WEBVTT - Girl Code with Alexia Umansky

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb.

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<v Speaker 2>Today's guest. Well, you know her because her family has

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<v Speaker 2>been on our TVs for.

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<v Speaker 3>A minute now, many many years, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Many many years, and now she is part of the madness.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>We saw her grow up in the Real Housewives of

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<v Speaker 4>Beverly Hills. Her mom is Kylo Richards, her dad is Mauricio,

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<v Speaker 4>and they now have their own TV show together as

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<v Speaker 4>a family. That's called Buying Beverly Hills, which is all

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<v Speaker 4>about the real estate market in Beverly Hills, their family dynamic.

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<v Speaker 3>It's good.

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<v Speaker 4>It's on Netflix. I've been enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's all the sisters. It's a whole family affair,

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<v Speaker 2>and we are going to ask her all the questions

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<v Speaker 2>on today's episode.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's welcome to the Scrubbing In our Alexia Yumanski.

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<v Speaker 2>You're welcome. Clap, you're welcome, applause.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, yeah, I got a lot of for

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm joining you. Thank you for scrubbing in and

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<v Speaker 2>being on the podcast today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys so much for having me. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we were very excited to talk to you because

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot to talk to you about. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>you were I was going to ask you this. I

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<v Speaker 2>was curious, have you ever felt like your life was

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<v Speaker 2>normal in terms of other people's norm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's such a good question because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so normal, I really, really really do you know? Are

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<v Speaker 1>the drama the things we deal with as a family

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<v Speaker 1>as a whole, like that stuff never feels normal? But

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<v Speaker 1>like I also talk to my friends and we all

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<v Speaker 1>have our family drama as we all have our things,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm like, I'm not I'm not different.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a lot more people know about our stuff, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I really do feel so normal.

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<v Speaker 2>Well do you know it's gotta be so weird watching

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<v Speaker 2>such personal things, especially in your family, because I come

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<v Speaker 2>a fan I'm from the South, and the thing about

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<v Speaker 2>the self is that everything is just great all the

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<v Speaker 2>time for everybody. So I come from a world where

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<v Speaker 2>no one really talks openly about struggles or family issues.

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<v Speaker 2>So is there a point where where you got to

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<v Speaker 2>a certain age where you were like, why is all

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<v Speaker 2>of this so much everybody else's business.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's interesting. I've never really thought about it like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but so, you know, the truth is, and we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this a lot as a family on our show,

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<v Speaker 1>The Buying Beverly Hills. I to different rate which one now,

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<v Speaker 1>which is crazy. But we always were the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>family that did brush things under the rug, and we

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<v Speaker 1>did not talk about things internally very much. And I've

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<v Speaker 1>got to say, you know, I would say the first

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<v Speaker 1>time our family drama was e republic was when a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff happened with my mom and her sister

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning seasons of Real Housewives, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>a very big deal for all of us and not

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<v Speaker 1>something I was used to. And I think that's around

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<v Speaker 1>the time I was just like, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>can watch the show. Oh my gosh. I was thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>when it started twenty seven. Now, I was probably like

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen or fourteen when all that stuff started coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was season one when there's like this

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<v Speaker 1>whole big limo fighting and that was very not normal

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<v Speaker 1>for us, and it was a very big deal. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal with our family, and so we just

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<v Speaker 1>kept on rushing most things under the rug. It feels

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<v Speaker 1>like for a majority of our life until you know

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<v Speaker 1>now you know, as a family, are the news of

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<v Speaker 1>my store? Sorry, the news of my parents and separation

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<v Speaker 1>came out before we had ever talked about it as

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<v Speaker 1>a family internally, and then the cameras for Buying Beverly

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<v Speaker 1>Hills were coming the very next day. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things where I think as a family

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<v Speaker 1>we were maybe fed up with brushing things under the rug.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the sisters were, and we just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>had a moment. We were like, we need to start talking,

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<v Speaker 1>and the cameras were going to be there anyway, so

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<v Speaker 1>we just leaned in. And that was in July. So

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<v Speaker 1>a lot has changed since then, but now we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I saw, like the first episode of this season

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<v Speaker 4>of Buying Beverly Hills, it opens up with that kind

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<v Speaker 4>of conversation, but it was really quick and then it

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<v Speaker 4>says six months earlier, and I haven't finished this season yet,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm still kind of like in the early episodes,

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<v Speaker 4>but so do we see all that play out? Like

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<v Speaker 4>we actually see the conversation of them explain to what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was filmed was really like two of the

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<v Speaker 1>four big conversations we've had as a family, and those

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<v Speaker 1>were that was the you know, we had one conversation

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<v Speaker 1>when the news came out, but my sister Farah wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>So the next day when the cameras came, Flarah came

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<v Speaker 1>and that was the first full conversation as a family

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<v Speaker 1>we had. So that was as real as it gets

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<v Speaker 1>and as honest and open as it gets, which is

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy. And then you know when my sisters that

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<v Speaker 1>scene that it starts off with my sisters and my

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<v Speaker 1>dad spoiler alert kind of you know, it ends with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Again you kind of see more of that conversation, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can definitely tell we were very frustrated at that

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<v Speaker 1>point because we hadn't had more conversations. So that was

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<v Speaker 1>the first conversation with sisters and just dad that we

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<v Speaker 1>were like, we need to be doing this more, like

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<v Speaker 1>we feel out of the loop. We're learning things from

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<v Speaker 1>TMC and it doesn't feel fair. So, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just it's it's something that's new for us, honestly.

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<v Speaker 4>But is it is it easier because you were saying

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<v Speaker 4>that was July, Now it's I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 4>month were in April a second clips, it's the eclipse

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<v Speaker 4>in my brain. But is it is it easier for

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<v Speaker 4>you guys to kind of do this in front of

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<v Speaker 4>the cameras because you do have that time, like you've

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<v Speaker 4>had all these months to kind of digest what went

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<v Speaker 4>on and out now the public is like seeing it.

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<v Speaker 1>The moments are not easier. I was very, very, very

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<v Speaker 1>emotional and Aspen the night before when the cameras were coming,

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<v Speaker 1>I was very freaked out. But I think something about

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<v Speaker 1>the cameras being on you kind of like stamped me

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<v Speaker 1>into just more of like a professional mode versus emotional mode. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>my little sister was there, so there's also the part

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<v Speaker 1>of me that's it's time to be a big sister.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time to be strong. And I think we all

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<v Speaker 1>handled it very strongly, which you know there's that, But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. I forgot what you said because

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<v Speaker 1>my mind's in the thousand places right now. Now. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll think of all the things the eclipse.

