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This is not an 31 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 4: offer to buy your self security s noor is it investment, 32 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 4: legal or tax advice. 33 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 5: Hi, this is Victoria. 34 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,839 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for downloading this podcast. I believe 35 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 3: God has amazing things in your future. I hope you 36 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 3: enjoy this message. I would encourage this all today to 37 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: be bucket fillers. What's a bucket filler? A bucket filler 38 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 3: is someone who is willing to make deposits positive dept 39 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 3: in the life of other people, not only with their words, 40 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: but with their actions. See A bucket filler is someone 41 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 3: who is willing to give. There's too many bucket dippers 42 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 3: in this world. Too many bucket dippers. What's a bucket dipper? 43 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 3: A bucket dipper is someone who dips out of the 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: emotional bank of others with harsh words and criticism. Someone 45 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 3: who dips out of the life of other people. You 46 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 3: see the thing about bucket dippers. Bucket dippers don't even 47 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 3: realize that they're depleting their own bucket. You see, when 48 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: you fill other people's buckets, you'll have your bucket filled. 49 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 3: We want to be bucket fillers. We have tremendous power 50 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 3: and influence with our words. Listen to what it says 51 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 3: in Ephesians four twenty nine. It says, let no unwholesome 52 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 3: talk come out of your but only what is helpful 53 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: for building others up, for benefiting the hearer, for extending 54 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 3: grace to those other people, for building people up. You see, 55 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: it is up to us. It starts with us. We 56 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 3: can be the builders. We can be the one to 57 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 3: turn this thing around. We don't have to go with 58 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 3: the flow, but we can swim upstream because we have 59 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 3: God on the inside of us. But we have to 60 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 3: make a decision that we're going to be builders. You know, 61 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: not only can we build people with our words, find 62 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 3: the best and bring it out in them, but do 63 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: you know that our words can literally be the glue 64 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: that holds our relationships together. It can literally bind us 65 00:03:56,600 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: together when we speak positive, faithful, old words over one another, 66 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: when we're willing to pick out the good and not 67 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: see the bad. You see, it's easy to see what's wrong, 68 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: but it takes a builder to see what's right. It 69 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: takes a builder to know architecturally how to fix things. 70 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: You are a builder today. I want to encourage you 71 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 3: with that, because too often we are unconscious about literally 72 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 3: what we are doing throughout the day. And I want 73 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 3: us to all go out of here saying I am 74 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 3: a builder of people, because when I build people, I 75 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 3: build myself. Whatever I throw out, it's going to come 76 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 3: back to me. Joel and I have been married thirty years, 77 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 3: and we've learned a lot about building. We've learned a 78 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 3: lot about extending grace to one another through our words. 79 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 3: To be married for thirty years, you know you have 80 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: to give each other great g and you have to 81 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 3: use your words to do it. You see, we realize, 82 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 3: really a good relationship is built on what you're willing 83 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 3: to give, more than what you're willing to receive. We 84 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 3: all want to be loved, We all want the other 85 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 3: person to show us kindness, but to get the kindness. 86 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: We have to be willing to give because really what 87 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 3: you give is really what's going to come back to you. 88 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 3: Are you just looking for someone to give you something 89 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 3: in your relationship? I'm telling you this is a principle 90 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 3: that if we will understand, I believe things will change 91 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 3: in our life when we understand that being willing to 92 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: extend grace and give grace is what's going to build 93 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 3: our relationships. We've all heard this when we were young, 94 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,559 Speaker 3: the Golden Rule. Your mom probably taught you, your first 95 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 3: grade teacher probably had you recite it. But did you 96 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 3: know that the Golden rule is found in Matthew seven twelve. 97 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: It says this, so in everything, do unto others what 98 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 3: you would have them do to you. You see what 99 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 3: I'm saying, do unto others what you would have them 100 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 3: do unto you. You know, I think about this when 101 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: you go buy a shirt, or you're gonna go buy 102 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: an outfit at the store. You don't just run into 103 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 3: the store and blindly grab something, pay for it, run 104 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 3: out the door, and put it on. No, you choose wisely. 