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Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser.

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Speaker 1: Here's Nikki. Hello here, I am welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's Nicky Glaser Podcast. Second episode of the week. That's

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Speaker 1: how we do it. We're gonna be honest with you.

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Speaker 1: If you listened to yesterday's episode, it was just a

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Speaker 1: couple of hours for us.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 1: I always, I always am honest when it comes up.

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Speaker 1: I never try to fake it like we're doing it

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Speaker 1: like the next day. This is the same day, but

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Speaker 1: it's just a different flavor. And honestly, we just got

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Speaker 1: we just got warmed up earlier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the last one is skip that one. Just go

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Speaker 2: straight to this one because this is yeah on fire.

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Speaker 1: If you can go do like an eternal sunshine yourself

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Speaker 1: to forget it that if you already heard it, God forbid. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is the one to listen to because this is

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Speaker 1: one's gonna have a lot of meat to it.

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Speaker 2: Would you do that eternal sunshine yourself reason?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's been times. One time that comes to

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Speaker 1: mind because I just got done talking about this in

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Speaker 1: therapy and then before that in an interview, because I

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Speaker 1: just talk about things.

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Speaker 2: Like therapy, it's the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I have no boundaries with anyone.

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Speaker 2: Imagine is being much different than this podcast.

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Speaker 1: Who did I just talk to that said the same thing,

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Speaker 1: and they said, whenever I go to therapy, they're always like,

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Speaker 1: who the fuck was it. That's so upsetting because it

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Speaker 1: was the first time I've ever heard someone else say that,

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Speaker 1: because I've been to therapists before and they'll be like, Nikki,

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Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you for revealing that

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Speaker 1: to me, and like this is a safe space. I

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Speaker 1: just want to remind you, and I go, oh, I

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Speaker 1: literally just said it an hour ago, like I, I

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Speaker 1: workshopped it before I got to you, and to thousands

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Speaker 1: of people at least, you know who knows, because but

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Speaker 1: they're always like, really, there isn't much difference. Yeah, it was,

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Speaker 1: it's a little more more detailed. In fact, I left

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Speaker 1: the cameras going for the first episode, like I forgot

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Speaker 1: to on record. I think it's also known to stop,

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Speaker 1: and I left it on for an interview and then

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Speaker 1: for the therapy that followed the interview, which I needed

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Speaker 1: a lot of therapy after the interview because the interview

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Speaker 1: I like said a lot that I was and it's

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Speaker 1: a very high profile piece and it was so great. Well,

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Speaker 1: I was being interviewed by a celebrity, and I will

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Speaker 1: play the guessing game with your thing, but it already

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Speaker 1: failed for the celebrity, or already failed this person, and

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Speaker 1: so I know it won't reveal him or her, And so.

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Speaker 2: I just want to clarify the acrenator is not my thing.

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Speaker 2: I didn't make it. I did not stand by it

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Speaker 2: after it failed twice on this podcast. I fully retract

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Speaker 2: the enforcement.

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Speaker 1: You talked such a big game for it.

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Speaker 2: There's been some time blow my mind. I'm sure two

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Speaker 2: times it's blown my mind and reversed put my mind back.

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Speaker 1: To But but so it was. I was talking in

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Speaker 1: the interview about a moment that I wanted to eternal Sunshine,

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Speaker 1: which is like when I read something about myself on

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Speaker 1: Reddit that I like, had only ever thought about myself

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Speaker 1: and never had anyone even slightly say to me to

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Speaker 1: my face, or had ever read in a comment. It

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Speaker 1: was just like a thing I'd noticed about myself that

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Speaker 1: I'm mostly insecure about. I won't even I won't even

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Speaker 1: hint at what it is because I don't want anyone

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Speaker 1: ever use it against me. But I when I read

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Speaker 1: that comment, I almost was like hyperventilating like I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: The feeling that was going on in my body was

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Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. It felt like I was burning alive, like

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Speaker 1: and I and you and I just all I wanted

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Speaker 1: didn't see that comment. And then I eventually got over

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Speaker 1: a couple of years later. But that was a joke,

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Speaker 1: but it really took me a while. It took me

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Speaker 1: like months to unsee that what about you?

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Speaker 2: Well, I didn't take it as a joke, because I

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Speaker 2: would it would take me a couple of years sometimes

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Speaker 2: to get over some things like that. I've recently learned

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Speaker 2: like I need to chill with trying to find feedback

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Speaker 2: on the internet, Like I need to chill.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Yeah, it's there's it's drinking, it's

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Speaker 1: it is smoking weed, it's doing hero and it's it's

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Speaker 1: shopping addiction. It's guys, it's an addiction. If you're someone

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Speaker 1: and you read them, there's no good in it. You

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Speaker 1: can keep convincing yourself you're looking for feedback. You can

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Speaker 1: it's my birthday, it's Saint Patrick's a It's never gonna go.

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Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't. I I went nuts when Tim dillan

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Speaker 2: this is Your Country came out. And I've read every

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Speaker 2: single told us comment, every single tweet. I've read every

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Speaker 2: single thing that was written by any Even if it

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Speaker 2: was a bot, I've probably read it right, and I

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Speaker 2: drove me insane.

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Speaker 1: I think I won't apologize for some of that stuff

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Speaker 1: I wrote because I wasn't a bad place. I was

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Speaker 1: jealous that night and I didn't I'm glad you didn't

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Speaker 1: trace my name.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I I can only imagine, but imagine how Tim feels.

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Speaker 1: Can I just I'm sorry to take away from the

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Speaker 1: you and your piece. Sometimes I read things about my

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Speaker 1: fellow comedians and I go, good Lord, I hope they

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Speaker 1: don't see this. And I'm not talking just about Tim Dillon,

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Speaker 1: even though his fans are not nice. No, because I

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Speaker 1: believe me. I joined the Tim Dillon subreddit because I

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Speaker 1: am a fan. Didn't know that it was all people

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Speaker 1: who love him so much that they hate him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's a common that's very common.

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Speaker 1: I mean I saw it with Howard Stern too, same

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Speaker 1: same same thing happened in his subreddit. It's a toxic place,

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Speaker 1: and I does Tim read comments. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I don't think he does.

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Speaker 1: If he's alive and hasn't off himself.

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Speaker 2: He yeah, he releases. He releases the podcast every single week,

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Speaker 2: plus a Patreon episode every single week where he says

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Speaker 2: some things that a lot of people would be upset by.

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Speaker 2: So if he's reading his comment by now, I think

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Speaker 2: he's sworn off reading the comments, because it's just like,

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Speaker 2: what's the point You're gonna piss off so many people

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Speaker 1: There's no I mean, yeah, you're right, the people he

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Speaker 1: pisses off, he would probably enjoy that because he knows

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Speaker 1: what he's doing. Sure in that regard, But I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about people that attack your character, or not even your character.

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Speaker 1: You're you know, just are just brutally cruel in ways

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Speaker 1: and you've agreed to it, like you, no one should

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Speaker 1: ever read these things about themselves, even at a roast.

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Speaker 1: I argue, you shouldn't have to hear the stuff about yourself.

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Speaker 1: It's so painful.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think I honestly don't think he reads

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Speaker 1: I think I don't think he would either.

