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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: When I take an uber, I like to interview the driver.

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Speaker 3: I like to ask the questions, ask them where they're from,

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Speaker 3: how long they've been doing it?

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Speaker 4: Like what?

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Speaker 3: I also like, I want to know what are the

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Speaker 3: busiest times and who are the most challenging types of

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Speaker 3: people that you drive? Like is it a couple? Is

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Speaker 3: somebody that they pick up the airport? Is it you know,

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Speaker 3: some from here or not here?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: Are they tourists or not tourists that I think right?

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Speaker 1: Do they prefer a longer trips a shorter trip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I usually get them to lose interest in my questions

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Speaker 3: about a quarterway through the conversation. Not the idea, but anyway,

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Speaker 3: I'm interested. I've also left things in my uber. The

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Speaker 3: most significant was a backpack full of I think books.

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Speaker 3: I don't books well books And I try, you ever,

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Speaker 3: try to get into the app to find lost.

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Speaker 1: I have lost. I've left my phone before and I

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Speaker 1: was able to get it back.

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Speaker 3: I could not get to any place where I could

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Speaker 3: get to anything to get me to get it back.

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Speaker 2: No, it just was an endless rabbit hole of not

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Speaker 2: getting there.

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Speaker 5: My favorite block.

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Speaker 1: The reason the reason they put this list out is

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Speaker 1: to promote how easy it is to contact Uber to

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Speaker 1: get your loss out.

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Speaker 2: Because I've left stuff and it was just a backpack.

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Speaker 1: Now it tells me that was user error.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you are not. I'm very hopeful.

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Speaker 1: You're just not very techy. I'm being honest. I just

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Speaker 1: feel like it's very.

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Speaker 4: Other people with me trying to help me that are

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Speaker 4: very techy, very like tech on tech.

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Speaker 1: You go into the menus and this and that help

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Speaker 1: it guides you. Anyways, all right, Well, they put out

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Speaker 1: a list of some lost and found items. These are

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Speaker 1: kind of ridiculous, aren't they. These are the most unique

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Speaker 1: lost in found. So this is not going to be

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Speaker 1: like your phone's, your wallet, your keys. This is going

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Speaker 1: to be random stuff. And the list was long. There's

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Speaker 1: like fifty items on this list. So here are the

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Speaker 1: most memorable ones. A mannequin head with human hair.

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Speaker 2: Why is that unique?

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Speaker 5: Why is it so weird?

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Speaker 1: That is very strange.

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Speaker 2: Well, sometimes you don't travel alone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I about this one. Shrek ears weird. Somebody left

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Speaker 1: divorce papers behind. This one is a tragedy as a

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Speaker 1: mother breast milk because you work so hard to pump

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Speaker 1: that milk out. And if I would have left that

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Speaker 1: an uber, I would have been I would.

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Speaker 3: Have Do you think they got the rest? That seems

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Speaker 3: like selling The driver definitely want to get back.

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Speaker 1: I would hope so. But sometimes you don't realize it

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Speaker 1: because then they'll go pick up somebody else, and somebody

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Speaker 1: else and somebody else in there for a hour. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: who knows a live turtle, I'm not surprised. And how

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Speaker 1: about ten live lobsters.

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Speaker 2: They're all very slow. How do you get at this?

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Speaker 1: I don't think they're all in there with their seatbelts on.

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Speaker 2: A live turtle not moving fast.

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Speaker 1: Well, apparently a lot of food is left behind, and

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Speaker 1: I can see this. You're maybe you get picked up

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Speaker 1: from like a big party and they're like, hey, take

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Speaker 1: this tray of whatever, and you know, and then you

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Speaker 1: forget because you're drunk. One hundred and seventy five Hamburger

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Speaker 1: sliders were left behind ones in an uber bonus.

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Speaker 2: Would you eat them? They were untouched?