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<v Speaker 2>I was curious if before they because you said they

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<v Speaker 2>you found out that they separated before y'all had to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we found out from the article.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. But before y'all got to have

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<v Speaker 2>a family conversation about it, you found out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, exactly a.

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<v Speaker 2>Moment that you were watching your parents interact where you

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<v Speaker 2>were like, because at a certain point your mid twenties,

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<v Speaker 2>you're kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Going, yeah, it's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, relationship cues. Were you starting to see that stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>anything was going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, that was I could tell that things

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<v Speaker 1>were not the same. So that's why it was different

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<v Speaker 1>this time. People were getting the calls typically and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just another story, but I think that time it hit

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<v Speaker 1>differently because of what we had been observing. Our parents

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<v Speaker 1>never fight, and it's still very healthy household, still very

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<v Speaker 1>full of so much love. But you know, they were

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<v Speaker 1>both traveling a lot more and not being as like

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<v Speaker 1>affectionate with each other as much, and their schedules were

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<v Speaker 1>just so opposite, and I could tell that they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>each other's priority anymore, and they were just changing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom is in this health mode and she's working

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<v Speaker 1>out every day, and she's sober and well sober, she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't drink anymore, you know, and then my dad is

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<v Speaker 1>just like on this whole other opposite grind where he's

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<v Speaker 1>like opening up these offices, and when he opens up

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<v Speaker 1>the offices, he goes and he's partying, and he's like

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<v Speaker 1>just in like a totally different mindset. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>starting to see changes between the two of them, and

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<v Speaker 1>like where interests were not aligning as much, and the

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<v Speaker 1>interests really where they did align where our family and

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<v Speaker 1>naturally we're growing up and we're moving out, we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>all the things, and so I was piecing it all together,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was never confirmed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, here's like watching observing because you've been in

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<v Speaker 2>you've been in your own relationship for a while now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have so four years. So you're like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>when communication, when something's you're able to recognize it once

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<v Speaker 2>you're in a relationship for.

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<v Speaker 1>A long Timestely, I just wasn't really ever sure it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be that serious. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like a moment, you know, which was so natural.

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<v Speaker 1>So the word separation was the heavy Well yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>But I feel like that does happen in relationships, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean, you have been with somebody for so long,

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<v Speaker 4>like you go through ebbs and flows, and yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 4>closer at some seasons of life not so close in

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<v Speaker 4>some so it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, exactly exactly, and you know, we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit more where it's just twenty seven

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<v Speaker 1>years together. Is it's a win no matter what? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And who knows still what's really going to happen if

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<v Speaker 1>they're still separated. I don't know what if the D

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<v Speaker 1>word's going to happen or what.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh right, yeah, yeah, so it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not sure where it's going to go at this moment.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where I stand. But you know, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>new stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. Do you now that buying Beverly Hills?

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<v Speaker 2>Because The Housewives was always focused on your mom, right,

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<v Speaker 2>like the family stuff would come and go, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was definitely focused on Now buying Beverly Hills, you're with

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<v Speaker 2>your family, there's a lot more focus on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>how has the shift been weird or did you feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you were ready for it? Just from the Housewives world.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a much harder time with it season one

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<v Speaker 1>just because I was so I was so I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>so badly to be such a good agent, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was so nervous of how people were going to judge

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<v Speaker 1>me because I knew people expected so much from me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think I just had this whole existential crisis

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<v Speaker 1>season one and I just cried so much and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just so triggered by everything. This time around, I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt way more confident and it was way easier

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<v Speaker 1>for me. And I've always been comfortable in front of

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<v Speaker 1>a camera, so you know, having all those harder conversations. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>these people come back, you know, the cameraman, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the producer. It's like they're starting to become your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just so much easier this time around.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, it just feels natural. Just happens,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I sometimes I just you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know the cameras are there, but it's so easy to

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<v Speaker 1>just say what I want to say and feel completely normal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah when you So I was on The Bachelor like

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<v Speaker 2>years and years ago. But it's so weird that you

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<v Speaker 2>go on a show and you're being filmed and you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking every day and you're sharing this stuff, and then

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<v Speaker 2>there's I remember there was this moment in between finishing

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<v Speaker 2>filming and when it aired where I had this moment

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<v Speaker 2>of thinking about everything. I said, going, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>people are gonna watch this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like the scariest part, yeah, because you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel comfortable with your friends and something You're like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>God, no, I can guess everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so there's there's definitely times I second guess things

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like scared. But but you know, at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, I don't think I said anything bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You just can't help but be like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I remember your season. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you ever said anything crazy either, Like you just can't

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<v Speaker 1>help but be like, was that okay, Oh my god

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<v Speaker 1>likes something or whatever? I like my voice sounded weird

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<v Speaker 1>or I laughed weird, or just little things like that

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<v Speaker 1>that you never know what people are gonna come at

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<v Speaker 1>you for.

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<v Speaker 2>Us, right, Are they gonna take that out of context

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<v Speaker 2>or people gonna take it the wrong way? But you

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<v Speaker 2>really can't prepare. I was gonna say, I just was

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<v Speaker 2>this random person who got selected to be on a show,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had no idea what I was getting myself

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<v Speaker 2>into because I had never experienced just blatant hate towards

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<v Speaker 2>me or just people not liking me because I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>I never had that many eyes on me, So that

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<v Speaker 2>was such an adjustment when once the show ended, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was on social media seeing what people had to

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<v Speaker 2>say about me when they didn't know me, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was curious, if you struggle with that and having people

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<v Speaker 2>talk about your family and feeling the pressure or the

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<v Speaker 2>need to defend them or step up, or do you

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<v Speaker 2>just go they're gonna say what they're gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for me it's a little easier. I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>get some mean comments here and there, and it again

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<v Speaker 1>used to affect me way more, especially when it was

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<v Speaker 1>me in terms of my business because I was so

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<v Speaker 1>serious about it. But when people attack my character, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know me. They really don't. But the people.

