WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Lipstick Dipstick 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:01.840 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we've 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:03.800 got a brand new second date today. 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:06.160 And it's really proof why you need to keep your 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:06.600 car clean. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:11.559 You know, this guy's date pulled something out from between 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:15.320 the seats of his car that ruined literally their entire night. 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:18.319 Oh no, yeah, I know, I know it's You're gonna 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:20.760 hear it in just a second. We're gonna start, of course, 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:24.000 always with your comments, though, what do you see, alexis Yeah, 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.320 Bibbs said your show is the reason I'm leaping for 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:28.000 work every day with a heart emoji. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:34.000 Tell your boss is high. Yeah, hey, not unless you 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:37.199 get the boss to listen to Yeah, but let me 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:37.960 tell you what just happened. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:41.519 You know exactly exactly there it is, and here is 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:45.400 your brand new second date update, the second date update. 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:49.280 For a lot of guys on the dating apps, coming 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:53.360 up with the perfect opener is like painting the mona Lisa. 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:53.880 Wow. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:55.240 Takes a lot of time. 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:59.200 You just put something down, stand back, you study it 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.840 at a little word here, just that line there. 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:04.920 Take off the eyebrows there, Yeah, toss. 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:07.919 In an extra emoji, delete that pun, and after four 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:12.400 hours you finally send her. In four hours Hey, what's up? 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:17.040 And no response. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:20.120 In there, which is so personal. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:21.640 You shouldn't have used the apostrophe. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.120 Is that what it was? I thought the three question 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.200 marks we're gonna work. But today we have a listener 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:31.120 who says he actually put in some work, real work, 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:34.920 into figuring out an opening line with a sixty percent 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:39.080 reply rate, which is extremely high for guys on these apps. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.319 And that's very very high. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:41.920 Nice. 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:45.520 Yeah, okay, what's the average like two percent reply rate? 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:46.360 Maybe lower? 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.360 How many messages are you guys sendy? 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.840 It's very difficult. His name is Carson, So Carson, welcome 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:52.520 to the show man. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:53.640 How are you doing? 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:54.000 Guys? 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.120 Are you gonna let him deliver the line? 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:58.240 Yeah? I don't know what the line is. I'm curious. 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:00.840 I don't ever written, like, what kind of line are 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:01.919 we working with here? Carson? 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:05.360 Like we don't even need to talk? But I was 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.800 wondering if you would critique my profile? I'm new here? 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.560 Oh, oh, interact? 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.120 Okay, what do you think about that? Alexis an invitation 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:15.600 to critique his profile? 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:19.840 I don't know, but looking at him up? 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:23.160 Yeah, aren't they then looking at your profile with a 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:23.799 negative view? 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:25.320 That I'm gonna say because you're only going to pick 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:26.880 out negative stuff to be funny about. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.160 You're not going to say, but it's a conversation. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.440 So Alexis is in the forty percent that would not 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:33.520 reply to this because I probably. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.160 Reply something so rude that they don't apply back. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:38.639 Well, even this is terrible, even that, I mean, that's 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:41.359 a response in itself. That's a win, right, Carson, even 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:42.000 if it's mean. 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:46.200 Yeah, I mean it did lead to someone. Her name 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:48.320 is Lenne okay man. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.919 Okay, I said, yeah. What was her critique? 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:55.240 She said, I should smile more in photos because I 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:56.560 look too serious. 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:57.799 Oh that's a nice one. 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:02.000 Yeah, okay, if you have a good smile, then you 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.080 should be showing that off and women would like that. 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:05.840 And pro tip, girls love it when you tell them 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:06.160 that too. 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:09.400 Yeah, smile more. You look so good when you smile 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:11.200 just in the photos. 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:11.639 Yeah. 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:11.919 Yeah. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.440 So did you send her a personal pick of you smiling? 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.480 I did not. I said, well, you should see my 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:23.680 smile in person, you said, okay. 