WEBVTT - BONUS: New Year, Same Lala

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello, my gorgeous people.

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<v Speaker 1>I am Ella.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited to be back at it with the

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<v Speaker 2>brosif Hi five.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that one was elbow, elbow, elbow. Our elbows are off.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>If you watch mine, you'll hit it every time.

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<v Speaker 1>See. I think it's the pariff. I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the elbow.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hype because we have fan questions. I love a

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<v Speaker 2>fan question. We're gonna pop it off with Beth. Hello, Beth, favorite,

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<v Speaker 2>heytany the favorite memory together?

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<v Speaker 1>God, we have so many.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let me tell you what my favorite memory is,

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<v Speaker 2>Dad laying down the seats for us when we would

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<v Speaker 2>go to Saint George or anywhere really because my dad

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<v Speaker 2>was all about save in them pennies, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>A flight to.

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<v Speaker 2>Newport Beach, California, No get in the car, drive buddy,

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<v Speaker 2>and his.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, well, if you want to fly, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>bring your boogie board, you can't bring your chairs, you

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<v Speaker 3>can't bring any of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to do that? I was like, yes, yes, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>that's exactly what I want to do. We'll buy them

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<v Speaker 2>when we get car, and then not Dad, no penny

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<v Speaker 2>pinsion all day long. I respect it.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a like thirty pound TV that we put

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<v Speaker 3>in the car too. If we rolled, that was killing us.

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<v Speaker 2>All we had the expedition and he would lay down

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<v Speaker 2>the seats except for the very back bench, which at

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<v Speaker 2>that point in time, if you wanted the back bench out,

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<v Speaker 2>you had to fully room out of the car. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't just like fold into the floor, no buttons.

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<v Speaker 2>So he would put all of these blankets down and

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<v Speaker 2>then pillows against the back bench, and then a giant.

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<v Speaker 1>Television like one of those small screens but like the

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<v Speaker 1>block vhs.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously you'd put that in Easton's Xbox. And if we

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<v Speaker 2>got a little tired and just wanted to enjoy the drive,

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<v Speaker 2>we would lay down in the back seat, play video games,

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<v Speaker 2>watch movies, and then when we happened to be awake.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the difference was, but if we

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<v Speaker 2>were awake, I would be like, I want you guys

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<v Speaker 2>on the bench, put your.

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<v Speaker 1>Seat belts on.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, why the difference between me laying here sleeping,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's just impossible to crash if we would have

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<v Speaker 2>rolled easton dead all of us. Imagine that TV clonking.

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<v Speaker 1>Us all I know, not even like a strap down

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<v Speaker 1>on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing, Come on, Dad put a strap on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing, just in and said, all right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one of my most vivid memories.

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<v Speaker 1>Know that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Another one of mine is breaking down in Parley's Canyon

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<v Speaker 3>in a fucking limita sine.

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<v Speaker 2>So my my ex he must have like kind of

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<v Speaker 2>been a nerd or something in high school or for a.

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<v Speaker 1>While, because like he was trying to repeat it.

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<v Speaker 2>He got like a white limousine for us and like

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<v Speaker 2>red roses delivered and it was my dad's birthday. Weird,

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<v Speaker 2>little ditty ish but like but like, no one drives

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<v Speaker 2>limos anymore. It's like black cars. So if you see

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<v Speaker 2>a limousine, it's old.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Even the limo company that rented it, they were like,

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<v Speaker 3>good luck.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't make it up the canvas. And I do

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<v Speaker 2>remember that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I have photo coming off of the car if they

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<v Speaker 1>said another limo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they did, but you know what, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>lose my mind in that moment, and I actually remember

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<v Speaker 2>looking at Dad and being like, you know what, there's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be a day where my dad's not here and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna enjoy this moment. There's a picture of

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<v Speaker 2>outside of the car with a Limo driver with the

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<v Speaker 2>hood up checking to see what it was with smoke

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<v Speaker 2>and me hitting the vase that were massive at that time.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you put oil black and gold one. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 4>oil cartridge one. I'm not gonna lie. Those buns got

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<v Speaker 4>you some clouds? Oh, maybe I'll get one you can smock.

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<v Speaker 2>Please don't ruby. What are your favorite things about each other?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>My favorite thing about Easton is what like a lighthearted

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<v Speaker 2>presence he is, Like I find you to be so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>If I wake up and I'm just like chemically imbalanced,

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<v Speaker 2>which happens.

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<v Speaker 3>That's always like somehow every morning, wanna we all of

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<v Speaker 3>us have to lean on one person, whether it's Gigi

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<v Speaker 3>that day, you or then me.

