WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Red Flag 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:03.400 From Hollywood Toe you. 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:07.760 Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:14.160 So Tanya, just headline us recap what a an attachment 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.480 style means with your significant other. 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:22.200 An attachment style is basically the way that you attach 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:26.599 yourself to another human and it all boils down to 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:29.560 stuff from your childhood that you might not even know, 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:31.760 Like you might be traumatized from something that happened that 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:34.120 could have been like a quick thing at school that 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:37.559 is like lingering with you. But basically it's how you 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.760 react inside a relationship. And there's four main types. 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:41.480 And what are the four? 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:46.959 It's securely attached, insecurely attached, avoidant, and. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:49.680 Shoot, I'm missing the fourth one. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:50.960 You can't preach if you don't know them. 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.599 I know I'm not any good. I'm not like the 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:55.959 expert here, So. 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.360 I would be insecure and avoidant, right. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.680 Yeah, you need to take the quiz and really see. 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.280 I won't take the quiz. I live with me. I 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:03.639 know me. 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:07.160 Anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and securely attached. 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.959 Okay, so keep those Handy and Sydney, what were you? 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:11.320 I was avoidant? 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.800 I get that. I'm definitely insecure and then plus. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.760 Plus right right, the insecure doesn't really linger in my 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:21.480 relationships per se. But the avoidant kind of made sense 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.120 because like, if there's an issue, I'm just kind of 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:24.480 like forget it that we don't need to talk about it. 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:26.280 Yeah, avoidant is dismissive attachment. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.319 Toney, what happened to us in our childhood that we're 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:29.280 insecure attachment? 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:31.319 You gotta got a therapy to figure it out? What 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:33.800 time one o'clock? 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:35.000 Can we share it over? 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:35.680 Yeah? 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:37.000 No, I do it on zoom. 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:38.399 Oh you don't even go? 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:38.959 No, I go? 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:40.360 Oh, then put me in the grid. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:41.160 Yeah, it's great. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.680 Claudia, good morning. How are you in Corona? 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.560 Hello? Good morning. I am well driving to work? 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:49.800 Well, thank you. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.800 We're in the business of trying to make you forget 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.080 about the drive while you're doing it. It's our gig. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.680 So Kuidty, tell me what inspired you to call in? 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.400 What's happening in your relationship that made you want to 0:01:58.440 --> 0:01:59.760 call in about this attachment? 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:08.600 Well? I can say that I have been trying to 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:12.840 figure out why it is that every single person that 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:17.160 I have ever been involved with has always cheated on me. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:21.000 So of course I have my guard up for a 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:26.799 very long time. And one step guard gets taken down, 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:32.840 then I start noticing indifferences in the relationship, and then 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:36.440 I start I start noticing the red flags, only to 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:40.120 come find out each and every single time that yeah, 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:44.440 there's something else going on. So it's like a vicious cycle, 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:50.760 and I just wanted to try to figure out whether 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:57.079 it's something deeper than just picking the wrong partner. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.840 Got it well, by the way, first of all, to 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:03.480 things Number one, thank you for reaching out to talk 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:07.079 vulnerably with us about this. And two, I love your 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.960 thoughtful approach, right, I mean, you're you're coming, You're you're 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:14.040 like trying to find a It's almost like an unemotional approach, right, 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:21.080 It's a thoughtful approach. Yeah, yeah, because you want to write, 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:22.720 I mean, you really want to do some work on this, 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:23.800 some real work on this. 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:27.440 Well, And you know it has not always always been 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:30.080 this way, to be honest with you, it's taking me 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:32.960 a long time to get to where I'm at. And 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:36.600 for the first time in my probably in my life, 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:40.280 I have been single for the past three or four years, 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:45.400 and I've actually have learned to be very happy single. 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.200 And before it was that ugly feeling that I just 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.040 did not want to be alone, and I think that 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:54.560 maybe that also led to the problem as far as 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:55.760 I'll take anything, I. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.880 Guess you lower your bar. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.320 Well, Claudia, let me have time and they give you 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.000 a real quick and your real quick the study. 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:03.440 Yeah, how to get the quiz? 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:05.760 Well, okay, you can just go to Google and literally 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:09.560 just type into Google attachment style quiz and that'll pop 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:10.960 right up and you can take it right then and 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:11.880 there and quit it. 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:12.480 Good luck. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.720 So attachment Style quiz and Google keep us posted. I 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:20.080 love what you said you found happiness being single. You 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:24.920 don't need someone that's not of like that gets to 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.159 be with you and deserve your time and your energy 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.640 and your wisdom. You don't need somebody to be there 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:33.320 all the time just to feel happy. And I think 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.239 that's a big accomplishment in itself. 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:39.400 That is a beautiful thing that I have learned. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.159 Thank you, Claudia. We love you in Corona. You have 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.880 a great day and good luck on this journey. So 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:48.120 Siciny is working on a new traffic wave. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:51.080 Oh I've got this down and I'm so happy. I 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:53.679 will never change the way I wave to people ever. 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:56.120 Again, meaning when they let you do into the Yeah. 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:58.000 So I'm a big person of like, if you don't 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:00.160 wave back to me after I've already let you get 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.320 in front of me or cross or whatever, and you 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.520 don't give me the wave, I get so irritated me too. 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:09.640 I'm just like why it's it takes two seconds. 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:09.120 Thank you. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:12.279 And so the other day I let the Coldwater Canyon 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:14.360 gets very backed up, like with traffic, and so you 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.800 can tell someone's trying to like cross into their neighborhood. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.200 I like purposely like slowed down the traffic so that 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:23.040 person break exactly, make it break in the lane. And 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:25.120 so the person crosses in front of me and they 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.479 threw me the peace sign, and I was like, oh, 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:30.920 that is so cool. And so ever since that day 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.080 Janner cutting in front of you, I do the peace 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:35.440 sign now and it makes me feel so much better 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:36.279 than just the wave. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:37.920 Like the peace sign is way cooler. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.640 I think the peace signs it really is. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.840 It brightened up my day. I was like, Wow, that's 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:43.960 natal that's. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.719 Like a chill person in traffic front peace. Yeah. 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:47.920 They're like, you know, just like not the anxious wave, 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.799 just the peace exactly. So can you describe the person 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:52.080 didn't see what they were vibing? 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.120 It was a guy it was a guy. It was 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.480 a sedan. I can't remember the make, but it was 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:57.280 a super. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.520 Chill guy spanks man. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.960 True. I mean when you see me in my Ford Bronco. 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.680 By the way, it's just a basic it's factor. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.680 Anything I know, but it's so it's a good one. 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.160 Robbie saw it, Oh he did? Yeah? 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:12.520 Uh so, I'm gonna the people in traffic in my 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:13.120 Ford Bronco. 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.919 So switch it up to the piece. You'll be happier. 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.480 You're gonna be so cool in that car. I can't 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:20.480 wait to see it. 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:23.039 I think I'm getting it from Ford next week. 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.440 Oh that's so exciting. 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.160 From our local southern California four dealer. 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:27.680 That's right. 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:29.919 Let me grab this call eight hundred and five too, well, 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.560 want to two seven feel free anytime about anything? 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:36.320 This is Andrew. So Andrew, you think that. 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:38.760 Your girlfriend's guy friend is in love with her, but 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.240 you didn't have a problem with that until now. 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:42.640 What's up? Tell me the situation? 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:45.880 All right? So thanks taking the call. I mean we've 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:48.359 been doing it for about six months and it's going well. 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:50.840 And like I said, she's got this friend, like you said, 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.680 she says, this friend who it's like he's always hitting 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:56.400 on her, and he's a nice guy, but it's kind 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:59.800 of coming to a head because, well, they could take 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:01.440 a her here or there, but we're supposed to want 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:04.560 a trip together with some friends another two couples, and 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.359 she wants to invite him, and I'm kind of like, 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.200 am I in the wrong here for telling my girlfriend 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.880 of six months that her lifelong friend coming on our 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:16.400 trip would make me uncomfortable. He's just he's really involved, 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:20.440 and it feels like one of those things where he 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:23.360 hopes it turns romantic with her, and I'm like, in 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:26.160 his rom com, I'm the bad guy, and it just you. