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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb.

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Speaker 2: Today's guest. Well, you know her because her family has

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Speaker 2: been on our TVs for.

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Speaker 3: A minute now, many many years, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Many many years, and now she is part of the madness.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's right.

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Speaker 4: We saw her grow up in the Real Housewives of

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Speaker 4: Beverly Hills. Her mom is Kylo Richards, her dad is Mauricio,

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Speaker 4: and they now have their own TV show together as

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Speaker 4: a family. That's called Buying Beverly Hills, which is all

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Speaker 4: about the real estate market in Beverly Hills, their family dynamic.

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Speaker 3: It's good.

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Speaker 4: It's on Netflix. I've been enjoying it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all the sisters. It's a whole family affair,

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Speaker 2: and we are going to ask her all the questions

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Speaker 2: on today's episode.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 2: So let's welcome to the Scrubbing In our Alexia Yumanski.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. Clap, you're welcome, applause.

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, yeah, I got a lot of for

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Speaker 2: but I'm joining you. Thank you for scrubbing in and

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Speaker 2: being on the podcast today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for having me. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were very excited to talk to you because

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Speaker 2: there's a lot to talk to you about. I feel

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Speaker 2: you were I was going to ask you this. I

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Speaker 2: was curious, have you ever felt like your life was

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Speaker 2: normal in terms of other people's norm.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's such a good question because I feel

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Speaker 1: so normal, I really, really really do you know? Are

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Speaker 1: the drama the things we deal with as a family

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Speaker 1: as a whole, like that stuff never feels normal? But

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Speaker 1: like I also talk to my friends and we all

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Speaker 1: have our family drama as we all have our things,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I'm like, I'm not I'm not different.

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Speaker 1: Just a lot more people know about our stuff, you know.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I really do feel so normal.

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Speaker 2: Well do you know it's gotta be so weird watching

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Speaker 2: such personal things, especially in your family, because I come

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Speaker 2: a fan I'm from the South, and the thing about

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Speaker 2: the self is that everything is just great all the

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Speaker 2: time for everybody. So I come from a world where

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Speaker 2: no one really talks openly about struggles or family issues.

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Speaker 2: So is there a point where where you got to

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Speaker 2: a certain age where you were like, why is all

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Speaker 2: of this so much everybody else's business.

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Speaker 1: That's that's interesting. I've never really thought about it like that,

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Speaker 1: but so, you know, the truth is, and we talk

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Speaker 1: about this a lot as a family on our show,

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Speaker 1: The Buying Beverly Hills. I to different rate which one now,

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Speaker 1: which is crazy. But we always were the kind of

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Speaker 1: family that did brush things under the rug, and we

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Speaker 1: did not talk about things internally very much. And I've

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Speaker 1: got to say, you know, I would say the first

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Speaker 1: time our family drama was e republic was when a

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Speaker 1: lot of stuff happened with my mom and her sister

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Speaker 1: in the beginning seasons of Real Housewives, and that was

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Speaker 1: a very big deal for all of us and not

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Speaker 1: something I was used to. And I think that's around

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Speaker 1: the time I was just like, I don't think I

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Speaker 1: can watch the show. Oh my gosh. I was thirteen

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Speaker 1: when it started twenty seven. Now, I was probably like

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Speaker 1: thirteen or fourteen when all that stuff started coming out.

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Speaker 1: I think it was season one when there's like this

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Speaker 1: whole big limo fighting and that was very not normal

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Speaker 1: for us, and it was a very big deal. It's

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Speaker 1: kept on rushing most things under the rug. It feels

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Speaker 1: like for a majority of our life until you know

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Speaker 1: now you know, as a family, are the news of

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Speaker 1: my store? Sorry, the news of my parents and separation

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Speaker 1: came out before we had ever talked about it as

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Speaker 1: a family internally, and then the cameras for Buying Beverly

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Speaker 1: a lot has changed since then, but now we talk

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Speaker 4: Because I saw, like the first episode of this season

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Speaker 4: of Buying Beverly Hills, it opens up with that kind

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Speaker 1: So what was filmed was really like two of the

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Speaker 1: four big conversations we've had as a family, and those

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Speaker 1: were that was the you know, we had one conversation

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Speaker 1: So the next day when the cameras came, Flarah came

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Speaker 1: and as honest and open as it gets, which is

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Speaker 1: so crazy. And then you know when my sisters that

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Speaker 1: scene that it starts off with my sisters and my

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Speaker 1: dad spoiler alert kind of you know, it ends with that.

