WEBVTT - Learning to Jam with Hunter March 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.920 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:13.520 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in Grub a dub dub. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:16.960 We have a very fun guest today. You all love him? 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:18.919 Yes, you love him. He has been in the o 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:22.919 R before. He is a producer and TV personality, best 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:24.959 known for his work as the host of Sugar Rush 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.720 on Netflix and Nightly Pop on e He has. 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:30.479 A podcast with Alex Evadia called Friends with Bends, with 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:32.599 episodes that come out every Monday. 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:36.160 Please help us give a warm welcome back to Hunter 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.240 March good. 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:41.320 He came in. 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:45.080 With like a record ball with gifts passion fruit from 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.320 his tree and. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:51.080 Passion fruit jam, which I'm giving to Haley. Well, I'm 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:53.800 gonna eat it too, but Hailey loves jam, so she's 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:54.520 gonna freak out. 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:55.280 And passion fruit. 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:56.840 You see how selfless I was with that. I gave 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.360 it straight to Hale likes you jam. 0:00:59.400 --> 0:01:04.200 If Haley, if you're listening, she probably won't if you're listening, Hey, 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:07.760 I mean Tanya just like so quickly, willingly because she 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:08.600 knows you love jam. 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.839 Yeah, but we're Hunter is a giver. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:15.280 I will bring jam every time you want me to 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:19.920 give the honest guy's perspective with Jack's for his last name. Yeah, 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:21.280 I'll do it. I'll bring jam. 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:23.720 So the last time you were scrubbing in, we were 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.080 at the Britney Spears. 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:28.480 Pop up and we did a mantle with you and Jack's. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:29.920 Well, and then we had you back on to it. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.240 I feel like during the pandemic, I definitely remember doing 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:33.320 it in person. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:36.240 In person, Yeah, yeah, that was what a specific time 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.280 and place to do something that Britney Spears pop up. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:44.360 You know, sometimes we are also in situations where we're 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:49.720 wondering what here, But. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.360 On hindsight, I'm like, that's like, why would we do 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:53.240 our podcast there? 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:56.160 It was just for promoting the Britney Sears pop up 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:58.000 and it just felt like a great time to do 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:58.480 a mantle. 0:01:58.680 --> 0:01:59.760 So that's what we did. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:02.440 But it was actually a really great episode and our 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:04.080 listeners loved it. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:04.800 They love you. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.120 Yeah, oh that's great. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.320 And Tanya was actually single. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.239 At the time, trying to date you, right. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.200 We were just kind of well, were you you were 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.360 trying to date me? I don't think so. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:15.320 I wasn't. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.720 I think you heard my stories off camera and I 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.040 think you were appalled. 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:22.799 Yes, Okay, yes, that's true. So I feel like. 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:24.520 Yeah, I'm like, I knew I had a crush on you. 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:26.040 I had a crush on you when we were doing 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:26.920 the E Carpets. 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.239 I didn't know that at all. Oh really, I had 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:30.000 no idea. 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:31.560 Yeah, I had a crush on you when we were doing 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:33.720 the E Carpets together. And then once I got to 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:36.680 know like the Unvarnished Hunter March, I was like, we're 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:37.320 definitely not a. 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:40.480 Match because every time I would do something together, I'm like, Tanya, 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:45.320 he's so cute, and she's like yeah, and then she's like, yeah, 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:49.320 I just don't know if if he would be good 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:50.639 for my psyche. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.840 Yeah, well i'd be good for your psyche my current 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:55.920 self would be. But my past, I feel like you 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.520 have to have a stomach, you know, to kind of 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.120 like you have to I don't know. Oh, like I'm 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:02.480 in a relationship. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.600 Now, yeah, which we'll get into. 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.639 Yeah yeah, And I will say that like she's the 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:10.920 sweetest in the world, totally not like nothing that you 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:16.680 probably expect me to be. She's an angel, but she is. 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.079 Just like I know you're past, and I'm fine with it. 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.600 You're like, we all have a past, and I was like, oof, 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:23.040 that's a good answer. 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:23.840 Yeah. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:25.519 I like Hunter was very smooth. 