WEBVTT - Teresa Giudice and Luis “Louie” Ruelas…Making Their Haters “FLIP”! 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:16.479 Hey that folks, welcome to I Do Part two. And 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.320 if you got love right the first time around, this 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:24.000 is not the podcast for you. We are your hosts, 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:27.240 Angry Robot and TJ Holmes. And if you have been 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:29.720 a bit of a mess but not willing to give 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:31.800 up on love, maybe you get it right the second time, 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:33.680 third time. As long as you hang in there, this 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:34.879 is the place to be. 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.640 Yes, no one's counting and no one's judging here. Yes, 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:41.560 and so our next guest today, I know a little 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:45.640 bit about finding love the second time around. Yes, we 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:50.560 have the amazing the I don't need to introduce her. 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:55.600 Teresa Judai is us along with the Well you're. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.760 Also now special Forces alone, right, yeah, say that you 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.920 are in love Her from the Real Housewives of New 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:06.000 Jersey and her husband Louis Ruias is now with us. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:06.800 Did I say that right? 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.640 Yeah? You said it really good to make sure I 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:10.120 got that right. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.400 Yeah, we just mean Louis Louie coming in hot today 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.800 he was read ready to chat it up. Now I 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:17.199 have to ask first and foremost, tell me the story. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.720 How did you all meet in the first place? How 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.399 did that meeting? Please? 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:28.000 Please we uh? I had taken my taking my company 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.840 public on an Essex and I asked my assistant what 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:32.959 do I do for this week? Because my other two 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.600 partners said kids, they're married, and I was like, the 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.000 single guy, a single parent, right, So she's like, go 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:40.000 to the Jersey Shore. So rented house in Jersey. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.000 Shore, and let he's never been to the Jersey Shore. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:45.400 That was kid, you know, very little, but it wasn't, 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:48.280 you know, normally a Jersey shot type of guy, right. 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:50.440 So we I went down to the Jersey Shore, rented 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:52.559 a house down there, and was there for a week. 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.200 I went down on Saturday. I came back up to 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.120 Wall Street on Thursday. And the next morning I was 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.760 this is because I'll say, it's probably little better just 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:04.920 singing my stoop was actually more runner then, but singing 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:08.600 my stoop and I was like sad, you know, and 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.760 because I just had it, like a really good moment 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:15.360 in my life. And I was alone, you know, and 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:16.720 my son comes touk to me. He's like, Dad, but 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:18.840 you know, what's wrong, telling what's going on? And I'm like, 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.960 let's pack up. We have the house for Saturday. It's 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.400 Friday morning. Let's just go back to our house. We 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.960 got pool there. We got our dogs there and it 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.480 was raining. It was raining, you know, and so we 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.760 so I decided to So we're just having a little 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:33.320 moment there, and then Teresa walked by with their two 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:34.639 friends stuffy. 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:39.119 That was extra like that was my exercise, my my morning, 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:41.880 like you know, ritual that I would go, we will 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:44.480 go exercise walk like walk. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.839 COVID walking, everybody walking, so like, So then we're sitting 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.519 there in Teresa's friend you know, and I didn't. 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:52.080 Even want to, aimy, I didn't want to go walking 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.680 at that time. It was eleven thirty in the afternoon. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.680 I usually go walking like early in the morning because 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:01.079 before it gets hot. And that day we were hungover. 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:04.200 We went out the night before I drove back up north, 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:05.919 so I was hungover that morning. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.080 And then and then my friends are forcing me. 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.680 They're like, come on, let's come on. It's rainy, it's cloudy, like, 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:14.040 let's just go. And I'm like, not now, it's eleven thirty, crazy, 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:15.959 it's too hot. Now I'm like I'm not going walking, 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:18.840 and they come on, let's go. So sometimes I just 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.240 wanted the viewers to know sometimes when you don't want 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.840 to do something, that's when magic happens. 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:28.000 Yeah, she's walking by, walking. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.360 By her friends. Her friend waves in some sort. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.959 Of well, I was pointing at his car. I tell 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:36.440 you the exactly I said. My story never changes. He 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:38.800 had a white rain drover with black rims, and I 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.480 was just pointing. I'm like, oh, that guy has my 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.000 car because I just got. 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.320 Rid of mine. And then I guess when I pointed, 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:45.440 he thought I waved. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.960 And then and then that's when my friends said, I'm 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.160 gonna go talk my married friend. So it was my 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.480 married friend and then meat and my other friend were single. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.200 So my married friend's like, I want to go talk 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.920 to him, you know, talked to him for me either 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.480 me or my friend Rosanna, you know. And then she 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:03.400 went to go talk to him, and she was talking 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.040 to him and then keep going sure yeah, I like. 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:09.160 Yeah, I like that. 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:14.720 So it's just so so so her friend, uh says, 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:16.480 come over and talk. So we I went walked across 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.560 the street. It was like they had the medium with 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:20.480 grass whatever. So went over started talking to them a 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.400 little bit. When my son walked to my son, I 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:26.120 was all disheveled from just running, and uh, I had 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.440 two business cards on me. We're just chatting a little bit. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:30.320 I didn't really know who you were, you know. Of 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.520 course I knewho she was afterwards, because then you you know, 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:36.960 you're googling everybody real fast, you know. And so yeah, 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.760 again two business cards and uh that was really it, 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.200 you know, just said whatever. You know. She's like, if 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:44.080 I want to call you a text you, I'll reach 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:45.800 out to you and whatever. So I'm like, okay, whatever. 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:48.000 So we walked back packed up the cars, get to 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:49.440 the get in the car. My son's like that, do 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.000 you know who you were just talking to? Like no, 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:54.599 they shows his phone whatever. So then I walked, I drove. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.400 We're driving past her on the way out and because 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.039 it's like one way in, one way out of that area, 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:02.120 and she and I said, Teresa, my son was, you know, 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:04.080 just break up my chops because I didn't ask for 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.640 your number, and she's like, long story short, She's like, listen, 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.520 Ivan to talk to you. I'll reach out to you. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:10.960 So ab an hour and a half right home about. 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.359 That, was embarrassed to give my number. His son was 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.320 right there with his girlfriend. So I was like, I 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.520 have your card, I'll text you. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:21.159 So about a half hour later, she texted me and 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:22.880 you know that night we talked for a long time. 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:25.320 But the text set well, my friend took my married 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:29.119 friend takes my phone and then it's so weird. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.680 A psychic told me I wasn't going to meet someone. 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:33.080 This is what you do understanding. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:35.240 It was like so crazy, Like as we're walking with 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:38.240 my friend, I look at my friend and that's one 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.600 of my best friends, and I tell you, I said. 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:40.920 Oh my god. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:45.120 The psychic told me I was meeting somebody, and and 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:49.400 like it was just weird how he said he just 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:51.560 took like I know, he said he was just on 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:54.760 Wall Street. And the psychic told me that I was 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.159 meeting somebody on Wall Street. It was so so Me 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.719 and my friend start jumping up, like as we're like walking, 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.520 we're walking, me and her jumping up and down and 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:07.279 I'm like what, I'm like, this is so weird. 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.640 And then she took my phone and then she's like, 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:11.240 I'm texting him, and then she. 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.160 Just texted him like she said, hi, Lewis. It was 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:14.159 very nice to Lewis. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.840 You still have He's so great, he. 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:22.760 Has everything, Like that's what I love about. 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:24.360 It's very nice to meet you. This is my number. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.000 Teresa and then just went from there. They just went 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.000 into like conversation. 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.200 Wait a second, but that first text was not written 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:29.520 by you. 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.880 What was my girlfriend when that went up to him 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:35.240 because I was in bars, like, yeah, I don't know. 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:39.400 I'm not a good text I'm a phone person. Yeah 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:40.520 I hate. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:41.520 So it started with a lie. 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:45.279 Yeah so yeah no. 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.960 And we talked that whole night and then the next day, 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:50.920 like on the phone a friend with. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.599 Her friend was like I had like fifty questions like 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:54.279 vetting me out. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:56.480 Yeah that night and I'm like, I'm like, he's never 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:58.240 gonna call me again. I'm like, what do you like? 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.760 She made me asking like fifty question I'm like, this 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.120 guy's never called me again. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.040 But he liked that. And then the next night he asked. 