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Speaker 1: It is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building ready for your love questions.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Alexandria and Jacksonville. Alexandria writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: will celebrate his fortieth birthday in August, and I'm planning

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Speaker 1: to have a small gathering at our house and then

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Speaker 1: take only a few of the guests to the strip

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Speaker 1: club to surprise him. How do I get his parents

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Speaker 1: and his sister to leave before we do. I don't

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Speaker 1: want it to be obvious so that they're excluded.

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Speaker 2: So well, the best way to do is tell his mama,

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Speaker 2: who probably go to church, that y'all going down to

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Speaker 2: the strip club?

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Speaker 3: That a CLEU really?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 3: That a clue right on? Now, you know what?

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Speaker 2: Baby? But you know I'm gonna tell y'all. Man, you know,

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Speaker 2: that's the new thing now he's young people. Now women

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Speaker 2: go to the strip club as much as me and do.

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Speaker 2: It's a whole different culture thing now, man. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: I ain't got no advice for.

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Speaker 3: You, but just tell mama. I'm gonna just tell you

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Speaker 3: this a bad idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Why do you say that.

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Speaker 3: Taking your husband to a strip club on his fortieth birthday.

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Speaker 3: It's just a bad idea.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you think men are thinking when

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Speaker 2: we're watching a stripper, but it ain't you don't. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what you think. A man is in his

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Speaker 2: head at the strip club.

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Speaker 3: I can tell.

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Speaker 2: You right now, the entire time he's there, he's thinking

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Speaker 2: of doing something to that girl that's on that pole.

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Speaker 3: That's what he down there thinking.

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Speaker 1: That's what men think.

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Speaker 2: You down you know you're sitting up in there, you

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Speaker 2: to take your husband down here for his forty birthday.

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Speaker 3: I'm just what he down there doing. Okay, just four man,

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Speaker 3: you know, want.

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Speaker 2: Me to have a good time, drop me off, you

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Speaker 2: go home, let me go on any shut up in

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Speaker 2: here going here with me?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: I like, I don't care about this girl, about this pole,

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Speaker 2: because I wouldn't want to marry her.

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Speaker 3: That night anyway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that ain't a man living that they went to

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Speaker 2: the trip club wanted one of them.

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Speaker 1: Man huh, okay, all right, good inviting to then do

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Speaker 1: something else, all right? Dom in Maryland says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: thirty three year old married woman married to a greedy,

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Speaker 1: selfish man. I can't keep leftovers or have any snacks

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Speaker 1: to myself.

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Speaker 3: If I hide things, he finds them.

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Speaker 1: He thinks, because he is the breadwinner, he shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: to ask for permission first. He has no shame in

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Speaker 1: this game? How do I get him to be more considerate?

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Speaker 3: Girl? Girl? They ain't your man? Hungry? But what do

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Speaker 3: you know?

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Speaker 2: Most selfish and inconsiderate? What do you hiding food for?

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Speaker 2: Don't y'all buy enough?

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Speaker 3: See all this here? You stashing food? Now? He got

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Speaker 3: to go looking for it? He hungry? He ain't selfish inconsiderate,

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Speaker 3: he hung He's still hide pack all the.

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Speaker 2: Food and refrigerator, fill up the cabinets with snacks. He

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Speaker 2: ain't got to go looking for it? What you hiding

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Speaker 2: the food for?

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Speaker 3: But he said? Man, he's fat. You know what's up?

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Speaker 1: He's gonna find them anyway if she hides them.

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Speaker 3: Man, I'm not living with nobody hiding food now?

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Speaker 2: Uh uh?

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Speaker 3: They don't have roaches. All this hiding this food all.

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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Speaker 3: Fat boy hung.

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Speaker 1: Steve, he said he's a bread winner, So he said

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Speaker 1: I bought the food.

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Speaker 3: He ain't all the breadge.

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Speaker 1: I ain't going to ask for your permission?

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Speaker 2: No, really, don't, ladies, what's wrong with you. Y'all got

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Speaker 2: a food issue at y'all house party?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, leftovers and snacks all right. Moving on to Chloe

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Speaker 1: in Houston. Chloe says, my best friend and I went

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Speaker 1: to Mexico with three other women on a girl's trip.

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Speaker 1: The travel agency booked us in one bedroom suite and

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Speaker 1: I had to sleep in a chair. I paid the

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Speaker 1: same group rate as they did, but I think I

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Speaker 1: deserve a partial refund. I think that's fair. Am I

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Speaker 1: wrong for asking these ladies for some money back?

