WEBVTT - Take it From Us

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Jonas.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was our jingle. Love it. Love it. We

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<v Speaker 2>kind of came up with that. Then it was turned

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<v Speaker 2>into a song.

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<v Speaker 3>You did it. We did it. We're songwriters.

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<v Speaker 2>What can we say? All right, let's get to these voicemails.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dying to give some advice.

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<v Speaker 3>Dying to give some advice that I shouldn't be giving.

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<v Speaker 4>My name's Julia calling from New Hampshire. I was at

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<v Speaker 4>your Manchester, New Hampshire show the week before Christmas. Had

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<v Speaker 4>the best time. You guys always joke that you are

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<v Speaker 4>not always qualified to give advice, but I have a

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<v Speaker 4>question I think you're perfectly qualified for. I got divorced

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<v Speaker 4>last year and that's okay. And pretty quickly after started

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<v Speaker 4>seeing who had previously been a very close friend and

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't really tell anyone, but it's been a year

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<v Speaker 4>and now I still really haven't told.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyone because I feel like I waited too long and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not really sure if I should like hard launch

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<v Speaker 5>it or how to post it on social media because

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<v Speaker 5>there's a lot of people who who still don't even

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<v Speaker 5>know I got divorced in the first place, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 5>for advice on how to handle relationships kind of being

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<v Speaker 5>seen from the outside, which I know is something you're

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<v Speaker 5>all familiar with.

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<v Speaker 6>So can't wait to hear your advice.

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<v Speaker 4>And thanks so much for this podcast. It makes me

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<v Speaker 4>laugh every single time I put it on. Awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>She's so sweet. So sweet. I love hearing that. I

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<v Speaker 2>will say that before we get to the advice, a

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<v Speaker 2>real moment here. We've been doing the podcast now for

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<v Speaker 2>six years, six years. I think a few months, six months,

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<v Speaker 2>six months, maybe give or take. Not, not, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's like two months. But my point is now that

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<v Speaker 2>it's out in the world, I've seen some of the

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<v Speaker 2>clips on Tik TOK and other places. It does bring

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<v Speaker 2>me a lot of joy to know that this podcast

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<v Speaker 2>that we started is bringing people joy.

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<v Speaker 7>Totally.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's fun for us. And I hope it continues

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<v Speaker 2>to make people happy because it's all that we want

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<v Speaker 2>to do. And now to the advice I have, will

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<v Speaker 2>say that I think this is an obstacle a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people have to navigate. How do you post about

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<v Speaker 2>your relationship online? What does that look like? Not just

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<v Speaker 2>at the beginning, but during the relationship and otherwise. In

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<v Speaker 2>this scenario, given that there's the divorce aspect and then

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<v Speaker 2>the new relationship, I kind of feel like a simple,

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<v Speaker 2>so here's a life update.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Period.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, I got divorced this, you know, last year. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you just kind of lay it out. But start it

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<v Speaker 2>with the thing of like, hey, so here's a life update.

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<v Speaker 2>And then people can be like, oh, yeah, wow. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of information. And it's their information to give.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not like it doesn't have to be like too,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. You should chime in.

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<v Speaker 9>Me.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone. I think it's all, I think it's great advice. Look, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>are we trying to go viral?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a little fun idea. You could be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see the concept and be like, so this

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<v Speaker 1>funny thing happened with me and my friend. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a slideshow or it's like a beautiful photo. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been friends for so long. And then cut to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like the last slide, they're in love.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, and by the way, I got divorced. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, I am divorced. These are all jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>We're joking. I mean, look, my real advice, that's my

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<v Speaker 2>fun advice. Have fun with it. The real advice, I think,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're happy, that's all that matters. If you're happy,

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<v Speaker 2>be happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And ultimately, if you're not trying to hurt the other

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<v Speaker 1>party or if they're not necessarily in your life.

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<v Speaker 3>That was good, Joe.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm clocking that. Yeah. It's nice to be like, Keep

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<v Speaker 2>your side of the street clean. Live your life. Be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Live your truth. Life is waste. I mean, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>people will say, let's do short. Just be happy. But like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's tough when you're like, oh, I got to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from Aunt Carol that she's mad that I posted because

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't understand that people get divorced.

