1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. I'm Rashwan MacDonald, the host of 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: money Making Conversations Masterclass, where we encourage people to stop 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: reading other people's success stories and start planning their own. 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: Listen up as I interview entrepreneurs from around the country, 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: talk to celebrities and ask them how they are running 6 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: their companies, and speak with nonprofits who are making a 7 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: difference in their local communities. Now, sit back and listen 8 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: as we unlock the secrets to their success on Money 9 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: Making Conversations Masterclass. 10 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 2: Is a former Wall Street analyst, founder of Implify merging 11 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: of the words empower and Modify is an educational based 12 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: organization creeds to help both adults and children understand financial literacy. 13 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: That's a really tricky term there. She is a personal 14 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: financial coach, financial journalist for Black Enterprise and Essence magazine, 15 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: and international speaker. Please please welcome the Money Making Conversation. 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: Ashley M. Fox. 17 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Hi, how are you pretty good? 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: Mimss focon? Where are you based there right now? 19 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 3: I'm in Philadelphia. 20 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 2: When you say you are a former Wall Street analyst, 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 2: what does that mean? Because if your Wall Street scres 22 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 2: a lot of people, especially minorities, because we don't even 23 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: understand how you make money under Wall Street world break 24 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 2: it down a little bit too it and were willing 25 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 2: to take the time to understand on money made conversation 26 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: exactly what did you do and what role do you 27 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 2: play in that? 28 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 4: Okay? 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: So I went to Howard University, graduated, and I decided 30 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: to work on Wall Street. I have four internships in school, 31 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: and three of them I worked at Wall Street investment banks. 32 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: So then I lived in New York too this summer. 33 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 3: So that's when I realized I wanted to work on 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 3: Wall Street. It paid really great money, and so ideally 35 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 3: I actually just wanted to work on Wall Street because 36 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: you got one of the highest fanged jobs out of school. 37 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: And so as an analyst, I worked in acset management. 38 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: And so what I did was work with a team 39 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 3: of people who helped manage the money for clients who 40 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 3: made twenty five million dollars or more. So I saw 41 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 3: everything where they live, where they travel, what they invested in, 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 3: how much they didn't say in taxes. Pretty much, if 43 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,839 Speaker 3: you had twenty five million dollars or more, you don't 44 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: need a financial advice. You needed to acce manager. And 45 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 3: so whether it was helping them with their trust and estates, 46 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 3: whether it was getting a mortgage on their vacation home 47 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: and NAPA or in somewhere of Florida wherever it is, 48 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: or in the Hamptons, or just helping them invest to 49 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 3: build that generational wealth to pass it down to their children. 50 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 3: We were there to provide them with the tools and 51 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: resources to help them sustain their wealth so they didn't 52 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 3: lose it. 53 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: Now here's the crazy part about that statement. You said 54 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 2: twenty five million dollars of more correct, And yeah, you 55 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: said that number like it's a lot of them. 56 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: It is. 57 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: It's a whole different world. And it was interesting though, 58 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 3: a lot of people don't realize that a lot of 59 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 3: the things that we use every day, from the cars 60 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: that we drive, to the clothes that we wear, to 61 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 3: the football teams we watched. Interestingly enough, a lot of 62 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 3: wealthy people who football teams, that is not their general 63 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: source of income. That's actually just something they did because 64 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 3: it was fun to do. Most NFL owners, NBA team owners, 65 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: that is not how they got their wealth. They essentially 66 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: that is just something to do with their money, and 67 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 3: they may just have some sort of joy around sports, 68 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: but they did not build their wealth the majority of 69 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: them buying the sports team. That is just something extra 70 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 3: that they do because they have so much money. But 71 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: it is it's a completely different world out there. And 72 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: so the owners and CEOs of these companies that we 73 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 3: don't even know exist, they ideally were our clients. Now. 74 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: So you Howard University, and you said, just as you 75 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: said casually, I wanted to work on Wall Street, and 76 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: then you wind up working on Wall Street. How do 77 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: how does the want and the actual accomplishment happen? 78 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 3: I think to be and again, when I was in 79 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 3: high school, I wanted to look nice and make a 80 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: lot of money. I never had visions of running a business. 