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.600 You you. I think you told the back room that 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.520 you thought he was gay up until now? What changed? 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:31.920 I did? 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.480 Yeah, well he he They took him the phone every 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:39.040 day and and uh and she's he sent her gifts before, 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:42.600 like on Valentine's Day, sent her cupcakes to the office, 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.240 and I was like, oh, that's that's cute. That's nice 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:46.760 that her gave us friend to anything. And then she's like, oh, no, 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:49.640 he's he's great. He's dating girls. And he told me 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.240 about Daisy Goes and girls. I thought he was lying 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:55.480 or making it up, but uh no, apparently, but he 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:56.840 wants to come along on this trip with us, and 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.679 I'm kind of not sure how to how to take. 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:02.040 This is not okay. Yeah, it's a hard note for me. 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.200 Yeah, have you presented a case to your girlfriend to well, 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:09.440 that's what I'm just saying, Like, can you, like, can 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:12.480 you just say to your girlfriend let me just tell 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.600 you how this feels to me from my point of view, 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.360 I get it, I get it, but like I just 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.920 feel like the guy tho's your best friend. Now she's 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:21.240 gonna go tell this guy everything you say, fy I 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.520 see anything about how you get back to him. 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:25.200 So he's going to know that. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:26.960 And if he is into her, he's going to know 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:31.000 he's got leverage because you're focused on him stepping on 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:35.680 turf here, which is all complicated, But I do think 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.320 it's making you uncomfortable, and so you got to tell 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:40.880 her otherwise you're gonna be it's gonna be really awkward 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:41.920 if you're on this trip together. 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:46.400 A couple of times and but it's never been a 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:49.040 serious conversation. It's at least just something like, hey, what's 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:50.920 going on there? Or are you sure he's not into you? 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:52.240 And she said, oh, no, No, he's just a friend, 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:55.040 just a friend. But I mean sending gifts to the office. 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.360 I mean, that's not our relationship, me and her. So 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:00.280 I wasn't like mad that I didn't do that. We 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:01.960 we had dinner and do our own thing. But it's 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.280 just I don't know, this seems like it's going past 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:10.319 the point of friendship. And when we're out, it's just yeah. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:10.840 It's about talking to the guy. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:17.080 No too, I don't. I don't. I mean I feel 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:18.800 like that's going to cause more drama than it than 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.640 it should. I mean, obviously it's probably worth a conversation 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:23.000 at some point, but I don't want to be the 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:26.080 guy that tells them to back off. Because they're good friends. 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.280 I mean, they're lifelong friends. What am I going to 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:29.000 do pick a fight with his. 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:35.560 Friend sending cupcakes to someone else like a woman. 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.720 But hold on for a second. Let me just put 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.679 on the shoes of your girlfriend. Hey babe, Andrew, Uh, 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:42.800 you don't trust me, Like, come on, it's my friend. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.000 Don't worry about it. I mean, there you go, that's 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:45.760 what she's gonna say. 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:49.400 You're mad over cupcakes like all that. Oh, it's so hard. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:51.679 I don't love it at all. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.600 You know what that is what gaslighting? 0:09:55.760 --> 0:10:02.840 Because you know why, because he feels and your role, Yeah, 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:07.280 because he's allowed to feel these feelings and she should 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:10.520 be open to those feelings and say, you know, like, 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.800 that's not my intention. I'm sorry that it makes you 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:15.000 feel that way. There's no romantic you know, like, she 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:19.800 shouldn't make you feel silly for having those feelings. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.520 Well, there you have it. That's our take. Take take, yes, 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:24.080 So that's all. 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.080 Thank you. I appreciate that. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.840 Good luck. It's going to be difficult no matter what. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:36.520 I appreciate your health. Thanks the go bye at. 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:39.920 Yeah, it was like, is that a giggle or. 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.200 I think it's a giggle of relief? Got no clarity 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:46.719 from us. What do you think the germiest part of 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.920 the kitchen is? You are going to roll over when 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:49.360 you hear this. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.720 The jermyest part, well, I can think of Your sponge 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:53.680 is probably the germist. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:57.640 I thought so too. My sponge is filled with. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:10:59.920 Trash can guy. 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:04.280 Okay, but hey it's your spice rack. 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:10.680 Oh, bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:14.199 make a patty, right, and you put a little whatever 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:17.120 you use from the spice rack and your hands have 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.560 touched their ale meat, and you don't ever wash those 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:27.120 those shakers. Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:28.560 Gross. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:29.679 Well, go clean it. 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:31.520 Yeah, I will clean sure. 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.120 Well, clean up the cub and the cinnamon, Clean up 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:39.280 the tarragon. You're all cleaned up. Today's quote Hopefully this 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:41.679 is good for you. If you are not speaking it, 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:43.280 you are storing it. 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:46.400 Oh FM headlines. 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:48.679 Well did you feel it last night? 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:52.360 A magnitude five point three earthquake struck in Kern County 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:56.679 last night right there in Bakersfield, with significant shaking felt throughout. 0:11:56.720 --> 0:12:00.200 So COW Vice President Kamala Harris has tapped minnesot To 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:04.800 Governor Tim Walls to be her running mate. Kaliuchi's announced 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:09.600 her new project, titled Garridas barte dou is out this Friday. 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:12.640 And US women's soccer team advanced to its first Olympic 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:16.080 finals since twenty twelve after defeating Germany one to none 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.920 an extra time, and Lebron James and the US men's 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.920 basketball team cruised into the semifinals of the twenty twenty 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:25.320 four Summer Olympics with a one and twenty two to 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:27.240 eighty seven win over Brazil. 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.520 On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.240 So I was on BuzzFeed and I saw this and 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:36.760 I thought of you guys, and it's like men shared 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:40.000 habits of women in their lives and they didn't really 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:42.400 say these women had these habits until they moved in together. 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.760 So one of the guys was like, is it just 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.280 me or why do women take showers with boiling hot water? 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:51.160 I do? That's more, Michael, I. 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.360 Do too, That's what I thought. I actually I turn 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:55.760 it up hot. I have to turn it down when 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:56.720 someone else gets in the show. 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.200 I'm the same. I'm like a tomato when I come out. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:02.360 Of the shower, because you do, you're really hot, so hot, scolding. Yeah. 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:06.319 Now the bathtub, I struggle with a very very very 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.080 hot bathtub to get into. That causes pain for me. 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:13.280 But the shower, I can crank it, he said. One 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.600 of the guys says, why is it that my girlfriend 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:16.760 never finishes their drink? 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.160 Like she never finishes a drink. It's always a half drink. 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.320 My coffee is always half full, he said. 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.400 There's two half full cups of coffee around the house 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:23.920 every day. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.719 Yep, I'll never finish it. Michael handed to me and 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:28.439 he's like, here's your half cup of coffee that you're 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:29.920 not gonna How. 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:31.720 Are you guys with black hair ties? Because I know 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:33.800 they're they're everywhere, but they're never with you. I lose 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.200 them all the time, right, Like they're everywhere. Do you 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:37.760 have a million of them but they're never with you? 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.920 Yep? Where do you keep them on your wrist? 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:42.640 Usually have it on today? 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:42.880 Now? 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.319 Should we be keeping a black hairtie on our wrist? 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:47.800 That could be cutey? 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:49.480 First, when you're out and you need to put your 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:50.640 hair up and you don't have a hair. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:52.480 Tie, and you're just like, man, where do they go? 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:55.079 Like socks? Yeah? 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:56.400 I know for a fact you can buy them in 0:13:56.440 --> 0:14:00.160 like forty packs correct on that little piece of cardboard. 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:01.840 Yeah. 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:06.000 Yeah, it's a good gift. Let's see, women are either 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.520 cold or hungry. This guy says his girlfriend's either cold 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:12.920 or hungry. I'm not, Yeah, hold much, I'm always And 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:16.200 then my girlfriend, what's with decorative pillows? So he moves 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:17.520 in and he can't figure out why they have to 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.960 be so many decorative pillows. 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:21.280 You need variety, and then you have to switch them 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:23.560 out because you get bored of looking at the same ones. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:24.000 Well. 