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Speaker 1: From Hollywood Toe you.

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Speaker 2: Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: So Tanya, just headline us recap what a an attachment

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Speaker 3: style means with your significant other.

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Speaker 4: An attachment style is basically the way that you attach

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Speaker 4: yourself to another human and it all boils down to

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Speaker 4: stuff from your childhood that you might not even know,

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Speaker 4: Like you might be traumatized from something that happened that

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Speaker 4: could have been like a quick thing at school that

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Speaker 4: is like lingering with you. But basically it's how you

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Speaker 4: react inside a relationship. And there's four main types.

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Speaker 2: And what are the four?

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Speaker 4: It's securely attached, insecurely attached, avoidant, and.

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Speaker 1: Shoot, I'm missing the fourth one.

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Speaker 2: You can't preach if you don't know them.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm not any good. I'm not like the

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Speaker 1: expert here, So.

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Speaker 2: I would be insecure and avoidant, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to take the quiz and really see.

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Speaker 2: I won't take the quiz. I live with me. I

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Speaker 2: know me.

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Speaker 4: Anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and securely attached.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so keep those Handy and Sydney, what were you?

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Speaker 1: I was avoidant?

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Speaker 2: I get that. I'm definitely insecure and then plus.

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Speaker 5: Plus right right, the insecure doesn't really linger in my

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Speaker 5: relationships per se. But the avoidant kind of made sense

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Speaker 5: because like, if there's an issue, I'm just kind of

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Speaker 5: like forget it that we don't need to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, avoidant is dismissive attachment.

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Speaker 2: Toney, what happened to us in our childhood that we're

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Speaker 2: insecure attachment?

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Speaker 1: You gotta got a therapy to figure it out? What

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Speaker 1: time one o'clock?

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Speaker 2: Can we share it over?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, I do it on zoom.

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't even go?

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Speaker 7: No, I go?

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Speaker 2: Oh, then put me in the grid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great.

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Speaker 2: Claudia, good morning. How are you in Corona?

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Speaker 8: Hello? Good morning. I am well driving to work?

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 3: We're in the business of trying to make you forget

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Speaker 3: about the drive while you're doing it. It's our gig.

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Speaker 3: So Kuidty, tell me what inspired you to call in?

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Speaker 3: What's happening in your relationship that made you want to

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Speaker 3: call in about this attachment?

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Speaker 8: Well? I can say that I have been trying to

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Speaker 8: figure out why it is that every single person that

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Speaker 8: I have ever been involved with has always cheated on me.

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Speaker 8: So of course I have my guard up for a

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Speaker 8: very long time. And one step guard gets taken down,

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Speaker 8: then I start noticing indifferences in the relationship, and then

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Speaker 8: I start I start noticing the red flags, only to

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Speaker 8: come find out each and every single time that yeah,

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Speaker 8: there's something else going on. So it's like a vicious cycle,

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Speaker 8: and I just wanted to try to figure out whether

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Speaker 8: it's something deeper than just picking the wrong partner.

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Speaker 3: Got it well, by the way, first of all, to

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Speaker 3: things Number one, thank you for reaching out to talk

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Speaker 3: vulnerably with us about this. And two, I love your

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Speaker 3: thoughtful approach, right, I mean, you're you're coming, You're you're

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Speaker 3: like trying to find a It's almost like an unemotional approach, right,

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Speaker 3: It's a thoughtful approach. Yeah, yeah, because you want to write,

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Speaker 3: I mean, you really want to do some work on this,

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Speaker 3: some real work on this.

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Speaker 8: Well, And you know it has not always always been

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Speaker 8: this way, to be honest with you, it's taking me

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Speaker 8: a long time to get to where I'm at. And

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Speaker 8: for the first time in my probably in my life,

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Speaker 8: I have been single for the past three or four years,

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Speaker 8: and I've actually have learned to be very happy single.

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Speaker 8: And before it was that ugly feeling that I just

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Speaker 8: did not want to be alone, and I think that

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Speaker 8: maybe that also led to the problem as far as

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Speaker 8: I'll take anything, I.

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Speaker 2: Guess you lower your bar.

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Speaker 3: Well, Claudia, let me have time and they give you

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Speaker 3: a real quick and your real quick the study.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how to get the quiz?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, you can just go to Google and literally

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Speaker 4: just type into Google attachment style quiz and that'll pop

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Speaker 4: right up and you can take it right then and

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Speaker 4: there and quit it.

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Speaker 2: Good luck.

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Speaker 3: So attachment Style quiz and Google keep us posted. I

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Speaker 3: love what you said you found happiness being single. You

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Speaker 3: don't need someone that's not of like that gets to

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Speaker 3: be with you and deserve your time and your energy

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Speaker 3: and your wisdom. You don't need somebody to be there

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Speaker 3: all the time just to feel happy. And I think

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Speaker 3: that's a big accomplishment in itself.

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Speaker 8: That is a beautiful thing that I have learned.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Claudia. We love you in Corona. You have

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Speaker 3: a great day and good luck on this journey. So

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Speaker 3: Siciny is working on a new traffic wave.

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Speaker 5: Oh I've got this down and I'm so happy. I

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Speaker 5: will never change the way I wave to people ever.

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Speaker 2: Again, meaning when they let you do into the Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I'm a big person of like, if you don't

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Speaker 5: wave back to me after I've already let you get

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Speaker 5: in front of me or cross or whatever, and you

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Speaker 5: don't give me the wave, I get so irritated me too.

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Speaker 5: I'm just like why it's it takes two seconds.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: And so the other day I let the Coldwater Canyon

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Speaker 5: gets very backed up, like with traffic, and so you

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Speaker 5: can tell someone's trying to like cross into their neighborhood.

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Speaker 5: I like purposely like slowed down the traffic so that

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Speaker 5: person break exactly, make it break in the lane. And

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Speaker 5: so the person crosses in front of me and they

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Speaker 5: threw me the peace sign, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: that is so cool. And so ever since that day

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Speaker 5: Janner cutting in front of you, I do the peace

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Speaker 5: sign now and it makes me feel so much better

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Speaker 5: than just the wave.