81 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: I never was one of those students said I wanted 82 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: to be my own boss. I always envisioned myself as 83 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: an African American working on Wall Street. Something prestiged, something 84 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: high paced, competitive, and I knew that in order to 85 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: get there, I was competing with the Harvards and the 86 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: Yales of the world. And so if they were looking 87 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 3: for prestigious black individuals, they were coming to Howard University. 88 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 3: And so at Howard all of these companies will come 89 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: to recruit. So I got exposed to the opportunities that 90 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 3: these companies had available for the students. And when I 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 3: got my first internship, and this is interesting, my first 92 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 3: internship on Wall Street. I don't know what they pay now, 93 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 3: but I know I made ten thousand dollars in the 94 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,239 Speaker 3: summer time. And so I was nineteen years old making 95 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 3: a bunch of money, and I was like, I like this. 96 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 3: I like the feeling. I liked the people, I like 97 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 3: the environment. I absolutely love New York City. And so 98 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 3: whatever I had to do to be in that position 99 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 3: post graduation, I did what I needed to do to 100 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 3: work on Wall Street. But Howard University played a very 101 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 3: big role in exposing me to these companies, to these 102 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 3: opportunities to see, hey, that it is actually possible for 103 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 3: me to go and have a career on Wall Street 104 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 3: in New York City. 105 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 1: Cool. 106 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: Now, with that being said, you're you know, you have 107 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 2: a success on Wall Street as an analyst, seeing a 108 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 2: lot of people with this generational money, these accounts. What 109 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: what was running through your mind when you're around something 110 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 2: that you see success? 111 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: But are you really a part of the success. 112 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 4: So a couple of thoughts. 113 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: Trends through my mind. I was in that mert it 114 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 3: was exciting, like I just I saw every single thing, 115 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: every dollar you spent, every I saw everything. But after 116 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 3: I would say eight or nine months, I got more 117 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 3: joy and had the desire to pick their brain on 118 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: how they got their money, not teach them how to 119 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 3: keep it. But the only issue was that when I 120 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 3: would go back home to Philadelphia, people thought I was rich. 121 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: So because I was making six figures, because I traveled, 122 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 3: I wore nice clothes, people thought I had money. And 123 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 3: I realized that there was a big disconnect to how 124 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 3: our community saw wealth and what wealth really was, and 125 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 3: how they thought, how they operated, how they talked their kids, 126 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 3: what they read. It's a completely different lifetile and we 127 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: are oblivious to And I think we shouldn't have to 128 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 3: come from money for us to learn about it. 129 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 4: You don't. 130 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 3: You shouldn't have to choose a career on Wall Street 131 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 3: to then see how wealthy people operate, manage and invest 132 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: their money. So I think it's something that we use 133 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 3: every day. So why isn't it given to us and 134 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: talk to us every day? 135 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: And so that's why you created the You combined empower 136 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 2: and modify and created an educational based organization and created 137 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 2: the Health adults. That's me and our children understand financial literacy. 138 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: What is financial literacy? 139 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 3: So the reason I made that word up is because I. 140 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: Think we know you made it up. Now we know 141 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 2: that I was trying to figure out. 142 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 3: I was trying to figure out who I was and 143 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 3: what I wanted to get to the world. And I 144 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: was a teacher, I was a psychologist, I was a 145 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 3: shoulder to cry on, I was a counselor. I was 146 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 3: a lot of things. And it's like, okay, But the 147 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: feeling that I am bed in the hearts and minds 148 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: of people is not just about money. It's about the 149 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 3: shifting of the mind, because I feel like if your 150 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 3: mind is right, your bank account will be right. When 151 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: you think of wealth, you think of longevity. When you 152 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 3: think of rich, you think of a lot of money 153 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 3: right now. Wealth is having a lot of money forever. 154 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 3: And that is one of the core differences that I 155 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: saw with our clients. They were worrying about giving money 156 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 3: to their kids, kids' kids just so they didn't have 157 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 3: to pay taxes on the money, whereas the majority of 158 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: people in our community are actually waiting for a tax refund, 159 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 3: not realizing that whether people don't get tax refunds. They're 160 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: trying to avoid paying taxes in any way possible and 161 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 3: to sustain and keep their wealth to pass it on generation. 162 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 3: That's a generation. And so for me, it was like, Okay, 163 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: how can I build this concept and shift our mindset? 