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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we've

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Speaker 1: got a brand new second date today.

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Speaker 2: And it's really proof why you need to keep your

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Speaker 1: You know, this guy's date pulled something out from between

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Speaker 1: the seats of his car that ruined literally their entire night.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, I know, I know it's You're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear it in just a second. We're gonna start, of course,

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Speaker 1: always with your comments, though, what do you see, alexis Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Bibbs said your show is the reason I'm leaping for

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Speaker 1: work every day with a heart emoji.

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Speaker 2: Tell your boss is high. Yeah, hey, not unless you

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Speaker 2: get the boss to listen to Yeah, but let me

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Speaker 2: tell you what just happened.

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Speaker 1: You know exactly exactly there it is, and here is

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Speaker 1: your brand new second date update, the second date update.

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Speaker 3: For a lot of guys on the dating apps, coming

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Speaker 3: up with the perfect opener is like painting the mona Lisa.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: Takes a lot of time.

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Speaker 3: You just put something down, stand back, you study it

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Speaker 3: at a little word here, just that line there.

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Speaker 2: Take off the eyebrows there, Yeah, toss.

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Speaker 3: In an extra emoji, delete that pun, and after four

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Speaker 3: hours you finally send her. In four hours Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 3: And no response.

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Speaker 2: In there, which is so personal.

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Speaker 5: You shouldn't have used the apostrophe.

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Speaker 3: Is that what it was? I thought the three question

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Speaker 3: marks we're gonna work. But today we have a listener

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Speaker 3: who says he actually put in some work, real work,

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Speaker 3: into figuring out an opening line with a sixty percent

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Speaker 3: reply rate, which is extremely high for guys on these apps.

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Speaker 3: And that's very very high.

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Speaker 5: Nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, what's the average like two percent reply rate?

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Speaker 3: Maybe lower?

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Speaker 2: How many messages are you guys sendy?

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Speaker 3: It's very difficult. His name is Carson, So Carson, welcome

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Speaker 3: to the show man.

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Speaker 6: How are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Guys?

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna let him deliver the line?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't know what the line is. I'm curious.

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Speaker 3: I don't ever written, like, what kind of line are

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Speaker 6: Like we don't even need to talk? But I was

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Speaker 6: wondering if you would critique my profile? I'm new here?

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Speaker 7: Oh, oh, interact?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what do you think about that? Alexis an invitation

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Speaker 7: I don't know, but looking at him up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, aren't they then looking at your profile with a

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Speaker 2: negative view?

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Speaker 1: That I'm gonna say because you're only going to pick

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Speaker 5: You're not going to say, but it's a conversation.

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Speaker 3: So Alexis is in the forty percent that would not

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Speaker 2: Reply something so rude that they don't apply back.

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Speaker 3: Well, even this is terrible, even that, I mean, that's

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Speaker 3: a response in itself. That's a win, right, Carson, even

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Speaker 3: if it's mean.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it did lead to someone. Her name

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Speaker 6: is Lenne okay man.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I said, yeah. What was her critique?

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Speaker 6: She said, I should smile more in photos because I

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a nice one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, if you have a good smile, then you

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Speaker 5: And pro tip, girls love it when you tell them

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Speaker 3: Yeah, smile more. You look so good when you smile

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Speaker 3: just in the photos.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So did you send her a personal pick of you smiling?

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Speaker 6: I did not. I said, well, you should see my

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Speaker 3: Oh, she said okay, and you're like, look to your

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Speaker 2: So what did you guys do for your date?

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Speaker 6: Then I offered to pick her up? Oh. We ended

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Speaker 6: up going to a steakhouse.

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Speaker 1: If you're wanting to impress her with the steak dinner,

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Speaker 6: You know what she's She's great.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: We went to the steakhouse. Things went really well. It

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Speaker 2: I want to hear some highlights.

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Speaker 3: Did you smile at her the whole time?

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Speaker 6: I tried to smile more.

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Speaker 3: Yes, good, Okay.

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Speaker 7: If it's too much.

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Speaker 2: The day, what did you guys connect over?

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Speaker 6: Well, she's a room in the sports I'm a big

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Speaker 3: I mean, it all sounds really good. There was nothing

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Speaker 6: Everything was great. The awkward moment was on the way home. Okay,

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Speaker 6: she saw something between the seats of my car and

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Speaker 3: No, I know, I.

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Speaker 6: Know that looks really bad. It probably looked like I

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Speaker 5: You just tell her like, look, that's not my shade.