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe twenty four cans of corn random, a

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Speaker 1: five gallon bucket of beans, and a bucket of feta cheese,

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Speaker 1: all just lost, left behind, and then they listed the

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Speaker 1: ten most forgettable cities, and of course la is on

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Speaker 1: the list, but we weren't number one. New York actually

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Speaker 1: came in first, followed by Miami, Chicago, and then Los

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Speaker 2: What if that New York? Because there are more other

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Speaker 2: more ubers there.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's like more yeah, hustle and Bustle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we've all lost something left something. However, I

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Speaker 3: do consider to be one of the greatest inventions of

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Speaker 3: our time. Yeah, bring yeah, And do you know that

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Speaker 3: uber eats will bring you things from the store that

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Speaker 3: aren't eats.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I've thought eyelashes delivered to me.

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Speaker 2: I've never done that.

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Speaker 3: But there is always a weeknd the head Seacrest and

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Speaker 3: we have Natalie.

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Speaker 2: What's the lea? Now the good morning?

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Speaker 6: How are you good?

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Speaker 7: How are you? How's it gone?

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Speaker 2: It's going all right? How can we help you?

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Speaker 7: Okay? So I would love to run this by you.

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Speaker 7: My husband and I we're gonna have a baby this

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Speaker 7: summer and we're super excited about it and we're gonna

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Speaker 7: have a boy and we're working on names. Oh okay, yeah,

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Speaker 7: but it's not exactly what you think we've been talking

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Speaker 7: around named and my husband was the one that he

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Speaker 7: really likes. But it's the same name as an ex

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Speaker 7: boyfriend of mine I may dated years ago, right after college.

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Speaker 7: It's been so long, no feelings. I love the name too,

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Speaker 7: But my question is, do you think it's weird to like,

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Speaker 7: it's not after my ex but sort of naming our

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Speaker 7: baby after my ex, and like, do you think it's weird? Husband?

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Speaker 2: Does your husband know? Oh, he doesn't know that his

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Speaker 2: suggestion is an X.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell him?

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Speaker 8: You have to tell him that like didn't come up

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Speaker 8: because it's so long ago.

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Speaker 7: It's just like it was something I vaguely was thinking about.

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Speaker 7: And then the more I thought about it, I was like,

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Speaker 7: every time we say the name, I think of I

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Speaker 7: think of the X. And you know, it wouldn't be

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Speaker 7: weird in the sense we don't talk, but if you

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Speaker 7: were ever to like see it, he'd be like, Oh,

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Speaker 7: that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: If this is a hard no to not tell him, uh,

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Speaker 3: because you can change the name now, like you can't

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Speaker 3: change it later. What if it bothers you after the fact,

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Speaker 3: and all you're thinking about every time? Clearly it's on

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Speaker 3: your mind, you would think about in the back of

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Speaker 3: your mind, and I think that would make it's not

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Speaker 3: a good conversation Dad.

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Speaker 1: Later maybe no, I think like eventually the baby, you know,

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Speaker 1: they have their own personality, and that's your baby. Like,

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Speaker 1: you're not going to think of your ax his name.

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Speaker 1: Yes you are, I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: Would say she's thinking about it because.

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Speaker 1: The baby's not here yet. But once that baby boy

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Speaker 1: is in this world, can we whatever you name him

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Speaker 1: is going to be his name. That's true.

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Speaker 7: I don't have a new association. I kept thinking maybe

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Speaker 7: like if time passed, just like over the last few days,

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Speaker 7: I kept thinking, maybe the thoughts of the ex would

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Speaker 7: go away.

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Speaker 1: But they have what we got to know the name.

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Speaker 7: Now, Oh Jason.

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Speaker 2: Jason, you can come up with another name. I love Jason.

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Speaker 2: You could be Come on, there's enough Jason's out there.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, morning, we're looking for Jay names. It's hard to

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Speaker 7: come up with a J name that you don't know

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Speaker 7: someone who's had it. You know that you don't have

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Speaker 7: an association with it.

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Speaker 5: What I shorten it to just Jay.

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Speaker 1: I can take a stab at it.

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Speaker 6: JA.

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Speaker 7: So many j's, so many j assume a new days

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Speaker 7: I've dated like five js.

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Speaker 4: I feel like we did a morning talk that the

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Speaker 4: name Jason is like, what was it?

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Speaker 5: Something about cheating?

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Speaker 2: Well, look, here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I think that you need to just get to move

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Speaker 3: on with the name. Tell them the story and you

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Speaker 3: can find it in the name. I think it's a

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Speaker 3: bad idea to do it later.

