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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello, my gorgeous people.

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Speaker 1: I am Ella.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be back at it with the

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Speaker 2: brosif Hi five.

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Speaker 1: Oh that one was elbow, elbow, elbow. Our elbows are off.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: If you watch mine, you'll hit it every time.

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Speaker 1: See. I think it's the pariff. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the elbow.

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Speaker 2: I'm hype because we have fan questions. I love a

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Speaker 2: fan question. We're gonna pop it off with Beth. Hello, Beth, favorite,

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Speaker 2: heytany the favorite memory together?

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Speaker 1: God, we have so many.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you what my favorite memory is,

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Speaker 2: Dad laying down the seats for us when we would

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Speaker 2: go to Saint George or anywhere really because my dad

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Speaker 2: was all about save in them pennies, guys.

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Speaker 1: A flight to.

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Speaker 2: Newport Beach, California, No get in the car, drive buddy,

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Speaker 2: and his.

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Speaker 3: Was like, well, if you want to fly, you can't

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Speaker 3: bring your boogie board, you can't bring your chairs, you

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Speaker 3: can't bring any of that.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to do that? I was like, yes, yes, yep,

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Speaker 2: that's exactly what I want to do. We'll buy them

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Speaker 2: when we get car, and then not Dad, no penny

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Speaker 2: pinsion all day long. I respect it.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 3: We had a like thirty pound TV that we put

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Speaker 3: in the car too. If we rolled, that was killing us.

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Speaker 2: All we had the expedition and he would lay down

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Speaker 2: the seats except for the very back bench, which at

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Speaker 2: that point in time, if you wanted the back bench out,

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Speaker 2: you had to fully room out of the car. Yes,

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Speaker 2: it wasn't just like fold into the floor, no buttons.

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Speaker 2: So he would put all of these blankets down and

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Speaker 2: then pillows against the back bench, and then a giant.

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Speaker 1: Television like one of those small screens but like the

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Speaker 1: block vhs.

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Speaker 2: Obviously you'd put that in Easton's Xbox. And if we

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Speaker 2: got a little tired and just wanted to enjoy the drive,

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Speaker 2: we would lay down in the back seat, play video games,

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Speaker 2: watch movies, and then when we happened to be awake.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the difference was, but if we

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Speaker 2: were awake, I would be like, I want you guys

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Speaker 2: on the bench, put your.

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Speaker 1: Seat belts on.

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Speaker 2: It was like, why the difference between me laying here sleeping,

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Speaker 2: like it's just impossible to crash if we would have

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Speaker 2: rolled easton dead all of us. Imagine that TV clonking.

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Speaker 1: Us all I know, not even like a strap down

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Speaker 4: Nothing, Come on, Dad put a strap on it.

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Speaker 1: Nothing, just in and said, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: That's one of my most vivid memories.

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Speaker 1: Know that one.

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Speaker 3: Another one of mine is breaking down in Parley's Canyon

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Speaker 3: in a fucking limita sine.

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Speaker 2: So my my ex he must have like kind of

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Speaker 2: been a nerd or something in high school or for a.

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Speaker 1: While, because like he was trying to repeat it.

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Speaker 2: He got like a white limousine for us and like

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Speaker 2: red roses delivered and it was my dad's birthday. Weird,

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Speaker 2: little ditty ish but like but like, no one drives

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Speaker 2: limos anymore. It's like black cars. So if you see

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Speaker 1: It's funny.

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Speaker 3: Even the limo company that rented it, they were like,

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Speaker 2: We didn't make it up the canvas. And I do

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Speaker 2: remember that as well.

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Speaker 1: I have photo coming off of the car if they

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Speaker 1: said another limo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah they did, but you know what, I wanted to

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Speaker 2: lose my mind in that moment, and I actually remember

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Speaker 2: looking at Dad and being like, you know what, there's

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Speaker 2: gonna be a day where my dad's not here and

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna enjoy this moment. There's a picture of

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Speaker 2: outside of the car with a Limo driver with the

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Speaker 2: and me hitting the vase that were massive at that time.

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Speaker 4: Like you put oil black and gold one. Yeah, the

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Speaker 4: oil cartridge one. I'm not gonna lie. Those buns got

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Speaker 4: you some clouds? Oh, maybe I'll get one you can smock.