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Speaker 1: Like the peace sign is way cooler.

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Speaker 2: I think the peace signs it really is.

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Speaker 1: It brightened up my day. I was like, Wow, that's

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Speaker 1: natal that's.

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Speaker 2: Like a chill person in traffic front peace. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: They're like, you know, just like not the anxious wave,

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Speaker 3: just the peace exactly. So can you describe the person

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Speaker 3: didn't see what they were vibing?

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Speaker 5: It was a guy it was a guy. It was

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Speaker 5: a sedan. I can't remember the make, but it was

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Speaker 5: a super.

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Speaker 1: Chill guy spanks man.

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Speaker 2: True. I mean when you see me in my Ford Bronco.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it's just a basic it's factor.

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Speaker 1: Anything I know, but it's so it's a good one.

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Speaker 2: Robbie saw it, Oh he did? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Uh so, I'm gonna the people in traffic in my

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Speaker 3: Ford Bronco.

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Speaker 1: So switch it up to the piece. You'll be happier.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be so cool in that car. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to see it.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm getting it from Ford next week.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so exciting.

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Speaker 2: From our local southern California four dealer.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Let me grab this call eight hundred and five too, well,

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Speaker 3: want to two seven feel free anytime about anything?

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Speaker 2: This is Andrew. So Andrew, you think that.

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Speaker 3: Your girlfriend's guy friend is in love with her, but

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Speaker 3: you didn't have a problem with that until now.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Tell me the situation?

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Speaker 7: All right? So thanks taking the call. I mean we've

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Speaker 7: been doing it for about six months and it's going well.

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Speaker 7: And like I said, she's got this friend, like you said,

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Speaker 7: she says, this friend who it's like he's always hitting

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Speaker 7: on her, and he's a nice guy, but it's kind

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Speaker 7: of coming to a head because, well, they could take

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Speaker 7: a her here or there, but we're supposed to want

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Speaker 7: a trip together with some friends another two couples, and

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Speaker 7: she wants to invite him, and I'm kind of like,

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Speaker 7: am I in the wrong here for telling my girlfriend

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Speaker 7: of six months that her lifelong friend coming on our

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Speaker 7: trip would make me uncomfortable. He's just he's really involved,

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Speaker 7: and it feels like one of those things where he

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Speaker 7: hopes it turns romantic with her, and I'm like, in

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Speaker 7: his rom com, I'm the bad guy, and it just you.

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Speaker 2: You you. I think you told the back room that

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Speaker 2: you thought he was gay up until now? What changed?

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Speaker 6: I did?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well he he They took him the phone every

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Speaker 7: day and and uh and she's he sent her gifts before,

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Speaker 7: like on Valentine's Day, sent her cupcakes to the office,

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Speaker 7: and I was like, oh, that's that's cute. That's nice

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Speaker 7: that her gave us friend to anything. And then she's like, oh, no,

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Speaker 7: he's he's great. He's dating girls. And he told me

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Speaker 7: about Daisy Goes and girls. I thought he was lying

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Speaker 7: or making it up, but uh no, apparently, but he

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Speaker 7: wants to come along on this trip with us, and

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Speaker 7: I'm kind of not sure how to how to take.

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Speaker 1: This is not okay. Yeah, it's a hard note for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, have you presented a case to your girlfriend to well,

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Speaker 3: that's what I'm just saying, Like, can you, like, can

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Speaker 3: you just say to your girlfriend let me just tell

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Speaker 3: you how this feels to me from my point of view,

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Speaker 3: I get it, I get it, but like I just

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Speaker 3: feel like the guy tho's your best friend. Now she's

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Speaker 3: gonna go tell this guy everything you say, fy I

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Speaker 3: see anything about how you get back to him.

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Speaker 2: So he's going to know that.

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Speaker 3: And if he is into her, he's going to know

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Speaker 3: he's got leverage because you're focused on him stepping on

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Speaker 3: turf here, which is all complicated, But I do think

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Speaker 3: it's making you uncomfortable, and so you got to tell

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Speaker 3: her otherwise you're gonna be it's gonna be really awkward

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Speaker 3: if you're on this trip together.

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Speaker 7: A couple of times and but it's never been a

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Speaker 7: serious conversation. It's at least just something like, hey, what's

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Speaker 7: going on there? Or are you sure he's not into you?

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Speaker 7: And she said, oh, no, No, he's just a friend,

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Speaker 7: just a friend. But I mean sending gifts to the office.

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Speaker 7: I mean, that's not our relationship, me and her. So

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Speaker 7: I wasn't like mad that I didn't do that. We

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Speaker 7: we had dinner and do our own thing. But it's

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Speaker 7: just I don't know, this seems like it's going past

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Speaker 7: the point of friendship. And when we're out, it's just yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's about talking to the guy.

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Speaker 7: No too, I don't. I don't. I mean I feel

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Speaker 7: like that's going to cause more drama than it than

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Speaker 7: it should. I mean, obviously it's probably worth a conversation

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Speaker 7: at some point, but I don't want to be the

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Speaker 7: guy that tells them to back off. Because they're good friends.

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Speaker 7: I mean, they're lifelong friends. What am I going to

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Speaker 7: do pick a fight with his.

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Speaker 4: Friend sending cupcakes to someone else like a woman.

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Speaker 3: But hold on for a second. Let me just put

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Speaker 3: on the shoes of your girlfriend. Hey babe, Andrew, Uh,

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Speaker 3: you don't trust me, Like, come on, it's my friend.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about it. I mean, there you go, that's

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Speaker 2: what she's gonna say.

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Speaker 5: You're mad over cupcakes like all that. Oh, it's so hard.

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Speaker 2: I don't love it at all.

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Speaker 1: You know what that is what gaslighting?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but hey it's your spice rack.

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Speaker 3: Oh, bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you

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Speaker 2: Well, go clean it.

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Speaker 3: So I was on BuzzFeed and I saw this and

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Speaker 3: So one of the guys was like, is it just

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Speaker 3: me or why do women take showers with boiling hot water?

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Speaker 1: I do? That's more, Michael, I.