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Speaker 3: Y'all in one bedroom? Sweep? How many y'all was it?

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Speaker 3: How many did she say? It was?

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Speaker 2: Five in one suite? Somebody, somebody gonna get the couch.

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Speaker 2: Two of them gonna get to bed. Now the rest

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Speaker 2: of y'all, it ain't nothing left but two chairs. It's

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Speaker 2: a chair, and that little bitch down at the foot

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Speaker 2: of the bed.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody see the ottoman? You couldn't roll either way?

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Speaker 3: You know that. Now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how y'all didn't rotate, but they just

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Speaker 2: demoted you to the chair. And you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: know quick going on these post vacations. Now, they got

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Speaker 2: this money, they got all these all, they got all

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Speaker 2: these all inclusive restaurants, outrec resourts. He quit taking these

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Speaker 2: pope vacations. You can't go to Mexico. Y'all should have

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Speaker 2: went to making Chargia or something. Y'all ain't had the

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Speaker 2: money for Mexico. You could have went to Minnesota, Minneapolis.

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Speaker 2: You but you know, you know, went to vacoution.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got the money to go to bed.

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Speaker 2: Yes, if you listen to me, if you don't have

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Speaker 2: the money for your own bed, this ain't gonna be

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Speaker 2: much of a vacation.

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Speaker 3: That's yeah, that's taking all.

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Speaker 2: These whole vacation. I'm go to Mexico to sleep on

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Speaker 2: the floor.

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Speaker 3: In the jail.

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Speaker 2: You all down there and see your frog all night long.

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Speaker 2: Now y'all got to go crawl up in this shell.

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Speaker 2: You down there with your mini skirt on, your little

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Speaker 2: tight stretching high heels.

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Speaker 3: Then you got to sleep in a fetal position.

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Speaker 2: Yo is on a bean bank in Mexico, and it

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Speaker 2: ain't all got all the beans in it all from

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Speaker 2: man this poet messic Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah all that. Yeah, Okay, so she's.

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Speaker 2: Trying to go to bed. No write this off. They're

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Speaker 2: not going to give you no.

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Speaker 3: Reason at all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all back at the house now, stop going, all right

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Speaker 1: quickly if we can get to the last one. Fornelia

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Speaker 1: and Hampton says, I find it hard to believe that

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Speaker 1: dating is so bad for ladies over seventy. I lost

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Speaker 1: my husband six years ago, and I want the comfort

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Speaker 1: of a man's touch and someone to laugh with and

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Speaker 1: talk to. There are no men at my church, So

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Speaker 1: how do I find love at my age?

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Speaker 4: Lady, you over serve, you ain't supposed to be dating

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Speaker 4: right now. You just need to start seeing some people.

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Speaker 4: You ain't got people, those natures all seeing some people.

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Speaker 4: You need to just go out with anybody you can.

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Speaker 4: Eighty ninety seventy.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to tour. You're gonna have to go

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Speaker 2: on tour. You gonna have to home, he says, at home,

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Speaker 2: you got to go down to the df W. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to go down to the veterance hospital. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to go down here to cut a calm listen. Home,

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Speaker 2: you gonna have to move around. You're gonna you're gonna

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Speaker 2: have to make friends at some rehab centers. You got

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Speaker 2: to make some friends. You gotta spread out here a

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Speaker 2: whole lot of seventy year old people left that can dat. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, you gotta go on to its.

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Speaker 3: Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

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Speaker 2: You can't do nothing around my crack at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're tattoo. You can't sketch on it. You can't.

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Speaker 2: You can't put tracing paper on my crack. And I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna hold still. I just can't do it because

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Speaker 2: I'm a clinch.

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Speaker 3: I'm a clinch.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell your payper up. I'm gonna tell your paypup.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to tell you you can't do nothing.

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Speaker 2: I can't do nothing around mind. I'm telling you right,

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Speaker 2: it ain't gonna work. I don't know what pencil you got.

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Speaker 2: You think he's in the claw, but you're finna get

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Speaker 2: your pencil broke. That's all I'm telling you. Little tattoo

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Speaker 2: gun ain't gonna be able to work no more.

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Speaker 3: How does I snap a needle?

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Speaker 2: This morning, Steve

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Speaker 3: Harby Morning Show coming up right after that,