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Speaker 3: I feel blessed, black and holly favored. Happy to be

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Speaker 3: And it's just good, you know, to watch people from

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Speaker 6: Because Chris already started reading Envy, but I'm not telling

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Speaker 6: you you'll you'll read Envy's Reach Charlamaine.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's more related.

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Speaker 7: No, it's not.

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Speaker 8: That's what that's That's what I felt like. I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 8: I get it.

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Speaker 2: IX, Yeah, I get it. I'm not Dominican, I'm black,

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Speaker 2: but anyone, it's a good.

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Speaker 3: Guy to read because you know you black, Jess, and

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Speaker 3: Chris is Dominicans, so you know you'll got to figure

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Speaker 3: it out, like how blended mixed relationship?

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Speaker 2: Why are you feeling, Jess? Yesterday was your son's birthday?

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Speaker 2: What you do for your birthday?

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Speaker 6: I'm officially the mom of a teenager, so that's thirteen

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Speaker 6: eighteen on the end of the age. Man is a lot, y'all, Ashton,

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Speaker 6: he had, you know, his home school now, so he

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Speaker 6: hasn't been able to get around his friends that he

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Speaker 6: hasn't seen in over a year.

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Speaker 8: And y'oll, he felt so good seeing him there. We

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Speaker 6: Called Savazon because he wanted to go to sky Zone

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Speaker 6: with Skysone stinks and I'm getting pretty tired of the place.

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Speaker 6: So Xavazon is another It's kind of like it's a

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Speaker 8: They do zip lining, rock climbing.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 8: You ever see the not not X games, but you

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Speaker 8: know when the more Asian kids be one of them competitions.

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Speaker 5: Games, the ninja games.

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Speaker 8: Yes, they had like ninja.

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Speaker 10: Games type of stuff.

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Speaker 6: So we he spent like almost all day there. And

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Speaker 6: then he loves steak so we took him to a

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Speaker 6: my house. Brought some kids back with me, so that's good.

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Speaker 4: It's pretty quiet.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty quiet because I figured right now they'll be

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Speaker 2: playing all types of games.

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Speaker 8: Right, they just went to sleep at five, That sounds

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Speaker 8: about right. So they went to sleep at a good

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Speaker 8: time because now you all would hear them right now.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, let's get the show crack and we

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Speaker 2: got front page news. Today is Jackie Robinson Day.

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Speaker 8: Did you know that jockey robbers Jackey?

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Speaker 2: I said Jackie Robinson, I said jack jack Jackie Robinson

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Speaker 4: We come Dominicans.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Jacky Jackie Robinson, Jackie Robinson, it's the Breakfast Club morning.

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Speaker 5: Everybody's d j n V.

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Speaker 2: Just hilarious. Lam I mean the guy we are the

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news.

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Speaker 11: Now.

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Speaker 5: Last night was the w NBA Draft.

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Speaker 2: It took place at the Shed at Hudson Yards in

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Speaker 2: New York City, and the number one pick was the

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Speaker 2: Dallas Wings pick Page Buckers from yukon.

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Speaker 4: Page Buckets dropping the clues bonds with page Buckets.

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Speaker 5: So congratulations to her. What's up, Morgan, Yeah, that's page Becker.

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Speaker 10: Shout out to her.

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Speaker 8: She definitely is, you know, a vibe and you should

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Speaker 8: definitely get into her story because she is an advocate

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Speaker 5: Bucker, it's Buckets.

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Speaker 4: Oh Buckets is her nickname Paige Buckets.

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Speaker 8: So she definitely do that. She definitely do The last

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Speaker 8: let's get into a little bit of more sports. Major

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Speaker 8: League Baseball is honoring the legacy of Jackie Robinson. Today

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Speaker 8: is Jackie Robinson Day, marking the anniversary of the day

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Speaker 8: that he broke baseball's color barrier.

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Speaker 12: Now.

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Speaker 8: Robinson debut with the Brooklyn Dodgers on April fifteenth, nineteen

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Speaker 10: Look not that long ago, y'all.

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Speaker 8: To honor the Hall of Famer, all players will wear

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Speaker 8: his iconic number forty two in Dodger blue. Players, managers, coaches,

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Speaker 8: established Jackie Robinson Day in two thousand and four. So

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Speaker 8: shout out to Jackie Robinson.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell Trump is Jackie Robinson, that he might ask

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Speaker 3: why and then sign an executive order that no colors

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Speaker 3: can be recognized.

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Speaker 4: That's sure.

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Speaker 10: Oh no, look, Charlotte Magne, speaking of Trump, you was right, okay.

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Speaker 8: So despite saying he will respect the Supreme Court's decision,

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Speaker 8: President Trump and the White House is defending its decision

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Speaker 8: to deport Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a man from Maryland mistakenly

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Speaker 8: to deported to a prison in El Salvador. Now, speaking

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Speaker 8: from the Oval Office yesterday with the president of El Salvador,

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Speaker 8: Trump again said the courts do not dictate American foreign policy.

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Speaker 8: This comes as Trump met with El Salvador's president, Naive

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Speaker 8: Boo Kelly at the White House yesterday and said and

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Speaker 8: Boo Kelly also said he would not return Abrigo Garcia,

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Speaker 8: adding that they're not too fond of releasing terrorists and

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Speaker 8: that he's not going to smuggle someone back into the

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Speaker 8: US now. During their meeting at the White House, President

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Speaker 8: Trump spoke more about securing the border and their current

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Speaker 8: relationship between the US and Al Salvador.

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Speaker 10: Let's take a listen.

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Speaker 13: But what they've done to us, said the border.

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Speaker 4: Should never and can never be forgotten.

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Speaker 13: It's a sin what they did, and you are helping

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Speaker 8: So Boo Kelly was He said he was also honored

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Speaker 8: to be with Trump, adding that what is happening at

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Speaker 8: but let's not forget. The DOJ has admitted that a

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Speaker 8: Brigo Garcia was not supposed to be sent to Al

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Speaker 8: him from being sent there now. Attorney General Pam Bondi

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Speaker 8: said there's evidence that the man is a gang member,

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Speaker 8: and Homeland Security Advisor Stephen Miller said that the administration

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Speaker 10: Let's take a listen to their comments.

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Speaker 14: He was illegally in our country.

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Speaker 15: He had been illegally in our country, and in.

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Speaker 14: Twenty nineteen, two courts, an immigration court and an appellate

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Speaker 14: immigration court, ruled that he was a member of MS

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Speaker 14: thirteen and he was illegally in our country.

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Speaker 16: It's very irrogant, even for American media to suggest that

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Speaker 16: we would even tell El Salvador how to handle their

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Speaker 13: Is this true?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know, I'm not Is any of

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Speaker 8: Yeah, this is a this is well, this is where

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Speaker 8: we are right now, you know, as updates come every day.

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Speaker 8: But as for Abrigo Garcia moving forward, it's my understanding

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Speaker 8: that right now a Maryland Senator Chris van Holland has

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Speaker 8: requested a meeting with Bukelly to continue efforts to release

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Speaker 8: regards to what was he what's happened?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 4: Was he illegally in the country? Was he a member

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Speaker 8: There's I have not They have not furnished proof that

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Speaker 8: he is actually a member of MS thirteen. Now he

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and so the Supreme Court, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, told him to told the administration to bring him

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Speaker 3: back in the administration to say, SMD, kiss my ass.

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Speaker 4: Pretty much, pretty much.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope, I hope.

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Speaker 3: You all know we are in a post constitutional society then,

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Speaker 3: and if we're in a world where president can defight

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Speaker 3: and democracy as we know it is done.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: Well, there, there you have it. That's your front page

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Speaker 10: news for six am. Seven am. We're gonna start with taxes.

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Speaker 10: Make sure y'all follow yall. Taxes is tax Day? All right?

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get into that next next hour. Everybody else,

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Speaker 2: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five five one

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Speaker 2: to wide open again, eight hundred five eight five one.

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Speaker 4: Get it off your chest. It's the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is your time to

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Speaker 13: get it off your chest.

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Speaker 8: One.

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Speaker 13: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 7: Hello, who's that good morning? This is James calling from

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Speaker 7: North Carolina.

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Speaker 4: What's up, James? Get it off your chest?

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Speaker 12: Rob?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, recently I saw that bound pick on nearly with Nelly.

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Speaker 7: I actually felt kind of bad for them.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 7: I used to laugh and stuff back in the day

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Speaker 7: when they first got caught with their lips saying things yep,

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Speaker 7: but they actually were caught up in the mix. You

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Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. They were dancers at first. You know,

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Speaker 7: some producers sees them, levels their look and thinks they

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Speaker 7: should be a group, and you know, and they wanted

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Speaker 7: to take singing lessons with vocal lessons and stuff, but

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Speaker 7: they never gave them the shot.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's crazy. I never watched that movie That

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Speaker 4: girl you know is true. I never watched it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's pretty good here, I never seen it.

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Speaker 13: Definitely, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 4: Did you talk about record?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this covers all everything. The guys that seen it

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Speaker 7: and everything.

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Speaker 12: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 7: It was a group out of Baltimore called New Marks

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Speaker 7: that wrote the runing part on that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Kevin Lous from Baltimore too. He wrote, Uh, he

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Speaker 4: wrote girl, you know, you know shoot.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, that's a trip. Man, that's a trip than you.

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Speaker 4: James.

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Speaker 5: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 17: It's a game from man from Ohio?

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Speaker 18: Kin?

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Speaker 17: Why do midgic mysic?

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Speaker 7: Why do they exist?

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Speaker 7: What was it was?

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Speaker 7: Bro Listen that crazy man.

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Speaker 10: What man said? Dogs midges the same thing and that.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely of them.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, brother, I have a good make.

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Speaker 7: Y'all laugh this morning.

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Speaker 17: Yes, say y'all have a good morning.

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Speaker 2: All right, get off your chest eight hundred five eight

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Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 19: Ray right, Ray Yo, Charlamagne, Jasey, what up are we lost?

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Speaker 13: This is your time to get it off your chest.

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Speaker 7: I got an indoor pool.

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Speaker 13: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 20: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what

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Speaker 20: it is.

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Speaker 9: We live Hello who's this Orlando?

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Speaker 4: Tony from Orlando? Whatever, Tony, get it off your chest.

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Speaker 20: You get tired of Charlemagne always talking about Florida.

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Speaker 4: Man, New York Man, be on the news.

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Speaker 3: I'm not from New York. But if you, if you

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Speaker 7: Don't come to New York.

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Speaker 10: Bro, We see I'm on news that.

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Speaker 4: Your phone is what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 4: Your phone is crazy. You got a Florida phone. It's

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Speaker 5: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 17: Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 7: My name's Nurse Live.

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Speaker 4: Hey, get it off your chest?

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Speaker 8: Right.

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Speaker 21: I just want to remind everybody to advocate for themselves

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Speaker 21: and drink your water, wash your hand.

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Speaker 20: There's so much stuff that we don't have control over,

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Speaker 4: Oh I like that? Well, thank you, Bama.

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Speaker 20: No filling people prospered to you.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 8: Have a great thing.

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Speaker 4: You same to you. Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 7: What's up?

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Speaker 13: And this is page?

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Speaker 22: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I got doing from page Get it off your chest, brother.

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Speaker 9: Say just the first time talking to you.

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Speaker 12: What's up, jes what's that baby?

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Speaker 10: How you doing?

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Speaker 9: I'm fine, I'm fine.

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Speaker 7: I'm fine.

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Speaker 9: Charlomne to go out.

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Speaker 4: And do a homie peaz king, how you doing? Black man?

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Speaker 7: Brother?

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Speaker 20: Hey?

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Speaker 9: First off, real quick, I was just wanting to talk

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Speaker 9: about that deportation thing. Y'all make it at once. Stided,

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Speaker 9: it's not that the US didn't okay the boy to

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Speaker 7: Of the door.

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Speaker 9: That dude that was with the president, he said, he's.

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Speaker 7: Not releasing them.

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Speaker 9: He was like, if there was any indication that he

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Speaker 9: I'm not gonna let him potentially let him back out

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Speaker 7: So it's not on us.

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Speaker 9: We were supposed to provide him with a plane the

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Speaker 9: same way we shifted his ass over there to bring

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Speaker 7: But that'll south of the door. Be your president, Prime Minister.

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Speaker 9: He's like, nah, he ain't even letting men end the

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Speaker 3: That is that is, that is true, But you're lying.

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Speaker 3: Donald Trump absolutely positively said no. Yes, the guy from

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Speaker 9: Yeah, he said no, like he's not provided, he's not

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Speaker 4: Like the court granted it, bring him back.

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Speaker 9: All right, bet do it, how you do it? But

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Speaker 9: he Falbadorian ain't having He's like, nah, it ain't gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: That's you're you're not telling the story correctly, sir, Like

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Speaker 4: And I don't understand why.

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Speaker 3: Like Trump literally gave the Supreme Court yesterday, well you

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Speaker 9: And then one more thing to deal with the it's

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 9: I just want the people to know, this is big business, man.

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Speaker 7: This ain't for us. Man.

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Speaker 9: We just sit back and watch and just let this

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Speaker 9: it's not even our story. Let's just say play out

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Speaker 9: That's what we need to focus on us.

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Speaker 2: And that's what I want to say now that I

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Speaker 2: agree with all right, political pundit from page thank you brother,

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Speaker 2: you got it, my brother, get it off your chest.

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Speaker 5: Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one.

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Speaker 5: We got to let this, Laura comeing up.

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Speaker 23: Yes, so Blue Origin sent Gail King and Katie Perry

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and we thought it was all good.

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Speaker 15: They made it back home, they were safe.

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Speaker 23: But baby, it's some people upset a lot of people,

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Speaker 15: I ain't never seen the girls fight like this.

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Speaker 4: You No, they pissed off about it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, talking about the money, the amount of money that

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Speaker 5: Yes, you got we do when we come back.

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Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: Warning everybody, it's DJ env just hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get

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Speaker 2: to the latest with Lauren.

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Speaker 8: Lauren becoming the street fast.

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Speaker 4: She gets them from somebody that knows somebody detail.

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Speaker 15: I'm a home girl that knows a little bit about everything.

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Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on the.

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Speaker 13: Latest with Lauren la Rosa.

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Speaker 11: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you have.

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Speaker 4: A little bit of everything.

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Speaker 13: It's the last the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 8: All right.

