Speaker 1: From Hollywood Toe you.
Speaker 2: Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: So Tanya, just headline us recap what a an attachment
Speaker 3: style means with your significant other.
Speaker 4: An attachment style is basically the way that you attach
Speaker 4: yourself to another human and it all boils down to
Speaker 4: stuff from your childhood that you might not even know,
Speaker 4: Like you might be traumatized from something that happened that
Speaker 4: could have been like a quick thing at school that
Speaker 4: is like lingering with you. But basically it's how you
Speaker 4: react inside a relationship. And there's four main types.
Speaker 2: And what are the four?
Speaker 4: It's securely attached, insecurely attached, avoidant, and.
Speaker 1: Shoot, I'm missing the fourth one.
Speaker 2: You can't preach if you don't know them.
Speaker 1: I know I'm not any good. I'm not like the
Speaker 1: expert here, So.
Speaker 2: I would be insecure and avoidant, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to take the quiz and really see.
Speaker 2: I won't take the quiz. I live with me. I
Speaker 2: know me.
Speaker 4: Anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and securely attached.
Speaker 2: Okay, so keep those Handy and Sydney, what were you?
Speaker 1: I was avoidant?
Speaker 2: I get that. I'm definitely insecure and then plus.
Speaker 5: Plus right right, the insecure doesn't really linger in my
Speaker 5: relationships per se. But the avoidant kind of made sense
Speaker 5: because like, if there's an issue, I'm just kind of
Speaker 5: like forget it that we don't need to talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, avoidant is dismissive attachment.
Speaker 2: Toney, what happened to us in our childhood that we're
Speaker 2: insecure attachment?
Speaker 1: You gotta got a therapy to figure it out? What
Speaker 1: time one o'clock?
Speaker 2: Can we share it over?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, I do it on zoom.
Speaker 2: Oh you don't even go?
Speaker 7: No, I go?
Speaker 2: Oh, then put me in the grid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 2: Claudia, good morning. How are you in Corona?
Speaker 8: Hello? Good morning. I am well driving to work?
Speaker 2: Well, thank you.
Speaker 3: We're in the business of trying to make you forget
Speaker 3: about the drive while you're doing it. It's our gig.
Speaker 3: So Kuidty, tell me what inspired you to call in?
Speaker 3: What's happening in your relationship that made you want to
Speaker 3: call in about this attachment?
Speaker 8: Well? I can say that I have been trying to
Speaker 8: figure out why it is that every single person that
Speaker 8: I have ever been involved with has always cheated on me.
Speaker 8: So of course I have my guard up for a
Speaker 8: very long time. And one step guard gets taken down,
Speaker 8: then I start noticing indifferences in the relationship, and then
Speaker 8: I start I start noticing the red flags, only to
Speaker 8: come find out each and every single time that yeah,
Speaker 8: there's something else going on. So it's like a vicious cycle,
Speaker 8: and I just wanted to try to figure out whether
Speaker 8: it's something deeper than just picking the wrong partner.
Speaker 3: Got it well, by the way, first of all, to
Speaker 3: things Number one, thank you for reaching out to talk
Speaker 3: vulnerably with us about this. And two, I love your
Speaker 3: thoughtful approach, right, I mean, you're you're coming, You're you're
Speaker 3: like trying to find a It's almost like an unemotional approach, right,
Speaker 3: It's a thoughtful approach. Yeah, yeah, because you want to write,
Speaker 3: I mean, you really want to do some work on this,
Speaker 3: some real work on this.
Speaker 8: Well, And you know it has not always always been
Speaker 8: this way, to be honest with you, it's taking me
Speaker 8: a long time to get to where I'm at. And
Speaker 8: for the first time in my probably in my life,
Speaker 8: I have been single for the past three or four years,
Speaker 8: and I've actually have learned to be very happy single.
Speaker 8: And before it was that ugly feeling that I just
Speaker 8: did not want to be alone, and I think that
Speaker 8: maybe that also led to the problem as far as
Speaker 8: I'll take anything, I.
Speaker 2: Guess you lower your bar.
Speaker 3: Well, Claudia, let me have time and they give you
Speaker 3: a real quick and your real quick the study.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how to get the quiz?
Speaker 4: Well, okay, you can just go to Google and literally
Speaker 4: just type into Google attachment style quiz and that'll pop
Speaker 4: right up and you can take it right then and
Speaker 4: there and quit it.
Speaker 2: Good luck.
Speaker 3: So attachment Style quiz and Google keep us posted. I
Speaker 3: love what you said you found happiness being single. You
Speaker 3: don't need someone that's not of like that gets to
Speaker 3: be with you and deserve your time and your energy
Speaker 3: and your wisdom. You don't need somebody to be there
Speaker 3: all the time just to feel happy. And I think
Speaker 3: that's a big accomplishment in itself.
Speaker 8: That is a beautiful thing that I have learned.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Claudia. We love you in Corona. You have
Speaker 3: a great day and good luck on this journey. So
Speaker 3: Siciny is working on a new traffic wave.
Speaker 5: Oh I've got this down and I'm so happy. I
Speaker 5: will never change the way I wave to people ever.
Speaker 2: Again, meaning when they let you do into the Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I'm a big person of like, if you don't
Speaker 5: wave back to me after I've already let you get
Speaker 5: in front of me or cross or whatever, and you
Speaker 5: don't give me the wave, I get so irritated me too.
Speaker 5: I'm just like why it's it takes two seconds.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 5: And so the other day I let the Coldwater Canyon
Speaker 5: gets very backed up, like with traffic, and so you
Speaker 5: can tell someone's trying to like cross into their neighborhood.
Speaker 5: I like purposely like slowed down the traffic so that
Speaker 5: person break exactly, make it break in the lane. And
Speaker 5: so the person crosses in front of me and they
Speaker 5: threw me the peace sign, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: that is so cool. And so ever since that day
Speaker 5: Janner cutting in front of you, I do the peace
Speaker 5: sign now and it makes me feel so much better
Speaker 5: than just the wave.
Speaker 1: Like the peace sign is way cooler.
Speaker 2: I think the peace signs it really is.
Speaker 1: It brightened up my day. I was like, Wow, that's
Speaker 1: natal that's.
Speaker 2: Like a chill person in traffic front peace. Yeah.
Speaker 3: They're like, you know, just like not the anxious wave,
Speaker 3: just the peace exactly. So can you describe the person
Speaker 3: didn't see what they were vibing?