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.880 Oh, she said okay, and you're like, look to your 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.359 left out your window right now. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.600 So what did you guys do for your date? 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:36.280 Then I offered to pick her up? Oh. We ended 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.160 up going to a steakhouse. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.120 If you're wanting to impress her with the steak dinner, 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:45.040 I mean, you must really like this woman. 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.400 You know what she's She's great. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:47.600 You know. 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:52.440 We went to the steakhouse. Things went really well. It 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.240 was everything I hoped it would be. 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:55.840 I want to hear some highlights. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.680 Did you smile at her the whole time? 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.320 I tried to smile more. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:01.640 Yes, good, Okay. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:04.080 If it's too much. 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:11.440 The day, what did you guys connect over? 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:14.240 Well, she's a room in the sports I'm a big 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:18.400 sports guy, so that that was an instant connection. We 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:19.799 like similar kinds of music. 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:22.320 I mean, it all sounds really good. There was nothing 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:23.440 awkward that happened on the date. 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.839 Everything was great. The awkward moment was on the way home. Okay, 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:33.279 she saw something between the seats of my car and 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:35.800 she reached down. She pulled it out and it was 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:37.839 a canister of lipstick. 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.520 No, I know, I. 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.640 Know that looks really bad. It probably looked like I 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:44.600 was on another date. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.640 You just tell her like, look, that's not my shade. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:51.040 A bit, I have mine at home. 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:54.480 Yeah, I mean, anyone could have dropped it in your car, 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.400 fallen out of a pocket, sister or friend or what. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:04:58.880 Did she say? 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:03.480 Well, she certainly wanted to know where it came from, 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:07.720 and I was, I was. I was honest with her. Uh, 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.640 you know I borrowed my ex girlfriend's car. 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:12.560 Wait, you were driving your girlfriend's car. 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.120 It wasn't your car. 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:15.719 Oh No, that's worse than. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.679 Did that totally smooth everything over. 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.719 For the conversation that you know mine was in the shop. 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.440 I was trying to be straight up with her. Obviously, 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:28.279 the vibe kind of change at that point. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.360 Why didn't you just say a friend? 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:33.120 If I could go back and change it, I think 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:37.400 I would that it. Yeah, it looked like I thought 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.120 I was getting a good night kiss. Everything was great. 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:43.440 Obviously that didn't happen. Yeah, that's why I'm here. I'm 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:44.719 hoping maybe you guys can help me. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.159 Wait, and now she's not calling you back, like you 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:48.320 haven't smoothed it over yet. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.680 No, I haven't heard from her since not a week 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:53.640 or so. 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.440 So everything was going good circumstance. 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:58.839 What's the relationship with you and your ex? Before? 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.360 We call her on good terms enough for her to 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:02.360 the car? 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:04.320 How good of terms? 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:07.240 Like we were always friends? We tried to date it 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:08.800 didn't work out, we're still friends. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.400 That's so cool. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:10.160 You guys can do that. 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:12.320 Okay, that sounds when you try to date somebody. 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.680 Yeah, so I mean like you could describe her as 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.920 a friend instead of an axe for Uyeah. 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:20.000 Did you get a chance to explain that to leand I. 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:22.400 Didn't get a chance to because we were so close 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.240 to her house. Was kind of the end of it. 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.560 Honestly, it's probably for the best. You don't probably want 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.200 to be gloating about how great of a relationship you 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:33.159 have with your ex girlfriend on a first date with somebody. 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:35.720 I'm sorry. If you're driving her car, you're gonna want to. 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:39.520 Explain something like it's better than we're still sleeping together. 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.720 And what answer is good When you're like she's the 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:43.320 best or you're like, oh I hate her. 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:44.640 Yeah, you're driving her car. 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.160 I think it's a green flag. If someone can get 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:50.240 along with their ex you know so well. 