Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.
Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello, my gorgeous people.
Speaker 1: I am Ella.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be back at it with the
Speaker 2: brosif Hi five.
Speaker 1: Oh that one was elbow, elbow, elbow. Our elbows are off.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: If you watch mine, you'll hit it every time.
Speaker 1: See. I think it's the pariff. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I think it's the elbow.
Speaker 2: I'm hype because we have fan questions. I love a
Speaker 2: fan question. We're gonna pop it off with Beth. Hello, Beth, favorite,
Speaker 2: heytany the favorite memory together?
Speaker 1: God, we have so many.
Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you what my favorite memory is,
Speaker 2: Dad laying down the seats for us when we would
Speaker 2: go to Saint George or anywhere really because my dad
Speaker 2: was all about save in them pennies, guys.
Speaker 1: A flight to.
Speaker 2: Newport Beach, California, No get in the car, drive buddy,
Speaker 2: and his.
Speaker 3: Was like, well, if you want to fly, you can't
Speaker 3: bring your boogie board, you can't bring your chairs, you
Speaker 3: can't bring any of that.
Speaker 2: Do you want to do that? I was like, yes, yes, yep,
Speaker 2: that's exactly what I want to do. We'll buy them
Speaker 2: when we get car, and then not Dad, no penny
Speaker 2: pinsion all day long. I respect it.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 3: We had a like thirty pound TV that we put
Speaker 3: in the car too. If we rolled, that was killing us.
Speaker 2: All we had the expedition and he would lay down
Speaker 2: the seats except for the very back bench, which at
Speaker 2: that point in time, if you wanted the back bench out,
Speaker 2: you had to fully room out of the car. Yes,
Speaker 2: it wasn't just like fold into the floor, no buttons.
Speaker 2: So he would put all of these blankets down and
Speaker 2: then pillows against the back bench, and then a giant.
Speaker 1: Television like one of those small screens but like the
Speaker 1: block vhs.
Speaker 2: Obviously you'd put that in Easton's Xbox. And if we
Speaker 2: got a little tired and just wanted to enjoy the drive,
Speaker 2: we would lay down in the back seat, play video games,
Speaker 2: watch movies, and then when we happened to be awake.
Speaker 2: I don't know what the difference was, but if we
Speaker 2: were awake, I would be like, I want you guys
Speaker 2: on the bench, put your.
Speaker 1: Seat belts on.
Speaker 2: It was like, why the difference between me laying here sleeping,
Speaker 2: like it's just impossible to crash if we would have
Speaker 2: rolled easton dead all of us. Imagine that TV clonking.
Speaker 1: Us all I know, not even like a strap down
Speaker 1: on it.
Speaker 4: Nothing, Come on, Dad put a strap on it.
Speaker 1: Nothing, just in and said, all right, here we go.
Speaker 2: That's one of my most vivid memories.
Speaker 1: Know that one.
Speaker 3: Another one of mine is breaking down in Parley's Canyon
Speaker 3: in a fucking limita sine.
Speaker 2: So my my ex he must have like kind of
Speaker 2: been a nerd or something in high school or for a.
Speaker 1: While, because like he was trying to repeat it.
Speaker 2: He got like a white limousine for us and like
Speaker 2: red roses delivered and it was my dad's birthday. Weird,
Speaker 2: little ditty ish but like but like, no one drives
Speaker 2: limos anymore. It's like black cars. So if you see
Speaker 2: a limousine, it's old.
Speaker 1: It's funny.
Speaker 3: Even the limo company that rented it, they were like,
Speaker 3: good luck.
Speaker 2: We didn't make it up the canvas. And I do
Speaker 2: remember that as well.
Speaker 1: I have photo coming off of the car if they
Speaker 1: said another limo.
Speaker 2: Yeah they did, but you know what, I wanted to
Speaker 2: lose my mind in that moment, and I actually remember
Speaker 2: looking at Dad and being like, you know what, there's
Speaker 2: gonna be a day where my dad's not here and
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna enjoy this moment. There's a picture of
Speaker 2: outside of the car with a Limo driver with the
Speaker 2: hood up checking to see what it was with smoke
Speaker 2: and me hitting the vase that were massive at that time.