Speaker 5: It was a guy it was a guy. It was
Speaker 5: a sedan. I can't remember the make, but it was
Speaker 5: a super.
Speaker 1: Chill guy spanks man.
Speaker 2: True. I mean when you see me in my Ford Bronco.
Speaker 2: By the way, it's just a basic it's factor.
Speaker 1: Anything I know, but it's so it's a good one.
Speaker 2: Robbie saw it, Oh he did? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Uh so, I'm gonna the people in traffic in my
Speaker 3: Ford Bronco.
Speaker 1: So switch it up to the piece. You'll be happier.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be so cool in that car. I can't
Speaker 1: wait to see it.
Speaker 2: I think I'm getting it from Ford next week.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so exciting.
Speaker 2: From our local southern California four dealer.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Speaker 3: Let me grab this call eight hundred and five too, well,
Speaker 3: want to two seven feel free anytime about anything?
Speaker 2: This is Andrew. So Andrew, you think that.
Speaker 3: Your girlfriend's guy friend is in love with her, but
Speaker 3: you didn't have a problem with that until now.
Speaker 2: What's up? Tell me the situation?
Speaker 7: All right? So thanks taking the call. I mean we've
Speaker 7: been doing it for about six months and it's going well.
Speaker 7: And like I said, she's got this friend, like you said,
Speaker 7: she says, this friend who it's like he's always hitting
Speaker 7: on her, and he's a nice guy, but it's kind
Speaker 7: of coming to a head because, well, they could take
Speaker 7: a her here or there, but we're supposed to want
Speaker 7: a trip together with some friends another two couples, and
Speaker 7: she wants to invite him, and I'm kind of like,
Speaker 7: am I in the wrong here for telling my girlfriend
Speaker 7: of six months that her lifelong friend coming on our
Speaker 7: trip would make me uncomfortable. He's just he's really involved,
Speaker 7: and it feels like one of those things where he
Speaker 7: hopes it turns romantic with her, and I'm like, in
Speaker 7: his rom com, I'm the bad guy, and it just you.
Speaker 2: You you. I think you told the back room that
Speaker 2: you thought he was gay up until now? What changed?
Speaker 6: I did?
Speaker 7: Yeah, well he he They took him the phone every
Speaker 7: day and and uh and she's he sent her gifts before,
Speaker 7: like on Valentine's Day, sent her cupcakes to the office,
Speaker 7: and I was like, oh, that's that's cute. That's nice
Speaker 7: that her gave us friend to anything. And then she's like, oh, no,
Speaker 7: he's he's great. He's dating girls. And he told me
Speaker 7: about Daisy Goes and girls. I thought he was lying
Speaker 7: or making it up, but uh no, apparently, but he
Speaker 7: wants to come along on this trip with us, and
Speaker 7: I'm kind of not sure how to how to take.
Speaker 1: This is not okay. Yeah, it's a hard note for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, have you presented a case to your girlfriend to well,
Speaker 3: that's what I'm just saying, Like, can you, like, can
Speaker 3: you just say to your girlfriend let me just tell
Speaker 3: you how this feels to me from my point of view,
Speaker 3: I get it, I get it, but like I just
Speaker 3: feel like the guy tho's your best friend. Now she's
Speaker 3: gonna go tell this guy everything you say, fy I
Speaker 3: see anything about how you get back to him.
Speaker 2: So he's going to know that.
Speaker 3: And if he is into her, he's going to know
Speaker 3: he's got leverage because you're focused on him stepping on
Speaker 3: turf here, which is all complicated, But I do think
Speaker 3: it's making you uncomfortable, and so you got to tell
Speaker 3: her otherwise you're gonna be it's gonna be really awkward
Speaker 3: if you're on this trip together.
Speaker 7: A couple of times and but it's never been a
Speaker 7: serious conversation. It's at least just something like, hey, what's
Speaker 7: going on there? Or are you sure he's not into you?
Speaker 7: And she said, oh, no, No, he's just a friend,
Speaker 7: just a friend. But I mean sending gifts to the office.
Speaker 7: I mean, that's not our relationship, me and her. So
Speaker 7: I wasn't like mad that I didn't do that. We
Speaker 7: we had dinner and do our own thing. But it's
Speaker 7: just I don't know, this seems like it's going past
Speaker 7: the point of friendship. And when we're out, it's just yeah.
Speaker 2: It's about talking to the guy.
Speaker 7: No too, I don't. I don't. I mean I feel
Speaker 7: like that's going to cause more drama than it than
Speaker 7: it should. I mean, obviously it's probably worth a conversation
Speaker 7: at some point, but I don't want to be the
Speaker 7: guy that tells them to back off. Because they're good friends.
Speaker 7: I mean, they're lifelong friends. What am I going to
Speaker 7: do pick a fight with his.
Speaker 4: Friend sending cupcakes to someone else like a woman.
Speaker 3: But hold on for a second. Let me just put
Speaker 3: on the shoes of your girlfriend. Hey babe, Andrew, Uh,
Speaker 3: you don't trust me, Like, come on, it's my friend.
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it. I mean, there you go, that's
Speaker 2: what she's gonna say.
Speaker 5: You're mad over cupcakes like all that. Oh, it's so hard.
Speaker 2: I don't love it at all.
Speaker 1: You know what that is what gaslighting?
Speaker 4: Because you know why, because he feels and your role, Yeah,
Speaker 4: because he's allowed to feel these feelings and she should
Speaker 4: be open to those feelings and say, you know, like,
Speaker 4: that's not my intention. I'm sorry that it makes you
Speaker 4: feel that way. There's no romantic you know, like, she
Speaker 4: shouldn't make you feel silly for having those feelings.
Speaker 2: Well, there you have it. That's our take. Take take, yes,
Speaker 2: So that's all.
Speaker 7: Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Good luck. It's going to be difficult no matter what.
Speaker 7: I appreciate your health. Thanks the go bye at.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, is that a giggle or.
Speaker 3: I think it's a giggle of relief? Got no clarity
Speaker 3: from us. What do you think the germiest part of
Speaker 3: the kitchen is? You are going to roll over when
Speaker 3: you hear this.
Speaker 1: The jermyest part, well, I can think of Your sponge
Speaker 1: is probably the germist.
Speaker 2: I thought so too. My sponge is filled with.
