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Speaker 1: So you know that I'm always talking about the Royals

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Speaker 1: and Harry and Meghan, and I talk about their business

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Speaker 1: decisions and their press decisions and their strategy, and that

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Speaker 1: I think that they botch a lot. The one thing

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Speaker 1: I don't want them to batch is their marriage, and

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are talking about them headed for

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Speaker 1: divorce and that he's hired a divorce attorney or met

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Speaker 1: with Once you meet with the divorce attorney, it means

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Speaker 1: the other partner can't meet with that same divorce attorney.

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Speaker 1: So a lot of people go and make the rounds

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Speaker 1: with all the good ones so the other person can't

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Speaker 1: get the good ones. First of all, that is vile,

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Speaker 1: but also you don't want your partner to have a

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Speaker 1: bad divorce attorney because that will mean that your divorce

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Speaker 1: will take forever and be a whole also, and it

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Speaker 1: takes long because it's a bunch of side shows and distractions.

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Speaker 1: But the bigger concept is I would never want anyone

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Speaker 1: to experience a divorce, and I would feel extremely compassionate

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Speaker 1: for Harry, particularly Harry if he were to divorce Meghan,

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Speaker 1: because she got him back to the United States. I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking of something I never thought about that no one

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Speaker 1: has talked about. And I'm only thinking about this because

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Speaker 1: I kind of know a little bit bit bit about this.

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Speaker 1: First of all, if Harry and Meghan are divorcing, that

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Speaker 1: sounds horrible. It sounds excruciating, and it sounds more devastating

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Speaker 1: for him who has alienated his family, left the royal life,

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Speaker 1: and has left his country. And they have children. In

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Speaker 1: any situation, having children in a divorce, it's wretched. In

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Speaker 1: this particular situation, they have children and he is now

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Speaker 1: not living in his home life. So this is what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I never thought of this until right now. If in fact,

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Speaker 1: Harry and Megan are headed for divorce, it would seem

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Speaker 1: that she would have wanted to pull him out of

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Speaker 1: the UK because if she were still living in the

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Speaker 1: United this is insane. I can't believe I just thought

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Speaker 1: of this right now. If she was still living in

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Speaker 1: the I'm freaking out. Okay, if you live in a

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Speaker 1: house with your spouse and one of you leaves, they

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Speaker 1: call that abandonment in some states where you will have

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Speaker 1: a challenge getting custody and things won't work as well

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Speaker 1: for you because you've left the marital residence. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: it happened in a situation in my divorce because there

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Speaker 1: was a lot of stress and turmoil inside the home

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Speaker 1: and I ended up living somewhere else and coming back

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Speaker 1: to be in my apartment to be with my daughter

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Speaker 1: and did it for her well being because it was

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Speaker 1: a toxic environment. And the judge applauded me for that.

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Speaker 1: They said, thank god someone had the wherewithal to do this.

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Speaker 1: But the advice that attorneys give you is not to

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Speaker 1: leave the marital residence. It's sort of like you're raising

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Speaker 1: a white flag and forfeiting and you're not like you

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Speaker 1: are forfeiting kind of custody and the situation. So there

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Speaker 1: are all these different rules that happen with divorce, like

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Speaker 1: the first person to send out the letter and it

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Speaker 1: goes through the US Postal Service. That's when you start

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Speaker 1: quote unquote the event, the event meaning the dissolution of

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Speaker 1: the marriage, and whoever leave divorce. Attorneys advise you to

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Speaker 1: not buy anything or make any big moves because that

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Speaker 1: will be seen as you're doing something to sort of

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Speaker 1: affect the financial settlement. And if the person leaves the house,

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Speaker 1: it's thought of his abandonment. There's a bunch of different

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Speaker 1: things that don't live in the logical world. They live

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Speaker 1: in the legal world, and you have to make decisions

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Speaker 1: on your own. Because judges are human. They have to

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Speaker 1: follow the law, but they're human. So if there's something

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Speaker 1: toxic going on in the house and they have been

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Speaker 1: So why I'm saying all of this is if Megan

