Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb.
Speaker 2: Today's guest. Well, you know her because her family has
Speaker 2: been on our TVs for.
Speaker 3: A minute now, many many years, yeah.
Speaker 2: Many many years, and now she is part of the madness.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's right.
Speaker 4: We saw her grow up in the Real Housewives of
Speaker 4: Beverly Hills. Her mom is Kylo Richards, her dad is Mauricio,
Speaker 4: and they now have their own TV show together as
Speaker 4: a family. That's called Buying Beverly Hills, which is all
Speaker 4: about the real estate market in Beverly Hills, their family dynamic.
Speaker 3: It's good.
Speaker 4: It's on Netflix. I've been enjoying it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all the sisters. It's a whole family affair,
Speaker 2: and we are going to ask her all the questions
Speaker 2: on today's episode.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 2: So let's welcome to the Scrubbing In our Alexia Yumanski.
Speaker 2: You're welcome. Clap, you're welcome, applause.
Speaker 1: Oh thank you.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, yeah, I got a lot of for
Speaker 2: but I'm joining you. Thank you for scrubbing in and
Speaker 2: being on the podcast today.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for having me. I'm so excited.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were very excited to talk to you because
Speaker 2: there's a lot to talk to you about. I feel
Speaker 2: you were I was going to ask you this. I
Speaker 2: was curious, have you ever felt like your life was
Speaker 2: normal in terms of other people's norm.
Speaker 1: You know, that's such a good question because I feel
Speaker 1: so normal, I really, really really do you know? Are
Speaker 1: the drama the things we deal with as a family
Speaker 1: as a whole, like that stuff never feels normal? But
Speaker 1: like I also talk to my friends and we all
Speaker 1: have our family drama as we all have our things,
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm like, I'm not I'm not different.
Speaker 1: Just a lot more people know about our stuff, you know.
Speaker 1: But you know, I really do feel so normal.
Speaker 2: Well do you know it's gotta be so weird watching
Speaker 2: such personal things, especially in your family, because I come
Speaker 2: a fan I'm from the South, and the thing about
Speaker 2: the self is that everything is just great all the
Speaker 2: time for everybody. So I come from a world where
Speaker 2: no one really talks openly about struggles or family issues.
Speaker 2: So is there a point where where you got to
Speaker 2: a certain age where you were like, why is all
Speaker 2: of this so much everybody else's business.
Speaker 1: That's that's interesting. I've never really thought about it like that,
Speaker 1: but so, you know, the truth is, and we talk
Speaker 1: about this a lot as a family on our show,
Speaker 1: The Buying Beverly Hills. I to different rate which one now,
Speaker 1: which is crazy. But we always were the kind of
Speaker 1: family that did brush things under the rug, and we
Speaker 1: did not talk about things internally very much. And I've
Speaker 1: got to say, you know, I would say the first
Speaker 1: time our family drama was e republic was when a
Speaker 1: lot of stuff happened with my mom and her sister
Speaker 1: in the beginning seasons of Real Housewives, and that was
Speaker 1: a very big deal for all of us and not
Speaker 1: something I was used to. And I think that's around
Speaker 1: the time I was just like, I don't think I
Speaker 1: can watch the show. Oh my gosh. I was thirteen
Speaker 1: when it started twenty seven. Now, I was probably like
Speaker 1: thirteen or fourteen when all that stuff started coming out.
Speaker 1: I think it was season one when there's like this
Speaker 1: whole big limo fighting and that was very not normal
Speaker 1: for us, and it was a very big deal. It's
Speaker 1: a big deal with our family, and so we just
Speaker 1: kept on rushing most things under the rug. It feels
Speaker 1: like for a majority of our life until you know
Speaker 1: now you know, as a family, are the news of
Speaker 1: my store? Sorry, the news of my parents and separation
Speaker 1: came out before we had ever talked about it as
Speaker 1: a family internally, and then the cameras for Buying Beverly
Speaker 1: Hills were coming the very next day. So it was
Speaker 1: one of those things where I think as a family
Speaker 1: we were maybe fed up with brushing things under the rug.
Speaker 1: I know the sisters were, and we just kind of
Speaker 1: had a moment. We were like, we need to start talking,
Speaker 1: and the cameras were going to be there anyway, so
Speaker 1: we just leaned in. And that was in July. So
Speaker 1: a lot has changed since then, but now we talk
Speaker 1: about everything.
Speaker 4: Because I saw, like the first episode of this season
Speaker 4: of Buying Beverly Hills, it opens up with that kind
Speaker 4: of conversation, but it was really quick and then it
Speaker 4: says six months earlier, and I haven't finished this season yet,
Speaker 4: so I'm still kind of like in the early episodes,
Speaker 4: but so do we see all that play out? Like
Speaker 4: we actually see the conversation of them explain to what's
Speaker 4: going on.
Speaker 1: So what was filmed was really like two of the
Speaker 1: four big conversations we've had as a family, and those
Speaker 1: were that was the you know, we had one conversation
Speaker 1: when the news came out, but my sister Farah wasn't there.
Speaker 1: So the next day when the cameras came, Flarah came
Speaker 1: and that was the first full conversation as a family
Speaker 1: we had. So that was as real as it gets
Speaker 1: and as honest and open as it gets, which is
Speaker 1: so crazy. And then you know when my sisters that
Speaker 1: scene that it starts off with my sisters and my
Speaker 1: dad spoiler alert kind of you know, it ends with that.
Speaker 1: Again you kind of see more of that conversation, but
Speaker 1: you can definitely tell we were very frustrated at that
Speaker 1: point because we hadn't had more conversations. So that was
Speaker 1: the first conversation with sisters and just dad that we
Speaker 1: were like, we need to be doing this more, like
Speaker 1: we feel out of the loop. We're learning things from
Speaker 1: TMC and it doesn't feel fair. So, you know, it
Speaker 1: was just it's it's something that's new for us, honestly.
Speaker 4: But is it is it easier because you were saying
Speaker 4: that was July, Now it's I don't even know what
Speaker 4: month were in April a second clips, it's the eclipse
Speaker 4: in my brain. But is it is it easier for
Speaker 4: you guys to kind of do this in front of
Speaker 4: the cameras because you do have that time, like you've
Speaker 4: had all these months to kind of digest what went
Speaker 4: on and out now the public is like seeing it.