Speaker 1: Trash can guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, but hey it's your spice rack.
Speaker 3: Oh, bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you
Speaker 3: make a patty, right, and you put a little whatever
Speaker 3: you use from the spice rack and your hands have
Speaker 3: touched their ale meat, and you don't ever wash those
Speaker 3: those shakers. Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen.
Speaker 1: Gross.
Speaker 2: Well, go clean it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will clean sure.
Speaker 3: Well, clean up the cub and the cinnamon, Clean up
Speaker 3: the tarragon. You're all cleaned up. Today's quote Hopefully this
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Speaker 2: On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: So I was on BuzzFeed and I saw this and
Speaker 3: I thought of you guys, and it's like men shared
Speaker 3: habits of women in their lives and they didn't really
Speaker 3: say these women had these habits until they moved in together.
Speaker 3: So one of the guys was like, is it just
Speaker 3: me or why do women take showers with boiling hot water?
Speaker 1: I do? That's more, Michael, I.
Speaker 3: Do too, That's what I thought. I actually I turn
Speaker 3: it up hot. I have to turn it down when
Speaker 3: someone else gets in the show.
Speaker 1: I'm the same. I'm like a tomato when I come out.
Speaker 2: Of the shower, because you do, you're really hot, so hot, scolding. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Now the bathtub, I struggle with a very very very
Speaker 3: hot bathtub to get into. That causes pain for me.
Speaker 3: But the shower, I can crank it, he said. One
Speaker 3: of the guys says, why is it that my girlfriend
Speaker 3: never finishes their drink?
Speaker 2: Like she never finishes a drink. It's always a half drink.
Speaker 1: My coffee is always half full, he said.
Speaker 3: There's two half full cups of coffee around the house
Speaker 3: every day.
Speaker 5: Yep, I'll never finish it. Michael handed to me and
Speaker 5: he's like, here's your half cup of coffee that you're
Speaker 5: not gonna How.
Speaker 3: Are you guys with black hair ties? Because I know
Speaker 3: they're they're everywhere, but they're never with you. I lose
Speaker 3: them all the time, right, Like they're everywhere. Do you
Speaker 3: have a million of them but they're never with you?
Speaker 2: Yep? Where do you keep them on your wrist?
Speaker 1: Usually have it on today?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: Should we be keeping a black hairtie on our wrist?
Speaker 1: That could be cutey?
Speaker 5: First, when you're out and you need to put your
Speaker 5: hair up and you don't have a hair.
Speaker 2: Tie, and you're just like, man, where do they go?
Speaker 2: Like socks? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I know for a fact you can buy them in
Speaker 3: like forty packs correct on that little piece of cardboard.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good gift. Let's see, women are either
Speaker 3: cold or hungry. This guy says his girlfriend's either cold
Speaker 3: or hungry. I'm not, Yeah, hold much, I'm always And
Speaker 3: then my girlfriend, what's with decorative pillows? So he moves
Speaker 3: in and he can't figure out why they have to
Speaker 3: be so many decorative pillows.
Speaker 5: You need variety, and then you have to switch them
Speaker 5: out because you get bored of looking at the same ones.
Speaker 7: Well.
Speaker 3: This is from BuzzFeed guys talking about what they learn
Speaker 3: when they moved in with their significant others. Is there
Speaker 3: anything that like Michael, when you first started living together,
Speaker 3: he's like, wait, what you do this? They think stand out?
Speaker 5: Anything that stands out to me, It's more like the
Speaker 5: stuff with him. It was like he would leave his
Speaker 5: rolled up socks like all over the house and he
Speaker 5: still does that.
Speaker 2: Shoes just like he put them in a ball.
Speaker 1: Well, like I don't even know.
Speaker 5: So it's like a process like he comes home and
Speaker 5: like he takes off his shoes like just there, like
Speaker 5: it's like they're in the middle of the living room.
Speaker 1: Like it's not even off to the side or it's
Speaker 1: almost like he.
Speaker 5: Just like stepped out of them, and then the rolled
Speaker 5: up socks around the puch, you know, like its like
Speaker 5: sometimes you would find him like under yep.
Speaker 3: That's because when we grew up, I think his boys
Speaker 3: that's how we treated our bedroom.
Speaker 5: It's almost like you're like watching TV and at that
Speaker 5: mom was I'm gonna take my sols off and just
Speaker 5: peeled them off with his toes and then just leaves
Speaker 5: them there.
Speaker 3: Hey, did you get up this morning and have a
Speaker 3: great coffee grinder. Beans make it right. Listen, here's the grinder.
Speaker 3: I smell the beans right now, it's time to grind
Speaker 3: your beans.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: You know, a Sistani doesn't operate on coffee, doesn't need it.
Speaker 1: Michael's off coffee too. He's starting to drink tea.
Speaker 2: I don't like it.
Speaker 3: He's trying to ban he's drinking Mountain tea. Please come
Speaker 3: back to home.
Speaker 5: Ah, because he was drinking so much coffee. He was
Speaker 5: drinking like six cups a day, and so now he
Speaker 5: was just like, at least now I'm drinking tea, and
Speaker 5: maybe it's better.
Speaker 2: He just stopped drinking coffee at nine.
Speaker 1: He can't. He drinks it like it's just it's something
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 4: Did you know Pedro Pascal's Do you know his Starbucks
Speaker 4: order is like something venty six shots?
Speaker 2: Wow? Oh no, I didn't know that. Yeah.
Speaker 4: So, like he had encountered a fan at Starbucks and
Speaker 4: everybody was saying, zoom in on his drink so we
Speaker 4: could see what it is.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe that's just a one time thing because the
Speaker 3: guy's working around the clock.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a one time thing.
Speaker 2: Ma yeh?
Speaker 3: Is that so by choice? He you're Michael by choice
Speaker 3: no coffee.
Speaker 5: Well, he got really sick last week, remember he got
Speaker 5: like the virus that all the kids got, and so
Speaker 5: ever since then he's been on the tee.
Speaker 1: I got this kind of settling in.
Speaker 2: I got to fix myself.
Speaker 3: I cannot think the way I think when people tell
Speaker 3: me they don't drink.
Speaker 1: Coffee, Like I know you're a number now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't like I feel like one less connective tissue.
Speaker 2: He'll be back.
Speaker 5: I think heating up the water and then getting the
Speaker 5: tea bag out. I think it's all too many steps.