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Speaker 2: Because I can't even really imagine him sitting there reading it.

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Speaker 1: No, and you know what, because he's he doesn't because

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Speaker 1: he's evolved. Yeah, I think Tim Dillan is you know,

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Speaker 1: is because he's smart, and he also it would stand

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Speaker 1: in his way and he's a successful person. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: you know, like it it is a hindrance to you.

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Speaker 1: That's why he doesn't do drugs anymore. That's why he

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Speaker 1: doesn't drink. I would guess it's the same reason why

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Speaker 1: he doesn't read. He's learned that there is no good

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Speaker 2: I didn't learn from that yet. I have not learned

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Speaker 2: that lesson. Fully, it's not ingrained.

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Speaker 1: In me either, did the person I just interviewed. And

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Speaker 1: I got like, I interviewed with this this girl interviewed me,

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Speaker 1: and we're talking about comments, and she said, young, wait, channel,

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Speaker 1: you're just surreptitiously start inserting acnaer questions, trying.

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Speaker 2: To get out of it again, giving it a second chance.

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Speaker 1: But no, I I I because she was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's not a sometimes, it's a never because she's someone

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Speaker 1: who also has dealt with like addiction, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: if it's it's like drinking, you don't get to even

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Speaker 1: do a sip, you know, Like, this isn't about like

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Speaker 1: it will it's it's it's never gonna be enough, and

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Speaker 1: it's it's just a I literally was like I almost

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Speaker 1: to me being like, you don't understand. This isn't a joke,

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Speaker 1: Like you have to stop. And I really believe that.

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Speaker 1: I think this is my new fucking pedestal is to stop.

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Speaker 1: If you feel that social media is harm harming you,

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Speaker 1: you gotta put it down. You gotta uninstall Instagram from

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Speaker 1: your phone. Not forever, I'm not saying, but I think

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Speaker 1: if your celebrity comments, you really have to say goodbye

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Speaker 1: to it forever.

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Speaker 2: I think if you're if you're a celebrity of a

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Speaker 1: I mean, I told Emily to just tell me gen ZM.

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Speaker 1: My new thing is like I saw she told me like, oh,

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Speaker 1: have something nice to say, send it to me and

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Speaker 1: then I'll comment, so like eat because that's the thing

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Speaker 1: I miss out on is like I like to see

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Speaker 1: nice things and then right back to their stuff, and

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Speaker 1: I want to be interactive and right back to their comment.

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Speaker 1: So what why That's because like being nice?

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Speaker 2: The question is why has social media not invented a

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Speaker 2: filter for that positive.

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Speaker 1: Filter that you can put certain words in? And I

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Speaker 1: put one time, I like screen recorded it when the

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Speaker 1: feature first came out, and I made a joke about it,

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Speaker 1: and I just put like cunt not funny, sure horse face,

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Speaker 1: and then I put what did I do? I did

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Speaker 1: a really funny one that was like a misspell uh

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Speaker 1: was yo, you are. So it only was kidding people

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Speaker 1: that would spell it wrong out, which I thought was

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Speaker 1: like a nice way of saying like I don't care

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Speaker 1: about your opinion if you're dumb, but if you say

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Speaker 1: you are with a poster be uh, we're a game,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, you could put certain filters for words, but

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Speaker 1: that just you know.

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Speaker 2: But I want to be like an AI, a positive

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Speaker 2: use of AI that says that will read all the

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Speaker 2: comments and delete anything that's negative, so that you're only

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Speaker 2: seeing positive feed. But I mean, I guess if you're

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Speaker 2: gonna read the comments at all, then it's not beneficial

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Speaker 2: to you. But it wouldn't it be nice if it

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Speaker 2: just served you the nice stuff?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would love to know about fire emojis or

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Speaker 1: you know, j Loo's been liking my stuff and I

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Speaker 1: find out later from Emily. But yeah, but it might

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Speaker 1: be nice to get a little Lord on my phone

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Speaker 1: for that, or be able to like enjoy that in

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Speaker 1: the moment and not go, oh that's cool two weeks

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Speaker 2: two exactly? That was for content. Don't do it?

436
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 1: What's fun? We had at the speed you know where?

437
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,679
Speaker 2: You know what? You know what? I wish we would have.

438
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to say I.

439
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 1: Don't know what, but I'm going to go to break

440
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out right when we get back. Okay,

441
00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,160
Speaker 1: we're back.

442
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 2: What what is it after I just stumbled into brick?

443
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 2: I don't wish, but it would be nice a moment

444
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 2: that I would have liked to have recorded that we share. Oh,

445
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: I know you already know which one it is?

446
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:56,400
Speaker 1: Catchphrase?

447
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 2: Yes, when we were playing catchphrase.

448
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 1: I've never made Brian laugh that hard.

449
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: That was the funniest thing I've ever heard.

450
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: That's so funny because I wasn't trying to be funny.

451
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 2: No, that's why it was so good.

452
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 1: Sucks, No, it doesn't, it doesn't suck. It just is

453
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 1: like it as a comedian when you're like, hang, when

454
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 1: your friends laugh at you, when you're comedian, friends who

455
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: you admire laugh at you, and you say like, and

456
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 1: they don't let You're like, I don't always crack you

457
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 1: up in the way that you know.

458
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 2: I'm a tough laugh.

459
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I but I respect it and there's nothing

460
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: wrong with that. But then the time that I do,

461
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 1: and it's not even intentional, is just like damn, Like okay,

462
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 1: but it's also makes me feel good because it's like, Okay,

463
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 1: I guess I'm naturally funny.

464
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 2: Yes, well absolutely, this was like pure like this was

465
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 2: like Nicky Glazer heroin funny. This was just like finding

466
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 2: the cure, finding the.

467
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 1: Remember what I said, Yeah, I remember exactly what. You

468
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: can catchphrase the game, Brian.

469
00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 2: You can describe it catchphrase is it's like a game

470
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 2: where you have this disc and it has categories on it,

471
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 2: and you have to describe the things that pop up

472
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 2: on the disc without saying the words on the disc,

473
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 2: and then you pass it around in a circle and

474
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 2: you can have teams or not. It's sort of like

475
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: heads up. You know heads up.

476
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: Is that where you hold the phone to your phone.

477
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you hold the phone up to your head heads

478
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 2: up kind of destroyed catchphrase because catchphrase was very popular

479
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: in the nineties and early two thousands, and it was

480
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 2: like this circular disc and it was electronic. Before it

481
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: was electronic, it was like a little paper disc that

482
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,120
Speaker 2: you would actually click and it would go through. And

483
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,160
Speaker 2: the downfall of catchphrase was because it was this electronic

484
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 2: thing not connected to the internet, it couldn't upgrade, update

485
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 2: it's works. So then when they came out with apps

486
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 2: that were a similar game where they could constantly come

487
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 2: out with new words, catchphrase pretty much went extinct.

488
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but it's they're funny because they have like

489
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 1: old references and they're like stuck in an yes and

490
00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 1: then and.

491
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 2: Then what's funny about it is that you can do.

492
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 2: One of the categories you can do is decades. You

493
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: can have a bunch of words from the seventies and

494
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 2: it's like afro and you have to try to get

495
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: people to guess out getting off, getting off.

