1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in Grub a dub dub. 3 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 3: We have a very fun guest today. You all love him? 4 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: Yes, you love him. He has been in the o 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: R before. He is a producer and TV personality, best 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: known for his work as the host of Sugar Rush 7 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: on Netflix and Nightly Pop on e He has. 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: A podcast with Alex Evadia called Friends with Bends, with 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 2: episodes that come out every Monday. 10 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: Please help us give a warm welcome back to Hunter 11 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: March good. 12 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 4: He came in. 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: With like a record ball with gifts passion fruit from 14 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: his tree and. 15 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: Passion fruit jam, which I'm giving to Haley. Well, I'm 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: gonna eat it too, but Hailey loves jam, so she's 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: gonna freak out. 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 3: And passion fruit. 19 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 5: You see how selfless I was with that. I gave 20 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 5: it straight to Hale likes you jam. 21 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: If Haley, if you're listening, she probably won't if you're listening, Hey, 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 2: I mean Tanya just like so quickly, willingly because she 23 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: knows you love jam. 24 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're Hunter is a giver. 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 4: I will bring jam every time you want me to 26 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 4: give the honest guy's perspective with Jack's for his last name. Yeah, 27 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 4: I'll do it. I'll bring jam. 28 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: So the last time you were scrubbing in, we were 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 2: at the Britney Spears. 30 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 3: Pop up and we did a mantle with you and Jack's. 31 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: Well, and then we had you back on to it. 32 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: I feel like during the pandemic, I definitely remember doing 33 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: it in person. 34 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: In person, Yeah, yeah, that was what a specific time 35 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 4: and place to do something that Britney Spears pop up. 36 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: You know, sometimes we are also in situations where we're 37 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: wondering what here, But. 38 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: On hindsight, I'm like, that's like, why would we do 39 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: our podcast there? 40 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: It was just for promoting the Britney Sears pop up 41 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: and it just felt like a great time to do 42 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: a mantle. 43 00:01:58,680 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: So that's what we did. 44 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: But it was actually a really great episode and our 45 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: listeners loved it. 46 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: They love you. 47 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that's great. 48 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: And Tanya was actually single. 49 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 5: At the time, trying to date you, right. 50 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 4: We were just kind of well, were you you were 51 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 4: trying to date me? I don't think so. 52 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 5: I wasn't. 53 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 4: I think you heard my stories off camera and I 54 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 4: think you were appalled. 55 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 5: Yes, Okay, yes, that's true. So I feel like. 56 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I knew I had a crush on you. 57 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: I had a crush on you when we were doing 58 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: the E Carpets. 59 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 4: I didn't know that at all. Oh really, I had 60 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 4: no idea. 61 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a crush on you when we were doing 62 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: the E Carpets together. And then once I got to 63 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: know like the Unvarnished Hunter March, I was like, we're 64 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: definitely not a. 65 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 6: Match because every time I would do something together, I'm like, Tanya, 66 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 6: he's so cute, and she's like yeah, and then she's like, yeah, 67 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 6: I just don't know if if he would be good 68 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 6: for my psyche. 69 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, well i'd be good for your psyche my current 70 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 4: self would be. But my past, I feel like you 71 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 4: have to have a stomach, you know, to kind of 72 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 4: like you have to I don't know. Oh, like I'm 73 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 4: in a relationship. 74 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 5: Now, yeah, which we'll get into. 75 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, And I will say that like she's the 76 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 4: sweetest in the world, totally not like nothing that you 77 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 4: probably expect me to be. She's an angel, but she is. 78 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 4: Just like I know you're past, and I'm fine with it. 79 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 4: You're like, we all have a past, and I was like, oof, 80 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: that's a good answer. 81 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 82 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 5: I like Hunter was very smooth. 83 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: I remember, like because we lived close by and so 84 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: he would always Aaron Limb, who was also was a 85 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: part of E was lived in my apartment building, and 86 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: so we would always invite us over and like cook 87 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: for us. 88 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 5: He had this like I don't even know. It was 89 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 5: like an egg ah the breakfast. 90 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, like a hot man with a skillet and biting 91 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: over for cooked meal. 92 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 5: I know. 93 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: I think we're all charmed by you, Hunter March, Like 94 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: even Easton came in and said, sorry, I got caught 95 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: up talking to the Hunter. 96 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: He's a charming. 97 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 4: I was supposed to be doing something out there. 98 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: I was not. 99 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 3: Sorry. 100 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 5: So how did you did you feel like your girlfriend 101 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 5: changed you? How long have you been dating? 102 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 4: We've only been together for maybe five six months now, 103 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: and she didn't change me. I had luckily changed before 104 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 4: I met her, which I'm so thankful for because I 105 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 4: really do feel like these people that come into your 106 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 4: life at the right time, and there's people that the 107 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 4: right people come into your life at the wrong time, 108 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 4: and the wrong people come into your life at the 109 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 4: right time and they're just not the right person. Like, 110 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 4: there's so many situations and I had kind of been 111 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 4: through each of them by the time she came along, 112 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 4: and luckily for me, I think this is something that 113 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 4: every man needs to experience. I got my heart broken 114 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 4: really good last year, and after that, nothing nothing humbles 115 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 4: you more than being like, oh, yeah, I have a 116 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 4: heart too, and I should really like treat everyone else 117 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 4: with like the utmost care, and I always thought I had, 118 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 4: but there's like, I don't know, there's this there's another 119 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 4: level of empathy, kind of like where you're like even 120 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 4: I think this is a great example. A lot of 121 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 4: guys will tell you like, hey, I'm just being honest 122 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 4: with you. I'm not looking for anything serious, right, We've 123 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 4: all kind of heard that in one way or another. 