Speaker 3: I mean, Tanya, you and your are wash mushroom preserves.
Speaker 1: I watched Wa Ganda.
Speaker 2: I don't know whatever, but I want you back with
Speaker 2: the coffee beans.
Speaker 1: I know, please, I know I.
Speaker 3: Have so much more fun when you drink coffee. I know, Mark,
Speaker 3: don't you agree?
Speaker 2: One hundred?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 2: Please put over the mushroom drink. We are all over.
Speaker 3: We were giving you a week and now we're like, guys, please,
Speaker 3: we have a show to do.
Speaker 2: Coffee.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to push coffee, but I
Speaker 3: am I am coffee pure.
Speaker 2: I am I'm down here it's it's it's good. It's good.
Speaker 2: It's good for all of us to bond over there.
Speaker 1: I know it's the ceremony of it. I'm with you.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: We all come in and we sit it and we.
Speaker 1: Smile, and I know I missed that with us. I
Speaker 1: do too.
Speaker 2: All right, I'll be back, okay, good, all right.
Speaker 1: Well how often do you wash your we're.
Speaker 2: Supposed to do here. That's it, Thank you.
Speaker 1: I a would like to get us back on track.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
Speaker 7: Guy.
Speaker 2: Wash now I used the reusable pathway. Well you should wash.
Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that you can just keep refilling.
Speaker 3: It, because they say it's if you don't watch its dirty.
Speaker 3: It's my toilet seat.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you should be washing it all the time. It
Speaker 5: turns out that they're super dirty. Reusable water bottles can
Speaker 5: harbor forty thousand times more bacteria than.
Speaker 1: Forty average times.
Speaker 5: Seeing the average toilet seats, so researchers swapped parts of
Speaker 5: different water bottles three times each, including the spout, the
Speaker 5: spout lid, the straw lid, and the squeeze top lid,
Speaker 5: and found two types of bacteria present, one that was
Speaker 5: called gram negative rods and one that was called baccilous.
Speaker 5: Grab negative bacteria can cause infections that are increasingly resistant
Speaker 5: to antibiotics, while certain types of vaculus can result in
Speaker 5: stomach issues, which then got me thinking, what if all
Speaker 5: my kids got this.
Speaker 1: From there water bottles?
Speaker 5: Because they all take water bottles to school every single day,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, we clean them, but I wasn't cleaning
Speaker 5: them every single day.
Speaker 1: And I'll be honest, clear once a month, once a month.
Speaker 2: So this is good.
Speaker 3: Clean them out. You clean that mason jar of your
Speaker 3: as you put your coal brewin every day? And how
Speaker 3: dirty is my toilets?
Speaker 7: Heat?
Speaker 3: Like I probably touch my toilet seat and neat almonds,
Speaker 3: but I wash my hands.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know, like the all right, your
Speaker 4: toilet seat is probably pretty clean if you.
Speaker 2: Think, are you talking of my later my seat, my seat,
Speaker 2: my you my horseshoe?
Speaker 1: Right, probably like the.
Speaker 2: The underneath, the underneath. I don't know how clean the
Speaker 2: underneath of my horseshoe is.
Speaker 1: Well, they does.
Speaker 5: They does some more comparisons, So the they contain twice
Speaker 5: the germs as the kitchen sink, so there was another comparison.
Speaker 5: They can harbor four times of bacteria as a computer
Speaker 5: mouse and fourteen times more than a pet drinking bull.
Speaker 1: How gross is that?
Speaker 2: Hold on, how often you clean these mice?
Speaker 1: Have the mice on like that is a whole those Uh,
Speaker 1: Actually he keeps it pretty tight over there for you.
Speaker 2: He does. I see the actually have.
Speaker 1: Seen him wipe down and microphone once week. Maybe the
Speaker 1: microphones the mice so much Judez.
Speaker 3: So my fingers, my fingers scroller part, my fingers touching
Speaker 3: it, and then my finger eats my little bag of gojie
Speaker 3: berries with the same fingers.
Speaker 1: It's pretty gnar.
Speaker 5: Anyways, Experts recommend that you wash your water bottles at
Speaker 5: least once a day.
Speaker 1: They say every day.
Speaker 5: Hot hot, hot, the hottest you can do the hot
Speaker 5: water and soapy water. It's like a real thorough and
Speaker 5: they say if you can sanitize it, do that often
Speaker 5: as well, once a week, twice a week.
Speaker 3: Well, this is very needed this publisher, thank you Sisty
Speaker 3: for that. Talking about the water bottle back terry. You
Speaker 3: gotta clean them out.
Speaker 2: Let me.
Speaker 3: Krying to think, let's do this. I'm gonna grab Cliff
Speaker 3: for a second. So Cliff in la I was talking
Speaker 3: about this. A friend of mine who's going through a breakup,
Speaker 3: and her friend said to take her mind off the breakup,
Speaker 3: she was sending her Torking videos. I said, well, when
Speaker 3: your your best friend goes through a breakup, like, what
Speaker 3: do you do? You? Oh, you talk? Do you go
Speaker 3: see them? Do you make them dinner? Do you take
Speaker 3: them out for ice cream? She's like, no, I send
Speaker 3: Towrking videos. Everybody loves those.
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.
Speaker 2: Is that how you get through a breakup? You look
Speaker 2: at torking videos.
Speaker 1: I would never think of it, but sure, Cliff, what
Speaker 1: do you do?
Speaker 9: So what we like to do is we'll take a
Speaker 9: friend and we'll say, hey, we're taking to a special place.
Speaker 9: We can't tell you about it. We're gonna blindfold you,
Speaker 9: put you in the back of the car, and we're
Speaker 9: gonna drive you into downtown LA. And so when we
Speaker 9: get there, it's typically like a really kind of you know,
Speaker 9: iffy type building and there's a club guy out front
Speaker 9: who's checking IDs and going, okay, well who are you?
Speaker 2: Come on in?
Speaker 9: And when you get inside it's koreating karaoke and so
Speaker 9: it typically just it creates a laugh. It's fun for them,
Speaker 9: and they're also like, where we go and this is
Speaker 9: like the CD place where you know, we're blindfolded and
Speaker 9: it's you won't tell us where it's at, And then
Speaker 9: you get there, just have a great time. You eat
Speaker 9: some green food and do some karaoke, and she like
Speaker 9: gets their mind off the whole deal.
