1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Meloncamps at camera. Jedge. 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy 3 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: Meloncamp and special co host joining me today, Cynthia Bailey. Hi, Hi, 4 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: Teddy Bear, I've missed you. What's going on? Oh? What's 5 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: going on? I'm actually here in Atlanta at Lake Bailey. 6 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: It looks beautiful back there. Okay, well, this is just 7 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 1: my background for myself. But you know, but that you 8 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: can tell when my background right, it's nice about you 9 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: can tell by the background. Sometimes I'll like interview somebody 10 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: and it's just like the white wall and you're like, 11 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: m hmm. Yeah, No, I definitely have a good background. 12 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm here at the lake. I am actually 13 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: in town because my mom was recently diagnosed with brisk cancer. 14 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: But but the good news is she's going to be okay. Um, 15 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: she is having surgery on Monday, and we caught it 16 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: early stage one. Ladies get those mammograms, That's how we 17 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: caught it. And I cannot encourage you guys enough. So 18 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that she's gonna be okay. But I'm 19 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: here with her. I'll be here until the surgery is over. 20 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: Does it run in your family at all? Or it doesn't. 21 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: It doesn't. This is like the first thing we've heard 22 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: of it in our family. So that was surprising. So 23 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm due for my own mammogram, so I'm going to 24 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: set that up me too. And have you done a 25 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: colon oscopy? I did? I did that last year, okay, 26 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: because they told me they changed that age. They want 27 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: people to get colin oscarpy part or five. So if 28 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: you guys are listening, it's time. Absolutely take care of yourself. 29 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: People like honestly, um, if COVID taught us nothing else, 30 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: help is a huge priority. All right? Uh? And how 31 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: is your mom and good spirits? Or is she she is? Now? 32 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: She is? Now? You know. The way it works is hetty. 33 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: Once the mamogram comes back showing that there's cancer, they 34 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: don't just call you right away and say, girl, this 35 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: is what's up. It's only stage one. You're gonna be okay, 36 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: this is what you have to go through. They make 37 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: you wait. You have to have an appointment, and then 38 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: you know, people fly in like we all live in 39 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: to be there for the appointment, and then you know, 40 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: and all that time, of course, all you think about 41 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: is the worst case scenario, you know. So she was 42 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: really like, mentally, it was really difficult for her to 43 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: wait that week and a half to actually go and 44 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: sit in front of the ten people that actually gave 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: us the news that it was that at stage one 46 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: and that she won't have to do chemo any of 47 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: those things and they should be able to get it 48 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,119 Speaker 1: out successfully with with surgery. So she's in good, great 49 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: spirits now and actually posted about it. And I wasn't 50 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: going to post about it because it just was like, 51 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: you know, it's just home. But then I thought about 52 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: how they caught it, the whole Mammograham thing. I said, 53 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: you know what this is, you know what I feel like, 54 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: it's always good to use your real life experiences to 55 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: just really share real things on Instagram. Yeah, because if not, 56 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: you always think it's this happened to so and so, 57 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it's gonna happen to me. And I 58 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: I recently shared something about, you know, I had melanoma, 59 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: but it ended up being instant um. But then they 60 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: told me I had to go get my lymph nodes checked. 61 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: And the first doctor told me, you know, it's very 62 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: rare that it's going to be in your lymphoes what 63 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: you have to do it, and I ended up I 64 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: have severe anxiety when it comes to certain type of 65 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: doctor's appointments, Like it just is post something and people 66 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: are like, why did you post about this? And I'm like, 67 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: because a lot of people really do struggle with this 68 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: similar thing where I put it off so many times 69 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: that honestly, the woman who ran the front desk at 70 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: the oncologist was like, Teddy, if you were scheduled one 71 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: more time, we won't schedule with you again. And it 72 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: took that like level of accountability for me to be like, okay, 73 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I'll be there at two thirty, Like it was no 74 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: for sure, and I think we all are guilty of 75 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: doing that, you know what I mean. I mean I 76 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: didn't run towards my colonoscopy. I mean I kind of 77 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: waited until I couldn't wait, and then I was like, okay, 78 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: I have to do this already. But I think the 79 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: great thing about posting about it, and I love that 80 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 1: you are so transparent with your posting about like all 81 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: of you know, your health issues, anything that you're doing. 82 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: I know you posted about your chin thing, like I 83 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: love all I would just have to be. If not, 84 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: I feel like a fraud. Like I'm like I have 85 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: to and and that's about and the ugly absolutely, And 86 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: the great thing is what lipped at my mom's spirits 87 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: up the most, you know, was the fact that she 88 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: got so much level on Instagram. If I you know, 89 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: shared that, you know, this is what was happening. Go 90 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: get your mammograms. And it was like, oh my god, 91 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: you know we're praying for you know what or whatever, 92 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: and you know, you know my mom. She's on Instagram. 93 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 1: I don't you know the older people on the Graham 94 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: so you know she's going it through and she's like 95 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: getting all this love and it really mentally actually lifted 96 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: her up. So I think I want to say thank 97 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: you to everyone to sit my mom love on Instagram. 98 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: If I did that post, oh I love that, and 99 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 1: we'll be thinking about her as she had and she's 100 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: so blessed to have you there with her, you know. 101 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: So that's what I had to shut it down and 102 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: get my butt on a plane. Um, you know, made 103 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: that call to my agent and my manager and said, listen, 104 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 1: I have one mom. Yeah I have to be here 105 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, be here with her for this. Um, 106 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: throughout the whole process, and you know, it worked out 107 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: where I was able to actually work and do things 108 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: like this from Atlanta right now and I head back 109 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: to l A probably in the next week. But it 110 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: worked out, and I'm really glad that I'm here. Feels 111 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: good to be here with her. And how hot is 112 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: it in Atlanta right now? So I'm four hours from 113 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: the I grew up four hours from Atlanta, and I 114 00:05:51,240 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: know that in South Carolina in August one thousand degrees hot, 115 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: Atlanta is very appropriately name. Okay, it's hot to sail here, 116 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: like you got so, Like I find myself sometimes complaining 117 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: and l I I'm like, oh it's hot today, I'm like, no, No, 118 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: in South Carolina, I would take a breath and I 119 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to breathe in the air because that's 120 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: so human. Yeah, I know it's crazy, but anyway, Um, yeah, 121 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm excited to be here, so excited for Tamera going 122 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 1: back to I know, do you watch Orange County at all? 123 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: You know what, honestly, I just at this point watch 124 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: the clips. I just wait for the juicy bits to 125 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: hit my timeline, and you know, I try to keep 126 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: up in that way. Okay, you watching my last night, 127 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 1: you sent me a clip, your your team sent me 128 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: a clip, and I did watch the last episode of Dubai, 129 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: so I got so lucky you. Dubai has been a 130 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: little bit of a doozy for us to cover. Yeah, 131 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 1: so I we'll we'll get to the bay in a second. First, 132 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: first we have Instagram questions, okay, which you know you're 133 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: just Tamrolis is like coming, so I'm like, I can't 134 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: I just go in and hold on, like have a Seagram. 135 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: Let's go all right, let's go something like fun Instagram questions. Okay, Cynthia, 136 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: so good to see I love that this is from 137 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: the persons, So good to see you. First off, we 138 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: must talk about Teresa's wedding. How was it and what 139 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: was your initial reaction to her hair? Okay, our wedding 140 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: was beautiful. It was my first Italian wedding. I've never 141 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: seen so much food in my life. Like, honestly, if 142 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: there was anything I could say bad, if I could 143 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: see something bad, was it was too much damn food. 144 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: I mean there was food everywhere, and then it had 145 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: then there had the audacity to be a shake check 146 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: foods up when we left the wedding sitting down in 147 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: the parking lot. I'm like, are you kidding me? Like 148 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: she had ever any kind of food you can name. 149 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: I just have never been to wedding where there was 150 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: so much food, and you know me, I'm like, I 151 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: want to taste everything. So yeah, I spent a lot 152 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: of time eating. But the wedding was absolutely beautiful. I'm 153 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: so excited for Teresa Louie, Um, Teresa's hair, you know 154 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: what I was kind of here for. You know, she's 155 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: you know Teresa, Like, she's the kind of girl when 156 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: she goes big, she goes big, So why should her 157 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: wedding here be any different, you know what I mean? 158 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: I thought she looked like a princess. She looked so happy. 