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Speaker 2: Why j.

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Speaker 7: Why Jay? We wanted to use the first initial J

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Speaker 7: because we both have grandfathers with Jay. With names that

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Speaker 7: start with Jay.

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Speaker 1: Combine the grandfather's names together.

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Speaker 2: Sisney's going to go off on one.

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Speaker 3: This is what she does for a side living hustle.

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Speaker 3: We can talk, we can talk off line, take take

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Speaker 3: the advice or not. But I think it was better

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Speaker 3: to say something now, good luck and keep us post listen.

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Speaker 3: Now goes good luck to have them Elsie.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for calling. How can we help?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, my brother and sister in law just recently had

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Speaker 9: a baby, which is awesome and we're, you know, all

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Speaker 9: excited about it. I totally get that they want to

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Speaker 9: be like you, extremely careful, protective right now, but I

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Speaker 9: just said out something that just doesn't sit well with

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Speaker 9: I work full time, and so our daughter she goes

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Speaker 9: with daycare, you know, a few times a week, and

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Speaker 9: all the days that she's not in daycare, my mom

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Speaker 9: and dad you know, watch her. And that's been a

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Speaker 9: huge health and everything. But recently our daughter had already

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Speaker 9: nose major, nothing major or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff.

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Speaker 9: You know, they come home with us, nanny knows, not

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Speaker 9: a big deal. So we decided to you know, add

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Speaker 9: a caution and respect you know, withhold friend you know,

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Speaker 9: visiting the new baby for a bit, because we don't

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Speaker 9: want to risk anything. You know, totally understand. I'm a mom,

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Speaker 9: but I thought, my mom that my brother told my

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Speaker 9: parents that they shouldn't be around my daughter because they

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Speaker 9: shouldn't be visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter,

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Speaker 9: and they wanted them to wait like a few days

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Speaker 9: after just as like a period because my daughter goes

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Speaker 9: to daycare like she's some kind of weird walking.

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Speaker 3: Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs.

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Speaker 3: That's where we are, right yeah.

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Speaker 9: Like I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going to

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Speaker 9: have more cold than ready noses and everything. How old

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Speaker 9: is the baby, it's a newborn like like a month.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's flip the rolls.

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Speaker 3: If you just had your daughter, would you feel the

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Speaker 3: same way about their kid?

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Speaker 2: There was it daycare?

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Speaker 9: I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are

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Speaker 9: trained to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to

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Speaker 9: because I understand, but your parents around your daughter?

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh so they don't even want your parents around.

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Speaker 1: It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because your.

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Speaker 3: Parents, your parents were around your daughter, right yes, yeah, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: so they're thinking like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think it's judgmental. They're trying to protect

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Speaker 4: That's their progative that I think I would take it

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Speaker 1: A month is young, but if the baby's like six

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Speaker 1: months old at this point they're still kind of doing

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Speaker 1: this stuff, then that's just annoying.

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Speaker 3: I think Sistney's got a good point. Let's see how

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Speaker 3: long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment

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Speaker 2: Does you ever named it? Geo?

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Speaker 3: I can't even say it on the air. There may

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Speaker 3: Well you say, really really want to press but I'm like,

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Speaker 3: We are going to get through it together at LA's

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Speaker 3: If you ever wonder what would be like to be

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Speaker 2: One month and you found someone on Instagram? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So basically I found this thing on Instagram that was like,

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Speaker 5: So I sent them to him.

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Speaker 4: No, is it easy or difficult to bring up your

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Speaker 2: I don't recommend that a month in.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a great question, actually, because you're gonna

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Speaker 4: Okay, do you feel like I take initiative to keep

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Speaker 2: I actually I have to be honest.

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Speaker 3: They're good. They're good. Thank you, they're good. Here's how

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Speaker 3: No once every six months, leave a card, one every

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Speaker 3: three months, every okay, every quarter, yeah, okay, leave a card.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate you, and I just want to ask one

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Speaker 1: The answers to these questions naturally just happened and in

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: But sometimes you get so in your routine. Life happens

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Speaker 2: I six months.