496
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

497
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: But then they also had two thousand tens, but this

498
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 2: catch phrase came out in twenty fourteen, so all the

499
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 2: twenty tens clues are like, so not twenty tens in

500
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 2: our mind, Like it's it's.

501
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: They're so all right because they're in the decades, so

502
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 1: they got.

503
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 2: In the middle. Yeah, they're like, yeah, what's twenty tens?

504
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 2: And it's like something very specific from twenty eleven that

505
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 2: nobody remembers it.

506
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 1: Like it's like the Harlem Shake or something, and you're like,

507
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: what exactly that was, like the first meme dance, and

508
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: we've all forgotten it was a huge fucking deal at

509
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 1: the time.

510
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: I've ever forgotten big things, Like I barely remember like

511
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,239
Speaker 2: Gangnam Style. I remember how big that was.

512
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah that.

513
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 2: Was I mean huge.

514
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: I was like I think the first like YouTube video

515
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: to hit a billion or something like that. Yeah.

516
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 2: This makes me kind of depressed about like the pastage

517
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 2: of time because there's so many things like if you

518
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: remember back from the twenty ten's where they seem so

519
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: important and huge at the time, and then you look

520
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 2: back and like, gagnot.

521
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: It makes me happy. Nothing matters. Well, yeah, you're massive.

522
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: Like if I do something it's a massive failure, everyone

523
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: will forget. It doesn't matter. If it's a win, they'll forget.

524
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 1: If it's a lose, they'll forget. It's all gonna end

525
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: up on a catchphrase collecting dust. Well, they don't make

526
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: them anymore, so I guess I'll never be on like

527
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: a man made catchpraise. I think I'm probably famous enough

528
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: to be in an app one now, I would hope.

529
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: So are you kidding me? You're way beyond you. You've

530
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 2: been on Jeopardy, You've had Jeopardy clues in New York

531
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: Times crossword puzzle.

532
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, cross that's true. But catchphraises for dumber people,

533
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 1: and those are for people. Those other two are people

534
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: paying attention, and catch raises more general and it's like

535
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 1: more I would say, household names. I don't think I'm

536
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: quite that yet, but I'm okay with that. So we

537
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: were playing catchphrase and we kept getting yelled at by

538
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: the production because they're trying to shoot like you know,

539
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 1: f Boy Island dates, and we would be like, you know,

540
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 1: like the screams like we were watching a football game

541
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 1: and like because the timer would run out and we

542
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: were just screaming.

543
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 2: But it was me, you hair and makeup, You're who

544
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 2: you also sometimes get to do hair and makeup now?

545
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Leah locally.

546
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: And then the wardrobe.

547
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: Stacy from wardrobe, whose last name I just had to

548
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 1: look up because someone asked about her. Stacy, if you're listening,

549
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: I gave your name to someone and I forget her

550
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,439
Speaker 1: last name now, but she's amazing and I love her.

551
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 2: She's very good. And we were playing catch phrase, tossing

552
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: it around the circle, and like Stacy was sitting on

553
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 2: the ground, like not really facing us and sort of

554
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 2: not playing, and but me, you and Leah were.

555
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: Playing, okay.

556
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 3: Uh.

557
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 2: Stacy tried to interject at one point, but then Leah

558
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 2: kind of said something over her and she didn't get

559
00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: to interject. And then you go, hyuh, so I forgot

560
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: exactly what you said.

561
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: You go, missed your shot or something.

562
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 2: You go, you you miss your shot, you get trampled,

563
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: bitch razzle dazzles, You get trampled bitch.

564
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: Razzled dazzle. It was yeah, and you like couldn't. It

565
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: was so gratifying. You were laughing so hard for so long.

566
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,239
Speaker 1: It felt like I was that must be like how

567
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: Kurston feels.

568
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 2: It was.

569
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: It just was so nice, even though I'm comedian and

570
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,479
Speaker 1: I should know what it feels like, but to make

571
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: someone laugh on a thing you have not planned, oh yeah,

572
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: it feels just so amazing.

573
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,919
Speaker 2: So I would like to have that memory recorded, and

574
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 2: I feel like that that makes me think of like

575
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: a reverse internal sunshine, which is like, wouldn't it be

576
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 2: nice if you could have like every single moment in

577
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 2: your life recorded or at least accessible in your brain

578
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: so you can go into a room and be like,

579
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 2: do you want to act? They did this in Minority Report,

580
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: And I do believe that it's true that every single

581
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 2: memory that you've ever experienced is in your brain somewhere. Yeah,

582
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: it's just the the neuronal pathways to get to it

583
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 2: are completely desertated.

584
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: But we also remember things the wrong way, so the

585
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: memory not the way it happened.

586
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 2: Well, you can retrain you can. They called the golden scissors.

587
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: You can retrain your brain to convince yourself that something

588
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 2: that happened one way happened another way by just continually

589
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 2: remembering it that way over and over again until the

590
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 2: fake memory becomes stronger than the actual memory.

591
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: Oh, j Simpson kill his wife and I think he true.

592
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: It's probably true.

593
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really think he believed it.

594
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, Souse, you say it enough, you just start to

595
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 2: and you think it enough. So if you're like, oh,

596
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: Jerry was at that party, Jerry was never at the party.

597
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,719
Speaker 2: But if for ten years you're thinking Jerry was at

598
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: the part, Jerry's at the party, and then you see

599
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: Jerry and you're like, you remember when you're at that party,

600
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 2: and he was like, I was never at that party.

601
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: I was in Ethiopia on.

602
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: The It's wild when that stuff happens too, Yeah, where

603
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: I'll be like, no, there's no way you weren't and

604
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: they're like, there's no way I was, And here's receipts,

605
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, what the fuck is

606
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: wrong with my brain? Yeah, it's happen a lot. It's disturbing.

607
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: But what event would you Uh, I'm trying to think

608
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: of other events i'd recall. It's all just funny stuff.

609
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: It's all like really funny. You had to be there moments.

610
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: I think that I I mean, this is kind of

611
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: this is kind of cliche, but I would definitely go

612
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 2: back to my wedding. I would go back to dancing

613
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 2: at my wedding. Oh, I would go there was there

614
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: was a moment when I was in college where I

615
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: was just like in the it was freshman year, first

616
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 2: semester of college where I was in like the shared

617
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: shower in the dorm huh. And I was just, for

618
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: some reason so happy and optimistic and excited. It was

619
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: like that college freshman sort of like optimism. I have

620
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 2: not been able to recover that optimism since then, and

621
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: I remember this moment exactly where I was just in

622
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: the shower and I was like, everything is going so well.

623
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: I love life so much. College is awesome. I love that.

624
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm so hopeful for the future.

625
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to smoke weed again.

626
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: I never I haven't felt that way since then.

627
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: This is all leading to yeah.

628
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: Or Another moment was when the store, I uh, when

629
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: I got just for Laughs. I got the I was

630
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: I was coaching an improv group. I walked out I

631
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: got the call, and I was walking down uh Broadway

632
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 2: on the Upper West Side, and I was just like,

633
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: I got it, and I felt so optimistic. A misled optimism,

634
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 2: I would say, because getting just for Laughs did absolutely

635
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: nothing for me, but at the time it felt like, God,

636
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 2: this is so important and amazing.

637
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a nice moment I'm trying to think of.