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<v Speaker 2>That's weird. Well, Aunt Carol, live your life. I'll live mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy. Hard launch that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Give me a new soft launch, a little photo of

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<v Speaker 2>hands holding, be like, DM me for details. Life update

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<v Speaker 2>coming soon. Life update coming soon. But I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're happy, which sounds like you're very happy,

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<v Speaker 1>live your best life. And ultimately like trolls will troll

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<v Speaker 1>even in the family dynamic.

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<v Speaker 7>True.

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<v Speaker 3>Or bring him to the concert next time we play

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<v Speaker 3>and we'll help you hard launch it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>One side note about this too. I feel like New

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<v Speaker 2>Hampshire is having a moment. Oh, it's big. It's heavy, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the only one that's, I'm like, I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 2>a lot about New Hampshire right now.

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<v Speaker 3>People in the Hamptons this last weekend were saying like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh yeah, we're going to New Hampshire next weekend. They're

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<v Speaker 3>talking about New Hampshire. Hamptons is talking about going to

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<v Speaker 3>New Hampshire. So that's the thing. And I'm not really

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<v Speaker 3>a Hamptons.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, so this is cool. It's getting whale belt, but.

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<v Speaker 3>It is very whale belt.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what that means. It's getting popped

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<v Speaker 2>Abercrombie collar. Oh, now I know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>From there. Okay, next question. voicemail. Next voice. Hey, besties.

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<v Speaker 8>So I really want to ask you guys about what

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<v Speaker 8>you think of potlucks.

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<v Speaker 6>This has been kind of an ongoing debate.

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<v Speaker 8>Some people are really into them and like every single

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<v Speaker 8>time they host people at their house, they want it

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<v Speaker 8>to be a potluck. And then a couple of us

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<v Speaker 8>are like, no, like if you're choosing to host, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>it's your responsibility to provide food, whether it's pizza or

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<v Speaker 8>just snacks, drinks, whatever. So what do you guys think

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<v Speaker 8>of potluck? Like, is it a special events only like

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<v Speaker 8>friends giving only situation? Wow.

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<v Speaker 10>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this question.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a great question.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not believe luck has a surprisingly literal origin

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<v Speaker 2>that dates back to the 16th century England long before

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<v Speaker 2>it became associated with neighborhood block parties in plastic containers.

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<v Speaker 2>The literal meaning 1500s, the phrase originally referred to the

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<v Speaker 2>luck of the pot is In medieval and Renaissance England,

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<v Speaker 2>households would often keep a soup or stew pot constantly

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<v Speaker 2>simmering on the hearth, sometimes called a perpetual stool. A stew,

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<v Speaker 2>not stool. When an unexpected guest arrived at mealtime, they

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<v Speaker 2>were invited to take potluck, meaning they would get whatever

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<v Speaker 2>happened to be in the pot at the moment without

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<v Speaker 2>any special preparation.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to stop you there. This says a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about her question. It originates from a surprise guest. A

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<v Speaker 1>potluck shouldn't be like, Like, hey, everybody, I'm having a

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<v Speaker 1>potluck tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Come by. It's like, bring something. It's like, girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I guess that's where the surprise comes into play.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm a surprise guest, I'd be like, hey, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>grab a slice of pizza. I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, make something at home and come to

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<v Speaker 1>my party.

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<v Speaker 2>Not every time. The whole concept is that you have

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<v Speaker 2>this simmering thing. You don't know what's in it. You

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<v Speaker 2>go and you test your luck with the pot. My

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<v Speaker 2>point is... That's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I think also everybody can Uber Eats their own food

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<v Speaker 1>or Postmates depending on who sponsors it.

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<v Speaker 3>Group orders are great.

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<v Speaker 2>I think make it a mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>Mystery dessert.

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<v Speaker 2>So here's my concept.

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<v Speaker 3>I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>We create like a container that conceals the identity of

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<v Speaker 2>the food.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like a TV show.

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<v Speaker 8>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>And you go and you or you can just wear

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<v Speaker 2>a blindfold I guess too.

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<v Speaker 3>I like it though.

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<v Speaker 1>For a Christmas one year I got a charcuterie board

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody that I loved It's a company and it's

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<v Speaker 1>called Cocktutory Boards. It's in the shape of a phallic.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you figure that out. That, however, a cocktutory

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<v Speaker 1>board party could be fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I have actually seen this where people bring like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like a board, like a wooden board, like to a party,

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<v Speaker 3>but it could be anything. So it's like meat and cheese.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like cotton candy board. It's whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a board party.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a board party. And you like line all the

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<v Speaker 3>boards up.