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Speaker 3: Don't do it every every six months, you could leave

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Speaker 5: That's that I suggested.

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Speaker 3: Bed, No, never had a conversation before Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: The number one rule is exactly what Sistney said.

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Speaker 1: You no finance, no finances, or seriously talk.

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Speaker 2: Talk It's time for a second date. Update. This is kiss.

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Speaker 3: Tany's got her lipstick on for this one. That's right,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is preparing for this.

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Speaker 5: Just wanted to feel my best.

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Speaker 3: Yeah for a second date update. Well, here's the deal.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about dating? When you were dating

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Speaker 3: I always say we should just get to date seven.

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Speaker 3: My grandma kept chatting the whole time on the way

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she's thinking I might go right now.

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Speaker 3: So, but my nana would tell everybody she met that

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Speaker 3: Jody, we just got the background on this very sweet

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Speaker 9: What.

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Speaker 7: And that was like a week ago.

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Speaker 10: So now I'm just in this weird holding pattern.

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Speaker 9: I don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 3: So my first thought is the guy saving lives. I mean,

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Speaker 1: No, I'll let you know.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, maybe, like i'll let you know. I have

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Speaker 1: But you don't wait a week to not get back

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Speaker 2: I love the way they met so much that I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, obviously we wanted to work, but I need

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Speaker 1: to know why he's so joey.

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Speaker 2: You were into him, right, yeah?

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Speaker 9: Extremely?

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Speaker 2: Okay, what did he look like? I'm just curious now

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Speaker 2: I'm picturing the piin what he looked like? Ye tell

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Speaker 9: I don't know.

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Speaker 10: He's you know, like tall, he like muscular, not overly so, but.

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Speaker 10: His name is Marvin.

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Speaker 2: Oh, paramedic Marvin. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I was like, glad, you know, paramedic Marvin. Okay, we

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Speaker 3: you don't walk away from a Nana connection in an ambulance, like,

449
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,160
Speaker 3: you know, like it didn't matter. He did reach out,

450
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,160
Speaker 3: so yeah, exactly, he made the first move.

451
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Speaker 2: Kiss time for the second date update call? Can't we

452
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 2: just go with Marvin? Is he ready? Okay?

453
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 3: You got to hear this. Jody reached out to us.

454
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 3: Her grandma was in an ambulance, thought she had a

455
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Speaker 3: heart attack. It wasn't not a heart atta. On the

456
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 3: way to the hospital, she's talking about her granddaughter, Jody,

457
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 3: and how much the paramedic would love her granddaughter and

458
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 3: her grandma. Nana gives the paramedic Jody's phone number. The

459
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 3: paramedic then reaches out to Jody, text Jody to find

460
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Speaker 3: out how Grandma's doing, and then ask Jody out.

461
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Speaker 2: That's how they met.

462
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 5: Cute.

463
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 3: So they go on this gorgeous Sunday afternoon date, which

464
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Speaker 3: frankly is a great time to go on a date.

465
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Speaker 2: Not the pressure of the night.

466
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Speaker 3: What needs to happen at the end of the night kissing,

467
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 3: not a kiss, just the evolution of an afternoon that

468
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,439
Speaker 3: could turn into a sunset. I actually love it, but

469
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Speaker 3: it goes bad then you're like, I just want to

470
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Speaker 3: point out, Tanya, you've not been on a date in

471
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Speaker 3: how five, seven, eight, nine years?

472
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I can guarantee you the number of dates

473
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Speaker 4: that I went on when I was dating is tops yours.

474
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Speaker 3: Top dad twice your age.

475
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Speaker 2: No, you're not okay, Thanks for saying it, Jody.

476
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Speaker 3: We've got him to come on the phone here and

477
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Speaker 3: go on the air, so let's find out. Be very quiet,

478
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 3: We're going to find out why Paramedic Marvin was, you know,

479
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 3: into it, taking you out and then kind of hasn't

480
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 3: gotten around to getting back to you for a second date.

481
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 3: I said, I'll let you know and then you ever

482
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 3: heard from him. I think he's just busy with a

483
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:20,640
Speaker 3: serious job.