159 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: Louie looked great, like I love their love. And you know, 160 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: Teresa and I couldn't connected on the Ultimate Girl's Trip. 161 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: She was my favorite. She was the one that I 162 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: was actually super excited to get to meet because I 163 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: felt like, you know how it is on on on 164 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: these housewife shows. I mean, she's been through a lot, 165 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: and you know it's really hard, like the things that 166 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: I've even had to share in my real life, even 167 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: marriage force like all the ups and downs, the peaks 168 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: and valleys, all that stuff, like to go through what 169 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: she went through and going prison, and I was like, whoa, 170 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 1: I got to meet this woman. She is like to 171 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: come back queen and she as she was the queen. 172 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: And I'm excited that, you know, we became, we maintained 173 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: our friendship, you know outside of you know, Ultimate Girls trip. 174 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: And did you get a chance to talk with Louis 175 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: at all? Do you think he gets a bad rap? 176 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: Do you think he's just about like self help and 177 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: it's not all the other stuff or I like Louie, 178 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: I actually Theresa, Louis. We're in l a for um 179 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: the MTV Awards. I saw them there. Yeah, for flipping 180 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: like dramatic or flipping the table. I don't know what 181 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: it was an award. I don't even know if she 182 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,719 Speaker 1: wanted it not. But anyway, anyway, long story short, she 183 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: reached out and the four of us, myself, Louie, Theresa, 184 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: Mike had um couple's dinner at Crustacean actually and uh 185 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: we had a great time. And what I and what 186 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: I loved was or didn't really expect per se. First 187 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 1: of all, it was my first time you get Louis 188 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: in person, love him this man, I don't know what 189 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:03,839 Speaker 1: everyone else is seeing. And I think I'm a good 190 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: judge of character and I can read people's energy. I 191 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: love him for her. I thought he was just such 192 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: a great guy, like so nice, so kind, so sweet. 193 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 1: He and Mike hit it off, like they just organically 194 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: hit it all. You know, Mike has a mental wellness platform. 195 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 1: Louis always talking about mental wellness, so they both kind 196 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: of connected on that level. And to be honest, you know, 197 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: they have their own little relationship now. Um, I think 198 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: Mike Mike talked to Louis Morton. Was Mike at the wedding? 199 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: Mike was not at the wedding. He was working in Vegas. 200 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: Because I was like, I didn't see those pictures that 201 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: that wouldn't wouldn't make sensitive. All that happened right around 202 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: when I found out about my mom, so I hadn't 203 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: I haven't even really posted any wedding man. Yeah, but 204 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: I don't have much of them. And you know, took 205 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: a bunch of pictures together. Then did any of the 206 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: Bravo Loves act up at the wedding? Was anyone really? Like? No, no, no, no, 207 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: everyone was good. Everyone was good. I got to see 208 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: Kenya uh Um, Ashley Derby, um Chanelle Ian was there. 209 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 1: But hold on, why was Chanelle not dressed over the time. 210 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: I've never seen her not dressed over the top. And 211 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: then she's like, I mean she looked beautiful. She was 212 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: like in a stunning suit or whatever. But I was like, 213 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: hold on, where the feathers usually brings it, she didn't 214 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: brings it like she usually isn't like never not in 215 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: a ball game. But you know what's so crazy because 216 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: she texted me the morning up and she was like, 217 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure out, like I don't think 218 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: she had all her stuff together. That is what I 219 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: said to Tam. Dad always has their sound like you. 220 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: I bet it was the last minute invite and she 221 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: didn't have it. Absolutely. She was trying to figure out 222 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: like she was like in Jersey somewhere she can have 223 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: her clothes. It was something going on with her clothes. 224 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: So but I thought like she was calling me to 225 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 1: just you know how people say they don't have anything 226 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: to wear and then you should you show up and 227 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: then they have like aliaga like down on, and I'm like, okay, 228 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: She's probably like down it, but she's really gonna show 229 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: like for her something like she doesn't everything you wear. 230 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: It means that at the very least she'll have on 231 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: you know. But by the way, it really bugs me 232 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: when people do that, Like earlier today you text me 233 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: like are you are you gonna be glad for the thing? 234 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, absolutely not. It's Big Brother style. I'm casual. 235 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: But if I would have shown up in full like 236 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: there are housewives that do that, they're like, oh no, 237 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: it's casual. And then you get there and you're like 238 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: when I have to admit now, I did receive your 239 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: text and I'm like, okay, casual. So I was like 240 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: a Big Brother house I'm like, what does that mean? Okay, 241 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: switch shirt my CB bow or switch shirt okay, And 242 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me dim my hair. And 243 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: then I was like, okay, I did a little light 244 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: makeup because at the end of the day, it's you know, 245 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,359 Speaker 1: this will get out and be seen. But you're capable 246 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: of doing that. You I am not. You did my 247 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: eyelashes all a Big Brother Like any time we had 248 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: something where like it wasn't two am and they were 249 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: waking us up to do it. Confessional. I'd be like Cynthia, help, 250 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: I know, I know, I did your makeup. I did 251 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: your Oh my god, I did your makeup. Then when 252 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: I left, Oh my god, you never looked more beautiful. 253 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: I'll just say that, I mean, you really pulled out 254 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: all the stops for me. I tried. Did I tell 255 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: you that I saw Lamar the other day at our 256 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: local steakhouse? I like, walking out, I'm with Kyle and 257 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: we're eating dinner at like five thirty, which she eats 258 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 1: dinner at five thirty unless she's like us. And we 259 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 1: walk out and Lamar walks in and he goes Terry, 260 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 1: is that you? I'm like, tern Lar. Well, you know, 261 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: Lamar was the most confused person in the house. It 262 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: doesn't surprise me that he actually doesn't remember your name. 263 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: I actually haven't seen him, but you know, I've seen Todd. Todd, 264 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: and I just reason you did celebrity beach celebrity beef, 265 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 1: which it's your fault that I ended up having a 266 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: beat with him in the first place. And you know this, 267 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 1: you know, you realize they never showed my beef at all. 268 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 1: No one saw the beef was me and Todd. You know, 269 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: they didn't show it. No, I didn't realize that. So 270 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: the day that Todd and I had beef was the 271 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: day that Chris Kirkpatrick had COPE. Well, he didn't have COVID. 272 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: He got a COPE, a positive COVID test. So they 273 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: cut the live feeds. And then that was the day 274 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: that Todd Bridges and I got in an argument. What 275 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: did you guys get into an argument about? I forgot um. 276 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: He kept calling me crazy, and I said, when the 277 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: live feeds back up, call me anything other than crazy. 278 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: I am crazy, like but crazy now isn't a word 279 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: that I can You can just use as as Willie. 280 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: You know, it's as open as as he wants. And 281 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 1: if it makes you uncomfortable and you say that it does, 282 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: then you know that just has to be respect. And 283 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: it really pissed him off. But I can't say this. 284 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: Since then, he has apologized. He went out of his 285 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: way to apologize. At the finale, he came up to 286 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: me and apologize, Like, I think he has a good 287 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: heart and I think that house is a sure cooker. Oh, 288 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: like you were gone by the time he and I 289 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: blew up, and it was crazy. It was what was 290 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 1: all about? Well, I'm so glad you asked. I was 291 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 1: about the fact that I voted for you. Remember he 292 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: got put up on the block last mental right, but 293 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: he was never supposed to be on the block. But anyway, 294 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: the bottom line is he was not a part of 295 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: my alliance. You were part of my alliance. I had 296 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: given you my word that I was gonna vote for you. 297 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: I am a woman of my word. Okay, I am 298 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: so last minute and Todd was like, my you know, 299 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: I was starting to, you know, have a good relationship 300 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: with Todd, and you know, he was like my card's buddy, 301 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: my spades buddy, like we were. We were good. Never 302 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: by the way, I beat both y'all at spades, just 303 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: in case you forgotten you did. You did. But anyway, 304 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: long story short, basically, you know, when he when he 305 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: you know, all of a sudden, was on the block, 306 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: it was like, okay, but in my mind, it's like 307 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm still voting for my Aligns team Teddy Mailingcamp. So anyway, 308 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: I voted for you. And then after you left, he 309 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: just was like in his feelings about it, and he 310 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe you didn't vote for me. 311 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: And I thought he was like kidding. I'm like, dude, 312 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: we're not even on the stage. But he was also 313 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: mad that I said that you were a better chef 314 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: than him, but he hadn't cooked for us. No, he hadn't. 315 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: But okay, so now I need to know. Yeah, like 316 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: lots happened after you left, and he did end up 317 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: end up cooking a lot, and he is actually a 318 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: really really amazing cook to be honest. Although I did 319 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: beat him on Celebrity Beef, but you did. I did. 320 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: I did, But it was like, you know, you know 321 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: how I go. It started off looking really bad. I 322 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: was like I'm done, I'm done, and then um, you know, 323 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: in the end, like his chicken wasn't really totally cooked. 