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<v Speaker 2>My opinion is, I'm going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Drop some knowledge here, guys, because I have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of potluck knowledge. Because I've done this. I've had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple potlucks in my day and lucky pots. I'd say, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I think if this friend is constantly like, they're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we should do a potluck next Thursday and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are just coming off the heels of one on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd be like, girl, can we just Uber Eats because

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<v Speaker 1>this is getting out of hand. I don't have that

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<v Speaker 1>many recipes.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody has their, somebody has their thing. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>do that weekly, it's like, it's, it takes the excitement away.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm also like once a month, once a month, let's

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<v Speaker 3>just have that.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the advice. We're limiting the potluck to once a month,

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<v Speaker 2>no more than that. That's it.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally agree with you on that.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Next.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, this is Emily from Georgia. So I know all

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<v Speaker 7>three of.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys are dads.

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<v Speaker 7>My husband and I have been married a few years,

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<v Speaker 7>been together quite a few and, And we're at the

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<v Speaker 7>point of having conversations about kids. So my question is,

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<v Speaker 7>how did you guys know that you were ready to

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<v Speaker 7>have kids? Or did you know you were ready? Or

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<v Speaker 7>whatever that looked like. So how did you guys know

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<v Speaker 7>that you guys were ready to be dads?

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<v Speaker 9>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 7>Have a good day.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Emily. I'm George. George is also kind of having

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<v Speaker 2>a moment.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Nick disagrees. And I also disagree with myself, except Millie

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<v Speaker 2>Bobby Brown has.

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<v Speaker 3>A big farm.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to visit that.

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<v Speaker 3>She has so many animals.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was joking, but she does have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of animals. I think that's a very exciting time

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<v Speaker 1>for you and your husband, Emily. Those conversations are very

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<v Speaker 1>big conversations. Sounds like you guys are kind of at

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<v Speaker 1>that point where you're in a relationship where you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we ready? Is it time? Um, I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>to answer your question. I feel like it's, it sounds weird,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's a gut feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like, Hey, You know what Danielle said? We

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<v Speaker 3>had this conversation over the weekend, and she said to

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<v Speaker 3>our friends, she said, the minute you start talking about

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<v Speaker 3>having kids as a couple is when you're on the

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<v Speaker 3>precipice of being ready for kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you guys been testing out babies, Emily? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>been holding babies recently? Sometimes you get baby fever, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't ever say testing out babies.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm just saying. You know what I'm saying? You

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<v Speaker 2>get what I mean, right?

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<v Speaker 1>You're like holding one, and you're like, this feels right.

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<v Speaker 2>This podcast is a bad idea. No, it feels great.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to say, one of the most bizarre things

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<v Speaker 2>when we were leaving the hospital with Malti Marie was

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<v Speaker 2>the doctor said, okay, are you ready to take your

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<v Speaker 2>baby home?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, nope.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're like, what? This is okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, where's the manual?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's like, the car seat is, you know, put

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<v Speaker 2>in the car correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're not allowed to, at least in California, you can't, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>no one can help you put the baby in the

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<v Speaker 1>car seat.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to, yeah, you have to. So then their

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<v Speaker 2>last question is, are you ready to take your baby home?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, what happens if someone's like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's crazy, but it's a metaphor for a bigger thing,

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<v Speaker 2>which is like, will you ever be ready? You just

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<v Speaker 2>have to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Great question.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of friends who are thinking about this situation, Emily,

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<v Speaker 1>guys and girls who are like, well, maybe this could

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<v Speaker 1>be it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe this, like, it's time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like to the core, it's like, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you and your partner, whatever your situation is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're having that combo.

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<v Speaker 2>Between you guys and you get in the itch, test

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<v Speaker 2>out some babies. Just kidding. I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously I think we're all saying like, if you're having

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<v Speaker 1>the combo, it might be the answers there.

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<v Speaker 2>You're, you're, um, digging my grave. Your cancel panic just

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<v Speaker 2>now was so intense.

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<v Speaker 1>Me?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Um, uh, Cancel away, kids.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Next up.

