1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey, Nick, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: How are you not bad? 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: A little confused? 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: We'll just get to it. Yeah, let's just get let's 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: just get to it, Nick, I mean well, I mean, yeah, 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: let's be efficient, let's not I don't want to do 8 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: my job today. What's going on in waiting by the 9 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: phone with this woman? 10 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 3: Right? 11 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: So, her name's Lately. 12 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: I met her on Hinge and got to the point 13 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: where I could ask for her number, and I was 14 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: kind of quick to get a date on the books, 15 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 2: and well, we were like flirting a ton leading up 16 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: to it. It was feeling and looking real good, which 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 2: made me more pumped. Unfortunately, though, on the day of 18 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: the date, I reached out to confirm and nothing. She 19 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: never answered, And I'm scratching my head here. I don't 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: really have a clue as to why she canceled without 21 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: the date. Every even happen. 22 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so this was a situation where you guys never 23 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: even met. I mean like, there was a date planned 24 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: and and you were looking forward to it, but that 25 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 1: that didn't happen. It didn't know, so you got ghosted 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: before the date even like you, guys, I don't even 27 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: know how you can do that. Like, I mean, we've 28 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: heard about it every day. It happens every now and again. 29 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: But like you, what could you have possibly done that 30 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: made someone not want to even meet you? One time? 31 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 2: I felt like the flirting and the rapport was like 32 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 2: really good. And then I don't even know if it's 33 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: called there's like a new word. It's not even ghosted. 34 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 2: I think there's a new word that needs to be invented. 35 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: It's like never happened. Well, no, like, I'm gonna let 36 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: you work on that. It's like a pre ghost situation almost, 37 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 2: but it doesn't really roll off the tongue as well. Nonetheless, 38 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: let's call this woman Lily, see if we can get 39 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: her on the phone and ask these questions for you, 40 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 2: and see if we can figure out why everything was 41 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: going well enough that you know, a date was on 42 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: the books and then all of a sudden. 43 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: Not yeah, okay, thank you, I'm gonna play one song, 44 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: will be right back next day. There. All right, let's 45 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 1: see what's going on in part two of Waiting by 46 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: the phone right after chat well, Ron, we'll do it 47 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: in two minutes. It's the Fred's show. Stay right here, 48 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: almost an hour of commercial pre Fred Show happening right now. 49 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey Nick, All right, welcome back. Let's call 50 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: it Lily. You guys, you were supposed to go on 51 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: a date you matched on the dating app hinge, and 52 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: yet for some reason, she canceled the date right before 53 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: it was supposed to happen. You've actually never met her, 54 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 1: and the date never happened, and it was never rescheduled, 55 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: and now she's ghosting you, and you want to know 56 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: what happened exactly. Okay, let's call her right now. Good luck, Nick, 57 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 1: Thank you, I'll need it. 58 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 2: Hello. 59 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: Hi is this Lily? Yes, hey Lily, good morning. My 60 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: Morning radio show, and I have to tell you that 62 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would 63 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we 64 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: chat for just a couple of minutes? You can hang 65 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: up anytime? Sure? Okay. We're calling on behalf of a 66 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: guy named Nick. I guess you met him on one 67 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: of the dating as I believe it was, and you 68 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 1: had planned a date that you then canceled and now 69 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: you've you've disappeared. Just all that that all check out. Yeah, 70 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: so what happened, Like, what happened such that you matched 71 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: this guy and we're interested enough to plan a date 72 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: but then not go cancel it? Not going then ghost. 73 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: It's gotten. 74 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't I don't really know how to phrase this. 75 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: It's a little I don't know. 76 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: I'm just a little embarrassed. 77 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: No, no, don't be embarrassed. If anyone it sounds like 78 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: he should be embarrassed if anything, but I mean based 79 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: on if you're this flustered over it, then this must 80 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: be good. 81 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was just kind of into something I wasn't 82 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 3: super into. 83 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: Okay, do you tell how did you how was this revealed? 84 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: And what was the thing? Oh? 85 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: Okay, you really gonna make me say this. Okay, So 86 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: we matched on Hinge and we were talking and I 87 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: don't know, okay, so the subject matter of this is 88 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 3: a little bit more. 89 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: PG thirteen are rated. 90 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 3: I guess if you want to know if you kind 91 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 3: of get my drift on what we were talking about, 92 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 3: I mean. 93 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: I don't you can we talk about anything? So this 94 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: was I assume this was sexual in nature? Yes, okay, 95 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: and you're talking, you're chatting about this like because you'd 96 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: never met. So you're on the app and you're or 97 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: texting or whatever, and you're like, can't wait to go 98 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: to Chile's tomorrow night. By the way, I'm into this thing, 99 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: but apparently it's so embarrassing you can't say it. I mean, what, yeah, okay, 100 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: well what is it? 101 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 2: Well? 102 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 3: Okay, so, I mean, okay, I don't normally just go 103 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 3: straight to, you know, sexing somebody, but he was really hot, 104 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 3: and I'm just kind of going through a lot of 105 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: stuff right now, so I don't know, he's just really hot. 106 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 3: And so we were texting and we just kind of 107 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: got to like a vulnerable place where we were talking 108 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 3: about like what's like a fetish of yours or like whatever? 