Speaker 3: I mean that might make people want to go through
Speaker 3: a break up. That's fun. Yeah, you're so. Have you
Speaker 3: gone through a breakup and had something like this happened
Speaker 3: to you before?
Speaker 7: I have not.
Speaker 9: I'm one of my only friends I think that's been
Speaker 9: married for like twenty years.
Speaker 2: Oh so yeah, yeah, guys, this sport for you.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just I'm the guy that kind of helps
Speaker 9: out and gets them back in track, and you know,
Speaker 9: it tells them, you know, relationships work and just hang
Speaker 9: in there and you'll find somebody else. I'm not kind
Speaker 9: of like the support guy exactly.
Speaker 2: Cliff will keep your number, Thanks for calling. Thank you,
Speaker 2: all right, that's great.
Speaker 1: I mean karaoke is always fun.
Speaker 3: Honestly, the way he described it, I'm in it's not
Speaker 3: for me generally. It doesn't put me in that place generally.
Speaker 3: Really me too, I dodge karaoke invitations. All the Cliffs
Speaker 3: sold it.
Speaker 1: Pretty well, I want to get going.
Speaker 3: So other tactics. You know, you can text this show
Speaker 3: to four one o two seven. I hope we look
Speaker 3: at it all show, you know, like we're constantly trying
Speaker 3: to look at it.
Speaker 2: We do.
Speaker 1: Some people get shy and you don't want to call
Speaker 1: in and I get it.
Speaker 3: So just text, yeah, text so easy four one on
Speaker 3: two seven right now. So other tactics. People say this
Speaker 3: in the eight one to eight uh for what to
Speaker 3: do for a friend when they're going through a breakup,
Speaker 3: talk about all the reasons why he sucks.
Speaker 5: Oh that's see, that's tricky because if they get back together, then.
Speaker 3: You're in a weird pickle, and odds are they are
Speaker 3: going to get back to you for a second.
Speaker 2: Another one. If my best he went through a breakup,
Speaker 2: We're going to a kickboxing class.
Speaker 1: That's fun.
Speaker 2: From the Anne Valley.
Speaker 3: If my friend is going through a breakup, we put
Speaker 3: our PJS on and listen to I Hate Men music
Speaker 3: and get drunk.
Speaker 1: That's fun.
Speaker 3: And then I set her up with a guy that
Speaker 3: takes her mind off of it all. That's great until
Speaker 3: maybe thirty six hours later that might all not end.
Speaker 1: Well, that's actually that that's what I've done in the past.
Speaker 2: It's a quick fix.
Speaker 1: It's a quick fix.
Speaker 2: So let me grab Caitlyn. It's very important to get
Speaker 2: to Kitlyn right now. Caitlyn. We want to help you
Speaker 2: out here.
Speaker 3: Everybody is on mic, everybody's leaned in, everybody's their glasses on,
Speaker 3: so it's a full focus moment. So you looked up
Speaker 3: with a guy and when you were leaving, you gave
Speaker 3: him him your phone number. Then what did he say
Speaker 3: that you were wondering if it's a red flag or not?
Speaker 10: Well, I I asked him. I was like, oh, so
Speaker 10: I don't think you have my phone number, And he
Speaker 10: was like, oh, that's okay, I have your Instagram.
Speaker 2: The automatic red flag.
Speaker 1: Those are my That was my jaw falling to the crown.
Speaker 3: He was the automatic red flag that we we can't control.
Speaker 2: It just sounds off.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not such a red flag. You met you
Speaker 1: you thought you were meeting him for the first time.
Speaker 10: Well, I had a crush on him for like a
Speaker 10: little bit. I met him through a mutual friend and
Speaker 10: we were like at his house and like all night
Speaker 10: we were like hanging out and talking and so I
Speaker 10: don't know, I kind of thought he was into me.
Speaker 10: But after he said that, I was like, well maybe
Speaker 10: he's not.
Speaker 3: So you know, he's your Instagram so you can direct
Speaker 3: message you. Why do you think he's not. It's like
Speaker 3: if he's looking you up on Instagram, he's into you. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and he's searching, he's looking at your photos.
Speaker 5: Do you have so many followers that you didn't realize
Speaker 5: that he was following you?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 10: No, I knew he was, but I just like to communicate.
Speaker 5: I thought like, oh, I you know, so now it's
Speaker 5: almost like he didn't even care to want my phone
Speaker 5: number because it might not be as serious for him.
Speaker 11: Exactly.
Speaker 3: I think if somebody's looking at your Instagram, they want
Speaker 3: to actually understand a little bit about you, right, they
Speaker 3: want to check out what you like.
Speaker 5: But not if he denies the phone number, she literally like,
Speaker 5: here's my here are my digits, and.
Speaker 3: He's like, how are you going to get the number?
Speaker 3: It's like hard to put a phone number in a phone.
Speaker 4: Well, it's not that, but like some people don't like
Speaker 4: to give their phone number because what if it goes bad,
Speaker 4: then that person of your phone number. Like I never
Speaker 4: gave my phone number when I was on dating apps, but.
Speaker 2: I had a guy to Jim, I mean a lot
Speaker 2: of guys at the gym lately. Huh.
Speaker 3: I had a guy at the gym and he's like, uh,
Speaker 3: what do we go out of common? What did we like?
Speaker 3: We both liked something. I forgot what it was. Anyway,
Speaker 3: He's like, no, it's not all of it. What food related?
Speaker 3: But anyway, I'm like, dude, that's so funny. We should
Speaker 3: we should hang She's like, yeah, you want my number?
Speaker 3: He takes my phone. They types his number into my
Speaker 3: phone and calls me.
Speaker 1: Yeah what what?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 1: He calls himself.
Speaker 3: I know he called somebody and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 3: know your number. You got my number? What am I
Speaker 3: supposed to do?
Speaker 2: Now? Hit save, hit info, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Hit save contact and put his name in their gym guy.
Speaker 2: Didn't didn't get there.
Speaker 3: So, Caitlin, I'm not so sure it's a red flag.
Speaker 3: And I think the red flag als will sing something.
Speaker 7: This morning.
Speaker 2: That's like pac Man, it is all right, well, good luck,
Speaker 2: thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's so many other worse red flags, right, Maybe
Speaker 3: I think that's a red flag.
Speaker 1: I kind of like that one.