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Speaker 1: Again you kind of see more of that conversation, but

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Speaker 1: you can definitely tell we were very frustrated at that

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Speaker 1: point because we hadn't had more conversations. So that was

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Speaker 1: were like, we need to be doing this more, like

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Speaker 1: TMC and it doesn't feel fair. So, you know, it

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Speaker 1: was just it's it's something that's new for us, honestly.

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Speaker 4: But is it is it easier because you were saying

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Speaker 4: that was July, Now it's I don't even know what

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Speaker 4: month were in April a second clips, it's the eclipse

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Speaker 4: in my brain. But is it is it easier for

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Speaker 4: you guys to kind of do this in front of

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Speaker 4: had all these months to kind of digest what went

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Speaker 1: The moments are not easier. I was very, very, very

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Speaker 1: emotional and Aspen the night before when the cameras were coming,

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Speaker 1: I was very freaked out. But I think something about

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Speaker 1: into just more of like a professional mode versus emotional mode. Also,

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Speaker 1: my little sister was there, so there's also the part

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Speaker 1: of me that's it's time to be a big sister.

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Speaker 1: It's time to be strong. And I think we all

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Speaker 1: handled it very strongly, which you know there's that, But

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Speaker 1: I don't even know. I forgot what you said because

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Speaker 1: my mind's in the thousand places right now. Now. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'll think of all the things the eclipse.

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Speaker 2: I was curious if before they because you said they

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Speaker 2: you found out that they separated before y'all had to

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Speaker 1: No, we found out from the article.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But before y'all got to have

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Speaker 2: a family conversation about it, you found out about it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, exactly a.

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Speaker 2: Moment that you were watching your parents interact where you

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Speaker 2: were like, because at a certain point your mid twenties,

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Speaker 2: you're kind of.

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Speaker 1: Going, yeah, it's going on.

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Speaker 2: I know, relationship cues. Were you starting to see that stuff,

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Speaker 1: I you know, that was I could tell that things

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Speaker 1: this time. People were getting the calls typically and be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: just another story, but I think that time it hit

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Speaker 1: differently because of what we had been observing. Our parents

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Speaker 1: never fight, and it's still very healthy household, still very

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Speaker 1: full of so much love. But you know, they were

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Speaker 1: just so opposite, and I could tell that they weren't

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Speaker 1: each other's priority anymore, and they were just changing. You know,

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Speaker 1: my mom is in this health mode and she's working

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Speaker 1: doesn't drink anymore, you know, and then my dad is

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Speaker 1: just like on this whole other opposite grind where he's

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Speaker 1: like opening up these offices, and when he opens up

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Speaker 1: just in like a totally different mindset. So I was

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Speaker 1: interests really where they did align where our family and

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Speaker 1: naturally we're growing up and we're moving out, we're doing

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Speaker 1: all the things, and so I was piecing it all together,

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Speaker 1: but it was never confirmed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, here's like watching observing because you've been in

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Speaker 2: you've been in your own relationship for a while now, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have so four years. So you're like, you know

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Speaker 2: when communication, when something's you're able to recognize it once

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Speaker 2: you're in a relationship for.

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Speaker 1: A long Timestely, I just wasn't really ever sure it

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Speaker 1: just like a moment, you know, which was so natural.

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Speaker 1: So the word separation was the heavy Well yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like that does happen in relationships, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean, you have been with somebody for so long,

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Speaker 4: like you go through ebbs and flows, and yeah, you're

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Speaker 4: closer at some seasons of life not so close in

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, exactly exactly, and you know, we talk about

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Speaker 1: it a little bit more where it's just twenty seven

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Speaker 1: years together. Is it's a win no matter what? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And who knows still what's really going to happen if

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Speaker 1: they're still separated. I don't know what if the D

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Speaker 3: But oh right, yeah, yeah, so it's.

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Speaker 1: Not sure where it's going to go at this moment.

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Speaker 1: That's where I stand. But you know, it's it's it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. Do you now that buying Beverly Hills?

