in. He has no job, no savings, 346 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: no investments, no wealth of his own. By totally random chance, 347 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: he happened to be born into good circumstances and that's it. Basically, 348 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: he is calling her son a loser. You ain't, kid, 349 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: I know exactly what good. If you haven't seen that 350 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: episode with Mick talking about how he was abducted into 351 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: the woods, you should check it out. The school admin 352 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: and I arranged an apology between him and all the 353 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: kids he was bowling. I also decided that this year 354 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: we're thrift shopping for clothes. No more brand name sneakers 355 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: or clothes, which low key like that's just gonna make 356 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: this kin cooler because thrifting actually gives you style, not 357 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: just like randomly buying shit. 358 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 3: You don't want to be like Gucci down soack. 359 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: No, no that that Actually I feel like that when 360 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: I see people. 361 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: Guccied out, I actually think like they're more lame or 362 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: they're like yeah, like I don't think that signals wealth 363 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: at all. 364 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: I don't think so at all, because you look at 365 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 3: the wealth. 366 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: Drive a Prius and wear a regular. 367 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 3: Teach doesn't even own like a house. 368 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly. 369 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 3: It's they wear normal stuff. Whenever I think of, you know, 370 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 3: someone all guccied out, you know, and I'm not talking 371 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 3: you know, normal gucci just dripped out, I just think 372 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 3: like they're just trying to trying. 373 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: To prove something, exactly. Yeah, And I'm just like, I 374 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 2: don't know, definitely compensating. 375 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: And rather than driving him to school and activities in 376 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:11,439 Speaker 1: the Porsche or the Jaguar, I'm driving him everywhere in 377 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: my ninety two jeep. That was one of my first 378 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: cards that I mostly keep around for nostaldra and off roading. 379 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: Lokia ninety two jeep is kind of sick though. 380 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 3: That's so sick. And I'm picturing like, you know, if 381 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 3: this family has ninety like prime paint, like it still 382 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 3: looks so sick, like it has to be. 383 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 1: Nice like so actually it says it's really beaten up. 384 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 1: I've rolled it, taken off the doors, tried to fix 385 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: the paint with rattle cans at one point, young and 386 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: dumb when I did that. And for activities, he joins 387 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 1: he can borrow club equipment instead of getting his own bots. 388 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 1: He was really upset about it all, especially being driven 389 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: to school and activities in the jeep. Not the jeep. 390 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 2: Please take me in the rolls, mother. I can't be 391 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: seen in the poor people because I I prime a river. 392 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 393 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: He said that it was causing problems with his friends, which, dude, 394 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: if that's causing problems with your friends, you need new friends. 395 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 3: Fricking terrible friends are no friend. 396 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 1: His friends are garbage. Get new friends, OP, come on 397 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: or oh, son of Op. 398 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:08,719 Speaker 2: He was looking bad at school. 399 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: His friend's parents didn't want their kids getting in such 400 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: an old vehicle with no doors. He also said that 401 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: it was embarrassing for him to pretend he's poor. His dad, 402 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: who overall has been very absent, got upset with me 403 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: because apparently word had gotten around his circles his son 404 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: was being driven around town in a junker and that 405 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: I was making him use club gear for sports instead 406 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: of his own and that was not fair punishment because 407 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: impressions matter and it will affect the rest of his life. 408 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for having this approach 409 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: to parenting my son, who is bullying kids for being poor. 410 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: I don't buy him new designer things. Or drive him new, 411 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 1: or drive him places in luxury cars anymore. We shop 412 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: at thrift stores and I am taking him to school 413 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: in the jeep I drive from ninety two. So what 414 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: do you think Mick is op not or not. 415 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 3: Not the apps? But I think the problem isn't closed 416 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: or the money or anything else. I think the is 417 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 3: grad to think this kid is just grateful. 418 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 2: So ungrateful. 419 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 3: No. 420 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: I think it also seems like he's probably getting this 421 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: from the father. 422 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like the dad is just kind of, 423 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 3: you know, just enabling all of it. But you can definitely, 424 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 3: you know, I grew up in you know, they're definitely 425 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 3: wealthier kids. And I know a lot of kids who 426 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: are you know, super snobby and you know, not cool 427 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,719 Speaker 3: at all. But I know a lot of people that 428 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 3: have a lot of money, and by talking to them, 429 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 3: you would never know. Yeah, I have a great I 430 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 3: have a great friend that has got a jet, a yacht, 431 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 3: you know, all the stuff. You would talk to him. 432 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 3: He wears normal clothes, you know, like he'll go to 433 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 3: Marshall's TJ Max Like, yeah, he has you know, he 434 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 3: drives a normal he drives a brand new he drives 435 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 3: a brand new car, but you know, it's nothing crazy, 436 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 3: it's deep or whatever. It's like you can definitely have 437 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 3: all those nice and all those all the money and 438 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 3: still be. 439 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: Not a douchebag. That seems like Op's kid has not 440 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 1: learned that lesson. And I mean it's also like usually 441 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: when over this behavior occurs, it's probably because the kids 442 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 1: learning it from somewhere. So it's either the friend group 443 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,199 Speaker 1: is kind of a bunch of like status signaling kids 444 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: that only care about money, or it's probably the dad 445 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: like showcasing that this has to be like. 446 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,959 Speaker 3: One of those like Bay Area neighborhoods where it's just 447 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,360 Speaker 3: like the worst Like that's what I'm picturing, the. 448 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 2: Worst kind of wealthy, just like the tech like. 449 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 3: Dad never home. They're just like doing blow and owning 450 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 3: their secretaries exactly exactly off the secretary. They come home 451 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 3: and they're just like, what do you mean you took 452 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 3: my son? I bought you this rolls Rice? Where's this Gucci? Yeah? 453 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 2: Gucci. 454 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 1: I can't have him look like like a scoundrel in 455 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 1: front of the other other partners at the firm. 456 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 3: What do you mean you buy him Rebucks? Where the Ferragamos. 457 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: God, dude, it sounds like this kid needs that lesson, 458 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: so I'd say definitely not the a hole. You know. 459 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 2: Also, who's never the a whole? 460 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: Subscribers subscribe it up and I'm going to read so 461 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: quickly right now, read them out. Okay, So on the video, 462 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 1: I'm kicking them out and their loud baby. Public subscriber 463 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: taught Yanna gay for says, I'm a mom of two 464 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,679 Speaker 1: one year old male and four month female. Both have 465 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: stages of crying and won't stop crying until they fall asleep. 466 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,199 Speaker 1: So OP is the a hole? Basically, OPI was like 467 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,360 Speaker 1: kicking out a crying baby in the apartment complex because 468 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: it was crying. 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