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Speaker 1: Colin Pharrell a man, Good morning everybody, Good money, ladies

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Speaker 1: The Joker leave the nominations. As far as the Oscars go,

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Speaker 1: boy right there, man, the movie Joker, Yeah, the Joker, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Steve ok okay up for Oscar? He wasn't up for

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Speaker 1: I saw that move. Yeah you saw. Let's save it, Steve. Wait,

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Speaker 1: That's what the bus explores. That's what my tax dollars

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Speaker 1: I will not accept this. I who do I need

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Speaker 1: Tell me your name again? My name is ernest. I'm

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Speaker 1: because you're saying he's over behind in twenty five pack.

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Speaker 1: What my child looks like, how much he weighs is

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Speaker 1: I have to work. My son is getting on that

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Speaker 1: You're allowed to make this call like our other parents.

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Speaker 1: Okay with this? I'm called when you on your way

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Speaker 1: It's Batman with Batman Man. The whole damn movie. I said, man,

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Speaker 1: Tomorrow was good. It was real good man. He gonna

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Speaker 1: very much. This is a trip with the news. House

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Speaker 1: Trump is still impeach for life and there's nothing his

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Speaker 1: So you know what, they gotta go. Twenty one cadets

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Speaker 1: send them back. New Jersey Senator Corey Booker has ended

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Speaker 1: his race for the Democratic presidential nomination. In an email

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Speaker 1: The New York Times, president Trump's trying to take credit

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Speaker 1: for the country's lower cancer rates. American Cancer Society says

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Speaker 1: time when Obama was president. Today's tonight National rubber ducky day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, so Junior is here with this sports talk

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Speaker 1: the National College Championship football game. Hold up about that?

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Speaker 1: Hold on? Oh they do? They do? They do? It

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Speaker 1: was a good game last night. It was last night,

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Speaker 1: girl wise you in sports intro Sports tonight, girl girl,

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Speaker 1: it was last night. Was ain't washing up? And now

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Speaker 1: because I'm in Africa. You can't see nothing. So in Africa, right,

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Speaker 1: know you not? That was a great game last night,

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Speaker 1: beautiful game. Thank you, Junior man. You in Baker Mayfield

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Speaker 1: and kids, my behind that going on with all that? Well,

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Speaker 1: well they both had the house now house Trumpy whin

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Speaker 1: the LSU is Joe Burrow versus clips is Trevior Lars

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Speaker 1: LSU wins. But we want to bring in undefeated, undefeated.

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Speaker 1: We want to bring in coach. Oh, the head coach

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Speaker 1: of LSU Tigers. We can't understand it. We can get

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Speaker 1: as a national japan So I was there thinking you

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Speaker 1: the gold Tigers. All he want to do? Oh, he

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Speaker 1: wanted to loom for Steve Louis Downad, you're going on

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Speaker 1: Who that down? And I said, over there and win

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Speaker 1: I didn't understand, not a word, not already you never do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't worry about that, right now go tigers. Understand that? Yeah, time,

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Speaker 1: because don't understand national Chimp, national chimp cratl who that?

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Speaker 1: Why the coach? Why the coach sound like a white

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Speaker 1: wash goo waller? Oh boy? All right, h crazy. We'll

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Speaker 1: talk about Corey buck he dropped out of the Democratic

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Speaker 1: presidential race. We'll talk about it. You're listening to well Steve.

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Speaker 1: Corey Booker is the latest Democratic candidate to drop out

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Speaker 1: of the presidential race. It was hard. That's so fake,

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Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it was hard. It was hard for

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Speaker 1: Corey to make that decision. He posted a statement on

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Speaker 1: social media, and here's some of Corey's statement. He said,

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Speaker 1: I've said throughout this race that this election is not

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Speaker 1: just a referendum on Donald Trump. It's a referendum on

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Speaker 1: who we are and who we must be to each other.

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Speaker 1: Corey Booker went on to say, to my team, supporters

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Speaker 1: and everyone who gave a shot, thank you. I'm so

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Speaker 1: proud of what we built. Okay, can I say something listen, Camelo, Corey.

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Speaker 1: All these people they had good intentions, some of them

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Speaker 1: had great ideas. The problem that we have right now

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Speaker 1: is that Donald Trump has changed politics in this country

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Speaker 1: and this country right now with him as the president,

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Speaker 1: they have given up all pretense of morality. They not

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Speaker 1: even facing or playing like we're trying to be morally correct.

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Speaker 1: The Southern evangelicals have all back Donald Trump. Excuse me,

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Speaker 1: the far right wing religious moral compass of this country,

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Speaker 1: so they've been telling us, is now backing down Donald Trump,

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Speaker 1: who is against everything everything for regular people and only

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Speaker 1: supportive of rich people. Politics is by partisan they have.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen the rights banned together as much as

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Speaker 1: I have with Donald Trump banned together to the right

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Speaker 1: on somebody so wrong, So Kamela Corey with great intentions

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Speaker 1: of the other dude. So you know, so all these people,

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Speaker 1: they all had good intentions, but this, this election is

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Speaker 1: about who's going to be best for the country. All

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Speaker 1: this election is is about power, position, and money, and

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Speaker 1: the right wing will do anything to maintain those three things.

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Speaker 1: And right now it's represented by Donald Trump. Because if

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Speaker 1: you go against Trump, he go against you. So now

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Speaker 1: if you don't back this guy right now in your

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Speaker 1: local elections, he come out against you. So this dude

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Speaker 1: done buffalo and bully the Republican Party when really he's

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Speaker 1: a Democrat at heart, but because he liked democratic dudes.

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Speaker 1: But really, this dude right here, man has change politics.