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<v Speaker 3>Cancel Panic is the name of this episode.

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<v Speaker 2>You can wear Cancel Panic pants. It's like an adult diaper.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Next one.

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<v Speaker 2>Cancel Panic at the Disco.

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<v Speaker 9>Hey, Jonas.

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<v Speaker 6>This is Nicole from Los Angeles. I have a question.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm getting married in March and I'm doing my bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 6>A little bit early because we want to be able

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<v Speaker 6>to go do the Vegas pool parties. But I'm curious

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<v Speaker 6>to know if any of you had traditional bachelor parties.

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<v Speaker 6>And if you did, where you went. And if you

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<v Speaker 6>have any special memories that you want to share from one. Bye, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can I just say something? I feel like Los

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<v Speaker 2>Angeles is having a moment. I was going to disagree.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you guys heard of Los Angeles?

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<v Speaker 3>Vegas apparently is having a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>A traditional pool party. I like that she says it

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<v Speaker 2>like that. Traditional.

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<v Speaker 8>You know what?

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<v Speaker 2>You make that sound so classy. I will tell you what.

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<v Speaker 9>It ain't.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so.

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<v Speaker 8>It ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>Sloppy and fun. And you better prepare yourself. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you need to go all in, have the best time

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<v Speaker 1>in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 2>Go all out. But to answer your question, any stories?

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<v Speaker 2>My bachelor party was in Ibiza. We did have bachelor parties,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all. Joe was in Ibiza.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a photo of Joe on his bachelor party. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>his shirt is torn.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he has a crown of a 1942 on his head.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a trip. We actually played a football soccer

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<v Speaker 2>match in the Ibiza... team stadium. It was a hundred

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<v Speaker 2>degrees and we were all brutally hungover.

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<v Speaker 3>In the most Jonas Brothers thing we ever do though,

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<v Speaker 3>we fly home from your bachelor party and went to

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<v Speaker 3>eight straight hours of press.

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<v Speaker 2>As it should be.

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<v Speaker 4>It was great.

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<v Speaker 2>My bachelor party was in the Bahamas. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>great time. Here's a photo. For some reason I said

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<v Speaker 2>we should all wear suits one night. It's always a

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<v Speaker 2>better idea on paper. Yeah. And then Kevin had a

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<v Speaker 2>bachelor party. But it was kind of cut short because

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<v Speaker 2>what were we doing?

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<v Speaker 3>We had to perform at the Disney Christmas Parade.

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<v Speaker 2>You're so salty as you said that just now. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to rephrase.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to fly to Orlando to perform for the

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<v Speaker 3>Disney Christmas Parade.

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<v Speaker 2>It was actually in Los Angeles or in California. But

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, again, Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>It was in Orlando.

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<v Speaker 2>It was in Orlando?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Then we took you to the Giants game, which was fun.

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<v Speaker 3>We took you to the Giants game, which was great.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be so fun for her, by the way.

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<v Speaker 3>I have zero photos from my trip.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited for her to go on this bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to have the best time.

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<v Speaker 2>In Vegas, too? Which DJ are you going to see?

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<v Speaker 3>Where should they go?

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<v Speaker 2>We should probably go see Marshmello if he's on. But

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<v Speaker 2>my advice would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Give yourself some time, a couple hours between pool party

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner. That means disco nap. Naps are important. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have some drinks, you're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>some fun. have some snacks at the pool and you

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<v Speaker 1>should leave by like five or 35. You should go

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<v Speaker 1>take a nap for at least three hours. Another thing

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<v Speaker 1>is like a steam and sauna situation really helps.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah. But you should go all out. It's me.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of fun. Have fun and have a great wedding.

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<v Speaker 9>Totally.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 10>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we have more moss?

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<v Speaker 10>My name is Darlene. I am from San Diego, California.

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<v Speaker 10>My fiance and I are getting married December 22nd this year,

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<v Speaker 10>and I am stuck in a super pickle. Not the

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<v Speaker 10>pickles with Jolly Ranchers or whatever Tiffany Haddish was saying.