Speaker 2: That's so awful.
Speaker 3: What song is that it's one of the greats, right
Speaker 3: said Red. It's good Rember, Right said Fred. It's his brother,
Speaker 3: right said Red. All right, what do we do here?
Speaker 3: Let's find out what you think about these debates going
Speaker 3: on online.
Speaker 2: Uh, here we go.
Speaker 3: So feel free to weigh in eight hundred and five
Speaker 3: to two O one two seven or send us a
Speaker 3: talk back on that iHeart radio app inside the kiss
Speaker 3: page at red microphone.
Speaker 2: So here here's a couple of debates online. I'm just
Speaker 2: curious what you think.
Speaker 3: Is your wedding being planned and if so, if your
Speaker 3: wedding guests missed the RSVP deadline, do you want to
Speaker 3: invite them? A couple on Twitter sent out invites with
Speaker 3: a reasonable RSVP and guests who rsvp'ed after we're told
Speaker 3: RSVP is closed.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's super harsh, that's so savage, but I
Speaker 1: kind of love it, honestly, Like it's there.
Speaker 5: You probably got the invitations three months, two months investment.
Speaker 3: You get a reminder too, Like I feel like those
Speaker 3: things come with auto reminders as well.
Speaker 5: They would have to be very apologetic and like call
Speaker 5: me personally to be like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5: We you know, obviously, we want to be there, they
Speaker 5: go whatever, But otherwise I think you kind of move on.
Speaker 3: Non RSVPs are an honest mistake, Like I don't necessary
Speaker 3: RCP immediate because don't want to be the first one RSVP.
Speaker 2: But then I forget to do it later.
Speaker 3: Because I get it immediately and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: I sent that too fast. They're going to think. They're
Speaker 3: going to think I have nothing to do in my life, right,
Speaker 3: So anyway, all right, well, I think that that's harsh
Speaker 3: for me. It's harsh, little rigid. Here's another one. These
Speaker 3: are questions dividing the world at the grocery store. Is
Speaker 3: it rude to always take items from the back of
Speaker 3: the shelf? So grocery store workers on Instagram say this
Speaker 3: makes their jobs harder and say this leads to more
Speaker 3: food going bad.
Speaker 5: Oh that's interesting because you want the milk that's like
Speaker 5: the furthest expiration date versus.
Speaker 12: Eggs fresh salad.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that bad. If you like, rearrange
Speaker 1: the shelf back, you just clean it up. Come on,
Speaker 1: tell me.
Speaker 2: Next time I told you this earlier.
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with the smell of grocery stores right now,
Speaker 3: I go in, I take a I take three deep
Speaker 3: press in, and every grocery store it close your eye
Speaker 3: smells the same.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I know what you means.
Speaker 2: It's all that stuff together.
Speaker 3: It's the refrigerator section, the light, the bubblegum, the cereal,
Speaker 3: the bakery, the meat. All it smells the same. Or
Speaker 3: here's another great debate ken an ex husband asked his
Speaker 3: ex wife to return to her maiden name. A woman
Speaker 3: posted on Reddit that her ex husband asked for her
Speaker 3: to drop his last name because it was awkward for
Speaker 3: his new fiance.
Speaker 1: I thought that was a fair ask. I think I
Speaker 1: think it's a fair ask too.
Speaker 3: Right here, here's the one that I don't get. Is
Speaker 3: it inconsiderate to peel an orange on a plane? Person
Speaker 3: asked this question on Reddit. Some said it's fine. Some
Speaker 3: say eating anything with an odor on a plane is
Speaker 3: rood to me, and orange does not have an odor,
Speaker 3: that's just citrus.
Speaker 1: I agreed, roll smells delicious, it's fine with me.
Speaker 5: But if you're opening up your to go sushi on
Speaker 5: an airplane or anything that has like just a strong.
Speaker 2: Your heart, you're much worse than the orange person, like
Speaker 2: a stink bo orange.
Speaker 3: The thing with the orange is that it gets the
Speaker 3: trade table sticky. So if you leave the trade table
Speaker 3: sticky for others, that's a problem. But I like the scent.
Speaker 1: I like the scent of an orange too. Eggs.
Speaker 3: I mean, if you're traveling next to me, breakout the eucalyptus,
Speaker 3: the lavender.
Speaker 2: I want to smell all that.
Speaker 1: I share I offer to people around me.
Speaker 2: No one's going to share your eggs made heart boiled eggs.
Speaker 1: I offer, yes, of course, to the person next to you.
Speaker 2: Can I give you a can I give you a
Speaker 2: healthy recipe? Trick.
Speaker 3: I just was in the store the other day and
Speaker 3: I bought mustard powder. Have you ever purchased mustard powder?
Speaker 1: I didn't even know mustard could be powdered.
Speaker 2: Here's what you do, you everything can be powdered.
Speaker 3: What you do is you take your heart boled eggs
Speaker 3: and maybe two yolks and a bunch of egg whites.
Speaker 3: Put them in a bowl. Don't make mayonnaise, a little
Speaker 3: olive oil, a little feti cheese. I know, cheese issue
Speaker 3: for you, but this is good.
Speaker 1: That is fine.
Speaker 2: I'm good with feta, right, so FET's fine.
Speaker 3: Toss it up, pickled halapinos and mustard powder, olive oil.
Speaker 2: Mix it up. It's fantastic. It's really a great healthy salad.
Speaker 5: It's like your homemade dressing or conniment reaching down in
Speaker 5: tur bag.
Speaker 4: I can try this recipe because I'm very into egg
Speaker 4: salad these days. I love egg salad and I have
Speaker 4: it every day. So can you send me that recipe
Speaker 4: or maybe post it online?
Speaker 2: I just told you it's like.
Speaker 1: Mustard powder, And here's.
Speaker 2: The mustard powder. Coleman's mustard powder right there.
Speaker 1: Mustard powder, olive oil, egg white, and what else? Why
Speaker 1: do you have a picture of the mustard powder ready
Speaker 1: to go and buy it?
Speaker 2: I get excited about these things. I got pictures of
Speaker 2: who would you send that to?
Speaker 3: I just kept it because I knew its asked me
Speaker 3: about my latest condiment.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, here we go. I got pictures of
Speaker 2: my my malk.
Speaker 1: Wait, it's like displayed. You're like modeling them. No, it's
Speaker 1: probably so that he gets the right kind at the
Speaker 1: grocery store.