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Speaker 1: So the good god, this isn't about the good guy

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Speaker 1: no more. This ain't about who best for the country.

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Speaker 1: So all right now is trying to get somebody who

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Speaker 1: debate that can stand there and match this dude is Biden.

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Speaker 1: That's it. You got to have two old white men

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Speaker 1: talking about each other and then let all the rest

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Speaker 1: of them decide who they're going to vote for. This

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Speaker 1: got to be two white men talking about each other

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Speaker 1: because he has polarized it. He has made his party

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Speaker 1: about white men. I'm telling you, man, this dude, then

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Speaker 1: gangster politics has changed. Yeah, it's been allowed to. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They want to stay in power. So in

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Speaker 1: order to stay in power, they think they should stand

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Speaker 1: behind Donald Trump and support whatever he does, right or wrong,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. They have to stand behind. They come

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Speaker 1: out against him, the trader, the Lord, and then here

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Speaker 1: and then he'll go to the NI and they'll pull

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Speaker 1: the money from their campaign. Yeah he didn't gangster him. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: The debate is tonight Democratic yes in Iowa, Iowa. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: right before the claucus says all right, Coming up next,

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Speaker 1: the nephew in the building with today's prank phone call

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Speaker 1: that's coming up right after this you're listening to. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

631
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Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the subject

632
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: my married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. But right

633
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 1: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

634
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 1: What you got for his neat? Bad pot luck? Bad

635
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: pot luck? When t winter baby, let's go kn't Hello? Hello,

636
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to flying Heather. Excuse me what I'm trying

637
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 1: to reach a Heather Heather? How are you? Okay? Okay, listen?

638
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: Uh I got your number from from Lois. Look that's

639
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Speaker 1: my mama. I'm my reach. I'm Lowis oldest son. Now

640
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: wait wait excuse me Lois? Who's Lowis? Okays? Yes, yes, yes, Hi,

641
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? You you you you? You

642
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: was at at Mama themes house on on New Year's Day? Yes, yes,

643
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: okay when I got when I got there, you was gone.

644
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: But what I'm what I'm calling about it is. You

645
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: don't want made the black eyed peas? Right? I did

646
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: you enjoy them? No? I enjoy the mother. That's why

647
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: I'm calling. Let me say this here. Let me say this. No, no, no,

648
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: come at work. You can't talk to me like this.

649
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: Don't do that, don't do that. Say whatever you gotta say,

650
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: but please don't curse that me. Don't do no. No,

651
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: your beans got my mom checked up and I didn't

652
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: have to go down to the doctor get my stomach pomp.

653
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: I ain't got no damn insurance none. This. You know this, this,

654
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: this didn't have me messed up for the last week,

655
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: Noma for the loans to tell you exactly you know

656
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: how your damn things is? Okay? First of all, okay,

657
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: I told you ask. I'm at work, I'm around all

658
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,879
Speaker 1: these white people. I can't talk to you the way

659
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: I want to talk to you. But let me just

660
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: tell you that. Don't call me with the dumb First

661
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: of all, it was a whole bunch of food there.

662
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: How do you know? How can you single out my

663
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: damn beans that made you sit with all that got

664
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: food there? You're not gonna blame me. Get the out

665
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: of here, mama, mama Dean says, you are the one

666
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: to make the blase you. I don't give us your

667
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: mama being said it was all this food there. You're

668
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 1: going to single out my beans. Nobody else complains, you

669
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: know what the day's date is, okay, and not one

670
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: other person called me about some beans. And by the

671
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, other people were complimenting me.

672
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: So for you to call me with the dumb all

673
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: late and wrong, gonna blame me pie because you need

674
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: a doctor's appointment. You should have got Obamacare when it

675
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: was available to you. And how you want to call

676
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: me with no no, no, no, no no, so you

677
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: can tell or whatever somebody you're trying to blame somebody

678
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: else's food. Joe beings my stomach up and that's where

679
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: and that's where it falls down to. And at the

680
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 1: end of the day, your friends about you know the hell,

681
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: I ain't what doctor bill. You said you want to

682
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: have insurance, So how does the hell is you go?

683
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: I had to play out my pocket to get my

684
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: stomach pumps. Okay, well taking care of if you paid

685
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: off your pocket, that means the bill is paying so

686
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: you can get you gonna reimburse reward. No, I'm not

687
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: going to reimburse you with okay, and that's not out

688
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: more beans for you since you got a problem with them,

689
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,439
Speaker 1: I got a whole bowl for you. Okay, how about

690
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: because you're foolished, so if it made you, that's good

691
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: for you. Hey, look look, I'm gonna tell you this

692
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: here right now. Uh the bill was four hundred seventy

693
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: two dollars. I need four hundred and sent me two

694
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: dollars for your boys things. No, no, no, no, you're

695
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: not getting the money from me. And I need to

696
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: go because I got work to do. I don't know

697
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: what you got to do. Spend it all this time

698
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: on the phone and talk about something being with all

699
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,399
Speaker 1: that food. So the rice didn't do it, the meat

700
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: didn't do it. They had some other gravy. Gravy always

701
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: people up that didn't do it. You want to sing

702
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: about my beans? Out of here? Don't be calling me

703
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: with this dumb you know what? Now? Company? Who gave

704
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: me your number? Because I don't even know you. I

705
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: do know your mom. I was little mama. Mama didnt

706
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: gave me your number? I called mama Mama dean passing

707
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: out numbers. Well, I'm gonna call Mama Dean, and I'm

708
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: gonna see if anybody else got sick, which I know

709
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: they didn't because your ass is fullish. So I'm gonna

710
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,959
Speaker 1: call her see if any he got sick. How about

711
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: we doing it that way. And also I'm gonna call

712
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,919
Speaker 1: your mother. Okay, I'm gonna call Miss Lois and see

713
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: why her dad son is calling me on the phone,

714
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: because this is something. I'm sick inside of this phone call.