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Speaker 23: So yesterday we talked about Gail King, Katy Perry. There's

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Speaker 23: There's videos of them. You see them like floating and

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Speaker 23: y'all did it. And then all of a sudden online

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Speaker 4: Upset when did the online about something y'all.

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Speaker 23: Now, and y'all know, I'll be on Twitter and I'll

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Speaker 23: be seeing the upset and I'll be like, Okay, I

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Speaker 23: guess this. I was like, there's so much more to

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Speaker 23: model Emily Rodakowski is one of the people she got

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Speaker 8: That's space mission this morning.

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Speaker 22: That's an end time ship, Like this is beyond parody

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Speaker 22: thing that you care about mother Earth? And it's about

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Speaker 22: is built and paid for by a company that's single

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Speaker 22: women into space for what?

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Speaker 12: For what?

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Speaker 10: What was the marketing there? And then to try to

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Speaker 13: Literally, I'm disgusting.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, And that was a lot of people's sentiment.

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Speaker 8: I know.

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Speaker 23: I saw Olivia moun a lot of people sentiments, a

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Speaker 23: it's disgusting. They're wasting resources, they're destroying our earth. They

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Speaker 23: I'm like, oh my god, was resources though they're talking about.

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Speaker 10: Broke they you know what I mean?

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Speaker 8: They made they upset. They probably need some bread. It's

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Speaker 8: like yo, what like it was just stupid for people

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Speaker 8: to get upset.

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Speaker 6: The interesting thing that I saw, Wendy's had something to say. Yes,

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Speaker 6: the restaurant, Wendy's Katie Perry. They was like Katie Party

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Speaker 6: returns back from space, Wendy's going to Center at his

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Speaker 6: back when they ain't say Center is back, but they

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Speaker 6: said send her back up there.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but it wasn't publicly funded. From what I read,

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Speaker 3: it wasn't a commercial mission. It wasn't paid by taxpayer dollars. Like, so,

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Speaker 3: what's what's the issue?

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Speaker 4: I thought? I actually thought Jeff Bezos paid for That's

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Speaker 4: what I thought.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, I don't know who pays for how that works.

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Speaker 23: But I also did read too because people were so upset,

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Speaker 23: I wanted to know how, like is it really destroying

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Speaker 23: it as far as like the solution and stuff like that,

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Speaker 23: and they said today all of this stuff is sustainable

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Speaker 23: that he's been using.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, y'all, but those are the same people

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Speaker 2: that are mad at celebrities when they fly private. When

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Speaker 2: you know that we mad at Taylor Swift that we

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Speaker 2: made let the celebrities for flying private. It messes up

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Speaker 2: the community, messes up the world and all that other stuff.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, like you said, Sean, if they paid

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Speaker 2: it out their own pocket, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean that's from what I read. From what I read,

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Speaker 3: the government didn't fund that trip to space. It was

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Speaker 3: actually curated by Jeff Baso's fiance and it wasn't publicly funded.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know whose resources are they talking about.

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Speaker 3: Jeff Basios want to spend his own money on stuff

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Speaker 3: like that, I don't. For commercial space tourism, I don't care.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 23: It says that the n S thirty one, which was

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Speaker 23: their flight, was paid for by individuals on board, as

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Speaker 23: well as Blue Origin itself, while the exact amount paid

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Speaker 23: by each individual was not publicly disclosed. You know, normally

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Speaker 23: when people bid for these seats, the highest big can

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Speaker 23: go for twenty eight million dollars, but it's not disclosed

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Speaker 23: how much they paid. The company also requires a refundable

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Speaker 23: deposit of one hundred and fifty thousand dollars, but their

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Speaker 23: process is not disclosed.

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Speaker 3: And Blue Origin has received government contracts before, but when

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Speaker 3: it comes to their commercial space tourism, it's separate from that, correct,

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Speaker 3: So this isn't publicly funded.

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Speaker 15: And y'all know this is our girl.

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Speaker 1: I saw.

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Speaker 23: The first person I saw actually on my timeline this

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Speaker 23: morning was a Senator Nina from Senator and Nina Turner.

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Speaker 23: She said, if Jeff Bezos can send kad Pair into space,

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Speaker 23: he can pay a wealth tax, so every American has

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Speaker 23: debt free health care.

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Speaker 4: Noah, I agree with that. We started.

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Speaker 23: That started a huge threat of conversation online as well.

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Speaker 23: But funny enough, you know when Gail went up into space,

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Speaker 23: y'all saw the video of her when she was walking

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Speaker 23: down bringing to Bill.

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Speaker 15: People was like, oh, Gail is regretting this.

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Speaker 4: So she looked real good dropping the Blues boss of Gael.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 23: So Oprah was there to send her off and they

515
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Speaker 23: gave each other hug. This is the photo of her

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Speaker 23: looking a little bit nervous.

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Speaker 4: She said she looked nervous.

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Speaker 15: She says she was a bit nervous.

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Speaker 23: But let's take a listen to her response to her

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Speaker 23: going viral yesterday, hearing.

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Speaker 24: I have become a meme because my facial expressions when

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Speaker 24: I was walking on the bridge to get on the capsule.

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Speaker 24: I didn't realize that I was being photographed at that moment,

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Speaker 24: nor did I realize that my expression looked so terrified.

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Speaker 4: But I was.

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Speaker 18: I was.

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Speaker 8: I just thought, I'm just gonna go in and get

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Speaker 8: in my seat.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna do this.

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Speaker 24: I knew I was always going to do it, all

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Speaker 24: though you were told that if you're wind to back out,

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Speaker 24: you have to do so before two minutes and thirty seconds.

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Speaker 3: You have to say.

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Speaker 10: I'm not going to fly.

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Speaker 15: Well, I knew I wasn't going to be that guy.

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Speaker 5: But getting on it was a little scary.

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Speaker 15: It was a little scary.

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Speaker 24: So you show that I was apprehensive. I tell you,

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Speaker 24: look at the picture when I got off the capsule.

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Speaker 24: That's the one that matters. That's the victory speech.

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Speaker 5: That's the one that matters.

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Speaker 10: I'm so glad to be back on earth.

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Speaker 8: Welcome home.

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Speaker 4: That's a new meaning down up.

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Speaker 15: Yes, Oh my god, yes, but it's just crazy for

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Speaker 15: you to say about Gail King.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, right, that's the lady who just said last week,

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Speaker 6: we're we're talking about what she said, Jane.

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Speaker 23: So when she got off the she got off the flight, Gail,

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Speaker 23: like everybody else, they were kissing the ground and they

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Speaker 23: were doing a ton of stuff.

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Speaker 4: She had she had a dirt in her hands hand.

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Speaker 15: You know, I think this is almost like thought.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was doing a celebratory tourture, not video.

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Speaker 3: Shep came, came off the spaceship and did a celebratory

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Speaker 3: twark dropping the.

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Speaker 4: Clues bumps and Gail can't go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Ye, And I don't think there's many people that wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have this type of face when they're going in the space.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's anybody. Now you have this face

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Speaker 2: because you're scared. You're scared, and you're thinking about did

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Speaker 2: I poop?

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Speaker 4: Did I pee? Did I make sure I leave everything

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Speaker 4: for my family? Yes, you have this face.

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Speaker 6: What I would be thinking about is how it took

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Speaker 6: eight well not much to bring two people that got

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Speaker 6: stuck up there back.

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Speaker 10: But y'all went up there and what like a couple

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Speaker 10: of minutes.

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Speaker 4: But y'all it be so dramatic.

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Speaker 13: Did I pee?

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Speaker 4: Did I pooped everything that my family has? Leave it everything?

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Speaker 5: That's what you're thinking, Like what else would you be thinking?

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's what you're thinking. I went scott diving and

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Speaker 2: I thought the same thing. I had this same face on.

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Speaker 2: Did I leave everything for my kids? Did I write

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Speaker 2: everything right that I pee that I pop?

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Speaker 3: Yes, because you're nervous as ishue or if you're gonna die,

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Speaker 3: do no matter if you pee the poop right right?

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Speaker 4: That's the point.

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Speaker 5: No, because if you have to go to the bathroom

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Speaker 5: on your way up, you did no planning on dying.

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Speaker 10: What's the point.

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Speaker 2: But no, it's not just about dying. If you're in

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Speaker 2: a rocket ship going the space, there is no from

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Speaker 2: so you got to just hold you playing on. I'm

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Speaker 2: not playing on just in case, in case we would.

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Speaker 15: Say there is no bathroom, like we thought.

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Speaker 8: You'd just excuse me, excuse me, go to bath I

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Speaker 8: do want to know why went these people?

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Speaker 10: That's that's I know.

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Speaker 23: And they straight at her to they they got the

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Speaker 23: screenshot of her face. They said, can we send her back?

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Speaker 8: And send her back like she something?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she must have said something. About some fast food

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Speaker 3: when she landed or something. That's some other fast food.

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Speaker 15: I don't know. I didn't see that, but that cray.

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Speaker 4: People love to see celebrities and wealthy people miserable.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and and and even if they were to do

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Speaker 3: some type of charity, they would get criticized for that.

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Speaker 4: Right, they didn't give enough. Why did they give it

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Speaker 4: to that charity? So you damn if you do your

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Speaker 4: damn if you don't. Yeah, well, congratulates those ladies. There's

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Speaker 4: no pictures, though they have pictures from them in face videos.

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Speaker 23: There's video of them when they come down, because after

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Speaker 23: a certain point you parachute and you just hit the ground.

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Speaker 8: They're like, they're like yelling.

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Speaker 7: His videos.

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Speaker 8: I ain't seen no pictures, but they got videos.

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Speaker 2: I'll show you all right, Well that is the latest

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Speaker 2: with Laura. Now when we come back, we got front

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Speaker 2: page news. So don't go anywhere. It's to breakfast Lugal morning.

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Speaker 2: You're checking out the breakfast club.

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Speaker 5: Everybody is DJ NV just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.

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Speaker 2: We are to breakfast club. Let's get back in some

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Speaker 2: front page news with Morgans.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, NV, I know you like to start with sports,

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Speaker 8: but let's start with some sports at the White House.

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Speaker 8: So President's Trump honored the Ohio State buck Guys at

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Speaker 8: the White House yesterday for winning the National Championship, and JD. Vance,

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Speaker 8: the Vice President, dropped the championship trophy after the ceremony.

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Speaker 10: I cannot believe it. That's that c is circulating online.

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Speaker 10: Did y'all see it?

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Speaker 3: I did see the trophy looking very unmanly, well for

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Speaker 3: for an administration that I like to talk about people

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Speaker 3: being so manly.

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Speaker 4: Boy, you didn't look manly at all.

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Speaker 5: Definitely did not lift that thing for anything.

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Speaker 8: So Trump highlighted the buck Eyes path to the title

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Speaker 8: and said that he expects to see quarterback Will Howard

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Speaker 8: play in the NFL for you now.

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Speaker 10: Vice President JD.

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Speaker 8: Vance, who is from Ohio, joked that he asked the

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Speaker 8: President if he could skip the inauguration to attend the

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Speaker 8: National Championship.

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Speaker 10: Let's sack a listen to those comments at the ceremony.

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Speaker 18: This was a historic year in college football. Standing together today,

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Speaker 18: these men in the first college think of that, are

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Speaker 18: the first college football players in history who can proudly

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Speaker 18: call themselves twelve team playoff championship, the first ones.

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Speaker 16: That's right, I asked the President on January the twenty

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Speaker 16: They said, Sir, would you mind if I skipped that

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Speaker 16: final inaugural ball to go to the Ohio State National

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Speaker 16: Championship game? And the President said no, but we'll have

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Speaker 16: him at the White House.

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Speaker 7: So here we are.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, So there they are.

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Speaker 8: Ohio State defeated a Notre Dame to claim its first

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Speaker 8: title since twenty fourteen, so congratulations to them. New York

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Speaker 8: Mayor Eric Adams he visited the dr on Monday to

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Speaker 8: pay your respects to those who died during last week's

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Speaker 8: night club roof collapse. Now Mayor Adams visited the site

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Speaker 8: of the tragedy, flanked by members of staff and Dominican officials,

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Speaker 8: offering his support to the victims and their families. Let's

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Speaker 8: take a listen to New York City Mayor Eric Adams

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Speaker 8: and his comments.

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Speaker 4: Your brother from America is here to be with you

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Speaker 4: during this time.

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Speaker 2: During crises and tragedies, Families pray, Families lift each other up,

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Speaker 2: family hug each other.

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Speaker 4: My visit today is my hug, so it.

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Speaker 10: Also comes as New York's.

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Speaker 8: Of course, you guys are where New York has a

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Speaker 8: large Dominican population, and they remain in morning following the

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Speaker 8: April seventh incident. Now New York Governor Kathy Hopel was

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Speaker 8: also in the city on Monday, delivering remarks out of

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Speaker 8: vigil in the Bronx for the victims. So that is

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Speaker 8: a tragic, tragic story. But I will continue to keep

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Speaker 8: you updated as that story develops.

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Speaker 10: And of course, today y'all is tax day. Have you

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Speaker 10: filed your taxes? Have you filed your taxes?

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Speaker 8: Taxes are due to day, and if you haven't even

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Speaker 8: started or you're not done yet, there is still hope.

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Speaker 10: If you're in a crunch, you need to file for

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Speaker 10: an extension.

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Speaker 8: The key thing to keep in mind is to file

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Speaker 8: your extension today, but you will give you at least

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Speaker 8: six months. So taxpayers impacted by natural disasters, which we

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Speaker 8: know there have been a lot of in the last year.

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Speaker 8: In twelve states have automatic tax extensions to file and

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Speaker 8: pay their twenty twenty four taxes. Now, some extensions only

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Speaker 8: apply to certain areas within those states that were actually

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Speaker 8: impacted by storms or fires.

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Speaker 5: You know what have you?

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Speaker 10: If you file for an extension, you need to file.

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Speaker 8: You need a form a form forty eight sixty eight

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Speaker 8: on IRS dot gov. That's forty eight sixty eight on

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Speaker 8: IRS dot gov, which gives you an automatic extension for

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Speaker 8: six months.

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Speaker 10: So just don't not not file, Okay, don't do just

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Speaker 10: just don't do that.

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Speaker 3: You flay with DIRS if you want to listen, you

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Speaker 3: ain't got a file, but DIARYSS will find you.

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Speaker 13: That's right.

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Speaker 4: You can run, but you cannot hip.

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Speaker 10: And don't forget they've given away. The agency is working

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Speaker 10: with immigration too, so you know, just keep that in

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Speaker 10: mind as well. It's something to keep in mind. But

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Speaker 10: I'm not gonna get too much into that. That's your

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Speaker 10: front page news.