164 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: Because everything I teach people, whether you're an adult or 165 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 3: a child, you can google it, Like what a stock is. 166 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 3: You can google those things. There's a mental barrier that 167 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: stops us from implementing the things that we have access 168 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: to when the things that we see and for me, 169 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 3: emplifies the shifting of the mind. So essentially I give 170 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 3: you the education, but I also give you the inspiration 171 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 3: to embedding you that you are worthy enough to receive 172 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: this information, that you are able to do this, that 173 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 3: you can invest. So now you're empowered. You got educated, 174 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 3: you're empowered. And what that ultimately does it creates a 175 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 3: shift in the mind because now you have the information, 176 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 3: now you have the inspiration. Now you say, hey, I 177 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 3: can do this. I believe in myself enough and I 178 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 3: know this can be done, which is where to modify 179 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 3: and the transition comes to who we are as a people. 180 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 3: So financial education, I mean that's just getting educated around money, 181 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 3: but again financial education. You can google and not even 182 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 3: have a person present. The problem is that we don't 183 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 3: take this information and feel that we are worthy enough 184 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 3: of becoming wealthy because we are not surrounded by it. Everything. 185 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 4: Well, please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with 186 00:08:50,640 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 4: more Money Making Conversations Masterclass. Welcome back to the Money 187 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 4: Making Conversations Masterclass, hosted by Rashaan McDonald. Money Making Conversations 188 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 4: Masterclass continues online at Moneymakingconversations dot com and follow Money 189 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 4: Making Conversations Masterclass on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. 190 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 2: And so, now, what about these people miss Fox who 191 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 2: win a lot of Where do they make their mistakes 192 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 2: because they go broke or they don't know what to 193 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: do with the money. What advice would you give them 194 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 2: from a financial literacy standpoint to a person who wins 195 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: the lottery. 196 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 3: So I think ideally they lose their money because they're 197 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,599 Speaker 3: not accustomed to having it. And it's not until you 198 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: start feeling you are deserving of this lifestyle, that you 199 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,359 Speaker 3: are grateful for this lifestyle, that your mind can coexist 200 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 3: with the money, Because if you're coming from a place 201 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: of lack, I want the money, I want the money, 202 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 3: I want the money I never had, I got to have. 203 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 3: I got to send it, do all those things that 204 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 3: I didn't get the opportunity to do but I didn't 205 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 3: have money. You're coming from a place of lack versus 206 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 3: a place of abundant and ideally, if you're putting out 207 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 3: lack and the desire to obtain money is coming from 208 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 3: a place I need to have it. 209 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: I got to have it. 210 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 3: From a survival standpoint, all you're doing is putting out lack. 211 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 3: So now the universe is just going to give you 212 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 3: back lack, which is why money gets taken from you. 213 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 3: I would say someone who wears a lottery, or not 214 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 3: even just someone who has a lottery, who comes across 215 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 3: a large amount of money, you have to ask yourself 216 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 3: how long do you want this money to last you? 217 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: Because you can give somebody a million dollars and they 218 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 3: can spend a million dollars, and I've seen people spend 219 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 3: a million dollars in less than thirty days who have 220 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 3: not come from money, And so you have to ask yourself, 221 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 3: you come. 222 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 2: From money and spend it like that? 223 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:40,719 Speaker 4: Right? 224 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 2: Right? 225 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 3: What is it that I want this money for and 226 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: how long do I want it to last me? What 227 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 3: matters to me, what's important to me. One of the 228 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 3: things that I do with my clients in particular is 229 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 3: get it all out your system. What do you want 230 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 3: to buy, the house, to car, to clothes, whatever it 231 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 3: is that you want, get it out of your system, 232 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: and then put yourself in a position where that money 233 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 3: will last you forever. So that's when you're sitting you 234 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 3: talk to somebody in finance who can help you open 235 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 3: different types of investments, whether it's different types of annuities, 236 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 3: or different type of insurance policies, or different types of 237 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 3: brokerage accounts. Everyone is different and every age is differ 238 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 3: than everyone. The goals are different, but you have to 239 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 3: one get it off your system all the things that 240 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 3: you want. By no means am I saying, don't go 241 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 3: get the things you want. You don't want to look 242 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: up and you have all these things you want. Two 243 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 3: years from now, you're back at the same lifestyle, having 244 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 3: no money prior to winning the money that you did receive. 245 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 3: And so I think it's prioritizing what matters, writing out 246 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: your goals, the life that you envision, and sitting with 247 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 3: someone before you go blow through everything. 