715
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: And nothing was wrong with my beans. If anything something

716
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: wrong with you, and so take a access to clear

717
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: your ass out and keep it the movies. If you're

718
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: gonna get off my phone, Okay, okay, okay, they say

719
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: they say Tommy had some problem with the bag through.

720
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't even know no God, Tommy,

721
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: I barely know your mom. I just know her by face.

722
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't even know her know her. So Tommy, Hugh,

723
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm calling Mamma Dean. She ain't got no business getting

724
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: my mother number to nobody. This is what I've just

725
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: told you. I don't know anybody named Tommy, So you

726
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: can tell him whatever you want to tell him. And

727
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: when you try to gain other people who want to

728
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: jump on your side. It's not gonna happen because nobody

729
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 1: complaints about the being Give me, give me another names,

730
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: because Tommy wasn't there. I know just about everybody that

731
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: was there. What nobody names Tommy there? Okay, okay, so

732
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: you're gonna say nephew, nephew Tommy wasn't then what nephew

733
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,479
Speaker 1: taught me? This is nephew from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.

734
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 1: And have you just are you crazy? Your cousin got

735
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: me a blank phone, called you crazy. I'm at work,

736
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: people walking by me looking at me because I'm about

737
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: to get writing with you. Tommy, are you crazy? He's

738
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 1: a good Oh man, you got me. You got me

739
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: one to taste your black eyed peas. Good. Nobody can play.

740
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here like I know, you get these people fat.

741
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: You aren't gonna get no money. Tell me this, tell

742
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: me this is the baddest, the baddest ray dr show

743
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: in the land. Oh but you know it, but you

744
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: know it's Steve Harvey Morning Show. Oh my god, this

745
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: is great. After twenty twenty two, you have to keep

746
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: cooking your bean. But you are all right, thank you?

747
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: Having year all right? After New Year and next year,

748
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: I probably pop up in Mamma Dean house here. You

749
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: are welcome to com How was that you can't bring

750
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: no bad beans to New Year's Day? Down? You understand

751
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: the saying you can't bring bad beans? Hey? Uh this

752
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 1: this week Charlotte, North Carolina. The Nephew coming to the

753
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 1: comedy zone Thursday Friday said Sunday. Okay, question about that,

754
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,919
Speaker 1: y'r sir? Yes, sir, okay, okay. I'm about I'm about

755
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: five four three. How work out on many? Go ahead?

756
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 1: You had the comedy I'm about the comedy zone. Third

757
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 1: you through Sunday. Tickets about gold the Nephew gonna be

758
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: so lot before the weekends up, get the tickets. I

759
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: got a few up left comedies on Thursday through Sunday.

760
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: That's right, emil Okay, weekend, y'all come hang out with

761
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: your boy. But now the laughter continues. Laugh Fest Valentine's Weekend.

762
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: That's gonna be Cleveland on the fourteenth, Cincinnati, Ohio on

763
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: the fifteenth, Memphis, Tennessee on the sixteenth. It's the laugh Fest.

764
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: It's me Dio, Hughley said the entertainer Dion Cole and

765
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: earthquake shaking it up laugh Fest. Valentine's Weekend tickets on

766
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 1: sale right now? I think sure, all ticket mask off

767
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: this show. That's a good show, right there? Are you

768
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: gonna come see me on one of them? Come to Cleveland? Man?

769
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: I wish you couple later February fourth on the on

770
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: the fourteenth. Is that a week That's a weekend, ain't it?

771
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: I think? Family? Or Tommy? You could take your show

772
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: to Africa? Hm? I was saying Tommy could take a

773
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,359
Speaker 1: show to Africa? Where you are? Can we come over there?

774
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: Ain't o? Can you send a jet for us? Me

775
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: and the boys? They got tickets. You ain't been getting

776
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: on see all of a sudden, see see how people

777
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: do plane? Nah, ain't been on jet nowhere? No, all

778
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: I say, send a jet fast? Hey on what I

779
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: said to play? Way over there? Seventeen outs, pick your

780
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: ass up, Bring you back seventeen you could have been here.

781
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: Just start coming that way? Hey? Can I can I

782
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: come hang out over them? Can I? Can I come

783
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: hang out for about a week? Yeah? I'm serious? All right?

784
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: Well there it is coming up next Strawberry letters subject

785
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: my married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. We'll get

786
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 1: into that right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey

787
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, it is time now for today's

788
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting,

789
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

790
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: f M and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

791
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

792
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here today. That's right. Buggal

793
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you here.

794
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,879
Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you. Subject my married ex

795
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend want to be friends. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am

796
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 1: heartbroken and I need your advice. My boyfriend broke up

797
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: with me in September of twenty eighteen, and I'm having

798
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: a difficult time letting him go. We've been close friends

799
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: since we were in middle school, and we had a

800
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 1: deep emotional and physical connection for many years. When he

801
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: dumped me, he tried to still be friends, but it

802
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: was awkward for me, so I didn't talk to him

803
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: much because I needed to heal well. Shortly after we

804
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: broke up, he met a nice woman and they had

805
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: only been together six months, and he asked her to

806
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: marry him. They got married in September twenty nineteen, and

807
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: he had the audacity to invite me to the wedding.

808
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: I did not go for a couple of reasons. First off,

809
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to see him walk down the aisle

810
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 1: with someone else. And secondly, I did not think it

811
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: was appropriate for me to attend the wedding since a

812
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 1: none of our other friends knew the true nature of

813
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 1: our friendship. We were more than friends. I'm his ex boyfriend.