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<v Speaker 10>But if you guys had to pick between one of

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<v Speaker 10>your two songs to walk down the aisle to, my

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<v Speaker 10>first option would be Love Bugs. which is my all-time

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<v Speaker 10>favorite song, or I'd love you to have in the

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<v Speaker 10>acoustic version. They both speak to us. They both speak

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<v Speaker 10>to our relationship. I wanted to get you guys' advice

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<v Speaker 10>on which one you guys would suggest.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>My vote's kind of love bug. I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you don't get to the big, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it should stop before the bridge. There's a guitar solo.

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<v Speaker 3>Or not. And fireworks and a kiss. That'd be great.

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<v Speaker 1>But they have to still do the whole ceremony before

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they do it after.

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<v Speaker 1>They pick it back up. It's like, and then they kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a Love Bug jazz version. A Love Bug jazz version, huh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Jazzy love. I would say Love Bug for sure. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's the quintessential Jonas Brothers song, and it's perfect

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<v Speaker 2>for that environment. I agree with Joe. Maybe don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Plus it's her favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Love Made to Heaven feels a little... A

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<v Speaker 2>little high energy.

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<v Speaker 3>She said the acoustic version, though. Which, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>which version is that? Like, have you heard, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>remember which one that is.

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<v Speaker 2>You've not heard that version, Kev?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, I was there, so I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Of our song that we've released? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, there's a, or you could do a, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I just found a very suave Burning Up.

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<v Speaker 3>There's actually the ones, the Bridgerton version of both songs.

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<v Speaker 3>There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You could do this.

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<v Speaker 10>I am cold.

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<v Speaker 2>It's giving wedding. Where's the creator? Shout her out.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out.

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<v Speaker 2>Jade Grey. Love this version. I love it. Very emotional.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's what we'll promise. I like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Can she do love bug for her for her wedding?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's see if we can make that happen.

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<v Speaker 6>Jade Grey.

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<v Speaker 2>Perform that version at your wedding. That'd be sick. That'd

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<v Speaker 2>be amazing. Jade Gray, very talented. Shout out to Jade Gray.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's hear another voicemail.

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<v Speaker 11>My name is Nayemi.

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<v Speaker 9>I am from Chicago. I am listening to your Hey

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<v Speaker 9>Jonas podcast on my way to work. And I am

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<v Speaker 9>just feeling really disillusioned.

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<v Speaker 10>And burnt out.

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<v Speaker 9>I am a primary care doctor. I work at a

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<v Speaker 9>low-income sliding scale clinic. doing amazing work. I grew up

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<v Speaker 9>in the neighborhood that I work in now, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Just, you know, I'm really burnt out.

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<v Speaker 9>It is incredible work, but it is really exhausting. And

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<v Speaker 9>I feel like lately with social media, primary care doctors

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<v Speaker 9>have been painted in a very negative light. And, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>I really went into this field because I wanted to

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<v Speaker 9>help people and I wanted to be there, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>for families. I've just been really struggling to get myself

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<v Speaker 9>to get to work and you guys and your podcast

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<v Speaker 9>just bring a lot of light into my mornings and,

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<v Speaker 9>and make me feel a little bit more motivated to

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<v Speaker 9>go to work. So thank you so much. And just

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<v Speaker 9>wondering how you guys push through, you know, the burnout

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<v Speaker 9>phase of, of doing something that you love, but you're

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<v Speaker 9>just exhausted.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, thank you so much for all of you that

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<v Speaker 3>you do, uh, especially in the neighborhood that you grew

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<v Speaker 3>up in. That's so cool. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>as you said, it can be tough and it can

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<v Speaker 3>burn you out and, We need the doctors to stay

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<v Speaker 3>strong because we need you out there. So thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Piggyback on you, Kev. Thank you so much for what

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<v Speaker 1>you do. And I can only imagine it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be exhausting thing. We can even hear you in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're in traffic. This is like a

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<v Speaker 1>stressful season. And also, you know, you're doing something amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>not only for people, but also your community. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>social media can be quite toxic as much as we

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<v Speaker 1>can have fun with it and find things that inspire

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<v Speaker 1>us and make us laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike has questioned things. I think it's also, look, we.