124 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 4: That was me and I thought that being honest about 125 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 4: that was like my saving grace when I was younger 126 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 4: and being a single kind of f boy. But what 127 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 4: I realize is you can tell that to somebody and 128 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 4: then they don't believe it, and you think in your 129 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 4: head like, oh, I've given myself the grace to now 130 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 4: hook up with you and then go live my life 131 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 4: blah blah blah. But you have to understand that that's 132 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 4: just not how humans work. People do get feelings and 133 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 4: just because you said something. So it's little things like 134 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 4: that that I learned after a heartbreak where I decided, Okay, 135 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 4: I'm going to really date now with that empathy in mind. 136 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 4: And then like ye six months later, my current girlfriend 137 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: DM me out of nowhere and she is way too 138 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 4: hot to be dming me and way too nice and 139 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 4: great and she we've been dating ever since. 140 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 3: What did she say that got your attention? Or was 141 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 3: she just beautiful? 142 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 4: Sent us a period like a comma, and I'd have 143 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 4: been like, yeah, I'm in where do you want to go? 144 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 4: But she she sent me I posted something in like 145 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 4: a wife beater doing like a try on for the 146 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 4: show that I was doing at the time, which I 147 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 4: was away in Canada shooting this is earlier this year, 148 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 4: and she said dropped the shoulder routine and in the 149 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 4: VID in. 150 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 5: Because you're because you're my shoulders. 151 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then I sent a DM back saying she 152 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,839 Speaker 4: had a necklace on in her story and I said, 153 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 4: I'll trade you for the necklace, and then she didn't 154 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 4: respond for two weeks and I was like, what the 155 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 4: hep that's crazy? And in my mind. I'm like, you know, 156 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 4: for like a day or two, I'm like, is give 157 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 4: did she really think I'm trying to take her necklace? 158 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 4: Like as a dumb guy, I'm going through all the things. 159 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not trying to steal her necklace, am I? 160 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 4: And then finally she responds, and then when we go 161 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 4: on our date, she's like, by the way, sorry I 162 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: didn't respond. I your message ended up getting taken out 163 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 4: of my inbox or something and I didn't see it 164 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 4: for two weeks. I would have responded right away. I 165 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 4: had a crush on you, so oh it's good that 166 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 4: you didn't because it made me love you before we 167 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: ever met. 168 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 5: Well, let me just tell you. 169 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: You know, we often are faced with questions like that 170 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: where someone's like I sent him a DM, but he 171 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: didn't respond, And you are living proof that the delulu 172 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: can be there. 173 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: The delusion. 174 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: No, but like it really did, like it got sucked 175 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: into whatever box or whatever, and like now that's the 176 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: beautiful ending to the story. 177 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 5: And so I'm just saying that it does happen. 178 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 3: His delulu, like oh what did I say? What did 179 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: I do? Or like maybe like that actually killed like 180 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 3: the DM got. 181 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 1: Lost in it, gets lost in there whatever, and there's 182 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: a small chance that that could small chance that. 183 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 4: That happened, but it happened. But I don't want to 184 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 4: encourage that delusion because like for me, I will say 185 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 4: I went on about my life like I did not 186 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 4: hang on to it. I was like, Okay, that that 187 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 4: was she was so pretty. That's such a bummer that 188 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 4: that didn't go through. Like I was like, I'm to 189 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 4: shut it off, and then she damned me back. And 190 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 4: it's like again, sometimes you have you have to have 191 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 4: enough things going on in your life that someone responding 192 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 4: to your DM is not the best thing in the world. Like, 193 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 4: you have so much stuff going on that's good for you, 194 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 4: whether it's work or fitness or just doing a hobby. 195 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 4: That someone dming you is great, and having a relationship 196 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 4: is great, but you've got plenty of stuff that's great 197 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 4: as well, you know. And I think so many people 198 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 4: get stuck on that word. It's the best thing in 199 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 4: their world. 200 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's the only thing they're waiting for is 201 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 3: getting that response. It's like we've been there. 202 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 4: Yeah you want to see a photo? 203 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 3: Ever, Yeah, I was gonna. 204 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 5: Came no, But do you post her on social media. 205 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 4: No, I haven't yet. Does she post you sparingly? But 206 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 4: I you know, I have like a weird I don't 207 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 4: love social media in general. Like if I if I 208 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 4: could have a career in which I could delete all 209 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 4: my socials in a heartbeat, I would do it. 210 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 5: Really, I only do it. 211 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 4: I hate it with like a passion. I think it's 212 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 4: like it pulls a little bit of my soul out 213 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 4: every time, and when you see her, you'll be like, oh, 214 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 4: you should post her all the time. And I think 215 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 4: it'd be good, like if me and hers and I, 216 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 4: if anyone could do this, it's me after being on 217 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 4: YouTube for ten years, if anyone could start a family 218 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 4: channel or a relationship channel and find immense success with it, 219 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 4: I could do it with her because she's so sweet 220 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 4: and personable, and it's my nightmare to like publicize my 221 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 4: relationship that strongly. I'm not opposed to posting her, but 222 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 4: it is really like, I don't know, I'm really against 223 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 4: the idea of trying to profit off the relationship. And 224 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 4: even though you're not making money on an Instagram post, 225 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 4: you're still gaining a lot of likes and followers and everything, 226 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 4: and it's also just audiences are weird, Like I don't 227 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 4: trust them with like my relationship. I don't want to 228 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 4: put that in their hands and go it's yours two now, 229 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 4: like we're all in. Does that make sense? 230 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 3: I waited four years to share my relationship, so yeah, 231 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 3: you know, and there was a lot of. 232 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: And peace in that and now it feels like we're 233 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: pretty solidified. 234 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: So I don't feel the stress of it. 235 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's I do think again, like I will get 236 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 4: to a point where's. 237 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: I think, if it makes you anxious to do it, 238 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 1: then don't do it. 239 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 5: But I was just curious. 240 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 4: I've posted little things with like her in it because 241 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 4: I'm launch like an arm well no, like we're like 242 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 4: we walk up. We I posted like a hiking thing. 