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:52.000 That's why I'm hoping you guys can get her on 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.520 the phone and help me explain that to her, because 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:56.000 I don't know if she's gonna listen to me. 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:58.880 Okay, I'm gonna let Brook tackle that. 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:03.360 I say, I'm friends with all sorts of ex Yeah. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:10.520 For guy, what's wrong with him? Anyway? We'll call Leanne 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.640 for you after this and try and help you get 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:19.120 your second date update in just a minute. If you're 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:22.960 just joining us, let's quickly recap Carson's first date with 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:29.119 a little game of good or bad. Steakhouse dinner, good, idea, good, 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:33.920 lots of smiling, good picking her up in your ex 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:45.280 girlfriend's white Jetta. I don't know ever, So we're thinking 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:49.520 that's probably the big red flag that's been scaring Leanne 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.559 away from a second meet up with Carson. But Brooke 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:55.000 wisely pointed out, actually it could be seen as a 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.320 green flag that he doesn't have a toxic relationship with 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.040 past love interests, right, Brook. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.240 I think that if you can be friends with an ex, 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.240 it doesn't mean that you still have feelings for them. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.720 It's when you still have feelings is when things get 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.920 dicey and you can't talk to them and you're angry 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:09.440 and everything. 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:12.680 Okay, but what about friends with benefits? 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.080 Well, I mean it's an ex, it doesn't really count. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:17.800 All right, Carson? Does that feel good? Does it give 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:19.440 you a little bit of hope before we make this call? 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:25.240 I'm optimistic okay, but there's no benefits with your ex right, no, no, no. 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:26.160 Okay, okay, good good. 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.160 Well, besides the car, he doesn't get to borrow her car. 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:29.720 I've met a different time. 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.760 I'm not the physical type of So let's reach out 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:35.320 to Leanne. Hopefully she picks up and we can explain 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.000 this whole thing and get her to go out with 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:49.880 you again. Okay, sounds great, good, right, now, let's do it. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:50.480 Hellene. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.360 Hey, is this Leanne? 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:56.199 Yeah? This is her? Who's this? 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:01.960 Well, this is actually us a whole ensemble of people 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:04.600 called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. We're a radio show. 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:08.960 Good morning, good, good morning. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.199 Thanks for saying it back. People don't say it back. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:12.480 Appreciate. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.800 It's like when you say you're welcome. Thank you. 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:16.160 Yeah, you're a nice person. 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:18.600 We're hoping that this can be a good morning for 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.160 you because we're doing something called a second date update. 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.520 Okay, all right, you know I've seen it. I've seen 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.480 social media. 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:33.240 Yeah, so well, thank you for finding it on social media. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:34.480 You can go to a podcast too. 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.520 She didn't sound like she liked it. 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:37.520 It comes up in the algorithm. 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:40.920 Look for always be promoting, all right. 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:45.080 It's always a disaster. It's always some nightmare case. 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:47.520 That's not true. No, that's not true. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.920 We only air the disaster, just the ones that go viral. 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:54.080 Yeah, and we're hoping this is not one of those 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.920 that you'll never even see this in your feed because 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.080 we're reaching out based on a date you went with 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:00.000 with a guy named Carson. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:05.720 Oh, okay, would you call it a disaster? 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.840 Your day with Carson? 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:12.880 I don't know Carson. Carson, what are you doing Carson exactly? Yeah. 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:17.199 So we spoke to Carson earlier and he had really 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:20.240 glowing reviews about the date. Just what we know from 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:22.280 it is that you two connected on a dating app. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:25.400 You said you really liked his smile, had a nice 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.280 dinner at a steakhouse. There was no kiss at the end. 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.559 He was a little surprised by that, but no disappointed, 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.880 I think disappointed. But now you're not open to another one. 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.800 So he's trying to figure out if there's a reason. 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:40.400 He must have left something out. 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:42.079 I love something out. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:43.040 I think you did. 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:47.320 Yeah you did, Actually, I mean I would be embarrassed. 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:50.480 But he was driving his ex girlfriend's car. 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:53.840 Okay, yeah, yeah, he did tell us that. I just 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:55.840 didn't want to recap that part in case it wasn't 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.199 a big issue for you, So it. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:00.040 Was what was your reaction when he told you. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:06.600 That that's not okay? Why that's not okay? Like, okay, 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:10.400 that just means that somewhat special in your life is 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:11.720 still in your life. 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:15.240 I mean, technically, okay, you feel threatened by the ex 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:16.240 girlfriend a little bit. 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:21.120 I know, not that I've just I've dated guys in 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:26.120 similar situations and it always ends bad in my my 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:27.240 personal situation. 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.240 Well, that's okay that you can think that, but let 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:31.920 brook explain to you why you're wrong. 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:34.800 That's not what I'm trying to do. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:38.720 But I do think that you could maybe change your 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:40.920 stance on a little bit if you thought of it 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.520 more as like a green flag, Like here's a guy 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:46.880 who still respects someone that he dated, that he that 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.240 was he was close to, and it's good that they 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:53.040 can still have a non romantic relationship. Right. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:57.320 Yeah, I guess I never considered it that way. 0:11:57.760 --> 0:11:59.240 I mean, have you ever had. 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.640 A friend and then got your feelings kind of mixed 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:04.599 up in that friendship? Like it's hard to have opposite 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:07.400 gender friends because you're like, oh my god, how much 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.520 do I like this person and then you try. 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.280 Out dating and you're like, whoa, I didn't like him 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:11.640 that much. 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:13.360 Did you know that was the case with Carson, that 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:16.560 he was friends with that girl first before they tried dating, 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:17.640 and then it didn't work out. 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:20.160 Yeah, they realized that they weren't meant to be together. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.320 I mean, no, no, I mean this is all kind 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:26.240 of like a lot in general. But good point. 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:29.400 Okay, Okay, look at you being a reasonable human? 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:30.480 Love it? 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:31.160 Okay? 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:33.560 So so is that something that would maybe change your 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:36.320 mind a little bit about possibly seeing him and giving 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:37.120 him another chance. 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:41.680 Possibly the radio person I don't know her name, but 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.800 like she did bring up some pretty decent points, so. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:47.800 I feel like I didn't deliver that well. 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:49.640 Her name was Alexis. Give her all the credits. 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:52.720 I mean, this all sounds really good to us in 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:54.840 the room here, but I bet it sounds even better 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.959 to Carson, who's been quietly listening on the other line, hoping. 0:12:57.679 --> 0:12:59.600 To talk to your. 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:02.000 Whole time. Are you kidding me? 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.720 I can hear you smiling through the phone. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:06.680 Yeah, I think I think he's there. Carson. 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:08.960 Hey, hey, guys, I'm here. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:13.079 What are you doing? What are you doing? 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:17.200 What they were so cute. 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:20.280 I felt a connection with you that I haven't felt 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.839 with anybody, and I really want to try to make 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:23.360 this work. 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:25.120 That's adorable. 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:28.440 That's really sweet to hear that from you. 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:32.679 Yeah, he's not like those other guys that you dated 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:36.440 that were yucky, you know, with their axes. 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:39.400 Yeah things, yeah, yeah, Well look, I need to be 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:41.319 one hundred percent honest with you. We're getting it all 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:44.840 out there right now. Okay, I do live with I 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:46.040 do live with my ax. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.040 Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, that's. 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:53.520 How I was going to borrow the call. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:59.400 Hey, Brook, how dare you support this and say that 0:13:59.440 --> 0:13:59.920 it was total? 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.160 He's like a sister. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.880 It's really not a big deal, you. 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:10.920 Know. 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.040 But they're in a good place now. Broke You said 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:14.880 it yourself, Well, you don't live. 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:15.560 With your axe. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.280 That's like that feels like you were living together and 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.200 then you broke up and you never moved out. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:22.960 Did you move in together when you were in a relationship. 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.720 I mean, I don't know, I don't really remember. There 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:27.600 was a lot going on. It just kind of happened. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:30.160 I mean, it's like a timeshirt situation for us, which 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.560 split the rent, we rotate the car, it's a. 