324 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: It was like a lot of things that where Joe 325 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: had to give it to me of course as well, 326 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: like tots food tasted amazing. I tasted it, but my 327 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 1: pre presentation everything it's like on point. So I mean, 328 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: it's not like I want anything great. They gave me 329 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: like a bootleg trophy from like some motor sports piece 330 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: of be like I don't even I think Joe like 331 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: founded in his basement. But anyway, the great news is 332 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 1: Todd and I talk all the time. Now we're like 333 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: great friends. I love him. He saw so much weight. 334 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: Have you seen how much weights? I know he really 335 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 1: is lovely. I just think that inside that house everybelt 336 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: the most aggression and the most paranoid we could ever be, 337 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: for sure, for sure, which is why I almost don't 338 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: even count it. I'm like, how somebody asked me, and 339 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: I now now I need to ask you. Somebody asked me, 340 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: if you were asked to go back on Celebrity All 341 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: Star Big Brother, would you do it? And I was like, listen, 342 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: I say, I never say never about almost anything, And 343 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 1: that's a note for me. Now, yeah, I don't know. 344 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 1: I think that's a one off. I think once you've 345 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: done it. And then for me, I was in there 346 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: so long that I'm really pretty sure that I mean, 347 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what they would happen. I mean, even 348 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 1: eighteen days seemed like eighteen years for me. I can't 349 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: even even the day that I left, even though I 350 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: was sad when it first happened. Once I got home, 351 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 1: I was like, why was I Why was I fighting 352 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: so hard to be in here? Like I know, people 353 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: need to know about you. If you guys don't know 354 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: this about Teddy. Teddy is very competitive, loves a good competition. 355 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: Like she literally rose like a freaking phoenix with the 356 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 1: first competition. She like she was hanging out, and this 357 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: is why they had to get her butt out of there, 358 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: because she was a huge You are and I've after 359 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: competing with you and other things, Okay, you don't mess 360 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: a red all right. They were smart to get your 361 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: butt out as soon as possible because you could have 362 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: won what you could have won. Well, I was never 363 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: a threat. I've never had blood on my hands. I 364 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: never wanted any competitions Like I've literally skated through just 365 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: being a what did they call you? You were considered 366 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: a floater? Yeah? What you floating it your way almost 367 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: to the very end, which is insane. And I kept thinking, 368 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: you know, by the time all of you guys left, 369 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 1: especially Carson, I was like, okay, I honestly can go now, 370 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like, you know, my 371 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: alliance is gone. It's like me and a whole another 372 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: alliance that we put so much energy and trying to 373 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: take down the whole time. So you know, it got 374 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 1: a little uncomfortable for me. But well, now, speaking of alliances, 375 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: what's the update with Kenya because we saw that there 376 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: was a picture posting. Now we I can't just get 377 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 1: work good. I need more information because when you're on 378 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: Watch What Happens Live, you guys haven't really talked, but 379 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: now there's this picture out there. So okay. So I 380 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: saw Kenya at the wedding that mind you we do 381 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: you know, you know, text back and forth that she 382 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 1: needs something. I'm always here for Kenya. That love is 383 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: always going going to be there, no matter what the 384 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: dynamic of the friendship is, It's just always going to 385 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: be there. So we, you know, reconnect at the wedding. 386 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: It's like all good whenever I see her, like really 387 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 1: really honestly is and um, you know, there's communication. We 388 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: just are not as close as we used to be, 389 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,479 Speaker 1: which I think it's okay. I think friendships go up 390 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: and down and have levels. Like King is not the 391 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: only friend that I have that I've gone through things with. 392 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: It's just the only one that I have to talk 393 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: about all the time. You know, first it was needy 394 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 1: and then they finally left me a lot about our 395 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: friendship and they're like they're fine. But the fact that 396 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,239 Speaker 1: I wish Nannie, well, I'm going to always wish Nanie well. 397 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I just texted her the 398 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: other day because it was Greg's birthday to say, hey, um, 399 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: just love I knew It's Greg's birthday today. And she 400 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: texted me back immediately and said thank you. It was 401 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: a tough day blah blah blah blah blah, Like I'm 402 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: always gonna be that girl and that friend, Like the 403 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 1: love never leaves for me. The friendship may change, but 404 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: the love is always, you know, here from me. So 405 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 1: you know I love Kenya. And are you watching Atlanta 406 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: at all? I'm watching the clips. I am watching the clips. Okay, 407 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: So are you team Marlowe or team Kenya? You know what? 408 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: I am team? Right? Um? I feel like and I 409 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: have this conversation with marlow I know marlow has a 410 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: good heart, and I know she has good intentions, but 411 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: she basically and I hope she did well at the 412 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 1: reunion thoughts at articulating getting her point across whatever it 413 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 1: is that she's upset about. Like I feel like all 414 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 1: these other things happen where it's just not super clear 415 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: with about an intial start repeating herself saying the same thing, 416 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: like even if it's somebody's names. She'd be like Kenya, Kenya, Kenya, 417 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,239 Speaker 1: and then you're like, whoa, why are you? Why are 418 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: we doing this? I think, don't watch back this season. 419 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,479 Speaker 1: You know, hopefully she'll be, you know, back next season. 420 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: I think, you know, she'll watch back this season and 421 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: learn how to navigate a little bit more effectively, especially 422 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 1: in terms of just more effective communication with the issues 423 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: that she's having with anyone. Um, we all have issues. Okay, 424 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that she's not entitled to her feelings. 425 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, um, she just has to do 426 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: a better job of getting it across to us as 427 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm a you know, a spectator now myself, but what 428 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 1: the actual problem really is and and trying to get 429 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: on the other side of it. So and then how 430 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: do you think Sonia is doing as a rookie? I 431 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 1: like Sonia. I do like Sonia. I think Sonia is 432 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,439 Speaker 1: a nice lady. I have not met her, but she 433 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: did reach out to me. She slid in my d 434 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 1: M s and you know I like that. I like 435 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: that she did by Yeah, a couple of ladies have 436 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,479 Speaker 1: That's how I met Um. Well, I know we'll get 437 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: to to buy. But I met Lisa and Chanelle the 438 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 1: same way. We're out in my d MS. They actually 439 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: had Davy Quain just call me and said, you know, 440 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: I love that Dave is the answer between the bye 441 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: ladies want to meet you. And I was like, really, like, 442 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: you know, it's so funny what you know. I'm I'm 443 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 1: so disconnected from the show, to be honest, that I 444 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:58,199 Speaker 1: forget like the other housewife, especially New Housewives. Even I 445 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,919 Speaker 1: know it sounds crazy, like even know me, I guess. 446 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: So I'm like, really want me why I'm not even 447 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: on the show anymore. A lot of years my people 448 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: to care about you or whatever. But I've been getting 449 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: love left and right. So I actually hung out with 450 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: um Lisa and Shanelle the night before the reunion. I 451 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: didn't even know it was the night before the reunion. 452 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: I just happened to be in New York, to be 453 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: in New York doing some press stuff, watching What Happens 454 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 1: Live in a bunch of stuff. And we had dinner 455 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 1: and they were, you know, gearing up and you know, 456 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 1: for it all. And I hope I'm sure they did well. 457 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 1: If you had to READO your Real Housewives Girls trip cast, 458 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,880 Speaker 1: who would be on it? Okay, so that again if 459 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 1: you had to read I know, I had to say 460 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,360 Speaker 1: it again with you, Cynthia, and it's like, hold on, 461 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: it's a game. This is a competition. Okay, you had 462 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: to redo your Real Housewives of Girls Trip cast? Who 463 00:23:55,000 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 1: would be on it? Okay? Um? Who the whole cast? 464 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: You can pick four? Let's just pick four people, okay, Um, 465 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: Karen Huger Okay, Potomac, Um, Candy Bars from Atlanta. I 466 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: have questions about Candy when we get after Um who else? Um, 467 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: Laura Larsa Pippin from It Went from Miami and Kenny 468 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 1: Mellencamp from Beverly h You're so cute. Okay, So this 469 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: is my question about Candy. We had her on the pod, 470 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: and I'm obsessed with Candy this season on Atlanta. Like 471 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm obsessed to her in general. But she's 472 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: so funny, so like it just says all the right things. 473 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: All her confessionals are so great. When she was on 474 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 1: the pod, she was pretty reserved. And somebody asked me 475 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: if me and Tama have ever gotten a fight, And 476 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: the only fight Tama and I've ever gotten on was 477 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: about Candy. Really, what was the fight about because after 478 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:03,479 Speaker 1: the podcast was over her Like during the podcast, Tamra 479 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 1: could tell that Candy wasn't gonna answer anything like like 480 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 1: Candy's like season House Life, so she wasn't gonna answer 481 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: pretty much anything that wasn't already shown, and I kind 482 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: of kept pushing her and then Tamra goes, you don't 483 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: have to answer any of these questions, and so after 484 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 1: it was over, I was like, Tamra, don't you get 485 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: like blah blah blah, Like we got into it. Our 486 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: first fight was over Candy for us, But now I'm like, 487 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: I want to have her back on after the reunion 488 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,399 Speaker 1: when she can give us a little bit more action. Well, 489 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: I will say this about Candy, who was my girl, 490 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 1: who is my friend, who adore You know, Candy could 491 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,719 Speaker 1: be a little guarded for sure. It took me at 492 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: least five seasons to convince myself that Candy actually liked me. 493 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: Like I would be like, do you like me? And 494 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 1: of course I'm like, I'm like, you know, like you 495 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 1: like But she's like, I'm just like that. I'm just 496 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: like that with everyone. So she can be a little guarded. 