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<v Speaker 1>What I never am okay with is how people speak

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<v Speaker 1>to my mom and I see how much it really

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<v Speaker 1>affects her. And I know she's strong and she's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's also like a very sensitive person. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've trained myself to turn that off because I

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<v Speaker 1>want her to turn that part off of her so

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<v Speaker 1>many times and I see what people say to her

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<v Speaker 1>and I see how wrong they are, but she internalizes

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<v Speaker 1>them and I'm like, they don't know you. You raise me.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you, like if I love you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>admire you and I tell you you're the best person in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, Like, trust me, that's the truth, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's never easyuse I really don't like when

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<v Speaker 1>people go after my family seeing those parts. I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>so annoyed, Like if anyone comments on my pictures about

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<v Speaker 1>my family, I'm deleting. But if anyone trolls me, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of keep it because I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, Okay, the real fans will come to

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<v Speaker 2>my fence.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>It's no one needs to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But just like that's your baby. That's kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine. I mean, I don't know, I just it's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sometimes entertained. Like one time someone was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>look like a lizard next to your sisters, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what a lizard. I was like, okay, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take that. That's fine, they're beautiful a lizard.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was thinking though that. You know, we were saying,

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<v Speaker 2>we've talked about how people feel very brave behind a

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<v Speaker 2>computer phone when they're commenting. You know, there's no they'll

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<v Speaker 2>just go for it. But has anyone because Bramo fans

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<v Speaker 2>are so intense, they're so passionate. Have you ever been

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<v Speaker 2>had an experience with a fan that came up and

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<v Speaker 2>said something like to that degree to your face or

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<v Speaker 2>to your mom's face while you're around.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, everyone's so nice. Honestly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love when people come up and say to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone's always really sweet. It's only just the people on

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<v Speaker 1>the screens. The trolls.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the trolls.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I want to get to you and your relationship. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you all been together, you said, four years?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, four years.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you meet?

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<v Speaker 1>We actually met in elementary school. I came to his

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<v Speaker 1>school in third grade and we've just been friends ever

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<v Speaker 1>since we were He was always like in my friend group,

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<v Speaker 1>and then in high school became inseparable. High school, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a boyfriend for six years. Boyfriend was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is too close, you know, Like so we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had like an off couple of years. But the

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<v Speaker 1>second I broke up with that boyfriend, we were best

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<v Speaker 1>friends again and hanging out all the time. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>literally just best best best friends. He was the only

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<v Speaker 1>boy that was ever allowed to drive me in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>He was my carpool. He I was only allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Coachella in high school if he shot parone

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So he was always my So your parents

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<v Speaker 1>love him, My parents will always loved him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He always took care of me and I was We

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<v Speaker 1>always had the best time together. So and then four

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, finally we made it happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna say, how did it turn from best

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<v Speaker 4>friends to lovers?

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<v Speaker 1>So it was always very platonic lovers. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>there's no other word, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what was the shift?

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<v Speaker 1>The shift was so it was it's kind of awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was always platonic between us because in seventh grade,

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<v Speaker 1>seventh grade guys, he was my best friend's first kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and boyfriend, so in my world he was just never

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<v Speaker 1>an option and it just made that way. We were

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<v Speaker 1>best best friends, but there was never any romance. And

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<v Speaker 1>then actually in college one year, that best friend who's

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<v Speaker 1>still my sister, she was like, you guys are in

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<v Speaker 1>love and you'd be idiots to not admit it to

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<v Speaker 1>each other. And I was like, no, we're not, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're crazy and she's like, no, you're you're being crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>and the like opened up my eyes and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize I needed that. Okay, and yeah, green light.

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<v Speaker 1>It shifted like that moment, I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I am. And I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I have been this whole time. And I had to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss him first. Nice I kissed, yeah, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're never talking about this ever again. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a mistake. We're not doing this again. And

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<v Speaker 1>then complicated story. But he ended up choosing someone else

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<v Speaker 1>for two years. Yep, he dated someone else and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like on.

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<v Speaker 2>The friends two years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So it kind of got broad up six years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>But the moment wasn't right. He met someone else, Like

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<v Speaker 1>right as I opened up my eyes to it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, listen, we're best friends. If you're not

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<v Speaker 1>sure about this right now, we're not gonna go into

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<v Speaker 1>this because we're best friends. That's not ruined that. So

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<v Speaker 1>we took a step back. I remember us saying, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's meant to be, it'll it'll be. And two years later,

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<v Speaker 1>it happened. It just happened. It was It was pretty crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you all stay best friends when he was dating

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<v Speaker 2>the other girl? Did she say like, there's got to

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<v Speaker 2>be boundaries here?

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<v Speaker 1>We were always best friends, but there was definitely like

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<v Speaker 1>a boundary. I mean, yeah, and he was. He loved

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<v Speaker 1>her so much, and I also really really liked her too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was never waiting, you know. I was never

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<v Speaker 1>that person that was like, you know, hoping badly for them.

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked her and we still talk ever so often.

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<v Speaker 1>And she she broke up with him. Actually so yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So so they break up and then how did he

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<v Speaker 4>he came running back.

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<v Speaker 1>Sort of yeah, pretty much like getting hot. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I didn't do anything wrong here, right, No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was all very respectful, waited exactly, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was her call, and it was never

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<v Speaker 1>I I dated other people. I was never waiting. I

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<v Speaker 1>was never doing anything, you know, slimmy on the side. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it was very very She knew about what had happened

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<v Speaker 1>to she found out. Yeah, she knew that we kissed,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were fine after that. Honestly, I think once

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<v Speaker 1>it was all out the bag, like it was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now I know. Yeah, So honesty is the key.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, aside from you being like, okay, my best friend

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<v Speaker 2>kissed him or how to crush on him or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>That was in seventh grade, during that whole time before

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<v Speaker 2>y'all kissed again. I prefer y'all kissed. Did you ever

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<v Speaker 2>think I have a Did you have feelings for him

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<v Speaker 2>and you were just like I can't go there or

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<v Speaker 2>you never even saw him that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm scarily good at shutting off feelings and like shutting

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<v Speaker 1>off people. Yeah, I'm very good at like, if this

0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:19.800
<v Speaker 1>isn't for me, it's like I'm done. So I never

0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:22.560
<v Speaker 1>we ever, So often we'd meet up, we'd have like

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<v Speaker 1>a hangout with our dinners and like friends whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>like we always just we always had a special connection,

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<v Speaker 1>but we never acted on any of it. It just

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<v Speaker 1>it was just one of those things where I never

0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:39.000
<v Speaker 1>allowed myself to feel anything that wasn't meant for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that's kind of how it was for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, until I got the green light from my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend, I was just shut off. But the second

0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:49.080
<v Speaker 1>it was okay, turned back on, and when you know

0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:50.800
<v Speaker 1>he was doing this other girl, it was shut off.