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Speaker 8: Y'all can follow me on socials at Morgan Media and

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Speaker 8: for warn the news coverage followed Black Information Network and

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Speaker 8: download the free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 10: Visit us at vii nnews dot com.

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Speaker 4: See y'all all right, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Now, when we come back, my lovely beautiful wife will

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Speaker 2: be joining us this morning. Our new book, Real Life,

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Speaker 2: Real Family is in stores today and we're gonna talk

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 4: We'll do it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, David's wanting to show to Breakfast Club. Charlamagne and

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Speaker 4: God Lauren l Ross is here, Jess Hilarious is here.

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Speaker 4: Who's feeling in for Envy? Laura l Roose is feeling in?

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Speaker 13: Forby?

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Speaker 4: Is it me filling in? He's here? I'm here, she's

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Speaker 4: feeling in?

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a guest today though, because his new book

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Speaker 3: Real Life, Real Family with the Queen of the House.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Casey is out right now. How are you feeling here?

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Speaker 25: Both by being given the opportunity to write a book

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Speaker 25: about something that is the most important thing to me,

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Speaker 25: the thing I'm the most passionate about, the thing that

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Speaker 25: brings me the most joy, family, parenting, my household, our home.

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Speaker 25: So yes, I'm very humbled.

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Speaker 10: This is the second book. Yes, it's amazing.

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Speaker 8: You know what, let's just rewind it back for those

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Speaker 8: who don't know who is the Ksey Crew? Where did

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Speaker 8: that name come from? How did y'all get started?

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Speaker 5: Do you remember the carew Yes, our last name?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean?

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Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 25: No, no, But do you remember how we came up

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Speaker 25: with the name?

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Speaker 4: Come up with the name.

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Speaker 25: We were doing our first podcast, and it was before

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Speaker 25: we were doing like the audio version of the video version.

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Speaker 25: It was just the audio version, and we started the

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Speaker 25: podcast without a name and we sat there and we

741
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Speaker 25: kind of was coming up with like different names, and

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Speaker 25: one of us said, well, how about the k C crew.

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Speaker 25: You know, our last name is Casey. We have a

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Speaker 25: whole crew of kids, a whole gaggle. What about the

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Speaker 25: k C crew. And then people you know, DMed us

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Speaker 25: and emailed and whatnot, and they said, yeah, we love

747
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Speaker 25: that name. We love that name. So we decided to

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Speaker 25: call ourselves the k C Crew.

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Speaker 4: Amazing that's where it came out.

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Speaker 23: And whenever you post on social you always hashtag the

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Speaker 23: k C Crew. Yes, and he does his well. But

752
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Speaker 23: one of the things that you guys do really good

753
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Speaker 23: from the podcast to bringing it online is you pay

754
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Speaker 23: attention to the comments and the Responseski. Yeah, and you

755
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Speaker 23: guys bring them into the podcast, but you also reflect

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Speaker 23: on them on social media. So I want to read

757
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Speaker 23: one of the posts that we pulled, and I thought

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Speaker 23: that this was great. You inspired me. This is someone

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Speaker 23: commenting to you guys. You inspired me. I wish all

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Speaker 23: parents had this level of intention, planning and vibe. Truth is,

761
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Speaker 23: most parents, moms are stressed, overworked by trying to make

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Speaker 23: ends meet, in harboring trauma. Therefore, it's passed down to

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Speaker 23: the children. You've passed down light and love. Because of

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Speaker 23: that and because of what you are, high five to

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Speaker 23: all of the parents doing their best, and you use

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Speaker 23: that as a moment to talk about like, no, it

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Speaker 23: get a little crazy over here, but oh yeah, but

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Speaker 23: it's important because when you if you've ever been around

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Speaker 23: your family, it is a lot of love and a

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Speaker 23: lot of light.

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Speaker 15: But I'm sure on the inside things get crazy.

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Speaker 25: Well, you know, that's a big misconception. People assume that

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Speaker 25: because you love a certain lifestyle or because you've earned

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Speaker 25: a certain financial status, that you don't have the same

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Speaker 25: problems that they have, you know. So that comment really

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Speaker 25: really stood out to me because she spoke on the

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Speaker 25: troubles and the trauma and the word trauma that she used,

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Speaker 25: and Rashan will speak on the word trauma sometimes he

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Speaker 25: feels as though it's a word that's overused, but it's

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Speaker 25: a word that represents something that so many people endure.

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Speaker 25: The difference now is that we have words to identify

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Speaker 25: how we feel and what we go through and it's articulated.

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Speaker 25: Because when our feelings and our experiences are articulated, then

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Speaker 25: you're able to communicate. People are able to understand you.

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Speaker 25: You're able to understand other people. You're able to have

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Speaker 25: empathy and compassion for other people because now we're all

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Speaker 25: speaking a universal language. Like the word triggered, like the

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Speaker 25: word trauma, like the word gas. You know, these are

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Speaker 25: things that some may think are overused now, but yes,

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Speaker 25: but there is value there. There is value there because

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Speaker 25: now we can see each each other, we understand each other.

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Speaker 3: When you're trying to create a safe space, you know,

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Speaker 3: how is it to venture into an unsafe space like

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Speaker 3: the comments, especially when somebody looks on the air every day,

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Speaker 3: you know, I mean, you have an opinion about every day.

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Speaker 25: So I read every single comment.

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Speaker 15: I interact.

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Speaker 25: It started when I had a lower follower account. It

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Speaker 25: started because I always felt that if someone follows me,

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Speaker 25: that's an investment. In a small investment, maybe, but it's

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Speaker 25: an investment that they put into me. And they're looking

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00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 25: at my content content, they're looking at my pictures, and

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Speaker 25: you left a comment, I want to respond back to you.

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Speaker 25: I used to respond to almost every comment, you know,

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Speaker 25: But then when my followers went up, I wasn't really

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Speaker 25: able to do that, and that was something that you know,

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00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 25: I had to take that on the chin, I wasn't

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Speaker 25: able to, but it's a sign of respect. And you said,

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Speaker 25: why do I do that to myself? Because I'm strong

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Speaker 25: enough to do that. I'm strong enough to do that.

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Speaker 25: The comments don't if they are negative, and I have

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Speaker 25: to say I don't receive a lot of negative comments, thankfully,

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Speaker 25: thank God. But if they are negative, I look at

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Speaker 25: it as insight. I might ask myself, why might someone

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Speaker 25: have that perspective to me? It feeds my mental because

816
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 25: I'm a thinker. I'm a deep thinker. I'm all over things.

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Speaker 25: I love to understand people. So for me, the comments

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Speaker 25: are food and they also bring me happiness when they're good.

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Speaker 25: It lets you know that you're reaching someone whatever it

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Speaker 25: is that you're putting out, because it's in the sense

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Speaker 25: of sharing. There's a lot of things that I don't share,

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Speaker 25: so if I choose to share and it's well received,

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Speaker 25: then that's a good feeling. I think that's why a

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Speaker 25: lot of people are on or part of the reason

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Speaker 25: why a lot of people are on social media. You

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Speaker 25: know what I mean, and I'm strong enough to do so,

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Speaker 25: and that's because of the way that I was raised.

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Speaker 25: I was raised to be a very strong and resilient woman.

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Speaker 25: It comes directly from my parents. I'm fortunate in the

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Speaker 25: sense that I can look back and identify things about

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Speaker 25: the way that I was raised that created the individual,

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Speaker 25: the woman, the mother, the wife that I am, and

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Speaker 25: it's for me. It's a very beautiful thing. Both of

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Speaker 25: my parents are no longer here, so to be able

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Speaker 25: to say, wow, when my mother did this every single day,

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Speaker 25: or when she took me here once a week, or

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Speaker 25: when she said this to me, and those compliments, and

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Speaker 25: that the way that she fed me and she fed

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Speaker 25: my soul, and the joy that I experienced and the

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Speaker 25: amount of fun that I had as a kid, like

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Speaker 25: I loved my life. And it's not because we were wealthy.

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Speaker 7: We were not.

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Speaker 25: We were a middle class family. I'm from Brooklyn, from

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Speaker 25: East Flatbush. We weren't raised, you know, like I'm from

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Speaker 25: an urban area. And it's not It had nothing to

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Speaker 25: do with money. It had nothing to do with wealth.

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Speaker 25: It had everything to do with what my parents poured

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Speaker 25: into my home and the love that I felt. And

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Speaker 25: that is what we put into writing this book. There's

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Speaker 25: a lot of books that we ca you know, so

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00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 25: many ideas came. Oh because real life for love was

852
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 25: a huge success. It was a national bestseller. So it's

853
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 25: I go, you can write a book about this. We said,

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00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 25: we want to write a book about family. It's what

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Speaker 25: we know best. It's what we know best. We've had

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00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 25: so many ups, so many downs, so many wins, so

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Speaker 25: many losses, so many things that we thought we were

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Speaker 25: doing right that we weren't. That we had to regroup

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Speaker 25: and make sure that we were balanced, you know, as

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Speaker 25: as a married couple. Because when we didn't agree, it's

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00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 25: like my way is better, know what my way is better?

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00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 25: And this, you know, we had to come to a

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Speaker 25: meeting of the minds.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 25: So our relationship, you know, the relationship grew, you know,

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Speaker 25: because we had to learn how to see eye to

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Speaker 25: eye as parents. So there was just there was many

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Speaker 25: many ups and downs, and we wanted to pour that

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Speaker 25: all into a book.

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Speaker 11: You know.

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Speaker 25: We wanted to let everyone know like it's really that

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00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 25: village mentality. It's really that like we are a community,

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Speaker 25: especially our black community because I'm black.

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Speaker 26: Yes, yeah, yeah, for the record, for the record, Spanish, but.

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Speaker 25: I know that you're well aware because you speak to

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00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 25: things of this nature often. But our history is being

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00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 25: erased in schools, and it's being stripped away silently in society.

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00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 25: So the foundation starts in our homes. We have to

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00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 25: teach children how to identify themselves. We have to teach

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00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 25: children that sense of belonging and they have to understand

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00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 25: that they come from something meaningful. And if you leave

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00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 25: it up to society to teach them that, you're going

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00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 25: to wind up with children that are lost, that are overlooked,

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00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 25: that don't know how to identify themselves, that get taken

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00:36:55,719 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 25: advantage of, and that are susceptible to what society wants

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00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 25: for them. So for us, our core, our nucleus, our foundation,

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00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 25: our home supersedes anything else in this world. We put

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Speaker 25: our family first.

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Speaker 2: When we come back, we have more we Gia Casey

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Speaker 2: our book, Real Life, Real Family is in stores right now,

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Speaker 2: a guide to raising empowered children.

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Speaker 4: We'll be back in minutes. It's the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, Jesse Larian Charlamage, the God we are the

894
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Speaker 5: Breakfast Weblor Barosa is here as well as we're kicking

895
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Speaker 5: it with.

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00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 2: Gia Casey. Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is

897
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: out today. You can pick it up at Amazon, Barnes

898
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: and Nobles all audible, Jess, would.

899
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 8: You say that you and and we have two different

900
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 8: parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient parent. Who was the

901
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 8: more lenient parent?

902
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 4: It depends what it is like.

903
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: You know, everybody knows my dad is retired police officer,

904
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 2: ex military, so I'm disciplined. I was the yellow the

905
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 2: screamer because I said so, Gea is a lot different,

906
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 2: like seven hours, like she wants to know why.

907
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, how did you feel that she likes to break down?

908
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't get it.

909
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right.

910
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 26: Exactly.

911
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak

912
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 2: to up because she's like, all right, explain that, like

913
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: I just said it just because no, no, no, explain it.

914
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: But so I'm more like, because I said so, She's

915
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,720
Speaker 2: more like, well, you can't go to the mall because

916
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: of this, because this could happen. Explain your parents extole

917
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 2: mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't

918
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: ask why, it just it was what it was you

919
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: just figured out later.

920
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 4: Is a little different. I prefer the explanation.

921
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

922
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 25: So that's how my parents were with me. I knew

923
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 25: that my parents were invested in me living a happy,

924
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 25: fulfilled and fun life, and we didn't go lightly on

925
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 25: the fun And because I knew that at D and

926
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 25: my parents never said no just for the sake of

927
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 25: saying no. Because parents are overworked and they are stressed,

928
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 25: and the last thing they want to hear when they

929
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 25: walk through the door is mommy, can you take me here?

930
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 5: Can you buy me this?

931
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Speaker 26: Can we watch this together?

932
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 25: Can we go like flow down?

933
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Speaker 12: No?

934
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Speaker 25: And sometimes you say no, you don't even know why

935
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Speaker 25: you're saying no. That's not a good parenting technique. You

936
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 25: really have to take a moment. You have to take

937
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 25: a beat. We all have to take a beat to

938
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Speaker 25: listen to our children and be patient. And because I

939
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 25: knew that my parents were invested in me that way,

940
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Speaker 25: I knew that when they said no, there was a

941
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 25: good reason.

942
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 4: How do you make sure you not you're raising the

943
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 4: kids out of love and not fear them.

944
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Speaker 25: That's such a good question. It comes with the explanations.

945
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Speaker 26: Do you know what I mean?

946
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Speaker 25: I don't tell them you can't do this and you

947
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Speaker 25: can't do that? Why because I said so? Let me

948
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Speaker 25: explain to you why. You know, sometimes we'll watch the

949
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Speaker 25: news together, you know, when they're at an appropriate age

950
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Speaker 25: at about nine years old, you know. I think that

951
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,320
Speaker 25: they're mature enough to ingest certain things. So what I

952
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 25: do is I would record it on my DVR and

953
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 25: then cherry pick different stories that I think that are appropriate,

954
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 25: that speak to the protective measures that we take on them,

955
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Speaker 25: you know what I mean. So it's like, if I

956
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Speaker 25: see a child abduction that's not too traumatic, I might

957
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Speaker 25: save that and then show it to a child that's

958
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Speaker 25: old enough.

959
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Speaker 7: You know.