105 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 3: You go in, you look at the clothes, you decide 106 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 3: what's gonna work for you, What will be the best 107 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: for you. You take time and effort. You buy those clothes, 108 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: you take them home and you put them on. You 109 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 3: take time to clothe yourself. I want to encourage us 110 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 3: to take the same time to choose wisely the words 111 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 3: that we speak out of our mouth, because the truth 112 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 3: is this, we're gonna wear those words. We are going 113 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 3: to be a product of what we say. We are 114 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 3: going to eat from the fruit of our lips. You know, 115 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 3: sometimes we just throw caution to the wind, not thinking 116 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: it's gonna affect us. But can I tell you what 117 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 3: you say is going to affect you now? I have 118 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 3: to admit this. When I was a young bride and 119 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 3: I first married Joel thirty years ago, I didn't weigh 120 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 3: my words. I wasn't putting the glue on my relationship 121 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 3: like I should have. I'll never forget this. God spoke 122 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 3: to me one day and he said, Victoria. He said, 123 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 3: if you don't begin to choose your words wisely, you're 124 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: going to be sorry. He basically said, your own words 125 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 3: are going to work against you. I was a young bride, 126 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: I was a younger, I was new to this thing, 127 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 3: and I didn't always weigh my word. I was used 128 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 3: to kind of having my own way, doing it the 129 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: way I wanted to do it, and I thought he 130 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 3: should get into the program. But can I tell you this, 131 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: I stand up here today and I remember God speaking 132 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: to my heart like it was yesterday. It brought tears 133 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: to my eyes. It was a serious matter, and I 134 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: am so grateful that I took heed to what God 135 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 3: told me. I begin to think about what I was building. 136 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 3: I begin to think about the grace that I was extending. 137 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 3: You see, I wanted a man that was successful. I 138 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 3: wanted a man that believed in himself, that had confidence. 139 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 3: I wanted to be the booie that pushed him up, 140 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 3: not the anchor that pulled him down. I begin to 141 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 3: say what I wanted, not what I saw or what 142 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 3: I thought I saw. I begin to see the good 143 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 3: and bring out the good. Now, can I tell you 144 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 3: to this day, I am not perfect, but I make 145 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: far more deposits than I do with Ross, far more 146 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: deposits than I do with Ross. It's kind of like 147 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: your bank account. If you keep writing those checks, you're 148 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 3: gonna go bankrupt. You got to put checks in, You 149 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 3: got to fill that account before you think about pulling 150 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 3: anything out. So today I just want to encourage every 151 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 3: one of us. We can create a life that we 152 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 3: want with the words that we speak. If you want grace, 153 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 3: you better extend grace because we're all becoming. I think 154 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 3: about Peter. He was a disciple of Jesus. He walked 155 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 3: with Jesus, and if you read about Peter's life, sometimes 156 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 3: he was impatient. He would say things he shouldn't. In fact, 157 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: his name Simon Peter actually means pebble, and I'm sure 158 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 3: some of the things he did he felt like a 159 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 3: pebble some days. But you know what, he was Jesus' disciple, 160 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: and Jesus said, Peter, you're a rock. You see this 161 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 3: fite Peter's personality. Jesus called the rock out in him. 162 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 3: He spoke to the potential. And we are the Church 163 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 3: of the Living God. We've got to speak to each 164 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 3: other's potential. We are building this on a solid foundation. 165 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 6: On a rock. 166 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 3: We can't be influenced by what we see. We've got 167 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 3: to make a decision that we are builders. Because I 168 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 3: can tell you, if you extend grace, you will having 169 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 3: grace extended to you. We can all be better. We're learning, 170 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: we're growing we're becoming. We're in the process. We're creating 171 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 3: Peters all around us as we create the Peter on 172 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: the inside of us. Remember you're a bucket filler. 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