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Speaker 2: Because The Housewives was always focused on your mom, right,

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Speaker 2: like the family stuff would come and go, but it

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Speaker 2: was definitely focused on Now buying Beverly Hills, you're with

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Speaker 2: your family, there's a lot more focus on you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: how has the shift been weird or did you feel

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Speaker 1: I had a much harder time with it season one

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Speaker 1: just because I was so I was so I wanted

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Speaker 1: so badly to be such a good agent, and I

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Speaker 1: and I think I just had this whole existential crisis

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Speaker 1: season one and I just cried so much and I

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Speaker 1: was just so triggered by everything. This time around, I

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Speaker 1: just felt way more confident and it was way easier

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Speaker 1: for me. And I've always been comfortable in front of

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Speaker 1: a camera, so you know, having all those harder conversations. Also,

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Speaker 1: these people come back, you know, the cameraman, you know,

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Speaker 1: the producer. It's like they're starting to become your friend.

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Speaker 1: So it was just so much easier this time around.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know, it just feels natural. Just happens,

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Speaker 1: and I just I sometimes I just you know, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah when you So I was on The Bachelor like

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Speaker 2: so you all been together, you said, four years?

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Speaker 2: You just picked a date that felt good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. I actually chose the date I kissed him

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Speaker 2: Good about this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so funny.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So Tanya had a conversation our friend Jason. He

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Speaker 2: I found it really interesting because I so much. You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: He is a great interview.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I was curious because y'all grew up together and then

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Speaker 2: live together?

437
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, you recently moved in, right, Yeah.

438
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: So is there was there a conversation. Have y'all had

439
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 2: any of those conversations about like the financial and how

440
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 2: you're addressing those things moving forward?

441
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I was having those conversations way before we

442
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 1: even moved in together.

443
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

444
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 1: I've always been very honest about what I want my

445
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: future to look like, and I, you know, just was like, hey,

446
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: we need to make sure our goal is aligne And

447
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: we've we actually have a plan now to go to

448
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: like Soho house one day and sit with our bottle

449
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 1: of wine and really go over all of our financials,

450
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: like what our travel plans are going to be, like,

451
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,919
Speaker 1: really go over the math of what our rent's going

452
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: to look like by the end of the year, and

453
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 1: just like our savings, et cetera, and just like really

454
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: plan out everything. But we've I always made it also

455
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: very clear that I want to be very part of

456
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: it all and involved. So we split our rent fifty

457
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: to fifty every like all our furniture is fifty to fifty,

458
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 1: Like everything is hours, so you know, we were always

459
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: having those conversations. I do think it's so important to

460
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: talk about what you want and what your goals are.

461
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 4: I think it's so funny because it's a conversation I

462
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 4: feel not a lot of people have or like are

463
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 4: not comfortable having, you know, like and I I feel

464
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 4: like with my fiance, we've always had conversations like that.

465
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,199
Speaker 4: But like I was reading this book and I was like,

466
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 4: I didn't even know I don't know what his credit

467
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 4: score was, Like I didn't even really know what my

468
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 4: credit score was moving honest, Like I mean like I

469
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 4: was like, oh my gosh, and I like find I

470
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,679
Speaker 4: feel like I'm very on top of it, and like

471
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 4: I'm very you know, and I'm like, wow, there's a

472
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 4: lot of room to like really grow and be more

473
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 4: proactive in this space because it's like when you're combining

474
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 4: two lives, there's so much to it.

475
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. So it's it's it's kind of weird

476
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 1: to say this, but business transaction totally. You know, you

477
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 1: have to make it's going to be your partner for

478
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,360
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. You have to make sure

479
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: you work together. Well you know this. I remember the

480
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship. Not the beginning, but when I

481
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: wanted to start having these conversations, I'd be like, so,

482
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 1: like what are your goals? And you'd be like, oh,

483
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,719
Speaker 1: just have a nice, happy family, and like I'd think like, okay,

484
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: Like that's so sweet, but what we need a little

485
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: bit more here, Like let's talk like real steps, right,

486
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: how do how what? How do we get there?

487
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 2: You know? Right?

488
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 4: We're what city are we living in? How many bedrooms?

489
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 4: How many bedrooms of a house are we having?

490
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: Exactly? And I tell my friends this all the time.

491
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: I think that money should be a very important part

492
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: of the conversation. I mean it's a common misalignment for

493
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Yeah, like you know a lot

494
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: of one of my friends was just talking about how

495
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: someone she liked wasn't didn't want to send their kids

496
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: to private school, and she really wants their k to

497
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: go to private school. And that's something I don't think about.

498
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: Like that's an important, you know piece, especially if both

499
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 1: of you are so strong headed about it. Yeah, just

500
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: it's important to just make your plans talk about those things,

501
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 1: even if it's awkward to be like, listen, if we're

502
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 1: being real, we need to talk about this stuff.