248 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: It's really interesting because I can agree with her on 249 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 2: because when you're in an entertainment business, you get lomps 250 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 2: of money and sometimes a large loss of the money, 251 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 2: and you just spend money without a plan. And I 252 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 2: think that's the key. I can remember having cars and 253 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 2: I'm going, like, what am I doing with all these cars? 254 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: And leasing cars? And that means that in the least, 255 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 2: I don't even own it. But I'm paying like two 256 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: three thousand dollars a month on just monthly leases, you know. 257 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 2: But I'm telling myself, I can write this all my 258 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 2: taxes because I bought it another business. But in the end, 259 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 2: I don't have the vehicle. So there's a lot of 260 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: things you can get out there when you have money 261 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: that you can just spend it, and it trivializes itself 262 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 2: because if you don't think about next month, next year, 263 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: five years from now, then guess what, you're making a 264 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 2: big mistake when you are living in a lifestyle where 265 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: money is coming towards you. Now, the everyday person doesn't 266 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 2: understand that because either they live and check the check, 267 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 2: or they trying to survive, or they barely have a 268 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 2: savings account. Now you what type of people are you 269 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: dealing with? 270 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: What type of people are. 271 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: You coaching ms Fox, are you talking about everyday people? 272 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 2: Are people who have a certain financial pool of success. 273 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 3: No, so don't. I don't turn people away. I think 274 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 3: one of the things I don't do during my time 275 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 3: as a financial lisor, I don't solicit because when people 276 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 3: are ready, they will come. And for me, I've never said, hey, 277 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 3: come work with me, come get your money in order. 278 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 3: When people are ready and they've exhausted all options, have 279 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 3: made all the mistakes that they could possibly have made themselves, 280 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 3: they will surrender and ask for help. And to be honest, 281 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 3: if you would have if you could have gotten it, 282 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 3: you would have been a different person today. So who 283 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: you are there has gotten this far. So in order 284 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 3: to be somebody different, you have to do different and 285 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 3: people have to be ready to receive that. But for me, 286 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: I don't turn anybody away. Ideally, I just work with 287 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 3: people who want to learn how to make financially educated decisions, 288 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 3: so they are looking to get the education behind that. 289 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 3: And I truly believe when people are ready, when they 290 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 3: realize that, you know, I've made every mistake in the book, 291 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 3: I'm exhausted, I'm frustrated. Somebody has to help me. They're 292 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 3: taking the risk on them. But it's easier to work 293 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 3: with people who want help as opposed to telling someone 294 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 3: you need help, because when you tell someone you need 295 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 3: they need help, it's actually more so offensive to them. 296 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 3: So when people are ready, they'll they reach out, and 297 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: if not, they'll get referred or things like that. But 298 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 3: I've never said, hey, you need to get your life 299 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 3: an order, because it's a touchy subject. When people are 300 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 3: ready to get their life of order, and they see 301 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 3: the opportunity or they see someone or something that could 302 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 3: help them, they will make it a priority to get 303 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: themselves better financially. 304 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 2: Because you are talking to successful people, and one thing 305 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: about a successful person, You don't want to tell them 306 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 2: they're dumb or they're making the mistakes. You know. You 307 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: want to coach them through the process and go, let's 308 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 2: look at it this way. 309 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: How have you considered this? How about this? 310 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 2: You never just go right in you should do this 311 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: all major pushback. But if you say, have you considered this, 312 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 2: here are some options. Those are terms that if you're 313 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 2: good at what you do and she knows I'm telling 314 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: us the truth, those are the terms you have to 315 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: talk to when you're talking to successful people, especially when 316 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: you're talking about their money and what they've done with 317 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: their money. Now, let's talk about ways to invest in. 318 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 2: How to start, and it is starting in the stock market. 319 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: The key to starting. 