484
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 1: Guys know, when you're into it, you don't put things

485
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Speaker 1: on pause.

486
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Speaker 3: Hey, Marvin, thank you for coming on the air. It's

487
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Speaker 3: Ryan Seacrest. You're on KISSFM with us.

488
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Speaker 2: How are you Marvin? Does he have a pulse? Somebody

489
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Speaker 2: call a metic? Oh there he is. Okay, Marvin, So

490
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Speaker 2: sorry about that.

491
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Speaker 3: No problem. You're busy saving lives. We understand, appreciate your

492
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 3: time here. So we're calling you about a woman named Jody.

493
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Speaker 3: You were introduced her, I think by a patient.

494
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Speaker 2: I yeah, okay, yeah, she's great. Well she's doing fine.

495
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 2: But do you guys went out?

496
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Speaker 3: Tell me about your exchange with Jody and the date

497
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Speaker 3: you went on.

498
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Speaker 2: How that went?

499
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Speaker 11: I mean, it was fun. It's kind of weird you

500
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Speaker 11: ask is Honestly, it was the first best first hit

501
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 11: I've ever had.

502
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Speaker 2: I'm being honest. Why was it the best first date?

503
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 2: I'm interested?

504
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 11: I mean, you know, I mean we just had a

505
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 11: great conversation, you know, really positive energy, great food and

506
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 11: drinks too.

507
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Speaker 2: And how did you leave it with Jody?

508
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Speaker 9: Well, it's not sure if it's going to work out.

509
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Speaker 2: Honestly, Well, do you mindtion?

510
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Speaker 12: I know, we just there's a lot I need to

511
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Speaker 12: figure out, and so, yeah, you know, I just got

512
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Speaker 12: some some stuff I here to figure out right.

513
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Speaker 2: Now, all right, Well, I don't want to pry it you.

514
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Speaker 3: The only thing is, and the reason we're here is

515
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Speaker 3: obviously we know a little bit about Jody in the

516
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Speaker 3: situation and the feeling that Jody has for you that

517
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 3: might be very very good and have some potential here

518
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 3: and you having that for her. So is the roadblock

519
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 3: such a challenge it can't be overcome?

520
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Speaker 1: Well, what is the roadblock?

521
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Speaker 11: Well, I'm a paramedic and a few days after the date,

522
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Speaker 11: I got laid off, and so I'm trying to find

523
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Speaker 11: a new job. I've been looking everywhere, and I have

524
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Speaker 11: this cousin in Seattle who said they might know of something,

525
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Speaker 11: and you know, I was looking at the San Diego

526
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 11: Palm Springs everywhere. And I don't want to lead her

527
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Speaker 11: on if I'm going to be leaving town.

528
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Speaker 3: You know, I think that's very noble. Actually, yeah, understandable.

529
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Speaker 3: But then again, why not just tell her that? Why

530
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Speaker 3: don't you see what happens?

531
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Speaker 2: Like it?

532
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Speaker 5: No, don't roll it. If you're going to go out

533
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Speaker 5: to leave town.

534
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Speaker 1: But you don't know I did long disiness for two years.

535
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Speaker 3: Okay, Marvin, I'm going to tell you. Jody's listening to

536
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 3: all this right now. Jody, can I get your reaction

537
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 3: to what Marvin's telling us?

538
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 10: Marvin, lead me on?

539
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: Oh, she wants to be here.

540
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 11: That's what I was afraid of.

541
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Speaker 2: She's saying, lead me on. She's saying, let's go, let's

542
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Speaker 2: do it, let's go, let's see what happened.

543
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Speaker 10: Yeah, like I'm saying, it's okay, lead me on.

544
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Speaker 5: I don't care.

545
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Speaker 10: I really yeah, I really want to again, and maybe

546
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 10: I can help you look powerful?

547
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Speaker 8: What if I move to cl next week?

548
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Speaker 2: Marvin stopped the what ifs? Lead her on? Know what ifs? No, hypothetically,

549
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Speaker 2: I don't want to lead her on. You have not

550
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Speaker 2: been on a date.

551
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

552
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Speaker 2: It's over, Marvin. Would you ask her to have the question.