503
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there was a whole you know, the

504
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 2: generation before us was like, it's all about love. If

505
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: you find some money love, you can get through anything.

506
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 2: And it's like, sure, maybe that's true, but why not

507
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: set yourself up for success and have these conversations so

508
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 2: that there's not a surprise or there's not a misunderstanding.

509
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 2: And obviously there's ups and downs in life and not

510
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 2: everything's predictable. But I think it's just being smart enough

511
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: to go. Are we at least on the same page

512
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: in terms of what we're hoping for?

513
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: Yeah? What THEND goal is? Yeah? You know, obviously we

514
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 1: all want to be happy and in love, but what if,

515
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: you know, like things happen.

516
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, my best friend is obsessed basically with the whole show,

517
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: and she loves was.

518
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 3: The best friend.

519
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: Huh oh sorry one of my best friends.

520
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 1: I was like to me, I know I related to that.

521
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 4: When you're like, when your sisters are hanging out, I

522
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 4: get it when they feel like.

523
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 2: You one of my best for other best friends, Brittany,

524
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 2: She was saying, she loves your relationship with your sisters

525
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: and how close y'all are. Has it always been that way?

526
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: Because I have three sisters, so I know the ups

527
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: and downs of sisterhood, stealing of the clothes, all the things.

528
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: But in terms of just life, do you relate to that?

529
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: I my sisters and I are so close. We have

530
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: always been that close. We never fight. I think growing up,

531
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: our biggest fight with Sophie and I was who was

532
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: going to click the elevator button. We just want we

533
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: both want to click it so bad, but it was

534
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: never we I don't know what the recipe is, what

535
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: we're doing right, but we they're my best friends. Like

536
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: there's no oh, there's no details to it. It's just

537
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: we are best friends. We are obsessed with each other.

538
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: I look at Porscha and I'm just like, you're the

539
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: coolest person I've ever seen. I love her, Sophia, I'm

540
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: obsessed with She's funny, and all of us are so

541
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 1: different from the other. There's not two of us that

542
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: are alike.

543
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Farah, I look.

544
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: Up too so much. She's honorable and she's oh man

545
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: when she lets loose. She's the funniest, most fun person. Like,

546
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: we just have so much fun all the time. And

547
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 1: I think maybe because we're so different, Yeah, we don't

548
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: there's not really that competitive aspect or you know, like

549
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: we don't really borrow that many clothes from each other

550
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 1: because we.

551
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 2: All dress different.

552
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it just it just works.

553
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 2: But you get jealous.

554
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: I get jealous when they're all vibing without Maamia.

555
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. What what are the ages? Everyone's ages?

556
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: Farah thirty five, I think, and then I'm twenty seven,

557
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: Sophia's twenty four, and Porsha sixteen.

558
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so it's that's amazing that y'all are so close,

559
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 2: because that's a thirty five to sixteen? Is it big gap?

560
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? They're nineteen nineteen years apart. Is that math? Is

561
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: that math? Mathing?

562
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 2: Not the right clips?

563
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 4: Randon, don't even get me started with math.

564
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: But actually the age difference between my mom and Farah

565
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: is the same age difference between Farah and Portia. Oh wow, yeah,

566
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: nineteen years apart.

567
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 4: Oh right, your mom had Parah when she was nineteen.

568
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 4: I did do that math at one point.

569
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 2: I have a question about your parents. Have you experienced,

570
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: and if you're comfortable sharing this, have you experienced them

571
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: dating other people since their separation and would you be comfortable?

572
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: How do you feel about it?

573
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: If you have I'm I'm you know, what the goal

574
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: is really just for them to be happy. That's all

575
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: I want. So at the end of the day, if

576
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: they end up together or not, like I just want

577
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: them to do what's best for them. And I kind

578
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: of did have a conversation with I think both of

579
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: my parents where I was just like, you don't have

580
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: to make this decision for me anymore, Like, do what's

581
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: best for you. And honestly, there's like like a beauty

582
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: in trying something new. I mean, you've you've had twenty

583
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: beautiful years, twenty seven beautiful years together and you guys

584
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: get to get to like test the waters and see

585
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: what's what's working for you. And you know, I I'm

586
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: going to let them speak on their dating life, but

587
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: whatever they do and whatever makes them happy for the

588
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: most part, I will support.

589
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 4: I say, coming from someone who has step kids in

590
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 4: their life, are you going to be nice to those

591
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 4: other people?

592
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm a nice person.

593
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 2: If you're nice to me.