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Speaker 3: Do too, That's what I thought. I actually I turn

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Speaker 1: I'm the same. I'm like a tomato when I come out.

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Speaker 2: Of the shower, because you do, you're really hot, so hot, scolding. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Now the bathtub, I struggle with a very very very

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Speaker 3: But the shower, I can crank it, he said. One

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Speaker 2: Like she never finishes a drink. It's always a half drink.

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Speaker 1: My coffee is always half full, he said.

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Speaker 3: There's two half full cups of coffee around the house

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Speaker 3: every day.

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Speaker 5: Yep, I'll never finish it. Michael handed to me and

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Speaker 5: he's like, here's your half cup of coffee that you're

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Speaker 5: not gonna How.

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Speaker 3: Are you guys with black hair ties? Because I know

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Speaker 3: they're they're everywhere, but they're never with you. I lose

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Speaker 3: them all the time, right, Like they're everywhere. Do you

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Speaker 3: have a million of them but they're never with you?

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Speaker 2: Yep? Where do you keep them on your wrist?

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Speaker 1: Usually have it on today?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 2: Should we be keeping a black hairtie on our wrist?

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Speaker 1: That could be cutey?

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Speaker 5: First, when you're out and you need to put your

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Speaker 2: Tie, and you're just like, man, where do they go?

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Speaker 2: Like socks? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I know for a fact you can buy them in

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Speaker 3: like forty packs correct on that little piece of cardboard.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good gift. Let's see, women are either

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Speaker 3: cold or hungry. This guy says his girlfriend's either cold

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Speaker 3: or hungry. I'm not, Yeah, hold much, I'm always And

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Speaker 3: then my girlfriend, what's with decorative pillows? So he moves

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Speaker 5: You need variety, and then you have to switch them

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Speaker 7: Well.

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Speaker 3: This is from BuzzFeed guys talking about what they learn

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Speaker 3: when they moved in with their significant others. Is there

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Speaker 3: he's like, wait, what you do this? They think stand out?

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Speaker 5: Anything that stands out to me, It's more like the

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Speaker 5: stuff with him. It was like he would leave his

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Speaker 5: rolled up socks like all over the house and he

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Speaker 2: Shoes just like he put them in a ball.

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Speaker 1: Well, like I don't even know.

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Speaker 5: So it's like a process like he comes home and

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Speaker 5: Just like stepped out of them, and then the rolled

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Speaker 5: sometimes you would find him like under yep.

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Speaker 3: That's because when we grew up, I think his boys

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Speaker 3: that's how we treated our bedroom.

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Speaker 5: It's almost like you're like watching TV and at that

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Speaker 3: Hey, did you get up this morning and have a

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Speaker 3: great coffee grinder. Beans make it right. Listen, here's the grinder.

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Speaker 3: I smell the beans right now, it's time to grind

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Speaker 3: your beans.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know, a Sistani doesn't operate on coffee, doesn't need it.

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Speaker 1: Michael's off coffee too. He's starting to drink tea.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it.

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Speaker 3: He's trying to ban he's drinking Mountain tea. Please come

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Speaker 3: back to home.

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Speaker 5: Ah, because he was drinking so much coffee. He was

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Speaker 5: drinking like six cups a day, and so now he

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Speaker 5: was just like, at least now I'm drinking tea, and

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Speaker 5: maybe it's better.

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Speaker 2: He just stopped drinking coffee at nine.

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Speaker 1: He can't. He drinks it like it's just it's something

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Speaker 4: Did you know Pedro Pascal's Do you know his Starbucks

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Speaker 4: order is like something venty six shots?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Oh no, I didn't know that. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So, like he had encountered a fan at Starbucks and

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Speaker 4: everybody was saying, zoom in on his drink so we

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe that's just a one time thing because the

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's a one time thing.

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Speaker 2: Ma yeh?

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Speaker 3: Is that so by choice? He you're Michael by choice

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Speaker 3: no coffee.

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Speaker 5: Well, he got really sick last week, remember he got

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Speaker 5: like the virus that all the kids got, and so

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Speaker 5: ever since then he's been on the tee.

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Speaker 1: I got this kind of settling in.

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Speaker 2: I got to fix myself.

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Speaker 3: I cannot think the way I think when people tell

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Speaker 3: me they don't drink.

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Speaker 1: Coffee, Like I know you're a number now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like it doesn't like I feel like one less connective tissue.

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Speaker 2: He'll be back.

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Speaker 5: I think heating up the water and then getting the

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Speaker 3: I mean, Tanya, you and your are wash mushroom preserves.

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Speaker 1: I watched Wa Ganda.

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Speaker 2: I don't know whatever, but I want you back with

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Speaker 2: the coffee beans.

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Speaker 1: I know, please, I know I.

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Speaker 3: Have so much more fun when you drink coffee. I know, Mark,

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Speaker 3: don't you agree?

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Speaker 2: One hundred?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Please put over the mushroom drink. We are all over.

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Speaker 3: We were giving you a week and now we're like, guys, please,

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Speaker 3: we have a show to do.

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Speaker 2: Coffee.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to push coffee, but I

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Speaker 3: am I am coffee pure.

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Speaker 2: I am I'm down here it's it's it's good. It's good.

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Speaker 2: It's good for all of us to bond over there.

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Speaker 1: I know it's the ceremony of it. I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 2: We all come in and we sit it and we.

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Speaker 1: Smile, and I know I missed that with us. I

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Speaker 1: do too.

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Speaker 2: All right, I'll be back, okay, good, all right.

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Speaker 1: Well how often do you wash your we're.

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Speaker 2: Supposed to do here. That's it, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I a would like to get us back on track.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: Guy.

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Speaker 2: Wash now I used the reusable pathway. Well you should wash.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that you can just keep refilling.

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Speaker 3: It, because they say it's if you don't watch its dirty.

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Speaker 3: It's my toilet seat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you should be washing it all the time. It

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Speaker 5: turns out that they're super dirty. Reusable water bottles can

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Speaker 5: harbor forty thousand times more bacteria than.

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Speaker 1: Forty average times.