Speaker 1: The moments are not easier. I was very, very, very
Speaker 1: emotional and Aspen the night before when the cameras were coming,
Speaker 1: I was very freaked out. But I think something about
Speaker 1: the cameras being on you kind of like stamped me
Speaker 1: into just more of like a professional mode versus emotional mode. Also,
Speaker 1: my little sister was there, so there's also the part
Speaker 1: of me that's it's time to be a big sister.
Speaker 1: It's time to be strong. And I think we all
Speaker 1: handled it very strongly, which you know there's that, But
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I forgot what you said because
Speaker 1: my mind's in the thousand places right now. Now. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'll think of all the things the eclipse.
Speaker 2: I was curious if before they because you said they
Speaker 2: you found out that they separated before y'all had to
Speaker 2: talk about it.
Speaker 1: No, we found out from the article.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But before y'all got to have
Speaker 2: a family conversation about it, you found out about it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, exactly a.
Speaker 2: Moment that you were watching your parents interact where you
Speaker 2: were like, because at a certain point your mid twenties,
Speaker 2: you're kind of.
Speaker 1: Going, yeah, it's going on.
Speaker 2: I know, relationship cues. Were you starting to see that stuff,
Speaker 2: anything was going on?
Speaker 1: I you know, that was I could tell that things
Speaker 1: were not the same. So that's why it was different
Speaker 1: this time. People were getting the calls typically and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: just another story, but I think that time it hit
Speaker 1: differently because of what we had been observing. Our parents
Speaker 1: never fight, and it's still very healthy household, still very
Speaker 1: full of so much love. But you know, they were
Speaker 1: both traveling a lot more and not being as like
Speaker 1: affectionate with each other as much, and their schedules were
Speaker 1: just so opposite, and I could tell that they weren't
Speaker 1: each other's priority anymore, and they were just changing. You know,
Speaker 1: my mom is in this health mode and she's working
Speaker 1: out every day, and she's sober and well sober, she
Speaker 1: doesn't drink anymore, you know, and then my dad is
Speaker 1: just like on this whole other opposite grind where he's
Speaker 1: like opening up these offices, and when he opens up
Speaker 1: the offices, he goes and he's partying, and he's like
Speaker 1: just in like a totally different mindset. So I was
Speaker 1: starting to see changes between the two of them, and
Speaker 1: like where interests were not aligning as much, and the
Speaker 1: interests really where they did align where our family and
Speaker 1: naturally we're growing up and we're moving out, we're doing
Speaker 1: all the things, and so I was piecing it all together,
Speaker 1: but it was never confirmed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, here's like watching observing because you've been in
Speaker 2: you've been in your own relationship for a while now, yeah,
Speaker 2: I have so four years. So you're like, you know
Speaker 2: when communication, when something's you're able to recognize it once
Speaker 2: you're in a relationship for.
Speaker 1: A long Timestely, I just wasn't really ever sure it
Speaker 1: was going to be that serious. I thought it was
Speaker 1: just like a moment, you know, which was so natural.
Speaker 1: So the word separation was the heavy Well yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: But I feel like that does happen in relationships, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, you have been with somebody for so long,
Speaker 4: like you go through ebbs and flows, and yeah, you're
Speaker 4: closer at some seasons of life not so close in
Speaker 4: some so it's.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, exactly exactly, and you know, we talk about
Speaker 1: it a little bit more where it's just twenty seven
Speaker 1: years together. Is it's a win no matter what? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And who knows still what's really going to happen if
Speaker 1: they're still separated. I don't know what if the D
Speaker 1: word's going to happen or what.
Speaker 3: But oh right, yeah, yeah, so it's.
Speaker 1: Not sure where it's going to go at this moment.
Speaker 1: That's where I stand. But you know, it's it's it's
Speaker 1: new stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. Do you now that buying Beverly Hills?
Speaker 2: Because The Housewives was always focused on your mom, right,
Speaker 2: like the family stuff would come and go, but it
Speaker 2: was definitely focused on Now buying Beverly Hills, you're with
Speaker 2: your family, there's a lot more focus on you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: how has the shift been weird or did you feel
Speaker 2: like you were ready for it? Just from the Housewives world.
Speaker 1: I had a much harder time with it season one
Speaker 1: just because I was so I was so I wanted
Speaker 1: so badly to be such a good agent, and I
Speaker 1: was so nervous of how people were going to judge
Speaker 1: me because I knew people expected so much from me,
Speaker 1: and I think I just had this whole existential crisis
Speaker 1: season one and I just cried so much and I
Speaker 1: was just so triggered by everything. This time around, I
Speaker 1: just felt way more confident and it was way easier
Speaker 1: for me. And I've always been comfortable in front of
Speaker 1: a camera, so you know, having all those harder conversations. Also,
Speaker 1: these people come back, you know, the cameraman, you know,
Speaker 1: the producer. It's like they're starting to become your friend.
Speaker 1: So it was just so much easier this time around.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it just feels natural. Just happens,
Speaker 1: and I just I sometimes I just you know, I
Speaker 1: know the cameras are there, but it's so easy to
Speaker 1: just say what I want to say and feel completely normal.
Speaker 2: Yeah when you So I was on The Bachelor like
Speaker 2: years and years ago. But it's so weird that you
Speaker 2: go on a show and you're being filmed and you're
Speaker 2: talking every day and you're sharing this stuff, and then
Speaker 2: there's I remember there was this moment in between finishing
Speaker 2: filming and when it aired where I had this moment
Speaker 2: of thinking about everything. I said, going, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: people are gonna watch this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the scariest part, yeah, because you're like,
Speaker 1: you feel comfortable with your friends and something You're like, oh.
Speaker 3: God, no, I can guess everything.
Speaker 1: Oh so there's there's definitely times I second guess things
Speaker 1: and I'm like scared. But but you know, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I don't think I said anything bad.
Speaker 1: You just can't help but be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I don't think I remember your season. I don't think
Speaker 1: you ever said anything crazy either, Like you just can't
Speaker 1: help but be like, was that okay, Oh my god
Speaker 1: likes something or whatever? I like my voice sounded weird
Speaker 1: or I laughed weird, or just little things like that
Speaker 1: that you never know what people are gonna come at
Speaker 1: you for.