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:08.359 Me hold along, right, these questions like scrambled, You're like 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.480 fried forgetting this or permission in a relationship and starting 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.600 against all these different things, and we just connected. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:16.960 It was really cool you connected with her. 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.280 But Louis, when your son googled her and you said 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:22.800 you googled her later, were you like all in did 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:26.119 you have concerns like wait, what am I getting myself into? 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.840 It was I gotta be honest with you. I wasn't. I wasn't. 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.200 I wasn't all in and it wasn't out of ego. 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:34.640 It was out of like, you know, just my own words. 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.880 It was like I already had like a couple, like 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:39.680 you know, as everybody does a couple of hand grainade relationships, 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:43.000 you know, not everyone. Not not blaming them, but like 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.080 it was on both sides, you know, so nothing was perfect. 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:47.520 And so I really wasn't ready for that because even 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.320 like we talked for two nights and the next day 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.680 I didn't call her, and she says, and then she 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.600 calls me late that night, like around eleven thirty pm, 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:56.320 and she said, you know this is interesting. You said 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:59.200 to me, if you don't call me, I'm not gonna 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:00.360 know if you like me or not. And I'm like, 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.440 you know something, You're so right, listen, I'm damaged, and 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:05.120 so like I don't I don't, I don't, you know, 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.840 I don't want you to pay for someone else's mistakes 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.520 or some other sh that I've been through. Let's let's 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:12.720 you know you're right. So then from that day forward, 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.040 we really yeah. 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:15.360 Because I was like, I don't know if this guy's 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:17.960 playing games, yeah, and I'm like, because we talked for 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:19.559 two days and then he didn't call me a third 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.200 in and I was like, but then he said to me, 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:24.120 I didn't. He's like, well, you're Teresa Judai, so I 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:27.560 didn't know if you were busy. 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:26.600 You know. 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.800 And I was like, no, I won't be too busy 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.600 for you if you call me, you know. And then 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:34.160 I said and I said to him, I said, I'm 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:35.559 not going to you know, if you if you want 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.520 to play games, I'm not the right I'm the wrong 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:40.040 girl for you to play games with. I said it straight, 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.040 and that was it. He never like that was it. 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:43.439 After that, it was like. 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:45.800 I loved it because a lot of girls, a lot 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:47.920 of women would be like he didn't call me and 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.560 then just freak out and then be done with it 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.600 because they're too afraid of getting hurt or too afraid 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.800 of getting played. I love that you just directly called 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:57.240 him and said what's going on? 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:58.439 Yeah? 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.600 Yeah, because I was just like, I'm not going to play, 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.440 you know. I'm like, that's fine if you don't, you know, yeah, 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.840 Like I just I'm just the wrong girl to play 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:06.840 any games with, you know. 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:08.160 Yeah. And then I told you, I'm like I look, 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:10.760 I don't want to be hurt. I'm in a vulmble 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.040 state right now. I was full time parent with two 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:15.800 kids my oldest says autism, and I was a full 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:18.079 time parent, so I was I already went through something 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:19.680 that I didn't want to go through again. And then 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.360 you know, then that whole day I was reading about you. 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.440 My neighbors are you know who would just throw me 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:27.120 like a little party for doing something in my company. 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:28.600 I was like, they were like, you know, be careful, 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:32.400 it is you know who. So like, like, you're like 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.280 what I loved about your your guys story. I don't 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:37.040 mean to flip the script. You leaned into love, right, 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:42.560 I leaned, Yeah you did, and and I I you 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:44.120 know when when you said that to me, that was 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:46.080 like that was like a define moment of relationship, or 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.280 even the beginning, because I'm like, you're you're not going 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:49.880 to play games, you don't want to play games, but 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.679 you're not also not You're also there to show up, 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:54.520 you know, and it was kind of cool because I 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:57.720 wanted to meet somebody amazing, and you know, in that moment, 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.400 it was it was, you know, it just got better 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.960 and better. You know, COVID dating was like walking, you know, 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.080 so we would walk all the time, you know, just 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:05.840 walk around. Remember the first time I kissed you, we 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.599 were out walking and I said, hey, do you know 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.800 anybody around here? It was, you know, playing that little 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:11.800 move right, and she's like, no, I know anybody around here? 