553
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Speaker 3: Let's see I just go out again in person, have

554
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Speaker 3: this conversation, get us out of it.

555
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 11: You know what, I would love to lead me on.

556
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Speaker 1: I like that too.

557
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 2: I love that. Jody charge. So did you say yesterday

558
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Speaker 2: in here?

559
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Speaker 1: I don't know who said yes.

560
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Speaker 10: We're gonna Marvin said, yes, we're going to go on

561
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Speaker 10: another date.

562
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Speaker 3: Okay, you're gonna go and you said yes to great

563
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Speaker 3: second date. Update updated you guys, good luck success live

564
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: in the moment, Jody, thanks for reaching out.

565
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Speaker 2: What's your grandma's name?

566
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Speaker 9: Than you?

567
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 10: Arlene?

568
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 6: Arlene is cupid in my mind, Arlene, draw back your

569
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Speaker 6: bow and okay, I'm sorry.

570
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Speaker 2: I started to sing.

571
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 5: Was cute?

572
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Speaker 6: It is cute.

573
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Speaker 2: Okay, Jody and Marvin hold on one second. We love that.

574
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Speaker 3: I was great. How about lead me on? That is powerful? Strong,

575
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 3: taking a statement?

576
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Speaker 2: Good stuff?

577
00:26:55,240 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 3: Arlene on air with Ryan Seacrest Kiss FM.

578
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 2: Where do you stand?

579
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Speaker 3: It's divide the Internet's about a family vacation. So as

580
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 3: the woman that's looking for advice on this after her

581
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 3: husband booked a vacation for himself and their kids and

582
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Speaker 3: she's not going. He booked it without her, so she

583
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 3: posted on a mom's forum called Mom's Net that their family,

584
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Speaker 3: she her husband, and their teenage son and daughter. They

585
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Speaker 3: go on this family vacation every year every summer, but

586
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 3: this year they're doing a major home renovation, which they're

587
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: already thinking that they can't afford to do anyway, and

588
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 3: they're adding it to their mortgage, so she suggested a staycation.

589
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 3: Why at the extra expense of the normal vacation. The

590
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Speaker 3: husband said no, he wants to vacation anyway and wants

591
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Speaker 3: to go and wants to do it. The teenagers want

592
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Speaker 3: to go to and they decide to book the trip

593
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Speaker 3: and go without mom.

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Speaker 1: Why can't mom come? Anyways? At this point, if you already.

595
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Speaker 3: Booked it, well, she's torn. She doesn't know they booked

596
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Speaker 3: it without her, but she's torn. Does she go or

597
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 3: not go? Yes, because she thinks it adds to the

598
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Speaker 3: debt if she goes. So she's holding herself back so

599
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 3: that they can go. I mean, look, they booked it

600
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Speaker 3: without her, and she's saying, oh, I think I don't

601
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Speaker 3: know what.

602
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Speaker 2: Do I stay back because it does is an extra expense?

603
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 7: Right?

604
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Speaker 2: Or is it rude that they booked all that they're

605
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Speaker 2: gonna go without me? I think it's so rude. Everyone

606
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: should stay cation.

607
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Speaker 1: It is rude that he that he just kind of

608
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Speaker 1: booked it. But sometimes you just have to just make

609
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Speaker 1: some people.

610
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Speaker 2: Or say just take the vacation, just go life ashore.

611
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Speaker 3: Others are saying stand your ground, and you know, if

612
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Speaker 3: you feel like it's too much of an expense, don't go.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm torn on this one too. I

614
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Speaker 1: feel like I do this sometimes naturally though, because like

615
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Speaker 1: Michael will be like, no, we can't go on that

616
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Speaker 1: vacation when you save money, And then I'm like, well,

617
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Speaker 1: I already booked it.

618
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Speaker 2: I think, I think.

619
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Speaker 3: But yeah, but I think she stands aground and they

620
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: need to adjust, they need to pivot.

621
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Speaker 2: That's I think that's the best solution.

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Speaker 5: You guys, it's weird.

623
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Speaker 1: It's weird that she wouldn't go on the vacate.

624
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Speaker 2: Right that they would go. I don't think that will

625
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Speaker 2: happen now.