814
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Or should I

815
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: say us? Surely? Surely? Yes? Yes? Huh? You want me

816
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: to read it again? Okay, Yeah, I said we were

817
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,879
Speaker 1: more than friends. I'm his We were talking about We're

818
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: talking about the ter, the writer of the writer, the

819
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 1: writer of the letter who says he's heartbroken because he

820
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: and he needs our advice. His boyfriend broke up with

821
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: him in September of twenty eighteen, So skipping down. Huh, okay,

822
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: follow with me, Steve. Okay, he and his boyfriend. His

823
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: boyfriend broke up with him in twenty eighteen. Uh, we

824
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: were more than friends? Yes, yes, yes, yes, my boyfriend

825
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: broke up with me. Okay, I'm gonna you want me

826
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 1: to start over you slow, Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley, I

827
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: am heartbroken and I need your advice. My boyfriend broke

828
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: up with me in September of twenty eighteen, and I'm

829
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: having a difficult time letting him go. We've been close

830
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: friends since we were in middle school. So far, so good, right,

831
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: Steve and we had and we had a deep emotional

832
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 1: and physical connection for many years. When he dumped me,

833
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: he tried to still be friends, but it was awkward

834
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: for me, so I didn't talk to him much because

835
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: I needed to heal well. Shortly after we broke up,

836
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 1: he met a nice woman and they had only been

837
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: together six months, and he asked her to marry him.

838
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: Then they got married in September of twenty nineteen, and

839
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: he had the audacity to invite me to the wedding.

840
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: I did not go for a couple of reasons. First off,

841
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to see him walk down the aisle

842
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: with someone else. And secondly, I did not think it

843
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: was appropriate for me to attend the wedding since none

844
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: of our other friends know that they knew the true

845
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 1: nature of our friendship. We were more than friends. I'm

846
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: his ex boyfriend. His new wife doesn't know about me.

847
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Yep, follow along stage.

848
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Or should I

849
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,839
Speaker 1: say us? I am not vindictive and I would never

850
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: ruin her happiness by sharing this information with her. He

851
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 1: got really upset with me for not coming to his

852
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: wedding because he said everyone was asking why I wasn't there.

853
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: We have argued about me missing the wedding, and he

854
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: doesn't understand my side of it or why I'm still hurt.

855
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: He seems to think we can just go on as

856
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 1: friends and hang out on the weekends like we've always done.

857
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: I've been avoiding his calls and texts, but I do

858
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: miss talking to him. How should I deal with this

859
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: going forward? Should I cut ties with him for good?

860
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: Or do you think time will heal all wounds? Please advise?

861
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: All right, Sometimes you know you do have to just

862
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: let things, You have to let people go, you do

863
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: in life. Sometimes you do that, But in this case,

864
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: I understand it's harder for you because you guys have

865
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: been friends since middle school and you've been more than friends.

866
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: But clearly he doesn't feel the same way as you.

867
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: Proof he dumped you. He married a woman six months later,

868
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: and he didn't even tell her about you. That's the

869
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 1: proof right there. So it sounds like you were way

870
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: more into him than he was into you. And he

871
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: has moved on with his life in terms of a

872
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: romantic relationship. He's married a woman now. Now he's insensitive?

873
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: Is he insensitive? I want to ask you that you

874
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 1: think he's insensitive and confusing because he seems to be

875
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: sending mixed messages to you. Absolutely, because he wants to

876
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: still be friends with you and still hang out like

877
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,439
Speaker 1: you guys used to do, and all of that. Those

878
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: are mixed messages. It's confusing, without a doubt, all of that.

879
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: And and while yes, you asked the question, does time

880
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: heal wounds? Yes, time heals all wounds, that's what they say.

881
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: And this so called friendship of yours that he wants

882
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 1: to still have and he wants you guys to still

883
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: you know, be together and all of that, it's as

884
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: one sided as ever. I think he's a selfish type lover.

885
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 1: He just wants what he wants. He's not caring or

886
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: understanding how you feel about this situation. So I think

887
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: you really should take a page out of his book

888
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: and move on with your life, just like he has

889
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: moved on with you with his whether that be with

890
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: a woman or another man, whatever your preference. I think

891
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: you should move on with your life and forget about

892
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: this guy, because it seems he's done that. Steve, you're

893
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: all right. Let's just start towards the end of the

894
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: letter where it says I should I deal with this

895
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: going forward? That is the question for me to answer

896
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: on this commercial break. Steve won't come back with an

897
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 1: answer for this after the break. The subject my married

898
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend wants to be friends. We'll get back into

899
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to all right, Steve,

900
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject my married

901
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend wants to be friends. I know you were

902
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: thrown a little bit because we're talking about two guys here. Okay,

903
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 1: But now okay, So now, in fairness to me and

904
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,760
Speaker 1: my radio audience that listens to me, I'm gonna take

905
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: you on the journey through this letter as I took

906
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 1: myself through this letter, because the moment of discovery that

907
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: I had was doing the reading of the letter. So

908
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: here's when the letter's reading here's where Steve is thinking.

909
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 1: My married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. Acceptable title?

910
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: Then this Stephen Shirley. I'm heartbroken and I need your advice.

911
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 1: My boyfriend broke up with me in September two eighteen.

912
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm having a difficult time letting him go. I'm familiar

913
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: with that situation very for me. Not in twenty and eighteen,

914
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: but this happened in the past. We were close friends

915
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: since when we were in middle school, and and and

916
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,439
Speaker 1: and we had deep emotional and physical connection for many years.

917
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 1: Been in that, I've been right there, I'm in this letter.