594
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: I'll be nice for you. But if you mess with me.

595
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: I do think you're at a good age too, We're

596
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: able to have that emotional maturity too, and just being

597
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 2: like how important it is to see your parents happy,

598
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: regardless of what that looks like or who they're with. Yeah,

599
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 2: and obviously you. I think the fact that you and

600
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: your sisters love each other and are so ride or

601
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: die and get along says so much about your parents,

602
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: because I think that comes from how you're raised in

603
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: the household. You're raised in absolutely, and so I think

604
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: that you having the emotional awareness and maturities to say,

605
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: like you don't have to do this for us, at

606
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: least for me, I think that's amazing and I respect it.

607
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: One of the things, like, you know, I was worried

608
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: about Porsche with this whole thing, because the rest of

609
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: us were, you know, we're adults. I was really worried

610
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: about Porsche when this all came to light. But the

611
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: reality is is Porsche has what for moms. We've all

612
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: been like moms to her. I saw someone commented on Instagram, like,

613
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: where's Porsche. We're worried about Porsche. I'm like, she is

614
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: so fine. She's getting so much attention from all of us,

615
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: Like I just cheperone her sixteenth birthday and Lakinta it

616
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: was really fun, Like, you know, I love picking her

617
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: up from school, dropping her off she's best friends with Sophia,

618
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: Like they have their moments. She had one on one

619
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: lunch with my dad. The other day we went to

620
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: couple with our mom. Like we're always just together no

621
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: matter what. So it's really nice just having that, having

622
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: that stability, like even if the parents are going through

623
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: the thing, like you have the sisters like coming in

624
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: and making sure everything's okay.

625
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you all really stick together. Speaking of girls stick

626
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: together so much that you all work together, you work

627
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 2: as your family together. What is that, Danna, I don't

628
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 2: think I could work with definitely one of my Honestly.

629
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: It has its challenges, honestly, but for the most part,

630
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: we just have a lot of fun.

631
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, And the good thing.

632
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: Is about real estate is that we're always doing different things.

633
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: So the way our team is built is that we

634
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: have obviously my dad, Farah and me, but my dad's

635
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 1: at the CEO and he's traveling and he's doing he's

636
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: doing his CEO meetings and whatever, and then they're fair

637
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: and I split our clients, so we're not working with

638
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: the same clients usually at once, so you know, we're

639
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: we have our team meetings, but we actually keep our

640
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,719
Speaker 1: inner workings pretty separate, which I think is good in

641
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 1: terms of just keeping the dynamics healthy.

642
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well, I do feel like when I watch

643
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: these shows, any real estate shows on TV, they make

644
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 2: it look just it looks so easy, like anyone could

645
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 2: do it. But I'm curious about the realities of doing it,

646
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 2: but also doing it and filming it and having it

647
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: recorded and being on camera. What the reality of it?

648
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, every deal that we do, every

649
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: listing that we have on the show is real. So

650
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: anytime we're like, oh, this one's sold, it actually sold.

651
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: We went to Miami, we got a billion dollars in listings.

652
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: We actually got a billion dollars in listings, which is crazy.

653
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: So we're really working it through that process and we're

654
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: almost like working double well, we are literally working double time.

655
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: We're doing a show and we're staring houses, but we're

656
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: working the real estate part trip all time because we

657
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: want to look good. We're like, shit, I don't sell

658
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: a house during this ten weeks that we're we're filming.

659
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: This is going to be so embarrassing, you know. So

660
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: it's stressful, especially because we did film at a very

661
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: bad market. Thank god I got that one. Salem Oh

662
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: my god, the Venice house. Thank god. But it's scary

663
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: and it's it's you know, you just want to prove yourself.

664
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Real estate is a

665
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: relation ship build business, and it's about your who you

666
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: are as a person. People pick you based on you know, like, yeah,

667
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: there's stats, but a lot of people are very successful

668
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 1: out there, so it's about who you are, and you know,

669
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: you want to put your best self out there. So

670
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: it's a lot of pressure.

671
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 4: Can you talk to us a little bit about the

672
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 4: real estate market, because what the heck.

673
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: Don't wants to buy house?

674
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: And like, what the heck?

675
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 4: Why is my mortgage fifteen thousand dollars when it used

676
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 4: to be five?

677
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, you can always refinance your mortgage rate when

678
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: anytime it changes.

679
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:41,760
Speaker 2: But when is it going to change?

680
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: You don't know.