497 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: But also, you know, this isn't our first Rodio. You know, Okay, 498 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: so the guarded nous was normal. It wasn't us just 499 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,919 Speaker 1: for no reason. But you know what I have to 500 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 1: because I've seen other interviews where she really like you 501 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 1: got to push the right buttons with Candy, because I've 502 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: seen her go ham and interviews as well, like just 503 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: get really emotional and just put it on out there. 504 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: You know. I think we caught her at the beginning 505 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: of the season. It was not the right time. And 506 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: then one last question before we take a little break, 507 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: and then we'll come back and talk about Tobias on 508 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: watch what happens. I've you alluded that you had a 509 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: phone call with Andy regarding you leaving the show. Details. 510 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: I did have a phone call, and for sure, but 511 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: I have a good relationship with Andy. I you know, 512 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: was this after you talked to production and they said 513 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: you weren't coming back or did he call you first? 514 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: This was Oh wow, I think it was my phone call. 515 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: I think I had spoken to production and we had 516 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,400 Speaker 1: talked about me coming back as a friend, and which 517 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: I was thinking about, by the way, which you know, 518 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 1: would you still go back as a friend? I think 519 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: I go back as a friend before I would go 520 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 1: back as a housewife. Would you go on to real 521 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: Housewives of Beverly Hills, because I've been seeing that everywhere. 522 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't know why that keeps being everywhere because I 523 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,719 Speaker 1: keep shutting it. But you live out here now, I know, 524 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: I know, I know. But that doesn't necessarily cerrely mean 525 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: that I want to join the Beverly Hills Housewives. So 526 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: to just be clear with that for once and for all, 527 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to it at some point when it 528 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: makes sense for my life. I just feel like I 529 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 1: literally just left Atlanta, it's not even been a year, 530 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: and then I went right into Girls Trip, and then 531 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: that was a bunch of housewives, So I haven't really 532 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 1: had um a breaker of pause or whatever it's called 533 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: called at this point. Like just for me personally, I 534 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 1: would definitely entertain the idea of going over to Beverly 535 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 1: Hills as a friend. I just I'm not over Atlanta, yeah, 536 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: because I pretty much live in l l A now. Yeah, 537 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: I would, and I feel like I've done Atlanta it's 538 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 1: been eleven years now. I'm not saying I would never 539 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 1: ever go back either. One. I would be open as 540 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: a friend. I'm not interested in going back to any 541 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 1: housewife franchise. Okay, and right, you're just saying you would 542 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,880 Speaker 1: be you're you're more open to that. Okay, I'll take 543 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: that as an answer. I'm at a point now in 544 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: my life where I feel like I've shared so much 545 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 1: in my life. I want, um, I'm enjoying my privacy 546 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: with with my life at this point in my life. 547 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: But you're willing to go in and stir it up 548 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: a little bit as a friend. Mr Trips, Yeah, I 549 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 1: go and eat the delicious dinners and go to the 550 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: fun parties and hang out with those ladies, and you know, 551 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: you dress up a couple of times, dress up up 552 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 1: and you know, throw a little bit in there here 553 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: and there, you know, in conversation, and carry your carry 554 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: your mini Bailey bags exactly. Oh, let me I just 555 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 1: actually have one. They're the cutest thing. You would love 556 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: this they come in. I'll be waiting to find one 557 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 1: in my mail. It's weird, it hasn't arrived yet. You 558 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: may get one. Can personally deliver because I think it's 559 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: time for us to have dinner or lunch time. I know, 560 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: it's so cute. When you're back, we have to I 561 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: want to see all of it, and I want to 562 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: start carrying it and still to come to the Beverly 563 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: Center to check out my cbe Biors is where my 564 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: sweater came from. I have a bag and a pair 565 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: of store there that. You know, huge it is that 566 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: you're in the Beverly Center. What's that? You know how 567 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: huge it is that you're in the Beverly Center. No, 568 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: it's crazy. Like I remember, like when I first the 569 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: first time I ever went to l A. Like one 570 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: of the things I did was I went to the 571 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: Beverly Center. I was like, oh my god, it's like 572 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: crazy when I walk in there to unlock the door 573 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: and like calling it farm of the my square, you 574 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: know that, I'm like, wait, how how is this even happening? 575 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: But I'm so excited to be there, and I'm so 576 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 1: grateful that I have the opportunity because you know, it's 577 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: a small black owned business, big supporter of black owned businesses. Um, 578 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: it's great to be on the same luxury floor as 579 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 1: Louis buton across from the Max Store. It's it's amazing. Yeah, No, 580 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: it's huge. To the end of you guys, I'll be 581 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: in the Beverly Center until the end of the year, 582 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: you guys for sure? And then are you doing any 583 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: um like signings or anything like that that we can 584 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: get everybody to show up to. Yes, yes, I'm going 585 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: to after this whole thing, after I get everything tied 586 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 1: up with my mom, I'm gonna set up some specific 587 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: meeting Greek days that I'll be in the Beverly Center. 588 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: Because what happened before when it opened, I didn't realize, 589 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: like the mall doesn't really close except on Christmas, thanks you, 590 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: and I think Easter, Like it's open every day Saturday 591 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: and Sunday. So I found myself we were still opening 592 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: a staff together, so guess it was a part of 593 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: the staff. I was so me going in opening, closing, 594 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: and then it gets to the point where, um, it 595 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: kind of became a little security thing for me because 596 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: it's like you can't just really be walking around in 597 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: here like yourself, Cynthia, because you know, you forget sometimes, 598 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: so like, oh was this me? And I had a 599 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: couple of weird instances where people came in and I 600 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: was like, what's happening? But anyway, I'm like super hands on, 601 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: but I can't be the hands on where I'm actually 602 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 1: running the store. Myself, but I will be putting together 603 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 1: meeting three days. I don't know you guys posted well, 604 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: I love it. I will for sure. Let's take a 605 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: little break and we'll come back and discuss Dubai. Yes, okay, 606 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:33,479 Speaker 1: so we are back. That was the break. That's our 607 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: Our break is enough time for a fifty seven ads. 608 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: But hold on, I have to make it colder in 609 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: my room. I'm so hot. I don't know about your husband, 610 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: but my husband doesn't believe in air conditioning, so I 611 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: have to like hide it when he leaves her work, 612 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like so hot all the time here, especially 613 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: like perimenopauzzle. I'm like we'll say, and we're like, um, 614 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 1: we're always hot or cold, like like a miss I'm 615 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: like hot and in them cold, and then I'm hot 616 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: like I always have like jackets and sweaters and blankets. 617 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: It's I mean, they're sweating through my clothes or I 618 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: need fifty four layers. There's no happy medium to my 619 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: current condition of air quality, which would probably be a 620 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,719 Speaker 1: little bit hard with living in Dubai because it seems 621 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 1: quite oft there. Yes, all right, first things, first, have 622 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: you seen any of the Dubai outfits from the reunion 623 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 1: I have. Okay, so who's your favorite. I think i'd 624 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 1: like Chanel's hair, and I'd like Jesu's dress. See, I 625 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: don't love Lisa's dress. I don't love that those those 626 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: two little like tree branches look like they could potentially 627 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: be nipples. Oh, I have to take a look at 628 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 1: it again. So I like it's I think Lisa is 629 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 1: so beautiful. There it is. You can see it right out, 630 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: see those two little things right over her book. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, 631 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: Like I would be the one checking that every thirty 632 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 1: two seconds to like see if my nipple was hanging out. 633 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: It would drive me crazy. Yeah, I would drive. But 634 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: that being said, there's not many best options like things 635 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: for like nip slips anyway, so it would probably be 636 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: But like, how do you feel about Brooks being in 637 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 1: a crown? You know what it gave me? What is that? Uh? 638 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: The movie that Angelina Jolie was in Maleficent, Yeah, kind 639 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: of Maleficent. Yes, like I Swear to you was like 640 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: the first thing that came to my mind. But I 641 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: was like, okay, you know, I love here's the thing. 642 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: It's first season. I feel like the first your first 643 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: season is the season where you can get it really 644 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: right or really wrong. Okay, there's your chance to figure 645 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 1: it all out. Um. I love that she went forward. 646 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: I think it's a lot, but hey, you know what 647 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: she seemed to be on in it. I can I 648 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 1: can work with it. And it was your least favorite. 