918
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: When he dumped me, he tried to steal be friends.

919
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: I tried that with a couple of women before. I

920
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: tried being a friend, but it was awkward for me.

921
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: I know, lady, but you know I was cool, So

922
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: let's just try so. I didn't talk to him much

923
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: because I needed time to heal. Very familiar with that. Well.

924
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 1: Shortly after we broke up, he met a nice woman.

925
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: They hadn't even together six months. He asked her to

926
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 1: marry him. I asked, I, don't they have three people

927
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: married me. I'm familiar with this right here. I asked

928
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: somebody to marry me in a minute. They got married

929
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 1: in September twenty nineteen. I've been married three times and

930
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 1: I don't even remember all the damn date, but that's

931
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: how many times I've been married. He had the audacity

932
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: to invite me to the wed now that I've never done.

933
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm not having your ass come to the wed and

934
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: run the risk of when they say, does anyone here

935
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: see any just calls I'm not gonna have you, and

936
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: said so. I wouldn't do that. That's why I started

937
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: not being in the letter so much. But you know,

938
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: and and and they had to das and invite me.

939
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking this woman is saying I didn't go

940
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 1: for a couple of reasons. This is what I'm thinking

941
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: as I'm reading out. First of all, I wasn't ready

942
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 1: to see him walk down out. I ain't saying I'm

943
01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: all that, but I'm pretty sure somewhere in my history

944
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 1: somebody has felled a sudden loss. I'm just saying yeah

945
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 1: with someone else. Secondly, I didn't think it was proper

946
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: for me to attend a wedding since none of our

947
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: other friends knew the true nature of our friendship. Well,

948
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: most of my friends know what I was doing, so

949
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm backing the letter again. But they knew the true relationship.

950
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 1: But then the letter, we were more than friends. This

951
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: is who the letter took a turn from me and

952
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,720
Speaker 1: he got throw me. You gotta understand that. Sixty three.

953
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm just telling i'm his ex boyfriend. Now I've been

954
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: reading the letter the way I told you. I've been

955
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 1: reading the letter. I'm hearing now this is new information.

956
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm his ex boyfriend, so now I have to find

957
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: a way to give this advice from a perspective. But

958
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: it's just like any other relationship, so that's how it

959
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 1: has to be hampered. So I'm his ex boyfriend. His

960
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: new wife doesn't know about me. None of my wife

961
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: knew about anybody from my past, or at least I

962
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: tried not. They have come up from time to damn me.

963
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: I've had some lading into you, but I've just really

964
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: tried not to have many conversations about that. His new

965
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: wife doesn't know about me, or should I say us.

966
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 1: I'm not vindictive and I would never ruin that happiness

967
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: by sharing this information about it. Okay, so this is

968
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: a cool dude, right, I ain't mad at him. This dude,

969
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: it's all right. He got really upset with me for

970
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: not coming to his wedding because he said everybody was

971
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 1: asking why I wasn't there. Hey, do you don't gonna

972
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: hear well why he wasn't there? So now for the

973
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:32,919
Speaker 1: dude that gotten married? What game you playing Pardner? Talking about?

974
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: Why wasn't you that? Now? You mad? What to hear? You? Mad? Folk?

975
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 1: You got on with your life, didn't get on with

976
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 1: your life. You're dragging the dude back up in it? Folk.

977
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: So then we have argued about me missing the wedding

978
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: and he don't understand my side of and why I'm

979
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 1: seeing what are you arguing with it? Folk? Now here's

980
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: where I think you can get some justice here. He

981
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: seemed to think we can just go on his friend

982
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: to hang out on the weekend like we've always done.

983
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 1: I've been aborting his calls in text, but I do

984
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: miss talking to him, well, not listen to him if

985
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: he don't understand your side. I'm just gonna say it

986
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: like this, both of y'all men, right, I ain't got

987
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: nothing to do with your preference and all like that.

988
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 1: You're just men. So I'm just talking. This is I'm

989
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: talking to two dudes now right, Ain't got nothing to

990
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 1: do with your preference. I don't care what it is.

991
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: Ain't none of my business. God bless you. More power

992
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 1: to you. If a dude, if a friend of mine

993
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 1: keep talking to me and I ask him leave me alone,

994
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: let me work some things out, and he keep running

995
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: his mouth, I'm gonna whop his ass. I'm knocking his

996
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: ass out because I told you, Hey, dog, I'm trying

997
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: to pull myself together. What is you over here? Fault? Nah?

998
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: You keep coming over here arguing we're not been an

999
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: argy here. I'm knocking your ass out. I'm just talking

1000
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: to the two men here. What your preference is? Again,

1001
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with me? Walk go over there,

1002
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: go up to his job. When he in lunch, sit

1003
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 1: across the table, haul off and bust his ass dead

1004
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: in the damn show. That's yours. Just two damn dudes,

1005
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: that's Jesse. But hold up, dog, the hash ideal with

1006
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: this going for at least get an ass whooping. Not

1007
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,959
Speaker 1: to wait, you will feel better. Yeah, cut tis time,

1008
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 1: we will heal all wounds. Please advise, just get the

1009
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: ass whooping, not your system than out post your comments

1010
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram

1011
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 1: and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on

1012
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 1: demand now coming up at forty six after the hour. Well, Steve,

1013
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna be on Ellen or you are on Ellen's

1014
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: show yesterday, I should say, and we'll talk about that

1015
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right,

1016
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: So Steve, you are on Ellen yesterday. It's always fun

1017
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 1: when you dropped by Ellen's. Yeah, y'all had a good time.

1018
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 1: Ellen's one of my favorite people. Yeah, it's so much fun.