0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:53.040
<v Speaker 1>And it was I never allowed myself to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I dated these other guys, I was only

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about those guys. I was never thinking about you

0:20:58.720 --> 0:21:03.800
<v Speaker 1>know what diabolical plan, you know, But you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>relationship didn't work out, and then maybe like a month

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<v Speaker 1>or two later, his relationship didn't work out, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were both just there and I was like, should we

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<v Speaker 1>do we try this? Like and you know, he he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm ready for you to be my girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, okay, hold on, slowdown. You literally

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<v Speaker 1>just like this is too fast. I remember I chose

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:28.080
<v Speaker 1>our anniversary because I didn't want to be right when

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<v Speaker 1>it started, because it was just like, this is too soon,

0:21:31.119 --> 0:21:32.840
<v Speaker 1>like we need to I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You just picked a date that felt good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. I actually chose the date I kissed him

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, and it like weirdly lined two days

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<v Speaker 1>two years later that like we had been hooking up

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<v Speaker 1>for like a month at that point, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a month later it is good, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Good about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So Tanya had a conversation our friend Jason. He

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<v Speaker 2>talks a lot about finances and relationship and the conversations

0:21:57.920 --> 0:22:00.560
<v Speaker 2>that you should be having before you get into real relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I found it really interesting because I so much. You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>He is a great interview.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was curious because y'all grew up together and then

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<v Speaker 2>you become you're in a relationship. I'm assuming do y'all

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<v Speaker 2>live together?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you recently moved in, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So is there was there a conversation. Have y'all had

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<v Speaker 2>any of those conversations about like the financial and how

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<v Speaker 2>you're addressing those things moving forward?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, definitely, I was having those conversations way before we

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<v Speaker 1>even moved in together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always been very honest about what I want my

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<v Speaker 1>future to look like, and I, you know, just was like, hey,

0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:43.359
<v Speaker 1>we need to make sure our goal is aligne And

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<v Speaker 1>we've we actually have a plan now to go to

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<v Speaker 1>like Soho house one day and sit with our bottle

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<v Speaker 1>of wine and really go over all of our financials,

0:22:53.280 --> 0:22:56.119
<v Speaker 1>like what our travel plans are going to be, like,

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<v Speaker 1>really go over the math of what our rent's going

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<v Speaker 1>to look like by the end of the year, and

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<v Speaker 1>just like our savings, et cetera, and just like really

0:23:03.720 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 1>plan out everything. But we've I always made it also

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:10.000
<v Speaker 1>very clear that I want to be very part of

0:23:10.040 --> 0:23:12.240
<v Speaker 1>it all and involved. So we split our rent fifty

0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:15.040
<v Speaker 1>to fifty every like all our furniture is fifty to fifty,

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<v Speaker 1>Like everything is hours, so you know, we were always

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<v Speaker 1>having those conversations. I do think it's so important to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what you want and what your goals are.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's so funny because it's a conversation I

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<v Speaker 4>feel not a lot of people have or like are

0:23:28.880 --> 0:23:33.200
<v Speaker 4>not comfortable having, you know, like and I I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like with my fiance, we've always had conversations like that.

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<v Speaker 4>But like I was reading this book and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't even know I don't know what his credit

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<v Speaker 4>score was, Like I didn't even really know what my

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<v Speaker 4>credit score was moving honest, Like I mean like I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh my gosh, and I like find I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like I'm very on top of it, and like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very you know, and I'm like, wow, there's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of room to like really grow and be more

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<v Speaker 4>proactive in this space because it's like when you're combining

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 4>two lives, there's so much to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's true. So it's it's it's kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>to say this, but business transaction totally. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to make it's going to be your partner for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your life. You have to make sure

0:24:10.359 --> 0:24:13.760
<v Speaker 1>you work together. Well you know this. I remember the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of our relationship. Not the beginning, but when I

0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:18.879
<v Speaker 1>wanted to start having these conversations, I'd be like, so,

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:21.199
<v Speaker 1>like what are your goals? And you'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just have a nice, happy family, and like I'd think like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's so sweet, but what we need a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more here, Like let's talk like real steps, right,

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<v Speaker 1>how do how what? How do we get there?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>We're what city are we living in? How many bedrooms?

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<v Speaker 4>How many bedrooms of a house are we having?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly? And I tell my friends this all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that money should be a very important part

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<v Speaker 1>of the conversation. I mean it's a common misalignment for

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. Yeah, like you know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of one of my friends was just talking about how

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<v Speaker 1>someone she liked wasn't didn't want to send their kids

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<v Speaker 1>to private school, and she really wants their k to

0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 1>go to private school. And that's something I don't think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's an important, you know piece, especially if both

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:08.439
<v Speaker 1>of you are so strong headed about it. Yeah, just

0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:12.040
<v Speaker 1>it's important to just make your plans talk about those things,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's awkward to be like, listen, if we're

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<v Speaker 1>being real, we need to talk about this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think there was a whole you know, the

0:25:19.680 --> 0:25:22.679
<v Speaker 2>generation before us was like, it's all about love. If

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:24.800
<v Speaker 2>you find some money love, you can get through anything.

0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:29.000
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, sure, maybe that's true, but why not

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<v Speaker 2>set yourself up for success and have these conversations so

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:35.199
<v Speaker 2>that there's not a surprise or there's not a misunderstanding.

0:25:35.200 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 2>And obviously there's ups and downs in life and not

0:25:37.080 --> 0:25:40.200
<v Speaker 2>everything's predictable. But I think it's just being smart enough

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<v Speaker 2>to go. Are we at least on the same page

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<v Speaker 2>in terms of what we're hoping for?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? What THEND goal is? Yeah? You know, obviously we

0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:50.680
<v Speaker 1>all want to be happy and in love, but what if,

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:51.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, like things happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my best friend is obsessed basically with the whole show,

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<v Speaker 2>and she loves was.

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<v Speaker 3>The best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh oh sorry one of my best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like to me, I know I related to that.

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<v Speaker 4>When you're like, when your sisters are hanging out, I

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<v Speaker 4>get it when they feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>You one of my best for other best friends, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 2>She was saying, she loves your relationship with your sisters

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<v Speaker 2>and how close y'all are. Has it always been that way?

0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Because I have three sisters, so I know the ups

0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 2>and downs of sisterhood, stealing of the clothes, all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>But in terms of just life, do you relate to that?