638
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: I would relive the roast. Oh, watching you crush up

639
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: there was like winning.

640
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't I relive it? I just wanted to stay there.

641
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: That's interesting. I wouldn't want to relive anything. I'd want

642
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: to maybe watch I could watch The Ross. I could

643
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: watch that again. I think it does exist.

644
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: I haven't watched it.

645
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: It's I I really haven't. I sent a couple of

646
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: clips and stuff, but I lived it, so I'm just like,

647
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm not interested, and it's there's nothing I can do.

648
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: Watching it is only I would only watch it if

649
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: I had to edit it, and I don't even want

650
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: to do that. But but I will say that I

651
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 1: I would just like to go back in everyone and

652
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: my friends and like my parents and like my the

653
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: lives of the people. I love to see the moment

654
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: they saw their husband or wife for the first time,

655
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: or like what what like I.

656
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 2: Love I love.

657
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: Hearing stories of like how people met, or like when

658
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: they both knew, or the moment like it turned romantic.

659
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: Like I watched a clip of Freddy Prince Junior talking

660
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: about him and Sarah Michelle Geller starting out his friends

661
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: and then becoming romantic when they went on. They were

662
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: like just friends hanging out for two years and they

663
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: were not into each other, and then they went out

664
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: with another friend. They were supposed to go out with

665
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: another friend. That friend didn't show up, and then it

666
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:14,959
Speaker 1: ended up being a date, and then on that date,

667
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: they drank enough that they were kind of like, this

668
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: is romantic, and then it was that like I love

669
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: those like moments where they like it turns romantic. And

670
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: you know, that's why I've asked to hear your story

671
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: of meeting Ali for the first time so many times. Afie,

672
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I know the origin. You saw pictures

673
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: of him online before you.

674
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 3: No, No, it's actually similar to Freddie Prince and Sarah

675
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: Michelle Geller. We became we were friends through the metal scene.

676
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: Oh and he came to a podcast that I was on,

677
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 3: and at first I was just like not interested. We

678
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 3: just were acquaintances for maybe I think eight years before

679
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: we started dating.

680
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: And then I was on the Racy's Insane. I don't

681
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: know this, and I actually was at one point.

682
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: I met him for the first time in twenty through

683
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 3: a friend. Was not interested. He was in a relationship,

684
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: but I was in a relationship. You know, didn't really

685
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 3: is that why you weren't interested? Or was there like

686
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: you clocked it? Uh? I thought he was cute, but

687
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 3: I was just like, Ugh, I do not want to

688
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 3: date the frontman of any band. I was into the

689
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 3: guitar players at that point. So funny, so stupid, even

690
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 3: though I found.

691
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: Out recently that Noah was like truly in love with

692
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: a front man of a band named Axel Rose. Oh,

693
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: you told my secret. I didn't know. It was a

694
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: very It was sorry.

695
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 3: You can take it out if you don't want no, No,

696
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: it's fine, I don't care you.

697
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: She loved guns and roses separate story, but let's just

698
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: go back to Avie for a Secondeah, but she did.

699
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: She wasn't like the way I am with Taylor Swift.

700
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: She was with Axel Rose. She used to buy magazines.

701
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: This is the cutest detail. I'm sorry, Noah. She was

702
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: to buy they She saved her for money. This high

703
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: school or middle school.

704
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 3: This was definitely high school where he was on the

705
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 3: cover of Spin magazine. And it wasn't even like a

706
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 3: recent photo of it was like an older one.

707
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Sure.

708
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 3: I put it in a large ziploc bag, and whenever

709
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 3: I would look through it, I would use tweezers.

710
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: Tweezers wanted to Honestly, it's done the same thing. If

711
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: I had thought of that a brilliant idea with Dave

712
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: Matthew's band Rolling Stone. I used to do the same

713
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: kind of show ossion, so okay, But anyway, an ave

714
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: not interested in him in that way. And then we

715
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: were on You Up together and we were talking about

716
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: the book getting too I do. And that's when I

717
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: kind of just like saw him on Instagram after years

718
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: of not really paying attention to him, and then I

719
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: messaged him and I did the book and I got

720
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: to ida, oh my god, so you what do you

721
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: remember the picture you saw? Do you remember? Like it

722
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: was such a stupid picture too.

723
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 3: It was just like him in a photo with a

724
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 3: mutual friend and he was holding a beer bottle. He

725
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: was at a wedding, and I was like, oh, he

726
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: looks so cute. I wonder what he's up to. And

727
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 3: then I went to his profile was private, and I

728
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 3: was like, oh, well, I got a lot of good

729
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: things going on. I'm going to send him a request.

730
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: You know.

731
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: It was one of those guys care that you have

732
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: a lot of good things, you know, they don't care.

733
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: That was before you read the book and knew that

734
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: they don't care. They don't care.

735
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 3: He just wanted to see hot photos of me and yeah.

736
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 3: And then we went on our first date in Brooklyn.

737
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 3: I think we went to first so I let him

738
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:27,879
Speaker 3: choose the place.

739
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: It was a bar.

740
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 3: We went to the bar and I didn't drink, so

741
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 3: he's like, Okay, I get you a drink. I'm like,

742
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,760
Speaker 3: I'll just take a Seltzer. And then when he realized

743
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 3: that I don't drink, he's like, oh, this is probably

744
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 3: not fun for you. Do you want to go get

745
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: something to eat? Then we went to Buttermilk in Brooklyn

746
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 3: and then we just started talking about everything and we're

747
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 3: like and I just was like, oh my god, we

748
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: have so much in common.

749
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what I'd want footage of, is a

750
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: first date. I like the first date because it's like

751
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: before both these people are, they have no idea they're

752
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: going to and the rest of their lives together. Sure,

753
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: it's so interesting.

754
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 2: It's also a key uh, A key veteran date move

755
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: is to if it's going well, try to change locations

756
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 2: at least once. That's that's how you get you get

757
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 2: confirmation that that, oh, this is actually.

758
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: An indicator of interest that a girl.

759
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 2: If you go, yeah, if you go, if you're if

760
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: you start off at a bar and you' getting a

761
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 2: drink and you said you want to get something to eat.

762
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 2: Then you and they say if they say yes, then

763
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: you're like, okay, this is this.

764
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: I loved when that would happen on dates where it

765
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: was going well and you both would feel it and

766
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: you'd be like, should we just keep paying out? It's like, oh, yeah,

767
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: same page. Yes, it's so nice. That's such a fun feeling.

768
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

769
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: I think that's That's really what I'd be interested in

770
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: is is seeing You're.

771
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: Not interested in seeing your own memories. You want to

772
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: see other people's memories. Yeah, you just want to you

773
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 2: want a recording of everything on earth.

774
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 1: Even with Chris and I. I would I would kind

775
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: of like to see I would like to see the

776
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: look on my face after the moment I knew that

777
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: I was going to pursue him and like he was

778
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: gonna be mine, because I remember when I found out

779
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: it was because he like I'd already kind of like

780
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: noticed him, and then I found out he didn't drink,

781
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: and then I found out he made a video that

782
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: he didn't need to make just to make the host laugh.

783
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: And when I found when they when I go who

784
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: made that video and they said Chris Convey from the

785
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 1: Darkness because I was on stage and they said Chris Convy.