243 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 4: But I'm not like tagging her because I don't want 244 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 4: people to like check her out and like, yeah, to me, 245 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 4: it's just it's just not worth it. She looks like 246 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 4: Margot Robbie a little bit. 247 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,119 Speaker 1: She looks like mix up like Margot Robbie, Megan Fox, and. 248 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: She looks like Margot and Olivia Wild Break and she's 249 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 2: Olivia Wild is not Megan Fox. 250 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 4: She's the nicest girl. She's from Oklahoma. She's like down 251 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 4: south or Midwest, whatever it is, and just an angel. 252 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 4: And so like for me, it's like, oh, I have 253 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 4: this beautiful thing. I want to protect it. And sometimes 254 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 4: like when you protect something, you don't want to like 255 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 4: open it up to the vulnerabilities of people judging or 256 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 4: because like I can't control psychos online who go break 257 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 4: up with her and date me, like, and I don't 258 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,599 Speaker 4: want her even yeah, even though it's a joke or 259 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 4: even though someone has there is no weight on me. 260 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 4: I don't want that bothering her because like even on 261 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: my podcast, I had someone call the other day and 262 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 4: be like, me and my was a woman, Me and 263 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 4: my gay best friend. We're having a battle of who 264 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 4: could this is the polite way to say it, but 265 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 4: sleep with you first. We're having like a thing, and 266 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 4: she heard it, and at the end of the bit, 267 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 4: I go, I have a girlfriend, though, so I'm gonna 268 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 4: have to ask her if she's okay with me sleeping 269 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 4: with both of you for a challenge, right, because I 270 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 4: was like making a joke about it, but I know 271 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 4: that that would bo I would bother anybody, Yeah, to 272 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 4: like hear that. So that's why I'm trying to like slowly. 273 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 6: Yeah. 274 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 3: I think that's very respectful. And I also think that. 275 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 2: I think that we had who was our guest that 276 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: she was saying, I can't remember who was she she 277 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 2: was engaged or dating. And she was like, I don't 278 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 2: share him because oh Roxy, yeah, oh Roxy. She was like, yeah, 279 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: I don't share my relationship because if I'm like bragging 280 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,119 Speaker 2: about wow, he's so great and like he's just so wonderful, 281 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: I don't want all the other women. 282 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: So she says that, and I'm sitting here, I post 283 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: my boy, my fiance now. I post him all the time, 284 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: the way thank you, I post him all the time. 285 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: And she says this, and I go home that night 286 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, babe, and he's like yeah, And 287 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, does anybody ever like slide into your dms 288 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: and like hit on you, because I like, I do, 289 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: like talk him up a lot and like post him 290 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: and like you know, all tag him. 291 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 5: And he's like I had like one or two and 292 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 5: I was. 293 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: Like, like that is so dirty. 294 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 4: I want some of the things. It's really good. I'm 295 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 4: like he's so sweet and yeah. 296 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like and he doesn't respond to them, obviously, 297 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: but I was like, oh my gosh, I never even 298 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: thought of that. 299 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 5: I was like, roxydas onto something here. 300 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but he did stop you stop. 301 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 5: Me, and now we're now he's locked in. 302 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 4: I also feel like if you don't host someone, that's okay, 303 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 4: that's your whatever your reason is. But she knows that, 304 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 4: Like if we go out in public, I'm like arm 305 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 4: around her squeezinger as tight as I can into me, 306 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 4: like I'm the proudest of that relationship. There's no fear 307 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 4: of like, oh, this is a hiding thing. It's not 308 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 4: like I've made it so clear to her that like 309 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 4: she is the best thing that's ever happened to me, 310 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 4: and I just don't want to post it on a 311 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 4: weird app. 312 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 7: Yeah. 313 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 2: I also think when you have a weird like if so, 314 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 2: if you don't like social media, then sharing something that's 315 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 2: so special to you to something that you don't even like, Yeah, 316 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: it's like that makes sense to me. 317 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: I hate being authentic in general, so the idea of 318 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 4: like sharing the most authentic part of my life is scary. 319 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 4: Like I like being I like joking, I like having 320 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 4: a good time and anything public. 321 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 5: That's so funny. 322 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 3: What do you do on your first date. 323 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 4: So we I was in Canada shooting. You guys, ever 324 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 4: see the show blown Away, the glass blowing show. 325 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my girlfriend loves that show. 326 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 4: She likes the new host of it. So it comes 327 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 4: out in January with me as the new host, or 328 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 4: February somewhere around there. And so I was shooting that. 329 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 4: I came back and we had been texting like once 330 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 4: every couple days, like it wasn't the whole like I 331 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 4: was still gone for two more weeks. We weren't like 332 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 4: peppering each other, which was nice. We were both kind 333 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 4: of playing it cool. And then when I got back, 334 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 4: I was like, hey, I'm back tomorrow. I'd like to 335 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 4: take you out or till you have to dinner on Friday. 336 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 4: It was maybe like three days away, and then Friday 337 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 4: is coming. It's like Thursday. I'm like, yeah, wait until Friday. 338 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 4: Seems crazy to me. Could we let's get together sooner 339 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 4: or something? And I booked a lunch for us because 340 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 4: she was busy that night and we had lunch together. 341 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 4: She was having trouble finding parking, so I got in 342 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 4: her car to help her find parking, which is a 343 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 4: crazy thing to do on a first day for the 344 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 4: guy to just let me help you find parking. Yeah, 345 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 4: and we found parking and then we got into the car, 346 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 4: and then we had a great lunch. And afterwards, I like, 347 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 4: I it was the goodbye thing, and I was like, 348 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 4: we're having lunch in Culver City. I'm not going to 349 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 4: make out with you here. So I gave her a hug, 350 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 4: and afterwards I found out she was very thankful. I 351 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 4: didn't try and kiss her on that first date because again, 352 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 4: she's pretty. She was not super conservative, but yeah, you know, 353 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 4: she from Oklahoma, so uh and so she uh. The 354 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 4: next date though, I kissed her. I kissed her good. 355 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 3: Was it at night? It was that night a midday lunch? 