Speaker 2: Us, right, Are they gonna take that out of context
Speaker 2: or people gonna take it the wrong way? But you
Speaker 2: really can't prepare. I was gonna say, I just was
Speaker 2: this random person who got selected to be on a show,
Speaker 2: and I had no idea what I was getting myself
Speaker 2: into because I had never experienced just blatant hate towards
Speaker 2: me or just people not liking me because I didn't
Speaker 2: I never had that many eyes on me, So that
Speaker 2: was such an adjustment when once the show ended, and
Speaker 2: I was on social media seeing what people had to
Speaker 2: say about me when they didn't know me, and I
Speaker 2: was curious, if you struggle with that and having people
Speaker 2: talk about your family and feeling the pressure or the
Speaker 2: need to defend them or step up, or do you
Speaker 2: just go they're gonna say what they're gonna say.
Speaker 1: I think for me it's a little easier. I definitely
Speaker 1: get some mean comments here and there, and it again
Speaker 1: used to affect me way more, especially when it was
Speaker 1: me in terms of my business because I was so
Speaker 1: serious about it. But when people attack my character, I'm like,
Speaker 1: they don't know me. They really don't. But the people.
Speaker 1: What I never am okay with is how people speak
Speaker 1: to my mom and I see how much it really
Speaker 1: affects her. And I know she's strong and she's fine,
Speaker 1: but she's also like a very sensitive person. So I
Speaker 1: think I've trained myself to turn that off because I
Speaker 1: want her to turn that part off of her so
Speaker 1: many times and I see what people say to her
Speaker 1: and I see how wrong they are, but she internalizes
Speaker 1: them and I'm like, they don't know you. You raise me.
Speaker 1: I know you, like if I love you, and I
Speaker 1: admire you and I tell you you're the best person in
Speaker 1: the world, Like, trust me, that's the truth, you know,
Speaker 1: And so that's never easyuse I really don't like when
Speaker 1: people go after my family seeing those parts. I'm always
Speaker 1: so annoyed, Like if anyone comments on my pictures about
Speaker 1: my family, I'm deleting. But if anyone trolls me, I
Speaker 1: kind of keep it because I like it.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, Okay, the real fans will come to
Speaker 2: my fence.
Speaker 1: It's about my mom.
Speaker 2: It's no one needs to see it.
Speaker 1: But just like that's your baby. That's kind of funny.
Speaker 1: That's fine. I mean, I don't know, I just it's
Speaker 1: I'm sometimes entertained. Like one time someone was like, you
Speaker 1: look like a lizard next to your sisters, and I
Speaker 1: was like, what a lizard. I was like, okay, I'll
Speaker 1: take that. That's fine, they're beautiful a lizard.
Speaker 2: Well, I was thinking though that. You know, we were saying,
Speaker 2: we've talked about how people feel very brave behind a
Speaker 2: computer phone when they're commenting. You know, there's no they'll
Speaker 2: just go for it. But has anyone because Bramo fans
Speaker 2: are so intense, they're so passionate. Have you ever been
Speaker 2: had an experience with a fan that came up and
Speaker 2: said something like to that degree to your face or
Speaker 2: to your mom's face while you're around.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, everyone's so nice. Honestly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love when people come up and say to us.
Speaker 1: Everyone's always really sweet. It's only just the people on
Speaker 1: the screens. The trolls.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the trolls.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to get to you and your relationship. Okay,
Speaker 2: so you all been together, you said, four years?
Speaker 1: Yeah, four years.
Speaker 2: How did you meet?
Speaker 1: We actually met in elementary school. I came to his
Speaker 1: school in third grade and we've just been friends ever
Speaker 1: since we were He was always like in my friend group,
Speaker 1: and then in high school became inseparable. High school, I
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend for six years. Boyfriend was like, this
Speaker 1: relationship is too close, you know, Like so we kind
Speaker 1: of had like an off couple of years. But the
Speaker 1: second I broke up with that boyfriend, we were best
Speaker 1: friends again and hanging out all the time. And yeah,
Speaker 1: literally just best best best friends. He was the only
Speaker 1: boy that was ever allowed to drive me in high school.
Speaker 1: He was my carpool. He I was only allowed to
Speaker 1: go to Coachella in high school if he shot parone
Speaker 1: to me. So he was always my So your parents
Speaker 1: love him, My parents will always loved him.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: He always took care of me and I was We
Speaker 1: always had the best time together. So and then four
Speaker 1: years ago, finally we made it happen.
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, how did it turn from best
Speaker 4: friends to lovers?
Speaker 1: So it was always very platonic lovers. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: there's no other word, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was the shift?
Speaker 1: The shift was so it was it's kind of awkward,
Speaker 1: but it was always platonic between us because in seventh grade,
Speaker 1: seventh grade guys, he was my best friend's first kiss
Speaker 1: and boyfriend, so in my world he was just never
Speaker 1: an option and it just made that way. We were
Speaker 1: best best friends, but there was never any romance. And
Speaker 1: then actually in college one year, that best friend who's
Speaker 1: still my sister, she was like, you guys are in
Speaker 1: love and you'd be idiots to not admit it to
Speaker 1: each other. And I was like, no, we're not, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: You're you're crazy and she's like, no, you're you're being crazy,
Speaker 1: and the like opened up my eyes and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I needed that. Okay, and yeah, green light.
Speaker 1: It shifted like that moment, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: maybe I am. And I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I have been this whole time. And I had to
Speaker 1: kiss him first. Nice I kissed, yeah, and I was like,
Speaker 1: we're never talking about this ever again. I was like,
Speaker 1: that was a mistake. We're not doing this again. And
Speaker 1: then complicated story. But he ended up choosing someone else
Speaker 1: for two years. Yep, he dated someone else and he
Speaker 1: was like on.
Speaker 2: The friends two years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it kind of got broad up six years ago.
Speaker 1: But the moment wasn't right. He met someone else, Like
Speaker 1: right as I opened up my eyes to it, and
Speaker 1: I was like, listen, we're best friends. If you're not
Speaker 1: sure about this right now, we're not gonna go into
Speaker 1: this because we're best friends. That's not ruined that. So
Speaker 1: we took a step back. I remember us saying, if
Speaker 1: it's meant to be, it'll it'll be. And two years later,
Speaker 1: it happened. It just happened. It was It was pretty crazy.