960
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 25: I did it with Madison, I did it with Logan,

961
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Speaker 25: and I find that they take that into their adult

962
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Speaker 25: lives and they're very, very like. Madison walks around like

963
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 25: a police officer. She has a boyfriend. His name is Andrew,

964
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Speaker 25: and when they go into a restaurant, she's the one

965
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 25: that sits facing the door. She feels like the protective

966
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 25: force in that relationship because her head is always on swivel,

967
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 25: you know what I mean. She could tell you a

968
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Speaker 25: car that was driving six cars ahead, you know, and

969
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 25: she's always paying attention to license plates. When she was young,

970
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 25: I used to go through like in case you get

971
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 25: kidnapped scenarios because it's the type of information that can

972
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 25: save a life. Girls are being taken. So if you

973
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 25: have a young girl, it is very proactive to educate

974
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Speaker 25: them about the realities and the tricks and the cons

975
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Speaker 25: that people. You know, because even me, as proactive as

976
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 25: I try to be, that whole technique, with a baby

977
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 25: crying outside your house, I would I would be inclined

978
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 25: to open the door if I hear a baby crying

979
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 25: and someone that sounds like a mother yelling and screaming

980
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 25: outside the house. I am that type of person, but

981
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Speaker 25: not me, But now I am I am. I would

982
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 25: my heart, with my ie would be inclined to open

983
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 25: that door. But now with all the knowledge and some

984
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 25: of the good things about social media is that so

985
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 25: much knowledge is being spread, so now we're consuming good

986
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 25: information as well. So I heard that, I'm like, wow,

987
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 25: that's absolutely right. It jogs your thinking. It makes you say, oh,

988
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 25: wait a minute. I do have to put myself first,

989
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 25: even if someone else, a stranger, seems to be in need.

990
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 25: I have to prioritize myself, my home, my family. So

991
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 25: you know, it's it's important to spread information and to

992
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 25: teach your kids, even though it may be a little scary,

993
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 25: but you do have to do it in a way

994
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 25: where it doesn't incite fear.

995
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 8: How y'all pick and choose.

996
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 15: What do y'all like, What y'all decide to be transparent about?

997
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 15: Like it's just so much.

998
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 23: Your kids are getting older and they're like, you know,

999
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 23: like they're wanting to walk by themselves with their friends.

1000
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 2: If it was up to me, I'm transparent with everything.

1001
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: Right has to hold back a lot, like for instance,

1002
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Speaker 2: like with Logan. Right, Logan when he was in high

1003
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: school used to get picked on all the time. But

1004
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: he used to get picked on. Guess for what reason?

1005
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 5: No, because because Charlamagne.

1006
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, so.

1007
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 2: When you gave me the ask, that's why he gave

1008
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 2: me the buck cake when he gave me not much better.

1009
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not about to He.

1010
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 4: Used to be getting made fun of me because of that.

1011
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: So but the reason I'm so transparent is there's so

1012
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: many families and people dealing with the same things but

1013
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: never want to talk about it.

1014
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 4: Scared too.

1015
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: So that's why I talked about the orgasm thing in

1016
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 2: the first book. That's why in this in the.

1017
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 5: Second book, we talk about you know, the time lag

1018
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 5: thing from the first.

1019
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,760
Speaker 7: No, every.

1020
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 5: You want to do right, No, even.

1021
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 2: Like in this book we talk about the time that that, Uh,

1022
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 2: Logan found a bloody condom at one of his friend's.

1023
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 5: House, so he can't, but he's comfortable.

1024
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 4: Why you're looking at that it wasn't mine. He's like,

1025
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 4: oh he found the bloody.

1026
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,720
Speaker 5: Right, it wasn't our house.

1027
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 25: Right, friends house, and and he was like maybe nine

1028
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 25: years old, nine years old.

1029
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 4: He's about nine years old when he was comfortable enough to.

1030
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,879
Speaker 25: Keep he was in the basement and the little boy

1031
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 25: had an older brother.

1032
00:43:54,440 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 2: Yeahs, so she had That's when we had the sex

1033
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 2: talk and had to have the sex talk with Logan

1034
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:07,240
Speaker 2: and Madison.

1035
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 5: What kind of sex talk though, It wasn't a back

1036
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 5: door sex.

1037
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 7: Talk that they just.

1038
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 10: They got a full blown sex talk.

1039
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 25: They had to understand because if you leave it back.

1040
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 4: That's what I'm really trying to figure out. Why was

1041
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 4: the condon bloody?

1042
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 8: I'm really when somebody ran red, like yeah, somebody, but open.

1043
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 15: Somebody ran it would be like a first time thing.

1044
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 25: Yeah yeah, but no, they at that point I found

1045
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 25: that they were old enough and mature enough, and you're

1046
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 25: they're encountering things now, these conversations are being had amongst

1047
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 25: their peers, and I knew that if I didn't set

1048
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 25: them straight that they were going to be absorbing all

1049
00:44:56,239 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 25: of this wrong information and wrong idea. So I told

1050
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 25: them sex feels good. It's a pleasureful experience. God made

1051
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 25: us that way because God wants us to reproduce. He

1052
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 25: wants us to create offspring. So he made it something

1053
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 25: that we would enjoy. But it's meant for someone that

1054
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 25: you love, and that's the reason why. So they're like, oh, okay,

1055
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 25: so what is it.

1056
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 10: Like and what did you say?

1057
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 25: Okay, if I'm being honest, I told them that there

1058
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,240
Speaker 25: is a penis and there is a vagina.

1059
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 27: And my son Logan was like, so like this. I

1060
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 27: was like, yeah, something like that. I said, you know,

1061
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 27: some people look at it as a negative thing. No, no, no,

1062
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 27: he really didn't know. He really didn't.

1063
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 4: He really didn't.

1064
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 25: Even like my eleven year old son right now, he

1065
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 25: does not know. So when they asked me questions that

1066
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 25: I don't want them to know about. And he's older

1067
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 25: than Logan was. But now with I have a better

1068
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 25: grip on his friends and a grip on what he's

1069
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 25: exposed to on his phone and whatnot in Parameter's boundaries,

1070
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 25: so I'm really abreast of what he knows and what

1071
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 25: he doesn't and our lines of communication are way better.

1072
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have more with Gia Casey when we come back.

1073
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 2: Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.

1074
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 2: It's a Guy to Raise It, empowered children and it's

1075
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Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club the War.

1076
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Speaker 5: Bring Everybody's dj n V, Jesse, Hilarry and Charlamagne to God.

1077
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Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Long LaRosa is here as

1078
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 2: well as we're kicking it with Gia Casey. Our new book,

1079
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 2: Real Life, Real Family is out today. You can pick

1080
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 2: it up at Amazon, Bonds and Nobles or Audible.

1081
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 6: Jess, you have six kids, So is there anything that

1082
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 6: you felt like in the beginning got itt know and

1083
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 6: until y'all got to that six kid.

1084
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 25: Of course, yeah, like what were some of the I'll

1085
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 25: give you a next example, But you didn't know.

1086
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 8: You just was like man Rashan winging this like I'll.

1087
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 25: Give you, I'll give you an example. So one of

1088
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 25: the fails. And this was something that we disagreed on.

1089
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 25: So it was the explaining everything to the kids. I

1090
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 25: have the patience to do it. And he really is

1091
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 25: a because I said so type of guy and it

1092
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 25: worked beautifully with Madison, but with Logan from a young age.

1093
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 25: I would explain everything to him, and he's a mama's.

1094
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 13: Boy times thirty, you know what I mean.

1095
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 25: Like, we're very, very close. But it kind of went

1096
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 25: wrong with him because what we found was that we

1097
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 25: created an environment where he felt that he was entitled

1098
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 25: to an explanation, and he felt as though because we

1099
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 25: gave him too safe of a space that he could

1100
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 25: challenge me, and he can challenge a decision that I made.

1101
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 25: So we had to dial that back too, and then

1102
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 25: we had to teach boundaries and let him know his place.

1103
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 25: So that was a fail in a sense. And Rashalmud

1104
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 25: always look at me like, see I told you, Like

1105
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 25: see I told you, because.

1106
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: He's the guy. Because now I got to go discipline

1107
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 4: that me and Logan get into it. Now you can't

1108
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 4: beat Logan because Logan.

1109
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 2: So now I got a discipline Logan and then me

1110
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: and Logan get into it. But one thing about Logan

1111
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 2: and all of our kids, which is the craziest thing,

1112
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: is they're very forgiven. Like with Logan, I have to

1113
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 2: get sometimes so disrespectful for him to understand, and the

1114
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 2: next day he's like, hey Dad, what's up? And I'm like,

1115
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 2: hey Dad, what's up. But that's how he is, and

1116
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 2: he just has conversations. But we have those conversations and

1117
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: we understand and we talk. But he's he's the one

1118
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 2: that just like his mom.

1119
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 3: I love that you have a family mission state. Yes,

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00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 3: what is the mission statement? And tell people the importance

1121
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 3: of that.

1122
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 4: Well, just so we know. We don't have it on

1123
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 4: our wall and then make the kids read it when

1124
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 4: they walk in the house. It's statement.

1125
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 5: It's not like that.

1126
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 2: So our mission statement is just something that we, you know,

1127
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 2: as a family, we all live by, right, And I'll

1128
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 2: read some of them. And the reason is is we

1129
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 2: are a close unit. Right, So if you see us together,

1130
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: we're all always out together. You see me the other

1131
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 2: day with Jackson, You've seen me before and Charlamande seen before.

1132
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: So the mission statement is we are a unit, right.

1133
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 2: We all ride together like we are really a unit,

1134
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 2: a unit. I'm an only child, so I'm heavy into

1135
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,280
Speaker 2: taking care of each other. We respect each other, of course,

1136
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: simple like we make sure that you know, we respect

1137
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 2: each other's feeling.

1138
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 4: We always have each other's backs. That's one thing that

1139
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 4: we always do.

1140
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: And it you know, sometimes when we have conversations up here,

1141
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 2: I always talk about my kids, so when they see

1142
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 2: stuff on social media at times I have to stop

1143
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: them because they will go in especially Logan Logan, Oh yeah.

1144
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 4: We always love.

1145
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 5: Uplift each other and pointing out the good in one another.

1146
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 4: Right.

1147
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 2: We see that more especially with our girls in dance

1148
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: because they compete against each other a lot, so when

1149
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: they do, we have to make sure that regardless of

1150
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 2: what happens. Like a couple of weeks ago, London lost

1151
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: and we thought London got jerked. So I told, you know,

1152
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with Brooklyn, and Brooklyn was like that,

1153
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 2: don't worry, I'm gonna get first and second four And

1154
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 2: she went out there and busted.

1155
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 5: At the first and second.

1156
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 25: She got first place and second again.

1157
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 2: You know, gave the first place to her sister because

1158
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:49,839
Speaker 2: that's what it was. We represent each other at all times.

1159
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 2: That's how it always is. So we always tell our

1160
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 2: kids if we're not there, you make sure that those

1161
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 2: parents come back and say, oh my gosh, she was

1162
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 2: such a pleasure. He was polite, He was this even

1163
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 2: with Jackson at the game. You know, Jackson said thank

1164
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 2: you a million one time, so you said hello million

1165
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 2: one times. You because that's what he's taught to do.

1166
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 4: That you show respect with that.

1167
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 25: My goal for my kids is that when they leave

1168
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 25: our house, I want everyone that they come in contact

1169
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 25: with to know that they're well loved. What we teach

1170
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 25: you inside this house you exemplify outside of this house.

1171
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 25: And these are things that a lot of parents don't

1172
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 25: put into perspective when raising children, because what do we

1173
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 25: usually do. We take, like, you know, an idea, and

1174
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 25: we throw it up against the wall.

1175
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 26: We see if it sticks or not.

1176
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 8: You know what I mean?

1177
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 25: Oh that worked, Oh that didn't.

1178
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:33,720
Speaker 15: Okay.

1179
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 25: But a lot of people don't have something tangible that

1180
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 25: they can go back to and be like, this is

1181
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 25: a way to create a foundation, This is a way

1182
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 25: to create a structure. And because we had so many

1183
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 25: ups and downs, we were able to do that and

1184
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 25: put it in one place.

1185
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 5: And I think the biggest story I now you hate

1186
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 5: want to tell a story was Jackson.

1187
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 7: Right.

1188
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 5: So we had a parent teachers night a couple of

1189
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 5: weeks ago.

1190
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 4: Oh, and a teacher came up to me teach it.

1191
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 4: I had no idea.

1192
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 5: You know, he was a stem night stem night.

1193
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 2: So he walks up to me, he was like, are

1194
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 2: you Jackson's dad, and I'm like, yeah, what A teacher

1195
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 2: usually asked that bs right. So I'm like, oh, hey,

1196
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 2: we go what did Jackson do? And he was like,

1197
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 2: I just want to tell you. You know, Jackson did

1198
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: something that no child adult has done in my life.

1199
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 2: The other day, I'm walking down the hall and Jackson

1200
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 2: comes running up to me and he goes, you.

1201
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 13: Know, are you okay?

1202
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 4: And the teacher was like, what do you mean.

1203
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 5: He was like, you just don't look as happy as

1204
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 5: usually do.

1205
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 4: Are you are right?

1206
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: Is anything bothering you? Would you like to have a

1207
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: conversation with me and just talk it through. He's like, now,

1208
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 2: you just don't seem as happy as you do, but

1209
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 2: don't let things stretch you out. Just pray on it

1210
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: and tomorrow be better, right, and if you need to talk.

1211
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 4: To me, come talk to me.

1212
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 2: And he said Jackson ran off and he was like,

1213
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 2: I've never had an adult or a child ever do

1214
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 2: that to me. So he was like, whatever you're doing

1215
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 2: at home, continue that, and you know, I mean that

1216
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 2: just shows.

1217
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 4: What the kids are learning at home is worth everything.

1218
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 4: So you need to report that teacher too. He don't

1219
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 4: need to be in the school.

1220
00:51:54,239 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 5: Like you got some time, such a beautiful.

1221
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 25: Fam Thank you, thank you you know.

1222
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 2: Have you, thank you for pulling up And for everybody else,

1223
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 2: we just want to add this last part. We actually

1224
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 2: wrote it with somebody that helped us out.

1225
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 5: With terms and helped us with different phrases and helped

1226
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 5: us with made sure that we were actually doing the

1227
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 5: right thing when it came to raising our kids.

1228
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 25: Yes, so we wrote it alongside a psychologist because yes,

1229
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 25: because we wanted to make sure that our outlooks were

1230
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 25: were on the level that I would want to put

1231
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,280
Speaker 25: it out to the public. I wanted the psychological research

1232
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 25: and quarterbacking behind the way that we parent to pretty

1233
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 25: much put a stamp on it, to know that what

1234
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 25: we're doing not just from our personal experience driven point

1235
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 25: of view is sound, but from a psychological point of

1236
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 25: view is also sound. I wanted to make sure that

1237
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 25: alongside the truth and the transparency and the experience that

1238
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 25: we had that back to the book as well. I

1239
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 25: wanted that level of value in the book as well.