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Speaker 5: Seeing the average toilet seats, so researchers swapped parts of

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Speaker 5: spout lid, the straw lid, and the squeeze top lid,

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Speaker 5: Grab negative bacteria can cause infections that are increasingly resistant

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Speaker 5: stomach issues, which then got me thinking, what if all

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Speaker 5: my kids got this.

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Speaker 1: From there water bottles?

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Speaker 5: Because they all take water bottles to school every single day,

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Speaker 5: and I'm like, we clean them, but I wasn't cleaning

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Speaker 5: them every single day.

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Speaker 1: And I'll be honest, clear once a month, once a month.

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Speaker 2: So this is good.

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Speaker 3: Clean them out. You clean that mason jar of your

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Speaker 3: as you put your coal brewin every day? And how

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Speaker 3: dirty is my toilets?

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Speaker 7: Heat?

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Speaker 3: Like I probably touch my toilet seat and neat almonds,

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Speaker 3: but I wash my hands.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know, like the all right, your

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Speaker 4: toilet seat is probably pretty clean if you.

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Speaker 2: Think, are you talking of my later my seat, my seat,

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Speaker 2: my you my horseshoe?

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Speaker 1: Right, probably like the.

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Speaker 2: The underneath, the underneath. I don't know how clean the

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Speaker 2: underneath of my horseshoe is.

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Speaker 1: Well, they does.

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Speaker 5: They does some more comparisons, So the they contain twice

449
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Speaker 5: the germs as the kitchen sink, so there was another comparison.

450
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Speaker 5: They can harbor four times of bacteria as a computer

451
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Speaker 5: mouse and fourteen times more than a pet drinking bull.

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Speaker 1: How gross is that?

453
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Speaker 2: Hold on, how often you clean these mice?

454
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Speaker 1: Have the mice on like that is a whole those Uh,

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Speaker 1: Actually he keeps it pretty tight over there for you.

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Speaker 2: He does. I see the actually have.

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Speaker 1: Seen him wipe down and microphone once week. Maybe the

458
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Speaker 1: microphones the mice so much Judez.

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Speaker 3: So my fingers, my fingers scroller part, my fingers touching

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Speaker 3: it, and then my finger eats my little bag of gojie

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Speaker 3: berries with the same fingers.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty gnar.

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Speaker 5: Anyways, Experts recommend that you wash your water bottles at

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Speaker 5: least once a day.

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Speaker 1: They say every day.

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Speaker 5: Hot hot, hot, the hottest you can do the hot

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Speaker 5: water and soapy water. It's like a real thorough and

468
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Speaker 5: they say if you can sanitize it, do that often

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Speaker 5: as well, once a week, twice a week.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is very needed this publisher, thank you Sisty

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Speaker 3: for that. Talking about the water bottle back terry. You

472
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Speaker 3: gotta clean them out.

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Speaker 2: Let me.

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Speaker 3: Krying to think, let's do this. I'm gonna grab Cliff

475
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Speaker 3: for a second. So Cliff in la I was talking

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Speaker 3: about this. A friend of mine who's going through a breakup,

477
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Speaker 3: and her friend said to take her mind off the breakup,

478
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Speaker 3: she was sending her Torking videos. I said, well, when

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Speaker 3: your your best friend goes through a breakup, like, what

480
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Speaker 3: do you do? You? Oh, you talk? Do you go

481
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Speaker 3: see them? Do you make them dinner? Do you take

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Speaker 3: them out for ice cream? She's like, no, I send

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Speaker 3: Towrking videos. Everybody loves those.

484
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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: Is that how you get through a breakup? You look

486
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Speaker 2: at torking videos.

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Speaker 1: I would never think of it, but sure, Cliff, what

488
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Speaker 1: do you do?

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Speaker 9: So what we like to do is we'll take a

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Speaker 9: friend and we'll say, hey, we're taking to a special place.

491
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Speaker 9: We can't tell you about it. We're gonna blindfold you,

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Speaker 9: put you in the back of the car, and we're

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Speaker 9: gonna drive you into downtown LA. And so when we

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Speaker 9: get there, it's typically like a really kind of you know,

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Speaker 9: iffy type building and there's a club guy out front

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Speaker 9: who's checking IDs and going, okay, well who are you?

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Speaker 2: Come on in?

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Speaker 9: And when you get inside it's koreating karaoke and so

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Speaker 9: it typically just it creates a laugh. It's fun for them,

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Speaker 9: and they're also like, where we go and this is

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Speaker 9: like the CD place where you know, we're blindfolded and

502
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Speaker 9: it's you won't tell us where it's at, And then

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Speaker 9: you get there, just have a great time. You eat

504
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Speaker 9: some green food and do some karaoke, and she like

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Speaker 9: gets their mind off the whole deal.

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Speaker 3: I mean that might make people want to go through

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Speaker 3: a break up. That's fun. Yeah, you're so. Have you

508
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Speaker 3: gone through a breakup and had something like this happened

509
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Speaker 3: to you before?

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Speaker 7: I have not.

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Speaker 9: I'm one of my only friends I think that's been

512
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Speaker 9: married for like twenty years.

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Speaker 2: Oh so yeah, yeah, guys, this sport for you.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just I'm the guy that kind of helps

515
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Speaker 9: out and gets them back in track, and you know,

516
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Speaker 9: it tells them, you know, relationships work and just hang

517
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Speaker 9: in there and you'll find somebody else. I'm not kind

518
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Speaker 9: of like the support guy exactly.

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Speaker 2: Cliff will keep your number, Thanks for calling. Thank you,

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Speaker 2: all right, that's great.

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Speaker 1: I mean karaoke is always fun.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, the way he described it, I'm in it's not

523
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Speaker 3: for me generally. It doesn't put me in that place generally.

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Speaker 3: Really me too, I dodge karaoke invitations. All the Cliffs

525
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Speaker 3: sold it.

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Speaker 1: Pretty well, I want to get going.

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Speaker 3: So other tactics. You know, you can text this show

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Speaker 3: to four one o two seven. I hope we look

529
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Speaker 3: at it all show, you know, like we're constantly trying

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Speaker 3: to look at it.

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Speaker 2: We do.