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Speaker 3: A bit, I have mine at home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, anyone could have dropped it in your car,

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Speaker 2: Did she say?

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Speaker 6: Well, she certainly wanted to know where it came from,

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Speaker 6: and I was, I was. I was honest with her. Uh,

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Speaker 2: Wait, you were driving your girlfriend's car.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't your car.

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Speaker 2: Oh No, that's worse than.

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Speaker 3: Did that totally smooth everything over.

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Speaker 6: For the conversation that you know mine was in the shop.

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Speaker 6: I was trying to be straight up with her. Obviously,

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you just say a friend?

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Speaker 6: If I could go back and change it, I think

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Speaker 6: Obviously that didn't happen. Yeah, that's why I'm here. I'm

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Speaker 5: Wait, and now she's not calling you back, like you

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Speaker 6: No, I haven't heard from her since not a week

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Speaker 5: So everything was going good circumstance.

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Speaker 2: What's the relationship with you and your ex? Before?

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Speaker 3: We call her on good terms enough for her to

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Speaker 2: How good of terms?

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Speaker 6: Like we were always friends? We tried to date it

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Speaker 6: didn't work out, we're still friends.

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Speaker 3: That's so cool.

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Speaker 5: You guys can do that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that sounds when you try to date somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I mean like you could describe her as

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Speaker 2: Did you get a chance to explain that to leand I.

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Speaker 6: Didn't get a chance to because we were so close

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it's probably for the best. You don't probably want

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. If you're driving her car, you're gonna want to.

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Speaker 1: Explain something like it's better than we're still sleeping together.

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Speaker 5: And what answer is good When you're like she's the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're driving her car.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a green flag. If someone can get

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Speaker 6: That's why I'm hoping you guys can get her on

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Speaker 6: the phone and help me explain that to her, because

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Speaker 6: I don't know if she's gonna listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna let Brook tackle that.

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Speaker 2: I say, I'm friends with all sorts of ex Yeah.

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Speaker 3: For guy, what's wrong with him? Anyway? We'll call Leanne

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Speaker 3: your second date update in just a minute. If you're

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Speaker 3: just joining us, let's quickly recap Carson's first date with

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Speaker 3: a little game of good or bad. Steakhouse dinner, good, idea, good,

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Speaker 3: lots of smiling, good picking her up in your ex

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Speaker 3: girlfriend's white Jetta. I don't know ever, So we're thinking

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Speaker 3: that's probably the big red flag that's been scaring Leanne

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Speaker 3: away from a second meet up with Carson. But Brooke

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Speaker 3: past love interests, right, Brook.

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Speaker 1: I think that if you can be friends with an ex,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that you still have feelings for them.

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Speaker 1: It's when you still have feelings is when things get

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Speaker 3: Okay, but what about friends with benefits?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's an ex, it doesn't really count.

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Speaker 3: All right, Carson? Does that feel good? Does it give

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Speaker 1: I'm optimistic okay, but there's no benefits with your ex right, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good good.

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Speaker 7: Well, besides the car, he doesn't get to borrow her car.

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Speaker 2: I've met a different time.

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Speaker 3: I'm not the physical type of So let's reach out

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Speaker 3: to Leanne. Hopefully she picks up and we can explain

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Speaker 3: you again. Okay, sounds great, good, right, now, let's do it.

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Speaker 6: Hellene.

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Speaker 3: Hey, is this Leanne?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? This is her? Who's this?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is actually us a whole ensemble of people

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Speaker 3: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, good, good morning.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for saying it back. People don't say it back.

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Speaker 3: Appreciate.

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Speaker 2: It's like when you say you're welcome. Thank you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're a nice person.

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Speaker 3: We're hoping that this can be a good morning for

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Speaker 3: you because we're doing something called a second date update.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, you know I've seen it. I've seen

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Speaker 4: social media.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so well, thank you for finding it on social media.

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Speaker 2: You can go to a podcast too.

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Speaker 3: She didn't sound like she liked it.

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Speaker 7: It comes up in the algorithm.

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Speaker 2: Look for always be promoting, all right.

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Speaker 4: It's always a disaster. It's always some nightmare case.

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Speaker 2: That's not true. No, that's not true.

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Speaker 7: We only air the disaster, just the ones that go viral.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're hoping this is not one of those

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Speaker 3: that you'll never even see this in your feed because

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Speaker 3: we're reaching out based on a date you went with

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, would you call it a disaster?

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Speaker 2: Your day with Carson?