356 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: Kiss me like a midday lunch. First makeout feels. 357 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 5: And I don't know if I like it. Yeah, yeah, 358 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 5: in the daylight. 359 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 4: That's I think you're setting up You're setting up your 360 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 4: expectations a little bit. It's like, I'm not really seeing 361 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 4: this as a long term thing. If you're making out 362 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 4: one thirty after fish tacos. Yeah, you know, So we 363 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 4: waited till the second day. It was so nice. It 364 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 4: was so sweet and romantic, and then yeah it was cool. 365 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 4: It was cool. 366 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 5: Wow, Hunter March. I never thought i'd see the day. 367 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 4: I know, I'm happy for you. I'm really into her. 368 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 4: And then one at a couple months in or three 369 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 4: months in, we said the I love you so crazy? 370 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 3: Was that your first time? No, because you said you 371 00:15:59,000 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: got your heart broken? 372 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 4: Well I had said it to my long term ex 373 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 4: a long time ago. But the heartbroken one was just 374 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 4: a It was a like four month relationship. But it 375 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 4: was one of those ones where like ended in the 376 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 4: honeymoon and I was like, what the. 377 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 3: Freak is going on? 378 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 4: We had so much more fun to have. No, how 379 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 4: they get you, That's how they get you. But again 380 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 4: I look back at that, you know, sometimes you get 381 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: out of like a relationship where you feel like, oh 382 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 4: that was such a that felt so good at the time. 383 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 4: I look back at that particular relationship and I'd go, ooh, 384 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 4: I really dodged a bullet. It was not Yeah, it 385 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 4: was not healthy at all, which is why I was 386 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 4: so exciting. It was like constantly like, oh, one of 387 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 4: us isn't interested, the other one isn't interested. It was 388 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 4: just so unhealthy, toxic. 389 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 3: It's the chase, It's the chase, the game. 390 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's that like, oh, they finally responded first 391 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 4: and told you how much they like you, and then 392 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 4: you get this huge rush of adrenaline and everything good 393 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 4: and then they don't and you're like fiending for it. 394 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 4: And sometimes then when you get into a stable relationship, 395 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 4: if you're not ready, that stability has no toxic effect 396 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 4: on your body. Yes, so you get I was the opposite. 397 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 4: I was like, we're going to learn how to jam 398 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 4: together jam. Yeah we did. We learned that a jar 399 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 4: passion together. Yeah. You can throw that in your pantry 400 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 4: for six months. So that's true love. 401 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: Okay, So the personal life's going great, You're happy, fulfilled 402 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: the most. 403 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 404 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 5: Okay. Career wise, you said you were working on that 405 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 5: show that's coming out in January February. 406 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. What was weird is like that past relationship 407 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,719 Speaker 4: coincided with so many other things. And I think this 408 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 4: is something that happens to so many people when they're single, 409 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 4: is when life is going really good for you, you 410 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 4: don't notice that you're a single. Yeah, you're just like, Oh, 411 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 4: I get to go on dates with my money that 412 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 4: i've you know, or I get to hang out my 413 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 4: girlfriends because I've done this, I've done like life can 414 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 4: be so good when you're single and doing well, but 415 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 4: I had So this is the end of last year. 416 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 4: Nightly Pop ended. 417 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, can you talk about that? 418 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 4: Yeah? I could talk about it. 419 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 5: Why it was so good. 420 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 4: I thought it was a great show too. 421 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: That such a great show, and all my friends always 422 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: hit me up and they were like, Nightly Pop. 423 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 5: Is so funny. 424 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 4: I love doing it. We did it. We did six 425 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 4: hundred and fifty episodes, which is a lot, but it 426 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 4: was also a really cheap show to do. The problem 427 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 4: is the network got new management or new executives that 428 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 4: came in and they were like, it's always a thing 429 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,959 Speaker 4: whenever the new executives old yeah, because they don't want 430 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 4: to take response. They can't get responsibility if it's a success, 431 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 4: and if it fails under them, then they have to 432 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 4: take all the blame. So they got rid of it. 433 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,959 Speaker 4: And I woke up from back surgery. So I had 434 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 4: spine surgery and they were placed a disc in my back, 435 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 4: and when I woke up, I got a call from 436 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 4: my agent saying, hey, Nightly Pop ended. So it was 437 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 4: just such a shock to my brain. And I had 438 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 4: had a job consistently from the time I was eighteen 439 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 4: years old to that moment. Right then, I had never 440 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,919 Speaker 4: not had a job for more than a week. Like 441 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 4: it was always just like, oh, I go on a vacation, 442 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 4: but I always came back to work. And this time 443 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 4: it was like going into the holidays, nobody's hiring. It 444 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 4: was weird to not have work. And then I had this, 445 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 4: you know, I was kind of talking to this girl, 446 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 4: and that became my whole world. And so when that ended, 447 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 4: I literally went like, oh, now I have nothing, Like 448 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 4: I don't have a job. My body is in shambles 449 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 4: because I just was like so weak. My core was 450 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 4: so weak because they do the surgery from the front 451 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 4: of your body and so like my scars under my 452 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 4: belly button, so that you kind of disrupt your entire 453 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:42,119 Speaker 4: like system, system and structure. And I had my trainer, 454 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 4: and this is this is the best message I could 455 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 4: have ever gone in my entire life. I have this trainer. 