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Speaker 1: Some people get shy and you don't want to call

533
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Speaker 1: in and I get it.

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Speaker 3: So just text, yeah, text so easy four one on

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Speaker 3: two seven right now. So other tactics. People say this

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Speaker 3: in the eight one to eight uh for what to

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Speaker 3: do for a friend when they're going through a breakup,

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Speaker 3: talk about all the reasons why he sucks.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's see, that's tricky because if they get back together, then.

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Speaker 3: You're in a weird pickle, and odds are they are

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Speaker 3: going to get back to you for a second.

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Speaker 2: Another one. If my best he went through a breakup,

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Speaker 2: We're going to a kickboxing class.

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Speaker 1: That's fun.

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Speaker 2: From the Anne Valley.

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Speaker 3: If my friend is going through a breakup, we put

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Speaker 3: our PJS on and listen to I Hate Men music

548
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Speaker 3: and get drunk.

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Speaker 1: That's fun.

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Speaker 3: And then I set her up with a guy that

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Speaker 3: takes her mind off of it all. That's great until

552
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Speaker 3: maybe thirty six hours later that might all not end.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's actually that that's what I've done in the past.

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Speaker 2: It's a quick fix.

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Speaker 1: It's a quick fix.

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Speaker 2: So let me grab Caitlyn. It's very important to get

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Speaker 2: to Kitlyn right now. Caitlyn. We want to help you

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Speaker 2: out here.

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Speaker 3: Everybody is on mic, everybody's leaned in, everybody's their glasses on,

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Speaker 3: so it's a full focus moment. So you looked up

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Speaker 3: with a guy and when you were leaving, you gave

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Speaker 3: him him your phone number. Then what did he say

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Speaker 3: that you were wondering if it's a red flag or not?

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Speaker 10: Well, I I asked him. I was like, oh, so

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Speaker 10: I don't think you have my phone number, And he

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Speaker 10: was like, oh, that's okay, I have your Instagram.

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Speaker 2: The automatic red flag.

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Speaker 1: Those are my That was my jaw falling to the crown.

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Speaker 3: He was the automatic red flag that we we can't control.

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Speaker 2: It just sounds off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's not such a red flag. You met you

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Speaker 1: you thought you were meeting him for the first time.

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Speaker 10: Well, I had a crush on him for like a

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Speaker 10: little bit. I met him through a mutual friend and

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Speaker 10: we were like at his house and like all night

576
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Speaker 10: we were like hanging out and talking and so I

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Speaker 10: don't know, I kind of thought he was into me.

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Speaker 10: But after he said that, I was like, well maybe

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Speaker 10: he's not.

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Speaker 3: So you know, he's your Instagram so you can direct

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Speaker 3: message you. Why do you think he's not. It's like

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Speaker 3: if he's looking you up on Instagram, he's into you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and he's searching, he's looking at your photos.

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Speaker 5: Do you have so many followers that you didn't realize

585
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Speaker 5: that he was following you?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 10: No, I knew he was, but I just like to communicate.

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Speaker 5: I thought like, oh, I you know, so now it's

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Speaker 5: almost like he didn't even care to want my phone

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Speaker 5: number because it might not be as serious for him.

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Speaker 11: Exactly.

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Speaker 3: I think if somebody's looking at your Instagram, they want

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Speaker 3: to actually understand a little bit about you, right, they

594
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Speaker 3: want to check out what you like.

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Speaker 5: But not if he denies the phone number, she literally like,

596
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Speaker 5: here's my here are my digits, and.

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Speaker 3: He's like, how are you going to get the number?

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Speaker 3: It's like hard to put a phone number in a phone.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not that, but like some people don't like

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Speaker 4: to give their phone number because what if it goes bad,

601
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Speaker 4: then that person of your phone number. Like I never

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Speaker 4: gave my phone number when I was on dating apps, but.

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Speaker 2: I had a guy to Jim, I mean a lot

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Speaker 2: of guys at the gym lately. Huh.

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Speaker 3: I had a guy at the gym and he's like, uh,

606
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Speaker 3: what do we go out of common? What did we like?

607
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Speaker 3: We both liked something. I forgot what it was. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: He's like, no, it's not all of it. What food related?

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Speaker 3: But anyway, I'm like, dude, that's so funny. We should

610
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 3: we should hang She's like, yeah, you want my number?

611
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Speaker 3: He takes my phone. They types his number into my

612
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Speaker 3: phone and calls me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah what what?

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Speaker 6: What?

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00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 1: He calls himself.

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Speaker 3: I know he called somebody and I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 3: know your number. You got my number? What am I

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Speaker 3: supposed to do?

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Speaker 2: Now? Hit save, hit info, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Hit save contact and put his name in their gym guy.

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Speaker 2: Didn't didn't get there.

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Speaker 3: So, Caitlin, I'm not so sure it's a red flag.

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Speaker 3: And I think the red flag als will sing something.

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Speaker 7: This morning.

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Speaker 2: That's like pac Man, it is all right, well, good luck,

628
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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's so many other worse red flags, right, Maybe

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Speaker 3: I think that's a red flag.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that one.

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Speaker 2: That's so awful.

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Speaker 3: What song is that it's one of the greats, right

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Speaker 3: said Red. It's good Rember, Right said Fred. It's his brother,

635
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Speaker 3: right said Red. All right, what do we do here?

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00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 3: Let's find out what you think about these debates going

637
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 3: on online.

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00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: Uh, here we go.

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Speaker 3: So feel free to weigh in eight hundred and five

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Speaker 3: to two O one two seven or send us a

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Speaker 3: talk back on that iHeart radio app inside the kiss

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Speaker 3: page at red microphone.

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00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 2: So here here's a couple of debates online. I'm just

644
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Speaker 2: curious what you think.

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Speaker 3: Is your wedding being planned and if so, if your

646
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 3: wedding guests missed the RSVP deadline, do you want to

647
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Speaker 3: invite them? A couple on Twitter sent out invites with

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Speaker 3: a reasonable RSVP and guests who rsvp'ed after we're told

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Speaker 3: RSVP is closed.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's super harsh, that's so savage, but I

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Speaker 1: kind of love it, honestly, Like it's there.