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<v Speaker 1>We, our algorithms can easily put us into a lane

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<v Speaker 1>of negativity and, um, we're sorry that's happening to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you do matter. And we really hope you, you

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<v Speaker 1>find something that you can do for yourself. You'd, deserve

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<v Speaker 1>a moment of like relief maybe deleting social media for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while might help putting it on a timer

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<v Speaker 1>or something on your phone could be like hey i'm

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<v Speaker 1>only gonna check it like an hour a day or

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<v Speaker 1>literally delete it for a month or two just to

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<v Speaker 1>see how you feel or a week just to see

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<v Speaker 1>if it brings some clarity but a little bit Treat yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Do something nice for yourself. Whether that's taking yourself out

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. I know that sounds weird. Doing something fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Taking yourself to a movie. Reminding yourself that you are

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<v Speaker 1>a person that needs care and love and you got

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<v Speaker 1>to take care of that person because your work person

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<v Speaker 1>and your person is different.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'll do to help us out? We're

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<v Speaker 3>going to have two tickets waiting for you just to

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<v Speaker 3>say thank you for what you do. I'll make sure

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<v Speaker 3>that happens.

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<v Speaker 8>Nice.

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<v Speaker 11>Love it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of moments like these where I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>the thing that we do podcasts are our music and

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<v Speaker 2>it seems so insignificant in comparison to the work that

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<v Speaker 2>people are doing in the healthcare space and beyond serving

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<v Speaker 2>their community and, and, um, helping people, you know, and,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I want to say first, thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>what you do. Um, please stay encouraged to, because to

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin's point, um, We need our doctors to feel ready

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<v Speaker 2>and willing and eager to go to work and to

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<v Speaker 2>help people and save lives. We need to continue to

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<v Speaker 2>encourage people whose jobs are not just important, but critical

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<v Speaker 2>to society as a whole. So in whatever way we

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<v Speaker 2>can be helpful in that, as insignificant as it feels

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<v Speaker 2>to sit and just talk on a podcast or make

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<v Speaker 2>a song. Um, thank you for allowing us that opportunity to,

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<v Speaker 2>to bring some light into your world. And please know

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<v Speaker 2>that we don't take it for granted and that, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>we wear it as a badge of honor to, to get,

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<v Speaker 2>to bring some, some light into your, your very intense worlds.

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<v Speaker 11>Um, and on that note, Hey Jonas, this is Cheyenne

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<v Speaker 11>over in Portland, Oregon. I was calling for some advice.

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<v Speaker 11>My husband and I are celebrating our 14th wedding anniversary and,

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<v Speaker 11>And I do not know what to get him. So

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<v Speaker 11>maybe you can give me advice on what you guys

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<v Speaker 11>think he would want. He's a pretty chill guy. He

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<v Speaker 11>doesn't ask for a lot and, um, he's a really

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<v Speaker 11>good dad of our two daughters. And so, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 11>just want to give him something special or do something

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<v Speaker 11>activity wise. So maybe you can give me some advice

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<v Speaker 11>on that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know exactly what you should get him. You should

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<v Speaker 3>get an edible arrangement. From our actual new sponsor.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we sponsored?

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<v Speaker 3>They are official sponsored by Edible Arrangement. Look at this.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding me? I am not kidding.

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<v Speaker 9>Yep.

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<v Speaker 3>We did it, boys.

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<v Speaker 2>The journey we've taken to get it. By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>the perfect gift. The perfect gift for.

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<v Speaker 10>Look at this.

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<v Speaker 3>Who would not love this? Here you go. You did it.

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<v Speaker 1>The gift that lasts about a couple days.

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<v Speaker 3>And the kids will love it, too.

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<v Speaker 2>The thought that lasts forever. The gift that actually lasts

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<v Speaker 2>a few days.

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<v Speaker 9>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Kevin's slogan. Give us a breakdown of what you

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<v Speaker 2>got going on. You got some chocolate-covered strawberries.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it definitely looks chocolate-covered strawberries.

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<v Speaker 2>None of your sponsors. You should probably have a bite.

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<v Speaker 3>Chocolate-covered marshmallows. And this is called the- Marshmallows, though.

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<v Speaker 2>Marsho, bro.

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<v Speaker 3>Marsho.

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<v Speaker 2>Chocolate-covered marshmallows. Marsho.

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<v Speaker 3>This is actually the Mocotini, so you should definitely- What

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<v Speaker 3>does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there coffee in there?

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<v Speaker 3>This is the name of this beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 8>It's the Mocotini.

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<v Speaker 3>Eat the marshmallow.

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<v Speaker 2>Eat the marshmallow.