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:13.240 And I kissed her. She goes, yeah, but they all 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.120 know me. I'm like, not like that, you know, like 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.160 I didn't get it. I just I was so naive 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:19.800 to TV the show. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.480 I was like, oh my gosh, everybody was. I'm like, no, 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.720 I was trying to keep him on the down low. 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:29.560 Yeah yeah, yeah. And then then like like maybe like 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.839 two months later, three months later, because you know, it 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.800 took about three months to get like even closely intimate 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:37.040 any on any level. I'm like, I'm like, you want 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:39.120 to want to travel a little bit, and you know, 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.240 let's let's go away. My brother's in Florida, you know, 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:43.440 so I got to I read it a private jet. 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.960 I took her friend as like a security blanket for 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.400 you too, you know, like you got a friend there, brother. 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.400 But then we're down there and she's like, people are 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:53.000 gonna know me down here. I'm like, no, no, it's 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.400 Florida now. And we get there and I'm like, and 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.520 she's like that you guys are hiding in the hallways 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:58.920 because I didn't. 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:01.160 Want to anyone a picture because then they were going 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:01.520 to post it. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:03.280 I didn't know the whole picture thing. I didn't have 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.480 social media. I had Facebook for my kids. I had 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:08.280 no Instagram. I didn't know. I didn't get it. I didn't. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.880 He really didn't. He didn't understand. 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:13.960 Sometimes how these shows that like my wife's son, it's like, 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:17.480 you know, and I don't mean to say this in 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.280 regards to any particular guy, but a lot of them 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:24.000 like they you know, I've noticed that they are very invested. 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:26.880 And I was like, I didn't. I didn't that wasn't important. 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:28.600 I had my own means, you know. I was cool, 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:30.560 and I really was like I was like, it was 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:33.199 like it was one foot here being a dad and 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:36.200 a parent, and the other in protecting myself and the 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:39.040 other side was like, you know, testing a new relationship 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:41.719 and finding love. But yeah, like I went on a 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.480 show and I wasn't. I wasn't prepared for the show, 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.800 what they would say, how they would gamify little scenes 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.040 that like six months later it comes out and you're like, 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:52.120 what the hell. I didn't know that, you know, like. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:55.800 And yah, I didn't know Amy, Like I didn't know, 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:58.240 Like I didn't know that people were going to hurt 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:01.440 my husband like that like they did on my you know, 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.439 my house was in New Jurse. I didn't know that, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.160 because if I knew that, I would have warned him, 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:07.720 Like I did not know. 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:09.680 I don't, like, huh you did? 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.600 You kept saying to me, make sure you watch the show. 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:15.720 I said to him, watched the show because he's really smart. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:16.480 You know, I'm just saying. 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.600 Nobody to the reason why I say he's so smart, 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:21.200 because not just anybody could take their public you know. 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:23.280 So I know he's a smart man. So I said 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:24.199 to him, watch the show. 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:27.600 But when he didn't understand to watch, he didn't watch 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:28.120 the show. 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:30.040 Now I watched the show, and the kids like laugh 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:31.760 at me all the time when when I mean, we 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.959 don't talk about this anymore. But like, like I did 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:36.080 watch the show. I skip cheeseburgers. We'd go in our 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.000 living room because I have my two sons, and I'd 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.120 be like, I'm like, oh my god, that's research. I 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:42.480 can't believe. Like I'm dating this woman's that's on TV. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.199 You know, I didn't pick up on all the you know, 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:46.960 the heat seky missiles that are going. 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:49.360 On all the whole, like you know all this watch 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:53.839 to like study the show. What's actually happening? Yeah, like 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.800 you know the you know what I mean, Yes, woman, 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:58.640 I know exactly, she exactly. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.000 I didn't know either though, See I just said to 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:04.120 him because I just want him to repare himself for 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:06.160 I didn't even know that they were going to do 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:08.760 what they did to him. I really didn't because like then, 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:09.440 I remember the. 