Speaker 2: Did you all stay best friends when he was dating
Speaker 2: the other girl? Did she say like, there's got to
Speaker 2: be boundaries here?
Speaker 1: We were always best friends, but there was definitely like
Speaker 1: a boundary. I mean, yeah, and he was. He loved
Speaker 1: her so much, and I also really really liked her too,
Speaker 1: and I was never waiting, you know. I was never
Speaker 1: that person that was like, you know, hoping badly for them.
Speaker 1: I really liked her and we still talk ever so often.
Speaker 1: And she she broke up with him. Actually so yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: So so they break up and then how did he
Speaker 4: he came running back.
Speaker 1: Sort of yeah, pretty much like getting hot. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't do anything wrong here, right, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it was all very respectful, waited exactly, and you know
Speaker 1: it was it was her call, and it was never
Speaker 1: I I dated other people. I was never waiting. I
Speaker 1: was never doing anything, you know, slimmy on the side. Like,
Speaker 1: it was very very She knew about what had happened
Speaker 1: to she found out. Yeah, she knew that we kissed,
Speaker 1: and we were fine after that. Honestly, I think once
Speaker 1: it was all out the bag, like it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: now I know. Yeah, So honesty is the key.
Speaker 2: Yeah, aside from you being like, okay, my best friend
Speaker 2: kissed him or how to crush on him or whatever.
Speaker 2: That was in seventh grade, during that whole time before
Speaker 2: y'all kissed again. I prefer y'all kissed. Did you ever
Speaker 2: think I have a Did you have feelings for him
Speaker 2: and you were just like I can't go there or
Speaker 2: you never even saw him that way.
Speaker 1: I'm scarily good at shutting off feelings and like shutting
Speaker 1: off people. Yeah, I'm very good at like, if this
Speaker 1: isn't for me, it's like I'm done. So I never
Speaker 1: we ever, So often we'd meet up, we'd have like
Speaker 1: a hangout with our dinners and like friends whatever, and
Speaker 1: like we always just we always had a special connection,
Speaker 1: but we never acted on any of it. It just
Speaker 1: it was just one of those things where I never
Speaker 1: allowed myself to feel anything that wasn't meant for me.
Speaker 1: So I think that's kind of how it was for me.
Speaker 1: You know, until I got the green light from my
Speaker 1: best friend, I was just shut off. But the second
Speaker 1: it was okay, turned back on, and when you know
Speaker 1: he was doing this other girl, it was shut off.
Speaker 1: And it was I never allowed myself to go there.
Speaker 1: And when I dated these other guys, I was only
Speaker 1: thinking about those guys. I was never thinking about you
Speaker 1: know what diabolical plan, you know, But you know, my
Speaker 1: relationship didn't work out, and then maybe like a month
Speaker 1: or two later, his relationship didn't work out, and we
Speaker 1: were both just there and I was like, should we
Speaker 1: do we try this? Like and you know, he he
Speaker 1: was like, I'm ready for you to be my girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, okay, hold on, slowdown. You literally
Speaker 1: just like this is too fast. I remember I chose
Speaker 1: our anniversary because I didn't want to be right when
Speaker 1: it started, because it was just like, this is too soon,
Speaker 1: like we need to I don't know.
Speaker 2: You just picked a date that felt good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. I actually chose the date I kissed him
Speaker 1: the first time, and it like weirdly lined two days
Speaker 1: two years later that like we had been hooking up
Speaker 1: for like a month at that point, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I feel like a month later it is good, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel.
Speaker 2: Good about this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so funny.
Speaker 2: Okay. So Tanya had a conversation our friend Jason. He
Speaker 2: talks a lot about finances and relationship and the conversations
Speaker 2: that you should be having before you get into real relationship.
Speaker 2: I found it really interesting because I so much. You're welcome.
Speaker 2: He is a great interview.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: I was curious because y'all grew up together and then
Speaker 2: you become you're in a relationship. I'm assuming do y'all
Speaker 2: live together?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you recently moved in, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2: So is there was there a conversation. Have y'all had
Speaker 2: any of those conversations about like the financial and how
Speaker 2: you're addressing those things moving forward?
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I was having those conversations way before we
Speaker 1: even moved in together.
Speaker 2: Oh wow.
Speaker 1: I've always been very honest about what I want my
Speaker 1: future to look like, and I, you know, just was like, hey,
Speaker 1: we need to make sure our goal is aligne And
Speaker 1: we've we actually have a plan now to go to
Speaker 1: like Soho house one day and sit with our bottle
Speaker 1: of wine and really go over all of our financials,
Speaker 1: like what our travel plans are going to be, like,
Speaker 1: really go over the math of what our rent's going
Speaker 1: to look like by the end of the year, and
Speaker 1: just like our savings, et cetera, and just like really
Speaker 1: plan out everything. But we've I always made it also
Speaker 1: very clear that I want to be very part of
Speaker 1: it all and involved. So we split our rent fifty
Speaker 1: to fifty every like all our furniture is fifty to fifty,
Speaker 1: Like everything is hours, so you know, we were always
Speaker 1: having those conversations. I do think it's so important to
Speaker 1: talk about what you want and what your goals are.
Speaker 4: I think it's so funny because it's a conversation I
Speaker 4: feel not a lot of people have or like are
Speaker 4: not comfortable having, you know, like and I I feel
Speaker 4: like with my fiance, we've always had conversations like that.
Speaker 4: But like I was reading this book and I was like,
Speaker 4: I didn't even know I don't know what his credit
Speaker 4: score was, Like I didn't even really know what my
Speaker 4: credit score was moving honest, Like I mean like I
Speaker 4: was like, oh my gosh, and I like find I
Speaker 4: feel like I'm very on top of it, and like
Speaker 4: I'm very you know, and I'm like, wow, there's a
Speaker 4: lot of room to like really grow and be more
Speaker 4: proactive in this space because it's like when you're combining
Speaker 4: two lives, there's so much to it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. So it's it's it's kind of weird
Speaker 1: to say this, but business transaction totally. You know, you
Speaker 1: have to make it's going to be your partner for
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. You have to make sure
Speaker 1: you work together. Well you know this. I remember the
Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship. Not the beginning, but when I
Speaker 1: wanted to start having these conversations, I'd be like, so,
Speaker 1: like what are your goals? And you'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: just have a nice, happy family, and like I'd think like, okay,
Speaker 1: Like that's so sweet, but what we need a little
Speaker 1: bit more here, Like let's talk like real steps, right,
Speaker 1: how do how what? How do we get there?