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.320 This is from BuzzFeed guys talking about what they learn 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.640 when they moved in with their significant others. Is there 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:32.160 anything that like Michael, when you first started living together, 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:35.720 he's like, wait, what you do this? They think stand out? 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.120 Anything that stands out to me, It's more like the 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.480 stuff with him. It was like he would leave his 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:44.040 rolled up socks like all over the house and he 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:44.800 still does that. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.080 Shoes just like he put them in a ball. 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:47.840 Well, like I don't even know. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:49.840 So it's like a process like he comes home and 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.920 like he takes off his shoes like just there, like 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.160 it's like they're in the middle of the living room. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.000 Like it's not even off to the side or it's 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:56.560 almost like he. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.160 Just like stepped out of them, and then the rolled 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.400 up socks around the puch, you know, like its like 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:03.960 sometimes you would find him like under yep. 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:06.520 That's because when we grew up, I think his boys 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:07.680 that's how we treated our bedroom. 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:09.400 It's almost like you're like watching TV and at that 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:10.800 mom was I'm gonna take my sols off and just 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.480 peeled them off with his toes and then just leaves 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:12.840 them there. 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:19.160 Hey, did you get up this morning and have a 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:24.080 great coffee grinder. Beans make it right. Listen, here's the grinder. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.160 I smell the beans right now, it's time to grind 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:30.720 your beans. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.480 Yeah. 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.960 You know, a Sistani doesn't operate on coffee, doesn't need it. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:40.520 Michael's off coffee too. He's starting to drink tea. 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:41.920 I don't like it. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:46.280 He's trying to ban he's drinking Mountain tea. Please come 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:46.920 back to home. 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.680 Ah, because he was drinking so much coffee. He was 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:52.240 drinking like six cups a day, and so now he 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.280 was just like, at least now I'm drinking tea, and 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:55.000 maybe it's better. 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.120 He just stopped drinking coffee at nine. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.320 He can't. He drinks it like it's just it's something 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:00.600 to do. 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.080 Did you know Pedro Pascal's Do you know his Starbucks 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:05.640 order is like something venty six shots? 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:07.840 Wow? Oh no, I didn't know that. Yeah. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.800 So, like he had encountered a fan at Starbucks and 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:12.440 everybody was saying, zoom in on his drink so we 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.200 could see what it is. 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:15.120 Well, maybe that's just a one time thing because the 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:16.280 guy's working around the clock. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:17.320 Maybe it's a one time thing. 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:18.440 Ma yeh? 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:23.040 Is that so by choice? He you're Michael by choice 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:23.720 no coffee. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:26.880 Well, he got really sick last week, remember he got 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:29.160 like the virus that all the kids got, and so 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:31.400 ever since then he's been on the tee. 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:33.200 I got this kind of settling in. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:34.720 I got to fix myself. 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:37.680 I cannot think the way I think when people tell 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:38.640 me they don't drink. 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:41.280 Coffee, Like I know you're a number now. 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.760 Yeah, I don't like it. You know what I mean? 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.760 Like it doesn't like I feel like one less connective tissue. 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:47.720 He'll be back. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.800 I think heating up the water and then getting the 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.680 tea bag out. I think it's all too many steps. 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:59.520 I mean, Tanya, you and your are wash mushroom preserves. 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.800 I watched Wa Ganda. 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:05.280 I don't know whatever, but I want you back with 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:06.240 the coffee beans. 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.600 I know, please, I know I. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:11.760 Have so much more fun when you drink coffee. I know, Mark, 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:12.800 don't you agree? 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:13.960 One hundred? 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:14.919 Oh? 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:19.400 Please put over the mushroom drink. We are all over. 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.679 We were giving you a week and now we're like, guys, please, 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:23.720 we have a show to do. 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:25.080 Coffee. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:26.879 I mean, I don't want to push coffee, but I 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:29.760 am I am coffee pure. 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.680 I am I'm down here it's it's it's good. It's good. 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:35.639 It's good for all of us to bond over there. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:37.240 I know it's the ceremony of it. I'm with you. 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:37.760