Speaker 4: Like you put oil black and gold one. Yeah, the
Speaker 4: oil cartridge one. I'm not gonna lie. Those buns got
Speaker 4: you some clouds? Oh, maybe I'll get one you can smock.
Speaker 2: Please don't ruby. What are your favorite things about each other?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: My favorite thing about Easton is what like a lighthearted
Speaker 2: presence he is, Like I find you to be so funny.
Speaker 2: If I wake up and I'm just like chemically imbalanced,
Speaker 2: which happens.
Speaker 3: That's always like somehow every morning, wanna we all of
Speaker 3: us have to lean on one person, whether it's Gigi
Speaker 3: that day, you or then me.
Speaker 2: No. Yeah, but when I see Easton like his dreads
Speaker 2: walk out of his back house to come into my house,
Speaker 2: I like get excited.
Speaker 1: It's fun.
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean there's not one singular thing that like
Speaker 3: is my favorite thing. Like my favorite thing about you
Speaker 3: is just your Lauren ah, like you're yeah, there does
Speaker 3: not mean you bring me like such peace when I'm
Speaker 3: mentally chaotic, you bring me like the funniest and happiest moments.
Speaker 3: You bring You're just my best friend. It's like, what
Speaker 3: is your favorite thing about your best friend? It's like, fuck,
Speaker 3: I can't pick. There's everything that you bring me when
Speaker 3: we chill and not even talk like.
Speaker 1: It's peace, it's fun, it's fuck you.
Speaker 3: It's just I don't know you bring like my favorite
Speaker 3: thing about you is the piece you bring me.
Speaker 1: Okay, does that make sense? Yeah, you're my best friend.
Speaker 2: We were sitting watching a football game in Easton's house
Speaker 2: the other day. Because I run over there to retreat
Speaker 2: at times.
Speaker 3: To get there, I can tell the house is a
Speaker 3: little chaotic, and as like, hey, if you want to
Speaker 3: come over, and then she does, but then the other
Speaker 3: one starts coming over.
Speaker 2: The trickle effect rapes are open, and we see the
Speaker 2: Gal and I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, oh no, And then after the Gig, you know
Speaker 3: it's coming next, Then it's the O.
Speaker 1: Then it's the ass.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't let Sosa just roam the house.
Speaker 3: Well, she's coming with Sosa, so you get the whole
Speaker 3: package with Gig.
Speaker 2: Oh yes, I remember, just like sitting there and we
Speaker 2: were like smacking the babe, and I just like looked
Speaker 2: at him and I was like, well, I better go
Speaker 2: be a mom again.
Speaker 1: I was like, you're my best friend. Oh yeah, I know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I enjoy you a lot just hanging out Sam.
Speaker 2: Do you ever get on each other's nerves living together?
Speaker 1: Gigi does? We got it good?
Speaker 3: Gigi's another fucking kid, Dammit, that's what we bitch about
Speaker 3: having multiple kids in the house.
Speaker 1: She's gonna be really pissed when she hears that. No,
Speaker 1: I love the Gi.
Speaker 2: It's a very rare occasion that I ever get sick
Speaker 2: my mom or I get annoyed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know. I've never been annoyed of
Speaker 3: anybody in this family. And even if we are, we're
Speaker 3: like very good at just.
Speaker 2: Like wee me, I need a moment, ye, please.
Speaker 1: Leave, And then we'll look at each other and be like,
Speaker 1: did what did I do?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And then Mom will be like you were a little off?
Speaker 3: Or Mom will do that and I'll be like, well
Speaker 3: you were you know the way you said it, I
Speaker 3: could see it was taken and learned.
Speaker 1: And then Mom sits there, I'm going to go apologize.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, there's I think the things of our familycation
Speaker 2: system going on in this house. And what I've noticed
Speaker 2: with each of us is we're the types where if
Speaker 2: you say things in the moment, each person has to
Speaker 2: kind of retreat to think about what the other person said,
Speaker 2: and then there's resolution at the end. I can only
Speaker 2: think of maybe a handful.