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<v Speaker 1>I my sisters and I are so close. We have

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<v Speaker 1>always been that close. We never fight. I think growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>our biggest fight with Sophie and I was who was

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<v Speaker 1>going to click the elevator button. We just want we

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:50.679
<v Speaker 1>both want to click it so bad, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>never we I don't know what the recipe is, what

0:26:54.280 --> 0:26:58.600
<v Speaker 1>we're doing right, but we they're my best friends. Like

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<v Speaker 1>there's no oh, there's no details to it. It's just

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.080
<v Speaker 1>we are best friends. We are obsessed with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at Porscha and I'm just like, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>coolest person I've ever seen. I love her, Sophia, I'm

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:16.520
<v Speaker 1>obsessed with She's funny, and all of us are so

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<v Speaker 1>different from the other. There's not two of us that

0:27:18.680 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 1>are alike.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Farah, I look.

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<v Speaker 1>Up too so much. She's honorable and she's oh man

0:27:23.280 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 1>when she lets loose. She's the funniest, most fun person. Like,

0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 1>we just have so much fun all the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe because we're so different, Yeah, we don't

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 1>there's not really that competitive aspect or you know, like

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 1>we don't really borrow that many clothes from each other

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<v Speaker 1>because we.

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<v Speaker 2>All dress different.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it just it just works.

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 2>But you get jealous.

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 1>I get jealous when they're all vibing without Maamia.

0:27:46.320 --> 0:27:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. What what are the ages? Everyone's ages?

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Farah thirty five, I think, and then I'm twenty seven,

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Sophia's twenty four, and Porsha sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, so it's that's amazing that y'all are so close,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's a thirty five to sixteen? Is it big gap?

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? They're nineteen nineteen years apart. Is that math? Is

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>that math? Mathing?

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<v Speaker 2>Not the right clips?

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<v Speaker 4>Randon, don't even get me started with math.

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:22.080
<v Speaker 1>But actually the age difference between my mom and Farah

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 1>is the same age difference between Farah and Portia. Oh wow, yeah,

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 1>nineteen years apart.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh right, your mom had Parah when she was nineteen.

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 4>I did do that math at one point.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question about your parents. Have you experienced,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you're comfortable sharing this, have you experienced them

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:44.200
<v Speaker 2>dating other people since their separation and would you be comfortable?

0:28:45.000 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 2>How do you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 1>If you have I'm I'm you know, what the goal

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 1>is really just for them to be happy. That's all

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I want. So at the end of the day, if

0:28:56.920 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 1>they end up together or not, like I just want

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:02.960
<v Speaker 1>them to do what's best for them. And I kind

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 1>of did have a conversation with I think both of

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:07.360
<v Speaker 1>my parents where I was just like, you don't have

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:10.960
<v Speaker 1>to make this decision for me anymore, Like, do what's

0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 1>best for you. And honestly, there's like like a beauty

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>in trying something new. I mean, you've you've had twenty

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>beautiful years, twenty seven beautiful years together and you guys

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>get to get to like test the waters and see

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 1>what's what's working for you. And you know, I I'm

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>going to let them speak on their dating life, but

0:29:35.560 --> 0:29:38.080
<v Speaker 1>whatever they do and whatever makes them happy for the

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<v Speaker 1>most part, I will support.

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<v Speaker 4>I say, coming from someone who has step kids in

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<v Speaker 4>their life, are you going to be nice to those

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 4>other people?

0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm a nice person.

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 2>If you're nice to me.

0:29:52.600 --> 0:29:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll be nice for you. But if you mess with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think you're at a good age too, We're

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 2>able to have that emotional maturity too, and just being

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:06.280
<v Speaker 2>like how important it is to see your parents happy,

0:30:06.360 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 2>regardless of what that looks like or who they're with. Yeah,

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 2>and obviously you. I think the fact that you and

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 2>your sisters love each other and are so ride or

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 2>die and get along says so much about your parents,

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 2>because I think that comes from how you're raised in

0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 2>the household. You're raised in absolutely, and so I think

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 2>that you having the emotional awareness and maturities to say,

0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 2>like you don't have to do this for us, at

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 2>least for me, I think that's amazing and I respect it.

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 1>One of the things, like, you know, I was worried

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>about Porsche with this whole thing, because the rest of

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 1>us were, you know, we're adults. I was really worried

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 1>about Porsche when this all came to light. But the

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:52.160
<v Speaker 1>reality is is Porsche has what for moms. We've all

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>been like moms to her. I saw someone commented on Instagram, like,

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 1>where's Porsche. We're worried about Porsche. I'm like, she is

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 1>so fine. She's getting so much attention from all of us,

0:31:02.800 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Like I just cheperone her sixteenth birthday and Lakinta it

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 1>was really fun, Like, you know, I love picking her

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 1>up from school, dropping her off she's best friends with Sophia,

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Like they have their moments. She had one on one

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>lunch with my dad. The other day we went to

0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 1>couple with our mom. Like we're always just together no

0:31:19.200 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 1>matter what. So it's really nice just having that, having

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>that stability, like even if the parents are going through

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:28.560
<v Speaker 1>the thing, like you have the sisters like coming in

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and making sure everything's okay.

0:31:30.080 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you all really stick together. Speaking of girls stick

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 2>together so much that you all work together, you work

0:31:51.240 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 2>as your family together. What is that, Danna, I don't

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 2>think I could work with definitely one of my Honestly.

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>It has its challenges, honestly, but for the most part,

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>we just have a lot of fun.

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:06.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And the good thing.

0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Is about real estate is that we're always doing different things.

0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 1>So the way our team is built is that we

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 1>have obviously my dad, Farah and me, but my dad's

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>at the CEO and he's traveling and he's doing he's

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 1>doing his CEO meetings and whatever, and then they're fair

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 1>and I split our clients, so we're not working with

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 1>the same clients usually at once, so you know, we're

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 1>we have our team meetings, but we actually keep our

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:37.719
<v Speaker 1>inner workings pretty separate, which I think is good in

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:40.959
<v Speaker 1>terms of just keeping the dynamics healthy.

0:32:41.080 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, Well, I do feel like when I watch

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 2>these shows, any real estate shows on TV, they make

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 2>it look just it looks so easy, like anyone could

0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 2>do it. But I'm curious about the realities of doing it,

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:57.240
<v Speaker 2>but also doing it and filming it and having it

0:32:57.360 --> 0:33:00.640
<v Speaker 2>recorded and being on camera. What the reality of it?