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.840 I remember, like because we lived close by and so 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.600 he would always Aaron Limb, who was also was a 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.600 part of E was lived in my apartment building, and 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.960 so we would always invite us over and like cook 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:35.440 for us. 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:37.120 He had this like I don't even know. It was 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.880 like an egg ah the breakfast. 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:44.400 Yeah, like a hot man with a skillet and biting 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:45.920 over for cooked meal. 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:46.320 I know. 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.600 I think we're all charmed by you, Hunter March, Like 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.800 even Easton came in and said, sorry, I got caught 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:52.880 up talking to the Hunter. 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:54.080 He's a charming. 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.080 I was supposed to be doing something out there. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:57.640 I was not. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:00.280 Sorry. 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.440 So how did you did you feel like your girlfriend 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:03.920 changed you? How long have you been dating? 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:06.720 We've only been together for maybe five six months now, 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.920 and she didn't change me. I had luckily changed before 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:15.520 I met her, which I'm so thankful for because I 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.600 really do feel like these people that come into your 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.240 life at the right time, and there's people that the 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.280 right people come into your life at the wrong time, 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:23.880 and the wrong people come into your life at the 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:25.440 right time and they're just not the right person. Like, 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:28.600 there's so many situations and I had kind of been 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:31.200 through each of them by the time she came along, 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:33.080 and luckily for me, I think this is something that 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.800 every man needs to experience. I got my heart broken 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:42.600 really good last year, and after that, nothing nothing humbles 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:46.720 you more than being like, oh, yeah, I have a 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:50.320 heart too, and I should really like treat everyone else 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:54.040 with like the utmost care, and I always thought I had, 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:57.200 but there's like, I don't know, there's this there's another 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:00.120 level of empathy, kind of like where you're like even 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.600 I think this is a great example. A lot of 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:04.039 guys will tell you like, hey, I'm just being honest 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.280 with you. I'm not looking for anything serious, right, We've 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.600 all kind of heard that in one way or another. 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.240 That was me and I thought that being honest about 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.600 that was like my saving grace when I was younger 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.880 and being a single kind of f boy. But what 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.720 I realize is you can tell that to somebody and 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.280 then they don't believe it, and you think in your 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:26.880 head like, oh, I've given myself the grace to now 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.280 hook up with you and then go live my life 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.200 blah blah blah. But you have to understand that that's 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.279 just not how humans work. People do get feelings and 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.839 just because you said something. So it's little things like 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:39.880 that that I learned after a heartbreak where I decided, Okay, 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:42.799 I'm going to really date now with that empathy in mind. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:47.480 And then like ye six months later, my current girlfriend 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:51.640 DM me out of nowhere and she is way too 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:55.200 hot to be dming me and way too nice and 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:58.440 great and she we've been dating ever since. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.080 What did she say that got your attention? Or was 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:02.520 she just beautiful? 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:06.919 Sent us a period like a comma, and I'd have 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:08.599 been like, yeah, I'm in where do you want to go? 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:12.599 But she she sent me I posted something in like 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:14.719 a wife beater doing like a try on for the 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:18.719 show that I was doing at the time, which I 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:21.440 was away in Canada shooting this is earlier this year, 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:25.240 and she said dropped the shoulder routine and in the 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:26.040 VID in. 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.120 Because you're because you're my shoulders. 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:31.680 Yeah, And then I sent a DM back saying she 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:33.839 had a necklace on in her story and I said, 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.839 I'll trade you for the necklace, and then she didn't 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.159 respond for two weeks and I was like, what the 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.599 hep that's crazy? And in my mind. I'm like, you know, 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.640 for like a day or two, I'm like, is give 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:47.840 did she really think I'm trying to take her necklace? 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:50.279 Like as a dumb guy, I'm going through all the things. 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.080 I'm like, I'm not trying to steal her necklace, am I? 