1019
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: You look good on the shelf. St I'm just coming

1020
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Well, it's twenty twenty. Baby

1021
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 1: crip is getting flipped. Huh. And you guys were you

1022
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: got on your mustache. It seems like every time you

1023
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: go on her show, you guys talk about the mists,

1024
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 1: fascinated with it. I know. It seems like all right, yeah,

1025
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: so she can put that video on social media. So

1026
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: she was reacting where your son put the video on

1027
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: social media about the bustache and you guys talked about it.

1028
01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: Take a listen. You've got to be accurate to make

1029
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: it even on each side. That's really tough work. Well,

1030
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:48,439
Speaker 1: it's the only hair I have. Well that is true.

1031
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: Ain't like I got to do a bunch of other stuff.

1032
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 1: But just to be clear, you do have other hair,

1033
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: but it don't get a breath though. She's so quick, man,

1034
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 1: I was the one that was quick in that clip,

1035
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 1: Timmy asking questions, ain't quick waver Man, ask y'all something

1036
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 1: did the part go on there where they was talking,

1037
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: we're talking about the Kelly Clarkson show. Boy, that one

1038
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 1: got funny, though, Boy, that one got funny cause uh,

1039
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 1: I was just saying, how much you know the show?

1040
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: I like Kelly Clarkson. I got nothing against Kelly Clarkson

1041
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: at all, you know. I am a matter of fact,

1042
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:46,439
Speaker 1: I'm happy for And so she said, well that's good,

1043
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 1: you know. And so then I was talking one of

1044
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: my boys and my boy said, yeah, man, that's that's

1045
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: messed up what they did. I said, no, man, it's

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Speaker 1: not her fault. She cool with me, man, I mean

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01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 1: that was decision was made by other people. I said,

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01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: I'm happy for her. He's, oh, that's cool, man, you

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01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: happy for He says, so you watched the show? I said,

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01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:15,360
Speaker 1: I ain't that happy? Yeah, moment. I had a real

1051
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: black moment, right and I did that only Ellen. That's

1052
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 1: and I don't know. Ellen don't normally like to air

1053
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: anything controversial. Yeah, that might not have made it cut though,

1054
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:36,560
Speaker 1: City watched the show. I ain't that TV. Come on

1055
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 1: dog very cheap. All right, Steve, thank you. Junior is

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01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: coming up with sports talk at the top of the

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01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 1: hour right after this. You're listening Steven show. All right,

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01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 1: so juniors here with this sports talk the National College

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01:08:55,280 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: Championship football game. Hold up, hold on? They oh they do?

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01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,880
Speaker 1: They do? They do? It was a good game last night.

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01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 1: Surely it was last night, girl, wise you in sports

1062
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 1: stop intro sports tonight? Girl it was last night. And

1063
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: now me, now, guess what. I ain't seen the damn

1064
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: game because I'm in Africa. You can't see nothing so

1065
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 1: in Africa, right, know you not? But excuse me. We

1066
01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 1: have something to discuss because we have both of the

1067
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: fellas here and call it. You just stay out the

1068
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: way because you kind of really appro football. Oh god

1069
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: about you want to call about the Texas That's all

1070
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: he wanted to talk about, which was two days ago.

1071
01:09:51,040 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: Why are we talking about the crime when I was

1072
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 1: in Africa. All I heard y'all telling me what all

1073
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:14,559
Speaker 1: texts out to texts out to tech. It's folks key nothing,

1074
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 1: it's twinty want nothing. It's twinty folk nothing. I ain't man. Congratulations, man,

1075
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 1: look like y'all gonna win it. I woke up for

1076
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:36,559
Speaker 1: real and I go online to just check NFL scores

1077
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: to see how bad the Texas had beat the damn Chief.

1078
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 1: I thought we were telling LU that was a great

1079
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: game last night, beautiful game. Thank you, Junior man. You

1080
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 1: in Baker Mayfield can kiss my behind? That going on

1081
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: with all that? Well, well they both at the house now,

1082
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 1: how trumpy When the LSU is Joe Burrow versus CLIPS

1083
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,320
Speaker 1: is Trevior Lars went to work last night. Great game

1084
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 1: last night? Uh uh, LSU wins. But we want to

1085
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 1: bring in undefeated. Undefeated, We want to bring in coach

1086
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:20,600
Speaker 1: oh and we can't understand them to head coach of

1087
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: LSU Tigers. We can't understand it. We can get coach

1088
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: over here and talk about how you fields today as

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01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 1: a national Hi, thank June. I was there thinking and

1090
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 1: you football always been in cold color football over board,

1091
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 1: play the game like gold Tigers. All he want to do.

1092
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 1: Oh he wanted to room for Steve. Louis downad, you're

1093
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:52,639
Speaker 1: going on here on toward the team Louis Downado ever

1094
01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: going down down? Who that down? And I said, over

1095
01:11:56,640 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: there and win the football game, and greeted it was

1096
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:05,559
Speaker 1: I want to greet a deal on my live coach.

1097
01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: Anybody want to thank Yeah, of course. I want to

1098
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: think all of you or the Death Valley and all

1099
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: the people that are going to lose, throw mind around

1100
01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 1: all that that right, go to go who that that

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01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 1: all on? And play the football game. I didn't understand,

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01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 1: not a word, not already. You never do. Yeah, I

1103
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:36,719
Speaker 1: can't worry about that right now. Any plan, any plans

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01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: for celebration this year, Well, you know, I'm gonna sell

1105
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 1: the old girls some more crayfish on my soil, the

1106
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: heads off them and go that little boat. I'm gonna

1107
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 1: talk about thirty four pounds of crowfit and sohol the

1108
01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 1: heads over, give me hold, give me some of that

1109
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 1: all greenhol that sad right now on my granddad to me,

1110
01:12:56,840 --> 01:13:11,799
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have celevision gold time, good tigers. Yeah time. Chimpngratulated.