681
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's that's the one thing. Yeah, that's just

682
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: stuck until until it changes. But you know, they say

683
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: all these things, it's going to change. This year is

684
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 1: going to be really good. They're telling people that you

685
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: should buy now before it does drop, and then everyone

686
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: who's been waiting comes it at once. They're kind of like,

687
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: if you think it's going to change soon. Get in

688
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: on it now, So it's not like piranhas going after

689
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,879
Speaker 1: all the good stuff, right and then you can refinance.

690
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: So that's like people's plans.

691
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 2: Do they feel like that's I mean from what you hear,

692
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 2: is there a world word on the street, on the

693
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 2: street spidey sense that that's gonna happen.

694
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: I get so nervous telling people because like, yes, they

695
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: are saying it's going to happen, but I don't. There's

696
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: obviously no promises, but it is projected to be much

697
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: there's projected to be a drop.

698
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 3: This year, and what goes up must come down.

699
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: Exactly, it's just science. I mean, those numbers that we

700
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: saw this last year were just insane. Go any higher

701
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: would be astronomical.

702
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: Well, that's what I've heard a lot of people say

703
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: is if you find something that you love and you

704
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 2: can do it, get it, get it, and then be

705
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: prepared to refinance when when it drops, because what's going

706
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 2: to happen is as soon as it drops, it's going

707
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 2: to be vultures. And it's still competitive. Exactly do you

708
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: find that it's still competitive even with the interest rate

709
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 2: and the prices, it's still a competitive market.

710
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: Well especially now this this new year is bringing in

711
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: a lot more people.

712
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 4: So New Year meeting twenty twenty four, twenty twenty four,

713
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 4: what's twenty twenty five looking like? Do they tell you

714
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 4: like those things?

715
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I can't. This is above my page, right. I

716
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: love that.

717
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 4: I'm a guy for this, But like conversations about money

718
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 4: and like I always said, like I wish in college,

719
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 4: by the way, I knew you went to University of Arizona.

720
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: Oh did you I did?

721
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no way you were. Oh okay, yeah,

722
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: the little little research. But we are we like, were

723
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: you there at the same time?

724
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 4: No, I'm thirty six, so actually funny enough. I know

725
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 4: Melissa Platt who is on the Beverly Hills. Yeah, she's

726
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 4: my sworty.

727
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: She just at her house for Easter to spend the

728
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: day with us. She's one of our close close friends.

729
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's the cutest.

730
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: She's the cutest. She really is.

731
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: She really is.

732
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: She's the cutest.

733
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 4: But in college I was I was like, they should

734
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 4: teach us stuff like buying a house, health insurance, all

735
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 4: these basic you know, financial planning and all that stuff,

736
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 4: because I'm like, once you become an adult. It's just

737
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 4: like it all just hits you and you're like, So I.

738
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: Actually started a what's the word networking event that I'm

739
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: trying to do quarterly called adulting is Hard, and it

740
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: was the first one was about building a good credit

741
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: score so you can prepare to eventually build a house

742
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: one day, and that all happened. This whole idea happened

743
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: because I had no idea. You needed a credit card

744
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: to build a credit score, right, And my boyfriend actually

745
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: got me my first credit card and I looked at

746
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: my dad and I was like.

747
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 2: I am an adult.

748
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: I've been working for three years and I could have

749
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: been building a credit score whole time. Yeah, oh I

750
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,720
Speaker 1: was living. I was like, I genuinely thought, like someone

751
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: the they you know, they're watching where's my credit score?

752
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 2: Right?

753
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: I had no idea. So my first was about but

754
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: they had credit score and I was. It was about explaining,

755
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: you know why you need a good score for your

756
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: future home and it's you know. That was the first one.

757
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: The second one was about uh, financial planning, so it

758
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: was about you know, starting your retirement fund and investing.

759
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: So these are all things I never learned and I

760
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: wish I did. Yeah, And I mean it's funny because

761
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: I did grow up very comfortable and I am very privileged,

762
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: and I do acknowledge that, but there's almost like a

763
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: piece that you miss when you're so comfortable that you're

764
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: not like pushed to do these things. And and then

765
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: I have you know, friends that you know, don't have

766
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: a parent to teach them these things. Like my partner

767
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking, you know, on a podcast, but she

768
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,479
Speaker 1: lost both of her parents and she's like, I didn't

769
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 1: know these things either. So we have two people on

770
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: two very opposite spectrums that like, you know, we're like,

771
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: there's this is something that should be done. We need

772
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: to have these moments. And then we have cocktails, we

773
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: make fun and we talked to people. We did bowling

774
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: last time, and it was you know, it's just something

775
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: I think should be more normalized, is these conversations.