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:55.080 And then finally she responds, and then when we go 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:56.320 on our date, she's like, by the way, sorry I 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.880 didn't respond. I your message ended up getting taken out 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:00.440 of my inbox or something and I didn't see it 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.880 for two weeks. I would have responded right away. I 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:06.279 had a crush on you, so oh it's good that 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:09.040 you didn't because it made me love you before we 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:09.520 ever met. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.400 Well, let me just tell you. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.520 You know, we often are faced with questions like that 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.560 where someone's like I sent him a DM, but he 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:18.720 didn't respond, And you are living proof that the delulu 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:19.760 can be there. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:22.000 The delusion. 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:25.800 No, but like it really did, like it got sucked 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.320 into whatever box or whatever, and like now that's the 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:29.600 beautiful ending to the story. 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.480 And so I'm just saying that it does happen. 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.760 His delulu, like oh what did I say? What did 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:37.040 I do? Or like maybe like that actually killed like 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:38.600 the DM got. 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:40.880 Lost in it, gets lost in there whatever, and there's 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:44.040 a small chance that that could small chance that. 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:47.600 That happened, but it happened. But I don't want to 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:51.040 encourage that delusion because like for me, I will say 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:52.960 I went on about my life like I did not 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:56.080 hang on to it. I was like, Okay, that that 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.960 was she was so pretty. That's such a bummer that 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.080 that didn't go through. Like I was like, I'm to 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.000 shut it off, and then she damned me back. And 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:04.960 it's like again, sometimes you have you have to have 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.920 enough things going on in your life that someone responding 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.720 to your DM is not the best thing in the world. Like, 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.200 you have so much stuff going on that's good for you, 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.960 whether it's work or fitness or just doing a hobby. 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:20.120 That someone dming you is great, and having a relationship 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.080 is great, but you've got plenty of stuff that's great 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:24.920 as well, you know. And I think so many people 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:26.480 get stuck on that word. It's the best thing in 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:27.000 their world. 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.040 Yeah, and it's the only thing they're waiting for is 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:33.440 getting that response. It's like we've been there. 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:34.959 Yeah you want to see a photo? 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:36.920 Ever, Yeah, I was gonna. 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.240 Came no, But do you post her on social media. 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:44.560 No, I haven't yet. Does she post you sparingly? But 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:48.199 I you know, I have like a weird I don't 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.600 love social media in general. Like if I if I 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:52.240 could have a career in which I could delete all 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.200 my socials in a heartbeat, I would do it. 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.240 Really, I only do it. 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.480 I hate it with like a passion. I think it's 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.920 like it pulls a little bit of my soul out 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:03.520 every time, and when you see her, you'll be like, oh, 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.719 you should post her all the time. And I think 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.720 it'd be good, like if me and hers and I, 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:10.720 if anyone could do this, it's me after being on 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.800 YouTube for ten years, if anyone could start a family 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:17.200 channel or a relationship channel and find immense success with it, 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:19.640 I could do it with her because she's so sweet 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:23.680 and personable, and it's my nightmare to like publicize my 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:28.520 relationship that strongly. I'm not opposed to posting her, but 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.559 it is really like, I don't know, I'm really against 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.720 the idea of trying to profit off the relationship. And 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:36.600 even though you're not making money on an Instagram post, 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.920 you're still gaining a lot of likes and followers and everything, 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:43.400 and it's also just audiences are weird, Like I don't 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:47.040 trust them with like my relationship. I don't want to 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.000 put that in their hands and go it's yours two now, 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:51.080 like we're all in. Does that make sense? 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:55.960 I waited four years to share my relationship, so yeah, 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.440 you know, and there was a lot of. 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:03.360 And peace in that and now it feels like we're 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:04.160 pretty solidified. 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.120 So I don't feel the stress of it. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.880 Yeah, it's I do think again, like I will get 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:10.880 to a point where's. 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.320 I think, if it makes you anxious to do it, 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:13.679 then don't do it. 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:14.800 But I was just curious. 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.200 I've posted little things with like her in it because 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:19.880 I'm launch like an arm well no, like we're like 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.079 we walk up. We I posted like a hiking thing. 