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<v Speaker 2>No. Yeah, but when I see Easton like his dreads

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<v Speaker 2>walk out of his back house to come into my house,

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<v Speaker 2>I like get excited.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mean there's not one singular thing that like

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<v Speaker 3>is my favorite thing. Like my favorite thing about you

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<v Speaker 3>is just your Lauren ah, like you're yeah, there does

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<v Speaker 3>not mean you bring me like such peace when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>mentally chaotic, you bring me like the funniest and happiest moments.

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<v Speaker 3>You bring You're just my best friend. It's like, what

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<v Speaker 3>is your favorite thing about your best friend? It's like, fuck,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't pick. There's everything that you bring me when

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<v Speaker 3>we chill and not even talk like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's peace, it's fun, it's fuck you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just I don't know you bring like my favorite

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<v Speaker 3>thing about you is the piece you bring me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does that make sense? Yeah, you're my best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>We were sitting watching a football game in Easton's house

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<v Speaker 2>the other day. Because I run over there to retreat

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<v Speaker 2>at times.

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<v Speaker 3>To get there, I can tell the house is a

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<v Speaker 3>little chaotic, and as like, hey, if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>come over, and then she does, but then the other

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<v Speaker 3>one starts coming over.

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<v Speaker 2>The trickle effect rapes are open, and we see the

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<v Speaker 2>Gal and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh no, And then after the Gig, you know

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<v Speaker 3>it's coming next, Then it's the O.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it's the ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, I don't let Sosa just roam the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's coming with Sosa, so you get the whole

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<v Speaker 3>package with Gig.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, I remember, just like sitting there and we

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<v Speaker 2>were like smacking the babe, and I just like looked

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<v Speaker 2>at him and I was like, well, I better go

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<v Speaker 2>be a mom again.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're my best friend. Oh yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I enjoy you a lot just hanging out Sam.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you ever get on each other's nerves living together?

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<v Speaker 1>Gigi does? We got it good?

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<v Speaker 3>Gigi's another fucking kid, Dammit, that's what we bitch about

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<v Speaker 3>having multiple kids in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna be really pissed when she hears that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the Gi.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very rare occasion that I ever get sick

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<v Speaker 2>my mom or I get annoyed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because I don't know. I've never been annoyed of

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<v Speaker 3>anybody in this family. And even if we are, we're

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<v Speaker 3>like very good at just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like wee me, I need a moment, ye, please.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave, And then we'll look at each other and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>did what did I do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And then Mom will be like you were a little off?

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<v Speaker 3>Or Mom will do that and I'll be like, well

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<v Speaker 3>you were you know the way you said it, I

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<v Speaker 3>could see it was taken and learned.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Mom sits there, I'm going to go apologize.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, there's I think the things of our familycation

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<v Speaker 2>system going on in this house. And what I've noticed

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<v Speaker 2>with each of us is we're the types where if

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<v Speaker 2>you say things in the moment, each person has to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of retreat to think about what the other person said,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's resolution at the end. I can only

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<v Speaker 2>think of maybe a handful.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna say, I can't even know how to

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<v Speaker 3>describe this because it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Never really happened. No.

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<v Speaker 2>I can think of a few times in my entire

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<v Speaker 2>life where there have been explosive arguments, but we always

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<v Speaker 2>come around that exact same day. It's very strange. I

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<v Speaker 2>get it so many times. I talk to my friends

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, oh my gosh, I could never live

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<v Speaker 2>with my mom or I could never live with my

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<v Speaker 2>family full time. We have something very unique and special,

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<v Speaker 2>this family. But also I was thinking about this the

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<v Speaker 2>other day. It's weird to me that like we grow up,

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<v Speaker 2>like you have children and then you send those children

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<v Speaker 2>off to meet some random person that they then fall for,

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<v Speaker 2>have children with, and start their own family dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that to me is weird.

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<v Speaker 2>This should be something where you grow the entire family.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand this whole go out, meet strangers, see

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<v Speaker 2>if you like them, pro create and start your own thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't resonate with me.

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<v Speaker 2>My dream is to find a dude whose mom is

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<v Speaker 2>really fucking cool too, our moms become best friends, move

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<v Speaker 2>them in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to pod. Well, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>like the uh.

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<v Speaker 3>What, I like being around. I like having the compound

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<v Speaker 3>with everybody on it. Like that's my dream. Buy a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of land and then just put houses like yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>same for if I were to find a lady to

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<v Speaker 3>put like her family. Yeah, you know, even if you

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<v Speaker 3>had like just all of us, her brother and his

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<v Speaker 3>little wife, move them.

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<v Speaker 1>I need a homie, I will say.