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Speaker 5: You probably got the invitations three months, two months investment.

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Speaker 3: You get a reminder too, Like I feel like those

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Speaker 3: things come with auto reminders as well.

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Speaker 5: They would have to be very apologetic and like call

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Speaker 5: me personally to be like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: We you know, obviously, we want to be there, they

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Speaker 5: go whatever, But otherwise I think you kind of move on.

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Speaker 3: Non RSVPs are an honest mistake, Like I don't necessary

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Speaker 3: RCP immediate because don't want to be the first one RSVP.

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Speaker 2: But then I forget to do it later.

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Speaker 3: Because I get it immediately and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: I sent that too fast. They're going to think. They're

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Speaker 3: going to think I have nothing to do in my life, right,

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Speaker 3: So anyway, all right, well, I think that that's harsh

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Speaker 3: for me. It's harsh, little rigid. Here's another one. These

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Speaker 3: are questions dividing the world at the grocery store. Is

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Speaker 3: it rude to always take items from the back of

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Speaker 3: the shelf? So grocery store workers on Instagram say this

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Speaker 3: makes their jobs harder and say this leads to more

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Speaker 3: food going bad.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's interesting because you want the milk that's like

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Speaker 5: the furthest expiration date versus.

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Speaker 12: Eggs fresh salad.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's that bad. If you like, rearrange

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Speaker 1: the shelf back, you just clean it up. Come on,

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Speaker 1: tell me.

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Speaker 2: Next time I told you this earlier.

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Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with the smell of grocery stores right now,

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Speaker 3: I go in, I take a I take three deep

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Speaker 3: press in, and every grocery store it close your eye

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Speaker 3: smells the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I know what you means.

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Speaker 2: It's all that stuff together.

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Speaker 3: It's the refrigerator section, the light, the bubblegum, the cereal,

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Speaker 3: the bakery, the meat. All it smells the same. Or

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Speaker 3: here's another great debate ken an ex husband asked his

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Speaker 3: ex wife to return to her maiden name. A woman

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Speaker 3: posted on Reddit that her ex husband asked for her

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Speaker 3: to drop his last name because it was awkward for

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Speaker 3: his new fiance.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was a fair ask. I think I

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Speaker 1: think it's a fair ask too.

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Speaker 3: Right here, here's the one that I don't get. Is

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Speaker 3: it inconsiderate to peel an orange on a plane? Person

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Speaker 3: asked this question on Reddit. Some said it's fine. Some

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Speaker 3: say eating anything with an odor on a plane is

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Speaker 3: rood to me, and orange does not have an odor,

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Speaker 3: that's just citrus.

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Speaker 1: I agreed, roll smells delicious, it's fine with me.

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Speaker 5: But if you're opening up your to go sushi on

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Speaker 5: an airplane or anything that has like just a strong.

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Speaker 2: Your heart, you're much worse than the orange person, like

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Speaker 2: a stink bo orange.

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Speaker 3: The thing with the orange is that it gets the

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Speaker 3: trade table sticky. So if you leave the trade table

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Speaker 3: sticky for others, that's a problem. But I like the scent.

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Speaker 1: I like the scent of an orange too. Eggs.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you're traveling next to me, breakout the eucalyptus,

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Speaker 3: the lavender.

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Speaker 2: I want to smell all that.

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Speaker 1: I share I offer to people around me.

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Speaker 2: No one's going to share your eggs made heart boiled eggs.

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Speaker 1: I offer, yes, of course, to the person next to you.

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Speaker 2: Can I give you a can I give you a

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Speaker 2: healthy recipe? Trick.

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Speaker 3: I just was in the store the other day and

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Speaker 3: I bought mustard powder. Have you ever purchased mustard powder?

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know mustard could be powdered.

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Speaker 2: Here's what you do, you everything can be powdered.

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Speaker 3: What you do is you take your heart boled eggs

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Speaker 3: and maybe two yolks and a bunch of egg whites.

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Speaker 3: Put them in a bowl. Don't make mayonnaise, a little

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Speaker 3: olive oil, a little feti cheese. I know, cheese issue

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Speaker 3: for you, but this is good.

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Speaker 1: That is fine.

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Speaker 2: I'm good with feta, right, so FET's fine.

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Speaker 3: Toss it up, pickled halapinos and mustard powder, olive oil.

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Speaker 2: Mix it up. It's fantastic. It's really a great healthy salad.

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Speaker 5: It's like your homemade dressing or conniment reaching down in

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Speaker 5: tur bag.

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Speaker 4: I can try this recipe because I'm very into egg

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Speaker 4: salad these days. I love egg salad and I have

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Speaker 4: it every day. So can you send me that recipe

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Speaker 4: or maybe post it online?

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Speaker 2: I just told you it's like.

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Speaker 1: Mustard powder, And here's.

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Speaker 2: The mustard powder. Coleman's mustard powder right there.

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Speaker 1: Mustard powder, olive oil, egg white, and what else? Why

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Speaker 1: do you have a picture of the mustard powder ready

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Speaker 1: to go and buy it?

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Speaker 2: I get excited about these things. I got pictures of

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Speaker 2: who would you send that to?

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Speaker 3: I just kept it because I knew its asked me

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Speaker 3: about my latest condiment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, here we go. I got pictures of

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Speaker 2: my my malk.

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Speaker 1: Wait, it's like displayed. You're like modeling them. No, it's

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Speaker 1: probably so that he gets the right kind at the

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Speaker 1: grocery store.

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Speaker 2: I have to do. That's Robbie.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I love a good infrared mask. Which one is?

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Speaker 1: That's a good one. This thing.

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Speaker 5: Literally like Maxim's Iron Man mask.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Good morning, my name is Ryan. Who am

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Speaker 2: I speaking with.

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Speaker 6: A concerned listener?

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Speaker 2: Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous?

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Speaker 1: Anonymous?

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Speaker 2: I did think that went through.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think how to spell anonymous for a second

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Speaker 3: before I called you.

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Speaker 6: I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.

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Speaker 6: I listen to it every morning and just you guys

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Speaker 6: are great.