649 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: You are going to have to pick one minds Nina, 650 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 1: which is kind of it's like I've seen it before. Yeah, 651 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 1: well I don't like what was what was the thing? 652 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 1: That's what I don't get because normally they tell us 653 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 1: we have to be like everybody's in jewel tones or right, 654 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: or everyone's in red or like something like. I feel 655 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,879 Speaker 1: like the theme is a little all over the place. 656 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's giving something different and it's I mean, 657 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 1: I would think it was feathers, because like they all 658 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: have things sticking out except for Stanbury and Nina. Like 659 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: I think even Sarah on the side might have some 660 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: feathers on her, like but like boostier. But I can't 661 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: fully tell feathers, I think. I mean, I see a 662 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: few feathers here, but I don't know. I feel like 663 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,720 Speaker 1: there's nudes and then there's bright colors, and then there's 664 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: like and then there's silver. I don't I want more 665 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 1: of a comsive theme. I had the same issue though 666 00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: with Salt Lake City. Okay, I didn't see there's like, 667 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: why are you all going to different places? Right? And 668 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: I love a thing. I love a good thing, Like 669 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: you give me a good theme, I will understand the assignment. Well, yeah, 670 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: and you're gonna look hot in the theme. You're gonna 671 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: it um. Okay, so we're gonna get through. But do 672 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: I want to talk about like when we talk about 673 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 1: we're talking about Dubai now because we're onto Dubai. Okay, Well, okay, 674 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna ask me. But in 675 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: case you're not gonna ask me about Shanelle being circumcised 676 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: when she was okay, I, but I really have a 677 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: lot of questions because I want I I googled it 678 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: and I wasn't able to get the right amount of 679 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 1: information to now I need to understand. Do you want 680 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 1: to know because I actually knew another girl, a Somalian model, 681 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: that was circumcised, and you know I'm older. I didn't. 682 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: I was just blown away because there's a huge age 683 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 1: difference with myself and Chanelle that this is still happening 684 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: in certain you know, parts of Africa. It is just 685 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: the most horrific thing. And I remember when my friend was, 686 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: you know, talking about it. This has for social media, 687 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: which is why I love that Chanelle is using the 688 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,439 Speaker 1: platform to really breathe, to discuss it, harness and talk 689 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 1: about this. I was mortified that you can actually that 690 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: this is happening to young girls. But they basically go 691 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: and cut their vaginas. Um. I think I was told, now, 692 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't you know, you guys are this yourself. But 693 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 1: what I was told was they try to make it. 694 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: They cut off I don't know if this is so 695 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: there's no pleasure right now, or they cut off the 696 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: part that makes it feel good, okay, and then they 697 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 1: so sew it up. They sew up the vagina, they 698 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 1: so up the whole, which is opens up a whole 699 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 1: another set of issues. So because then they can't if not, 700 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 1: you're unable to be sold for your as, your dowry problems, 701 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: marriage ability, okay, and some of those places in Africa 702 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 1: they value being a virgin, like like if you're not 703 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: a virgin, I don't know why they take it so 704 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 1: far to have to like certaincise and do all these 705 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: things and make it unpleasurable for them. When they finally 706 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 1: do get married, it's like they're it's like part of 707 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: the culture and religion and custom It's like all this 708 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: stuff that is that still doesn't justify this type of torture. Um, 709 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's completely in may. But yeah, so they 710 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 1: sew you up, which is creates like actually I did 711 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 1: a little research here. When they sew you up, like 712 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: you know, infertility, it could recalls like even having when 713 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 1: you do get ready to have a baby, you have 714 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: issues and obviously depression and anxiety and um infection and 715 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: scarred and key looyd and it's it's terrible. And then 716 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: when you get ready to get me here they cut 717 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: it back open and I don't even know what that 718 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,479 Speaker 1: process looks like to reopen it, right, But then once 719 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 1: you put it back open, if you've cut certain things off, 720 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 1: are you able to ever get back that pleasure? I 721 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,840 Speaker 1: don't know. I think you should really have Chanelle on 722 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 1: here and talk about I I want to have it 723 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,080 Speaker 1: because it honestly broke my heart, not only that she 724 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 1: had it done, but then like the fact that her 725 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,919 Speaker 1: parents didn't even really talk to her about it. They 726 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: just that. She said, like I was just taken to 727 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: this room and kind of locked up, my legs wrapped together. 728 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 1: She was five years old, her sister was six and 729 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: a half, and then I had this done. This is 730 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 1: what they did to her. And the fact that now 731 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: now that I've note that I know Chanelle and I've 732 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 1: been around her, I it is just, you know, we 733 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: have all overcome things in our life, but that is 734 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: just a trauma on a whole another level where when 735 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: you see when you finally get to be around her, teddy, 736 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 1: she just is like a bustle of life, so fun 737 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 1: and loves life and so loving, and I am like, wow, 738 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: Like I don't know with all the stuff that the 739 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: small nothing on this level of things that I've overcome 740 00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 1: in my life, that I could be that happy. She 741 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: really is, um just a lovely, lovely woman And I 742 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 1: hate that she had to go through that, And I'm 743 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: so glad that she's using the platform to talk about 744 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,839 Speaker 1: it and inform people and educate people about it, because 745 00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people don't realize that this is still happening. Also, 746 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: did you see the did you cast? A part where 747 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: she talked about her debt trying to sell her off, 748 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 1: you know, the whole early, you know, before when she 749 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 1: was fourteen years old. And I mean, I I really 750 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: appreciated this therapy session. I feel like a lot of 751 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: times on Housewives you see a therapy session and it's like, 752 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry the therapist from Atlanta who has also been 753 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: on Potomac and thirteen others, like I'm watching it and 754 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: I'm like police. But this was one of those ones 755 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,800 Speaker 1: which I also was a little taken aback by because 756 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: Sarah was in there with her, so I was like, 757 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 1: how much is But then you realized like how much 758 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 1: she needed another person to be there and talk about it, 759 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: and she really opened up. And then they went back 760 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: and they talked about her trauma. And I've dealt with nothing, 761 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: nothing even close to this, but I've blacked out huge 762 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 1: portions of my life, like where I cannot remember certain ages. 763 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,920 Speaker 1: And so when she said that no matter where you are, 764 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: no matter what you've went through, like when you hear 765 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: an adult say I don't remember this part of my childhood, Yeah, 766 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 1: it hits you know, it was real. And I thought 767 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: with everything that I watched, you know, I have my 768 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: opinions on some of the other things that happened throughout 769 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: the episode, but nothing trump that moment for me. You know, 770 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: I have you know, daughters, You have daughters. You know 771 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: you haven't you have daughters, Like can you imagine like 772 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: them getting like fourteen fifteen years old, like okay, not 773 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 1: even just running up with the lover of the life 774 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:36,839 Speaker 1: some person that they don't even know, years old and 775 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 1: having been certain like all of it. It honestly makes 776 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: me emotional because even my my nine year old is 777 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: to the place now where she starts to like ask 778 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 1: little questions, you know, like just random questions about puberty, 779 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 1: starting to get hair, like all of those types of things, 780 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,959 Speaker 1: and like we just have such an open dialogue where 781 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 1: she can ask me any thing, whether it's embarrassing or not, 782 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: or it's you know, like I just I haven't ever 783 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: closed in that door. So and she's not to that 784 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,719 Speaker 1: age now where she's enough of a teenager where it's 785 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: uncol to ask your mom. And I can't even imagine 786 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 1: her a couple of years before now and like just 787 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: putting her in that situation without ever even telling her 788 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: M Like, it's it's heartbreaking. I love that you have 789 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: such open communication with her, like keep that Teddy. That 790 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 1: is one of the things that has been really great 791 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 1: with my relationship with Noel, who is now twenty two 792 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: years old, Like if anything she overshares with me, like yeah, 793 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: like hey, I don't need to know that, you know, 794 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:44,879 Speaker 1: sex last night and it was like this whoa, whoa whoa. 795 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: First of all, I can't even pigeon him, like like 796 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: I just can't like stop it. But those lines of 797 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 1: communication need to definitely stay open. It's it's so good 798 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,480 Speaker 1: to just be able to do that because my mom 799 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: didn't talk us about any anything like that. We were like, 800 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: you know, we didn't even really you know, you know, 801 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 1: my mom was like a friend mom. It was like 802 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,759 Speaker 1: I'm a mom, friend, Okay, you can put it on 803 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 1: this table. What I tell you to do. You don't 804 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,839 Speaker 1: question anything, and you go to school and you handle 805 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: your business and don't get in trouble because I don't 806 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 1: have time to go there and pick you up and 807 