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Speaker 2: Please don't ruby. What are your favorite things about each other?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: My favorite thing about Easton is what like a lighthearted

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Speaker 2: presence he is, Like I find you to be so funny.

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Speaker 2: If I wake up and I'm just like chemically imbalanced,

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Speaker 2: which happens.

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Speaker 3: That's always like somehow every morning, wanna we all of

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Speaker 3: us have to lean on one person, whether it's Gigi

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Speaker 3: that day, you or then me.

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Speaker 2: No. Yeah, but when I see Easton like his dreads

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Speaker 2: walk out of his back house to come into my house,

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Speaker 2: I like get excited.

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Speaker 1: It's fun.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean there's not one singular thing that like

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Speaker 3: is my favorite thing. Like my favorite thing about you

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Speaker 3: is just your Lauren ah, like you're yeah, there does

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Speaker 3: not mean you bring me like such peace when I'm

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Speaker 3: mentally chaotic, you bring me like the funniest and happiest moments.

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Speaker 3: You bring You're just my best friend. It's like, what

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Speaker 3: is your favorite thing about your best friend? It's like, fuck,

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Speaker 3: I can't pick. There's everything that you bring me when

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Speaker 3: we chill and not even talk like.

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Speaker 1: It's peace, it's fun, it's fuck you.

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Speaker 3: It's just I don't know you bring like my favorite

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Speaker 3: thing about you is the piece you bring me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, does that make sense? Yeah, you're my best friend.

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Speaker 2: We were sitting watching a football game in Easton's house

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Speaker 2: the other day. Because I run over there to retreat

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Speaker 2: at times.

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Speaker 3: To get there, I can tell the house is a

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Speaker 3: little chaotic, and as like, hey, if you want to

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Speaker 3: come over, and then she does, but then the other

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Speaker 2: The trickle effect rapes are open, and we see the

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Speaker 2: Gal and I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh no, And then after the Gig, you know

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Speaker 3: it's coming next, Then it's the O.

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Speaker 1: Then it's the ass.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't let Sosa just roam the house.

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Speaker 3: Well, she's coming with Sosa, so you get the whole

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Speaker 3: package with Gig.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, I remember, just like sitting there and we

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Speaker 2: were like smacking the babe, and I just like looked

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Speaker 2: at him and I was like, well, I better go

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Speaker 2: be a mom again.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're my best friend. Oh yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I enjoy you a lot just hanging out Sam.

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Speaker 2: Do you ever get on each other's nerves living together?

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Speaker 1: Gigi does? We got it good?

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Speaker 3: Gigi's another fucking kid, Dammit, that's what we bitch about

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Speaker 3: having multiple kids in the house.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna be really pissed when she hears that. No,

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Speaker 1: I love the Gi.

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Speaker 2: It's a very rare occasion that I ever get sick

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Speaker 2: my mom or I get annoyed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know. I've never been annoyed of

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Speaker 3: anybody in this family. And even if we are, we're

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Speaker 3: like very good at just.

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Speaker 2: Like wee me, I need a moment, ye, please.

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Speaker 1: Leave, And then we'll look at each other and be like,

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Speaker 1: did what did I do?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And then Mom will be like you were a little off?

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Speaker 3: Or Mom will do that and I'll be like, well

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Speaker 3: you were you know the way you said it, I

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Speaker 3: could see it was taken and learned.

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Speaker 1: And then Mom sits there, I'm going to go apologize.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, there's I think the things of our familycation

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Speaker 2: system going on in this house. And what I've noticed

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Speaker 2: with each of us is we're the types where if

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Speaker 2: you say things in the moment, each person has to

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Speaker 2: kind of retreat to think about what the other person said,

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Speaker 2: and then there's resolution at the end. I can only

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, I can't even know how to

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Speaker 3: describe this because it's.

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Speaker 1: Never really happened. No.