Speaker 2: You know? Right?
Speaker 4: We're what city are we living in? How many bedrooms?
Speaker 4: How many bedrooms of a house are we having?
Speaker 1: Exactly? And I tell my friends this all the time.
Speaker 1: I think that money should be a very important part
Speaker 1: of the conversation. I mean it's a common misalignment for
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Yeah, like you know a lot
Speaker 1: of one of my friends was just talking about how
Speaker 1: someone she liked wasn't didn't want to send their kids
Speaker 1: to private school, and she really wants their k to
Speaker 1: go to private school. And that's something I don't think about.
Speaker 1: Like that's an important, you know piece, especially if both
Speaker 1: of you are so strong headed about it. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: it's important to just make your plans talk about those things,
Speaker 1: even if it's awkward to be like, listen, if we're
Speaker 1: being real, we need to talk about this stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there was a whole you know, the
Speaker 2: generation before us was like, it's all about love. If
Speaker 2: you find some money love, you can get through anything.
Speaker 2: And it's like, sure, maybe that's true, but why not
Speaker 2: set yourself up for success and have these conversations so
Speaker 2: that there's not a surprise or there's not a misunderstanding.
Speaker 2: And obviously there's ups and downs in life and not
Speaker 2: everything's predictable. But I think it's just being smart enough
Speaker 2: to go. Are we at least on the same page
Speaker 2: in terms of what we're hoping for?
Speaker 1: Yeah? What THEND goal is? Yeah? You know, obviously we
Speaker 1: all want to be happy and in love, but what if,
Speaker 1: you know, like things happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my best friend is obsessed basically with the whole show,
Speaker 2: and she loves was.
Speaker 3: The best friend.
Speaker 2: Huh oh sorry one of my best friends.
Speaker 1: I was like to me, I know I related to that.
Speaker 4: When you're like, when your sisters are hanging out, I
Speaker 4: get it when they feel like.
Speaker 2: You one of my best for other best friends, Brittany,
Speaker 2: She was saying, she loves your relationship with your sisters
Speaker 2: and how close y'all are. Has it always been that way?
Speaker 2: Because I have three sisters, so I know the ups
Speaker 2: and downs of sisterhood, stealing of the clothes, all the things.
Speaker 2: But in terms of just life, do you relate to that?
Speaker 1: I my sisters and I are so close. We have
Speaker 1: always been that close. We never fight. I think growing up,
Speaker 1: our biggest fight with Sophie and I was who was
Speaker 1: going to click the elevator button. We just want we
Speaker 1: both want to click it so bad, but it was
Speaker 1: never we I don't know what the recipe is, what
Speaker 1: we're doing right, but we they're my best friends. Like
Speaker 1: there's no oh, there's no details to it. It's just
Speaker 1: we are best friends. We are obsessed with each other.
Speaker 1: I look at Porscha and I'm just like, you're the
Speaker 1: coolest person I've ever seen. I love her, Sophia, I'm
Speaker 1: obsessed with She's funny, and all of us are so
Speaker 1: different from the other. There's not two of us that
Speaker 1: are alike.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Farah, I look.
Speaker 1: Up too so much. She's honorable and she's oh man
Speaker 1: when she lets loose. She's the funniest, most fun person. Like,
Speaker 1: we just have so much fun all the time. And
Speaker 1: I think maybe because we're so different, Yeah, we don't
Speaker 1: there's not really that competitive aspect or you know, like
Speaker 1: we don't really borrow that many clothes from each other
Speaker 1: because we.
Speaker 2: All dress different.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it just it just works.
Speaker 2: But you get jealous.
Speaker 1: I get jealous when they're all vibing without Maamia.
Speaker 2: Yeah. What what are the ages? Everyone's ages?
Speaker 1: Farah thirty five, I think, and then I'm twenty seven,
Speaker 1: Sophia's twenty four, and Porsha sixteen.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so it's that's amazing that y'all are so close,
Speaker 2: because that's a thirty five to sixteen? Is it big gap?
Speaker 1: Yeah? They're nineteen nineteen years apart. Is that math? Is
Speaker 1: that math? Mathing?
Speaker 2: Not the right clips?
Speaker 4: Randon, don't even get me started with math.
Speaker 1: But actually the age difference between my mom and Farah
Speaker 1: is the same age difference between Farah and Portia. Oh wow, yeah,
Speaker 1: nineteen years apart.
Speaker 4: Oh right, your mom had Parah when she was nineteen.
Speaker 4: I did do that math at one point.
Speaker 2: I have a question about your parents. Have you experienced,
Speaker 2: and if you're comfortable sharing this, have you experienced them
Speaker 2: dating other people since their separation and would you be comfortable?
Speaker 2: How do you feel about it?
Speaker 1: If you have I'm I'm you know, what the goal
Speaker 1: is really just for them to be happy. That's all
Speaker 1: I want. So at the end of the day, if
Speaker 1: they end up together or not, like I just want
Speaker 1: them to do what's best for them. And I kind
Speaker 1: of did have a conversation with I think both of
Speaker 1: my parents where I was just like, you don't have
Speaker 1: to make this decision for me anymore, Like, do what's
Speaker 1: best for you. And honestly, there's like like a beauty
Speaker 1: in trying something new. I mean, you've you've had twenty
Speaker 1: beautiful years, twenty seven beautiful years together and you guys
Speaker 1: get to get to like test the waters and see
Speaker 1: what's what's working for you. And you know, I I'm
Speaker 1: going to let them speak on their dating life, but
Speaker 1: whatever they do and whatever makes them happy for the
Speaker 1: most part, I will support.
Speaker 4: I say, coming from someone who has step kids in
Speaker 4: their life, are you going to be nice to those
Speaker 4: other people?
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm a nice person.
Speaker 2: If you're nice to me.
Speaker 1: I'll be nice for you. But if you mess with me.