786
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: I just would I'm sure it's like, actually, I'm sure

787
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: there's a video of it somewhere because I was on camera,

788
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: but we were stopped down, so I don't think the

789
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: cameras were rolling.

790
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: But I just.

791
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: Remember being like I almost I probably even nodded, like

792
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: and that is going to be my new mission, Like

793
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: I knew it. It's confirmed. He's amazing. Yep, that's my guy.

794
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: That would be fun to see.

795
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 3: Sure, did you hide you're dating when you work together?

796
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 3: Did you guys hide that you were dating at first? Oh? Yeah?

797
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: And there's nothing fucking otter. That's why being Mormon is

798
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: so hot. Like that's why being like any kind of

799
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: like I got to that and kind of like to

800
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: a leap too far, but like that's why, that's why

801
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: there's like porn around like Mormon and step step siblings

802
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: because it's taboo and it's not allowed, and so it

803
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: makes it so much hotter. So yeah, we were sneaking around.

804
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: We Yeah, we had a lot of fun and it

805
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: was all driven by Moah. It was definitely it was.

806
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: It was fun, but it was like we did some

807
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: people didn't know, and we didn't do anything that would

808
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: have like really gotten us in trouble. I say, so

809
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: we don't get in trouble, but like right, I mean

810
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: we did some really like I was. I was a

811
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: sexual deviate for sure.

812
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 2: I am.

813
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: I put a fucking gummy worn in my vagina. I

814
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: can be very weird when I'm in the beginning of

815
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 1: a relationship and things are horny, like I get, I

816
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 1: get pretty creative. So we had some really fun moments.

817
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 1: But no, people didn't know, but they did. He didn't

818
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: tell fucking anyone because he like doesn't need to do

819
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. But I everyone knew that I

820
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: was like in love with him before we were even together.

821
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: So when we got together, they all knew. And then

822
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: I would just and then I and I would just

823
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: blush and I would just he would leave a room.

824
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: I was so in love with him. When he didn't know,

825
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: he thought I hated him. He would like leave the

826
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: room and I would like fall on the floor and

827
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 1: like make a big thing. Everyone knew. Everyone knew except him.

828
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: So it was when we got together, Yes, we had

829
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: to keep it secret. And then I was like the

830
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: second week kissed, I was like, let's tell everyone we're together.

831
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 1: Like I didn't say that, but I would have, but

832
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: I had learned by then to not be like that

833
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 1: and just be like play cool. See when he tells people,

834
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: which would have been fucking never's people still wouldn't know

835
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: if it were up to him. But uh, but yeah,

836
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 1: eventually we got to be out with it. I don't

837
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: think it was like a we have to announce this

838
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: to everyone or anything like that. It just like kind

839
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: of naturally had just show up to places together and

840
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: then people kind of I think it just word got

841
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: out because the people I told told people, and then

842
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: it just trickled down and then I think it was

843
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: never something we had to announce because then the show

844
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: was canceled before that happened. Yeah, it was. It's so fun.

845
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: It's and people are always like kind of have to

846
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: tiptoe around talking about office romances because there is a

847
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 1: power imbalance oftentimes involved. That's how people meet.

848
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes you have to disclose to HR relationship.

849
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, we didn't tell mtv HR at the time.

850
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: Carson Dally, whoever it was that was leading that branch. No,

851
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: we didn't.

852
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 2: We didn't tell anyone. Wherever you work at MTV, you

853
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 2: have to tell Carson Dale your relationship status.

854
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: I'm sure there is a protocol for that, but I

855
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: don't begrudge anyone meeting at work. That's how you fucking

856
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: meet and when people most of your time exactly.

857
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 2: Ali has a saying, Uh, don't get your honey where

858
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 2: you get your money.

859
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 1: Oh, that's better than don't ship where you eat or

860
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 1: whatever people say. That makes me just like so.

861
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: Showing people's mouths and then ask him for a paycheck,

862
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 2: I think.

863
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate, I hate, don't you Okay, So don't

864
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: get your honey where you get your money. I'll tell

865
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: you though, when you're getting the honey where you get

866
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: your money. It makes going to work so much fun.

867
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 1: Oh my dear God. When during the U up days, man,

868
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: when I would have a crush come in, there's nothing

869
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: better than I would like inter Like a guy would

870
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: be booked to come in and like I would be

871
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: interviewing him and like there's already been a vibe because

872
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: we would just have comedians on and I was single

873
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: at the time, and so that would be so I

874
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: would be skipping to fucking work that day when there's

875
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: gonna be like a romance, like it's having a crush

876
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,280
Speaker 1: is the best feeling, like butterflies for someone is great,

877
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 1: and I have it for Chris sometimes, Like we haven't

878
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: seen each other for a really long time, so recently

879
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: when we've been talking it's been like, oh hi, oh

880
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: my god, you're such a cutie. Like there's been a

881
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: lot of yes, it will never be what it was.

882
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: That part of our relationship has died forever. It will

883
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: never be as and as electric they please, I'm craving it, but.

884
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 2: No, we've done something.

885
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: I think that's what roleplay works to.

886
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 2: Sure that helps, But to get chemically infatuated would be

887
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 2: would be something worth pharmaceutical companies pursuer.

888
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: I've always said that if they could sell, if there

889
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: was a drug that made you feel the way it

890
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: feels to have a crush, I would be on skid row.

891
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: And there's no question about it. I'm lucky that I

892
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: don't get crushes easily. I think they're called love addicts.

893
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: I think I'm a love addict that is just too

894
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: picky to have gotten like to a bad place with it.

895
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: But I absolutely love the feeling of having a crush

896
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: so much and and then I like, I recently felt

897
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: there was something that reminded me of it that I

898
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, there was some It was like an

899
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: a an album or something that felt crush like in

900
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: my infatuation with it. And then something I got rejected

901
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: by it in some way recently, and the feeling came

902
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: back to me of like when you like someone and

903
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 1: they don't like you, and it's on the other side

904
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: of the crush feeling is a devastation, oh yeahd of

905
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: rejection or a loss when you just know a crush

906
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 1: isn't gonna work out. One time, this guy, I like,

907
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: we had been back and forth so many times, and

908
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: I thought there was like a vibe between us, and

909
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: fucking Ian Fidance was like there was I felt, Nikki,

910
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: he totally isn't you. And so he's like send him

911
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 1: a text like make it happen tonight, just say what

912
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,839
Speaker 1: like is on your mind now. He's like tell him

913
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: the truth, and I like wrote him like you looked

914
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 1: cute tonight, or like I took it like we were

915
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: like friends again after having been romantic, and then it

916
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: was like we were just friends now. But I was

917
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: like are we though I still like him, so I

918
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: wrote like you look cute tonight, and he instantly called

919
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: me and was like, Nikki, no, this is never gonna

920
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: happen again. This door is like he pretty much was like,

921
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: this door is shut. Like he was very nice about it,

922
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 1: so honestly, so nice about it. But it felt horrible.

923
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing to get rejected. But it happens to

924
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: people all the time.

925
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 2: It's like it's very common.