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Speaker 4: I don't know Carson. Carson, what are you doing Carson exactly? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So we spoke to Carson earlier and he had really

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Speaker 4: I know, not that I've just I've dated guys in

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Speaker 3: Well, that's okay that you can think that, but let

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Speaker 1: But I do think that you could maybe change your

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I never considered it that way.

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Speaker 3: Did you know that was the case with Carson, that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they realized that they weren't meant to be together.

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Speaker 4: I mean, no, no, I mean this is all kind

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, look at you being a reasonable human?

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Speaker 5: Her name was Alexis. Give her all the credits.

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Speaker 3: I mean, this all sounds really good to us in

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Speaker 4: Whole time. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think he's there. Carson.

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Speaker 6: Hey, hey, guys, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: What are you doing? What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: What they were so cute.

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Speaker 6: I felt a connection with you that I haven't felt

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Speaker 4: That's really sweet to hear that from you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not like those other guys that you dated

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Speaker 6: Yeah things, yeah, yeah, Well look, I need to be

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Speaker 6: out there right now. Okay, I do live with I

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Speaker 6: do live with my ax.

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Speaker 3: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, that's.

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Speaker 6: How I was going to borrow the call.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Brook, how dare you support this and say that

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Speaker 7: He's like a sister.

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Speaker 6: It's really not a big deal, you.

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Speaker 1: Know.

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Speaker 3: But they're in a good place now. Broke You said

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Speaker 3: it yourself, Well, you don't live.

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Speaker 7: With your axe.

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Speaker 1: That's like that feels like you were living together and

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know, I don't really remember. There

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's like a timeshirt situation for us, which

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Speaker 4: I think seriously, Like I told you guys, this is

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Speaker 6: Look trust me when I say this, it's not a disaster.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's famous. Last words.

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Speaker 6: Why don't you come over this weekend? We can we

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Speaker 2: Wait what Oh, there's only one bedroom.

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Speaker 3: That's a good living situation.

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Speaker 6: It works for us. Don't judge.

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Speaker 6: I'm in the car and that's what it's for, a.

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Speaker 3: Car slash bedroom.

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Speaker 6: In your car only part time.

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Speaker 3: And remember it's her car, not his.

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Speaker 2: I have a headache. Yeah, I'm sorry about that whole

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Speaker 3: No, it is a green flag. It's a green flag

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Speaker 3: that he is such a good roommate, that is X

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Speaker 3: doesn't even want to let him go. That's how awesome

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Speaker 2: Dude, you share a bed that you guys rotate on

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Speaker 6: Holda, we don't share the bed when she's in it.

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Speaker 6: I'm not when I'm in it, she's not. We have

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Speaker 2: Up the bed. This organized community.

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Speaker 3: I can't say it, man, Even Alexis is coming around

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Speaker 6: So.

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Speaker 4: I mean a nightmare.

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Speaker 3: It could be your nightmare if you say yes to

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Speaker 1: If you're open to your nightmare, if you say yes, No,

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Speaker 5: Going to be a nightmare until it goes viral.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh, I don't want this to go viral. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if you're.

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Speaker 5: If you're singers on socials.

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Speaker 7: Do not come and do not like this.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, Carson, it sounds like a no from Leanne. There.

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Speaker 6: You know you didn't complain when I used the excess

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Speaker 2: Woa, get out of here.

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Speaker 4: You never told me that.

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Speaker 2: How would it come up in conversation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Well wow, I mean, Carson, you were worried that the

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Speaker 3: and turns out the issue is that you actually swap

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Speaker 2: Your ex pace for every well half of half of

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Speaker 6: And then when you say it like that, I think

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Speaker 3: You're a catch, buddy.

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I mean, dude, how did Carson think that it was

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Speaker 7: Has he said him a lot of information.

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Speaker 3: And he said, oh, we're still friends. Didn't mention, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's the only bed.

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to call it an end because the

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Speaker 7: He is her debit card or carrush.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised, but honestly, just be truthful

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Speaker 3: with us up front so Brooke doesn't come off looking

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Speaker 5: That poor girl didn't want us to hit the air

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Speaker 3: Him, you know, it's so and that's why I just

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Speaker 3: a Second Date podcast. It's real. Somehow it gets millions

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Speaker 3: Go look for yourself, Brook showed me the numbers, so

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Speaker 7: And Brook always lies telling the truth, it's

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Speaker 3: A green flag to listen to our podcast though Binge

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Speaker 3: Away at Brook and Jeffrey