Speaker 2: I do think you're at a good age too, We're
Speaker 2: able to have that emotional maturity too, and just being
Speaker 2: like how important it is to see your parents happy,
Speaker 2: regardless of what that looks like or who they're with. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and obviously you. I think the fact that you and
Speaker 2: your sisters love each other and are so ride or
Speaker 2: die and get along says so much about your parents,
Speaker 2: because I think that comes from how you're raised in
Speaker 2: the household. You're raised in absolutely, and so I think
Speaker 2: that you having the emotional awareness and maturities to say,
Speaker 2: like you don't have to do this for us, at
Speaker 2: least for me, I think that's amazing and I respect it.
Speaker 1: One of the things, like, you know, I was worried
Speaker 1: about Porsche with this whole thing, because the rest of
Speaker 1: us were, you know, we're adults. I was really worried
Speaker 1: about Porsche when this all came to light. But the
Speaker 1: reality is is Porsche has what for moms. We've all
Speaker 1: been like moms to her. I saw someone commented on Instagram, like,
Speaker 1: where's Porsche. We're worried about Porsche. I'm like, she is
Speaker 1: so fine. She's getting so much attention from all of us,
Speaker 1: Like I just cheperone her sixteenth birthday and Lakinta it
Speaker 1: was really fun, Like, you know, I love picking her
Speaker 1: up from school, dropping her off she's best friends with Sophia,
Speaker 1: Like they have their moments. She had one on one
Speaker 1: lunch with my dad. The other day we went to
Speaker 1: couple with our mom. Like we're always just together no
Speaker 1: matter what. So it's really nice just having that, having
Speaker 1: that stability, like even if the parents are going through
Speaker 1: the thing, like you have the sisters like coming in
Speaker 1: and making sure everything's okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you all really stick together. Speaking of girls stick
Speaker 2: together so much that you all work together, you work
Speaker 2: as your family together. What is that, Danna, I don't
Speaker 2: think I could work with definitely one of my Honestly.
Speaker 1: It has its challenges, honestly, but for the most part,
Speaker 1: we just have a lot of fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And the good thing.
Speaker 1: Is about real estate is that we're always doing different things.
Speaker 1: So the way our team is built is that we
Speaker 1: have obviously my dad, Farah and me, but my dad's
Speaker 1: at the CEO and he's traveling and he's doing he's
Speaker 1: doing his CEO meetings and whatever, and then they're fair
Speaker 1: and I split our clients, so we're not working with
Speaker 1: the same clients usually at once, so you know, we're
Speaker 1: we have our team meetings, but we actually keep our
Speaker 1: inner workings pretty separate, which I think is good in
Speaker 1: terms of just keeping the dynamics healthy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well, I do feel like when I watch
Speaker 2: these shows, any real estate shows on TV, they make
Speaker 2: it look just it looks so easy, like anyone could
Speaker 2: do it. But I'm curious about the realities of doing it,
Speaker 2: but also doing it and filming it and having it
Speaker 2: recorded and being on camera. What the reality of it?
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, every deal that we do, every
Speaker 1: listing that we have on the show is real. So
Speaker 1: anytime we're like, oh, this one's sold, it actually sold.
Speaker 1: We went to Miami, we got a billion dollars in listings.
Speaker 1: We actually got a billion dollars in listings, which is crazy.
Speaker 1: So we're really working it through that process and we're
Speaker 1: almost like working double well, we are literally working double time.
Speaker 1: We're doing a show and we're staring houses, but we're
Speaker 1: working the real estate part trip all time because we
Speaker 1: want to look good. We're like, shit, I don't sell
Speaker 1: a house during this ten weeks that we're we're filming.
Speaker 1: This is going to be so embarrassing, you know. So
Speaker 1: it's stressful, especially because we did film at a very
Speaker 1: bad market. Thank god I got that one. Salem Oh
Speaker 1: my god, the Venice house. Thank god. But it's scary
Speaker 1: and it's it's you know, you just want to prove yourself.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Real estate is a
Speaker 1: relation ship build business, and it's about your who you
Speaker 1: are as a person. People pick you based on you know, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's stats, but a lot of people are very successful
Speaker 1: out there, so it's about who you are, and you know,
Speaker 1: you want to put your best self out there. So
Speaker 1: it's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 4: Can you talk to us a little bit about the
Speaker 4: real estate market, because what the heck.
Speaker 2: Don't wants to buy house?
Speaker 1: And like, what the heck?
Speaker 4: Why is my mortgage fifteen thousand dollars when it used
Speaker 4: to be five?
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, you can always refinance your mortgage rate when
Speaker 1: anytime it changes.
Speaker 2: But when is it going to change?
Speaker 3: You don't know.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's that's the one thing. Yeah, that's just
Speaker 1: stuck until until it changes. But you know, they say
Speaker 1: all these things, it's going to change. This year is
Speaker 1: going to be really good. They're telling people that you
Speaker 1: should buy now before it does drop, and then everyone
Speaker 1: who's been waiting comes it at once. They're kind of like,
Speaker 1: if you think it's going to change soon. Get in
Speaker 1: on it now, So it's not like piranhas going after
Speaker 1: all the good stuff, right and then you can refinance.
Speaker 1: So that's like people's plans.
Speaker 2: Do they feel like that's I mean from what you hear,
Speaker 2: is there a world word on the street, on the
Speaker 2: street spidey sense that that's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I get so nervous telling people because like, yes, they
Speaker 1: are saying it's going to happen, but I don't. There's
Speaker 1: obviously no promises, but it is projected to be much
Speaker 1: there's projected to be a drop.
Speaker 3: This year, and what goes up must come down.
Speaker 1: Exactly, it's just science. I mean, those numbers that we
Speaker 1: saw this last year were just insane. Go any higher
Speaker 1: would be astronomical.
Speaker 2: Well, that's what I've heard a lot of people say
Speaker 2: is if you find something that you love and you
Speaker 2: can do it, get it, get it, and then be
Speaker 2: prepared to refinance when when it drops, because what's going
Speaker 2: to happen is as soon as it drops, it's going
Speaker 2: to be vultures. And it's still competitive. Exactly do you
Speaker 2: find that it's still competitive even with the interest rate
Speaker 2: and the prices, it's still a competitive market.
Speaker 1: Well especially now this this new year is bringing in
Speaker 1: a lot more people.