456 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 4: He reached out to me when I had my back 457 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 4: surgery and he said, hey, man, I would love to 458 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 4: send you a free product like this mobility wall and 459 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 4: maybe you know, kind of give you some consulting or 460 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 4: some training. And I was like, you're gonna kill me. 461 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 4: This is a psycho like who offers free training over 462 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 4: Instagram DM. So I ignored it. Then his wife reach 463 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 4: out to me. He's like, my husband's really good. Please 464 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 4: reach out to him. I call him. We set up 465 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 4: a consultation and he's like this guy from OC's like, oh, 466 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 4: so I see what's happening right now is you have 467 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 4: the hyper extension. And I'm like, all right, but you 468 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 4: know what you're doing training wise, and he starts training 469 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 4: me for free like an angel, and he said, the 470 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 4: reason I'm doing this is because you gave us so 471 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 4: much joy for the last four years on Nightlelypop that 472 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 4: I want to help you. That he's the greatest. And 473 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 4: then I tear up when I read what he wrote 474 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 4: during this Can I read it? 475 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 5: Yeah? 476 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 4: So I sent him a message One day I couldn't 477 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 4: go to the gym. I couldn't go to the gym, 478 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 4: and so I was like, cause I felt bad. I 479 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 4: felt rough, like everything was just kind of beaten down 480 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 4: on me. And I'd been going to the gym and 481 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 4: my body was in really good shape. This is months later, 482 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 4: but everything else was really weird, and so I asked him. 483 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 4: I was like, I told him I was like, hey man, 484 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 4: I can't go to the gym. I'm so sorry, like 485 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 4: I'm gonna miss today. He goes, everything, Okay, I'll go yeah, Yeah, 486 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 4: body's fine. It just I feel kind of beat. And 487 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 4: he had always told me if you ever want like 488 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 4: mental help, if you ever want like to talk, you 489 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 4: can talk to me. But I always just imagine me going, 490 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 4: hey man, I'm feeling bad at him going, oh, what's 491 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 4: up of my boot? I never took it seriously, and 492 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 4: so then finally I told him, I was like, hey man, 493 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 4: I just feel like my confidence is at like a 494 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 4: one out of ten when I've lived my life at 495 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 4: a ten out of ten. So like, no job, no relationship, 496 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 4: nothing really going for me. I couldn't. I can't figure 497 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 4: it out, and I just feel I feel as low 498 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,959 Speaker 4: as I've ever felt. And he goes he says this, uh, 499 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 4: I'll read it like he would appreciate the honesty. The 500 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 4: compound effect of the challenges with finding work and managing 501 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 4: your feelings with this girl is heavy. A mantra that 502 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 4: I find helpful when I'm going through tough times is 503 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 4: to ask myself, what is this teaching me? Pain is 504 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 4: a better teacher? Than ease. If life is too easy, 505 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 4: you're not learning anything. If you can lean into the 506 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 4: learning experience, it becomes less focus on the problem and 507 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 4: more focus on the solution. Similar to your shoulder which 508 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 4: you've dislocated, we didn't focus on the pain and what 509 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 4: you couldn't do. We focused on the feedback that each 510 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 4: training session was teaching us and working on how to 511 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 4: improve and strengthen it. Next thing you know, boom, it's 512 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 4: better and improved. Same with personal growth. This tough time 513 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 4: is giving you feedback on how you're showing up in 514 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,719 Speaker 4: the world. It's an opportunity for you to observe, pivot 515 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 4: and adjust, or stay the same. As long as I'm 516 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,199 Speaker 4: on your team, I ain't letting you stay in the 517 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 4: quicksand of sadness. 518 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 5: Oh well, is this guy? Can I get his number? 519 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 4: His name's Christovakio. I will promote him to the day 520 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 4: I die. And he's told me before he goes, you 521 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 4: don't need to do anything for me. I was like, Hey, 522 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna go, can I talk about you? He goes, 523 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 4: you don't need to do a thing Like I'm busy. 524 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 4: I'm working full time. He's got a bunch of clients, 525 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 4: but I will promote him till the day I die. 526 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 4: He's the coolest, nicest dude, and he cares so much 527 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 4: about people. And that message pulled me out of such 528 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 4: a deep funk and I started journaling every day with 529 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 4: what is this pain trying to teach me? Because journaling 530 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 4: is so cathartic, it's really cathartic, but for a lot 531 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 4: of people, especially men who maybe not in touch with 532 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 4: their feelings, it's really obscure you like, hey, dude, you know, 533 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 4: don't feel good okay? By you know, it's like what 534 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 4: do you write? And sometimes having just that that message 535 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 4: of what is this pain trying to teach me? It 536 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 4: gave me something every day where I was like, Oh, 537 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 4: it's teaching me? 538 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 5: Is this pain trying to teach me? That's so good. 539 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 3: That's so good because it's so true. 540 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: Like when you're when you're trying to heal from something, 541 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 2: it's so easy to focus on like the heartache or 542 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: the hurting or not wanting to do anything else, but 543 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 2: thinking about like where where is this going to lead 544 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 2: me to? 545 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 3: Like what is this going to do for me? Like 546 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 3: what what am I contributing? 547 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: Like that's oftentimes a lot of Like a lot of 548 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: times people can take their pain and make it their platform. 549 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,199 Speaker 4: Mm hmm, totally. Like I think that's how a lot 550 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 4: of fitness people become fitness people. Is a heartbreak or 551 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 4: a lot of like yeah, I mean for me, I 552 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 4: know that almost all of my successes come from people 553 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 4: like doubting me. Yes you. Nothing has fueled me more 554 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 4: than that, Oh, you didn't believe in me, even if 555 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 4: you didn't say no to me, even if it wasn't 556 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 4: a relationship, but just you didn't think I had it 557 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 4: in me. And then boom, I was like, oh, I'll 558 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 4: be on TV, Boom, I'll have multiple shows. Like everything 559 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 4: was purely from this point of I'm gonna prove it 560 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 4: to you. Yeah, and then eventually you do hit a 561 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 4: lot of your goals and you have to reevaluate why 562 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 4: you're doing things. And I hit that point where I 563 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 4: was like, I don't want to you know, I'm not 564 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 4: trying to be vindictive anymore, Like I've proven myself. And 565 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 4: then it became, oh, I just take care of my family, 566 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 4: Like I want to make enough money to take care 567 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 4: of my dad. I want to make enough money to 568 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 4: take care of my mom or whoever, and so that 569 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 4: becomes your purpose at a certain point, which is much healthier. 570 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 4: But I'll tell you right now, much less drive. What 571 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 4: I was trying to prove people wrong. I was like, 572 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 4: twelve hours a day. You're not going to take me 573 00:24:54,240 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 4: away from this writing project or this show. Yeah. 574 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 2: I was gonna ask, so you have blown Away, which 575 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: is coming out? You said January February. 576 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, because sometime next year. Yeah, and then. 577 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 2: You you we're doing a live blind dating show. Yeah, 578 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: which is so such a fun concept. 