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, I can't even know how to
Speaker 3: describe this because it's.
Speaker 1: Never really happened. No.
Speaker 2: I can think of a few times in my entire
Speaker 2: life where there have been explosive arguments, but we always
Speaker 2: come around that exact same day. It's very strange. I
Speaker 2: get it so many times. I talk to my friends
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh my gosh, I could never live
Speaker 2: with my mom or I could never live with my
Speaker 2: family full time. We have something very unique and special,
Speaker 2: this family. But also I was thinking about this the
Speaker 2: other day. It's weird to me that like we grow up,
Speaker 2: like you have children and then you send those children
Speaker 2: off to meet some random person that they then fall for,
Speaker 2: have children with, and start their own family dynamic.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that to me is weird.
Speaker 2: This should be something where you grow the entire family.
Speaker 2: I don't understand this whole go out, meet strangers, see
Speaker 2: if you like them, pro create and start your own thing.
Speaker 1: It doesn't resonate with me.
Speaker 2: My dream is to find a dude whose mom is
Speaker 2: really fucking cool too, our moms become best friends, move
Speaker 2: them in the house.
Speaker 1: I just want to pod. Well, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: like the uh.
Speaker 3: What, I like being around. I like having the compound
Speaker 3: with everybody on it. Like that's my dream. Buy a
Speaker 3: lot of land and then just put houses like yeah,
Speaker 3: same for if I were to find a lady to
Speaker 3: put like her family. Yeah, you know, even if you
Speaker 3: had like just all of us, her brother and his
Speaker 3: little wife, move them.
Speaker 1: I need a homie, I will say.
Speaker 2: Though all of my friends from like childhood, we all
Speaker 2: have the same exact dynamics with our families. They're always
Speaker 2: together all the freaking time. So I grew up with
Speaker 2: this being very normal because my friends had the same
Speaker 2: exact relationship.
Speaker 1: With their me just saying like, move them in. I
Speaker 1: need homies.
Speaker 3: That's how funny that my I want family. Family is
Speaker 3: friends to me, so it's like more friend like family
Speaker 3: is friends. Yeah, did you just get that more? Oh
Speaker 3: my gosh, Like.
Speaker 1: I don't care for your friend mind. Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: want family.
Speaker 2: I know when people are like you don't have any friends,
Speaker 2: I'm like, really, because I feel busy all the time.
Speaker 1: I back a good amount of times, a good.
Speaker 2: Amount of times clicking that uh cantle button.
Speaker 3: I know I feel bad to declining, so I always
Speaker 3: just swipe up and let it keep ringing.
Speaker 2: I never sorry, Danielle says Easton. Are you still single?
Speaker 2: What is the update on your love life?
Speaker 3: Still single? How does one meet women? I don't know,
Speaker 3: because that's I've just like, this is real. I'm not
Speaker 3: on dating apps. I've never been on one.
Speaker 1: I think just going out and also.
Speaker 3: So that's my other thing. I go out. I'll see
Speaker 3: Q girls, like I said, cute girls that go out.
Speaker 3: Are you guys going out to be hit on? Or
Speaker 3: are you being hit on so much that you're like,
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to enjoy my night because I'm the
Speaker 3: guy that will look at you if there's something there.
Speaker 3: I want the girl to come up to me, because
Speaker 3: I know one hundred men are coming up to you
Speaker 3: if you want me. I'm a decent guy. I'm not
Speaker 3: going to make your night uncomfortable. Do you get what
Speaker 3: I'm saying I think you you have to step over
Speaker 3: that down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you spark up conversation and you immediately get a
Speaker 2: vibe like if someone wants to talk to you and engage,
Speaker 2: you know, and if they don't, you.
Speaker 3: Know, yeah, but here's the thing, I'll talk And then
Speaker 3: even if I get that vibe, I'm like, oh, wow,
Speaker 3: I didn't I shouldn't have shot this.
Speaker 1: I'm not getting.