926
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,240
Speaker 1: You can't not in life. You have to do yourself

927
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: out there. Nicki no. I thought he was picking up

928
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: the phone to be like, let's do it, meet me

929
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: on the corner, and it's like nicky no. He literally

930
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 1: goes nicky no, like bad girl, and I'm like, oh man,

931
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 1: that's the opposite of what turns me on. No, what

932
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: were you.

933
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 3: Gonna say, Well, I was going to say that I

934
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 3: don't like. I mean, it's only one time that I

935
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 3: had to be on the other end of that the

936
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 3: person being like blah blah blah, no, we're not doing this. Yes,

937
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 3: it was so uncomfortable, but I have to say it

938
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 3: like propelled our friendship to this other branch and now

939
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,879
Speaker 3: it's like someone who I'm so close with Yeah, he's

940
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 3: one of my dearest friends.

941
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: I've been I've been the no it's never gonna happen,

942
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: and I've It's led to some great friendships too. I

943
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: can't recall any of them because they all fell off

944
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: as soon as I no. Actually, one of one of

945
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: my closest friends who I won't reveal, uh, used to

946
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 1: have a crush on me, and it was to the

947
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: point where it was like, I can't do this anymore,

948
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: Like I can't talk about my life with you, because

949
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: you seem to be so angry that you know, like

950
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: when you're a girl, you want to talk about guys,

951
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: even to your guy friends, even though they're bored by it,

952
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: but at least they're not angry about it. But this

953
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: guy would get like you could. I could just tell

954
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: it's hurting him. And and now it's like so much

955
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: time has passed that it's I don't even consider that

956
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: we had to go do our separate things. But now

957
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 1: it's like that was weird different people, and we were.

958
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 1: That's the truth of it, is that and I think

959
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: I could be friends with the Thing is, though, you

960
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: just don't become friends with men when everyone's partnered up.

961
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: You don't make new male friendships. Sorry, ladies, you don't

962
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: get it. Like you can get the you can get there,

963
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 1: you can be grandfathered in. Yeah, but you're not making

964
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: you're not making new friends. And it's not because of

965
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: your jealous boyfriend. It's sometimes because of their jealous partner.

966
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: But it's also sometimes not because of either of those.

967
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: It's just like, it's rare if it happens. I'll say that,

968
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: but I just don't think. I don't think it's happening.

969
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 2: New friends sus I certainly don't have any new female

970
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 2: friends that aren't like my friend's wife.

971
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: Here's a great point that I'm going to frustrate people about.

972
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: But I've thought this through a lot. I'm gonna go

973
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: to break and i'll tell you after that. Here's the thing.

974
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: When you are two people of the opposite sex and

975
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 1: you're both straight and your best friends or good friends

976
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, and then one of you gets a partner,

977
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: it's weird when you tell the It's just it's a

978
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 1: little bit weird to go hang out with that friend

979
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: and tell the partner like, I'm not hanging out with you,

980
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to hang out with this other guy or

981
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: vice versa. Right, I'm gonna I'm not hanging out with

982
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: you girlfriend. I'm gonna go hang out with this girl

983
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: who's my friend that I hung out with before we

984
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: were together. But and then she's like, but and if

985
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,839
Speaker 1: you don't invite them, it seems like you're doing something naughty,

986
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 1: even though if it was another girlfriend, your boyfriend wouldn't

987
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: give a fuck, and he'd be he'd be glad not

988
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: to be invited, and we want to go. That's fine. Okay,

989
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 1: So that's fine, that's fine. You're a friend, two friends,

990
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: opposite sex, both straight, and now this guy got a girlfriend.

991
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: Now this girl to hang out with. This guy must

992
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: always now hang out with the girlfriend in order to

993
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: hang out with the guy. Other otherwise it's sus and

994
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: the girlfriend's gonna start hating you. But sometimes and you

995
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: might love the girlfriend honestly, she might be great. And

996
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm I'm people are just are maybe gonna try to

997
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: be like. This is about Andrew Brett. This is not

998
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: about this is I've formed this opinion long before anything.

999
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: It's and even before Chris, like in me making new

1000
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: guy friends sometimes though you I don't know, no if

1001
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: I you and I are hanging out and you were like,

1002
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 1: I have to bring AV. I'd be like, what, I

1003
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: like AVI, but I like our dynamic. It's what I'm

1004
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: used to, and like we're gonna talk in a different

1005
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: way than I'm gonna talk around your fucking partner. And

1006
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: that's not because I don't like him or when I

1007
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: hang out with him. But imagine but friends that are

1008
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: male and female, they can't ever hang out without the

1009
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: partner being there. And you might go, well, what's wrong

1010
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: with the partner being there? Here's what's wrong. It just

1011
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: changes the dynamic. It's nothing against the partner. It's just

1012
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: like you never get your old you never get your

1013
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: old dynamic again unless they're out of town, which then

1014
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: feels like sneaky for a reason it shouldn't be.

1015
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 3: I used to be guilty of this, like I would

1016
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 3: bring my boyfriend everywhere. This is like when I was

1017
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 3: really young in relationships and didn't know any better. But

1018
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 3: I think through Ester Perel and her like thought and stuff, like,

1019
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 3: I realize you you need to have your autonomy. You

1020
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 3: gotta have your own friendships. You can't have your partner

1021
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 3: and everything that you do. It's just like they can't

1022
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 3: be everything for you. That's how you need other people.

1023
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 3: But I think it's rare.

1024
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: It is look down upon to hang out with a

1025
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: man alone when your boyfriend is available to hang right

1026
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:11,760
Speaker 1: and you, and vice versa. It looks like something fishy

1027
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: might be having, and vice versa. It just is weird

1028
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: and it shouldn't be, but it is. And Chris, I

1029
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 1: do think it just speaks to how secure you are

1030
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: in your relationship and no offense to people that get

1031
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: jealous of that. Like I, I think that if you

1032
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,399
Speaker 1: I don't care if Chris hangs out with a girl.

1033
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: I know everyone knows that I don't even care if

1034
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: he would to be doing other things with a girl.

1035
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: But I Chris also doesn't care if I hang out

1036
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: with male friends that I was friends with before. If

1037
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 1: I made a new male friend, he might be like

1038
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: what I And that's kinda sucks because I like being

1039
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 1: friends with men. But it's not because of Chris. It's society.

1040
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: It's not Chris.

1041
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I've I've hung out with friend girls that

1042
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 2: are friends that are that I was friends with before. Ali.

1043
00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 2: I'll go to a lunch with like my friend Christina

1044
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 2: and we'll just chat or or.

1045
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: Is aally at work or is Ali free on this

1046
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 1: Saturday to also go to.

1047
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 2: This lunch She's free. I don't think it's a problem.

1048
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 2: Like Chris has his friend Nick sometimes with Nick.

1049
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm saying and I don't care, but I'm different.

1050
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying that more people need to get on. I'm

1051
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: not trying to be like I'm the cool girl, because

1052
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: I know it comes across like that, like I'm different

1053
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: than our god. But I do think that it should

1054
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: be allowed more. I will say, if he made a

1055
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: new girlfriend at least and.

1056
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: Then and then you're like, I don't want to be there.

1057
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,720
Speaker 2: I've got a girlfriend.

1058
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 1: Got a stitch razzle dazzle.

1059
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're I think it depends on the hang.