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:11.640 First time we were filming, I went to go film 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:13.440 with when she's like I started filming with her. They 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.600 wanted to do a date night, and you know, her 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.360 brother's on the show, you know, And I'm not here 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.079 saying bad about the guy, because it's just, you know, 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.880 there's there's we really haven't yet had our time to 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:24.880 grow as brother in laws. You know, Like that's unfortunate, 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:26.679 you know, but that's just the way life is. But 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:29.559 I remember one time we were filming and and I 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:32.520 was just eating, just getting into eating, and everybody, you 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:34.880 know that look back down. Everybody was very well prepared 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:37.559 for like what could come next. You know what this 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:39.360 guy could say. That guy could say that it's a 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.360 it's a gamification, right, And then he came at me 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:44.520 in one scene and I was like, so take it back. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:45.240 I'm like, what are you doing? 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:45.400 Man? 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:47.559 Like you're just at our house on a sudden m pasta, Like, 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:49.800 what's what's going on here? You know, like because that's 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:50.679 how that show is here? 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:54.400 No, I know, but I didn't know, because like it's 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.560 it's not fair. Some people say to me like they knew, 0:13:58.320 --> 0:13:59.719 you know, he knew what he was signing up for. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.599 I'm like, no, he did not. I didn't even know. 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.640 Guys I swore, like I did not know they were 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.520 gonna hurt her. I'm so in love. 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:11.200 I mean love you like you walk out a restaurant 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:15.319 and the first time we got a wet ye just 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.080 like he was always like I was at two thirty 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:17.720 fifth rooftop. 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:20.120 I'm like, no, we're cool. 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:24.000 I get a phone and anti uster, no one's taking 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:24.480 our picture. 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:24.920 We're fine. 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:28.440 We can totally let loose next day pictures everywhere. I'm like, dang, 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.400 I should have listened to you. 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.200 Oh yeah, Like they called me, They're like, there's no 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:34.160 way you're getting out. Of this place, like they're going 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.160 to get your picture now, I'm. 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:38.280 Crazy, I do. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:43.960 I said to him, just smile, follow smile. I'm like, 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:44.680 just smile. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.040 I'm like, what do I like. I'm like, okay, I'm 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:48.720 just gonna touch your face and touch your face. 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.880 I'm like, just smile. Follow my lead. Whatever I do, 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:53.960 you just do And that's it. 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.520 Did it test your relationship? Did it bring you closer together? 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:09.880 How did it impact? I mean you all just to 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:12.000 be thrust into this world and to have a lot 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.960 of incoming that can usually do one of two things. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.280 I mean, thank god, like we are good, Like thank 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:23.560 god we were solid because it like me and him 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.960 we get along amazing, like not gonna one right. And 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.880 it's like it was just the outside noise with us 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:32.440 that were trying to break us up, like all the 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:35.320 outside know with the show and everything. 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:36.880 And like trying to hurt him and. 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:38.560 Me. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:41.480 I want to like I'm a protective mode, like please 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:43.120 like leave him alone. 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:44.960 He did nothing, like I know how he is with me. 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:47.400 I know how he choose my daughters. So that's why 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.800 I was so like, That's why I was the. 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:50.640 Way I was on the show. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.480 You mentioned the external noise. But what about on your 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.360 inner circle? Who are the folks saying to you don't 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:58.880 do this? Who are folks saying to you don't do this? 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.840 Pretty big company and a lot of you know, by 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.240 seven hundred employees, three partners, you know, we build something 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:07.160 pretty amazing together a little by little, you know, over 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:10.360 like twenty years. And my partner flies up, it's like, 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:11.760 I need to want to take you and Louis out 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:13.760 to lunch. And I'm like, oh, here comes right the advice, 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.280 you know, the friend that's gonna give you the advice, Like, yo, 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.440 you just got in the oven and you're going into 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:19.720 the fire, am I? And then Louise, thank got My 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:23.040 son's seriously, my son's like like, like, Joe, you don't understand. 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.040 Like Teresa's different, you know, she we you know because 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.760 at that it was just after you. You're like, I'm 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:30.400 gonna come to your ass to make dinner for your family. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.840 So Teresa comes over and she's in the kitchen like 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.480 she's a three two three New York Times best selling author, 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.280 cookbook author, so she's and I'm just like, holy shit, 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:40.880 she's banging it out in the kitchen. My mother's my 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.120 mother's like this, my sister's a fan. I didn't know 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:45.360