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Well, first of all, every deal that we do, every

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>listing that we have on the show is real. So

0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 1>anytime we're like, oh, this one's sold, it actually sold.

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>We went to Miami, we got a billion dollars in listings.

0:33:14.800 --> 0:33:17.960
<v Speaker 1>We actually got a billion dollars in listings, which is crazy.

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>So we're really working it through that process and we're

0:33:22.400 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 1>almost like working double well, we are literally working double time.

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>We're doing a show and we're staring houses, but we're

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 1>working the real estate part trip all time because we

0:33:31.720 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>want to look good. We're like, shit, I don't sell

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a house during this ten weeks that we're we're filming.

0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 1>This is going to be so embarrassing, you know. So

0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 1>it's stressful, especially because we did film at a very

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:48.880
<v Speaker 1>bad market. Thank god I got that one. Salem Oh

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:53.240
<v Speaker 1>my god, the Venice house. Thank god. But it's scary

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's you know, you just want to prove yourself.

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day. Real estate is a

0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>relation ship build business, and it's about your who you

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:08.960
<v Speaker 1>are as a person. People pick you based on you know, like, yeah,

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 1>there's stats, but a lot of people are very successful

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.840
<v Speaker 1>out there, so it's about who you are, and you know,

0:34:13.880 --> 0:34:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you want to put your best self out there. So

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:18.320
<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of pressure.

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:20.480
<v Speaker 4>Can you talk to us a little bit about the

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:23.800
<v Speaker 4>real estate market, because what the heck.

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 2>Don't wants to buy house?

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 1>And like, what the heck?

0:34:29.600 --> 0:34:32.359
<v Speaker 4>Why is my mortgage fifteen thousand dollars when it used

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:32.799
<v Speaker 4>to be five?

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:37.319
<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen, you can always refinance your mortgage rate when

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>anytime it changes.

0:34:40.640 --> 0:34:41.760
<v Speaker 2>But when is it going to change?

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 3>You don't know.

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:44.799
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's that's the one thing. Yeah, that's just

0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:47.960
<v Speaker 1>stuck until until it changes. But you know, they say

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 1>all these things, it's going to change. This year is

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:51.840
<v Speaker 1>going to be really good. They're telling people that you

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:54.600
<v Speaker 1>should buy now before it does drop, and then everyone

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 1>who's been waiting comes it at once. They're kind of like,

0:34:57.960 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 1>if you think it's going to change soon. Get in

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:03.239
<v Speaker 1>on it now, So it's not like piranhas going after

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:05.879
<v Speaker 1>all the good stuff, right and then you can refinance.

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:08.280
<v Speaker 1>So that's like people's plans.

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:10.919
<v Speaker 2>Do they feel like that's I mean from what you hear,

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:13.880
<v Speaker 2>is there a world word on the street, on the

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:16.400
<v Speaker 2>street spidey sense that that's gonna happen.

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I get so nervous telling people because like, yes, they

0:35:20.800 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 1>are saying it's going to happen, but I don't. There's

0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:27.840
<v Speaker 1>obviously no promises, but it is projected to be much

0:35:28.040 --> 0:35:29.880
<v Speaker 1>there's projected to be a drop.

0:35:29.680 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 3>This year, and what goes up must come down.

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Exactly, it's just science. I mean, those numbers that we

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.799
<v Speaker 1>saw this last year were just insane. Go any higher

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>would be astronomical.

0:35:40.360 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's what I've heard a lot of people say

0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 2>is if you find something that you love and you

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 2>can do it, get it, get it, and then be

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.759
<v Speaker 2>prepared to refinance when when it drops, because what's going

0:35:49.840 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 2>to happen is as soon as it drops, it's going

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 2>to be vultures. And it's still competitive. Exactly do you

0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 2>find that it's still competitive even with the interest rate

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.280
<v Speaker 2>and the prices, it's still a competitive market.

0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 1>Well especially now this this new year is bringing in

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot more people.

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 4>So New Year meeting twenty twenty four, twenty twenty four,

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 4>what's twenty twenty five looking like? Do they tell you

0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 4>like those things?

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I can't. This is above my page, right. I

0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 1>love that.

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:20.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm a guy for this, But like conversations about money

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 4>and like I always said, like I wish in college,

0:36:23.120 --> 0:36:25.880
<v Speaker 4>by the way, I knew you went to University of Arizona.

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:27.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh did you I did?

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, no way you were. Oh okay, yeah,

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:36.480
<v Speaker 1>the little little research. But we are we like, were

0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:37.239
<v Speaker 1>you there at the same time?

0:36:37.560 --> 0:36:40.719
<v Speaker 4>No, I'm thirty six, so actually funny enough. I know

0:36:40.840 --> 0:36:44.600
<v Speaker 4>Melissa Platt who is on the Beverly Hills. Yeah, she's

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 4>my sworty.

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:47.960
<v Speaker 1>She just at her house for Easter to spend the

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 1>day with us. She's one of our close close friends.

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, she's the cutest.

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>She's the cutest. She really is.

0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 2>She really is.

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 1>She's the cutest.

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:58.280
<v Speaker 4>But in college I was I was like, they should

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 4>teach us stuff like buying a house, health insurance, all

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:06.600
<v Speaker 4>these basic you know, financial planning and all that stuff,

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:08.759
<v Speaker 4>because I'm like, once you become an adult. It's just

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:11.719
<v Speaker 4>like it all just hits you and you're like, So I.

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Actually started a what's the word networking event that I'm

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:22.799
<v Speaker 1>trying to do quarterly called adulting is Hard, and it

0:37:22.960 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 1>was the first one was about building a good credit

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:28.120
<v Speaker 1>score so you can prepare to eventually build a house

0:37:28.120 --> 0:37:31.120
<v Speaker 1>one day, and that all happened. This whole idea happened

0:37:31.120 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 1>because I had no idea. You needed a credit card

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 1>to build a credit score, right, And my boyfriend actually

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:38.799
<v Speaker 1>got me my first credit card and I looked at

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:39.640
<v Speaker 1>my dad and I was like.

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 2>I am an adult.

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I've been working for three years and I could have

0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 1>been building a credit score whole time. Yeah, oh I

0:37:50.600 --> 0:37:53.720
<v Speaker 1>was living. I was like, I genuinely thought, like someone

0:37:54.040 --> 0:37:57.520
<v Speaker 1>the they you know, they're watching where's my credit score?