1240
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 25: So and also, you know, if you have a child

1241
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 25: with anxiety, add ADHD, other setbacks, other disabilities, you know

1242
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 25: we speak to you in this book as well. Because

1243
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 25: those people are very like they don't have that many resources.

1244
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 25: This book is for anyone who is a parent, a

1245
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 25: single parent, a parent that.

1246
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 5: Is married, maybe about to have kids in next.

1247
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 25: Time, someone that wants to have a child.

1248
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 10: Wow, you.

1249
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 25: Look over, thank you, It's it's It's it's forever. It's

1250
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 25: a very relatable book and there's a lot of exercises

1251
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 25: in the book. We kind of also created it in

1252
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 25: like a workbook style, so there's a lot of reflections.

1253
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 25: There's a lot of places in there for you to

1254
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 25: answer questions so you can kind of analyze yourself and

1255
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 25: understand your own point of view in a way of

1256
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 25: like articulation, where if you haven't really thought about certain things,

1257
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 25: it'll jog you to think about things. And even if

1258
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 25: you don't do don't take our take, it encourages you

1259
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 25: and helps you to come up with your own takes

1260
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 25: on parenting so you have real family.

1261
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 4: The Casey Crew, the Breakfast Club, drop on the clothes

1262
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 4: bomb for a while, Gonna give us some new music.

1263
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 15: Man you ask new music, Yeah, I don't know the

1264
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 15: exact names and stuff, but he has something. He has

1265
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 15: something on.

1266
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,959
Speaker 3: Make sure you go get DJ envying gear Casey's new book,

1267
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:20,720
Speaker 3: Real Life, Real Family, A Guide to Raising Empowered Children.

1268
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 8: I don't know why.

1269
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 4: And he just told everybody that he gave me the

1270
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 4: ass and that I did not. Sagg I said, you

1271
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 4: gave me the ass?

1272
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: Whoa First of all, I would never be a bottom exactly.

1273
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 15: The girls do say you get bottom.

1274
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 4: Give is one thing. Being is another.

1275
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 5: Let's get to the latest with Lauren wan becoming a

1276
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 5: straight fast. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.

1277
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 15: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.

1278
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on you, the.

1279
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 11: Latest with Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details,

1280
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 11: sometimes you have a little bit every time.

1281
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 13: It's the leader on the Breakfast Club.

1282
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 23: So speaking of DJ Mvy and Gia in Real Life,

1283
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 23: Real Family A Guide to Raise it Empowered Children. Uh,

1284
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 23: the envy, You and Gia were on Mandy's podcasts, many podcasts.

1285
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 4: That's right, decisions decisions, Yes, go Jack.

1286
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 23: So you guys sat down with them and you talked

1287
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 23: a lot about your family, your relationship, your love.

1288
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 15: But for some reason you went back to the Oregon.

1289
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 5: I didn't go back.

1290
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 4: I didn't go back.

1291
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 15: How did do you want to explain how you ended

1292
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 15: up there.

1293
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 4: I don't know how we ended.

1294
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 3: Tell me what you're talking about. First law for those

1295
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 3: who haven't read the first book, and tell them what happened.

1296
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 23: So for those who have not read dj Mvy's first book,

1297
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 23: he talks about in the book not being able to

1298
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 23: make his wife Gia orgasm for how long Envy?

1299
00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 4: Ten years? A whole, decade, a whole.

1300
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 15: You have a child older than ten years old.

1301
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 2: That's not true. It's it's out of but I don't know.

1302
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 2: But go ahead, why is it not true when you

1303
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 2: said it?

1304
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 4: Ahead?

1305
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 23: Please, we have audio of MB explained NB and GI

1306
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 23: explaining how that story was twisted.

1307
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 15: Let's take a listen to the.

1308
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 6: Twisted What's something you told in either book that you

1309
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 6: were like, I can't believe we just gave this up.

1310
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 5: The first one, I don't care.

1311
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 4: But the first one is the orgasm thing.

1312
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 8: Oh, that you never made her orgasm is crazy.

1313
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 26: Not never up until a certain point.

1314
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 8: She's crazy that you said you stayed because girls, my

1315
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 8: mouth was good.

1316
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,919
Speaker 5: It's just my game for clarification.

1317
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 10: Up to a certain point.

1318
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 25: I wasn't regularly having orgasms through intercourse, other I was

1319
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 25: having orgasms in other ways.

1320
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 8: Which is That's not what I thought.

1321
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 15: That's not what I because that's not how the media

1322
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 15: is spunished.

1323
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 4: I had anyone read the book, they would understand.

1324
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 26: It's not that I was this long suffering.

1325
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 5: Wife hashtag poor Gilla though.

1326
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Speaker 3: Forgive Yeah no, if that wasn't a whole decade, ten years,

1327
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 3: three thousand, six hundred and fifty days.

1328
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 5: I like, you know, I have a book.

1329
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 15: It down for envy.

1330
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 2: He'd be doing that and talks about that, talks about

1331
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 2: our family and kids, and that's the clip you pull her.

1332
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 23: Yes, because I really don't understand why you went back here,

1333
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 23: and we had to explained how you got to the kids.

1334
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 4: Are almost didting decisions? Decisions?

1335
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 23: Another thing that another thing that I thought was interesting

1336
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 23: from this conversation.

1337
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 15: I've never heard this side of it.

1338
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 23: Gia actually explained that she feels like it was actually

1339
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 23: her that was a part of the non orgasm problem.

1340
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 15: Let's take a listen.

1341
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 25: Through vaginal penetration every single time I get busy. Now,

1342
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 25: it's didn't get busy, It had nothing to do with it.

1343
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 5: So, which is the about men entering the sexual space?

1344
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 13: Right?

1345
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 5: There's nobody to talk who never sat down to your point?

1346
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 10: What what do most guys do?

1347
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 5: They watched Point and when you watch Point or you see.

1348
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 4: Is bang bang bang bang book, right, So you start trying.

1349
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 2: To do that, you realize there was no sensuality, You

1350
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 2: realize there was no touch. You realize it's a movie.

1351
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 25: That's a very very small part of it. So the

1352
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 25: problem was the problem was me, and I was too

1353
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 25: young to understand your body, my body. So when I

1354
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 25: was in that role, it was about me performing for

1355
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 25: my boyfriend, me performing for my husband. So I was

1356
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 25: in so much of a pleasure mode that I neglected myself.

1357
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:38,919
Speaker 2: Mmm.

1358
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 10: You know what, though I ain't gonna hold you that,

1359
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 10: you know I was.

1360
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 6: I thought she was making excuses for little envy, uh

1361
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 6: you know before But you know that is actually something

1362
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 6: very true because honestly, I didn't have an orgasm until

1363
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 6: later on.

1364
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 8: Either, like, and I didn't know what was happening. I

1365
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 8: didn't know what was you know what I'm saying. So

1366
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 8: I do understand. But she, y'all should have said that

1367
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 8: in the first book, exactly said that in.

1368
00:58:58,400 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 5: The first book.

1369
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: But Charlemagne only took a certain part out and been

1370
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 2: going with this part for the last five years.

1371
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 3: Real life real orgasm, A guy having an empowered for

1372
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 3: a gasm.

1373
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 13: Out to date.

1374
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: Oh my godess, there's so much you could have took

1375
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: from the book, so many things that we talked about

1376
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 2: the kids.

1377
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 13: But that's where you wanted to go.

1378
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 4: Okay.

1379
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 23: I wanted you to know, as a media personality, you

1380
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 23: should know how to not say certain things.

1381
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 15: You said, my pen game. You had to get your

1382
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 15: pen game right? My pen pen? Oh you said pen?

1383
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 15: I get busy?

1384
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 23: Now is the quote you want people to leave with

1385
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 23: from this interviews?

1386
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 5: What y'all took?

1387
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 3: Well, you know, I can't wait for real life update

1388
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 3: on his ten years of not giving his wife an orgasm.

1389
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 4: I get busy now. I can't wait for real life

1390
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 4: real wigs to come out. Becau.

1391
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 8: We're gonna have some conversations, real life real wigs.

1392
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 26: You heard them.

1393
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 15: Just it's cool. You know what I'm gonna do to

1394
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 15: help fund that book? There is another go fun me.

1395
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 23: I saw it surfaced online this morning, hashtags still poor Gia.

1396
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, you'll better not doing a dollar. This

1397
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 4: thing's twenty.

1398
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:00,959
Speaker 15: Four thousand dollars?

1399
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 4: Is the goal?

1400
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 15: You've been together twenty four years?

1401
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 12: Right?

1402
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 4: Thirty one years?

1403
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 15: Thirty one.

1404
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 4: Oh, shoot, we've been married twenty four.

1405
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 23: We gave her twenty four because the length of the

1406
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 23: marriage is what we're trying to compensate.

1407
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 13: The point of the goal.

1408
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 4: Fund me again.

1409
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 15: She they and be said the dad created them early

1410
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 15: on so she could use the money to go get pleasure.

1411
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 10: Damn.

1412
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 8: So I say, it's still pooring pleasure you get every

1413
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 8: time we continue on.

1414
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 4: Please, that's in the book, that no dad book, that's

1415
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 4: not in the books.

1416
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 5: You mean to go get pleasure? That's not I don't

1417
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 5: know if you talk your wife raising money, she's not

1418
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 5: raising no money, man joking.

1419
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 10: People don't believe you.

1420
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 4: To go get pleasure from who?

1421
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 7: What?

1422
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 4: What is what Lauren just talking about on this riding.

1423
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 23: Please make sure you guys go get real life, real family,

1424
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 23: a guid to raise empowered children and understand your pen game.

1425
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 4: Well, raise the father who raising the father in that house.

1426
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 4: That's what I need, logan. You're raising the father who're

1427
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 4: raising the daddy in that house? And we check your

1428
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 4: phone book is out now, and so is that not?

1429
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 15: Where did they grab the book from?

1430
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 2: And they can get it from Balls and Nobles anywhere

1431
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 2: on Amazon. Who y'all really created to go fund me man,

1432
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 2: take that down. You know who put you know what

1433
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 2: support Gear's journey to relief hashtags still pull.

1434
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my goodness, you know what.

1435
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 23: Go grab the book, do y'all'll you'll know, y'all some

1436
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 23: of my favorite married couples and engaged couples. Yes, I

1437
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 23: love hearing y'all talking about your relationships.

1438
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 8: Thanks, mate, So you know what not to doe.

1439
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 3: She ain't never got to worry about it. Oh, don't

1440
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 3: even worry about it. She'll never be in that situation.

1441
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 8: You know what?

1442
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 10: Was crazy?

1443
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 8: Y'all gonna be real shocked when y'all see a man

1444
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 8: come up there for her.

1445
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 4: That's we are.

1446
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 3: When that guy get down on his knees and pull

1447
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 3: a ring out of Lauren Wig and she didn't even

1448
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,919
Speaker 3: know what it was, I'm gonna be shot.

1449
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 4: I'm just like, Wow. I just hope I'm allowed to

1450
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 4: see it. I hope by ninety nine, and I hope

1451
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 4: I'm allowed to be sure you want to do this? Sorry,

1452
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 4: Oh ma'am are you sure?

1453
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 8: Or ma'am or ma'am listen, it's going to happen. It's

1454
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 8: gonna happen, period.

1455
01:01:59,320 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 13: All right.

1456
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 5: Well, that was the latest with Lauren. I guess all right,

1457
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 5: Charlamage here, you give me a donkey too.

1458
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 3: We need a man named Edgar Verdusco. I don't know

1459
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 3: if that's how he pronounced his last name, but he

1460
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 3: needs to come to the front of the congregation. We

1461
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 3: would like to have a word with him. He does

1462
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 3: not care about other humans on this planet, and he's

1463
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 3: the reason why I hate humans. We'll discuss, all right.

1464
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 4: We'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.

1465
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,919
Speaker 13: Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.

1466
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 5: I was donkey up today, man, Damn he hogged.

1467
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 13: It's time the donkey of the j I mean trying

1468
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 13: to be donkey today.

1469
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 8: No more.

1470
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 4: They should be harassed by what they already did. I'm

1471
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 4: not making these people do these.

1472
01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 15: Days called donkey of the day, and it really caught

1473
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 15: me off guard. Damn Charlomagne, who got the donkey.

1474
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 26: Of the day today?

1475
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 4: Will jess hilarious?

1476
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 3: Donkey today for Tuesday, April fifteenth goes to a thirty

1477
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 3: four year old former police officer named Edgar Verdusco. He

1478
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 3: used to be a police officer for the Los Angeles

1479
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 3: Police Department and he is the latest example of why

1480
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 3: I simply hate humans.

1481
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 4: I've come to the conclusion that what annoys me about.

1482
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 3: Life the most is people, which is crange because the

1483
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 3: thing I love most about life is people.

1484
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 4: But I like considerate people.

1485
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 3: Okay, we had mel Robbins up here yesterday and she

1486
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 3: was speaking to how emotionally disconnected some people are from

1487
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 3: the actual human experience, and this story is just another

1488
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 3: example of that. Edgar on Friday pled guilty to three

1489
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 3: counts of murder. Okay, this man killed a mother, of

1490
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 3: father and a teenage son. Would you like to know

1491
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 3: how it happened. Let's go to ABC seven Eye with

1492
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:25,919
Speaker 3: his news for the report.

1493
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: Police, a former LAPD officer is heading to prison after

1494
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 1: pleading guilty to murder in a fiery DUI crash. Thirty

1495
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 1: four year old Edgar Verdusco faces fifteen years to life

1496
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: for killing three people on the six OZ five Freeway

1497
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: and twenty seventeen. The off duty police officer was driving

1498
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty miles an hour while under the

1499
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: influence of alcohol when he hit two vehicles. One of

1500
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: them plowed into the center divider and burst into flames,

1501
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,320
Speaker 1: killing Marabelle and Mario Davalla and their nineteen year old

1502
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: son Oscar, who was a student at UC Riverside for DUSCO,

1503
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: is due back in court in July for sentencing rest

1504
01:03:59,560 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: in peace.