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 1: pick you up, but don't get in because then you've 808 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 1: never really you're gonna have worse problems when you get 809 00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,000 Speaker 1: That was my relationship you know with me with Noel. 810 00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 1: It's like you know from the time, like you know, 811 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 1: she came out of me. It was like, you know, 812 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 1: my my baby, you know my heart so um yeah, 813 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 1: my heart goes out to Shanelle and I plaued her 814 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 1: for I commend her for you know, walking in her 815 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: truth because it's that's that's like you know, with with Housewise, 816 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 1: you know, it's always like you know, you think of storyline, 817 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 1: story like that you're going to talk about, but there's 818 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: certain things you know, we share. Like for me, um, 819 00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: just even me talking about the wellcoming, I just fluid 820 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,279 Speaker 1: at the time, was like, you know, very like there 821 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: was like a big thing and you know, I didn't 822 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,239 Speaker 1: know how that was gonna affect her to talk about 823 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 1: it publicly, you know, and it was like good and 824 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: bad to be honest because the social media and everybody 825 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 1: can say anything to anybody, absolutely absolutely, So it's it's 826 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 1: always very interesting to me when our or I just 827 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: love when I see people talk about real things that's 828 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,319 Speaker 1: really happening, because you know, you we don't we never 829 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: know how many people that we are inspiring, motivating and educating, educating. Yes, 830 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: like for me this honestly, I sent a group text 831 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: to my bosses at my heart and I said, I 832 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 1: need all of the information I can possibly get on 833 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:50,280 Speaker 1: female circumcision. And it's you know, like because I seriously 834 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,839 Speaker 1: it completely opened my eyes. And they're like they hadn't 835 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 1: even watched the episode. They're like what, I'm like, no, 836 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 1: because of everything that's going on, and then it really 837 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,239 Speaker 1: explains a lot up more of what happens in this episode, 838 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: Like you see a lot of these relationships with well, 839 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 1: I think with these women. I think, you know, as 840 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 1: you said first season Housewives all together, you're seeing relationships 841 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: that aren't fully formed in my opinion, rights like they're trying, 842 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,720 Speaker 1: they're trying to open up to each other. There's small 843 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 1: little friendships or alliances or whatever anybody wants to call. 844 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 1: But like when you talk about you know, when you 845 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: see what's going on between like Chanel and Stanbury, you 846 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,919 Speaker 1: can see that there are two people that are hurt 847 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 1: and just very off based on how the other person 848 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 1: is feeling and how they're perceiving the information. Right, Right. 849 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,799 Speaker 1: I watched that scene and I felt like someone who 850 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 1: was a former Superman herself. Right. You know. I remember 851 00:44:55,960 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 1: coming into Atlanta my first season, and that was my 852 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: story because that really was my life. I was. I 853 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,520 Speaker 1: moved to New York I was still actively modeling and 854 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: just feeling like it wasn't enough to just be a model, 855 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,839 Speaker 1: which is a real career. That's all I ever did 856 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,399 Speaker 1: in New York, like I've made a lot of money, 857 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 1: Like I was a model for years and years and years, 858 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,479 Speaker 1: so um, and that was my only job. I didn't 859 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 1: do anything else on the side. There was no side. Also, 860 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: I was traveling doing that. And when I came to 861 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 1: Atlanta and I joined the housewise, I just remember feeling 862 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 1: like I they didn't respect it. It was like, oh, 863 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: you're a model, Like who isn't a model? Do you 864 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: think they didn't respect it? Or do you think that 865 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:46,560 Speaker 1: was your own and security on certain things that I 866 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,680 Speaker 1: mean to me as someone who's not a model, it's 867 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,799 Speaker 1: five three and could never you know, Like, I'm like, wow, 868 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 1: I would have love to be a model. Some of 869 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 1: some of the ladies respected it, you know what I'm saying, 870 00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 1: but some of them didn't. And it just made me, um, 871 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, well, it put a fire defensive. It made 872 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 1: me open up my school because at that and I 873 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,840 Speaker 1: was like, you know what, not only I'm like a model, 874 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to open up a modeling agency and I'm 875 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,880 Speaker 1: going to educate and inform and help other you know, 876 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,200 Speaker 1: model hopeful that want to get into the business. I'm 877 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: gonna show them how how to do it. And I 878 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:26,640 Speaker 1: did that, But again, you know, I just definitely kind 879 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 1: of related to her a little bit. It was like 880 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 1: a little bit of a trigger for me, because I 881 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: know it feels to just feel like, oh, well, you know, 882 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: she or she's only getting this because she's pretty, or 883 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,359 Speaker 1: she's only doing this because she's a model or whatever, 884 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 1: and it is it does have like that kind of 885 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:43,439 Speaker 1: like negative, you know, thing attached to it where people think, 886 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,840 Speaker 1: you know, she must not be smart if she's a model, 887 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: and that's not true. No, I disagree to um. But 888 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 1: my question is what do you think made Caroline Standbury 889 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,399 Speaker 1: emotional and this? Like? She is very from everything I've 890 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 1: seen from watching all of Dubai now, she has never 891 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: really lost her like. I've never seen her cry, I've 892 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: never seen her get emotional, and I could probably go 893 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 1: back and count on one hand how many times they've 894 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,600 Speaker 1: actually shown a housewife smoking a cigarette. So the fact 895 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: that they're even showing her smoke a cigarette and crying, 896 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you think set her off? In 897 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,960 Speaker 1: this conversation. Um, I'm not I'm not really sure. It 898 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 1: seems like because I don't watch all the episodes. I 899 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: did watch the one last night because I knew I 900 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 1: was going to come on here and talk to you 901 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 1: about it. But I will say it feels like there's 902 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 1: been some back and forth before this, like they just 903 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 1: don't get along or just don't see eye to eye 904 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: or whatever. But I honestly feel like at the end 905 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 1: of the day, I felt like their conversation at the 906 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,759 Speaker 1: end um with Lee's lead was leading towards them being 907 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 1: able to kind of, you know, get past it. I 908 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,239 Speaker 1: don't think it's such a big I don't think they 909 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 1: have such a big beef where it's like, oh, well, 910 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,800 Speaker 1: they're they're just never gonna be to you know, to 911 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,160 Speaker 1: get past this. I think I think that they will 912 00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 1: get past it. I don't think it's that that deep. Honestly, Yeah, 913 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 1: I think she I think Caroline got emotional because she 914 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 1: wasn't meaning to say anything to hurt eye on to 915 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: that extent, and then once she did, she was like, 916 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: oh crap, because I don't think she's trying to be 917 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, like you you you know, and 918 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: I think I think Lisa and I love Lisa. I 919 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,239 Speaker 1: love watching her. I think she's good TV. I think 920 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,800 Speaker 1: she's beautiful. I think she knows how to stir it 921 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,439 Speaker 1: just enough. Well, we always need a good pasture. Yeah, 922 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: And so when she looks over at eye On and 923 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 1: she's like, go over and have the conversation, and I 924 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:35,920 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're gonna come with me and she's 925 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 1: like no, no, absolutely not. Like I didn't say I 926 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: was gonna have a conversation with you. I was selling 927 00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: you gotta go have the conversation. Well, you know, but 928 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,600 Speaker 1: I think that, um here's something too that I did notice, 929 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:53,080 Speaker 1: like sometimes in housewife world, when something happens, like we 930 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 1: all are human, we have emotions, we have feelings. Sometimes 931 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 1: you're not ready to like in one second, go have 932 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: the conversation. By the way, like boom the drum, the 933 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 1: bomb drops, and you're like, hey, well why don't you 934 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 1: guys go and talk with being piste off. Sometimes I 935 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 1: need to go over there in that corner and have 936 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 1: a cigarette, a mental breakdown without production. But oh you're here, yes, yes, 937 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,759 Speaker 1: Sometimes you need a minute because I know I'm a processor. 938 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,360 Speaker 1: I need to process what has happened. I need to 939 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 1: take it in. I almost really need to go to 940 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 1: sleep and wake up the next day because when my 941 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 1: feelings are hurt or I feel insulted, you know, it's hurtful. 942 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,120 Speaker 1: So you're like, you know, well, I don't want to 943 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 1: be around you right now, but I'm the opposite. I 944 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 1: need to handle it right now. But that's your personality. 945 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,719 Speaker 1: That is definitely your personality. And I feel like if 946 00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 1: you told me I want to sleep on it, I'd 947 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 1: be like no, understoom right, it's over. But you're you're 948 00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 1: very like direct and like, hey, what's happening. Oh did 949 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 1: they hurt your feelings? Oh well, let's talk about it, 950 00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: but let's go. You know, I'm like still like, oh 951 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 1: that didn't feel right. I think it hard, friend, I'm processing. 952 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,839 Speaker 1: I just know the energy is not feeling good for me. Now. 953 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 1: This is not a place I want to be in 954 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,319 Speaker 1: right now. Like you're that's how my husband is too. 955 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,839 Speaker 1: But what is this sign? What is your husband sign? 956 00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: Because birthday is April nineteen? What's that? Is it? A Taurus? 957 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,640 Speaker 1: Guys aries? I don't know. I'm the worst of signs. 