1060
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 2: Like if you're like, I'm gonna go watch a movie

1061
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 2: at her place, that's fu. Yeah, no, that's not go

1062
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 2: to lunch with this person who's also maybe in your

1063
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 2: industry too, Like that's I feel like, totally.

1064
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: Okay, but industry No. Then you're making something it about work,

1065
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,439
Speaker 1: and you're excusing that friendships can only exist that there's

1066
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: work involved. But that's not true. People should be able

1067
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: to be friends with the opposite sex and still be

1068
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: attracted to the opposite sex and not be accused of

1069
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: being attracted to that person and be able to have

1070
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: an independent friendship. And I believe that I do. I

1071
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: honestly do think that I have that with Chris. And

1072
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 1: if I didn't meet a new guy that I wanted

1073
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: to be friends with, Chris would be friends with him

1074
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: because Chris is fun to hang out with me hard.

1075
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:26,879
Speaker 1: I just answered my own question, final thought.

1076
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 2: I have a final thought? Can I say a final thought?

1077
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 2: Because I'd be to Utah or Noah's thing.

1078
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: Yes.

1079
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 2: So I saw Axel Rose last week. No, you did not,

1080
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 2: I did. I saw Axel Rose last week. So I

1081
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: went to the Intuit Dome to see Billy Joel. My

1082
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 2: second time seeing Billy Joel. He's my Taylor Swift. I'm

1083
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 2: going to see the third time. I'm going to see

1084
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: Billy Jil a third time in Vegas in just a

1085
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 2: couple of weeks.

1086
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: That's so exciting. Billy Joel was actually at the Miami

1087
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: show that I was at and went backstage in Matt

1088
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: Taylor really kids. Yeah, there's a picture I saw last night.

1089
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: So caute, pretticable.

1090
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1091
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 2: So Billy Joel had a couple of special guests come

1092
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 2: out during the show. One of them. It's just it's

1093
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 2: so funny because one of them was John Mayer. And

1094
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 2: I've seen John Mayer make a surprise special guest appearance

1095
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 2: at four different concerts now and one time at the

1096
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 2: Comedy Seller.

1097
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: Oh wow, see that's a non married man.

1098
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. He played a good guitar solo.

1099
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: But me and Ali were just like, I cannot fucking

1100
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 2: believe it's John Mayer because when he's like, we got

1101
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 2: a very special guest, I'm like, who are we going

1102
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 2: to see? I'm surprised he didn't come out. Did you

1103
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: come out of the super Bowl? No? He didn't.

1104
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: Right now, this is gonna be a fun thing for

1105
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: you guys. It's got the next time it happens, You're gonna.

1106
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 2: Go four times it's John May.

1107
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: Like you'll say it together.

1108
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 2: With the person Billy Joel.

1109
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: Wow? What did they sing together or play together? Sorry?

1110
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 2: A Billy Joel song? I forgot which one. But then

1111
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 2: he brought out a second special guest to sing live

1112
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 2: and let die Paul McCartney's song for Fun I Know,

1113
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 2: and the special guest was Axel Rose to sing it.

1114
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say Paul McCartney.

1115
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 2: That would have been better.

1116
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:09,280
Speaker 1: But it's really cool.

1117
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 2: I know, it's really cool.

1118
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 1: That song rules. And I bet Axel fucking tore that

1119
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: song up.

1120
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: Yeah he did a good job, he was. Yeah, he

1121
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 2: did a good job.

1122
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: It's like in his range or it used to. We

1123
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: used to be in his range. I'm sure.

1124
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't quite like you know, Guns n' Roses

1125
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 2: era singing, but it was still.

1126
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: Billy Joel's voice amazing still just side.

1127
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: I can't believe it. Yeah, it's like amazing. One of

1128
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 2: my favorite bands to go would would be to ever

1129
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: go see it would be Simon and Garfunkel. But I

1130
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 2: know if I saw Simon and Garfunkle, now I'd be like, mah,

1131
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 2: the vocals just aren't hitting the mark that because they're so.

1132
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: Vocal, right, So about the vocals, Yes.

1133
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: Billy Joel. I was worried before I went to see

1134
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: him the first time that his voice would not match

1135
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 2: the recordings. And it's like it's not just as good,

1136
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: but it's pretty close.

1137
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: That's incredible.

1138
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 2: He puts on a show.

1139
00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: It's that's awesome and yuh, what when you when you

1140
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: hear that he saw Axel ros Does that send your

1141
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: heart a flutter? Like do you still get like it doesn't?

1142
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 1: Over it? I'm so over it. After meeting him, I

1143
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: snuckating him.

1144
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 3: Yes, I snuck into Madison Square Garden when he came back.

1145
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 3: Uh you know, like the the Fake Guns and Roses

1146
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 3: band back in like two thousand something. I snuck in

1147
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 3: backstage mid amount of party. And after that it just

1148
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 3: like I was like, I don't care about this guy anymore.

1149
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 3: Why was I obsessed with what? It's not anything he did.

1150
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 3: He was very nice to you, right, he was very

1151
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 3: nice to me. But it was just like this this

1152
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 3: person that I was, I was craving him so badly.

1153
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,359
Speaker 3: And then once you satisfy the craving, you meet them

1154
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 3: and then I was just, oh.

1155
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: God, someone so badly like that, I mean obsessed, And

1156
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: I got to hook up with him, and I remember

1157
00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:05,280
Speaker 1: it was it's unreal like teenage annisy uh not literally yeah, teenage.

1158
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 1: It was like probably nineteen twenty were the ages where

1159
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: I was so lovely? Was nineteen twenty, nineteen twenty, It's

1160
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: about nineteen twenty, the golden age that was my teenage fantasy.

1161
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: I was either nineteen or twenty and I was desperately

1162
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: in love.

1163
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 2: With Charlie Chaplin.

1164
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: No, it was, and look at me. I can't think

1165
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,240
Speaker 1: of a single other person that is the nice famous

1166
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: in nineteen twenty Wait, hold on, let me see if

1167
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: I can get it. Hold on, Buster Keaton.

1168
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 2: I mean I think, yeah, Buster Keaton, I think so.

1169
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's fine. Okay, that was good. That

1170
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 1: was good. Good job nickey.

1171
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: Yeah he was the general in nineteen twenty six.

1172
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: Fuck yes, Damous, I nailed it.

1173
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 2: You totally make castle.

1174
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: So uh but yeah, I remember I got I hook

1175
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: up with him. I like found a way to make

1176
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:04,760
Speaker 1: it happen. And this wasn't someone that was just so

1177
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 1: extraordinarily famous or anything, but he was like enough of

1178
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: a star that I could really like, oh my god,

1179
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: if I ever And I did, and I remember just

1180
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: in the middle of it, not even the middle, the

1181
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: very being in being literally saying in my mind as

1182
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: if I was filming a movie, this is it, like in.

1183
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: That test like the Boyhood the end of is it

1184
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 2: Boyhood movies?

1185
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 1: Oh?

1186
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 2: Really at the end those ones where it's like, yeah,

1187
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 2: I think it's Boyhood, where the mom at the end

1188
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 2: it's an incredible scene where she's at the end of

1189
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 2: her she's in her sixties or something, and she goes,

1190
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 2: this is it, Like she's not happy, even though then

1191
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: they should that she inspired all these people and stuff,

1192
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 2: but she's still not satisfied.