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01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 1: Why a coach? Why a coach? Sound like a white

1112
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 1: wash goo wallet. Oh boy, all right, uh crazy, all right.

1113
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,719
Speaker 1: The Queen has released a statement about Harry and Megan.

1114
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 1: We'll talk about that when we come back right after

1115
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 1: this you're listening show, all right. In response to um,

1116
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 1: Harry and Megan's really like shocking announcement that they were

1117
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 1: going to spend part of their time in England and

1118
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,679
Speaker 1: then part of their time in Canada, they were stepping

1119
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 1: down from their major royal duties, the Queen has released

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01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: a statement because people were saying she was blindsided, so

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01:13:56,800 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: she says today, my family had very constructive decision discussions

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01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 1: on the future of my grandson and his family, the

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01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 1: reigning Monarch shared in a statement. The Reigning Monarch, of course,

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01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 1: being the Queen, my family and I are entirely supportive

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01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: of Harry Megan's desire to create a new life as

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01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: a young family. Although we would have preferred them to

1127
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 1: remain full time working members of a royal family, we

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01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: respect and understand their wish to live a more independent

1129
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: life as a family while remaining a valued part of

1130
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: my family. Has anyone spoken to the Earl of Nottingham, Yeah, ye,

1131
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: as a representative of the only black remaining and never

1132
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: heard of in the palace. I'm here to say that

1133
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:50,440
Speaker 1: the Queen are spoken, and she really does support macle

1134
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 1: and Harry. I'll just be saying, I, for one, I'm

1135
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:58,720
Speaker 1: glad they're gone. Maybe now they could recognize me as

1136
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 1: the only black in the palace. Take they want to

1137
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:13,600
Speaker 1: be financially independent game and I don't. I want to

1138
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 1: become more dependent. We'll have more morning show coming up

1139
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this,

1140
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1141
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 1: we're back with the Earl of Attingham or you guys

1142
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 1: called black Girl. Yeah, he always colt that I am

1143
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 1: the Earl of Ardingham. I was listening to you, Shirley

1144
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:46,600
Speaker 1: make the announcement of our beloved queen making the announcement

1145
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:53,640
Speaker 1: that the family had a very constructive description concerning the

1146
01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: new life that he have in Malcolo gone to partaker

1147
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 1: even though they wanted the Queen wanted them to remain

1148
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 1: full time. She understoods cut that damn music. God, Oh,

1149
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 1: horn's what I'm talking. No other horns before I have

1150
01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 1: your head. Thank you. That damn boy on that horn

1151
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 1: been making noise since he was a boy. That's Earl

1152
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 1: Julia on horn him mean he got her. They're from London.

1153
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: They're patterning themselves after Bruno Mars and one day, hopefully

1154
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 1: they will make it because Bruno Maas has an incredible

1155
01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 1: horn section and obviously my son is trying out for

1156
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 1: the Bruno Mars horn section. I Earl of Altingham, having

1157
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 1: to be the other black family member that no one discusses.

1158
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: I am outside four bore child of Harry's daddy. No

1159
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: one knew about Charles's outside of foul with another platform,

1160
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 1: and those white love their black women, and I am

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01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 1: Earl of Altingham and I've been on the outskirts of

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01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 1: the family. But now that Miracle and Harry are moving on,

1163
01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:36,120
Speaker 1: I expect to take full position and take my la apart.

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01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 1: They want to financial dependency. I want none of that.

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01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:47,679
Speaker 1: I want to be totally financially dependent on the palace.

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01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:54,440
Speaker 1: They have everything. Have you been down? They have everything,

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01:17:54,640 --> 01:18:02,920
Speaker 1: Butler's servants down. Their slaves, not really slaves, are wonderful people.

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01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:05,599
Speaker 1: They're white, though I love it being there. Because they're

1169
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 1: white slaves, I find it quite a long and I

1170
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 1: just point that stuff. I don't even along from time

1171
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: to time just to have a white person handed to

1172
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: me with white gloves. There's no chest getting into palace.

1173
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 1: Even white people wear white old gloves. I'm going down.

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01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,639
Speaker 1: It's cold outside. You can't get a black leather man

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01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:38,599
Speaker 1: loves all right, thank you, Earl of Addingham. Steve Harvey

1176
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 1: would say I was pimping the game. We'll be back

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01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,080
Speaker 1: with our last break of the day. Ends of closing

1178
01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey at forty

1179
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 1: nine minutes after right after this, you're listening to show,

1180
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Here we are last break of the day.

1181
01:18:56,880 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 1: It's been a good day, good Tuesday. Yeah, we've got

1182
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:05,560
Speaker 1: fun today. We have so much fun. He've been on

1183
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 1: fire all morning morning, just crazy clingham blacker. Only black

1184
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 1: in the palace. But don't nobody know him yet because

1185
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 1: Harry had outside and they ain't never talked about it,

1186
01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 1: but they know it's him because I have told him

1187
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: if you left, you don't let me in it. Yeah. See,

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01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: I've never gone in public because if you if you

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01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: let me in the palace, I'll keep my damn. Don't

1190
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:35,520
Speaker 1: let me in the palace. I'm going to the tabloids.

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01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 1: So Earl they've let earl of aulting him. They don't

1192
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:40,560
Speaker 1: give him no power nothing when he walked around and

1193
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 1: get all the minutes. But can't I say this though, Steve.

