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Speaker 1: Hey that folks, welcome to I Do Part two. And

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Speaker 1: if you got love right the first time around, this

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Speaker 1: is not the podcast for you. We are your hosts,

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Speaker 1: Angry Robot and TJ Holmes. And if you have been

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Speaker 1: a bit of a mess but not willing to give

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Speaker 1: up on love, maybe you get it right the second time,

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Speaker 1: third time. As long as you hang in there, this

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Speaker 1: is the place to be.

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Speaker 2: Yes, no one's counting and no one's judging here. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and so our next guest today, I know a little

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Speaker 2: bit about finding love the second time around. Yes, we

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Speaker 2: have the amazing the I don't need to introduce her.

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Speaker 2: Teresa Judai is us along with the Well you're.

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Speaker 3: Also now special Forces alone, right, yeah, say that you

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Speaker 3: are in love Her from the Real Housewives of New

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Speaker 3: Jersey and her husband Louis Ruias is now with us.

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Speaker 1: Did I say that right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You said it really good to make sure I

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Speaker 2: got that right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we just mean Louis Louie coming in hot today

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Speaker 1: he was read ready to chat it up. Now I

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Speaker 1: have to ask first and foremost, tell me the story.

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Speaker 1: How did you all meet in the first place? How

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Speaker 1: did that meeting? Please?

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Speaker 4: Please we uh? I had taken my taking my company

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Speaker 4: public on an Essex and I asked my assistant what

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Speaker 4: do I do for this week? Because my other two

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Speaker 4: partners said kids, they're married, and I was like, the

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Speaker 4: single guy, a single parent, right, So she's like, go

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Speaker 4: to the Jersey Shore. So rented house in Jersey.

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Speaker 5: Shore, and let he's never been to the Jersey Shore.

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Speaker 4: That was kid, you know, very little, but it wasn't,

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Speaker 4: you know, normally a Jersey shot type of guy, right.

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Speaker 4: So we I went down to the Jersey Shore, rented

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Speaker 4: a house down there, and was there for a week.

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Speaker 4: I went down on Saturday. I came back up to

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Speaker 4: Wall Street on Thursday. And the next morning I was

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Speaker 4: this is because I'll say, it's probably little better just

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Speaker 4: singing my stoop was actually more runner then, but singing

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Speaker 4: my stoop and I was like sad, you know, and

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Speaker 4: because I just had it, like a really good moment

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Speaker 4: in my life. And I was alone, you know, and

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Speaker 4: my son comes touk to me. He's like, Dad, but

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Speaker 4: you know, what's wrong, telling what's going on? And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: let's pack up. We have the house for Saturday. It's

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Speaker 4: Friday morning. Let's just go back to our house. We

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Speaker 4: got pool there. We got our dogs there and it

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Speaker 4: was raining. It was raining, you know, and so we

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Speaker 4: so I decided to So we're just having a little

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Speaker 4: friends stuffy.

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Speaker 6: That was extra like that was my exercise, my my morning,

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Speaker 6: like you know, ritual that I would go, we will

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Speaker 4: there in Teresa's friend you know, and I didn't.

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Speaker 6: Even want to, aimy, I didn't want to go walking

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Speaker 6: at that time. It was eleven thirty in the afternoon.

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Speaker 6: I usually go walking like early in the morning because

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Speaker 6: before it gets hot. And that day we were hungover.

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Speaker 6: We went out the night before I drove back up north,

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Speaker 5: And then and then my friends are forcing me.

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Speaker 6: They're like, come on, let's come on. It's rainy, it's cloudy, like,

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Speaker 6: let's just go. And I'm like, not now, it's eleven thirty, crazy,

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Speaker 6: it's too hot. Now I'm like I'm not going walking,

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Speaker 6: and they come on, let's go. So sometimes I just

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Speaker 6: wanted the viewers to know sometimes when you don't want

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Speaker 6: to do something, that's when magic happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's walking by, walking.

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Speaker 4: By her friends. Her friend waves in some sort.