626
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Speaker 3: I think they'll she'll e to just go and put

627
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Speaker 3: them on debt, or she'll get them to pivot. But

628
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 3: the booking was done just like you do all the time, apparently, yeah.

629
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Speaker 1: Because you know what, in that relationship, there's always one

630
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Speaker 1: person that's always like we need to go do it,

631
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Speaker 1: or any other person's like we shouldn't and it just

632
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Speaker 1: needs to be done.

633
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Speaker 6: You know.

634
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Speaker 2: It's funny.

635
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Speaker 3: People always say to me, it's a long life, and

636
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: then they'll say life is short.

637
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like what would do so?

638
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Speaker 3: I mean, look, there's been all this talk in the

639
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Speaker 3: news about what if we as a culture went to

640
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Speaker 3: a four day work week, would we be even more productive?

641
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Speaker 2: I'm all for it, right, so fine, the four day

642
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Speaker 2: work week.

643
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Speaker 3: Some companies are doing it, some California congress people have

644
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Speaker 3: proposed it. But the debate is what day would be

645
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Speaker 3: the best day off? Would it be the Friday before

646
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Speaker 3: the weekend, would it be the Monday after the Sunday,

647
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Speaker 3: or would it be midweek to break it up ciciny.

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Speaker 1: The midweek one kind of throws me off. But actually

649
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Speaker 1: I just started Savellah on this preschool schedule, and I

650
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Speaker 1: think it's going to be really good for her. She's

651
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Speaker 1: doing Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays off, Thursday, Friday.

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Speaker 3: The midweek for me just adds another Sunday. So I say,

653
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Speaker 3: no time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not too s for the working world, So

655
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Speaker 1: let's it's Friday. It's Friday for me, all right.

656
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Speaker 2: So it would be Friday, not Monday.

657
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Speaker 3: But think about the relief in Sunday not being Sunday

658
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Speaker 3: and being a Monday off.

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Speaker 1: I can't get whenever we have a Monday off, that

660
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Speaker 1: throws off my week because then I get back Tuesday

661
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Speaker 1: and I'm playing catch up from stuff that like I

662
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Speaker 1: should have done Monday and I don't like it, Gig,

663
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Speaker 1: because it gets me.

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Speaker 4: You would get adjusted, I think you would.

665
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Speaker 2: You would frontload and you, Tony, what would you do?

666
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Speaker 4: I would like Monday because to me, Monday's like my

667
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Speaker 4: most where I'm like my let's go baby. So I

668
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Speaker 4: feel like I would be very I would get a

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Speaker 4: lot done on Monday, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Be productive because of the super productive.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I go back and forth on this because I like

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Speaker 3: the idea of Sunday never feeling like a Sunday because

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Speaker 3: Monday's off and Monday then begins feel like Sunday, but

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Speaker 3: Tuesday's already Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Always going to have that feeling whether it's Sunday or Monday,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have that scary feeling.

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Speaker 3: Is the excitement that of having the Friday off because

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Speaker 3: it's all ahead of you more appealing because then on

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Speaker 3: Wednesday it's Thursday and Thursday it's Friday.

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Speaker 2: I mean that to me in my head is the

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Speaker 2: way I think I would.

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Speaker 3: So I would vote after going back and forth on this, No, Wednesdays,

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Speaker 3: maybe Mondays, but I think for me, Fridays Fridays for sure,

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Speaker 3: or what's your final Systey Fridays for sure?

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Speaker 2: What's your Friday final?

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Speaker 5: Monday?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well let's see what I heard decides?

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Speaker 1: Well, they did, and they're not going to decide, but

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Speaker 1: they did a Reddit pull on this Friday. Did win

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Speaker 1: by forty seven percent.

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Speaker 2: It's a mentality. It's a mentality one a two point

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Speaker 2: seven kiss FM.

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Speaker 3: I want to go to Rebecca. I I feel something

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Speaker 3: with this. She is dating a guy who didn't tell

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Speaker 3: her he had been engaged previously. She's asking is that

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Speaker 3: a big red flag? And if so, what does she

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Speaker 3: do about it?

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Speaker 1: I want to know how long they've been dating because

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Speaker 1: at what point did he finally tell her?