Speaker 4: So New Year meeting twenty twenty four, twenty twenty four,
Speaker 4: what's twenty twenty five looking like? Do they tell you
Speaker 4: like those things?
Speaker 1: Okay, I can't. This is above my page, right. I
Speaker 1: love that.
Speaker 4: I'm a guy for this, But like conversations about money
Speaker 4: and like I always said, like I wish in college,
Speaker 4: by the way, I knew you went to University of Arizona.
Speaker 2: Oh did you I did?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no way you were. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: the little little research. But we are we like, were
Speaker 1: you there at the same time?
Speaker 4: No, I'm thirty six, so actually funny enough. I know
Speaker 4: Melissa Platt who is on the Beverly Hills. Yeah, she's
Speaker 4: my sworty.
Speaker 1: She just at her house for Easter to spend the
Speaker 1: day with us. She's one of our close close friends.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's the cutest.
Speaker 1: She's the cutest. She really is.
Speaker 2: She really is.
Speaker 1: She's the cutest.
Speaker 4: But in college I was I was like, they should
Speaker 4: teach us stuff like buying a house, health insurance, all
Speaker 4: these basic you know, financial planning and all that stuff,
Speaker 4: because I'm like, once you become an adult. It's just
Speaker 4: like it all just hits you and you're like, So I.
Speaker 1: Actually started a what's the word networking event that I'm
Speaker 1: trying to do quarterly called adulting is Hard, and it
Speaker 1: was the first one was about building a good credit
Speaker 1: score so you can prepare to eventually build a house
Speaker 1: one day, and that all happened. This whole idea happened
Speaker 1: because I had no idea. You needed a credit card
Speaker 1: to build a credit score, right, And my boyfriend actually
Speaker 1: got me my first credit card and I looked at
Speaker 1: my dad and I was like.
Speaker 2: I am an adult.
Speaker 1: I've been working for three years and I could have
Speaker 1: been building a credit score whole time. Yeah, oh I
Speaker 1: was living. I was like, I genuinely thought, like someone
Speaker 1: the they you know, they're watching where's my credit score?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: I had no idea. So my first was about but
Speaker 1: they had credit score and I was. It was about explaining,
Speaker 1: you know why you need a good score for your
Speaker 1: future home and it's you know. That was the first one.
Speaker 1: The second one was about uh, financial planning, so it
Speaker 1: was about you know, starting your retirement fund and investing.
Speaker 1: So these are all things I never learned and I
Speaker 1: wish I did. Yeah, And I mean it's funny because
Speaker 1: I did grow up very comfortable and I am very privileged,
Speaker 1: and I do acknowledge that, but there's almost like a
Speaker 1: piece that you miss when you're so comfortable that you're
Speaker 1: not like pushed to do these things. And and then
Speaker 1: I have you know, friends that you know, don't have
Speaker 1: a parent to teach them these things. Like my partner
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking, you know, on a podcast, but she
Speaker 1: lost both of her parents and she's like, I didn't
Speaker 1: know these things either. So we have two people on
Speaker 1: two very opposite spectrums that like, you know, we're like,
Speaker 1: there's this is something that should be done. We need
Speaker 1: to have these moments. And then we have cocktails, we
Speaker 1: make fun and we talked to people. We did bowling
Speaker 1: last time, and it was you know, it's just something
Speaker 1: I think should be more normalized, is these conversations.
Speaker 2: I'm with you, that's such a great idea that you're
Speaker 2: doing that. Yeah, I'm they there needs to be courses,
Speaker 2: and they need to make it enjoyable and fun because
Speaker 2: I'm not going to go sit in a lecture hall
Speaker 2: and like be taught again, how did do exactly.
Speaker 4: In my college halls and tigers and bears. I'm like, what, Yeah,
Speaker 4: teachers have four to oh one k oh, my.
Speaker 1: God, exactly. So last my last adulting is hard session.
Speaker 1: He's like, I got up on stage. I'm introducing our guys.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, Like he's going to teach us about
Speaker 1: time and funds whatever. He's like, yeah, I'm just going
Speaker 1: to keep it simple, talk about for one cake. I'm
Speaker 1: like what. I'm like, you're what. I genuinely didn't even
Speaker 1: know what that was. And then I think everyone like
Speaker 1: started laughing in the room because I already had set
Speaker 1: the precipice, like I, yes, I'm busting this thing, but
Speaker 1: I don't know anything. But I'm here with everybody's.
Speaker 4: Embarrassed to say I don't know.
Speaker 2: You know, we all are in.
Speaker 4: These conversations and they're like yeh yeah, yeah, I'm you know,
Speaker 4: but like nobody knows anything, and like, I mean, now
Speaker 4: I know a little bit, but I mean, gosh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if I finally know what a four
Speaker 1: oh one K is, I know four months ago I
Speaker 1: learned that, Thank you very much. I'm twenty seven years old.
Speaker 2: I need to know when your next one is because
Speaker 2: I feel like I lit the vulnerability of you also
Speaker 2: not knowing what we're learning about.
Speaker 1: I yeah, I definitely make sure to ask a lot
Speaker 1: of questions and then it really I mean, our thirty
Speaker 1: minute session ended up being an hour and a half
Speaker 1: because everyone started asking everything. I like, I make sure.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need you to rewind one oh one
Speaker 1: for dummies.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it also makes people feel comfortable, Like
Speaker 2: if you're the host and you're asking, they're like, okay,
Speaker 2: I can ask too, Yeah, exactly are you waiting or
Speaker 2: interested in getting a ring on your finger?
Speaker 3: Obviously?
Speaker 2: I definitely you know, you were like letting him know
Speaker 2: that I needed to happen.
Speaker 1: We talk about getting married, like we know it's going
Speaker 1: to happen. We were just in combo with my mom
Speaker 1: and sisters, and I told my sisters and my mom
Speaker 1: like I asked my mom for ring advice because I
Speaker 1: don't know anything about rings, and we looked at pictures.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, son ever said that text him
Speaker 1: right now, so you know, but him and I know
Speaker 1: what's happening, Like that's not even a question. It's just
Speaker 1: a matter of when. Like he always tries to talk
Speaker 1: to me about it. I'm like, stop talking. Like, I
Speaker 1: need to be a secret. Yeah, you might be surprised,
Speaker 1: and I never get my nails done. I told my sisters,
Speaker 1: if you guys invite me to get my nails done,
Speaker 1: I'll be upset with you because I know it's going
Speaker 1: to be coming, So don't tell me that. I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's just I want it to be a surprise, even
Speaker 1: though I know it's coming, right, So we're excited about that. Yet.