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Speaker 6: Of well, I was pointing at his car. I tell

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Speaker 6: you the exactly I said. My story never changes. He

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Speaker 6: And then and then that's when my friends said, I'm

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Speaker 6: gonna go talk my married friend. So it was my

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Speaker 6: So my married friend's like, I want to go talk

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Speaker 4: So it's just so so so her friend, uh says,

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Speaker 4: two business cards on me. We're just chatting a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I didn't really know who you were, you know. Of

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Speaker 4: course I knewho she was afterwards, because then you you know,

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Speaker 4: So we walked back packed up the cars, get to

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Speaker 4: you know who you were just talking to? Like no,

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Speaker 4: they shows his phone whatever. So then I walked, I drove.

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Speaker 4: We're driving past her on the way out and because

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Speaker 4: and she and I said, Teresa, my son was, you know,

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Speaker 4: just break up my chops because I didn't ask for

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Speaker 4: your number, and she's like, long story short, She's like, listen,

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Speaker 4: So ab an hour and a half right home about.

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Speaker 6: That, was embarrassed to give my number. His son was

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Speaker 4: So about a half hour later, she texted me and

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Speaker 4: you know that night we talked for a long time.

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Speaker 6: But the text set well, my friend took my married

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Speaker 6: friend takes my phone and then it's so weird.

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Speaker 5: A psychic told me I wasn't going to meet someone.

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Speaker 5: This is what you do understanding.

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Speaker 6: It was like so crazy, Like as we're walking with

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Speaker 6: my friend, I look at my friend and that's one

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Speaker 6: of my best friends, and I tell you, I said.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: The psychic told me I was meeting somebody, and and

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Speaker 6: like it was just weird how he said he just

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Speaker 6: meeting somebody on Wall Street. It was so so Me

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Speaker 6: and my friend start jumping up, like as we're like walking,

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Speaker 6: I'm like what, I'm like, this is so weird.

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Speaker 5: And then she took my phone and then she's like,

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Speaker 5: I'm texting him, and then she.

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Speaker 4: Just texted him like she said, hi, Lewis. It was

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Speaker 4: very nice to Lewis.

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Speaker 5: You still have He's so great, he.

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Speaker 6: Has everything, Like that's what I love about.

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Speaker 4: It's very nice to meet you. This is my number.

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Speaker 4: Teresa and then just went from there. They just went

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Speaker 1: Wait a second, but that first text was not written

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Speaker 1: by you.

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Speaker 6: What was my girlfriend when that went up to him

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Speaker 6: because I was in bars, like, yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I'm not a good text I'm a phone person. Yeah

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Speaker 6: I hate.

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Speaker 1: So it started with a lie.

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Speaker 5: Yeah so yeah no.

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Speaker 6: And we talked that whole night and then the next day,

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Speaker 4: Her friend was like I had like fifty questions like

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Speaker 5: Yeah that night and I'm like, I'm like, he's never

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Speaker 6: She made me asking like fifty question I'm like, this

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Speaker 5: But he liked that. And then the next night he asked.

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Speaker 4: Me hold along, right, these questions like scrambled, You're like

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Speaker 4: fried forgetting this or permission in a relationship and starting

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Speaker 4: against all these different things, and we just connected.

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Speaker 5: It was really cool you connected with her.

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Speaker 2: But Louis, when your son googled her and you said

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Speaker 2: you googled her later, were you like all in did

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Speaker 2: you have concerns like wait, what am I getting myself into?

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Speaker 4: It was I gotta be honest with you. I wasn't. I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't all in and it wasn't out of ego.

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Speaker 4: It was out of like, you know, just my own words.

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Speaker 4: It was like I already had like a couple, like

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Speaker 4: you know, as everybody does a couple of hand grainade relationships,

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Speaker 4: it was on both sides, you know, so nothing was perfect.

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Speaker 4: And so I really wasn't ready for that because even

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Speaker 4: I didn't call her, and she says, and then she

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Speaker 4: calls me late that night, like around eleven thirty pm,

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Speaker 4: and she said, you know this is interesting. You said

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Speaker 4: know if you like me or not. And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want you to pay for someone else's mistakes

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Speaker 4: you know you're right. So then from that day forward,

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Speaker 6: Because I was like, I don't know if this guy's

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Speaker 6: playing games, yeah, and I'm like, because we talked for

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Speaker 6: two days and then he didn't call me a third

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Speaker 6: in and I was like, but then he said to me,

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Speaker 6: I didn't. He's like, well, you're Teresa Judai, so I

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Speaker 6: didn't know if you were busy.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 6: And I was like, no, I won't be too busy

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Speaker 6: I said and I said to him, I said, I'm

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Speaker 6: not going to you know, if you if you want

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Speaker 6: to play games, I'm not the right I'm the wrong

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Speaker 6: girl for you to play games with. I said it straight,

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Speaker 6: and that was it. He never like that was it.