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:24.120 But I'm not like tagging her because I don't want 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:27.320 people to like check her out and like, yeah, to me, 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:29.920 it's just it's just not worth it. She looks like 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:31.199 Margot Robbie a little bit. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:35.119 She looks like mix up like Margot Robbie, Megan Fox, and. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:40.280 She looks like Margot and Olivia Wild Break and she's 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:42.600 Olivia Wild is not Megan Fox. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:47.040 She's the nicest girl. She's from Oklahoma. She's like down 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:51.160 south or Midwest, whatever it is, and just an angel. 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.480 And so like for me, it's like, oh, I have 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:55.640 this beautiful thing. I want to protect it. And sometimes 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.000 like when you protect something, you don't want to like 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.839 open it up to the vulnerabilities of people judging or 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.280 because like I can't control psychos online who go break 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:06.240 up with her and date me, like, and I don't 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.599 want her even yeah, even though it's a joke or 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.960 even though someone has there is no weight on me. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:13.920 I don't want that bothering her because like even on 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:15.760 my podcast, I had someone call the other day and 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:17.880 be like, me and my was a woman, Me and 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:20.000 my gay best friend. We're having a battle of who 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.640 could this is the polite way to say it, but 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:24.560 sleep with you first. We're having like a thing, and 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.319 she heard it, and at the end of the bit, 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.520 I go, I have a girlfriend, though, so I'm gonna 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.720 have to ask her if she's okay with me sleeping 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:34.680 with both of you for a challenge, right, because I 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:36.480 was like making a joke about it, but I know 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.679 that that would bo I would bother anybody, Yeah, to 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:41.520 like hear that. So that's why I'm trying to like slowly. 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:42.280 Yeah. 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.839 I think that's very respectful. And I also think that. 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.600 I think that we had who was our guest that 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:52.800 she was saying, I can't remember who was she she 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:56.160 was engaged or dating. And she was like, I don't 0:11:56.200 --> 0:12:00.240 share him because oh Roxy, yeah, oh Roxy. She was like, yeah, 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.880 I don't share my relationship because if I'm like bragging 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:07.119 about wow, he's so great and like he's just so wonderful, 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:08.760 I don't want all the other women. 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.560 So she says that, and I'm sitting here, I post 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:15.320 my boy, my fiance now. I post him all the time, 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.280 the way thank you, I post him all the time. 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:19.920 And she says this, and I go home that night 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.560 and I'm like, hey, babe, and he's like yeah, And 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.679 I'm like, does anybody ever like slide into your dms 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.640 and like hit on you, because I like, I do, 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:30.920 like talk him up a lot and like post him 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.120 and like you know, all tag him. 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:34.840 And he's like I had like one or two and 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:35.120 I was. 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:39.920 Like, like that is so dirty. 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.800 I want some of the things. It's really good. I'm 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:46.400 like he's so sweet and yeah. 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.840 Yeah, but like and he doesn't respond to them, obviously, 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:50.480 but I was like, oh my gosh, I never even 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:50.839 thought of that. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:52.680 I was like, roxydas onto something here. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:55.520 Yeah, yeah, but he did stop you stop. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:57.320 Me, and now we're now he's locked in. 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.280 I also feel like if you don't host someone, that's okay, 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.080 that's your whatever your reason is. But she knows that, 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.800 Like if we go out in public, I'm like arm 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:09.000 around her squeezinger as tight as I can into me, 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.720 like I'm the proudest of that relationship. There's no fear 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.400 of like, oh, this is a hiding thing. It's not 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.640 like I've made it so clear to her that like 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:19.840 she is the best thing that's ever happened to me, 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:23.160 and I just don't want to post it on a 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:23.800 weird app. 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:24.559 Yeah. 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:26.640 I also think when you have a weird like if so, 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:29.439 if you don't like social media, then sharing something that's 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.720 so special to you to something that you don't even like, Yeah, 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.120 it's like that makes sense to me. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.880 I hate being authentic in general, so the idea of 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:41.160 like sharing the most authentic part of my life is scary. 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.400 Like I like being I like joking, I like having 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.760 a good time and anything public. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.600 That's so funny. 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:49.120 What do you do on your first date. 