1194
01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: I was watching TV yesterday and they were saying that

1195
01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 1: that's one of the reasons why they want to talk

1196
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 1: to Harry and Megan, why they had that meeting, because

1197
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: they don't want them to do interviews and talk about

1198
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 1: and go public. So it's kind of like what you're saying, Steve,

1199
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:02,720
Speaker 1: You don't say know what he's talking about? Yeah, yeah,

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01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:09,360
Speaker 1: I still if the counter running, y'all. He's never known

1201
01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:12,840
Speaker 1: anything else, right, this is his inheritance. All of this.

1202
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 1: She didn't got over there. She unhappy and she wants

1203
01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 1: to start and have their own life, and he's convinced.

1204
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,400
Speaker 1: She's convinced the man and he loves a woman and

1205
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 1: he trying to make her happy. You got I ain't leaving.

1206
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:29,759
Speaker 1: Hey hey hey, yeah, the media and everybody and Margie

1207
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:32,280
Speaker 1: will have another meeting. Hey, you knew what this was.

1208
01:20:34,080 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 1: Where as we going and get all this now? We

1209
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:41,560
Speaker 1: can build a pril behind the castle if you want to.

1210
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 1: I can have them seal off of Ween Well, that's

1211
01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 1: where they live. They do like that leaving. We ain't

1212
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: got to work. We don't need no damn money. All

1213
01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:59,560
Speaker 1: we got to do is take you. I mean, you

1214
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,640
Speaker 1: know they said that people were telling her to take

1215
01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 1: your black baby and lead. See it's a lot of

1216
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: racial stuff. They said she was dealing. I'm gonna take

1217
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:13,600
Speaker 1: my black baby. I'm not leaving them. And when you

1218
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:16,320
Speaker 1: see him, you gonna say your highness when you see him,

1219
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 1: when you want to be royal, I would that you

1220
01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 1: can't have all that I want to be. I want

1221
01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: to be happy. Yeah, I do too. All right, Well,

1222
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:32,800
Speaker 1: you know Earl of Aldingham. I love how he keeps

1223
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,560
Speaker 1: it on point. He really is on point with this

1224
01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 1: one black people. Yeah, it's universally the same situation. Hey,

1225
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 1: can I can I share this with you all? Yeah?

1226
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: It's a cool up. Yeah, you know, Um, before we

1227
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 1: get out of him, I want to share something with you.

1228
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:55,080
Speaker 1: I've noticed a lot that goes on, especially because of

1229
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 1: social media and and everything, and just even before social

1230
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 1: media can happen, so many people predicate their happiness based

1231
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 1: on comparisons. You know, a lot of people are trying

1232
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: to find their happiness and measure their happiness against someone

1233
01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 1: else's moves makeup layout, plan, and position. That's a dangerous

1234
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: thing everybody, because we have all been set on very

1235
01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:34,519
Speaker 1: very unique paths. No two paths are the same. There

1236
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 1: are similarities, but no two paths are the same. You

1237
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:44,720
Speaker 1: are running too the same types of circumstances, but all

1238
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 1: the circumstances will be different for all of us. So

1239
01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 1: when you start predicating your success and happiness on the

1240
01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:59,719
Speaker 1: comparison of somebody else, you're setting yourself up for majors

1241
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 1: appointment because there's a great chance, a ninety nine point

1242
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 1: nine percent chance that that's not your route at all.

1243
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:10,439
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I can assure you that

1244
01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 1: it's one hundred percent chance that it's not your route.

1245
01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 1: You know, two people make the exact same journey. Oh,

1246
01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 1: you can have the same goals, but the route getting

1247
01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:24,599
Speaker 1: there will differ. Each and every one of us would

1248
01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:27,840
Speaker 1: have a different route because we're in different positions, in

1249
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 1: places and situations in life. So stop comparing yourself to

1250
01:23:32,439 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 1: other people success that you're looking for that's not their success.

1251
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 1: And the reason you shouldn't compare yourself to this is

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Speaker 1: because that's their success, it's not yours. Yours could be

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Speaker 1: slightly different, just as rewarding if you would only look within.

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Speaker 1: But if you're looking for your happiness outside, you'll never

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Speaker 1: be happy and content within. And that happens to so

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Speaker 1: many people. Let their success be their success. Be happy

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Speaker 1: for people. I know that's hard for some people because

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Speaker 1: there's so many haters out here now, but that the

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Speaker 1: haters don't outweigh the good will people. They just don't.

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Speaker 1: It's just the haters are so much louder what they mess.

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Speaker 1: But listen to me. Just you can be happy for somebody.

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Speaker 1: You know. You don't have to support them, but you

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Speaker 1: don't have to tear them down either. Just let them

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Speaker 1: have whatever level of success they're gonna have. If you

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Speaker 1: spent all the time that you're taking comparison looking over

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Speaker 1: the fence at their success and with just tend to

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Speaker 1: your mission, not to your business. Tend to your mission.

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Speaker 1: Get yourself a mission in twenty twenty. Make twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: the year that you have a mission. A mission is

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Speaker 1: something you have to accomplish. This is the mission, and

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Speaker 1: it may not get all completed in twenty twenty, but

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Speaker 1: start the process to tending to your mission. This is

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Speaker 1: my mission this year and lay claim to that, don't

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Speaker 1: worry about nobody else's success, stop comparing yours to theirs,

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Speaker 1: and tend to your mission. You will have a much

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Speaker 1: happier life. You'll get to enjoy who you really are

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Speaker 1: if you just stop compares comparing yourself to who they are.

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Speaker 1: Because I got news for you. The majority of the time,

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Speaker 1: who they are are not what it seems. Those are

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Speaker 1: my closing remarks. Drop it, y'all, have a great weekend

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