1505
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 3: Today, that family man dead because of somebody else's negligence. Edgar,

1506
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 3: you have to get the book thrown at you. Okay,

1507
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 3: put him under the prison. You're a police officer, so

1508
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 3: you know the law. You knew drinking and driving, the speeding,

1509
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 3: the reckless driving, vehicular homicide. You know the law and

1510
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 3: you know what all that carries. Plus your job is

1511
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 3: to protect and serve. You did none of that, so

1512
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 3: your penalty has to be harsh.

1513
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 4: Okay.

1514
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 3: And I'm taking in this story and it makes me

1515
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 3: feel why did God give us free will? Okay, I'm

1516
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 3: glad God gave it to us. But free will is

1517
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 3: like a baked potato. Okay, it needs toppings to really

1518
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 3: elevate it. Okay, you can eat a big potato plane.

1519
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 3: But when you put butter on it, or sour cream,

1520
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 3: or chives or salt or pepper. Some people like cheese.

1521
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 3: I'm lactose in tolerance, so I don't do that. Some

1522
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 3: people like chili on it, green onions. I've seen broccoli

1523
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 3: on big potatoes. My point is free will, and free

1524
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 3: will alone is not enough, Okay. In order to maximize

1525
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 3: free will, you need self awareness. You need to pay

1526
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 3: attention to the present moment. You need to manage your

1527
01:04:58,120 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 3: emotional state. You need to be of good case.

1528
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 4: And you don't need to be on drugs and alcohol

1529
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 4: because those things caused you to make poor choices with

1530
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 4: that free will. And what does your uncle Shall always.

1531
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 3: Tell you on this damn radio, Destiny is not a

1532
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 3: matter of chance, It's a matter of choice. This guy,

1533
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 3: Edgar exercised his free will to make a poor choice.

1534
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 4: And this is why I don't like humans.

1535
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 3: When mel Robbins was here talking about people who leave

1536
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 3: the bathroom disgusting, it hit me because that's one of

1537
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 3: my pet peeves. I hate when I walk in the

1538
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 3: bathroom and see somebody else's dodo in the toilet. Even worse,

1539
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 3: when you see that they left the toilet lining on

1540
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 3: the seat, It's like, what type of rush are you in?

1541
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 4: Don't you know other people have to use this bathroom.

1542
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 4: I feel the same way about drunk driving.

1543
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 3: Okay, now you're talking to a person who almost killed

1544
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 3: himself drunk driving.

1545
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 4: When I was a young lad, so I'm speaking from experience.

1546
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 4: I was selfish. I wasn't thinking about anybody but myself.

1547
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 3: I had zero regard for other people's lives in that moment,

1548
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 3: and thank God, my dumb ass you know when I wrecked,

1549
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 3: didn't kill myself or anyone else. For more on that story,

1550
01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 3: go to Amazon and purchase my first book, Black Privilege, Opportunity.

1551
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 3: He comes to those who created available everywhere you buy books. Now,

1552
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 3: I hate people, Okay, This man Edgar posted a video

1553
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 3: on social media with the hashtag Oh, that's the part

1554
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 3: of the story I left up. This man Edgar posted

1555
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 3: a video on social media with the hashtag don't drink

1556
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 3: and drive, and then shortly after gotten his card, drunk

1557
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 3: and killed three people.

1558
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 4: I repeat, this man Edgar posted a.

1559
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 3: Video on social media with the hashtag don't drink and drive,

1560
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 3: and then shortly after killed three people drunk driving.

1561
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 4: This goes back to what I said.

1562
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 3: About self awareness, paying attention to the present moment. God,

1563
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 3: God literally told Edgar what to do, and he did

1564
01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 3: the opposite. We have all these conversations about signs, look

1565
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 3: for signs. God put it in his head, in his

1566
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 3: heart so much that he shared with social.

1567
01:06:55,760 --> 01:07:01,919
Speaker 4: Media a message that he ignored. Don't drink and drive, Edgar.

1568
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 4: That was for you in that moment. It doesn't get

1569
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 4: much clearer in that gang, but you can see.

1570
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 3: It because you are a human being that is so

1571
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 3: disconnected from the interconnection to the human experience. I don't

1572
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 3: care if you drinking and driving or leaving a public

1573
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 3: bathroom filthy. When you do those things, you are simply

1574
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 3: not thinking about other people. But don't listen to me though, Okay,

1575
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 3: I just stopped being a sociopath about a decade ago.

1576
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 4: Mel Robbins explains it way better than me.

1577
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 28: When you go into a public bathroom, two things. I

1578
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 28: always leave the space better than when I found it.

1579
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 28: If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over it and

1580
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 28: then they leave, that is a human being that is

1581
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 28: so disconnected ooh, from the interconnection of the human experience.

1582
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 28: You are leaving that for another person, and so making

1583
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 28: sure that you don't leave your mess for another person,

1584
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 28: making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter.

1585
01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 28: And then here's the second thing. If there is a

1586
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 28: human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai

1587
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 28: and say thank you all the time, all the time,

1588
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 28: like that, right, there is a simple thing that will

1589
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 28: make you start to shake out of that woe is

1590
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 28: me or that stress or that overwhelm. Let them know

1591
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 28: you appreciate and see what they're doing.

1592
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 8: Like you know, I can't let you.

1593
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 10: I'm gonna cry.

1594
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 28: People are just walking around disconnected and the power of

1595
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 28: starting to be the one that wakes people up. These

1596
01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 28: relationships matter because they make you feel human again.

1597
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 3: The moral of the story is get connected to the

1598
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,720
Speaker 3: interconnection of the human experience.

1599
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:42,600
Speaker 4: You're not on this earth alone. Please let rem Ma

1600
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:45,560
Speaker 4: give Edgar Ford Dusk the biggest he huh hee ha

1601
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 4: he ha, You stupid mother, Are you dumb?

1602
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 2: All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, ma'am,

1603
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 2: all right now when we come back eight hundreds, just

1604
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:58,560
Speaker 2: ignore it, just ignore it, just ignore it.

1605
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 5: Dis ignore it. He's fantasized right now.

1606
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 13: Ignore it.

1607
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one on five won. My book,

1608
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 2: Real Life, Real Family is out today. Gea was just

1609
01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 2: joined the breakfast club. What about forty five minutes ago,

1610
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 2: and we were talking about how we raised our kids,

1611
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 2: and this is how the conversation went.

1612
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 8: Would you say that you and and we have two

1613
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,839
Speaker 8: different parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient.

1614
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the

1615
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said so, gear is

1616
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 2: a lot different. She wants to know why, Yeah, did

1617
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 2: you feel that?

1618
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 4: But I she likes to break down. Yeah, you don't

1619
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 4: get it.

1620
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right

1621
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 8: words exactly.

1622
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 2: So you gotta think, really think before you speak to

1623
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,320
Speaker 2: up because she's like, all right, explain that, like I

1624
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 2: just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.

1625
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 2: But so I'm more like, because I said so, she's

1626
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 2: more like, well, you can't go to the more because

1627
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 2: of this, because this could happen. Explain your parenting style.

1628
01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 2: Mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't

1629
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 2: ask why, it just it was what it was. You

1630
01:09:57,640 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 2: just figured out later.

1631
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:00,759
Speaker 4: Gar is a little different the explanation.

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01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 25: Yeah, so that's how my parents were with me. I

1633
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 25: knew that my parents never said no just for the

1634
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 25: sake of saying no, because parents are overworked and they

1635
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 25: are stressed. You really have to take a moment. You

1636
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 25: have to take a beat. We all have to take

1637
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 25: a beat to listen to our children and be patient.

1638
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:20,600
Speaker 25: And because I knew that my parents were invested in

1639
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:22,720
Speaker 25: me that way. I knew that when they said no,

1640
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 25: there was a good reason.

1641
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh

1642
01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:31,080
Speaker 2: five one. How does your parenting style different from your partners?

1643
01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:31,559
Speaker 22: Yeah?

1644
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 3: I mean explanations are good. That's how you learn, not

1645
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 3: just in parenting, like even just as a couple. For example,

1646
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 3: if you say to your wife, did you orgasm and

1647
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 3: she says no, you know she should explain to you

1648
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 3: why she didn't so you can make her the next time.

1649
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 2: Right, So the question is eight hundred five eight five

1650
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 2: one oh five one. How does your parent iss style

1651
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 2: different from your partners?

1652
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 5: Like Jess.

1653
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm sure you and Chris is your parent are different

1654
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 2: or even you Enrome. So when we come back, we'll

1655
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 2: find out, you know, how it differs and which one works?

1656
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:00,799
Speaker 2: You say, I just ignore Charla.

1657
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 3: Made yes like yesterday for the birthdays. I'm sure y'all

1658
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 3: did two different things.

1659
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 12: Right?

1660
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 8: No? No, No, Rome had actually work So Rome had

1661
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:08,680
Speaker 8: them last week? Got you?

1662
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 10: Yeah, then he came.

1663
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 2: So that is the question, and what impact does it

1664
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 2: have on your child? Eight hundred five eight five one

1665
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 2: oh five one. You want to kiss me? I can

1666
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 2: tell I could tell are you talking to just like that,

1667
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 2: I'm talking to you.

1668
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 10: I don't even like them.

1669
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 13: The Breakfast Club. It's topic time.

1670
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five eight five one five one to

1671
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

1672
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 5: Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamage to God.

1673
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:51,640
Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us,

1674
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 2: my new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.

1675
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 2: You could pick it up at Barnes and Nobles, Apple,

1676
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 2: I said, Apple, Amazon, or wherever you buy your books.

1677
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 2: Is available on audible as well. Now, if you just

1678
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 2: join us. Geared just left and we were talking about

1679
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 2: our different parenting style. So we're asking eight hundred and

1680
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 2: five eight five one on five to one, how is

1681
01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 2: your parenting style different from your partners?

1682
01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 4: Is Gear talking about it?

1683
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 8: Would you say that you and and we have two

1684
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 8: different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.

1685
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the

1686
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said, so, Gear is

1687
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 2: a lot different.

1688
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:27,559
Speaker 13: She wants to know why.

1689
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, did you feel that she likes to break down? Yeah,

1690
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 8: you don't get it. You're gonna get it by the

1691
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 8: end of the right.

1692
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 26: Exactly.

1693
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak

1694
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,760
Speaker 2: to us, because she's like, all right, explain that like

1695
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 2: I just said it just.

1696
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 4: Because no, no, no, explain this now.

1697
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:44,560
Speaker 2: You know I came from you know, my dad is

1698
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 2: retired police officer, so his his way was always his

1699
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:48,799
Speaker 2: way or the highway.

1700
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 4: That's how he raised me.

1701
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 2: Gear is more patient and it works for us because

1702
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 2: it's kind of like good cop, bad cop. We play

1703
01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: off each other, which is great. So now how do

1704
01:12:57,280 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 2: you en Rome parent and you and Chris parent? Do

1705
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 2: your parents the same or different or I I no, me.

1706
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:04,760
Speaker 8: My parents thing is different from both of them. So

1707
01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 8: i'm'a start with Rome first.

1708
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 4: Rome he is.

1709
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 6: He Rome started off thinking everything was cute, like he

1710
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 6: loved cause Ash was his first born and he was young.

1711
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 8: We were young, so Rome was just happy to have

1712
01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:22,599
Speaker 8: uh a little boy. He ain't thinking everything Ash did

1713
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 8: was cute, talk back all of that until he got older.

1714
01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:30,520
Speaker 8: Then Rome ain't like that, so he he's a verbal disciplinarian.

1715
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:30,680
Speaker 18: Me.

1716
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 8: I always been like my mother. My mother was always

1717
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 8: the she was not leaning at all. She was always

1718
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 8: the disciplinarian parent.

1719
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 10: I was like that.

1720
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 6: I'm like that too, but Chris showed me and Rome

1721
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 6: a difference. And he didn't have no kids when we met,

1722
01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 6: Like he showed he implemented structure in the household.

1723
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 8: Like Ash has chores every day he wake up, he

1724
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 8: he we shouldn't have to tell him to wash the

1725
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 8: dishes from the night before. Yeh, take out the trash,

1726
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,760
Speaker 8: clean his room, sweep down the steps, make sure that

1727
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,000
Speaker 8: you know your dog is wal your dog is fitted.

1728
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 8: Is your dog. I was doing on all of that

1729
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 8: before him, I mean for him, before Chris had came

1730
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 8: into the picture. And now is Ash opens doors for me.

1731
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 8: He he practiced his manners much more, you know what

1732
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:13,800
Speaker 8: I mean?

1733
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 5: Like so is Chris.

1734
01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 8: Chris definitely made a big difference.

1735
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 4: And for sure, And what about you, shelaman.

1736
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 3: I don't mean I don't know what my parents and

1737
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 3: style is. You know what I'm saying. I got four daughters. Uh,

1738
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 3: and these new kids different because these new kids because

1739
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 3: they're just not they don't they're not afraid of us

1740
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 3: like they don't have Like you know, I had a

1741
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:33,799
Speaker 3: healthy fear of my mother and father.

1742
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 4: Because of the whippings. You know what I'm saying.

1743
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 3: Man Like I don't with my kids so they listen

1744
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:40,640
Speaker 3: to us when they want to. If we get on

1745
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:42,840
Speaker 3: they ass don't get me wrong, but it takes a lot.

1746
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 3: And I'm not one of them. I don't think me

1747
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 3: all my wife with those gentle parents where it's's like,

1748
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:50,759
Speaker 3: what's run is that you know we we will comfort

1749
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 3: them and you know when we see, you know, certain

1750
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 3: emotions coming, we understand that. Okay, there's something else going

1751
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 3: on here. But you know we not them pushover parents.

1752
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:01,719
Speaker 3: I know them push over parents.

1753
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 10: You are certainly a pushover parent.

1754
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 8: Your wife is not, but you are. Don't go to

1755
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 8: be walking all over tappy use that's true.

1756
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 5: But I'm a daddy.

1757
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what I don't know what to do,

1758
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 3: and then I yell and then apologize because I feel

1759
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 3: bad for yelling at the hell.

1760
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying like, I don't.

1761
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 8: I don't.

1762
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 4: I don't know what my parents' style is, but I

1763
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 4: won't say this.

1764
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 3: The reality is as long as whatever your parents and

1765
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 3: style is is rooted in love, that's all that matters.

1766
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 13: Well, let's go to the phone line. So we got

1767
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:26,599
Speaker 13: Jay on the line.

1768
01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 4: Jay, good morning, Hey, good morning, how you guys doing good?

1769
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 4: We're talking about parenting style.

1770
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 7: Brother.