579 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 4: You both of you will need to be like our 580 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 4: star guests in the next one, so like, basically, you 581 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 4: guys will be our star audience members. So we had 582 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 4: like a front row full of like people for the 583 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 4: last one. You guys will be there and we're gonna 584 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 4: give you guys a vote and I'll explain what that means. So, oh, 585 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 4: I like Survivor, Like Survivor, except you guys have the 586 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 4: penultimate vote at one point. So we basically have a show. 587 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 4: It's called Crowd Pleasers. And it was an idea I had. 588 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 4: I wanted to like pitch it as a show to Netflix, 589 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 4: and then Netflix was like. 590 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 3: You no, and. 591 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 4: Uh so it's like all right, we'll just do it 592 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 4: live and the idea is we have one data and 593 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 4: five options bachelors or bachelorettes. So say, Tanya pre engagement, 594 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 4: you come on the show, you're single, and we talked 595 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 4: to you a little bit. Why are you single? What's 596 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 4: some of your problems? And maybe because in the audience, 597 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 4: and she has some insight as to maybe why, maybe 598 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 4: she goes listen, she's picked the wrong guys, which is 599 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 4: a common thing. It's some maybe not for you guys, 600 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 4: is it? 601 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: I would say she has a heart of gold, but 602 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 2: can also be a little delulu. 603 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 4: That's perfect because then we go, you know, it's really 604 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 4: easy to be delulu about yourself, but oftentimes your friends 605 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 4: are not delulu about you, and strangers are definitely not 606 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 4: delulu about you because they don't know you enough to 607 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 4: be de lulu about you. And we'll be using that 608 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,199 Speaker 4: moving forward. I'll take it. But so then we go, 609 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,479 Speaker 4: we find out a little b about you, what you're 610 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 4: looking for, and then we go, well, let's meet your daters. 611 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 4: And we bring out five daters and they're guys and 612 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 4: you can't see them. They're separated by a curtain, and 613 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 4: you ask them a question for each round. So the 614 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 4: first round, you might say, Okay, if your sex life 615 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 4: was a movie, what movie would it be? And one 616 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 4: guy might say Transformers, because as soon as I get 617 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 4: in the bed form, yeah, yeah, I transform into a 618 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 4: nineteen eighty three Honda Civic, right, whatever the dumb answer is. 619 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 4: Maybe they try and impress you exactly. You could boo 620 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 4: and the audience might boom, but some of the audience 621 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 4: might love it. They might think he's really funny. And 622 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 4: another person could say, gone, in sixty seconds, You're too 623 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,239 Speaker 4: beautiful for me to last longer than that. Whatever it is. Uh, 624 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 4: we get all the answers, and then I time to 625 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 4: talk to you about do you have some favorites whatever? 626 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 4: And I go, Unfortunately, Tanya, you're d Lulu, so you 627 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 4: can't pick who you're eliminating, and said, the audience is 628 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 4: and by applause, the audience eliminates one person each round 629 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 4: until we go five, four, three, two, and then there's 630 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,119 Speaker 4: final two people, and the audience picks the person for 631 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 4: them to end up with, and they don't see them. 632 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 4: The audience season the whole time, but you will and 633 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 4: they don't and they don't see you. And so then 634 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 4: we have you guys kind of back to back or 635 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 4: you back to him, and then he walks to you 636 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 4: with some roses and it's a really cute moment. We 637 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 4: have a live musician there, alex Iono, actually he was 638 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 4: our musician for the first one, and he starts playing 639 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 4: this on. 640 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 7: Kiss Me Oh Yeah under the Milk, So. 641 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,239 Speaker 4: He's playing that live. The lights are blue and he 642 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 4: walks up to him and it's like it's just the 643 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 4: most fun moment and the audience loves it. And we 644 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 4: bring up people from the audience too to be on 645 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 4: the side with the five data. So if you are 646 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 4: a single person and you maybe want to have fun, 647 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 4: maybe you have a friend, like a girlfriend or a 648 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 4: boyfriend who you're like, you need to be on the show, 649 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 4: like you're so funny or you're just so charming. Sometimes 650 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 4: just the sweet people. The sweet people won both rounds 651 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 4: on our last video. Wow Yeah. We shoot it all too, 652 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 4: and it's going on my buddy David's channel and he's 653 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 4: a great YouTuber and he's got such a big platform. 654 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 4: So David Alvarez, he has these videos, like each of 655 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 4: his day videos gets some million views right now, and 656 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 4: so it's the ones I've been in where it's like me, 657 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 4: it's like a bachelor on that. It just started that 658 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 4: and so then now you can basically come to the show. 659 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 4: You put your friend's name on a card, it goes 660 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,479 Speaker 4: into a hat. We might call them up and if 661 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 4: they want to be on the show, they come up 662 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 4: on the show, and then you as an audience member 663 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 4: gets to like root your friend on the entire time 664 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 4: or boom them. I don't know what your relationship is. 665 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 5: Where is it do you do it the like, what's 666 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 5: the venue? 667 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 4: It's at the Regent Theater. When we do it in 668 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 4: la which is a five hundred seed theater. The last 669 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 4: one was sold out so it was like people were 670 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 4: screaming for two hours. It was crazy, like it did 671 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 4: not the energy did not let down at all. So 672 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 4: we do one girl, five guys, then one guy, five 673 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 4: girls got it and it was insanity. It was so fun. 674 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 4: And so we're doing it again November thirtieth, and I 675 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 4: think the website is crowdpleasers dot live where the tickets 676 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 4: will be and then the video. Hopefully the video comes 677 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 4: out before this comes out, because I think your audience 678 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 4: will really like seeing that video. 679 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 3: Well, so how do people get like, how do you 680 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 3: choose the the person that is interviewing the guys? Like, 681 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 3: how do you choose the main person? The main person? 682 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 4: Right now we're kind of picking friends. Like honestly, like 683 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 4: if you guys had someone that was like really funny, 684 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 4: entertaining Hannah, but who wanted to be the main dat 685 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 4: you can submit to us on our Instagram. 686 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 5: We should have scrubbers do it. 687 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 3: I want Hanna to do it. I don't know if 688 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 3: I would be good. I think I might crack under pressure. Hanna, 689 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 3: you'd be so really so funny. 690 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we need to circle back on I'm 691 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 2: already getting nervous. 