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Speaker 1: and Harry and this could be pure rumor, and I

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Speaker 1: hope it is, I really genuinely hope it is. Like

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Speaker 1: I do not think they've made smart business and pr decisions,

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Speaker 1: But if they're getting divorced, he didn't know that they

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Speaker 1: were going to be getting divorced. If they're getting divorced,

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Speaker 1: all of this would make sense. That she married him,

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Speaker 1: she put off more than she could chew. They then

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Speaker 1: be nervous because if they had kids and they were

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Speaker 1: she would never be able to take the kids out

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Speaker 1: of the UK. So maybe she got him to leave

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Speaker 1: to the United States, and getting citizenship would mean that

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Speaker 1: a judge would probably say that the kids would have

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Speaker 1: to stay in the United States. It's meaning that either

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Speaker 1: Harry would have to stay or he'd become Kelly Rutherford,

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Speaker 1: the mom and gossip girl who has to travel back

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Speaker 1: and forth. She went through a divorce from a Frenchman.

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Speaker 1: He was living in her country in the US with

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Speaker 1: the kids, and then he moved back to France and

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Speaker 1: the kids now live with him. It was a whole,

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Speaker 1: long drawn out divorce for many reasons, and she made

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Speaker 1: many mistakes. But the point is an international marriage means

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Speaker 1: an international divorce, and that is frightening, Like that's scary,

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Speaker 1: and no one's talking about that, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: why because him meeting with divorce lawyers. Who gives a shit,

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Speaker 1: him having two apartments that he's staying and if that's true,

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Speaker 1: and it might all be false, who gives a shit

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Speaker 1: them getting a divorce. I give a shit because it's

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Speaker 1: terrible to go through and it's public. But having an

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Speaker 1: international divorce is a massive I give a shit, Like

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Speaker 1: that is insane and messy, and that's like international law.

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Speaker 1: That's a whole different deal. And they now live in

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Speaker 1: the United States, and those kids would probably live in

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Speaker 1: the United States. The fact that they're a royal descent

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Speaker 1: and that Harry might want to ever move home is

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Speaker 1: irrelevant because maybe you can't go home again, insaying I

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Speaker 1: can't believe no one's talking about that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: So social media can be great if used for good

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Speaker 1: and not evil. I talked to you guys about Taylor

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Speaker 1: Swift and how it felt like an elitist sport, and

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Speaker 1: I said they should have a buy an expensive ticket

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Speaker 1: and then an underprivileged person gets to go for free.

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Speaker 1: And we had extra tickets, and we found a mom

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Speaker 1: and a daughter, a daughter who had had leukemia, and

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Speaker 1: she actually coincidentally had tried to go to Katie Perry

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Speaker 1: sending her and her mom overnight to see Taylor Swift

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Speaker 1: in Boston. And it was like our little mini Make

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Speaker 1: a Wish And I said that Tom, we should do

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Speaker 1: and so now we're going to be giving away Tailor

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Speaker 1: Swift tickets to moms and daughters that really could use

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Speaker 1: new YouTube series called bethany where I get into all

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Speaker 1: to the Dollars store, but also meaningful things like give

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Speaker 1: a mom and her daughter who's had leukemia tickets to

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. So it's a show that has meaning. But

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Speaker 1: why it has greater meaning for me is that I

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Speaker 1: get to do it the way that I want to

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Speaker 1: do it. It is content to the people. It is

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Speaker 1: cheot and record things that I find interesting and fun

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Speaker 1: and fascinating and air them, you know, a week later

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Speaker 1: I said, men in suits make decisions on what they

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Speaker 1: think women are going to want to watch. So if

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Speaker 1: you don't subscribe to YouTube, go to YouTube and subscribe

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Speaker 1: to my YouTube channel because it's going to include a

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Speaker 1: lot this podcast and the behind the scenes will be

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Speaker 1: on and it's just basically a really fresh, fun, unique

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Speaker 1: it's a television series effectively that I am producing on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: So I'm pretty excited about it because it's it's pretty cool,