320 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 3: Well, if you get down to the root of every 321 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: type of investment, pretty much every type of investment, it 322 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: is all rooted in connected to the stock market world way, 323 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: shape or form. Those people don't know if those retirement plans, 324 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 3: those pensions, the hospitals you go to, they all take 325 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 3: their money and it's being invested somewhere. So people one 326 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 3: need to realize that saving is not going to build 327 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 3: you wealth. Investing will. Saving will keep your money safe, 328 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 3: but it is not going to increase your network by 329 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: any means. And I think we have this mindset of 330 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: I have to have money, I have to keep money, 331 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 3: have to save money. That's a fear driven mentality, and 332 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 3: that's coming from a place of lax of All you're 333 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 3: focusing on is fear. All you're going to attract is 334 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 3: all the things that you are scared of. When it 335 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 3: comes to invest in, The easiest way I always tell 336 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 3: people is to buy what you know. Once you understand 337 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 3: the core of the stock market, which ideally is just 338 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 3: a piece of ownership of a company. You essentially are 339 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: investing small pieces of your money in large businesses, and 340 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: so the easiest way to start is to buy what 341 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 3: you know. One of the exercises I often do with 342 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 3: my students and with adults is make a list of 343 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 3: everything you spend your time or money on, So from 344 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: the water you drink, the car you drive, the food 345 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 3: you eat, the clothes you wear, the social media apps 346 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 3: you use, the phone you use, your cable company. All 347 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 3: these companies are making money off of your consumption. And 348 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 3: especially specifically in the black community, we have a one 349 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 3: point three trillion dollar buying power, which means that after 350 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 3: all of our bills are paid, there's one point three 351 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 3: trillion dollars being given to some company because we always 352 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: the consumer, and so as opposed to giving our money away, 353 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: sidn't think about how much does it cost to own 354 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 3: a piece of this company. Because a lot of the 355 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 3: large companies that we utilize every day are publicly traded 356 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 3: companies and you are able to buy stocks. So, for instance, Apple, 357 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 3: it costs more to own the new Apple iPhone than 358 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 3: it does to own a piece of Apple as an 359 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 3: entire company. And a lot of the beverages that we drink. 360 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 3: You have no idea everything you touch and feel and 361 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 3: consume is a company. Someone is making money from the 362 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 3: chair you're sitting on. Somebody made that chair, and someone 363 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 3: bought that chair because they knew you were going to 364 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 3: sit on it. Because you are using that chair, that 365 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 3: company makes money. We need to have a proactive mindset 366 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,239 Speaker 3: on should I cannot go invest in this company? And 367 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 3: if you're loyal to the brand on a consistent basis, 368 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 3: they are consistently getting your consumption, your money, or your time. 369 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 3: And I think what wealthy people value is ownership versus spending. 370 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 3: In the black community, most specifically, we want to look good. 371 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 3: We want to feel good because deep down the side, 372 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 3: we don't always feel like we are good. Not realizing 373 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 3: that these fortune five hundred companies are here because of 374 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 3: what we spend our time and money on. Not saying 375 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 3: that it's bad to spend, but if you can't buy 376 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 3: it twice, you can't afford it. If you can't invest 377 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:39,479 Speaker 3: it twice, you shouldn't be buying it. 378 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 4: And so in this case, it's not. 379 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 3: Just buy the product, it's also owned stock in the 380 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 3: company that makes the products that we are always using. 381 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 2: As people MS Fox You too smart. I'm telling you, 382 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 2: I'm Jason, I'm a smart guy. Now, I'm Jay Zone. 383 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 2: You're boring the phone talking to you? Pretty smart now? 384 00:17:56,160 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 2: And you pretty you. I'm tell you something I always liked. 385 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 2: I always tell people why when they're smarter than me, 386 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 2: I gotta applaud them. Girl, you got it going on. 387 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:08,959 Speaker 1: And but your logic. 388 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 2: But your logic, because I've heard all these things and 389 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 2: it's now, do you I know we running out of 390 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 2: time on quick? Do you manage a fund? 391 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: No? 392 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 4: I do not. 393 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 3: I purely am education. 394 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 2: You should you should manage your fund. You should manage 395 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 2: I'm just telling you. You know what they're talking about. 396 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: You should. 397 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 2: You should start your own fund. And guess who be 398 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: the first one following you in Rashan McDonough following you 399 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 2: in deep. I'm just telling you, you know that's where 400 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:35,880 Speaker 2: the money at. So you need to consider that because 401 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 2: you are a special young lady. You are special. You 402 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: got because your articulation, your your I mean, you don't 403 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 2: stutter when you talk. That's key when you when people. 404 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 2: You don't want nobody to stutter when they talking about 405 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 2: your money. You want clarity. You know she ain't she 406 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 2: don't break stride, she's be rolling. Do this, do this 407 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 2: iPhone because you can buy stock because it's cheaper than iPhone. 408 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 2: That's true, Apple stock on twenty nine iPhone. You know 409 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 2: I could have like six six shares iPhone. Stop so good, 410 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 2: but we got to go. Mits Fox, you know you're 411 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 2: coming back on the show. 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