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<v Speaker 2>Though all of my friends from like childhood, we all

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<v Speaker 2>have the same exact dynamics with our families. They're always

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<v Speaker 2>together all the freaking time. So I grew up with

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<v Speaker 2>this being very normal because my friends had the same

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<v Speaker 2>exact relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>With their me just saying like, move them in. I

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<v Speaker 1>need homies.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how funny that my I want family. Family is

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<v Speaker 3>friends to me, so it's like more friend like family

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<v Speaker 3>is friends. Yeah, did you just get that more? Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my gosh, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care for your friend mind. Yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want family.

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<v Speaker 2>I know when people are like you don't have any friends,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, really, because I feel busy all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I back a good amount of times, a good.

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<v Speaker 2>Amount of times clicking that uh cantle button.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I feel bad to declining, so I always

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<v Speaker 3>just swipe up and let it keep ringing.

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<v Speaker 2>I never sorry, Danielle says Easton. Are you still single?

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<v Speaker 2>What is the update on your love life?

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<v Speaker 3>Still single? How does one meet women? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's I've just like, this is real. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>on dating apps. I've never been on one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think just going out and also.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's my other thing. I go out. I'll see

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<v Speaker 3>Q girls, like I said, cute girls that go out.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you guys going out to be hit on? Or

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<v Speaker 3>are you being hit on so much that you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to enjoy my night because I'm the

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<v Speaker 3>guy that will look at you if there's something there.

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<v Speaker 3>I want the girl to come up to me, because

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<v Speaker 3>I know one hundred men are coming up to you

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<v Speaker 3>if you want me. I'm a decent guy. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to make your night uncomfortable. Do you get what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying I think you you have to step over

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<v Speaker 3>that down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you spark up conversation and you immediately get a

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<v Speaker 2>vibe like if someone wants to talk to you and engage,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and if they don't, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, yeah, but here's the thing, I'll talk And then

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<v Speaker 3>even if I get that vibe, I'm like, oh, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't I shouldn't have shot this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this year you have to get out of

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<v Speaker 2>your own head. And you know what, you you have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of cute friends that I feel's gotta know somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I also like the idea of somebody hooking you up

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<v Speaker 2>with someone they know and can coon.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that because I can everything to my ex. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I can, like that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I can talk to girls, I can go on days,

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<v Speaker 3>but I compare everything to my ex only for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Of like when I first met her, there was nobody

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<v Speaker 3>else in the world. Texting was easy to her. Now

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<v Speaker 3>like if I meet a girl, I'm like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>got to text her back, So it's like I know

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, So that's my other thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, why go and talk to all these women

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<v Speaker 3>to just like know that I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's an elimination process and that's how you find

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<v Speaker 2>your person.

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<v Speaker 3>True, But it's just like why be I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't need to be eliminating all these women and

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<v Speaker 3>being like this dick of like going through a thousand things.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to find your partner, you start by

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<v Speaker 2>manifesting and saying like, universe, I am open to finding

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<v Speaker 2>somebody whoever I meant to find. Like that's the other thing,

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<v Speaker 2>bring them into my You get what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it is because the other thing that's hard for

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<v Speaker 3>me is like sparking up a conversation because I don't

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<v Speaker 3>go to bars, right, so where is a convers Like

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<v Speaker 3>it's hard for me to see a que girl shopping

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<v Speaker 3>and like go up to her and spark a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>How does one even do that? Not even in the

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<v Speaker 1>same apparel section. You don't know that you do it

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<v Speaker 1>shopping well, And that's where it's like still with a

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<v Speaker 1>group of friends. So I have to go out and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I meant.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you got to get out of your comfort zone then, right,

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<v Speaker 2>or join a dating app. Alyssa asked Easton how are

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<v Speaker 2>you doing in your sobriety.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, very good right now, skittish at times, obviously, not

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm going to drink, but when you start to

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<v Speaker 3>lose your mind, that's where an addict's mind goes. I've

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<v Speaker 3>told you guys, I need Yeah. But I told you

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<v Speaker 3>and Mom the other day that I was feeling like off, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like I didn't. Mom was like, are you going to drink?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I mean I do. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think so I'm not going to tell you no, but

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<v Speaker 3>keep me close and I'm going to keep you close.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the biggest difference with this round of sobriety

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<v Speaker 2>is like very uncomfortable conversations.