958 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,400 Speaker 1: Somebody will text me in a second and learn in 959 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,719 Speaker 1: that way well, my husband's birthday is tomorrow and he's 960 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,759 Speaker 1: a Leo, and that's what my son is. Oh, your 961 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: son's a Leo. His birthday is August one. Oh yeah, 962 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 1: but happy almost birthday. Might love you? Um oh yeah, 963 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: April nineteen is a Taurus. That's what my husband is. Okay, sours, 964 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: all right, But anyway, look, sometimes you just you know, 965 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,840 Speaker 1: everybody processes things differently in their own time. I'm lookind 966 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: a girl like I said, I need a minute. You're 967 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 1: the kind of girls like, let's get to it. So anyway, 968 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 1: I think that'll be fine. I don't think they're because 969 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 1: that crazy. I just think it's like, you know, things 970 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: come out wrong, they come out in a way, they're misinterpreted, whatever, whatever. 971 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, you know, Obviously has 972 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,800 Speaker 1: it going on. She's beautiful, she's successful, and Caroline hasn't 973 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: going on and she's amazing, and they'll they'll be fine, 974 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,320 Speaker 1: all right. So onto the next thing is would you 975 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 1: be upset or would you want Mike to be the 976 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 1: Sergio that comes in on the jet ski with no 977 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 1: shirt on to save you after a night of being upset? No, 978 00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:42,040 Speaker 1: not on a girl's trip. No, not on a coast trip. No. 979 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 1: Now I wouldn't either, but I said the same thing, 980 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: that would be upset. Probably he did that because she 981 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 1: had already told him not to come prior, but then 982 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 1: once he was there, she seemed like she really needed him. 983 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 1: But I also would be upset. And tamer and I 984 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,600 Speaker 1: disagreed on this. But you probably didn't see it, but 985 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:04,040 Speaker 1: last week on Atlanta for the scenes for next week Sonia, 986 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 1: they're kind of like coming at Sonia a little bit 987 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 1: and her husband stands up and says, do not talk 988 00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 1: to my wife this way. And I'm one of those 989 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 1: that's like no, and and tarm was like absolutely loved it, 990 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:19,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, I kind of I kind of 991 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 1: feel I kind of agree with Tamra a little bit 992 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 1: because I feel like, if this is the problem, this 993 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,240 Speaker 1: was this was the issue when I was on housewice 994 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,680 Speaker 1: with my ex husband. If the guys are going to 995 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 1: be invited on the trip, if they're going to sit 996 00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,560 Speaker 1: there and watch us bigger back and forth, like they 997 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,839 Speaker 1: shouldn't be there if they can, if they can't say, hey, 998 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,319 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't like what man is going 999 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 1: to want someone, you know, coming for his wife. So 1000 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 1: I think it's completely fun and say hey, you guys, 1001 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 1: and it's all the way you say things too. I 1002 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 1: don't think he should, you know, buck up and you 1003 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,680 Speaker 1: know make I mean he didn't say and sitting down, okay, 1004 00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 1: stood up. He didn't seem like he was aggressively going 1005 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:04,840 Speaker 1: to hurt anyone by anybody didn't see that. But it 1006 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 1: wasn't like you guys, not the type I get it, 1007 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 1: like people shouldn't be afraid for their lives. I didn't know. No, no, 1008 00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,239 Speaker 1: I don't think that either. But I also think if 1009 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:18,360 Speaker 1: you're a husband willing to do real housewives and not 1010 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 1: get paid and show up to everything and go to 1011 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 1: the events and be there and someone's gonna argue with 1012 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:28,719 Speaker 1: your wife, you're gonna that's a job they signed up for. 1013 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:32,239 Speaker 1: That is very true. That is very true. But I 1014 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:36,320 Speaker 1: also feel like in housewife passion, if they're going to 1015 00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 1: bite the guys on the trip, then you know this 1016 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 1: is you know a lot of this stuff is produced. Okay, 1017 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 1: so usually a dinner is co word for the ship's 1018 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,680 Speaker 1: about to go down. Yeah, well then that's my question. 1019 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: Can other women go after housewife husbands? So if that 1020 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 1: same feel like it's not a fair fight. It's not 1021 00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 1: a fair fight because if another housewife, if a woman 1022 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 1: in general, goes after a man, it's okay, But if 1023 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,960 Speaker 1: the man responds, it's an attack. So it's not like period, 1024 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 1: point blank. So I personally think when everybody sits down 1025 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,080 Speaker 1: for dinner, just like a point in that dinner where 1026 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,800 Speaker 1: they already know it's about to be some some for 1027 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,560 Speaker 1: listeners going on. So that's one of the guys said, Hey, guys, 1028 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:22,320 Speaker 1: let's go and smoke. Guys, go whatever, because if this 1029 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,520 Speaker 1: goes down and I feel some kind of way if 1030 00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,840 Speaker 1: my wife is being attacked or whatever, even if or 1031 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,960 Speaker 1: my wife is being alluded. Like there are times when 1032 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 1: I was crying and I remember Ed been looking at 1033 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:37,960 Speaker 1: me and going are you and I was like having 1034 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:41,480 Speaker 1: a breakdown, like what you're talking about and then like 1035 00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,440 Speaker 1: going back to eating us out like he couldn't believe 1036 00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 1: my level of being upset over what was said to me. 1037 00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,120 Speaker 1: I think, I think, great if you guys want them 1038 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 1: to just come, but like when it's time for the 1039 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,840 Speaker 1: girls to get into their stuff, which is obviously the 1040 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 1: point of the trip, okay, know how fun team is 1041 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 1: going on to actually just get a tan and just 1042 00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,400 Speaker 1: drink the Margarite's. Okay, No, no one was there for 1043 00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:11,840 Speaker 1: fun times absolutely. Um So, then the kind of the 1044 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 1: last the last couple of things that they wanted to 1045 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:21,760 Speaker 1: that people want to talk about is Caroline and doing 1046 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 1: her hormone injections in the IVF process and Sergio not 1047 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:30,480 Speaker 1: really understanding what that means. Them taping the the fruit 1048 00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,640 Speaker 1: to his boobs and his belly and all that. I mean, 1049 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 1: I thought it was fine and didn't bother me. I 1050 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: mean I for that, for them to actually do that, 1051 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:43,000 Speaker 1: and so you can just physically understand what it's like 1052 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:46,320 Speaker 1: to be pregnant. I gave birth to a almost eleven 1053 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:50,000 Speaker 1: pound baby. I gained sixty pounds when I was right. 1054 00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 1: So I would have love for Noel's debt to have 1055 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,080 Speaker 1: walked the day in my printing shoes. Yeah, we would 1056 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,879 Speaker 1: have completely gotten it, you know. So, And I think 1057 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,280 Speaker 1: that Sergio has grown on me, and I think he's 1058 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 1: gotten to be like you find the lovable traits in him. 1059 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 1: But then there becomes a conversation where Caroline tells Brooks 1060 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:15,759 Speaker 1: that she feels Chanel blames not speaking good English on 1061 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:24,839 Speaker 1: her rudeness, and I don't. I didn't necessarily. I didn't 1062 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:30,560 Speaker 1: necessarily see that that Chanelle uses her um lack of 1063 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,759 Speaker 1: um the English like like English. I guess you could 1064 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,960 Speaker 1: say yeah um as a way as an excuse to 1065 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,960 Speaker 1: be rude. I don't. I don't think I agree with that. 1066 00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,160 Speaker 1: I think after being around she know, I think if 1067 00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,360 Speaker 1: she wanted to be rude, which he knows how to 1068 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:50,040 Speaker 1: be rude, he wanted this be a jerk, she would 1069 00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: just be a jerk. I don't think. I mean, I 1070 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: think sometimes she misses like she you know, which I 1071 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 1: do as well, which is like sometimes phrases like she'll 1072 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 1: she'll mess up sometimes broken up a little bit, but 1073 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 1: you know, like you know whatever it is, the early 1074 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 1: bird gets the worm, but the second one gets a 1075 00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,600 Speaker 1: cheese or whatever. It is, like I always will mess 1076 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: up whatever the punchline is. But well, I think with 1077 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 1: which now I think. I think when she when her 1078 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 1: English English is the most together, is when she's about 1079 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,480 Speaker 1: to get somebody together. That's when all of a sudden, 1080 00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 1: it's crisp, it's perfect. It's like when she's about to 1081 00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:28,840 Speaker 1: read someone. Because I've seen her in interviews, I've been 1082 00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: around her. Um, if she wants to go there, she 1083 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 1: and do you think that because Brooks says she feels 1084 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: like Ion is Lisa's puppet and Lisa is the brains 1085 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: behind it all. She finds the relationship on. Do you 1086 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 1: see that? Okay, So if I was watching the show, 1087 00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 1: maybe I would maybe think that, but after actually meeting 1088 00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:57,880 Speaker 1: those two ladies and spending time with them, completely not true. Okay, 1089 00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: So if you only could hang out with one of them, 1090 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:05,400 Speaker 1: you're on a deserted island. Who are you picking? You know, 1091 00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask a ship and don't say Cannons. Oh boy, um, 1092 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 1: dang it. I really like them both. I'm going to 1093 00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:21,400 Speaker 1: say Lisa only because, like, Chanella is a lot of 1094 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:27,320 Speaker 1: energy and I don't have a lot of energy in menopause. 1095 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: She's a lot like it's a lot to be around her. 1096 00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: Lisa is a little more Lisa is a little more 1097 00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 1: chill and like, you know, hey, let's just go and 1098 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 1: have a drink and just chill like I like to 1099 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,360 Speaker 1: do chill stuff, Like um she Neelle is very big 1100 00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 1: and over the top and like, hey, she's always on. 1101 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: He's either on or yeah, always on, big, big personality 1102 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 1: for sure. Lisa is a little more like, hey, yeah, 1103 00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: you know she's yeah, a little more chill, so I 1104 00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 1: would take this. I love, But yeah, you're a lot alright. Sorry, 1105 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,200 Speaker 1: we we asked the hard questions here, but I know where. 