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:53.520 So we I was in Canada shooting. You guys, ever 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:55.320 see the show blown Away, the glass blowing show. 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.120 Yeah, yeah, my girlfriend loves that show. 0:13:57.440 --> 0:13:59.840 She likes the new host of it. So it comes 0:13:59.880 --> 0:14:02.800 out in January with me as the new host, or 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.560 February somewhere around there. And so I was shooting that. 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:08.880 I came back and we had been texting like once 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.480 every couple days, like it wasn't the whole like I 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:13.360 was still gone for two more weeks. We weren't like 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:16.360 peppering each other, which was nice. We were both kind 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.600 of playing it cool. And then when I got back, 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.160 I was like, hey, I'm back tomorrow. I'd like to 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:24.160 take you out or till you have to dinner on Friday. 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.600 It was maybe like three days away, and then Friday 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.760 is coming. It's like Thursday. I'm like, yeah, wait until Friday. 0:14:30.800 --> 0:14:33.960 Seems crazy to me. Could we let's get together sooner 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.280 or something? And I booked a lunch for us because 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.760 she was busy that night and we had lunch together. 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:42.080 She was having trouble finding parking, so I got in 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:45.440 her car to help her find parking, which is a 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.760 crazy thing to do on a first day for the 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:51.200 guy to just let me help you find parking. Yeah, 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.120 and we found parking and then we got into the car, 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:57.840 and then we had a great lunch. And afterwards, I like, 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.880 I it was the goodbye thing, and I was like, 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:02.360 we're having lunch in Culver City. I'm not going to 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.480 make out with you here. So I gave her a hug, 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.280 and afterwards I found out she was very thankful. I 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:08.440 didn't try and kiss her on that first date because again, 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:12.480 she's pretty. She was not super conservative, but yeah, you know, 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.840 she from Oklahoma, so uh and so she uh. The 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.840 next date though, I kissed her. I kissed her good. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.760 Was it at night? It was that night a midday lunch? 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:26.720 Kiss me like a midday lunch. First makeout feels. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:28.520 And I don't know if I like it. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:29.280 in the daylight. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:32.440 That's I think you're setting up You're setting up your 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:35.120 expectations a little bit. It's like, I'm not really seeing 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:36.960 this as a long term thing. If you're making out 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:41.080 one thirty after fish tacos. Yeah, you know, So we 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:42.560 waited till the second day. It was so nice. It 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:46.040 was so sweet and romantic, and then yeah it was cool. 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:46.440 It was cool. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.840 Wow, Hunter March. I never thought i'd see the day. 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:51.000 I know, I'm happy for you. I'm really into her. 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.520 And then one at a couple months in or three 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:56.840 months in, we said the I love you so crazy? 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:58.960 Was that your first time? No, because you said you 0:15:59.000 --> 0:15:59.760 got your heart broken? 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:02.280 Well I had said it to my long term ex 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.720 a long time ago. But the heartbroken one was just 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.280 a It was a like four month relationship. But it 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:09.800 was one of those ones where like ended in the 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:13.080 honeymoon and I was like, what the. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.560 Freak is going on? 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:17.400 We had so much more fun to have. No, how 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.400 they get you, That's how they get you. But again 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:21.360 I look back at that, you know, sometimes you get 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:23.080 out of like a relationship where you feel like, oh 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.800 that was such a that felt so good at the time. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.400 I look back at that particular relationship and I'd go, ooh, 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.000 I really dodged a bullet. It was not Yeah, it 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:33.480 was not healthy at all, which is why I was 0:16:33.480 --> 0:16:36.640 so exciting. It was like constantly like, oh, one of 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:38.600 us isn't interested, the other one isn't interested. It was 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:40.240 just so unhealthy, toxic. 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.600 It's the chase, It's the chase, the game. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.640 Yeah, and it's that like, oh, they finally responded first 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.000 and told you how much they like you, and then 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:49.720 you get this huge rush of adrenaline and everything good 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:51.880 and then they don't and you're like fiending for it. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.760 And sometimes then when you get into a stable relationship, 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:58.520 if you're not ready, that stability has no toxic effect 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:02.000 on your body. Yes, so you get I was the opposite. 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:03.720 I was like, we're going to learn how to jam 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:08.200 together jam. Yeah we did. We learned that a jar 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:12.119 passion together. Yeah. You can throw that in your pantry 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:14.680 for six months. So that's true love. 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:35.600