0:37:57.640 --> 0:37:57.799
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:00.440
<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. So my first was about but

0:38:00.480 --> 0:38:02.680
<v Speaker 1>they had credit score and I was. It was about explaining,

0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:04.799
<v Speaker 1>you know why you need a good score for your

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:07.759
<v Speaker 1>future home and it's you know. That was the first one.

0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 1>The second one was about uh, financial planning, so it

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>was about you know, starting your retirement fund and investing.

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:20.680
<v Speaker 1>So these are all things I never learned and I

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>wish I did. Yeah, And I mean it's funny because

0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I did grow up very comfortable and I am very privileged,

0:38:28.000 --> 0:38:30.719
<v Speaker 1>and I do acknowledge that, but there's almost like a

0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:33.839
<v Speaker 1>piece that you miss when you're so comfortable that you're

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:37.040
<v Speaker 1>not like pushed to do these things. And and then

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:40.439
<v Speaker 1>I have you know, friends that you know, don't have

0:38:40.800 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 1>a parent to teach them these things. Like my partner

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm not speaking, you know, on a podcast, but she

0:38:48.880 --> 0:38:50.479
<v Speaker 1>lost both of her parents and she's like, I didn't

0:38:50.480 --> 0:38:52.360
<v Speaker 1>know these things either. So we have two people on

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>two very opposite spectrums that like, you know, we're like,

0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:57.960
<v Speaker 1>there's this is something that should be done. We need

0:38:57.960 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 1>to have these moments. And then we have cocktails, we

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 1>make fun and we talked to people. We did bowling

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 1>last time, and it was you know, it's just something

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:08.920
<v Speaker 1>I think should be more normalized, is these conversations.

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm with you, that's such a great idea that you're

0:39:11.000 --> 0:39:14.680
<v Speaker 2>doing that. Yeah, I'm they there needs to be courses,

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:17.720
<v Speaker 2>and they need to make it enjoyable and fun because

0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:19.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to go sit in a lecture hall

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 2>and like be taught again, how did do exactly.

0:39:23.520 --> 0:39:29.799
<v Speaker 4>In my college halls and tigers and bears. I'm like, what, Yeah,

0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 4>teachers have four to oh one k oh, my.

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:37.360
<v Speaker 1>God, exactly. So last my last adulting is hard session.

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:40.560
<v Speaker 1>He's like, I got up on stage. I'm introducing our guys.

0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, Like he's going to teach us about

0:39:43.280 --> 0:39:44.719
<v Speaker 1>time and funds whatever. He's like, yeah, I'm just going

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:46.440
<v Speaker 1>to keep it simple, talk about for one cake. I'm

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 1>like what. I'm like, you're what. I genuinely didn't even

0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 1>know what that was. And then I think everyone like

0:39:53.239 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 1>started laughing in the room because I already had set

0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:58.360
<v Speaker 1>the precipice, like I, yes, I'm busting this thing, but

0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:02.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything. But I'm here with everybody's.

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:03.400
<v Speaker 4>Embarrassed to say I don't know.

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 2>You know, we all are in.

0:40:04.160 --> 0:40:07.719
<v Speaker 4>These conversations and they're like yeh yeah, yeah, I'm you know,

0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 4>but like nobody knows anything, and like, I mean, now

0:40:10.680 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 4>I know a little bit, but I mean, gosh.

0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:14.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean if I finally know what a four

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.640
<v Speaker 1>oh one K is, I know four months ago I

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>learned that, Thank you very much. I'm twenty seven years old.

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I need to know when your next one is because

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:25.840
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I lit the vulnerability of you also

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 2>not knowing what we're learning about.

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I yeah, I definitely make sure to ask a lot

0:40:30.239 --> 0:40:33.040
<v Speaker 1>of questions and then it really I mean, our thirty

0:40:33.080 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>minute session ended up being an hour and a half

0:40:34.760 --> 0:40:39.200
<v Speaker 1>because everyone started asking everything. I like, I make sure.

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I need you to rewind one oh one

0:40:42.400 --> 0:40:43.120
<v Speaker 1>for dummies.

0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, it also makes people feel comfortable, Like

0:40:45.600 --> 0:40:47.800
<v Speaker 2>if you're the host and you're asking, they're like, okay,

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 2>I can ask too, Yeah, exactly are you waiting or

0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.760
<v Speaker 2>interested in getting a ring on your finger?

0:40:56.560 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 3>Obviously?

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 2>I definitely you know, you were like letting him know

0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:06.120
<v Speaker 2>that I needed to happen.

0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 1>We talk about getting married, like we know it's going

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:13.160
<v Speaker 1>to happen. We were just in combo with my mom

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:16.040
<v Speaker 1>and sisters, and I told my sisters and my mom

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:19.200
<v Speaker 1>like I asked my mom for ring advice because I

0:41:19.200 --> 0:41:21.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know anything about rings, and we looked at pictures.

0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:23.239
<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, son ever said that text him

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:26.840
<v Speaker 1>right now, so you know, but him and I know

0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:29.040
<v Speaker 1>what's happening, Like that's not even a question. It's just

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>a matter of when. Like he always tries to talk

0:41:31.480 --> 0:41:33.120
<v Speaker 1>to me about it. I'm like, stop talking. Like, I

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:35.800
<v Speaker 1>need to be a secret. Yeah, you might be surprised,

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 1>and I never get my nails done. I told my sisters,

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 1>if you guys invite me to get my nails done,

0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll be upset with you because I know it's going

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:45.480
<v Speaker 1>to be coming, So don't tell me that. I'm like,

0:41:45.520 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 1>it's just I want it to be a surprise, even

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:50.960
<v Speaker 1>though I know it's coming, right, So we're excited about that. Yet.

0:41:51.000 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>I love that you want to just choose my ring.

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:54.560
<v Speaker 1>But who knows what I ended up getting. He could

0:41:54.600 --> 0:41:56.439
<v Speaker 1>end up getting something totally different. Who knows.

0:41:56.800 --> 0:42:00.720
<v Speaker 2>You're like, listen to whatever my mom sends you follow

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:01.480
<v Speaker 2>with that advice.

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:05.360
<v Speaker 1>We did just measure each other's ring fingers. I like

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:08.479
<v Speaker 1>brought home you know that jewelry store masery. Oh yeah,

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:10.880
<v Speaker 1>they sent me a ring measure and I brought it

0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:14.320
<v Speaker 1>home the other day and he's like, yes, he's he

0:42:14.440 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 1>kept trying to put it on my finger. I'm no, no,

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I want to do it. I want to do it.