Speaker 2: I think this year you have to get out of
Speaker 2: your own head. And you know what, you you have
Speaker 2: a lot of cute friends that I feel's gotta know somebody.
Speaker 2: I also like the idea of somebody hooking you up
Speaker 2: with someone they know and can coon.
Speaker 1: I like that because I can everything to my ex. No,
Speaker 1: I can, like that's the thing.
Speaker 3: I can talk to girls, I can go on days,
Speaker 3: but I compare everything to my ex only for myself.
Speaker 3: Of like when I first met her, there was nobody
Speaker 3: else in the world. Texting was easy to her. Now
Speaker 3: like if I meet a girl, I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 3: got to text her back, So it's like I know
Speaker 3: I don't like you.
Speaker 1: No, So that's my other thing.
Speaker 3: It's like, why go and talk to all these women
Speaker 3: to just like know that I'm not interested.
Speaker 2: Because it's an elimination process and that's how you find
Speaker 2: your person.
Speaker 3: True, But it's just like why be I feel like
Speaker 3: I don't need to be eliminating all these women and
Speaker 3: being like this dick of like going through a thousand things.
Speaker 1: You know, like I don't know.
Speaker 2: If you want to find your partner, you start by
Speaker 2: manifesting and saying like, universe, I am open to finding
Speaker 2: somebody whoever I meant to find. Like that's the other thing,
Speaker 2: bring them into my You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: No, it is because the other thing that's hard for
Speaker 3: me is like sparking up a conversation because I don't
Speaker 3: go to bars, right, so where is a convers Like
Speaker 3: it's hard for me to see a que girl shopping
Speaker 3: and like go up to her and spark a conversation.
Speaker 1: How does one even do that? Not even in the
Speaker 1: same apparel section. You don't know that you do it
Speaker 1: shopping well, And that's where it's like still with a
Speaker 1: group of friends. So I have to go out and
Speaker 1: that's what I meant.
Speaker 2: Well, you got to get out of your comfort zone then, right,
Speaker 2: or join a dating app. Alyssa asked Easton how are
Speaker 2: you doing in your sobriety.
Speaker 3: Honestly, very good right now, skittish at times, obviously, not
Speaker 3: like I'm going to drink, but when you start to
Speaker 3: lose your mind, that's where an addict's mind goes. I've
Speaker 3: told you guys, I need Yeah. But I told you
Speaker 3: and Mom the other day that I was feeling like off, yeah,
Speaker 3: like I didn't. Mom was like, are you going to drink?
Speaker 3: And I was like, I mean I do. I don't
Speaker 3: think so I'm not going to tell you no, but
Speaker 3: keep me close and I'm going to keep you close.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think the biggest difference with this round of sobriety
Speaker 2: is like very uncomfortable conversations.
Speaker 3: My awn haty and like being honest and like that
Speaker 3: was the other thing is I had a conversation with
Speaker 3: them and there were times where I felt, and it's
Speaker 3: always a personal thing I felt when I'd go to
Speaker 3: them with problems, I was being judged when I wasn't
Speaker 3: being judged. They were taught talking me through things, but
Speaker 3: I was judging myself. So that's what I was doing.
Speaker 3: And it was almost like getting over the hump of
Speaker 3: me having that like pride and saying like I'm struggling
Speaker 3: mentally today, and I can I can tell you that,
Speaker 3: so me being able to like wake up and not
Speaker 3: be good and instead of not telling my family and
Speaker 3: going I'm going to just try to be good today
Speaker 3: and fake this, and then the next day was doubled
Speaker 3: and tripled and so on that now I can always
Speaker 3: go back to reset when I tell them I'm not
Speaker 3: good today, yeah, and then.
Speaker 1: Then it's like an overwhelming amount of honesty.
Speaker 3: Yes, So when I go to bed that night, they
Speaker 3: knew I was honest and I don't have to pretend.