776
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 2: I'm with you, that's such a great idea that you're

777
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 2: doing that. Yeah, I'm they there needs to be courses,

778
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 2: and they need to make it enjoyable and fun because

779
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 2: I'm not going to go sit in a lecture hall

780
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 2: and like be taught again, how did do exactly.

781
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 4: In my college halls and tigers and bears. I'm like, what, Yeah,

782
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 4: teachers have four to oh one k oh, my.

783
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 1: God, exactly. So last my last adulting is hard session.

784
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: He's like, I got up on stage. I'm introducing our guys.

785
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, Like he's going to teach us about

786
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: time and funds whatever. He's like, yeah, I'm just going

787
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: to keep it simple, talk about for one cake. I'm

788
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: like what. I'm like, you're what. I genuinely didn't even

789
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: know what that was. And then I think everyone like

790
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: started laughing in the room because I already had set

791
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: the precipice, like I, yes, I'm busting this thing, but

792
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: I don't know anything. But I'm here with everybody's.

793
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 4: Embarrassed to say I don't know.

794
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 2: You know, we all are in.

795
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 4: These conversations and they're like yeh yeah, yeah, I'm you know,

796
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 4: but like nobody knows anything, and like, I mean, now

797
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 4: I know a little bit, but I mean, gosh.

798
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if I finally know what a four

799
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: oh one K is, I know four months ago I

800
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: learned that, Thank you very much. I'm twenty seven years old.

801
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: I need to know when your next one is because

802
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 2: I feel like I lit the vulnerability of you also

803
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: not knowing what we're learning about.

804
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: I yeah, I definitely make sure to ask a lot

805
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 1: of questions and then it really I mean, our thirty

806
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: minute session ended up being an hour and a half

807
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: because everyone started asking everything. I like, I make sure.

808
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need you to rewind one oh one

809
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: for dummies.

810
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it also makes people feel comfortable, Like

811
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 2: if you're the host and you're asking, they're like, okay,

812
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: I can ask too, Yeah, exactly are you waiting or

813
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,760
Speaker 2: interested in getting a ring on your finger?

814
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 3: Obviously?

815
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 2: I definitely you know, you were like letting him know

816
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: that I needed to happen.

817
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 1: We talk about getting married, like we know it's going

818
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: to happen. We were just in combo with my mom

819
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: and sisters, and I told my sisters and my mom

820
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: like I asked my mom for ring advice because I

821
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: don't know anything about rings, and we looked at pictures.

822
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, son ever said that text him

823
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: right now, so you know, but him and I know

824
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: what's happening, Like that's not even a question. It's just

825
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: a matter of when. Like he always tries to talk

826
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: to me about it. I'm like, stop talking. Like, I

827
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 1: need to be a secret. Yeah, you might be surprised,

828
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: and I never get my nails done. I told my sisters,

829
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: if you guys invite me to get my nails done,

830
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: I'll be upset with you because I know it's going

831
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: to be coming, So don't tell me that. I'm like,

832
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: it's just I want it to be a surprise, even

833
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 1: though I know it's coming, right, So we're excited about that. Yet.

834
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: I love that you want to just choose my ring.

835
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: But who knows what I ended up getting. He could

836
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,439
Speaker 1: end up getting something totally different. Who knows.

837
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,720
Speaker 2: You're like, listen to whatever my mom sends you follow

838
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: with that advice.

839
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: We did just measure each other's ring fingers. I like

840
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,479
Speaker 1: brought home you know that jewelry store masery. Oh yeah,

841
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 1: they sent me a ring measure and I brought it

842
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 1: home the other day and he's like, yes, he's he

843
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: kept trying to put it on my finger. I'm no, no,

844
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: I want to do it. I want to do it.

845
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: He would just like wanted to put the ring sizing

846
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: on my on my finger. So you know, it's it's

847
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: very open conversation. But when is the question.

848
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 2: I love that you wanted to be a surprise.

849
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

850
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 2: He's probably just as excited about that.

851
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: We're excited. I mean, it's it's been four years. But

852
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 1: I'm not in a rush actually.

853
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 2: Okay, see that's what I was getting at a rush,

854
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 2: like you know some of you are.

855
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 3: It's fine.

856
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: I wanted the ring to be something I like, but

857
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm not in a rush.