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Speaker 6: After that, it was like.

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Speaker 2: I loved it because a lot of girls, a lot

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Speaker 2: of women would be like he didn't call me and

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Speaker 2: because they're too afraid of getting hurt or too afraid

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Speaker 2: of getting played. I love that you just directly called

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Speaker 2: him and said what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I was just like, I'm not going to play,

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Speaker 6: you know. I'm like, that's fine if you don't, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 6: Like I just I'm just the wrong girl to play

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Speaker 6: any games with, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. And then I told you, I'm like I look,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be hurt. I'm in a vulmble

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Speaker 4: state right now. I was full time parent with two

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Speaker 4: kids my oldest says autism, and I was a full

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Speaker 5: I want to like I'm a protective mode, like please

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Speaker 6: He did nothing, like I know how he is with me.

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Speaker 5: There was no rush.

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Speaker 5: Because did you get divorced?

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Speaker 2: Because it was the right thing to do because you

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Speaker 4: And he's like, you know what, then you lean into

435
00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,240
Speaker 4: that and you love her and you just you you

436
00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,720
Speaker 4: take it. And you know, because I started taking a

437
00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:59,640
Speaker 4: lot in the beginning, you know, and yeah, getting ridiculed,

438
00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,959
Speaker 4: getting judge, to getting criticized. You know, anybody can make

439
00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:04,760
Speaker 4: up a story that I was at Lama's running through

440
00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,119
Speaker 4: my living room and they believe it, right, you know,

441
00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,080
Speaker 4: and so so like it was, it was, you know,

442
00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:15,720
Speaker 4: thank you, and so that's that's how that went. But

443
00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,000
Speaker 4: you know, I I and and eventually I started saying

444
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,840
Speaker 4: to myself, maybe maybe inside of like nine months to

445
00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,200
Speaker 4: a year, I said, wow, I recognized who she was

446
00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:26,080
Speaker 4: as a person, as a mother, what she meant to

447
00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:27,879
Speaker 4: be at that moment. And I'm like, man, I'm gonna go.

448
00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,640
Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm gonna fight for her even if I start,

449
00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,040
Speaker 4: because it started happy to me lose, Like I lost

450
00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,560
Speaker 4: a lot of stuff in my life, you know, my

451
00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,480
Speaker 4: business and a lot of hits here there. My board

452
00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,120
Speaker 4: fired me because they because of being in the public eye.

453
00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:41,920
Speaker 4: And I'm like, yo, you don't understand, and you give me,

454
00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,040
Speaker 4: you say the if we're we're alike. We you know,

455
00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 4: take our on vacation and some dude walk over, Hey, man,

456
00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:47,760
Speaker 4: while you were sleeping, there's a guy in a towel

457
00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,399
Speaker 4: over there, and I'm like, holy, they're so like off

458
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,520
Speaker 4: putting for me, Like I did not want to be

459
00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,680
Speaker 4: famous and I want to be on TV. I was

460
00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,440
Speaker 4: just like really happy I met a woman that like,

461
00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,280
Speaker 4: like was that was the I was, you know, you

462
00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 4: know like even the your in relationships, you could be

463
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,640
Speaker 4: alone in those relationships. Yes, and this is it's albody's fault.

464
00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:09,560
Speaker 4: It's just reality, right. So she she she like taught

465
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,280
Speaker 4: me how to like she she made it safe to

466
00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,919
Speaker 4: love and not be judged, because you know, sometimes partners

467
00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 4: of relationships weaponize that you know, you love too hard,

468
00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,760
Speaker 4: you love the red flags out of somebody and I

469
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,320
Speaker 4: just I just she was just perfect.

470
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:27,760
Speaker 2: You know, honestly, how long before you knew like this,

471
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:31,399
Speaker 2: this chaos probably started pretty quickly. How long before you

472
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,080
Speaker 2: knew I'm going to ask this woman to marry me?