Speaker 2: I have to do. That's Robbie.
Speaker 1: Oh, I love a good infrared mask. Which one is?
Speaker 1: That's a good one. This thing.
Speaker 5: Literally like Maxim's Iron Man mask.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Good morning, my name is Ryan. Who am
Speaker 2: I speaking with.
Speaker 6: A concerned listener?
Speaker 2: Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous?
Speaker 1: Anonymous?
Speaker 2: I did think that went through.
Speaker 3: I didn't think how to spell anonymous for a second
Speaker 3: before I called you.
Speaker 6: I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
Speaker 6: I listen to it every morning and just you guys
Speaker 6: are great.
Speaker 7: But please you.
Speaker 12: The other day on the hack about the sequence order
Speaker 12: of the birth and all that, and how you know
Speaker 12: this is a perfect match and this isn't for effects?
Speaker 3: You should well, they say science, not Ryan, science, your
Speaker 3: birth order effects who you should marry? And let me
Speaker 3: just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to marry
Speaker 3: a last born. If you're a middle child, you have
Speaker 3: to marry a last born, And if you're a last born,
Speaker 3: you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2: What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 6: My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
Speaker 6: last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
Speaker 6: I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
Speaker 6: years strong.
Speaker 2: Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
Speaker 2: relationships here. You can't mean.
Speaker 1: Are you sure that you're both the firstborn.
Speaker 7: Positive.
Speaker 6: Well, and I know I'm not the problem because he
Speaker 6: chooses on me the first one.
Speaker 3: Well, look, I think any scientists would say, there's always
Speaker 3: that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
Speaker 3: when it comes to the elections, and they always have
Speaker 3: that little margin of error. Right, you're inside the margin
Speaker 3: of error.
Speaker 1: Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 4: Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong. Is he
Speaker 4: an only child?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 1: Oh, first one.
Speaker 2: But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
Speaker 2: love that. And so everything is going.
Speaker 6: On because could have said he was the youngest too,
Speaker 6: was right?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Question for you?
Speaker 3: How long how long between when you left or divorced
Speaker 3: or he you know, went away your first husband until
Speaker 3: you got married? Like, how much time in twelve years
Speaker 3: twelve years between marriages? Did you ever think you get
Speaker 3: married again?
Speaker 6: Uh? No. I met my current husband and we became
Speaker 6: best friends, and then we started dating, and then two
Speaker 6: years after we dated, we got engaged, and two years
Speaker 6: after that we got married. Wow.
Speaker 3: Well, congratulations, I love it. And if you were to
Speaker 3: look back, I mean, now you sit with the luxury
Speaker 3: of having seen your past and knowing that it works out.
Speaker 3: But I'm sure along the way you thought, why did
Speaker 3: I even get married in the first place? This was
Speaker 3: a bad idea, And now you have the perfect, most
Speaker 3: beautiful marriage of seventeen years and that's just the beginning.
Speaker 7: Right, yeight?
Speaker 2: Correct? Okay, So in.
Speaker 3: Most cases, if you're a firstborn Marriya last, if you're
Speaker 3: a middle child Mary a last, if you're a last
Speaker 3: Mary at first, but not in every.
Speaker 2: Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 6: He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3: You're the best. Thank you for listening to us in Palmdale.
Speaker 3: Continued success in your marriage.
Speaker 12: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Bye.
Speaker 3: I thought I might get her with that one. Yeah,
Speaker 3: all right, missus Anonymie. Listen to us on.
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: All right, Amy, what can we do for you? We're
Speaker 2: here to help.
Speaker 7: Oh, let me tell you this. So.
Speaker 11: I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now. He
Speaker 11: started his current job like a year ago or so.
Speaker 11: He's made some friends at work. I met them, hung
Speaker 11: out with them. I love every single one of them.
Speaker 11: Except there's this one girl, and she is all over
Speaker 11: my boyfriend, like constantly alerting with him and touching him
Speaker 11: like schol click cress his arm more like his back,
Speaker 11: and it makes me very annoyed. And I know he
Speaker 11: has other women in his work, and I'm not I
Speaker 11: don't have any issues with them. It's just her, so
Speaker 11: I know it's not jealousy. But I did talk to
Speaker 11: him and he did tell me that he does agree
Speaker 11: with me, and he is trying to back off. But
Speaker 11: now he's telling me that she's trying to be his
Speaker 11: work wife at work and even though she has a Beyonce,
Speaker 11: he thinks it's nothing really serious. But I don't know.
Speaker 11: That is kind of weird to me, phil and it's
Speaker 11: sugging me. Should I confront her about this or what
Speaker 11: should I do?
Speaker 2: Interesting?
Speaker 3: So the woman is somebody who works with and do
Speaker 3: you are you around her to notice this or do
Speaker 3: you just know about this from somebody telling you?
Speaker 11: It's when we hang out, like once in a while
Speaker 11: she'll be there with all the rest of the coworkers
Speaker 11: and everything, and I'll notice it once in a while
Speaker 11: here it are you know?
Speaker 2: And some people tell me I think do we have
Speaker 2: a sense.
Speaker 3: I think you can sense from somebody's body whatever they're
Speaker 3: given off. If they're trying to cause some tension. Do
Speaker 3: you thought she's intentionally trying to cause tension when you're around.
Speaker 2: By you in this.
Speaker 6: Sense?
Speaker 11: Yes, I feel like it.
Speaker 4: Well, then you're probably write and don't confront her because
Speaker 4: that's what she wants.
Speaker 3: No, I was gonna say, confront her, look her in
Speaker 3: the eye and say this is inappropriate.
Speaker 4: She's gonna know then if you do that, that she's
Speaker 4: getting under your skin, and that's exactly what she wants
Speaker 4: to do.
Speaker 3: Is she gonna stop? No, what isn't she gonna She's
Speaker 3: not gonna stop. She's gonna do She's gonna do more
Speaker 3: of the caressing of his forearm and his back. Actor
Speaker 3: she's confronted by his girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Yes, you know this type like it happened to you.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I feel like we all know this
Speaker 1: type of person the.
Speaker 2: Person don't yeh basically Okay.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it has happened to me where.
Speaker 4: Boundaries I feel like had been crossed and I did
Speaker 4: not like it. But I feel like that is what
Speaker 4: these type of people, narcissists, They like that, they like
Speaker 4: to know that they get under your skin and you
Speaker 4: just have to ignore it.