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:37.120 I think seriously, Like I told you guys, this is 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:39.480 all disasters plan. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.840 Look trust me when I say this, it's not a disaster. 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.000 Oh god, that's famous. Last words. 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.320 Why don't you come over this weekend? We can we 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.920 can hash it out. And it's my weekend to have 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:51.800 the master bedroom. 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:55.000 Wait what Oh, there's only one bedroom. 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:00.880 That's a good living situation. 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.280 It works for us. Don't judge. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.640 Wow, where do you sleep when you don't have the bedroom? 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.040 I'm in the car and that's what it's for, a. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:12.360 Car slash bedroom. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.520 In your car only part time. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:19.720 And remember it's her car, not his. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.600 I have a headache. Yeah, I'm sorry about that whole 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:26.440 green flag thing. 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:28.440 No, it is a green flag. It's a green flag 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.760 that he is such a good roommate, that is X 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:33.320 doesn't even want to let him go. That's how awesome 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:34.120 he is to live with. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.000 Dude, you share a bed that you guys rotate on 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:37.840 the weekdays. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:40.960 Holda, we don't share the bed when she's in it. 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.320 I'm not when I'm in it, she's not. We have 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:44.920 a calendar, it's set. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.400 Up the bed. This organized community. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:53.320 I can't say it, man, Even Alexis is coming around 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:54.080 on him now. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:54.360 So. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.600 I mean a nightmare. 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:00.880 It could be your nightmare if you say yes to 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:04.440 another date with Carson, and we would pay for that date. 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:07.960 If you're open to your nightmare, if you say yes, No, 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:08.360 it's not. 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:09.880 Going to be a nightmare until it goes viral. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:14.360 Yeah. Oh, I don't want this to go viral. I 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:16.000 don't want to go on another date. 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:16.360 Yeah. 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:17.800 Yeah, if you're. 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:20.760 If you're singers on socials. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:21.920 Do not come and do not like this. 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:26.640 Oh man, Carson, it sounds like a no from Leanne. There. 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.360 You know you didn't complain when I used the excess 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:32.720 debit card to pay for dinner. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:38.800 Woa, get out of here. 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:40.120 You never told me that. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:43.680 How would it come up in conversation? 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:44.600 Yeah? 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:45.960 All right? 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:49.600 Well wow, I mean, Carson, you were worried that the 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:53.280 problem was that you picked her up in your ex's car, 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:56.680 and turns out the issue is that you actually swap 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.280 beds with your exes because you live together and. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:02.040 Your ex pace for every well half of half of 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:02.440 the time. 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:04.160 And then when you say it like that, I think 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.480 I sound like a pretty good dude. 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:11.320 You're a catch, buddy. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:12.320 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.399 I mean, dude, how did Carson think that it was 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.880 okay to withhold that information from us? In part one? 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:22.280 Has he said him a lot of information. 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.520 Because Brook literally asked him, what's your relationship with your ex? Like? 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:29.080 And he said, oh, we're still friends. Didn't mention, oh, yeah, 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.960 we share the same master bed off of a rotating 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.840 calendar would have been a little bit of a different story. 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:37.920 CROs If you have a one bedroom apartment, you can't 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:39.000 call it a master bed. 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:40.119 It's the only bed. 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:42.760 I didn't want to call it an end because the 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:45.359 more he's kept talking, the more independent he is. 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:50.159 He is her debit card or carrush. 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.680 Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised, but honestly, just be truthful 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:58.440 with us up front so Brooke doesn't come off looking 0:17:58.480 --> 0:17:59.400 as bad as she did. 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:02.320 That poor girl didn't want us to hit the air 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:03.320 and now because of. 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:06.520 Him, you know, it's so and that's why I just 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:08.439 want to be honest right now with all of our 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:11.720 listeners and tell you the truth that we do have 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:15.400 a Second Date podcast. It's real. Somehow it gets millions 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.560