Speaker 1: I love that you want to just choose my ring.
Speaker 1: But who knows what I ended up getting. He could
Speaker 1: end up getting something totally different. Who knows.
Speaker 2: You're like, listen to whatever my mom sends you follow
Speaker 2: with that advice.
Speaker 1: We did just measure each other's ring fingers. I like
Speaker 1: brought home you know that jewelry store masery. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: they sent me a ring measure and I brought it
Speaker 1: home the other day and he's like, yes, he's he
Speaker 1: kept trying to put it on my finger. I'm no, no,
Speaker 1: I want to do it. I want to do it.
Speaker 1: He would just like wanted to put the ring sizing
Speaker 1: on my on my finger. So you know, it's it's
Speaker 1: very open conversation. But when is the question.
Speaker 2: I love that you wanted to be a surprise.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2: He's probably just as excited about that.
Speaker 1: We're excited. I mean, it's it's been four years. But
Speaker 1: I'm not in a rush actually.
Speaker 2: Okay, see that's what I was getting at a rush,
Speaker 2: like you know some of you are.
Speaker 3: It's fine.
Speaker 1: I wanted the ring to be something I like, but
Speaker 1: I'm not in a rush.
Speaker 2: You know, you know it's coming. So you're at piece
Speaker 2: of up exactly.
Speaker 1: That's where I'm at mentally.
Speaker 2: Okay, what about career wise? What are your hopes and
Speaker 2: dreams and what is the what are the next years
Speaker 2: look like for you?
Speaker 1: So I definitely want to sell more. This year was slow,
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three was slower, and I just want to
Speaker 1: be way, way more successful in the numbers era. Oh
Speaker 1: not era. What's the word apartment department? Thank you? Era
Speaker 1: is too much? It's such a word right now. And
Speaker 1: then additionally, I want to I feel like our office
Speaker 1: is still kind of like post COVID. I hate talking
Speaker 1: about COVID all the time, but it's still in that
Speaker 1: post COVID moment where people aren't showing up to the
Speaker 1: office all the time, and we used to have this
Speaker 1: shot o'clock every Friday. We're at five o'clock every Friday.
Speaker 1: We have shots and just like little things that have
Speaker 1: changed since since COVID, where a lot more people are
Speaker 1: working at the office. I just want to focus a
Speaker 1: lot more on the culture or a company. This year.
Speaker 1: I talked to my dad. I was like, I want
Speaker 1: to have a top golf event with people out of office.
Speaker 1: I want to have a bowling event. I want him
Speaker 1: to have you know, dinners with people. I was like,
Speaker 1: we just I want to feel very involved, especially with
Speaker 1: the show coming out. I don't want it to be
Speaker 1: so alienating. I want us to still feel very part
Speaker 1: of the mix. Especially I just know people feel different
Speaker 1: and you know, look at people differently sometimes, and I
Speaker 1: just don't want to open the window to that possibility.
Speaker 1: Like I want us to be like I want my
Speaker 1: sisters at every event we're going to do. So, I
Speaker 1: want to focus a lot on the company this year.
Speaker 1: I'm just being part of that.
Speaker 2: Too, like the community of the company.
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2: But I love that you. I find that you really
Speaker 2: value that I do like you do with your family,
Speaker 2: with work, your friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's I have a giant group of friends
Speaker 1: I'm very like, I'm very focused on keeping that together
Speaker 1: as well. I'm just that's just my thing. I guess.
Speaker 1: I love that and I really realize that until you
Speaker 1: just said that out loud, Like you're so right.
Speaker 2: It's a very special quality because a lot of especially
Speaker 2: with everyone being on their phones and it's like you
Speaker 2: can barely get people to look you in the eye
Speaker 2: when you're having a conversation. I feel like having you
Speaker 2: having that is such a gift because it like bring
Speaker 2: people together, reminding them about community and how important it
Speaker 2: is to have that. Yeah, it's crucial. I think it's success.
Speaker 1: I think so too, and everything it's communities, like everywhere
Speaker 1: there exactly I went to. My school was called a
Speaker 1: community high school, and I'm still so involved in it.
Speaker 1: I try. I'm just like, I just it's important to
Speaker 1: focus on the community. All my friends are from my
Speaker 1: high school.
Speaker 3: What high school did you go to?
Speaker 1: I went to milkinh Okay Jewish School four five Ye.
Speaker 1: But yeah, we have literally have this group of like
Speaker 1: fifty friends that we see each other every month, every week,
Speaker 1: and we treat each other like a family. And I
Speaker 1: really do think it's because that like that word cult,
Speaker 1: community was so embedded in us, and we we nurtured
Speaker 1: our relationship so much.
Speaker 2: Fifty five zero yeah, five zero.
Speaker 1: A group of fifty people, Yeah pretty much.
Speaker 2: Yeah amazing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty crazy obviously, like the subgroups, but when
Speaker 1: you get everyone involved, it can be up to the subgroups.
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2: I feel like you would have that if you still
Speaker 2: love Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely very lucky.
Speaker 3: I keep looking at her hair and.
Speaker 1: I'm like, do I need to get a cut? Like
Speaker 1: I got so twelve inches, It's so cute, so cute,
Speaker 1: You're so ch so she my ballet hair.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, Cardigan, I'm like.
Speaker 2: You give oldest sister mentality. I haven't met your oldest sister,
Speaker 2: but you definitely have that energy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do, I have.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like the grandma the group. Honestly. I'm
Speaker 1: also I promise.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I want you to chaperone my birthday and
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Speaker 1: I can definitely if you get me in a party room.
Speaker 1: But you know, during the week, I'm very conservative. I
Speaker 1: don't wear makeup really. I like my sweaters.
Speaker 2: Yeah, jeans, You're everything you love. Thank you for scrubbing
Speaker 2: a podcast.
Speaker 1: You guys for having me so much fun.
Speaker 2: Hey you just class and clap in, clap out,