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Speaker 2: I can think of a few times in my entire

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Speaker 2: life where there have been explosive arguments, but we always

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Speaker 2: come around that exact same day. It's very strange. I

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Speaker 2: get it so many times. I talk to my friends

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Speaker 2: and they're like, oh my gosh, I could never live

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Speaker 2: family full time. We have something very unique and special,

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Speaker 2: this family. But also I was thinking about this the

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Speaker 2: other day. It's weird to me that like we grow up,

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Speaker 2: like you have children and then you send those children

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Speaker 2: off to meet some random person that they then fall for,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, that to me is weird.

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Speaker 2: This should be something where you grow the entire family.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand this whole go out, meet strangers, see

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Speaker 2: if you like them, pro create and start your own thing.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't resonate with me.

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Speaker 2: My dream is to find a dude whose mom is

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Speaker 2: really fucking cool too, our moms become best friends, move

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Speaker 1: I just want to pod. Well, I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: What, I like being around. I like having the compound

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Speaker 3: with everybody on it. Like that's my dream. Buy a

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Speaker 3: lot of land and then just put houses like yeah,

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Speaker 3: same for if I were to find a lady to

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Speaker 3: put like her family. Yeah, you know, even if you

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Speaker 3: little wife, move them.

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Speaker 1: I need a homie, I will say.

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Speaker 2: Though all of my friends from like childhood, we all

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Speaker 2: have the same exact dynamics with our families. They're always

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Speaker 2: together all the freaking time. So I grew up with

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Speaker 2: this being very normal because my friends had the same

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Speaker 1: With their me just saying like, move them in. I

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Speaker 3: That's how funny that my I want family. Family is

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Speaker 3: friends to me, so it's like more friend like family

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Speaker 3: is friends. Yeah, did you just get that more? Oh

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Speaker 3: my gosh, Like.

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Speaker 1: I don't care for your friend mind. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: want family.

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Speaker 2: I know when people are like you don't have any friends,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, really, because I feel busy all the time.

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Speaker 1: I back a good amount of times, a good.

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Speaker 2: Amount of times clicking that uh cantle button.

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Speaker 3: I know I feel bad to declining, so I always

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Speaker 3: just swipe up and let it keep ringing.

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Speaker 2: I never sorry, Danielle says Easton. Are you still single?

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Speaker 2: What is the update on your love life?

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Speaker 3: Still single? How does one meet women? I don't know,

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Speaker 3: because that's I've just like, this is real. I'm not

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Speaker 3: on dating apps. I've never been on one.

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Speaker 1: I think just going out and also.

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Speaker 3: So that's my other thing. I go out. I'll see

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Speaker 3: Q girls, like I said, cute girls that go out.

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Speaker 3: Are you guys going out to be hit on? Or

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Speaker 3: are you being hit on so much that you're like,

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to enjoy my night because I'm the

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Speaker 2: I think this year you have to get out of

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Speaker 1: I like that because I can everything to my ex. No,

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Speaker 3: It's like, why go and talk to all these women

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Speaker 2: Because it's an elimination process and that's how you find

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Speaker 2: Well, you got to get out of your comfort zone then, right,

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Speaker 3: Honestly, very good right now, skittish at times, obviously, not

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Speaker 3: Like I can't even stop at a bag of chips, guys,

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Speaker 1: Addiction problem is like junk food.

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Speaker 1: Talk about it.

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Speaker 2: If you could go on a date this is from Josh.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to lie to you, guys. Leah Halton,

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Speaker 3: She's just a TikToker and she just got famous and

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Speaker 1: She's from Australia, Australia. Oh, she's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Jah what content does she posts? She's very pretty. Makeup,

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Speaker 3: she's really going to make up. Okay, that's how she

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Speaker 2: I have two. It would be Theovonne. I'd gone a

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what you call Kevin Durant

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Speaker 3: You care about there's a difference between NBA because NBA

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Speaker 3: He just hoops, Give me a ball, let me go

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Speaker 2: I love that he loves his mom. I love that

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Speaker 2: I have to be out and about like that at times.

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Speaker 1: But do you want to know his biggest bill?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to know his cup of coffee, his

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Speaker 3: That's his hit of adrenaline being a troll.

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Speaker 1: I was like, it's not a little lofty in him. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, Kevin Durant, I yeah, those are my Those are

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Speaker 1: Come home with three cups.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, three cups full with my hooper. You guys, thank

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