473
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,840
Speaker 4: It was I mean we met in we met in July,

474
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,200
Speaker 4: and then we went through our first Christmas together, which

475
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,400
Speaker 4: you know, I'm like, mom, Dad Tretes once have over

476
00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 4: Christmas and it was we go in the house. I'm like, damn,

477
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:47,880
Speaker 4: you was really no balloon you know, she balloon person

478
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,120
Speaker 4: who's like a thousand balloons, And it was like wow, right,

479
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 4: like so and there's these gifts in all this, and

480
00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 4: it was it was, uh, it was probably that winter,

481
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,360
Speaker 4: the curve of the year we went away from, you eve,

482
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 4: the curve of the year that like, you know, like

483
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,639
Speaker 4: I didn't want to waste time. I was, you know,

484
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,360
Speaker 4: I was in a phase I was had the ability

485
00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,040
Speaker 4: at that time to take a break from work. Worked

486
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:12,920
Speaker 4: really hard, you know, like had an exit of a

487
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 4: company and still you know, has some residuals coming back

488
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 4: from that. So I was like, let me just you know,

489
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 4: like let's let me just let me just make this amazing,

490
00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,399
Speaker 4: you know, And and you know, I wasn't really present

491
00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 4: in a lot of my relationships. It's funny. I'm just

492
00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,800
Speaker 4: driving my son. He was just asked me out his

493
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,960
Speaker 4: mom and I was like something, don't you know, don't

494
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 4: ever blame mom, you know, like you know you because

495
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 4: he idolizes me, and like blame your dad too, but

496
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,479
Speaker 4: don't blame me, you know, like, don't don't grow up

497
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 4: being mad at your parents. You know, just understand that.

498
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 4: Like we're all we all work with what we know

499
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 4: at the time, you know. So yeah, so it was,

500
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 4: you know, and I still I still get uncomfortable when

501
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 4: people are are you know, the being in the public eye.

502
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 4: It's very it's very it's very intrusive, you know. And

503
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,439
Speaker 4: when i'm Malania protects me a lot. Come on, who

504
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 4: you stay with me? You know, like she'll always grab

505
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 4: my arm. We're just in Madrid like last week, and

506
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 4: you know, for a work event, and you know, she's

507
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 4: you know, but the girls have been amazing, you know,

508
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 4: she's she's incredible.

509
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 1: But is there going to be more of that to come?

510
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously we have to ask this for the fans.

511
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 1: Are you all going to be back in the public

512
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 1: eye on the show again? In some way. Where's the show?

513
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 1: What's the status of the show.

514
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 5: I don't know.

515
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 6: I mean, we're waiting for Bravo to make a decision.

516
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 6: That's where we're we're at.

517
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 5: It's Bravo's decision to make.

518
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 6: Yes, Yeah, they call the shots. Yeah, so whatever they say,

519
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,520
Speaker 6: if they want me back, you know, I'm willing to

520
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 6: go back.

521
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 5: You know, it's you know, it is I mean. And

522
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 5: then I even said to him, I'm like, it's you know,

523
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,360
Speaker 5: if we don't and if I get asked back, who knows.

524
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 5: I'm like, do you want me to go back?

525
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 6: And he's like, whatever you want to do, Like, you know,

526
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 6: just because you know, it was very ugly, and it

527
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 6: was you know, they were trying to instead of they

528
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 6: were coming after me.

529
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 5: They wanted to hurt me. Instead of hurting me, they

530
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 5: went after him to hurt me.

531
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Speaker 3: You know.

532
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 6: And when you say that, you mean of your own family,

533
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 6: Well my cast members, Yes, my cast members.

534
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 5: If you watch the show, you'll see it.

535
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, how are those relationships at this moment?

536
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 6: Well, my brother I and my sister in law. I'm

537
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 6: not speaking too, but I did reach out and I said,

538
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 6: because you know, what time does heal all wounds, and

539
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 6: you know, when time goes by, you forget things. So

540
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 6: I'm just like, you know, g and I want Special Forces.