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<v Speaker 1>As everybody knows, we are sponsored by Edible Arrangement. And

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<v Speaker 1>we feel like you should get your husband an Edible

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<v Speaker 1>Arrangement with something from his childhood. I think you should

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<v Speaker 1>go nostalgic. He'll be like, oh my gosh, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you find this? Go on eBay for like 30 bucks,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on your budget. You can probably find like a

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<v Speaker 1>toy he grew up with. He'll be like, call his

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<v Speaker 1>mom or dad or cousin or uncle or auntie. Be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>what did he play with a lot? And see if

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<v Speaker 1>you can get that. You might be able to find

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<v Speaker 1>the Hulk. Remember Hulk, the stretchy Hulk?

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<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was good.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it called?

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<v Speaker 3>I also like the new Game Boys that you got me, Joe,

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<v Speaker 3>that have all the games on them. Those are cool.

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<v Speaker 1>They are so good. I have in my room, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>playing Pokemon right now. OG Pokemon.

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<v Speaker 3>But for everybody asking, yes, this is the Mokatini, and

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<v Speaker 3>you should order that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we should pull a question from this bowl.

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<v Speaker 6>Got it.

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<v Speaker 2>Bowl game time. What do you think is your biggest

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<v Speaker 2>red flag?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll start.

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<v Speaker 3>I can be messy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you can.

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<v Speaker 3>And I can be judgmental and also reactionary.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm working on it, guys. Working on it. We were

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<v Speaker 3>away this weekend when I made our bed at our

0:24:42.830 --> 0:24:44.790
<v Speaker 3>friend's house, like you did when you came to our house.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so nice. Even Danielle mentioned. She goes, he

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<v Speaker 3>made his, everything in his room is so put together.

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<v Speaker 11>So nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hoping she noticed. I'm not going to lie.

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<v Speaker 3>She noticed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. What's the red flag about you, Joe?

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we'd tell each other what the red flags were. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin's just telling us his, though. Yeah. What's mine, guys?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's more dangerous, though. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's fun. Like, you're annoying as fuck. That's true.

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<v Speaker 6>Facts.

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<v Speaker 3>You're, like, really handsome, and it's annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my wife's... Priyanka, what's my red flag? What's Joe's

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<v Speaker 2>red flag? Like, what's my biggest red flag?

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have any.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go, Priyanka. Priyanka Chopra Jonas says.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have my red flag.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh, Joe is.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we really doing this? Are we actually going to

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<v Speaker 3>tell each other our red flags?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, go for it.

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<v Speaker 3>What do we got? It's okay. I have no red

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<v Speaker 3>flags too. You're the only person, not only person, you

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<v Speaker 3>know every food place better than everybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's annoying, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm bad at... Relinquishing control to others when making a plan. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go to a city that either of you have

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<v Speaker 1>been to.

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<v Speaker 2>That I've lived in.

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<v Speaker 10>And lived in.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally lived in.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll tell you where we should go for dinner. That's...

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting better at that, but that's, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>yeah i actually noticed that you are getting better at

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<v Speaker 3>that actually like it's okay sometimes you gotta go with

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<v Speaker 3>the flow guys okay nick gotta go um where do

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<v Speaker 3>you want to start no i mean well it's just

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<v Speaker 3>i'd probably say i would say maybe you're better at

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<v Speaker 3>this but probably be okay with going with the flow

0:26:14.220 --> 0:26:16.040
<v Speaker 3>like you're not you're not great at going with the

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<v Speaker 3>flow letting somebody else have control yeah but in our

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<v Speaker 3>world with so many voices all the time to like

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<v Speaker 3>it can be.

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<v Speaker 2>Tough because Also like when something annoys me, like I

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<v Speaker 2>get like stuck on it. I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when like, it'll be water off my back.

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<v Speaker 1>And for you, you'll be like, if somebody, if something,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody says something, you're like, that was annoying. Nick would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, my day's ruined.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't move on past that.

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<v Speaker 1>I see.

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<v Speaker 2>That could be about any situation. You get stuck. You

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<v Speaker 2>picked one.

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<v Speaker 3>What does it say?

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<v Speaker 2>What's a childhood food or snack that you still think about?

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<v Speaker 2>What is it? Diet Coke Zero you're on? No, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a Coke Zero Summer. Dunkaroos.