109 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 3: Oh God, okay, am I really going to say this 110 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 3: on the radio? Am I okay to say this on 111 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 3: the radio? 112 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know what you're going to say. 113 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: So you've for the last twenty minutes you've been telling 114 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: me you're about to say something. I love you, Lily, 115 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: but I've left. I'm already gone on the edge of 116 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: my seat. I went home already. I went home, had dinner, 117 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: came back. I mean, what is what is the thing? 118 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: What was so bad that you couldn't even meet him? 119 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 3: Okay, well he it's it's kind of like a mommy 120 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 3: kink a little bit, okay, more so specific of like 121 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 3: breast milk. 122 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: Oh, so this isn't like stepmom stuff. This is like 123 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: he's into uh lactation. Yeah. 124 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 3: And like if it was like tie you up, that's 125 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 3: one thing, even if it's feet, like, we can work 126 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 3: with that. 127 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: But we can work with feet, we could work with it. 128 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: But what we cannot work with, what we cannot work 129 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: with is is that. 130 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 3: And at first I just didn't really understand what he 131 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: was saying. And I was saying like, hey, well, you know, 132 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: like I don't have kids, I'm not breastfeeding, like I 133 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 3: don't have that to like get it right right, And 134 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 3: he was like super prepared and was like, no, that's 135 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 3: totally cool. 136 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: There's like a bill you. 137 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: Can take that would make you start lactating. No no, no, 138 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 3: no no no, okay yeah. 139 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like, oh what, yeah, let me 140 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: bring Nick in. I forgot to mention that Nick is here. 141 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: I'm extremely forgetful about that Nick. What are we doing here? 142 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: What are we thinking? I mean, I don't mean to 143 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: kink shame. You know, you can fly your your your 144 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: freak flag as high as you want, but that is 145 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: a that is a little bit different, especially if we're 146 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: asking people then to take take some kind of a 147 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: medication to make it happen. Yeah, I kind of. I 148 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: guess they didn't really think this. I didn't know she 149 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: was going to bring up stuff like that. So hold on, 150 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: but what did you do? What did you think she 151 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: was going to say? Right, I don't know if I 152 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: want to keep I mean, don't be embarrassed about it. 153 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: I mean, everyone's got their thing. I don't want to 154 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to make people feel bad about their thing. 155 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: But I think that you know that is you're asking 156 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: somebody that's not even she doesn't even have a kid, 157 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: she's not like currently doing that, so she would have to, 158 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, do something medically to make it happen. 159 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: I mean, that is an evolved kink. I will say 160 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,679 Speaker 1: that that is an advanced kink, that's on the advance. 161 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: That's an ap level extreme kink. 162 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 3: Kind. 163 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: Well, I'm trying not to make people feel bad about themselves. 164 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,679 Speaker 1: It's fine. I got my answer, so I gotta go. Okay, 165 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: all right, Nick, Well, that's enough, Nick. I don't really 166 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: know exactly what he thought you were going to say. 167 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: I mean, normally I would say things were going so 168 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: well that you were sexting. I would say the point 169 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: where he said the thing and then you stop talking 170 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: to him, that's the thing. I would say, that's where 171 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: we're at. That would be Then that would have been 172 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: the turning point, right. I mean literally he said that 173 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: to you and then you were like, and you were gone, yeah. 174 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 3: And I guess, like, I don't know, maybe I don't know. 175 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: I just kind of thought he figured that out. No, No, 176 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: I mean, the point of here is not to embarrassed people. 177 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: But I will say, if you said something crazy and 178 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: then you call up here and act dumb, right, and 179 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: then we called the person and they repeat the crazy thing, 180 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: then I mean, come on, like you kind of asked 181 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: for it. I wouldn't you agree. I don't think you 182 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: did anything wrong with Lily. We asked you why he 183 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: asked us to ask you, and you told us, yeah, 184 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 1: man tend to little dairy. You know, little dairy. I'm 185 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: glad that bullet. Yeah, I don't know. And that's a 186 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: whole other level too. We gotta like take medicine. It's 187 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: nothing to make it okay, we're not even I don't know. 188 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 3: I just don't know why that that is like the kink, 189 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? 190 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: Have you ever been around a lactating woman like we are? 191 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 1: We are rough when it comes down like to that area. 192 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it is a lot going on. And then 193 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: when you're done, you got to drive up with some cabbage. 194 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: I've done that at work. 195 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: You guys have seen me my cabbage. 196 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: It's a whole process. I don't think it's sexy. I don't. Yeah, 197 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: well insane, Yeah, I don't know, but I guess we're 198 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: not gonna find out. So Lily, thank you for your honesty. 199 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: Nick is gone. So there's that. But uh, hey, we 200 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: appreciate you, you know, finally getting to it and now 201 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: we understand it. We know, and I something new every 202 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: day around here. Every pot has a lit I guess, yeah, right, 203 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: or every milk has d on it as well. Yeah, 204 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: how about a cow? Like what if we what if 205 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 1: we just going don't do that to the couns and 206 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: go milk the cow or something. It's gotta be a 207 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: healthy way to manifest this. I don't know. In fact, 208 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm out of ideas. I gotta know, I gotta gotta go. Yeah, 209 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: I gotta get going, Lily, good luck to you. Caitlyn 210 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: has the Entertainment Report and three Fitty Whi Shelley Bolth 211 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: Next Brad Show. Mmhmm