541
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 6: We you know, we spent a lot of time before

542
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 6: we actually started Special Forces, and we talked a lot

543
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 6: about a lot of things. So I want to be

544
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 6: a good example for my children. I have four daughters,

545
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 6: and like I don't want them to ever say you know,

546
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 6: I always I always tell them, like I always want

547
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 6: you guys to get along. Please always be there for

548
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 6: each other. I know you guys are going to marry

549
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 6: other people, but always put you. You know, your your

550
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 6: sister first or not first, but like always don't forget

551
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 6: about your sister. Like, you know, be a family, be

552
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 6: a beautiful family. Like if someone doesn't get along, just

553
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 6: be the bigger person, try to make it work.

554
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 5: Blah blah blah. So I can't, you know, I get

555
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 5: to practice what I preach, right.

556
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 6: So that's why with my brother, I reached out to him,

557
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 6: and I mean I was, I put it out there,

558
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 6: and because the only reason why I put it out

559
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 6: there is Jeff Lewis asked me. So that's how the

560
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 6: conversation started. So now I'm like, you know what, never

561
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 6: say never, because before.

562
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,360
Speaker 5: I was just like absolutely not. I'm a Tian. I'm

563
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 5: like very stubborn. I'm like it's never gonna happen.

564
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 6: But now after like you know, time it's been over,

565
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 6: I haven't really I would say my brother hasn't really

566
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 6: been in my life. We've been married three years, but

567
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 6: the drama started even before that.

568
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: I was can you remember a time when you and

569
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 2: Joe Melissa all got along.

570
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 6: When I first met him, or my first Christmas they

571
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 6: were at my house? Oh no, even when we moved

572
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 6: into our house, that they came over that first Christmas

573
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 6: when we moved into our house. So yes, So what

574
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 6: how many years ago was that that Christmas we were together?

575
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 6: And then that's so that was the last Christmas we

576
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 6: had together with them?

577
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:08,479
Speaker 5: Twenty twenty one.

578
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: Well, you say you reached out? Is there back and forth?

579
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: Is there?

580
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

581
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we're you know, I think we're gonna meet

582
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 5: and like and speak.

583
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 1: Listening to you all talk about the show. If Bravo

584
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 1: called and said it's not coming back, would you all

585
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,959
Speaker 1: feel a stronger sense of disappointment or relief?

586
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 6: I don't. I mean, it is what it is like, like, Okay,

587
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 6: you know if they don't want me back, It's okay.

588
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 6: If they want me back, I'll go back. It's I mean,

589
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 6: I guess relief that the drama stop, you know, I

590
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 6: guess obviously. But then I'm hoping I would love to

591
00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 6: go back and and hopefully that trauma wouldn't be as

592
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 6: it was, just because you know, we all had a

593
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 6: break and maybe people would change and do the right thing.

594
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 6: And I don't know, just I will because you know,

595
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 6: I get I've gotten how do you say the past? Yeah,

596
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 6: since I've been on the show, people think I'm this

597
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 6: person from watching me on Red Houses in New Jersey,

598
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 6: always defending myself and they think I will take accountability

599
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 6: and blah blah blah. And that's like they think they

600
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 6: know me, but they really don't. I mean they're seeing,

601
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 6: like again a clip it of like the hour show

602
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 6: that they're putting out there. So I would love for

603
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 6: everyone to really get to know the real Teresa, because

604
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 6: like people that know me actually you know, they love me,

605
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 6: and they're like, you're so different than how they show

606
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 6: you on Housewives.

607
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: You're kind of grinned. When I asked about relief or disappointment.

608
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, I have a different answer. I'm indifferent,

609
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 4: and the reason why I'm in different would be in

610
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 4: different because you know, Teresa, let's just say, you know,

611
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 4: in reality started the show right, and you know it

612
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 4: came to a halt because of a lot of a

613
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 4: lot of gamifying on the show. There was a lot

614
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 4: of jocking for positioning. There's a lot of like false

615
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 4: things said and great narratives because as you guys know,

616
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 4: like someone could say this today and a Monday and

617
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 4: and you can't. It's very hard to change that narrative.