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Speaker 7: But please you.

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Speaker 12: The other day on the hack about the sequence order

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Speaker 12: of the birth and all that, and how you know

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Speaker 12: this is a perfect match and this isn't for effects?

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Speaker 3: You should well, they say science, not Ryan, science, your

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Speaker 3: birth order effects who you should marry? And let me

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Speaker 3: just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to marry

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Speaker 3: a last born. If you're a middle child, you have

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Speaker 3: to marry a last born, And if you're a last born,

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Speaker 3: you have to marry a firstborn.

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Speaker 2: What do you disagree with everything?

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Speaker 6: My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the

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Speaker 6: last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,

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Speaker 6: I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen

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Speaker 6: years strong.

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Speaker 2: Let's look at the common denominator who was in both

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Speaker 2: relationships here. You can't mean.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure that you're both the firstborn.

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Speaker 7: Positive.

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Speaker 6: Well, and I know I'm not the problem because he

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Speaker 6: chooses on me the first one.

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Speaker 3: Well, look, I think any scientists would say, there's always

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Speaker 3: that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls

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Speaker 3: when it comes to the elections, and they always have

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Speaker 3: that little margin of error. Right, you're inside the margin

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Speaker 3: of error.

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Speaker 1: Or I appreciate you.

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Speaker 4: Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong. Is he

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Speaker 4: an only child?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: Oh, first one.

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Speaker 2: But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I

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Speaker 2: love that. And so everything is going.

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Speaker 6: On because could have said he was the youngest too,

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Speaker 6: was right?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Question for you?

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Speaker 3: How long how long between when you left or divorced

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Speaker 3: or he you know, went away your first husband until

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Speaker 3: you got married? Like, how much time in twelve years

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Speaker 3: twelve years between marriages? Did you ever think you get

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Speaker 3: married again?

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Speaker 6: Uh? No. I met my current husband and we became

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Speaker 6: best friends, and then we started dating, and then two

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Speaker 6: years after we dated, we got engaged, and two years

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Speaker 6: after that we got married. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Well, congratulations, I love it. And if you were to

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Speaker 3: look back, I mean, now you sit with the luxury

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Speaker 3: of having seen your past and knowing that it works out.

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Speaker 3: But I'm sure along the way you thought, why did

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Speaker 3: I even get married in the first place? This was

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Speaker 3: a bad idea, And now you have the perfect, most

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Speaker 3: beautiful marriage of seventeen years and that's just the beginning.

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Speaker 7: Right, yeight?

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Speaker 2: Correct? Okay, So in.

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Speaker 3: Most cases, if you're a firstborn Marriya last, if you're

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Speaker 3: a middle child Mary a last, if you're a last

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Speaker 3: Mary at first, but not in every.

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Speaker 2: Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?

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Speaker 6: He is, mister Anonymous.

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Speaker 3: You're the best. Thank you for listening to us in Palmdale.

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Speaker 3: Continued success in your marriage.

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Speaker 12: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Bye.

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Speaker 3: I thought I might get her with that one. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: all right, missus Anonymie. Listen to us on.

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Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: All right, Amy, what can we do for you? We're

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Speaker 2: here to help.

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Speaker 7: Oh, let me tell you this. So.

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Speaker 11: I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now. He

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Speaker 11: started his current job like a year ago or so.

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Speaker 11: He's made some friends at work. I met them, hung

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Speaker 11: out with them. I love every single one of them.

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Speaker 11: Except there's this one girl, and she is all over

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Speaker 11: my boyfriend, like constantly alerting with him and touching him

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Speaker 11: like schol click cress his arm more like his back,

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Speaker 11: and it makes me very annoyed. And I know he

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Speaker 11: has other women in his work, and I'm not I

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Speaker 11: don't have any issues with them. It's just her, so

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Speaker 11: I know it's not jealousy. But I did talk to

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Speaker 11: him and he did tell me that he does agree

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Speaker 11: with me, and he is trying to back off. But

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Speaker 11: now he's telling me that she's trying to be his

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Speaker 11: work wife at work and even though she has a Beyonce,

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Speaker 11: he thinks it's nothing really serious. But I don't know.

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Speaker 11: That is kind of weird to me, phil and it's

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Speaker 11: sugging me. Should I confront her about this or what

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Speaker 11: should I do?

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 3: So the woman is somebody who works with and do

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Speaker 3: you are you around her to notice this or do

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Speaker 3: you just know about this from somebody telling you?

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Speaker 11: It's when we hang out, like once in a while

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Speaker 11: she'll be there with all the rest of the coworkers

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Speaker 11: and everything, and I'll notice it once in a while

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Speaker 11: here it are you know?

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Speaker 2: And some people tell me I think do we have

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Speaker 2: a sense.

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Speaker 3: I think you can sense from somebody's body whatever they're

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Speaker 3: given off. If they're trying to cause some tension. Do

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Speaker 3: you thought she's intentionally trying to cause tension when you're around.

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Speaker 2: By you in this.

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Speaker 6: Sense?

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Speaker 11: Yes, I feel like it.

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Speaker 4: Well, then you're probably write and don't confront her because

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Speaker 4: that's what she wants.

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Speaker 3: No, I was gonna say, confront her, look her in

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Speaker 3: the eye and say this is inappropriate.

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Speaker 4: She's gonna know then if you do that, that she's

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Speaker 4: getting under your skin, and that's exactly what she wants

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Speaker 4: to do.

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Speaker 3: Is she gonna stop? No, what isn't she gonna She's

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Speaker 3: not gonna stop. She's gonna do She's gonna do more

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Speaker 3: of the caressing of his forearm and his back. Actor

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Speaker 3: she's confronted by his girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know this type like it happened to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I feel like we all know this

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Speaker 1: type of person the.

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Speaker 2: Person don't yeh basically Okay.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it has happened to me where.

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Speaker 4: Boundaries I feel like had been crossed and I did

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Speaker 4: not like it. But I feel like that is what

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Speaker 4: these type of people, narcissists, They like that, they like

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Speaker 4: to know that they get under your skin and you

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Speaker 4: just have to ignore it.