1771
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:34,840
Speaker 12: All Right, So growing up, I didn't hear a lot

1772
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 12: of I loved you. I knew that they loved me,

1773
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 12: but I didn't hear a lot of it. So my

1774
01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:45,680
Speaker 12: parenting style is I guess the fuller opposite. Where I

1775
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 12: tell them, I show them. I overload them with I

1776
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 12: love you. Yeah, and I got a twenty three year

1777
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:57,120
Speaker 12: old son, a sixteen year old and nine year old daughters,

1778
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,719
Speaker 12: and I hear it back from them, so it's amazing.

1779
01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 4: Yeah I agree with that. Yeah, yeah, me too.

1780
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 12: I'm dating somebody who I do love, but her parenting

1781
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 12: style is where the kid talk back a lot, and

1782
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 12: because I'm not their father, I try, and you know,

1783
01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:21,439
Speaker 12: I play the background. I try and reinforce what she

1784
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 12: said to them, but it eats at me so much.

1785
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,800
Speaker 12: So I don't know how to How would you guys

1786
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 12: navigate handling somebody else's kids with their parents and style.

1787
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 3: That ain't your business until you marry that woman and

1788
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 3: then they become your step kids. At this point, that's

1789
01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 3: really not your that's not your business. And like you said,

1790
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 3: you can't really parent somebody else's kids. You kind of

1791
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 3: got to do it through her, you know, if you

1792
01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 3: feel like they're being disrespectful. I think you have to

1793
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 3: have that conversation just just in that situation.

1794
01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 8: Yeah, absolutely, if you if you live with your girlfriend,

1795
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,720
Speaker 8: it is different. It is different because you know, I'm

1796
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 8: not about to let nobody kid disrespect me.

1797
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.

1798
01:16:57,840 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 8: If you live there, I mean.

1799
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 5: If you do you there with them?

1800
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 7: No, No, I don't.

1801
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 4: I don't.

1802
01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:04,760
Speaker 7: I don't live there.

1803
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 12: But to this point, for the year, I haven't really

1804
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 12: asserted myself because, like I said, if not my plate,

1805
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:16,559
Speaker 12: But it's so hard to just stan back and hear

1806
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 12: the level of disrespect from those kids.

1807
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, you definitely got to sit down and have a

1808
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:23,560
Speaker 6: conversation with her, actually, because if she's going to allow it,

1809
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 6: it ain't really nothing that you can do.

1810
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 12: How old are the kids, Well, her kids are the

1811
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 12: fourteen year old girl and an eleven year old boy.

1812
01:17:33,160 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 12: And I'm telling you, like it may sound like an

1813
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:39,760
Speaker 12: over exaggeration, but they they talk.

1814
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 8: Oh no, I definitely understand it all the time.

1815
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:44,080
Speaker 10: Hell yeah, I get it.

1816
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 6: But if you're not about to marry your mom or

1817
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 6: be and marry their mom, or be in the house

1818
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 6: with them, it ain't really nothing that you can do.

1819
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 6: That's effective. You know today, mom step.

1820
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 4: In them little Kidsay, they're want to get their daddy

1821
01:17:57,120 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 4: didn't want you to get run.

1822
01:17:58,640 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 5: Hey yo, Hello, who's that?

1823
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:02,320
Speaker 21: This is Kia from Brooklyn.

1824
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,240
Speaker 5: Hey kid, good morning. We're talking about different parents and skills.

1825
01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 4: Talk to us styles. I should say.

1826
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 21: So my husband was raised on survival. I was raised

1827
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,759
Speaker 21: on love, so that transfers into our parents and stuffs.

1828
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 21: He's more like, man, you guys just figure it out.

1829
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 21: Me is like, okay, let's have a conversation. Let's process

1830
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 21: why you feel mad, why you feel sad. So our

1831
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 21: boys are six and fourtune and a fourteen year old,

1832
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 21: he just like bottles it up.

1833
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 20: I'm like, talk to me.

1834
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 21: That is like not hoop you all right?

1835
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I was.

1836
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 2: I was like that too at first because my dad

1837
01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 2: is like that, you know. I mean my dad was,

1838
01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 2: you know, man up, figure it out. My mom is,

1839
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:45,400
Speaker 2: you know, was more of the loving person. But I

1840
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 2: realize every kid is different and that man up thing

1841
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 2: it doesn't do anything, but I think hurts your kids

1842
01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 2: later on in life, Like if there's a problem, if

1843
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 2: there's an issue and they need to cry or they

1844
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 2: need to let their emotions or feelers go.

1845
01:18:57,600 --> 01:18:59,479
Speaker 5: I think you should allow that safe place for them

1846
01:18:59,520 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 5: to do that.

1847
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 4: How you gonna tell a little boy to man up

1848
01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 4: and he don't even know what a man is yet?

1849
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:04,360
Speaker 4: That's right? Yeah, yeah, I do.

1850
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 6: I do think though that that's a good balance for

1851
01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 6: the household though, you know what I mean, because even

1852
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:12,960
Speaker 6: though he was raised on survival, there are still advantages

1853
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 6: to that, Like he can teach the kids, like you

1854
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like you're the nurturer, that he's

1855
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 6: the more right, more so the survival you know those

1856
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:24,479
Speaker 6: as things they need those too.

1857
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 8: Yeah, so it's a good balance.

1858
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If

1859
01:19:28,840 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 2: you're just joining us, we're talking about different parenting styles. Now,

1860
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 2: my book came out today, Real Life, Real Family. You

1861
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 2: could pick it up anyway you buy books, Amazon or Audible,

1862
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 2: and we're asking, how is your parenting style different from

1863
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:41,639
Speaker 2: your partners?

1864
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 4: Let's discuss and how does this affect your kids? Just

1865
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 4: the breakfast club?

1866
01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:53,759
Speaker 13: Good morning, the breakfast club. Let's say, if y'all talking

1867
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:55,680
Speaker 13: about it, you know we talking about it.

1868
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 3: It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one

1869
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 3: five one To join into the discussion with the Breakfast.

1870
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 2: Club Morning everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious, Charlamagne the

1871
01:20:07,360 --> 01:20:08,800
Speaker 2: gud We are the Breakfast Club.

1872
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 5: If you're just joining us, Yeah, my wife was here earlier.

1873
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:13,800
Speaker 2: We were talking about our new book, Real Life, Real

1874
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 2: Family and talking about our different parenting styles.

1875
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 8: Listening, would you say that you and and we have

1876
01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:23,400
Speaker 8: two different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.

1877
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the

1878
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:28,760
Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said, so Ge is

1879
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:29,280
Speaker 2: a lot different.

1880
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:31,599
Speaker 5: She wants to know why.

1881
01:20:31,800 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, how did you feel that she likes.

1882
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:34,320
Speaker 8: To break down?

1883
01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't get it.

1884
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right

1885
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 8: words exactly.

1886
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:41,639
Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak

1887
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 2: to us, because she's like, all right, explain that, like

1888
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:45,720
Speaker 2: I just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.

1889
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh

1890
01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:51,639
Speaker 2: five to one, how do you parent your kids?

1891
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 4: Do you and your spouse? So you and your partner

1892
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:55,599
Speaker 4: have different parenting styles? How does it affect your kids?

1893
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 13: Hello?

1894
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:56,200
Speaker 5: Who's this?

1895
01:20:58,600 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 4: What's up?

1896
01:20:59,000 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 7: Brother?

1897
01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 4: Talk to us about you different parent the styles?

1898
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 7: Well, see, I was.

1899
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 19: Raised by all women, so it wasn't no male voice

1900
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:07,880
Speaker 19: in the house though, so but my kids get to

1901
01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 19: hear my voice all the time. I remember my mom

1902
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,720
Speaker 19: used to punish us by taking us over my other

1903
01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 19: house and making this cleaner house up, and I didn't

1904
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 19: understand it. I hated that out in sleep. It ain't

1905
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:22,840
Speaker 19: my house, but we gotta clean this house up. And

1906
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 19: it went on and I figured it out that was

1907
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:28,760
Speaker 19: our punishment. And me and my brother talk about that now, like,

1908
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 19: remember what Mama used to take a little cleaner house up.

1909
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 19: And I used to always say, I ain't cleaning up.

1910
01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 19: And then you didn't want that broomstick on you with

1911
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:39,000
Speaker 19: my uncle, you know, because he had come through. But

1912
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,680
Speaker 19: it tells with the way you were brought up. I

1913
01:21:41,880 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 19: was trying to mimit that. But I don't do all

1914
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 19: that because I do a lot of cleaning in my house.

1915
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 19: My kids tend to listen to me, but I don't.

1916
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:51,000
Speaker 19: I don't like the way they wash dishes, sweet floors,

1917
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 19: clean the bathroom, so I have to go up behind them.

1918
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:54,760
Speaker 13: You do it with your aunt.

1919
01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:57,639
Speaker 10: House always dirty though that's.

1920
01:21:58,400 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 7: Couldn't always dirty.

1921
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:02,680
Speaker 19: Wasn't about that being dirty because it's like like I

1922
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 19: just told you, I don't like the way my kids

1923
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 19: washed thish, so I go behind them right right right,

1924
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 19: Like you at a restaurant and you got some water

1925
01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 19: spots on the spoon or the not but or not

1926
01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 19: it's not dirty at water stam, But you would be

1927
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,680
Speaker 19: like many I use plastic silverware, or I don't need

1928
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 19: it at all.

1929
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:22,880
Speaker 4: I get it. I'll say this.

1930
01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 3: I think that all of us are better parents than

1931
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:28,479
Speaker 3: our parents were, simply because we don't beat our kids.

1932
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 4: Well, I ain't got me brought up. How old are you?

1933
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 7: My mama probably put me three times.

1934
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 4: Oh no old out here, I'm forty four.

1935
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:42,600
Speaker 25: Now.

1936
01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 4: It was green lights.

1937
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 7: Get't no beaten.

1938
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:47,400
Speaker 3: No, it was green lights from the whole community and

1939
01:22:47,520 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 3: who I was from. Everybody had permission to put hands

1940
01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:51,800
Speaker 3: on you. Now, my parents, my parents never beat me.

1941
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 2: Even the principals. Nah, my parents never beat me. I

1942
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:55,840
Speaker 2: got yoked up a lot, and the principal was able

1943
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 2: to yok you up. But I got yoked up, but

1944
01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 2: I was never beat.

1945
01:22:58,000 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 3: I got to be with an extension called my daddy

1946
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 3: beat me in this for it one time and maybe

1947
01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:01,679
Speaker 3: go take a bath.

1948
01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 4: That's abuse, sir.

1949
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 3: I have to have to go pick my own switch.

1950
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:05,280
Speaker 3: I could tell with c the NBU and grew up

1951
01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:07,799
Speaker 3: in the country. No you needed that though, you actually

1952
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 3: you needed to pick your own switch.

1953
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:09,760
Speaker 13: No I didn't.

1954
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 4: Yes, sir, Hello, who's this Hi?

1955
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:12,559
Speaker 20: It's Christina.

1956
01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 2: Hey, Christina, good morning. We're talking about different parenting styles

1957
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:16,759
Speaker 2: this morning.

1958
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 19: So the thing is is me and my husband.

1959
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,120
Speaker 20: And together for twenty four years. We have two kids,

1960
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 20: one twenty two, one fifteen, both boys, but their personalities

1961
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:29,519
Speaker 20: are totally different, so we deal with it differently.

1962
01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:31,559
Speaker 19: Our oldest son goes with the flow.

1963
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 20: He listened to whatever we told him. Mom and dad

1964
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,320
Speaker 20: is everything. The youngest one, we call them the great debater.

1965
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:40,879
Speaker 20: This kid will break down everything, wants.

1966
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 3: To know why this?

1967
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 7: Why that?

1968
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:44,559
Speaker 5: I got one of those yep, Oh my.

1969
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 20: Gosh, it's so aggravating. So we just accordingly two there

1970
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:50,840
Speaker 20: to their personalities.

1971
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 9: And my husband is a virgo like you and b

1972
01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:54,439
Speaker 9: so I think y'all.

1973
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 20: Peers and styles kind of a life.

1974
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 9: You don't have a lot of tolerance.

1975
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,879
Speaker 20: Like listen, this is what we're doing period.

1976
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 2: That is that is my my oldest boy, Logan. He

1977
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:05,679
Speaker 2: is the one that likes to He likes to debate

1978
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:07,000
Speaker 2: all the time, and I get to a point I

1979
01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:09,679
Speaker 2: get frustrated. I'm like, because I said, so, that's.

1980
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Speaker 3: Just And then he slams your punk ass, loading the

1981
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Speaker 3: man in the house with all the muscles. Helgan Logan say,

1982
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Speaker 3: I only debate my equals everybody else, I teach, grab

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Speaker 3: his daddy and slam his ass.

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Speaker 9: I'm not trying.

1985
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Speaker 4: I'm not debating with you. I'm teaching.

1986
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Speaker 12: You.

1987
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Speaker 5: Get Logan in trouble.

1988
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Speaker 13: Do noth right.

1989
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:31,120
Speaker 4: You get himself in trouble.

1990
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Speaker 17: They put on him just.

1991
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Speaker 4: But thank you Christina.

1992
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Speaker 19: Book and congratulations, thank you so much.

1993
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Speaker 2: Real Life for Family is the name of the book.

1994
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Speaker 2: You can pick it up on Audible or get it

1995
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Speaker 2: on Amazon. It's all about raising kids and we talk about,

1996
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Speaker 2: you know, different ways and different parenting styles. And we

1997
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Speaker 2: actually have like a little work book section where you

1998
01:24:53,479 --> 01:24:55,760
Speaker 2: could write the different things, and we asked questions just

1999
01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 2: to talk about parenting styles and things like that.

2000
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Speaker 3: And you know, I remember asking my mom when I

2001
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 3: have my I'm just like, you know what what advice?

2002
01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 3: And she just literally just said just love her. And

2003
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Speaker 3: that's literally how I move, Like, you know, you just

2004
01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:08,320
Speaker 3: gotta love your kids, And I like what the young

2005
01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 3: lady said earlier. She was like her uh, her husband

2006
01:25:11,560 --> 01:25:13,880
Speaker 3: raised raised their kids out of surviv He was raised

2007
01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 3: off survival, correct. And I always say my daddy raised

2008
01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:19,040
Speaker 3: me out of fear and not love, not saying he

2009
01:25:19,080 --> 01:25:20,960
Speaker 3: didn't love me. He was just afraid that I was

2010
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Speaker 3: gonna make all of the same mistakes that he made.