618
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 4: So I've been living with this thing like he did this,

619
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 4: he did and you know that's it. So I'm indifferent

620
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 4: because I really wish that, you know, one she would

621
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 4: go on her own terms too, she would be on

622
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 4: a show that wouldn't have to live in in in

623
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 4: being in defense all the time. I don't have you

624
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 4: ever watched your swes is always defending herself and and

625
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 4: not that you're always right, you know, and and that

626
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 4: this is that's what I love about you, because you

627
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 4: you I mean, one of the things I love about

628
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 4: you is that you've You've grown. You're like, you're not

629
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 4: afraid to grow. You've grown so much that you you

630
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 4: can you take accountability inside of yourself, which probably would

631
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 4: shock everybody, the viewers and the people on the show,

632
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 4: because they you know, they they they position you that way,

633
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 4: and you're you're you're such a you're You're like there's

634
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 4: so much of you that people don't get a chance

635
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 4: to see, you know, because it's it's a you know,

636
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 4: it's a reality show. It's about you know, it's about ratings,

637
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 4: it's about all that. But I wanted to say something

638
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 4: in mine is that like ever since you know, I

639
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 4: I've always been an advocate Foresa and her brother coming

640
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 4: together and being being one, you know, and even after everything,

641
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 4: and I've been through a lot of trust me everything,

642
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 4: and I'm making this about me because I'm here just

643
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 4: just like right now, you know, like you know, this

644
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 4: is this is your deal, you know. I just I

645
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 4: never get a chance to say this, and I've never

646
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 4: I've been asked a million times do podcasts, and I'm like,

647
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 4: you know, like he's just hate broccoli.

648
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 5: So I'm like he did a podcast with me and

649
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 5: and he would just we're just talking.

650
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Speaker 6: That's why I'm like, I'm just saying it's like he

651
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 6: doesn't even want this is the first time.

652
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 4: It's really funny. We're drinking on as and she's like,

653
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 4: I want my daughters to live. We didn't live like

654
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 4: that was all taken out of complex but like but

655
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 4: like I always from from from like day one, I've

656
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 4: always remember when when if there was every little little

657
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 4: friction with her brother in the beginning, and it's because

658
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: of a TV show. If it's two families living in

659
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 4: regular life, there is not that much function because there's

660
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 4: always like jockeying who's better, who's not, And everybody could

661
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 4: say whatever they want to say, but everybody, you know,

662
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 4: it's it's being famous is like a drug, okay, and

663
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 4: it's addicting and it feels good in the moment, right.

664
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 4: But you know, from day one, I've always and people

665
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 4: think the other opposite. I've always wanted you to be

666
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 4: with your brother, as hard as it's been, as much

667
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 4: stuff as I've been through, as much shit's been said

668
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 4: or this or that and all the stuff that's happened.

669
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 4: Like you know, when she reached out to her brother,

670
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 4: I forget where you were when you did that, But

671
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 4: like I was, like it was like so happy and

672
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 4: relieved because you know, we need him in our lives

673
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 4: because because life is too short. There's a lot of kids.

674
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 4: There's four daughters, there's three kids over here, there's an

675
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 4: ex husband that got deported. There there's a lot of trauma,

676
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 4: a lot of feelings, you know, like there's a lot

677
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 4: of stuff right and and having harmony would be what

678
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 4: is really the only solution. I'm an outside I've been

679
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 4: in Teresa's life almost six years, but like, like I

680
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 4: like I firmly believe in that. So you know, I

681
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 4: I welcome him back with open arms without even looking back,

682
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 4: because you could you again, it's like it's life's too short.

683
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 4: I just found out some shit about my dad, like

684
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 4: a week ago. My dog just died. Like it was

685
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 4: like you know, if you have pets, it's like you know,

686
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 4: and it's just you know, as I'm fifty one years old,

687
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 4: and as you get older, it's like, you know, you

688
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 4: stop blaming. You start like you start you stop blaming that,

689
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 4: you start stop making excuses, you start like just owning,

690
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 4: you know, like and so we live like I've helped

691
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 4: you live like that too, Because she would walk around

692
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 4: like I'm like no, no, no, no, no, I know, yeah, Gabrielle,

693
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 4: just here.

694
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 5: There's more calmer because like hot headed.

695
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 4: From a different lens, you know, because.

696
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, he dies, she's definitely calmed me down.