692 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 4: But that's the best part is like we had we 693 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 4: brought up people from the audience for the last show. 694 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 4: There's like two per each episode, or two per the guys, 695 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 4: two per the girls, and they ended up winning because 696 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 4: like the one this is my favorite, there's two guys left. 697 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 4: The guy that I showed you in the video who 698 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 4: was like the unicorn. He was so funny, so charming, 699 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 4: and a lot of the audience was like a fan 700 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 4: of him. He was there vers So it's a guy 701 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,719 Speaker 4: that nobody knew and this guy like was picked from 702 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 4: the audience. He was just nobody before the show, but 703 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 4: he comes on stage and he makes it down to 704 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 4: the final two with this superstar who has like a 705 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 4: million followers and everybody likes him. And the final question 706 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 4: was Nesa was our girl Nessa if you could where 707 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 4: do you see yourselves in ten years with Nesa? If 708 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 4: you guys end up together? And the first guy, the 709 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 4: charming guy, goes, I think probably walking down a beach 710 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 4: living on her music money because her career is going 711 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 4: to take off. And we're walking down the beach. We 712 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 4: have our kid with us, and it's just beautiful, like 713 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 4: she has the life of her dreams and me being 714 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 4: with her is the life of my dreams. Something like that, 715 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 4: and everyone goes, wow, amazing, like okay, you've planned that. 716 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 4: And then we asked the other guy again, who had 717 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 4: no idea that he was going to be on the show, 718 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 4: and we say, okay, where do you see yourself in 719 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 4: ten years with Nessa? And he goes, probably just watching 720 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 4: him and her. That was a good answer. I don't 721 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 4: think I'm gonna win, And the audience picked his answer 722 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 4: because he was so sweet about it. Everyone loved his 723 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 4: like vulnerability is authenticity and so like, this show is 724 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 4: so weird to like come up on stage. But I 725 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 4: always I describe it as like if you like watching 726 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 4: Love is Blind or The Bachelor or any dating show 727 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 4: and you've ever yelled at the screen because they picked 728 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 4: the wrong person, you now have a chance to actually 729 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 4: decide who goes home. Like you're yelling means something yea. 730 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 4: And so we want to make it like this thing. 731 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 4: This first show was so random, like we sold it out, 732 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 4: but it was just a lot of friends and family 733 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 4: and people because nobody knew what the show was. Yeah, 734 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 4: now that the video's out and you know, we have 735 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 4: like a second show. We really wanted to be like 736 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,479 Speaker 4: those dating show lovers. We want to get like groups 737 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 4: of girls to come and get like a bottle of 738 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 4: wine and make it like they're like once a month Friday. 739 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 4: It's we're doing like Fridays and Thursdays, just a night 740 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 4: where it's like we're gonna get drunk and make two 741 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 4: people fall in love. That's our mission. 742 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 2: I mean, it's like having your girl's night watching The Bachelor, 743 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 2: but life. 744 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 4: It's so fun, you guys, So you guys will be 745 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 4: in the front row and we're going to give you 746 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 4: one round where you guys, the audience doesn't matter. You 747 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 4: two make the decision. If you're available on the thirtieth, 748 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 4: if not, whatever show you're both available for. You guys 749 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 4: will have tickets VIP everything, and you'll just yeah, you 750 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 4: will make that decision. 751 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: I actually get like so annoyed when I watch Love 752 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: Island because it's in the UK and so I can't 753 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: vote in the US, and I get really upset because 754 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I would have voted whoever off the. 755 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 3: Island's moment, Tony, this is my moment. This is what 756 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 3: you've been waiting for. 757 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 4: It was tough with Love Island UK because what are 758 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 4: they saying? 759 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't don't even get me started. 760 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 5: Don't get me started. 761 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 2: We go back and forth about this all the time. 762 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, I I can't understand. I've to go my 763 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 2: captions on. 764 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 5: It's just a lot to get it in it, you know? 765 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 4: Was that your the slightest accent? That was like Tanya 766 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 4: if she had spent six months in. 767 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 7: The UK and it's it, isn't it? Yeah? Yeah, I 768 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 7: pull him for a chat, put him chat. Yeah, he's cheeky, 769 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 7: got he's got good graft. 770 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 4: What's he's got skin grafts all over? 771 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 3: Wow? 772 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,839 Speaker 5: No, graft is like flirt like good banta, but he. 773 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 4: Been that's a cool word. All right, I'm gonna work 774 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 4: on my graft. 775 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm curious when you're not working and you're like 776 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 3: in a normal like you're just are you ever off? 777 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 3: Like do you ever feel like you'res off? 778 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah. 779 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 2: Every time I'm around you and I see you on 780 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 2: TV or whatever, you're just so on your charming You're 781 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 2: like everyone's laughing, like are you ever just like, don't 782 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 2: talk to me. 783 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 4: It's rare that I'm like, don't talk to me because 784 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 4: I I have built like a life where I don't 785 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 4: have sixty friends inviting me to weddings. I've got like 786 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 4: five close friends. It's all I need. I don't care 787 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 4: about like building out that circle. Like so if someone 788 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 4: comes along in there and we have the time and 789 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 4: it lines up hobby wise or whatever, it's awesome. But 790 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 4: like I love I wish I could live in the 791 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 4: woods and just have my partner and like be away 792 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 4: from everyone. And I realized I love cleaning. It's like 793 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 4: my favorite thing in the world. My house is spotless 794 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 4: all the time. Wow, Like that's my that's my decompression 795 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 4: time is cleaning. So like when I asked my girl, 796 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:23,840 Speaker 4: when I told my girlfriend, like, oh, I'm going to 797 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 4: clean the house Sunday morning, Like if you're saying the 798 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 4: night Saturday, I'm gonna clean it. So anymore she goes 799 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 4: all clean with you, And I was like, what are 800 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 4: you doing for the rest of your life? You wanted 801 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 4: to do? I get married and realized she liked it too. 802 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:37,880 Speaker 4: I was like, this is great. 803 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 3: Has that always been your thing or is that like 804 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 3: you discovered that in a. 805 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 4: No, it's always been my thing. 