Speaker 3: So my sobriety has been going very very well because
Speaker 3: of honesty. My sponsor, I'm calling more often than not
Speaker 3: just saying like, hey, just a weird couple of minutes,
Speaker 3: and he's like, perfect, let's talk through it. And that's
Speaker 3: the other thing is like a couple of minutes can
Speaker 3: turn into a couple of hours. So I'm trying to
Speaker 3: nip it at the couple of minutes totally. And it's
Speaker 3: been very very good, and it's you know, it's the
Speaker 3: one thing that I'm it's never going to get better.
Speaker 1: You're four months sober, yeah, and it's never going to
Speaker 1: get better. Attic mind is an attic mind.
Speaker 3: Like I can't even stop at a bag of chips, guys,
Speaker 3: Like that's my next.
Speaker 1: Addiction problem is like junk food.
Speaker 3: Not even junk food, but like stopping bag of popcorn,
Speaker 3: not eating the whole thing bag of chips, a bag
Speaker 3: of gummy bears. It's like that's an addiction too. How
Speaker 3: do I stop at like four bites and start training
Speaker 3: my mind so I can maybe beat the whole other.
Speaker 1: You know, beating just I don't want anything to have
Speaker 1: a hold on me. Well, thee has a hold on you.
Speaker 1: Talk about it.
Speaker 2: If you could go on a date this is from Josh.
Speaker 2: If you could go on a date with a celebrity,
Speaker 2: who would you want it to be.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to lie to you, guys. Leah Halton,
Speaker 1: who's that?
Speaker 3: She's just a TikToker and she just got famous and
Speaker 3: she's the cutest Leah.
Speaker 1: She's from Australia, Australia. Oh, she's beautiful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the prettiest thing in the world and she's
Speaker 3: cute and I don't know, I'm ould does she? I
Speaker 3: think like twenty five four six, I'm hoping how old
Speaker 3: twenty four day? Wow, I'm like shocked at this. She's
Speaker 3: so pretty, she's beautiful. She won TikTok Video of the
Speaker 3: Year two years in a row. Wow, easton billions of views.
Speaker 3: Jah what content does she posts? She's very pretty. Makeup,
Speaker 3: she's really going to make up. Okay, that's how she
Speaker 3: got fus. But yeah, that's my little that's my little crush.
Speaker 2: I have two. It would be Theovonne. I'd gone a
Speaker 2: date with him, too. Fun It's so funny to me.
Speaker 2: The other person who's that basketball player? It says his
Speaker 2: mom is the real MVP.
Speaker 1: Kevin dur Kevin Durant. Those are Kevin Durant for you.
Speaker 2: Like, I find that in interviews. I obviously don't know him,
Speaker 2: but that he and I would like we're the same person.
Speaker 1: Do you want to know what you call Kevin Durant
Speaker 1: a hooper? What's a hooper? Straight ball? Okay?
Speaker 3: You care about there's a difference between NBA because NBA
Speaker 3: is that's a league where you put on a show.
Speaker 1: No, not this man.
Speaker 3: He just hoops, Give me a ball, let me go
Speaker 3: at it. I love straight hooper, best scorer in the league.
Speaker 2: I love that he loves his mom. I love that
Speaker 2: he likes to just chill. He doesn't He's not trying
Speaker 2: to be out and about like that.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing.
Speaker 2: I have to be out and about like that at times.
Speaker 1: But do you want to know his biggest bill?
Speaker 3: Do you want to know his cup of coffee, his
Speaker 3: favorite drug, going at people on the internet, just being
Speaker 3: a troll. That's his cup of coffee in the morning.
Speaker 3: That's his hit of adrenaline being a troll.
Speaker 1: I was like, it's not a little lofty in him. Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, Kevin Durant, I yeah, those are my Those are
Speaker 2: my two top people who I would for sure want
Speaker 2: to go on a date with because I feel like
Speaker 2: it would be when I go on a date, I
Speaker 2: want to have the best time of my life. I
Speaker 2: want to come home with my cup full. And as
Speaker 2: I get older, I realize you.
Speaker 1: Come home with three cups.
Speaker 2: Yeah, three cups full with my hooper. You guys, thank
Speaker 2: you for listening to another episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna catch you guys on the next episode. Bye bye,