2011
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Speaker 3: So a lot of that anxiety and just fear of

2012
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Speaker 3: life he bought into parenting me.

2013
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Speaker 4: You can't do that with your children. You just gotta

2014
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 4: love your kids. Like you can't raise them out of fear.

2015
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 4: You gotta raise them.

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Speaker 13: Out of love.

2017
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Speaker 2: But back then, I mean you definitely. I mean they've

2018
01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:37,519
Speaker 2: seen things that we didn't see. It's from an era

2019
01:25:37,640 --> 01:25:38,720
Speaker 2: that we just see. My dad, you know, like I

2020
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Speaker 2: tell everybody, was the tired police officer, so he was

2021
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Speaker 2: in the streets and seeing that, and he didn't want

2022
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Speaker 2: me to get me connected to the streets, so they

2023
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:45,040
Speaker 2: raised off a little bit of fair.

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Speaker 4: It's worse now, yeah, I really do.

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Speaker 3: I think it's worse now, man the only but I

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Speaker 3: maintain we better parents than our parents because we don't

2027
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Speaker 3: beat our kids.

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Speaker 4: I don't beat my pops will never beat me. Just

2029
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Speaker 4: on that hand here right now, I.

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Speaker 8: Got beat They getting beat here?

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Speaker 4: What's time? All right? All right, now we got the

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Speaker 4: latest with Lauren coming up.

2033
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Speaker 23: We were talking about Tyrad Banks is casting for The

2034
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 23: Bodyguard or she wished she could and guess what she's casting?

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Speaker 4: Tell us, oh boy, all right, but.

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Speaker 5: First of all, why is Tyler doing a All right,

2037
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Speaker 5: we'll get to it next.

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Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Lub, Good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy, Jesse Lairay, Charlamagne the guy.

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Speaker 5: We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the latest

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Speaker 5: with Lauren.

2042
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Speaker 4: Lauren be coming a straight fast. She gets them from

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Speaker 4: somebody that knows somebody detail.

2044
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Speaker 15: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.

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Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on this.

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Speaker 17: Law.

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Speaker 13: The latest with Lauren la Rosa.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you have.

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Speaker 11: Facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you have a little

2050
01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:52,040
Speaker 11: bit of everything on the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 23: Okay, so The Bodyguard, a remake is coming, you know,

2052
01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 23: the iconic movie with Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston, and

2053
01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:03,760
Speaker 23: Tyra Banks is jumping in the conversation of who she

2054
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:06,639
Speaker 23: thinks she would repriseed Whitney Houston's role. Now, if y'all

2055
01:27:06,720 --> 01:27:10,200
Speaker 23: had to cast it. Who would you guys think alone?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I just hate that.

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Speaker 8: It's so they keep trying to Redoce stuff, like a

2058
01:27:14,439 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 8: nobody know original thoughts. Why we keep trying to remake

2059
01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:20,519
Speaker 8: movies that's already great.

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Speaker 4: I concur But if they were I would say, probably Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: You're crazy because somebody that would need a bodyguard that

2062
01:27:27,439 --> 01:27:28,879
Speaker 2: can sing, that's a global superstar.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why not? Who else?

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Speaker 15: Well, Tyra Banks said movie it could be a non famous.

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Speaker 5: Because Whitney played one another famous celebrity and famous singer.

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Speaker 15: Well, Tyler Banks said that it should be Taylor Swifts.

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Speaker 24: The Bodyguard, one of the most iconic romantic movies of

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Speaker 24: all time.

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Speaker 8: Are rebuddist in the works, A remakers in the works.

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Speaker 15: Like so beyond excited that movie?

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Speaker 4: Yes is Yes, who could play the Whitney Houston character

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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 29: I think Taylor Swift because business and commerce art and

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Speaker 29: you know she would freaking sell like crazy, right, But okay,

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Speaker 29: I'm just being I'm a black girl. It was Whitney's

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Speaker 29: as a black girl. Yes, what if we flipped it

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Speaker 29: and it was Taylor Swift? Yes, and yourself DRIs Elba, Right.

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Speaker 10: That's the good gentrified version. I do like you do,

2079
01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:31,800
Speaker 10: like you throw a little bleach.

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Speaker 4: On the movie.

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Speaker 3: I like it, but it would it be a worldwide

2082
01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 3: hit like that though, because a lot of these countries

2083
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:38,320
Speaker 3: don't like interracial relationships.

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01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:40,800
Speaker 15: It would be a kid right now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess it would be. Don't think

2086
01:28:42,600 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 4: the worldwide hit. I don't freak.

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Speaker 10: But it doesn't need to be a remake.

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Speaker 8: It can just be another type of movie, you know

2089
01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:51,479
Speaker 8: what I'm saying, because when yeah, like I spent off

2090
01:28:51,560 --> 01:28:53,639
Speaker 8: because you could, because that's the thing. When you put

2091
01:28:53,720 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 8: remake on it, that's when you let people down because

2092
01:28:55,880 --> 01:28:59,760
Speaker 8: people are constantly comparing it to original before it. So

2093
01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:02,160
Speaker 8: it's like, nah, just make it a whole nother movie.

2094
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Speaker 6: Now to hear her actually say do the flip or

2095
01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:08,439
Speaker 6: whatever that that is cool because the half interests Alba

2096
01:29:08,720 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 6: as the bodyguard to a tailor swift with somebody you

2097
01:29:12,439 --> 01:29:14,599
Speaker 6: know off that statue that that might be a good

2098
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:17,960
Speaker 6: movie if it was a spin off, just with the storyline.

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01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:21,839
Speaker 6: B I see you lost me because I don't know Taylor,

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Speaker 6: and you know what I'm saying, When.

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Speaker 2: We get from Whitney to I don't think it could

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Speaker 2: be a spinoff. I think you just got to do

2103
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Speaker 2: a new renditional.

2104
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Speaker 3: And you need somebody who can really sing. I mean,

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Speaker 3: that's what the in the original Bodyguard. Whitney was an

2106
01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:36,560
Speaker 3: actress and a singer in the movie, and that soundtrack

2107
01:29:36,720 --> 01:29:38,120
Speaker 3: sold a lot of that movie.

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Speaker 4: That's what I think Beyonce would be.

2109
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Speaker 5: But Tailor Swift wil do it too, like so many

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Speaker 5: people too active.

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Speaker 4: She was beautiful.

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Speaker 8: There was like I'm not saying is not beautiful, but

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Speaker 8: it's like.

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Speaker 10: You know, you see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 26: I know what you mean.

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Speaker 23: There was a certain type of like attraction between the

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Speaker 23: two of them on screen, and it was so soft

2118
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Speaker 23: and sexy. And again, I don't know Taylor can deliver that.

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Speaker 3: Also, y'all sleeping on the fact that it was Whitney

2120
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Speaker 3: and Kevin Costs was a huge star back then.

2121
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Speaker 4: You need a huge star. Now you say, you yeah,

2122
01:30:08,520 --> 01:30:11,400
Speaker 4: we're not we're not on Kevin Costner level.

2123
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Speaker 15: Well we're flipping. It got to be a black man

2124
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:14,639
Speaker 15: who would.

2125
01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 4: Be to be Michael B. Jordan. He's not.

2126
01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:20,639
Speaker 10: He's still not as old as you know what I'm saying.

2127
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Speaker 4: It's not.

2128
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Speaker 15: It's not like four black actors that Hollywood used with

2129
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Speaker 15: just the.

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01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:28,160
Speaker 4: Original idea, come up with some new ideas. Man, you

2131
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:31,800
Speaker 4: don't need to need a Bodyguard remake. The Bodyguard slap

2132
01:30:31,920 --> 01:30:32,080
Speaker 4: like that.

2133
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Speaker 15: I don't I don't want them to touch it. But yes,

2134
01:30:35,680 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 15: that movie is like absolutely.

2135
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Speaker 4: The soundtrack was Phenom.

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Speaker 15: Soundtrack was amazing.

2137
01:30:40,160 --> 01:30:43,120
Speaker 4: Always love you. You know it would run to you.

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01:30:43,600 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 4: I have nothing. The soundtrack was by It. I don't

2139
01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:46,840
Speaker 4: remember the movie.

2140
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 10: That movie was amazing. You need to watch it.

2141
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Speaker 23: The studio which released, which is going to be releasing

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Speaker 23: the remake, has set Taylor Swiss aristory director Sam Rinch

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Speaker 23: to help get this together and script and all that

2144
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Speaker 23: other stuff.

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Speaker 15: So maybe that's why she brought tell the Swift into it.

2146
01:31:02,320 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 23: I don't know where Taylor Swift came from, but I

2147
01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:07,360
Speaker 23: think we should leave it where attacked security guard.

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Speaker 30: They don't have to be guard security voice and all

2149
01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 30: you hear is no then what we would all agree, Okay.

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Speaker 10: Not concierge though.

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Speaker 12: So.

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Speaker 23: In other news, off Set is now happy for Cardi

2153
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Speaker 23: B that she is moving on with Stefan Diggs. Uh So,

2154
01:31:28,640 --> 01:31:31,519
Speaker 23: Cardi B and Stephan Diggs were out in New York recently,

2155
01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:33,559
Speaker 23: and there's a video of Cardi b dancing on Stephan

2156
01:31:33,640 --> 01:31:36,639
Speaker 23: and having a good time, and a fan commented and said,

2157
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:39,320
Speaker 23: off Set is somewhere punching the air. Offset came back

2158
01:31:39,360 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 23: and responded to the fan and said, I'm happy for

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Speaker 23: her with two exclamation points.

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Speaker 5: So please why how did he even see it?

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Speaker 7: Lord?

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Speaker 4: How did he see that?

2163
01:31:48,600 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 8: See somebody say that they didn't tag him?

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Speaker 15: They didn't before, didn't tag it.

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Speaker 10: He not happy for he just didn't.

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Speaker 6: Didn't they comment to each other like make some subliminal

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01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,479
Speaker 6: type of Lauren, did you see that Stephan Diggs that

2168
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Speaker 6: posted a picture and his capture was buddy doing all that,

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01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:08,000
Speaker 6: doing all that talking or whatever. He still ain't gonna

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Speaker 6: do nothing. And then I think Offset that tweet is

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01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,640
Speaker 6: something that was like I'm laughing or something like that.

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01:32:13,280 --> 01:32:16,000
Speaker 6: He posted a photo of himself Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 10: With no shirt on. Yeah something, he was laughing.

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Speaker 4: So I did see that.

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Speaker 10: I mean, no, he not really happy.

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Speaker 6: It's like I would love to look unbothered as well,

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Speaker 6: both of them.

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Speaker 5: I didn't give him damn before.

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Speaker 8: I don't give a damn now.

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Speaker 23: Well neither. I don't know what to say, like, I mean,

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Speaker 23: it's it, he commented. I wouldn't been talking about if

2182
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Speaker 23: he in comment. Glad he's in a happy place.

2183
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Speaker 10: Celebrity people want to talk about it.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, well that's it for the latest.

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Speaker 2: That's the latest with Lauren. All right, thank you, Lauren

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Speaker 2: l Rosa. Now when we come back, we got the

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Speaker 2: People's choice mixed. Get your requesting right now. It's the

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 13: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is TJ n v Ess hilarious, Charlamage the goud

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Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club reminding.

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Speaker 4: You guys again.

2193
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Speaker 2: Our second book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.

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Speaker 2: Gear stopped through the Breakfast Club this morning just to

2195
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Speaker 2: talk about it. It's a god to raising empowered children.

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Speaker 2: So if you haven't picked it up, pick it up.

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Speaker 2: You can get it on audible as well. We just

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Speaker 2: talk about raising kids. We have six of them, range

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Speaker 2: from twenty three to three, and it's definitely a dope

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Speaker 2: book if you're considering having kids or you have kids already.

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Speaker 4: It's it's a great instruction manual to help you out

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Speaker 4: on your journey. So little to Gear for joining us

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Speaker 4: this morning. What about the instruction manual called The Ultimate Kiss.

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Speaker 4: There's a book called the Ultimate Kiss, and it's.

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Speaker 3: About oral sex and it teaches you how to properly

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Speaker 3: give oral just in case always.

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Speaker 4: Because he bought it back up. He was on Decisions

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Speaker 4: Decisions this week.

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Speaker 3: Explain you know what I'm saying, explaining you know that

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Speaker 3: it was a misconception in the first book.

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Speaker 4: He didn't mean to write that in the first book.

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Speaker 8: I don't know what he thought they was going to

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Speaker 8: ask them, because you know what that was about about your.

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Speaker 4: We're right into with.

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Speaker 2: Jesus, all right when we come back positive notice to

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Cloak a movie, MD Jess hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.

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Speaker 4: We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And I want to tell folks man, make sure

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Speaker 3: you go get your tickets for the third annual Black

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Speaker 3: Effect Podcast Festival, happening next Saturday, next Saturday, April twenty

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Speaker 3: six in Atlanta, Georgia at Pullman Yards in Atlanta. Okay,

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Speaker 3: we got some of the best podcasts in the world

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Speaker 3: gonna be on that stage. Good Mom's Bad Choices Podcast,

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Speaker 3: next Your Podcast with Carrie Champion, Tanking, Jay Valentine with

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Speaker 3: the R and B Money Podcast, Sarah Jax Roberts with

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Speaker 3: the Woman Evolved Podcast, and we just added another podcast yesterday.

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Speaker 4: Man, I don't know why I can't say it today,

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Speaker 4: but I probably say it tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: But yes, go get your tickets Black Effect dot Com

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Speaker 3: Slash Podcast Festival and we'll see you next Saturday.

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Speaker 8: So you all shout out to everybody who came out

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Speaker 8: over the weekend in Orlando, but your girl will be

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Speaker 8: in Atlantic's City coming up. I will be in New

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Speaker 8: Jersey May seventeenth. That's on a Saturday at eight o'clock

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Speaker 8: at Harrah's Resort, Atlantic City, So make sure you get

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Speaker 8: to take it at Chacelaria's official dot com and I

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Speaker 8: will see you then, Atlantic City, New Jersey.

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Speaker 4: I love Atlantic City.

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Speaker 10: Yes me too.

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Speaker 3: Ours is dope. Listen the positive notice simply this. People

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Speaker 3: are allowed to decide they want nothing to do with you. Literally,

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Speaker 3: no one owes you a damn thing, not even an explanation.

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Speaker 4: Have a great I like that breakfast club.

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