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Speaker 2: Rebecca? Are you there?

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Speaker 3: I am, Hi, Hi, thank you for bringing this issue up.

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00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 3: We want to stop everything and get into it with you.

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Speaker 3: How did you find doubt he was engaged before?

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Speaker 8: So I was doing like my you know, Instagram stalking

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Speaker 8: and I went to like his photos and I saw

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Speaker 8: a picture that he was tagged in from his engagement party.

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Speaker 8: There was one photo.

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Speaker 2: But and how long have you been dating him?

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Speaker 8: We've gone on two dates and we're going on a

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Speaker 8: third this weekend.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so do you think I'm just trying to play

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Speaker 3: this out. Do you think it would have been up

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Speaker 3: to him to say on dates one or two? Hey,

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Speaker 3: you know, just have you talked about your dating histories?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 2: Has that gotten into a lengthy conversation with the two

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Speaker 2: of you?

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Speaker 8: Not lengthy, and we talked about it a little bit.

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Speaker 8: But I feel like maybe that's something you bring up

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Speaker 8: early on.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't disagree, I'm just wondering, how do

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Speaker 3: you how do you bring that up on the first

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Speaker 3: or second I.

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Speaker 1: Think this is early on.

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Speaker 2: Rebecca, you're saying that he has time to do it still,

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Speaker 2: and it's.

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Speaker 1: Like that she says that she found out on her own,

729
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Speaker 1: but that was her own doing. She went in there digging.

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Speaker 1: But I think you maybe you know who knows in

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Speaker 1: the third or fourth that he would have had the

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Speaker 1: chance to tell you, And it's probably not the his

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Speaker 1: first thing to start the first day.

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Speaker 2: Look, I agree with listening.

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Speaker 3: If you start dating someone and they haven't told you

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Speaker 3: about this, that might be concerning. But when you're trying

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Speaker 3: to make a good impression with somebody new and you

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Speaker 3: really want them to feel like the focus, I don't

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Speaker 3: think bringing it up in the first three dates is

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Speaker 3: the best idea, Tonny.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it is too early. I feel like

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Speaker 4: this is the stage where you're just getting to know

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Speaker 4: each other. So I feel like he maybe was planning

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Speaker 4: on telling you just here's.

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Speaker 3: My advice, Rebecca, forget you know it, lay low, and

747
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Speaker 3: see if he brings it up at the right time.

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Speaker 2: Because if you feel like.

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Speaker 3: If you feel like it's gone on for a little

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Speaker 3: while where you're you guys have covered a little bit

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Speaker 3: of your history together when you've talked, and he doesn't

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Speaker 3: mention it, then I think there's more reason to be concerned.

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Speaker 2: I would give it a little bit of breathing room

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: No, you have to what are you gonna tell him?

756
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Speaker 1: I was snooping through your instagram.

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00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 8: Exactly, Like I can't say that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, put away the dust brush, all your detective tools,

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00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 3: put those away for a second, enjoy the moments, let

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00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 3: this unfold that But this is going to be.

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Speaker 4: On the top of her mind every minute that she

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Speaker 4: hit them, and she's going to be like trying to

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Speaker 4: like lead him to this answer, disciplined. Fin Just as

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Speaker 4: long as he gets there, like she you know what

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Speaker 4: you should ask him the first minute you sit down

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Speaker 4: is like, how serious have your last relationships been?

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: When we watch TV, we don't want spoilers, but when

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Speaker 3: we date people, we look for spoilers. True, let's not

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Speaker 3: search for spoilers here. Good luck, thanks for calling. Thanks,

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00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: Oh to give advice and not take it. It is

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Speaker 3: a difficult job. I'll let your point seven kiss a fab. Well,

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Speaker 3: I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: You guys coming over tonight tonight now I have dinner plans.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for the invite.

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Speaker 2: How about not the same day invite?

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Speaker 5: Taco Tuesday?

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Speaker 1: Broke kettle black?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're texting us an hour before lunch.

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Speaker 5: Hey, guys want to be that noon?

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Speaker 2: And guilt trippy for not going. All right, we'll see

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Speaker 2: you tomorrow. Guys, have a good one. Thanks for listening

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