Speaker 3: You just have to totally more about This is more
Speaker 3: about the woman at work wanting to get under Amy
Speaker 3: skin or the woman at work actually liking her boyfriend's.
Speaker 4: It's it's her wanting to be this like, that's her
Speaker 4: wanting to like flirt and have that you know, that attention.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't mind having the conversation with her and
Speaker 5: being like, back off either.
Speaker 2: I'm so true with you.
Speaker 3: Sisney's gonna role play Amy Amy action sistany you're playing
Speaker 3: the role of Amy, what.
Speaker 2: Do you say?
Speaker 5: Hey, you know, I'm I think you're a great person
Speaker 5: and you have a very bubbly personality, but I feel
Speaker 5: like sometimes you get a little too close to my boyfriend,
Speaker 5: and I don't like the way it makes me feel.
Speaker 1: You're great, but I think.
Speaker 2: To start with, you're a great person.
Speaker 5: I don't think she's not killing kindness at first.
Speaker 2: She's not a great person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, she could be a great person in
Speaker 1: other fields.
Speaker 5: It's just that she doesn't realize her flirtiness. So it's
Speaker 5: like that's the issue. Stay waiting, my mand.
Speaker 1: You keep doing this, and I'm going to tell your fiance.
Speaker 2: I like that. Like the way you're sounding in there. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I like the fire in your belly. Easy.
Speaker 1: If you keep doing this, you can't come to my
Speaker 1: birthday party.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Amy, So if it's me, I'm addressing it with her.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
Speaker 11: May I'll go with the with what you guys are saying.
Speaker 11: I will approach her. But if she's not understanding, you know, yeah,
Speaker 11: we'll go to the fiance and help him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, take a little hybrid of the advice and go
Speaker 3: for it. Thanks, good luck on this one.
Speaker 5: He's like, I think I'm gonna take a little piece
Speaker 5: of everything you guys said and figure it out on
Speaker 5: my own.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I'm actually gonna forget I called you guys,
Speaker 3: that's what.
Speaker 1: What was the sound effects? What was that?
Speaker 2: Those get some new stuff up here to you know,
Speaker 2: punch it up?
Speaker 1: Distracting?
Speaker 2: Why is that distracting? Where is Mark?
Speaker 1: Anyway?
Speaker 2: Left?
Speaker 1: Peace a lot?
Speaker 3: Have you heard of a delusion ship here at Kiss
Speaker 3: FM this morning? Sisney came in very excited to get
Speaker 3: to this this hour.
Speaker 1: I saw this and I'm like, I for sure have
Speaker 1: been in these We've.
Speaker 2: All never heard of it, never heard it.
Speaker 5: So a delusionship would be like, let's say you just
Speaker 5: can't stop daydreaming about the barista that you see every
Speaker 5: single day. And then it was the way they handed
Speaker 5: you their coffee that morning and they said, here you go, love,
Speaker 5: and now you're in You're like, oh my gosh, they
Speaker 5: totally like me. And then you go home and I'm like,
Speaker 5: I'm planning my wedding and it's like it's the whole
Speaker 5: thing starts tod. That's a delusionship, Like that's not real,
Speaker 5: Like he probably doesn't think you're his love, et cetera,
Speaker 5: et cetera. So if you find yourself spending more time
Speaker 5: thinking about someone else who either doesn't exist or the
Speaker 5: relationship doesn't even exist, that's a delusionship.
Speaker 2: So does it a delusionship? Like for people?
Speaker 3: Right, you find you see somebody in a movie and
Speaker 3: you have a crushed on them in a movie you
Speaker 3: never meet them, But is that a delusionship?
Speaker 5: It is if you start actually acting out the fact that,
Speaker 5: like they're your partner, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I think I can say we've all done this.
Speaker 3: I've seen somebody to stop light and decided I'm going
Speaker 3: to marry them, but I don't even want to get married.
Speaker 5: Well, or have you been like on a first date
Speaker 5: where you've been ghosted? And you still kind of just
Speaker 5: like accept that they've ghosted you. They're like, oh, they're
Speaker 5: probably just like on vacation, and like, I'm still very
Speaker 5: much dating them, but you're not dating run.
Speaker 2: Ships.
Speaker 1: He set up dinner for two, and it's just me, Oh,
Speaker 1: remember you used to leave an empty space in the closet.
Speaker 3: At the table for she set the table for two
Speaker 3: in our apartment when nobody in.
Speaker 1: A pit of me of a delusion shop. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you, I left.
Speaker 4: The space in the closet, and I left a drawer
Speaker 4: my bedside table.
Speaker 1: And guess who came a knock in rob A bunch
Speaker 1: of guys before.
Speaker 3: Dudes before Robbie is actually no, there was. Yeah, the
Speaker 3: guy came, the guy.
Speaker 2: On the course.
Speaker 1: And you know what space in his closet?
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, did Robbie have a space. And this wouldn't
Speaker 3: have been a match if Robby had a space in
Speaker 3: his closet.
Speaker 2: And he was setting the dinner table.
Speaker 1: For exactly No, he was, He was not such like that.
Speaker 2: Delusions of grande are the only knocking.
Speaker 5: The only cure for this is cold turkey. Just like,
Speaker 5: stop stop following them on Instagram. You have to just
Speaker 5: stop going to that coffee shop. You have to break
Speaker 5: it out.
Speaker 2: Have no interest to me.
Speaker 1: You know what we need to find that?
Speaker 2: We google that during the break. I feel like that
Speaker 2: went fast.
Speaker 1: We did it.
Speaker 2: Do you like?
Speaker 3: Do you like whipped cream or cool whipped sysan'ty ah.
Speaker 2: I want to know one more thing about all of us.
Speaker 1: I guess whipped if I had to choose, but.
Speaker 2: Really, whipped cream or cool whip? Whipped cream or cool whip?
Speaker 1: Tanya whipped cream all day.
Speaker 2: I don't like either.
Speaker 1: Really, I don't know that was a choice, but yeah.
Speaker 2: Careful chewing ice.
Speaker 1: Sorry.
Speaker 3: Coming up tomorrow, We've got Ryan's roses. We're into it
Speaker 3: right here, so it's fun to learn one more thing
Speaker 3: before you go.
Speaker 7: Right.
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