806 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: I actually I just saw TikTok that said like, if 807 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: your partner cleans a lot, ask them if they're okay, 808 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 1: because it means they're like compartmentalizing something. 809 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't do it on the podcast. I'll break down, 810 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 4: but yeah no, I I for me, I just I 811 00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 4: don't know if you if you might be that way 812 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 4: with your desk right, like, oh, it's hard to work 813 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 4: if there's papers all over your desk. I'm that way 814 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 4: about my entire house, Like I work from home a 815 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 4: lot of time, and so like I like the kitchen 816 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 4: to be clean. If I'm gonna cook. I like the 817 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,880 Speaker 4: office to be clean if I'm gonna do work in 818 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 4: the house. The problem is, I like the kitchen to 819 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 4: be clean if I'm going to do work in the office, 820 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,919 Speaker 4: So like everything needs to be clean. 821 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 5: I'm the same way. 822 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's also a procrastination thing. I'm a chronic procrastinator. 823 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 4: So for me, it's like if cleaning could happen, it's 824 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,240 Speaker 4: just for me. It's like something I can start and finish, 825 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 4: as opposed to like a lot of what we do 826 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 4: in the creative industry is like I'm gonna write a project. 827 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 4: It could be done, who knows if it's good. Yeah, 828 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,840 Speaker 4: there's no there's no real end to creativity. But with cleaning, 829 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 4: it's like at some point every cup is put away 830 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,800 Speaker 4: and every every dish is in the right place. Yeah, 831 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 4: So I like that. 832 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm more of like a clean something. 833 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 2: And then I see something else that I could clean, 834 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 2: so I leave the uncompleted cleaning and go to the 835 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,359 Speaker 2: other thing. 836 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 3: Yes, it might be something I need to get checked out. 837 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 4: Mark feel like it's something she's realized she needed to 838 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 4: get checked out a couple times, but then she sees 839 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 4: something that needs to be fixed first, and She's like, 840 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 4: I'll worry about that thing later. 841 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's actually exactly right. Thank you for joining us 842 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 3: back in the are nice to have you, amazing, happy for. 843 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 2: You, and like it's so cool to see where we 844 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 2: all are in our lives since the Britney Spears pop up. 845 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, brit Brittany is in a very different place now. 846 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, and exclusive that would be great. Yeah, we'll reach out. 847 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. And then one more thing. I have my podcast 848 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 4: Friends with Ben's so, uh, if anybody wants to hear 849 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 4: like call we get callers and we do like it's 850 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 4: a pure comedy podcast. Don't think you're gonna come away 851 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 4: with good advice, right, but we have callers tell stories. 852 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 3: So yeah, y'all do every Monday, right. 853 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:53,720 Speaker 4: Every Monday, and that like podcast is really really funny, 854 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,760 Speaker 4: but it is a little dirtier. So like like Tanya 855 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 4: her perspective of me when we were both single. 856 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,400 Speaker 3: Yes, it's like on the podcast podcast. 857 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, because people also with me, they always feel like 858 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 4: there's no barrier, like they like when people call in, 859 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 4: they're like, I'm going to say exactly what I want 860 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 4: to say because Hunter has no filter. Yeah, so the 861 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 4: podcast is really wild. It's called Friends with Ben's and 862 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:18,399 Speaker 4: it's super fun. 863 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:19,880 Speaker 3: Friends with Ben's is so funny. 864 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, we again whenever you guys have time and you're 865 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 4: very busy, but come on the podcast and we'll let 866 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 4: scrubbers call in and you will hear their stories and 867 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 4: we can give them advice and stuff. It'd be really fun. 868 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 2: It would be really fun because we own our We 869 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 2: have a Facebook group and they'll post anonymously and sometimes 870 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 2: it's wild. 871 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 4: I'm like, wow, do you ever take callers? 872 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 2: We used to actually do, but now we do emails, 873 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 2: so like people can email in and we just read 874 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,959 Speaker 2: and answer something else. 875 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 4: Sometimes when people call in, like they'll start like a 876 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 4: girl started a story recently on the podcast and she 877 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, I have this issue with my friend 878 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 4: and we're like, okay, tell us the issue. She goes, okay, 879 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 4: so just a little backstory, like I kiss the homies 880 00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 4: every once in a while, and so what happened? We're like, 881 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 4: what do you mean you kiss the homies? And we 882 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 4: spent like ten minutes digesting what she meant. She like 883 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 4: will make out with her girlfriends sometimes or tell her 884 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,400 Speaker 4: boyfriend to make out with his guy friends, and we're like, 885 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 4: what is going on and she thought it was so normal. 886 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,720 Speaker 4: So sometimes those call ins, it's like you get goal. Yeah, uh, 887 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 4: Tanya is just a pall. 888 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,800 Speaker 5: Wait what did she call a hookup with the homies? 889 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 3: Yea homies. I've never heard that before. 890 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,759 Speaker 4: She makes her boyfriend do it sometimes, like test test 891 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 4: her friend's masculinity, be like, don't be a toxic asshole, 892 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,839 Speaker 4: Like if you want to kiss your guy, We're like, 893 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,720 Speaker 4: you might be the joker, like you might need chaos 894 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,240 Speaker 4: in your life. But yeah, so if you ever want callers, 895 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 4: we can do a full scrubbing in version of the 896 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 4: podcast and people would love it. 897 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 3: Our scrubbers would be I would love to see what 898 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 3: they came in with. Yeah, be really fun and. 899 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 4: You give them real advice and then I'll be there 900 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 4: to just give them the comedy. But we could or 901 00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,359 Speaker 4: you guys could take the comedy side and I'll try 902 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 4: and give real Yeah, that's. 903 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 3: A twist Hunter trying to give sincere. 904 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,280 Speaker 4: Oh man, that's my nightmare. 905 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 3: Oh man, where can people follow you? 906 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 2: I know you hate social media, but you do it, 907 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 2: So where can they follow you? 908 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll only do it so you guys can find 909 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 4: out more about crowd pleasers and friends with Ben's that 910 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 4: name of the pod and just at Hunter March and 911 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 4: thank you guys so so so much for having me. 912 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 4: This has been like I don't know what I expect 913 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 4: every time is for it to be good, but it's 914 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 4: always better. It's always better, Anon, That's what. 915 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 5: We aim for. That's the name of our movie, always better. 916 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 4: Always that represents yeah, I always better. Thank you guys, 917 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:47,840 Speaker 4: See you