0:42:18.560 --> 0:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>He would just like wanted to put the ring sizing

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:23.160
<v Speaker 1>on my on my finger. So you know, it's it's

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>very open conversation. But when is the question.

0:42:26.920 --> 0:42:28.360
<v Speaker 2>I love that you wanted to be a surprise.

0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that.

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.120
<v Speaker 2>He's probably just as excited about that.

0:42:32.880 --> 0:42:35.920
<v Speaker 1>We're excited. I mean, it's it's been four years. But

0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:38.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in a rush actually.

0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:40.839
<v Speaker 2>Okay, see that's what I was getting at a rush,

0:42:40.960 --> 0:42:42.080
<v Speaker 2>like you know some of you are.

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:44.759
<v Speaker 3>It's fine.

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:46.799
<v Speaker 1>I wanted the ring to be something I like, but

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in a rush.

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 2>You know, you know it's coming. So you're at piece

0:42:50.200 --> 0:42:51.120
<v Speaker 2>of up exactly.

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 1>That's where I'm at mentally.

0:42:52.239 --> 0:42:54.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, what about career wise? What are your hopes and

0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 2>dreams and what is the what are the next years

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 2>look like for you?

0:42:59.040 --> 0:43:02.600
<v Speaker 1>So I definitely want to sell more. This year was slow,

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three was slower, and I just want to

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:09.919
<v Speaker 1>be way, way more successful in the numbers era. Oh

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:13.160
<v Speaker 1>not era. What's the word apartment department? Thank you? Era

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:17.440
<v Speaker 1>is too much? It's such a word right now. And

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:21.320
<v Speaker 1>then additionally, I want to I feel like our office

0:43:21.400 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>is still kind of like post COVID. I hate talking

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:28.440
<v Speaker 1>about COVID all the time, but it's still in that

0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:31.080
<v Speaker 1>post COVID moment where people aren't showing up to the

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:33.960
<v Speaker 1>office all the time, and we used to have this

0:43:34.040 --> 0:43:37.160
<v Speaker 1>shot o'clock every Friday. We're at five o'clock every Friday.

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:40.799
<v Speaker 1>We have shots and just like little things that have

0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:45.400
<v Speaker 1>changed since since COVID, where a lot more people are

0:43:45.440 --> 0:43:48.319
<v Speaker 1>working at the office. I just want to focus a

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:51.040
<v Speaker 1>lot more on the culture or a company. This year.

0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I talked to my dad. I was like, I want

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to have a top golf event with people out of office.

0:43:55.400 --> 0:43:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to have a bowling event. I want him

0:43:58.120 --> 0:44:00.000
<v Speaker 1>to have you know, dinners with people. I was like,

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 1>we just I want to feel very involved, especially with

0:44:03.239 --> 0:44:06.400
<v Speaker 1>the show coming out. I don't want it to be

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:10.839
<v Speaker 1>so alienating. I want us to still feel very part

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:15.040
<v Speaker 1>of the mix. Especially I just know people feel different

0:44:15.080 --> 0:44:17.520
<v Speaker 1>and you know, look at people differently sometimes, and I

0:44:17.600 --> 0:44:21.919
<v Speaker 1>just don't want to open the window to that possibility.

0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:24.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I want us to be like I want my

0:44:24.280 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 1>sisters at every event we're going to do. So, I

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 1>want to focus a lot on the company this year.

0:44:29.320 --> 0:44:30.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm just being part of that.

0:44:30.880 --> 0:44:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Too, like the community of the company.

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:33.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly.

0:44:33.600 --> 0:44:36.880
<v Speaker 2>But I love that you. I find that you really

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:40.000
<v Speaker 2>value that I do like you do with your family,

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 2>with work, your friends.

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's it's I have a giant group of friends

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm very like, I'm very focused on keeping that together

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:50.280
<v Speaker 1>as well. I'm just that's just my thing. I guess.

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I love that and I really realize that until you

0:44:52.160 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 1>just said that out loud, Like you're so right.

0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:56.880
<v Speaker 2>It's a very special quality because a lot of especially

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:58.839
<v Speaker 2>with everyone being on their phones and it's like you

0:44:58.880 --> 0:45:00.880
<v Speaker 2>can barely get people to look you in the eye

0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 2>when you're having a conversation. I feel like having you

0:45:03.760 --> 0:45:06.360
<v Speaker 2>having that is such a gift because it like bring

0:45:06.360 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 2>people together, reminding them about community and how important it

0:45:09.719 --> 0:45:13.319
<v Speaker 2>is to have that. Yeah, it's crucial. I think it's success.

0:45:13.440 --> 0:45:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I think so too, and everything it's communities, like everywhere

0:45:17.560 --> 0:45:20.640
<v Speaker 1>there exactly I went to. My school was called a

0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:23.960
<v Speaker 1>community high school, and I'm still so involved in it.

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I try. I'm just like, I just it's important to

0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 1>focus on the community. All my friends are from my

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:29.160
<v Speaker 1>high school.

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<v Speaker 3>What high school did you go to?

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<v Speaker 1>I went to milkinh Okay Jewish School four five Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, we have literally have this group of like

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<v Speaker 1>fifty friends that we see each other every month, every week,

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<v Speaker 1>and we treat each other like a family. And I

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<v Speaker 1>really do think it's because that like that word cult,

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<v Speaker 1>community was so embedded in us, and we we nurtured

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifty five zero yeah, five zero.

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<v Speaker 1>A group of fifty people, Yeah pretty much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pretty crazy obviously, like the subgroups, but when

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<v Speaker 1>you get everyone involved, it can be up to the subgroups.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you would have that if you still

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<v Speaker 2>love Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely very lucky.

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<v Speaker 3>I keep looking at her hair and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do I need to get a cut? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I got so twelve inches, It's so cute, so cute,

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<v Speaker 1>You're so ch so she my ballet hair.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, Cardigan, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>You give oldest sister mentality. I haven't met your oldest sister,

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<v Speaker 2>but you definitely have that energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you do, I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of like the grandma the group. Honestly. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also I promise.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I want you to chaperone my birthday and

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<v Speaker 2>Wakita Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I can definitely if you get me in a party room.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, during the week, I'm very conservative. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't wear makeup really. I like my sweaters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, jeans, You're everything you love. Thank you for scrubbing

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys for having me so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey you just class and clap in, clap out,