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<v Speaker 3>Love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Dunkaroos. And remember the Red Baron focaccia with the four

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<v Speaker 2>cheese that we put in the microwave after school?

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<v Speaker 1>I will say Lunchables and Dunkaroos were and are still

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite. There was a time they came back around.

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:10.900
<v Speaker 3>Nutty Buddies. Remember these?

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<v Speaker 1>The wafer cookie that had chocolate?

0:27:13.990 --> 0:27:16.609
<v Speaker 3>You could like pull them apart. I just had one

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<v Speaker 3>for the first time in like 20 years. Maybe more yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>And my head was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Kev, you got a question?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I pulled one. If you no longer had to sleep,

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<v Speaker 3>how would you spend those extra eight hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Play a lot of Fortnite.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, Nick, you just went through this unintentionally for like

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<v Speaker 3>a couple months. So what'd you do with that extra

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<v Speaker 3>eight hours? I can't sleep eight hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight hours is a dream, but yeah, it's not. It'd

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<v Speaker 2>be amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't sleep eight hours. What's your sleep, Kev? What

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<v Speaker 1>numbers are we getting?

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<v Speaker 3>Seven to eight.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember, he's got a fancy bed though.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, big update. We got a hamster.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah, we're about to get the hamster when I

0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:53.159
<v Speaker 2>came to visit. What's the hamster's name?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we got the hamster. Hamster's name is River.

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<v Speaker 11>River.

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<v Speaker 2>Great name.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great name.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked her, why River? She's like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, why not?

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<v Speaker 5>Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. I'm excited to hear the updates.

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<v Speaker 3>She's so in love with this hamster, and all she

0:28:08.670 --> 0:28:11.870
<v Speaker 3>does is Valentina, and she questions if it loves her

0:28:12.410 --> 0:28:12.709
<v Speaker 3>every day.

0:28:12.730 --> 0:28:13.700
<v Speaker 2>Don't we all?

0:28:13.710 --> 0:28:14.869
<v Speaker 3>Do you think it loves me? Do you think it

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<v Speaker 3>loves my mom?

0:28:16.190 --> 0:28:19.050
<v Speaker 2>That is the life's biggest question. I would, well, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I would probably... And I'd get super jacked.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to the eight hours of sleep. I'd have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot more time to exercise.

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<v Speaker 3>Four hours of extra workouts every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lucky if I get some time in. You've got kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got life stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are looking very vacated, and I'm really proud

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<v Speaker 3>of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Joe would like to read an excerpt from his new

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 2>favorite book.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Farts in the Wild by H.W.

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<v Speaker 2>Schmelt. Okay, first tell the story of being on the

0:28:47.090 --> 0:28:50.330
<v Speaker 2>plane and this book going off. This book is a

0:28:50.350 --> 0:28:54.410
<v Speaker 2>gift to my daughters from Greg Garbowski and Paris Carney.

0:28:54.820 --> 0:28:58.820
<v Speaker 2>And classically, like, unks, uncles and aunties, unks, unks and aunties.

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<v Speaker 3>Unks and aunts.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't think through some of these gifts. Like, I

0:29:02.780 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 1>would be carrying them in my carry-on. And as I

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:08.040
<v Speaker 1>got up, I hit a button. There's your buttons here.

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<v Speaker 1>And a loud toot blasted over first class. And everybody

0:29:14.290 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>could hear. The sound of my fart. Book.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's leave our listeners with a nice excerpt. Tell

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<v Speaker 2>me when to stop, Kev.

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<v Speaker 10>Stop.

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<v Speaker 2>The meerkat.

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<v Speaker 1>Big mobs of meerkats live in sprawling networks of tunnels

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<v Speaker 1>and chambers deep underground. With so many meerkats living together,

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:36.820
<v Speaker 1>a single meerkat fart can be amplified and funneled into

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<v Speaker 1>powerful geishas of funk.

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<v Speaker 7>Geishas.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

0:29:41.340 --> 0:29:44.480
<v Speaker 1>The tunnels are like a big twisty city with holes

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<v Speaker 1>that aren't just ways in and out. These holes help

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<v Speaker 1>release the fart pressure before it blows.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's hear the fart.

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<v Speaker 1>Fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>On that note, buh-bye.

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<v Speaker 3>Buh-bye.