697
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's but it's it's again. What makes it

698
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 4: even that much, What creates that storm is you know,

699
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 4: a show and not saying that the show is bad,

700
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 4: but instead of having you know, like like don't let

701
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 4: it's like letting outside noise into your relationship. Yah, it's like,

702
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 4: what's that going to do? You know, like and and

703
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 4: you know you asked this question before. It's it's only

704
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 4: made us stronger because that's as it has tested us.

705
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 4: You know, you know I saw in you too, you

706
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 4: would you would just like you just lean in. You know,

707
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 4: it's like failing forward, right, but like you just go

708
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 4: in deeper and deeper.

709
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 5: And because it wasn't us, it was like the outside

710
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 5: noise trying to hurt really.

711
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And if you can be a team together,

712
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 2: which it looks like you have, that is the key

713
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 2: to successfully This has been wonderful because truly, the people

714
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: are the listeners of this podcast are all looking for

715
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 2: what you two have and knowing that it can happen

716
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 2: after one or several failed relationships that this is possible,

717
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 2: and to hold on and to keep hope alive. Literally,

718
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 2: this is a shining example of what is waiting for

719
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 2: everyone if they're just willing to look forward and be

720
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: patient enough.

721
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 6: Yes, I mean if you want second time around, yeah,

722
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 6: like put it out there and it definitely will happen.

723
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 5: I mean I never knew.

724
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 6: I didn't think I was going to get married again.

725
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 6: I swear, I swear it wasn't even looking and it

726
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 6: just happened, you know, because I was happy with myself first.

727
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 6: That's very important, Like you have to be happy with yourself,

728
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 6: be fulfilled with yourself before.

729
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 5: You could be happy with someone else.

730
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 6: So I remember I was just like living my life

731
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 6: like you know, I had the girls and just happy

732
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 6: with myself and then bang, and then he showed up.

733
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 5: I swear like he showed up like I was walking by.

734
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 5: People think I were.

735
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: I mean, that's exactly almost almost want to call BS

736
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: on that story. It's so unbelievable, I.

737
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 4: Really do.

738
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 5: Like, and that's the thing, Like he wasn't a Jersey

739
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 5: Shore kind of guy.

740
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 4: We didn't do anything but like kiss for like four months.

741
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 4: People either, Yeah, it was like slow like I was.

742
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 5: He didn't sleep at my house.

743
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 6: I didn't sleep at his house because I had daughters,

744
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 6: So I was like, you love that, and his son

745
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 6: kept even asking him like that. Teresa never slept over,

746
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 6: you know. And our first time was like in the city,

747
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 6: we stay here. We got a hotel that I was like,

748
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 6: it's going to have it.

749
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 2: And I.

750
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: I love that we we've said this.

751
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: DJ told me he loved me before we ever even

752
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: held hands.

753
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 5: So I love that.

754
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, try to be professional.

755
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 5: No, I love that. I love I love showing love.

756
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, I love like very we're both very affectionate, like

757
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 6: my first husband wasn't and I was always the affectionate one.

758
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 6: And then I'm like I found my person, Like I

759
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 6: love being affectionate, like that's my thing, you know.

760
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 4: And so is h you know.

761
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 6: And he's like so romantic, like writes me poems. We

762
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 6: give each other cards all the time, like my first

763
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 6: husband never did that.

764
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm just like I just.

765
00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 5: Love he's my person.

766
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And perspective is so everything, isn't it. And you

767
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: only gain that through some wisdom that you've earned through experience.

768
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 5: So that's what again this podcast is all about.

769
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 6: Right, And if you're in a marriage that you're not happy, like,

770
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 6: you know, you should go be happy, you know because

771
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 6: sometimes like maybe the other person's not happy either and

772
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 6: me and you should say something because you have one

773
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 6: life to live and you want to live it the

774
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 6: best way you know how, and go be happy and

775
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 6: be in love and.

776
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: All that I love it. This is not how this

777
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: is always turned into a therapy. Every single podcast we

778
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: do turns into some type of therapy and we feel

779
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: better afterwards. But folks, are you ready to find love again?

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Speaker 1: You need some help navigating chapter two? Call or email us.

781
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: All the info is in the show notes. You can

782
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: follow us on socials. Make sure you rate and review

783
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: the podcast. I do part two in our Heart Radio podcast,

784
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: where falling in love is the main objective