858
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: You know, you know it's coming. So you're at piece

859
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: of up exactly.

860
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: That's where I'm at mentally.

861
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 2: Okay, what about career wise? What are your hopes and

862
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 2: dreams and what is the what are the next years

863
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: look like for you?

864
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: So I definitely want to sell more. This year was slow,

865
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three was slower, and I just want to

866
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:09,919
Speaker 1: be way, way more successful in the numbers era. Oh

867
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: not era. What's the word apartment department? Thank you? Era

868
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: is too much? It's such a word right now. And

869
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: then additionally, I want to I feel like our office

870
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: is still kind of like post COVID. I hate talking

871
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: about COVID all the time, but it's still in that

872
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: post COVID moment where people aren't showing up to the

873
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: office all the time, and we used to have this

874
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: shot o'clock every Friday. We're at five o'clock every Friday.

875
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: We have shots and just like little things that have

876
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: changed since since COVID, where a lot more people are

877
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: working at the office. I just want to focus a

878
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: lot more on the culture or a company. This year.

879
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: I talked to my dad. I was like, I want

880
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: to have a top golf event with people out of office.

881
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: I want to have a bowling event. I want him

882
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: to have you know, dinners with people. I was like,

883
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: we just I want to feel very involved, especially with

884
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: the show coming out. I don't want it to be

885
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: so alienating. I want us to still feel very part

886
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 1: of the mix. Especially I just know people feel different

887
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: and you know, look at people differently sometimes, and I

888
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:21,919
Speaker 1: just don't want to open the window to that possibility.

889
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: Like I want us to be like I want my

890
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 1: sisters at every event we're going to do. So, I

891
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: want to focus a lot on the company this year.

892
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: I'm just being part of that.

893
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 2: Too, like the community of the company.

894
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

895
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 2: But I love that you. I find that you really

896
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 2: value that I do like you do with your family,

897
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: with work, your friends.

898
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's I have a giant group of friends

899
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm very like, I'm very focused on keeping that together

900
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,280
Speaker 1: as well. I'm just that's just my thing. I guess.

901
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: I love that and I really realize that until you

902
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: just said that out loud, Like you're so right.

903
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 2: It's a very special quality because a lot of especially

904
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 2: with everyone being on their phones and it's like you

905
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 2: can barely get people to look you in the eye

906
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: when you're having a conversation. I feel like having you

907
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 2: having that is such a gift because it like bring

908
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: people together, reminding them about community and how important it

909
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 2: is to have that. Yeah, it's crucial. I think it's success.

910
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: I think so too, and everything it's communities, like everywhere

911
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: there exactly I went to. My school was called a

912
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: community high school, and I'm still so involved in it.

913
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: I try. I'm just like, I just it's important to

914
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: focus on the community. All my friends are from my

915
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: high school.

916
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 3: What high school did you go to?

917
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: I went to milkinh Okay Jewish School four five Ye.

918
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, we have literally have this group of like

919
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: fifty friends that we see each other every month, every week,

920
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: and we treat each other like a family. And I

921
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: really do think it's because that like that word cult,

922
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: community was so embedded in us, and we we nurtured

923
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: our relationship so much.

924
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: Fifty five zero yeah, five zero.

925
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 1: A group of fifty people, Yeah pretty much.

926
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 2: Yeah amazing.

927
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty crazy obviously, like the subgroups, but when

928
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: you get everyone involved, it can be up to the subgroups.

929
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

930
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 2: I feel like you would have that if you still

931
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 2: love Yeah.

932
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.

933
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm definitely very lucky.

934
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 3: I keep looking at her hair and.

935
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, do I need to get a cut? Like

936
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: I got so twelve inches, It's so cute, so cute,

937
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: You're so ch so she my ballet hair.

938
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, Cardigan, I'm like.

939
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 2: You give oldest sister mentality. I haven't met your oldest sister,

940
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,240
Speaker 2: but you definitely have that energy.

941
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do, I have.

942
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like the grandma the group. Honestly. I'm

943
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: also I promise.

944
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, I want you to chaperone my birthday and

945
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 2: Wakita Oh.

946
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: I can definitely if you get me in a party room.

947
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: But you know, during the week, I'm very conservative. I

948
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: don't wear makeup really. I like my sweaters.

949
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, jeans, You're everything you love. Thank you for scrubbing

950
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: a podcast.

951
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: You guys for having me so much fun.

952
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 2: Hey you just class and clap in, clap out,