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<v Speaker 3>My awn haty and like being honest and like that

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<v Speaker 3>was the other thing is I had a conversation with

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<v Speaker 3>them and there were times where I felt, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>always a personal thing I felt when I'd go to

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<v Speaker 3>them with problems, I was being judged when I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>being judged. They were taught talking me through things, but

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<v Speaker 3>I was judging myself. So that's what I was doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was almost like getting over the hump of

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<v Speaker 3>me having that like pride and saying like I'm struggling

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<v Speaker 3>mentally today, and I can I can tell you that,

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<v Speaker 3>so me being able to like wake up and not

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<v Speaker 3>be good and instead of not telling my family and

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<v Speaker 3>going I'm going to just try to be good today

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<v Speaker 3>and fake this, and then the next day was doubled

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<v Speaker 3>and tripled and so on that now I can always

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<v Speaker 3>go back to reset when I tell them I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>good today, yeah, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it's like an overwhelming amount of honesty.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So when I go to bed that night, they

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<v Speaker 3>knew I was honest and I don't have to pretend.

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<v Speaker 3>So my sobriety has been going very very well because

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<v Speaker 3>of honesty. My sponsor, I'm calling more often than not

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<v Speaker 3>just saying like, hey, just a weird couple of minutes,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's like, perfect, let's talk through it. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>the other thing is like a couple of minutes can

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<v Speaker 3>turn into a couple of hours. So I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>nip it at the couple of minutes totally. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>been very very good, and it's you know, it's the

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<v Speaker 3>one thing that I'm it's never going to get better.

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<v Speaker 1>You're four months sober, yeah, and it's never going to

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<v Speaker 1>get better. Attic mind is an attic mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I can't even stop at a bag of chips, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's my next.

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<v Speaker 1>Addiction problem is like junk food.

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<v Speaker 3>Not even junk food, but like stopping bag of popcorn,

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<v Speaker 3>not eating the whole thing bag of chips, a bag

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<v Speaker 3>of gummy bears. It's like that's an addiction too. How

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<v Speaker 3>do I stop at like four bites and start training

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<v Speaker 3>my mind so I can maybe beat the whole other.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, beating just I don't want anything to have

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<v Speaker 1>a hold on me. Well, thee has a hold on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>If you could go on a date this is from Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>If you could go on a date with a celebrity,

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<v Speaker 2>who would you want it to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to lie to you, guys. Leah Halton,

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<v Speaker 1>who's that?

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<v Speaker 3>She's just a TikToker and she just got famous and

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<v Speaker 3>she's the cutest Leah.

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<v Speaker 1>She's from Australia, Australia. Oh, she's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's the prettiest thing in the world and she's

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<v Speaker 3>cute and I don't know, I'm ould does she? I

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<v Speaker 3>think like twenty five four six, I'm hoping how old

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<v Speaker 3>twenty four day? Wow, I'm like shocked at this. She's

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<v Speaker 3>so pretty, she's beautiful. She won TikTok Video of the

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<v Speaker 3>Year two years in a row. Wow, easton billions of views.

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<v Speaker 3>Jah what content does she posts? She's very pretty. Makeup,

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<v Speaker 3>she's really going to make up. Okay, that's how she

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<v Speaker 3>got fus. But yeah, that's my little that's my little crush.

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<v Speaker 2>I have two. It would be Theovonne. I'd gone a

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<v Speaker 2>date with him, too. Fun It's so funny to me.

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<v Speaker 2>The other person who's that basketball player? It says his

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<v Speaker 2>mom is the real MVP.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin dur Kevin Durant. Those are Kevin Durant for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I find that in interviews. I obviously don't know him,

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<v Speaker 2>but that he and I would like we're the same person.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to know what you call Kevin Durant

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<v Speaker 1>a hooper? What's a hooper? Straight ball? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>You care about there's a difference between NBA because NBA

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<v Speaker 3>is that's a league where you put on a show.

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<v Speaker 1>No, not this man.

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<v Speaker 3>He just hoops, Give me a ball, let me go

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<v Speaker 3>at it. I love straight hooper, best scorer in the league.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that he loves his mom. I love that

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<v Speaker 2>he likes to just chill. He doesn't He's not trying

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<v Speaker 2>to be out and about like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to be out and about like that at times.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you want to know his biggest bill?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to know his cup of coffee, his

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<v Speaker 3>favorite drug, going at people on the internet, just being

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<v Speaker 3>a troll. That's his cup of coffee in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>That's his hit of adrenaline being a troll.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's not a little lofty in him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Kevin Durant, I yeah, those are my Those are

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<v Speaker 2>my two top people who I would for sure want

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<v Speaker 2>to go on a date with because I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it would be when I go on a date, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to have the best time of my life. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to come home with my cup full. And as

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<v Speaker 2>I get older, I realize you.

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<v Speaker 1>Come home with three cups.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, three cups full with my hooper. You guys, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for listening to another episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna catch you guys on the next episode. Bye bye,