1106 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,520 Speaker 1: I can't believe the hour went by. It's so fast. 1107 00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 1: It's over. We're done, We're done. We're a lot really 1108 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 1: unpack anything about Beverly Hills. I know. Uh well, I'm 1109 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:20,160 Speaker 1: gonna ask you this in regards to Beverly Hills. Why 1110 00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: did I even bring some Who is like when you're 1111 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,320 Speaker 1: watching it, what gives you the most like what makes 1112 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: you the most upset when I'm watching it? Uh? Wow, 1113 00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if any of it really makes me upset, 1114 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 1: but I will say, from what it's looking like, I 1115 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna happen with the future episodes. Um, 1116 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: it feels like it's like teams. Right's grouped, like like 1117 00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:55,880 Speaker 1: the friends that are like been friends and they're together 1118 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 1: and they have each other's back and they support each 1119 00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: other in the way they want to whatever. And then 1120 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 1: it's the wrist of yeah, the group, which is from 1121 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 1: what it looks like to me, Crystal, Garcela and Sutton. Okay, 1122 01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:11,480 Speaker 1: so but now we know that Crystal is no longer 1123 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 1: with Sutton and Garcela. Yeah, Garcela said some whole thing 1124 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:23,160 Speaker 1: about like it was all online about she's not close 1125 01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:26,880 Speaker 1: with Crystal anymore. Oh my god. Okay, I thought that 1126 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,320 Speaker 1: I was kind of happy that that. No. So now 1127 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 1: it's more like from what I've read, it's like Crystal 1128 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:39,520 Speaker 1: and Cathy. Oh I forget about Kathy. Yes, Crystal and Cathy, 1129 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:45,360 Speaker 1: Sutton and Garcel, and then I guess the Fox Force 1130 01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,720 Speaker 1: four and then Diana is just I don't really get, 1131 01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:52,800 Speaker 1: but that is kind of part of the Fox four, right, Um, 1132 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:57,320 Speaker 1: I don't know girls then the other ones for sure. 1133 01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,880 Speaker 1: I think she really in my opinion, like I think 1134 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,680 Speaker 1: she really she's the one that has the most money 1135 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: and really doesn't need to be doing this and it 1136 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,400 Speaker 1: really shows. Okay, alright, well you know what I mean, 1137 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,800 Speaker 1: like you're giving the least we don't really know anything 1138 01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 1: about you. You're like her trying to come at Garcel 1139 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,640 Speaker 1: this week because they didn't have a real friend. Like 1140 01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 1: I was like that timing was terrible, right right right, 1141 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, I think, like what I what in 1142 01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:28,480 Speaker 1: my experience and you know, I know you were on 1143 01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:32,520 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, but just with me being in Atlanta. I 1144 01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: think it's hard to not but you don't have a 1145 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,280 Speaker 1: click like you know what I mean. If the click 1146 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,760 Speaker 1: is like the power click and you're not in that click, 1147 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,880 Speaker 1: it's it's hard. And even though the click in surface 1148 01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,680 Speaker 1: ly be nice to you, you know, you're not hard 1149 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: to click, you know what I mean? And I feel 1150 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:53,480 Speaker 1: like it feels like, Okay, we're not. I don't know, 1151 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,080 Speaker 1: it's just weird. Like I don't like clicks. I feel like, 1152 01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,400 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's too quicky for you. 1153 01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah I do. I do, And I don't like this 1154 01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,000 Speaker 1: whole thing about Sutton being a liability and all that stuff. 1155 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 1: I feel like if anyone wants to really get to 1156 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 1: know Garcell, then they'll just go above and beyond on 1157 01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 1: and off the show to make that happen, you know 1158 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 1: what I mean, I really do, because you know, the 1159 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:19,680 Speaker 1: show is not just about like what you do on 1160 01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 1: the show, it's also you know, calling and saying hey, 1161 01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 1: you know what. I know that we have not been 1162 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,880 Speaker 1: able to connect, you know, when we meet up, But 1163 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: I really genuinely want to meet with you off camera 1164 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,080 Speaker 1: and spend some time with you because I just well, 1165 01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:37,120 Speaker 1: maybe sudden. I mean, maybe garcel will come on with you, 1166 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,840 Speaker 1: because you know, she refuses to do the podcast with me. 1167 01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 1: Oh and I have repeatedly said I think I'm a 1168 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:48,680 Speaker 1: relationship with her, and I'm surprised that she. Well, the 1169 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,880 Speaker 1: I was on one. The time I learned that I 1170 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,640 Speaker 1: would never ever agree to be a friend of Beverly 1171 01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Hills was when I went on the one episode whatever 1172 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,320 Speaker 1: it was not last yeah, I guess it was last season, 1173 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 1: and Garcella and I got along the entire time during 1174 01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,600 Speaker 1: that episode, the one that I did, and then her 1175 01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,360 Speaker 1: confessional she called me a nat that will never go away, 1176 01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,680 Speaker 1: and I immediately center a text and just said, like listen, 1177 01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,760 Speaker 1: you know, you know how it is with these type 1178 01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,520 Speaker 1: of shows, but like to really reach out to her, 1179 01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 1: and she never wrote me back. And then I saw 1180 01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:29,240 Speaker 1: MTV Music Awards or whatever, MTV Reality Show Awards, whatever 1181 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:32,960 Speaker 1: it was, and she was so nice and so friendly, 1182 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, come on, like, I want to 1183 01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,680 Speaker 1: be able to hear all the sides. I don't want 1184 01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 1: to just here, you know, from Erica, from Durt, from 1185 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 1: Kyle from like, I want to hear from you. I 1186 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,200 Speaker 1: want to hear from something like I'm in a different 1187 01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,200 Speaker 1: place now. And essentially she told my boss that she 1188 01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,440 Speaker 1: would maybe talk to Tarma, but she would never talk 1189 01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 1: to me. And I was like, well, ship, okay, I 1190 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,760 Speaker 1: don't know. Unfortunate, I I don't know. I mean, GIRs 1191 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: like super you know, reasonable and rational, and you know, 1192 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,640 Speaker 1: I feel like it would be great for her to 1193 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:08,440 Speaker 1: actually come on and talk to you, to be honest, 1194 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: because you know, you were like when you were on, 1195 01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,200 Speaker 1: when you part of that part of the click, because 1196 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,960 Speaker 1: I was part of them, So I think that you'd 1197 01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:20,880 Speaker 1: be honest. But and I think she definitely. You know, 1198 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:23,520 Speaker 1: it's so much we don't get to see, you know. 1199 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean I I said to somebody else, I said, 1200 01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 1: I would love to have been on when garcell was 1201 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: the way that she is now, because her first season 1202 01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 1: she wasn't. And that's fine, that's I remember my first 1203 01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 1: season too. It's hard first season start, and so I 1204 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,640 Speaker 1: would love to have her on and talk to her 1205 01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 1: and be able to do things. But now I just 1206 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,040 Speaker 1: you know, put that out there, Garcella, if you're watching us, 1207 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:48,360 Speaker 1: you know, come on. But with me, it could be me, 1208 01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:52,280 Speaker 1: Cynthia and Tamera. They'll ask the majority of the questions 1209 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 1: if you want, but we want you on. We want 1210 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,360 Speaker 1: to hear your opinions, and not a lot of time, 1211 01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,480 Speaker 1: but I love to hear more from um, you know, 1212 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,680 Speaker 1: your side of the story, because it feels like just 1213 01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:06,960 Speaker 1: watching the show, UM, it does feel like she kind 1214 01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 1: of has to be on the defense and she doesn't 1215 01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:12,400 Speaker 1: really you know, like hasn't totally taken her in or something. 1216 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,360 Speaker 1: It just you know, that kind of there's something that 1217 01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 1: feels off right even with even when she's clicking with 1218 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Sutton or even when she's there, there's still not alway 1219 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,360 Speaker 1: as well. She Ree's a sweetheart, as I just I 1220 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,560 Speaker 1: mean with her yesterday my husband was out at dinner 1221 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,840 Speaker 1: and she was there. But anyway, I love she She's moving. 1222 01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:35,760 Speaker 1: You know, we all live in the same neighborhood. Garcelle, 1223 01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 1: myself and um I could literally walk to Garcella's house, 1224 01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 1: but they don't. They only showed Shears saying like two 1225 01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:44,920 Speaker 1: words this episode. Yeah, maybe we'll get to see more 1226 01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 1: of her next season because she's definitely fisty. I think 1227 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,040 Speaker 1: I think she's fisty. I want to see that. I 1228 01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:53,040 Speaker 1: think she's a great addition to the show. I love 1229 01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,560 Speaker 1: I love Garcelle on the show because I think she 1230 01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:01,040 Speaker 1: her being there changes the conversation and I think it's 1231 01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:03,880 Speaker 1: so necessary, and I think she just does such a 1232 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:07,240 Speaker 1: good job holding her own and just doing it with class, 1233 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And then I think Sharia 1234 01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:12,120 Speaker 1: and Garzilla are very different too, different different people. I 1235 01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:17,400 Speaker 1: think she's a great edition as well. So, um, yeah, well, 1236 01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,360 Speaker 1: we appreciate you being with us today. We hope that 1237 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,160 Speaker 1: you come back now. Unfortunately, you're gonna have to continue 1238 01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:28,640 Speaker 1: watching Housewives episodes. Are you try to get out, they 1239 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 1: pull you back in. Yeah, it's like you think you're done, 1240 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 1: But then no, I have to say, Teddy, it's a 1241 01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 1: lot more fun to talk about housewives and be a 1242 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:40,440 Speaker 1: housewife right now, is it not? Like isn't this amazing? 1243 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:44,480 Speaker 1: It's like the It's like like and I don't even 1244 01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,560 Speaker 1: really care to talk about housewise that much, to be honest, 1245 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 1: but if I have to, it's a lot better being 1246 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,200 Speaker 1: on this side of it than actually being. People are like, 1247 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,919 Speaker 1: why would you say yes to this? I'm like, one, 1248 01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:59,160 Speaker 1: it's effortless. I want the television show and get to 1249 01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:03,280 Speaker 1: chat about and give my opinion. You're You're perfect for 1250 01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,400 Speaker 1: this you until you're so good at it too, and 1251 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,480 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that you came on. I still need 1252 01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: to take you to Pellicure, so when you get back, 1253 01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:12,680 Speaker 1: I'm setting prayers to your mom. When you get back, 1254 01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:15,600 Speaker 1: text me and we're going. All right, sounds sounds great, 1255 01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:19,560 Speaker 1: It's a date, Alright's love you, Love ya, Thanks babes