1193
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 1: No, it was just filming the office, and it was

1194
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: like I did a look to camera like Jim like

1195
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: want to do this. I remember being so self aware.

1196
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,720
Speaker 1: I remember every single second and moment of that hookup

1197
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:03,240
Speaker 1: because it's to become like, oh, this is I can't

1198
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: believe the pedestal I had this person on. It was awesome.

1199
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 2: It was and the story round is so odd. Obviously

1200
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 2: you cannot say who it is. No, but is there

1201
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: any little crumb for speculation.

1202
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 1: Already given dates? I've already given dates, and that's enough

1203
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: for people to probably like, like, your sleuthing will not

1204
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: give you the answer because I'm not. I'm I'm not

1205
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 1: going to give you enough that you will ever be

1206
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: able to like actually validate it. So no, no more information.

1207
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: If you piece together every podcast I've done in my

1208
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: whole life, you can probably AI could probably scan other

1209
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:42,280
Speaker 1: podcasts and put together this person. But but I just remember,

1210
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: and it wasn't because this person was like a terrible

1211
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 1: hookup or something. It just and I think we've all

1212
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: felt that in ways where we like romanticize what it

1213
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: would be like to kiss this person than you do,

1214
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: and you're just like, this isn't like it.

1215
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 2: I was.

1216
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 1: I was living flea bag.

1217
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,919
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, Well how dangerous would it have been

1218
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 2: if they did me the moment and they blew your

1219
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: fucking mind?

1220
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: Oh well, I've also had that where I've with Chris.

1221
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: It was like that because and Chris I had was

1222
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: obsessed with, like in a way that like the same

1223
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: part of me that loves Taylor Swift like crushes on guys,

1224
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: like it's I get as obsessive and like detail oriented

1225
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 1: and like did you hear him say this? And then

1226
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: he's like I like to like I'm a swiftief in

1227
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: every part of my life when I get into something,

1228
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: And so with Chris, I had fantasized about it and

1229
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: thought about it so many fucking times. And I knew,

1230
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: based on my whole existence, that I would always build

1231
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: up these crushes and then I would finally get with them,

1232
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: and then I would instantly be like I don't like

1233
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 1: this anymore. Yeah, But with Chris. It was. It was

1234
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: so hot, it was so on, it was so exciting,

1235
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: it was so electric. It was everything I wanted to be.

1236
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: That's why as soon as we kissed, I jumped into

1237
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: a cab. He was like, I didn't even know, like

1238
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: what was going on because you were in a cab

1239
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: so fast after we kissed, because I didn't want anything

1240
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: to ruin the moment and like take me out of it.

1241
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: I was just like I got what I wanted. This

1242
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: is the ties I'm gonna get and I can't get

1243
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: any higher. And yeah. And then I also think though

1244
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: that the reason I kept liking him even after we

1245
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: hooked up was because and the reason I used to

1246
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: not like guys when we would hook up is because

1247
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, he likes me, and like

1248
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: this is boring now. And I don't think Chris liked

1249
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: me right away. And I think deep down I knew that,

1250
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: and I think he would admit that, like he was

1251
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: still a challenge for me, and so I'm still interested.

1252
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: It took me many years, I would say, until May

1253
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty four, until I was like willing to

1254
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: accept that it's very comfortable to have someone love you

1255
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: and not have to be like pursuing them and just

1256
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 1: like let it in. And that's all I'll say on that,

1257
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 1: And we'll find out about Utah next week. And also

1258
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: some the Bessie slid into your DMS. Noah, Yes, can

1259
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: I just answer it real quick? Sure? So basically I

1260
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: got a DM from Kelsey and she wanted me to

1261
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: let you know. She's a huge bestie.

1262
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 3: She's been to like twelve of your shows and her

1263
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 3: and her friend Lauren are going to your Memphis show

1264
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 3: and Lauren is having a divorce party and she's celebrating

1265
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 3: her divorce.

1266
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: So we want to see we got that's so exciting. Congratulations.

1267
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: It's so hard to divorce, it's so easy to just stay.

1268
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 2: It's so much to go through. We would say there's

1269
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 2: no such thing as a bad divorce.

1270
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: That's such a good, good line. It's so good, and

1271
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: it's so hard to do. You're so strong to go

1272
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: through it and to leap into the unknown and also

1273
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: feel like a failure. That's you know what. Whoe Okay,

1274
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: hold the fucking phone. I just uncovered something. Weddings are

1275
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: so over the top to discourage you from divorcing because

1276
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: it is so embarrassing to throw a ceremony where you

1277
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 1: declare your love to everyone you know, and you spend

1278
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: all of this money and you rent out this venue

1279
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: and you hire a band and you have fly in

1280
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 1: people from all over, even sickle Grandma, and then you

1281
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: throw it all away. What was all that for? That's embarrassing?

1282
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: You are? You're an idiot that you just did all that.

1283
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: They are purposely designed to discourage people from divorcing. I

1284
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: truly believe that shames you. Yes, it's part of the church.

1285
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 1: We'll design a wedding an event that makes it so

1286
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: you feel like this is so locked in and you'll

1287
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 1: be humiliated to then take it all.

1288
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 2: Back before your government, before your god.

1289
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: Guys, go easy on your weddings out there. Yeah, make

1290
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: it so that if you take it back and a

1291
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: couple of years, like you don't have to stay any

1292
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: Because some people have a wedding and I think they

1293
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: won out within two months, but they go, I got

1294
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: at least wait a year, And then a year they're like,

1295
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: it's still too soon. It feels weird. We just got

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Speaker 1: the pictures back, because pictures take forever to get back.

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Speaker 1: And then they checks and then they say two years.

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Speaker 1: Because usually when I ask people about their divorce and

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Speaker 1: I go, how long did you stay? They go, I

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Speaker 1: was married for seven years, but uh divorce And I go,

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Speaker 1: so it was good for two years and they're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh it's never It was good the seven years and

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Speaker 1: then we called it quits. Ever ever, So good on

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Speaker 1: you for finally pulling the plug. I'll see you in Memphis.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for plugging that date too for me. I don't

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Speaker 1: know when I'm gonna be there, but it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: a fun night. And I hope I remember, Noah, I hope. Uh,

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Speaker 1: if you could remember, remind me. Sure to make me

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Speaker 1: say something that night at that show. That'd be fun.

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Speaker 1: I'm on the road, guys. So many new tour dates announced,

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Speaker 1: so exciting, so many new places. I'm going to check

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Speaker 1: it out. Nicki Glazer dot com. Come see me on tour.

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Speaker 1: You know I love when I meet you. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for listening to podcast. I love you, besties,

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Speaker 1: Thanks Brian, Thanks Noah, don't be good bye. The Nicki

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Speaker 1: Glazer Podcast is a production by Will Ferrell's Big Money

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Speaker 1: Players and iHeart Podcasts, created and hosted by me Nicki

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Speaker 1: Glazer co hosted by Brian Frangie, Executive produced by Will Ferrell,

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Speaker 1: Hans Sonny and Noah Avior. Edited it engineered by Lean

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Speaker 1: and Loaf, video production Mark Canton, and music by Anya Marina.

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