894
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: You just have to totally more about This is more

895
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,439
Speaker 3: about the woman at work wanting to get under Amy

896
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 3: skin or the woman at work actually liking her boyfriend's.

897
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 4: It's it's her wanting to be this like, that's her

898
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 4: wanting to like flirt and have that you know, that attention.

899
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't mind having the conversation with her and

900
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:14,439
Speaker 5: being like, back off either.

901
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: I'm so true with you.

902
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 3: Sisney's gonna role play Amy Amy action sistany you're playing

903
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 3: the role of Amy, what.

904
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: Do you say?

905
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 5: Hey, you know, I'm I think you're a great person

906
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 5: and you have a very bubbly personality, but I feel

907
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 5: like sometimes you get a little too close to my boyfriend,

908
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 5: and I don't like the way it makes me feel.

909
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: You're great, but I think.

910
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 2: To start with, you're a great person.

911
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,760
Speaker 5: I don't think she's not killing kindness at first.

912
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 2: She's not a great person.

913
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, she could be a great person in

914
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: other fields.

915
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 5: It's just that she doesn't realize her flirtiness. So it's

916
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 5: like that's the issue. Stay waiting, my mand.

917
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: You keep doing this, and I'm going to tell your fiance.

918
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 2: I like that. Like the way you're sounding in there. Yeah,

919
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 2: I like the fire in your belly. Easy.

920
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: If you keep doing this, you can't come to my

921
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: birthday party.

922
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, Amy, So if it's me, I'm addressing it with her.

923
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

924
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 11: May I'll go with the with what you guys are saying.

925
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 11: I will approach her. But if she's not understanding, you know, yeah,

926
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 11: we'll go to the fiance and help him.

927
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, take a little hybrid of the advice and go

928
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 3: for it. Thanks, good luck on this one.

929
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 5: He's like, I think I'm gonna take a little piece

930
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 5: of everything you guys said and figure it out on

931
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 5: my own.

932
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I'm actually gonna forget I called you guys,

933
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 3: that's what.

934
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: What was the sound effects? What was that?

935
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 2: Those get some new stuff up here to you know,

936
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: punch it up?

937
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: Distracting?

938
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: Why is that distracting? Where is Mark?

939
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: Anyway?

940
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:43,240
Speaker 2: Left?

941
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: Peace a lot?

942
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 3: Have you heard of a delusion ship here at Kiss

943
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 3: FM this morning? Sisney came in very excited to get

944
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,439
Speaker 3: to this this hour.

945
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: I saw this and I'm like, I for sure have

946
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 1: been in these We've.

947
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: All never heard of it, never heard it.

948
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 5: So a delusionship would be like, let's say you just

949
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 5: can't stop daydreaming about the barista that you see every

950
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 5: single day. And then it was the way they handed

951
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 5: you their coffee that morning and they said, here you go, love,

952
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 5: and now you're in You're like, oh my gosh, they

953
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 5: totally like me. And then you go home and I'm like,

954
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 5: I'm planning my wedding and it's like it's the whole

955
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 5: thing starts tod. That's a delusionship, Like that's not real,

956
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 5: Like he probably doesn't think you're his love, et cetera,

957
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 5: et cetera. So if you find yourself spending more time

958
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 5: thinking about someone else who either doesn't exist or the

959
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 5: relationship doesn't even exist, that's a delusionship.

960
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 2: So does it a delusionship? Like for people?

961
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 3: Right, you find you see somebody in a movie and

962
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 3: you have a crushed on them in a movie you

963
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 3: never meet them, But is that a delusionship?

964
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 5: It is if you start actually acting out the fact that,

965
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 5: like they're your partner, you.

966
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: Know what I mean?

967
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: I think I can say we've all done this.

968
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 3: I've seen somebody to stop light and decided I'm going

969
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 3: to marry them, but I don't even want to get married.

970
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 5: Well, or have you been like on a first date

971
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 5: where you've been ghosted? And you still kind of just

972
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 5: like accept that they've ghosted you. They're like, oh, they're

973
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 5: probably just like on vacation, and like, I'm still very

974
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 5: much dating them, but you're not dating run.

975
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 2: Ships.

976
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: He set up dinner for two, and it's just me, Oh,

977
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 1: remember you used to leave an empty space in the closet.

978
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 3: At the table for she set the table for two

979
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 3: in our apartment when nobody in.

980
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: A pit of me of a delusion shop. Let me

981
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: tell you, I left.

982
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 4: The space in the closet, and I left a drawer

983
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 4: my bedside table.

984
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: And guess who came a knock in rob A bunch

985
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 1: of guys before.

986
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 3: Dudes before Robbie is actually no, there was. Yeah, the

987
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 3: guy came, the guy.

988
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 2: On the course.

989
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: And you know what space in his closet?

990
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, did Robbie have a space. And this wouldn't

991
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 3: have been a match if Robby had a space in

992
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: his closet.

993
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: And he was setting the dinner table.

994
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: For exactly No, he was, He was not such like that.

995
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: Delusions of grande are the only knocking.

996
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 5: The only cure for this is cold turkey. Just like,

997
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 5: stop stop following them on Instagram. You have to just

998
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,919
Speaker 5: stop going to that coffee shop. You have to break

999
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 5: it out.

1000
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 2: Have no interest to me.

1001
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: You know what we need to find that?

1002
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: We google that during the break. I feel like that

1003
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: went fast.

1004
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: We did it.

1005
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 2: Do you like?

1006
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 3: Do you like whipped cream or cool whipped sysan'ty ah.

1007
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: I want to know one more thing about all of us.

1008
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: I guess whipped if I had to choose, but.

1009
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 2: Really, whipped cream or cool whip? Whipped cream or cool whip?

1010
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: Tanya whipped cream all day.

1011
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: I don't like either.

1012
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: Really, I don't know that was a choice, but yeah.

1013
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: Careful chewing ice.

1014
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 1: Sorry.

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00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 3: Coming up tomorrow, We've got Ryan's roses. We're into it

1016
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 3: right here, so it's fun to learn one more thing

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Speaker 3: before you go.

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 2: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow